Alright fellas I'm looking for some solid bro advice and I'm gonna make this quick.

Fucked this girl throughout college, ended up taking her as my LTR as we graduated. She's a great girl and out careers really align, etc.

From freshman year to senior year when we hooked up, I was always in charge, on top, doing what I wanted. I never really let her take control, it just wasn't how I did things.

Since then I've settled down a bit, we live together now and I've committed myself to her.

Here's where I feel like I fucked up.

I am now at a point where I want her to be on top, riding me, giving crazy head, etc. But I feel like she doesn't feel confident in herself/skills to try since it's always been me doing what I want.

Does anyone have any legitimate advice for this situation? I'm not one to really sit her down and ask her to do these things.