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Hypnotherapy works amazing. Best of all you can find confidence and self esteem hypnotherapy on YouTube. Listen to every day and you will start to feel better. Also good book called self esteem by Melody B that helped when I went to therapist
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:23 AM
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This guy knows what to do^
/r/askTRP11/09/20 12:51 AM
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“Most experts believe psychopaths and sociopaths share a similar set of traits. People like this have a poor inner sense of right and wrong. They also can’t seem to understand or share another person’s feelings. But there are some differences, too. Do They Have a Conscience? A key difference between a psychopath and a sociopath is whether he has a conscience, the little voice inside that lets us know when we’re doing something wrong, says L. Michael Tompkins, EdD. He's a psychologist at the Sacr…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 01:54 AM
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You dodged a bullet. This girl doesn’t give a F about you. Just herself. Don’t be butt hurt when she’s dating someone new, because she will never truly give a F about them either!
/r/askTRP20/06/20 04:45 PM
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Man this sounds so creepy. She’s forced into a situation now where you’re making it awkward. You’re clearly trying to bang this girl. Leave her alone. If that’s going to happen she will make it known. The laying next to each other will turn into her grinding her ass against you and then slow slow slow escalation. You don’t try to kiss a Roomate and then ask “what’s up” when she doesn’t respond to your texts. She’s a Roomate, treat her like one until she makes it certain she wants more.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:09 PM
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If I had done what you wanted to I would not be in the shape I am today. Stay in your lane. “Comparison is the thief of joy.” Keep progressing and then one day you will all of a sudden be where you want.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 06:02 PM
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This was hard to read. Of course she left. You have a lot to learn, this is a good place to start. The ironic thing is that your behavior drove her away, not hers.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:30 AM
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About 28-29 is when it’s not as easy. I’m 39 now. Can still be done, the age is not so much the issue but rather the being in the same area or social circle. I don’t hang out anywhere or do anything a 21 year old does. But if I took a college class or something it would be like shooting fish in a barrel. Can still do it in 40s if your around them in any certain way.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:18 AM
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He’s BP AF. Did you see him after he broke up with the wrestler girl? She wanted kids and he didn’t, she left him and then said he would have them to get her back and he was sobbing like a little child.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:12 PM
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Yes, and he’s talking about catwoman
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:04 AM
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I think TRP community should band together and stop answering questions like this one. This is not a valuable contribution nor is it a legitimate problem. Just low class all around.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:03 AM
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I do 24s all the time. it’s great and will cut out all the bloat and you’ll lose a little bit of fat. Your muscles will look deflated for about 5-7 days. You’ll look a lot smaller for a temporary amount of time but it comes back. Don’t let it fool you, it’s just very temporary. I love doing them though even though they are no fun.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 05:10 PM
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If I knew how to give gold, I would here
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:53 AM
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Attachment theory is completely accurate. I’m in my late 30s, dated many many women. After learning AT 2 years ago and learning about the fascinating subject as much as I could , I can see the problems with each relationship and how AT affected each one. It’s mind blowing stuff. Most in TRp will say some nonsense like “lift heavy bro” and will continue to put on a show like the alpha males they try to aspire to be. Learn about attachment theory. Learn that when you come across a dismissive avoid…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:58 AM
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I went to bar tending school in the valley and then got my first job with a catering company as a bartender for special events and then got a real bartending job after that at the saddleranch . I would recommend starting with a special events company to get experience and use your network to get a job at a bar/club.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:36 PM
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Bartended for a few years in Hollywood, CA. Was like shooting fish in a barrel. Great for sex life. Job still sucks.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:37 PM
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A simple “best of luck” would have been most appropriate. You need to go 100% no contact. She’s going to wonder about you since you’re in quarantine and not hearing from you. Things are going to come out of lockdown and she will wonder more. Leaving her completely in the dark for her actions are the best revenge. Followed up by a post of you with a hot plate on some social media in 3-6 months.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 06:39 PM
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You’re going after the wrong type of women. You’re somehow attracted to cleat-chasers. Sure these women are hot but you should be able to spot this from a mile away. These are very materialistic women. Stop picking these types. Also, they are not alpha widows, they are status whores. You’re correct, your status will never match theirs so you’re low on the totem pole.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 03:02 AM
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You acted like a cold fish. More guys trying to learn TRP will lose more women than gain by trying to use techniques. Your actions came off calculated and cold rather than alpha. Alpha men aren’t cold and distant, they just don’t let women walk all over them. You should have complimented her when it was authentic. That way she worked for it. Instead you just showed to her you could care less. Who wants that? It’s not human nature to want the affection of someone who never gives them a breadcrumb…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 05:24 PM
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Fight always to defend yourself. But only then. When you do fight, make it quick.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:23 AM
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Have you tried an antidepressant? I felt like you and went on super small dose and have felt great since. It’s not for everyone and I was opposed to trying for years but man does it make a world of difference to me.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:58 AM
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Up at 915am. Chill out for 30 min. Walk dog for 45 minutes Eat oatmeal 11am Maybe go to work or work at home Gym anytime from about 4pm to 8pm 10pm work for 2-3 hours Sleep / repeat
/r/askTRP07/02/20 10:14 AM
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Also second meditation. I have crazy thoughts like you do. And meditation can help if they get out of hand.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 09:55 PM
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Seriously, OP is 100% insecure and has no reason to assume his girl is out there riding the CC. Yes many women will do that but also many women will not. His bitch behavior will only make her want to if she can sense how he really feels.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:43 PM
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I love creatine. I’m pissed every time I have to stop it
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:14 PM
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I learned by texting a little more after every next girl that ended it and engaging more. It took a long time to find the sweet spot. I was afraid of texting too much but when I realized every beta out there is texting all day long, my texts once a day or every other day when I am busy are just perfect. I mean I initiated up to once a day. A single text exchange could be 2 text to 20 depending on the conversation. Always set it up for the next meet up.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:45 PM
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Welcome to taking the red pill too “logistically.” I’ve been playing the single game non stop for 6 years and over and over I’ve lost out on some quality girls doing this same thing. The red pill is to get you oriented to what not to be as far as a beta bucks etc. but you can take it too far and come off as cold, which you have done here. You were not being authentic and she could sense it and now you’ve lost her. I’ve lost over a dozen women this way and have come back in the middle where I sta…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:32 PM
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Not always. But she certainly decided awhile ago she didn’t want to be with you any longer. If there was another good option for her she would have taken it to make it easier for her to move on. Ghost her completely and at some point she will come back to you. You can do as you wish at that point.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:02 PM
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What’s you don’t have any friends? Lol
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:40 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:33 AM
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Most of my friends are women, I treat them just like my guy friends. I don’t act any different. One knows I want to bang her sister and sometimes the other ones set me up with cuties they meet but that’s not why I’m around them, I enjoy their friendship
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:31 AM
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I live in LA, terrible place to be for women. Unless you are an agent (entertainment), promoter or producer etc. Anywhere else in SoCal is way better. Try OC or San Diego. I’m leaving LA as soon as possible after living here 15 years
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:30 AM
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THIS POST IS B.S., he says 3.5 years going strong but has two posts recently where is mentions no girlfriend and girls he’s dating.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:47 PM
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I think the first issue is that you asked her how many people she’s been with. That comes off as insecure. If a girl asked me I would immediately think she’s insecure and is going to be but hurt unless I said 3 or something. You did put her on the spot. I think you made her feel cornered and she even said she didn’t want to tel you. I would have left it at that. I wouldn’t expect to get a straight answer from anyone on the spot like that. I believe that’s unfair for anyone to be but on the spot …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:35 AM
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The general consensus on these replies is that you over reacted and I completely agree. First off, why the F are you interested in how many guys she’s had sex with. What kind of insecurity do you have? Watch her actions to see if she is good LTR material, who cares about the number of dicks that have been in her unless she acts like she rode the CC forever before you. I think you and a number of guys in this forum take TRP wayyyy to literal. It’s a general way to live by to make your life better…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 08:00 PM
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For you younger guys (25 or under) the F close should be pretty easy. Younger women will usually bang when attracted and will lose interest and may just kiss you and move on. I’m 39, I NEVER go for the f close anymore unless it’s with a girl 25 or under. After 25 I have a 3 date strategy. I don’t try to bang until 3rd date. I’ve been with many women over the past 10 years and I’ve lost more bangs by being a horny guy trying to essentially throw my giz like a monkey in a zoo. Women can sense it a…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 01:47 AM
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I still go on dates to bars all the time and I don’t drink. I ask them for a non alcoholic beer. When the girl asks why I do t drink I tell her I like to drink but as I get older my body doesn’t like it so it’s not worth it. None of them have had any issues cause they still drink and get a buzz on.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 05:26 AM
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You have zero self control over your impulses aka weak. Work on that.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:41 PM
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You never tell a woman it’s a bad idea for her to be closer to you. You may feel that way but you’ve just showed her that you’re not thinking long term partner. I hate to say it but you’ve done irreparable damage here, I know because I’ve done this countless times. Short term she may act like everything is fine but she’s now moved you into the category of not long term compatible. You should have just said “that’s a great idea” and changed the subject.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:45 PM
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Best post I’ve read all week
/r/askTRP02/10/19 07:02 AM
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Pretty much. I’m 39 years old and this is what I’ve seen over and over. Women in their 30s definitely have issues pair bonding unless out of one of those young LTRs and many of them may be alpha widowed. I’m trying to date young (ie 19-24) to find a suitable partner without tons of baggage but it’s hard as I’m not in the social circles. I’ll probably move out of the USA to find a good woman...maybe Austria or Italy.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:32 AM
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Second this, highly consider moving somewhere in Asia where men are shorter and you will have good success
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:05 AM
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🤣🤣
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:17 AM
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Stop calling yourself a faggot. You have low self esteem because you chop yourself down like this. The inner critic is powerful and you must learn to shut it down.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 02:11 AM
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What really sucks is you put all this effort into this girl for no sex and she’s now lost interest and she’s going to have sex with the first guy she meets out at these nights partying that she likes. As others have said, cut your losses and dump her with the lack of explanation above. If she loses her shit and comes crawling back on her hands and knees have sex immediately, that’s your only way to make any forward movement.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 06:22 AM
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Had a girl like this and thought the same thing as all the guys here have already said but then she caught feels and cake over and broke up with me because she “didn’t hear from me for days and never text her.” So, it was ultimately because she had low self esteem and was playing the game of me texting first. It could be this situation you’re in or that she does not get attached which is a even bigger flag.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 02:45 AM
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I take Zoloft for ocd and depression. Without them I have sex for about 5-10 minutes. With them I have a hard time busting a nut so I’ll usually have sex for 20 min or so and then pull out and really concentrate hard to bust on them. I wouldn’t stop taking the medication because of the sexual side effects because I’m much happier overall on them
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:46 AM
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Sorry man, check out some coach Corey Wayne videos on YouTube about cheating etc, will make you feel better. Hit the gym, stay away from getting drunk and or drug use. Go monk minds and read some self esteem books for a few weeks and get back on the horse
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:32 AM
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Where are you meeting most of these younger women?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:44 AM
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If a girl said my D was small I wouldn’t have washed the crotch, I would have given her the funk and punished her by making her breathe through her nose
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 06:40 PM
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still missing the point.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:42 PM
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You looked like a bitch challenging him to a fight. How old are you man, cut that shit out. One day you are going to get your ass whooped and will have to eat your food with a straw. Let them date, who gives a shit. She’s not yours. And she definitely didn’t think he was creepy, she just told you that. And she went out with him to piss you off and it did. Ghost the both of them and hang out with a hotter woman. That’s your revenge. Don’t let them get you emotional at any cost.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 08:31 PM
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If she comes over looking hot and has a new pair of nice shoes that make you want to F her say “hot shoes babe you look good”
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:46 PM
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Move on to the next she just wants attention and is only going to really meet a guy that has 10+ smv like pro athlete or something
/r/askTRP02/08/18 06:53 PM
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Cold approaching is always worth it if you can do it. The easiest at your age is girls from school and social events/sports
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:22 PM
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School or social circle for you. Cold approach is for the men like me
/r/askTRP31/07/18 09:53 PM
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Most women I’ve met that aren’t drinkers or big drinkers I meet during the day at the grocery store etc
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:34 PM
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Just from your post it seems like you may have an ego the size of Slovenia and thinking your are such hot shit and trying so hard is hurting you. When I was younger I had the same “deserve it” attitude and looked down on others as you do because they were not in shape and as good looking. Now that I’m older and more comfortable in my own shoes, women flock to me constantly. You are in the comparison way of thought. You know who compares themself to other men? Billy Beta. Would an alpha male comp…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 10:44 PM
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To answer your question...no it’s not that easy. You got an easy lay, that’s awesome. What I see here is that you sound like a cool dude that can banter and can open women. Never ever think of yourself as ugly. You acted like a man, and men have sex. Not usually this fast. There are experiences like being in college where easy sex can be had but that’s because of the environment. Keep saying hi to girls you like and take it from there and you will be fine. ✌🏼
/r/askTRP30/07/18 05:23 AM
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Don’t give up. Don’t think you are weird. Approach. Getting shot down means one less out of the way.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 10:21 PM
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After day 7 of no fap I turn into a machine. Would recommend trying that, it will make you feel like a wild animal hunting for a mate.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:47 AM
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This is not the good all days, women are seldom engaging and excited for a man who is less than a 10 on SMV scale. They get all of their attention from social media.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:48 AM
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“I’m more successful and way better looking.” Is this how you walk around and think about other men?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:13 PM
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It’s funny to see how people see things differently. He lists that he’s tall. I’m 5’9 and women say I’m too short. He lists he has no social life and is in front of the computer. I’m trying to reduce the “social” life so I can be on my computer to work harder to get ahead in life. The grass is always greener man, just be happy where you’re at. Things can always be much worse, these are first world problems!
/r/askTRP26/07/18 06:58 AM
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4/5 troll responses. Time to leave this sub and to stop contributing, far too many incels trying to be funny.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:26 AM
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It’s just one more way of meeting people. It is a lot of work. Lots of bots, lots of flakes, lots of messaging and ghosting. But the more work you put in, the more bangs you will get.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:16 PM
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You thought she was yours. It was just your turn. I’ve had your experience 3 times and I finally learned not to give a woman my all. She is only there for my journey and is easily replaceable by a younger woman who will be head over heels with me.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:32 AM
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That was great response, sure it could have been a bit funnier but your frame was where it needed to be: didn’t bother you, you’re confident and nothing they say can affect you.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:17 PM
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You’re the psycho that all women fear. If you want to know what the right thing to do would be it would be to delete her number and find a new chick.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:09 AM
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Welcome to the club man. This has happened to me 3 times. You needed this to happen to make you swallow the red pill. It was just your turn.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 08:46 PM
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Agree and amplify. Example: Woman says “you’re not muscular enough for me.” You agree and make it more extreme such as “I know, it’s because my DNA comes from the sloth family and not the gorilla species.”
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 04:52 AM
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Joe Rogan on his podcast said that they were friends and Anthony told him right before his death that nobody had ever “made him” that happy before. Then she is found two days before his suicide out frolicking around town being intimate with a good looking young male reporter. Two days later he kills himself. I also heard Anthony in another interview say he was suicidal after the separation from his first wife (I think she cheated). It’s clear that he did not see things for what they were and cou…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 05:41 PM
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I think Anthony bourdain who I really admired killed himself because of his oneitis. So sad guys do this...I was on the verge of living this way until I discovered the true nature of woman.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 04:17 PM
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In my experience I have had a little more success having girls come over straight off of tender, where as on bumble they usually want to go on dates quite a bit before having sex. Usually by date three you can get the bang. I do not think that online dating is worthless, it should be about 20% of your bangs. It’s something to do while you are taking your AM shit, line up some matches and turn it off and then check it later at night. Nothing wrong with adding more options.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 08:10 AM
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Use the shirt with the Nike photo and the first shot (put 2nd). Change the bio.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:00 PM
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What’s up what’s the “faggot” talk? Big deal, if the other students are lame why don’t you just go to a new gym? I love how many gay men there are, less competition for alpha males to conquer the world. Relax, find a new gym and have a good time!
/r/askTRP30/06/18 09:46 PM
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Stop trying to “act” alpha. Become that way. You are being incongruent because that’s not who you are. Accept your insecurities and start reading the sidebar and books to become more confident. Then you won’t give a shit when these women want to go ride the CC.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 08:33 PM
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You’re insecure and mate guarding. She’s not even your GF. Stop being so butt hurt, get some more options and tell her to go have fun.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 07:48 PM
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I hard Nexted the girl I was dating for this exact scenario.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:07 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/askTRP16/06/18 08:01 PM
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Doesn’t sound like she’s doing anything wrong really. I would just get busy doing things and dial back your attention a bit with her. Don’t be so available to her. Would not recommend taking a “alone time” vacation, that seems like playing a game which could backfire and since you really don’t want to next her that could be an outcome you don’t want.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:33 AM
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Just deleted mine. Had 6 posts and 100 followers, never used it but it still dropped SMV upon anyone’s review. Good post
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 09:35 PM
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It’s very effective. I’m 3/3 out of last month. I only do it when I’m really attracted to a woman which isn’t that often.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 11:59 PM
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Sex in sweden is like taking candy from babies. Cheers to you for acting like a normal man, most men in sweden are not masculine. Been to stockholm about 5 times and loved every minute of it. Mycket Bra!
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 08:24 PM
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Agree to ghost because it will make her hamster for a long time.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:09 PM
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How are you getting randoms to hit you up, do you have a huge IG following?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:19 PM
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I’ve had these too in the past 6 mo the. Almost put the belt around my neck about 3 months ago at the lowest point. Anyway, I’ve done all kinds of therapy and just got on Zoloft after my doc recommended it after I told him. I’ve always been against anti depressants but holy shit do I not care about the things that used to put me in a dark hole anymore. Maybe meds will help since they’ve helped me.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 03:40 AM
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Purple is a stand up dude with some GREAT advice. But the part I disagree with is to let her enjoy the vacation. Fuck that. You will still technically be together while she is most likely cheating and having an easy reason for her to end it while you lay awake every night wondering which handsomeeuro tourist is putting it in her ass. Dump her before the trip so YOU can move on and not worry what she’s doing on her trip. Most likely it will make her reflect on how she messed up and has taken you …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:33 PM
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He’s emotional. I’ve seen him on tv have a tantrum. So based off what I’ve seen and she’s told me is that he acts like a baby when he doesn’t get his way.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:17 AM
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How could he be alpha if he acts like a little bitch? Clearly he has high status but wouldn’t he lose SMV in her eyes when he acts like a chump?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:26 AM
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I think you’re right. He bought her a 3 million dollar house she lives in and drives a sports car. She would come to my apartment during lunch and get bent over the couch. I still want a piece of that ass though. Oh well, next.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:24 AM
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Get “self esteem” by Matthew McKay. You can also listen to confidence hypnosis on YouTube. Those help a lot. I know it is not mentioned here in the RP or PUA forums but game is ultimately self confidence. That’s it. I used to be younger and more physically attractive but was insecure. I would always strike out with women. Now I’m confident AF and get get almost any girl I want.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:24 AM
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I would bite it. Then take it out of my mouth and lead her to bend over and then I would jam her in the ass with it
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:17 AM
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This post reeks of insecurity and low confidence. Large ego. (Talking about your size and physical appearance). She was using you to shit test him because she wants him to know your the exes family. Not because she likes you. Your her exes cousin man. Don’t try to bang your cousins ex. That’s my advice. I should say something positive instead of just point out the flaws. Start reading self confidence books. It will help your insecurities and will help you.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:11 AM
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You are in the same boat as me man, I’ve started catching feelings for a girl but I know that she is not good for me so I’m going to have to give up the sex and just cut the cord. It’s hard to do in the short term, but better off for you long-term.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:36 PM
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I notice two things that are obvious. #1: You are only there as a companion and maybe sex when she wants it. She has blatantly stated that she cheats also. Low value/low quality woman right here. The last kind of girl you want to do anything besides sex with so you don’t catch feels. #2: you are trying too hard by “telling” her everything you want her to do. We are supposed to lead the interaction, not be demanding. There is a difference. “Wear this. I’ll be here at this time.” That’s something …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:24 PM
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No way, you can not let a woman think this is acceptable behavior.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:48 PM
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Update 5 is the smartest thing I’ve read all day on Reddit. 👍
/r/askTRP07/05/18 05:46 PM
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Hopefully she is not hurt, in a car accident, raped, in the hospital etc. if it’s anything else, kick the bitch out and ghost forever.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:01 AM
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You caught me. Ok we were dating but not exclusive. She tried to LTR me up but I told her I was seeing other people about a month ago. So I have some feelz a little bit but her behavior has removed her from it going that route. Since I have some feelz I won’t keep her around for just sex, I need to go cold turkey and monk mode to work on my business.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:40 PM
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A woman you see for casual sex. Not a girlfriend. A plate can become a girlfriend. And a girlfriend can be demoted to plate. “Spinning plates” means you have multiple women you hang out with and see for sex.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:35 AM
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You sound like a stand up dude. A respectable, caring, loving guy (like me) that has a woman who has clearly lost all respect for you. This woman does not appreciate you. The only thing you can do is apply Dread or leave her. Personally, if a woman acted like that to me I would leave her. It would not matter how much the sunk costs would be of previous time and effort you have put towards her. The only way she will respect you is when you divorce her ass for being a piece of shit partner. The re…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 02:45 AM
2

In all seriousness it could be masterbation. When I am fapping I have zero social confidence but about 2 days of not doing it I am highly confident. 10 days in and I am a beast picking up women on the street. Look into NoFap and semen retention.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:22 PM
18

Is he a supreme gentleman?!
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:21 AM
19

RUN front a woman that can not be trusted. You may miss this bitch a lot. Her perfect ass. The way she made you feel when she laughed. But never doubt that you made the right move as soon as your gut told you she was not trustworthy. NEXT!
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 02:58 AM
17

An amazing quote I saw on TRP: “Pussy ain’t water, I don’t need it to survive.”
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 02:56 AM
1

Perfectly fine to plate them just don’t be seen out with them in your social circles of higher SMV women. But go to their house or let them come to yours to hang.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 09:53 PM
1

37 and never been easier.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:59 PM
0

I have 3 others available for sex but this was my shiniest plate. Ready to drop it out the window though if she thinks this is ok behavior
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:54 AM
1

You’re being yourself and not giving two fucks about what people and women think. That’s the way to be man! Being true to who you are. That IS red pill. But Jesus man get in the gym, look like a man at least. You don’t have to look like a meathead but at least the shape of a man is more appealing than a person that’s never seen the inside of the gym. I will note that if you are young you have the advantage here but as you get older more women will want the more “masculine” look. Once you hit mid…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 04:01 AM
3

“You’re interrupting my tan”
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:54 PM
2

I need more hobbies haha. Roger that, will stop wasting time on IG
/r/askTRP22/04/18 06:09 AM
0

She’s got a very public profile since she’s in the entertainment business with over 15k followers. I also follow some cool RP celebs to see their shit. But I don’t use the IG to post anything. I followed her to watch her snap stories and noticed every day the feed was showing her liking a particular buff young dude. Thought it was weird and raised my red flag when I see it every day. She only likes a few photos a day and every day I see his stupid ass. But yes I could walk away if need be.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:24 AM
1

I was in your position when I was young. One woman from 18-26. First LTR. Always was curious about other women. That feeling never goes away until you experience it. And it won’t happen just once. I was curious for years. The truth which you don’t want to hear is that you will need to be single and go sew your oats until you realize what you’re not missing. Took me about 10 years to get it though my system. You will also learn how much other women bring to the table and how much they also do not…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:25 PM
1

I’m a very emotional and loving person and when my grandparents died I did not feel much pain at all. We love them but I don’t think there is enough time we are physically with them to bond and attach like our more personal day to Day relationships.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:39 AM
2

How long did you wait to make it physical? I’ve always thought that if the woman didn’t want sex writhing 3-4 dates she just wasn’t into it
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:44 AM
1

Just low sex drive or do have a hard time getting close to people you date?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 11:19 PM
4

Basically ever message but one has said it’s wrong to send your needy text but you’re going to do it anyway. I know you want closure. You will NEVER get it. And doing this doesn’t give you that AND it shows your weak internally. Don’t send that god damn message. If you want to be done for you then block her number.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:34 PM
4

Do what you want to do, whether that is just being an open mic guy or hitting it big. I did stand up comedy for about two years when I was younger. This was over 10 years ago but I appeared at improv‘s in orange county California. It was scary as fuck and the most nerve-racking thing I’ve ever done. However, the more confidence and experience you have with life gets a little bit easier. I’m sure the experience would be much different today. The interesting thing is the girl that I’m dating now i…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:46 AM
2

We’ve all been thirsty. Fight looking needy and wait for her to come to you. Or at least wait a reasonable amount of time. 48 hours is not reasonable for a high value male that has shit going on.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:35 AM
2

So you’re basically conveying“if you don’t give me a guarantee we can have sex again I’m going to cut my losses.” That’s weak. Stop being such an eager beaver...you sound thirsty. Wait for her to text you and if you don’t hear from her by next week send her a text.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:33 AM
2

“Alpha” that asks if he is alpha enough to have a woman sleep with him 🤣
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:11 PM
3

I usually wait 3-4 days. Hopefully she sends a “I had a good time last night” text. If not then usually she doesn’t have super high interest. That’s when I’ll wait a few days to reach out again to see what our schedules look like
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:50 AM
1

Try to do some meditation, will help you have more self control
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:46 AM
1

When someone talks shit to me I smile and say “ok, yea” kind of like a smart ass. I do this now because I have trained in mixed martial arts and know I can probably put down about 90% of the general population. So I guess it’s confidence knowing that I can take care of myself. Back when I was younger I would have gotten emotional and puffed my chest up. Behind anger is fear. When you are not fearful (deep down) you won’t be getting mad. If you try not to take anything personal (even someone sayi…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:42 AM
1

Losing your temper shows you are weak. So yes, it’s turns the woman off. High testosterone and getting angry is NOT “alpha.” Now if someone came up to you and physically started with you and u mopped them up, that’s a different story. That shows you are a badass. Losing your cool shows you allow people to control your emotions, that is giving someone else power. Never give a away your power. But if they get physical with YOU, then by all means take them down.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 04:29 AM
0

HUMBLE BRAG POST.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:06 PM
0

This woman makes you last priority. That’s all. Sounds like he’s probably having sex with her too. Not definitely but the writing is on the wall. You need to cut your losses. As you get older you learn at what times you need to cut the cord even though you may still be in love with the person. Now it’s your time, get the scissors and find someone you enjoy who makes you an important part of their life, not their boss that may be giving her something extra.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 08:05 PM
6

OPs hamstering is on a level I haven’t ever seen. Makes excuses for everything. OP watch a persons actions. She left and banged another dude and now has buyers remorse. She does love you but you’re both young and she’s going to have her choice of plenty of young cock on her travel time. And it will be so carefree and exciting for her, what young women crave. Improve yourself and build the life you want. Maybe when she comes back you guys can see where it goes from there. Not everything has to ha…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:37 PM
7

Yup, he showed how a man should really act. She may play “upset” but her panties are all wet for sure.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:55 PM
-1

Need more backstory here. Sounds more like she thinks you don’t care about her. Maybe comfort game is off? If she wanted material things she wouldn’t give a shit about you getting flowers. I think she thinks you don’t care about her to put in some sort of effort anymore.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 08:13 PM
1

All of these comments are not accurate. Look up “Avoidant attachment style.”
/r/askTRP03/04/18 02:08 AM
7

I can feel your oneitis all the way down here in Southern California.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 09:52 PM
-9

Vomited your feelings all over her and broke off engagement cause she’s chugged lots of dicks before you? This sounds very weak to me. All women will have a sexual past. What happens next time when you’re with a woman with low notch count but you find old texts or a video of her getting smashed and acting like a little slut but she doesn’t do it for you in the bedroom just like she did with the last guy. Will you break that off too? Either way, I hope you do not regret this down the line after y…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:32 PM
2

Unfortunately not. Oneitis comes from the subconscious. Trying to switch it to something conscious does not work. But the repeated affirmations over time will help remove it from the subconscious to a certain extent.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:20 AM
2

Logically giving her closure makes sense. But not giving closure makes her hamster spin IE attraction towards you go up. So do you want to be nice and give closure because it’s the logical thing for you to do or do you want to retain attraction and give yourself the upper hand? No brained here for me...
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:57 PM
1

Lol sure troll.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:23 PM
0

He didn’t say in particular that he’s not getting laid. If he wants more sex then dump her. But don’t dump her cause she used to be a slut, that’s all I’m saying. The fact that she used to take down a lot of cocks should t change anything. All of the other things like him getting all of HIS needs met is what matters. I am not a fan of marriage to answer the other posters question.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:27 AM
-11

That was all before you. As long as she treats you well and doesn’t seek other male attention who cares? If you’ve got a good one, keep her. All girls by their late 20s have had tons of sausage inside them. I saw a girl I banged a few years ago and she didn’t even remember me. I told her we banged and she said “please don’t tell my fiancé” who was a friend of another friend. If she’s good to him why does it matter that I banged her? You thought you had a special snowflake, in reality you have a …
/r/askTRP30/03/18 02:26 AM
-4

Make sure and choke the chicken 2 hours before you meet up. And good luck!
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:47 AM
1

“You’re a classy broad aren’t you”
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:05 AM
3

I was same height and weight as you. I had to take weight gainer at your age to grow while I lifted heavy 4-5x per week. I’m 37 now and still taking weight gainer to get the extra cals in my bulk stage
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:00 AM
1

Yes attachment styles can help people understand so many relationship dynamics. Glad to help, I wish you all the success in your dating and personal life!
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:43 PM
23

Never reveal your weaknesses to a woman. Cry into your beer with a buddy, but never a woman you are sexual with. You are done with this girl. Not immediately, but subconsciously she now thinks you are weak and will distance herself in the near future. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:50 AM
1

Look up avoidant attachment style. You could just prefer to not want to get close to a romantic partner.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:09 AM
0

Yeah I felt the same way about not knowing if things were headed towards a LTR or just being another one of her “friends”. And like you I stayed for the sex and because she had such a fun personality and an ass like I have never seen before. The only thing that still bothers me is knowing that someone else gets to see that ass now and not me.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 07:54 PM
3

How long did you date yours? I was off and on with mine for a year and a half.i finally had to end it. What’s funny is that the other day a mutual person we know said that it ended because “she’s not ready to settle down and that she needs to figure her shit out.” What’s funny is that I dumped her but this is how she hamsters herself to make her rationalize that she was the one that ended it. Either way, it still sucked because like you said I did all the investing and I knew she did “like” me b…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:37 PM
2

Ain’t this the truth 100%. It blows my mind speaking to other guys who have been through the same thing. If you’re a healthy individual these types of people can make you go mad.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:33 PM
1

This guy is correct. My last Gf had avoidant attachment style and I had to dump her. She will never be able to get close to you. When you are together you will feel great but once she leaves you will get hardly any of her attention. Read the book “avoidant” by jeb kinnison to learn about these types of relationships so you can avoid them at all costs in the future.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 05:47 PM
1

Whenever I have to break it off in this situation before exclusivity is ever mentioned I keep reminding myself that “I don’t owe this person a damn thing.” Be honest and straight forward, they make not “like” what you say but they will always respect you. Last two girls I did this with got all pissed and then realized they couldn’t get what they wanted to kept chasing me about 30-60 days later. She may do that since she is not used to guys breaking it off first.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:56 PM
2

Since you’re not in a LTR you don’t need to end it in person. Wait until she reaches out and say “You’re a great girl and I have so much fun with you when we’re together but I’m not looking for anything serious right now so it’s not a good idea to hang out again.”
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:14 PM
4

Damn you lost emotional control and looked needy AF. Don’t text her. Let her chase you at this point if you haven’t already chased her away
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:47 AM
9

The only thing that will make you get over this is time. You’re attached. Next time don’t give yourself away so easily before they have earned it and even then don’t completely let your guard down. Slamming other women will be fun but it may make you sad also. Booze won’t help. Meditation, time, the gym and healthy choices will make you move forward and back where you need to be. Don’t try to speed things up, it will happen when it’s time. Do not stalk her on any social media and try to avoid se…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:27 AM
1

Haha we gots to show fellow reddit brothers how to shine their best!
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:50 PM
12

You should shave all that off and leave it on trimmer setting 2 so you have even stubble all over your face. Then go to a barber and get an undercut. Hit the tanning bed once twice to get a little bit of color. Go start lifting and target your shoulders and lats. You will look bad ass.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:42 PM
3

She’s lost her attraction for you. She will leave you in the near future, probably already has mentally. Start dreading ASAP and let her know you are looking for her replacement
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:59 PM
1

This happens to me about 20-30 days in. So I intentionally jerk off to reset it and about 6 days later all the benefits are back. That’s what works for me. I generally go 3 weeks of feeling great. I don’t even have the urge then but I start hamstering and reset myself.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:36 AM
1

You called him out on an accident and started drama. Then you pushed him. Bad moves man, lost frame and became emotional. You thought you were being tough but actually looked weak. Take some time off from the group and reconnect later like nothing happened. Stop being a tough guy though.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:34 PM
2

The only bad thing about you is your shitty ass self esteem. Everything you wrote has negative view of yourself. Fix that and you will be fine. Unfortunately that is harder than lifting weights and takes years so better start now.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 07:39 AM
1

You say nothing. You look her in the eye... wink at her and continue to say whatever the fuck you were all talking about.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 09:15 AM
2

I wait 4-7 days and send out a simple text along the lines of "round two this week. What's your schedule like in the evenings?" Do not tell them you had a good time, that's approval pleaser seeking behavior. When she says "I'm free on bla bla" then say "sounds good, drinks at my place on Thursday at 8 then."
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:58 AM
3

Your dates sound like mine. I disagree with the guy above, why would she make out with you and let you grab her ass if she wasn't into you? I feel like she may have felt like you just wanted to bang. That's the only thing I can say because this same scenario has happened to me plenty of last few online dates. Sure I get same night bangs sometimes but al lot of these women I've got to take on 3-4 dates before I can close
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:31 PM
2

You will lose her in the next year. Your response to her showed you are not long term marriage material. She will stay with you now while she mentally checks out slowly to protect herself from being hurt when she branch swings. She will say I love you and have sex with you up until she dumps you. This has happened to me twice. I will never tell a LTR I don't want marriage. It puts you in the box that she doesn't not want.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 03:26 AM
5

No discrimination here. 18-26 is the perfect age for me. I've dated 40 year old women who pull crazier shit than 21 year olds. If they are single post wall then it's most likely for a reason.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 09:52 PM
3

No but your self esteem is shit. I'm 37 and am looking for 18 year old. I feel great about it. Fuck all those suckers who are jealous because my nuts are hanging out of a sweet 18 year olds perfect body.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 09:25 PM
3

Thanks for the responses. The most she will get from me at this point is walking to my door to open it for a drink at my house.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 08:47 PM
1

Can you give an example of how to respond to her? I'm not her safety net. We had the second date lined up and she flaked. I went out instead. She does not know I see her IG.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 11:21 AM
7

You need to be more direct. Asking a girl to hang out is not direct. You need to say: You: Hey, going to xyz movie Thursday at 9, want to go? Her: sure You: cool I'll pick you up at 8:30, what's your address
/r/askTRP17/01/18 02:32 AM
4

Virgin and Chad don't belong in the same sentence except this one.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 02:50 AM
-2

Opinion? Honestly that sucks for her and I hope I don't meet someone with this same sort of outlook towards me. You seem possibly narcissistic and only into what is best for you and you admit you have no feelings and are probably devoid of any feelings. Not the best way to go about life.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 02:40 AM
2

The problem is you're emotionally unavailable. My last GF was like that. Don't be in a relationship with someone unless you can actually care for them emotionally.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 11:56 PM
1

Going back never works. When I was new at this I tried what you did. It failed always. The only way to have a shot is to wait like the other guy said until you actually need to go there a few weeks down the line. Just say "hey what's up" and maybe tell you you got a job somewhere else. Then keep it all in the moment. Do not puss out and before you leave get her number. A script will never work...ever.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 08:11 AM
1

Can you elaborate on how you dreaded her with this young girl? What happened exactly?
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:17 PM
2

It depends what you want out of the relationship. If you think you want to really LTR her then you need to drop some bait that suggests you did not mean you will never get serious with her so her hamster starts spinning and she puts you back in the suitable LTR/husband box. Otherwise if you just want to have your fun with her let it be.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:09 PM
2

Keep this in mind. Everything will be ok for awhile but she will suddenly become cold and dump your ass and most likely branch swing since she knows now you will never move in permanently. Therefore you have moved yourself out of the potential long term partner. This has happened every time that o have done this in an LTR and is inevitable.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:53 PM
10

Damn I remember being as green as you a long time ago. Rationalizing everything. It's black and white here. This woman thinks lying is an acceptable form of communication. She learned this as a child. As much as she loves you she will lie to you. After you get more invested with this woman and she breaks your heart you will be a little more like the rest of us here. At this point you think you are special and this relationship is different. You're a young Jedi, were all obi-wans and Yodas, you'r…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:04 AM
2

Take an MMA class. All your bully fears will subside within 2 months. "Im XYZ pounds bigger than him" isn't shit man. Big guys are slow and uncoordinated 😉 Also, just be cool. Always be cool to everyone until they start shit with you. Then leave them in a coma if need be.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:54 AM
1

Calling him a cuck or beta? Dudes chick is cheating on him and he can woop your ass? Sounds like you're the douche here...
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:52 AM
3

Don't do it. Get a nice pair of boots that give you 3/4-1 inch. That's what I do. I'm 5'10. I find that women are ok with about an inch from shoes but otherwise they will be super turned off and embarrassed
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:37 AM
5

It sounds like she thinks you are sensitive. You got mad she wouldn't give it up and stormed off. She wants to verify if you are or are not a butthurt little bitch. Show her otherwise.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:22 AM
19

You're being the rock, good work.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:06 PM
4

Chas never has it as easy as you think. Maybe he gets lucky but it's not always easy. I do really well with women but still have to work super hard at it. You need to stop being angry, it shows. You probably have a little bit of the nice guy syndrome since you have resentment towards your friend. Once you are in a happy carefree state you will attract a lot more women.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:05 PM
1

Corey Wayne says "do not confirm with women." But my own experience has made me have a different outlook. In your case I always send a text the DAY before "see you tomorrow night at XYZ ✌🏼". It let's them know in case they were busy and forgot that you're meeting up and also isn't right before the date which comes across as unsure or needy.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:07 PM
2

You already know that since she will not be monogamous that you need to leave her. You're heartbroken and know you will be for a long time. You're basically asking how to not be heartbroken. It's too late. You were in a LTR that needs to end, this you will go through immense emotional pain. You're human. I'm going through it right now. I had a woman I was intoxicated with just as mush as your wife...trust me. I'm in pain every day. But I had to end it because I would have been in a lot more pain…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 06:31 AM
3

I fictional man who a woman thinks is masculine,alpha and is sexually wet for.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:52 PM
-5

(While hugging and giving her a kiss) "Hey babe I love you and you're my most favorite girl ever, but tonight I want to just go out with the guys alone for man time. But Friday I'm taking you somewhere special/making you something special (food etc). Love you." Do this a few times and she will be ok whenever you want friend only time as long as you make her feel special too.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:51 PM
4

I find the best way to do this is to flirt and be nice and hand them your business card and say shoot me a text. That way there is no pressure for them to give you their number even if interested because they are AT work. They can put it in their pocket and text you later if there is interest and it doesn't make you look like a creep waiting around if they are not interested and just being nice.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:39 PM
3

"Self esteem" by Matthew McKay on Amazon. Talk about this exactly and diffusing your inner critic. Will change exactly what you are having problems with.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:38 PM
4

Needy AF. You keep telling yourself how you're such a player and you do everything right...but this woman turned you into the woman. Texting her 5 hours later? Then texting again? Man...you had a fun few days. Maybe she has Bf or just enjoyed the fling and is back to reality. You should have waited a week to text her first. She probably would have reached out but now you are in the female roll. Take a step back. Wait for her to get in touch. If she likes you she will reach out.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:58 PM
4

I used to use period tracker lite on iOS. Guys who don't understand why we do this don't understand women
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:49 PM
17

Some girls can't unless it's with masterbation. Why don't you just ask her how she can? I had a girl over the other night and I straight up said "can you come from clitoral stimulation or sex?" She said no only with her vibrator. Haven't even had sex with her yet but found out her favorite positions etc.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 05:22 AM
1

That's Roosh V, the author of BANG not rational male. Roosh is awesome, his website forum is great too. He's 100% accurate in the video on every point.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 02:52 AM
1

This is a strange one for me because I agreed equally with both of your posts.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:52 PM
1

Who said he was attractive, your brain or did it come out of her mouth? She's being loyal since she didn't respond but she knows she has this guy as an option in case you drop the ball or screw up. And by your insecure post here it sounds like that's the path you are going down in the near future.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:15 PM
11

No, ghost until she reaches out. Have standards for yourself and some self respect.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 02:28 AM
7

She's fallen out of love slowly over time and I hate to say it but it's your fault. You changed from the man she fell in love with and turned into a pleaser. You're taking the right steps, go on YouTube right now and look up coach corey Wayne, he has multiple videos that deal with your exact screw up.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 02:00 AM
1

Unless I truly don't care about them I avoid avoid avoid. Even an event I want to go to...nope. Because it sets me back. I do it to protect myself. Some guys here can handle it but I have a hard time unless I don't care about the woman.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:54 AM
2

You say she wasn't a slut and was a good girl etc and have put her on a pedestal. But the truth is that if it was meant to be and she was a good girl then she would be putting in effort. She's probably not because she's talking to other guys at the moment.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:32 AM
1

Man I think the issue is that she is either not that interested or she doesn't want anything serious. Your situation happens to about 75 percent of my plates. They only last a few months. A lot of women these days are not looking to settle down and this is what it seems like to her or she's just lost interest. Luckily for me I've got about 10-12 girls at the moment so I don't get too hung up and the more women you get the more you'll be able to get over it easily.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:27 AM
1

I like your mentality and the way you operate. True RP player right here.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:03 AM
1

How did you screw it up? Need more info. This is the cost of being able to have an emotional connection, they always hurt when they end.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:01 AM
2

I've done more than most guys but the results for me personally have been extraordinary. About 8 years ago I got Invisalign. Now I'm 37 and my face started to get these awful smile lines so I got a filler called sculptra. About 3 months later I started to look more fresh and my face clearly had improved in looks. I also got Dysport which is similar to Botox but looks more natural. That by far is the biggest improvement I've made to my appearance. Every time I get dysport for about 2.5 months gir…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 01:31 AM
1

Not to get off topic here but why do bigger guys think they can fight? Me and my friends all train MMA and every big guy that come into class off the street thinks they can somehow fight but most of them are slow and uncoordinated and get mopped up. Again, just wondering why people think that has to do with being able to defend yourself.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 12:35 AM
6

Time to eject. That's disrespectful to you and if she loved you she would not communicate with this f buddy.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 02:46 PM
4

This dude speaks truth. This is spot on. Well done my man 👌
/r/askTRP08/12/17 07:05 AM
1

Roger that, will proceed as advised, thanks!
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:25 PM
11

Only place I think you went wrong was paying for her cab ride and sending more than one message to confirm. What I saw was you had a date and were looking forward to another one. You met a flake (99%) and got butt hurt. Am I wrong somewhere?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:25 AM
0

I much rather prefer LTR sex and I've bedded over 100 fine women. Casual sex is empty. I'm looking for good LTR to get back to that passionate raw sex every time i want it
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:37 AM
2

These deep wounds are for therapists analysis. You could be avoidant. And a bunch of other things by this trauma. No side bar will fix these deep seated issues. You need inner therapy and a proper diagnosis to help fix your issues. You're just like everyone else with their own baggage, it's just yours is limiting you more. Seek proper help man and keep learning.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 04:10 AM
4

I'm so glad to read this and see how you handled the situation like a man. Well done sir!
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:41 PM
5

You are both very insecure and also a little full of yourself. But, the reason you can't LTR is you're not giving enough of a comfort vibe. Women also want to know that a man really cares about them and doesn't just want them as a warm hole.
/r/askTRP29/11/17 08:09 PM
0

"DIRTY GIRL, WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT SEX ALL THE TIME"
/r/askTRP29/11/17 01:01 AM
1

That's a good way as well to deal with it
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:37 PM
1

This answer displays butt-hurtedness and jealousy.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:36 PM
2

An honest women will tell you that to be upfront with you. Don't act upset or jealous or punish her. The problem would be if he passed her a not and she flirted and did not tell you about it. Be playful with her.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 06:36 PM
3

In a new country and fit? You're in the best spot ever man. Don't forget that. Flip your thinking.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 11:08 PM
1

You missed my point. When someone tells you "something bad happened, I got roofied last night." Under normal healthy human interaction you would believe them and say "wow that sucks, are you ok?" But we all knew underneath that based on all of the factors it was a load of crap. That was my point. If you walk around assuming everyone is always lying then you will have quite a miserable future to look forward to.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 02:36 AM
10

It's interesting that logically her story makes sense but EVERY GUY IN THIS THREAD has his spidery sense saying "danger danger"! We all know what happened. Anyway, at this point in my life I would not get serious with a woman that goes out to bars with her girlfriend and goes to concerts and backstage to see her guy friends band. Been there done that all these women are headaches.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 05:18 PM
6

Alpha is being fearless and going for what you want. Marching to the beat of your own drum. You can do this and also respect and care about women. Treat women with love and respect. But when they cross your boundary or aren't showing you the respect you demand then walk the F out of their life and don't look back. Don't argue, don't try to get even. Just leave. Show with everything you do through your actions, not wordS. Also, it's completely totally normal to feel like you've had your heart rip…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:38 AM
30

I've done this to a few women on tinder dates but for fun. About 30 seconds before my cab drops me off I tell them I have gained a lot of weight and I don't look like the photos but hope we can still have a good time. One chick even wrote "you're buying drinks until you look good then" . I always thought it was fun because when I walk through the door seeing them on their phone with a creeped out look is always a great ice breaker. Hasn't not worked out yet...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:52 PM
0

"Hi honey, what are you upto...want to come over?"
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:54 PM
4

I feel for you man, you're going to be going through a lot of pain and second guessing yourself a lot. I disagree with this "bang 10 other chicks" mentality. Only because that's what I did my last 3 LTRs at the end. It was fun for the moment of orgasm but I never felt so empty going from loving someone to shagging a sloot in the bathroom of a bar. I banged out dozens and dozens of hot skanky women and it only set me back. My advice (if you're like me) would be to take a lot of time to yourself a…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:52 PM
-1

You're such a masculine successful red piller that you're calling out names and using physical appearance to try to make your point. I would love to see what your status is in real life, it is probably fairly close to incel status. I highly doubt you have had any amount of success with women. You make me laugh. 🤣
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:17 AM
1

Haha that made me laugh. Nice one. Being an abrasive ass does not make you RP or masculine but I appreciate the effort.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 12:48 AM
0

This is the typical RP champion that I like to avoid. Bravo, I knew you would show up! The fact that your basis of judging masculinity comes from external factors like dress and weight and physical attributes shows that you do not know what your even remotely talking about.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 12:17 AM
0

21 convention videos are the best. The best video ever is the video by Socrates where he talks about relationships. Much better than TRP because most people lurking here don't have much success with women and are angry and bitter who will give bad advice like "AWALT!" "Never get feelings for a woman", "always spin multiple plates on the side!" Etc. This is complete garbage to me. There are some great lessons to be learned here like attraction and setting boundaries but over half of it is nonsens…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:57 PM
1

Yes, I understand you are extremely broke and only have enough money to feed yourself. I get it. You missed my whole point about that's how I was until I was a little bit older and started my own business. Why don't you do something to make extra money on the side? That's what I was implying.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:22 PM
1

You don't say your age, how old are you? Under 30? I felt this way until 26. My hands were tied. Until I started to make a little bit of money. Then some freedom. Then you really get to work on and improve yourself. Life gets better, not worse. Here I am at 37 just now starting to understand it. Your main thing you need to work on is saving some money. Then you can go get treatment for your voices with plant medicine, it will change your life. Ayahuasca or Iboga, look them up. You've lost yourse…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 09:28 AM
0

Dude. WTF. Don't be a sh!tty human.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:26 AM
1

They definitely are not going to be mad at you when you drop her like a piece of hot garbage. Because they like her.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:08 AM
1

Yea, return her stuff and that's that. What drives women nuts the most is a ghost out of nowhere. You have permission to engage in full ghost, proceed with mission and do not deviate.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:06 AM
1

Beta orbiters do not show up and start fights.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:05 AM
1

And chill out with the gun stuff man, don't be a stupid ass but hurt tough guy with a gun. Chill out and stope being so emotional over people who don't matter.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:03 AM
1

Save any evidence you have where she is friendly to you so you can prove that's not how a rape victim treats her rapist and then cut her off cold turkey. Disappear from her life. Don't be violent or even mad at all. Just move on. She's a plate, break it and find a new one.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 05:02 AM
2

I did Invisalign. Cost at the time (7 years ago) was 5K. Best decision I made. Got rid of a gap in my 2 front teeth. They don't work as good as normal braces but when I would have a date or go out I would take them off. I stopped wearing the retainer and they shifted and are not perfect anymore but they look pretty good. If you can be a recluse get normal braces but if you want to freedom of being able to take them off when you go out etc then get Invisalign.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 07:05 PM
3

I live in Los Angeles too, I've realized over the last decade that 99% of actors are insecure and narcissistic. What has been your experience?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 11:29 PM
13

Isn't Dan B an insecure man who pays for friends? He has flashy cars and does things for attention. I don't think he's alpha, I think he's narcissistic and rich. And about the incel comment, I agree. However there ARE things they can do to improve their looks, just like a women does to be attractive. I hung out in the incel sub and got banned. I went there for comedy. If I looked like an incel I would get a chin implant, do some cycles of steroids and lift. Make myself the most appealing that I …
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:44 AM
37

I meant that sometimes taking TRP too literal all the time can not always work out. It can be easy to apply it and come off as a non-caring cold man. There is an abundance of hard line RP attitude I see too much on here about AWALT and "next that bioch!" You may even see it when people read this post and downvote or make negative comments. There is some great advice here but I also fee like there is more bad advice. You never know who's writing this stuff, it could be a 21 year old incel who has…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:11 AM
55

Taking it too literal and not applying on a case by case basis. Too many "rigid" views rather than one of boundaries while having compassion.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:29 AM
2

Yes on rare occasions but I catch myself doing it and make it short but positive and change the subject. Sometimes if you've been with someone for years and your telling stories it's hard to not include them. But I will never ever just bring up and ex. It's usually intertwined somehow in a story I'm telling.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:27 AM
6

Saved this post, thank you so much for these. One of them hit a nerve personally and helped give more clarity to my situation.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 08:38 PM
1

In the book "no more mr nice guy," the solution for this is to forge strong MALE relationships and support groups with males that you always make time for. Make the men your source of connection and you will not fall into this trap. I have always fallen in so my next relationship I'm going to try this.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 06:07 PM
5

Don't turn into Elliot Rodger, you sound a little like him. I would recommend reading "no more mr nice guy", your life will change and you will meet more women. You have been trying to get the approval of women by all these things you do and now you're butt hurt.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 10:34 PM
5

Last girl I dated told me she had a 3 some. I could never look at her the same.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 07:26 PM
4

Only thing I noticed was that you dress like a 16 year old would. Get some nice fitting clothes and smile and you should do fine. Easy for others to say you're not attractive, you're just fine to pull some ass.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:20 AM
14

She's lost attraction. That's a hard one and I've never really come out of that back to normal so I'm interested in hearing what others say. Often times this is when I have ended things. But I would guess the correct move is dread or somehow letting her know you have needs and you need to have them met or else
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:17 AM
-10

What's the issue with paying? If I ask a girl out first I pay. I'm also not worried about money and enjoy having a good time. I think you turned her off and looked cheap instead of "alpha" which is maybe why you did not want to pay?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 09:42 PM
1

Crying for me helps me move forward fast and feel normal. I always do it by myself, privately in my home.it helps not hold shit in and be angry.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:43 AM
2

You're the kind of guy I would want to be friends with. Keep your head up brother.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 05:42 AM
31

I had to cut off the woman I wanted it to work out with so bad because she did not treat me properly. I went to her house and broke it off with her in 2 minutes. I did not let it turn into a discussion. When I was done telling her, she got one sentence out and I said "ok" and gave her a hug and walked out. I told her at the beginning that I loved her but she wasn't meeting my needs. Anyway, doing it in this loving manner was the best way I have ever ended it and it also doesn't let her be mad at…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 08:01 PM
2

Never respond seriously to her frustration. You should have said "I know you can't talk to ma anymore tonight cause I'll be at work making money 🤣" Shows her you still care about her but aren't buying into her shit
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:11 PM
5

You're wrong. Because the last girl I dated I saw first hand attracted to two guys that were not good looking but because they were confident and didn't give a shit what they said. I saw her panties get wet over it. I dumped her but that's another story. Also, my first GF who is a 10/10 on looks married a guy who is honestly very homely looking, maybe a 3 on looks scale. But whatever they are happy so good for them. Maybe it's the type of girls you like. I have some girls that only date "super h…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 05:23 AM
6

You are butt hurt because you're using the facts that you may not have good looks and saying that because of that you are unsuccessful with women. You're wrong. Want to know how I know this? Because I am a great looking guy and I have a good physique as well and my whole life I was never good with women until I got confidence. Now I get many women.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:59 AM
19

I think the OP is spot on with this. Over and over I'm told this is what makes me more attractive with women I'm dating compared to other men.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 04:30 AM
52

Thank god there is a great response as this one on here.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 10:30 PM
1

The title of todays video newsletter is...
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:07 AM
2

She's the guy, you're the girl. You're very insecure. That's why she didn't respond.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 05:06 AM
17

If you didn't get knocked out you're good. Showed her you will stand up to protect her. So you're good. But next time, you don't put your hands on someone unless you're ready to take them out. That's what we learn in martial arts. Avoid and distract until you know you're in the shit and then kill them easily and as fast as possible.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:44 PM
4

She's going to leave you because you make her feel like shit. Most self proclaimed "red pillers" will tell you to dump that bitch! Be a little nicer to her. She's warning you she's not happy. It's good you can stick up for what you want but you can easily take it too far. Don't be a doormat but don't be cold either which is what it looks like in this case.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:40 PM
3

Yes, that's it. Go for the quality and not quantity
/r/askTRP23/09/17 08:15 PM
15

This happened to me. I was single until last week for 3 years. It was 3 years of "having fun" which wasn't all that fun. Random sex, lots of dates, etc but zero bonding or feelings at all. Somehow I met one girl that I became close to over a year and got in a LTR with her last week and sex is so much more meaningful. I've been with over a hundred women probably but I prefer a comitted relationship with one person I care about. You seem like that's what you want too. I think the best word of advi…
/r/askTRP23/09/17 07:00 PM
1

"It looked interesting honey, I only read the first two haptersnso far and got tired. Is it good or one star?"
/r/askTRP23/09/17 05:08 AM
3

Hahahahaha this
/r/askTRP21/09/17 11:39 PM
4

There's always someone richer, better looking and smarter. Live YOUR life. Stop comparing. Be your best.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:04 PM
2

My brother did a boot camp with them a few weeks ago. I thought it was a complete waste of money but it actually pushed him through his comfort zone and for the first time I've seen him just talk to girls on the street. So it was worth it for him. After seeing him I've thought about doing one myself so no it's not bullshit.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 06:27 PM
4

I assume the reason she ghosted was you made her not feel comfortable. The proper way would have been to say "cool, what's your schedule like to meet up?" Then when she gets back to you meet her at the location and escalate from there. If I was her and a guy said "what's your address" my creep alert would go off and I would fear for my safety. Send her a text the next time you have something social going on wth friends that is super fun and say "hey me and my friends are _____, you should join a…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 09:14 PM
2

Love the shit out of her and never let her down. Always be her rock and someone she can be honest and open with.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 05:39 AM
1

Sounds like he might be a cool guy to you just busting your balls in front of people cause you're younger. Maybe don't be so sensitive but bust his balls right back in front of them. That's what I would do, oh...and also try to bang the married woman
/r/askTRP16/09/17 05:13 PM
2

If she drove an hour and was in traffic i would have waited for her.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 04:16 AM
13

Hey dude. I was like this for 3.5 years. Countless women. There was only one I met awhile ago where I had any emotional connection with. The special ones take years. Don't look to fill the void, just have fun with all these chicks and one will somehow come into your presence when the time is right.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 03:56 AM
1

Then why don't these women want to get into anything serious with me? I've been red pill for the last 3 years. Couldn't catch feelings if i tried. None wanted to have anything serious with chad. I want to get a chick and have a real relationship now.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 11:10 PM
0

Thank you for your post, I'm going to get my funds squared away and pull an Andre
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:55 PM
2

All I know is that I act pretty alpha and RP in general and can have my pick of feminine and masculine gay men. So I think it would work for you.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 05:33 AM
10

She's getting anxious about you and regrets it. You must do NOTHING until she reaches a point where she must talk to you about it. Keep showing on social media etc that you have many options etc and it may help speed up the process. When you meet up don't give in quickly and tell her you can start off taking things slow and see where it goes but don't want a label. Then you can bang her on the regular with other side pieces.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:11 PM
1

I know I have a good casual sex thing with her. I don't mind that with other plates. But this girl has a hold on me, she consumes my mind and thoughts constantly. That's why I wanted to tell her it's not working out if she doesn't want to date exclusivly after 8 months. So I can go cold turkey and move forward. I just didn't know the proper way to tell her so I retain my "illusion" that I have some power here and don't seem like a needy dude that is waiting around for her
/r/askTRP07/09/17 09:50 PM
3

This is one time. I think you should chill out and maybe plan a hotel date somewhere where you two can go have fun and end it with some animal sex hanging from the chandelier. That might kick start your hearts.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:21 AM
1

You're right. But I don't want to threaten to leave her if she doesn't want to commit to only me. I actually want to leave her if she won't because it's hard for me to focus on building a relationship with another girl because I'm fixated on her. If I knew it would never go there then I could just go no contact and move on. Yes I want to be in a relationship with her and I am having sex with her now but I feel like I'm a low priority to her. I don't act needy or anything, I always let her text m…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 04:54 AM
1

I love your advice, so can you give me some? Been dating a girl for 9 months, I don't think she wants to be exclusive and I'm throwing in the towel on Saturday when I see her. I was going to ask her what her expectations and goals are with her and I dating. If she doesn't want to LTR up, what should I say? I was going to say "great, you're an awesome girl and I have tons of fun with you but I'm looking for xyz so if that isn't what you want as well then we need to stop seeing each other." What d…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:29 PM
3

I did and it was great. She cheated on me and it took over a year to get over her. She was a musician and I went no contact and so did she for like 2.5 years. One night I was drunk taking a bath and I text her if she was still doing vocal lessons because I was going to refer her. Then a few texts later I asked what she was upto that night. I ended up going to her house and fucking her really good. The sex was great. Then I got up and left and she said "you're going to leave already?" I never tal…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 11:45 PM
26

Alpha side? Nothing about you is alpha. You've put this girl on a pedestal. She's going to ditch you soon for acting like a little bitch. Hate to break it to you but you need to man up.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:55 PM
1

Haha. You're such a little bitch. The only reason why this forum sucks is because there are little bitches like you trying to give advice.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 08:21 AM
0

I am angry. And I'm texting other plates. But that doesn't help. I can deadlift a lot and pull ransoms hoes any day of the week, please give some helpful feedback
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:34 AM
0

I'm not new to this "man." If you knew about psychology you would understand that people that have an insecure atttachement get more butt hurt about partners leaving them. Don't be a dick and tell me to just read the sidebar? I need some positive support right now.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 06:15 AM
0

Today, I have officially stopped giving a fuck about everyone. I've never felt better. The biggest asshole has been born and I can't wait to share it with every dummy slut that ever contacts me.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 05:44 AM
2

What if he wants her to stop fucking other guys and take it to the next level? After so long if he's not getting that shouldn't he make her shit or get off of the pot?
/r/askTRP02/09/17 03:35 AM
4

Ghost, no sex. Cut your losses with this one, she doesn't deserve your time.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 02:01 AM
-2

She was chasing me as far as texting, she would initiate, not me. We fuck when we hang out. But then she tells others I'm a friend and she has all these other guy friends. I feel like she'll play this game forever. The reason I wanted to say "heard you're calling me a friend" is so that she can clarify how she feels which will help me move on without her if it's not what I want to hear. You think I should just back off and let her fuck with my head for another 6 months?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:31 AM
1

Yes, sadly I would like there to be more and to just date her only and vice Versa. So I've got to have the talk or just break it off right?
/r/askTRP31/08/17 05:18 AM
1

Trying to come off? No. I have side chicks. But I am not into them. And yes I work with her but not directly. I only see her at work about every two weeks or so for a minute or two. And yes, I think she has side dicks but she called me her friend to someone else even though I told her I won't be her friend. We bang so having told her that I'm surprised she's telling others we're just friends.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 04:49 AM
6

Yea I think it was a beta trying to bribe a trip for sex. But apologizing after made him BetaMax.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 11:24 PM
5

I just took a girl to Vegas for one night. She's not my girlfriend. I probably spent about 1K. (I wanted to go have fun) I fucked her 5 times and we had a lot of fun. Was that wrong by your statement? Or because he didn't close and apologized?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 10:42 PM
3

I'm 5'9. Confident AS FUCK I say "MY HEIGHT IS AMAZING". That's the end of my conversation about that. I act like I have more important shot to talk about and so should she.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 12:59 AM
6

Jesus man, you don't just show up at the door with a hotter girl. Wtf were you thinking. Let her do the legwork so it's green light for her.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:22 AM
5

They are part of her life man. Be cool or your ass will be in the box too.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:43 PM
2

I would wait to hear from her unless it's been a week since this happened. If she hasn't contacted you in a week then I would get in touch with her and try to set the next date. Keep all conversations fun and light and not serious. You got it, girls just want to have fun.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 08:27 AM
20

Wow man you turned this into something all serious which turned her off. Especially so early where you don't owe her that talk. I would have said "I'm open to see where things go, you're a fun girl so let's not complicate it so early." And proceed to bang. But you got all logical. You turned it into this serious talk. Bad move!
/r/askTRP24/08/17 05:29 AM
4

Sorry dude. One thing I have learned is that if I haven't watched the newest episode yet, i stay off the Internet.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:13 PM
1

Even John Snow has now bent the knee :(
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:13 PM
4

All this time and effort wasted for a girl you can't bang. Move on beta.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:13 AM
3

Too baggy man. Need a more slim fit shirt. And your pants are super baggy too. Go to ZARA, you will find clothes that fit your body better
/r/askTRP21/08/17 08:11 PM
1

God damn I would love it if I went up to a girl and her date saw and left haha! Anyway, I do this shit too so don't feel bad. But I would say you screwed up, don't reach out to her. If she hits you up be super cool and set up a date immediately and don't do this shit again
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:52 PM
8

Good luck man, you sound like a good dude
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:32 PM
14

You did the same thing that I did in my last LTR of 4 years. Then she went to another state and fucked a hippie dude (opposite of me) and popped out a kid and now they are a dirty married hippie couple. My point is, I've been there. When they lose attraction for you because we stop being a man and stop putting ourself first they move on to someone else. Her new relationship will not work. Even though you didn't admit it you want her back. I understand. You're not blue pill or puss because of tha…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:22 PM
65

If she did this, you lost her a long time ago, before she planned the trip. Sorry to hear about this bud.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 07:31 PM
2

One thing I don't agree with within the whole RED PILL universe is "telling" a woman what to do. I lead, don't tell. And I always ask a woman to hang out or join. I've lost so many women by telling them what to do like a cave man and have found that only women with low self esteem or confidence are submissive to it. Even though I take control and lead as an alpha I say "want to go to xyz with me on friday @8?". If they don't want to I take someone else. Me telling her I am taking here there won'…
/r/askTRP19/08/17 02:04 AM
5

Own it. Be proud. You're bad ass. Fuck those kids. Literally.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 05:37 PM
2

Seriously! But I have been this guy before so I know what it feels like. Hard to not lose your shit when you meet one you fancy more than the other scallywags
/r/askTRP15/08/17 08:32 PM
1

It's all psychological from when you were raised by your mother as an infant. How you attach to people, that's what I meant. There's no easy solution.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:38 PM
7

Jesus buddy if she was running away after the L word I'm sure she's started sprinting and hopped on a jet after that last text.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:07 PM
1

Hey bud, I was the same way. You have low self esteem. The great thing is, is that you can fix it. Because I did. There's a good book you should read that will help understand this better and help you move forward, it helped me quite a bit. I had to do A lot of other things on top of that as well, but it's a good start. Book: self esteem by Matthew McKay
/r/askTRP15/08/17 08:06 AM
1

How does friend zone feel? Nothing red pill about that.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:12 AM
2

There's no easy way because like yourself, I've struggled with this my whole life. It comes from how we were raised within first two years of life. It will take lots of therapy (can be self help, doesn't mean paid in chair therapy). I've gotten much better myself but it's still a bitch. There's no easy answer, you will just need to work on yourself over time
/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:58 AM
-1

You call your woman a worthless whore? What's red pill about that?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 03:05 AM
2

It's not needy to ask them. A man is supposed to lead. Offer a hang out and if they are interested they will accept. If not then you go about your business.
/r/askTRP15/08/17 03:04 AM
1

The beach and weekends at a hotel pool
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:09 PM
32

Probably the truth. Just know that when she finds a shiny new toy she's going to flake on you last minute. This girl has no respect for other people besides what is most important to her currently
/r/askTRP14/08/17 01:35 AM
9

How about some constructive criticism here? No reason to be an asshole
/r/askTRP13/08/17 06:41 AM
3

I agree. But what to do about this situation? Do I shut the fuck up? Or say "why do you feel like it's cool to say that in my face?"
/r/askTRP12/08/17 08:16 AM
3

Join the club bro. I'm in the same boat. All we can do it stay strong, and keep spinning plates and find a better one. I heard mine tonight talking with her gay guy friend about a guy that was coming to meet up with them they were fighting to take home last time and she said "I win" and they laughed.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 07:39 AM
1

You need a lawyer buddy. Fast.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:46 PM
2

Bro, in this day and age you are severely retarded to keep having sex with any woman that even utters "no" or "stop." And you have even admitted on the Internet as evidence she told you to stop. I'm done here but it seems that you think nothing is going to happen to you. I would lawyer up immediately, this is no joke. I foresee an orange jumpsuit in your near future. That sucks.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:44 PM
1

A girl mumbles something, tells you to stop fucking her and you don't? Congratulations, you have technically raped her. You're going to be in jail soon, that sucks. "No. Stop. No more!" - that means stop. Damn, way to throw your life away to bust a nut.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:36 PM
3

Delete this troll
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:20 PM
2

Awalt, at least she's honest
/r/askTRP11/08/17 09:19 PM
1

Nice work at the gym! How big are you getting for reference? Can you pm me a photo for reference of some other dude so this doesn't seem homo? I've noticed I'm getting more attention too and don't know how big I want to get
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:10 PM
16

You are being cheated on. She has lost interest in you. Be a man and leave her. Your daughter needs to see her dad in a happy relationship with someone else so she learns what love is. Not some shitty one where dad is being cheated on where everyone is miserable around the house. Set a proper example that when things aren't good to improve them.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 05:56 AM
1

Man you sound like a real asshole.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 06:02 PM
5

Sluts aren't going to make you feel better long term or internally. Best way to get over it is to try to stop looking at at and give yourself time and keep trying to improve yourslef
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:24 PM
1

I get this from one of my plates. Also looking to hear thoughts on this one. My plate says "bro" to me on text and speaks like this guy says, as if she's a guy talking to another guy. Still smashing it with her every week or so but it's weird.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 08:26 AM
1

We are still dating on and off. She doesn't want to commit. It really sucks. Easier for you because you just like this girl and have not had sex with her. Once you start hooking up is when things can go south
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:01 PM
4

I've been on and off with a girl from work for a year. When she turned into my oneitis but wouldn't commit it turned into pure hell. Don't do what I did and catch feelings and you'll be fine
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:34 PM
1

In understand. I'm not trying to give false hope. Good you need to move on but she will reach out at some point. Just be ready in case that happens
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:20 AM
1

You're not completely screwed. I've had all women come back. But you need to be prepared or you're gonna screw it up
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:18 AM
1

You can pm me if you want some tips. I've got some good style and am good at giving guys helpful advice
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:37 AM
2

Jesus man you screwed the pooch with this one. You vomited your feelings all over her. She sees you're weak. Weak internally. You need to look up corey Wayne on YouTube to learn how to deal with these situations.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:28 AM
2

I actually think you handled this well. Here's the thing...the most powerful you can be is to not let any people be able to have any control over your emotion. Nothing can make you mad. That's real power. However, to answer your question, take some MMA classes. I trained for a year and it made the way I deal with people completely different. What I would have done is looked at him in the eye until he looked away like I was going to murder him and then send his soul to hell. I would have said not…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:22 AM
2

I did it. It's a long process. Not hard, but long. I read countless books. Over and over. Did therapy. What I found worked really well was hypnotherapy. You can find some good hypnotherapy lessons on YouTube about confidence.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:16 AM
0

"She's cute." Then don't talk about it any more.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:11 AM
1

You said you cut off contact, how did she relay that info to you? Did you text her? Or did she text you randomly and tell you that? She's fishing to see that you're still into her. It's a shot test but one where you will stay in friendzone if you show you are into her. I would respond with something smart-ass like and let it go.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:10 AM
2

Don't tell her. You will lose her. Thought about doing this myself but I've heard there can be chronic ball pain afterwords that is unbearable. Have you looked into that??
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:46 AM
0

My post has 30 upvotes. Clearly the exact communication may need to be different but the general idea is the same. He needs to get out immediately.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 01:17 AM
12

Great advice here
/r/askTRP06/08/17 08:00 PM
34

GET THE FUCK OUT. You are not acting like a man. GET THE FUCK OUT NOW. Tell your kids you love them but their mom has done things and you can not be together with her anymore. GET THE FUCK OUT NOW IMMEDIATELY. You or her need to pack your shit and be out by 9 am tomorrow.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:50 PM
-1

"WELL IM NOT BLUE."
/r/askTRP06/08/17 07:00 PM
1

You would lose your money. I've got about 6 other girls at the current moment but I don't feel anything for them and could care less if they are around or not. It's because of my oneitis. :/
/r/askTRP06/08/17 06:20 PM
1

I understand she would have been shit company. But this rubs me the wrong way because when I make plans I keep them and don't get shitfaced the night before so they get ruined. I guess deep down it shows that she does not value my time which is what has gotten beneath my skin. Perhaps I may be to hyper-aware and judgemental of people's actions.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 08:25 AM
0

She's a plate that I have oneitis for. We have a good time so wanted to take it further.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 05:54 AM
22

So basically you guys were paying for drinks for a girl giving attention to Chad and he starts grinding the girl so you start a fight? Sounds pretty beta to me. Fights are not cool. They are not manly. I practice MMA and know that when you get in a fight you can get yourself or someone else killed. Bad move man. Not cool. Pick on the wrong dude and you'll go home and will be on an applesauce diet for 6 months with your mouth wired shut.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 05:38 AM
2

Don't be sorry. You didn't do anything wrong. Don't apologize, just tell her you really like this girl.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 07:58 PM
1

How old are you if you don't mind me asking. I've been in LA and involved with movies since 2006. What I've learned is that this is a young persons game. The only successful actors I know started in their mid to late teens.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 05:11 PM
2

It's because women are attracted to men and the way that they act. Obviously on the outside they will give more leniency to a guy that is tall, fit, good looking, successful. Etc. But bottom line, they would rather take a guy who is 5 foot nine and extremely secure in himself, then a good-looking dude who is 6 foot five but insecure.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 06:40 AM
1

Bitter AVERAGE FRUSTRATED CHUMP.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 06:03 AM
1

Hey bro. Hit me up, I can give you some pointers. I've got a photo of me from 3 years ago, scrawny with zits while my GF was cheating on me. Now I'm fit, bad ass and having sex with about 6-8 woman at any particular time. Surely you could at least do half of what I've done if you have a decent amount of willpower. Don't turn into an AFC.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 05:47 AM
2

Your generation is full of men raised by women who only use social media to communicate. That's why. In my day people were making out in the back of class and sending notes to one another about making out after class. Your mates are busy DMing and trying to get more followers. That sucks.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 07:33 AM
1

Why do you want to kill someone with your bare hands?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:07 AM
1

Update: so last night she came over and told me all about her trip. She said she is moving to France in march now. I played it cool and we needed up having great sex. We had a great time again laughing, teasing, sex etc...it always feels special for some reason with this girl. Anyway, she left last night and I did not reach out to her today and she did not either. Should I not text her at this point and just wait for her to hit me up? Or should I wait for her a few days and reach out to her?
/r/askTRP01/08/17 05:03 AM
3

Wondering why you told her that the heels looked good on the other woman instead of "those would look good on you."? If a woman told me that I would be thinking "wtf."
/r/askTRP01/08/17 01:39 AM
5

Wow. What's red pill about this? You sound like a controlling piece of shit. Did you honestly tell your woman you're not a fan of sluts who go out? And you want to not let her do things while you want to take a trip with girls and fuck them? You're in the wrong forum.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 12:11 AM
2

She said "you were my best friend and I want to catch up." If you meet up you're in friend zone unless you tell her you are not interested in meeting up if she's only interested in friendship.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:23 PM
1

Seems to me you are confusing "macho" with alpha. All of these things you are aware of doing. But you also think "nothing will probably happen" with a woman. When I was trying to "be" alpha I noticed I was acting macho. "It makes me feel like a man!" Now I don't act macho at all. But my state of mind is "I live for myself and answer it no one." Alpha is a state of mind. Not being big. Not a deep voice. Not telling a woman you are going to leave for awhile to be alone. Don't get me wrong, those a…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 08:26 AM
6

I agree with what the first guy said. You're super blue pill while she's chasing chad. Your girl treats you like a second class citizen and is hanging out with a guy she was in love with over you. How much more clear can it be to you. I'm not sure I've ever read a post on here that stinks of such desperation. This is a wake up call, man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:52 AM
1

We've all done it. "Get a hold of yourself man!" - forgot the film that was from
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:40 AM
5

The only thing I see from this WHOLE post is how much you are fantasizing and making things up in your head to see them as you want to or don't want to see them to play into your internal reflection of yourself. Stop thinking so much. Just make the right plays when she reaches out and respond correctly and let shit happen whatever way it naturally does.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:37 AM
5

She's being extremely disrespectful of you. She's treating you like gum on her shoe. You have done things that have made her lose attraction. You need to read between the lines of what she says to fix it or she will leave you. I'm sure you will get a lot of "next that bitch" but it's up to you to think about what you want long term. My interpretation is that you don't follow through with things you say you will do. Like go on vacation. You must be doing a lot of things and are not completely sur…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 03:13 AM
2

Nicely done. What I find most interesting is that the dynamic switched to almost like a father talking to his bratty daughter. I think that's why she submitted to you. She was calling all the shots until daddy said "no more" and she realized who the power lies with. Anyone else see how interesting this is??
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 05:24 PM
0

I agree you should have got it before but it's too late. Anyway, I would just tease her and say something like "my keyboard is out of batteries so it took me 10 minutes trying to keep turning it on to write to you. I'm not sure I can put in more effort than that haha"
/r/askTRP27/07/17 05:19 AM
2

Yup, I can relate. I know that after I bang a girl I don't want to have to spend time with her usually. If she's still fun and I want her around she's a keeper
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:00 AM
5

It sounds like you like her but you also said you aren't turned on with sex. So there is only one option. Tell her you understand but are not interested in a commitment at this time and you understand she needs to go find someone that is looking for the same thing.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:39 AM
2

The same girl or 2 different girls? My take is that if it's the same girl people will assume you're dating and getting more serious with that girl. If it's two different girls it just looks to me like you are out dating girls and are looking for a girlfriend. I would stick to method one and that way any girl tagging you has a positive effect on your SMV
/r/askTRP27/07/17 12:11 AM
4

I think there are two different ways to go about this: 1: when women tag you in the picture. It shows you are a ladies man that has a lot of options. Not sure how this will or will not make you more attractive. This is the method I use sometimes. I have a girl take a photo or I do and send it to them and I say "if you post that tag me in it." 2: you post images of you out with women. It makes you look like your saying "look at all these girls I can get". It looks a little thirsty to me. When I s…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 11:40 PM
2

You can absolutely get back and have sex with her. Just don't fool yourself into thinking she is relationship material and that she's not fucking other guys like before. Hang out and hook up with her but do not let your feelings get involved with her at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:09 PM
1

I would wait for her to reach out to you and do not contact her. If she does reach out then send 3-4 playful messages back and forth and then set up a time to hang out or date. You may or may not hear from this girl again. Probably so though. Give her some space to think about the fun time and sex she had with you. Bad memories seem to fade. Work on yourself to be ready if she comes back in the picture.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 09:28 AM
6

It makes me chuckle when I read stuff like this. "Was alpha." Then later on "Was alpha." Tells woman to not ask him again. Then he acts needy and apologizes. Then you get all dramatic and say maybe we can make it happen later on. You don't even know this girl. You only had sex and hung out a few times. To her this sounds absolutely psycho. You have a lot to learn young Jedi. Your whole "alpha" thing is an act. Deep down inside you are uncertain and needy. It's ok. That's how I used to be from ch…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:00 AM
30

I'm with this guy. They have more superpowers than the Marvel heros combined.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 09:16 AM
2

I believe that's a lie. You will never be the best at sex. Or the most attractive. Or the most in shape. There's always someone better. And women have the best sex with guys they are most in love with I.E. attraction. Not on an orgasm or physical level but mental. And my main point was their emotions change. So you can have that amazing connection with someone and have the great close sex but at some point she will leave you. That's the cold hard truth. It's hard for me to break the attachment s…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:10 AM
6

What OP is saying is that sex is better when you have and EMOTIONAL connection with someone. And I agree. But here's why I am trying to stop having emotions. It's because these hoes ain't loyal no matter what. And they will bury you after you've caught feelings and they move on. This is why men kill people and kill themselves. Cause they get emotional over a women and can't get over it.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:15 AM
2

This is not a friend. It's blatant disrespect towards you and can not be tolerated. Don't say anything to her but handle it with him. When she brings it up just tell her that you handled it.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:36 AM
6

Two RED flags. Kiss on the cheek. And passive aggression with the text. Don't reach out to her and if she contacts you invite her over for drinks and flick at your place. Don't put more effort into it than that.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 01:10 AM
0

I know you read a lot of stuff on here that implies red pill and alpha is acting like a cave man. But it's not. No human beings like being told what to do. You asking her is not weak. You telling her is controlling. The best thing is to invite her to come along and if she has attraction she will. In this situation there's no need to not reply. That's playing a game. I would respond "I assumed you wanted to spend time together, so would you like to go to XXX with me?" She will say yes at that poi…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 10:49 PM
2

It's great that you want to get better to be more compassionate and want to learn how to care for others. I think you should highly consider getting checked out by a therapist. Those sound like traits of a psychopath or ASPD. I don't mean that in a mean way. But that is what it sounds like as far as your non-feelings and lack of complete compassion for anyone other than yourself. It would probably benefit you by getting a mental check so you can find the right path to getting better.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 08:27 PM
2

There's good and bad patches. You need to be strong and make it through this. At 26 I graduated college and had no job, just debt. My credit card declined when I tried to buy a Burger King whopper. My chick of 7 years left me for a new dude. I was at rock bottom. Here I am 10 years later with 7-8 girls and my own business. Life has ups and downs. The only place to go from the bottom is up. So suck it up, be a man and come up with a plan of how you are going to build the life you want. All of thi…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:48 PM
2

Dude. You need to go to YouTube right away and search "corey Wayne". Thank me later. That's the only way you can learn what's happening to get her back at some point. She left your relationship awhile ago. https://youtu.be/1V9h_FD0sqM
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 01:28 AM
3

No way. Hate to break it to you but people hate americans. Were loud, obnoxious, think we are the center of the world. Gaming is not easier, it's just that there are way more attractive women to approach. I've been to 14 countries in the past two years and this is what I have experienced. I'm experienced at gaming so that's my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 01:24 AM
1

8 years should have been enough time to have gotten over her completely. You could smash it if you have REALLY moved on and ate the red pill. Otherwise you need to stay away. Only smash if there is certainty you won't get caught up.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 12:32 AM
1

Dude I am in the EXACT same situation. Not sure if you can click my name and see the advice I was given for the same thing
/r/askTRP22/07/17 11:01 PM
35

Sorry to hear this. It looks as if you have been cheated on already. The gut reaction is very telling. The subconscious is linked to our stomach. So when you get the gut reaction it's the subconscious telling your body that something is not right. Her saying I love you more is a sign that she feels guilty. This is what happened: Meets work guy. They want to bang each other. She wants to break up to fuck him but have you as option if she doesn't like him. She fucks him. She tells you she loves yo…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 10:34 PM
27

I agree with most of this. But you went too far with dogs. They do love you unconditionally. Even if you stop giving them attention.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:11 PM
1

Hey man. I fee you. I've been there. Been on a journey for the last 6 years to get better. You will too. I'm too fucking tired right now cause of work, getting only 6 hours of sleep but I'll write more tomorrow. Keep your head up, it's ok to feel like this.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 09:41 AM
1

Jesus buddy maybe she just wants to post pictures. Stop being a jealous douche.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 07:26 AM
3

Honestly I see where your coming from but I read these texts differently. I see it as she keeps saying that you're not there and she wants to get banged out. Not by other dudes but she can't get off cause you're not there. Regardless I would say they are yellow flags and proceed with caution. May not be LTR material but you're going to monitor her behavior like a hawk.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 06:13 AM
3

Hey dude, here's my input: I'm 36 and went to school and studied finance. I spent 6 years in college cause I wanted to play it safe. Sometimes you have to play it safe. If you need security at this point, you have to play it safe. But don't get stuck there. For years I worked at the safe job. And I hated every day of life. Then, about 6 years ago I said fuck this and quit my boring ass desk job making 55k per year to start my own little photography business. I think my first year I made about 12…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:53 AM
1

Thanks for the great advice. I'm going to do exactly this.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:27 AM
3

For the past year we would hang out and do fun things like go to DJ shows, good dinners, movies etc. Should I stop dating her as you say and just tell her to come over and that's it? Stop taking her out? I have a feeling if I just start telling her to come over she will hold off on sex completely.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:16 AM
1

Hey man, nice job. I am on the fence with my oneitis as well. We have sex about every 2-3 weeks but I have no priority with her at all. I know I should cut her loose but is sex and anguish better than nothing at all? I have about eight other attractive women I can have sex with on the regular, it's just that this one has a hold on me
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 09:42 PM
5

Honestly I think you had a shot with this one to meet up. I think if you responded with her "how many initial prints" question you just said "probably 2,000 to start. I've got to get back to it but I want to see you, when are you free to grab a drink at the end of the week?" Then she either gives you a day or dances around the question. You would have known right away if she was in or out and would waste no time.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 10:24 PM
1

Hey buddy, your feeling really down right now. Its a phase that will pass. I'm rather good looking and dress well and stay in shape but I have a hard time too. It's hard for most guys since the masses of men have handed their power to them. But go out and get in shape, start working out. Get nice clothes that fit your body well. Start talking with a lot of Confidence. All of these things will help you be where you want to be. I'm very good with style so if you need some help just pm me or get in…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 06:06 PM
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