I'll try to be brief. Met a hb7. Hyper intelligent. Usual date stuff, escalate, came back to mine - turns out she was pretty wild trying (failing to pin me) so I reciprocated (and won obvs) z generally just a bit kinky. Touching each other, but no climax (she eventually says "I'm not having sex with you" and leaves. I break frame slighty but also go out with my friends as she leaves.

We meet up again, and almost an exact re run happens. At this point, after failing to close twice, I decided that maybe she just isn't into me (even tho she came back....) and ghost her.

4 weeks later she hits me up asking to meet. I still want to bang, and she owes me a beer. Any advice other than nexting? I have 4 plates, I have opportunities to meet other girls. Is this just extreme ASD? She doesn't see me as a provider, she was happy with some escalation. Can't put my finger on the problem.