Thoughts on Tinder?

SweatyAdvance · 2018-07-24T19:07:06+00:00

Why not read one of the already thousand posted questions about this very topic?

SuperBubsy · 2018-07-24T19:09:15+00:00

I watched 1000+ hours of rsd. Went out a lot approached a lot. Not saying it was a waste as i learned a lot from it... but, 2 good pictures and im going on dates with girls I would never think im in their league.

Make sure you have pictures that are good or you will be disappointed in the app

mallardcove · 2018-07-24T19:26:18+00:00

I've been successful using it over the past 4 years. I like Bumble better these days because every match I have on Bumble I end up going out with at minimum. Tinder is a lot more of a wild card, many girls don't respond to you and those who do will ghost you a lot. I'd say 50% don't respond to my messages. Of the 50% who do respond, only 50% of those will carry on a conversation. Overall maybe 1 out of every 8 girls I actually match with on Tinder and pursue I end up going out with.

Tinder = More matches, but less chance of actually seeing those matches in person

Bumble = Far fewer matches, but for me a guaranteed success rate in seeing them in person once matched

Scheme00 · 2018-07-24T19:16:30+00:00

It’s just one more way of meeting people. It is a lot of work. Lots of bots, lots of flakes, lots of messaging and ghosting. But the more work you put in, the more bangs you will get.

WellEducatedAgni · 2018-07-24T19:17:14+00:00

You have like 100 different posts dedicated to tinder. Try searching for them maybe?

Ricklogical · 2018-07-24T19:21:30+00:00

Better get a tinder expert to help you set up a bio and stage some nice photos.

It takes so much out of the equation that makes you attractive it's comical.

If you are very attractive you will still have issues. Do not date women from Tinder till you know them over a year, they are crazy as shit and on Tinder because they don't know how to positively engage with people in the real world.

atticusfinch1973 · 2018-07-24T19:53:26+00:00

I've had great times with it, but it's like anything else - you still have to be attractive, have good game and know how to seduce women properly.

If you don't know how to do that you'll be like the million losers who say "Tinder doesn't work."

martianartisan · 2018-07-24T21:48:39+00:00

Waste of time. Tinder is a validation machine. Out of 100 matches you’ll maybe meet 5. They’ll either ghost, or live too far, or flake. Not worth it.

wifeisbiorgay · 2018-07-24T21:58:11+00:00

I was banned from Tinder because a stupid b*tch lied about me. I miss it.. =(

Plenty of other apps though. =)

Online dating is very shallow because looks are the main thing people have to go on. A lot of people complain that it doesn't work well. The guys that are most satisfied with the results are the guys that are good at presenting in pics and online, particularly relative to how well they present in person. If your photos are good enough then Tinder is definitely a fun thing to mess around with. Just make sure you don't take it too seriously or get oneitis for sluts on there. Be very relaxed and just have fun and don't give a sh*t.

Kabuki431 · 2018-07-24T23:22:53+00:00

I habe had tinder and bumble for 3 years now. Hundreds of matches but yet to land a single date.

On a side i have had 100% success with day game and at bars

Title	Thoughts on Tinder?
Author	ThingsPeopleDo
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	July 24, 2018 7:05 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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