Hey guys,

I (28) met a girl (23) on tinder, talked for about two weeks over text and after a couple of scheduling conflicts we finally met up for food, skipped the bar and just went back to my place and had sex.

It was a lot of fun, she seemed to like it and went home that night. While having sex I got the vibe from the things she said that she has a good amount of experience having sex which was very intimidating because I haven't had many partners (only three).

This girl doesn't seem "loose" and I'm surprised I even had sex with her the first date. Now I'm wondering what she wants out of all this? We have a lot in common and I really like her, she's super hot and I guess I'm just sorta scared of boring her?

When we were texting (pre-sex) she'd send me random texts throughout the day, and would ask me lots of questions but after we had sex, she hasn't really been texting me much and if I text her she'll respond in like an hour or two, but it's not as immediate or frequent as before.

I'm just wondering if you guys think she likes me? Or...I dunno, is she trying to let me off easy and just wants me to lose interest on my own? We set up a date for Saturday and she said she's down to chill in the evening, so I find that assuring, but...I dunno.

I've sort of hinted in my text about seeing her long-term and she hasn't hit me back with anything and it seems like she's down for seeing me long term, but not sure.

tl;dr had sex with tinder girl on first date. really like her, but she's been texting me less and less and I feel like I might bore her cause she's had so many more partners as compared to me.

am I just being insecure? how should my text game be? how do i not scare her off?

Thanks..