Now I’m still in my way to become more confident. Though I’m still a beta, I think I’m a alphabet which means i can trick people to believe I’m a alpha but deep inside I’m still a insecure guy. And I’m fine with that cause I’m getting profess from time to time and I now can interacting with people with confidence, that’s something I couldn’t imagine I’d achieve back in the days.

Now the problem I’m facing is texting. I’ve read many posts saying you should never text first causing it shows needy, you shall wait girls to text first. But in my recent experience, most girls wouldn’t text first either, so it usually lead to a fucked up situation that nobody text first. So the chemical just gone and I have to build it up again next time I see them face to face.

So I’m curious, how’d you text a girl while maintaining the confidence and without showing needy?

Now the trick I’m using now is whether I end the conversation with a girl, I’d give her an excuse or reason to text me, so she wouldn’t feel awkward to text me first cause she thought it was me who want to text first. However, I still manage to get the texting conversation going.