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Why do you care what women think? Nah, you are the prize brah. Tall women? If they aren't interested in you, who cares? They are missing out ultimately. I'm 5'7, I find my sexual desires satisfied by single mums. They're great. (Fucking delusional). I don't get too much interest when I'm out with the guys drinking. But then, I'm out with the guys having a good time. Admittedly, my frame could be stronger. I keep reminding myself that they are only women. Their opinions aren't relevant. If they d…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 05:06 PM
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Women folk have the uncanny ability to pick up on social cues. The moment they first make eye contact with a man, they enter binary mode. 0=no, 1=will remove wedding ring and fuck in the alleyway raw dog. I'm not saying fake it till you make it, but walking into a bar with your chin up and a shit eating grin is going to compliment the lifting. Women are beneath you brah, simply there to entertain you. Amused mastery!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 01:05 PM
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Are you an idiot? Don't answer that actually. 4 years of TRP and you do this shit show? Paternity test. Actually read the sidebar. Think with your limited brain rather than your pecker. Jesus Christ bro
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 06:30 PM
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i missed that, post it again?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 09:00 AM
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The anger phase......ideally should last no more that 3 months. Difficult to leave though. 20+ Years of feminist and liberal conditioning are hard to destroy. I'm in the reasonably 'sad' phase. I accept hypergamy and reality, but can't help feel a little sad that the disney dreams of marriage and family are almost inaccessible. Kill the Beta.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 12:16 PM
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Lol, nah, more fool me brah. Lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 09:37 PM
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Life one easy mode for sure. I've read numerous MGTOW posts of blokes angry that unqualified, silly women are getting top tier jobs for diversity. The struggle is real. I wrote my ex-gf's thesis for her and she ended up getting a good job and moving off to the city to fuck chad's through my hard work. So yeah, I cucked myself pretty hard, though it's the same as marrying and supporting a woman. Spot on post though!
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 09:21 PM
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WARNING! Cuck alert! Cucks detected!
/r/MGTOW11/09/17 07:44 PM
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Yeah, quite true. I will never suffer a tv or a tv licence (UK Law) in my home. If I am sitting watching crap on the box, then there is more I could be doing with my life. Hobbies or learning. The internet is just as bad though....
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 10:21 AM
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Throw in the M&M advert, those sweets or whatever where the husband comes back to see the wife cheating with them. Also, the UK has this obsession with interracial/ethnicly diverse casting. It's totally overblown and with every company doing this, it becomes quite boring and obvious as well. I'm sick of it, and it's pro women adverts so womenfolk can 'feel good'. I just don't watch TV anymore.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 07:54 PM
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It is his friend, sure. You can't save a man from himself though. This chap has to take responsibility for his life and his choices. As hard as it is, OP will be leaps ahead since he is waking up to the realities of womenfolk. As for 'grab some popcorn', it was a poor attempt at humor in the inevitable destruction of his friend. There isn't much OP can do for him now. Don't become a victim, or see OP's buddy as one. He chose, poorly.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 01:45 PM
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Yeah, so it is his fault. Mourn for your friend, the regret he will feel when the marriage/life is all over will be monstrous. Grab some popcorn and a chair whilst you watch this shit show. She's a manipulative woman like you say, here is a secret, they nearly all are!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 12:58 PM
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I'd stick with monk mode and get some assets and a good job going, before you decide to ruin it by including a woman!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:26 PM
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Just think about it; why should a woman ever make you feel sad, miserable or trapped? This is wrong. Society tells us this is life, and that somehow it is honourable. It isn't. Take control of your own happiness. Improve your mind and body, you will find true happiness in being your own and only critic. My ex made me miserable, until I realised I had the power to stop that. Go for it! Fresh start mate.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:45 PM
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Women say it is because they want to look beautiful and I've witnessed groups of them hamstering when answering. They claim it is to boost heir self confidence......I think that they want to out-dress other women, look as promiscuous and desirable for the nearest chad. Anyway. Men do it to get laid, so do women.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 06:15 PM
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Then cut those friends. Once you are single you will enjoy your life and be utterly free. Embrace the sadness, even if she fucks your friends. Put the anger into gym, or better yet, let it go and move on. She is just one woman, you can meet loads more!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:56 PM
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You will never be free, never be able to respect or enjoy your life again if you don't drop this woman immediately. Delete her off every phone/media platform and block as well. You don't want mind games. You owe it to yourself brah. Get a gym membership and blow off steam there. Luckily, half the battle is done. You've acknowledged the problem, now act!!!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:56 PM
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I attended university in the UK. Women, of any background, creed or religion will put feelings before culture. It is a rare woman who sticks to her values. Trust me on this. Personally knew a few Arabic and middle eastern ladies that attended university, far from home and prying eyes. There, they could indulge in the hedonism and depravity that truly is Western Culture. I'm personally highly critical of religion, but i'm not a total hypocrite. I love my country, but I am actively witnessing the …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 07:56 PM
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OP should delete this post, hit the gym, read the sidebar and approach womenfolk. What is it with all the shit tier posts lately.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 11:19 AM
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Correct! It amazes me how his soon to be ex-wife will be the victim. Khan wasn't emotional with her, slept with other women, made her feel inadequate, treated her poorly! Always comes back to the hamster wheel, fueled by feelings. Womenfolk don't like taking responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:59 PM
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This is considered justice in the West now. Amir Khan worked his ass off, achieved fame and glory through pure dedication and personal merit. Meanwhile, his beautiful wife did nothing, but look beautiful and maybe consent to sex once a month. Now, she will be living off Khan for the rest of her life, fucking some new chad in his house. This is the reality we all face. It's not bitterness, its not anger, its common sense chaps. Don't get fucking married. Not even once!
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 07:43 PM
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You've made some quality posts, I've bookmarked all of them so far. How are you not endorsed yet?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 10:04 AM
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Paternity test. Insist on it. Don't sign the birth certificate until its proven you helped create it.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 10:39 PM
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Goes to show how bad it is. Too many young men craving validation and not responsibility. They've been told by their mothers and teachers that they're special and unique. Instead, they should have been set straight and told they were nothing, that they had to strive to become great. God I hate feminism.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:18 PM
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Positive role models are rarer these days. Western society venerates moronic celebrates, DJ's and music stars, who by and large haven't actually contributed anything of significant worth to the world. Fathers are becoming more and more feminized, tired and over worked. Not to mention all the divorce rates and destruction of the family. So yeh, there's a sad reason why Jordan B Peterson is being seen as a male role model, a 'replacement' dad even. Men are now to blame for everything, its just eas…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 06:06 PM
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It's not too late for a reasonably healthy 50 year old man to start lifting. These success stories you see are presented as a single image, who knows the myriad layers or depths they aren't showing you? Depression, jealousy? All sorts. Remember, be your own man and live your own life. It's never too late.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 04:42 PM
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The answer is to post in TRP, READ the sidebar material for a good 6 moths/year and post if you have something of actual value to offer.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 02:55 PM
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Yeah, this was brilliant. Masterfully summarized.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 09:28 PM
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Telling people you are red pill is like telling people you are Vegan.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:29 PM
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Yay, it is pretty powerful. I have found through monk mode/giving up the chase for a year to be incredibly useful in developing this mentality. For some reason I was keen to jump straight into another relationship, yet I waited, figured out where I went wrong and stopped caring about trivial stuff. It is better to acquire this power single.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 08:40 PM
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I'm 24, been lurking for around a year, posted once. The amount of young angry chaps throwing out 'alpha', 'beta' and 'cuck' around is insane. Being humble is virtuous, we need to bring this back into the sub somehow.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 10:00 PM
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Good question, probably smile and say, 'lets split the bill'. Then remark about how she's such a 'strong independent women' who doesn't 'need no man' to pay for her. Humor her, or try.
/r/ThankTRP07/05/17 02:27 PM
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Holy shit, I just got redpilled again.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 12:37 PM
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I've just had major surgery so lifting is out for me for about a month. I am however reading and doing non strenuous activities. As far as excuses go, its a fairly good one!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:06 PM
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That is a pretty reasonable assessment. We men get told by society at large to love who we are, thin or fat and are encouraged to stagnate and never achieve our own potential. Basically, be a good little slave, marriage and kids.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:17 PM
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Nay, but he is countryman, a kin of the realm.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:23 PM
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To be politically conservative. Fighting for honour, private property and the secret return to medieval virtues.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:22 PM
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They've been brought by feminine men or single mothers. They lack manners and believe the world revolves around them.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:19 PM
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Shit, I'd better check my privilege!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:07 AM
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Yeah totally, they get so much validation from hundreds of men that they overload the pleasure center in their brains. Dopamine overload, their sense of self worth is so high as to be fraudulent. BBC articles everyday about women's global unhappiness and depression is all due to their promiscuous behavior, career focused and material lives. Truly is sad. Feminism helps them defy their own biology which they view as sexist, all the while the majority of these little princesses fawn around after c…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:02 AM
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I'm not sure what country you are from, but here in the majestic realm of England the bane of liberalism has run free. Unchecked and unchallenged it has emasculated our men and sexually freed our women folk. Alas, tis such a great folly. Gone are the days of tumbling some rosy cheeked maiden in the hay bales! A petite little right wing cutie would be the rarest jewel of them all. God speed!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:55 AM
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Most women, not all, but most are dull, uninteresting and nearly all of them will fill out their biography with the words 'glass of wine' and 'netflix' in the same sentence. Now that I'm single, I have so much more time for activities. Reading, cycling, lifting and guitar work. They dont have any opinions themselves, that's why they adopt their male counterparts values and attitudes. It's sad really, how many women have you met who have genuine hobbies? Or are masters at something? You can bet t…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 11:59 PM
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So the majority of young women on internet dating sites? I can't believe the entitled attitude they have the requirements of the men they think they deserve. Makes me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 11:54 PM
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I've heard the term 'beta uprising', wonder if it will happen. As you say, a huge increase in MGTOW men, but these guys are checking out of the dating scene. I'd like a lot more young men to not have to go through indoctrination at school/university like I had to. However, surely the more red pill guys there are, the worse off we will be for competition? Competition is good though.....it makes people stronger.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 06:10 PM
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Fair point, I'm 5'7 and only got insecure and started noticing my height once I came across TRP. Thankfully I've managed to chill, meditate and stop giving a fuck. It's the same as baldness, just own it. You are right about 'attitude', chicks can smell that shit from ten miles away.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 07:54 PM
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There was a brilliant article on the BBC (Brussels Broadcasting Corporation) the other day, the title was : 'I'm owed £9000 in child maintenance', the woman being the victim of course. It's this entitled attitude, fair or not is why I shall be personally avoiding the contract of marriage and my further subjugation to the state. Good point about all the 'dead beat dads', it's never the mothers right....
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 07:12 AM
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Agreed, optimism is welcome and good for the soul! Whilst somewhat generic, the advice is sound.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 07:08 AM
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Some really good points here op. I like the part about the cohabiting situation. For you it seemed to work really well, leave and take your stuff with no further fall out. Obviously you had a fairly level headed women there who didn't cause you additional problems. It is true, cohabiting is cheaper and makes it easier to save for a mortgage or have more disposable income, going solo can be difficult. My ex gave me an ultimatum, go travelling or split up. Unfortunately I hadn't discovered trp and…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 07:04 AM
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I don't bookmark often, but when I do, its for quality posts like these!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:12 PM
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Sounds like something out a Terry Pratchett novel! This post, truly time is the greatest currency.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 04:57 PM
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Reminds me of a valid point: Women were given freedom and equality. Sure, a few suffragettes may have died for the cause, but ultimately it was men who gave women their freedom. They never fought for it. The age of abundance, materialism and so on has aided women in jumping ship at the first chance, holding down a job and gaining their own autonomy. The state allows this. Don't marry. It's a shitty financial investment.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:20 PM
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I had numerous feminist teachers, pushing their vile beliefs in English class with feminist poetry and always portraying women as victims and men, as devils. Every class, every subject, always they blue pilled us. It's taken a while to shrug this indoctrination off.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:14 PM
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I agree with your point about being able to 'wear him down'. Women try and change men, tame them even. Once they've succeeded they lose attraction. I've been guilty of this, once her claws are around you and the comfort sets in, she's got you. Always hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 04:45 PM
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You should head on back to 4chan and resume your normal autistic tendencies. You haven't read the side bar, your post is of no value and you can't even spell properly. Go back to school kid.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:45 AM
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It's funny because nearly every man who is fat, knows he is fat and needs to do something about it. Whether they do or don't is immaterial, they know deep down and feel some level of shame. On the other hand, women are told that every size is beautiful, to be comfortable in their bodies! These lies are designed to sell more materialistic products to fat women.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:41 AM
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Smart move, wish I'd figured this out.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 10:56 AM
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ask TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:09 AM
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My tale is a typical one, woven in sadness and regret. You know, as well as me being a totally naive moron. Had a HB8, did all her uni work, I mean all of it for 2 years. Moved in together, paid for travelling for 6 months to New Zealand and Thailand. As soon as we returned home the sex was withdrawn, she got a job in London (through my hard work) and kicked me to the curb. I was in my 20's, still am, so it was a good lesson to learn at that age. Thank god I don't have kids, didn't get screwed o…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:18 AM
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I'm of the opinion (a most unfavorable one, that women shouldn't wear a white wedding dress unless they are a virgin) that most men will be delighted with their beautiful pure brides in their symbolically white and innocent wedding dresses!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:33 PM
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'Let him borrow my room for the night'. I can't decide if you were being a great wingman or a serious cuck. Sadly, a lot of women are like this, a term we call (AWALT). Get used to it. Of course, it sucks, it really does but I have found that pursuing your own interests over the massive state wide sponsored cuckoldry is a positive process. By this I mean, switch off from these instant validation platforms like Facebook and Instagram. Probably drop the feminism class or your'e going to need intra…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 09:31 PM
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OP's post is pretty defeatist. Yes, taking STEM or some engineering/computing course is a better idea than liberal arts. No one is going to really refute that. However, what sets men aside from the boys is being able to adapt and change, well into their 30's if need be. There is little substitute to hard work, its not impossible but certainly difficult. 'if you have to go into trades', this is just plain silly. Some tradesmen make a bloody good wage, work for themselves and it is quite masculine…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:13 PM
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Brutal, but hilarious. OP, be grateful, TRP is the one place where men aren't told they are special, instead it calls them out on their bullshit and helps them become men. Good luck.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:21 PM
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Can confirm, been here myself. My ex and her friends used to joke about it. Now, it makes me physically sick. You can't fix this relationship, the best you can do is cut your losses, move on and learn from it. Trust me on this.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:18 PM
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Feminism lately has been brought into the media frenzy frequently, however the number of women identifying as feminists has dropped. I think this is largely due to the negative connotations of the word. It astounds me to see feminists in my own class who fall for the same cliche look, dyed hair, overweight and verbally opinionated. Be realistic, this fad is dying slowly. Women I think are waking up to the slut culture and beginning to see how damaging it is for them. Look at all the older single…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:14 PM
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Yeh, I was an open wallet for about 3 years. Wish I'd found TRP before. Needless to say, I don't buy women drinks anymore, and should I enter into a relationship, I certainly won't be paying for any of her stuff. At all. Good work, just don't slip up and become complacent. That's the worst thing that could happen.
/r/ThankTRP11/02/17 03:04 PM
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I can see this becoming a major issue, men not wanting to commit/marry women and deciding to live alone. After all, another core practice preached here is 'never living with a woman'. Financially, as a young guy starting out it it makes getting a mortgage on your own, that much harder. In the UK specifically, renting is dead money. In order to save for a mortgage, it becomes necessary to live with parents if it is a viable option. I believe that living with a woman for 3 years pretty much makes …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:18 AM
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It's sad posts like these where men are the clear losers in court that compel me to never marry. Take solace in the knowledge that your pains will stop me from doing the same thing. Thanks dude.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:18 PM
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That's it. I was as blue pill as they come. Wanted the woman, the marriage the kids, the whole disney package. If you sign that legally binding document, you are literally giving her the power to fuck you over. It's fairly worrying, if every young man started thinking like this there would be a huge shortage of children and disastrous consequences for the economy - The state, need to change the law so that men can have kids, but not lose everything in the process.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 07:45 PM
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Yeah, fair enough. I'm a young guy but I see marriage as a hugely risky business with very few viable returns on the initial investment. Not to mention the laws and the power of the state and victim culture women adore being encased within. I love women, but not enough to commit my finances for life. Besides, keeping up the 'A game' for life sounds utterly exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 06:44 PM
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200,000 brothers who won't cut any slack. Good, I'm sick of people telling me to be myself and just be nice. I'd take brutal honesty over well meant lies.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 12:35 AM
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Women are socially stronger, because men allow it. They were given the freedom, alimony and great divorce packages. Men literally cucked themselves. It is a great sadness to see the effect of our weakness, how women have capitalised on this. Its so sad, we gave women the freedom and the power to make themselves utterly miserable, and men too.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 12:32 AM
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Great post, trp is a lonely journey. Its hard as well. I've wanted to quit and live the blue pill dream like my friends. Woman-house-dog-marriage-kids. Most of my friends don't like my change in outlook, my gym adventures or what I call solo progress. I'd rather suffer and be stronger, some of my friends are all ready miserable. The red pill is painful and can be lonely. But god does that pain feel good sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 12:14 AM
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I actually read this whole post, very long, but informative. We don't often accept the 'be yourself' part that you put in your last paragraph, however I think it's true. You can only be yourself and change what you want with great effort. Little point in trying to be an ultimate chad, as your story confirms, even they get cucked. But thanks anyway, great read that reinforces awalt and stresses the importance of self over women. Good luck, and thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 12:07 AM
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At the end of the day, if you think you won, then you did. Doesn't really matter what everyone else thinks. If you see it as a victory, then it is so.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:02 PM
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TRP always advocates lifting. It's not really about getting massive so you can bang chicks, it is about cultivating discipline, feeling great and being more social. If any man suffers from depression or anxiety, their first call of port (depending on how serious the depression) is to hit the gym. It's staggering what your first month of religious gym work can do for your mind. Meditate as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:32 AM
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The blue pill is like an addiction. Reprogramming all the crap we've been fed as men takes time and and strength of will. You are right Gaylube, the temptation to regress back into nice guy beta mode is an occasional struggle. Luckily, us youngsters have TRP. When it isn't full of 20 year old something shit posts and questions (which should be on asktrp), its normal content is rewarding. Thanks for this, just another reason to hit the gym and strengthen my arsehole.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:07 PM
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I'm 24, I wish I'd been as smart as OP when I was 16. Guess it is better to swallow the pill younger. I'm just glad I didn't get married and have disney kids. Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:05 PM
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Not so much about evolution, rather economics. My last and only LTR cost me everything I had because I WAS willing to pay my unicorn's way through life. Personally, I won't be cohabiting with a woman, marrying, nor sharing any funds with her in the future. Luckily, I'm only 24 and got burnt young. Lesson learned. Each to their own.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 10:56 PM
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It's fairly interesting, there are men on here who know quantum mechanics, are lawyers, scientists and engineers and they still can get fucked over by a woman or know very little about them. Blue pill conditioning started when we were born, when we watched disney movies and when our feminist teachers indoctrinated us over the course of growing up. This blue pill mentality rarely disappears over night. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:19 AM
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Nah bro, just hit the gym. For any bloke who is dealing with depression, I strongly advise lifting. Even after the first hour of full on participation you feel great, so much more confident. After a week the noob gains are a distant thrill as you chase your next pump at the gym. Forget women, focus on yourself. Get in shape, feel happier and look great. Best therapy there is. Trust me on this.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 02:16 PM
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Well, I'd better stay healthy, keep at the gym and get rich. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 01:04 AM
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Great post, as usual. This concept of time scares me though. I'm 24 and can all ready feel it slipping away. I have wasted moments in my life, I do have regrets. Perhaps I just need to chill out and carry on. Who knows. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 10:12 PM
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Your point about anger is pretty accurate. Some blokes can use it effectively, I couldn't. Anger got me into the gym and lifting, but I didn't make any progress until I started to enjoy lifting and doing it for me. We are all different i guess. Whatever works!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 09:39 AM
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Up vote because this made me snort orange juice everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 10:51 PM
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Ask TRP, the link is to the right. Read the sidebar fully. Lift weights. Stop giving a shit, seriously, don't get hung up on the whole sex thing, sort your shit out and it will all fall together.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:13 PM
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Ah, you aren't the first. The best thing to do is lift. Seriously, it helps to focus the anger stage (what you are currently experiencing). 1: Read the side bar and materials and links. 2: Focus on hobbies/education and work. 3: Forget and don't communicate at all with this woman. The Red Pill is truly a bitter remedy. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:11 PM
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Fair enough, it's your life bro, who cares what other people think? You have to make your own decisions and stick with them, and the consequences. Do what you must! That is part of what being a strong man is all about. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 06:07 PM
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'She doesn't care'. Neither should you. It isn't your job to fix anyone. Bail, seriously. Consider your own happiness. Be a man, put yourself first. Sidebar >>>
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:17 PM
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Humm....TRP is a toolbox, nothing more. Most Subreddits have extreme people, admittedly there are a few bitter chaps on here. However, TRP is mainly about improving and being the best version you can be. The other part, is sexual strategy. TRP teaches men to be masculine. Masculinity is what attracts women and maintains that in a relationship. Advice on this sub about not 'getting married' and 'living with a woman' is actually sound financial advice. Not getting married is in the western world t…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 12:30 AM
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This....If you want loyalty, get a dog.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:37 AM
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I live in the UK, women literally get picked over young men these days, companies have to fill quotas. Nottingham shire police force have just announced they are launching a recruitment drive for ethnic minorities and homosexuals only. And people still say white men are privileged? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3961742/Nottinghamshire-Police-accused-discriminating-against-white-straight-people-launching-recruitment-drive-ethnic-minorities-homosexuals-only.html
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:42 AM
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Gold advice above. You can only help yourself. (Sidebar)
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:50 PM
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Cool, good work. Don't rush it. Destroying the blue pill can be an on going battle. Keep at the gym and self improvement. You identified the red flags and gave her the hard next. Good luck
/r/ThankTRP28/12/16 02:30 PM
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Jesus Christ, what is happening? There is a huge difference between confidence, IDGAF and being an asshole. You clearly don't know the difference. Dicing with the law is risky business, maybe attractive to some really mental women but overall not worth investing in. Prison isn't sexy to most women. Aside from that you need to have a good look in the mirror, examine you ego and not shit post on this sub. TRP is here to help men, not allow you to vent, attempt to show off and offer horrendous advi…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 03:17 PM
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The anger phase can be essential, though some men are able to bypass it completely. However, bitching about women has risen to new heights on this sub. It's a shame really as there is quite a lot of good content and field reports, though of late they are increasingly hidden in all the hate and 'bitching'. Worrying about Amy Schumer and Leo's dad bod isn't actually helpful. Lets bring back all the good content.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:29 AM
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'Don't give them the commitment to destroy you'. Quite probably a quote that should be in the trp side bar or hall of fame! I committed, and when it ended I looked back and felt hurt, didn't have a plan B. Careful guys. AWALT.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:53 PM
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In this case, weigh up the pros and cons, if you think saving money and staying with your folks is wise then do it. However if you want your freedom and the ability to have women over, move out. Its your life bro, you have to make this choice yourself. Follow your gut.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 11:51 PM
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I'm 5'7. After finding the red pill the 'height' issue actually started to bother me. Before trp I never really gave it any thought, took a lot of effort to stop giving a shit about it. Needless to say, if women post and like things like that then I wouldn't bother with them. Seriously, they've just highlighted a red flag for me with regards to their attitude. Thanks women! Doing me a solid favor.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:48 PM
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Hey OP, I'm in a fairly similar position. 5'7, 24 years old and heading towards being bald. I've had one serious relationship, my ex had previous abusive boyfriends and liked the fact I was a safe bet. It's fairly difficult to not give up, I opted for monk mode and a year of improving. Attending University, hitting the gym like my life depends on it and the whole self improvement and getting new hobbies. Honestly, I haven't given up, I just place very little care and effort in gaining female val…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:45 PM
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This double standard attitude is sickening. Women can be out of work or home makers and that's fine. God help a man if he loses his job or becomes unemployed (shit happens). It's reached the point where all I hear about through news and social media is about women suffering this and that. No one cares about the trials men face. Each man really is on his own.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 01:10 PM
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If only I had seen this four years ago. Such a shame.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:44 PM
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First steps Get a job/education asap. You'll meet new people and gain confidence through talking to people and interacting. Lift. This has been stressed a lot on TRP. It's true. However, lifting isn't about getting female respect for your massive muscles, its more than that. Start lifting and you will feel an immediate change, confidence skyrockets, self worth and motivation also. Lift like your life depends on it. There is no quick fix magic, and this is good, it plays into your hands. The jour…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:13 PM
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Humm......You've discovered that most women aren't actually interesting. If your life is sweet and fulfilling you suddenly realize that women in fact do not have that much value besides sex. You probably care less about women since you swallowed TRP, however it wouldn't hurt to have higher quality women. Perhaps more intelligent women might help? Just remember AWALT Your life is 'good', so keep hunting.
/r/askTRP19/11/16 08:40 PM
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I haven't witnessed such absolute destruction like this in long time. Great post. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:10 PM
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I've met women who insist that: 'too much muscle is off putting' 'muscle isn't everything' 'I prefer my man to have fat on him' 'I like a cute belly!' I sit there with a smug grin because I know they are talking utter shit. Ripped and sweet creates more tingles than a dad body.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:39 PM
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Sadly, if he doesn't get it then he has to figure this out for himself. i.e. Being screwed over in a relationship. Go put your heart on the line and have it ripped out for you. THEN TRP will actually start to make sense to you. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 12:37 PM
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I've been studying medieval culture and I saw TRP everywhere. Medieval wives had a hard life, no doubt. However there were diary accounts of women cheating on their husbands with more financially secure men. This I guess is natural. Also, instances where being a widow wasn't such a bad deal (especially if the husband was the pious and abusive type). There was even a diary of a 14th century butcher's wife who details cheating with a young blacksmith's apprentice (Medieval Chad). You can't even ma…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 11:53 PM
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Oh no, Anon has been triggered.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 11:14 AM
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The decline of the Nuclear family due to feminism (liberal movements) has helped facilitate and encourage the cock carousel lifestyle for women. To be quite honest I don't want to be partying it up in six years time with entitled, selfish and hamster fueled post wall women. Women can spend their youth and beauty enjoying numerous Chad cocks, I'm going to spend mine at they gym and practicing whittling and my game. edit: Good replies chaps, its the beauty of TRP, still learning!
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 01:53 AM
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well, if it works then fair play.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 12:47 AM
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This is a horrible story, I'm sorry you went through all that drama. Your story is worth sharing however. I've swallowed the red pill but occasionally relapse and day dream of my 'special snowflake', your story reinforces AWALT and the horrendous investment that is marriage. I wish you all the best.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:27 PM
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9 months for me and I'm still angry. TRP isn't a pleasant medicine.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:15 PM
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Yeah, if only I knew that a year ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:46 PM
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Agreed. The anger phase can last for ages, the only thing it does is hamper your success. Whilst you can now see clearly and have a right to be angry, just learn to accept it. For me this is the saddest part of TRP. The realization that there's no disney ending, no unconditional love and AWALT is tough to take in. We've been lied too. Good luck bro.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:45 PM
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Bro, girls aren't going to see a vasectomy as 'attractive', its just a red flag. Even if they won't commit to you they want every guy to commit to them. In this case having a vasectomy will be a red flag to her and will make it harder for you to get laid. Just keep it secret.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:38 PM
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Good for you. No one should ever make you feel like that or emotionally black mail you into staying in a relationship. You got out just in time!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 12:22 PM
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Interesting post, I've often thought that I shouldn't hold frame against women or society, rather myself. The biggest obstacle in mans way most of the time is himself.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:12 AM
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Very good post. In particular your point about the 'comfort zone', which leads to complacency and stagnation. I myself have been guilty of this. For example, I suffered from gym anxiety since it is always full of chad bro's and fit hoe's. Luckily I got over it and crushed that particular fear. Confidence can be rapidly improved by embracing the things that scare you. Cheers bro
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:56 PM
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Fair point. However I am not currently lacking in 'self esteem', I'm indifferent to what women think. IDGAF truly is wonderful.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 11:25 AM
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But how would Mr Right feel about meeting the love of his life/dream girl only to discover she's had numerous FBs and FWBs? Honestly, each to their own but I'd be slightly nervous about that.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 03:32 PM
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This sub is about self improvement as well as realistic sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:54 AM
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Excellent post, really hit home for me. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 02:41 PM
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Brilliant post, pretty much summed up how I have been feeling of late. I've just let go of revenge fantasies recently. Seriously, best post I've seen on here in a while.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 05:05 PM
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that actually made a lot of sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 02:12 PM
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As a recovering Beta faggot, well done. Masterfully said.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 02:05 PM
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The Nurse was 40 yrs old. I do talk to everyone at work, but again they mainly consist of older women. Still, off to University in September so there's plenty of young women around!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:41 AM
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Good post, I think this is exactly what TRP is all about. Self improvement. I'm in the same boat at the minute! First I've got to fix and like myself before I can go enjoy women. Best of luck
/r/ThankTRP10/08/16 06:45 AM
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Fair point, unfortunately I've managed to acquire a perforated ear drum and a horrible smelly ear infection. Currently awaiting minor surgery to correct it! Seriously though, it smells that bad I wouldn't go a hundred yards in front of any woman.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 06:38 AM
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This was an incredibly funny and well written post. I'd love to give this a try at the minute but 'game' is not possible right for me right now.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 01:41 PM
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Do it! I got screwed over, don't hate. Improve. Just be awesome. Chicks love confidence (learnt that yesterday! Chicks dig guys with hobbies/interests!])
/r/ThankTRP04/04/16 11:36 PM
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Cheers, I'm on the up now. TRP, what a life saver.
/r/ThankTRP04/04/16 07:03 AM
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Thanks, it feels good to be free again. I got comfortable in the relationship and lost track of my own ambition.
/r/ThankTRP04/04/16 07:02 AM
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Thanks man, I'm not sure about game just yet. I wouldn't mind learning to like myself first! But yes, I will keep the 'game' in mind. Cheers
/r/ThankTRP03/04/16 09:39 PM
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My ex of 4 years calls me and asks how I'm doing and what I'm up to. I'm going to ignore her from now on. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:39 PM
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I think I learnt more in 3 minutes than I did 3 years at university. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:23 PM
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Very helpful! Thanks man.
/r/ThankTRP31/03/16 05:57 PM
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Wow. Very insightful piece op. I've just split up with my girlfriend, a mutual agreement though in truth I agreed for her. Having read this I can say I now know what that deep sinking feeling is like. She had given up and changed, going out, drinking with friends whilst I was working away. The signs were there, I just didn't see them. Just destroyed my sense of closure.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:50 PM
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