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wifeisbiorgay/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:19 PM
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I don't think there is any causal link between her profession and her ghosting you. You just didn't build attraction, or you two just aren't each other's type. No big deal. ​ A lot of businesses have a client-facing component that requires being friendly. Doctors, lawyers, and investment managers all have to turn on the charm, at times. ​ Personally, I don't think I would seriously date a bartender. I just connect better with people I have more in common with. In this case, white-collar professi…
/r/askTRP02/11/18 09:37 PM
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You said you've made a dozen friends on campus already. Ask them for ideas. Failing that, just look at Google Maps for coffee shops or ice cream parlors. Walk to a local park or waterfront. It really doesn't fucking matter dude. Just pick a random spot to meet up with them, flirt, and escalate. Living 40 minutes away sucks. That will make it a bit harder to get girls to your place. It's possible, but you won't be able to casually say things like "Hey let's drop by my place to smoke a joint and l…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:30 PM
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SMV is not relative to your social circle. It's relative to all the people in your area. If you are a in a high-SMV social circle, that's a good thing. You'll benefit from their value. People outside your circle will be drawn in to that value.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:30 PM
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Typical BPD chick, bro. These kind of women are super flakey and dishonest. It's all justifiable to them because of how they FEEL. Part of their fucked-up mental state is that they are CC-riders that nonetheless convince themselves it's all in service of an LTR. If you chase she will treat you very shitty. You should be pretty distant and wait for her to text you at 2am. Continue refusing to sleep over.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:22 PM
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Yes, of course. Female orbiters will double and triple text you. They'll usually say something like "Hey can I ask you something?" instead of just asking it. They do this to try to get some kind of response from you (a "sup" even) as validation. They'll often ask what you are doing or send a song or video clip over. I have to admit, I kind of indulge my female orbiters. Right now, there are three women I used to fuck that text me really regularly. If my current LTR got into my phone, she would s…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:16 PM
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If you can't use your arm at all then you really can't do much. If you have some function in the hand/arm and just can't lift with it, you should continue to work out legs. The best exercises will be compound movements that don't put weight in your hands. leg press, leg extensions, leg curls If you have a bit more ability to use the arm for stabilizing then you can try hack squat machine, barbell back squat Also, do core work (various types of crunches and leg raises, back extensions). Finally, …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:10 PM
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I've experienced these on both sides of the table-- as a student and as a hiring manager. I Just worked the career fair at MIT with the brightest and best prepared students on the planet. A few key points of advice. 1) A lot of students wear suits. I don't think this is necessary as you aren't on an interview and college campuses are casual places. Do make sure you look clean and put-together. 2) Recognize who you are talking to. Companies send three types of people. Recruiters, junior employees…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:07 AM
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Mexican standoff. No problem then. Just text with instructions for meeting up.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:41 PM
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For you, yes.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:40 PM
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This is a pretty stupid post. What's the question? ​
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:39 PM
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Your employer cares what you do. Not what bullshit you say about what you do. Keep writing good code and getting shit done and you'll be seen as a valuable member of the team. Whining that your projects are difficult and you overcame the odds etc. is just that, whining. The less you open your mouth (compared to what you actually achieve) the better. Open your mouth when you have something of substance to say that isn't pathetically self-serving. Don't worry for a second about the number of hours…
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:37 PM
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Just say you had a good time and you want to see her again. Jesus.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:29 PM
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She has declined three separate date requests and never offered up a time she is free. Dude, please get the message.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:25 PM
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Who sent the last text? I'm guessing you. So you are talking about double triple or whatever texting. Don't. Give her a phone call and just ask about meeting up. Then act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:23 PM
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yeah bro. There is a lot of kind of simplistic beginner advice around here. Basically, everyone will tell you to hard next every chick that isn't on her knees sucky sucky after two texts. This is actually mostly correct because there are so many pathetic guys on here that hopelessly chase a disinterested oneitis and need to stop doing that. It's fine to keep aloof chicks on the table, just don't ever over-invest. With dating apps, the key to having a good time with them is not to take it too ser…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 09:00 PM
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Starting from the bottom, it could take a long time. There is an obvious threshold phenomenon. Can you, at least sometimes, get women that pass your boner test to fuck you? If not, you may be very far from there. If you can, then as you'll improve you'll get better women or the same women with less effort. This can be seen very quickly. It also depends on where your deficiencies are. If you have bad clothes and haircut but are in-shape and sociable, that's very easy. If you are 100+lbs overweigh…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:43 PM
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It's not a shit test. She thinks there is a high probability a better offer will come along, but is interested in you as a backup option. Your reply sounds like you are butthurt about her not agreeing completely to the date and then you press her further about Sunday as if that will change her mind. Saying "you don't have a lot of free time" is try-hard. The only way to impress on her that your time is valuable is by making yourself unavailable to her. Never ever ever ever show anger or frustrat…
/r/askTRP20/09/18 08:39 PM
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Lift #s have little to do with how you look in pics. I'm 6'1", 188lbs, 10.5% bf. At my most cut, I was 175lbs and around 9.5% bf. Like I said, I am not huge at all. Still, I'm just muscular enough that woman know I work out. I am keen to get a bit bigger and then leaner, but I'm not sure it's ideal to go for 200+ lbs. I don't know what having your body "tinder pic ready means". You need pics to use Tinder. They need to show your body. Do you mean shirtless pics? Those are not totally necessary. …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:47 PM
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I don't think that having a nice place makes a woman want to fuck you. It might make her see you as more of a relationship candidate, but not in a sexual way. That said, it's like nice clothes. It doesn't help that it's expensive per se, but if shows style, class, and sophistication, then it is a demonstration of high value. Women were probably expecting more based on your other characteristics. Also, if they think you can afford it and yet you choose to live basic, it just makes you seem cheap.…
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:28 PM
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I used Tinder and other apps on and off for two years. I stopped a couple weeks ago to LTR a girl. I fucked six women other than the LTR in the 10 days before I agreed to be exclusive with her. Knowing I can get easily have sex with reasonably attractive women makes dealing with the LTR a lot easier. When I first started, I was not nearly as successful. The women I went out with weren't as attractive and I slept with a lower percentage of them. Here's what I think I improved over time. 1) Pics. …
/r/askTRP19/09/18 03:07 PM
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If you don't have access to a gym, then pushups are probably your best bet. You can increase the resistance by elevating your feet, e.g. on a chair or stool.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:16 AM
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You're ahead of the curve, don't stress. Learn to do oral well. Once you get good at it, you will not be lazy about it. You will see it as an opportunity to show off your skills. You'll feel powerful when she comes quickly from your giving head. There are a lot of resources online giving advice for that.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:11 PM
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To be a man is to perform. If you were a gay man you would have a decent argument that you only need to put in as much effort as your partner. If you want to have sex with women, you will realize that here, and in many other areas, you will work harder than she does. In general, her sexual availability is worth vastly more than yours. You make up for that gap in other ways, including in the performance of sex acts. It's just the way of the world, brother. Do not expect sympathy from women on thi…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:04 PM
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I recommend stating up front in your bio that you are just in town for the night. That will make it a lot harder to find girls that want to meet up, but they'll be much more likely to have sex with you when they do. Your worst case scenario is spending an evening with a boring/annoying girl that isn't DTF, not chilling at the hotel bar or watching football. Then, I recommend using an adaptive approach to your messages. The night before, you can attempt to go back and forth a bit and build some r…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 06:05 PM
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It sounds like interacting with women you are attracted to turns you on. Congrats, you're at least partly heterosexual. You can recreate this feeling by going out into the world and talking to women you find attractive. Good luck!
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:37 PM
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This is not "one of the main thing women gossip about". That is, if we are talking about actual women and not porn writers. I think the best analogy is big tits. As guys, most of us love big tits. There are many among us that love small tits, and they make up a solid minority. Most of us also feel there is a point where they are too big and start to look silly. Still, some dudes love the circus tits. We also almost all prefer real ones to surgically enhanced. Unless a girl has had a mastectomy o…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 05:34 PM
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If she doesn't kiss back, you quickly next. It's really that simple. You should realize that chicks actually like flirting. If they aren't *that* cute then they like getting attention, even from guys they don't want to fuck. They will almost certainly flirt if they want to fuck, but flirting does not itself imply they want to. That's why you have to go in for the kiss and see if she kisses back before you invite her over etc. She rejected/friendzoned you the first time you asked her out. By subs…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 03:19 PM
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I guess math isn't your strong suit. If girls want to date up and 5s are into you, then you are likely a 6 or a 7. A girl that is a 7+ also wants to date up, so why should she be into you? If you improve your game, you will be able to sometimes win over more attractive girls. If you improve your physique, grooming, dress, and/or social status, those attractive girls will approach you and it's very easy. Do both, and you'll be unstoppable. You have stumbled upon the concept that you have an SMV o…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:26 AM
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Stopping porn is a good idea. It seems to be affecting you in two ways. First, it's potentially causing you to have erectile dysfunction. Second, it's contributing to your being very impatient in real-life interactions with women. Do you get erections at all while not watching porn? If yes, do the erections tend to go away when it's time to actually fuck? You may also be having performance anxiety. That's not because of porn, necessarily. Try to just enjoy touching her body and how she looks, sm…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:02 AM
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The only real question is whether YOU want to go to Ibiza. Are you into dance music? Do you want to hang at the beach? If yes, go. That's it. All your questions are nonsense. You won't be "testing her" at all. Most girls won't act sketchy while on a vacation with you. You'll be hanging out together all the time, there's no opportunity for it. If she's gonna fool around on you it will be on a random night out with her girlfriends back home, not in front of your fucking face in Ibiza or Vegas or w…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:13 AM
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2600kcals sounds low for your weight. Can you show your math to us?
/r/askTRP10/09/18 10:56 PM
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Women are a lot pickier about looks with online dating than in real life. I've had this confirmed by many, many women. They can't see your body language, tone, how you interact with other people, etc. so your pics are literally all they have to go off. Men are also generally more interested in meeting strangers from the internet than women are. Guys are generally happy to have a chance to fuck a girl if she looks decent in her pics (and actually looks like her pics). Women are genuinely concerne…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 06:30 PM
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Closure conversations are bullshit and a waste of time and energy. They're all the same. The person that is choosing to leave just wants to get on with their life and is forced to give fake reasoning to their butthurt ex, to spare their ego. The person being left really wants to try to negotiate their way back into a relationship, under false pretenses. You're right, she's leaving anyways. What do you have to lose? For one, you will further reinforce that you are a needy loser and eliminate any …
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:13 PM
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If you have to work out with her every time, then it's definitely not worth it. Just send her a link to a canned program and some youtube vids showing the proper form. Work out with her maybe 1-3 times to check that she's getting it. Discuss basic calorie in/out and diet principles. After that, it's really all up to her. Reward her with some attention if she shows progress, but ignore her completely if she backslides. I have never trained a fat girl. I have no reason to, as I am already turning …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 07:00 PM
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First, realize this happens to everyone that seriously pursues dates/sex/love. Doesn't matter if they are men or women, rich or poor, hot or ugly. Sometimes you were the backup option, sometimes they are just flakey people that don't have their shit together. Getting flaked on doesn't indicate low value on your part. It's just a shitty event that you quickly move past. The more abundance you have, the less you will care. When I have 5+ plates spinning, I often start feeling like I'm spending too…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:50 PM
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I think the answers provided here thus far are too simplistic. The general idea you should understand is that it all happens in her head. Ever had a wet dream? Ever been so horny and hard that you wanted to cum as soon as a girl barely touched you? That's all happening with negligible sexual contact. Women can achieve the same thing. The true answer is you need to just be a really passionate lover. All that encompasses is too much for one comment here. I'll give you some specific advice about or…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:32 PM
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I don't see where it was mentioned that he can't row a 45 pound bar. OP mentioned OHP, not rows. Anyways though, you're argument isn't right anyways. If he can't row a 45 pound bar then he won't be able to until he can row 20 pound dumbbells. No amount of deadlifts will change that. He is just a tiny person right now. There's no evidence he has a specific, structural weakness that needs addressing, like you did.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 09:47 PM
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Sure, I never said otherwise. He didn't indicate that he's having any trouble bending over. He is just too weak to OHP 45 pounds. That is all the info we have. You are making some wild leaps about his low-back strength. If OP grabs 10 pound dumbbells in each hand, do you think he needs to avoid doing bent-over rows? Why? How do you know he is too weak in the low-back to do that exercise? You had low-back pain and needed to do deadlifts to address it. Why are you suggesting that to OP though? Dud…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 07:49 PM
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There is a problem with this situation that many guys fail to see. When a girl starts noticing you've become more attractive in some way, it doesn't immediately reset her perception of you. She still sees you as that same chump that was commenting on her snapchat, but a little more well-dressed or lean or whatever. So now you're just over her threshold for dating. Great. She'll feel like she's above you and act very entitled. The progression is orbiter -> BB -> AF. Congrats, you've graduated to …
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:39 PM
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Don't tell her how you feel. That's almost always a bad idea. It also makes you look creepy/needy to your friend group if she declines your advance and tells people. Frankly, if her behavior and body language suggests to you that she isn't interested, I would just move on. Professing your love as a last ditch effort is really pathetic. It won't work. Just be honest with yourself. If you are around each other a lot, is she sending signals that she wants you to make a move? If yes, isolate and esc…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:07 PM
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You are correct that feminism and political correctness are ideologically related to Marxism. These are all key pillars of modern leftist ideology. I wouldn't say they are the offspring of "cultural Marxism". I don't recommend using that term, as it means different things to different people. Conservatives tend to use it as a pejorative, while it had a different meaning to actual leftists, historically. It's better to use clear and precise words when you aren't just trolling. Anyways, onto your …
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:00 PM
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His problem is that he is simply too weak to OHP the bar. He needs a lighter bar, or dumbbells. No amount of watching videos will enable him to properly OHP a 45 pound bar. He weighs 122lbs, Jesus!
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:57 PM
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I disagree with this advice. He's weak all over. He'll be doing rows with light weights. Just the bar, or dumbbells. Rows are less complicated than deadlifts, as there are fewer joints moving. I don't see why he needs to avoid rows. Rows build the mid and upper back muscles which are important for proper shoulder and kneck posture. I don't see any reason to neglect this foundational exercise. If he is weak than he will use lighter weights.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:52 PM
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I love it when girls message first on dating apps because I know they are very interested. I find that the girl will almost always keep the conversation going if I reply to her. If I send the first message, a much higher percentage do not reply. The women that message me first are, on average, less attractive than my other matches. Sometimes they send, as in your case, a completely generic first message. Doesn't matter. Just comment on their profile or say something random/funny. Don't answer ho…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:43 PM
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Spending 2 hours/day running XC is a very big time commitment. Is it worth it? Let me give you a bit of perspective.. I'm 33 years old. I also ran XC in high school. I was 6'1" 160lbs back then. So, almost the exact same as you. That's the right body for XC. Nowadays, I have absolutely zero to show for the time and energy I sunk into XC. I was the second fastest in my high school, but not fast enough to compete in college. There are a lot of things I could have better used that time on (playing …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:23 PM
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For me, it's mostly that I perform better at sex and find it more enjoyable when I'm not watching porn or masturbating. I also don't find that porn/masturbation relieves much tension.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:25 PM
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I would not stop spinning plates until you establish a good sexual dynamic with this girl, as otherwise you'll get needy and possibly turn her off. Go slow. Only you can decide if she satisfies you sexually. Inexperience per se isn't a big issue. You are experienced, so you can coach her up. If she has resistance to being sexual because of religion or abuse, that is a completely different story. In that case, it will be very hard for her to get comfortable and have enjoyable, fulfilling sex with…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:11 PM
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This is something I would definitely avoid overthinking. Just keep going for whatever girls you fancy. The only think I would do differently with shorter girls is avoid bending over a lot to talk to them so as to be at their ear/eye level. It can sometimes seem like a good idea to do this, particularly when it's noisy out, but it's not. Just stand tall and speak loudly.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:33 PM
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If you have already been squatting for a year then you are not going to be able to increase your squat without eating above maintenance and gaining weight. That's just the math, my friend. For me, when I get stuck at a certain weight, I normally don't have perfect form at that weight. Drop the weight a bit and do them with perfect form. Slowly bring the weight back, maintaining the form. Should get you through.. ​
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:39 PM
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At 21.1% bf he should lose weight.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:14 PM
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This is actually pretty rare. The words get thrown around so much that you'd think it's a huge problem. Most people fail to progress not because they overtrain, but because they under-recover. Simply put, they don't eat enough to gain weight, so they don't gain strength or muscle mass. Sometimes, people don't sleep enough, drink enough water, etc. Unless you are doing 10+ hours in the gym per week, over-training is probably not the issue. One thing that is sometimes confused with over-training i…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:12 PM
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That's the definition of 'lifting'. LoL.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:30 PM
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Women are as thirsty for relationships as men are for sex. A decently attractive woman can have no-strings-attached sex with a pretty awesome dude at the drop of a hat. That guy isn't going to enter a committed/exclusive relationship with most of those women though. This is the defining feature of the sexual marketplace. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships. Go and read dating advice columns targeted at women. The conventional wisdom is that to *get* a re…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:25 PM
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Have you ever stopped to think you might be gay?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:04 PM
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I'd bail.. Frankly, you can try to deal with the issue, but if this is happening at four months, it's the tip of the iceberg. ​
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:59 PM
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You tried to reason with her by saying you would consider commitment after having sex with her. If your goal is sex, it is generally a very bad idea to get into any kind of logical discussion or negotiation on the matter. Read up on ASD/LMR/negotiating desire/etc. Also, you're hung up on that being your golden opportunity to smash an HB7. That's hardcore scarcity mentality. Instead, just be happy you kissed HB7 and got to a point where she had to make an excuse not to fuck you. That's progress. …
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:57 PM
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This is a weird routine. It sucks. 60% of you exercises are bench press? Seriously? You need to focus on the big six-- squats, deadlifts, bench press, overhead press, pullups, bent over rows Stronglifts is a great beginner program to start with. I recommend you get a decent trainer for 1-3 sessions. Be upfront that you want them to teach you the correct form for the big six. After that, you'll be good to go. Also, by learning the mechanics of the big six, you'll be able to teach yourself other e…
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:57 PM
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You are overthinking it. I wouldn't respond to that at all. If you must, just say 'sure'. It's not a commitment or anything. If you try to steer that in a sexual direction it is likely to come off needy. Fine line between flirty/sexual and creepy/needy in text and it's very hard when she is in a hardcore ASD mode. Think about the big picture here. Most girls attempt to present as "not the kind of girl that fucks on the first date". Of course, we all know that they all do it for the right guy. Wh…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 08:46 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:44 PM
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This debate has been carried out endlessly here and in many other venues. The fact that you and your friend are spending time arguing about it and that you spent time coming here to write this says a lot about you and your priorities.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:53 PM
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Great comment. Extra points for mentioning revealed preference (rather than just saying "watch what they do.."). I have seen a lot of evidence for this phenomenon. Women's ideal, as observed through revealed preference, often differs substantially from their survey responses.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 11:04 PM
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This. I think it's, to some extent, a consequence of all the porn these kids watch. Their attainable reality is so far away from their fantasy. I think kids that didn't wank to HD internet porn several times/day were a lot happier to trade IOIs and flirt with nerdy HB5 in their class.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 10:53 PM
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Sounds like your buddy is lying. Men that aren't very attractive cannot match many 8-9s on Tinder, and certainly can't get them to agree to sex straight away. Reading between the lines, you seem to have some weird self-doubt with respect to your appearance. You are caught up on your hair and eye color. Ridiculous. Different women have all different preferences about these things. Plenty of dark haired/eyed (or black or Latino or Chinese or whatever) guys slay.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:44 PM
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It's rare that a girl will be that blunt, but she was, and the implication is obvious. I would not pursue such a rude person.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 07:13 PM
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Start suggesting little rules. Like when you sit down to a meal, she doesn't eat until you eat. You make the plans when you hang out, she is allowed to *propose* plans to you. She doesn't drink without clinking glasses with you. That kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:31 PM
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It's an issue if you make it an issue. They are intimidated that you must have had someone really good and they won't measure up. Actually not such a bad thing, as it elevates your status in their eyes. You have to make sure you keep it a suspicion and don't confirm it. Don't say it doesn't matter. Just laugh it off. Make it as if it's equally likely that you're embarrassed your number is low. Then make her strongly suspect it's in fact astronomically high through all your other actions and the …
/r/askTRP13/08/18 10:21 PM
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Congrats on your weightloss man. You should continue trying to lose weight. You don't seem to be very muscular, as you aren't able to lift very heavy weights. So, at your weight, you should be focused on losing fat. The conventional wisdom is that you can't gain muscle while trying to lose fat. In your case, you might be able to because 1) you are twenty years old, and 2) you are still in your first few months of lifting. You won't really know until you do it though. You sound like you want to g…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:08 PM
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You want to get a bunch of racial stereotypes from losers on Reddit so you can figure out how to proceed? Bro. Just go meet her and feel out the vibe.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:36 PM
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Approaching = displaying
/r/askTRP11/08/18 04:57 AM
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The problem here is your guilt and shame. It's a common thing. Society shames men for fucking women without committing to them. You'll hear about how a promiscuous girl is shamed as a slut and a promiscuous man is praised as a playboy or Casanova. It's bullshit. Feminists LOVE claiming this double standard, but the exact opposite is true. No one dares call a woman a slut nowadays in polite company. Any suggestion that women shouldn't be totally free to have whatever sex they want on whatever ter…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:57 PM
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I've experimented extensively with online dating apps. Response rate to my messages when profile says polyamorous is about 10%, compared to around 40% without that word. I've spoke to many polyamorous men from Reddit and local meetups and they have encountered the same thing. Women identifying as polyamorous that I spoke to did not observe large changes in response rates due to disclosing there being poly. They did indicate that the content of the responses become somewhat more sexual for their …
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:59 PM
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Dude, you need to sharpen that razor! Yes, they will share men of high enough value. Does the guy being openly poly raise or lower that value? It lowers it. End of story. The 'dating around', but nominally single guy has a much easier time than the poly guy. I know, I've presented as both at the same time. Obviously absolute commitment is not required, but women often need to somehow convince themselves it's possible. Dating a poly guy triggers hardcore ASD.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:57 PM
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To some extent that's just how girls your age are. It's not as problematic for me at age 33, dating mostly girls that are more like mid-to-late 20s. Bottom line is that if they respect you enough, they'll put the phone down and give you their attention. If they can't or won't, next.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:32 PM
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Ask 100 random girls if they'd date a guy that's already in an open, serious relationship. Now, ask 100 random guys if they'd date a girl that's already in an open, serious relationship. The guy's hear easy sex. The girls hear people calling them a slut and no chance at achieving their relationship goals with that guy. The disparity in positive responses is massive. Men suffer a much larger penalty in dating when identifying as poly, compared to women. That's on top of the existing disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 06:27 PM
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That's not quite accurate. Normal dating includes the expectation that after dating for a long enough period of time, it should become exclusive. Exclusivity and seriousness/commitment are seen as intrinsically linked. That's not true in polyamory. You are right that it's liberal, feminist, and often kinky, but it isn't normal dating.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:13 PM
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Things are more lopsided for poly folks. The vast majority of women are not interested in dating a man that is already in a serious relationship. Men, on the other hand, are mostly cool with it.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:11 PM
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Things are more lopsided for poly folks. The vast majority of women are not interested in dating a man that is already in a serious relationship. Men, on the other hand, are mostly cool with it.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:10 PM
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It's lame for people to criticize you like that. It's your choice and not wanting them is totally valid. I definitely didn't want kids when I was 22. Now I'm 33 and I think I do want them. The hard thing is finding a woman you want to get pregnant.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:56 PM
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It's lame for people to criticize you like that. It's your choice and not wanting them is totally valid. I definitely didn't want kids when I was 22. Now I'm 33 and I think I do want them. The hard thing is finding a woman you want to get pregnant.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:55 PM
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I don't know about University out there, I'm a bit older. When I take business trips to London, I am generally shocked by how entitled and low-quality the women are. They also dress in weird and unflattering ways. I think London might be the worst Western city for finding women.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:20 PM
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Can confirm. They ask me to 'train them' too.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:18 PM
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Sounds like it already has caused a rift. Obviously, you didn't do anything wrong since you hadn't yet agreed to exclusivity. She's being stupid and irrational, but keeps going on about how she 'feels'. This may taint things forever. Some people are just really insecure. It's not healthy in that it isn't bringing out any positive behaviors from her. Be solid in your discussions and hope she starts acting right.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 04:16 PM
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Whatever? Either can get accepted or rejected. Maybe telling is somewhat more likely to be accepted, but there's no data. These kind of hacks are sometimes nice in that they help one fake abundance. The problem is when some kid glues together a bunch of hacks and comes off as really try-hard and inauthentic. Reading your text log above, I would say you are already sounding problematic. There's an air of desperation and attempting to apply Reddit wisdom in your words. You need to get and sound li…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:55 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:38 PM
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The TRP advice on open relationships is to never ever touch them with a ten foot pole and run away from women that even suggest them. I'd rather not jump into a debate about whether open relationships are good or bad. I think the TRP perspective is based on the fact they are usually terrible for the guy, but in reality there are exceptions. I have had successful experiences in open relationships, so I can offer some advice. Understand that it will always be vastly easier for a women to go on dat…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:30 PM
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Dude you are just not getting it. You need to read the sidebar. Asking dudes on here how to try is pathetic and makes us all cringe. We're sad for you bro. She'll be attracted to you again when she sees that you are fucking girls that are hotter than her. Period. Guess what? You won't be interested in her at that point. Now get the fuck out of here.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:18 PM
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Same day flake sucks, but she apologized and asked to reschedule. It's better if she offers some actual dates on the calendar, but I think it's forgivable. I think overall you are trying too hard to be funny/charming or not an asshole. Just be you. Just suggest another date, but figure there is a high probability she'll flake again. If she does, move on.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:47 PM
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She sees you as a backup option at best. There's a slight possibility she'll come back around, but it's a terrible idea to waste your life hoping for that. Once a woman puts you in a certain 'box' mentally, it's very hard to change that perception. Go out and meet some new women.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:34 PM
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I was a lot like you once, just kind of uncomfortable talking about sex. I had an LTR that really pushed me to be more open about it and I'm really glad she did. She would take a blowjob class before my birthday, buy new toys and gadgets, and eventually persuade me to go to sex classes and discussion groups with her. She was an HB8 so you'd think she'd be quite confident sexually, but it was actually something she had to work at and did. We later went non-exclusive and she was excited/convinced …
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:56 AM
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Obviously you can't turn it around man. Move on. As general advice.. Don't tell her she has a pretty face over Tinder. That's taking away the challenge for validation from her perspective. Her behavior is really just bizarre. Most cool/interesting people have pretty full schedules and usually agree to a date that's a few days out. Why on earth would you not be "slotting in" someone you haven't even met? Does she think you should flake on friends or family to meet a Tinder random? Is that the kin…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:44 AM
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Saying they didn't expect to have sex on the 2nd date is extremely common the world over. Most women have to believe sex just happens to them (ASD). Generalizations about women based on their nationality have limited value. Once you've gone on multiple dates with the same woman, you should know them directly enough to not be relying on the generalizations. The real reason it's relatively easier for foreign men with women in SEA is because there are relatively few foreign men. Even if only a smal…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:20 AM
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There isn't really any way to get what you want here without being willing to communicate with her about it. In an LTR, communication is extremely important. The key in this case is to tell her what you want without coming off as judgmental. If you break her confidence she won't be able to do these things well. You should make it a two-way dialogue where she feels comfortable expressing things she'd like you to do as well. Consider finding a sex class in your area and suggest that the two of you…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 04:12 AM
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It's around 90% Tinder and other apps for me.. I just find it easy. I don't think that's true overall though and it depends a lot on how you define hookup. Most hooking up is in an LTR.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:36 PM
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Bottom line is that being overt about hooking up works on certain kinds of girls when your SMV is considerably higher than theirs. They know they can have some fun with you and you'll never commit to them. I have hooked up with girls where the intention of hooking up was overtly stated before we first met up. I've noticed a few things about that. The flake rate goes up a lot compared to an unspecified meetup. Also, they still won't see it as a firm commitment to do anything. Even when they are p…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 09:26 PM
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I don't really get the question. You seem committed to low-carb because you are vaguely aware of some reasons for that. Have you stopped to think about whether those reasons are consistent with your goal of bulking up? I think the scholarly consensus around low/no-carb is that it's a suboptimal diet from a nutritional perspective, but chronic overeaters seem to have an easier time actually sticking to the diet so it helps those people lose and keep off weight. You have to ask yourself-- are you …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:16 PM
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As a hobby, sure , it's fun. I'm actually a fairly serious road cyclist, do 100+ miles a lot of weeks. It does almost nothing for my physique other than burn calories, which is not useful to me because I have self control and could just eat less. There is some tiny benefit to the bloodflow to your muscles on rest day, but I believe that's quite marginal anyways.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:00 PM
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I was banned from Tinder because a stupid b*tch lied about me. I miss it.. =( Plenty of other apps though. =) Online dating is very shallow because looks are the main thing people have to go on. A lot of people complain that it doesn't work well. The guys that are most satisfied with the results are the guys that are good at presenting in pics and online, particularly relative to how well they present in person. If your photos are good enough then Tinder is definitely a fun thing to mess around …
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:58 PM
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I had plates alongside my wife of 11 years. At first, they would come and go very quickly. Once I started saying I was getting divorced, they got A LOT stickier. I've come to realize this is kind of the ideal state of affairs. You should always be dangling the possibility of commitment, but be much more selective in actually giving it out. Most women (correctly) assume that most men are interested in having loads of sex partners, but don't desire more than one real relationship. As such, they ar…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:53 PM
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Those lifting numbers are really low for a guy your height/weight. You can probably get stronger while cutting because you are in the noob zone. Cardio isn't as important as diet and lifting. True while bulking or cutting. There is hardly any benefit and arguably it's even detrimental to burn an extra 100 cals with cardio rather than just doing nothing and eating 100 cals less. Lifting is important while cutting so that you maintain your muscles. Otherwise they will be (partially) metabolized to…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:37 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I'm glad Ross wrote this as I've been pondering similar ideas for some time. The interesting thing here isn't actual forced redistribution of sexual activity. Rather, it's just a good critique of leftist totalitarianism. The idea that we should redistribute wealth is accepted uncritically on the left. Most still have a visceral, negative reaction to the idea of redistributing sex. The idea that the government can exercise control over your body like that is abhorrent to peopl…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 05:09 PM
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Young man, there are many teaching points here. 1) Why would she be agreeing to have sex with you before meeting you in person? If she brought up the issue on her own and also was insistent about the sex, then fine. If you brought it up or were insistent that she agree to have sex up front, you're an idiot. That comes across as desperate on your part. There is no benefit to doing this. If she wants to have sex with you, then she will, when you escalate. By attaching the expectation of sex to a f…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 02:13 PM
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1) Find someone with as near as possible to the exact same body size/shape as me and pay him, along with a talented stylist, to do all my clothes shopping and alterations. Obviously, spending on finest quality clothes. 2) Have a barber come to my house around once a week and give me a great haircut while I watch TV. 3) Personal chef/nutritionist to cook all my meals. 4) Celebrity-level interior designer to decorate my sick penthouse apartment (or mansion, whatever). 5) Personal trainer. I know s…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:46 PM
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Echoing some other comments here... If she is doing that before you've met it's usually a bad sign. If she does it after you've met then it's a good sign, because it shows she fantasizes about you and seeks validation from you. Every girl that has sent me nudes before we met, never ended up meeting me. In many cases, these women are actually men just trying to get you to send nudes back.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:30 PM
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What makes you think they are interested? Women have very obvious tells when they want you to kiss them. They will touch their hair and jewelry A LOT. If you see that, then it's time to go in for the kiss.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:17 PM
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Start with your mom or your buddies. Just work on having good conversations. Invite one of them out for a beer so you're just sitting there talking. Read the news and fine one or two articles you think are interesting and ask them their opinions about it.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:13 PM
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Either meet up with them and don't have sex or just tell their you're busy or caught a cold. Pretty simple stuff, man.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:10 PM
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If you are just 'using her as a sex doll', then she won't expect marriage. Before getting engaged, a person expects things like going on trips together, moving in together, fancy dinners, etc. Why would you waste your time on doing all that with a woman you don't want to be with? This obsession of yours reveals some real, underlying insecurities. When you guys had a fight, she ran off to another guy. She saw you as replaceable and eventually you came crawling back to her as well. That hurts man,…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 10:07 PM
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If she can actually ski and you're into it as well, that's a great activity to do together. I agree that the other ones are generic (travel, wine, food) and yoga isn't really interactive (and mostly chicks). C'mon though, skiing? It's not nearly as common as the others and it's a fantastic activity to do with friends and lovers.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 02:49 AM
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I'd say it's like any other material thing you give a girl. If you want to, then fine. The key is to just act like it's burning a hole in your pocket or you just don't care. The second you act, for a second, like you are trading it for sex/attention/validation, then you're in trouble. When it's substances though, yes, it can seem creepy if it seems at all like you are pushing it on them, for whatever reason. I would just ask them about their past experience with drugs in another setting beforeha…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 02:37 AM
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Yeah, I like to do the same. Bring a girl I'm getting to know to the rave. Then she sees me in an environment where I'm relaxed and relatively high-status. The squad is there and I'm always running into acquaintances as well (social proof). I also like reserving some nights for just my friends (no date) because I don't always want a girl hanging off me. Personally, I avoid the usual guys-supplying-girls dynamic with the party favors. I only share with a girl I know I'm fucking or that will retur…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:46 PM
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I would say at least decently good to begin with, definitely not an absolute social retard. I got married really young (21) to a girl I'd been dating for a few years, and friends with for a few years prior to that. We were both from religiously conservative families so there was pressure on us to get married since we were living together etc. We'd each only had a handful of other sexual partners prior. Getting married young had it's pros and cons. I always got laid regularly and spent zero energ…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 10:34 PM
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Despite the pain you felt in your mid-teens, that was ultimately a positive. You got with women from the earliest possible age. The guys that complain that they can't get any on here weren't like you. They didn't have girlfriends in high school or even in college. They have a deeply internalized belief that they don't deserve the affection of women. Whenever they interact with a girl they are interested in, their heart is racing. They've held up this girl that they don't even know as the ultimat…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:30 PM
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Buddy, wow, just wow. You are dancing, even though you don't enjoy it, just to meet girls? That's pathetic. It indicates, that at a basic level, you are willing to sacrifice your time to be in the presence of women. How do you think you come across to women when you do that? Remember, women are very, very good at weeding out the thirsty/desperate men. They are attracted to guys that are confident and know what they want in life (beyond women). You are in your late 20s and living with your parent…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:23 PM
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Pros are that she is into you and easy. Otherwise, she sounds like a dumb attention whore. Do not LTR.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 06:08 PM
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I don't understand what the point of this post is. Punctuation and grammar mistakes everywhere. Yes, obviously when a girl comes over alone there is a high probability she is expecting to have sex. There are also many exceptions. You have to consider the other factors.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 10:05 PM
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A more attractive attitude, body, and lifestyle is the key. You know that. That takes time. Keep working. If you don't like banging your plates than stop doing it and spend more time bettering yourself. You are also putting more attractive women on a pedestal, which is poisoning your interaction with them. Do things to improve your self-esteem so you are not so validation-seeking. For what it's worth, in terms of quick fixes, get stylish new clothes and a fresh, expensive haircut. You can do tha…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:30 AM
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I won't get into the keto debate here because it's been argued extensively elsewhere. Suffice it to say, keto is a suboptimal diet. The optimal amount of carbs for a lean muscular person over the long-run is not zero. Most people are far from optimal though and keto can be an easier way to cut weight than counting calories, for some. Now for some general advice to curb a large appetite. Eat foods that have low caloric density. Generally, these are foods that are more fibrous (veggies) or have a …
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:10 AM
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TRP is often distilled down to simple rules of thumb. Most readers are pathetic beta orbiters so they need to cut their worst behaviors. The reality is you just need to be an awesome dude. You can get away with all the sweet butterfly shit in the world if you are an awesome dude. Be attractive, cool, and confident and the rest follows. You mention that girls he likes approach him. Well then he must look great, have excellent body language, etc. That is all it takes. Acting like an uncaring assho…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:49 AM
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Depends a lot on where you start out. If you are basically fit and have decent posture (think runner's body) then it will have a moderate impact. If you are fat and out-of-shape then the difference is massive. As for them forgetting other faults? Not so much. Face, game, clothes, grooming are all still essential if you are going after attractive girls. Unattractive girls will fuck a fit guy that is totally lacking in the other categories, but not a fatty (they don't have to).
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:31 PM
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As other have pointed out, marrying a woman that had already stopped sleeping with you months prior was just a huge, huge mistake. There's not much you can do now, to be honest. You can't negotiate desire. The one thing that would help is not reacting so emotionally to her. Keep an amused attitude at all times. She freaks out, just laugh it off. A plate came over last night and started giving me a lot of attitude. She was complaining about the most random shit. I was sitting back and deftly hand…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 05:24 PM
1

Very negative framing? How do you get out of bars? Seriously? Just get some other hobbies that will take up your time. Then, you naturally won't spend it in bars.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:48 PM
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You should provide some more info. Canada is big. With 7 days, you'll want to avoid super long flights. Do you have $ for flights? Also, what are you into exactly? You can be social anywhere! Think about something you want to see or do and that will provide a nice framework for your interactions. Not a good idea to tell your hostel-mates that you've come from Canada just to game them. Is this a summertime trip? Do you want beaches? clubs? hikes? art? food? music?
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:46 PM
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I have a friend (post-wall, early-30s) that just did this. She even threw an 'egg-freezing' party and invited her friends out to celebrate it. She's the usual story though. Rode the CC hard. Heavy drinker. It's a sad sight at parties, she gets hammered and throws herself at dudes. She is still decent looking. She hasn't yet internalized the idea that she will have to settle for a lower value man than the type she was banging 5-10 years ago. My ex asked me just a few days ago if I thought she sho…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 05:01 PM
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He's 18. He can't go to bars.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 04:52 AM
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More than your dad's.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:58 AM
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I get that. There is a 6'5" guy in my friend group and also some girls that are around 5'1". It is comical watching them try to talk, especially at a concert where they have to get mouth to ear. I'm 6'1" and I prefer girls that are about 5'5". It just seems to work best in bed. The nice thing about girls that are closer to my height though is that my back and neck feel great when we are standing and talking.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:07 AM
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You don't have a lot of time, so Viagra. Longer-term, you'll get good by just having sex with a lot of different women. You'll see the differences in how each responds to different things and start to learn how to read them well and quickly. As you get better you'll also get more confident, which will put them at ease. When they are comfortable with your lead, they'll come over and over.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:59 AM
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Wow dude. You dodged a bullet. Thank her for doing this and telling you about it before the wedding!
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:54 AM
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Great topic OP! My net worth is high and I have spent time in Hong Kong, so I too have thought about this. You are definitely right that HK is full of gold diggers, particularly very hot mainland Chinese girls. You should probably next right away if she says something that uncouth. She has simultaneously revealed that she sees you as a provider and that she lacks basic etiquette. You should probably thank her for revealing her true nature so quickly, saving you the time and energy. If you want t…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:52 AM
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Yeah premature ejaculation is alpha. Jesus.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:37 AM
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It's the usual stuff man. She thinks your SMV is too low and that she can do better. From your other posts, I know you're relying on dating apps to meet women and matching at a slow rate despite spending a lot of time swiping in a big city. Let me explain what's happening.. When you are very active on the app and message a lot of women, they show your profile a lot. Hence *some* matches. When we swipe, we usually instantly right-swipe the hotties and then also reluctantly right-swipe a few more …
/r/askTRP22/06/18 12:28 AM
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Thanks? It's generally a good sexual strategy to get the girl off during sex. That will make her much more likely to want to do it again. Indeed, it's one of the best ways to demonstrate value.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:19 PM
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Go until you are about to cum and then flex those muscles, which will stop you from cumming. It will also take your arousal level down a notch so you can start going again. If you do it too early then it doesn't really do anything. If you do it too late, well, then it's over. Ideally, you get to where your dick is slightly pulsating. The closer you get without cumming, the more effective it is. This is a bit of a crutch though, really. You have to stop thrusting to squeeze/wait, which throws the…
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:15 PM
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Some people experience a longer refraction period or really just don't get super aroused again the same night. Also, the woman often needs sustained sex for a certain amount of time to reach a certain level or come.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 10:29 PM
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First off, it can't be said enough times--congrats man. You've really pulled off an amazing transformation! You definitely look good enough to get laid by attractive women if your personality is good and you're confident. I have a somewhat similar story and I feel I can relate. I was about 250 lbs at age 15. I was like you were, storing fat more in my torso than in my arms/legs. Over the next year, I lost about 100 lbs, basically from starving myself and cardio. I was also still growing in heigh…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 10:57 PM
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A lot of suggestions about condom size, which you seem to have considered already. As far as I know, there are only two other things you can try.. First, use thinner condoms. That can make a huge difference. Second, realize it's in your head. Difficulty cumming is a lot like psychological ED. You start getting worried that you can't cum in the condom and that anxiety is lowering your state of arousal and then, of course, you can't cum. I'm not sure exactly how to fix that, it's complicated. One …
/r/askTRP20/06/18 03:55 PM
1

The key is realizing that you will become vastly more valuable a you progress in your studies. Top-tier firms in the US pay outstanding CS grads as much as 250k+ in their first year nowadays. It's very unlikely you'll be able to make anywhere near that as a 19 year old student, so best to not stress too much about making a few extra bucks right now. Instead, focus on building up your abilities in CS and also math/stats/A.I. or whatever else you are interested in that pays. You mention some inter…
/r/askTRP20/06/18 01:59 PM
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Probably a minor tear, but only a doctor can tell you for sure. Will usually heal on it's own, just be careful not to push through pain. If it hurts significantly, don't do it. That will only exacerbate the damage. Still, doctor. Front delt soreness is very common because the muscle gets utilized in so many different lifts. You mentioned having a 'push day'. I suspect you are doing bench press and/or dumbbell press for chest and then afterwards doing shoulder presses. Keep in mind that those che…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:16 PM
1

Listen man. You're lying to yourself. Nearly don't text at all? What? You said that you have asked her to meet up several times with her not giving you a yes/no answer. The reason she doesn't give a yes/no answer is because the answer is no. However, rather than saying no, she ignores the question to keep you in an orbiting position. She just wants your attention. She doesn't want you. The fact that this has happened several times indicates that after it happened once, you kept texting. So your …
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:02 PM
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I already went NoFap months ago. So I'm in. I've only lapsed a couple times. Basically, at the end of a night of a lot of partying and drugs, my girl and I usually have drugged up sex. I love that. A couple times she was too blacked out though and I have trouble sleeping when I'm like that. Nutting makes me really tired and is a lot healthier than sleeping pills so I allow myself in those situations if I need it. I totally agree that masturbating once in a while is fine, probably even beneficial…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:36 PM
1

I work in an elite Wall Street firm and we hire a lot of people with both types of degrees. A math degree is hypothetically less practical than an engineering degree, but there is always the saying, "there aren't many people with math degrees on the streets". Both disciplines emphasize rigorous quantitative reasoning and that is the main skill you will get out of either major. The truth is, you don't specialize that much in undergrad anyways. I think whatever your school is better known for and …
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:43 PM
1

Yeah that's obviously a lot more worrisome to me. For the time being she isn't interested in dating men (says she's "got one already"), but obviously she fucks me so she's capable of fucking other guys. Our "rules" currently preclude it, but that may not last. Religious poly feminists always say there is no difference, that it's sexist to say there is. Obviously, that's horseshit. I don't care about my plates fucking other guys, but my wife is a totally different story. First, it's just the idea…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:37 PM
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Thanks for the advice. One thing I've noticed is that I've needed to either tell them upfront or not tell them at all. Every attempt to tell them after meeting (or even matching on tinder) blew up in my face. I think there's a basic insecurity that is signaled when I tell them later-- that I think girls won't be interested if I'm upfront. On the other hand, being upfront signals the opposite-- that I'm confident girls will date me even in my presumed ineligible state.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:13 PM
1

Right. I've experimented with this a bit and haven't been able to detect a difference in the SMV of the girls I'm pulling in, but I'm curious if that's just a sample-size thing and others have had different experiences. There are some hot girls that think they deserve a high SMV man all to themselves (even if he's covertly spinning plates). On the other hand, there are other hot girls in open relationships...
/r/askTRP31/08/17 06:05 PM
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You also aren't bothering to spell correctly. There aren't affection issues or dependence. My wife isn't my property.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 04:01 PM
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You didn't really answer my question, but I don't really see your point. You're skeptical of open marriages. OK. Would I be more alpha in your eyes if I was only having sex with my wife? Or if she wasn't having sex with her girlfriend? Or if I left my wife? I don't see any advantage in any of those things. Moreover... while the original impetus to open our marriage came from her, nowadays I have more options in dating than she does. So the net effect has been a huge increase in her respect for m…
/r/askTRP31/08/17 03:42 PM
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I find a lot of tg chicks to be super hot. I've flirted and made out with a few. It can be sort of fun and transgressive. As you may have observed, they will generally have to play in a much lower league than if they were true females. The other commenters just aren't attracted, which is their thing. I wouldn't be dissuaded if I were you. If you're attracted then do it, just avoid onegirlitis obviously. Also, don't make this an exclusive strategy. A lot of guys will rationalize an opportunity in…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 06:39 PM
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Tell her your crazy aroused and give her an orgasm with your fingers and tongue before intercourse. Then build up the stamina. Masturbation is not a good way to boost stamina. You want real stamina. Masturbating just drops a load so you aren't as excited later. You won't get as hard or come as hard. Nah. Better to work at maintaining a high state of arousal rather than just playing in the lower levels. That said, I do masturbate and I don't think it affects me that negatively.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:37 PM
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I've had to "cut off" a few friends over the years for various reasons. Either they were too clingy or behaved embarrassingly in public. It feels kind of bad to do but you ultimately have to worry about your own life first. On the other hand, I've had friends that definitely made me look good in the club etc. but were flaky and self-centered. And I've given some 'cut-off' friends another chance and found that they'd improved.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 10:24 PM
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I agree with some of the comments here that taller women are approached a bit less because guys have internalized the idea that women want their mates to be a few inches taller than them. One of the true "niches" in the dating world is tall, decent-looking girls (for tall guys). Obviously if they are gorgeous than they have no problems, but the slightly less attractive girls that are 5'9" or above have a very small dating pool if they'll only date guys over 6' (which is often the case). A lot of…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 10:19 PM
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