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| 1 | Looking for a protege. Anyone interested? | JordanRedfort | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 10:23 AM | |
| 0 | Is this an exception to “don’t shit where you eat”? | JordanRedfort | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 05:58 AM | |
| 0 | Tips for taking LTR’s virginity? | JordanRedfort | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:25 PM |
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| 2 | Who are y’alls favorite TV/Movie Alpha males?Jordan Belfort, Patrick Bateman, Tyler Dryden, Frank Underwood, Lester Burnham, Chow from Hangover, Bradley Cooper’s character in Limitless. I could go on forever, these are just at the top of my head. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Question: when status symbols take over your logical decision making process, what to do?Here’s the most redpill thing you can do: Why don’t you NOT support a trillion dollar company which charges four figures for an overpriced pacifier? A new phone will only lead to more distractions on your end. Porn, social media and games will be more accessible. You’re effectively PAYING to fuck up your dopamine receptors. Why not invest that $500 in yourself? Hit the gym. Get stylish. Learn a new skill. Read some books. If you think buying a new phone will win you the respect of your peers, yo… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:58 PM |
| 41 | Has anyone internalizing the red pill experienced the tug of war between the blue pill and the red pill?Yes, we all have that tension between us. Just one word of advice though: Do NOT get married. If you’re a high value man, women will come to you in droves. I’m not even kidding – the only problem you’ll have is spending too much of your time and energy on women. They will hit you up all hours of the day just waiting for a window to see you. They will offer to pay for everything, invite you over to their place, and guilt trip you every time you schedule something more important. I’ve got a much h… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Fixing my social skillsRead ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ by Dale Carnegie for theory. For practice, try striking up conversations with people you’ll never see again. At the grocery store, for example, instead of heading for the self-checkout, talk to the checkout guy or girl for a bit. Ask them how their day is going. Ask people where they’re heading on public transport. Don’t be overbearing; remember they’re people just like you and probably just as scared of interacting with strangers. Once you work up … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:43 PM |
| 23 | Do you wait to respond to a woman?Here’s what I do: I turn notifications off. If you’re working, lifting, hitting on girls and doing other cool shit, you’ll be too busy to check your phone all that often. She is entering YOUR frame. YOUR world. And in your world, you’re so busy kicking ass that getting a response is a PRIVILEGE. Especially once you set up a date, mute the chat. Check it whenever you feel like it, but now you’re no longer on edge about when she replies and how long you should take to respond. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:39 PM |
| 5 | Kissed girl's best friend, she blocked meYes, don’t even bother with the original girl. Just a heads up, even though she blocked you that doesn’t mean she doesn’t exist and won’t interfere in the future. My advice? Once you get a lay out of her best friend consider ditching both of them for good. It’s not worth tolerating all this bullshit and girly drama just for sex. Then again, girls who have been best friends for years can become mortal enemies in seconds, so it’s really hard to say. Think with your brain and not your dick, and you… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Spending too much time on self improvement... is this a bad thing?Not in the SLIGHTEST. Remember, men age like wine and women age like milk. You are only getting stronger, smarter, hotter, richer and more deadly. Every. Fucking. Day. Women will flock to you when you hit the clubs. You’re not missing out on much, focus on yourself first and foremost. The women will come naturally. All the best. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Should I just cut contact with a girl whose moving colleges?Yes. Quit texting her, maybe a message on her birthday and Christmas just to keep in touch. The best thing to do is to move on and find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 02:44 AM |
| 7 | IS BEING SELFISH WRONG?!If you try to please everybody, you'll just end up disappointing yourself. Always put yourself first. That being said, don't be hostile unnecessarily. There's a balance that will take time to master. Read 'No More Mr Nice Guy' by Robert A. Glover and get back to us. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 10:34 AM |
| 8 | how to go about lowering sex drive?Learn about sexual transmutation. You don’t want a lower sex drive, you want to channel your sexual energy towards your studies and make them your plate. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | What to do about an LTR getting fat?Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 04:15 PM |
| 11 | How to continue working on goals and self improvement while in a relationship?My Stance on Women by IllimitableMan: “My art comes first. I come second to my art, my needs come second to my art and only come before it if those needs stop me from working on my art (e.g., I have fallen sick and need medicine.) Thirdly comes my parents, my cousins etc. Fourthly comes any woman lucky enough to be in my life. If she doesn't like her position she can feel free to take a hike because I couldn't give a fuck. Accept me for what I am or get the fuck out is how I treat women, you can… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 04:13 PM |
| 11 | How can I make money online with $1000 a month disposable income?You can’t. Unless you’re willing to expend a lot of time and energy into understanding how markets and online businesses work, you’re not going to make even average amounts of money. My advice: put it in an index fund ETF, sit back and watch it grow slowly but steadily. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Theory Reading On EscalationYes, it’s called the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 01:03 PM |
| 5 | What's the role of male-group banter in establishing dominance heirarchy? What's your experience?• Learn how to make and take a joke. • Don’t be the punching bag or the easy target of the group. • Don’t be a complete savage; nobody likes an asshole. • Know your target. Even though they might be smiling, you might have just poured gasoline on a fire. Everyone responds to banter differently, and you might have struck a nerve. Personally, I’ve cultivated a personality where I don’t open my mouth often. When I do, however, I’m immediately met with laughs and smiles for my originality and brutal… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Going to my first frat party. Should I bring a girl with me?I usually abide by ‘don’t bring sand to the beach’. That being said, if you bring this girl along she shouldn’t be an obligation of yours. If anything, she could act as your wingman. Make sure she doesn’t weigh you down, interfere with any interactions or get jealous and upset with you for being a ‘player’ next time you meet. Weigh up the risk-return and decide for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to stay on my path and dealing with FOMOYou say you don’t think you care about it yet you end up writing a post about it. You’re still in the denial stage; a slap in the face is optional. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 10:43 PM |
| 15 | Is the entertainment industry becoming too bluepilled? How can you enjoy the shows after taking the trp?Yes it is, and the solution is simple; you can’t enjoy those shows anymore. Find new shows. Bear in mind that no show is perfectly redpilled, but if you’re looking for something sharp, quick-witted and political, try House of Cards. Or better yet, watch documentaries about alpha personalities; the best example I can think of is Dirty Money, which is also on Netflix. If you think the entertainment industry is becoming too bluepilled and you can’t stand watching and supporting them, then don’t wat… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How to manage plates as a wealthy guy?Outsource. Also I have a celebrity personal trainer who absolutely destroys my body every time he trains me. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 02:18 AM |
| 3 | How to manage plates as a wealthy guy?I’m also on a seven figure income. At times, it feels like it’s not even worth the time and effort to spin plates. My advice is to refrain from sleeping with hookers and pornstars. While it’s incredibly convenient and pleasurable to get a lay with just a phone call and a few hundred dollars, it’s a slippery slope that leads into more degeneracy. You either need to be ruthless with your intentions or you need to downplay your image and sneak past her radar. In the first scenario, describe upfront… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Beta talents?Yes. Unless you spend your free time as the captain of the football team, a master of Brazili Jiu-Jitsu or fixing your car, you’re a beta male and you have no place here. I think you’ve misinterpreted every single hobby you engage in. Allow me to explain why: Cooking is an EXTREMELY high value hobby. Being independent and able to provide for yourself is a very attractive quality. I don’t know what you read about, but reading gives you a wide variety of insight into a bunch of topics. Based on th… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:44 PM |
| 11 | Going into monk mode for a couple of months, any tips beside the ones in the sidebar?Have someone, preferably another guy from r/TheRedPill or r/asktrp, keep you accountable. Check up with him every couple of days or every week. He should be your only point of reference. When I was in monk mode, I had someone twice my age from a completely different career path and life story guide me through one of the roughest periods in my life. He helped immensely. I advise the same. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:05 PM |
| 12 | She says she's allergic to condoms but she's on birth control. Anyway I can verify this?Allergic to latex? Understandable. Allergic to condoms? Hmm... Personally, I’d be weary. Maybe even pass. Or you could just ensure watch her take the morning after pill or ask to see proof that she’s on the pill. Make it a joke out of it if you can. Ask if you should have one. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Cold approach on campus“Hey, you look like you’re studying X. How close was I?” You literally go to the same college/university. From my experience, it’s hard not to find something in common with them. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet people in their twenties after college?Keep in touch with some of your friends from university. There’s a good chance they’ll have some kind of value over the next coming years, but if not just keep them on the back burner. No need to burn bridges unnecessarily. As for meeting new guys, my recommendation is hitting some nightclubs. Especially when you’re all drunk, there’s a good chance that a group of guys your age will accept you as one of their own. Stick around with them, pay for a round of drinks when it’s your turn and provide … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 07:07 AM |
| 5 | Job interview in 2 days. First one in 3 months. I'm feel good but is there some key things I should remember/be reminded of?This. Don’t get oneitis over this job; it’s just a stepping stone to even greater things. There are good jobs and there are bad jobs, but there is no perfect job. If you get rejected, which is always a possibility, then don’t go all sour grapes and say “I never even wanted that job.” Learn from your mistakes and put them into practice next time. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 10:41 AM |
| 5 | Struggling hardcoreYour novelty wears off. You go from being the cool and interesting guy that hangs out with them to the turd which sticks to the end of a dogs tail. Naturally, there’s only so much you can say to get a girl’s attention. Your conversations don’t have to give her the impression that you’ve known each other your whole lives. Once you’ve gotten her interest and maybe even her number, you escalate. Touch her; remember that actions speak louder than words. Display dominant body language. Two steps forw… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a protege. Anyone interested?That 40 year old boomer who spends his free time shitposting on r/asktrp. When are you going to grace us with your presence on the main subreddit? It’s been a year, I’m thirsty for one of your pieces. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 11:34 AM |
| 6 | does she want more?Don’t be needy. Schedule another ‘date’ and fuck her another time. Or two times. Do not even think about starting an LTR; she’s young, dumb and full of cum. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 04:53 AM |
| -3 | How do you have abundance mentality about girls when you have no girls?If OP was asking how to feel rich despite being broke, wouldn’t you suggest that he get a job so at he has a few dollars to his name? Same principle applies here. Approach a few girls, get their numbers and hang out with them once or twice. Start small and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 03:02 AM |
| -5 | How do you have abundance mentality about girls when you have no girls?Get girls. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 02:20 AM |
| 13 | College Classmate Sending Strong Indicators of Interest: How to Proceed?Fucking talk to her. Quit the mental masturbation and mind games, and ask her out before the window of interest closes. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 01:08 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill book suggestionsI swear to God people who ask this question should be banned. Have you tried searching ‘book suggestions’ in the main subreddit or even this one? I guarantee if you did, you wouldn’t ask this question. Every other day someone asks this exact same question and gets the same set of responses. Start off with the Rational Male, which is in the sidebar you haven’t read. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Investing tips for beginners?I was going to write up a long post about risk tolerance, financial statement analysis and time frame, but fuck it. For a beginner, now is possibly the worst time to invest. Usually I’d give the age-old advice of “diversify; don’t put all your eggs in one basket” but I’m predicting a major pullback in all equity markets across the world in the next eighteen months. My advice is don’t invest until you’re very confident with your decision and you can back it up with concrete evidence. I’ve got a r… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 12:15 AM |
| 9 | So I don’t ever ask for nudes when I’m talking to girls. I’ve always felt weird about asking for them but I feel like that’s just my blue pill mind thinking of respecting women and all that bullshit. Should I be asking for nudes as a way to start escalating things sexuallyNo. Try to get her naked in person, which is significantly more difficult but much more gratifying at the same time. Veterans of r/TheRedPill will agree. Nudes were exciting when you were a pubescent teenager. Undo her bra and cusp her breasts in your hand like a man. Escalating digitally isn’t a good idea in most cases. There’s no way to escalate physically, you can’t maintain eye contact and you can’t intoxicate her with your voice. If you still want to, NEVER ask for nudes outright. It’s comm… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 07:15 AM |
| 17 | Any more books or guides like Sex God Method?In Tim Ferris’s book The 4-Hour Body, he has a comprehensive chapter called the Female 15-Minute Orgasm. There’s also a guide on how to triple your testosterone and double your sperm count, which is something I’m guessing you’d be interested in. Make sure to practice what you learn in order to cement it permanently. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 12:41 AM |
| 5 | Cute girl I wanna ask outThere’s a thing called the three second rule in PUA. When you see a girl you like, you have three seconds to approach her when you’re available. This generates an air of non-neediness; you see what you want, approach and you get your outcome immediately. Thinking about said girl for three weeks and mentioning that to her is an awful idea. Just approach like you’re unfamiliar with her. She might not have noticed you; if she’s cute, there’s a good chance she gets attention from a lot of guys and d… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 09:04 AM |
| 13 | What do you do when reading books?• Reading and listening to an audiobook simultaneously is something I’d highly recommend. • Pause and rewind whenever there’s something you don’t understand. • Underline what you find interesting for future reference. • Type everything you’ve underlined out in a Google Doc or copy it from the PDF if you have it. Separate each book within a single document. That way in the future, you can find search for a specific topic and come up with dozens of results. • Learn how to speed read. Don’t read ev… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 11:56 PM |
| 10 | Push PullLike most guys, you probably have a tendency to do one of two things. Either you won’t say anything of substance and you’ll appear socially awkward, or you’ll say everything and appear needy and stupid. In response to a girl’s “How was you weekend?” question: A socially awkward man would reply with a one or two word cookie-cutter answer, like “Fine” or “It was ok.” A needy and dependent man would go into every single detail about his night, maybe even exaggerating the details: “It was the night … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:51 PM |
| 9 | He dose not even try how dose this workSidebar. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:02 AM |
| 11 | How to have more energy/willpower?Meditation and power naps if you want to build a habit that will boost your physical and mental wellbeing. Coffee if you’re a lazy fuck like 99% of the general population (myself included). | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Competing against High SMV best friend. Should I be comfortable with being a second option?Level the playing field; raise your SMV as well. Remember that SMV consists of wealth, looks and status, so it’s very realistic for you to surpass him in SMV. By the sound of things it doesn’t sound like you’re competing with him. Women are attracted to men who are LESS invested in them and not men who are NOT invested them at all. No woman wants to be ignored or put on the back burner. So if he continues to pursue his ‘oneitis’ then they’re all yours. Find out where he specifically stops escala… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 08:27 AM |
| 10 | Is not worrying about a girls past, delusional thinking/blue-pill?Yes. If a car has driven 200,000 miles, you don’t check the odometer and you still buy it, does that make you an idiot? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 06:18 AM |
| 18 | Do women get mean when rejected, or am I just an idiot?You’re not an idiot. Women handle rejection WAY worse than men do. Why do you think they spend so much time putting on makeup, styling their hair and waxing their bodies before they go out to nightclubs? To feel DESIRABLE. Why is that every teenage girl’s profile picture is littered with comments about how beautiful, perfect and attractive they are? Because desirability is extremely important for a woman. And what happens when you reject or retract from an interaction they initiate? They feel UN… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 05:00 AM |
| 11 | LTR Fuck Question“Stop being a pussy; ask and you shall receive.” - the Bible, probably Better yet, make her feel like the idea was hers and let her take the credit. Maybe you could “throw your back out” and when she wants to fuck one thing will lead to another and boom, she’s riding you. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 04:04 AM |
| 4 | How would you handle this Tinder conversation to turn it around? Girl CEO freaks out on guy.The bitch is genuinely crazy, and the guy dodged a massive bullet. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was the CEO, if at all, of something extremely frivolous, like a makeup distribution business or a blog. Criticism: He shouldn’t have carried on like he did. Sure, it’s satisfying getting the last say, but it’s also incredibly immature. Any bet this gets reposted and racks up a tonne of upvotes, likes, retweets, etc. What he SHOULD have done was hard next’d her when she refused to meet him any other… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 02:58 AM |
| 13 | How to next a girl without it getting messy? How to avoid her going nuclear?Don’t reject her outright. When she asks to meet up, say you’ve got a lot going on or a really busy schedule and you’ll let her know when you’re free. This isn’t to keep delaying the inevitable. Rather, you hope that over time, say two weeks, she’ll lose interest and forget about you. You’re putting her on the back-burner. Plus, you’ve got the added benefit that if you’re ever going through a dry spell, there’s a chance that she’ll be down to meet up. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 01:43 AM |
| 3 | What about positive reinforcement?What about it? You’ll rarely see it mentioned here because it’s such an easy concept to grasp. Especially in an LTR, it’s a no brainer. You reward what is done well and ignore/punish what is done poorly. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 03:19 PM |
| 67 | Are men also hypergamous?Early life You are a teenager. All hormones and no experience, desperate to get out from under the thumb of oppression of your parents. You need a job. Job gives you the means to do what it is you want to do. Eat, pay rent as a roomie, buy your first shitbox car, go out drinking, hit up vegas for the first time, buy that sweet little nextdoor neighbour girl a movie ticket so you'll get a little hand action in the back row.... money makes the world go round. Since you're a teen with zero experien… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | For the first time in my life i may have some options. New girls vs reconnecting with an old friend?Not having sex in five years means you’ll probably cum in 30 seconds, and that’s about it. It’s like riding a bike: once you hop on, you’re back from where you left off. Don’t be desperate. Recall that you are a man, with testosterone, masculine energy and a cock, and you want to please a woman. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 01:09 PM |
| 1 | For the first time in my life i may have some options. New girls vs reconnecting with an old friend?Now that you’ve said that, I’d completely write off your ex-oneitis. There’s a minuscule chance you’ll get to dick her if she feels that way about you. You could fuck the old friend, just make your intentions extremely clear. You don’t have to say “If we’re not fucking I’m not seeing you again” but that should be the driving force. You don’t want to get LJBF’d, but even if you do the consequences aren’t that severe. Just move on to another option. Simple as that. Also, I’m pleading with you: do … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:57 PM |
| 7 | What did ancient and enlightenment era philosophers thing about women?Aristotle: “...as regards the sexes, the male is by nature superior and the female inferior, the male ruler and the female subject. And the same must necessarily apply to all mankind.” Plato: “...they will receive lighter duties than the men, because of the weakness of their sex.” Aristotle was more of a chauvinist than Plato, but both agreed that women were physically inferior than men, which holds true to this day. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:51 PM |
| 2 | For the first time in my life i may have some options. New girls vs reconnecting with an old friend?I’d start with the girls who are leaving. If you fuck up things with them, guess what? You’ll literally never see them again. Avoid the bitch with the kid. I haven’t even met her and I can tell that she’s irresponsible and immature by nature. Remember that there are several options beyond the women you’ve just listed. The more you build your SMV, the better chance of reeling in some fresh poon. I’d stay away from your ex-oneitis until you become the type of guy she wouldn’t recognise. Then fuck … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:43 PM |
| 8 | If none or few women should be able to vote then how could this be realistically made into law?You’re forgetting the fact that MEN voted for WOMEN to have the right to vote. We could have just said no when they kept asking and they would have obliged. In the same way you can’t outlaw same-sex marriage, you’d have a very difficult time convincing half of the population to throw away their voting rights. And besides, what would your rationale even be? I personally believe that the majority of people, both men and women, are uninformed voters and don’t know left from right when it comes to p… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Depression led to oneitis breaking up with me and washed away all my energy. Thinking about suicide.You’re right; I don’t understand. I only copied out the text from an image famous on 4chan and shared the link to an article I found on r/TheRedPill. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 12:29 PM |
| 6 | Depression led to oneitis breaking up with me and washed away all my energy. Thinking about suicide.Also, unironically this: https://totalfratmove.com/guy-goes-to-mexico-to-kill-himself-spends-week-doing-coke-and-banging-hookers-decides-to-keep-living/ | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:06 AM |
| 17 | Depression led to oneitis breaking up with me and washed away all my energy. Thinking about suicide.Reposting one of my favorites: I never got why people would kill themselves. So if you want to die you obviously don’t give a shit. Like, about anyone. Because if there is anyone who loves you, you don’t give a FUCK about them, or hurting them, and if there’s not, there’s no one to give a shit about. So instead of killing yourself why don’t you just get the fuck out? Leave the basement, leave your house, leave the motherfucking country. Go on an adventure, spend your time doing something awesome… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:04 AM |
| 10 | First time getting an "escort". Hoping to get advice or critiques on my planned strategyYou’re going to risk losing $300, getting arrested and potentially getting fined just for some stank pussy? To put it bluntly, you’re a fucking dumbass. The negatives far outweigh the positives. You’re putting so much on the line for such little, mostly likely because you’re exaggerating your SMV and you can’t get laid. You’d rather pay $300 than bust your ass at the gym, build an attractive life and nail a thot at the club. Fucking a hooker is only slightly better than jerking off to porn. But … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 02:04 AM |
| 12 | Not sure if overthinking or not. But I don't have social media and as a result feel I am potentially isolating myself or missing out / looking weird from others perspectives?I deleted all social media over a year ago and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. Sure, at the beginning you’ll feel like your missing out on being invited to events. But in many cases, I’ve had friends screenshot an event on Facebook and message it to me, saying “You coming bro?” You’ll soon come to understand that the higher your SMV, the more people will want to hang out with you and will actively seek you at their social gatherings. For instance, one of my friends is a popular DJ. He a… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 01:54 AM |
| 0 | Got cucked the same night after fucking a girl on a youth tripI agree. I was comparing OP’s definition of getting cucked (a girl who’s already had a fling with him sleeping with another guy) to a more extreme example. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 01:45 PM |
| 62 | Got cucked the same night after fucking a girl on a youth tripDoesn’t matter; had sex. You didn’t really get cucked. Getting cucked would be if you didn’t fuck the girl and jerked off to the sound of her getting railed from next door. You did good my man. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel like their masculinity is trapped?Yeah, my masculinity was stolen by a bald evil genius with a 2’ 8” clone and a rebellious ginger son. Good thing I’m an international man of mystery and I can hopefully recover it. Wish me luck! | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 05:34 AM |
| 8 | What is high functioning depression and what can I look for in myself to grade whether I have it or not?Sure. Once upon a time, a plague called feminism spread like wildfire through the developed world. The repercussions left young men questioning their identity and purpose in life. In an upside-down clown world where you can’t voice even a slightly controversial opinion and not lose your job or be criticised by the media, OP resorts to asking a male support group for advice. Not just any group, a group which promises to deliver a raw and unfiltered version of the truth. While it may be difficult … | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 03:36 AM |
| 5 | What is high functioning depression and what can I look for in myself to grade whether I have it or not?This is completely wrong. How you feel and your attitude towards life and others in your life is a variable that determines your SMV. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Abundance and the effect on women direct and indirectWomen are incredibly perceptive. While a phone blowing up with notifications from attractive women is a clear sign, they’ll subconsciously scrutinise your behavior in search of alpha genes. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 05:10 PM |
| 6 | How to study and get over one-it-is if I can't avoid the girl in class?Sit in front of her and don’t look back. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Abundance and the effect on women direct and indirectThis wasn’t me, but on r/TheRedPill one girl confessed “I love how you lead such an interesting and exciting life, with or without me.” That’s what you should strive for. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Confused about where trp stands on cold approachingThere should be well over a thousand people on campus. Do you really think people give a fuck whether you asked an attractive girl out and got turned down? As long as you don’t profess your undying love towards her, asking an attractive girl out won’t tarnish your reputation. Besides, your reputation will be short-lived; it’s college and everyone’s doing dumb shit. If you’re an average guy, nobody will be thinking of the awkward moments you got yourself into five years down the track, for better… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting HB4 cause I want HB5I’d suspend the belief that your SMV can’t be improved beyond your looks. Remember that the three core components of SMV are looks, money and status. Surely you can wear better fitting clothing, correct your posture and pack on some lean muscle. You can also work an additional job to earn some extra dollars. The very least you can do is shovel driveways, mow lawns or wash cars to make an extra $100 a week. Finally, you can build your social status. Talk to people. Get involved in team activities… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Rejecting HB4 cause I want HB5No. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:25 PM |
| 3 | A career questionGet very good at something, anything, that has the potential to earn you money. You will have to spend about 100 hours training yourself in something (design, programming, drawing, etc) and know how to effectively market yourself before you can start to realize an income stream. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 09:20 AM |
| 2 | A career questionSuck dick for a living. You can work from home and get paid 600-700€ depending on how well you suck and the quantity. Very little experience past experience required and no degree. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 09:17 AM |
| 2 | psychology of insultFocus on your frame first. Why are you getting insulted? If it’s because of something you can’t change, then your friends are assholes and you can stay away from them. If it’s because of something you CAN change, like your poorly designed wardrobe or your irritating personality, then change. Simple. Try not to become someone who’s worthy of insulting. You will always think of something better to say once the encounter has already happened. Just look at freestyle rappers; in hindsight they could … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 04:00 AM |
| 18 | Confused about where trp stands on cold approachingCold approaching is a rite of passage that will turn you from a boy into a man. Nothing is more confronting than swallowing your pride and overpowering every insecurity you repeat to yourself to approach a girl. Especially during the day and in a public place, where the stakes are high. You’ll learn a lot from repeated exposure to cold approach. Namely, that other people are just as nervous to be approached by strangers than you are to approach them. That you are a confident, dominant and intere… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 6 | am I reading into this too muchNo, you’ve thought about it for the correct amount of time and you’ve taken the necessary action. Good work, now it’s time to move on. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:47 AM |
| 7 | How can i learn the basics of sex?Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson is the best place to start for you. That will take care of the theory part. Unfortunately, there is no other way to learn other than hands on; or as I like to call it, balls deep. In the same way that playing Flight Simulator won’t make you a pilot, watching pornography and reading online forums won’t be your best teacher. Keep browsing r/TheRedPill and inch your way out of your comfort zone, because that’s where life actually begins. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:58 AM |
| 48 | Women asking how many girlfriends I currently have“Take a ticket and get in line.” or “There’s always room for one more.” Smile, laugh and play it cool. The same goes if she asks the last time you’ve had sex; never give her a real answer. Don’t flip the script and ask how many boyfriends she’s had. This will trigger her ASD or she’ll bore you to death with every guy she’s slept with since high school. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:42 PM |
| 4 | What do you make of a police chief crying on live TV?What do I make of it? It’s a police chief who’s crying over the loss of one of his close friends. The police officer who died gave his life for service, selflessness and duty: his wife is now widowed and his children fatherless. Sure, maybe the police chief shouldn’t have broken his frame and teared up towards the end. The truth of the matter is that we’re human. We’re empathetic creatures and that’s what’s allowed us to survive for this long. You can act as Dark Triad as you like, but when the … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:37 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with jerks?There’s only one way to deal with jerks. And that’s to jerk them off. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:24 PM |
| 24 | What’s the most brutal thing a oneitis has done or said to you before you got redpilled?“I lied. I was never in love with you.” | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:21 PM |
| 14 | My FWB has been good to me lately and I want to return the favor without escalating too muchWhy not straight up pay for a date? If she’s given you $X of drinks and care, why not replicate it? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Post-processing events with a red-pilled lens, should it happen concurrently with the event?I’ll give you a heads up of what to expect at parties and clubbing, since they’re much the same. Loud music, so you’ll probably be yelling or speaking into a girl’s ear. Alcohol, so it’s not a place for conversations for anything remotely philosophical or technical (instead of chatting about algorithms, you’d ask the girl to guess which zodiac sign you are). Girls wearing revealing clothing to try and get your attention (speak to them but don’t be distracted by their bodies). Dancing (unstifle, … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Post-processing events with a red-pilled lens, should it happen concurrently with the event?Yes. Practice makes perfect. Since you’re studying computer science, I’m assuming you’ve grown up as a typical nerd who spends more time in front of a screen than at parties. Improve upon every interaction you have, even if by just a little, and soon enough you won’t have to process each line of the conversation; you’ll be doing it unconsciously. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:36 PM |
| 11 | Finding women attractive in reddits trpI think you weren’t thinking straight when you wrote this post. What the fuck are you asking? I see a lot of question marks but nothing is registering in my brain. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:21 PM |
| 7 | I don't want to spend time with girls, but I want to get laidUnless your SMV is extremely high - i.e. you’re a multi-millionaire, a celebrity, or a male model - women will want to QUALIFY you before they sleep with you. There are women who will spread their legs for you within minutes of meeting them. They’re called hookers. There are women who will let you stick your weiner inside them if you wait until the last call for alcohol, buy them a drink and touch them in the right places. They’re called thots. If you’re looking for quick, meaningless and effort… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:19 PM |
| 23 | I don't want to spend time with girls, but I want to get laidI don’t want to write a resumé or attend interviews, but I want a job. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Beta friend believes having more female friends will increase his chances in finding a hookup“You cannot teach a man anything. You can only help him discover it for himself.” Bear that in mind the next time you converse. Lead by example and remember that actions speak louder than words. Maybe buy him a copy of The Rational Male as a gift if you’ve got $20 lying around. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:24 PM |
| 5 | ASD, ASD, Ghost -> last tryThird time’s the charm. Read this and act accordingly: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8z2kzt/whats_your_favorite_response_to_were_not_having/?st=JK2HSOAO&sh=9e908f72 That’s all you have to do. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:47 AM |
| 14 | Is Rick from Rick and Morty the Pinnacle of RP?Yeah, especially that episode where he almost succeeds in killing himself because he got turned down by an ex-lover. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:14 AM |
| 15 | What do you reckon is going on here lads?Before anyone reads this, or after it if you’ve suffered like I have, you should know the context. OP has been asking this same question on various different subreddits for the past 60 days. He’s received a wide variety of responses, some short and others long, but continues to ask the same question. If that’s not oneitis, I don’t know what is. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 01:08 PM |
| 13 | What do you do when your start to catch the feelsI’m going to answer your question with a comment you’ve said to someone in the past. Where is your abundance mentality? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 12:59 PM |
| 3 | How do you get rid of people holding you back ?OP: There are people holding me back in life. Me: Leave them. OP: I can’t. Me: Then stay. OP: I don’t want to. You’ll never actualise your own masculinity until you free yourself from the shackles that bound you. The keys are within reach. Start small. Get a steady income, learn how to cook and take care of yourself. Make a new circle of friends who will support you. And then move the fuck on. You won’t do this though. You’ll periodically check the rest of the comments and never garner the stren… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 10:40 AM |
| 10 | Shit test becoming boringUnfortunately, we live in a world where attractive women who can have good conversations are far and few between. There are unattractive women who have good conversations (to compensate for their lacklustre looks) and attractive women who have boring conversations (because their body does all the talking). Attractive women who are interesting aren’t the types of girls you’ll meet at nightclubs. If you’re in college, join clubs and societies to get exposure to these hotties. They’ll usually be pa… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 10:34 AM |
| 2 | How important is it that your therapist be male?Therapy is for you then. Remember that you’re anonymous online under a throwaway account. Frequent the relevant subreddits and chat to people who have gone through or are going through the same thing. Finding an accountability partner will also help immensely. Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | How important is it that your therapist be male?Instead of looking for a male therapist, why not try and conquer your anxiety by yourself first? r/TheRedPill has a plethora of resources on overcoming social anxiety. Therapy is expensive and in many cases your therapist may draw out your recovery. After all, the longer you take to recover, the more he/she can profit, and I’m sure you know by now that women are more manipulative than men. This isn’t a one size fits all scenario. You may need therapy, and in most cases sessions are beneficial. B… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Continue on dread game or nextWhy would you want to be friends with this girl, or any girl for that matter? If she’s somewhat popular and can help set you up with other pub sluts, then go for it. Telling her to come to your house is a great idea. If she drops what she’s doing to come visit you, you better give her the dicking of a lifetime. Make her a repeat customer, and you can order her to your house like Dominos. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Continue on dread game or nextThe initial lay is the only thing he’s done right. Travelling 20km by bus to visit a girl you’ve already fucked and not fucking her? Autistic. Turning down an opportunity to hang out with a girl at her swimming pool, where there’s a good chance she’s wearing a bikini and she wants sun lotion rubbed on her back? Just so you can ‘appear’ alpha as fuck? Autistic. Not reading the sidebar and confusing terminology on one of the more basic concepts of r/TheRedPill? Autistic. Criticising a trivial poin… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Continue on dread game or nextEverybody for context, OP is 16. Try not to bash the guy too hard for his retarded post. This isn’t dread game. This is you being an autist. Dread game happens in a LTR when the stakes of losing a partner are so high that the woman “dreads” the thought of ever being alone and gets whipped into shape. This girl you met at the pub should be fucked. Nothing more, nothing less. You will fuck her and she will get fucked by you until she fucks another guy and you get fucked over. Don’t be sad, just mo… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:45 PM |
| 3 | How can I build a passive income?Here’s some context for you. Two months ago, OP talks about how he’s going to earn $10,000 a month earning passive income from the $0 he’s earning right now. The blog is now deleted. Turns out you need to start with more than $100. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Tips on dating a retardMake sure she has a box of crayons and a coloring sheet on her desk. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Why do all women look at me like I'm going to harass them even though I'm extremely kind?Low SMV. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:23 PM |
| 3 | How to go out splitting cost of a movie theater date?A top 10% man would invite the girl into his adventurous and exciting world. For example, I love dancing and I’m talented at it. When I invite a girl to my dance class, there’s instant social proof because I greet everyone in the room with a hug. Plus, I’m popular among the guys and the girls. Ten seconds stepping into the room and things are already going great. Then the actual dancing involves a lot of physical contact. Suddenly, what seems impossible on the first date (grabbing them by the wa… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 03:22 PM |
| 24 | How to go out splitting cost of a movie theater date?Why the fuck would you take a girl on a date at the movies to begin with? Do you like sitting in darkness and not talking to her, with the hopes of putting your arm around her shoulder? Also, you’re 31: by now, paying $17 for her ticket shouldn’t put you on the streets. I know it’s about the principle of not sucking up to women, but nobody likes a tight ass. You could always do the good old “I’ve only got $20 on me and I left my card at home” scheme to pay for your ticket, but you’re better off … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 02:38 PM |
| 7 | Do women like strong masculine men because they would have been the least likely to be killed and often the most good and protection?Is water wet? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Forgot what sort of person I am.Law 48: Assume Formlessness. By taking a shape, by having a visible plan, you open yourself to attack. Instead of taking a form for your enemy to grasp keep yourself adaptable and on the move. Accept the fact that nothing is certain and no law is fixed. The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stability or lasting order. Everything changes. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 10:20 AM |
| 7 | Can I post?No. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Help me change my personality and thinkingYou can’t change your personality and thinking immediately in the same way you can’t get Seven Minute Abs. Destroy this belief right now, it’s the number one barrier preventing your self-development. I’m guessing that you’re a procrastinator. Procrastination is the slow poisoning of your mind and it leads to decay in virtually every other aspect of your life. Why do anything today when you can do it tomorrow? There are dozens of articles on r/TheRedPill and illimitablemen.com which cover these p… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Springbreak help neededNext her. You’re on spring break and there are hundreds, if not thousands, of slutty girls who want to make out and have sex with you. Don’t get upset by the one girl who turned you down: look forward to the dozen other girls you can sleep with on spring break. Best of luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Got a job in sales, need help with my pitchUnironically, I recommend Straight Line Persuasion from none other than the Wolf of Wall Street himself, Jordan Belfort. His course is priced at $2,000 but a few friends and I pitched some money together to buy it. I can send the clips your way if you’d like. Keep in mind that these tactics, when mastered, helped him scam hundreds of millions from naive investors. If that’s not proof that it works, I don’t know what is. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Just got dumpedRead and learn: https://reddit.app.link/KDzH2rnODO | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Im still pretty blue pill but I’m trying to change. I’m trying to get over my oneitis and the girl reached out to me for the first time in almost two months. Here’s what I said, what could I have done betterThe mods here are stern but fair. Your post doesn’t pose a question nor does it ask for advice, so it’s probably best to remove it yourself before it’s forcibly removed. There’s a good chance you’re still in the denial stage and just swallowing the pill now. Read the sidebar, both here and on r/TheRedPill, and build yourself up from the ground. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:11 PM |
| 12 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?There’s no way to tell the difference with 100% certainty. Remember that women act mostly out of emotion and rarely out of logic. A good rule of thumb is the number three. If she’s turned you down three times, there’s a good chance she’s lost interest. In your case, based on what you’ve told me, I think it’s a lost case. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:18 PM |
| 30 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?Women want to test you to see if you are a dominant man. Think what a dominant man would do in your scenario. Would he cling to the option he lost in a desperate attempt to win her over? Or would he brush the thought off and engage with other women like nothing happened? Weigh up the consequences of fixing things with your old plate or finding a new one. Take my advice at face value if you don’t think I’m right and make the call yourself. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 03:06 PM |
| 6 | Isn't Jordan Peterson a turd in the punch bowl?Failing to address any of my key points and referring to an ad hominem attack. You’re even more pathetic than I thought. Who hurt you little man? You do realise that the reason you are redpilled today is because of the the endorses contributors and founding members who CHOSE to help you out. The people who spent time out of their busy schedule to give you a helping hand when you needed it. Why are you so bitter? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:58 PM |
| 51 | Plate is dreading me, should i confront or ignore her as well?When you spin a plate on a pole and you lose control, what happens? It falls on the ground and smashes into several pieces. Don’t bother trying to tape it up: ignore her, find another plate and don’t repeat the same mistakes again. She’s either dreading you or she’s over you. Regardless, don’t validate her with a response. Move on. Don’t look back. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Isn't Jordan Peterson a turd in the punch bowl?“I love playing wheelchair basketball among the disabled, it’s basically life on easy mode.” Let me translate your reply for you in Simple English. You can judge for yourself how much of a cocksucking faggot your sound like. “I come from a position of scarcity. I don’t want my brethren to succeed with women and thrive physically, emotionally and financially. I want my fellow men to squander their time, energy and potential on video games, anime and pornography. I am threatened by people who offe… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:45 PM |
| 12 | I know I'm having oneitis but can you here me out.Multiplying two negative numbers give a positive result. The fact that you have oneitis and you work with this girl cancel each other out. Hang on a second, no it doesn’t. Let me remind you again: she is NOT the only attractive girl that will be interested in you. You should NOT hit on her because she has the power to fuck you over and give you a bad reputation at work. There’s no such thing as a stupid question, except for this one. Swallow the redpill or don’t, but if you want to live happily … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Blood pressure ALWAYS very high whenever someone is taking it. The fuck?This. Consult a sexual strategy Q&A forum instead of seeking advice from a professional doctor of medicine. It’s probably happening due to your weak frame, which can be corrected with lifting. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Advice on how to break social media habits.Sure. Or if you’ve deleted the apps but not the actual accounts, get them to add you on their phone and message them once you’ve conquered your addiction. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Advice on how to break social media habits.Cold turkey. Don’t delete your accounts, but definitely deactivate them. Your true friends will find a way to keep in touch with you. Everyone else doesn’t matter. Your brain will hamster all these reasons why you can’t live without it, but you’ll survive. Alternatively, you can keep Facebook Messenger in case anybody needs to reach out to you and just delete the Facebook app. Instagram is just men validating women and women being validated by men and women. It’s cancerous and if you spend time … | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How do you properly ignore in order to regain frame?My advice is don’t answer her; it will drive her wild. Make sure she doesn’t lose interest because you’re ghosting her. It should be exciting for her and she should be looking for validation from you. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 02:43 AM |
| 4 | How do you properly ignore in order to regain frame?You’re overthinking it. Keep yourself busy with something of equal or greater value and she won’t even slip in your mind. Work your ass off, lift the shit out of heavy weights and approach other girls. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 02:26 AM |
| 10 | How to cold approach a group of girls at a bar?Look into the Mystery Method as described in Neil Strauss’s The Game. You should approach a group of girls with the same or slightly higher energy level. Approach indirectly; position you’re body so you’re not confronting any of the women face on, try and go in from the side. Don’t hit on the girl you want right away; win over her friends first. Be calm, cool and confident. Ask questions where everybody can offer their opinion and feel validated. Remain the centre of attention for the right reas… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Anyone read “models that’s attract woman”!Are you talking about Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson? If so, yes. It’s a great read and definitely worth your time. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 04:00 PM |
| 6 | What's your favorite response to "we're not having sex tonight?"“Who said anything about sex?” “Yeah, you’ll have to wine and dine me first.” (pretend you didn’t hear her) “What did you say?” “Good idea, let’s wait until midnight/the morning.” | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 03:57 PM |
| 18 | Turning sisters on each other?Use a wild card and fuck their mother. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 11:23 AM |
| 3 | How do you make plates leave faster ?“I’ve got to get to work.” It shows her that you’re a busy guy with shit going on and that she’s not your top priority. You could say you have to get to the gym but it’s nowhere near as effective as saying you’ve got work on. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Girl I met today told me she had a boyfriend, and still gave me her number. Thoughts?Just because there’s a goalkeeper, doesn’t mean you can’t score. Keep in mind that the ‘boyfriend’ simply may not exist and it was a shit test. The boyfriend could be a code word for ‘a hot guy I stand with in photos to make my female friends jealous’ or ‘the sucker who pays for my dinner when we go out and buys me jewellery every three months’. Boyfriend no longer means exclusive sexual partner, although some girls wait until after you fuck them to mention they have a boyfriend. Personally, I i… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:08 AM |
| 2 | String of failures and bad luck, where do I go from here?Monk mode. Print out the following article, highlight and annotate key points. You need to rebuild yourself: introspection, isolation and improvement are the ways to get there. https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/ | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:54 AM |
| 5 | The most annoying thing about dating and plating is the damn foundation girls wear that gets all over your clothes. Any other annoying things to add?When she starts crying while giving you a blowjob because you remind her of her distant father. This one isn’t too bad actually, you can use her tears as lube and speed up the whole procedure. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 04:59 PM |
| 5 | First time going outThis isn’t WoW. You don’t need to formulate a battle plan. Just maintain good posture, smile, be friendly and talk to anyone you feel like talking to. Hell, talk to everyone if you want to, there’s nothing wrong with a quick meet-and-greet with some strangers. Everything you’ve read over the past few months will come into fruition. People are just as nervous when they’re getting approached as you are approaching? Check. People are looking for someone interesting to chat and have a good time with… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Is it just this simple?As long as you don’t work with this girl, then yes. It’s that simple. It’s not easy, otherwise every guy in the world with an internet connection would be banging chicks left, right and centre. But the process is simple. Even if you don’t succeed the first time and only make it halfway, give it another go. You’ll get there eventually. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Where are you from?You could mention where you grew up, as in the suburb, city or state. Most people don’t ask specifically about your background so this is a way of diverting the conversation to your hometown. Asking them to guess evokes mystery and makes them actively engage with you. When they respond, you can say “Everybody thinks I’m from A and B, but I’m actually from X and Y” which assists in preselection. You’ve hinted that multiple people have spoken to you and shown interest. Finally, you can lie for shi… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 04:09 PM |
| 15 | How to bounce back/recover from a night of losing frame and being an idiot..?It’s all in your head. You’ve got a voice inside your head repeating all the dumb shit you said and did. It serves no purpose from now until the next time you decide to go out. I’m sure you already know this, but try to limit how much you drink next time you go out. Work on holding your frame until then. Your thoughts should be constructive, not destructive. Understand that it’s normal to feel embarrassed when you’ve made a fool of yourself and get over it. Occupy your mind with things that actu… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 12:33 PM |
| 10 | Can I post yetNo. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 11:02 AM |
| 51 | Is it normal to get toyed with by these savage bitches on swiping apps? How do I avoid it?It’s completely normal to get roasted by roasties. Don’t take it personally: these women can order dick like Domino’s pizza. In this case, you were Papa John’s and you didn’t get the call. Are you going to go out of business because one of your customers decided to eat elsewhere? The best way to avoid getting rejected is to avoid asking. If you want to see results, keep gaming them and keep improving yourself. Your SMV is malleable and lifting will increase the odds drastically. Matching and ini… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 09:22 AM |
| 15 | Going to try and get laid with hot girl today. Need input on how to show sexual energy towards her.Want me to predict the future? You’re not gonna get laid today. It’s so abundantly clear that you’re new to r/TheRedPill by posting to the incorrect subreddit before this, which is fine. We welcome newcomers. But if you think there’s a button you can press or a line of dialogue that will fix your deep rooted confidence issues, you are severely wrong. Your entire post makes no sense. You want to fuck a hot girl. But you don’t want to communicate that you’re just there to fuck them. You’re lying t… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Balancing mindsetsForce yourself out of your comfort zone. Realise that all the Red Pill Theory you read means fuck-all unless you leave the house and actually implement it. Every article you read deviates you from actualising your true potential and is therefore a distraction. In the same way the common man hides from the uncomfortable nature of reality by playing video games and watching pornography, you are poisoning your masculinity with mental masturbation. Go out and slay or than shut-in and suffer. You dec… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 12:44 AM |
| 33 | I got #metoo'd at work. (Never be friendly to a female at work)You deserved it. Don’t hit me with any of this #metoo bullshit. You fucking got what you deserved. You’re a low-value blue-pilled male who fucks chubby 3/10s and plays Overwatch, and you’re swallowing the pill now that your LTR expired. You stepped out of line and this bitch took advantage of that for her own personal gain. You don’t have to be redpilled to know that women in the workplace are sensitive little snowflakes. If you’re a low SMV man, avoid them or you run the risk of getting reporte… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 12:28 AM |
| 25 | Are girls naturally redpilled?PEOPLE USED TO LOOK OUT ON THE PLAYGROUND AND SAY THAT THE BOYS WERE PLAYING SOCCER AND THE GIRLS WERE DOING NOTHING. BUT THE GIRLS WEREN'T DOING NOTHING—THEY WERE TALKING. THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT THE WORLD TO ONE ANOTHER. AND THEY BECAME VERY EXPERT ABOUT THAT IN A WAY THE BOYS DID NOT - Carol Gilligan Word-for-word quote from Neil Strauss’s The Game written in 2005. Nice original conclusion you’ve drawn there. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else ever look back at themselves and question the way they used to think/act?My advice is scour through r/TheRedPill with keywords like change, transform, etc... I can’t give you any links directly but there are plenty of examples of divorced-raped dads pulling teenage poon and suicidal incels who now conquer pussy on their own terms. While it’s fine to read these stories as motivation, make sure not to live too vicariously through them and it stunts your own growth. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else ever look back at themselves and question the way they used to think/act?Reframe your question so it makes sense - are you asking for people to share their transformations with you? Are you interested in the most polarising transitions that other users have been through? Virtually everyone who has swallowed the pill perceives the world differently. Even the few who refuse to change and live in blissful ignorance have learnt a thing or two. This is the core of r/TheRedPill; everything you were taught about women is wrong. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else ever look back at themselves and question the way they used to think/act?No, you’re the only one who has looked back on their past and reflected on the poor decisions they made and the beneficial decisions they didn’t make. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 05:59 AM |
| 31 | How to get laid in highschool?Parties. If you don’t get invited to parties, become the guy who gets invited to parties. If you get invited to parties and you stand in a corner sipping out of a red cup, become the guy who fucks girls at parties. Dead simple. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 11:10 AM |
| 10 | Me[24m] asking a coworker [29F] divorced with a kid on a date. Bad idea?Horrible idea. Don’t shit where you eat. You should only fuck a coworker if you’re a pornstar. Even if you didn’t work with her, the kid is a red flag. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Need Advice on some life issuesMake the effort to drive back or make it back home. It might seem counterintuitive to spend six hours travelling just to get yelled at, but it will be well worth it in my opinion. Over the phone is a cheap move - look your father in the eyes as you tell him you failed. r/TheRedPill tells us to confront uncomfortable situations and risk. Hardship is what defines us as men, and I don’t think there’s a more manly thing than taking accountability for your actions. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice on some life issuesI think your father will respect you more for owning up and admitting that you need help then if you keep it a secret your whole life and never tell him. Even if you tell him 10 years down the track, it’s not the same. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it, and keep in mind that he’s on your side and wants you to kick ass. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice on some life issuesIf you lie to to your dad for six months and then the truth gets out, you’ll be perceived a dishonest piece of shit and you may never be able to win his respect back again. At the very least, it will take a lot of time and effort. It might be better to own up now while everything is relatively fresh. The longer you keep the truth unlocked, the more pressure will build and the more severe the consequences. Make sense? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How should i reply to this?This. Get used to this type of framework, the “my way or the high way” approach. You’ll filter through low quality women like no tomorrow and have a greater chance with the ones who are interested. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 12:59 PM |
| 22 | I thought I had it figured out.Consider yourself in a duel - your revolver is empty and your wife is holding a minigun. The person who you chose as your partner has now become your rival. Step 1 - DO NOT EMOTIONALLY REACT. Right now you are not in a position of power and abundance. Your wife could pull the fucking trigger any second now and your ass will be pumped full of lead. Play your cards to perfection - a little bit of anger and resentment is fine and natural. Do not bring up the thought of divorce at all just yet. As d… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice on some life issuesSooner or later you’ll have to tell your old man. I can’t guarantee you’ll hate your construction job, but the feeling of letting your father down, coupled with working a strenuous job, should be enough to motivate you to not fail next year. You could lie about it and hope to get away with it, but I wouldn’t for two reasons. Firstly, it takes a lot of time and mental energy to lie and you’ll have a lot of explaining to do. Secondly, the consequences are dire if you fold and your reputation may n… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 12:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you think occupation affects your SMV?I guarantee the rich guy pulling millions every month was working his ass off twelve hours a day at the office and expending all of his sexual energy in that way. Women need sex to remind them that they’re attractive and they matter. While the millionaire’s lifestyle was sitting in an office, getting a coffee delivered to him each morning, staring at charts and typing away on a computer, the garage band guy was playing gigs, trashing hotel rooms and having groupies. I solely blame the husband in… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you think occupation affects your SMV?It ultimately depends how you frame yourself. Unfortunately, telling girls “I set up a wet floor sign at the local high school today” makes girls drier than the floor after the janitor’s mopped it. Women want to fuck athletes, actors, CEOs, executives, guys who work on Wall Street, rappers, rockstars, and lawyers. The list could go on, and I’m sure there are computer scientists and engineers who get plenty of pussy. But they are not the majority; they’re the outliers on the bell curve. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you think occupation affects your SMV?Sure, even though I fundamentally disagree with your point. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Lying and Self-ConfidenceThis a tough one. Be honest with yourself and don’t buy in to your own bullshit. “Fake until you make it” - draw the distinction between that and “Fake it instead of making it.” Rapper Big Sean bought a fake Rolex and told people it was real on his climb to the top. He’s also titled two of his albums “Finally Famous”. Guess who is famous and can afford a real Rolex now? When Reddit was in its infancy, the creators made fake accounts and posted articles to give the illusion of traffic. Guess whic… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 06:41 AM |
| 8 | Do you think occupation affects your SMV?It absolutely affects your SMV. Who do you think women want to fuck, the CEO of McDonalds or the cashier? Here’s the twist: the cashier can say “I intermediate transactions for a multi-billion dollar transnational corporation.” That sounds a hell of a lot better than “I ask ‘Coke for the drink?’ four hundred times a day and the answer is always yes.” It’s all about how you choose to represent yourself. An ethical hacker sounds lame as fuck, try putting a bit of excitement into your job title. Te… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 06:28 AM |
| 77 | Why do 9's and 10's seem nicer and more down to earth than 6's and 7's? Am I crazy or has anybody else noticed this?In a world where every guy is staring at a HB9’s tits when he speaks, it’s a nice change for a guy to strike up a casual conversation. The HB8’s and HB9’s of the world are used to the constant attention and free drinks. A guy who ignores their charm and beauty not only has a better chance of befriending her, but also sleeping with her. Keep pushing your SMV to boost your chances. Aim for the HB10’s and if you miss, you’ll land among the HB8’s. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:28 PM |
| 5 | (15) got a questionYes, it’s real. But you’re 15, you got drunk and you made out with some whore at a club. A man’s value doesn’t derive from the women he pulls. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 09:50 AM |
| 13 | Competing with natural Alpha wings/friends?Now to actually help you. Your frame weakens in the presence of other more successful men. We have a word for that here: a beta male. While your alpha friends are dominant and leading their interactions, you are comparing yourself to them and subsequently feeling inadequate. This subtle lack of confidence resonates with women and they are turned off when you approach them. The solution is to obviously limit your exposure with alphas when approaching women. They are the outliers: most men are bet… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 08:48 AM |
| 10 | Competing with natural Alpha wings/friends?I understand exactly where you’re coming from. I like to compete in 100m sprints with Usain Bolt, but I can never keep up with him. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Comprehension of Fundamentals?Nothing is inherently positive or negative. Whether you want to have one-night stands, engage in a long-term relationship or disregard women, they are all perfectly viable. The only concept which is (rightfully) frowned upon is marriage. More often than not, the woman has the upper hand and sucks the man’s proverbial tit dry of his wealth and livelihood. In all but few cases, marriage ends poorly for the man. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | When a girl says she wants me to massage her.Maybe you misheard her and she called you a misogynist. Jokes aside, this is as clear of a sign as you can get. She is asking you to lubricate your hands and rub them all over her upper and lower back. So yes. Give her a “massage”. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | The odds are against me how do I change the oddsI’ll take all advice and criticism on board = I’m a needy beta with no options who is going to disregard everything that doesn’t help me get laid. The Red Pill is a tool box to help you rebuild yourself. But you have to open the lid and pick up the tools yourself. It sounds like the Pill is stuck in your throat. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Restore Sexual Drive | Low TestosteroneThen my work here is done. Good luck at the gym tonight. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:54 AM |
| 2 | She pushed me, I responded and lost interest ultimately. What do you think?My advice: don’t sit back. Be a man and make your decision with clarity and conviction. Women and passive men sit back and let things unfold. Dominant and aggressive men assume control. If you don’t make a choice, she will make one herself. While the consequences aren’t particularly dire, wouldn’t you rather be the one that took control rather than letting “fate” (your inability to act) determine the outcome? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Restore Sexual Drive | Low TestosteroneGive this a read and come back to me. Still want to watch porn? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4op5dn/harsh_truth_time_porn_is_made_for_losers/?st=JJDYPXYJ&sh=82cd7b46 | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Restore Sexual Drive | Low TestosteroneLift heavy weights. Take cold showers. Sleep with little or no clothing if you can resist the urge of rubbing one out. Eat lots of protein. Keep up with the no porn and no masturbation. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:36 AM |
| 2 | She pushed me, I responded and lost interest ultimately. What do you think?You’ve put yourself in a position where you’re communicating, explicitly or subliminally, one of two things: 1) I’m leading the way and I’m going to achieve great things, with or without you, or 2) I’m leading the way and I’m going to achieve great things, make your own way there. Option 1 leaves the potential for you to develop an LTR, while Option 2 is more of a MGTOW approach. Find out which one aligns more to your mission and go for it. Keep in mind that the harder a woman initially shit tes… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Meditation - why did you start doing it, what were you looking for?Coincidental, although one of the most upvoted articles on r/TheRedPill features two of his videos when his channel was tiny. He very well could be redpilled and his content is, for the most part, pretty solid. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Meditation - why did you start doing it, what were you looking for?Watch these videos: https://youtu.be/gvJLmVYVvVM https://youtu.be/mMMerxh_12U The best way to learn is through experience. Give it a try for a month and come back to me. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Would trp reccomend a study abroad in college?Depends on your appetite for risk, financial situation, confidence levels and language skills. If you’re adventurous, have a solid savings account, willing to make new friends and pick up a new language and culture, go right ahead. Travelling abroad will make for some great stories and life experience if you choose to take to it. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 01:25 AM |
| 5 | How to handle bigger people picking on you?Wish I could say the same for you. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 03:14 PM |
| 9 | Anxiety and Self WorthYou’re making the age old mistake of deriving your self-worth from somebody else’s opinions. There are two remedies I suggest – either you ignore it or you internalise it. Ignoring it might work. Remember that bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks. There are a million and one reasons she could have sent you that text, and even though you are the target, you might not have been at fault. She could have been on her period. Her cat could have died. She could have lost her purse. Women act and beha… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Hypocrites EverywhereThis is a choice you’ll have to make on your own. But ask yourself these two questions: 1) Am I a hypocrite? When you chat to your friend about this girl, do you bag her personality and her looks out, or just her awful personality? If you say “She’s a bitch but I’d still fuck” then you’re not a hypocrite and go right ahead. If you say “She’s a bitch and I wouldn’t fuck” then you’re not being transparent with yourself, which is low value behaviour. Identify and repair. 2) What do I value more, a … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Girl I saw in the past has feelings for me despite me being clear that it's FWB and I'm not romantically attractedRestate your position. If she’s not picking up on your hints, flat out tell her that you’ve got other options and you won’t settle for drama or bullshit. The fact that you’ve seen her in the past and she’s developing feelings for you now means you might want to next her if she keeps bringing it up – sounds like too much deadweight to me. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 02:33 PM |
| 17 | How to handle bigger people picking on you?If you think you’re the first person on r/TheRedPill who’s short, you’re completely mistaken. Here are three posts from the past year going into a lot of detail. Reading 1: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8q72pm/heightrelated_red_pills_from_a_short_man/?st=JJCTIQ55&sh=8023676f Reading 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/84fho8/tips_for_short_dudes/?st=JJCTJQUA&sh=f9c1493e Reading 3: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5l25um/how_a_shortguy_can_be_more_masculine_… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Beard or no beard?This depends on a variety of factors I’m sure you’re aware of and I’m not even bother going to go into detail for. At the end of the day it comes down to personal preference. If you have the ability to grow one and keep it washed, trimmed and well maintained at all times, go for it. Stubble might be preferable, or no facial hair might suit you. Without a picture of what you look like I honestly can’t say. Ask your male friends if you’re still unsure. There’s no harm in trying. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with an irrational sibling?The solution is simple: don’t. The issue here is that you’re trying to change him. While it is a noble gesture, you’re wasting your time unless you’re leading by example. Fix yourself first. That much you can control. Spend less and less time with him if all you do are low-value activities. Practice the fundamentals: lift, read The Red Pill Handbook and meditate to begin with. Once you become a high value man, your older brother will look to you for guidance and inspiration. Rather than dismissi… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 07:57 AM |
| 17 | Pickup at the gymDon’t initiate. Work hard, get results and they’ll notice and approach you. Your mission is to lift heavy weights off the ground and fight gravity in an attempt to rebuild yourself physically and psychologically. Don’t get distracted from your true purpose by thots with tight leggings and low-cut sports bras. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep interest over text if you set up the "date" a week in advance?Tough one, but the “Down to smoke?” line sounds good. Maybe reword it so there’s no question mark and it doesn’t look like you’re seeking validation. Sending it after a few days gives the impression of not being needy. If she tries to keep the conversation going, play along. If you’re suspicious that she’ll flake, ask what snacks you’d like to bring or something along those lines. I don’t smoke but if she’s going to flake in advance, find out in advance so you save time and hassle. As usual, kee… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Help with text analysisRespond in the future by setting an exact date, time and location in the future. Women want to be led and they want certainty. Only call her if she’s flaking on you and not responding to your texts. On the plus side, you’re showing abundance by always appearing busy, which is great. No girl wants to hang out with a guy who will drop everything for her. You’ve already hung out with this girl so I’m guessing that encounter went well. Don’t overthink it, don’t overinvest and keep your options open. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 03:07 AM |
| 6 | 23y GF and I (22m) havent has sex in 2 months. What to do?Her sex drive might be down because she’s getting dicked from someone else. Obviously I can’t tell from the few sentences you’ve shared with me, so you’ll have to be the judge of that. Take a look at yourself in the mirror. Do you lift? Are you confident in your own skin? Do you feel sexy? I’m sure your girlfriend is attractive. She might have wide hips, a tight ass and nice breasts. Give your girlfriend a reason for her to fuck you. My advice: hit the gym. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Please help meThe solution is simple, not easy. You’re self-aware, which is step 1. You need to detach yourself, regain your friends, find something hotter to stick your dick in, lift, read and meditate. You can post as many times as you like, but you’ll always get some variations of what I’ve just said. You know what you need to do, it’s just going to take courage to do it. Don’t self-loathe on r/asktrp. Take action. Stop focusing on what she’s done wrong and take some accountability - what can you do to imp… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Please help meBased on your post history, it sounds like you’ve swallowed the pill recently, you’re constantly seeking advice from r/asktrp and this bitch is not worth the time, effort and expense. There are countless examples of red flags, but to the untrained eye, you’ve been unable to find them. The $4,000 liposuction when she’s already skinny AND broke should have rung alarm bells. You need to do what’s already been said. Read The Rational Male. Downgrade her from LTR status as she clearly doesn’t deserve… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 12:52 AM |
| 3 | For what reason am I doing what I am doing?Don’t ask me why you do what you do. Ask yourself. The reason I lift, read, meditate and perform my day-to-day high value activities is my reason. Find yours. Personally, I want to become a vessel of pure pleasure. Every man and woman I interact with should feel enriched that they’ve encountered me and stepped into my presence. I want to boost the confidence levels of my male friends and make them feel powerful and loved when we hang out. I want to give women orgasms that leave their entire bodi… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 04:24 PM |
| 11 | Posting for a non-Redditor friend seeking advice - looking for brutal honesty here.You fucked up MASSIVELY. There’s no point trying to sugarcoat it or save the marriage; divorce is the only viable option. Damage control is what you need. You have to play your cards to perfection otherwise you’re getting divorce raped. It’s a long, expensive and exhausting process. Two words of advice. Firstly, lurk more. Hundreds of guys on this site have gotten divorced; learn from their successes and failures. Secondly, consult with male professionals, preferably those who are redpilled. You… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 04:16 PM |
| 6 | How much has lifting improved your chances with girls?You might as well ask how much getting a medical degree will improve your chances of practicing medicine. Lift, because it’s clear as hell that you don’t. It is the best course of action you can take immediately and the results are superb. You also might want to take this down before it’s forcibly removed. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 03:29 PM |
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