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abudun79/r/askTRP28/05/18 11:01 AM
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Good thing is, you can deactivate the new design for your account. This way you will always have the old design - if you're logged in.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 11:31 AM
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Maybe you should write an ebook about how awesome you are. But my best guess is, that book would be rather short, because you present yourself as a terrible person, not more than a bigmouth, a classic talker. In my experience, if you'd have the life you claim to have, you would not be present yourself the way you currently do.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 09:56 AM
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I've typed and erased 5 or 6 responses. You're determined to believe in what MGTOW wants you to believe (and your motivation is clear) and nothing anyone says will make you think twice. It's ok to give up, but please do not try to drag everyone else down, just because you like it better.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 09:34 AM
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Sure, here you go: I found the current MGTOW a few days ago and since I prefer blowup-dolls over girls and videogames over friends and family, I try to bring everyone with better chances for success in life down to my level. That way I do not seem as much of a loser as I always was. Or what did you think why I got into nowadays MGTOW in the first place?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 06:08 AM
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Actually: No, it isn't. It pretty much the very thing RP is about: Mastering your problems as enjoying the results, instead of avoiding of the problems and convincing yourself of whatever you use as a substitude for a social life. After reading from you a bit, I guess you found MGTOW some weeks ago, finally some community who told you that you're fine just the way you are and nothing is wrong with you, it's all someone else's fault that you don't achieve what so may others achieve. You feel grea…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 05:58 AM
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I guess you're on a mobile device? Then it's behind "about this community" or something like that... look for it on top of the page.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 07:57 AM
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Thanks for the positive contribution and thanks for sharing your personal experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/18 12:26 PM
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Just did it right now and it works as always.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/18 05:19 PM
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It isn't.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 03:04 PM
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I think you're taking a wrong turn here, that will not lead you to good places. Ex. 2 and Ex. 3 read as if you got that from askTRP. Ex. 1: Not to be taken literally as "Every woman wants you". You never know if a woman goes all the way with you, until you have sex with her. So play with her as if it would be certain, don't hold back but also don't assume it doesn't matter if you game her or not. It's about ruining it because you doubt she will have sex with you. Ex. 2: I say a solid frame is a …
/r/askMRP02/10/18 02:57 PM
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If you just compare then majority of the content (post + comments) you see a huge difference between the two. That is why I am not convinced that MRP has to follow soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/18 07:31 AM
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If it comes to exactly that, I'll be happy to admit you told me so.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 05:22 PM
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I think that is the reason you cannot access it. On a PC it's available, but the mobile version of the site has some differences or limitations. I don't know what exactly because I don't use a mobile device.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 05:21 PM
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Layer 8 problem. To make it short: Do you use a mobile device?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 04:30 PM
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If you care so less about everyone else that you will not even look at example pictures from article, what's the reason you come to social media at all?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 04:29 PM
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That proverb does not refer to the cover art but to the condition of the book.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 04:26 PM
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As of now, TRP is not banned. I can see no sign that anything will happen to MRP subs. The articles here have a completely different quality and direction than TRP and it's brood has. I do not expect any changes soon, if things stay the way they are.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 04:18 PM
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I don't know how to respond to you any longer, without only repeating myself or being dismissive.
/r/askMRP30/09/18 10:01 AM
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If that approach works for you and give you results that satisfy you, it's perfect for you. Usually what someone may benefit from is limited by the previous achieved personal development and education. So things can change over time.
/r/askMRP30/09/18 09:26 AM
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The internet is full of people who give you short or longer explanation of something and then spend thousands of words to tell you what you have to think about that; aka give advice. Rollo Tomassi often says that he will not give advice. The Rational Male is not aimed towards people who want or need to be told what to think and how to act. And that is one thing that makes his essays harder to understand than most other authors - he assumes that the reader make up his own mind. The flip-side of t…
/r/askMRP30/09/18 08:32 AM
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First of all: STFU. Really, it's the single most important advice. STFU. Second: Stay away from r/TRP and game advice gurus. Read the sidebar, although not everything mentioned there is gold. My personal favorites are NMMNG and The Rational Male (the blog) and MMSLP (in that order). Invest the time to fully grasp what Rollo Tomassi is writing and start with year one. It's complicated but starts to make sane and then the pieces come together.
/r/askMRP29/09/18 03:58 PM
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The TRP sub hasn't been too much about the red pill philosophies. It's mostly a bunch of American Nazis who discovered they are not able to handle intersexual dynamics and repeat the same old stories about how that sucks and they believe they have outgrown the whole thing. I won't shed a tear.
/r/MensRights29/09/18 03:45 PM
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It would be like matter and anti-matter coming together. Why is that? Is Stonybrook known for homophobia?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 11:40 AM
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Nice to read how you ruin your life and find it so great you need to brag about it. I'm happy for you. I hope you do not regret it, once you're a grown up.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 08:04 AM
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What a sick culture do you have to live in to actually believe this?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 07:59 AM
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as "brothers" (outside of the military and fraternity brothers) Brother usually don't suck each others cocks. That is why in the military they're »lovers«, not »brothers«. That is a difference.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 07:53 AM
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The title got me thinking this can only be shit, but I wanted to be fair and read it before I fix my opinion. But as soon as someone starts out like you did in this article, nothing good is going to come later. And so it was. Grow up, man.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 07:51 AM
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That is basically what 50% of this sub's content is about!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 07:39 AM
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Yes, really, no one needs Reddit to run in circles and tell each other what we want to hear, over and over again! And since this exact sub is (for the biggest part) a bunch of Nazis who won't admit they're Nazis, hate women for how they are (now they understand) and pretend to NGAF, who follow gay men who deny being gay, praise books without any relevance to their lives ... what loss could it be?
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 07:37 AM
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Tell yourself that as much as you want, it doesn't change what this sub became.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 01:52 PM
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You're right. Just be yourself. Vulnerability is masculine!
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 11:48 AM
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Home of the brave, land of the free. I'm pissing my pants.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 11:26 AM
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[...] it was about [...] Exactly, it was. And for a long time now it's been a place for boys to come and cry how unfair life is and repeat the same boring (non RP) shit again and again and again. Although I share some of the concerns... this sub going offline would not be a loss. And actually this quarantine is the best thing that could happen. Can you think of a better proof of the concerns? It would all just be hot air if those bad feminists and leftist wouldn't actually do what every says the…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 11:18 AM
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I cannot see the original problem. Are you disappointed because your wife won't let you be a white knight or because she didn't want to immediately give you a BJ for your stupid reply?
/r/askMRP28/09/18 06:35 AM
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I think you mix things up. They are both correct. Women are not men. Women are different from men. Period. What MMSLP says is, that every women has the capability to enjoy all sexual activities that a man likes. There's no gender-specific limitation in what they can enjoy. What Rollo always says is that they have different triggers, reasons, intentions or what ever you want to call it and different ways to enjoy those things. Plus the intensitity and the reasons change during her lifetime.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:33 PM
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Frame is not about being wrong or right. Frame is about being in control and taking the lead, even if things don't work in your favor. Making mistakes is a natural consequence of being in charge and making active decisions, it's no big deal. Neither should it be to admit being wrong and making mistakes. Shit happens, life goes on. As long as you learn from your mistakes and being wrong is not your default outcome what is there to wonder about? You're just really fucked if you constantly do the o…
/r/askMRP26/09/18 12:21 PM
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It does not hurt to read the summary, you'll find it on google and google images. It is a nice reminder, reading it from time to time.
/r/askMRP25/09/18 07:47 AM
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It already did in the first half of my comment. But I'll give you an example of what I meant, take it with a grain of salt. Don't shit where you eat Adult version: Do not date girls from work. Can get you fired and your reputation ruined. Happens to a lot of people, because HR is her friend, not yours. R. Greene version: _A story, spread across endless pages, about how some historical figure (roman emperor, chinese war-master, ...) did eat where he shat. Described in long details how handsome he…
/r/askMRP25/09/18 04:14 AM
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Don't be disappointed if you find the effort searching not worth the read. I think it is overrated, although it is better then others.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 10:38 AM
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Save some money and time and skip this read/listen completely. It's purely for entertainment, not for education, like all books of R. Greene. If you must, read the abstract, that is available as a picture all over the internet. The book is just a bloated version of that. If you're one of the many kiddult fan-boys of Greene, well... enjoy it. But you will only benefit if you live under a stone. And have been born under a stone. Actually you will only benefit if you're below 12 and have never made…
/r/askMRP24/09/18 08:13 AM
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The root enabler, that's interesting. What are you going to to about it - other than complaining in an online echo chamber?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 08:40 AM
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Sounds like a personal thing. Most of the posts are intellectual diarrhea that only can Americans take serious. How could it be any different? It's all been said and done and there are not many RP related events that need to be discussed. Something needs to be posted to keep the sub alive...
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:04 PM
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It basically means to put life in serial mode. Except for rare situations it is an escape from a responsible adult life. There are a number of things you want/have to get done. And instead of handling it all - more or less - at the same time, you focus on a few of those things exclusively for an extended period of time, and let everything else hang loose and those things get worse. In askTRP and TRP it's hyped as a solution for everything.
/r/askMRP18/09/18 10:12 AM
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Seems like there's some hope and some rational thoughts left. Thumbs up! EDIT: Hehehe, seems like some people cannot handle the revelation that their believes are just that.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 05:27 PM
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Smells like either victim puke plus rationalization or theory from a theorist. No matter which it is, it's a typical TRP-loser-post without relevance.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 05:25 PM
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The main sub is a hopeless joke crab-bucket. so, no, I won't cast pearls before swine. And even if I would... how does that change the stuff the kids post, Mr. Poorman's Gandhi?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 04:42 AM
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Sad to see a fucking meme outperform 95% of all textposts.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 08:00 PM
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More than half of your post is trying to qualify to TRP and excuses without charges. Rock solid frame, dude. EDIT: Sorry, I just got banned from this moral-free place for a secret reason and cannot reply to your question. Good luck with you situation!
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:12 PM
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There's a sidebar on the right of your screen. Read it. Read it once more. There's a barbell in the gym. Lift it. Lift it many times more. When done, she will want to suck your cock, but you don't care anymore. And if you stretch enough between workouts, you might be able to suck it yourself.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:09 PM
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Lifting will not change everything automatically: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQ1tlWZKN5I But lifting gives you the opportunity to look better (within what your genes allow), has the potential to help you develop discipline and gain confidence. And if you can lift heavy stuff in everyday life, you're a much more valuable person, everything else being equal.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:07 PM
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Learn how to format text. Nearly no one will want to read you whining like that.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 07:01 PM
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I would not change a thing.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:59 PM
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Maybe he needs a success story to fap to.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:58 PM
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No, that's still not all. There much more. Get rid of that shit idea all together, it is mental masturbation for people who suck a LTRs or are completely against LTRs. It will bring you absolutely nothing. There might be a correlation, but it will never matter for your life. See, if she's got an n-count of 30 at 21 there's very much likely something else that is very wrong with her and a LTR will fail because of that mental issue, before it fails because she not able to pair-bond enough. But it'…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:39 PM
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I said nothing about that. What I said is that I believe the importance of that factor is way overrated and that there are other factors that are more important to determine if "pair-bonding" works between two people or not. Reducing her qualification (her's alone, not as a couple) for a LTR to this single factor is ignorant. It completely ignores everything else the red pill principles teach about successful relationships. Of course it is a welcome excuse for those people who cannot maintain a …
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:17 PM
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Why don't you ask for it then? I forgot it's you. Sorry. Good idea, bro!
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:33 PM
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Sorry, I cannot follow your weirdo-text. But to answer your title's question: No. Abundance mentality means that you are able to walk away from her/something at any time, no matter how attached you are to it. In the context of n-count it probably means that you drop a girl because you believe she had too much sex before you met her, although you find her extremely hot. Which is BTW one of the reasons she has a lot of sex... In general to your text: The importance of her sexual history is complet…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:30 PM
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What is that crap supposed to be?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:25 PM
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Yes, her "needs" or "what she's looking for" changes over the years, a bit back and forth, but it's not simply a repetition of her party-years. You rarely see anything about that here or on the main sub, but it's good to understand the phases beyond the wall, if you want to marry or game mature women. If you're really interested in that, read "Preventive Medicine", the second The Ration Male book from Rollo Tomassi. It focuses on the lifetime of a woman.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:19 PM
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What she can do to dispell the curse? Psychotherapy or a deep introspection could help? First she, and anyone willing to help her, would have to admit that there is something like an alphawidow... In the long run her needs change and beta-bucks becomes important. And later this changes again. So, the importance of her prev. alpha changes, although I imagine it can only be overwritten but not forgotten or "cured"
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:43 PM
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What does this mean most of the time? I She doesn't want you - now. But you're not so ugly and creepy that she does not like your attention and knowing you can be a filler someday when she feels like.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:26 PM
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They only matter as much as you let them matter. Just don't play their games. They will try to make you react to something the do or say - directly or behind you back. Shame you. Provoke you. Be indifferent, don't even make fun of their show all the time. Save your reactions for very good opportunities - when it serves you, not because it harms them.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:16 PM
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The thing is the red pill say that all women are like that (correct me if I'm wrong) People in these subs sometimes says so, not the red pill principles. Red pill principles say that every woman is capable of doing so and, this is now in my words, the same stimulus will cause the same desire in most woman. But it does not say that every woman will always branch swing in every situation, free of context and without consideration of the man she's with. You're having a moral problem and seek justif…
/r/askTRP08/09/18 02:04 PM
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You're good looking, I cannot understand why you do not have a BF. Let's just be friends.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:59 PM
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Are you trying to convince yourself to fuck a woman against your own moral standards, because you heard it's her sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:51 PM
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At what air pressure does that happen?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:44 PM
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Just facets of what it boils down to: Be masculine and don't believe the shit you've been told by mom, sis, aunt, teachers and TV/Social Media
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:42 PM
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I start to wonder why you asked if that's all fine and not a big deal.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:53 AM
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Let me translate that into male-speak: You were afraid.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:16 AM
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and I say that I could show her. All my friends laughed hard You made sure that she won't to fuck you eventually. No matter if there ever was a chance for you or not. Have you heard of game?
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:13 AM
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What did you expect to feel at some point? Honestly, I'd like to know that. Because I think it is similar to 'women talk, men do' ... 'women feel, men are'.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:04 PM
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No bad for someone in preschool, not bad. Did you throw sand in her hair as well?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 05:01 PM
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I know. Your situation is a bit tricky and my advice of taking responsibility and handling things is usually downvoted to hell. People on TRP love autistic application of context-free principles to every situation. Although you got some good answers. You'll figure out which way you want to be perceived.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:10 PM
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Jokes aside: I'm glad that you admitted being on juice. There are more than enough kids and men around here who cannot see the difference and actually think your look could be natural. They think they go to the gym 3 times a week, curl 15lbs in the squat rack and look like you after 6 months. And as if that wasn't enough, lots of people on the internet and in the magazines tell them exactly that. Thanks for being honest. I meet a lot of dudes who wouldn't be!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:30 PM
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Sorry, really. You just brought back childhood memories. How did I love action figures back then!!! I'll promise I'll tell what you want to hear, next time.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:22 PM
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You created that scenario for no reason and she's not a plate. So don't assume you should resolve the situation as if she's just a plate and you had no part in it, just because it was not your intention to make her feel like that. Find a middle way, telling her it's not about her without tugging in your tail and crying sorry sorry sorry baby. Ignore her demands as such, that's not why you should act. If you apologize for shit behavior it's not a loss of frame. Frame is not about childishly denyi…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 02:17 PM
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Just in cases you did not notice, you called your oneitis a plate multiple times.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:51 PM
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No Shit Sherlock!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 01:49 PM
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Psst, I hope stays between you and me, OP. I'll tell you a secret: She does not have to like everything that you believe raises your SMV. I know, I know, hard stuff, unbelievable. But it's possible that you look worse now, no matter what you buddies tell you. Be honest to yourself, this is an option. Not every change you do to yourself is an improvement just because you did it. But people don't want you to know that. You must believe everything you do about yourself is automatically a success an…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:57 PM
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How does that help on Tinder? So, that is why you're on buffers?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:30 PM
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If you ever get a date, you should setup a live-stream so r/askTRP can tell you what to think and say and when to smile.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:29 PM
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You need to spin more mothers.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:26 PM
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I would not say insecure and gay, but of limited use. It's as meaningful as when mommy or your best friend say's your a 7 at least. They both don't want to fuck you (at least I hope they don't want to).
/r/askTRP07/09/18 12:05 PM
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I don't care what you smell. What I meant is, that you're way above what 80% of girls will imagine from a guy that works out. I never had to use any buffers, so I don't know Tinder and that the like. But if there's no option to limit matches to "gym chicks who are into steroided bodybuilders", you should be so fair and include your pictures and sort out all the girls that think you overshot. Jealous guys giving you compliments on Reddit don't change how the majority of girls will perceive you.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:57 AM
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If that's what you look like, just go for it. Save the girls from the disappointment before they meet you.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 11:25 AM
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WHAT? That is not even close to being consitent with what you claimed before!!? When you asked me to elaborate, for a moment I hoped that maybe it just seemed like the topic is above your capabilities... thanks for the clarification. Maybe you deserve to be accompanied by all those dipshits who tell you what you want to hear. Good luck for your simple life and don't forget to hate!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:59 AM
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You ask the general question why society loves beta and hates alphas and the only examples are presidents. Which doesn't make any sense at all. I assume you're an American, so let's forget that you did not even care to name the very society you think there rest applies to. Not that it makes the claim any more true within US borders. If you're not: Sorry for the insult, but the point stays the same. Your categorization who is alpha and who is beta has no basis. It is what you, and maybe people ar…
/r/askTRP07/09/18 10:09 AM
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Want to troll?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:01 AM
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Your claim is wrong from top to bottom. Just a provocative formulation of your feelings.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:00 AM
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Sounds like he's spent the money from the previous books.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:31 PM
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If your friend told you how he does bluepill-stuff... and you should do too, then you'd be interested to hear and learn???
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:54 PM
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It's one of the most underrated aspects of female behavior in these subs. Lots of boys cannot understand the value of the cycle and think you can always out-alpha and ignore everything. And once they go beyond pump-and-dump they're completely helpless and rationalize their missing capabilites away with AWALT and too high n-count and all the excuses.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:16 PM
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You're a pretty good example to show where the horizon of a novice redpiller ends.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:08 PM
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I experienced the time from beginning of period until shortly after ovaluation as a constant increase from "normal horny" to the maximum.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:33 PM
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You say you do not feel better in an unnatural state?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:28 PM
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Do you have access to a goat?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 01:51 PM
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Act the way you are, if you like how you are. And act the way you would like to be, until you are that way. I would not consider your description as a matter of frame. There's simply no point in doing what you say in the first paragraph... is there? The latter - basketball or drinks with the boss - that's not about frame either. It's about what benefits you get from either activity. The way I see it, it would be about frame if you know what activity or behavior is better for you - and you let so…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:35 PM
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99%? Seriously, bitching does not change what you wrote. If you're not like that, and don't want to be considered being like that, it's your responsibility to write a post that reflects that. But don't worry. Maybe someone else comments and says something that makes you feel better about yourself.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:58 AM
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I flirted with her a bit lately without intention for anything further. Sure. We have been talking ever since Nothing gets her wetter than talking there seems to be no sexual connection/desire from her side to mine, avoids kissing, touching of sensitive areas etc. Maybe you need to talk more? Buy her presents. Tell her how beautiful she is. Is my relationship dead or should I wait out? Seriously, dude? Your GF is a cold as it gets. What do you imagine a dead LTR looks like?
/r/askTRP06/09/18 11:02 AM
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Sounds like she's a good business women.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:44 AM
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Of course their can be a friendship between men and women. It's just not the same as samesex friendships.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:39 AM
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From what you wrote here it's 98%
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:37 AM
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I believe it's "my place" in society. It's called living at the end of the food chain, if you have to spend your time complaining about others. I was kinda drunk and called him out by text, he got defensive and made up some BS reason. You're a real hero! Must have been really hard for him to read your buffer text. I bet he thinks twice before he does that again! Solid frame, very impressive. I just wonder, because in Germany we'd call that feige Heulsuse (approx. cowardly crybaby). I'm reading a…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:35 AM
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If you want to get get smashed and rejected as hard as you ever will -> DO IT! If some girl knows how to game men, how to play with them and how to make them an orbiter... it's a camgirl, stripper, escort...
/r/askTRP06/09/18 10:07 AM
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BUY IT! The man did so much for the manosphere, giving away ALL of his work for free. It's worth much more than all the other shit books combined. Pay him some of your money, he's earned it!
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:39 AM
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Forget it. Just forget it. You're living in the wrong country for this. Vergiss es. Vergiss es einfach. Du lebst im falschen Land um mit sowas glücklich zu werden.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:54 PM
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Be neutral, serious, say what it is and that's it. Don't bitch afterwards, don't be influenced by it, cancel plans or something. Looks and posture and silence work better than words, if she speaks up afterwards. And under no circumstances enter any discussion (aka her frame).
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:18 PM
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I think that's close enough. Just make sure the bar comes down completely (upper chest), is over the middle of your foot all the time and you do not arch the back too much at the end. In the video from BUFF Dudes the bar moves a forward and backward during the lift, but if you pay attention, that's going to correct itself, once you get close to your 5RM.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:02 PM
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"Babe, have you ever had a thought that you kept to yourself?" Needs repetition from time to time. Hists the bullseye, pisses my wife off, but works wonders.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:56 PM
0

Finally a serious question on lifting. A rare thing in this sub! Most important thing is that the bar rests/start over the middle of your foot and travels up in a straight line. If you don't you waste energy that does not contribute to lift the bar. That means you have to get your head out of the way. If you did the latter, you are on the correct way but might still have issues. Thank him for the advice, but do it "the right way". Check this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnBmiBqp-AI
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:53 PM
1

It simply sounds strange and it sounds like there's nothing to back your worries up, right now.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:42 PM
1

What? Why do you want a relationship with her then?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 04:20 PM
1

Now, that's a plot twist I did not see coming.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:41 PM
1

She said, she told, she made clear, she, she, she, ... How about you stop parroting terms you don't understand and start reading up on those things before you make mistakes? The sidebar is on the right. Read it. Then once more. The barbell is in the rack. Press it over your head. Then 24 times more.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:34 PM
1

What influence does her family and her social circle have on you and your relationship? Just wondering or do you have something special in mind? I think it's pretty common for a girl to have a greater social circle than the average guy.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:28 PM
0

PS: 500kcal is a rule of thumb, but keep experimenting.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:25 PM
0

In order to gain musclemass you need to give your body a sufficient amount of calories, not just more protein. Your body spends energy in the recovery and building musclemass, and that comes from calories. Eat more than now, if you currently hold your weight. Just don't get fat on purpose.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:21 PM
0

Do you want to marry her?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:18 PM
2

Doesn't matter, there's no such thing as a regaining-routine. Oh, excuse me, there's no such thing as a working regain-routine, but there are some you may waste your time and money on. Your body does not care about your routine. Give it stress and recover.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:16 PM
1

Three very simple tricks: Be masculine Send someone who looks masculine to the photoshoot. Pay some orientation-less faggot artist a shit load of money to photoshop your pictures Works every time. Now, honestly: Why do you want to disappoint people?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:52 PM
3

Your dick must look huge when you jerk off
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:50 PM
2

Autism is contagious, you should avoid this sub for a week or two.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:43 PM
2

You're on the edge of discovering that you live in a shit country. And to answer your initial question: No. You might be lucky, but it's not how it usually ends and it's not the only way. That dream of this minimum chance of being lucky enough and make it(!!!!) is what keeps you all going.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:27 PM
5

What part of "she ignores me" did you not understand?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:38 PM
2

I don't know how to help you, I am no expert on autism.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:35 PM
1

Sorry, I meant "when you are" not "when you feel like". But, good luck anyway!
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:27 PM
1

The red pill mainly deals with intersexual dynamics. TRP, these subs, deal with everything men suck at or dream of.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:24 PM
1

She says, you say, she says, you brag, she says, no sex, she says, you say, red flags, she says, you say, no sex, ... Lots of talking and no fucking. You're her bitchy girlfriend. The best you did was telling her what kind of guy you are; That's soooo alpha and makes every women wet.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:21 PM
1

Step 1: Stop being an unrealistic dreamer Report back once you have that down.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:17 PM
16

Write an ebook about passive income and sell it online. There are a lot of idiots looking for exactly that.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:16 PM
1

What’s SL5x5? SL5x5 is strong lifts 5x5, it has some details in common with SS. what kind of press? That is one reason why it is a good idea to read that book. "The press" in SS is an standing overhead press. But there is a benchpress as well.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 11:14 AM
1

but I don’t want to read a whole book and I find it weird there’s no lower body exercices It barely gets any more simple than SS or SL5x5. But if you don't want to put any effort into it, not educate yourself, just forget it and do whatever fuckarounditis shit comes to your mind and get hurt in no time. And be sure to record yourself in the gym so people on YouTube can laugh about you.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 07:25 AM
2

I think you know that she's not simply a plate to you, so I won't go down that road. If you've read about red pill principles, you might remember that they most important currencies for a woman are attention and emotions. By calling her out, no matter where and in what way, you feed her both. And even if it doesn't feel like that to you - the one calling her out! - it's playing in her frame. Ignore her for some time and don't get into the topic without reason. It's over, past cannot change, you'…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:40 AM
1

Whatever you do, it will end in that you stop spending time with her. But how? I think some PUAs said that you should fuck 10 girls to get over a oneitis. Don't take that literally, but the principle should do for you. I think the safest way for you to get her off you mind is by spending more time with other friends and meeting other girls. Meet with different girls, just like you met with her. Even if they're not interested going out, it should be a step into the right direction... think of it …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:36 AM
5

You're afraid to be rejected.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:23 AM
1

I cannot imagine how this is becoming a problem. If you meet a girl and don't act like a nerd, why would she think that you are a nerd, when she learns what you do for living, later? Or are you thinking about using buffers (text,tinder,...), where you text and text and text before you meet someone... You know, like a nerd?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:20 AM
2

You don't know what NoFap is. You don't know what trolling is. I see a pattern here.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 05:15 AM
3

The answer is rather simple: Don't take everything you're told in these subs literally and exclusive. From Women prefer alphas does not follow Women do not take betas. There would not be a beta bucks side of the coin. There are no absolutes.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:11 PM
1

Been wondering about this and I can’t really think of an answer. New to RP And asking for a friend?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:06 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wvVPdyYeaQU
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:50 PM
16

OOOHHHH Quite the opposite. No one gave a shit about AIDS. Only gay's got AIDS, that was what people believed. Or they just didn't care because they were horny. IDK. But everyone's been fucking everyone else.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:26 PM
1

Yaoundé and Mexico City
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:27 PM
-41

They would, with a smell of 20 other bloke's cum on their breath. (Please click the blue pill on the left to tell the world that you agree, thank you!)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 10:21 AM
17

Me? No! You? Yes. You know why that is? Because it's a beta trait to ask internet strangers what to think on every thought that crosses your mind.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:17 AM
0

How do I tell her that now I am not interested in her? Don't tell her, just act accordingly. No need for drama.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 10:05 AM
1

It's easy to mistake the nickname, no worries!
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:23 AM
1

It is okay as long as it does not have negative consequences for your life. As long as you can judge that objectively and shut it down when necessary, put yourself at risk all you want. Just don't come back whining once you've lost it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:49 AM
1

You're not going to change them. If one day you find your dad in a bad mood, open for new ideas, introduce him to some basic red pill ideas (men and women are different, recommend him NMMNG, etc...). But other than that: Just live with it until you move out. You're going to have this all you life with people you love or care for. Get used to the fact that you cannot safe them proactively.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:23 AM
1

I am aware that what I am saying doesn't fit in most people's playbooks, but does that mean I should stop? No. But what you say is basically: I like to be the way I am today and it gets me into trouble/doesn't make me happy. Or, a bit more simple: I love to place my hand on the hot stove, but I don't like the burning. So either you accept the consequences of being the way you are now or you adjust your behavior until the desired reactions come. I found it best to treat people in a way that they …
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:19 AM
1

What would you tell an ex-junkie who is clean for 100 days and wants to take heroine again, just to see if he can handle it this time?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:07 AM
1

Why do yo uwant to apply dread? What would you do if you would have correctly applied dread? What do you expect to change or happen?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:05 AM
1

I know that trp is super against porn and i get why Fuck the opinion of TRP users on that. O do you want to do everything some loudmouth on this sub tells you? Porn usage can lead to severe problematic conditions, but it does not have to. Depends on the way you use or abuse it. But chances to fuck up your life because of porn are always there. You sound like someone on his way into the negative experiences of porn. Are you suffering from it? Quit porn cold turkey never go back. Moderation is unl…
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:56 AM
1

I think NoFap is bullshit.. Yes, because you don't understand it and don't care to inform yourself before you bark out your shit opinion
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:03 AM
1

rub one out but without a porn That IS NoFap in a nutshell. The stupid thing about NoFap is all the people who do not know what it is and bitch about it.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 06:57 AM
1

Always the same group or same 1, 2 groups or basically every group you ever meet? Could it be you're a completely different type of person than the group that ignores you?
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:30 AM
1

No, it's just a nickname. I'm a white German with scandinavian ancestors...
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:28 AM
4

Sounds about right. NoFap is about breaking porn addiction. Just concentrate on yourself, what you feel down there, remember your favorite girl and waht you did to her or what you would like to do with her. All fine. Just skip porn and the memory of you favorite scenes, stars and practices out. Stop when you mind wanders to the harmful stuff, remembering is not as bad as a new hunt, but the first step to opening your favorite tubesite later.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:50 PM
1

Honestly, don't go crazy about that. What you just wrote is perfectly normal. It is just not what you are expected to be around here. But you seem to want to act differently than you do now. Okay. Do you often have the situation where you wanted to jump into a social interaction but did not, hesitated and the chance passed by? What was holding you back? Didn't know what to say? Ask someone something, most people love to explain and tell. Were you afraid to interrupt a dialogue? Every dialogue ca…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:47 PM
5

Fapping, in the context of NoFap, refers to masturbation marathons to (usually) online porn over extended times. It alters your reward-system, fucks it up, really bad. Often times results in ED with a real woman, lack of libido, even more procrastination and in consumption of porn you don't really like or development of new interests, just for the dopamine kicks. Many peoples brain's chemistry is not designed to be exposed to that and cannot handle it. Masturbation, as the act of making yourself…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:40 PM
-1

Got one! Here's your pacifier... let me wipe off your little tears. I bet mommy will read you another chapter when she brings you to bed.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:31 PM
-8

Oh kids... who's tying your shoes in the morning??
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:29 PM
-9

You do know that NoFap does not at all mean you do not masturbate, right? Just asking, because it's not clear to me after reading you text.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 06:20 PM
0

Yes, you should. And before you ask, yes, you should also wipe your ass before pulling up your pants.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:38 PM
-5

They don't. Think twice.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:29 PM
-9

Overrated book for fanboys, that no one needs to read. Same as his other books. But I cannot say that loud, because I hurt some sensitive peoples feelings. It's really bad - the only one who get more offended more easily are the gay military blokes. EDIT: Thanks for proving my point, emotional faggots!
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:25 PM
-1

Who cares? If she's got problems coming it's her responsibility to show you her special needs - if you care enough.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:02 PM
1

Are you in preschool?
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:57 AM
1

You do not need to convice her that she's going to do something with you. It's enough if she does, no matter what she said a minute, an hour or a week before.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:54 AM
2

congratulations on what you already achieved! No one can take this from you, be proud of it! For your future: Do not ignore or forget your past and the people who did not like you. But do not use them to define your future and do not measure yourself against them. No matter how pleasing it would be to make your old "friends" aware of your changes, you gain nothing from it. You're so young, you don't have an idea how many more people you will meet in the next years. They will get to know you the …
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:51 AM
2

The core red pill will not help you, because it deals with intersexual dynamics. But there are a lot of guys that are (or have been) in military service. They can give you tons of valueable information.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:45 AM
2

I am sure that the red pill principles apply to every woman in every culture. But I would like to hear that from men actually living in different (non-westernized) countires - natives and foreigners. I hope there are some good responses coming up. That it works for foreigners in western countries is something that I can observe every day. My guess is, that the solutions, which make up 95% of posts around here, will not work across cultures. And many users struggle to differentiate between the tw…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 11:39 AM
3

I don't know how this works in your country. Consult a lawyer if you want to go that way.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 10:18 AM
1

Lots of those things are suitable to turn fairly normal people into socially awkward creeps.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/18 10:03 AM
3

Either shut her up (legally) or move. Whatever you're less afraid of.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:53 AM
2

You don't need motivation. You already know you should and just cannot stick to it. What you need is discipline. That is when you keep going, although it sucks, hurts, is boring, there's a lot of fun elsewhere. You cannot find discipline in a meme, YT-video or in social media like this RP subs. Discipline is found in doing what needs to be done. DO IT!
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:31 AM
2

Let's ignore that you don't know what alpha and introvert means. What did you try to overcome your problems? How did it go? What did you struggle with? How did people react?
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:12 AM
1

This is a lot of opinion and very little information.
/r/askMRP03/09/18 09:00 AM
1

A caloric deficit is the only things that counts, cardio isn't mandatory and it's not possible to tell you how to achieve a deficit when you don't give any information about your situation.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 08:31 AM
2

Emoticons had a purpose they could fullfil to some degree. But eomjis, having evolved from emoticons, are just plain and simple useless and distracting, no matter how much someone likes them. The more someone makes use of something completely useless, the more that person seems to be of the same quality.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 08:28 AM
0

Some people are actually interested in getting an answer and need some feedback and time to realize their text does not reflect their question. And because there are other people reading as well, and some of them actually reflect on what they read, and start very productive discussions via PM. And, after all I care for people asking.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:37 AM
1

I'm also being honest, and I don't believe that more sugarcoating is what anyone needs.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 05:18 AM
-3

So, you cannot even tell what you're plan, idea, hopes were? Trying to proof my claim, are you? Complaining and downvoting won't solve your issue, kid. I also did not see you correct your question, after it became clear that you wrote bullshit. But it's always the other peoples fault, isn't it? You didn't do anything wrong. Most likely I also fucked up your relationship, not you. Here's your participation trophy. Writing nonsense, complaining about responses and not giving a shit to solve any of…
/r/askTRP03/09/18 04:27 AM
2

No it wasn't. Please read up on the things that seem to interest you and save your time asking random useless bullshit. The sidebar is on the side. The right side. Read it. More specifically read the books and articles, not the sidebar literally. Read it until it makes sense. Then read it again.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:18 PM
5

My uninformed guess is: If you would not enjoy the effort you put into earning a reward, you would not try to earn that reward. And maybe the chase is a part of determining a good potential partner and every successful step in the chase confirms that you're on the right track and thereby justifies the effort you put into it until now.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:12 PM
25

Did she promise to have sex with you for the first time if you do the right thing? Dude, what do you expect of a woman who's bitchy like that? Take her to that place to break up with her.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:50 PM
-4

EDIT: To sum this up: You don't know what you've been doing, you did not want to achive anything, you don't care for the comments you get, you only complain and dodge responses. Let's assume that you really applied dread, although you told quite the opposite: Why the fuck did you apply dread if you don't know what to do if you succeed? What the fuck were you piece of shit thinking? Let me guess: You read that dread is cool and every real man does it to increase testosterone or some bullshit. Bio…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:45 PM
2

The wrongest turn was to believe TRP is a replacement-therapy for people who give up on sex, when it's quite the opposite. My claim, that he's not getting anything done, shows through in multiple factors - his other posts here, not providing a text in this one, his answers to comments, not giving anything to back up his idea, the question itself. He cannot even make sense of this topic, knows it's bullshit to do what he asks for but wants to do it so badly he's ego-investing in the idea. And, mo…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:33 PM
5

Yes, Tesla was a loser. If you look up his story entirely you will find he's one of the most unfitting examples to chose from. But that doesn't matter, since you're not a Tesla and not anyone else worth remembering. But, Tesla also did not put on muscle, maybe you've got something in common at least.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:24 PM
2

No, I can't. I can only think about sex. Just kidding. Which part?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:18 PM
1

Yes and no. The SMV is only an idea. It's the degree to which you're able to get sexual with the women on the SMP. The higher the SMV, the better your chances are on getting sexual with a specific woman and the more women out of all are attracted to you, sexually. The things you do, like lifting, looking good, losing weight, blah, you know what I mean, they are done to increase your SMV. But it's not simply a checklist and if you do enough things your SMV is this high. A girl does not listen to …
/r/askTRP02/09/18 05:17 PM
2

I can see where you took a wrong turn. Thanks for supporting my claim and proving I not jumping to the wrong conclusion. Cheers!
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:49 PM
1

Didn't say you have a low SMV, I don't know it. But you just said nothing that shows a nice SMV. I asked you for indicators of your SMV and you either dodged or gave answers that did not support you have the SMV you think you have. The things you named, your hobbies and dreams, can all increase your SMV. But it's not working like do x to increase SMV by y. That's a guy's logic. You can make a million per month, military press 300lbs 10 times, wear custom suits and text with 10 instagram models a…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:46 PM
2

Don't get me wrong: What you do, did and might do will increase the value of your life and as a person, maybe even for society one day. But that is not the same as your SMV. I think Rollo - again - published an essay last week, that touches on that topic - from a female perspective. Something about alpha women etc...
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:25 PM
1

So, you're an orbiter not a lover to the plastic models. What does SMV stand for? "How much I like myself"? "How much money I make"? "How many friends I have lost"?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:22 PM
1

On which date did you fuck either of them?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:18 PM
0

What do you define as high SMV? The general behavior of girls and women towards reflects your SMV. I lift, I read, I run a business that is looking to generate millions. I dress well. In my business circles, I am pretty close with someone who recently got mentioned in Forbes. You do stuff you like. The money isn't there, maybe it will, maybe not. But as long as it's not there, it is not part of your life and your SMV. I am in touch with a model who represented her country in the world of modelli…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:15 PM
0

You're welcome.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:05 PM
2

She thinks you're a piece of shit. On top she has the feeling everyone else thinks the same and it's okay to show everyone what she thinks of you. And you care about it. How do all others react to her in these situations?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:04 PM
1

How do you measure that your SMV has improved, other than believing in it? All I could read was you talking about your expectations, you talking to men and you loosing friends.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 04:00 PM
0

I’m not looking to hook up with girls at all. I’m currently building myself, training to join the Air Force the girls were aggressively hitting on me right in front of my friends. They didn't know you prefer to suck off blokes in uniform. My question is this, how do I address this? Just tell them that you're not into girls. These days there's no shame in wanting a creamy, white goatee anymore.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:53 PM
0

Are you a fucking snowflake, so that the sidebar does not apply to you? Or are you such a fucking retarded cunt, that you believe people will repeat the sidebar for you? It's obvious that you suck, so better take things serious and get started using your brain.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:48 PM
2

First: There's no "left" where you come from. Second: Conservatism is not the opposite of feminism. Last: No, that will not happen, and your analysis is very faulty overall.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:46 PM
2

I've been reading so many books about lifting, I wonder why I did not grow any muscle from that. Nothing in the world is a substitute for going out and meeting people. Connecting, approaching, small talking, laughing, getting rejected. It doesn't matter, you cannot be liked by everyone and you will not like everyone. Get comfortable by doing. At one point it doesn't matter any more if you get rejected or not. That is the turning point. Or it can be.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:38 PM
2

He seems to be a fairly good business-man.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:34 PM
2

You don't need to go to college if you can't figure that out on your own, long before you go.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:23 PM
1

There's a girl dating you for 8 months. Strangers tell her she could do better Friends tell her she could do better She keeps dating you Why do you wonder about your SMV? Did you not fuck her yet or what?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:19 PM
1

The work you're looking for is creepy, not intimidating.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:16 PM
3

Someone has got to be on the bottom of Pareto's 80% I've never seen that "normal" people are ignored. Wherever I've been everyone was included; ugly, stupid and poor were no exception. And the hint to look for others friend is pretty useless for those people. What did you find out... what is it in your behavior, that makes other ignore and avoid you? What did you try to change about yourself? Did you notice patterns?
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:13 PM
1

The quality of your work is so low that a bunch of undereducated girls can make fun of it? In your situation I'd stop whining online and start to work on setting and reaching personal standards.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 03:04 PM
2

I hear that a lot. Always from people who grew up on non-stop internet porn, tube sites, fapping everyday. Quit that shit and you'll normalize.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:56 PM
0

On the day on which shit on TV or in movies influences my mood like that ... I'll buy a good rope, made in Germany, and search for "how to first noose" on YouTube
/r/askTRP02/09/18 02:09 PM
1

You're welcome!
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:02 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with it. It's perfectly fine for a loser to give up on getting anything done in his life - and women and sex are no exception to that. Just got the fuck out of here if you do it.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:00 PM
3

Please educate yourself on how lifting works for your goal (assuming you have a goal and don't just fuck around because someone told you to lift). It's obvious, that you have absolutely no clue what you are doing. Please read up on it, it is very simple and it is all over the internet and there are thousands of books available. If you don't, you're wasting time and money.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:59 PM
1

Of course it is possible. It's not optimal, but it works. Especially if you are still a novice.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:57 PM
3

How do you gauge if a girl is LTR worthy? Don't give a fuck about the retarded checklists around here. Just remember the deep red flags and avoid those. Other than that: Experiment! Nothing can serve as a substitute for experience. Don't think too much, try it out. Start young, and learn a lot. A commitment for an LTR is way more serious than plating, but it's not a decision for life. Just be prepared that all LTRs fail eventually - except for the one that lasts for the rest of your life, if you…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:21 AM
2

In your story: No. You are both children and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:22 AM
1

No. It is not a choice.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:21 AM
1

If you just don't assume any typical obvious right-wing or racist bullshit and form a question based on that, what could happen? If you're simply dumb, yeah, you earn a shitstorm. Do it, sissy!
/r/askTRP02/09/18 06:20 AM
1

For those who are simple minded, that example sounds about right. But it's superficial and wrong non the less. If you would have finished that thought, you might have found that even in your extreme example, although it is beyond relevance and out of context, there can be dominance of the man involved and most likely has to be. But that is nothing that is to be expected of you, as I found out browsing your other comments. Maybe you learn that when you grow up.
/r/askTRP01/09/18 08:11 AM
1

You post questions over and over and over that show you as immature and intellectually underdeveloped to a degree that you cannot handle many every day tasks on your own.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 06:00 PM
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Usually I'd say yes. But with you, I'm not sure if that is going to lead anywhere. But sure, lifting is better than fapping and gaming. And during sets, learn to use your fucking brain, man! You're old enough to vote, to drive a car, to shoot a gun, to marry and to get drunk (at least in healthy countries). Start to act like somebody who can take responsibility for his life or promise us to do neither of all those things until you're able to fuck your blowup-doll without mom's help.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 03:53 PM
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The red pill is the knowledge of how women behave and how intersexual dynamics work. It is a contrary position to what nearly everyone in western and westernized countries is raised to believe. But truth be told no secret and visible for everyone to see. Problem is that we tend to believe what we're told and base our values on that so much, that we don't consider what really happens, what we personally experience, as true. What you can read here is an interpretation of those principles and how t…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:32 AM
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So u/samsalp777, did you manage to text her into banging you unproctedted, like you did with the prostitute? Did you catch anythin or were you as lucky as with the hooker?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:12 AM
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Hey u/samsalp777, just make sure you tell your GF that you bang hookers without protection and cry like a baby afterwards because you might have caught STD. She'll udnerstand, that you have to post that on reddit and she will understand that you delete that post a few minutes later.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:10 AM
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So, u/samsalp777, how much did you have to pay to fuck without protection? I guess the crying that you might have caught STD, and telling reddit about it, came free?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:07 AM
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Fucking retarded cunt
/r/askTRP31/08/18 10:02 AM
1

And the next best thing is to make a complete fool of yourself, so everyone on the internet can to see how fucking stupid and miserable you are? Or are you just afraid your career as a pornstar is in danger now?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:59 AM
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Instead of getting bitter about it happening anyway, be glad you now know how to handle it. It isn't that hard. And from all the shit women do, it's one of the most reasonable things.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:58 AM
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If you believe the military is good for anything and good for your life, join it! There's nothing else you will get done in your life. Your recent past activities are enough evidence for that.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:33 AM
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I doesn't matter what you do, you're both children. Do what you want and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:30 AM
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What do you expect from telling her/letting her know? It tell you what: It's not going to be like it. Whatever you imagine, it's not going to work out that way. Pretending you didn't know? Why would you lie? Just don't bring it up. If she ever brings it up: It's not a big deal she does porn, you're too cool to be affected and to expect her to do XYZ with you, just because she does it for money. And don't try to trick her into something by bringing the topic up from the side. You'll make a fool o…
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:27 AM
1

Dude, how dumb fucking stupid are you? Did you not understand the simplest things about women, that red pill AND PUA teach you?
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:23 AM
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Good for what? What's you goal? Do you like what you see when you look into the mirror? No? Lift more. Eat more.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:19 AM
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Reading your replies to the guy's comments, I begin to understand why people ignore you. You're an awkward weirdo and it's no surprise people ignore you if you're like that in RL.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:17 AM
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Dominance during sex is not about being rough, it's about doing what you want and making her do it, too.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:10 AM
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any tips beside the ones in the sidebar? Yes, learn to manage your life and fuck monk mode. Life is not happening in serial mode. Unless you're completely retarded, or from the US, theres no reason to go half-time MGTOW.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:02 PM
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Kid, are you really asking a bunch strangers on the internet if you should fuck a woman? That is my top stupid question this week.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:56 PM
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I read almost all the major top posts 4 days a week I was afraid you're going to say something like that. That is part of your problem. You're not going to learn the red pill by reading around here. Quite the opposite, most likely. The subs here have some value to some people, but they're more for suitable for those who got the principles down and seek some inspiration (or some strangers opinion) on certain topics (->main sub) or have a detail question on theory or need specific input (this sub)…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:21 PM
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Red pill is not about not feeling, not falling in love and all this childish bullshit. It's about dealing with life and women. Successfully. There's no problem, no shame, nothing bad about falling in love. It's only problematic, shameful and stupid if you know the red pill principles and still believe she will be special, loving you the way you love her. Enjoy the feeling of love, but don't fall into the blue pill trap because of your love. After two years you should know that and have a fair un…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 04:57 PM
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Now with 18 year olds having low SMV, should I go for women or nah? No, girls are forbidden until 25. And you wouldn't enjoy fucking a girl at 18 or 20 or 24... it just suddenly happens at 25 that you like it. You must do guys until then. The more blokes you sucked off, the hotter the girls are that you're fucking at 25. That is actually a good thing or did you ever hear of a guy that made false rape accusations a week later??? Fun aside: The fact that you are so dependent and immature to even a…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:53 PM
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Work on understanding what frame is first. The sidebar has material on it. The Rational Male has very good essays that cover frame, although they might be above what you can grasp at the moment. And use the search engine in here and the main sub. You'll find tons of information to understand what frame is and how you build a frame in the first place.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:06 PM
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So, why do you think anyone should come into your frame? Do you have a frame? How do you show your frame, that people should come into? What is it that you want to achieve by getting people to come into your frame? What's the reason you want that to happen?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 11:06 AM
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I see, ok. How is your progress in reading the sidebar?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:58 AM
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What have you tried so far? What did you read? What is unclear about that topic? Why would someone wnat to do that to you?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 10:39 AM
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Anyway I can verify this? Yes, simple way. Fuck her, wait 5 months, if she's get's a belly, she lied. STD's is very similar prodecure, but you'll notice a burn in a few days.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 09:55 AM
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Good work! Feels good to be able to STFU and at the same time it feels wrong to cause that reaction. But that will fade. She's confronted with something she doesn't know, it's very different from what she's used to. The exact words don't matter, it is just air escaping. You'll notice that nothing bad really happens, although she feels so sad about it. Wait for the experience to happen and you'll like it better every time.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 08:24 AM
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A nice guy's problem is not keeping thoughs and wishes and desires to himself, the problem is that he makes covert contracts. A certain degree of abundance mentality is the opposite of covert contracts.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 07:24 AM
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How about learning how life works as a start?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:19 PM
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Sounds like a fair price for becoming a millionaire in no time and without too much effort. After reading your other posts, I doubt that you'd become and stay millionaire, if you can't even handle the most basic challenges in your life and are whining about everything. Maybe millionaire in złoty.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:07 PM
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Oh my poor boy, they are so unfair and cruel to you. My lovely boy, do you want your pacifier?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:01 PM
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They just don't know any better, how could they? Europeans used to shipped their criminals and their lowest scum far away. And most people asking, as well as most people answering, are from the intellectual underprivileged places where that human waste has landed.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:58 PM
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I understand that it looks like that from down there. Don't worry.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:41 PM
1

Where's the promised shit test? I just see you whining. Or is your post supposed to be a shit test to this sub?
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:29 PM
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I cannot tell you what exactly you are missing. And I don't want to guess or play Q&A on that. But I want to say this: It's not that you only need to have a check mark on every item on your/the RP list and then you're guaranteed to drown in money, pussy, and high value friends. Missing some positions on that list might be okay, but missing some specific will make your life feel miserable. But, still, having them all checked doesn't mean you're having the life you want. When the goo between your …
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:23 PM
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Exactly the impression I have.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:20 AM
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See, I learned something, haven't seen that sub before!
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:20 PM
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I like the way you replied, thanks! But just as you, I cannot completely agree to it. Like I said: I can remember the same dumb questions popping up on a daily basis, but I can barely remember someone reporting back. I actually ask a lot of people to report back when they tried something out, something very small. Hasn't happened. Even some of the users with the extreme stupid or BP stories and really dumb question come back again and again and ask basically the same shit for month. But barley a…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:06 PM
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No, what I meant is, that I think the majority comes here, asks something, doesn't get a reply "you're perfect, keep on doing what you've been doing, it's all their fault" and then quits.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:58 PM
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Edit: I am in the US If you're white: STFU, know of nothing and be friendly If you're black: STFU, know of nothing , be friendly and pray you don't get shot.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:40 AM
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Don't kill attraction and desire, and do not reduce your SMV.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:23 AM
1

To get in the mood, I remember my latest fuck ... cannot remember to what tune that was.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:15 AM
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VERY RARE. But it does happen. Every once in a while someone reports back and yo ucan see actual progres they made in understanding and implementation. I like that very much. But this is not common. You're more likely to find something like that on the main sub. Most people asking are helpless losers and asking on reddit doesn't change that. This sub attracts people who get nothing done in their life - but drinking, fapping, complaining and procrastinating. That's how they find TRP. But no meme …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:05 AM
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YOU decide what behavior is so inappropriate that you next a girl. There are many occasions where next is not the best reaction, and the differentiation to loosing frame is thin sometimes. You see the NEXT as the usual option here for at least two reasons: Big bunch of that advice comes from people who just parrot what they read here People asking are in situations that a obvious that a next is the only action that makes sense, but they don't want to.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:58 AM
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I will definitively do that! Because you don't recognize or understand the advice? Or because you all need sugarcoating and participation trophies? Or because it's better to change nicknames than to stop doing drugs and putting some effort into your life to not fuck up everything you start with half a heart? Do you simply hate that kid or are you from the US?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:50 AM
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Yeah, sure, because someone else will teach that drug-head what he needs to know in a few reddit comments? You really believe anyone will learn what they need to understand lifting HERE? Did you actually read the stupid shit he wrote? It's obvious that he doesn't know what he's talking about. Are YOU going to correct all his bullshit ideas? Are you going to repeat a few books on training and nutrition? Are you going to explain all that so he understands and does not get frustrated after the novi…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:20 AM
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That is why I said you need to educate yourself. I won't do that for you, and no one else will. You will get a lot of answers that sound very good and some may be very good, but that does not replace that you invest the time to find out how to train for strength or hypertrophy, nutrition, recovery... You will not learn that from comments on reddit. Especially not here, in this sub. Read some fucking books man. Or do you expect people around here to repeat training books just for you?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 04:19 AM
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Monk mode is never the solution to a real problem you might have, like a sex addiction (which you don't seem to have). Monk mode for a short time is fine if you have trouble setting priorities because you're still 7 and can't focus on your homework. But it's never a solution for psychological or physical problems that require a professional, for example a severe addiction. You just need to catch up on what you've missed. Calm down, enjoy it for a while and things will settle by themselves.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:11 PM
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If you stay the idiot you currently are, it doesn't matter what you start, you won't be doing it for long before - I would be surprised if you even milk out all novice benefits before stopping because the gains simply won't come. Stop asking people to correct your silly ideas and start educating yourself on that topic. It's not that hard, lifting is the hard part. There are only few principles you need to understand, because you cannot trick your way around them.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:19 PM
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I didn't recognize, that the other answer was not you, OP. I answered this question in it. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9aofdo/excerxise_to_build_frame/e4wzf86/
/r/askTRP27/08/18 05:09 PM
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Yes, actively do it during every day situations. Frame is about you, not about girl. It is about doing what you think is correct and not doing what you believe is wrong. Not about doing to opposite of what someone else wants or likes. So exercise frame with everyone. But don't start to make up stuff, just to have something to show frame. That's going to backfire sooner than you think. And do not hesitate to get back to someone if that happens. Like you agree to something because you always do, w…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:53 PM
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What I meant is, it might be a shitty attitude and you have no chance or it's a fuckup'd way of game she want's to play and gets hot from it. If you enjoy playing that, do it. But don't expect that winning that verbale game will be rewarded with sex. Being respectful is not a goal in game.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:17 PM
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It's really hard to say what happened there. Maybe you're on the wrong track, maybe not. Would have to see the video to be sure about it!
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:13 PM
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Depends on if you want to play with her - game not sex - or not. For me, personally, no.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 01:03 PM
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Nothing beats experience, really. Exercise holding frame.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 12:55 PM
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All it took for me is to do what I was afraid would have a bad outcome, and then see nothing bad happened. Or that the bad that happened was eventually not bad after two or three days, it only felt bad, but it did not matter. "Through experience" is your answer.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 11:20 AM
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Congratulations to what you achieved. I assume your changes happened after 2014... right? People you knew before that will not completely recognize the changed you, and will not like the changed you. If you've been the one to not invite for those people, don't expect them change their opinion on you.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:34 AM
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Retarded country -> retarted society -> retared citizen. A self-reinforcing cycle, it's as easy as that. And once a certain threshold has been breached you can safely diagnose every idiot, who just never learned to deal with life, as having a mental illness... when all they need is repeatedly being slapped in the face and taken away all privileges that contributed to their condition. Then prescribe something that won't kill them, but sadly there's not much you can do to heal them...
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:18 AM
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It is very risky doing anything like that if you have a goal (good wrestingling season) upfront and no experience in this extreme method (haven't experienced overtraining before). I assume you know that you cannot overthrow the mechanism of stress-recovery-adaption. But you can of course try to max it out by guessing how long it takes to recover and adapt while removing every stress from your life and sleeping and eating perfectly every single day. It's a bet and you're likely to loose that bet …
/r/askTRP26/08/18 05:29 PM
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First of all you do not have to learn game. Second thing is, that game tries to teach you how to be desirable in short term and red pill explains how to be desirable long term. Both do not tell you to negotiate but to become a guy a woman wants to fuck, short- or longterm. Negotiation of desire is usually described like "Wife doesn't fuck you any longer, so you take out the trash and do the dishes to make her wet". Doesn't sound like it works, does it?
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:35 PM
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I'd say very often it's because the one who changed with the "help" of this sub, turned into a bold but worthless cunt, that no one likes to waste time on. You don't sound like that typical case. But it's complicated to be with people who have known you for some time when you begin to change. The reasons they liked you might be gone or they don't like new behaviors you adopted. That's a pretty normal process for a person who has a noticeable amount of development in his life. Leave them be and d…
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:12 PM
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There's one absolutely foolproof method, it's kind of a secret trick that reveals if she's into you or not. It's crazy, that it works, although it seems so damn simple at first sight. Most of the masters of game won't ever reveal this trick in their books and workshops: Approach her and see how she responds!
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:14 PM
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To each his own. Scum will always spend time & money on something to prevent itself from rising above it's own dirt.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 12:10 PM
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If it was or not - she is most likely to interpret it that way, even if that was not the reason!
/r/askTRP26/08/18 11:29 AM
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Refusal may seem to be the most ultra mega hyper alpha frame-holding masculine response, but it is not. Plain refusal is one of the worst ways to handle that. Google "comfort test".
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:36 AM
1

That is too generic and therefore hard to tell. We need more very, very specific input. At what atmospheric air pressure does 2. happen and is her apartment number odd or even during 4.?
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:30 AM
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Enjoy the journey!
/r/askTRP26/08/18 08:12 AM
2

The current MGTOW are people who gave up, because they cannot get red pill working for them. End of story. Sad thing is, they're proud they did give up on the SMP, but hate it when someone publicly says so. Doing something you like but being so ashamed about it that you cannot hear it is a pattern I recognize in women all the time. It's kind of the ASD for MGTOW. And no, they do not apply red pill principles to their lives.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:41 AM
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'You can turn it off!' he said. 'Yes,' said O'Brien, 'we can turn it off. We have that privilege.' Start to turn off now. TV, Radio, Social Media, Newspapers for the most part. You might be a slave financially for the most part of your life, but no one can take away your mind, you have to hand it to them.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:33 AM
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Try to dampen the swingings of your moods and actions, and find a sustainable center. And sometimes you need to create motivation through action. And get used to it. That is the hardest part, when you're used to things being -100% or +100% but rarely in between
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:28 AM
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Drop that shit term than. That's an important part of it. You do not decide to be what ever you associate with AMOG. The group you're in decides to see that in you and treat you like that. In the former setting you feel like that's the case, I guess because it is relaxed, and in the latter you feel you're far away, because is challenging maybe. Where to start off then? The Rational Male, even on a topic like this. Rollo Tomassi has a mature way of explaining that.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:24 AM
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You made clear in your post, that you have not understood what those things mean and how the dynamics work. That's why I said, back to square one. And try again to learn about it. Just insisting even more, that you understand it, will not make it better. Your own experience tells you that you did not get it, why else would you have to ask your question?
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:11 AM
1

Back to square one, what else?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 09:04 PM
6

You should also get a pregnancy-test. One of you might be pregnant now.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:58 PM
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Yes, of course. It's called western society.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:56 PM
2

Fleshlight, not hand. Yes. I know.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:45 PM
1

You've killed your desire and sex-drive, please don't try to attribute that to the red pill - some newbies might believe it. You're doing it wrong. Actually I'd write this after every paragraph. It get's worse with every sentence. Did you already start to invest in crypto-currency?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 02:44 PM
1

My take is: It doesn't matter if this or that person likes you. Those who do have a certain value for your life. The rest doesn't matter. But it might still be worth getting in contact with others, networking, it just doesn't matter if things work out or not. It's never important that someone specific wants to befriends with you, sleep with you or whatever, just because you came in contact with them.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:31 PM
1

So, on one hand you want to calibrate better to connect with everyone and on the other hand you want more outcome independence. aka... want to change yourself to get with people and not care if it works?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:25 PM
1

So, what is your question? How can we help you?
/r/askTRP25/08/18 12:17 PM
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160lbs. I was talking about what you're able to lift. I thought that's obvious from the context.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 11:20 AM
1

Take it as the lesson that parroting red pill terms you barely understand is not a substitute for being having a high SMV and being a man girls want to fuck and other men want to be.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:23 AM
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I think you'll have an easier time to control your desire and turn it to down to a working level, than motivating yourself to really get it on with a girl if you're balls are drained and you're basically out of fuel. Just try it, the cost is the same. Experiment with the time frame between last jerkoff and actual date. Find the sweep-spot.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:20 AM
2

They don't love drama. They crave fresh emotions, no matter what kind. And drama is the escape sequence if they don't get their fix on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 08:11 AM
1

That's barely a man's bodyweight. I don't know how small you are, but 160lbs seem really a low weight to squat. So low, I wonder if you did not miss something important in your training. I think you're prone to making bad adjustments or leaving out details. Are you sure you REALLY followed the program to the point? No jumps in the increases, no extra reps and no additional exercises, good form, sufficient sleep, no extremely low calorie intake, enough rest and sleep for recovery? EDIT: Do you do…
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:42 AM
1

Don't be surprised that it's not. Those books of him are hyped without any reason, that's all. Basically it's a bullet-point list that would fit into two of three motivational memes, stretched out to fill a complete book. And half of the things you know if you ever made your own experience in life. But if you're an average American, you might like it.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:33 AM
1

Of course. No girl will sleep with you because you think that you're hot, she will sleep with you because what she sees in you get's her hot.
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:32 AM
2

I feel like I’ve reached my max by doing 5x5. Then you should read "Practical Programming for strength training" as soon as you can. It will lead you out of SL 5x5, which is a GREAT program to start with, and bring you into your next stage. Until then, just reduce the sets to 3 instead of 5 and keep the original program (3x5 Sq, 3x5 BP, 3x5 rows - 3x5 Sq, 3x5 OHP, 1x5 DL). It's better than making up you own program. Cut back on the squat weights if you have to. BTW: Squatting 160... kg or lbs?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 08:23 PM
1

If you think so, do it man!
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:23 PM
1

You know what, as long as you do not even know what you want, there is no point in asking. Just do what you like enough to keep doing it for a long time. If you want to be able to do the dragon flag, you will be more confident, once you can do it. There's nothing wrong with that. If you want to look like a bodybuilder, go pump iron til you look like that guy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dChsc1LUaZ8 ? If you want to be incredibly strong, start a strength program. It will all give you confidenc…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:15 PM
1

i dont need to read the book of pook or the rational male. Am i wrong to think this? Completely wrong. Cannot get any more wrong. No, scratch that. But you get the point. If you haven't read The Rational Male yet, you got nothing down. You most probably just lurked in this sub and think you learned red pill in here. Could not be further away from the truth. Which would explain why you consider monk mode in the first place. Live does not happen in serial mode and red pill is actually the toolkit …
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:13 PM
1

The same as what? And now don't say "Lifting", because that is not an answer.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:05 PM
1

I don't even know where to start, there's so much nonsense and misconceptions in your post. Calm down. If you don't like the results of what you're doing, stop it. Just wait a few days or two weeks, and you will normalize. Just live a normal life, like a responsible adult (even if you're 15, which my guess is) and everything will come back to a normal level. Now, don't fuck yourself up again.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 07:02 PM
1

Who would win a fight - the shark or the lion? It's all better than couch-surfing. In the end, none of the two is better than the other, and even assuming that is childish and stupid, without saying which goal you have. If it serves your goal, do it. If it does not, stop it.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 06:54 PM
1

All the best to you!
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:52 PM
2

I imagine it is pretty hard to be they way you want to be around people who know you. They will notice and mock you fort it. Maybe it would help to start practicing with people you don't know yet. People you don't GAF about. Who don't see the difference and call you out on it. Try something like an afterclass activity you usually wouldn't attend or joining a club for a short time, just to meet people and learn to act the way you want to. Get confident in being like that.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:06 PM
2

I hope I'm not misjudging you now and I am assuming you're not too lazy to give an answer. Tried applying a red pill mindset. When I see that someone can describe his problems, and everything that make his life miserable, in detail, but cannot give a single example of what he DID to encounter that, it usually means that he has absolutely no idea what he is talking about. If you would have said something "I tried to hold frame. When someone said XX I did not give a fuck, but sadly later I just di…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 05:16 AM
1

You will find a video from Athlean-X for everything you want to believe. He has at least one video per fitness-buzzword. Same with Scott Herman. While the content is not always wrong, I would not listen to them too much. Start SL 5x5 and it will help you with your posture. It will take care, if you pay attention to form! Also, read the Starting Strength book carefully. It is a great companion to the SL 5x5 website.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:31 PM
1

I've been red pill for quite a while. What have you actually tried to improve your situation?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:39 PM
1

There is no difference, Wrong. you pay either way. Right.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:38 PM
1

Come back when you're ready to change your life and spare us your self-pity.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:33 PM
1

she told me that she could but doesn't want to and later said that she is not interested in anything more than what we did and then said that it's all in her head.. One of the rare cases where "what she said" and "what she did" were the same! Sounds like a keeper!
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:30 PM
2

Wrong sub, try r/MGTOW. Or stop whining and get your shit together, like everyone else does. On the right, there's the sidebar. Read it. In them gym, there's also a bar. Lift it.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:24 PM
3

Kids, this is what monk mode turns you into.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:21 PM
1

Participate in the talk, give your best and report back how things went and how you feel afterwards.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:48 PM
1

...and you deducted this from what... one asktrp post? Yes. You decided what you put into your post. And that is what I got from your text. Do you expect people to sense what you do not write?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 08:45 AM
1

If you don't set something up, they just sit in their rooms and do nothing?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:41 AM
1

So let's say I do succeed, [...] You didn't. And the rest... you said all of that before, just with fewer words. You argue as if you have a reason to treat the people around you like shit, but you don't. And you've got some consciense left, so you know that yourself. Even if you would succeed, there would not be a reason for that behavior. Your attitude is not IDGAF, it is "I'm above you all and you waste my time".
/r/askTRP22/08/18 05:44 AM
1

True, but still doesn't make it a good decision in his situation.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 05:28 AM
2

When you have just begun to implement the red pill principles in your life, martial arts is one of the things you can put aside for a long time. It's not even related, it is a locally limit phenomenon to think it is.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:43 PM
1

From down where you are, I'm pretty sure what you described makes sense. That is pretty common. From your future plans, you're looking down on others, not having achieved much in your life, yet. The feeling of entitlement you spit out will not prove as a guarantee of success. That all is likely to bite you in your butt. Not that you will admit it then. There will be circumstances and other people mainly responsible for your failure to come. That is the thing you should be working on. What you sa…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:38 PM
1

Well, it's stupid to say so, but women are attracted by attractiveness. And that is the complete package, not some single trait or a selection of traits like money+jawline or humor+rolex or status+biceps. There are different phases, and different aspects of a man shine through in different phases. A woman cannot smell your frame when she sees you the first time. But she might see you're attracting other women. During conversation she might find you charming. During some minor or major incident s…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:27 PM
1

For what do you think or feel you should be respected and how should that manifest? What I mean is, there's a basic respect, like you let someone speak and don't cut him off in the middle of a sentence. And there's earned respect.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:15 PM
1

And that is why thousands of people of all ages, who claim they read the sidebar, talk bullshit here. Pure theory.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:46 PM
1

The Madness Behind - Impaled Nazarene
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:53 AM
2

Without knowing the two of you it's hard to tell if he's very much a douchebag or you're a sissy. It's pretty common for guys to give each other shit without the intention to hurt feelings. It's just one way guys deal with each other, friends escpecially. But not all guys are like that or can take it.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:13 AM
25

Same as everywhere: STFU about red pill aka First rule of the Fight Club: Don't talk about Fight Club. And remember: They're doing this because everyone does and they believe it's a good thing. Which does not mean that they do not respond well to masculinity. Read: Being masculine, not bragging and showing of how masculin you think you are.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:06 AM
1

YEAH RIGHT! He needs to do what you tell him! This damn charly! Doesn't he know that only your opinion counts????
/r/askTRP21/08/18 07:04 AM
1

Blocking her is the signal that she's hurt you emotionally. She understands that, because it is like that. Ignoring her might/will cause her to act as if you're hurt, while knowing that she cannot harm you. Bonus points if you're friednly, should you bump into her someday and still ignore her afterwards. Do I remove off insta, snap, block cell, and block facebook on this woman? Why? For what? Showing you can't take her shit? Do you need to make her aware that you're upset with your orbiter statu…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:19 AM
2

I wonder why there needs to be a how-to, since we're raised to be like that. Propably a reminder for orphans.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:11 AM
3

She didn’t make a conscious logical decision to ditch me and go to him That is one of the most important insights to the red pill, that is forgotten or ignored very often.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:37 AM
2

GOOD LUCK from Germany! Report back how things work out!!!
/r/askTRP20/08/18 06:03 PM
1

Sure, very easy. Unfollow her on Instagram and fap to someone else's pics. Done.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:57 PM
5

You confuse looks with SMV. Common mistake by people who think they don't have to read the sidebar until they understand it. But I assume there's some exaggeration. Remember that the majority of the "mortal" red pillers has been raised in the land that's held together by overstatement and hypocrisy.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:51 PM
3

Is there no end goal? Correct. Life is periodically. I you want to, you could say that the goal is to look back any time you want and regret nothing that you did not do. Perhaps an end goal is a mission, but what's the point of a mission? No, it's not. That is a trick that helps some people rationalize a sense into their lives. A more or less local phenomenon, I think. I'm gonna die anyways, even if I do leave a legacy, what's the point of legacy? Exactly. And you'll take nothing with you once y…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:41 PM
1

Haven't paid that much attention. Now that I read that, I see it's even worse than I thought.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:35 PM
2

How long they will be like that?
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:15 PM
1

Phew... IDK something ending in "cel". Clicked on it from the profile of some miserable kid here.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:12 PM
1

True, probably. I just visited some Incel sub few weeks ago and saw lots of memes that complained about exactly that.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 12:36 PM
8

I may be wrong about this, since I did not do active research on both subcultures. But from the people outing themselves as Incels or MGTOW I take it like that: Incels give up on the SMP before achieving anything and spend their time gaming and keep complaining about their situation and that attractive woman fuck muscular guys, while MGTOW gave up on the SMP later, maybe after marriage and children, to focus on something they value more, but have to reenforce themselves just how much better that…
/r/askTRP20/08/18 10:45 AM
4

Of course her hamster states she did nothing wrong and was in a period of being free after heartbreak etc etc so there’s no point talking to her about it.. The only hamster I can see spinning is yours. If you can't take the fact that a girl enjoys sex too, start dating boys.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:34 AM
8

Only five? Not even top five? Ok... here you go: Has and never had no penis Has no mustache Isn't a feminist Can suck a tennisball through a gardenhose Doesn't spend time on social media
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:21 AM
5

No, you would not fuck her.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:06 AM
1

Just put her burka back on and you're fine.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:59 AM
2

Four dates and she's not spreading, she's not giving head, she's not even making out with you properly. She doesn't owe you any of this and obviously you don't get her horny. Don't ask anyone how long it is ok to wait. The situation you're in is the reason why Rollo wrote Iron Rule #3.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:54 AM
1

If there was such thing, a certain type of physique would be observably successful.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:37 AM
1

Do you enjoy the sex with her? Fuck her! Do you freak out about her not wanting to do something you do not care about that much? Next her!
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:17 AM
1

It's very hard to post anything new and worth reading, when all has been said 20 times or more. Red Pill principles do not change quickly. It's a natural thing to happen. In the end it's the moderators decisions if articles do not match quality standards or fail the topic.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:13 AM
5

No. Yes. Ah, I don't care what other men think my SMV is
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:58 PM
2

Lift and STFU about RP.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:57 PM
2

You've decided to be a slave of all this shit. No one requires you to take part in all of that. I'm not talking about MGTOW and such sissy-stuff, I am talking about not being affect by it. Woman talking shit? Leave her be and don't spend time with her. Afraid to date a coworker? Don't date a coworker, was never a very good idea. Pissed of by feminine TV shows and ruined movies? Don't consume that shit. There a lot of people that don't take part in this shit. Maybe you just don't know them or don…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:35 PM
0

Seriously, you listed things that require you to do nothing. How should that be prioritized? Are you tired from not fapping? Or does counting calories exhaust you? Not masturbating increases your available time Not getting drunk increases your available time and saves money Not taking drugs increases your available time and saves money Not wasting money does not cost time or energy Not eating crap all day does not cost time and may save money, depending on where you live. My guess is that you mi…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 04:28 PM
2

Forget what you think has happened to her before. You're never likely to be her best experience on a scale you set up in your mind. Sex is about you and your pleasure and your satisfaction. Take what you need from her, make her do what you like.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:44 PM
0

Sure, women can be in their "sexual prime" in their 20s and lots of them are. I don't care for the real ratio now, that's not my point. But fact is, that not all woman are the best they could be during their 20s. I would not be surprised if this becomes normal, since social media tells every hippo she would be an HB8 at least. Now comes the part, that won't fit into the typical RP simple mind, a blasphemic pissing on the holy LAWS of TRP. It's not the rule, but there is a number of women that st…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 03:38 PM
2

Don't think, just do. Don't worry "how", just tell that what to do and if she likes it, she'll come. If not, then it's fine. Try again, and if she still doesn't like, you know what you're at with her.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:03 AM
2

Nice books if you're into that kind of stuff, but in general not very helpful. Very stretched out chapters that tell you long stories with a quintessence. Could be a one-pager, really. Fans will like it, find it entertaining, and make up reasons why it's necessary to have so much text for so little meaning. If you're a fan, enjoy. If not, you'll know what I mean. Give it a try, but buy a cheap used one on Amazon.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:02 AM
1

Making women want to be stuck in a dead end.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:40 AM
6

Don't give a fuck about theory in this situation. Spend time with them and gain experience. That way you'll figure out how much is fine and how much is too much. And you'll know how that threshold actually feels.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:37 AM
3

If you try, you may fail. If you don't try, you already failed.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:02 AM
2

Some people have to be in Pareto's 80%. And some have to be at the bottom of that 80%. The closer you are to the top end, the greater the possibility to rise further. Some reasons are genetically hardwired, some are just your development. While you cannot do anything about the former, the latter can be changed. Hard work, but possible. You need to internalize - through experience - that the world keeps turning, even if you fuck up big time. Failure and rejection are a vital part of life and you …
/r/askTRP19/08/18 10:00 AM
5

I have a feeling one of them will want to look through my phone, and I have no ill will towards it, [...] Seriously, you should work on that. What can I do to prevent them from going through my phone? Tell her "No, you won't". No need to explain yourself. If she starts arguing, discussing or shaming you, grab her clothes without saying a word and throw them out the window, then kick her out the frontdoor.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:54 AM
3

Sounds about right, no need to be a worthless liar. Plain lying to get laid is a form of neediness and no woman is so hot that you need to. It's the opposite of abundance mentality. And the other answer is "covertly". Don't bring it up yourself and if she does, don't lie about your intentions.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:51 AM
4

Do you have a penis? Yes => TRP is for you. Yes, and I like to suck cock => TRP is not aimed at you, but you might learn something. No => TRP is not for you.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:45 AM
1

Grow up, get a life and stop wasting our time, you worthless cunt.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:20 AM
1

You probably did fine. Get used to it and don't get affected, lot's of girls are like that. She wants you to orbit, but please from somewhere no one else notices.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:18 AM
2

I have no general problem with getting tattooed where ever you want. It's your life and you don't hurt no one by getting the tattoos. But I have never seen a tattoo (live or picture) on the throat or face that did not look like total shit. And the ~15 face-tattooed people that I've met were subhuman scum, without exception.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:13 AM
2

Did your dick feel the difference? If it disgusts you so much, keep doing it to remind you why you have to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:04 AM
1

Muscles and strength make a tremendous difference, everything else being equal. But they're not a substitute for a lack of anything else. Strong people are harder to kill than weak people and more useful in general - Mark Rippetoe
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:28 AM
2

It is true, but your's not completely. She will not always act like her mother for at least two obvious reasons: She might not have been raised by her biological mother and she might go through a development that makes her realize that she does not like her mothers behavior and turn to someone else for orientation. Both not a rare thing to happen.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 06:47 AM
1

It also changes the expectations how rewards in the real life should be.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:49 PM
3

More than twice your age. Do that if it makes you feel good, but it doesn't matter what I think about your looks - I'm not a chick you want to bang.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:13 PM
3

How did it happen, that you found this place, and not dare to read the sidebar? And why did reddit print your text in black and not in deep blue? The blue is dripping from every paragraph and you should do something about that. If not for this relationship, then for everything to come. Read the sidebar! By that I mean, read the books and articles linked there, not the sidebar literally. Read it until you understand it. The implement what you learned and read it again. Start with The Rational Mal…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:09 PM
2

It is designed to be addictive and to make you waste your time on worthless people and bullshit that has no meaning for your life. It is known to mess with your rewardsystem and has good potential to cripple your social interaction beyond repair. It's the perfect invention in the age of participation trophies and outrage for the sake of it. I'd say, if you run someone over because he/she is writing a FB status update on his phone and not payin attention to the traffic, their family should have t…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:03 PM
2

Is there anything else necessary to do? Yes. Life is not happening in serial mode. Learn to balance all aspects of your life and get over monk mode ASAP. Don't see monk mode as something worth doing. It is a tool for people who are overwhelmed by living life and cannot it all. Do it, if you cannot get anything important in your life on track and then focus on balancing you life. If you don't, monk mode will teach you to choose between things that you could easily experience all together.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:57 PM
2

I used to think that. But I've met quite a number of women who look much more like their father's mother, not like her own mother. Similarities increased with age.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:54 PM
2

You have no other choice Do you know you're ugly or is it just this one incident that get's you thinking?
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:31 PM
9

Either she's a cunt or you're ugly or known to be boring. Either way, move on. Nothing worth to be thought about.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:49 AM
3

Listen to this man, because he's right. Everyone around you, in every state, cannot wait to be give you money for low quality bullshit that does not work, for advice that is wrong, for services they could do themselves twice as good. Live the American dream, man! It's fortunate for a businessman to surrounded by idiots like that!
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:45 AM
1

Your life's not an episode of Jackass. It's pretty stupid to do something that has no meaning to you. To waste time, energy, money and risk your health, just to impress yourself. Or worse: Someone else.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:10 AM
2

In the sidebar it says that your dating life reflects your smv Only if you maxed it out, not if you don't even try to go for hotter girls men date down Some do, some date who they want. And fuck who they want. Don't believe is just because I say so - read the sidebar and find out that you are wrong with that. It's in there.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:08 AM
2

You got what you asked for... what's the big deal?
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:57 AM
1

Where's the connection between your title and text? You say not a single word about pair bonding is your text. The answer to the question in your title is: Yes. The answer to the question at the end of your text is: That's perfectly within what is to be expected at some point.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:48 AM
1

In the sidebar it says that your dating life reflects your smv and that men date down. Read the sidebar again. Actually read the books and articles mentioned in the sidebar, not the sidebar itself. Read it until you understand it. Then re-read it.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:37 AM
3

Besides that texting is a buffer and will always be a buffer, and buffers are the opposite of alpha-traits: It depends on what you want, why you text her. And of course what you text her and how you tell her that. It's not so much about if you open the conversation or just respond. You want something from her? Text her that, if you must. You want nothing from her? Don't text her, you're not her mother. She's texting you? Answer like a man, not like a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 07:34 AM
1

Well, you supported my initial claim again. Thank you for that. Once would have been enough though. But if you're such a big fan, you're welcome to prove it again and again.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:58 AM
1

My point is, that it doesn't matter nearly as much as it is claimed. The whole discussion leaves out a lot of parameters that overrule the effects the n-count is supposed to have on a successful relationship/marriage. Positive and negative parameters. And I saw no discussion considering the view in the opposite direction; but maybe I just missed that.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:06 PM
0

Nice try. Once you see me say anything like that, we can discuss it.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:36 PM
-3

Thanks for supporting my claim.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:21 PM
0

If you're in the US: Win the lottery. Until then be there for her, give her support, let differences rest. Don't overthink it, don't overdo it.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:26 PM
1

My take on this is: Either because they do not know/understand what the red pill is, just as ~80-90% of all people parroting RP terms don't understand red pill. Which is part of the reason most "outsiders" don't. Or because they understand pretty well, that their partner's understanding of red pill principles has the potential to defeat their sexual strategy. And just as we don't want that to happen to us, they don't want that to happen to themselves. In both options it comes down to the misunde…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:20 PM
-5

The red pill is not concerned with it. Loud people of lower intelligence, who are usually stuck in the anger phase, are concerned with that. Luckily there's scientific evidence for everything, and if you want to believe hard enough, it will make sense and you can rationalize until you see it taking place in your life, too.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:14 PM
0

The real difference? In the former case you are not interested, in the latter you are interested. What's so complicated about it?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:26 PM
5

You would still have to go through a big bunch of garbage. I doubt it will really serve you well. But you can always go through the history of users you want to.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:21 PM
8

The hardest part about being red pill aware is to STFU.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:20 PM
2

Sounds like a keeper!
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:06 PM
3

I agree, lying by itself is not a weakness. It's a shit behavior I punish at every opportunity, but not a weakness. Having to lie is a weakness. Not being able to tell the truth (e.g. because of shame) is a weakness.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:42 PM
1

In that case, it was just a kind of shittest which you could have handled as one. In general I find it best to tell people what they need to hear to do what I want them to - without lying of course. Some people need the cold truth shoved up their bloody arse to actually wake up from the sugarcoated bullshit others tell them. Others will shut down completely if you're to intense. It's about reading people if you want to succeed. If you don't care about getting something specific, going full force…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:40 PM
6

It's like playing a guitar. The music is in the fingers, not the instrument. Give Mark Knopfler or Angus Young a cheap guitar and they will sound like Dire Straits and AC/DC. If you give me one of their guitars it will sound like crap. So, if you haven't "got it" a vibrator is no gurantee to make her come. But if you've got it, the brand and model make only a small difference. But to answer your question: Try to find out if she's even open to that before you waste your money on a toy that you're…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:23 PM
1

Because those who do so are too much of a cunt to write a body into their lame questions, that get ask every other day. And a bit because it's usually what losers do.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 03:11 PM
1

Ok, so you get an answer to your question, that is as precise as your question: Contact them.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:42 AM
1

What?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:40 AM
1

You don't really want an answer, do you?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:38 AM
1

Because a "hypothetical girlfriend" is like whatever you imagine she is? Because a lot of people care for what actually happens, instead of denying themselves the fun just in case something bad might happen sometime later? Because they give no fuck about it at all? Because "high" or "a lot" means something different to everyone? Because lots of men want to fuck lots of girls and are mature enough to not expect them to be different? Because they know the effects of the n-count are completely over…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:27 AM
1

I'll get some pushback from the woman, but I'll diffuse it with some rationale conversation. Let them know why it is critical to do it today. We can complain all we want online, but nothing can ever change if we do not talk about it, to those who cause the problem.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:09 AM
1

Pathetic, if you don't enjoy them because you just acquired them to show off/impress/fake/pretend. On the other hand, if you buy them for yourself, they're not a pure status symbol any longer...
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:05 AM
2

In the end it's experience and being skilled in reading people. For the most part I'd say you should not listen to people who try to advice you to do things that are typical for the anger phase, that advice you to do things that will isolate you from human interactions too much (never LTR, forget your friends, go monk mode for every problem you face) and that want to sell you checklists as guarantees for success. Once you've got the basic principles down, you're going to figure out who's giving …
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:03 AM
6

Break up with her, you sissy.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 08:54 AM
1

I generally don't take stuff people say too serious since I was 14 maybe. That's when it started. And in the decades after that, I found out I it was the right decision. That has been my greatest influence on that topic. Just make sure you read people correct. There are times when you're better off taking something serious and some people just cannot understand a sarcasm or fun in general. In the end, nothings right or wrong by default. It's always about what you want to from them.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:51 AM
2

That you don't get it doesn't mean it's not-existent.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:41 AM
1

As always "The Rational Male" has a good essay about that. I believe it's called "Your friend menstruation" or something like that.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:38 AM
3

Yes, but there are also more than enough older people around, that are as dumb as these 15-18 kids. All of them either retarded or believe the anger phase is the final solution of the red pill...
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:37 AM
0

Sounds like you have a hard time getting from where you were (and not completely happy with that) to where you want to go (in hope to be more happy). Maybe this helps you: There are no "rules". There are mechanics. RP/Game tell you only how things will work, what will/might/most likely will happen if you actually do X or Y or Z. If you are standing under a big brick above your head, a string attached to it, the other end of it in your hand. There's no rule that forbids you to release the string.…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:09 AM
3

And in fact it's much more believable if someone with success and money fakes an extraordinary life, because he's got all that, what everyone else is missing. And if only they had it, too! So how could he not be the happiest person in the world, right??
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:32 AM
1

I'm happy for you. But that still does not determine your SMV. Nothing that you think about yourself - or someone else tells you about yourself - determines your SMV. Yes, confidence is good, but it's just a part of your SMV, and believing in your looks is a positive influence on your confidence. But that is not your SMV.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 04:29 AM
1

How about you pay attention to what you're doing, kid?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:11 PM
1

Who are you asking?
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:07 PM
1

Because the 90s are over.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 04:00 PM
-1

That, by itself, is not completely wrong, but beneath what I said. You did not understand what I said.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:57 PM
1

I'd like to hear what way.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:47 PM
1

I repeat: You did not understand what I said. Not even being told you did not get it. So, I'm cutting this here and hope at least OP get's it.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:58 PM
1

Nice try to dodge.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:53 PM
3

How could I forget NMMNG? That's important, too. Thanks!!!!
/r/askTRP16/08/18 01:28 PM
2

Start with The Rational Male. If you have all of that down, the rest is pretty straight forward. If you don't have, you will come here, ask stupid questions and get your teeth kicked in every time.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:54 PM
1

Sadly no, that would be a way to make it useful...
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:41 PM
1

Autist
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:38 PM
1

And the next sissy deleting the evidence of his lack of everything.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:56 AM
2

Then connect, don't show off. What you described, I bet they get this every other day from someone they won't remember next week. They'd been more impressed if you did not care what they think about your work. It's okay to let them know what you're doing, if the topics comes naturally. But if they're not genuinely interested, you will not make them. And you experienced what happens if you do it no matter what.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:54 AM
1

You always want to choose between having a life and getting anything else done? Now, that's what I call dumb as fuck. And if you read my comment carefully you find that you did not understand it. Also dumb as fuck. You chose your nickname perfectly.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:51 AM
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Anything else you would suggest? Learn to balance chicks & career ASAP and then fuck weakling's monk mode bullshit. EDIT: Oh, and if the goal of getting your life on track offends some of you wannabe-MGTOW-sissys, please let me know via the blue arrow.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 10:44 AM
4

I'm going to ignore the robbery, since I am uncertain what that may have caused in you. Your calibrated your expectations on a faked reality of what others pretend to have achieved, pretend to be, pretend to live like. They're doing stuff you won't and you do stuff they won't. But what you are missing is the control over your life, to do what you want and not having to do what you have to. Completely normal. And you think it's even worse, because you believe people in media live the way they pre…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 10:39 AM
1

[...] went out to them myself said hi and invited them [...] Step 1: Don't try to impress people who naturally don't give a fuck about you. The rest of your post is the why. Question: how do you maintain frame [...] You had no frame to begin with.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 10:22 AM
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I think [...] Your SMV is not determined by what you think you look like.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 10:19 AM
2

At first I was going to reply with the fitting quote from Rollo Tomassi, but after reading the end I have to say: That's the dumbest shit I've read in quite a while.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 10:16 AM
1

[...] war history are awe-inspiring as well It is this, what I meant.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:20 PM
6

Do you keep all your plates in the kitchen separated, so they don't see each other? You keep them in plate status by NGAF and letting them feel that, but subtly. It is a big difference for a woman to know that you're banging someone else AND to know her personally, so some might break, maybe both involved plates break. Does it matter to you? Really? N-A-P ... Not a plate! It's not your job to keep them separated, it's your job to fuck them when you feel like to. And if they meet and recognize ea…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:48 PM
2

It is giving me goosebumps that someone can actually see a greater purpose in war than in his own life - no matter if it's chinese, japanes, european or american war. Actually it should be the opposite. If you cannot make sense of living life (I guess you're from the US, so no one can blame you for it), then search for a purpose. It does not matter what it is, as long as you see a benefit in that purpose, that equals the worth of your life. But be sure, it's all for nothing in the end. And your …
/r/askTRP15/08/18 08:47 AM
2

For me it was always part of being a man to have some amount of body hair. I was often unsure if I'd like myself shaved and I tried removing body hair in different ways over a time of 20 years. Personally I never liked it hairless and kept it growing back. And I never had a single positive feedback from a girl or woman, but a few said they they liked the hair better. The only exception I make is armpits and balls, because I think it doesn't get smelly as quickly as it does unshaved.
/r/askMRP13/08/18 12:15 PM
1

No.1: Leave all Incel/MGTOW stuff behind and never go back No.2: Lift until your left hand grows calluses, too No.3: Read The Rational Male (blog over book) and then the rest of the sidebar No.4: Go out and start experimenting
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:07 PM
5

1st paragrah: Self-pity 2nd paragrah: Self-pity 3rd paragrah: Self-pity 4th paragrah: Self-pity 5th paragrah: Self-pity Now where going to do something about that, ok? Advice? Stop approaching women as if you were already good looking (train station story). Read the sidebar, start lifting, get therapy/better therapist. Unless you get over you negative self-image you'll achieve nothing. It's ultra-hard, yes. You're having a severe disadvantage, yes. But it's not like you have to die as a homeless…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 01:08 PM
2

First though is: Change age, meet girl, age comes up, you don't lie. Then the question is: Why did you lie about your age on Tinder? Answer: To get younger women. Which might be translated into womanese as neediness and insecurity. But honestly: Do it, and see if anything changes or not. It's not the end of the world, just don't go into discussions about it.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:58 PM
8

LTR could be with a man. At any age. Or what is your question?
/r/askTRP10/08/18 12:43 PM
10

seeing how much this is hurting you, I'll stop doing those things because [INSERT BETA EXCUSES HERE] End of frame. If there was a frame to begin with.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:23 AM
1

Yes, all what you said in your second paragraph is possible. It depends on the very woman. But that does not make it the ultimate profession, since you can have all the positive benefits without it and make more money and actually contribute to the wellbeing of your family. And that without putting your health and your life at risk, for the benefit of those people whose taxes you pay.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 11:02 AM
5

It basically goes against everything I've learnt in TRP Continue learning. Or earn more money and save it. Or move to some location that enables your dream of a house.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:36 AM
3

I'm an underweight, depressed guy with no friends So you've been in monk-mode all your life? the one plate I do have Not a plate You're fooling yourself. There's no connection between the two and they are not excluding one another. Buy a car if you want one and can afford to have it. Find a job and then you'll see if you need a car or can get there any other way. Not being able to take a job because you have no car is a pretty rare case. And don't forget to read the sidebar and start to lift unt…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 10:34 AM
3

That's a man's thinking. No matter what your view on the military is, woman have a different perception of it - twofold for most part. You know that tons of military-wifes make fun of their mans pew-pew-pew games, right? (Not your's, dear reader, your wife would never do that behind your back! Not all women are like that, you know?) Of course they enjoy the glare of the made up honour that comes with it, escpecially in a society that has not much but the military. But still, a lot of them don't …
/r/askTRP10/08/18 09:35 AM
2

Until you cannot make it work for you, you're not done. Keep going and don't hold yourself back. Especially LTR's are a controversial topic around here, because a lot of people could not make them work. Don't be one of them. Make your own experience, have red pill principles and knowledge in your mind. Don't hold yourself back from what you want to achieve, just because there's a certain risk you might fail.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:30 AM
1

Absolutely no matter what, you're LTR could and likely will cheat on you. Get rid of that "likely will". Everything you do in your life bears a risk that you need to manage. Not taking a risk that you can manage pretty well is only holding you back. RP is meant to enable you to handle things, not to make you afraid to do things. It's our favorite narrative that hypergamy leads to cheating, but it's not as simple as that and depends on many factors. You, as her partner, have a big influence on th…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:15 AM
1

Should I delete my Instagram? Yes. I honestly don’t really enjoy it [...] YES. What do you think? You're taking a big step towards maturity. You did what everyone does, found out it sucks and want to end it. Don't hesitate. This is not because social media harmful in general, it's because you don't like it. Live has no need for no social media and you can make everything work without. If you're missing something particular, just because you don't use social media, ask yourself if it is worth bei…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:02 AM
1

What I like about you is, that you come back and actually care for your question. 95% of the kids around here just get pissed and abandon their threads when people are not petting OPs ego. Your writing exposed that you never raised a child. First of all you're talking about something far in the future and you apply your current ideas, values, fantasies. Then you're projecting things that happened to you onto your child. Trying to prevent that from happening or at least from repeating. But in a w…
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:05 AM
2

Haha tell me I have to respect women and can't ask them things like that because its MEAN. You're even more stupid than I thought. Read the sidebar. No need to apologize after you did and understand. And before you try to defend, remember what John Cleese said about you.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:27 PM
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Now I feel sooo dumb. You're right, of course! I'm sorry I hurt your feelings - mea culpa! This changes everything! How did I come to think that context is a thing these days? That was stupid of me. What's next? You're discussing AWALT because not every woman you know was caught branch swinging? Can't you retarded SJWs figure out a single issue on your own and always have to pull some meaningless bullshit??
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:13 PM
4

I tried asking girls that wanted to meet me just to see what happens lol, and every time I got a virtual slap to the face. They just don't accept this as a valid question, it seems. You deserved nothing better for that. How do I know she wants to be fucked by me A sure sign is, when she's got your cock in her mouth. Lot's of girls who suck also want to be fucked.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:12 PM
4

Bullshit for minors. Every music ever produced has exactly one message: Give me your money. Motivation in the gym? You need to focus! Expresses your mood? Cute. Sings exactly what you have had to go through? Your ex is still gone, your relative is still dead, you job is still lost! Listen to whatever music you like. It has absolutely no meaning. If you really care for the lyrics you're in someone else's frame.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:41 PM
2

If a girl invites you to sleep at her place, in her bed, and starts cuddling, there's a reason. And it is the reason you've been hoping for.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 09:41 AM
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Nice fantasy, dreamer. I hope you never father any child before you outgrow your current imaginations.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:36 AM
1

(SARCASM ON) Science, bro! Cannot argue with that! Some Mormon found it out and made a study that clearly showed a correlation! Don't look at the study, just believe it! The husband has no role in it! Nothing but then n-count influences a woman's qualification for marriage! (SARCASM OFF)
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:37 AM
2

At least she's put some effort into it, trying to keep it fresh and fulfill your fanasies! LTR material!!!
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:51 AM
1

It also works the other way around. Even girls/women punish one another by withdrawing attention. So getting some is a good sign, getting more is better and like every addict, she'll find innocent ways to get more and more.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:36 AM
2

Put the phone down and continue what you were doing. Done.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:32 AM
1

That's awesome! The big sissy-show! Asking a pardon for being an eunuch and running away from the response, deleting it all. You're not a man going his own way, you're a dependent faggot.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:26 AM
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The chase is better than the catch. Once the chase became like flower picking it's not that much fun any more. It's common to desire most what you know you cannot have and once you drown in it, the desire fades away.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:32 PM
2

So not being great with women equals not being a man. Thats a pretty ridiculous statement even by trp standards. And I cannot see that statement in his comment. What I read in there is that giving up is not a masculine trait. To which I subscribe. Everything inside a human is optimized to reproduce successfully. Nature doesn't care how old you get, how fit you are later in life, how good you are at math or Angry Birds. All your hormones, your psyche, the whole body, is set up to successfully fat…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:50 PM
2

Guess why!? You don't have to acknowledge MGTOW to live like that.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:48 PM
1

EDIT: Misunderstood a detail. Comment was crap.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:47 PM
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It does not have a life of it's own, so asking how long it will last is beneath the point. It's completely up to you to get out of there. Once you internalized that women are supposed to be they way they are and leave behind the rage about all the lies, you're on a pretty good way. It's not that the game sucks, but the you've been told the wrong rules. When all the If-only!'s start to disappear, you're mostly through.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:51 PM
1

It's not a bad thing. For those people, who cannot make sense of their sexuality, it's one of the logical consequences to try to exit the SMP and go MGTOW. It's just that people who are capable of applying red pill principles to make their lives better often times smile down own them, because it can be so simple. It's fun to watch those guys, who have all the tools in their hands and complain that they cannot hammer a wood-screw into a window. With a towel. And it's just because of that damn, me…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 04:07 PM
1

Too bad, I did not see it. I bet it's some kind of: I want my life to change, but everything has to stay the same and I don't want to invest into myself.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:09 PM
1

The sidebar is a good starting point for everyone who has to ask internet starnger what to think and what to do with their lives.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:08 PM
2

At 18? or 30? 40? Nice nickname, BTW.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 03:06 PM
2

Exactly, good you point that out. The only accepted shortcut is taking steroids! Did you know, that this is also on the sidebar? https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/about/rules/
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:34 AM
5

All that you wrote screams that you've not entered puberty, yet. I know it's hard to believe, but nothing of all that you wrote really matters, and it is just what you make of it. Tell her it's over and that is exactly it. Every explanation, every reasoning, every additional word will only serve to feed her rationalization and she and her friends will only twist and use it against you. They will throw shit at you, no matter what, but you don't have to hand them the shit on a nice silve plate, do…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 10:10 AM
4

Remember that feeling the next time something like that is about to happen. Be prepared and don't get hurt by wrong expectations, but do not let the fun pass by to avoid being hurt at all cost.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:19 AM
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Those emotions will pass soon enough. Be thankful you learn these thing from experience at such a young age. You cannot imagine how hard it is to find that out when you're two or three times as old and have built a life on lies, loosing everything.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:12 AM
1

Even if the effect it has would make a difference, your idea still won't work. The fapping is not the reason the dopamine kicks happen in the first place. If you're concerned about your testosterone levels, first make sure you optimize your lifestyle all day and night (nutrition, sleep, drugs, alcohol, ...) and check with your doc that you don't have any condition that lowers you levels. Once that is all in order, you'll notice that there's not much more to gain naturally.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:27 AM
3

Are you really missing friends or do you just want to complete your red pill checklist? From what you wrote about yourself over three paragraphs, you don't sound like you suffer from being not that social and you did not write any shortcomings because of a small social circle. Women talk, men do. You should aim for people you share an interest with. Find someone who's doing activities you also like, propably better at them then you are. Usually people who are great at doing something are happy t…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:20 AM
5

Depends on where you live. Where I live, a moustache is only grown to prevent your lovers sperm from shooting directly up your nose. Or by men close to retirement and grandpas with canes and hats. But if you think you look better with a moustache than anything else, go for it. Just do not expect anyone else to have the same opinion.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:08 AM
1

Religion, spirituality, patriotism, pseudo-science and all this hilarious made up bullshit are valuable tools to manipulate simpleminded and dependent people. Use it without hesitation if you must.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:20 AM
3

No reason for big apologies. You forgot it, told her and explain it, maybe said you're sorry and it wasn't on purpose, but that's all. The rest is her problem. If she's that way, be thankful you discovered that after you had fun and way before things got too serious.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:06 AM
2

If you like that idea and don't get anything else... it's better than mental masturbation on how alpha you could be in a year. At least she's honest enough to make the whole thing a trade, but you should not settle for anything below regular blowjobs without crap (like please cum in a tissue). But I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:02 AM
1

The most important thing is that you do your hobbies only for yourself, and not for anyone else or in expectation of getting reputation, pussy or whatever. And hobbies that build skills will always make you independant (or less dependant) on others, which includes your mom, and typical female jobs. But, in general it's a bit problematic to say some activity (hobby or job) is masculine or not. It depends on the society you live in. Take sewing for example. I'm not talking about the concentration-…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:56 AM
5

Sounds like you've got kind of a oneitis for him. Sorry. You cannot change him, you cannot change the others and you're ruining your own experiences and benefits from the camp when you focus on him that much. You've done great things for yourself, you're well educated, fit, what else do you need? It doesn't matter if he's fitter than you or not. If he's a better swimmer or not. If he's better at school or not. Or did you go to the camp to make friends? he has made no move to talk to any girls Wh…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:37 AM
1

Good job!
/r/askTRP07/08/18 02:11 PM
1

I hope it works for you!
/r/askTRP07/08/18 01:19 PM
-2

We can't all be cunts... just ask your brown-nosers.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 12:30 PM
2

Why am I so beta... :/ Because you waste time crying on reddit instead of looking into another girls eyes. And another ones. And some guy. Then some girl, and another girl, and another. Don't forget to smile at the girls, not the guys. It only gets better with practice, theory does little to nothing. Or do you need some motivational meme?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:20 AM
1

Just curious: Why do you write a TL;DR when you need people to read the full post?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:18 AM
-10

You: "7" (today) She: "7? What 7? WTF do you mean?" (5 minutes later) You: "That's your number. There's currently just one more in front of you. That will be Fri. 9pm at Toni's" (two days later)
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:06 AM
1

I think he realized that by himself and that's why he deleted his thread like a sissy.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:59 AM
-8

Yes, I recognize that, good boy. Correct spelling, too. But what does your diagnosis have to do with the topic?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:55 AM
6

"there's", not "theirs". But you propably meant "there are"
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:32 AM
2

I don't get it. Are you just an asshole or trying to actually do something productive to the benefit of those people you laugh about?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:02 AM
-13

"I'm a gynecologist-psychic. Let me have a look down there and I'll tell you your future. If I like what I see, your session is free."
/r/askTRP07/08/18 09:22 AM
2

If you are at risk to get fired from your school, yes.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:16 AM
1

When I was younger I experienced something similar. Actually I enjoyed it, it keept most simpleminded people out of my life, without doing anything about it. I liked that and sometimes miss that today. But I heard that smiling sometimes helps.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:58 AM
2

Did you fuck her, yes or no? And why not? Everything you think is a shittest or IOI is meaningless if you do not escalate successfully.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:52 AM
3

I'd worry more if she tried to change the plan from that (her idea) to a walk in the park with her parents. If it fits your schedule (think so) just go and have fun in her. If not, proceed as usual. But don't fuck yourself over because she did not follow your instructions.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:49 AM
0

I'm sorry, I've read the question 10 times now and I cannot make any sense of it. It reminds of "Lion vs Shark - who wins the fight?"
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:45 AM
14

Text her "I love you, you're the only one for me" and then she'll marry you, get a $200,000 job, so you can retire. She'll lift the weights in the gym, so you don't have to. She will never cheat and will do every kinky shit you ask her to. The magic of text-game. Hard to believe until you saw it first hand.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:40 AM
2

Before I settle for this to be a shit test, I'd like some more context. Also the answer depends on the situation. Not everything a girl says is a shit test, just because it makes you awkward people uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:32 AM
9

Did you fuck her? I can literally game The texts I would send Really dude? sigh I’m too afraid to send to her bothers the hell out of me She's not your plate. control over me I do things to impress Can you spell O_N_E_I_T_I_S? Can be alpha to every girl Kind of hard to believe after reading your post, but whatever...
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:29 AM
1

And here's the next kid, who's got no idea of tattoos and believes negative interpretations of the red pill are the only valid answer to everything.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:23 AM
3

Ask again once you have plates. Until then stop orbiting your oneitis.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:19 AM
3

There's something even better than SGM and actually it will give you on point personal experience, not so generic. It's called "Fucking".
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:15 AM
1

And if birds stopped flying they would no longer drown. Dude, you're getting so much wrong of all of that, no wonder you're frustrated.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 05:12 AM
1

And stick to the program!. You're not smarter than the program! After you stopped making progress on SL 5x5 check out Starting Strength, if you want to keep doing a strength program.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:03 PM
1

If Chads stopped rewarding sluts with sex, then a lot more women would be less promiscious. Of all you wrote, that is the biggest misconception. And also, work on that: Yes, I would. It's what I always did.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 04:03 PM
1

Let's assume she accepts your date because she's interested, attracted, whatever you want to name it. If you knew that, if there is would be a method to be 100% sure if she's into you and you can score - or not... and that method says you're-going-to-getlaid-tonight! So, every reason to overthink is gone. Success is guaranteed, as long as you don't punch her in the face. What would you do? How would you act around her? What would the date be like? How would you dress? Where would you take her? H…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 02:49 PM
1

Cannot give any valuable advice, but I hope you get out of this without much trouble.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:26 AM
4

Are you on drugs? Man, the whole red pill stuff is already too complicated for most noobs if you explain it in plain english. What do you want to achieve with your poem?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:03 AM
28

I know, a lot of irresponsible cunts think you need to be prevented from ruining your life. I'm not one of them. I think everyone needs to learn from their mistakes. Learn not to repeat them, not how to dodge consequences. A half-wit like you does not deserve any help in this situation. You tried to play Mr. ultra-cool-red-pill-Chad and did not think even half a step ahead. Now you shit you pants at the chance she might learn you flirted with another girl. Maintaing frame, you ask? What frame? I…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:54 AM
4

She's dating down in every single category, social status, money, physical shape, attractiveness. You need to intruduce her to TRP, so that she learns where her preferences are and that she has to date men you find good enough for her.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:33 AM
2

Everything that happily distracts you from successful reproduction can serve as "a Man's Mission". You're lucky if it earns you more money than is costs you. But please don't try to write ebooks no one wants to read, don't build a business by selling awesome bullcrap, that no one needs and don't try to be an online-life-coach with a well respected blog. Those are dead ends most of the time, but you never hear that, because no one brags about his failure and debts.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:29 AM
2

You had me at I want to transform my body into a true alpha male You're capable of reading and writing. If you had tried to combine the reading with thinking, you'd found out that a supplement is meant to supplement if there's a deficit in your nutrition. Hence the name. If you cannot get X from your diet, but your body requires X for a reason, you can take a supplement when necessary. Make sure this "when" is only every now and then. And of course you can fuck up using supplements, but they're …
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:14 AM
3

That is what happens when you take a simple, general advice (some would call it a law) to a senseless extreme. The whole purpose of "do not show interest" is to build or increase attraction. If you ignore her some more, it should cause more attraction, tension. But, do you know what happens when you turn a screw tighter than tight? Yes, it breaks and you're done. At some point you need to approach her, if she did not already do that for you. The idea is to only ignore her enough to covertly comm…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 10:08 AM
2

If you want to get serious: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eunuch If not, just enjoy it. Your whole body, your brain, your hormones, everything is layed out to desire women. Learn to manage and control your desires, not to suppress them. They do not stand in your way to "accomplish your mission". Just as you're designed to eat as much as possible of the most high-caloric food you can get. Would you stop eating because of that or control that desire and eat healthy?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 09:54 AM
0

Try it out, just ignore what she's saying and act on what she's doing. STFU about it. And when they bring up something like that, just don't take it serious. You cannot "win" in this scenario, so why even try? Because you're right?
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:50 AM
4

The two most likely possibilities: Either a crab-bucket-scenario or you're making a fool of yourself and piss everyone off. Be honest about yourself and you might find out.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:44 AM
2

[...] i get what trp is about Sadly, the rest of your post tells you don't get it. How could you? is it bad that i just wanna be a better person, ignore sex, and just live my life? why trp? That sounds you think your future should be MGTOW. Although I consider that the sinkhole for the losers of the SMP, it might be the right direction for your life. But, do yourself a favor and don't believe you're experienced enough to make an informed decicision at such an early point in your life. Just take …
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:41 AM
2

What would you do, if she meant it and is open to you? Do that. "Assume the deal" and continue as if you knew she's really interested. Then you will find out very soon.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:24 AM
0

I don't think that there is an eBook. It rather old, so you should get a used copy for a few bucks.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 04:31 PM
0

It's not supposed to. But I'm very impressed you did not know that. I mean, you read the fucking text, didn't you? Well, at least that didn't stop you from not even trying to be productive.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 03:00 PM
1

If you were a successful player, would you listen to your sisters telling you to stop, because it's wrong, you're disrespectful to women, and blah? No you would not and so won't she. It's none of your business and your sisters know that. There's nothing you gonna change about it and your sisters know that. I´ve discovered this site 3-4 months ago and I´m trying to internalize it. Why did you not read it since then? Any advice? Stop crying Change your pants Read the sidebar Start to lift Read the…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 02:24 PM
0

Did you read WISNIFG? It's a retarded and outdated book, but it might give you a starting point.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:06 PM
1

Let's pretend she's the way you say, and she's not right with everything you find annoying. No money, no job, no apartment, no nothing will change her. Learn how to deal with her. Grow some balls.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 01:03 PM
1

So, what are you going to do about it?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:55 PM
2

It's not word vs word after they made you confess you started that fight. Just believe it.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:38 PM
2

Pretty close to it, yes. But that's not more than my opinion.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:22 PM
1

The muscle you develop in the gym are somewhat different from what you use during a fight... If that's the case for you, then stop bodybuilding and start a strength program. Strength makes you better at everything.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:13 AM
2

Sounds like you confused "having a life" with "collecting status items". I think that is rather common among people who have no real (=existential) worries. They try to fill their lives with whatever they imagine they need to have or need to achieve, because their fundamental needs are already met. Then either pursue that all their life without achieving it (which must not be too bad) or succeed and discovered what you described. That's why all this babble "mission in life" and "purpose" isn't m…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:10 AM
1

I doubt that, too. That's why I did not say so.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:41 AM
3

Not going into details about all the wrong assumptions you made, just trying to explain in short, since you don't want to put in the effort to educate yourself. So, there's going to be a lot missing. And I purposefully excluded novice and obesity benefits in the explanation. Stress -> Recovery -> Adaption. That's how you get stronger/bigger. Or: Lift, eat, sleep. For optimal adaption (growth) to take place you need to make sure that as many parameter as possible are optimal. Sleep is one of them…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:40 AM
4

I'd be careful bringing this up to the people she talked to. You did do nothing, so don't act as if you need to make up for something you did not. When you proactively tell those people what you girlfriend did there are two not so cool signals (remember, that's what people see in your actions, not what you intended): You're insecure and worried about your reputation You're talking bad about your GF If the topic does not come up one way or another, just don't do anything. When you've got to face …
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:20 AM
20

You might think that most of those women will choose the best looking guy over the average guy... If I haven't read the sidebar, I might really thought so, yes. But actually it doesn't matter, since you can never tell which girl is going to flake until you tried out. I would not let some theoretical chances be the reason why I approach a woman or not. Approach who you want to and have fun with her.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 08:59 AM
2

Is that an indicator of interest? Or just benign comments that indicates nothing ? Since you've got absolutely nothing to loose, how about you escalate next time that happens and give an FR what the next thing on your mouth was: Her lips or her palm?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 08:58 AM
0

How about you calm down and don't give a fuck about that all? You're a disappointed little brat and have no clue what you're doing. You expect her to live up to some standards you don't have, and here you play the poor victim. Your emotions are running wild and you're feeling hurt. Last time I check that was called having no frame. What did you expect her to do? I couldn't stop laughing when I was reading your post and comments. If you're like that all the time, no wonder she fucked another dude…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 08:51 AM
2

Thank you for pointing out! Sometimes I wonder how much overkill is required for all kids to notice.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:31 PM
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There's more than truth and lies. You need to know who needs to hear what, to do what you want them to do. Honesty is something that makes you feel good, as long as you're the one to say it. But that does not mean you would always like to to hear honest answers, nor does it mean you will always win by being on point.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:52 PM
2

They try to talk soft and unthreatening. Well, I see where you're getting this from, but let me tell you this: I know some managers who sound exactly like this, because it is what is expected of people nowadays. But within that, they still get it done to threaten the shit out of everyone, if they have to. They have a presence (every day, all day) that they could be standing in front of you in their underpants and still radiate pure authority. It is within those men, not just one or two of their …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 01:47 PM
5

No it would not defeat the purpose. Ghosting is about you. You do not interact with her. It is not about punishing her or creating a special reaction in her (sending signals by read vs. unread messages). She will see the two options differently, but that does not matter to you. It's not about her, it's about you not responding. All she needs to know is that you don not respond under any circumstances and she's 100% unable to influence you in any way. The latter means, you do not even talk about …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:38 PM
0

I have problems posting on the main sub for some reason, probably those Beta Nazi Mods again, so this goes here. Maybe that is because your whole post is just a too long version of "unplugging guys from the Matrix is dirty work"?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:33 PM
2

A change of location has the potential to change you as well. If you don't like the changes, you can always come back. Just give it a shot!
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:29 PM
6

What difference does it make to you, if she see's you read the message and don't reply versus you do not even read it?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 12:27 PM
0

If you have to ask that, you most likely won't. Read the sidebar and don't get bitchy over people who don't give you a shortcut.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:28 AM
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Hopefully someone else can provide a more adequate response. If it makes you a less miserable MGTOW stalker, good luck with that!
/r/askTRP04/08/18 11:03 AM
1

I don't think scars must play a big role in your overall SMV. They contribute to your looks and it seems like they have a positive influence in your case. Can't deny that. Other people's scars might kill their look completely. But looks are not all your SMV is made of. They are most important if you've got nothing else. Calculate for yourself.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:17 AM
1

According to the laws of TRP that is impossible. You are lying! Oh, no wait. The laws of TRP do not apply for you girls of MGTOW. Hell, we don't know them, we don't know their relationship and only know that she's less fat now and what you think about her boyfriend. Maybe you're just jealous? How is anyone able to predict the future without any reliable indicators? Sure it does sound like she might branch swing, but only because we love that narrative and know nothing about them. Given the fact …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 10:11 AM
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Exactly. And don't forget to respect them and put them on a pedestal. And don't you ever kiss a girl you don't want to marry! But the good thing about it is: Once she liked 20 of your statuses she's your's forever!
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:34 AM
26

So I’m a sailor in the U.S Navy Go out with the girl, you can bang the bro's every other day on board.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:26 AM
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No, social media is all that defines a man's SMV today. I know it sucks, but can't do anything about it. Lifting, frame, career, looks, game, confidence, ... all of that doesn't matter any longer. That's why the only people getting laid are those who post on instagram. All the hot girls just sit on their beds, messaging and posting selfies all day. They never go out, don't party, hang out in no bars, nor to the beach. No other way to approach them than orbiting them on Instagram. Also that's why…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:23 AM
2

It's only gay if you push back ... or so I've heard.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:40 AM
0

It is quoted every now and then, but other sources appear more often. I think this is because of the way the blog is written. It is complicated and does not present solution. Doesn't tell you what to do. But people want that, like that and some need that. That's why there's askTRP. On The Rational Male you get more theory and nearly zero advice. You have to make sense of what Rollo Tomassi is writing and how to implement it in your own life. Around here, you get the least necessary amount of the…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:46 AM
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Your question is very clever. You asked what red pillers define as alpha, not what the red pill defines as alpha. Very good! It is what you make of it. I find it most important to understand that there is no "being alpha", no matter how many people try to tell you. Anyone's "alphaness" is what others see in them. No one "is" alpha, but may be perceived as alpha in one or more areas of life. All in all, it's a pretty useless and boring topic. But there are some generic idea's that most people agr…
/r/askTRP04/08/18 07:04 AM
1

If you truly like your body the way it is, there's no reason to change anything about it. But you have to accept the fact that you are not allowed to complain about the consequences of not lifting.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:22 AM
4

Reading your question, you seemed insecure. Reading your comments ... I smell troll.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:17 AM
4

Of course, because gangbang is the naturally first thing you think about, once you discovered your dick.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:16 AM
1

It could work, it could not work. It might come back, it might not come back to you. But I cannot see the reason you have to do it, other than being overt for the sake of it. Why would you risk writing something that you believe might come back and bite you later, if you don't have to?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:15 AM
3

When should you set your boundaries with your plates When they cross a boundary.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:13 AM
1

People asking questions in here, and everywhere else, should be treated as if they were responsible for what they do in their life, which includes the crap they write on the internet. Everyone is talking about responsibility, yet too many try to protect the losers from being treated as if they were responsible for their lives.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:11 AM
1

That's all, boy?? Is that really all? Out of all possible reactions to the people answering, you choose to complain that you feel insulted by someone making fun of your question? Do you need sugarcoating for everything? Do you realize that this one of the reasons why you need help for basic life activities? Did you even understand that you were to stupid to ask for help for the things you're to dumb for? What do you think, what kind of employer would hire you, after he read your thread here? Do …
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:17 AM
1

and have a daughter Sweet how you try to qualify yourself to someone who's insulting you! But hey, actually it's good you've got a daughter. Well, not for her, but the next generation of people who ask internet strangers what to think and what to believe must come from somewhere.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 05:05 AM
0

After reading your question completely, twice, my best guess for you is: Finish elementary school. After that learn to give all relevant information.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:48 PM
1

No need to fuck myself. Actually, I fuck woman as often as I change my underwear. Wait, you do the same, don't you? But, fun aside, I start to understand where the whole Incel-stuff comes from and I am more happy than ever that you people will not reproduce. Thank you for that insight into your ... what's it called? Movement? Selfpity group? Whatever, you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:22 PM
1

The thing is: If it affects your life, it affects your life. And chances are high that the degree will only increase. If it does not, it does not and there's no actual problem with porn. Porn by itself isn't the problem today. You can watch naked girls, people fucking or whatever gets you hot and it's not a bad thing at all. But online Porntube-Sites and everything similar are designed to be addictive, just as online games are designed to be addictive. It's the reason why they are there today. T…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:44 PM
1

Reading this makes me want to throw up. I cannot image dating a girl that actually responds to this communication. That's how I imagine the stereotypical useless ghetto dweller actually talks. You know, the one who never accomplished anything of importance in his life but plays cool man. But I'm old, and not familiar with the way kids talk these days - so never mind. Oh, wait, maybe you should mind, since it doesn't work 90% of the time. So, less in-your-face-coolness, less loser-poser-style and…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:30 PM
1

The Rational Male is the single best source you will find. Treat it as such. Personally I enjoyed the blog more than the books, because he links the relevant essays in the text online. But be prepared to spend a few more hours in front of the screen!
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:20 PM
2

"That's okay, you don't have to. I respect that" and keep escalating, kissing, touching, twisting her nipples.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:19 PM
9

If you enjoy it, and don't make stupid assumptions about it's effects on your relationship and close no covert contracts, go for it! Do it for yourself because you like it - if you do. Don't do it to please her. No, wait we're on TRP, so I have to say that you're bullshitting yourself and you're totally blue pilled even thinking about it. And asking has decreased your SMV four points. You're supposed to never feel anything for anyone and only spin plates the next 20 years, and don't you ever spe…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:12 PM
9

I treat it like smoking. Some people like to smoke on the weekend without being addicted, while others hate the taste and smell but keep doing and get addicted and smoke all day. Then they can't stop without a tremendous effort and multiple tries. I used to be the latter, so I stay clear of cigarettes. And porn. And since I quit both I enjoy the benefits and wonder how I ever could get hooked.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:07 PM
3

You learn to recognize your pigs by the way they walk. I hope you could take away something helpful from anyone's comments! I think there are some pretty good answers.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:51 PM
2

Something like that, yes. Speak you mind. Say that you do not like what she did or that you do not tolerate that behavior or whatever is appropriate. Just don't get into an argument about and resist the urge to have the last word, when she flings some emotional shit back. And then it's fine. Don't refer to it again ("Just like when you said that thing three weeks ago!"). Go on with whatever the two of you have been doing. If you play upset because she was sooooo mean, then that's butthurt.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:49 PM
2

Just don't take everything they say a undeniable truth. As you should not take every TRP users opinion as the ultimate truth.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:46 PM
1

Withdrawing attention is very effective, but it would take luck or endless repetitions of her behavior before she gets it. What you might want to try is to make a serious statement without any explanation or discussion, immediately.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 03:00 PM
0

I like the idea to breaking up with her and give her the chance to be happy, before you throw your life away. Just be straight, tell her it's over. If you want to be perceived as an adult, tell her why you decided to do. No drama, no stories how you came to that conclusion. When her tears have dried, she will respect that you discovered, that you actually prefer to wrestle and shower with sweaty blokes over fucking her. As a sidenote: [...] The Rational Male & hearing from others here [...] Plea…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:55 PM
1

And the best way to fix himself is to experience having options first hand.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:31 PM
2

If you get mustard and ketchup all over your white shirt, all you can do is acknowledge that you did and accept that everyone can see you made a mess. It's not the end of the world, you can change the shirt later. It's not you only shirt and even if it's your best shirt, you can always buy a new one. Don't deny it, don't make a drama, just accept the fact and enjoy your meal. Crack a joke about it if it makes you and your company laugh. It does not change who you are, does it?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:29 PM
2

(Any legal advice excluded, I assume it's not illegal for you, where ever you live) Assume nothing stupid and go for it, have fun. No woman is "out of your league"... not because of looks, not because of age or anything else. If it works out for you, you might be better prepared to deal with women of that age when you're at an age where it's "normal" to date/fuck them.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:24 PM
1

You cannot change them, only the way you deal with them. And acting upon them will be a break of frame in most cases. It does not bother you, they cannot harm you, their lives don't matter to you. That's what you need to internalize. It's not a mental trick, it's like that.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:20 PM
2

Focus on your breathing and the feeling on your skin at first. Then force yourself to wash yourself at the same pace as if it was hot water. Cannot say there's any trick that makes it more pleasant, other than knowing you got what it takes to keep doing it every day. I've been using only the coldest water I could get for a bit more than 2 years. And it is a challenge almost every time. That did not change. I've even been going into the local river every week from November to February. Got used t…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:17 PM
6

I bet if he had told the story, it would have ended in "I'm happy I found some better friend and left that attention seeking omega cuck behind eventually"
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:07 PM
1

I like my nose better bloody than brown.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:01 PM
1

Thank you for sharing your experience. Something I cannot say for sure, but I think plays a part is where and how your learn about RP. My path to this place was NMMNG->The Rational Male->MMSLP->Reddit. I spent a few months on The Rational Male until I had accomplished to connect all the information to form a clear image in my mind. When I found TRP long after that, I was shocked by what a lot of people would make up from the core RP principles. One can easily understand how they came to their co…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:40 PM
2

What would change if she knew? Would her mouth feel different on your dick? Don't give a fuck and just don't lie about it.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:58 AM
2

Then SL5x5 is a solid option for you. It's design for beginners/novices without someone teaching the lifts. Also recommend to read Starting Strength by Rippetoe in addition to SL5x5 website. It will fix what Mehdi doesn't mention. Buy a solid squat rack, a solid bench, a good olympic barbell and some used weights. Make sure you've got some plate in competition size for deadlifting and rowing.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 10:20 AM
2

Mine is SL 5x5 plus a bit of grip training as the sport, transitioning to SS Intermediate. How much can you afford to spent?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:50 AM
6

Here we go again....
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:36 AM
1

Approach girls until you're able to. Isn't that obvious?
/r/askTRP03/08/18 09:36 AM
2

Fuck monk mode. That is not a all-purpose-wonder-tool. As to your question: No, it is never too late. You've wasted some years, but the biggest part of your life is ahead of you, roughly 3/4 of it. Want to enjoy that or not? If you wait until you're 40 it's still not too late, you just wasted another 20 years and it gets harder. But it is not too late to live a great life from that point on, no matter how much you fucked up the last 10, 20, 30 years. Cannot change the past, but doesn't mean your…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:11 AM
1

If you don't want to be a person that knowingly hurts a girl as much as he can because he doesn't give a fuck, then wait and "break up" with her in person. But do not expect it to be easy for her, just because you told her face to face instead via phone. If you don't care about her at all, do what ever is conviniet.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:08 AM
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One thing we mainly try to avoid in TRP is LTRs with a girl that has a high n count. That it is a recurring theme doesn't make it a good idea in every case. It's based on assumptions and opinions and exaggregated experience of some people who believe their personal experience is the unchangable fate of everyone. Like most of those things: Do not follow everything blind just because someome tells you so, make your own experience if you're uncertain. It is not a rule you should never break. You sh…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 07:03 AM
6

Overdose of RP, too much for you to digest and make sense of. Take a step back and calm down.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:57 AM
2

Listen to her, enjoy her, and learn from her, man.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:52 AM
1

It's best you lie to her, that's what you have a GF for. And then ignore her some more. Will make her wet as the ocean and she'll do everything she's never done for you. And about the soft next: Yes, she should soft next you.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:50 AM
2

Just to let you people know who you're dealing with: MuchPlay via PM: Give me a timeframe of when I can expect a reply? Given a lot of people have wasted my time with generic rubbish, if I don't hear from you within about 20 minutes, I'm shutting the thread down. Loads of time wasters on here. All within 50 minutes after he PM'd me to read this thread, which is 7 days old. And after telling him I'll not respond after that, because he's acting like a worthless cunt, his response was: I can see yo…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:39 AM
1

EDIT: Haha, MuchPlay, you sissy deleted your thread to have anyone see what kind of person you are... and then you delete your account. Via PM you told me the others wasted your time and wrote just generic rubbish. I would have read your thread and participated, if you would not have been such a fucking worthless cunt via PM. Now you can go a fuck yourself.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:38 AM
5

"So, you're comming with me instead of going home?" "That's good, my GF would not appreciate if I brought you home" "No worries, we can get it on in the car" "And I don't go on first dates."
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:52 AM
3

Some couples like to roleplay like that in public. If seen something like that happen three times. Three times at the same place and with the same two people.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:49 AM
2

The only ones I knew personally (4 in total) where flat like a child and got small implants that looked natural. I can't say anything negative about them. They were married, mothers of friends. And from the outside you could not tell that their relationship was broken before or broke afterwards.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:41 AM
37

Am I fucked up in my head Yes, what else could it be? Start to have a normal human routine in your life: Eat healthy (really healthy, not US-commercial-healthy), get up before 7am in the morning every morning, go to bed in the evening, stop watching TV and stop playing games and stop fapping the rest of the day. quit social media, all social media. quit smoking tobacco and weed, quit alcohol, even beer, at home. cook you own meals, do the dishes immediately, wash your clothes immediately, organi…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:34 AM
4

How can I friendzone a girl in a date? I couldn’t reject because she was black and I thought I would be called a racist. [...] and I don’t fuck under 6/10 Why friendzone her? She's too black and too ugly to fuck her, but good to have her as a friend to show you're not a racist? Now, Seriously. How old are you? You cannot be that stupid, can you? Do not escalate and do not date her again.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:22 AM
1

Happy Birthday, man! First think you should do is stop hanging around Incel sites, subs, and the like. That's how you draw yourself down all the time and is part why you're not getting what you dream of. Second thing is: Get social experience. No matter what. Any of your countless posts in here is either a dumb question about lifting or a display of the lack of basic social skills. And you're never going to get better at that by posting around here and theoretizing how things could happen. You o…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 04:37 AM
1

Will do, and I'll train my DOMs as well.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:26 PM
1

I got to hand it to you, you've got nothing worth living for, but still keep standing! Hats off, buddy!
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:24 PM
1

Didn't know feces can fertilize eggs... Well, I hope you dad learned his lesson and never shits into any cunt again. Maybe you should quit planet fitness and scrub the peepshow booths with your toothbrush again. "One scrub, one lick, one scrub, one lick, ..."
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:12 PM
1

Watch out, she might have DOMs for you!!
/r/askTRP02/08/18 07:10 PM
3

That's how you got your pretty teeth, huh?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:05 PM
2

There are circumstances in which that is fine, but if you told the truth about yourself, you're not in one of those circumstances. You don't want to get better, you want attention and pity. And since I don't give a fuck if you suffer until you die, I'll cut it here.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 04:43 PM
1

Stop using TV, Phone, Music, Consle, everything like that in the evening. No workout or manual labour after dinner. Talk to someone, call someone, read a book, meditate, take a hot shower, whatever it is, make sure it won't ruin your calm mood. And if you have to use PC or Phone, use a blue light filter (https://justgetflux.com/). Avoid bright lights the hour or two before going to bed. No TV, eBooks, music and so on in bed. Get up at the desired time, force yourself every morning, on the weeken…
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:57 PM
1

I was not the one writing your post, asking your questions, boy. And I gave you advice that you ignored or did you also not understand it? And I did not call you a liar, I said I don't believe what you said. Something else you don't understand. Anyway, won't answer further since you just want to brag and dodge everything else. You're most probably going to delete your post anyway.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:44 PM
1

Didn't know that big bad boys need sugarcoating. Read your post again, maybe you under stand why your question is stupid.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:38 PM
1

I doubt that. Your question does not make any sense if you look like that. Or if you do, you're that much stupid, that it does not help you.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:31 PM
2

You asked a good question in your heading and then just came up with something different, purely theoretical and not helpful to anyone.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:28 PM
4

Sounds like you are not an Incel. Because the "In" stands for involuntary. And there's not much involuntary about you. The term you're looking for is "human waste".
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:27 PM
4

Your heading makes more sense than your post. I was a bit disappointed when I read it. To make it short: No, women are not directly attracted to danger. But they love the extreme emotional tornado that danger causes.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:20 PM
1

You've got to understand the difference between masturbation, maybe even to some kind of porn, and that fapping that NoFap references to. There's a surprisingly big number of ignorants who do not get the difference and have absolutely no idea how fapping can alter a personality and love to show off their simple minds. Fapping messes with your reward-system and is a severe problem that should be taken care of. The number of people who suffer from fapping is increasing because of the unrestricted …
/r/askTRP02/08/18 02:16 PM
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You are bullshitting yourself if you really believe the internet can solve you. Maybe this believe is part of your mental defect. No one, half as malfunctioning as you are, has ever been cured this way. It does not happen, did not happen and will never happen. Just as no one ever got muscular by reading body building forums. It's lies and show business. And if that works, then your problems are not what you tell us and would go away just by sitting there and staring at the wall.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 01:53 PM
1

Seriously??? What's your job at Planet Fitness? Washing away sweat stains or selling drinks?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:09 AM
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You've found this place and still have to ask this shitty question? My guess is: You will not learn game. Come here if you've got problems understandig or applying, but not when you're to stupid to find your dick.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:07 AM
7

Nice nickname
/r/askTRP02/08/18 11:06 AM
1

Looks like it's possible to father children with piss instead of sperm.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 09:32 AM
4

What the fuck do you think will happen here? Do you believe someone will post a meme that magically fixes your fucked up life and your anxiety fueled personality?
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:59 AM
1

It would be a good start to take away his guns and ammo, and reporting him to the police.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:57 AM
1

Has been a long time since I've read someone so unbelievably retarded. And this place is full of people who don't know they have to wipe their ass before pulling up the pants. You're a sissy who gets nothing done with regards to woman, nothing more. The "why" does not make a difference. You fool yourself all the way. All "if", "could", "would", "tried" ... I startet to cite you and comment on it, but thatdid not make sense, because every stupid thing you said is topped by the next.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:53 AM
1

You know what? Their lives still go on! The only positiv thing you said is that you referenced them to The Rational Male and not some of the other crap that many users like so much.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:44 AM
3

What is emotion so detrimental? Wrong assumption. Scratch that idiotic statement.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:32 AM
2

What is it you want to achieve by texting? You already have a date with her. If she changes her mind, it will not be because you did not text her. It will be because her menstrual cycle or some hotter guy made you less interesting to her. A text will not influnce any of that.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:30 AM
3

Wrong sub. Try r/looking_for_a_wet_nurse
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:16 AM
3

Instagram is for cunts, no matter which gender. As long as you keep it, it doesn't make a difference who you orbit.
/r/askTRP02/08/18 05:13 AM
2

Useless coward pussy. Tucking in your tail the moment you get something thrown back and deleting your post like a craven.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:48 PM
2

You're not supposed to literally read the sidebar. You need to read the books and articles mentioned there. And you need to understand what they say. EDIT: Where's your big mouth now? Tucked in your tail and quickly deleted your ignorant comment. Sissy.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:45 PM
2

You understood that the question at the end was pure sarcasm, right?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 06:41 PM
4

Did you type that yourself or did your legal custodian do?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:56 PM
1

I actually don't understand the question. Why would you not want a good relationship to a family member? It's not like it takes any special efforts if you don't hate her to begin with. It's alway better to maintain a good relationship with people in your family. Suck up that you cannot spin step-moms and not care if one breaks. You don't have to love anything she does or says, neither does she when it comes to you. Same as with every other family-member. Which does not mean you have to take shit…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 04:53 PM
7

Don't take every shit someone on TRP says literally. It means that you should act on any girl you want, because you want her. It's not saying anything about your chances. It works as it does because your perception of her is not of relevance for her perception of you. But it's not a guarantee. And low/lower SMV girls will often times reject you as well, for all sorts of reasons. So why even bother approaching them?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 04:47 PM
7

Plate is an analogy to the act of spinning plates on sticks. That's something artist do, just like riding unicycle, juggeling, etc... It refers to investing some into a new girl to get her interested in the beginning (setting up the plate on the stick and start spinning til it spins stable) and then using minimum effort to keep it spinning on that stick. Repeat than maybe ten times and have ten on top of the stick spinning. Every now and then you have to invest a little bit to keep a plate spinn…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 04:41 PM
1

Can you even spell O-N-E-I-T-I-S? Look it up. It doesn't go away just because you prematurely deny it. Having sex with other girls is a possible cure, not evidence you haven't got oneitis. And you don't have to be in love with her, it's enough you have a special place (pedestal) for her.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 04:26 PM
1

Hehe, never heard of that program. After reading the first third of that post I already knew why I never heard of that "opinion". But to answer your question: Buy smaller plates and take them to the gym if you want to follow the program 100%.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:44 PM
1

(SARCASM-ON) Are you serious? You cannot say something like that!! What if he or someone else gets triggered????? And you cannot tell him something that works but is his responsibility! That is sooo cruel! (SARCASM-OFF)
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:02 PM
3

read the sidebar. Red The Sidebar. READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR YOU MORON!
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:51 PM
1

Why do they not get hit? A lot of them respond very well to older men with high SMV. VERY GOOD. No, your SMV will not increase anyway, just because you're lifting. Your SMV is the sum of everything you communicate to a girl at the same time. Your appearance is just one part of that. Important part, but not all. And being muscular is a part of your appearance. Important part, but not all. Read the sidebar man, there's no substitude to the sidebar. You'll put in effort for nothing if you don't "ge…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:44 PM
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I don't think that's the case. Testosterone is not all that's happening inside your body and mind during training. I think you thought you noticed something and just paid so much attention until you only recognized events that feed your thoughts.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:38 PM
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I think you did not get it. Read more sidebar material. Preventive Medicine from Rollo Tomassi. Twice. Even if that would work until she hits the wall - what then? It is not to be taken literally - the wall does not stop everything that's going on in her, she's not a car. She's full of hormones all her life. Did you never hear of a divorce after 30 or 35? You know what a cougar is?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:35 PM
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Propably very low, yes. It propably means you're young, unexperienced, rather insecure and not used to talk to girls within a sexual context. If tthat would not be the case, you would be a natural, in which case you wouldn't have ended here asking that question. You start with a base SMV of something, for your looks and for who you developed to be. Applying RP principles, improving your personality, lifting, abundance mentality, but also aging contributes to increasing your SMV. And a lot of tha…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:19 PM
6

You get an idea of it by the success you have with girls you want to fuck. Or you can ask mom. She knows it, too.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 12:21 PM
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TL;DR I'm still a weirdo, because I ignored TRP for a year. Will it be better if I ignore it another year? Please do the reading and improvement for me. What did you do in that year since you discovered TRP? Why did you not read the material and follow the well known advice? Or are you a snowflake?
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:02 AM
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That advice is simple and cannot be misunderstood. That does not mean it is always the best anyone can do in any situation. It is best taken literally by those people who are socially crippled enough to need help in most social interactions. There is a suprisingliy high number of people around here, who don't understand the most fundamental workings of social interaction at all. But to the mature users it is a reminder not to engange too much in any buffer-conversation, that has a high potential…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 10:58 AM
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Don't know if you're a rich kid who never had any challenges to face or a drugging-drinking-gamer-fapper-looser who dodged them all. But it sounds like everyone around you got a life and you're in a state of shock, since you got a tiny idea of what adulthood means. The future is fucking terrifying and uncertain. Yes it is. It will never get any better, but you can get better at dealing with it. But not with that attitude of yours. I don't want to be a slave to [...] anything. You will be. Everyo…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:50 AM
1

Haven't read the book and never will, but I have a note or two on your post: People who confuse being an attractive man havin alpha traits with being an asshole might think so, but smiling is not blue pilled. Not smiling (when you wanted to) is brown pilled. You know which brown I mean, right? I think the idea of "not confronting people" only makes sense as far as someone is criticising, confronting, correcting people by default, all the time, just for the sake of it. And "never" doing this or t…
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:37 AM
1

Yes, there is a hormone called discipline, released by the get-your-act-together-glands, after you grew some balls. Take a high dosis, every day. It's non-gmo, glutenfree, contains no soy, has only positive side-effects and is complete legal and free.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:18 AM
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Shaving or waxing arms, legs, breast, back? What's next? Buying a purse and a dress? I keep the balls and the armpits hairless because of smell. That's all. I will never remove the rest of my body hair, even if it don't find it great or something. It's like that as a man.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:27 PM
1

I see it very similar, but the feminists need the TRP subreddit to prove their claims. Cannot take that echo chamber away from them, what would be left?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:20 PM
1

If you would leave it in the locker and not listen to music you were able to completely focus on lifting. But that's not why you're going there, as we have to read...
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:52 PM
0

The same way punching someone in the face makes you better at discussing problems. Fapping is never good for anything. Masturbation, yes, but not fapping.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:49 PM
1

most of the thing I do is based on insecurities So, what do you want to achieve? Do you think you can recognize them and then they're history? You're working one them, right? What else is there that you want?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:46 PM
2

Forget this spiritual shit. Deida parrots what others give you for free and adds a spiritual touch of nonsense to it so idiots visit his seminars. From him you can learn more about marketing than about woman. Have you tried cumming up your spine, yet?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:10 PM
2

Finally!!! Someone who recognizes sarcasm!
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:03 PM
1

Stop fapping.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:02 PM
2

The changes you make play into your complete appearance. Girls are not guaranteed to perceive you and your changes the same way you do. It is quite possible that you miss out the important reasons why girls treat you the way they do. And since you said you're a weirdo and put on a shitty face all the time, you cannot be sure if it's about your recent changes or those changes in the light of your awkwardness. As a "normal" guy you might see you changes differently yourself or they would benefit y…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 02:02 PM
2

Yes right. I was going to ask what you think how long it will take before he deletes his question. Again, too late!
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:50 PM
2

very flirty. Lots of smiley faces and emojis when she usually doesnt use them Wow dude, that's even better than flirting in real life! I bet if you call her after that, she'll spread for you at once. i am still interested in her and want to fuck her badly. She knows, because you orbit her and when you are at risk to stop orbiting her, all of a sudden she's texting you. I have other options, i just honestly would prefer her over any of the newer girls. No you have no other options. Having other o…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:47 PM
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Send her flowers and text her more to restore your solid frame.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:26 PM
1

Who is wiping you ass in the morning, mommy or daddy?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:23 PM
1

Depends on what you want to cut more: Fat or Muscle.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:12 PM
3

Thank you for agreeing.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:10 PM
1

Yes, they do, in exactly the way I said it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:03 PM
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175cm/73kg/11-12%bf. How about putting on some muscle before worrying to show off?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:59 PM
2

Print out this page and show her your comment. If that doesn't make her wet, next her.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:44 PM
1

Damn, four minutes too late!
/r/askTRP31/07/18 12:42 PM
1

You know that your question is 100% absolute bullshit? If it's natural to you, you don't have to do anything. You want to know how to fake self esteem and value. And you want a shortcut to the sidebar. There is none.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 11:57 AM
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If it does not work to understand that no one cares about your jawline, except for you and people who are as sick in the head as you are, then stop fapping right now and get some help. What you wrote in your post is not a complex that "everyone" has about themselves. You have a tendency to develop this kind serious disorders, so please treat it like a serious disorder and do not try to fix it by asking egomaniacs on the internet how to overcome it. If you would overcome your jawline problem, you…
/r/askTRP31/07/18 08:42 AM
2

Either let her think what she wants and ignore it or use it to your advantage, if necessary.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 07:56 AM
1

Don't expect that it will work out the way you described it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 07:54 AM
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Another user PM'd me and referred me here and said this sub deals with issues exactly like mine and the population is largely men who would be able to relate better. Welcome to the club. I won't insult you now, since you're new to this and a lot of us have gone though something like that to find married red pill. To understand what has happened there and why there's absolutely nothing special or extreme aobut you, your wife or your marriage or your past, I encourage you to read the sidebar caref…
/r/askMRP31/07/18 06:00 AM
1

Would you except it if she's done anal once, after 10 years of trying to get her do it, she really enjoyed it, and then does not want to do it again?
/r/askMRP31/07/18 05:51 AM
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Been following trp for about a year now If you had payed any attention, you would not have said that: so I said "okay I respect that" "That's okay, I'll do the kissing", smile, lean in to her, kiss her. If she refuses, stand up, tell her you don't waste time on this kind of games, and leave her alone, never look back. Bonus points if you approach a hotter girl while she can still see you.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:54 AM
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Basically, how do I stay motivated to keep on the path of becoming the best I can be for myself, [...] Fuck motivation. You need discipline. Discipline is when things get hard but you still keep going without reading slogans, consuming memes or watching motivational videos on YouTube.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:48 AM
2

That's one of the most correct and insightful comments an OP made around here.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:23 PM
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Get rid of all the comfort (read: people paying for and organizing your life) and things will solve. There's no way you do more than you have to.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:43 PM
1

Yeah, some people just deserve to be in pareto's 80%. He's at the bottom of that 80%.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 01:33 PM
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You ask if (what you call) dread would result in what you just turned down to instill it. That makes no sense at all. Would you refuse a $1,000,000 and believe they come back and double the sum every time until you take the money? What do you want to accomplish?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:27 PM
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Make her hamster realize that you are very sexual, but you don't need her for the satisfaction in any way.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 12:20 PM
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I'm not one to really sit her down and ask her to do these things. Good, that's the fastest way to say good bye to your wishes. Direct her during the act. Do what you like, guide her doing want you want. And don't try and see if she would like it to, do it as if you two did that all the time and let her complain or stop if she's really not into it. If she's really insecure with some things, positive reinforcement and patience are the key.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:09 PM
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Never listen to what they say, watch what they do. But I think I expect too much from someone using Instragram and doing drugs. she was kinda all over this little 5'8 chubby dude tells me I'm out her league tells me [...] I'm like an instagram model that has girls all over me she and her friend get into the car with the 2 dudes and leave. She pretty much admitted to me I'm a chad I'm better than her yet left me for a dude What did she say, what did she do? Any more explanation necessary, Chad Mc…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 12:02 PM
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You're so unbelievable jealous, dumb and lazy human waste, no wonder you're so ashamed of yourself that you need a second account...
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:55 AM
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Maybe a bit nitpicking, but I say it anyway: Being upset about rejection or her having others is not "the anger phase". The typical RP anger phase is your disgut after realizing that women are how they are, and not how everyone told you they would be. There surest way to get out of that anger phase is not to draw the conclusion that it all doesn't make sense and is not worth your time/energy/emotions, because girls are not the way you thought they were, before you found out about the red pill pr…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:46 AM
1

I cannot see why a girl asking for a date is labelled DTF, maybe I understand DTF wrong, but DTF girls I knew wanted to skip the date. But what do I know... Don't try to keep her interested. Either she's DTF once she's there or she isn't. Chances to fuck it up prematurely are great, so don't try new super stunts on her.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:38 AM
1

Knowing her past and believing she will be the same with you is blue pilled (->Did anal with Chad, will do anal with chump). Knowing her past and believing she will be completely different with you is blue pilled (->Has always cheated on BF, will not cheat on chump / NAWALT).
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:34 AM
2

Stop believing that every shit idea that has been assigned a name (~monk mode~) is a good tool for everyone or every situation. Monk mode is extremely limited in it's usage and only helpful to people who cannot get their life on track in any other way.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:30 AM
1

see if she was worthy of becoming a potential plate How do I next this girl without getting her mad that I’m rejecting her? Make her a plate and you don't mind her feelings any longer. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:27 AM
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The guy said that girls don't even look at you if you're below a 7 People on TRP say dumb shit day in-day out, just to get your attention. Bolder is better, truth isn't that important. What an author experienced is the single truth for everyone. Blah blah blah. If someone said you need to have at least 9" or else girls won't look at you, would you hang a 45lbs plate to your dick all day? Use your brain. I'd say I'm like a 6 right now Let that be the concern of the girls. No one, especially not t…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:06 AM
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I didn't have any emotional attachment to this girl I honestly don't care about her I tell myself I shouldn't care Stop bullshitting yourself, kid. The rest will follow.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 11:02 AM
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What type of fucking retarded cunt are you? Do you expect anyone to shortcut/TL;DR the sidebar for you?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 10:57 AM
1

Stop fantacising and come back when you actually have that problem, because you have some "plates" as you call your potentional oneitis'es. Until then use the time and actually educated yourself about what you are talking.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 10:55 AM
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BW is better than not doing any exercise at all, but other than that you need to do what helps you achieve your goal. Looks? Fancy movements? Strength? Forget SL5x5 or SS if you're constantly tired. It cannot work. You cannot get the lifts done and you will not be able to recover from the training. Which might be a reason for not getting the results you expected from barbell training, but got some from body weight, which I expect not to have the same intensity in your training. You should not ju…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:55 AM
3

You do not find flaws, you look for them. You do not lose interest, you don't want to deal with it. You're afraid of the commitment you think she expects from you.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:40 AM
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Post something bold back (doesn't matter, if you have no clue just say "I know"). And then get off that shit fucking buffer and meet her. If she want's to text some more and doesn't respond to meeting in person, next her and do not waste a single thought on her.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:38 AM
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You cannot gain significantly more energy, if you are already eating good and sleeping enough. 99% of all "tricks that really boost you energy" are bullshit, although some minor things might work for you. But you can spend less energy on other things. But when your job completely exhauts you already, there not much of a chance without changing something about your job or your location. For your weekends: Get up as early, as if you had to go to work. Do not turn the computer/console/TV on, not ev…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:35 AM
1

So, you and your girl did not find them attractive, but you would like smooth guys approaching you and your girl at the bar?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 08:50 AM
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She's not attracted to you. And you gave all the clues on what to do yourself. catching oneitis try to lead keeps her distance from me gives her phone more attention than me
/r/askTRP30/07/18 07:05 AM
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My neighbor is an uber feminist and LGBT activist, and you'd think that she might pick up on the fact that I have my own issues regarding sex Why would she do that? That are not her issues. And you're not a woman. But your general assumption is correct. Woman who look good, as well as those below average, usually handle rejection very bad. Everyone tells them how hot they are, directly and indirectly, over social media, by aproaching them constantly, and because they are a woman. And they know e…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:53 AM
2

So, there's someone doing exactly what everyone in here is told to do. What is your concern?
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:43 AM
2

Someone's gotta do it. And I enjoy it.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 04:27 PM
4

You found the magic trick of natural human behavior! Good job, my man! You did really great! Have a piece of chocolate.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:42 PM
0

Isn't that obvious?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:12 PM
1

I've read the 48 Laws of Power and it's an excellent book but the examples presented there aren't really relevant to my situation. I'm sorry you wasted your time on that book. But since you understood that it's not helping you, there's hope. Although it does not fix everything alone, read WISNIFG. It's good to get you started and presents a helpful mindset using very simple tools. But as all those Greene books, it is very limited in application. In this case not because it's useless content, but…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:51 PM
1

If they knew that before they ask, they would not ask. Not because they respect your wish to not talk about hobbies, but because they would save themselves the time to talk to you.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:43 PM
1

It's your second account, isn't it?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:41 PM
3

Is the search-engine defective again?
/r/askTRP29/07/18 02:21 PM
1

What you are looking for is called "Frame" and there are tons of resources all over the manosphere. I recommend www.TheRationalMale.com
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:39 PM
1

That book you named is for women. About your question: There's no need for such books, because most women do not need to know, they simply are feminine or decide against being feminine.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:36 PM
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Read their texts and stop looking for shortcuts, you lazy cunt. But be prepared to find out that they had no good words for people like you.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:28 PM
2

My dad used to say "Internet for dummies" is just a book, not an invitation. I can understand what he meant.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 01:15 PM
1

You do not have to be an Incel to believe that. A ton of guys, who say they swallowed the red pill, say the same bullshit day and night. It's true to some degree, but the rest of you will determine how long that attraction will last. Looks, confidence, status, and all other things from the red pill checklist may help during initial attraction and sustain attraction for some time. But only if you're not a useless piece a human waste, who does not know what opinion to have without posting on askTR…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:59 PM
2

I usually add "Understand the sidebar" for a reason.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:43 PM
1

Half of all the so-called and self-proclaimed red pill authors do the same, just with their books. You will find that for each and every topic you can think of. It's the typical syndrome of societies that have way more people than jobs that matter: Give me money and I persuade to what ever you want. Usually half the people of those societies are so worthless, that many actually benefit from those seminars. But they also benefit from advice like: "Brush your teeth two times a day" or "Wipe your a…
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:36 PM
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Since TRP people give a lot of good advice, [...] Learn to keep you room clean.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:32 PM
1

Mimimimi. You're stopping, seriously? At least ask a new self-degrading question on what to think or to do with you life. Please!
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:22 PM
2

That's disappointing. Is that all you gamer-MGTOW-loser mind is capable of? You just got started making a fool of yourself. Come on, at least try to save your dignity. Come on, one more explanation why you're not retarded, please, only one more!
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:20 PM
2

Yeah, sure you do all of that, everyone can see! Here's you pacifier, kid.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:10 PM
1

Ok, you convinced me. So your not fooled by love, but an idiot who cannot think for himself at all.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:06 PM
2

Grow up.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:05 PM
1

No there isn't. No matter how much some pussys wish it was and make up stories to "prove" it.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 12:01 PM
2

A successful LTR is when you can handle each other. Naming a of the few things that are mandatory, like you did, is misleading.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:58 AM
2

My guess is that he found a girlie who thinks she's a witch or something similar and now he has to ask strangers what he should think about that girl.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:55 AM
3

It has the same overlap as two circles that touch at zero points. Stop dragging each and every bullshit you cannot grasp into intersexual dynamics.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 11:52 AM
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First of all, make sure she never notices how you look at a nice pair of tits or a hot ass. Because, there are two kind of men: Those who look at hot tits and those who lie. My suggestions are as follows. When you see a women in a dress that fit's your idea of what is suitable for your LTR, tell your LTR how you like that dress. If she wonders why, tell her you like this and that detail of it, and that it's simply looks nice without having the tits falling out or something. Depending on how conf…
/r/askMRP29/07/18 06:19 AM
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Aaaahhhh.... the taste of sweet freedom!
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:06 AM
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I'm not picking my nose, I'm just scratching the inside of my nose. Everyone, who has read you on this sub, already knew you're a little bit behind. Nice you want to do something about it. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:59 PM
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After "Don't listen what say say, pay attention to what they do" comes "Pay attention to what they do not do". Means: If she's giving you what you perceive IOIs (easy to fake), but she's not backing it up, she's not interested in you, no matter how many IOIs there were. I'd say it's an extended form of keeping you interested, a more tasty bait.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:55 PM
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How awful must it be to suffer like you do. Starving children in Africa say prayers for you. If only one time in my live I would have such a problem, I'd be a happy man! Fucking it up big time and instead of instant punishment get rewarded with interest of attractive females.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:31 PM
1

Do you really believe, that a bunch of strangers on the internet, who come here to discuss how to best get pussy, while at the same time bullshitting themselves about not caring to get pussy at all, are going to solve your miserable feelings? You're in a severe condition, treat it as such and get professional, personal counseling. Do not believe any fucker on the web can help you straighten your life by writing a comment or two. If that's possible, your whole post is a huge hypocrisy.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:27 PM
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Can you hear it too? Ssshhht be quite. There, there it is: You spin me right round, baby Right round like a hamster, baby
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:45 PM
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Case closed.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:33 PM
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Aussen braun und innen weiß, wie ein Überraschungs-Ei? :-)
/r/askTRP28/07/18 02:04 PM
2

Implement a cryptographic cipher in JavaScript.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:56 PM
1

To answer the questions you asked implicitly, but not explicitly: No, you do not need to comb your pubic hair, once it starts growing. Just remember to wash it every day and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:51 PM
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That's a bit different than most people complaining about your situation. Your efforts have not been a waste of time, you will have a good start into adulthood. But most of that is theory for now. You have not achieved more than a good chance. Everything else is pretty simple and can be seen here on a daily basis: You put effort into the things that you care about in your life. And you feel entitled to be liked and respected for that and everything else, just because you do it. But people around…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:47 PM
1

Well, work up onto their level, maybe then you don't have to post below average intellectual diarrhea any longer.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:38 PM
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Never stop it. I wish you good luck and success!
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:11 PM
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I do not believe in finding a purpose in my life, the way it's most often talked about here. I think that is something that is specific to some cultures like the US. The thing that comes closest to my "purpose" is going forward forever. What I meant is: You lack something, at least that's what I read in your honest post. Find out what it is... a family, a business, a graduation, pr a mixture of thing... And then go after it until you achieve it or find out that your life's cicumstances have chan…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 01:00 PM
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By comparing US and Europe I was more focusing how things like rape-accusations, divorce, dating coworkers and so on ... are handled. Bitches are to be found everywhere!
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:55 PM
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Don't whinge if you can't face the explanation for your experience. I can see why you think it is relevant and that's part of why you have to ask in the first place. And this not about your post itself, you are mistaken. Asking for help or for a shortcut? There is no charming answer and if you want one, you've come to the wrong place. While others may try to cheer you up and give you questionable "tricks" to make you feel good about yourself, I tell you why you're in that situation and what you …
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:53 PM
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Nice try.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:42 PM
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But I often see some advice given here that could never apply to Arab/Asian/African women That is because in these subs and some of the sidebar, you do not get pure RP principles, but a opinion how to behave or a one-size-fits-none solution. The red pill does not tell you what to do, people tell you what to think and what to do. Red pill explains how things work behind the curtain. That is all. How to implement it in your life is no matter of the red pill; that is up to you. To be honest, most o…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:40 PM
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In reality, I’m quite intelligent and [...] You should have ended your post here. Do you know the proverb that it's better to be silent and taken for an idiot than to open your mouth and remove all doubt? If not, read your post.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:33 PM
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Well, sounds like you found out that RP is not a way to lead a successful life all by itself. Congratulations! Now, don't reverse your achievements. Everything you achieved is something to be proud of, and considering how many people just declare their success, you wrote about actual achievements. Good! All this bullshit of TRP being the one ingredient we've all been missing is plain and simple a lie. It is one of the key factors to enable yourself to live a happy life and know what to expect fr…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 12:02 PM
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I wonder, what you're going to do, once you know it? Ask girls to refresh them or add more? Or get out the vacuum cleaner and make them yourself? Or are you just asking to know how to feel about it???
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:53 AM
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Sound like you're going to start off in the right direction.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:30 AM
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Whatever comes natural is worth spending time one. You will have to force yourself to play friends with different guys later, at work for example. Safe it for those time where you benefit from playing social games. Friends come and friends go. That is not bad at all, that's how things go if you develop yourself. No everyone is going in the same direction and most "friends" will go, without anger and fighting. It's very, very, very rare to meet someone and stay good friends for more than 20 years…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:19 AM
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Is it good that i just played it off and went along giving her multiple hickys and making out with her? Was it fun? Did you like it or miss something? Sounded about right when I read your FR. Don't worry unless there's something specific that bothers you. What is good response when girls fish for compliments? Everything is good, as long as you don't play into her frame by complimenting her. A real strong one would be grabbing her hair and pulling her head back gently and then kissing her on the …
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:15 AM
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So I know to be part of a group, you must add value. How can I do this? You cannot. The moment you have to think about it, you're lost. What's the point in trying to be in a certain group? That's close to oneitis. You put a certain group on a pedestal and wonder how you can gain their favor and be with them. Stop chasing groups that will not include you naturally, just as with girls, it's not worth it.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:07 AM
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Nothing has happened. You are not facing any problems, no challenges and no one did anything to you that you reported about. You heard some girl-talk and your hamster started spinning his wheel. Is there anything left you can do on your own, without asking internet strangers what you should think or how to behave? Sometimes I wonder if you guys are serious about your questions or if you're just trying to kill some time, get karma on Reddit or are in need of attention.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 11:04 AM
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That's not being cucked. Stop parroting terms you don't understand, kid. That's just your little ego being hurt, because she let you fuck her and didn't commit herself to you immediately, although you'd liked that. And because you feel your worth diminished because she fucked someone you rate lower than you rate yourself. Guess what, she rated him high enough to spread. So, who's right? And you very well put her on a pedestal, not matter how small it might be.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:44 AM
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As your LTR you should have different expectations, than you would have from a plate. In your case the weakness is not your financial situation, and not necessarily your mental state. That's a lesser status than she might have thought. Your weakness would be if you let your financial situation knock you down and if you use your mental state be an excuse for not achieving something you are very well capable of. A weakness would be expecting her to get shit done for you. A weakness would be to wet…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:30 AM
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It is up to you what you do with the knowledge that the red pill provides you with. The core RP principles don't tell you what to do. People tell you what to do. Some people who extrapolate those principles advice you to isolate yourself. It is your decision if you want to give them the power to influence in your life. Just as it has been you decision to isolate yourself. That is no principle of the red pill. Going through the anger phase is an unpleasant experience while you're in it. It will m…
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:15 AM
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No, it is quite possible. I think he's been 98% into his first lay. Unfortunately, the remaining 2% contain her number and her pussy. Believe me, I know this stuff. Sidebar and all, you know? I'm 98% billionaire - I've got it all, except for the money.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:02 PM
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Thanks for caring, it's not a wrong assumption. But, no worries: Europeans usually get it. We already shipped most of the low-quality citizens off the continent, many years ago.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:59 PM
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I pissed my pants, first time a friend send me that. That's the most fitting description of how so many of us have been.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:56 PM
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Can you spell "plate"? Because she isn't. Haven't seen it in you text, but chances are that she's "currently" "your only plate" "because of [hamstering]". Even if not... You're emotionally attached to her. Either admit it to yourself and try to make her your exclusive LTR or forget about it. You're only going to hurt yourself otherwise.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:52 PM
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Don't worry. OP got it right.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:32 PM
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Guys, come on!!! You cannot be that retarded! Do I have to mark every bit of sarcasm? How much more ridiculous should I have written that, so you kids take it the right way???
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:32 PM
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You're NoFap, too? Great!
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:02 PM
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Why? This is why: https://voicesinthedark.world/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/morty-nice-guy.jpg Because they get a stamp on their "Nice-guy-card" for each time they do. And for every full card they get laid once. At least that's what they hope for.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:59 PM
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[...] she blew me but stopped short of letting me cum [...] Now, isn't that a nicest bait she could bring? [...] and I didn't feel the need to push it too far. She already expressed the desire to see me again [...] Next time is always better, I know from experience. Good that she expressed that. Maybe you ask her if you may masturbate while thinking of her in the meantime? Maybe that she expresses she's okay with that. I def want to hang with this girl again, would be a perfect FWB - no mutual f…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:57 PM
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RL means real life, the opposite of your online buffers. And you ARE orbiting her up to now. The finest orbiting as girl could wish, since she doesn't have to stand your presence. Or you did not tell the whole story or lies in your post. That is orbiting.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:48 PM
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When I asked for her number, she said she prefers to talk on IG for now. Quit orbiting her. Make an approach for RL, if she's not responding positively to it, forget her and get a life.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:23 PM
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Relax. You're in training. About to become a novice. It's not going to last for long, enjoy it, be prepared for what's coming (don't have to be RP to know that) and then embrace the experience of your breakup and don't get to angry. It's not her, it's not you, it's just that you two are kids and it's never going to be the only relationship you'll have. It's meant to end after short while. And no matter what happens, you won't be "burnt", she'll leave you. Or did you already father some children …
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:43 PM
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I can tell you what is happening between the two of you: Nothing. And you know what is to be achieved if you put in a lot of effort: Nothing. You're talking to her, that's all that is and that's all she wants. If she wanted more, she would have given you the IOI for intimacy, not that what you mistook for "hella IOIs". She's with her BF and you're not the one that's going to change any of that. She might cheat as much as every other girl is capable of, but you're as much capable of making her ch…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 08:49 AM
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One example is "Meinungsmache" (literally "propaganda"). It's one book from a triology on political manipulations and lies in Germany. Another one is "Das Ende der Massenarbeitslosigkeit" ("The end of mass unemployment") which explains the flaws in what you're told about why a growing number of people are unemployed.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:44 AM
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Whatever the girl signals would be best. If she's a rather shy person who freezes the first time you touch her shoulder, arm oder hand, go slower, if she's the type of girl to hug everyone she meets, be more on point. If she's really open and active, touchy, then touch her ass while doing you shove her around all day and finally pull her onto you lap and kiss her and have your hand start wandering if she's on. But never try to talk them into it, or talk to create a mood or something. Either it's…
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:36 AM
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Since I know only the books specific to my country, I cannot give you title for your's, just a suggestion: Read books where marketing and commercial strategies, as well as political manipulation, are explained. Those of today, not ancient ones or Robert Green crap. And make sure you read books from people who are pro and contra a topic or from different sides, if it's a political book. It will help you understand why people believe in what they think they stand for, although it actually does the…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:53 PM
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Did you make that up yourself? Impressive! You've got more insults that change nothing about what we both agreed upon?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:16 PM
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All you need to know about the worldwide sinkhole for failed existences.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:35 PM
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I understand that, but I am not sure you need to know. Why? Because you don't need to own that one, two, three traits, that someone might consider gay. But being considered gay from time to time is what you could own. Does that make sense? I know, it's not very descriptive sorry. Like, it doesn't matter if you lost brown or blond, long or short hair, when you got bald. Maybe knowing the traits exactly might even lead to some over-specific compensation which makes you look insecure about exactly …
/r/askTRP25/07/18 07:48 PM
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When I was young, I was ready for it all, but too afraid to escalate even to a kiss. So it was always the girl who made the first move... After I grew some balls, it's been something like a 70/30 ratio between me and her for the first time between us, and about 50/50 for the following times.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:54 PM
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You should spin multiple mom-plates. Then you can drop a mom, once she starts showing this behavior.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:51 PM
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Dude, half your words are spent on masturbating in front of your mirror. About your sufferings: It would not matter, if she was a plate. If it matters to you, which it obviously does, you're emotionally attached to her. Stop bullshitting yourself, you're not as independent as you would like to be and it will only get worse once the whole thing starts. How about you come back and give a detailed FR, once you found out how things developed with your "plate"?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:46 PM
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That is because those hardcore red pill sissys boys are emotionally attached and are only hamstering their "currently only plate" from oneitis into just a plate.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:25 PM
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What does your boyfriend say to that? Jokes aside: If that keeps recurring, there's something about you that let's some people make the assumption. Some people just act in a way that makes them seem gay, because they fit the gay stereotype enough. What to do about it? Own it! Own it the same way others deal with being short, bald, having acne scars, having a feminine face, ... Go and look it up, there's plenty of advice already been written here and elsewhere.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:49 PM
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To be honest, you do not sound like you internalized how to use the principles RP teaches you to improve you life. The words themselves mean nothing, if you cannot make their meaning work for you. Remember: It's not what you see in yourself, it's what they see in you, that determines your SMV and with it your chances for success. And I'd say your currently caught in a negative downward spiral. Did you ever find out what changed in between the time of 13 girls in 3 years and the last year? I did …
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:31 PM
1

Yes, mine does.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:11 PM
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I'd say the phases are having a strong overlap and we're somewhere between three and four. I don't watch MGTOW videos, because I prefer to get things done, so I haven't seen what you refer to. And only posers will mix intersexual dynamics with dystopia. But that are other stories. The collapse of US society is somewhat overdue. They've been working so hard on it, for so long now, it cannot be very far. I'm sure it will be the first to fall. My biggest hope is, that the European continent has alr…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:09 PM
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She's not your plate. And learn how to use formatting You're emotionally attached to her, hurt in your ego and insecure about your (self-) image. Last time I checked, these were symptoms of chumpiness and oneitis. Boy, even calling her the main plate is so funny. Doesn't matter how many girls you fuck, if you are touched by any of them having something with another man, you're only pretending. EDIT: I just pissed my pants. First time reading I overlook this: I currently have no other reliable pl…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:50 AM
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The idea of spinning plates is not to be caught in a situation like this, because you have other options. If you haven't got other options, you're doing it wrong and try to rescue plates that spin a bit bumpy and unstable. Spin other plates, and let those two spin themselves. Either they do or the fall and break.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:43 AM
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What you complain about is exactly the same as what every BP guy out there suffers from: You cannot handle women, happily play in their game and you desperately wish they were something they're not. Reminds me of: Every man wants a slut, he just wants her to be HIS slut. - Rollo Tomassi The shame is: You, as a self-proclaimed RP-man, know much more about the nature and the way of women, than any BP-man. At least you have a worthy goal in mind. Yet, you complain. Doesn't feel like a big improveme…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:34 AM
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So then what the fuck is the point of life then? To go on and succeed although the society you live hates and punished basic human behavior. Since you just unplugged it is forgivable that you don't see how you can have that. Keep on reading, learn and understand and you'll find out how it can work.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 08:44 AM
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Had a similar thought. Girl's are not in their proliferation phase all the time, they're not men. She's been there to be close, cuddle and get comforted but was uninterested in anything else.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:39 PM
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As of now, only read The Rational Male (TRM). It's a free blog and if you find it as usefull as it is, but the books to give something back to the man behind the curtain, Rollo Tomassi. It's a difficult read, especially if english is not your first language, but it's worth every minute. Just start with year one and work your way through. You should plan to re-read parts from time to time. But almost every other resource on intersexual dynamics is a subset of TRM, enchanced with the experience or…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:57 PM
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Muscles. Money. Status. And Dominance. And never believe what a woman tells you she finds attractive. First of all she doesn't know that. And second thing is: She will not serve her deepest desires on a silver plate.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:47 PM
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Please read the SL 5x5 webpage. Every detail in there has a purpose and each and all of your questions will be answered after you read that website. If you do not understand someting, ask a specific question, but I am sure that no one on Reddit will repeat the whole SL 5x5 program for you. Read the website. Yes, it's a lot and there's no TL;DR. It is not there for a purpose, so stop looking for it here or anywhere else. I understand that you're a novice and do not have anyone you can trust on th…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:43 PM
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1st world problems. If there's nothing to worry about, then sensationalism and convenience products become the cure. Once the latrine is full, the feces have to flow somewhere. And Europe is downhill from the US as long as I can remember.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:53 PM
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Money is one of the most unimportant things to improve yourself. You cannot buy any self improvement, you can only earn it. What one can do, and you mixed things a little bit here, is spending money on displaying status. And you already excluded everything I would care about, with regards to status display.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:42 PM
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I think guys who care about that are sissys. You might live in a culture where that is no appropriate, but other than that, it's just a display of insecurity and immaturity to spend half a thought on one more topless or nude woman on a beach.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:34 PM
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This is obviously a shit test Damn it, not every single fucking shit a girls says is a shit test, just because some snowflake doesn't like it. Get that in your head and you might actually start to get ahead with situations like that. I understand that you want to talk like the cool dudes on the red pill, but it doesn't do you any good if you parrot "shittest-shittest-shittest" just because everyone is using that term. It won't win you any bonus points. Nowhere. Maybe it is, maybe it is not. It d…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:26 PM
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Save them to proof she's been into you this much, in case she makes false rape-accusations later. Other than that: Don't react as if it interests you. You can see naked woman on you phone with just 5 clicks away any time you want. This is no different until you fuck her. Don't tell her that, but make her feel it.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:23 PM
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You're a kid. You act like a child. You've been played by a little girl. And now your emotions are out of control, because you had to realize all of what you made up in your mind has dissolved into reality, but cannot recognize all of that doesn't matter. Nothing new, nothing special, draw a number and sit down. You're in good company here. Do you want to be different from all the other kids? Those who come here to cry how life is unfair, and girls are mean and evil? Those who never listen to an…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:19 PM
1

I understand what you're saying. Let me put it this way: I had success doing that and think it works great.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:01 PM
1

You read that right. You're asking because of HR and stuff? Doesn't matter where I live and work, that's why I did not mind. But to him it's probably a bad idea... thanks for pointing that out - if you meant to!
/r/askTRP23/07/18 07:58 PM
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No, you did great. Better than these two options. First thing that came to my mind reading your story was "Okay, that was rude." Serious-to-Grin. "But at least now I know you never peeped into the changing room" Turn to the other girl "Did you?" Or something like "You promised not to tell anyone!!!" or "I know, but you said it was tasty, so why is it suddenly a problem?" or "What? Last time you said it's all about technique and now this!!?" But, everything that is not showing it affected you in …
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:31 PM
1

Please report back about how she reacted when you told her. I would like to read a detailed FR.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:23 PM
1

You cannot talk your way out of this. And actually trying to outperform him is very likely to be noticed as an insecurity of you. You can show who's who without mentioning the whole thing and without any negativity at all. When someone approaches him and you stand next to him and he gives a good answer, tell him he did good job, as you would do to any other trainee. Make sure the one who asked him hears it too. Make it an honest praise.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:21 PM
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The mechanics behind it are the same: If they say jump and you ask "how high?, you did it wrong. There's no single way of doing it right. Do whatever fits your personality - if you have one.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:16 PM
1

How to respond over text? Not at all. How many times do we need to tell you kids not to use buffers to talk to girls?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:13 PM
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Do you take the risk and game them, or just walk away? Believe me: Your dick won't even notice if she dyed her pubic hair green. They can't all be rapid feminists, Correct. but it's also not very attractive That's an opinion. But I wonder why do you ask if to game them or not, if you find them unattractive!??
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:12 PM
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First of all: Congratulations for having mature thoughts on that topic and actually wanting to take action yourself. An important step. See if there's a single service, like FB msg, Instagram, WhatsApp, ... where all the magic you can't afford to miss happens. Use that for communication and ignore all other features completely. Delete the profiles on the rest of the services (so no one will drag you back by telling you, you did not respond to them) and delete the apps from your phone. [...] not …
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:08 PM
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There might have been a better, not so predictable response, but don't worry about that for now. What you did great was not the exact words, but showing the reaction without hesitation. That's a good thing! There's always room for improvement... so just get comfortable reacting promptly and "better" answers will come some days, some not.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:59 PM
1

We're here to help people get out of shitty situations with the least amount of repercussions. You may be here for that.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:15 PM
1

So? Is it her behavior the scale for your's?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:43 AM
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I can understand her. It's not about the 15 minutes. I would be pissed if you did that to me, especially without any reason at all. If you did apologize - not playing it down, not explaining or justifying - and it's up to her to let go. Don't force it, she'll calm down. If not, you know the four letters.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:46 PM
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It's so unimportant that you waste 205 words on him? You're an insecure sissy. Let your LTR handle it, it's a mans job.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:03 PM
1

Yes, it is harder, it's meant to be harder than dropping a plate. But it is even harder not to let go of what cannot be.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:00 PM
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It isn't. Next question.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:56 PM
5

You're not here to get an answer to your question, you're here to tell everyone you're a beautiful snowflake, and the general laws of attraction don't apply to you.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:46 PM
4

I can't wait to read your FR.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:43 PM
6

Thanks but I think everything is alright in this departments Does your boyfriend say that or the girls who don't want to sleep with you?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:36 PM
2

Reddit should make a button to insert those comments and save a lot of typing every week.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:35 PM
1

Don't ask, don't discuss, just go with one option you like, not necessarily one she provided. But no more than that.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:31 PM
2

Boyfriends tend to take their girlfriends for granted and don't pay as much attention to them, do not admire them as much as an orbiter does. The orbiter will always be working to get what the boyfriend already has got.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:29 PM
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Sorry man, but I don't think you'll get more than a lesson from this. I don't think you played it completely wrong, although you might have been more uninterested. But what you said about her sounds like you're at risk of finding yourself orbiting her before you know it. Play it well, experiment with her, but keep in mind it doesn't matter if you k-close, f-close her or wank-close at home.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:24 PM
2

A general rule: Don't believe in what others "tell" you how they'd rate you. No matter if they mean to do you good, boost your confidence or are really honest. They're not the ones who sleep with you. There's only one way to measure your SMV: Success.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:19 PM
3

If you get opportunities that have not been available until then. Look for small things, the big things will present themselves. People changing their behavior towards you or directly complaining about the new you is not a reliable proof of a raised SMV, because that also happens when you turn into an anti-social cunt.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:10 PM
1

Don't worry. You'll be doing fine. The world is full of programmer who don't know a shit about what they are doing and everyone above them will make sure it stays like that while telling the opposite. Programmers usually are at the lowest end of the food chain, and cover that up by playing their little team-spirit-games and thinking it makes a difference which paradigm they follow. Writing code that works and is reasonably fast is the easiest part of the job (if you're not forced to code in ruby…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:05 PM
0

Genetics > Lifestyle > Supplements You can tweak it a bit using the supplements mentioned here, but you cannot fool your genetics and not outsmart a less beneficial lifestyle. Be very active, lean and eat healthy (not US-commercial-healthy, really healthy). That's having the biggest impact you can control. Supps are just the finishing touch on top. And don't expect rapid changes, no matter what people tell you.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:56 PM
7

I should become a fortune teller.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:38 PM
-1

Lifting is an unspecific term. What is your goal? Getting stressed out? Go on! Getting into overtraining? Do that for two weeks. Getting really strong? Will not work. Getting a cute bodybuilder-physique? Doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:56 PM
5

I suspect that there is a reason you did not tell us what you did/said, and that reason might be, that she's damn right. Uh-oh, that's not very RP to think, isn't it?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:52 PM
1

To answer both your "only questions": What would you have done I would have let her alone the moment I she started to show how crazy she is. why do girls spill This private ass shit to guys they just met when all the guy wants to do is get them some cigarettes?????? She's crazy. Don't expect to understand it unless you take a few years of psychology lessons. Most stuff they say they do for attention and validation. But I doubt it in her case. She's crazy. Anyway: Stay far away from her. VERY FAR…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:08 PM
3

I am pissing my pants. Thanks for posting that, you made my day!!! What a useless shit-society must you live in, to actually have success with commercials like that? Unbelievable that there's so much human waste in on place, that either of these clips get's anything sold. To each his own, I guess. Still laughing at the fags.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:57 PM
2

Good luck!
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:52 PM
2

Neither. Just continue life. Forget the whole thing as she will. No need to re-frame that as a red pill action.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:49 PM
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You haven't swallowed no pill. You're just a disappointed child who cannot handle life. How to fix? Get over your ego and leave the anger phase behind and start make use of what the red pill knowledge has to offer. Or keep reading here and stay in your emotional shithole forever, telling yourself to just-be-yourself.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:28 PM
4

If you're orbiting her, how could you next her? It hasn't been your turn... Just do what every you want, she will not care what you tell yourself why you withdrawn attention.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:24 PM
1

There is no "being alpha", only being perceived as having alpha traits. And that only applies to whatever part of "the alpha" the observer is interested in. And that aspect of a personality most likely changes like everything else in life changes as you develop.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:21 PM
-1

I don't know how you come up with all of these 'facts' And you don't have to. It's no shame. You're in good company among the other hypocrites
/r/askTRP22/07/18 12:05 PM
0

My dad always said: "Internet for dummies" is just a book, not an invitation. Reading your comments I finally understood what he meant.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:56 AM
3

You're so funny, guys! I'm pissing my pants... just don't get too serious writing things like that, some kid might actually believe it.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 11:37 AM
1

Some problems solve themselves. Enjoy the fact that she spared you a lot more drama later on.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:56 AM
1

Opinion or your personal experience, what is it?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:55 AM
0

One of the most authentic posts in a while. Stop fapping.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:54 AM
2

Sure, buffer-friend her on FB, so you can orbit her without having to go out and annoy her further in person.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 07:47 AM
1

But he gives a fuck. Didn't you see that in his post? He can tell to himself that he doesn't all day long, it doesn't change the fact that he very much gives a fuck. He just didn't say "It bothers me so much" like 2/3 of the crybabies.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:47 AM
1

You're better than him. You just needed 36 words to show the world what you lack.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:46 AM
2

Well, isn't he? Telling him not to tell anyone, is the same cowardice advice you get here very often: Never take responsibility for your actions, everyone else sucks and is not worth anything if they take offense in your anti-social deeds, your lies and your betrayal, and if they don't serve a certain purpose in your imaginary life ignore them forever. It's the behavior we would expect from a woman and complain how bad she is for it and AWALT. There's no change if he does not come clean. Where i…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:36 AM
1

The Rational Male is a completely free blog by Rollo Tomassi, filled with the most valuable and most detailed information you will find anywhere. If you're time is precious, spend time reading the whole blog and put other reads on the side. It is worth every minute. You'll find yourself reading articles again, on a regular basis. And if you like it well enough, buy the books to give the man something back. He deserves it way more than any other single person who sells exclusively.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:24 PM
2

Fuck more.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:19 PM
1

The difference is in your intention to do someone a favor. Sort that out and you'll have your personal answer. Also, don't listen to anyone trying to tell you, that life is a it's best when you treat it as simple as those two options are.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:09 PM
1

Wow. 127 words to say you achieved nothing and don't even recognize how miserable you actually are. And not a single question in your self degradation. Congratulations.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:07 PM
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You're self-perception differs very much from what people see in you. Those who make you write that question do see a socially retarded weirdo in you, no matter how hard you try to convince yourself of the opposite. King of the retards? No. But enough. I would not put to much focus on her exact wording (intimidating, cannot read you). Although both can have a very positive influence on the way people, especially hot girls, act towards you, you're not having that positive experience and it's not …
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:58 PM
2

It's not like a fucking Disney movie, womans are bad. Now I see it clearly, it fucking hurts guys, the truth fucking hurts. You're not seeing anything clearly and you are miles away from any truth. You're getting very emotionally and feel betrayed and lied to, which is partly true. But don't act as if one of that is your fault. You're a sissy and that's all. Good thing is: Once your tears dried you can start to make a change that has more relevance to your life than complaining how miserable you…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:46 PM
2

389 words are a lot for someone who does not GAF. Very RP, indeed. Don't confuse being a useless piece of human garbage with being a valuable RP man.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:38 PM
1

It is obvious you believe that has an influence, but thank you for your explanation. It very much explains why you had to ask a question like that. I'll stop it here, since you don't want to have advice. You had your chance, never said a single word on topic and decided to spent your energy on insults instead.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:30 PM
2

It helped you. Because you don't take that serious. And since no one asked for your experience, you rather derailed instead of responding to my comment and mentioning it had no potential to help in solving your problem, I consider it bragging.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:20 PM
1

It's not meant to be fun, it's not meant to make you attractive, it's only designed to make you strong.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:18 PM
2

Thinking about things like that can be a sign that someone has desires that are not met. A "purpose" is a strong substitute that distracts many people from a void inside themselves. A future self-validation to work for, if discipline is not a personal trait. But, a purpose is always made up. No one craves it like water and food, a certain temperature, social contacts, sex, staying alive, ...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:15 PM
1

Bragging about typical beginner's achievements is not going to help you in your situation. And your attitude won't change the way your body works, no matter how much you feel it should. I did give you some advice, but it seems like you're looking for someone to explain basic stuff to you. Usually that's called looking for a shortcut. Good luck with that.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 08:03 PM
1

STFU, as I understand it, does not apply in the situation you described. To me STFU means not trying to talk about and explain your RP views and appeal to her logic and so on. Acta, non verba. First rule of the fight club, blah-blah-blah. But I think I still got your point. And I actually found that one of the easiest parts. But it does not include keeping quite when the wife is acting crazy and talking bullshit and rationalizing nonsense and trying to find excuses for her behavior or justifies …
/r/askMRP21/07/18 07:56 PM
2

Do the world a favor and get a vasectomy, if it did not already happen. Just to be sure.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 07:37 PM
2

Learn the bio-mechanics of growing muscle (no bro-science) and decide if that's worth it, for you personally.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:34 PM
1

I could not hate you for not understanding SL or SS.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 07:21 PM
1

As long as you approach "making friends" as a deal that has to be negotiated (see your pros and cons), you're set up for failure. Men may not have those fine tuned senses like women have, but they eventually smell what you're doing. And it depends on what you think "high quality" is. Status, looks, money? Or skills? People with the former will make fun of you, one way or another. The latter may actually enjoy your company, if you don't fuck it up by trying to "make" them "your" friends. "Women t…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:57 PM
3

Imagine that a girl with a nice thick mustache drove you home and asks if she can come in or use the bathroom. What does she have to say, to get you hard'n ready for her?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:17 PM
0

No, I said that his interpretation doesn't change what Social Media is. Neither does your's. Feel free to rationalize...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:10 PM
1

Absolutely no. Even if you don't mind her seeing everything in there and you've nothing to hide, it is a wrong move and gives her a negative (for you) idea of where her boundaries are. If you let her have that access, she will not accept anything else she's not supposed the see or know about your life. And who knows what else. Just don't.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:03 PM
2

Top answer.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:59 PM
1

Loose your virginity to another girl.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:56 PM
2

Not expressing myself through brands is certainly one thing I associate with being masculine.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:47 PM
1

As long as you haven't figured out her menstruation/phase, don't think about the timing too much. It'll make you come over too needy if you are too needy, not if you ask her out a day too soon.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:44 PM
1

Why don't you tell her to post in your threads here? Since she's talking to the guys, not to you... It would be simpler if they respond directly to her...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:40 PM
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If it's been a girl saying that, poke your index finger in her belly and say "Is that all your's?"
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:28 PM
1

Too bad. You've been on r/asktrp for nearly a month, you know the answer's you're going to get here.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:18 PM
1

Point me in the right direction. Get done dealing with that breakup before you think of anything else. Embrace it but don't believe you're making good decisions right now. When you're emotionally calm again, thoughts will be more reasonable.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:15 PM
1

You should have gone after the girls and asked them.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:12 PM
2

She keeps you as an orbiter She milks you for validation You withdrawn some attention Ever heard a junkie say "Of course, I don't mind, here take my heroine" ? Just get over your oneitis and don't fall for another one.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:11 PM
1

You're not going to like the following. Try not to cry. I discovered the redpill about a month ago and I have improved every aspect of my life. I doubt that. just finished middle school so I know I have a big advantage over all my peers Cannot imagine that. Your self-perception is way off. I've always been the "boring" guy and despite having several hobbies I can not get out of this situation. That is not an aspect of your life? I would like to have a minimum of sense of humor to relate to my pe…
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:53 PM
1

is ok to don't feel attracted even sexually or get laid? Wrong question. The right question is: Do you like it that way or miss something? And: If you're not missing anything, why care to ask?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:35 PM
1

If you don't "come clean", you're dodging responsibility. Which is as good as to keep on lying. With that come a lot of big risks for your future creditability. But if you're not willing to risk that, nor to accept that you cannot save it all, there's no growth in it. You did shit, not handle it and live with the consequences. You're not a woman.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:32 PM
0

One has got to put a lot of fantasy in there to make that a shittest. But, no matter how you call it, as long as you're not feeling confident to talk about your job, your only choice is to dodge the question... I only ask myself why you want a girl with such a big red flag.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:27 PM
1

Fine with me. Just don't come back crying.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:23 PM
1

Ok, thanks. Focus more on endurance instead of muscle and strength. And nutrition, low bodyfat, etc... An endurance athlete's body is not built lifting weights. As long as you keep some lifting, it'll be fine.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:18 PM
0

Your interpretation doesn't change what Social Media is.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:13 PM
1

You did not get the point or you try do derail. It's not about that you asked, it is what you asked. And with your intention it is a weak move. And don't start to argue, it's crystal clear what your intention was. And there's no talking out of that.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:22 PM
1

23 minutes ago you proved that statement wrong. But you're free to believe it. Just don't expect anything to get better...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:48 PM
3

It's quite possible that you have no strengths worth thinking about. Ask yourself: What is there in my life, that usually works? A weakness is asking others for their strengths, so you can pick something and decide it's going to be your strength.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:42 PM
1

There's just one basic rule: Women are women, not men. Everything else is just an extension of that. As you can see, I've read enough, this is not even half of what I've read. That's why most often I say, that one should read the sidebar and understand the sidebar. As long as you think about all of these rule's (which are designed for novices, kids and people who like numbered lists better than progress), you're not going to get far.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:40 PM
1

Because fapping (not masturbation) ruins your life, just as every other addiction will. It's just a matter of time. And you don't have a frame to begin with... but that's no matter until you stop fapping.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:24 PM
1

If reading the sidebar much for you: Use the search function. This exact question pops up once a week.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:22 PM
2

Why do you think texting a social media whore will lead to anything worth spending time on?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:20 PM
1

What am i doing wrong? How is anyone supposed to know? You did not tell a single fact about what you are doing. Since you didn't think of that, I believe you don't think too much about what you do in the gym at all. So probably the answer is: Nearly everything.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 01:16 PM
1

Exclude him from your lives. What do you guys expect from a person like that?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:56 PM
2

Just text her that you prefer the real thing above those buffers. Oh, wait... no.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:53 PM
4

And another excuse.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:50 PM
3

Your question is like asking what the best powertools are and not telling what you want to get done. What is your goal?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:48 PM
3

How do you imagine intersexual dynamics to help you start a business?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:45 PM
1

From what you told us about yourself and your situation the only logic explanation is: Your self-perception is very different from what girls see in you. Or it takes more to be an attractive person than just the typical red pill-checklist ...
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:45 PM
1

And yet here you are, using your reddit-account for complaining and bragging.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:39 PM
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You want us to excuse your lies, and that's all. Stop bing a sissy about such irrelevant things. BTW: If a girl smells your lies and tries to reveal them, it's not a shittest.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:37 PM
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Welcome to the real world. If all it took was some motivation everybody would be in top shape and drowning is pussy. But motivation is not needed to succeed. Discipline is. Because discipline keeps you going, after you left the comfort zone and it stopped being pure fun. Some days will be better some harder. It's like everything else is life. Just do not let go.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:35 PM
1

I’m and going on deployment for a few months soon and instead of just wasting my time [...] Smells like an oxymoron.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:15 AM
2

From your post it sounds like a tactic to avoid your current unpleasant situation. Quite the opposite of what you should do. It's not going to do you much good. This monk mode bullshit has a very limited usage and there are only a few situations where it really makes sense. It may help you to incredibly focus on some important goal for a few weeks or even one or two month. That's all. But it's not going to turn you into a pussymagnet within x years and you're not going to rise from the ashes as …
/r/askTRP21/07/18 10:03 AM
1

I'd say: Focus on yourself, your needs and your emotions for sometime. And stop worrying about what people think of you. But I don't, because you won't do that, but try to become a anti-social autist. Then you will come back in two weeks and cry what an egoistic piece of shit you became and how everyone hates you more than before.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:17 PM
2

It is very unlikely that you will succeed. You seek someone to benefit from, to make use of, to utilize. You do not seek friends. This mindset will stand in your way. People will notice very soon and drop you, if you're the only one to gain something.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:11 PM
1

What do you think? I think you are an idiot. Why did you do it? What was the reason? What did you expect to happen? You got what you wanted, no one got hurt, costs no money, she's not pregnant and still you cry afterwards? I repeat: Why do you do stuff that should give you an outcome you don't want?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 12:08 PM
1

Usually people lack positive experience when they post a question like your's. You seem to actually get ahead and make good experiences but don't show the expected positive development. At least try get that treated by a specialist. I don't think internet strangers are your best bet.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:40 AM
3

She said she hates texting and is slow and boring. Marry her. Or read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:37 AM
2

You seem caught in a loop of analyzing to death and repeating your past behavior, expecting a different outcome. But never actually change your behavior. You rely on strangers ideas and follow their selfhelp advice without actually learning a lesson from it. You expect some idea or motivational poster or inspiring proverb to act like a magic pill that changes you. Since you haven't given examples of what actually bothers you, no one can go into detail and I'll keep it simple: Do what you have to…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:36 AM
1

Apart from all the little and not so little misconceptions in your post: Start to make up your own mind. You're not going in a totally wrong direct, I believe. But all I see is you wondering how to bring the opinions of other people under one roof and be happy about what they said or wrote, but not questioning the things they said or matching them against you experience. Take a break from consuming strangers opinions and spend some time in your own head.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:27 AM
1

The problem will not be to know what you're really attracted to, but actually attracting someone to fuck. Who cares if you're gay, bi or normal? If you don't know just try it out in no particular order and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:21 AM
0

Do you want to see her in a nation wide TV commercial telling she fucked you? Educate yourself, kid.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:18 AM
2

All you did was taking one or two big steps others still have to take. You're a dreamer and a looser who's convincing himself otherwise. No different from all those 15yo dudes who are hyper-alpha, have tight game and totally swallowed to pill last week and wonder what they should text that hot instagram model.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:14 AM
2

Reading that I'd say there's no frame. Not your's, not her's. For now and in this case, just do what will produce a date and let it be (if she does not start to play games, that is). There's nothing to gain on top of a date and you would just seem like you're hurt or whatever, if you try to bring this into your frame. And here's the thing: A dialog should have shortened that for the both of you. "Texting for logistics only" is considered the only reason to text ever. I can live with that idea, b…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:36 PM
2

I think text confirm is ok in this scenario.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:21 PM
1

And that is why I prefer The Rational Male blog and books over any YT video.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:32 PM
1

u/resnine, you surprised me!
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:31 PM
1

If there's a reason not to talk face to face (you won't see her anywhere, if not on a scheduled date), then a call is much better. Don't worry about your voice sounding nervous. It is what it is, and there's a good chance she'll notice that you called although you're nervous and might have texted her. And if it does not work out, it's a first step into the direction of doing it better than most. Don't fear it, rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:30 PM
2

Using any kind of texting is a buffer. You avoid the chance of receiving a reaction you would not like from her face to face. Asking someone out using a message is a way to reduce the impact of rejection. The Rational Male has a longer essay about buffers in general. Before Whatsapp, SMS, ICQ and so on, we used tiny pieces of paper to write a message and pass it across the classroom, hoping no one opens the letter, except for the girl it was written to. "Want to kiss me after school? [ ] Yes [ ]…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:00 PM
1

Nice try, kid.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:29 PM
6

Why the fuck do you pretend to be a man, if you haven't got the slightest idea what to do if your plan actually works?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:22 PM
1

Title says it all. What do you need the other 584 words for, if the title says it all? Get into a wheelchair, infect yourself with AIDS and become a jew and you'll have a "BINGO!!!" on you minority-card and win a used tissue to wipe away your self-pity an your victim-puke. Then get up and do the same as every other kid who asks the same bullshit questions again and again, instead of getting started on the sidebar and lifting.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:16 PM
0

Yes, you already did that. And now you invest time to find excuses why anyone should watch that crap, instead of spending time on the sidebar material, which actually produces results, not clicks.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:11 PM
1

This was my first thought.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:10 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:05 PM
1

Clickbait designed to attract people who are to lazy to read even the TL;DR or texts.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:39 AM
3

I cannot tell you the exact why, because you gave absolutely no information about you - besides that you are an emo sissy. What I know is, that in nearly every group above 20 people (no matter how it was formed), there usually is someone who qualifies as the punching-bag. It's not like every group needs one, or chooses one, it's just as if 1 in every 20 or so people, is someone who's a worthless piece of shit, in the eyes of the other 19. And if he's/she's in more groups, it's usually always him…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:36 AM
1

I've never attempted either in the bedroom, and both topics were only mentioned in casual conversation. Acta, non verba. Come back after you tried. How would you flip the script and take a girls logical token resistance and turn it into an uncontrollable irrational lust? Stop parroting terms you don't understand. Then start reading the sidebar, understand the sidebar and implement the sidebar. Then read "Creating your slut" if you're really interested and want a real solution.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:36 AM
2

how do you not let that affect you and your frame? Fuck one and find out that your dick cannot tell the difference between her and a fatty with a mustache. Second question, is a girl dressing sexual a shit-test, to see how she can affect mens' frames? No.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:27 AM
2

What happened after you sucked her tit? How old were you both? Is it possible that you just didn't do it to her liking? Is it possible she's nervous and afraid to show her emotions?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:14 AM
1

Congratulations. You've successfully transferred from one unhelpful extreme into another. Is it really all just cruelty? Not if you can handle it. That's what red pill principles enable you to, if you understand them and implement them in your life, after accepting that's how life goes. If you cannot handle it, you're going to end up talking like an Emo, just like 95% of the other TRP guys.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:11 AM
2

Maybe she just sucks at texting? No, you suck for using the buffer of texting and she knows it even better than you do. If this is how it usually goes between the two of you: She's not into you, no matter what you feel at other times. If it's the first time: It can be anything, just give her another chance and see if she takes it. If not, ignore her.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:37 AM
2

After someone else came on her tits? Yes, that is weired and gay. WTF? Where do you kids get this shit from? Do you ever think a straight though without being afraid what anyone might think of you?
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:32 AM
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Funny, every kid comes around, asking how they should behave in life, what decisions to make, if they should pull up the pants before or after wiping their asses, and then do whatever they're told without thinking one bit about why they would ever do that thing or what the consequences will be.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:30 AM
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I've read that setting boundaries is a beta thing to do You should not read any more from the same source. It's bullshit. At best the author didn't know any better, but it may also be a manipulation attempt.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:26 AM
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Share the results with her. Other than that: STFU.
/r/askMRP17/07/18 06:22 AM
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Interesting read. What are you going to do about that?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 06:20 AM
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Taking the red pill without rejecting that is impossible. No it is not. That's a simpleminded ideological statement. Most likely to come from a US citizen. But no matter much some of you wish to mix politics or any other crap with inter-sexual dynamics (and find a good justification why RP would not make sense if you do not) and no matter how much you think everything is related to the reason why you improve: It is not. It's YOUR idea of the red pill. I'm fine with your opinion, not everyone can…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:38 PM
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My rule of thumb is: If I can perform the lift safe and it does not hinder the healing, I lift. Usually I find that out during the warm-up of the lifts.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 07:54 PM
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It's a wrong move to try to force this, just because of some made up rules. If there's no actual reason to remove someone from your life or associate with someone, why should you? Reading you nickname I suggest that you double check the value you assign to others.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:50 PM
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What ever you do: Don't puke out your past at one or two occasions. Not because you've been a gamer, but because knowing it all is one of the major attraction killers, even if you've been a secret agent and a stunt-man before you joined the Hells Angels.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:42 PM
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Maybe she's just a masochist, who knows!? Best you never find out, you might not like the reasons. So enjoy it for as long as possible, but never make her more than a plate. Oh, before I forget: Be prepared that maybe one day, she cannot remember wanting it and asking for it. And everyone who knows the two of you will testify that she's had bruises all over, since she met you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:35 PM
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Yes, there is a test, 100% fool proof and the result is crystal clear. It's pretty simple thing to do: Lean forward or pull her closer, and try to kiss her. You will know if she wanted to afterwards. Everything else involves esoteric, no matter what PUA gurus try to sell you.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:30 PM
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It either just is not a bad sign or she's got an account you haven't found yet, you stalker.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:27 PM
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It means absolutely nothing when you read it somewhere. It is often in good company with some absolute beta-behavior, that is then justified "in this particular case" with some lame excuse and a "lol". Usually you find out where in his progress he currently stalls, when you read the complete post. Most times that I recall, there are two major milestones: People on askTRP have just started to lift and just begun to read the sidebar (literally, not the books and articles mentioned in the sidebar).…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:25 PM
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Ok, did not get that from your post, but I'd still ask the same question, because it's still stupid to waste energy on complaining on those things and this is my favorite way of shoving that in their faces.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:53 PM
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In that case: See u/writingstuff1001's comment, never check on her (because she will notice) and ensure to be +1 or +2 above her SMV ... and read about oneitis.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:50 PM
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I found only one club in my vicinity where the average age is above 25. What's wrong with banging girls below 25? Or are you looking for LTR material exclusively? Work on your SMV and you'll get a within reach of young woman's panties.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:45 PM
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Your lesson should be: Don't call a cunt "babe". She'll be offended by that. Jokes aside: Every thought on a woman like that, every keystroke and every swipe on your phone is wasted energy.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:41 PM
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I am not sure what you want to accomplish? Are you asking how to forget her? How to "get her back"? How you hold frame? What is your actual goal in this situation?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:37 PM
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Usually I listen, nod as a signal that I am still with them mentally, and once their done I ask them what they're going to do about it. Women (usually): Nothing, really, just needed to talk about it, it's not that bad after all Men (usually): Why me? I didn't do anything wrong, it's just that [excuses] [blame]
/r/askTRP16/07/18 04:32 PM
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Absolutely
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:53 AM
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Women cannot stand it if you think about something and not talk about it. That is against their nature since TALKING is one of the most interesting things for them and the No. 1 problem solving process. Asking what you think is her way of treating you like an equal (read: a woman). I don't think there's an intention involved (usually).
/r/askTRP16/07/18 10:55 AM
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SL 5x5 is a strength program, not a BB routine! It will give you more muscle, but that's a byproduct of strength. SL 5x5 is designed for novices who have no coach and no spotter. That's one reason to start with the empty bar. It guarantees that you have lots of time to focus on technique, before you reach an intensity that will get you hurt. On the other hand there's SS, which teaches you the lifts and then makes a jump in the intensity, but requires someone coaching you from the beginning.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:57 AM
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I doesn't matter how many pounds you are missing until you find yourself muscular enough. That question is one-dimensional and... stupid. You continue to lift until you like what you see in the mirror. How much you weight is absolutely irrelevant, since you're focused on looks.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:53 AM
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Since you focus on a limit of intensity: You can increase volume, slow down reps, add more reps, add more sets, shorter rest periods, ... Try to google it. There are many ways to "do more" without adding weight. But if that's going to be good for you or fits your condition, ... I don't know. EDIT: An additional thought! Critical one, don't take it too serious, it is very unlikely and I don't know if it applies to your condition. It's more a What If? kind of idea.... It goes like this: If your co…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:48 AM
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Continue SS or SL5x5, which ever suits you better. They are to standards for getting as strong as possible. With those numbers that you currently lift, you have a lot to improve on both programs. If you want to get STRONG (which is always a good idea, especially before switching to a BB routine), keep doing those programs, and read "Practical Programming for Strength Training" by Rippetoe & Baker.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:08 AM
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You're assumption is false in some parts, that's why it does not conclude. It isn't nearly as simple as you describe it. If women would be that simple, we wouldn't have no need for RP.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:05 AM
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And so womankind said: Let's abandon hypergamy, it doesn't work anymore, damn you prostitutes?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 09:00 AM
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I live in Germany and travel a lot, it hasn't been a game changer. Women still are hypergamous. End of discussion.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:59 AM
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Because the assumption was bullshit all the way. It's been an attempt to keep fight prostitution by explaining female sexuality using male logic. We all know how well that works, don't we?
/r/askTRP16/07/18 08:58 AM
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"Conservative" is a shit term to discuss. It means different things to different people and has a broad spectrum of possible interpretations in different locations, and even within one country/political landscape. But from what you described: No. I personally have been like that before, although I consider myself having traits from both ends of the spectrum. It reinforced that part of me, that believed in being good at everything important. But politically? Absolutely no. And everyone who believ…
/r/askTRP16/07/18 07:39 AM
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The Rational Male, absolutely. It's a rather complicated read, but worth every minute you spend on it.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 06:50 AM
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I think drawing is a fantastic hobby, sadly I suck at it. But it is not what I meant. I was thinking of stuff like repairing cars/bikes, fixing integral parts of the house, raise a wall, building furniture, create a good garden. In short: Stuff you would usually hire someone to do for you. Get your hands dirty, bloody sometimes, and produce a result. Ok, except for the blood, drawing does the same...
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:36 PM
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How many plates are you spinning, besides that particular one? Plate break and i feel sad. Not a plate. Is this one itis creeping up? Not necessarily. But you feel more for her than you would for a plate. Have u all become so numb that you stopped feeling anything. No, we just accept that no one owes us anything and life goes on, no matter who's in your social circle... Cannot change a thing about the fact that people will come and go, no matter how much you like, ignore, love, hate them. So, de…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:31 PM
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You've changed in two years. So have they. It's not to be expected that you can disappear, reappear and it's like you were only gone to take a dump. I don't think that this is the typical crab-bucket-situation or anything about jealousy. It's more likely you developed into another direction as they did, drifting further apart from each other. After all, there has been a reason you abandoned your "friends". You should not force it from now on, just because you were "friends" a few years ago. If i…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:29 PM
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If you don't want to exercise, where's the point in your post? Stop dreaming, improve other things in your life and enjoy the results. Not everyone is meant to be a successful lifter. Pareto's 20% mean that there are 80% who won't achieve what they "dream" about. You're a dreamer on drugs. I guess you know in which % you currently are.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:23 PM
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Building things with your hands. Learn to do stuff like a pro, although you never tried it before. Bonus points if you got not help and still deliver awesome results. Oh yes, and playing guitar.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:16 PM
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If you try to take the books literally it will be like Strauss says towards the end of his lame book: Everyone will recognize what you do and where you got that from. If you stick to the principles outlined in the books and successfully implement them, you're good to go. Regarding Tinder & crap: It's just a consequence of the direction the US society (and those societies who copy every shit it produces) has been heading for ages. So, basically the same principles apply there as well. Although th…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 08:12 PM
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Yes, have been in a situation that is somewhat comparable. My solution was, as will be my advice, don't treat it as an all-or-nothing situation. Control you emotions instead of "turning them all off". Your education and job and so on are one thing, but your LTR and family are a different case. Learn to be with her as if nothing happened in your professional life. Your job is always demanding but you always handle it. There's nothing else she or your family need to feel about it. That's the only …
/r/askMRP14/07/18 06:31 PM
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STFU! To answer your question: I remember there's a rule of thumb that states you have to calculate 1 month per year of marriage. Or so. Don't know how accurate this is. Keep in mind that she will be somewhat delayed all the time. You change so much about yourself, but for her: You have to produce visible results, then she has to notice, she has to understand it's not a phase, she maybe tries to resist change or drag you down first, then she has to adopt to it. In that time you've come further i…
/r/askMRP14/07/18 06:18 PM
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That video deserves to be posted every time we want to demonstrate what a woman is capable of, in term of rape-accusations, and that being rational is completely off the table in some cases. I read about that incident before. Knowing all the principles of RP it is hard to be surprised that things like that happen. What did surprise me was the degree of rationalization. Before I thought rape-accusations happen if there her word against his, and that's all. Or maybe her friends... But she had all …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 04:49 PM
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Finally someone asking for advice on how to handle a shit test, who has really been confronted with a shit test... and the real problem is something different. You're reaction and idea on the topic is fine. But: Why stay with her if you're bored? Why have an LTR if you don't want to spend time with her?
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:29 PM
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If she asks you what you do for work, you can tell her your business "construction" (imagine how I say that with a retarded voice)... or ... You tell her what you actually do: "I raise buildings" or "I build houses" or "I give children a roof above their heads" or "I build those a house, who cannot do it themselves" or "I build high quality apartments" or "Currently I'm building a mansion for a millionaire in Texas". Say it with an attitude! Of course, this is not magic and will not convert a go…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:25 PM
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If you've got problems getting her into the bedroom, ... just kino, kiss, undress and touch her where ever you are and forget the bedroom. Then you'll find out if she's hot enough to fuck you right at the spot or if she's the kind who needs to go in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:17 PM
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If he's cute, ask him out for a date. There seems to be a vibe between the two of you, you're soooo much into each other. If he's not cute, tell the teacher he's distracting you. OR FUCKING IGNORE HIM!
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:13 PM
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Your first sentence is an oxymoron. Don't try to get girls using a buffer like texting. That already presents you as a little coward. If you've n-closed on a girl you approached somewhere and want to schedule a follow up date, texting is fine, if that's what you like. Where to draw the line would depend on her overall behavior. If she's not been too interested, the line is after the first time she does not show up. I'd ignore her after she does not follow the invitation without a suggestion for …
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:07 PM
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Strength is the foundation to every competitive sport and boxing is no exception. Chess is the exception. Bodyweight is better than nothing, sure, but it cannot compete with basic barbell training.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:01 PM
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You've already been reading and posting here for so many months, and you still don't have the slightest cue what a shit test is? Dude, really, do yourself a favor and read the sidebar before you parrot the terms and try to act according to what you think it means. After reading some of you other posts, I think what you need the most is confidence. Techniques are not going to help you if you cannot deliver them with confidence. Work on that first, or you'll be disappointed with the results.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:54 PM
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If she's an 8 or 9 or 9+ or 10 (or a 4 without makeup & filters...) what do you think how YOU are different to all the other buffer-using orbiters she has? It's a bait and you happily took a bite. She's got the quick fix of validation everyone is eager to give her. All the time you had to prove to her, that you did not get it and wonder that she unmatched you? And you thought your game is tight. Forget those dumb buffers and approach women.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:45 PM
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You came to the answer to your question within 5 minutes after posting. Not too bad. What is too bad is, that you're not going to pump & dump her straight away, because you're till hoping hypergamy will spare you.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:37 PM
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There's no ultimate answer. My opinion is: Although they usually act within what the red pill predicts... no they're not redpilled. Quiet the opposite, since they are not aware of most of the things that their sexual strategy makes them do and rationalization is the counter-action to swallowing the red pill.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:33 PM
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OH! That must be this freedom, which I keep hearing so much about. Even when companies stop hiring woman, or hire less, this will be attributed to men: Men are too weak, cannot take it when a women stands her ground. And women cannot be expected to work in such a misogynistic environment and where have all the good co-workers gone, that not constantly try to look under you skirt!
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:14 AM
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SL 5x5 has more volume than necessary for a strength program, which it is.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:49 PM
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What I mean is this: Your RP journey is a few days old. From all there is to know about inter-sexual dynamics, you know <20% by now and you have experience with <10% until today and you have <2% improved. Not because you're lazy, because there hasn't been time for more. Example: You call her ex-oneitis and care enough about her to want to fuck her and on top of that get emotional afterwards. You cannot stop thinking of her and even have to post 425 words about that girl, because she's giving you…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:46 PM
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I don't even think I got lucky. That's what's holding you back. Overcome that attitude or you're going to get only so far.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:01 PM
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How do you suggest I operate in my frame and not in hers? Read the fucking sidebar until you understand the concepts. How many time do you need to be told that? Stop expecting users here to explain to you, what authors of the sidebar have spent hours upon hours on. You're no special snowflake, everything which applies to everyone else, applies to you, too. And don't get started on how you got lucky at the party. She was going to fuck you and all you achieved was not ruining her plan. Now you're …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:42 PM
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That's a valid opinion. But the way you present yourself here, I go so far and say you deserve no better.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:57 PM
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Buy him a copy of The Rantional Male #1 and No More Mr. Nice Guy. EDIT: Watch out not to demonize your mom/his wife in conversation. Make him understand that she does so, because he let her have the freedom to do so. And that it is within his power to change that for the better.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:11 PM
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As I see it, since a majority of men are turning Bp’d because of feminism Wrong. Just a detail, but we don't turn BP, we're raised that way. There are some more flaws in your analysis, but I'll ignore that. The point you want to make is clear. I just see an imminent disaster in the next couple decades. With regards to woman, there's always been something to be worried about. And all the time, they were responding positively if you handled them right. It's the same with everything in life: Not ev…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 01:07 PM
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In the beginning you have have enough energy to do additional exercises. After week 12 things start to get a bit harder and later you will have to drop whatever you added or else you will not be able to recover from the trainings. But it is really not necessary. Stick to the program is a good advice.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 12:59 PM
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Be there 15 minutes before the schedule, sitting next to a more attractive girl, when Ms. Maybe arrives. Enjoy her reaction and fuck the other girl.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:46 AM
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1) What do self-negative comments like these actually mean? They're used to get compliments from their facebook-"friends" when ever they say something like that. Pure validation. She's actually asking you to validate her. If she would be ugly, she would know better than to risk anything. She would shut the fuck up and not try to ruin her chances. 2) How can I best counter these comments in a way that lets her know I do find her attractive, but am not about to confess my awe of her beauty just to…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:42 AM
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If you're that guy she wants to facefuck her and you set her up to do it, a lot of woman really like it and may beg you to do it. But it doesn't work like "Hey baby, can I fuck your face, you like that?". Don't talk or ask about it, create the mood/situation and make her want it, make her feel like it's the right thing to do.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:23 AM
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