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| 5 | How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it)Another thing that hasn't been mentioned is that calling makes you stand out. It shows them you're also confident enough to do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/25 11:46 AM |
| 6 | How To physically Escalate With Women On Dates: A Beginners Guide to Kino EscalationSame idea where you need to escalate slowly. Hopefully if she's in your bed you're already kissing her, but if not that's your first step. Get closer so you're touching bodies as well. From there you can start touching non-erogenous areas. Hip or waist is usually a good start, or the thigh, then gauge her reaction. If she's not pulling away, you can move higher or lower and see how she responds. Then you make a move to remove clothing once she's warmed up a bit. If resistance happens (and it pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/24 11:25 AM |
| 57 | Where Can Men Hit On Women?As is common, blanket statements are polarizing for a lot of people, and wholly inaccurate most of the time. The answer to most questions of "is this appropriate" is usually IT DEPENDS. Talking to women at the gym (or anywhere) is a normal human interaction, and we really need to get away from the idea that men are always trying to pick up or seduce women everywhere they go if they just make a comment, give a compliment or start a normal conversation. Because of this underlying fear that you're … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | General rule with counter offers when given a counter offer - Accept or deny?Go with it and get laid. But make sure it's on a night when you probably can't line anything else up. In your example, having them over Sunday is better than Friday because you can likely line up another date Friday night. Plus then they know they aren't a priority for a prime evening. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How many years (and which) does the Cock Carousel Ride last?Anytime a woman is single and telling herself she is going to "stay that way and find herself" she's going to ride the carousel for a bit. Until she meets a guy she's interested in enough to settle down with or try to lock down. Rinse and repeat. In my experience, right after a breakup I have yet to meet a woman who didn't want to get laid a ton at any age. Could be 22 or could be 42, just their options for what guys will actually bang them change. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 3 | I have no desire to date/marry a woman and want to smash escorts for the rest of my life. Is there anything wrong with that?I’d rather find a handful of escorts that I actually enjoy spending time with and have a decent connection so the sex is better. You know, like regular girls. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it Possible To Get Used To Getting Too Much PussyEventually you get to the point where sex isn't a big deal anymore, because you know you can get it anytime you like. It's a good place. But your attention could be better off directed towards something else for sure. Like making money, or getting really good at something. So change your focus into something more productive. Keep a plate or two, the best ones, and then rotate in a third every once in a while for variety. For me, that's my sweet spot. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 12:53 AM |
| 5 | LTR and business tripsYou already blew it and made yourself look like a jealous loser by bringing it up. And you sound like you're completely insecure. Break up with her already, the writing is on the wall. No question the relationship is over, and it has nothing to do with her new job. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 4 | She texted me again after > 2 weeksDepends on the message. Think of it as a way to practice and see how long it takes you to get her into bed. Yes, she had a better option that bailed, but that doesn't mean you can't get laid. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 16 | Father started dating an alpha widow. Can this even end well?I would make sure my father doesn’t even begin to financially tie himself to her. He sounds like he lacks confidence and is therefore a prime target for scammers. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 0 | Is the sexual market place running dry 1 year into lockdowns?Only thing it affected for me is women sometimes want to chat virtually before meeting. Sex isn’t as quick but otherwise people are lonely so it’s actually easier to meet people. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 68 | Spent a weekend with LTR. Bored out of my fucking mind+Multiple other issues.All I got after reading that is why are you with this girl? You don’t even like her. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 10:40 AM |
| 8 | Why would a woman who earns more than me be interested?Women aren't attracted to money right away. If you're a good looking guy, friendly and in a female dominant environment you'll get lots of women who could be interested. The good news is because of social status they might just want to plate you. Wouldn't it be great to be nailing a hot doctor from work? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | When a girl you've fucked texts you "what are you doing?" is she tryna come over or just get attention?It means she's wondering if you're free. That usually means she wants to hook up. Women are spontaneous and emotional, especially when drunk/high. Take advantage of it. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:07 AM |
| 4 | GF no longer gets wet during sexThis. Hormones, especially birth control or anti-depressants can change this a lot. Odds are it's nothing like cheating, she's just adjusted something. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:05 AM |
| 141 | Anyone else lose interest in a woman after learning she has children?I'm in my mid forties so this is pretty normal. And it's actually a good indicator of what kind of person they are. If they are a terrible parent, odds are they are a terrible option for getting involved with, even just for sex. But yes, for guys under 30 don't bother. EVER. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 11:03 AM |
| 288 | Using a slut financially?You have a sugar mommy. Enjoy it while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 29 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?When I started using Tinder it was an eye opener. Like okay, we are banging at your place on the first or second date. Odds are you’ve done this with a lot of guys before me. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 02:40 PM |
| 71 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?I’ve met women who hit thirty with three digits in their kill counts. And it doesn’t surprise me at all. One actually lied to a guy she wanted to marry. Told him it was about thirty when I knew she had banged over a hundred guys. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 01:42 PM |
| 3 | The Sex God Method claims that your LTR has no reason to cheat if you are the best fuck she's ever had in her life, is this true?Women are driven by emotional, not physical. So you can be the best sex she's ever had and if a guy comes along and gives her the right feels it won't matter. So enjoy the sex because YOU like it, don't make everything based around her. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Haven’t been laid in 3 years. Is there something wrong with me?Judging from reading your responses, the thing that's holding you back is your personality and that you have zero self-confidence or game. Work on your insecurities. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 08:37 AM |
| 19 | Are girls with boyfriends/husbands easier?Women who are in relationships love to flirt because it gives them a thrill without risk of losing their relationship. Use them as practice for your own flirting skills so you don't come off as a creep with women who aren't with someone. As much as people would have you think otherwise, most women just want attention, not sex if they are giving you IOIs. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 08:34 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andSo I'm much older in my mid to late 40's. Got divorced when I was 40 and have been moving up ever since, which was about a year or two after I found TRP. I wouldn't call myself top 10% only because income wise and physique wise I'm not top tier. But I have a harem of women available to me at any time and two successful businesses that weren't affected at all by COVID, all while being a part time Dad to two small kids. However, while I can get laid whenever I want it's not with the women I really… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 9 | Girl who checks her phone constantly takes a day to reply. Next?If a girl isn’t responding she’s not interested. At least not as interested in you as the five other guys she’s texting with constantly. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 83 | Just seeking adive if i'm doing right - Took the Red pill and stopped being the nice husband since a month and here is what happenedMy only advice is take it slow. A lot of guys blow up their marriages by going from dread level 1 to 10 in way too short a time. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 12:46 PM |
| 8 | Becoming a dating coach as a side hustleIf you position it right it could work - which would be catering to high school males. No adult is going to take dating advice from you. But it would be a good way to establish credibility and make a bit of money, obviously high school kids can’t pay as much. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with the post first date lay hamsterTell her to pickup takeout and bring it to your place because you want to show her XYZ whatever. And you'll supply the wine. Why even go out? She knows you want to bang her again. She just needs plausible deniability. Give it to her. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | My manager hints at me to do more overtime to help with promotion, but I work hard and efficiently to get my shit done. What do?If you're on a training contract and just waiting ignore it and do whatever you need to so that you can get your qualification done. That should be the priority. Then your doors open and if you're part of a company with that type of culture, you can leave if you don't like it. Corporate culture is a big part of any job for being happy. But in your situation I wouldn't leave, I'd just ignore and keep doing what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 6 | How Do I Fuck an emotional connection requirement slut?You don’t bother. Although if she wanted you enough you can bet she wouldn’t care about a connection at all. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Getting a Pay RaiseEmployers know that the job market is competitive and if someone else is offering you 20% more then you’re probably being underpaid. Give them a chance to match it if you like where you are. Odds are they will say so and you’ll take the other job. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 04:49 PM |
| -3 | Older men who stopped visiting clubs, where is your go to place meet new girls?The internet. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?This is part of the problem around here. Young guys getting caught up in attitudes that won't help them. Having a hard rule that all women over 30 are useless is just self-defeating. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 12:17 PM |
| 4 | How do I navigate my LTR taking a bartending job without losing frame?Think about it. You’re in a new town, she wants to work and found a job. Just happens to be in a place you don’t like because it makes you feel insecure. If she is truly a HB9, when she gets a nursing job she will be getting hit on by doctors who make way more money than you do. At least at the bar it’s just drunken rednecks. Either way, you need to work on your insecurity and start not caring if she does cheat and you have to dump her. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 11:44 AM |
| 10 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?The OP asked for a situation, I gave him one. Your limited view that women over 30 aren't worth it is part of the reason most guys can't get laid anymore. I currently have a 42 year old in my roster that turns heads everywhere she goes. And also a 27 year old who is a full submissive. My range is wide because I don't ignore the fact that there are hot women out there over 30. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 09:22 AM |
| 35 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?I'm a personal trainer with a good business and a published author on the side, which women find really interesting. I do archery and lots of other active stuff. I have a really cute dog. One girl told me once all I need is a motorcycle and I have all my female bases covered. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 19 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?Not as good as I am now of course, but I did pretty well. And I use apps pretty much exclusively. Have zero time for things like cold approaches and my country has been locked down anyway. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 85 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?I game and spin plates on easy mode, usually about 3-4 at any given time. I’m about a 7, maybe an 8 considering I’m in my mid 40s and still in good shape with interesting jobs and hobbies. Learning to not care about what others think and also not care about rejection are really key. There’s so many women available you have zero need to be concerned if one decides you aren’t for them. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I can't lift due to my heart condition, what do i do?I have an ascending aortic aneurysm so I know what this is like. It sucks for sure. You can still develop a decent physique with bodyweight stuff (done mildly) and just realize that your priorities need to change. You aren’t going to be jacked, but ripped and athletic is no problem. I haven’t lifted over 100 pounds in about five years and I’m doing just fine. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 39 | Failed to fuck my hottest date. Long field report - looking for feedback.If a girl is being that much of a hassle just let her give you oral or a handjob and call it a night. Wow, you wasted a lot of time. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 3 | How much of a problem are overweight girls in the US?75% of the population is overweight or obese. May the odds be ever in your favour. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Nerves during cold approachingMy attitude is always that you have to learn to walk before you run. Jumping right into cold approaching girls when you aren't used to it is tough. At the beginning, try to just strike up conversations with ANYONE. Guys, girls, walking around a mall and going into stores. Asking questions about things. Whatever you can do to feel more comfortable talking to strangers. Then once you feel warmed up you can hit approaching women. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How to increase work capacity?I use something called the Pomodoro method. Set a timer for 25 minutes, when it goes off take a five minute break. Apply as many times as needed towards whatever you’re doing. For me after every four intervals I take 30 minutes off to clear my head. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 6 | Meaning behind textShe’s not interested. Pushes you off for weeks is bad enough, but then she’s controlling the next interaction. Forget her. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve recently started seeing just tested positive for COVID - how to go about on keeping the tension alive?What kills me about this question is the guy is more worried about keeping the girl on the hook than the fact he more than likely has COVID. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 6 | My Tinder profile says I'm bad newsWhy would you put something like that on your profile if you didn’t have any idea what to say to back it up? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Best solo-vacation getaways & ideas?When I was single I went on an adventure tour group specifically catering to singles. It was to Ecuador and we got to do all sorts of cool stuff hiking and mountain biking, plus it was my age group so everyone was super chill and partied. Hooked up with a girl for the last three nights. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 26 | FOR MEN: Don’t have kids until your 40My first comment is not 19-23 for the girls age. From 19-27 most women are establishing new things, doing flaky stuff and have little interest in stability. If your goal is to find a life partner 27-32 if you’re 40 stands much less chance of divorce rape because your young wife decided to find herself after popping out a kid too early. And there are plenty of decent women still in that age bracket that aren’t completely used up and have somewhat okay values. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 79 | Girl Stopped Midway through Sex and Refused to do Anything in the Morning Except CuddleShe made a weird sound and you called her out on it. Which resulted in her being embarrassed. So then she’s uncomfortable. And then you argued with her about it, which was probably worse. And then ignored her and went to sleep. She stuck around, but she probably remembered the night before and shut herself down. No big deal, but you might need some damage control a bit. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 09:16 AM |
| 28 | Extreme LMR: WTF?? Is this girl nuts or did I do something wrong?The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Don’t mess with a crazy girl. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 12:26 PM |
| 9 | Is being the life of the party a good strategy to gaining reputation/female interest?If you try to play a role you’re not comfortable with, you’ll come off as not genuine and people will notice. Sometimes that center of attention is the guy that eventually gets drunk or becomes a desperate try hard. If you’re better off one on one then target specific people and work them like that. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 11:41 AM |
| 51 | Getting One Night Stands From Dating Apps: Know the SignsOne major lesson many guys have to learn is that women want sex too. And sometimes they just want to hook up and be done with it. Don’t be afraid of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you escalate to her placeAll they need is plausible deniability. "Oh, he came up to do x and we had sex...whoops!" So use your words - ask her to see something she talked about. Vacation photos are always cool, or a new Netflix show or a song on her computer. Meet her dog/cat/goldfish. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Peaking in your 30sI'm 45 and can easily have sex 3-4 times a week. Keep lifting, make sure your test levels are decent and you don't eat like crap. Get sleep. I'm horny all the time. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys fuck 6’s and below?Why are you ashamed of yourself? You got laid. Nobody cares what she looked like except apparently you unless you're planning on posting it on Instagram. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Vetting prostitutesLegit escorts will have a Twitter profile and be listed on decent escort sites (won’t name them but there are several). They may also ask for verification. It’s pretty easy to tell. I’m never worried about cops, I’m worried about the girl ripping you off. That is far more common. Cops don’t care about hookers unless there is a chance of human trafficking. Long story short, don’t pick up street girls or ones off of sketchy web sites with no proof of who they are. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 10:37 AM |
| 20 | Tinder Experiment - A Tale of 2 ProfilesIf you dont think most women today are over 150 I have news for you. Unless they are shorter than 5'3''. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/20 02:03 PM |
| 27 | What are some “crazy” red flags?There are personality traits if you vet them a bit. A couple of big ones are being estranged from their family and having mainly male friends. Oversharing right out of the gate, especially about trauma can be a big one as well. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Lying to Sugar Babies for Free Sex: Remember the amorality of sexual strategyMy city has over a million people and a big swingers community and Feeld was barely populated. Maybe it just hasn't caught on in Canada. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 13 | Signs of a CheaterOne thing to remember is that you should always be in a head space where if she's cheating, you really don't care and it's her loss. Always be ready to just walk away and make sure she knows you will at any time. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | What are the odds a girl accepts going to a hotel/her place on the first dateIf you have good text skills and know she's already into you and flirting hard then your odds go up a lot. But if you suggest it right off the bat you'll get shot down every time. Few girls will just come out and say lets bang unless you have God tier aesthetics. In my experience I got action on the first date about 1 out of 10 times. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | What’s your take on a man with a low libido?Bottom line is, he isn't interested in sex. At least with you. If it was a man asking I'd simply say what do you want to do about it? You have a choice. Accept a sexless life or leave. No man chooses to not have sex for four years unless they are asexual or have no test. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 123 | To all my teenage RPers, taking care of your hygiene and environment should be your number 1 priority.Things I wish I'd known when I was a teenager: stop fapping so much, work out regularly (even at home) and keep your damned face clean. Would have prevented 95% of my problems in high school and severely helped my self-esteem. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/20 07:05 PM |
| 291 | How to get a Girlfriend in the Modern Age of Social MediaThis is exactly why you spin plates, ie date and have sex with multiple women at the same time. Another part of this I'd add from a psychology piece is we are trained to feel guilty for this type of behaviour as men. Don't let society tell you that being a "player" or a "fuckboi" is a bad thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | When to ask for second dateText her "hey, I'm going to do xyz (make something up) you should join me." If she responds start flirting and find an excuse for her to come over to your place. Even if she's busy already if she's interested she will find a way to make it obvious she wants to see you, even if it's "I'm already doing xyz but you can come." | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | She told me she still had feelings for her ex after four dates and feels like cheating on him when she kisses me - why did she lead me on and not tell me earlier ?No fifth date, stop wasting your time. After date three you should have said forget it, especially if by that point you were already done. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestLearning game is a process and provides benefits beyond just getting paid. It develops social skills, charisma and self-confidence. It takes a lot of balls to walk up to a gorgeous girl and try to chat her up out of the blue. That skill will lend itself to other venues like job interviews, making decisions and developing decent relationships outside of the sexual sphere. I have no problem with guys that pay for it (and actually think that more men should), but I also can respect a guy who can wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How can I better recognize attention whores on tinder?Stop asking on a Monday. Set things up on a Thursday and make sure you have multiple options for flakes. Girls book plans with their best options. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 11:32 PM |
| 5 | Overwhelming amount of women claiming they’ve been sexual assaultedI believe all those women want to tell someone they were sexually assaulted. Except of course, the police . | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | LTR has BPD, suspecting that she's been cheating and lying. I'm looking for a way out, am I right?Why would you feel the need to do this? To satisfy her for some reason? Or validate it to yourself. Either way just forget about it. She's a lost cause and the longer you prolong it the more you're wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 7 | Do the married milfs who hardcore flirt with you just want attention or are they actually tryina fuck?If a woman really wants you for sex, you'll know it. Otherwise they are just looking for attention. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Seasoned rothers, telling from your experienced, is there a pattern in what women are the best in bed? 10s? Average girls? Can you elaborate on which of your plates were the best lays?The ones who actually enjoy sex. And feel like they have something to prove. A close third is girls who really want to experiment and you show them you're much more experienced. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Pay to play - advice from those who've frequently paid for sex. Does it get old?It's like going to the casino. Don't gamble money you can't afford to lose. Build skills to seduce women properly and reap rewards everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 12:09 AM |
| 4 | In the days of metoo. how do you prevent these whores from ruining your life?1) watch out for red flags upon meeting/1st dates. 2) don't be a prick when it comes to sex. 3) be charismatic and likeable. 4) document everything and save evidence. These will cover virtually everything. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 75 | Do women really like older guys? Whats your experience like?Being older can be an asset for sure. You typically have money, fun hobbies or cool assets and stability, things that are important to a lot of women. But just like any other man, if you have nothing going for you and have low SMV you'll still have trouble. I got laid in my 40s WAY more than in my 20s when I was single, anywhere from 25 year olds to 50 year olds. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | What is a very important skill a person should learn in order to be successful in the world today?Effective communication. You need to be able to not only sell, but speak to 100 people as easily as you can to 1. And also be able to do it on the spot if you need to. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 05:51 PM |
| 26 | What professions / hobbies do you consider a red flag for an LTR?Hobbies that are heavily male dominated are typically a red flag that they crave attention. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Best sites for hookers that aren’t scams? For a 24 yr old trying to lose his v cardLook for local escort REVIEW sites. Lyla.com is a popular one in Canada. Then dig down to your area and look for well reviewed women or post what you are searching for. You can also look on Twitter locally as well. Sex workers are still allowed to have accounts, and you can access web sites, etc. Don't just hire anyone out of desperation. If it's your first time make your money count with a good experience. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Protection for rape allegationAlways text after, asking a question about something you talked about and say you had s great time. Their response will be positive and then you have evidence they weren't under distress. Even if you pump and dump as long as you don't treat them like garbage you should be fine. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 02:28 PM |
| 9 | My Guide To Going Out Alone And Getting LaidFor the older crowd, if you aren't into nightclub game and look decent, look into good live music venues in your city. There are always groups of women there, easy to open and talk about similar tastes in music. Dancing is optional but a great way to guage interest. Demographic skews older for sure but if you're 30 plus or especially over 40 (like me) it's very similar to what OP describes. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/19 02:49 PM |
| 19 | what are some good responses to “what are you on tinder for?”Best line is something along the lines of whatever they have in their profile. Ie "looking for a good man." = I'm looking for a good woman. I'm also never looking for hookups, I'd rather get to know the person first. Which is total BS and guaranteed that I'm in their pants second date. They lie, so you can too. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 01:48 AM |
| 9 | Question about backdoor positions.If you have been doing anal without lube then that pretty much says it all. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Inviting girl with BF on date: is she open to fucking?She would rather watch a movie than go to a party she knew you were at. And you never invited her out on a date, I'm willing to bet if you actually did she would find an excuse to not show up or flake last minute. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | What are some big green flags you find on Tinder profiles and the best types of photos you've seen?I find a big green flag is a girl who jokes about sex. Another one is when they say no hookups. It means they have done it before and gotten burned so if you have good game they will be easy to get into bed. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Inviting girl with BF on date: is she open to fucking?Dude, she's not interested. And you sound desperate. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 12:55 PM |
| 3 | To those of you who have seen an escort..Bring cash in an unmarked envelope. Do not bring anything else valuable. Leave wallet, cell phone etc in your car. Don't pay for some random internet girl. Established ones only. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 3 | I created a post on a subreddit and I got banned for "being red pill"I had the same experience on sexover30. As soon as anyone sees posts or comments on TRP they judge immediately. People don't like to hear the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 03:13 PM |
| 42 | Ok. I’m 53 divorced with 2 teenagers living at home. I am new to RP. I am seeing mostly posts from very young people. I am curious to know how many people on asktrp are close to my age and predicament?I'm 44. There are older guys here. Many of us just don't bother posting much because of the population being much younger and the same advice doesn't always resonate. If you post about your predicament we can all make a point of chiming in. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:21 PM |
| 3 | What advise do you wish you were when you were attending university?Remember that university is a fantastic time to network with profs, social clubs and possibly even future employers. Meet and be friendly with everyone and make note of people who can help you. Often in the real world it's not what you know, it's who you know. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 55 | Funny piece of advice from an r/askreddit post got me laidCan verify the button down and rolled sleeves. A female fashion consultant told me it's the perfect first date look for any woman. | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | balding, really small dick, lost all motivation for being with women - how do I get my game back?Shave your head and own it. If you have confidence it makes you look that much better. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 11:08 AM |
| 46 | Quick Tip for a date idea that saves YOU money, gives you more exposure, and nets you value even if it doesn’t work out.This is actually my go to on a third date usually and I get laid 90% of the time. If they are comfortable enough to come to your house just cook and have a bottle of wine and you're golden. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/19 10:49 PM |
| 8 | So looking like a bodybuilder, acting like an asshole, bringing home 6 figures puts you in the top 20 percent of men?I look like I'm in shape (athletic), can converse and have decent game, and don't make six figures and can still get laid any weekend I feel like it. It's about your attitude and approach, not the tangible things. They might help, but aren't 100% necessary. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:23 PM |
| 16 | LTR came home from club 2 in the morningIf she's a PT then just reduce her to plate. I've been in that industry for years and cheating is almost assumed. Especially if she has a guy workout partner. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Saw something suspicious on LTR’s phone... how to proceed?How do you know how old the search is? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What are the professions with the sluttiest women?If you're looking for legit professions then I never met a teacher who wasn't down for partying and an easy hookup. And sales. Any attractive female sales rep especially in pharma were super slutty. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 10:39 AM |
| 1 | After 12 years of marriage back on the dating scene.Online my friend. If you just want to get your feet wet and have fun Tinder is a gold mine for guys your age, especially if you're fun and attractive. It's a whole different world out there and can be a ton of new experiences if you approach it the right way. | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Any thoughts on the Bagel Boss Guy Fiasco?There's probably dozens of men just like hum who instead of acting out in public just go home and kill themselves. And nobody notices or cares. A bit of a wake up call if you're worried about ever being that guy. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 12:06 PM |
| 1 | so are 80 percent of women really only chasing 20 percent of guys and if so who are those 20 percent? Athletes, criminals, doctors?As much as the younger guys want to have sex with 18-24 year olds, some of us older guys could care less. I'd much rather have a good time with an over 30 woman who is drama free and just enjoys no strings sex. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 12:31 PM |
| 3 | so are 80 percent of women really only chasing 20 percent of guys and if so who are those 20 percent? Athletes, criminals, doctors?And as you get older it's easier to be top 20, not harder. Because of my job and the fact I'm in shape and can carry a good conversation I can get laid literally any time. And I'm in my mid 40s. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 10:35 AM |
| 3 | “I don’t put out on dates 1-6”I'd make it a goal to make sure you have sex with her by at least date 3, which should not be a problem at all. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:36 PM |
| 10 | Got my girlfriend pregnant. What should I do?Don't have a child you don't want 100% (either of you) and you aren't prepared for. Parenthood is serious business and from what you have described neither of you are ready. Abortion is okay in this situation. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 03:44 PM |
| 19 | Wedding “date” with female coworker? Both in LTR’s?You had clear IOIs that you could have done something but you made the smart move and didn't. Enjoy the fact that she wanted you to and move on. Keep friendly with her though, because it would be very easy for her to turn the tables and claim to everyone that you made a move in the car and she rejected you. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 11:08 AM |
| 12 | Any material on resort/vacation game?Be fun. Be outgoing. Use alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | What are some podcasts you guys listen to?Jordan Harbinger, Jocko and Order of Man. James Altucher is weird but he has some fantastic guests. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 01:08 AM |
| 30 | How to respond to tinder messageToday on asktrp: How to actually have a conversation with another person. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 05:46 PM |
| 2 | What are people opinions of tinder? Recently broke up with my girl after learning she is a cheat and wanting to get back in the gameMost guys here will condemn online game but I did very well and once you have a system down could easily get laid every weekend. Problem is you actually have to be attractive and have social skills. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 09:08 PM |
| 9 | young bloods: what the hell do you Snapchat and how do you use it to game bitches?Gaming on social media = no. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 10:32 PM |
| 13 | Which relationship was your "awakening" on redpill stuff? I'm 22 and I've made every mistake in the book already' how many times did you mess up before you really got it?My main fuck up was my marriage. Which only ended when I was 40. Looking back I had a lot of others but my eyes weren't open until after that. Now I can reflect and realize how many times I should have done something different. All that matters is that you learn from your mistakes if you can. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | It's a numbers gameZomg your life is over. At the age of 39 I started fronting a band and at 42 I put together a beach volleyball team. You need to change your outlook and stop thinking it's too late. You have maybe 60 years left to do stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 07:39 AM |
| 4 | The Safest Way To Build WealthWhy make it this complicated? Index funds and balance it with bond funds depending on your age and risk level, dollar cost average your initial investment and don't touch it. What is most important is saving money automatically, which if you have an actual paycheck you can do without even noticing. Also, cashing in on contributions to things like RRSPs and 401ks from your employer, which is essentially free money. My LTR gets 8k a year from her employer without doing a thing except contributing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Raw vs condom enjoyability level during sex. Does it feel way better for girls too?Amazing sex has little to do with wearing a condom or not. And think ahead five years when you have a small child - would you go back and tell yourself to wrap it up? Yep. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:50 PM |
| 5 | I discovered that my tinder match is a neighbor !I would intentionally set my Tinder to within 3km sometimes just to be able to have close access. It's a good strategy. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:00 PM |
| 6 | Speed dating has joined the 21 century.I did speed dating twice and it was a goldmine in my 40s. So much desperation from across the table while I just didn't care and treated it as a social experiment. Yes, stay in shape, dress well and be able to carry conversation properly. Just by doing these things you're way ahead of 80% of 40 year olds. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/19 02:53 PM |
| 16 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?You would be amazed how many men in long term relationships or married barely get sex once a month or less. It's what finally led to my divorce, but there's lots of other guys that just accept it and live without. I'd be willing to bet if you included guys have sex less than once a week on average over the last year that number would skyrocket to 80-90%. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Talking to women in the workplace?Yes of course it is, and you're smart to do so. Think of it as practice with people you have zero outcome dependence with. Small talk is an actual skill a lot of guys don't have and you can get really good at it. When building friendships, just treat them like a distant cousin. Not friend, not someone you want to bang but someone you keep a casual interaction with. If they flirt, ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 10:27 AM |
| 46 | Drunk "wanna fuck later" text. Shit test?The guy hadn't fucked her yet and she offered it up on a platter. I'd jump on it. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 07:44 PM |
| 148 | Drunk "wanna fuck later" text. Shit test?Always strike when the iron is hot. Shouldn't have delayed it, it gave her a chance to hook up with someone else. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Effective way to set up datesYou don't care what she's up to or what happens this week. You want her to meet up with you so just tell her a place and time. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Effective way to set up datesAlways make a defined date and time and tell her, don't ask. Like meet me at x bar Friday at 8, don't ask what day is better for her or when she is available. If she's interested but busy she will suggest an alternate time. You pick the place, don't ask what she likes or say what does she want to do. Always lead. The amount of women I had compliment me when I just took charge was a big eye opener. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Question on how to pick up girls when you are olderIt's actually easier. Younger women if you choose carefully are more attracted and older women know what they want and tend to be super easy to get into bed. If you're in good shape for your age and have good pictures, jump on Tinder. It was like a smorgasbord for me at 42. Dated any age from 22 right to 49 and got laid without even trying. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Do you hookup in public on your dates ?If it's a first date keep it private unless she initiates it. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this switch??yes im into this ONE Girl..But is it oneitis? Yes. not lead her on, Don't concern yourself with this. She knows the situation going in and let her deal with it herself. Stop caring about what she wants. And how the fuck do I figure out of staying with her and having amazing sex Find other women to have sex with and she won't be as important. If your wife is okay with it then you should be able to easily spin a couple of other women. Have you tried to get your wife back into sexual activity? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 01:02 PM |
| 10 | All the 9's I hook up have issues.Hot/crazy matrix is a thing, look it up. This is why top end women are often great for plating only, but definitely not relationship material. Because of society's fixation on attractiveness they have been warped from their teen years to have a very different perspective. What I prefer much more is the women that were not attractive as teens but then clean themselves up in their 20's and are usually 8's and 9's but much more grounded. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:59 PM |
| 25 | “That’s the only reason you want to see me?”Me: let’s say that’s true , what would be wrong with that ? Women do the same no one bats an eye lid , so what did you have in mind? This is just stupid. You deserve to not get laid. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:27 AM |
| 5 | LTR of 3 years at her breaking pointThe simple fact you're negotiating this means it is a sunk cost fallacy. She wants traditional marriage and kids, you don't. It also sounds like she doesn't really respect your level of status financially in life. You would be better off finding another girl who has the same mindset or just being happy spinning plates with an occasional LTR. Whether or not it is a loss of frame doesn't really matter. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:25 PM |
| 3 | I know girls pairbond more with PIV sex. But what about blow jobs? Same effect regarding pairbonding?Pairbonding is generally generated through oxytocin, which is normally only released during sex and orgasm. However, I would imagine if the girl is really into giving oral and wants to badly, it might have the same effect. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:21 PM |
| 16 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.You got comfortable and likely didn't see warning signs. Lesson learned to be vigilant and not complacent. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Not the smoothest sailor? (Tinder LMR)Sounds like way too aggressive especially for a first meet. Some women need to be convinced it is their decision to go home with you and get into bed rather than you ramming it down their throats. Work on that side of things. All she needed was some plausible deniability. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:51 AM |
| 10 | Friends GF of 8yrs has been posting a sexy selfie once a week on average for the last few months. A sign she is bored/signaling for Chads to come in?She wants attention, likely from people other than him because she's bored. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Can't lift due to injury. Huge source of confidence gone. What now?Have you tried isometric contractions? That's where you contract against a load and don't move the muscle. Therefore you're not moving the irritated area across the joint. It may be an option and can provide strength gains. You might have to think outside of the box a bit, but there are still ways you can keep strength and develop muscle without doing traditional compound lifting. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 09:36 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with AMOGs physically pushing you out of set?Depends on context. Were you approaching multiple groups before them? He may have seen you do it with others and just got annoyed when you approached someone he knew. Either way just shake it off and keep doing what you were doing. No sense getting into a fight. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Career advice for M28 - CanadaWith most jobs in that industry, it's not what you know, it's who you know - so networking is key. Do you know what job you're actually targeting? If you're 28 the idea should be to build skills and make your resume better, leaning towards whatever niche or area you think you will enjoy most. Also, if you've been at one place more than a couple of years it's time to move on. Most big salary jumps come from moving to a new company. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 08:04 AM |
| 6 | Bombed a hookup. How to recover mentally from this?No plates atm Work on this. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:16 PM |
| 18 | So women will fuck a guy just because he’s got looks?Do you fuck women just because they are hot? The answer is yes. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How did I do to this shit test ? Dinner first dateYou handled it fine. And make sure if you do have dinner you don't pay for her. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Heading to Czech Republic and my friends flatmates are two single girlsYou don't have to approach them because they live there. First night (or couple of nights) just have fun with your friend like you should. Invite them along and include them in activities. Use subtle game and let them figure out which one likes you more, then focus on that one. After a couple of days and if your friend won't get pissed isolate her somehow - like hey I want someone to show me x but my friend isn't available. If she bites then escalate normally. Last couple of nights you're there … | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:38 PM |
| 5 | If I asked this in any other subreddit, they'll probably tell me to be honest and work hard. You guys know how at corporate jobs there's always that one douche that some people hate (typically lower-level employees) because he talked his way to the top? How do you become that "asshole" in life?If only there was a way to look at previous posts that people have made on a web site that might show that someone isn't full of shit. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:20 PM |
| 9 | Tinder girl told me she is on her period, and if I still want to hang out.Her mouth still works. And towels are also something most people own. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | When/What to say after sex to continue things?There's nothing wrong with saying "hey I'd like to see you again, let's do x on y date". If you think she's down for just more sex then suggest dinner at your place or something else where she has plausible deniability. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 10:19 AM |
| 4 | How many partners have you had and what is your mentality like?The only time I counted was after my divorce when I racked up over 20 women in less than two years (and had two relationships during that time too). I needed validation that I could get laid any time I wanted to in order to stop worrying so much about NOT getting laid. Now I'm over it and have settled down but that confidence still stays. I think what most men need to do is be a man whore for a while in order to discover what they really want. Unfortunately most men have no ability to do so beca… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 09:49 AM |
| 3 | How to invite plate who's DEERing me over for sex without triggering ASD?Stop reaching out. If you've been spamming her with wanting to see her the attraction may have dropped on her end. She also may not feel the same way about the rough sex. You'll know if it's a lost cause if she doesn't contact you. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 06:26 AM |
| 8 | What’s the best way to deal with someone trying to AMOG/start shit with you?Exactly like you did. Ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Should I keep banging these 5 and 6s whom I’m not attracted to?I personally would (and have) but you do you. You can still game the 9 while you're banging the 5s and 6s when you feel like it. If the 9 becomes a plate, let go of one or two of the lower hanging fruit. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Single mothers as plates..?Single mothers make great plates, but get attached easily. Tread carefully and keep things fun and you're good. Expect that as soon as she can she will try to either lock you down or find another guy who will commit. That's what they really want. But enjoy it while it lasts. And don't have anything to do with the kid. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Plate qualityIf she did it with you, she's done it with other people. First rule to remember. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 01:46 PM |
| 18 | How long before you can stop using plausible deniability?Once you've established the sexual vibe you can do it any time. Just realize that many girls won't just "come over" without a reason even though they know you want them over to fuck. Make up a good reason. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:30 PM |
| 5 | How to handle LTR business trip?It's for work so there's no choice. My strategy would be to establish how much you'll talk beforehand and expect that sometimes she will be out, unavailable etc. Be an adult about it. Remember if she wants to cheat she's going to. Unlike what many people think here many women are faithful for the right guy. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | What books to reas on the topic of TRP?There is a reading list on the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 01:33 PM |
| 14 | Are some of you guys still finding success with Tinder? I am shocked.Hope you got your validation. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 10:40 AM |
| 7 | What kind of results is the average guy getting on dating apps?I was on Tinder and would rate myself about a 7 with a decent profile and good pictures. Would always get at least 1-2 dozen matches within the first few days and this would always translate into at least 1 in 4 with a date. This would mean within a couple of weeks I'd get laid every weekend at least and have 3-4 girls on the go, which was my standard operating number. Once matches or dates dried up I would delete profile, wait a couple of days and rinse and repeat. Edit: Honest numbers for thei… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Ex who I’m currently dating won’t make any effort for me and I feel like she’s taking me for granted.She knows she's got you wrapped so has no respect for you obviously. If you want to stay then start dread immediately. But you made a mistake even going back to an ex. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:26 PM |
| 12 | Should I join a fraternity?It will help you socially, be great networking for after you graduate, and increase your chances of getting laid a lot. Isn't that a no brainer? Just pick wisely and join a decent one. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 09:29 AM |
| 18 | TYO: Taking a Girl's Virginity, +1 Tokyo [FR]That's not even day game. It took him seven dates to get laid. That's month game. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | My hockey team has game 7 finals for the league tonight. She booked us a trip a month ago.Pay her back for the one night you'll miss and drive the next day. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 06:48 PM |
| 9 | Thinking of moving my plate into LTR. Looking for advice.If you're under 25 don't bother with an LTR. Period. Girls will come and go, both good and bad. Enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Have you been friendzoned AFTER you have already fucked?If they lose attraction, this can happen quickly (because you're too needy after the event or suck in bed) or over a long period of time (because you shift into beta mode and change the behaviour that landed her in the first place). | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:24 PM |
| 39 | What does it mean when she will refuse sex for various reasons but offer a blowjob?If she stops offering then you have a problem. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?If you're already looking at banging other women then I'd stop going bareback even if she is on the pill or at least start period tracking and wear a condom when you need to. At your age don't risk your sexual future (ie stopping having sex with others) with a 19 year old. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Got falsely accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed? (Part 3)Unfortunately you've now taken a relatively small situation (since nobody seems to care and you have very little case) and blown it up even more. The court of public opinion can only be swayed if you have proof people care about. You have two choices, ignore Bob and Sally completely from now on (which is what you should have done first) and move on, or transfer schools. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:56 AM |
| 12 | what RP stuff do you read which DOES NOT revolve around women?Anything stoicism based, usually a good place to start is Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 06:07 PM |
| 15 | The day I went the most pathetic beta in my life and ended up having the WORST sex of my life... with the woman who assured I was the "love of her life"Several weeks later she contacted me again saying how much she missed to talk to me. She missed TALKING to you. Because the whole time you were her emotional tampon that she finally threw a pity fuck at. And you knew it the whole time which is why you couldn't even get it up or finish the act. Learning to listen to your gut is probably one of the hardest lessons we all learn, but it never steers you wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/19 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Dating, plating and etc... when you're in AA and fully soberPick up girls in other places? There's tons of things you can do and events you can go to that don't revolve around alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 01:52 AM |
| 24 | is the red pill a cheat code to a game ?This is life, not a video game. Get out of your parents basement. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 07:48 PM |
| 29 | Beta dude thought he was in a relationship, not according to his girlfriend thoIf he thought that was a relationship then he got what he deserved. We all need to have our eyes opened sometime. Good thing is he got his early. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/19 05:53 PM |
| 11 | Is it just me or is being intelligent a HUGE handicap when it comes to girls and life in general?High intelligence usually means socially you're stunted a bit, and this is something you need to work on. Immature people also don't like being made to feel stupid, so if you're dating a typical 20 year old woman who can't comment on anything beyond celebrity gossip and partying you're going to have a hard time. Learn to come down to their level to get laid a bit. Find better quality people to hang out with. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Should I meet with this girlYou blew it. Move on. There will be other girls. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 11:46 AM |
| 3 | Ltr has mostly male coworkersI stopped being so insecure. And knew if she messed around I could find another girl just as good or better. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 11:44 AM |
| 3 | how many did you approach before you got laid?Don't obsess about numbers. Think of it as a skill you have to practice and get better at. At the beginning you will suck at it but eventually you will improve. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Does the friend zone existis my ex just a extremely easy hoe Nailed it on the third try. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Should I fuck girls that I'm not that attracted to?So, should I just go on dates with these HB4/5s to practise game and generally get more experience, or hold off and continue increasing my SMV until im able to consistently attract women that I'm actually attracted to? Yes. Don't invest much and work on different aspects of your game while still getting laid when you feel the need. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Good openers for a house party?They are people in your house hanging out. How would you normally talk to them? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 04:25 PM |
| 3 | messed up with a match on Bumble, should i just move on?Move on. If she thought you were attractive enough she would have met you. Also sounds like she's boring. Stop texting and if she re-engages set up a meet and if she balks, stop texting. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Possible false rape accusation incomingTo add what has already been said, see if recording people is legal where you are and if so, record any conversation. Without her knowing obviously. In Canada it's legal as long as you are both involved in the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you all usually sleep with Tinder sluts on the first date?If you have good enough game it can happen, but I find it is very rare unless you have established sexual chemistry before the first date. Second date was probably about 25% lay rate and third was always 100%. So be patient. You shouldn't care whether it's socially acceptable but the girl will, so watch for signs of resistance if you're going to attempt this. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:55 AM |
| 30 | I'm a quintessential loser in their 30's who is wasting away their life. For those younger, please never become me, you'll see why.Since you live with your parents I'd forget about saving for living expenses and hire a therapist. Start exercising (outside if you can) and eating healthy and that will help with the weight and also give you a boost emotionally. Shave your head and own it. 32 means you have potentially over 50 years to go - how do you want to spend them? Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | What's the most sexual response you can come up with to "I thought you liked being kept on your toes"?That's an interesting position but I'll give it a shot. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 10:46 PM |
| 22 | "Sex is not important for a relationship" Shit Test"Sex is important to me." Because it is. If she doesn't like that, next. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 03:18 PM |
| 6 | This really says a lot, woman has perfect life with 'great guy', bails on all of it to go home to dad. I'm all for people being happy but to me this just screams she has no idea what she really wants.Another societal double standard. If a guy were to pick up and leave his wife he would be vilified and told he abandoned her. A woman does it and she's empowering herself. I would also imagine she still demanded half of everything (or more) even though she made the decision to leave. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How to game shy girls?Realize that she may never loosen up and that's okay - you're there to enjoy yourself WITH her, not to entertain her. Also, if you can find things she's interested in she's much more likely to open up and feel comfortable talking to you. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children?I have two little girls. I had my youngest when I turned 40 which was old, but even though I'm now divorced I managed to have them with a basically stable, smart woman who makes good money. The only reason I pay anything financially is that I have to pay my share of child support because for now they are with her 80% of the time (this will change in the coming years which is fine with me). One thing I try hard to do with my girls is be present (which my dad wasn't) and also expose them to things… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 12:14 PM |
| 0 | What does this mean?If she is describing anyone remotely close to you then it means she wants to bang you. Take a hint. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 11:56 AM |
| 6 | Scared to make eye contact with girls in public?So make a point of practicing it. Tell yourself (just like with cold approach) that you're going to make direct eye contact with 3 girls every time you're on the train home. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 11:55 AM |
| 9 | Girl said she wanted FWB but is now ignoring meShe was attracted in the moment and isn't any more. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 08:49 AM |
| 8 | Feeling DisgustedYou have guilt because you actually enjoyed it even though according to society it's wrong. In some circles they call that toxic shame. Look it up and work on it. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 03:32 PM |
| 5 | "But she's the mother of my children!!"And all for naught, as the kids are going to treat him the same way the mother is - a soulless ATM to which neither respect nor gratitude is owed. This is key here. Kids learn by watching, and all they will learn from this guy as a male role model is how to be a doormat rather than what he likely thinks, which is that he's stepping up to take care of them. His kids would be much better off knowing that their dad is the type of man that would kick a cheating lying woman to the curb. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 12:58 PM |
| 20 | Red Pill Gents over 30, does your experience ring true with the idea that SMV peaks around 38?I found that after 35 I had access to a wider range of women, younger AND older and that because I kept myself in shape it was way easier to hit the top 20% of men. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Inheriting My Uncles' $100M Company, Should I Make My Gold-digging Fiance Sign a Pre-Nup?Why would you even care if she can get with other guys? Read up on oneitis and learn to recognize massive red flags. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Inheriting My Uncles' $100M Company, Should I Make My Gold-digging Fiance Sign a Pre-Nup?With that company you will have access to all the hot ass you want. And if shes acting like this before you're even married odds are she has it planned. Dump her now. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Good jobs for the summer?If you don't need the money and want to work on social, retail is your best bet. Larger store the better. Jobs are also easy to get. I also know municipal ie city jobs are usually well paid and there are tons of other students that work at them, depending what you're doing. That has always been a good option. And if drinking age is over 18, then get a job at a bar or restaurant. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | No tinder matchesWell you obviously need something. Usually the first 48 hours on Tinder are the best ones. Your pics or your profile suck. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:25 PM |
| 15 | so let me get this straight women only care about looks, frame and money. And they will all inherently cheat if given the chanceNo. Women will cheat if they either lose attraction, find a higher level mate or have issues. Solution is be attractive, don't care if they leave, and vet your relationships carefully. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 04:52 PM |
| 68 | FR: 1 Day Bumble Lay Whilst TravellingPerfect layout and FR. Most notable was that you were really smart about the push/pull dynamic and had good sense to recognize that she could easily rabbit at any point if you pushed it - this is something a lot of younger guys here need to learn. Plenty of eye contact, which I start holding for longer. This is usually the point where you can figure out if she's going to fuck you or not. If she does this she's thinking hard about it and basically you just have to not fuck it up. If she starts av… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Jesus freak girls.Most religious girls enjoy the conflict of fighting against what their church says, and use it as an excuse to sleep around with a healthy dose of guilt. Just prepare for lots of conflict either way. Honestly it usually isn't worth the trouble. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend drinking is a problem.If she's drinking alone and getting that drunk she's got a serious problem. And yes, binge drinking even once a week is an alcoholic behaviour. If she's in first year university and you've been together for 5.5 years that means you're high school relationship. Dump her and move on, you're young. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 12:52 AM |
| 6 | I was just being nice.It's a shit test probably brought on by you hitting on her at work. And don't bother ever telling women your body count or anything else, especially co-workers. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 12:50 AM |
| 28 | Ex is now engaged. How do I get my mind right?You should tell yourself you feel lucky you're not the guy marrying her. You might have wasted another 4.5 years. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 11:44 PM |
| 12 | Approached a HB7 from my gym, how should I handle this?When you see her at the gym just behave like you did before. Be friendly but don't approach, let her come to you. If she does, great if she doesn't whatever. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Did I escalate too fast?She likely has a little bit of shame because of the fast hookup but ignore it. Don't pressure her and keep it cool and she will likely come back once she's had her guilt trip. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Best time for having kids?You're better off waiting. Kids are something you really need to be 100% ready for yourself, and also able to support and provide for. It is a complete life changer. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | First date at my place?Good luck getting it to happen unless you already have established extreme sexual tension. And be careful because even suggesting it can come off as creepy. Second/third date, no problem. My go to third date (if we got to that point) was always cooking dinner at my place and it gave me a clear signal that they were interested or not, and 100% of the time resulted in third date sex. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 01:13 PM |
| 137 | Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude menBasically any male dominated industry would hopefully laugh and just simply not use the service. These guys need customers to use their service. Only companies that are women focused already would adhere to the obvious double standard this creates. The only reason Bumble is successful is because of thirsty horny guys. And the guys know more girls use it because they feel "safe". Take the Male element away and it's useless. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Am I getting played?If you had more than one option this wouldn't even be an issue. Go find another option. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 10:46 AM |
| 6 | How do I create value if I have absolutely nothing?Bodyweight workouts are free. You can get a used bike for $20 (or free in some places). Nobody knows if your clothes are used. Stop being a whiny bitch and do something. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 10:37 AM |
| 5 | GF going on a night outIt's a work social function. Relax. Now, if she's talking about Chad from work constantly and they are texting all the time it might be different. Watch her actions, not her words. And always remember she's not yours, it's just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Girl has Genital Herpes, but hasnt had an outbreak since 8 yearsThe oneitis is strong in this one. OP, news flash, most girls have herpes and/or HPV. If she's on antivirals and not on an outbreak and you use condoms odds are about 1:40000 you'll get it. For the sake of your obviously virgin sex life I'd say go for it. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Question about Wedding AttendanceDepends on the type of wedding and age, stage of life etc. If most of her friends are already married with kids then not a lot of single women likely so take a plate. Or if there's lots of relatives and not a lot of friends. If she's still young and most of her friends are single and/or unmarried then it's open season and fly solo. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Got invited over to a F30's house this upcoming Sat for a glass of wine, after her KIDS are asleep...I would never have someone over for a hookup when my kids were home. The fact she is willing to do that should speak volumes about her. However, if you've established that it's for a quick hookup and she's down then go for a "glass of wine" and leave 20 minutes later when you're done. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Victimhood Society - British MGTOWevery time I would tell her depression is bullshit. And then she would claim victimhood over that too. Real depression isn't bullshit, it is actually a real chemical issue for many people. What you fail to realize is that the thing that this girl was craving was the attention that her condition created. There are many women who claim various things (sexual assault, mental illness, etc.) because it gives them the attention that they are truly craving. Creating an inversion to masculinity by calli… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | If you have herpes, do you tell girls?If I knew I did I would disclose it. Had a plate who (after she dated me) had a guy who went down on her while he had a cold sore - knowingly - and she caught it from him. She was devastated obviously because it changed her sex life forever. Don't be an asshole with other people's sexual health. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 02:02 PM |
| 7 | Anybody ever hire a dating coach?Sounds like you need a therapist, not a dating coach if you're having anger issues. Sidebar would likely be far more useful than any dating coach. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Sales, girls, life on the road - how did I fuck this one up?The only fuckup was not having another option or two. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Why do men use Twitter?First thing I check when something news worthy happens. I also use it for escorts because that's where most of them communicate. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:06 PM |
| 13 | “You again”Sounds like you're being a bit of a creep around your teacher. Making authority figures uncomfortable is a fast road to disaster. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:03 PM |
| 51 | The worst date I have had in my life.My only comment is that she was obviously naturally submissive, especially with the "was I okay" comment. If you could have put up with zero conversation you likely could have had a decent submissive plate who would let you do anything you wanted to her just because you told her to. Obviously hindsight is 20/20 but for the other guys here dont be afraid to take advantage of that if they are serving it on a platter. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I solidify my place in group of high SMV Dubai rich kids?He's establishing his own frame as a complement to theirs. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How do I solidify my place in group of high SMV Dubai rich kids?If you can help get those guys laid then you'll be their best friend every time they go out. Make yourself into the fun social guy they want to be around. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 8 | What if, as a man, I put "not looking for sex" on the Tinder bio?If you even mention sex on an online app you're going to get way lower matches. Women like to pretend that they are offended by it. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 11:12 AM |
| 6 | If a stranger tells me that she’s about to go shower, is she inviting me to hit her up?What did you have to lose? Tell her you're half Japanese as a joke and your culture demands you save water. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 11:09 AM |
| 3 | I've been sick for the past 6 weeks and lost a lot of muscle, should I let plate come over and see me in my weakened state?Jesus man, just clean yourself up, do some push ups and invite her over. Having her over to smash would help with your depression significantly. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on ONS wanting to do it without a condom?Ask yourself why she would want to do that and then think about how many other guys she's done it with. Then you won't even consider it. Don't sacrifice your long term sexual health or your future for some random slut just to get laid once. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | FWB issuesSoft next, don't be weird or anything at work just interact as normal. Don't approach for hanging out with her, let her come to you. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Anyone have experience with police interrogation? What to expect, and how to hold frame?As far as I know police aren't allowed to question you without a guardian, parent or some type of advocate. And they have to provide you with a lawyer if you ask for one. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameThis is exactly how I used to tell the married women I was banging to put my number in their phone. Dump her. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How To Pick Up Girls At Festivals & Concerts?Have drugs. Offer to share said drugs. In your tent/car/porta potty. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:05 AM |
| 340 | She said i have the smallest dick she has ever fuckedDon't let an 18 year old idiot move in with you would be my first advice. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | I quit drinking 1 month ago - my game is experiencing some crisis.All alcohol did is help you relax in the moment. That's the main thing you need to work on. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Escort says money is for "time and companionship only, anything that goes beyond that will be agreed on by consent." Should I be worried about not getting the pussy?If an escort is going to scam you she will take your money and kick you out or have her pimp there to threaten you. This typically only happens with crackheads though. If she has a proper online presence (ie active twitter feed, web site, etc) then she's legit and you'll have a good time. Escorts fuck lonely unattractive guys all the time, that's the chief source of their income. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 34 | Caught with TRMEasiest shit test in the world. Ask her if she needs you to spell out the big words for her. It's like you think you got caught doing something bad, you need to change your frame to the fact you're doing something to better yourself and give zero fucks what anyone else thinks, especially a plate. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 01:26 PM |
| 3 | 2nd date with dating app girl at club, i suggested we go to her place and she ghosted me once we got into our cars.. where did it go wrong?Girl was late (which shows lack of interest) then you just assumed creepily that you were heading to her place? Then texted and called when she obviously blew you off. Abundance is needed obviously. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 11:40 PM |
| 9 | Do majority of women really desire casual sex?Or is this just an excuse and almost any woman can be gamed/wants to get fucked? This. You just have to be the right guy. And sometimes at the right time you don't even have to be. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 05:04 PM |
| 6 | What's the problem with having platonic female friends?There isn't one. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 04:51 PM |
| 43 | How can I take advantage of being the only male in a group?Took a woman's studies course in university for an easy grade and was the only male - and it was hostile towards males. However, once I established frame and just made logical discussion about things from a male perspective, most of the women (except the full militant lesbians) liked having a different perspective. Take is as a learning experience on how to talk to women in a low pressure environment and remove the fear you obviously have. Just make sure you have good frame and don't engage in s… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to this tinder girl over text offering to hang out without sounding thirsty?Tell her you'll grab a bottle and she can meet you at x place (like a park or another outdoor venue) or your place (although I wouldn't suggest trying that in a first date). | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Why are many women not up for casual sex? (especially post wall women)Post wall women are craving commitment but if you're attractive enough are even MORE up for casual sex. Brush up on your game. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:46 AM |
| 17 | "If I justed wanted to fuck somebody I could do so anytime. I dont want you to use me just for sex because I want a relationship with you."That's female logic. She knows exactly what you want and won't give it to you unless she gets what she wants. Don't even think about an LTR with a woman who is already negotiating using sex before you've even had it. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:45 AM |
| 6 | What kind of jobs do you guys have where you are your own boss? Any side hustle Ideas?I'm a personal trainer and have been working for myself for years. Make my own hours, make great money and relatively stress free. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | At which point on your journey did you decide you would have higher standards of women? Such as weight, personality, looks, job, education.When I realized I didn't have to lower my standards to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Organised a date with a female bodybuilder from online. How to approach it and what to expect?I've been in the fitness industry for a long time and I'm a bodybuilding judge. One thing you have to realize is that the reason women work out to the point of obsession is that they are hugely insecure. Competitors usually even more so. Best thing to do is treat her like any other girl. In fact, don't even talk about working out or diet because that's all she likely ever talks about. Escalate as you normally would with any other girl and don't be intimidated. If/when you get into bed with her o… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 06:10 PM |
| 22 | Got accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed?She didn't call the police, the orbiter did. Again, he's lucky. Cautionary tale for any guy in this situation. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 02:05 PM |
| 235 | Got accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed?Bob is obviously an orbiter white knight, but you screwed up by engaging him at all and allowing it to escalate to where it did with police. You're lucky Sally told the truth. Odds are she has a boyfriend and felt guilty in the moment. Sucks for you. Avoid them both. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Can anyone explain the phenomenon of the couple that has been together since high school?My sister is married to her high school boyfriend, and they were actually long distance all the way through university and grad school. They've been together over 25 years and have two kids. Now, if you watch the relationship they spend zero time together one on one and are essentially roommates. Familiarity and unwillingness to alter what is "good enough" keeps things together. I always wonder if once the kids are out of the house they will finally get divorced like I read about all the time. A… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girl asks whats the plan?Even if you don't have your own place you must have your own room? Also, don't expect to fuck on the first date. There are lots of cheap or even free museums in NYC correct? Always good for conversation and girls like cultural stuff. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What would you do? Old plate texted me.Obviously she just wanted the info. It could have gone either way. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Amsterdam SexTourismClubs are way better than the RLD and have much better women. Spend your money wisely. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:52 PM |
| 14 | my buddy's fiancee turned out to be a SLUT, what do I do?Tell him. Even if he decides to believe her version (which he likely will) at least you know you tried to help him out. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:50 PM |
| 4 | What specific things should I do when a pissed off orbiter/boyfriend wants to fight because I flirted with his girl?I'd go out with her, especially since she invited you. That guy is just another orbiter or maybe some guy she's stringing along. Guys will posture but odds of him doing anything are slim. If she's into you then she will tell him to pound sand anyway. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Staying in shape while travelingIf you're going to be in North America get a membership at a chain that has locations all over the place. In Canada we have a company called Goodlife that has many locations in all major cities. You might have to pay to travel there but whatever. Or choose a hotel chain that has gyms in their locations. Don't let the fact you're in a hotel be an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI bought her socks and a card, plus a card from my kids. I buy her gifts all the time if I think she needs something or wants to feel better. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 04:00 PM |
| 5 | THE SEA OF CIVILITY - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI think men are more literal and intrinsically problem solvers than women. Men also have an easier time detaching their emotions from a situation (in my opinion). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Business is just like any other relationship.Instead of me breaking his legs I'm planning on making sure he breaks his own. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 03:31 PM |
| 21 | Easy pickup in Lake Tahoe..a Field Report.Great list, but the only one you forgot: BE FUN. People want to be with the guy who is great to be around. Being single at a wedding and high SMV is like shooting fish in a barrel. It's never ceased to amaze me how many women in relationships will flirt, grind and outright cheat once they put a fancy dress on. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Someone hit me with some real talk and convince me to delete social media.As a business owner I struggle with this, but I know it's necessary (unfortunately) for marketing so I keep it. I just keep it completely business oriented and focus on that. Delete anything that seems like a waste of time. I use Facebook and Linkedin almost exclusively though. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Older guys plating younger womenI had a 21 year old plate for a while and she picked me up at a bar. She said she preferred older guys, which is the case with a lot of women. I barely spent any money on her at all. She liked to play chess and fuck. When you're 20 years older you'll have a different viewpoint. Its awesome to be over 40 and know that theres tons of 25 year olds who would love to date you. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 12:23 PM |
| 8 | awalt, seriously?I would take a bullet for her and I love her because I love her, not because she makes me feel wanted or comfortable. This is definitely not the right way to approach any relationship you expect to last long term. Am I truly just a comfort blanket providing stability while she gets her shit together? You need to take your rose coloured glasses off and realize that yes, this is the case. I can't go months without fucking while she can Do you seriously think she's going months without male attenti… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:37 AM |
| 3 | On dating app got logistics worked out. Asked for number. She says " do you have a snapchat?Obviously every other guy snaps her. You'll do better if you stand out. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 10:32 AM |
| 5 | Tinder girl - no questions backStop giving her attention and unmatch her. If she's like that on text imagine what she's like on a date or in bed. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 10:31 AM |
| 6 | What should I do about getting back ex long distance gfJesus this is among the most pathetic statements I've ever read here. Sidebar x a million. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:50 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on dating single mothers?Great for plating. Don't even think about a serious commitment. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Question About Cheating - Need GuidanceThat's a scary psycho girl. You're better off not even getting involved. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:02 PM |
| 5 | GF dumped and blocked me, I have some stuff of hers, what's the protocol?When she says she's going to come by and get it leave it on the porch or outside the door. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How to be friends with women?Success with women doesn't mean banging all of them. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:31 PM |
| 7 | She messaged me 10 days after blocking meJust set up a meet already and strike while the iron is hot. Be careful though because it sounds like she's a bit unhinged. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:29 PM |
| 323 | Women will prove AWALT out of nowhere.Hate to say it but it likely wasn't the first time. Good for you for getting into the best school possible. Focus on that. And with the international experience I'm sure you won't have a problem finding a good job, life and several replacements for her. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/19 07:29 AM |
| 3 | The perfect spot to practice your skills.I didn't do comedy but I'm the lead singer of a band and now in front of any audience (public speaking, teaching, coaching) my confidence is completely unwavering. If you play an instrument open mic nights in that scene are also golden. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/19 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Gents, How do I proceed and not fuck this up?Dude, if you ever needed any more signs you should ask her out - and soon if you want to close it - you've got them. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 08:59 PM |
| 0 | Intermittent Fasting: Does anyone do it with good results? Concerns w/ protein intakeIf you want to build muscle and get stronger (ie bulk up), then why IF? It's usually used for cutting. Don't do both at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | If her Tinder profile says "NO ONS/serious intentions only" - do you bother swiping right?The reason they post that is because they've done it before and gotten burned. If you're attractive enough they will do it again. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 11:28 AM |
| 11 | How to properly respond to a (LJBF) rejection ?Don't even respond. She will get the point. If she comes back again then make sure you escalate. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 11:26 AM |
| 2 | The next 2 months will have me stuck inside my house working. No social life, no fun, no girls. I’m really depressed. Help?I'd set aside time in your schedule to leave the house and go and do things with other people to counteract the depression you're obviously going through. No way you need to spend all your time at home on school work. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/19 11:25 AM |
| 3 | "I cheated on my boyfriend with my rapist" Wow... you can't make this shit up.It was brought down to I believe sexual assault because obviously consent was questioned. The only reason he even got charged is because they were both drunk and that meant she couldn't consent (even though she was the aggressor). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 19 | "I cheated on my boyfriend with my rapist" Wow... you can't make this shit up.Scary thing is if she thought she was going to lose the boyfriend she likely would have claimed rape from years ago and that it was trauma that caused it. I know a guy who just got nine months in jail because he banged a girl with a boyfriend and - when she got caught - she claimed he raped her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 8 | Approach. Because it's getting sad out there.For those guys who are nervous about this stuff, start easier. One strategy I used at the beginning is just to hit the mall and go shopping - not to buy anything. When you're in stores just talk to clerks and people and ask questions. Men or women. Once you feel comfortable do it with a couple of hot girls as if you're a customer. Get used to just striking up conversations with anyone and everyone. People don't know how to have conversations any more. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 11:46 AM |
| 88 | Enjoy the sex, don't get married. It's that simple.So lets look a little more critically at number 1. There’s a girl you’re not fucking. At this point, she’s adding next to zero value to your life, because there’s no sex involved, and women don’t make very good friends. If she doesn’t end up fucking you, anything you invest with this woman is just effort you’re throwing down a black hole. You’re spending energy to keep the fantasy alive that maybe one day she’ll like you. And that energy would be more useful literally anywhere else. Most of this… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/19 06:48 AM |
| 2 | How do people stay in marriage for years if they're unhappy with their marriage?When they get married they do "love" them or convince themselves they do due to societal or familial expectations. Then once kids (and assets and property) enter the picture it makes it harder to end the relationship. By the way, when women say "Wasted X years with him!" it means "I'm blaming him for the past five years even though I did nothing to help!" | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 06:41 AM |
| 6 | Sex with EXAs long as she's just a plate usually it doesn't matter. But she's an ex for a reason so don't commit to her. Many women use sex as a way to get back into a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you draw the line between being on the red pill and just being a complete asshole?If you think the red pill has anything to do with being an asshole then you need to read more. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Run.Google Hal Higdon. His programs are excellent. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/19 11:29 PM |
| 119 | Run.I've been a running coach for 15 years. And even then I believe that long distance running is actually terrible for you long term unless you're adapted to it over a period of years (as some cultures are). Most runners also do it way too much and all wrong in terms of form, which is why the rates of injury among runners is insanely high. It keeps me in business as a rehab coach. If you're young (as the OP obviously is) then you can get away with it. But once you hit a certain threshold the rate o… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | amateur mma/boxer with opportunity to turn pro, looking to start college at 24/25?If you're a 24 year old freshman with a pro MMA career you'll get laid like stink. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | 16-8 Fasting?Fasting can be done many different ways but it's better to suit it to your lifestyle. I do a 24 hour fast once a week and it helps, probably not as much as daily but my gut/stomach issues are diminished. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Like your input on last night for me. [Advice]Don't respond. Basically as soon as you were negotiating for sex you entered her frame. When she rejected you it was probably the right move although I personally would have grabbed her hand and seen if she was actually into some domination stuff (if she was ever into that). The whole getting kids to bed thing was a covert contract in the first place. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 35 | Pernicious State of Dating AppsThese apps are a major part of the reason women are entitled even when they aren't attractive. Used to be a woman had to be high value, super attractive or go to a nightclub to receive massive attention from men and even then it was competitive. Now any woman can go on an app and find hundreds of guys who will give her attention for free and she doesnt have to settle for the castoffs her hot friend used to let her have. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 11:41 PM |
| 3 | How to build a social network from scratch in a new city?Besides what people have already mentioned: any type of competitive league. There are always sports leagues from novice to competitive in any city that have coed or male only teams. Running groups, cycling clubs if that is your thing. I even joined a darts and trivia team one year and met some really chill people. Or, organize your own. Through sites like meetup you can make a group to do whatever you want. Always remember that as new and awkward as you feel trying to meet people there's tons of… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 12:42 PM |
| 4 | Should I even ask women if they have boyfriends?Only if you let her. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How to identify potential false rape accusers ?Just make sure you have evidence that she wanted and enjoyed the encounter and you're fine. Text is best. Red flags are emotionally unstable or social justice warrior women, which you should be avoiding anyway. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Should I even ask women if they have boyfriends?No. If she feels the need to bring it up then she will. If she's into you enough then you'll never know and shouldn't care. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 49 | “Toxic masculinity” in advertising: keeping women scared and men shamed. | "A baby shower for a girl. A gift is passed to the expectant mother. It’s a rape whistle. Cut to a black screen: “1 in 2 girls will be physically or sexually abused.” Fifty percent of women will be beaten or raped? PARDON?"If it wasn't for fear mongering and inflating statistics to serve their agenda the feminist movement wouldn't even exist except for the extreme fringe. "One in five women are assaulted by their partners!" "One in five men are assaulted by their partners too." Oh. Even the whole #metoo thing inflated statistics because suddenly every woman who had been looked at wrong jumped on a bandwagon. Probably a high percentage of actresses (who were the ones who started the virality) have had illicit offer… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/19 03:54 PM |
| 0 | What to do if you cant get laid and you are growing frustrated about it every single day?If you have BPD then you have much bigger problems than getting laid. Make sure you stay on your meds and work on doing things that keep you well. Sounds like you seriously need to focus on things other than women. Probably one of the only situations where I'd suggest MGTOW. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Older men's increased SMV . How true is that shit?Depends if you want to only date 20-25 year old girls. After I turned 40 basically any woman over the age of 28 is easily available right up to women in their 50's if I choose to pursue it. And some of them are still really hot and have less baggage and game playing as they get older. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...It happens but it's much rarer than people here or trying to sell you seduction techniques would have you think. Only happened to me three times in the last few years on the first date (out of about 25 partners) and that was only because I had strong flirtation and sexuality going before we even met via text and tinder. Only one was a straight up let's just fuck date, one actually surprised me because she invited me back and then the third I seduced. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 09:21 PM |
| 8 | About sugar babiesIf you're going to pay for sex just get a hooker, it's way cheaper. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | 5th date...no sex. “Traditional” girl who says she only has sex in a relationshipI'd continue to get blow jobs and get sex from other girls if she's good at them. But don't fold to her frame. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Feel like I’ve messed up and landed myself in the friendzoneShe might have simply had regret over sex so fast. If she wants to see you again then it's a sign shes still interested. Don't be too much of a "friend" and expect her at the beginning to shut down escalation. Give it a shot, you have zero to lose. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Cooking on the first dateOffer to cook for her at your place. If she comes shes guaranteed interested. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Waitress sits down and hijacks my date. Wwtrp do?If a random employee is interrupting a customers date at my place I'd want to know about it because she would get fired. What you should have done is asked her to get you another drink (or even glass of water) and put her in her place. If she refused make sure that you mention it to the manager on the way out. No need to tell your date what you're doing though. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Girl asked if I would go out to a venue? Treat it as a date or friendly outing?Assume she's into you but also watch for her assuming that you will buy the food and drinks and then she will go party with her friends. Don't be the wallet. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 08:59 AM |
| 6 | ltr - my jealousy is insaneYou double texted and then looked like a total loser sending another "funny" message. Sounds like this isn't the girl for you since you cant even pretend to hold frame. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 07:16 PM |
| 38 | Anyone quit a 9-5 and started their own business?I did it 15 years ago and now can't imagine working for someone else. But you have to be practical and make sure you can sustain it for a period of time. My recommendation is find something you really enjoy doing and do it part time until you can make it feasible to leave your salaried job. Also, being self employed isn't a picnic. I've gone five years without taking a week off before because if you're not working, you're not making money. One year 40% of my business vanished in three weeks due … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Tinder dilemmaIf Tinder disqualified women then you'd never find one. I don't know a girl alive who hasn't been on it at least once when they were single. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 09:29 AM |
| 2 | BP buddy turned into a lap dog. Party story about a good friend I haven't seen in years.Tony was a mommas boy He married his mother. No surprises there. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 09:28 AM |
| 2 | About to turn 21, no idea what to do with my professional life, how can i find the job I'm looking for?What do you do for fun/would do for free that people might pay you for? That's how I found my profession. It's changed slightly over the years but remained in the same field. You're also only 21. Try out a few things that interest you and see what you don't like - that will help steer you in the direction of what you do like. Since you're an introvert I might suggest things that take you out of your comfort zone and improve your social skills like working in a restaurant or another public job wh… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Can I straight up ask a girl on Tinder if she's fat without coming out as a twat when her pictures aren't revealing enough?If you're worried about it ask for social media like IG. You'll be able to see it there. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 08:30 PM |
| 97 | What does it mean when a girl cries after sex?I hope you have some sort of evidence there was consent. Might want to try getting some via text or call her and record the convo. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 14 | A little experiment on TindrIn other news, water is wet. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/19 03:56 PM |
| 3 | New class - few guys, many girls. Girls are closed offMaybe you should be focusing on school instead of getting laid if you want to be a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 12:55 PM |
| 5 | GymYou have 12 hours of classes a day every day? There must be breaks during the day where you could hit the gym. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 02:37 PM |
| 4 | I’m in nursing school and there are lots of hotties around. Plate or not to plate?Don't risk your career. Instead, use them for social proof and bang their friends. Friend zone all of them intentionally - which will have the side effect of making them want you more. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 07:26 AM |
| 8 | Stripper game?She could also be working as an escort outside the club or just be looking for a free meal. Dont spend a dime on her and if you hook up make sure its obligation free. Dont ever trust someone who games guys for money for a living | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:57 PM |
| 6 | The whore of my college showing IOIs. Proceed or run?Would rejecting her cause your social proof to elevate with women that are actually worth it? Because that's always a legit strategy in a small environment. You can't get back your reputation. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | 3 weeks, 3 dates, no sex...So then stop taking her out and trying. You want to fuck and she doesn't. Stop wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 08:30 PM |
| 24 | As long as you're not marrying her, the right amount to "invest" in a woman is however much it takes to get laidI used to be the guy who worried about not getting laid on nights out and not getting girls into bed fast. Then once I realized that if you had enough abundance you always had someone at the right stage for getting sex it was like an epiphany. I had my best success with third date sex. Sometimes it was faster, but I didn't put pressure on myself to make that happen. Instead I always had several women in the mix. It also gave me confidence that 90% of the time I'd be getting laid by at least the … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/19 08:29 PM |
| 4 | DMed a woman from an indie local band in town, how to escalate to meet without pedestalizing her?You're sliding into her DMs just like a hundred other thirsty guys. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Best parenting books for new dads?Raising kids there isn't a ton. But I always recommend Happiest Baby on the Block to new parents. Teaches you how to put your newborn to sleep in ten minutes like a wizard. Saves your sanity. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Ltr is asking if a guy can give her personal training at the gymTell her to tell him it's a great idea and her boyfriend will come for sessions too since it's free. Watch how fast he backpedals. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Youtube "Try-on" videos...example of the decline?These girls all have Patreon accounts since Youtube won't let them monetize their soft core porn. And on those accounts they have much more provocative videos and porn shoots of themselves. So they are using their bodies to make money just like Instagram. What kills me is the videos where they are talking about their lives that have maybe 5k hits and then one of them trying on bikinis that gets 300k hits. Just don't pretend you're actually trying to be something you're not and admit you want the… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | New plate is cold in bed, but she keeps coming overDon't give her affection. Sounds to me like she wants to be treated as a submissive so start by ordering her around in bed a bit and treating her like a toy. She's married. Don't overthink it and just enjoy her while you have her. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Theory Clarification Needed: Finding your "Calling"It's part of the big picture for sure. What you've experienced is great and it gives you a sense of what your mission can be to fulfill that aspect of your life. There are lots of other aspects but what you do to make money and improve yourself socially and financially is important. I found the same thing when I was about 25 and haven't looked back and have managed to be quite successful at it. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 10:45 PM |
| 4 | LTR asking me what she should wear on vacation, how to proceed without mateguarding?You should have asked her for pics. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Best friend engaged to "man-eater" should I intervene?I don't think she will change. If your friend has money or good earning potential encourage him to get a pre-nup before he marries her. Basically expect it not to work out long term and make sure that he isn't completely destroyed by it. Otherwise there's not a lot you can do. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 2 | LTR asking me what she should wear on vacation, how to proceed without mateguarding?If she's going with family, then don't worry about it. If she's going with a bunch of her slutty friends then it's a different story. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:11 PM |
| 4 | LTR asking me what she should wear on vacation, how to proceed without mateguarding?Is she wearing them on a trip with you? If not then ignore. If she is then tell her what you like. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Had a date with a much older woman. Where do I go from here?Sounds like you did okay considering you obviously have some confidence issues. Next time don't ask if she wants to see you again, just tell her you would like to see her again. Playing with her hair can either be nerves or an IOI but without any context in terms of conversation there's no way of knowing. In terms of contact hit her up in a couple of days with a time for another date and see how she responds. She's also probably wondering what a 27 year old is interested in a 57 year old for. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Possible LTR went out for drinks with "coworker" and hasn't responded to text.Withdraw any contact until she hits you up, then ignore it for a while. You're busy. And don't think about possible LTR until you've been dating for a long time and you've been banging her regularly. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 06:53 AM |
| 2 | How should I have responded/acted when she began our study date with “I just recently started dating someone else, so is it cool if we just be friends?”?If she dropped that on you right away I would have made up a sudden excuse and just left. Why spend three hours frustrated? Especially if she was deflecting any attempt at flirting and re-establishing a sexual vibe. Next. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 06:49 AM |
| 9 | What were your biggest mistakes in seduction/game that you have fixed and how did you fix them?Outcome independence. Meaning you know that some women just won't be interested or aren't going to fit what you're looking for and can easily move onto the next without thinking about it. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 06:47 AM |
| 6 | Daddy Issues or submissive?As long as you keep her in the submissive frame and she thinks you're a suitable daddy then you should be fine. Just don't change anything about the dynamic. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 09:50 AM |
| 6 | Just how massively have I fucked up and how can I recoverShe's embraced the validation from other guys as well, which is why she would post that on her social media. Prepare for a broken plate and make sure you have a couple of other girls in the mix. As soon as you responded to her aloofness you entered her frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Weird question but... dog breeds.Whatever you do, get it from a rescue shelter or agency, not a breeder. Lots of great dogs that need good homes. And in terms of breed it should suit your personality. Love GSDs myself but I have a shepherd/husky cross and she's been an amazing friend for ten years. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 12:25 PM |
| 2 | My first time alone at a barNo offense but both those approaches are terrible. You instantly became a loser because you criticized them in your first statement and in the first you also self deprecated which isn't attractive. Second again you basically criticized her without any cause to. Obviously she's not going to like that. Both times there were way better openers you could have used. If you read Roosh's books he has some great starters. Props for trying though, it's more than most guys will ever do. Don't give up just… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 05:16 PM |
| 8 | "She's not yours, it's just your turn": a defeatist cuck mantra for losersThis is and should be the main post. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/19 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Does anything change in game once you get older (40+)?Yes in that the dynamic changes when you're dealing with a younger girl. You can play more of an authoritative role and focus on being more mature. In short, act your age. Some girls really like that. What they dont want is the loser 40 year old guy trying to party with 25 year olds. If you're dealing with women the same age game is exactly the same. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Beta Blunders - How my old insecurities and weak self-image torched opportunitiesAt clubs girls are wearing things to attract attention from all parties, men and women. Sometimes just attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Any experience with girls who heavily filter their dating profile pics?Have an ex who when she met me on Tinder had a disclaimer that her pics were recent because she was in somewhat decent shape at the time. She let herself go and the last time I saw her on Tinder her pics were exactly the same, except no disclaimer. It's because they know they need to in order to get any attention. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:29 AM |
| 4 | How do you maintain confidence dating high earning women who are very independent?She seems very confident and independent but in my experience single women at that age are anything but. They are hugely insecure and afraid of being alone. So that's the first part. The second part is that all you need to do is be fun to be with and she will give it up very quickly (all my first date sex has been with older women) so just make good conversation, flirt and then when the time comes, escalate. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:13 AM |
| 4 | Organised a date with a much older woman. How will it be different to a younger woman?Your self confidence should overwhelm her. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 10:14 PM |
| 2 | She comes over, but shrugs me off when I escalateIf she's been to your place twice for a movie and dinner and didn't at least kiss you then she's using you for a free meal. Either that or you're not being aggressive enough. First time she rejected the kiss you should have withdrawn all attention. Tried again and then if she rejected again just get rid of her. Stop wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What does being dark triad involve?I wrote an article on Machiavellianism and how it can bring you benefits. The other two are simply personality defects on my opinion. Like anything else, too much of anything is not a good thing. There are lots of dark triad tests if you google it. In the business world and also with women being a little bit Machiavellian can help get you ahead and get you laid. You just have to detach from the emotions involved and literally not care about others and what happens to them, which is difficult for… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Organised a date with a much older woman. How will it be different to a younger woman?She's older but still wants to get laid just like any other woman, in fact probably more so because at her age and single she's lonely. If you come off as not a total asshole you'll be able to easily plate her and the sex will probably be really good if her body isn't terrible. Older women know what they want and aren't usually afraid to ask for it. She wants a young stud to take care of her needs. Be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Recommendations for Fiction Novels with red pill Male Protagonists.If you're looking at fiction Jack Reacher is a great character and also Mitch Rapp from the American Assassin series. Jack Ryan from Tom Clancy novels as well. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Started a Retail Job and Seeking Advice for What Can Be Learned ThereSome major skills: learn how to get along with anyone even if you dont like them. Learn how to manipulate difficult people. Learn how to make small talk with strangers. All very valuable skills for life in general and most jobs. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Should you be maximum jerk boy to divorced chicks to seduce them?Being a jerk isn't alpha. If you think it is then you'll have a hard time getting any woman, let alone divorced ones. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Why is it not taken as seriously when a woman sleeps with underage guys, compared to when the genders are reversed?Society has double standards in many areas. It's called a pussy pass. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:44 AM |
| 3 | In an MGTOW/Red-Pilled world, what purpose does sex really serve?At the same time, sex is overrated in my opinion due to the time/energy/money you have to invest just to get a girl in the first place along with the bullshit drama that usually comes after. If this is where you are coming from there is zero shame in hiring women for sex when you want to scratch that itch. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:42 AM |
| 0 | What can a man be good at in his thirties and beyond? Should I still take up physical activities?There's Masters level competitions for anything for people 35 or 40 plus, even the Crossfit Games. You might not make pros but could easily qualify Olympic level for several sports at that age. Example beach volleyball the average age of medalists since 1996 was 30. 29 isn't old at all. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:40 AM |
| 5 | A One night stand has been harassing me, what can i do?You'll be lucky if you dont end up with an assault complaint. And stop being such an irresponsible asshole. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 02:00 PM |
| 3 | LTR wanting to go on a 1 week vacationWomen can go places and not bang other guys, especially if they are with a group of other women. Contrary to what many of the incels here would have you think. Stop mate guarding. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | My cringe inducing messages from back in my beta blue pill days got screenshotted by a couple of mean hoes, what are the consequences of this?Did they screenshot and post them publicly? If not then don't worry about it and just don't contact them any more. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How to best leverage financial success while also avoiding gold diggers?Vet your women very carefully and don't commit to anyone. You won't have to worry about getting laid. Wrap it up constantly. In fact, at this stage if you don't want kids or already have them get a vasectomy. Therefore no risk of baby trapping. LMR and ASD are because they want commitment from you before sex. If anything, you should make sure they know that sex is all you're in it for up front and remove that idea entirely. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 10:11 PM |
| 23 | Two Plates One DateIf you have rock hard frame and they are both super attracted to you it can work by making them competitive. Strong chance of failure though. If you do it don't make it a surprise - tell them both your "friend" is coming and let their hamster spin. Don't leave them alone to have a conversation either. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 06:15 PM |
| 3 | So many green flags but sex is just baaaadIf the sex is bad now it's not going to get better, especially in an LTR. If that is something you definitely need (and it should be) then forget all the green flags. I made that mistake myself - girl was perfect on paper and made a great mother but zero sex drive and terrible in bed. And now I'm divorced and happier. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 06:13 PM |
| 3 | False rape accusationsText after sex every time with a positive affirmation she enjoyed it. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 03:16 PM |
| 15 | CondomsIt's not disease that should really worry you, it's 18 years of child support payments to a woman you dont like. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 03:11 PM |
| 9 | physical hobbies other than gym?Rock climbing - and if you're in California surfing and swimming obviously. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 12:04 PM |
| 7 | Everything went right. Still lost her.Don't stress about it and move onto the next girl. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 09:53 AM |
| 0 | How to make LTR suck me off outside.Has she shown that she would be into that type of thing? Otherwise suggesting it out of the blue would be a recipe for disaster. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 10 | For those of you in LTR’s - CheatingShe's not yours, it's just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 01:40 PM |
| 5 | What experience do you have with violent openers?You get the impression that no woman finds YOU attractive. Be more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 01:39 PM |
| 11 | I have a hooker i go to once a month just so i dont get too stressed from my daily life. Is this correct coping?There's nothing wrong with hiring someone to take care of your needs if that is what keeps you on track. The flaw would be if you can't afford it or do something stupid like catching feelings. Otherwise fill your boots. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Small town adviceSounds like you have a good plan and focus on working on yourself. There will be opportunity for getting laid but don't let some white trash small town girl lock you down. You may also find women in the same situation as you who had to move home. Just don't get into any kind of relationship. Best bet in small towns for game is usually local bars where you can try to game girls from out of town (if anyone ever visits). | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 04:12 PM |
| 7 | Women gives insane amounts of IOis in club then rejects meThe point is Zac Efron wouldn't ask permission. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 02:55 PM |
| 7 | Shittest: „Who the fuck drinks coffee in a club“ How to respond?Learning to ignore women is a useful skill. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 2 years cheated on me - but so did I. Need advice.If she had a drunken ONS after a two year relationship it's over. Move on and you did the right thing. Don't bother telling her about your cheating, it's pointless. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 02:14 PM |
| 8 | Women gives insane amounts of IOis in club then rejects meThe problem was you asked. Women want to be led, so lead next time. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 02:04 PM |
| 12 | Do I have unreasonable sex demands?Your demands are what they are. If she's not willing to do it find someone who will. 3x a day at your age isn't a lot. What it may be from her end is boredom and routine plus maybe she's not as attracted. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 12:39 AM |
| 2 | What's your "anti-beta" top five?I have a book with a daily meditation. If you check on Amazon it's there. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:32 PM |
| 0 | How to give ultimatum to a girl who’s in a relationship.I told her I couldn’t keep seeing her as long as she has a boyfriend. Why does this matter to you? It's her choice as to how she behaves and as long as you're getting what you want don't worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Not sure if this is heading in the right directionDon't date women from work. End of advice. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Tips for better fore play? (NSFW)If she doesn't currently masturbate teach her how to and help her with it. If you are the one who gets her in touch with orgasms she will never forget you. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | What girl almost made you revert back to the old you, even after swallowing the red pill for quite some time?First girl I seriously dated after my divorce showed me I wasn't even close to learning everything I needed to learn. After a couple of months I was right back to my stupid blue pill ways. Thankfully I woke up in time to dump her. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment accusations at the workplace. Preventative measures from getting fucked over?Do not socialize with female co-workers outside of work. Period. If invited to a major event like a work party or for clients show up, don't drink, act like you do at work and leave early with an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 08:38 AM |
| 20 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendKids develop attachment fairly quickly and can be affected by people coming and going with relationships in a negative way. They don't deal with emotions well when they are young. General rules of thumb is 6-12 months before intro for kids and you should see a long term future. Also divorced dad. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 01:42 PM |
| 11 | What's your "anti-beta" top five?I wouldn't say posts as much as general principles: Stoicism (I'll start doing stoic meditation daily again). Outcome independence. Saying what you want directly without fear. Discipline re-established with things like exercise, sleep, food. Change what you need to if you see your path shifting in order to get it back in the right direction. I find those things all work well and you can easily implement them. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Sex second roundThen it's likely mental. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | It seems like some of you have fucked dozens of women. Just how jacked/rich are you?Not at all, I just know how to make conversation them and have good seduction skills. Plus it's not like all of them were hot. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Let’s discuss the friendzoneYes. Yes, although if it was just a kiss and she was drunk then it might have just been an impulse. Full out makeout session is different. Yes. Too many guys toss girls aside when they can be great for social proof and friends. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 10:55 AM |
| 4 | Sex second roundI'm 43 and with the right stimulation can go twice in an hour no problem. Girl has to know what she's doing but you might want to check your test levels. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 09:59 AM |
| 36 | What are signs a possible LTR has ridden the cock carousel?You can easily find all this out by having a simple conversation about it. Then vet according to any red flags you see and find out if she's trickle truthing or lying outright. I had an ex that had a lot of male "friends" and then when I did my due diligence I found out she had slept with most of them but she would never admit it. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Tinder is the ultimate legal pimpThe same thing applies here that applies anywhere, you still need to have a decent sexual strategy and be attractive to get laid. Thankfully the guys who pay for Tinder and have zero clue about how to actually date and fuck women keep the app going while those of us who actually know how to game women are the ones who still get laid constantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/18 12:12 PM |
| 15 | Fucking a woman twice my ageEnjoy it because likely you're just a quick fling. If you can keep the sex good and hassle free then she will likely stick around for a while. Don't get attached. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Does it get harder to pull in a club as time progresses?By a certain time most girls have decided who they are or aren't going to go home with. The ones who haven't usually aren't worth it. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 02:06 AM |
| 4 | One way open relationship, anyone have experience with this?I'd be suspicious that it's a massive test. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 02:04 AM |
| 3 | First date pushing for F close?You should have some sexual banter established before this date happens otherwise don't even waste your time. In this four month period have you been flirting and sexual? If it's just been friendly banter then you have work to do. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:14 PM |
| 19 | She's been increasingly pursuing me all week and once we are out for drinks, she suddenly pushes me away... wtf???She’s crazy and there’s a reason she’s still single. Avoid and delete. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if LTR is interested in sex anymore.You can’t go out then go back to her place? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider dancing with girls at an office party cheating?You explained it properly and leave it there. She’s obviously very insecure and it’s a simple comfort test, which I think you passed. Drop it and if she continues to bring it up just either A and A or shut it down. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Not sure if LTR is interested in sex anymore.She wants you to take her out before she fucks you. Up to you if you want to spend the money or just find another girl. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] How does break up happen ? Many couples keep chatting/talking even after break up.More often than not if a woman stays in touch she’s looking for emotional validation or to keep the guy as an orbiter. The guy sticks around because he might get laid again. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 11:13 AM |
| 2 | If a son ask to his mother sexual strategy advice, she will help her son or follow the feminine imperative ?My mother would have had zero idea about this because her own life was a train wreck. Consider your source carefully as with any opinion. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so attracted to psychology studies ?Women are emotional creatures and therefore want to explore things like thoughts. They also often want to figure out what's wrong inside themselves. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Those of you who have your own business or are finically independent how did you get there?I'm not financially independent but have owned my own business for many years and I'm on my way towards it: Keep your overhead low - ideally start from home or with minimal investment. Also, have a buffer of income set up ahead of time. Many people start out doing their "side hustle" while still working full time in their off hours, which is much smarter than what many people would tell you which is go all in right away. Find things with decent profit margins for time invested. If you have a ski… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Instagram game ?!!Using Instagram to get laid is like using tumblr for porn. Way better options out there readily available. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you a text a girl who's only on Tinder for "fun" and traveled to your city?Set up a meeting as soon as possible. She’s got a hundred options besides you. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Is it acceptable to spin sex doll plates instead of regular plates? I have about $10,000 to blow and I'm thinking of buying 4 or 5 dolls.Buy one doll but multiple heads and wigs. Way cheaper. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | A chief doctor is hitting on herAs soon as I read I got back with my ex I stopped reading. Never do this. If a kid is involved then you can be a parent without the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Pet names/nicknames?I use kitten. Cute but submissive. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 12:17 PM |
| 19 | [FR] The Plate AffairMen in married relationships to successful women don’t sometimes have their eyes open as to how easy it is for them to cheat. I’ve also had several married women as plates over the past few years and in every situation the women had no fear even if she got caught because she was already successful. The marriage was mostly for image and keeping kids stable. While your post reads like a circle jerk, the concept of knowing what’s going on in your relationship and trying to be the guy she wants to f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/18 10:06 AM |
| 5 | How to discipline/punish kidsFunnily enough one of the best punishments you can give, just like women is to ignore them. Kids (I have two little girls) often act out for attention. If you don’t give it to them they realize there’s no point. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 3 | alpha/beta theory question: is a school shooter alpha or beta?This is probably the most disturbing post I’ve read here. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Addicted to porn/masturbating. It’s starting to interfere with work/school. What do I do?First thing is change your routine. Second is put some kind of blocker on whatever drive you use and randomize the password so you can’t get rid of it. There’s a whole sub devoted to it that has some good tips. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 11:15 PM |
| 11 | Does TRP Believe in Depression?I don’t know about the rest of the sub, but I believe that while depression can be a legit disorder requiring medication, the diagnosis of it is abused and can often be fixed by just changing habits and attitude. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 02:15 PM |
| 2 | DId something really stupid.....Very hard to catch anything from oral. Relax. If you start to have symptoms go to your doctor. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet women?The mall or another shopping area would be an obvious one. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Where to meet women?In would imagine somewhere near you is a school with girls at it? Find out where they hang out and go there. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Banged plate with rubber 2 times. Want to go raw next time. How to convince her?You say you know her well enough but you've only had sex twice. Just because she has "too much at stake" doesn't mean it can't happen. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Is she too young?How far away is her birthday? Don't pursue for now but keep her on the line and then you can be the first guy she wants to bang after she turns 18. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Considering going Monk mode for a while what should I try and accomplish?Prioritize goals: Usually career, financial, health and then something you enjoy doing. So maybe work more or get education for a promotion, make changes to save money or pay off debt, lose some weight and then take up a new hobby or course. You can do them all at the same time if you can handle it. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 01:34 PM |
| 18 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?Prostitution is basically legal in my country but it still costs enough that the average guy can't afford it on a regular basis. Once they invent AI sex dolls, then things will take a serious turn because you can spend 10k one time and have a willing sexual partner for life who doesn't have any baggage or rob you. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Should I settle down with this girlIf you’re under 30 the answer to this question is almost always no. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is slaying/smashing lots of randoms after the age of 30 a myth?After my divorce three years ago I managed to set a couple of personal sex records, including having sex with a different woman every day of the week one week. I’m 43. I had sex over 300 times last year. Big myth. If anything you’re more attractive when you’re older and women are way easier to deal with. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Going to a wedding solo tomorrow night. Advice?Take a look and see who’s there single or possibly you will be at the single person table. Watch for IOIs and be super friendly with any cute women and let alcohol do the trick once the bar opens. If you start getting eye contact your best opening line is how do they know the bride or groom? If they are receptive then offer to share your weed and see where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 06:55 PM |
| 51 | Scored a date with girl on dating app relatively quickly. Asked for number and she’s says “maybe I’ll earn it later”You don’t need her phone number to fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 01:27 AM |
| -1 | Dealing with married women, do you cross the line?I've fucked several married women and they seriously make great plates, but typically don't last long. The worst I ever received from an angry husband was a phone call to ask me to stop banging his wife. The stories you hear about guys flipping out are seriously overblown. Think about it, most guys are way too beta to even fuck their wives properly or confront someone stepping in line in front of them. There's zero way any of them are grabbing a gun or getting into a fight. Protip: Married women… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Why does a girl keep deleting her Whatsapp messages?Think of the possible reasons she's deleting her messages besides the one she told you. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 03:36 PM |
| 15 | Chatting Her Up: So I Met A Nude ModelCurious how you actually met her in the first place - through work or in a social setting. This is the type of girl that most guys would be way too insecure to actually approach directly. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/18 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I get wayy too talkative with hot girls when I’m drunk. Is this necessarily a bad thing or should I work on it?I feel hesitant about making it weird by escalating This is in your head, not theirs. Women are emotional creatures. Learn how to turn these conversations into what they think is romantic moves and just go for the makeout. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 12:02 PM |
| 2 | I've cut out porn for 3 months, but...Sexual stimulation causes the same dopamine response whether they are naked or not. Sorry man you haven't rewired anything. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 11:59 AM |
| 6 | I run into LMR every time, Help!Your sample size is 2 girls. And it sounds like you're taking way too long for the foreplay part when she's horny in your bed. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Girl im seeing and her parentsIf you're both in your mid 20's, why was she hiding the relationship and why do you even care? Just keep doing whatever you were doing before. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Old plate owes me $20k, concerned about repercussions of suing her for it.Unless you have a contract you're probably screwed. Text messages with her promising to pay you back won't hold up in court. I'd cut your losses. If the car is in your name then you could repo it and sell it plus anything else you bought for her but otherwise chalk it up to a lesson learned to never lend money to anyone you expect to get back without having it in writing. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 11:18 AM |
| 29 | Current LTR is suicidal/depressedIf she's actually threatened suicide then call the police and have her hospitalized. They have to act and she will go to a hospital for 3 days, which is time you can take to set up support from her family and move on. You need to get away from this toxic person and situation ASAP. She's only going to drag you down with her mental illness. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | How to take her from the business meeting to the bedroom?How do you know she’s even interested? If you haven’t flirted already or had clear signals this can go down - from her - then I’d think twice about attempting. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Being the "promiscuous guy" on campusThe other aspect of this is why aren’t they looking for more sex after the first time? If you do a good job a woman will almost always come back but maybe this aspect needs improving as well. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Think I've found a unicorn...They are called unicorns for a reason - because they don’t exist. It sounds like you did really well for a first date but don’t develop oneitis so soon. She also sounds a bit uptight so getting her into bed may be a big challenge with tons of ASD and shit tests. Might want to prepare. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 09:57 AM |
| 8 | She "thinks we need to talk" What should I expect and how to handle it.Sounds from that convo like she can’t even be bothered talking to you and you were trying to convince her for some reason. Ignore her and find another girl who doesn’t have a boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 12:43 AM |
| 2 | other (small) business owners - what are some must read books on business, sales, influencing customers...The Sales Bible by Gitomer is one of the best customer focused sales books out there. There’s also his Little Red Book of Selling which is a condensed version. I also really liked Gary Vaynerchuks book AskGaryVee. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 11:45 PM |
| 4 | I had a lot of chemistry with my old massage therapist and I haven't seen her in about a year. Now I just found out that she's making a return to the industry and I want to make sure I close this time around. Tips on making that happen, please.If she’s working at a place like that all you have to do is show up and pay for it. If she will actually have sex with her clients then it’s just more money usually. I’d shy away from sex with a girl who’s going to be jerking off guys for her job though. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 11:00 AM |
| 6 | 6'0, have to stay under 160 lbsIf you’re looking at a free ride for college then that’s worth staying a bit skinny for. Could you not get up to say 170/175 and then cut weight before a competition in season? Lots of athletes do it. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 05:40 AM |
| 9 | Massive shit test? Or what in the actual fuck is going on here?You’ve initiated all the contact with phone calls and now you look thirsty and desperate. Texting her or calling her again isn’t going to improve that. Find another girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 05:38 AM |
| 0 | Are "bottle service" girls just higher end prostitutes like strippers?A stripper and a server in a club are two very different things. If you don’t realize that then I’m nervous even having you as part of male society. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 05:35 AM |
| 51 | Success in straight-up telling a girl you just want to fuck?It will only work if they have already decided they are going to fuck you. Which likely hasn't happened if they haven't even met you. God tier SMV guys could get away with this. You can't. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Tips for Poker Tournament?Several years of live and online tourney experience. Live is very different so if you haven't played live before try to get some practice in. Play to your personality. If you're not normally loud and obnoxious don't try to be during the tourney. Watch everyone at your table for tells constantly, most people will have them. My style was always play tight at the beginning until you have figured out how everyone plays and then adjust your style based on the person you're dealing with. Truth is you … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 05:55 PM |
| 4 | I caught scabiesWell your sexual partners will already know. If any of them are current you might be in for a shit storm. Shave all your pubes. Buy some over the counter lice remover and use it a few times and you will be fine. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 05:51 PM |
| 14 | The Bittersweet Life Of Famous Instagram Model Amanda Lee - RooshV: "She is a slave to digital responses in a virtual reality that is accessed through her smartphone. She is an addict to loveless attention that keeps her in a prison of materially comfortable insecurity."The simple fact that with 12.2 million followers her photos only receive about 3% of that as likes (about 350k), which is typical across the platform, is very telling. I'd suggest at least half of those (or more) people are horny guys who jerk off to her photos and comment thinking she might pay attention to them. So 11.8 million people "follow" her but pay no attention. The follower number is completely blown out of proportion but it's what most people focus on. You also need to know that IG ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/18 09:52 AM |
| 2 | How to handle LTR becoming a "Model""Free" photo shoots and trips are from guys trying to get into her pants. Throw in some booze and drugs and bye bye LTR. Cut your losses now. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Getting Accused Over Harassment By RestaurantI'd wager you're trying to flirt and just being a creep. Move on since obviously they don't like you. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | LTR Heading to Business School - Dump her?You’re 25 and make ridiculous money. You can find another girl in short order if you want to. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Should i tell this potential hook up from tinder my height?Don’t even worry about your height and certainly don’t mention it. If you have good enough game she won’t even care. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Ever known of a player/chad get the shit beat out of him by a jealous boyfriend or husband?Hasn’t ever happened to me beyond an angry phone call or a text. And I’ve been confronted a few times over it. But then I don’t go near trashy girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Starting Over in a New CityI've done this too and it depends somewhat on your personality. Are you naturally outgoing or introverted? Once you start pursuing interests outside of work - ie sports or hobbies - typically that's the easiest way to meet people. Look for group activities, I'm a musician so that was a natural thing for me. Also, dating brings a whole new social circle around. Just going out and meeting women you typically meet their friends, etc. You just have to be active and focused on it. My problem was I wa… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 09:58 AM |
| 10 | I think I know the answer... but a bit of reassurance to kill the beta voice in my headDon't worry about what she's doing on Tinder or that she's a potential LTR when you haven't even had a date or had sex with her. You don't even know this woman. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Question, She wont put outI doubt if she will hang out with you again after what happened the second time, and you probably are wasting your time. Be careful too, because she could easily tell her friends how pushy you were and that could go sideways. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 11:30 AM |
| 6 | Are beta orbiters a fact of life?90% of men are orbiters so that means you're always going to deal with them. So make yourself into a man that doesn't worry about them. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Please ease my mind guys and tell me the reality. Extremely worried about LMR and false rape claim.She sounds crazy and not worth the risk or your time. Ghost and block. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/18 01:07 AM |
| 8 | To what extent should you express Red Pilled views in a Blue Pilled world?Don't be overly obvious about it (ie using terminology like "incel", "red pill", etc. And don't vent about stuff publicly. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:24 PM |
| 44 | Gonna try and plate this prostitute.. thoughts?If you're paying her she's not a plate. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 06:58 PM |
| 42 | Received a suspicious text from my ex GF earlier tonight. I didn’t respond but now what.She wants your attention. Don't give it to her. And yes, ignoring her will make it escalate more than likely. You can enjoy the entertainment of desperation or block her. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 08:36 AM |
| 1 | HB5 waits all night for me then plays coyIt is possible, it’s just much more rare than pickup artists would have you think. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | HB5 waits all night for me then plays coyThe wording and tone in your post alone tells me that you were way too thirsty during the interaction. Also, girls aren't going to go home and fuck you after you just meet them. Stop being so desperate. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 11:58 AM |
| 6 | Psycho bitch at workIf she's a pain in the ass then she gets no favors. Sometimes you have to teach women how to behave, like a family pet. Ignoring any outburst is a good start. Don't even respond just walk away. The proper way is to reward her for good behavior and ignore her when she's a pain in the ass. She will learn soon enough. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 11:55 AM |
| 4 | Fucks girl public placeWhy can't you meet her outside? Talk to her and ask her when she's off work. If you think because she's friendly (as a server) that she suddenly wants your dick then you're in for a rude awakening. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 11:51 AM |
| 32 | The "I'm seeing a guy" shit testSo you’re her plate. Awesome for you, crappy for the beta who thinks she’s a delicate flower. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 10:33 AM |
| 5 | Older men over 30, how has the dating ecosystem changed over the years and what part has social media played?I’m 43 and never had a problem when I was single with online dating. It was easy and convenient to be able to get laid pretty much whenever I wanted. But then I’m a personal trainer in good shape and lead singer of a rock band plus I have cool hobbies. A friend of mine commented all I’d need is a motorcycle and I’d have the perfect Tinder profile. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 10:31 AM |
| 5 | RP Men with long days, what’s your schedule?One thing you can focus on is not taking just any client on. Learn to really assess if the person wants to be there and has long term potential. For example, poor student? Next. Someone who says up front they want a program and then do a session every six weeks? Next. Spouse talked them into buying training or they got it as a gift? Next. Job that requires weird hours or lots of possible cancellations? Next. High paying job? Check. Wealthy and retired? Check. Lonely single person? Check. Flexibl… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | are Montreal/Quebec/French Canadian girls really as hot as they say? thinking of making a trip soonMontreal is very European and attracts euro type girls. There’s also two major universities and a great bar and club scene which brings out hot girls too. They are all on the cigarette and no food diet. So yes lots of hot girls. Many of which only speak French though. Much more laid back than Toronto and they aren’t nearly as entitled. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Is re-scheduling a job interview a bad first impression?What's the priority? Class or the job? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I find my passion?You're young yet to worry about this stuff. Get good grades and focus on building a future. I didn't know what I wanted to really do until I was 26. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:21 AM |
| 2 | RP Men with long days, what’s your schedule?95% of my business comes from referrals. But I've been in the game for a long time and have a good reputation. I networked HARD and hustled for 2 years to get started so that I was comfortable full time. Outside advertising doesn't really do much in my opinion. Someone hiring a trainer is going to ask people who they know. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What are the pros of hiring high class escorts for men who have trouble getting laid?Why do you need a high class one? A general well reviewed hooker is just fine. And way cheaper. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 01:45 AM |
| 40 | RP Men with long days, what’s your schedule?Personal trainer here. Own my own gym too. Wake up 4:30/5am. Typically first client at 6am. Work until 11am have a break where I deal with staff things/programming. Start again at 3 and work until 7, sometimes 8. In evenings I either have social stuff or can relax but if I'm relaxing I'm in bed by 9. My long days though only happen 3 days a week. I do take careful control of my schedule to not burn out. 2 days a week I work only 6am-12pm. But then I have two kids part time as well. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Plate's n-count increased significantly after a year of no contact, is it wise for me to pursue an LTR with her?How did you find out how many guys she had been with? And why did you even care? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Is social media culture encouraging false rape claims?Claiming that you have been assaulted brings attention. Women crave attention. Ding ding ding to some women who are addicted to likes and comments on social media. And your final paragraph is true as well - once enough women cry wolf about rape it's just going to backfire on the whole culture. The Brett Kavanaugh case was a prime example of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | First time "Nexting" storiesYou'll only know once you actually man up and do it. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Strange text in GF’s phoneI get random texts from numbers with comments like that for phishing. Or just some thirsty guy she doesn't even have a name for. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 04:39 PM |
| 21 | “Venmo me”If guys weren't doing it, girls wouldn't be doing it. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Breaking the RulesHowever, the man who understands the utility of text can tease, push/pull, and work multiple prospects with a modicum of effort. This was vital towards my lay count, especially when online dating. Learning how to communicate to get what you want both in person and virtually is important. But every newbie should remember one simple rule: less is more. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Question for recovering addictsI guess because I really hate identifying as an addict. I never really wanted to associate with other addicts. This is exactly why you should go hang out with addicts. Having some perspective will help you not slide into addiction again. No reason why you can't join a non athletic team as well. Darts, pool, trivia etc could all be good outlets. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 10:02 PM |
| 3 | 1 day in NYC (Times Square area) to get laid. How can I do it?Tinder would increase your odds by about 100 times. Hire an escort. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Interested?No. And stop worrying about what she thinks anyway. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Interested?She's not interested. Don't even respond. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Rules regarding sleeping around in a relationshipBy creating rules you're going against the whole idea. She does what she wants and you do the same unless it's exclusive. Just be up front about it. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Photography cold approachYou'll be known as the creepy guy with a camera trying to take pictures of girls. Don't do it. Outside of your school maybe but definitely not inside. Only way would be if you actually had a role as a photographer for the school paper, etc - then you have an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 12:37 AM |
| 8 | Surprise visit. Should I?Are you banging her yet? Waiting for the thread where you ring the doorbell and another guy answers. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 3 | I play tennis, but it's keeping me from plating girls. Should I quit?They will have their groupies and you will have yours. Plus you get access to the female tennis players who will likely all be athletic and hot. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Plate found my gear.Be more careful leaving your stuff out. And don’t let a plate stay over, she’s a plate. Don’t even mention it and ignore if she does. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:02 PM |
| 21 | I play tennis, but it's keeping me from plating girls. Should I quit?Dude you’ll be a D1 athlete. You will get laid without even trying and if you go pro be a millionaire. Relax. There are more important things than pussy. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:01 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle cumming so fast?Definitely go for round two. If she brings it up just tell her she was so hot you couldn't handle it. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:27 PM |
| 30 | Dealing with embarassing pastOne thing you'll learn once you have more experience is that people don't actually give a crap about anything but themselves. You think they do, but they don't. Odds are it's all in your head. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:26 PM |
| 15 | Is having a young girl with "daddy issues" worth it?Great for plating but don't expect any longevity and just enjoy the kinky sex. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:24 PM |
| 4 | The #MeToo movement targets my dance instructorSame as a personal trainer trying to date or sleep with clients. Or any other personal service. Guy is an idiot and if I was his boss I’d fire him in a heartbeat especially if it’s repeated behaviour. Whether it’s valid or not it’s damaging to the business. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Should I room with a two women [26,23] or a guy [31] for a weekend trip?Depends on her and your relationship with the other girl. If the other girl doesn't know you then I'd say room with the guy and just bang her when you can. Or try to hook the two of them up and just trade rooms for a night. the other girl 95% of the time won't want to hear you guys going at it if she doesn't know you unless she's a slut. If she is then go for the threesome. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Where is the line between abundance and desperation? At what point can you damage your reputation?You aren't operating from abundance, you're operating from neediness and people can see it. Especially in a small community this is amplified because all it takes is a couple of people talking about you and your reputation is harmed. If you're going to hit on girls in bars every weekend you need to be friends with everyone - not just women. If the guy talking about you behind your back was friends with you he wouldn't say anything. Work on gaining social proof with everyone instead of just talki… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | My tinder works great for 2 days and then i get 0 likesThis. When I was active I would make a point of deleting and reinstalling every two weeks. Any current matches that had promise I'd tell them I was going off and go forward me their direct number. Stay off for a couple of days and then reinstall. Would work every time. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:16 PM |
| 2 | "hey! how have you been?" text after 6+ weeks no contact...After reading the last bit I'd say avoid. Normally I'd say go for plating but she's tied into your living and social groups so if it goes south it wouldn't be good. Reject but be nice about ie I'm busy, blow her off nicely and that way your reputation won't suffer. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:14 PM |
| 67 | My ex falsely accused me of rape and nothing happened of it cause I didn’t. BUTOf course it's normal, you're going to take a long time to trust a woman again. With good reason. Hate to say but not smart talking to a detective without a lawyer. There are free ones out there. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:12 PM |
| 22 | STD Plate SituationI'd take her back and use condoms. You never should have banged her raw (or anyone at school) in the first place. Be smart with your dick. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Gym Confrontation (Advice)Was the other guy doing ten sets of bench? If you waited 50 minutes he should have been gone a long time ago unless his rest periods were 10 minutes long. But yes she shouldn't have a monopoly on all the equipment. Next time calmly explain to her that she gets one piece of equipment, not all of them and needs to learn how to share or let you work in. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 12:47 AM |
| 8 | How can I compete with popular athletes?You don’t. You aren’t at that level yet so work on raising your SMV in other ways if you aren’t an athlete. Be friends or friendly with everyone (even if you really don’t like them). Create value that only you can offer (social, physical or otherwise). Excel at your field of expertise. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Why are you guys so against the blackpill?So stop trying. Save the actual gains in life for people who want to try and make themselves better. You've obviously given up which is the most blue pilled thing in the world. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | How to maintain frame and general tips for attending a sorority fall formal?Then you know that a lot of girls there are just with random guys like OP described and if you have any game are easy pickings. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How to maintain frame and general tips for attending a sorority fall formal?Have you ever even been to one of these things? | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 10:07 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain frame and general tips for attending a sorority fall formal?It’s not who you go with, it’s who you leave with. Seriously, go with her and game other girls if she’s not 100% down. Just make sure you’re confident and dress really well. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone had experience with a girl who has admitted to you that she is “polyamorous” but wants a relationship that isn’t just fucking?She wants emotional as well as physical validation. Give her the physical, let some other chump give her the emotional BS. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Lost the cheerleader. FMLThere are some good lessons here: Don’t overinvest time or energy into one girl on any night. You should have gone back to the HB8 at the first bar. Women are never as hot in real life as they are on social media or dressed up. I’ve had several encounters where I even get the girls clothes off and find something gross. Don’t expect perfection. Don’t try to be a part of a social group you’re not equal with. Sitting at a table as outsiders with a group of doctors, engineers or lawyers - if you’re … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/18 11:03 AM |
| 2 | How tough is it to find work at a nightclub or bar with a huge party scene if you already have a 9 to 5 that pays well?Security is your best bet if you lift. You show up when the place opens and leave when it closes and just have to deal with drunk idiots. Plus you get to talk to girls when you're working. If you don't care about the money it's a great gig at the right place. Just avoid any ghetto clubs or high drug areas. Bars with an older crowd are great and you can take home a different cougar every time you work. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to have success with lower SMV girls as a higher SMV man?If you're known on campus and approach a lot maybe you have a reputation as a creep. SMV is all relative and if you're cold approaching girls who don't know you, they have no idea if you're wealthy, or anything about you - unless you're telling them right away in which case you'd come off as arrogant. Also maybe you need to work on your game. You didn't tell us anything about how you approached them and what you said. The example you provided neither girl obviously found you worth their time. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Can i become red pilled as a 26 yo single father?Check out the bodyweight sub for training in hotel rooms - lots of options for things you can do without any equipment or minimal. You can easily pack a suspension system and use it in a hotel room or hotel gym. Tinder/Bumble is your best friend for casual hookups while travelling. Get Tinder plus and you can make it look like you're in a city days before you get there to set up dates. Being red pilled doesn't always mean just banging women and getting jacked especially when you have a family. W… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there a logical reason why women make such a big deal about rape?You clearly have zero idea about women or people in general. If you think rape is just about sex then you have some serious issues. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 07:34 PM |
| 9 | JealousyWhy would you care if she's trying to make you jealous if you already ghosted her? | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What is up with girls putting their Venmo in their tinder profile??Some guys will do anything for even a sniff of female attention. And some girls know that they will and take advantage of it. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Jewish member of new social club confronts me (Muslim). How to respond?He sounds like an asshat and probably not worth your time. I'd almost guarantee if he's that confrontational with new people nobody likes him. Ignore him if he engages again and make sure to focus on building relationships with the real influencers there. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 07:36 PM |
| 42 | Post wall, carousel riding woman is confused why she can't find a good manThe relationships sub is a cringe fest. Mostly guys and girls getting cheated on and severe family issues. Avoid it unless you want to feel good about your life for a bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/18 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Did a woman just use you for sex, how did you feel about it?I made sure to complain about it on social media for attention. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | When you guys send a follow up text the morning after (for legal reasons)...is it best for YOU to include talk of sex? Or to get HER to admit the act of sex happened. Thanks.All you need to do is get something that lets people know it was consensual and she’s good the morning after. Flirt a bit and make sure she responds positively. Doesn’t need to be about sex directly. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 04:13 PM |
| 17 | First Date in 7 Years - Why didn't I fuck her..Stop thinking you’re going to get laid on the first date, especially if you’re new to dating recently. Enjoy yourself without trying so hard because you’re going to come off as a creep if you push too much. The first date wasn’t interested and there was no way she was going to go home with you. Next. Second date is more promising but save the physical stuff for after she feels comfortable unless she’s giving you clear signals or you’ve already talked about sexual things. Then game on. Think of i… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/18 03:21 PM |
| 3 | How would you go about fucking a professional stripper?Is there such a thing as an amateur stripper? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 12:40 PM |
| 7 | First time sex with small "bullet"Insert penis into vagina. If you need a self help manual then there’s lots online. Pro tip: if she’s naked and wants you to do that she doesn’t care how big it is, especially if she’s never done it before. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Any good advice for hooking up on Halloween?My go to was always The Crow. Sexy but dark and women loved it. Don’t do something dorky unless that’s your vibe, the costume has to fit the person. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 12:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some things to avoid or include when making a tinder/instagram bio?You can have all the great pictures you want (and this is necessary) but if your text game sucks then you’ll never progress. Get good at witty banter and quick logistics so you can easily transition from virtual to live interaction. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 12:27 PM |
| 60 | What was your most brutal firsthand experience of AWALT?First time I went through a girl's phone I was dating who had acted suspiciously. Every guy she said was a "friend" she had slept with. She had done things with other guys that she lied about, including incredibly slutty things she claimed she hadn't done. And she had been active on Tinder while we were dating even though she denied it. When your instincts tell you she's lying, she is. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | So most girls won’t just willingly set up a hangout at the guys house they usually want to hangout elsewhere and the go to place seems to be the bar but what about for those guys like me under 21? If I just want to hookup what should I invite her to doBasically anything outside that’s free or low cost. Walks, hiking, coffee, events. You have tons of choices. One my my go to things (I’m older though) was photo galleries or art exhibits. Looks sophisticated and is usually free. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 11:08 AM |
| 15 | Advice on older woman hookup?Why are you overthinking this? If she shows up you have a fun weekend and get laid. If she doesn’t you haven’t lost anything. Just set the date. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | I have to wrestle a girl, lose-lose situationSounds like you’re more worried about her complaining about you and causing you social problems than winning. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Under which circumstances would you allow yourself to move with a girl?If it served my interests financially or made sense for my lifestyle. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 10:59 AM |
| 2 | shit testing regarding other plates on social mediaI'd use that to set up the next sex date. "Since you obviously want to see a movie, come by Friday night. I'll make popcorn." | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 07:59 PM |
| 8 | What happens if you eat an STD-laced pussy without knowing?Only thing to worry about really is herpes, and sores are generally quite visible when they have an outbreak. Odds are you've had sex with a girl with herpes already if you've had sex with more than a few women. Also, if there is a bad smell avoid in general. You can get oral gonorrhea but again, the girl would definitely know she had something. Don't go down on random slags who you slay on the first encounter. If you're even questioning this about the girls you're with you might want to increas… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Those that started their business, how did you do it?Have been self employed for most of my career and now am opening a larger gym (3500 square feet on two levels) in about two weeks. Personal trainer. The new larger space took about 200k in capital for lease, renovations and equipment upgrades. Bank loan and I have a partner. There’s pros and cons. Pros are I make my own hours, but at the end of the day I’m responsible for clients and satisfaction. Don’t take a lot of time off. Money is obviously way better than working for someone else. I’d alwa… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Date party troublesIgnore the other guy but expect her to flake if it's not for a couple of weeks. I'd establish a backup girl just in case. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Am I being scammed? Fitness advice neededI hit a plateau on coordination, mobility, strength, conditioning and I don't really look better in the mirror than 4 months ago. This is what your trainer should be there to address. A good trainer will see the lack of progress and adjust the program, or constantly be using periodization to make sure that the long term goal is being worked towards. If you've been stagnating for four months and they aren't doing anything about it then he's just sucking your money away and you should find a new t… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Book tips in the self improvement category ?Sidebar has a reading list. Or a search will give you a dozen other threads. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | (vent:) Went on another date yesterday with the most boring girl I've ever metSo now you know not to go out with her again. Many girls have zero going for them beyond social media and attention seeking. Don’t give them your valuable time. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Why do you like older women?Older women are much lower maintenance and have fewer hangups in bed and about sex in general. Therefore getting laid is way easier and the sex is usually way better, especially if you're attractive. Contrasting that is they aren't as hot physically unless they take really good care of themselves. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 05:34 PM |
| 12 | Why securing the F-close doesn't always need to be the end-goal of an interactionOne thing a lot of guys around here (especially younger ones) need to realize is: 1) You're not going to get laid on the first date/interaction 9 times out of 10 and it isn't a failure if you don't. 2) If a girl does give it up that easily she's done it many times before and is damaged goods that you don't want around anyway. 3) The easiest way to get a girl to want you is to not want her. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/18 05:32 PM |
| 2 | How to Cut OffThree little words: I Am Gay. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How far are you willing to drive for a tinder "date"Jesus man I had mine set for 6 miles max. That way it’s a quick drive/date. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | invited to a all girl party havingYou’re a provider. Don’t go or do what she’s asking. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 01:31 AM |
| 20 | Drunkenly banged my friends girl. What do I do?First thing is stop fucking girls bareback who are banging lots of other guys. If she did it with you she's probably taking cocks in hallways every weekend. Second part is how good a friend is he? If he's thinking about dating her then he needs to be warned off. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Potential LTR gave off major red flagSo she’s cheating on her boyfriend. Makes for good plate material. Don’t ever upgrade her above that. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 10:39 AM |
| 24 | 3 Friends went to Jail for Rape. Opinions please.If they ran a train on her while she was incapacitated and forcibly removed her phone then it was rape. These guys are stupid and deserve to be in jail. Only lesson here is don’t be so bad at pickup that you need to take advantage of a really drunk girl and use two other guys to do it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 10:36 AM |
| 9 | What are some of the first things you do as soon as you walk into your room or apartment, with a girl you brought back, to make her feel comfortable?Offer to put her coat away. It implies she’s staying for a bit but isn’t creepy. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 05:46 PM |
| 20 | Lied to a girl on tinder bout my dick sizeIf she wants to see your dick I'm willing to bet she doesn't care. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Sexual Strategy: HedonismWat. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 04:31 PM |
| 2 | How does one move on minimal wage?If you had worked that 12 hours you just sat around doing nothing, even at minimum wage you would be way further ahead. Food for thought. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s the highest number of platesI found three was a sweet spot for me. One you see more frequently (ie at least 1-2 times a week) and two that rotated in and out once a week or less. Otherwise it’s a huge time sink. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 01:44 PM |
| 2 | LTR is making me feel uncomfortableYou haven’t clarified why you aren’t invited? Even if it’s coworkers only, as the host she could include you. If she doesn’t want you there then that brings up all sorts of red flags to me. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Fear I'll be shamed for being into thick chubbier girlsSome guys are attracted to other races, some skinny girls, whatever. Other peoples' opinions are just that and shouldn't concern you. Lesson is don't be concerned with what others think. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 08:22 AM |
| 15 | I went full fucking retard. Why.First question was a bit too direct and probably threw her off but good job doing it. Day Bang has some great openers for this type of scenario. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Single moms aren't always ezFor those young guys reading this, it's an excellent post about what NOT to do when dealing with a single mom (or actually any woman), especially one as low value as to be overweight with two kids from two different dads. Provided services without sex? Check. Emotional disclosure first? Check. Eagerly accepted the LJBF talk and still stayed as an orbiter? Check. Stalking her social media? Check. Don't Do what Donny Don't Does. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Need confirmation that soft nexting was rightAssuming you're in high school. Yes that is all the right stuff, if you see her act like nothing happened and if the opportunity comes up again take advantage of it but don't pursue. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:50 AM |
| 7 | 37 year old virgin (her not me)She must be either unattractive, a recluse or mentally screwed up. Either way not a good idea. Plus if you take her virginity she will definitely attach hard to you. Unless you want a super clinger find another girl. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:47 AM |
| 2 | How to set rules with roommatesEar plugs and white noise is your best bet. Or ask to move but you never know what you’ll get. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Hotter girls get less or more approaches?You should choose the girl based on what you want, not what you think will give you the best result. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Scheduled a cuddling session with a girl, is sex implied?You're already going to be touching her, all you have to do is make her horny. That should be pretty easy unless you have no idea what you're doing. Rub bare skin if it's exposed on her arms, upper thighs, back to start. Once she responds positively then lightly use your nails and gauge again. Don't ask permission, just keep escalating until she stops you. If she does, reset and try again. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Was given advice by an older guy, wanted to see what trp thought of itI'd say basically all those points are bang on as a fellow older dude. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 06:53 PM |
| 13 | A semi famous writer got a sexual harassment allegations for simply sending this text message. What can TRPers do to prevent this MeToo thingy?Based on the second text message exchange he’s a pathetic nice guy trying to seduce women with horrible game. So don’t do what he did. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/18 02:49 PM |
| 9 | To all the young guys out there.The amount of times I read 24 year old guys thinking their life is over on here is ridiculous. Wait another 20 years and then realize that your life isn't even HALF over at that stage. Don't talk about what it's like when you're older when you have barely lived 1/4 of your life. Change isn't hard at any stage of life unless you have a negative attitude about it. I changed my entire life at 40 and three years later couldn't be better. And I also have enough perspective to know I could do it again… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Just got fired. Open for any tipsSo you didn't get fired, you got laid off. Subtle difference. Even while you're resting this week you can update your resume and start applying. If you have a social network now is the time to reach out and see if anyone has any opportunities. Your at home job is now getting another job, think of it that way. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on LTR going out and getting drunk?If it's not a pattern like she does it often and her work environment is conducive to it then it's normal behavior and don't over think it. Although with an LTR of that length I'd expect her to Uber to my place after the night out for some drunk sex. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 09:32 AM |
| 2 | LmrThat's about the simplest test to pass. Just ignore it and keep escalating like she said nothing. Only red flag is that she WILL get attached if you bang her and likely be a bit crazy. Her stating she doesn't want to get attached means she definitely wants to attach. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 09:28 AM |
| 16 | How/Should you tell your gf you cheated on herYou don't. If you feel guilty enough or want to bang more women just break up with her and move on. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 12:01 PM |
| 165 | "TEXT ME"As with most things, the simplest solution is usually the right one. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Tinder Game with Amateur PhotographyAll you have to do is take one look at the photos that any woman has on Tinder. Vast majority take general selfies or have blurry vacation photos and barely put any effort into it at all. The only reason you need to go to this type of effort as a guy is if you have terrible looks and crappy game. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Insecurity over putting myself out there on tinderYou're expecting matches in 30 minutes with shitty pictures and no self confidence. Imagine how that's going to work for you with an actual person. Now go work on your self-confidence first. Lifting and grooming is a good start. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Much older womenOlder women are great for sex, not for relationships. And yes, the sex tends to be better because they have fewer hangups and know how to ask for what they want. Go for it. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm nearing 30 and everybody is telling me to get marriedThey either want you to get married so they can make you part of their misery or because they are jealous of your lifestyle. Either way just laugh and ignore them. If you really want to make sure they stop asking then start quoting marriage statistics. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 07:31 PM |
| 6 | What’s the deal with male feminists?I have a "friend" who is totally pro feminist and recently started touting his vegan lifestyle. Basically they want attention from multiple venues and don't care if they alienate every other man who actually has a penis. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/18 07:28 PM |
| 3 | "Kavanaugh and how the patriarchy installed an enabler of rape within the highest tier of the US justice system."I still can't believe that this guy is being held accountable for things he did 35 years ago as a stupid drunken student trying to get laid. I'd be willing to bet every single congressman and male senator (and most of the women) did things they aren't proud of in college. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Should I ask for my manager's job?Don't make it obvious that you're gunning for his job but continue to let him shoot himself in the foot and continue to point out (when it's appropriate) how incompetent he's being. Likely things will take care of themselves. Ask yourself first though if being a manager is what you want - and is the pay worth the extra possible hassle and time spent at work. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 12:24 AM |
| 16 | How would you classify this woman's behaviour at my gym?I'd tell her off for almost risking your safety during a lift. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 11:36 PM |
| 15 | Always Assume The Worst. Protect Yourself From Getting ‘Metooed’.And the simple (and scariest) fact is there is no burden of proof on these women at all. All evidence is circumstantial and men are tried by the court of public opinion, which means they are guilty. What I'd love to see just one of these men do is actually hold frame and tell the world that the woman is a liar and laugh in the face of anyone who says otherwise, not apologize and even subject themselves to any scrutiny. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 04:21 PM |
| 2 | smoking in front of meWhy would you even want to be around someone who does something you hate, especially something stupid like smoking? | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Attended my first Salsa congress, and I am interested in this one lady I metWhy bother with going dancing? Just ask her for something other than that - you'll know immediately if she's interested if she says yes. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Hurt my back - exercise options?Depending on the injury swimming could actually make it worse. You perform a lot of rotation and hip movement during most swimming strokes (plus massively high repetitions) and this can easily irritate a spine even if it isn't directly weight bearing. And please don't leg press. There should be ways to affect your chest/shoulders/back without affecting your spine but again, it depends on what you've done. I'd suggest getting it evaluated before you choose your options. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 07:59 PM |
| 11 | What are the top 3 tips, advice or things you learned from TRP?Women act based on emotion, not logic. Don't be afraid of hot girls even though you have been conditioned to. My parents were useless at parenting. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Montreal or Vancouver for a LTR? which city has less slutty girls and better girlfriend material?The two cities have completely different vibes. Vancouver is more granola and outdoorsy girls plus much more expensive cost of living. Montreal is more European feeling, hot foreign type women and laid back (but is freezing half the year). And yes picking a city based on that criteria is idiotic. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | How long does a 46 year old sexy cougar have until she loses her sex drive due to age?Why do I feel like this is a mail order bride? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 11:20 AM |
| 16 | Getting any girlfriend/plate is not your problem.Just like anything else - if you want to get exactly what you want then you need to get specific about it. Not "I want a job". Say "I want a job where I'm programming computers and making 100k a year." This brings clarity about what you need to do in order to get there. Then you can devise a plan and move forward (if you're not a loser and just complaining). With women, be specific about the traits you want and then plan about what you need to do to find them. Want to bang a hot IG model? Make s… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Tips for rushing a Fraternity?Each fraternity has a different philosophy and vibe. Make sure that you rush the ones that you think best suit you as a person, not the ones that will get you laid and drunk all the time. There are certain ones (like mine) that carry massive networking connections as well for after you graduate, which is a huge asset. Basically don't be an asshole, don't get stupid drunk and do anything stupid (especially when girls are around) and talk to every brother. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 01:24 PM |
| 2 | How to F close off dating app in one night?I set up one the first night (the one who seemed like the most likely prospect to put out on the first date) and then two the following night assuming that one would bail, which actually did happen. I ended up with first night girl going out with me again on the second night (canceled the other girl) and got laid because it was a second date. That's a great idea. They didn't do much checking, google your name or something? I told them it was a bit part and was even embarrassed to bring it up but… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 02:42 PM |
| 7 | How to F close off dating app in one night?Some apps (like Tinder) have a feature where you can tell it you're in a different location. One time I did this while traveling and started swiping and matching three days before I got there. As a result I had a bunch of matches and three dates lined up before I even landed. I got laid that weekend. The other advantage of traveling is you can literally be anyone you want. I always used picture of me with my band and pretended we were in town for a weekend for a show. Or one time there was a fil… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 07:38 PM |
| 233 | Women are sexual creatures.I lived with six women for two years in university, and it probably provided the best education I've ever had when it comes to women. Women are attracted to feelings and emotion, nothing else. This is why they go for guys they can't have (because they feel rejected) or aren't supposed to have (because they feel guilty or excited). And yes, they love sex. They want to get laid and they want it just as much as you do. They masturbate just as much as you do. They obsess about guys just like you obs… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 03:07 PM |
| 14 | New to a workplace where It's all women. I'm still learning and they all give me orders and talk to me in this dumbed-down tone. It frustrates me but I need to learn. What do?By the nature of women they have a hierarchy. If you were a new female they would treat you like this too, the fact you're a male just means it will last longer and be worse. If you want to keep the job, first of all don't get frustrated and lash out if you're treated badly. Good way to get labelled a difficult male and have them try to get you fired. Second figure out which ones are "in charge". Doesn't even have to be their actual job but which ones call the shots (almost like a prison because… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 08:15 AM |
| 10 | I need your insight bros, just been dumped, how do you explain this behaviour from my now ex?You handled it perfectly. Guarantee she will be back at some point. For now block her on everything and let her hamster go crazy and just don't give a crap. Sounds like you have a lot going for you and won't have a problem. Don't stress about the why - think about all the positive things going for you and realize that she just gave up a big prize. When she comes back (and she will) don't even waste your time. She's shown you that she thinks you're disposable. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Pain in right shoulder when squattingWith such a specific description I think you definitely have shoulder pain. And based on the two comments so far please don't take any advice from these people. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Influx of single moms?The other side of this coin is that men are realizing that they don't have to be tied down to a woman in a miserable relationship even after they have a child together. Formerly it was almost cultural (and certainly religious) to just take a vow and suck it up until "death do you part" even if it meant hating your life. Now with the slow death of religion and divorce becoming easier, guys like myself are actually creating single moms by getting the hell out of a bad relationship rather than bein… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Age with younger womenNo. Some women have zero problem with an older man. Go find those ones. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How to not pay for stuff on dates?I always say "I'll get this one you get the next one." Then if they don't even offer, next. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 11:51 PM |
| 207 | An experiment: Cold approach vs. Tinder/BumbleIf you swiped right on 600 women and only got 3 matches your pictures or something must be off. That's brutal. But if anyone needed an example to reinforce that cold approach is better this is it. Only problem being that 95% of guys are way too pussy to even attempt cold approach at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 11:18 PM |
| 6 | Why did I get banned from another subreddit ? Was it for recommending this sub ?You can't feed others the pill. They have to take it themselves. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting the feels for an older plate. Talk some sense into me?Because she's a low value person. Also, just because you're using protection doesn't mean she won't suddenly decide you're a good enough provider to get pregnant. However, if that is your response then fill your boots. The fact that everyone has told you one thing and you seem hell bent on doing another means you get what you want. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:01 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Tinder HB5 first date closeGood for you. Make sure if you’re going to ditch her you have evidence via text she had a good time and save it just in case. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 10:36 AM |
| 74 | The perfect example of how an alpha widow feels.He played it perfectly. Probably got everything he wanted out of her and then moved on when she wanted commitment and likely has several other women at this point. Notice how he likely kept the attraction super high simply because he wasn't available for commitment but he kept her emotionally charged. Something a lot of guys here need to note. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Anyone studying psychology/ counseling?My degree is in psychology but unless you're going to get a PhD and go into real counseling there's little point in an arts degree. If you can push through the post grad stuff you can make excellent money. One of my clients is a practicing psychologist specializing in PTSD cases and bills $250 an hour. See if you can do a psych degree but make it a BSc. It will open more doors if you decide to change fields. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:09 AM |
| 3 | I'm getting the feels for an older plate. Talk some sense into me?She is a stripper, HB7 So she's an ugly stripper. I know she is a stripper and alchoholic, but I do think she would make a great long term MLTR or open relationship. You must be smoking crack yourself to think this is a good idea. Jesus man, get some self respect and leave the addict sex workers to the guys who can't do any better. Unless that's you? You're a direct result of the people you associate with. Let that roll around in your head for a bit and you'll realize you shouldn't even be talki… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Girl posting selfie with BF - act of love, or ulterior motives?Why does it matter to you? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Online escorts..You probably won't find a girl (who's not a crackhead) that will come alone if there are two guys. Way too risky for them safety wise. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Online escorts..Check reputable sites, even in AC. Use an agency for sure not some random person online. Another options is that they likely cruise the lobby bars. If you see a really hot well dressed woman alone at the bar likely she's a pro. Strike up a conversation and just be careful. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Addicted to binge drinkingBe disciplined. Set yourself a number of drinks you're allowed and keep it there. For example, I'm allowed three drinks at a social night. You can space them out or drink them all at once but three is three. If you can't do that, you need to consider that you might be an alcoholic. Binge drinkers fall under that category as well. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Question for those in the gymEvery fitness person is going to have an opinion about the "best" way. There is no "best" way. What is optimal depends on a number of factors including diet, recovery and the initial goal. Do what works for you and provides consistent results over time. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:56 AM |
| 1 | going MM, how to handle HB9 in new circle?Sounds like you already have oneitis for Erica. Stop losing focus on what's important (which is school) and keep women as a secondary thing. You might think you're not shitting where you eat but you are. And all you're going to do is screw up your first year of school because of drama. The simple fact you wrote this post (and that text) means you're not thinking about school, you're thinking about pussy. Once you finish nursing as a guy you'll have so many women available simply due to ratios th… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 08:04 AM |
| 4 | Dating younger women as a dadSo far the three girls I’ve had over either didn’t care or didn’t notice... Exactly. Don't have a bunch of kids toys around in the open if you're having a girl over but don't hide it either. I just put my kids stuff in their rooms, close the doors and it looks fine. If they ask, don't lie. If they are into you they don't care. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:59 AM |
| -4 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSHow does this help anyone here? I'd rather see field reports with an actual lesson, not a minute by minute accounting. At the very least post whatever you learned about each scenario, not just "yay I talked to people and got laid." | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Gym HB10Besides the fact that I will never approach her /thread | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 02:12 PM |
| 21 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenIt's a terrible way to game women, not attract them. Those are two separate things. You can have lots of money and not be a beta bucks. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | What are the women like in your city?In any city you're going to have a bunch of women online who think they are 8s and 9s when they aren't simply due to the attention they get online. Mine has a great mixture of feminists and political social justice warriors mixed in with outdoorsy granola types. The benefit is all the guys are boring government types who make good money but are horribly boring so I get laid like a rock star. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Bad dateDid you actually kiss her or just try to awkwardly touch her? And if you're asking her to get together every three days it's way too much and you're coming off as needy. You're better off having 3-4 girls in rotation and seeing them all less than once a week (if you even have time). She lost interest. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Snape & Fry have oneitisGet out of your mother's basement. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:02 AM |
| 151 | How to get abundance: stop focusing on womenSuccess and happiness usually bring money, and fun. Money and fun attract women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 03:45 PM |
| 57 | Serena Williams has a meltdown at the US Open - and the rest was expectedThis is also one of the highest rated tennis umpires in the game. He didn't get there by making bad calls. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Is it odd to ask a hairstylist for her number?I'd rather keep a good stylist than have to find another one because I asked her out and it went south. And yes, it's their job to be chatty and make you feel comfortable. She wasn't hitting on you. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 08:02 AM |
| 42 | Serena Williams has a meltdown at the US Open - and the rest was expectedAnother major factor about the Williams Sisters is that they are all about marketing and self-promotion - at least Serena has been - since the start of their career. The whole catsuit thing at the start of the open confirmed it. This display of childishness and her arguing and whining also caused Serena to lose a whole game as a penalty. I've been watching tennis for over 30 years and I actually don't think I've ever seen that happen, especially in a major final. What this meant was that even th… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 07:58 AM |
| 14 | Made a bet that i would fuck and the girl found outShe said lmao which means she knows and thinks it's funny. Just fire back something confident and don't break frame and you'll get to fuck her again. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Interesting hobbies?Sports are really your best bet, especially team stuff where you can be a standout player if you get really good at something. Sports are also generally co-ed, even if your team isn't there are lots of female teams. What about something like adventure racing - you can do it solo or part of a team and have to have skills in multiple areas. And there is a strategy component. I have clients that do hardcore mountain biking and that is full of adrenaline and requires strategy to navigate a course. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Is this ASD?ASD is anti-slut defense. Typically used more when they are claiming they aren't going to have sex with you while making out and half naked. So really, ASD is something you WANT because you're in a good situation. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Purposely withholding sex from a girlOnly works if you can actually hold frame and she knows you have other options for sex. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 10:27 AM |
| 4 | Hottest girl at my job that everyone wants just confessed to me at work in front of everyone. I followed up and confirmed that these feelings are real. Where do I go from here?You sweep her up into your arms as the music swells and carry her to your car for a happily ever after ending. Then reality sets in. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Should i bang this married chick?Here's a big truth a lot of guys need to realize: Married women more often than not aren't getting enough sex or their husbands are super beta or fat and they want it - badly. Head to the adultery or sex over 30 subreddit and read some stories. They are everywhere. Be the guy she has a torrid one night sex romp with, expect that it will only be that and when she gives you the signals follow through. When she visits again tell her you two are going out for dinner and pick a place close to her hot… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 06:44 PM |
| 50 | 10mins into the date, she said "we're going to be friends...i just know it"so i just let the date ride out First mistake. Especially if you spent any money. I know she doesn't find me sexually attractive Then it wasn't actually a date. She didn't give me a chance. how can that happen straight away This is your hamster speaking. She either wants you or she doesn't. Your attitude is what fucked you up, not your texting. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone ever trained a fat girl before?Imagine if you invested all that time and energy into meeting and banging multiple women? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone ever trained a fat girl before?And as soon as she can get a hotter guy she will dump him. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever trained a fat girl before?Don't waste your time. Unless she used to be really fit she won't lose the weight. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Is Entrepreneurship the only real way to become wealthy?Practical example: myself. I'm a successful self-employed personal trainer and gym owner. Got out of school (barely graduated) and got a decent full time job making $35,000 a year managing corporate fitness sites (this was fifteen years ago). Had my own part time gig (training) making about $30 an hour about 5 hours a week. I did the math. $35k a year hourly for the hours I was putting in was about $17.50 an hour (working 2000 hours a year or 40 hours times 50 weeks). I could work 30 hours a wee… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:22 PM |
| 230 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)I'm willing to bet she told at least two of her friends too. And of course she "didn't even know what happened". Make sure to save those texts asking you to fuck her again. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Girls who don’t reply....turning them into plates?Watch their actions, not their words. Neither is interested enough to respond. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Need advice for a tinder matchLooking for a drinking buddy. Get me drunk and I'm completely yours but you'll have to buy the drinks and then I'm only putting out if I think you're worth it. I work stupid hours and hate small talk to not looking for someone clingy. If you're hot enough I'll let you have me any time you want, just don't be clingy and beta. Don't do what you wrote - never intentionally bring up sex immediately. Use innuendo ie "If your schedule is so busy then we should skip straight to the second date." Play i… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How can I make money online with $1000 a month disposable income?This is your best advice OP. You'll make 6-8% passively and not have to do anything. If you really want to invest tons of hours running another business when you don't have to thinking you'll make a big score then go for it, but just pushing money into an index fund and letting it sit especially at your age is a no brainer. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Chubby/borderline Fat chicks.Don't let others dictate what your standards are. If you want to bang them because they are your thing, go for it. I can't stand skinny girls. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 11:46 AM |
| 4 | Where do i look for escorts?Police don't care about hookers and johns unless it is directly impacting a neighbourhood or is a part of trafficking (ie underage girls or illegal immigrants). | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Where do i look for escorts?Massage parlors are the easiest way - you just have to confirm with the girl ahead of time if she does full service or not. Online web sites are the second best. Make sure if you're going to spend the money that they are reviewed and real - there are a ton of scammers in that industry (imagine that). Head to r/sexworkers and there are some resources there too. And yes, you get what you pay for. Probably in the midwest US you can get a decent girl for $250 for an hour but anything under that and … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 11:41 AM |
| 8 | Confident Vs CockyFor me the fine line between cocky and confident is simply this: A confident person doesn't have to rely on insults or trash talking, they just get the job done. This in our circles is also known as holding frame. Cocky people aren't 100% confident that they can get the job done so they rely on mind games or trash talk to bring their own confidence up. There's nothing wrong with that and it works for some people but it also always means that there is a part of that person that is afraid they are… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 11:33 AM |
| 120 | Never fall into a long distance relationship. Get out if you're in one.Wait until Thanksgiving. We used to call it the Turkey Shoot here in Canada because all the girls at college with "boyfriends back home" would go home for the long weekend and break up with them after cheating on them during the first month of school. If you're in college don't bother with any type of serious relationship (especially distance) and assume that your partner is cheating, it will make your life easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Every year I get older, the easier Tinder gets.I have no frame of reference since Tinder wasn't around when I was 24 but in my early 40's it's like fish in a barrel. I'm not getting a lot of matches from 25 year olds but they do exist. Anyone 32 and up is ridiculously easy to bang. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I hit rock bottom, feels like my life is going nowhere.Being a real estate agent here is the easiest thing in the world with no barrier to entry besides a couple of courses any idiot can take. And I don't have a degree and am a successful business owner. You're 21 and have your whole life ahead of you. Start working towards what you want. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Ever had trouble penetrating?Typically if you're big and she's small she needs to get on top. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 03:57 PM |
| 13 | Why women like getting cum in mouth?Don't you enjoy eating pussy? Women sometimes watch porn too and think that this is the ultimate pleasure for a guy. We call those the right women. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 0 | How to make her cum?The fact it bugs you until you overcome it is what you really need to let go of. Her orgasm is her problem, not yours. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 12:22 PM |
| 3 | What is TRP's advice on girls with kids?Two kids at 21 I wouldn't even waste my time. Way too much downside potential. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 12:21 PM |
| 25 | How do you handle "Disney Princesses"Most of these women are dying for their ideal Prince Charming. Be that guy without being a loser or committing to them. An added bonus is that they are probably super freaky in bed. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Advice (regarding relationships/sex life) for guy in early 20'sMy first advice is stop overthinking it. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Is this hamstering?That was a classic shit test. You did a good job just ignoring it. Agree and amplify is another strategy. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 9 | Terrible father or not, he’s still your father.Like others, my father wasn't really abusive or terrible, he was just absent and gave zero guidance. He should never have been a parent. I don't even call him Dad anymore, he's just Bill. He's completely disinterested in any relationship with me or his grandchildren and has seen my two kids three times since they were born 5 years ago and once was only because my ex-wife stopped at their place on the road one time for lunch. He lives a three hour drive away from me and is retired. My sister once… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 04:38 PM |
| 10 | There are so few men who are willing and able to lead a woman that they’re practically begging for it. Be that fucking guy.Can verify. My current LTR previously was involved with two adult children and got used to having to do everything for them, including pay their bills and wipe their noses. Every time I take charge and just do something as simple as cleaning out a closet (because it's annoying me) or planning an entire weeks' worth of meals (because I want food to be available FOR ME) she jumps my bones. And I also tell her what to wear in bed and what to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/18 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Is it weird that after losing virginity and finding out that sex by itself isn't what I thought it would be I sort of lost interest in pursuing women?Sex without attachment can still be fun. You have gone through the first part of learning that sex isn't the magical wonder that every guy thinks it is. Sex is sometimes disappointing, nasty and you have to deal with stupid drama. Sometimes it's stress free, amazing and you can completely do whatever you want to the girl and she comes back for seconds. Once you have more experience you'll be able to more easily determine which is which and not deal with the first part. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 11:17 AM |
| 12 | Female Dominant Workplace: how to deal?Couldn't sum it up any more perfectly than that. You should post that under How To Survive a Female Workplace. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 11:10 AM |
| 2 | If you don't get laid on a first night with a girl, did she find you as a beta provider?As much as guys here would have you think otherwise, most guys don't get laid the first time they interact with a girl even if she's drunk. 1st date is maybe 10% close rate and ONLY if there's already rapport and sexual tension built up. By the 2nd date I've gotten laid 40-50% of the time and it goes up to 90% by the third date. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here living in Montreal? Thinking of moving there.For young people Montreal is amazing. Cheaper to live than most big cities, lots of culture and nightlife and yes - gorgeous women compared with other cities as well. Very European feel. You do have to deal with the French culture and it is a very old city with lots of smokers and garbage (just like some European cities). If you're not used to cold weather though prepare for a shock because it's winter 5-6 months of the year and damned cold. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 09:12 PM |
| 3 | NEVER Validate and Compliment Women You Started DatingPart of any interaction with anyone is developing rapport. If you don't have any of this to start with, giving compliments is a bad idea. If you are trying to seduce a woman then giving her subtle compliments in a flirtatious way can actually help speed that along. One part where OP is correct is that many guys throw out compliments way too fast because they think it will help with seduction when they don't even have rapport built yet. So they come off as creepy or desperate. Check any hot IG gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 09:46 AM |
| 4 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThere's nothing wrong with getting married older and waiting, it's just that society (and most women) see marriage as the ideal vision for life, which I know now is BS. I fell into it myself. At 50 you want a compatible partner to do things other than raising kids. Hopefully you still have a great libido and sex life and then you also have security of knowing if anything happens due to health you'll be taken care of. It's the best scenario. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 09:32 AM |
| 33 | Stuck my dick in crazy, went through a month of hellI hope you used protection, because people in this scenario definitely shouldn't procreate. To anyone in high school or college, don't do what this guy did. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Is it a bad idea for a 37 year old man to marry a 21 year old?Yes. This shouldn't even be a question. Have as much sex with her as you want, but don't marry her. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Relationships aren't always meant to last forever, even marriage.I honestly think marriage should be a renewable contract every five years without any penalty beyond splitting assets and possibly also child support if a partner chooses to terminate the agreement. So many people stay in bad relationships because of convenience or the threat of divorce rape and choose to suffer instead. Makes zero sense to me. And for any young guys reading this, don't even think about getting married until you're at least 30 and have lived for a while. There is zero hurry if y… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Overcomplicate Things.Completely agree with your statement that everything is contextual. Most of the "advice" on ask trp (and this sub) comes from guys under 25 with very little experience in real relationships and dealing with real people. Once you're here long enough you figure out who actually knows what they are talking about and can back it up with experience and application. My game and approach is quite different than most would talk about here but it works for me just fine. That's probably because I'm older … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 09:43 AM |
| 1 | First time - girl invited me to her houseDon't do anything like pulling her hair, etc unless you are practiced and good at it already. And if you have to ask how to start, it's obvious that it's a complete lie you haven't had sex in a while, you haven't had sex ever. Make sure you use protection. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Trying to make sense of a walkoutSounds like in trying to be cocky and funny you were just a douche. Remember you can be confident without being arrogant. She wasn't looking for a provider, she was just looking for a guy who didn't treat her like crap on the first date. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 09:34 AM |
| 5 | What's an expected Tinder girl to lay ratio?Don't worry about numbers, worry about increasing your skills so you get laid more often. Think of it like batting average. When you're first starting out you might get 1 in 10 with an average of an HB 5. The goal is to reduce that to 1 in 5 with higher quality women, not worry about an artificial number. If you're wasting money taking girls out - stop doing that. Free dates are totally possible and first dates should almost always be something low key and no cost. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 11:25 AM |
| 5 | She says she's allergic to condoms but she's on birth control. Anyway I can verify this?Some girls are allergic - so use latex free. If she resists then you know she's let a ton of guys go bare in her and that's just not a good idea. Remember your priority is to protect yourself, not just do whatever she wants because she says it's okay. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 11:23 AM |
| 5 | My Crazy Feminist ProfessorI'd have started saying louder "SO YOU'RE A RACIST." Because if she is biased against white people then that's exactly what she is. Doesn't even need to be called reverse racism. I'd also consider filing a complaint against her with the school. People like that shouldn't be teaching anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 11:07 AM |
| 2 | FWB questionIf you're going to propose it, make sure it's kind of a cocky but funny request. Like "hey Saturday, I'd like to upgrade you to Wednesday this week. Come over at 8." | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Lots of free time during my job, what can I do?Take a laptop or tablet with you and work on anything. Getting paid to work on other stuff is hugely valuable. My suggestions beyond those already said are learn a language, take an online course in something you're interested in (The Great Courses online is great for this). | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 09:39 AM |
| 100 | On finally fucking a girl after 18 years of celibacyClaiming you have been celibate for 18 years - when you're 18 years old. Jesus. Who is upvoting this? Good for you for getting laid but don't be so dramatic about it and claim things like your whole life has been a waste. Desperate longing and existential despair are things you shouldn't even be commenting on at this stage of your life because you literally haven't experienced anything yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | No progressYou can't put zero effort into things and expect results. You have two pictures - it takes no effort to take a couple of more with good locations. You cite one example of going out where you "stood around awkwardly" and are surprised girls aren't falling all over you. Your whole post reeks of lack of confidence and that's obviously what's coming out when you're in person. Nothing that can't be worked on with some effort. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 07:25 AM |
| 6 | Consider the bottom 80% - Your competition is patheticThanks for referencing what I wrote and it's a perfect follow up example to exactly what you stated about my article - that it isn't as hard as you think to be in the top 20%. And I completely agree with your field report and have had the same experience, which is why I am constantly blown away at the amount of idiots who can't get laid off of things like Tinder. Simple things like having a clean place, inviting a girl to something fun (instead of just "come over and fuck") and being able to coo… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Hitting on the receptionist at your gym is shitting where you eat, correct?She's probably hot but also gets hit on by dozens of guys daily. And likely has her pick of any hot guy at the gym. Give it a shot but odds will be skewed against you unless you're exceptionally amazing. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 12:09 AM |
| 6 | Women have a lot of sex. It's there for the taking.When there are things like kids and a family in the equation the game changes significantly. Just "replacing" the girl can sometimes mean divorce rape and a whole lot of problems with raising children. Never mind that some men would rather actually try to improve their current situation rather than burn it down and start from nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | RP view on "monk mode" for a "sex addict"?You're not a sex addict, first of all. You're a healthy normal human male possibly with a high libido which is again normal for any male who works out and takes care of themselves. Don't let society shame you into thinking wanting sex constantly is some type of addiction. Casual dating and plating women really isn't that much effort. Swipe on Tinder and message while you're on the throne. Date when you have the chance. All you need is a couple of decent plates to be able to access sex any time y… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:27 PM |
| 29 | Women have a lot of sex. It's there for the taking.You can never change a girl’s mind once she’s decided you’re not fuckable. Not even with The Red Pill. The entire married red pill sub would probably disagree with this one. It is possible to recreate desire in a woman, you just have to have the right approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 04:22 PM |
| 61 | Get Stuff Done (26 Tips for School)Upvoting just for the thoroughness. Amazing post. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 12:18 PM |
| 14 | How badly did I fuck up this possible F-close?You didn’t escalate when there was clear opportunity - three times. That’s almost cringe worthy and why you got friend zoned. You also should have dealt with her calling you a friend right away much better. Escalate. No girl invites a guy over to her place alone for companionship. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Girl wants to wait before having sexHow old are you? And how far have you gotten during the dates? If she's young and inexperienced she might just have cold feet. If you're that concerned with just getting laid find another girl who will put out easier. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 08:38 PM |
| 8 | The Tinder ExperimentAnd these are all things you can control yourself except for the height. And if you're confident enough height doesn't matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you walk away from a job?Why can't you quit and go back to school? And this is a lesson to do your research before signing on with any company. The internet exists for a reason. Also, you must have signed a contract about the job? If you didn't then again, it's your own fault. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 09:23 AM |
| 35 | The Tinder ExperimentDon't know what you're doing on there but I can get a hookup any time within a short time frame. It's like fish in a barrel. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 12:26 AM |
| 95 | The Tinder ExperimentTL;DR: Alpha profiles get more matches and older women are looking for beta providers. Great experiment though. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/18 12:21 AM |
| 8 | Why the fuck is my ex texting me this shit?Ignore. Get the phone back or just write it off. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 02:49 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with stds? Oppinions?If it's inside your mouth it's a canker, not herpes. Very common if you ate salty or spicy food or just bit the inside of your lip. And you can't pass it on. Chill. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 01:53 PM |
| 5 | LTR's male friendYou just posted on an anonymous internet forum about a small incident that happened months ago she seemed to resolve quickly and properly. Don't worry about what she says, worry about what she does. And stop being so insecure. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 08:00 AM |
| 8 | What are the notable and subtle differences in gaming young 20 y.o.'s vs 40y.+ married women?40's women want positive attention usually even more than women in their 20's because they are starved for it. Their husbands don't want to fuck them any more, they are getting saggy and their bodies are starting to go and they know it. They love to be flirted with. Cocky and funny is the best method. Once you have established rapport and interest then they are also WAY faster to jump into sexual talk and hook up. They tend to also be open to anything in bed. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 07:57 AM |
| 7 | Why arent girls “DTF”?I've found in my experience that women who put that on their profile have done it in the past and gotten pumped and dumped. It doesn't mean that they won't do it again, they are just trying to show that they won't be that easy - but if you have decent game then they will be. Every time. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Got accused of sexual harassment at my friends party. What should I do?It's not harassment, you're just an idiot for being so messed up you were sleeping on a bathroom floor. Don't be surprised if you now have a reputation for being a burnout loser. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | The girl from work...Stopped reading after the "I know I'm doing something stupid but." You're doing something stupid. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 09:19 PM |
| 12 | LTR is going on a trek with one of her guy friends. Next?Can't believe how many guys here (who probably don't even have girlfriends) are so quick to tell OP to dump his girlfriend over something that could be completely trivial. You don't need to dump your LTR every time they talk to another guy. I know that other guys want to bang my LTR and she does too - it's what she does about it that makes the difference. To the OP, if it's a simple day hike then she invited you and she's going anyway and that shouldn't be a problem. If it's a multi-day or overn… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Dating Apps - It really is that easyComment on one of their pictures. Chat for a bit and set up a date quickly. Make sure you polarize and flirt via text a bit to establish sexual intention. Don't pressure for sex or anything major on the first date, keep it flirty and physical but watch for LMR and don't push it. Maybe 10% of my first dates end with sex or at least oral. Second date is dinner at my place where I cook for them. Seal the deal with a good meal and a bottle of wine and boom you're getting laid. Sometimes this needs t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Plastic surgery worth it in my case?It sounds like you have done a lot of good things but have one physical barrier towards feeling more confident about yourself. However, this isn't like extra fat or less muscle that you can fix with hard work, it's basically a deformity. You can tell this guy to accept who he is all you want but that's not his reality. If you have the money and want to get it done, go for it. You may also be able to get it done for free if your country has paid medical care due to getting kicked. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 04:56 PM |
| 3 | How to transition from incidental kino to overt?You're completely overthinking it. Put her arm into yours and assume the dominant position. If she resists it means she isn't interested. Same with hand holding - just slide your hand across hers and see how she responds. Then you can move up closer to her neck and hips. Things like putting your hand on her thigh, upper arm and across her back like when you're walking somewhere you guide her through doors by the small of her back. Then keep your arm around her for a bit as you walk. Read up on b… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Plate i’ve banged a few times says we aren’t “sexually compatible”Bad sex. Your dick supposedly hurts her (I doubt if you're "too big" you probably just didn't get her wet or use lube). She has a boyfriend. And apparently you blow too fast. I'm sure she's probably cutting her losses and you should too. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 09:41 AM |
| 7 | Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guysI have always had a great time with Tinder, but then I’m attractive and have decent text and in person game. Plus in my demographic of mid 30’s to 40’s there’s lots of desperate post wall women if you just want to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:40 PM |
| 29 | Bouncer Tales 3: Mate GuarderI'm 100% sure if the husband hadn't been there she would have been blowing somebody in the toilets. Seen it way too many times. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP exaggerate the smv of older guys?Remember also as you get older most men let themselves go while the ones that keep themselves in shape and actually keep their social skills etc are way further ahead proportionally. I was at a local water park with my kids a few weeks ago and simply because I don't have a spare tire, slightly visible abs and definitely work out I was getting looks from tons of women twenty years younger. I was shocked at the proportion of fat balding guys who obviously just gave up. To be the top 20% (even top … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:56 AM |
| 10 | 99% chance that my gf cheated on me. How do I approach this with dignity?Resist the urge to confront her and find out what actually happened because we all know that's what you want to do. Hard next and she will blow up your phone for two weeks. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:48 AM |
| 7 | Bouncer tales 2: LexiNot to take this in another direction, but be careful - now that she's been clearly rejected it wouldn't surprise me if a rumor went around about you at the club that you came onto her hard and she had to fight you off or something similar. I had this happen at the last chain gym I worked at when I shot down a girl one drunken night because I was married. Two days later it was going around that I begged her for a blow job. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Fwb turned crazyShe's socially imploding herself. Just sit back and laugh and watch the train wreck. Other girls won't be affected by it as much as you think they might be. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 12:04 PM |
| 20 | Do you screen Tinder dates?If a girl online doesn't already have full body pics you should instantly know she's overweight and trying to hide it. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Should I full send?There's no harm in hitting her up once - just once - and see how she responds. Make the initial attempt but then ignore if she doesn't react. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 12:00 PM |
| 2 | How should I have responded to this text from plate about sex?Your response was actually good IMO. Suggest a time for her to come over without alluding to any activity. She knows what you want. And when she's there in person, escalate and joke about her having to be on top. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 11:58 AM |
| 15 | Three Harsh Truths About Cold Approach PickupI just started playing the bass guitar after being a singer for many years to develop a new skill. Rather than doing a one hour lesson once a week I decided to devote to 10-15 minutes every day. Not surprising at all that I'm learning much faster. Consistency in anything over time yields results - and the more often you practice even in short bursts, the faster the results will come with anything skill based. Just an example, but whether it's gaming women or playing an instrument, daily applicat… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 11:48 AM |
| 4 | I enjoy going to Prostitutes...I’m actually curious as to what only 15 minutes is like? My sessions have always been an hour and involve multiple positions and usually two orgasms (from me). Just a quick makeout session, one position and boom and you’re out? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 12:17 AM |
| 5 | New plate says she refuses to give blowjobsShe will blow you if she wants to. Period. Since she’s submissive I’d suggest next time you have your hand on her throat put your cock in her mouth. Just be careful because this is an easy route to an assault charge if it goes the wrong way. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 09:26 PM |
| 250 | FR: My first experience with a white knight and getting accused of 'sexual assault'You had the right approach throughout, just wasn't in the cards. Hopefully you weren't fingering her for a while and obviously - as soon as she let you touch her pussy your next suggestion should have been to get the hell out of there. Even pocket aces lose 12% of the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 11:43 PM |
| 6 | Being called sexist by girlfriend for refusing to be penetrated by a phallus shaped silicone toy. How to proceed?As soon as any woman used the word misogynist referring in a derogatory way to me they would be out the door. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Going to be living with 3 girlsI lived with 6 girls in university for two years as the only male. It was probably the best education of how not to be afraid of women ever again I could have had. Plus I got laid with a bunch of their friends (and one of the roommates after she moved out). I used to tell them how to dress to go pick up guys (so got a big education into the thought process) and walking into a bar with 3-4 women that you're totally not interested in was amazing social proof. Basically don't get involved with dram… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 09:35 PM |
| 19 | For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds.Depends on what you are talking about. In terms of earning potential men are usually just getting started at 35. Physique wise as a man (especially with enhancements like HGH) you can still get a killer body in your 40's and even 50's. It's also much easier to get into the top 20% of men the older you get because many men give up once they get married and have kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | If I ever catch my LTR cheatingYou should beat yourself for hanging out with such high quality people. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Any experience with vibrators?Does she currently use a vibrator herself to get off when she masturbates? That will tell you everything you need to know. If she does then use hers - if she doesn't then get her to do it in front of you and/or show you how she does it to herself. If she doesn't masturbate then run, because she's either a liar or a complete sex prude. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a co-worker from hellTwo strategies: either ignore her and pretend she doesn't exist or actually manipulate her enough to make her your ally. Sounds like you're taking steps in one direction and that's a good thing. Basically if she says anything to you ignore it and don't stress about stupid decisions she makes, she will end up shooting herself in the foot if she's disliked. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 8 | Why is TRP concerned with “n-count”?I know a guy who married a girl who I know for a fact has a three figure n-count (so over 100) - when she was single she fucked everything that moved. She told him her number was 1/4 of what it actually was because she knew it would make her less desirable and no man would ever commit to her. The best strategy is to not care, assume her number is higher than she will ever tell you it is. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:20 PM |
| 25 | Help! Sexual Harassment = BullshitYou learned an important lesson, which is never offer an opinion against another person at work. There's no point. I don't know how that conversation even came up, but either way you were stupid to even engage on a topic so trivial. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | not seeing any progress in the gym. What am i doing wrong?Are you lifting heavy enough to see results? What kind of program are you following? Also, if you're an ectomorph ie naturally skinny then gains will come slower unless you address your diet seriously. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Chad's easy peasy lifeHe was direct with what he wanted. Many men need to learn that women like to be dominated and told what to do IF your SMV is high enough and they are attracted to you. Try telling a girl you only want to fuck her and hold frame - it will tell you quickly if she sees you as attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How to lay a gold digger?Had the exact same scenario except she kept hinting about taking her shopping while (mostly) rejecting my advances. Once I laughed and told her it was never going to happen she stopped responding. Don't waste your time. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 09:36 AM |
| 9 | If guys suddenly stopped asking women out, would women begin chasing men?I was banging a married Chinese woman for a while and the funny thing was she was doing it as revenge because her husband had an affair with a younger woman. She constantly said what a terrible person he was right after I'd finished doing anything I wanted to her. It goes across all cultures. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/18 09:32 AM |
| 1 | 24 years old, I want to start investingCheck out r/investing - they have a sidebar with tons of books. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Orbiter or can I save it?Here's a news flash: you're still in an insecure and lonely place. No woman is going to help you get out of it. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Advice/thoughts about joining a fraternity?I had an amazing experience with my fraternity. It completely changed my college experience, but I joined the right one. Look for one (I was a Sigma Chi but even they vary from chapter to chapter) that has guys with a similar outlook to yourself and not just partying all the time. Focus on your studies first and achieving there, then focus on having fun. A fraternity can be a great place to meet good guys and have a ton of fun. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | 24 years old, I want to start investingTwo words: Index funds. Vanguard has the lowest rates currently. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Orbiter or can I save it?If she's not letting you make out with her then yes, you're a toy to her that gives her what she craves - attention. Stop paying attention to her and watch what happens. If she's interested in you she will double down on her attention seeking, if not you'll see her on the lap of another guy the day after. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 09:30 AM |
| 8 | How do I increase my standards?You can always try for someone better and then use her as your backup girl - women do this all of the time. Just try not to fall into the trap of settling for what's available before trying for someone hotter. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 09:28 AM |
| 16 | How do I increase my standards?A 2 at 10 o'clock is a 10 at 2 o'clock. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 09:26 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with an ultra jealous LTR?Usually people are jealous because they are cheaters themselves and are worried about you doing the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | SEX GOD METHOD FOR KINDLECan’t get it except online - it wasn’t published widely. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:49 PM |
| 23 | Vetting: How it should work.Even without doing the leg work you did these are all things you would have found out once you got to know her directly. She sounds like a train wreck and if anything you should be pissed at Susan for even suggesting that she hook her up with you. They all sound like fairly low value people. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 11:11 AM |
| 4 | Ex hit me up after 2 years. Oneitis developped.The only lost cause in this situation is you. And the belief that you're not still the beta of the year. You aren't ready to deal with this properly so cut it off. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Is there any book by a celebrity womanizer where they detail their sexual exploits?Nowadays no man would write that, especially a celebrity because they would be labelled as a #metoo monster. You'll find some stuff sprinkled in with many autobiographies of rock stars, etc. Remember these guys don't have to try to get laid. You do. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | LTR snapchatting a guy I don’t knowRandom thirsty guys add girls on Snapchat all the time. If you see repeated notifications then ask about it otherwise why worry. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Career/Income AdviceI'm his personal trainer. And he makes enough money to afford me a couple of times a week which is not cheap. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:48 AM |
| 19 | Do women ever admit to cheating ?This sounds like a great relationship to bring another child into. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Got a date with a 20 year old. Should I avoid alcohol?You’re in your 30s going on a date with a 20 year old and worried about legal issues? I’m sure she drinks all the time. Just get enough evidence that you didn’t force alcohol on her. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:47 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill Career/Income AdviceSounds like you’re well on the right track and ahead of the game assuming you’re mid 20s. Best thing career wise I can suggest is once you have a solid foundation of a few years of experience find an area you can niche yourself in and become an expert there so you are in demand anywhere you go. For example, one of my clients is an engineer but specializes in irrigation systems. He runs a consulting company which is where the big money is. Another thing to practice is patience. You have a ton of … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Is this girl fucking her dogs?Next time make sure to ask her and then let us know how that went. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Date last night seemed to go south quick, need advice.Nothing really bad IMO. She’s just not a first date put out kind of girl. Maybe second or third. Set something up again soon. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Vasectomy?Ask yourself honestly if you can ever picture yourself with kids or wanting a family. For some the answer is no and if that’s the case you’re good to go. Freeze your sperm just in case. I didn’t know I wanted kids until I was 32 however. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble picking up women as a bouncer/security guardIf they want you badly enough they will be waiting at home at 3am. Or for last call. Work on closing and just make sure you have 2 options in case one flakes. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:09 AM |
| 12 | Bouncer talesA band that tours college bars instead of actual venues. Most of them might have released one album that didn't go far but can still get a crowd of 500 people if they hit the right places. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Perfect job at good company in shit locationSuffer socially for a couple of years and build towards your future. Plus, you never know when that crappy location will actually turn out to be amazing. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 89 | Bouncer talesMy blue pill lens was shattered as a bouncer when a girl in my college class who bartended, was only 18 and a "good christian virgin" - what she told me when I was trying to game her constantly - went onto a tour bus with a B level band and came back into the bar and told the other female bartender she had just fucked two members of the band and it was amazing. I can provide many, many examples as can any person who has worked in the bar/club industry for any period of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 06:27 PM |
| 140 | Lindsay Lohan is as red pill as she can getThis will get her attention, which is exactly what she needs for her career since she hasn't been relevant in 15 years. Well played actually. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 03:28 PM |
| 2 | How do I handle older women giving shit on dating apps?There are so many ways you could play that easily. "I have a fetish for crazy cat ladies." if you want to be funny. "I'm sick of immature women and you look like someone who knows what she wants" if you want to compliment her. "I'm not as nice as you think I am." "Experience counts a lot in my world." These are just random ones I made up on the spot. Older women on dating apps are like shooting fish in a barrel. Start flirting immediately. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:06 AM |
| 3 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyIs this how her relationship with you started? Likely she's considering or already has branch swung. If he's spending that much time with her then he's more of a boyfriend than you are at this stage. Yes, it's something you should be worried about if you want to keep her around. However, from the sounds of it you should be looking at other options yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:02 AM |
| 15 | My girlfriend spends too much time with this guyI want you to see my sinep. Works every time. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 11:00 AM |
| 51 | Gf angry that I slept with other people while we were dating.Just in casual conversation you brought up that you banged another girl. That's such an incredibly great idea. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 05:28 PM |
| 5 | My LTR got me off guard with thisTravelling together is a great test for any relationship. Any incompatibility will shine right through quickly. Dated a girl once who's idea of a vacation was to spend every waking moment doing activities while mine was sitting by a pool and relaxing. Guess what happened to that relationship? | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Guy continues to hit on and won’t leave alone my LTRIf he's bothering her at her work place to the point of approaching her after work then she should get HR involved. If she isn't willing to do that then that will tell you a lot. Sometimes beta guys are just lonely psychos. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 12:13 AM |
| 37 | Notes From the Home Front.I loved my ten year. I went from the skinny short geek to a guy competing as a bodybuilder and made a point of bringing my girlfriend at the time who was a Guyanese knockout with a killer body. What made it very Red Pill obvious to me was the complete 180 most of the guys who made my life a living hell when they saw I was 20 pounds heavier and in great shape. Lifting and also having social proof with a hot girl made all the difference. Go figure. My 30 year isn't for a few years but I'm sure it … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 10:32 PM |
| 1 | 37m slept with a girl I thought was singleMake sure to save his messages if he’s been threatening you. Make sure he takes the first swing with witnesses. If he has a record he’ll go back to jail immediately. Keep banging his girlfriend. Win/win. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Cumming Inside Girls on VacationJesus I don't even think you're the type of guy who would care if he had herpes. Although if this is how you act I can almost guarantee you have it already. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Personal trainers of TRP, what is your life like and advice for 22yo?In terms of standard certifications your best bet is the NSCA (National Strength and Conditioning Association)- their CPT is recognized worldwide and can be done via correspondence. You download the textbook, take an exam and then do an in person practical. If you have a degree you can get a CSCS which is even better. ACSM (American College of Sports Medicine) has a PT cert as well. NASM (National Academy of Sports Medicine) is also a good company but not as well recognized. All of those will ge… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Personal trainers of TRP, what is your life like and advice for 22yo?To qualify, I've been a trainer for 18 years and deal with high level injury rehab cases and advanced bodybuilders. Have run my own successful business for over ten years and have my own gym. Turnover for trainers is big because most of them get into it for the wrong reasons. You have to be okay with getting up at 5am every day and actually enjoying working with people who are regular home bodies and joe blue collar people. You won't train athletes and celebrities 98% of the time as much as Inst… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Playing tennis match against a plate and loser gets a forefit, any suggestions?Play strip tennis. Either way it's a win win. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 10:27 AM |
| 24 | Dad threatened to shoot me, moving out this weekendUnethical Life Pro Tip: Have Dad arrested for threatening deadly harm with a weapon, stay in his place for free while he's in jail. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 05:43 AM |
| 27 | should I stop following this HB9 on insagramYou're still thinking about a girl you haven't spoken to for a year? Jesus. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Do tattoos affect smv in anyway?On you, it will depend if the girl likes tattoos. Many of them do because it screams bad boy and that’s what they want. On them, it typically means they are low self esteem which is a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 06:52 PM |
| 313 | Co-Worker/buddy sold his car and motorcycle to buy a more expensive car for his wifePays for daycare yet she's a stay at home mom? Stopped reading at that point. This guy is beyond help. The reason that women like this get away with this stuff is because guys like this let them. Don't be that guy. Easy lesson. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 11:41 AM |
| 25 | I kicked her outStating your bed is only for sex is also a good way to get labelled a sex creep in a serious hurry. I wouldn't have used those words. Saying you're tired too and you'd rather she didn't spend the night is fine, saying flat out that she needs to fuck you or leave is dangerous territory in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Relationship with my Step-motherWhy does this question make me think of the porn is good thread on the main sub? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 10:55 AM |
| 8 | Kind of a weird question but does anyone here prefer porn over real women?You’re not “getting” with them. They are a fake simulation on a screen and don’t give a fuck about you. The fact you would even consider that a screen interaction is better than a face to face human one is why our society is in decline. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 10:51 PM |
| 16 | Getting laid on business trips/hitting expats in your local cityFor those who live in a large city that would have international travellers this is also good advice for guys who want to practice game on their own. Often there are high end hotels close to each other and you can literally walk into the bar and scope out women who are there sitting by themselves. If you see one proceed to sit and order a drink and make an attempt. If you can escalate the only logistic change is you have to go back to their room instead of yours. If there aren't any prospects vi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 10:02 AM |
| 1 | any advice for visiting a hooker? in NV currently.In Nevada at any brothel you'll pay three times as much for a crappy experience. You're much better off hiring a decent escort right to your hotel room - just do your research. If you look online there are whole web sites dedicated to reviews of working girls in every city. That way you'll get exactly what you want. Most working girls use Twitter for correspondence and info. Do your research and then reach out on there or use a decently reviewed agency. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 09:54 AM |
| 19 | Wow. Female contestants of reality TV shows such as Love Island regret their decisions. Who knew!?Stop with the Chad and Stacy crap. That's for incels to throw around. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 01:35 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with high smv girlsAny post that's only about one girl means you have oneitis. I'd cancel on Wednesday and go find other girls to hang out with. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Competing against High SMV best friend. Should I be comfortable with being a second option?Why does it matter if you're second choice because he blows them off? You're still getting laid. I'd laugh and happily accept the stack of plates flowing my way. You could also work on being more socially outgoing but stop thinking of it as a competition and start thinking of it as a great opportunity to land women hassle free. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 12:08 PM |
| 2 | So anyone ever pretended to be a foreigner at a club? Cause it worked for me and maybe too wellActing like someone else takes normal fear away because you're playing a role, not yourself. My buddies and I used to have whole role playing nights where we would be professional sports players, foreigners, we even had a night where we would pretend we were gay guys all together trying to get one of us laid with a girl for the first time. It always works like a charm because it's fun and you're suddenly the interesting people at the bar. If you ever want to pull easily pretend you're gay. No jo… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that it doesn't matter how innocent a girl looks when she's taking it from three random guysYou say she’s a 9 but the fact she went to a random hotel room and got fucked by three guys she doesn’t know (likely unprotected) means she’s nothing close to that. And it’s likely not the first time she’s done something like that. I’d be pretty grossed out and wouldn’t be able to fuck her again after hearing that. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 10:52 AM |
| 3 | Reasons a lot of average girls think they are super models?Semi hot girls (like 5-7 on scale) get actually more attention than girls who are model level - mostly because an average guy will think they are attainable. 80% of guys disqualify themselves from hitting on the supermodel because they have no self esteem and therefore don't think they would ever have a chance. Confidence is why you sometimes see an average guy with a super hot girl. Think about it - if you were day gaming would you go after the 9 or would you be too intimidated and go after a 6… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Edging vs NoFap: Pros and cons?Edging can cause more problems than actually having an orgasm because the dopamine rush is constant and longer. Better off just not to touch it and jerk to completion once in a while. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Looking For Some Podcasts I Can Listen To On Spotify With Red Pill Principles. Thank YouJordan Harbinger has great stuff on business and how to deal with people. His guests are great too. Joe Rogan depending on the guest has some great shows too. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 10:23 PM |
| 5 | First tinder date in monthsFirst of all, good job staying sober for that long. Your priority still needs to be sobriety so don't beat yourself up about anything. The biggest thing you need to do is relax but also learn how to function with women when you're sober, which is a big adjustment. My suggestion is do something fun that you enjoy and will take your mind off of everything. Don't be afraid to take the lead and make moves either - if you get shot down then whatever, there are other Tinder sluts everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?As much as I love my kids if there was some kind of BS settlement like that which would require me to be in the poorhouse I would leave the country. I’d do my best to let my kids know I loved them as much as I could and exactly why I couldn’t be there with them. Hopefully when they got older they would understand. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying in my band for the SMV?Bands are tricky - figure out what you would rather have, but honestly drama isn't worth it. My band isn't the best but it's a good bunch of guys with zero drama even if the skill level (and therefore gig level) isn't where I'd like it to be. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 11:41 PM |
| 9 | Holy Flip This Shit is REAL - I think?I'm part of the older cohort (43) and once you learn the game it's amazing how easy it is to flirt with and eventually seduce younger women. The thing is if she's truly a 5 and you're paying attention to her she's enjoying the attention for sure because usually 5's don't get looked at twice unless a guy is really drunk. So she's lapping it up. She also might be looking for either plausible deniability having one last fling before she gets married or to branch swing because her fiance is upset al… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying in my band for the SMV?Depending on what you play it would be easy to find another one. I'm a vocalist so usually it's harder to find a good band but bass players and drummers are always in high demand in my city. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 09:33 PM |
| 24 | Dealing with a plate that’s going to be on TV.If she’s a plate she should be fucking other people and so should you. Sounds like she’s more than that to you. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Tinder?I've had great times with it, but it's like anything else - you still have to be attractive, have good game and know how to seduce women properly. If you don't know how to do that you'll be like the million losers who say "Tinder doesn't work." | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:53 PM |
| 20 | Is this final message Red Pilled enough? (Already sent, will hard next LTR of 2 years)She wrote you one word and you wrote a novel back. Women don't care about you feel - they care about how you make THEM feel. So that was a complete waste of time. Next time just write back "k" and let her brain go into overdrive. It will be much more effective and save your thumbs. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Plate not sexual anymore, should I next?Attraction is gone and good luck getting it back. You're better off just dropping it and if she comes back make sure you don't do the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Tinder exists to keep you using TinderThis is exactly what I always did. And it worked like a charm every time. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Not sure what I've found and would like some adviceOneitis, buys her things AND will have a pregnancy. Stop banging a slut without protection even if you think she's the only girl who will ever have sex with you. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 11:37 AM |
| 13 | Should I continue with my revenge on my (ex)gf?Jesus, you're so weak minded you're trying to invest years of your life all about a woman who you claim is "dead" to you. And then you even mention things like physically beating her. You're an idiot. No wonder she fucked another guy. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Keep GoingI always love when the 18 year olds give sage advice you should apply towards life. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | New plate sends me casual selfie out of the blue. How to (not) respond?Just say thanks and tell her to come over. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 07:39 PM |
| 2 | What should I do? Feel extremely ashamed.Stop fucking girls that other guys you know are fucking. You're setting yourself up for problems. Stop being ashamed because of someone else's opinion. Work on your opinion of yourself being rock solid. Confidence goes a long way with women. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 11:27 AM |
| 3 | What have you older guys (30's+) done to improve your social skills and game?You just need more experience. Use every opportunity you can to get out and interact with people, men and women. I had the same problem because I basically moved and worked through my 30's and lost my social circle. Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People is a great resource. It talks about things like letting people talk about themselves, asking open ended questions and learning to read a situation properly. For example, asking if someone had a good weekend is different than ask… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 11:23 AM |
| 35 | A narrow escapeYour sister knowingly helped her friend attempt to alter your life permanently in a negative way. Instant dismissal. I'd forget I even had one. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 11:09 AM |
| 6 | Exercise for sexPlus danger factor kills it for me. The girl has to have super good control otherwise it's easy to have a nasty accident. I only do that with women who really know what they are doing. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Fucked a 7 last night - Here’s how it happenedLesson: Hold frame. Ignore her attempts to control the scenario. Save the text message just in case she gets regret. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Toronto survival/thriving tips?Lift for two years and gain 20 pounds. Get your fashion on point and your game would have to be impeccable. In short, you need a ton of time and work. Get started. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Need escalation tips. Story included.Definitely LMR. She was a first night pickup and instead of going to another place she agreed to go back to your place immediately - what do you think that means? She might have had buyers remorse once you started making out (due to you being a bad kisser) and changed her mind last minute. Better to let her go than force the issue. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Shit test: "I'm done with casual sex, I want to build a connection first, if I have sex with a guy early on I probably don't like him etc etc"All that says to me is that she will definitely have sex with you early if you can convince her there is a connection. Easily taken care of. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Shit tests passed, blowjob awarded.Women will do anything for a guy they consider attractive enough. Plus, she's obviously into domination a bit so you can remember that for next time. Tell her what to do, don't assume or ask. And get proof afterwards she enjoyed it for safety. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 09:09 AM |
| 44 | Experiments at a nightclubDon't use stupid stories or gimmicks to meet people. It makes you seem like you're trying too hard. It also sounds a bit like you're not reading the right people and just fishing with a grenade. Obviously this all takes experience. Day game and nighclub game are also two different things. Check out Roosh's stuff on both scenarios. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Got a 9/10 to agree to come hang out on Friday, how do I not blow this one and get flaked onThere's this one girl...instantly means oneitis. You got a maybe, not a yes by the way. If you're interacting on social make sure she knows the cottage is going to be off the hook by posting something fun you're going to do but not directly to her. Not booze related. Build anticipation and increase chances she will come. Just realize that unless you're a 9 yourself and/or have some amazing stuff planned chances she will flake is about 90% as soon as another guy says he has bottle service at a co… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Where do low-value girls enter the SMV equation?Just like with men, there are lots of low value women out there too. Don't concern yourself with them and avoid them when possible. In short, who cares about low value anyone? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | How to accept not being able to lift heavy shit?Can relate to this. I'm a personal trainer and a former competitive bodybuilder who was diagnosed with a heart condition (dilated aortic root) and told I can't lift anything heavier than 50 pounds five years ago. There's zero reason you can't progress doing things like bodyweight (although with your condition you can't hold your breath a lot) and easier lifts - just be smart. Conditioning you can do with things like clubs, kettlebells and other implements. You can still get a great physique with… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 11:02 AM |
| 11 | What is everyone’s funniest stories about any beta orbiters they’ve encountered or dealt with?A girl I had plated was actually out on a first date with another guy. She convinced him to buy her gelato, which she claimed was for her sister and then drove it to my place and shared it with me after we fucked. She set up the sex with me while she was on the date with him, and then showed me all the texts about how he had a great time and hope she enjoyed the food while she was naked in bed with me. Then he became "gelato guy" because he constantly texted her asking if she wanted to go out fo… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Why has legalized prostitution not been a game changer in countries like Germany and Netherlands?Fucking hookers costs money (at least decent ones). Many guys either have a financial issue with it or still feel there's a social stigma attached so they have a moral reason not to. I live in a city where it's technically illegal but certainly out in the open where it is and that it happens and nobody even blinks an eye or ever gets busted for it. Plus what many blue pilled men are seeking is a connection with a woman ie feels, not a quick pump and dump. This is how some sex workers prey on men… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 10:54 AM |
| 28 | What have you experienced first-hand sicne taking the red pill that has shocked you?That you can treat women like sluts and they will actually enjoy it and come back for more. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Old Plate said we were just friends and doesnt wanna do stuff anymore the other day. Today she asked to have lunch but she clarified it was strictly friends.Don't bother. In fact your best strategy would have been radio silence and just ignoring her. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 01:40 AM |
| 19 | BDSM PORNSTAR CRIES SEXUAL ASSAULTI'm sure every porn producer does the smart thing which is GET RECORDED CONSENT. We just don't see it. Only problem is if she for example was high while filming she could say she wasn't in right state of mind and it's assault. She's hideous anyway - who would want to watch that on screen? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 10:43 PM |
| 4 | Exercise in the OfficeThere's a whole sub devoted to bodyweight fitness and it's all stuff you can do anywhere, any time. They have some very challenging movements that can build a ton of strength. And push-ups don't have to be a static amount of weight. You can load different angles many different ways. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Bruising her assShe obviously didn't mind. Keep the dominant vibe going and you'll be able to keep her spinning longer. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | MeToo movement going towards the everyday casual/offensive commentVery contextual. If I make a comment on a random woman to a group and one takes offense, it is a #metoo moment because she chose it to be. If I make a sexual comment to the woman directly and she thinks I'm attractive then she will appreciate it. Metoo is about attention at this stage. It has zero to do with any kind of female empowerment. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it really the case that charisma doesn't matter compared to looks? Or is this a hyperbole?I think that looks are part of charisma - you can't be hideous and have a decent amount of it. They complement each other. There's tons of tall good looking guys I've met who are totally cringeworthy when it comes to interacting with anyone, let alone women. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | I went on a date with this girl and we had a good time. I texted her i had a great time and she said she felt the same. She would like to meet me next week but as friends. Should I not go?Sounds like you didn't escalate and she doesn't think of you as a potential sex partner. Make sure the next time you see her it's with a group of her friends so you can try to hook up with them. Don't meet her again one on one. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 12:17 PM |
| 26 | Field Report: Fucking my former oneitis and what it made me realizeEven a oneitis is just any other average woman. It's your brain tricking you into thinking she's something special (usually because you think she's unattainable) when she's just another female. Pussy is just pussy. It should never control you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Advice for HSV1 Oral HerpesThere is a herpes subreddit believe it or not. You can post there and get tons of good info. HSV1 is amazingly common. Unless you have an active sore or outbreak then I don't believe you need to worry about passing it on from oral but I'm not an expert. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 11:56 PM |
| 23 | Any of you horny dirty dogs ever used one of those magical prostate massage devices before? How did it go?Dated a nurse once and can confirm that prostate orgasms are seriously intense. I almost passed out the first time she did it. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 12:47 PM |
| 7 | What are 3 laws from the book 48 laws of power that you think every man should definitely know for navigating daily life?In my opinion some of it is contextual. For example, if you're new at a job situation your best bets are: Law 2: Never put too much trust in friends and learn how to use enemies. Law 7: Get others to do the work, but take the credit. Law 46: Never appear too perfect. If you're trying to seduce women, then in my opinion the best three are: Law 6: Create an air of mystery. Law 24: Play the perfect courtier. Law 28: Enter action with boldness. The great thing about these is that they are applicable… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/18 11:51 AM |
| 2 | I knew tinder was bad, but not this bad. How many girls are lying about what they look like?Pornstars without makeup This is great if you are on pornfree or nofap as a motivator. Most of them are pretty gross without makeup and hair extensions. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I knew tinder was bad, but not this bad. How many girls are lying about what they look like?Women are experts at this. Just back out if you think she's hideous and make something up. She was stupid to post that picture. I learned a long time ago that if they don't show their body it means they're fat. If they don't know any decent face shots it means they have bad acne etc. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 11:44 AM |
| -3 | Women should no longer be sent to prison unless they have committed a serious crime says Justice SecretaryDon't they put butter and sugar on bread in England? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/18 10:37 AM |
| 5 | How do you know if you have good bodybuilding genetics?If you're that tall you'll have a hard time being wide unless you're insanely jacked. So if you're lean you likely need to gain a ton of muscle if you want to look filled out. The average height of Mr. Olympia winners is 5'9''. There's a difference between having good bodybuilding genetics and having the ability to build a v-taper. I'm an NPC judge. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 12:54 AM |
| 9 | My buddy said he needed advice on how to handle this. I gave him mine curious as to what yours is?No response is the best response. Let the hamster run. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 01:49 PM |
| 18 | Your Sexual Success is a numbers game first, and a probability game second.I've been a personal trainer for coming up to 20 years. At the beginning in a chain gym you know nothing and need clients. You're taught to wander the floor, chat with everyone and try to book consults that way. When you happen to get one you screw up because you don't know how to sell because you don't know anything. What this does, while totally ineffective it that it gets you over approach anxiety and starts to teach you sales skills from start to finish. Closing rate is extremely low. Once y… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 08:27 PM |
| 8 | How to find out if she's married?Apparently you're new here. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 01:33 PM |
| 3 | What do u think about AMALT?I think you've overthinking things. In a really unusual way. And you're overthinking them wrong. Lots of men 50+ get laid all the time. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 10:49 AM |
| 6 | How to find out if she's married?Don't even ask. If it becomes a factor then she will bring it up. I'm assuming she wasn't wearing a ring. Although if she's a single mom watch out. Or if her husband is possibly deployed. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 10:47 AM |
| 23 | I STUCK MY DICK IN CRAZY: What I learned from Playing with FireYou've given no example where anything she does is insane beyond acting like a regular woman. Even your friend confirmed she isn't crazier than the average girl. Sounds like you're bragging about getting laid for some reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 10:40 AM |
| 1 | why do girls in LTR roam tinder ?Validation and branch swinging. And that tells you how faithful she probably was during your relationship. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:49 AM |
| 8 | How to tell if girl your dating is a slutShe gives it up super fast - ideally while intoxicated. She has more than one child by more than one guy. She's had orgies, threesomes, trains run on her and will tell you about it. You find antivirals in her medicine cabinet. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:48 AM |
| 9 | "Unicorn" turning into awalt and lessons learned.The reason they are called unicorns is because THEY DON'T EXIST. The amount of guys who post here stating they thought that the girl was a unicorn and she turned out not to be should be enough to tell you that it is impossible to find one. And even if you do seemingly find one 100% of the time she will change into something else. If you do a brief search you'll find a story like this posted at least once a week. So use them as a learning experience and make sure next time you don't get sucked in… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Gaming married moms that are into fitnessAs a personal trainer I can tell you there are a ton of sexy 35-45 year old women who take very good care of themselves and have husbands who are complete dough boys. And who never get laid and sometimes they really want to. If you’re not single and not into cheating these women are great for creating dread if you need to. Invite that third woman to the gym to lift weights and make sure to mention it subtly to your wife. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Married men of the red pillThen you haven’t read or seen much. Getting girls 20-25 when you’re 40 and successful is actually easier. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | 4 year LTR, struggling to remain faithfulSounds like you're probably mid 20's based on the description. I'd say if you're feeling this way now then don't commit and move on. You have plenty of time and there are plenty of women. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 06:53 PM |
| 2 | When to divorce?Trust your gut on this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Gaming older womenYou can be the fun younger guy if you play it correctly and don’t overthink it. I dated a 29 year old when I was 18 and she taught me so many things in the bedroom it was ridiculous. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Question from single dad.I have two kids and while some women in that age group don’t want to deal with kids there are a lot that are okay with it. One thing is to make sure you don’t mention it and if they bring it up just make it seem like no big deal. If you’re attractive enough they won’t care. Just make sure you’re not giving off a vibe you’re looking for a stepmother for your kid, especially early in the dating situation. And make sure there aren’t kids toys etc at your place in the open when you get them back to … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Problem with high SMV girl's Beta OrbitorsPicture her orbiters as yappy little dogs. Would you engage or simply ignore them and keep on doing whatever you were doing? Don’t even give them a second thought. And the way you should game higher level girls is if you have the confidence and frame to pull it off. Someone who’s concerned with a girls orbiters doesn’t have that. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 11:06 AM |
| 1 | A non rape but rape accusationSave her texts and don't ever contact her again. Especially if you have any after the last time the two of you did whatever you did. No, you didn't rape her - make sure you have some evidence to support that but otherwise don't engage and steer clear. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 03:00 PM |
| 26 | [Filed Report] Easy lay with an American girlCongrats - you are now the Eastern European stud she got seduced by and will tell all of her friends about. Every girl wants a story to tell from when they have traveled about this hot guy they met and had a passionate one night stand with. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Realization that adopting the soul mate paradigm has ruined all my relationships with women. Mini FR included.Romance is a construct created by women. Don't fall for it. She says she wants a white knight when really she's fine with getting fucked in the back seat of a car. And you need therapy dude - there are resources out there. Focus on work, making yourself better and don't keep overthinking this stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you wish you did more of when you were in your early 20s?Studying and getting better grades in university. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 09:07 AM |
| 54 | Is MeToo turning into NotYou at small companies?The funny thing is he just got accused himself about an incident about 20 years ago and it got swept under the rug. Too bad that didn’t happen to Kevin Spacey. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 08:50 AM |
| 5 | How to get my married, soon to be divorced brother to swallow the RED PILL.If his wife earns 4x his salary tell him to lawyer up, enjoy his payday and get his kids half time. His wife is definitely banging other guys but if he doesn't want to know then don't bother crushing him. Encourage him to move on but also make sure he isn't giving up his financial and parental rights. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth to get involved with an old (32yo) woman?Women in that age group are trying to lock down a provider. So ask yourself if getting laid is worth the hassle or should you just move on to something easier? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 12:39 AM |
| 35 | Beware of the Single Mother. A wolf in sheep's clothingThere is something like having sex with a single mother. A massive feeling of regret with a slight hint of desperation. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR "sex after marriage". How do I get past this?If she really wanted to fuck you she would have found an excuse by now to justify it to her religious mind. Next. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 09:45 AM |
| 6 | Women in the 27-33 age bracketWhat I've found is these women are great for plating but not dating seriously and will frequently break once they find a beta they can lock down. You're the "asshole" who won't commit but still gives her great sex that she complains about to her friends. "Omg he was just looking for a hookup" but if you're good enough in bed and attractive enough it won't matter. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 09:44 AM |
| 63 | Girls to be beware ofIt sounds to me like you're still firmly in the anger phase and see the negative behind every woman. What you're telling us is there are women out there who have orbiters, are annoying feminists, ride the cock carousel, lie and are mentally ill. Which can describe basically any woman at any time. The real skill lies in being able to identify these flaws in women, not give a crap and still get what you want out of them anyway or be enough of a man to not fall into the trap. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Would you buy a sex robot?Yes. And I'd make sure they had interchangeable parts so that it could emulate any of five women. Ideally the robot AI would figure out on its' own who it should be and change itself accordingly. No arguing, no periods, no LMR. Sex however you want it whenever you want it. Imagine a subscription model where the robot would take itself to a central hub and come back as a totally different woman weekly or monthly. The notion of women for sex would be over. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 03:33 PM |
| 3 | It's finally happening and it feels good.150k in sales is chump change if you work hard and are in the right industry with bonuses. Just to put down the haters. I'd say if you're 5'7'' and 160 you have to have demon level game to pull models unless they are sucking back your bottle service which basically costs you 3x more than renting a hooker and at least you'll get laid with the hooker. Other than that it's all sound advice. Save money, be attractive and don't be unattractive and do things for yourself. People think the Red Pill is … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Making friends in a corporate environmentDepending on the type of work you will fall into a natural social circle, just be wary of drama and don't shit where you eat. Guys will naturally gravitate towards an alpha personality. Invite people to coffee, lunch, then after you've been there about a month invite a group over for drinks before some event and you'll have yourself established as friendly and social. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 10:14 PM |
| 10 | Memoir Of My Blue Pill DaysWhat in the bloody hell did I just read. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 07:46 PM |
| 11 | Best Hobbies to Meet WomenAs a musician I can tell you that there aren't a ton of hot woman musicians. Some lead singers are hot girls but they are rare. It's like the IT field where you'll have 1 woman to every 20 guy performers in bands. Unless you are a successful (ie performing at decent venues) musician you aren't likely to meet hot women as much as movies and TV would have you think otherwise. However, I do have a picture of me on stage in front of a crowd as part of my Tinder profile and it helps. A lot. Social pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/18 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Anyone know of a good sales podcast?Grant Cardone is my go to for sales stuff. He podcasts daily and a lot of his stuff is awesome. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Dating a 31 year old Thai girl. Sweetest thing in the world. AWALT?4 hour date or 4th date? First is permissible to only get a makeout, second is ridiculous. But in answer to your question, no she's not a unicorn. There's a reason they don't exist and aren't serving Thai food in NYC. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 07:51 AM |
| 7 | So I’m going over to this chicks house to swim, she is clearly into me, any tips on how to escalate in a pool?If you don't know how to escalate while she's mostly naked in a pool then you seriously need to work on your game. Kino. Kino. Kino. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 07:48 AM |
| 0 | Caught feelings for friend/roommate, need advice on how to deal with it.You have oneitis which means you need to get another girl back and let her hear it. From there you will be able to gauge interest. If she suddenly gets upset she was interested. However, you have zero to gain by starting to bang this girl while she lives with you because you'll never be able to get away from her if things go south. Bad idea from the start. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | FR Where did I fuck up?I'd chalk it up to a massive shit test but for her to claim she didn't know it was a date is BS. Make a joke about the fact it "wasn't a date" and definitely escalate during the next time you see her and if she rebuffs again then forget it. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Older redpillers, what advice would you give to your 20-something selves?Don't get into any long term relationships until you're 30 and focus on building a career and having fun when you're not working. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Would I screw myself over by putting off marriage until 40?Only consideration would be if you want kids. I had my second at 40 and wish I had been five years younger. You don't want to have your kids in high school when you want to retire. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Plate’s boyfriend finds out she was cheating. Broken ?So you don't even know what she told him? Every woman confronted with this will tell their boyfriend she slept over "but nothing happened, I swear!" Don't sweat it and continue as normal, but keep her as a plate only. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Ya know what else sucks about marriage?I don't know about you but when I got divorced at 40 I had ranges from 25-50 easily available. In fact one of my best plates was a 28 year old who didn't care I was 42 and had a daddy fetish. And then on the other end older women in their late 40's are fun, love to fuck all the time and zero strings. And you would also be surprised at how easy it is to plate married women when you are single if you are attractive. I've had several. So no, you're not preaching to this choir. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 07:31 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Calculate your "cost per fuck"A guy on nomarriage.com years ago calculated marriage and two kids for 20 years versus banging an escort twice a week ($400 weekly - this was 15 years ago) for the same amount of time. The hooker was cheaper and you were guaranteed top shelf sex twice a week. It was a big eye opener. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/18 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Dating a cam model, bad idea?Fully expect her to expect you to pay for everything and eventually try to get money out of you. It's what she does for a living, after all. Hookers are hookers. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 09:17 AM |
| 35 | What if we flipped the script here?We already know there is a massive double standard when it comes to these types of things. I spent two years working for a female dominated company and was harassed regularly. Think HR would do anything about it? Of course not. This is the reality we live in. Don't fight against it, learn to use it to your advantage. By the way, you need to learn some serious skills with verbal bantering. You could have easily shut both of them down in about ten seconds with a couple of sentences but instead cho… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/18 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Forgiving a cheaterWhy waste your time? Go find another girl. Abundance is everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Anyone successfully plate someone from their BP days after swallowing the Pill?I’m older but one of my previous “friends” ie someone I orbited in university came into town. We went out for dinner and I made it completely obvious that I planned on seducing her. It worked. Although there was definitely mutual flirtation so it was actually quite easy. If I knew in university what I know now my school life would have been a lot different. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 03:37 PM |
| 5 | View on Kanye West?Celebrity relationships are a business relationship, that’s it. Plus he got to tap that ass. I’d deal with her BS for a while just to do that. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 11:44 PM |
| 5 | How to escalate to fucking her?If she hasn’t fucked you by the third date she doesn’t want to. You didn’t escalate enough earlier. Stop taking her out. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Sister abuse.Stop helping her. If she asks why tell her because you’re not paying me. End drama. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies with Evening Shift?Most martial arts clubs will have at least one or two lunch time classes. Search around until you find one. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Most women who hit on me or check me out are married or in relationships, why is this?Women have fantasies too just like we do and usually it’s because their partners aren’t giving them what they want. Enjoy the attention. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What does a girl mean when she says shes broken and hurt?It means she'll be the easiest plate you'll ever encounter and also likely the kinkiest. But be prepared to ghost her quickly once she starts bringing drama into the situation. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:14 AM |
| 3 | Do you think celebs like Lebron who married their high school girl cheated on them since?A guy of that status can afford to pay women enough to keep their mouths shut. I'd be willing to bet he's tagged a couple of very high level escorts in his day but his wife is also probably fully aware of it. Guys like that don't just bang random women, they pay for silence. Remember when Kobe screwed up? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 09:11 AM |
| 43 | Get fucking CUTSaw 19 and has been lifting for prime testosterone fueled years and repeating things you can read on bodybuilding.com any time and immediately disregarded. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 01:20 AM |
| 42 | Like a thief in the nightActually it sounded like the guy did exactly what this entire sub would tell any of us to do if the girl we were out with started giving IOIs or flirting hard with another guy on a date. Hard nexted her. He did massively screw up by letting you control the frame and agreeing to go to another venue with you though. You can't blame him for assessing the situation and leaving, I would have done the same thing and texted another girl on the way out of the club. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 09:27 AM |
| 30 | Do you follow up with a girl the next day after hooking up for the first time?It's smart to do a follow up text that establishes consent. Something like "hey, had a great time - it was so funny when you did x!" and then they reply "omg had a great time" and if they ever try to claim you raped them you have proof they consented. It's also a great way to establish a plate. I call it the AFTER Anti-Slut Defense. Makes sure when they tell their friends about it she can show something to them that makes you not look like a jerk so they are less likely to convince her she was r… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 09:19 AM |
| 1 | I just snapped. Not sure if I handled it maturely or not. Usually reserved but I definitely scared myself. You guys seem fairly strong here could I please have some advice. (long but pls read!)Your mother has a drinking problem. She needs to go get help and you need to encourage her to do so and support your dad if he needs it. You also need to work on your anger and talk to someone about it. Bottling this stuff up is not healthy. I'm a child of an alcoholic and have some horror stories, including a lot of anger issues. You may be able to see a counselor for free through health care or if your parents have benefits. Use them. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 09:51 PM |
| -1 | What should be my respectable one rep max on the bench?Beginner PW numbers are 1.5x bench, 2x squat and 2.5x deadlift. But if you’re just starting out focus on getting your body weight for 10 reps on bench. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | What happened to your old Oneitis?I've had three former oneitis girls that I've fucked while they were in relationships. Over a period of fifteen years. And yes, they all got fatter and two of the three took major nosedives in life. One lesson we can all learn is that women only decline with age. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 11:46 PM |
| 77 | Just fired from all female firmYou're better off not working there and now you know why women run companies usually aren't anywhere close to as successful as male run ones. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:26 AM |
| 10 | LTR Sex issueHonestly? I'd dump her and find another girl. Sounds kind of heartless but if this is going to be an ongoing thing then your sex life will die and both of you will be frustrated. Was in a similar situation and fighting against it for years just frustrated me. Once I started having great sex with girls who could actually get wet and horny I wondered why I waited so long. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why is prostitution still illegal?Where I am prostitution is largely ignored UNLESS it falls under the heading of human trafficking. For example, massage parlors where you can easily pay for sex are allowed to operate without any issue because the police know the girls are there voluntarily. There are also hookers who advertise openly on Twitter and IG but again, they are sex workers by choice. The disconnect for a lot of people is that they think every sex worker is being forced into it, which is close minded and totally stupid… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many beta nice-guys found in retail jobs?Most retail jobs are highly skewed female in terms of ratio. And any guy worth anything is either the manager or has a better job. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 13 | Does often realize after the pill how many missed opportunities you’ve had in the past?I only have a couple of regrets where the girl was literally in bed with me and I did nothing. Knowing what I know now it was completely obvious but that’s life through a blue pill lens. No point in feeling bad about the past, just learn from it and move forward. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Guidance for ghosting when going through a divorce with kids?Unfortunately you're linked to that woman for life through the kids, so it's important that you get along with her but that doesn't mean you're a doormat. Treat it from now on as a business arrangement and discuss things like logistics, money etc without any emotion. Stoicism helped me a lot through the process. She will try to bring emotion into it and you just need to shut that down when it rears its head. Focus on the kids and making sure they are good. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 4 | What is your experience picking up girls in Toronto?Toronto has tons of money, a high percentage of SJW's and feminists and lots of thirsty guys. Therefore it's a bit of a shit show for gaming, but like anywhere else if you're a high quality guy and know how to seduce properly you will stand out and have zero problem. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Sales job interview at a local gym tomorrow. Any tips?I'm assuming it's for memberships. Basic sales principles apply, meaning that you will have to prospect, present and then close. Have some ideas on how you would get people in the door for new memberships in case they ask - market to local shops, pursue corporate groups and local sports teams are always good places to start. For presentation they will just see how you speak and answer questions. Be friendly, open and clear and don't use one word answers. They might ask you to do something like s… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Went on bumble for the first time in a long time, it seems that at least 60-70 percent of the women there are overweight or obese.If you swiped on a bunch of fat girls before, their algorithm actually remembers and only gives you girls like that again. It sucks for guys. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Failed the "I'm seeing someone" shit test absolutely miserably today.Yes. You should basically assume she's coming to hook up, and as soon as she gives even minor LMR basically say okay have a nice day and bail or tell her I guess you drove a long way for nothing. Sounds like you also need to read No More Mr. Nice Guy. Twice. Because you were being the classic Nice Guy. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 08:59 AM |
| 6 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?I have fucked a prostitute. She looked like one of my favourite porn stars but was about 21 and innocent and cool and gave me two rounds of mind blowing sex. It was worth every penny. I also frequent rub and tug joints about 3-4 times a year since my divorce. I have zero problem with paying for it and have only had a bad time once out of about eight times. Why? Because it doesn’t waste my time and I can afford it. And I get whatever type of girl I want without any hassle. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 02:28 PM |
| 8 | Life is hell, got married to a psychotic.Do you have kids? If not, then get the hell out. Divorce is a thing, you know. Even if your family will look down on you it sounds like they do already so you're losing nothing. And don't have kids with her. Period. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:43 AM |
| 6 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.One thing to remember about women - always (especially attractive ones) - is that dick is literally a text message away at any time. If you look at some web sites even like this one a woman can jump on, post an anonymous message she wants to fuck and she will get two hundred responses in less than 24 hours. Organizing a threesome with random guys could take a couple of hours. If you don't believe me go to some of the subs (like adultery) where women talk about the sneaky things they do or post o… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | HB9 plate (24) and I (42) bang once in a while when bevvied. Smoking hot, but crazy. I know betterJust keep it wrapped (don't let your judgement cloud that one and do it EVERY TIME) and enjoy her as a plate. I'd love to have a slightly crazy 24 year old to have fun with. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Help me text this modelAfter six days she's probably forgotten who you are unless you made a really good impression. I'd lead with something that you talked about as if no time had passed and if she picks it up go with it, otherwise you probably dropped the ball. Hot girls get hundreds of texts a day. You waited almost a week. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:28 AM |
| 16 | No nudes for me, shitton of nudes for her ex'esSounds like you have a decent amount of dread established but need to pass a comfort test once in a while. When she initiates next time go caveman and give her some good pounding as if she does turn you on a lot. It's called positive reinforcement. However, the fact she saves old nudes of herself? For what purpose? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:26 AM |
| 1 | GF wants past almost-bf to join us to promIf she was a virgin and you took it and then she wants to bang another guy instead of you, what does that tell you? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Would you recommend disclosing height on Tinder?I'm above six feet and know that women are more likely to want to date taller guys so I put it in. If you're under 6 feet don't bother. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | GF wants past almost-bf to join us to promThat's actually funny and just proves she isn't into you. Drop her. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | GF wants past almost-bf to join us to promFind another girl to go with and then tell her now she can go with him. Problem solved. If you end up in this situation guaranteed he's getting laid and you're not. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How is unmarried life in your 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond?So far unmarried life in my 40’s is far better than married life ever was. Shared custody of my kids gives me a break every other week do have fun. I get laid whenever I want. I can focus more on work and making money since my stress levels are way lower. When you’re 25 you have no perspective but your life doesn’t end when you’re 40 and above. I’m fact it’s just getting started. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | They came to me in flocks when I was a 100kg addict, now that I quit that life and lost 30kgs, I can't score.Been singing for six years live and can confirm this is the case. Although it's rare that I will actually pull during a gig unless I already know the girl. However, inviting women to come and see me is an instant way to know if they are interested in fucking me. If they say yes, they are. And having professional pictures of me singing live on places like Tinder is a gold mine. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Went on a date today. Realised that my date for tomorrow might be her sister.One strategy I'd employ would be that you know they are going to talk about you after the date and compare notes. So be somewhat different on each date. Whatever you did with the first sister do something completely different with the other. It will create a bit of "wtf he wasn't like that with me" with both of them and likely both will either want to see you again or your personality will resonate more with one of them. Regardless it's still an awesome funny story potential. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Ladies love me until they see my hidden "disability"Eating softer is easy to fix. Swallowing probably can be too. You have control over your body, train it to do these things quieter. I think you're using these things as an excuse and actually have crappy game. The fact you call it a "disability" speaks wonders. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 01:58 AM |
| 8 | Losing my virginity to a prostituteBetter to lose it to someone who knows what they are doing than a random desperate lay (like I unfortunately did and have regretted it since). If you're going to use a pro, make sure they know you are a virgin - they are incredibly understanding and will be sure to give you an amazing experience. And don't cheap out. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | LTR went out last night, still isn't back. Instant hard next?One useful thing you can do today is start looking into what happens if you or her leaves in terms of your lease. Talk to your landlord or start doing research about moving. That way if you end up kicking her out you have thing handled. And to echo all the things others have said, yes she's cheating on you and doesn't give a fuck. Relationship over. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 10:18 AM |
| 9 | Hobbies and activities that increase SMVI’m a singer in a rock band, do archery for fun and have a motorcycle. One plate told me that I have the perfect Tinder profile because each picture appeals to one kind of woman. Something athletic Something dangerous Something different But as others have said, do stuff that actually interests you, not just to get women. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 10:52 PM |
| -1 | The only thing going on dates has taught me is that prostitution is worth an investmentSo many guys think dinner/drinks is standard for a first date. Stop being boring and suggest something different. There are literally hundreds of options that are free and/or way better ways of vetting a new girl than drinks or dinner. My go to is something active that I enjoy. That way I know if they enjoy being active too and how they look in athletic clothes right away. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 10:47 PM |
| 42 | Casual Observation: The Perfect Family Man, Married and UnhappyMeanwhile, he might be overextended in debt, have a hot wife that won't fuck him and really can't stand his family. If he has two small kids that age too he's in the trenches and doesn't sleep much. I was in the exact same scenario three years ago. You only see what's on the outside. Always remember you made the right choice FOR YOU. Not anyone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 09:20 AM |
| 23 | The Edge of ConsentI have a recent personal example where a guy I know fooled around with a girl (who had a slutty reputation) at a bar, then she went home and her boyfriend found out and she flipped the script and called it sexual assault because she was drunk. He's getting a year in jail. I bring this up because they had lots of evidence through text that she not only initiated it but enjoyed it, but because she was drunk it was still found she couldn't have consented. So I'll add to your post that if they are r… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 09:16 AM |
| 0 | Farewell BSA: The Death of a Great Male SpaceJust another example of society's double standard when it comes to men and women. Women are allowed women only gyms. They are allowed days on golf courses where no men are allowed. They are actually encouraged to hold their own networking events and award ceremonies. Yet if men do the same thing its oppression and a reason for a woman to want to join that thing just to make a statement. I'm actually happy I have girls and I can help turn them into red pill women rather than boys that are going t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing went to an event with another dude whilst I'm on vacation"Seeing her"? Like you've gone on a couple of dates and have you even fucked her? Sounds like she's not interested and you're barely on her radar any more. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 09:39 PM |
| 10 | I'm planning on marrying a slut, change my mindThe update in a year will be: Walked in on her getting railed by three other guys. I never get sex any more. But I get to hear it and cook dinner for them! Have a baby but no idea if it's mine. And I don't care because I'm an alpha and we take care of our maybe babies. She left and now I have to pay child support. Lawyers are so beta. Seriously this has to be a joke. There's more red flags than a Russian state dinner. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 09:50 AM |
| 2 | [Seeking Advice] Manipulating Rich WomenYou can behave like sugar babies do and simply say "hey, I need a new laptop and don't have any money right now" and she will likely offer. Or simply take her shopping and tell her she can buy you clothes that she likes on you (while actually choosing things you like). | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 09:46 AM |
| 4 | Coming out of failed marriage, almost 40. How successful are men my age getting back in the game, plating young women?Mid 40’s and recently tallied that I’ve had sex over 150 times in the past six months. So women aren’t a problem. I prefer older ones myself so can’t help with the young ones but plenty of guys here can. You’ll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Wife receivers Snapchat message from ex boyfriend. How to respond?She can control who she blocks and therefore doesn’t receive messages from. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 04:15 PM |
| 2 | If your SMV is an 8, do you stop fucking 6s?Only plate girls 2 points below you. Promote those within 1 point or even to head plate or possible relationship. Keep trying for +1-2 and use it to work on your skills. But don't expect these girls to be relationship material either. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Cheesiest pick up lines. Go.Check r/Tinder. There are some fantastic lines submitted there. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriends best friendOr they get blind drunk and the orbiter takes advantage. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Gf is a part-time baby sitter...Why don't people hire average or below average looking girls for anything if they have an option to hire an attractive one with the same qualifications? I'd rather look at a HB8 taking care of my kids than a hambeast. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Gf is a part-time baby sitter...She's doing her job. The guy is probably paying her very well. I'm a single dad and have done this before and while if the girl crept into my room and jumped on my dick I wouldn't say no, it's like having a staff member around and I focus on my kids. Get over your insecurity. Life isn't a porn movie where every dad is trying to bang his nanny. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 11:59 PM |
| 8 | 1st time at the bars and already ran into troubleSomeone who has zero frame talking about how frame is king. About twenty better ways you could have handled that situation. Sidebar beckons | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 09:29 PM |
| 3 | All my friends are getting married and I can't understand why?Divorce rate is about 50%, and this statistic actually increases by 50% again if you marry before 25, meaning that 3 of 4 marriages done before 25 will end in separation or divorce. But your friends have bought into societal pressure. I did it too. And ended up miserable and now I'm out the other side and much happier. You have to learn these lessons. When you're banging multiple women and enjoying your life all these friends will be the ones asking to live vicariously through you. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do the girls I had one night stands with don't want to become plates?Two reasons: 1) You don't satisfy them in bed and they don't want another sample. 2) They want to lock you down and since you just hit them up for sex they immediately next you. I'd suspect #1 first. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Should I tell somebody to put their phone down if they’re looking at it when I talk to them?That's a dealbreaker on a date for sure. You should be able to keep their attention but if they are the type of girl that can't not have their phone on the table or is checking it constantly I'm out immediately. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 03:36 PM |
| 18 | Why do chicks love dudes in bands even though a lot of them are pretty whiny, sensitive, and are usually weirdos that write poetry?Banging a musician is one of the fantasies that pretty much every woman has. Even the illusion of fame is enough to entice most of them. It is ridiculous even at 43 as the lead singer of a low level crappy local rock band how easy it is to pull women at a show. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:41 AM |
| 4 | Optimal days in advance to plan a tinder/bumble date?In my world 3-4 days is totally fine, and if the girl is actually into you then the next day usually works. Also, set up more than one date in a night just to make sure if one flakes you have a backup. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Shitting where I eat?I'd say if they approach you or during a conversation you're getting a flirty vibe then practice your skills that way but don't be overt about it. You can pick up girls without approaching directly all the time. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Fraternity FormalIf she already texted you once asking where you are going that's a good sign. Don't set up a formal date but if she asks next weekend or this week tell her where you'll be and let her come to you. And if your original date is a sure thing I'd take her - that way you take the rust off and show that you're not so into the new girl which means she will be more likely to want to seal the deal. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Lessons learned this weekendYeah this definitely happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 08:40 PM |
| 3 | How do you gauge where you are on the SMV scale, as far as looks and personality goes?It's not an exact science, but you will generally attract women slightly lower than you without a problem, and be able to land women 1 point above you with skill and effort. If you have only had 3 Tinder matches in two weeks (assuming you live in a somewhat large city) and only one out of the three of them you'd consider attractive you obviously have some work to do. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's pathetic to wear metal band shirts after a certain age as an adult man?Depends on the environment just like any fashion choice. Would I wear it to a dance club or the theatre? No. Out shopping on a nice weekend and if it showed off my physique well? Absolutely. You'll find that people really don't notice what you're wearing unless it is completely out of place. And then it can either work for you or against you. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Book Recommendations?There is a reading list in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 06:25 PM |
| 3 | To propose next week, but now wondering if it's a big mistake.If sex is drying up now and you don't live together, wait until you do. NEVER EVER EVER MARRY SOMEONE YOU HAVEN'T LIVED WITH. PERIOD. You obviously need to instill some dread - I'd cut WAY back on communication and things like attention until she comes around. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Gf’s birthday and an orbiterWhy is he invited to her birthday if she doesn't like/encourage the attention and reinforce what he thinks? You said I don't give a fuck and then literally in the same sentence said you don't want it to happen. Which is it? If you think you can hold frame (and it sounds like you can't) then you shouldn't have a problem at the party. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Most of you are too fat to have High SMVYou just inspired me to work harder and look like that in 4 years. Great job. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 04:59 PM |
| 6 | 40+ year old father gets laid like a warlord and here's howIf you're 40 plus and even moderately successful the world sexually is your oyster. You can attract younger women if you have decent game and seek out the right ones like Uncle Vas, or if you want to just get easy sex then women in their late 30's and early 40's who are post wall crave any attention at all and take zero effort and can be plated easily. The guys who are lonely and whine about not getting laid are always the ones who have zero career and social skills and are overweight with bruta… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | "What are you, my dad?"Jesus - clear sign to bang her and make her call you daddy while you're doing it. And you completely whiffed like an idiot. You sound like an insecure person. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 03:01 PM |
| 4 | One of my plates is pregnant. Please help.First question is are you sure she hasn't fucked anyone else and what is the time line? Confirm this before freaking out. Then read the guide and hope for the best. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Married men of TRP, please give some advice/opinion on the possibility of marrying my ltr.Another divorced guy in here chiming in. First of all, if you are under 30 don't even think about it. Period. Seriously. You can have kids whenever you want. Secondly if you are still considering it there has to be total compatibility in the following things: finances, sex and you have to have a firm frame established. Until you live together for a period of time none of these will be established. the simple fact she's pressuring you means it's a hard no. There's lots of good women out there. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 10:13 PM |
| 3 | The day i took the Red Pill - Volume 2OP, Can't you change the locks? Then she can demand a copy of the key but it takes care of the problem for now. That's incredible. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/18 09:25 AM |
| 3 | I'm 28, matched with a 18y old on Tinder. Not quite sure of my feelings here.This is SO key OP. Act like you're 35, not 28. She wants an older guy so don't screw things up by trying to act young. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Parents bust my balls at 23. Wanna chill the fuck out and game relaxed butMaybe you should grow up and move out of your parents' house and get a job that's not handed to you. You sound like an ungrateful idiot. Maybe you should help your dad build up the business whenever you can so he doesn't have to worry about supporting your mom. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 11:41 AM |
| 14 | Noticed a difference from women's looks when stoic?Women are attracted to a confident, powerful vibe which is what acting stoic can give you in certain situations. However if you're at a nightclub for example you don't want to be the guy at the bar sitting alone and frowning. It's relative to the situation. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 11:38 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to have sex at this point in my life"I'd take it as LMR and it's a challenge to see how fast she will change her mind. If you game her properly she will in a heartbeat. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Picking up a cougar on FBIf you don't know her at all and were a random add you're going to come off as a creep unless your SMV is sky high. If you want to bang cougars there is likely a local cougar bar where you'll have much better luck. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | How would you respond to the following message?Don't ask what her schedule is, tell her what yours is and that she should join you. Don't ever mention parents or anything alluding to an actual relationship. So other than those two things you did fine. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 10:53 AM |
| 7 | She gave excuses for not having sex. How to take it from here?She didn't want to fuck a guy in a bathroom the first time. Classic LMR. Get her into a bedroom and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Formal Weekend with an HB8 I’ve Never Met..Don't overthink it and apply principles like you normally would. Sleeping in the same bed is just a bonus that if you have chemistry and you're attractive to her you can fuck her all weekend. My recommendation (if you like her) would be to play it cool first night and don't get too wasted, have a great time and establish kino etc just like a first date. If you get laid great, if she has LMR - I'm assuming other people will be in the room too - then let it go and just have a good time. That means… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 08:34 AM |
| 47 | Messy situation with LTR of 5 years - I've become extremely beta, she broke up and had a brief rebound, now that I'm improving in every way I can, she begs me to let her come back. I have mixed feelingsYou just experienced what the red pill is all about. Including the blow job she never gave you while you were together but probably gave the other guy all the time. Just end it. Read the sidebar and find other girls. You’re young and have tons of options. Use it as a learning experience that they want you more when you do positive things for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 09:23 AM |
| 11 | Ltr spending a lot of time with her new bossThe way he’s “fast tracking” her is on his desk. Seriously OP, whether she’s banging him or not (and if she isn’t right now wait until their first “business trip”) she’s obviously obsessed with her work and this will not stop long term. Bringing home work on weekends and staying late constantly is a huge red flag that she doesn’t prioritize well and has no work life balance. I couldn’t deal with that. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 09:20 AM |
| 1 | does sleeping with a fat girl raise or lower your smv?You’re trying to justify banging fat girls because it’s all you can get. Go after higher quality women and work on being able to seduce them rather than taking the easy way out. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:34 AM |
| 3 | LTR going to party this Wednesday and invited me.She’s supposedly your LTR and you’ve never seen her in a social party situation? Have you been dating for two weeks? You’re obviously overthinking this completely. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Walking into the belly of the beast...I’m going through this exact same scenario this year. Except my exes friends and family are even more hostile because I’m the horrible guy who had an affair (they don’t care about the fact she didn’t have sex with me for three years). And I’ve been actively dating and getting laid and she knows it. My plan is show up, focus on my kids and charm the hell out of any other hot moms that are there if I can. I’d consider it a huge win if my daughters are happy I was there because that’s really all th… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 11:01 AM |
| 2 | How to invest money to get more money?Then start a business. Dropshipping for example is easy but it requires a lot of work up front. Returns can be anywhere from 20-40% depending on what you choose to sell. You just have to be able to set up and run a successful business and invest the time and effort over a year or so. I have a feeling you would fail miserably if it required any type of work ethic. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How to invest money to get more money?I did read it. Index funds return higher than 4%. If you think you're going to do better than 4-6% a year return you're looking at higher risk. For example, you can enter a tech index fund and they return up to 12% over a shorter sample size. But again are higher risk. Judging from your post history you're not going to listen to any advice anyway so good luck. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 01:41 PM |
| 7 | How to invest money to get more money?Index funds. Historically return ~6-8% annually depending on the fund (some are higher) if you just let them sit and pace the stock market. Even if there is a crash/dip (ie 2008), there is always recovery and increase beyond. I have mostly index funds but also bond funds which are lower rate of return but safe. Typically you'll have a balance of the two, skewing to higher risk if you're younger. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I go about fucking this religious girl?“It’s not a matter of oneitis, but blah blah blah.” Bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Is there a way to regain a girl dating someone after having a 3some?I’d leave her scarf in the mailbox and tell her she can pick it up any time. Then ignore unless she’s coming over for another threesome. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Next after no sex on first date?If they fucked you in a motel on the first date - they were women who would fuck in a motel on the first date. What else would you call that? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Next after no sex on first date?Nobody except a total slut will head to a motel with you on the first date. Give her some plausible deniability and wait until 2nd or 3rd. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Why are married women the biggest flirts?Not worth it if it’s people you work with. Better to just ignore and don’t engage. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Moving to Canada, what's the best city for Game/LTR?Ottawa here. Full of hot students but also very political and mostly liberal. There is a great guy to girl ratio especially since most guys are lame government types who have zero game. Cost of living is great for a city of a million and while the winters suck there is lots to do especially if you like outdoors. Also job prospects if you are in tech are excellent and there is strong potential for government jobs. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Which is the best country to move to?Cost of living in Canada is low as long as you don't live in Toronto or Vancouver. And while there's a healthy dose of liberal BS there's also a healthy dose of the other side too, especially in rural areas. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Girl: We don't need condomsYes it's a huge red flag. If she'll do it with you she'll do it with anyone. Plate worthy only obviously. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Guys who are in their 30s, 40s and older, what do you regret doing when you were in your 20s?Not getting decent grades in university - at least enough to do post grad if I ever wanted to. It closed a lot of doors that I wished were open in my late 20’s/30’s. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Men of The Red Pill: what is your n-count? How many of those notches happened after you found TRP?What I prefer to gauge it by is how effortless it is to find new women. Ten years ago it was relatively hard and frustrating, now it’s a joke. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Still Wanna Get Married?Another strategy is to only get into LTRs with women who are financially successful but submissive and check all the other red pill boxes for a good mate. I’m divorced and with shared custody my ex actually pays ME child support because according to my tax return I make less than she does. Learn how to hide your money properly. My current main plate makes six figures and has massive savings but knows her place and I have excellent control over the relationship. It’s an ideal scenario if things g… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/18 12:02 PM |
| 5 | How to game older women?Married women are actually easier to game. But don’t shit where you eat. Find girls outside of work. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Concerned about my ex wife's current relationship. Possible domestic violence around my son.Also, watch for any changes in your three year old after he has been at their place. Suddenly withdrawn, reacts badly to movement or loud noises etc. Trauma to him will probably be obvious but not necessarily in the form of bruises. And he can talk (I hope) so make sure he knows if there is any problem he can let you know if he’s scared. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Anyone with experience in door to door sales?Former door to door salesman here but that was 25 years ago. Seriously, any door to door sales job is bottom of the barrel. Any legit business knows better than to bother people at home and actually try to sell them and people are always wary of anyone knocking on their door these days. The only asset to learning is it will give you an incredibly thick skin at rejection since 99.5% of people will rudely say no or not even answer the door. If it's the only job you can get (and even retail or fast… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend doesn't let me touch her phone.Trust but verify. Guys will go after her. That's totally normal. It's how she responds that is the key. Most women won't flat out reject they will just respond "haha" like with any beta orbiter. If you don't know her password it's pretty easy to watch her type it in a few times and memorize it. I've busted two women this way being shady behind my back without them knowing. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/18 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Traded $1,100 phone for sex and nudes...You must have a great job if you work with single moms who will fuck for money. Next time save $600 and pay for a girl off of backpage. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | those in sobriety how do I get girls in my AA meetings?I can tell you're really prioritizing your sobriety. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Income sources for 17 Year oldLook into dropshipping something. Time investment mostly at the start and then if you're smart it runs itself and makes a decent part time income for a 17 year old. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 08:33 PM |
| 37 | Was she almost raped?A woman wanted attention on social media so she posted something inflammatory but having no basis in reality. In other news, water is wet. Imagine being the police officer getting that call. "Ma'am are these men chasing you?" "No, they are just sitting there. But I KNOW they want to rape me." | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Computer science or accountingWhy not major in one and minor in another? That way all your bases are covered and you can figure out which one you like more or are better at. Either one is a good prospect to start. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Children - What to say and when to tell them the truth about their motherIt’s incredibly common now that kids live in divorced families so it really isn’t a big deal to them because a lot of their friends are in the same boat. My kids are 5 and 3 and have never asked because my ex and I split up when they were young exactly so that they wouldn’t remember us being together. When they ask I either deflect or just say mommy and daddy just live in different places. When they are older and ask why I’ll be a bit more open and likely simply say that while we will stay frien… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Butt StuffDo you give her oral? Try playing with her ass while going down on her. Or when you’re behind her - just don’t be rough right away. Most women who don’t like it either haven’t had it or have had someone be rough about it. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Sales. The Ultimate Red Pill Job?Sales is great skills for many areas of life. Negotiations, seduction, learning how to communicate and network, all of which will be good in any position. Plus with a few years of sales on your resume you will never have to worry about finding work. Sales jobs are plentiful and if you’re good at it you can make a ton of money even at a young age if you find the right industry. However, you cannot be introverted and have to have a thick skin. You also have to be willing to work really hard until … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?And have massive amounts of debt when they graduate school. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 09:16 AM |
| 49 | Those making $250,000/year+ How’d you do it?Whatever industry you choose, niche yourself. This means becoming the best at one aspect of it that few people focus on that is essential and people need. Even if it’s boring it will be very lucrative. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Guys in your 40's do you still go after 20 something women ?You would be surprised at how many women prefer older men. You just have to wait until they are fed up with guys their own age. And girls who are 22-25 who have daddy issues are amazing. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Currently have 2 plates, just acquired a 3rd one. How to respond to her question "are you seeing someone right now?"That's her way of fishing to see if you can be locked down. I'd honestly say no because if the other two are truly plates you're not seeing them in a dating sense, you're just fucking them. Then ignore. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 12:04 PM |
| 82 | I Answered to my hard-nexted ex text because today is an important day for her, did I fuck up?It's not a fuckup to be a compassionate human being. You answered, now the ball is in her court. Just don't let her suck you into any type of emotional manipulation. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 12:02 PM |
| 42 | Single Mothers - A Fool's ErrandThese woman are the easiest to plate. They know that their pool of potential suitors is small because of kids so they will put out easily and work very hard to keep you around. What always slays me while dating is the "independent single mom" feminist who thinks that she's some kind of awesome woman because she's raising a kid "without needing a man." Um, this just means that either you let a guy knock you up who was useless or you're such a PITA that he didn't want to stick around. And I'd reve… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/18 09:53 PM |
| 30 | She lets me fuck her in the car and 15 seconds after stickin my dick in she stops me. Wtf ?Sounds like a quality plate if she's willing to get fucked in the back seat of a car on the first date. I hope you wrapped it. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 19 | One piece of advice you would give to your 21 year old self?Focus on education and work above all else. Women will always be there and are easier to get the older you get. And don't get involved with anyone seriously before you're 30. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Why would my LTR do this?She’s obviously constantly lying about things. Dump her and focus on building your business. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | I'm 18, need to start looking for work but feel lost and am starting to panicAre you already competitively powerlifting? Get a personal trainer certification (can be done over a weekend and isn’t ridiculously expensive) and work at a gym. They will hire pretty much anyone. Same with most minimum wage or entry level retail/fast food jobs. All you need is a resume which is easy to put together. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Girl cancels date for real reasons, but doesn't reschedul?You asked a question rather than making a statement. First mistake. Also sounds like she’s not interested. If she was she would respond better etc. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 11:31 AM |
| 4 | How do I respond to being ghosted when I see the person regularly?Pretend it didn’t happen but don’t pursue. If she really wants to go she will bring it up. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 10:38 AM |
| 14 | Physically abusive girl?Never hit her back. That’s an assault charge waiting to happen if she’s crazy enough to be physical with a man. Smartest thing you did was dumping her. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 10:34 AM |
| 21 | Gave my LTR an ultimatumCouple of things jump out. They wouldn't just randomly start disrespecting you for no reason. Either you said something/did something or she did in order for them to have a low value opinion of you. Then by not attending family events and showing you're butthurt about it you allow them to add wood to the fire that you're a douche. You didn't even give any example about how they are a bad influence on her in your opinion. Second, why even resort to an ultimatum and forcing her to choose her famil… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Anxious about my size: What sort of girth is mean't when girls say "pencil dick"?Here's a quick hint: if she's close enough to evaluate it closely then it really doesn't matter. If she doesn't come back for more it means whatever you have you need to learn how to use better. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Divorced - What Is A Good Reply If She Asks About It?Don't bother bringing it up unless it comes up in conversation. Don't hide it either and don't put down your ex. It's really not a big deal and depending on your age (ie if you're over 35) most women will assume you're divorced. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:34 PM |
| 10 | Do most women ever quit tinder?In my area I’ve seen probably about 20 of the same women on Tinder (I’ve been on and off) for 3 years. That should tell you something about how much relationship material they are. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 12:19 PM |
| 55 | Woman only care about one fundamental thing.My response to this while I agree it’s a good thing is that it’s not selfless on her part. She likely prompted him even subconsciously to get a better job and a house - which gives her better position if her friends or family ask. “Wow, look at how you turned him around!”. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Smartest girl I ever met is happiest when she is multibillionaire’s loverOnce he gets her pregnant and she’s on a gravy train forever she really won’t care. I’m sure it’s in her plans. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Would you ever date a girl who has a history of eating disorders?Don’t. Just don’t. So many other women out there who aren’t recovering from a mental illness. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Spending almost entire day, every day in front of a screen.Just because the unemployment rate is high doesn’t mean there aren’t jobs. Go find one. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Angry TinderYou insulted her. That wasn’t cocky or funny it was just stupid. Say something like “well, to be fair I haven’t seen the clothes you design yet.” If she responds badly again write it off. If she laughs you’re still in. Make it funny but not insulting. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Advice Request: Military Divorce Rapee/Child SupportFirst of all if all this is true I feel for you. That’s not just rape, it’s utter sodomy. With a large spike. From a 400 pound guy named Bubba who smells bad. You need to get a better lawyer (sounds like yours is terrible) and start standing up for yourself. I know it seems like a shitty situation but your ex is pulling some really shady stuff and shouldn’t be getting away with it. At the very least establish a visitation schedule that’s locked in stone. I’d also start hiding money like crazy. T… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 50 | Plate hides that she has a boyfriend, he finds out she was cheating with me, and now he’s harassing her and me to speak to me. Should I even bother speaking to him?There is zero upside to you even interacting with him at all. Don’t bother and ghost both of them. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The easy2getlaid country - uni life+If you have self confidence, dress decently and have charisma you can slay in University. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 12:17 PM |
| 3 | I Can’t Keep Plates Spinning and I Attract Way Too Many Crazy SlutsSo you're losing interest in the exact women you're complaining about not being able to attract? There's your problem. If you want hotter girls who give you crazy sex but are also emotionally stable you're looking for a unicorn. They are extremely rare. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Who is your model of the rp male?Use real life examples instead. Jocko Willink comes to mind. Every interview he gives the guy just oozes alpha but he also admits that he screws up with his wife and kids, but takes ownership like a leader. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Got free tickets to a hockey game, thinking of using it as a first date but don’t want to seem like a providerYou'll have way more fun with a friend than on a first date. And apparently since you would have to find a date it will come off as desperate anyway. A sporting event isn't first date material. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Walked in on herShe could have been warming up for the guy coming over at 8:30. Very typical thing for my plates to do before I show up. Oh, and you didn't "walk in on her". You caught her. I'd be very suspicious and verify her as soon as possible. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I buy a house?And then you can’t because of high condo fees. I had a good friend who got trapped in a fee hike nightmare and had to sell her place at a huge loss because her building got into a lawsuit. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Should I buy a house?Condos can be a big trap due to condo fees. You have to be careful where and what you buy. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Should I buy a house?No. Unless your house is in an area that is going to appreciate significantly in 3-5 years you’re much better off renting and investing the difference. In my city houses are only increasing by maybe 1-2% a year. I can make 3-4 times that with a simple index fund. When I did the numbers and ran them by my financial advisor even he couldn’t dispute it. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Chick I met online is willing to meet same day but wants to meet at a bar. I just want her to come over. How do I win this tug-o-war?Find a neutral site and suggest something else like a walk or a landmark. Just make it close to your place. Women need plausible deniability and to know you’re not a creep before they will come over and bang you. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 08:01 AM |
| 7 | Advice needed: Using 'What's your price' online datingIf you’re going to do that just set it up as a sugar daddy relationship. That way you don’t have to pay just to meet them. Yes, it shows you’re weak because you’re immediately a provider. They will never have any respect or care about you, it’s just your wallet. And just take the time to learn more before you venture into paying greedy women for nothing. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:23 AM |
| 4 | If your wish to bring all the knowledge of your current life to the time you were 20 years old to live again. How and where would you spend your 20's?I'd go back to university and upgrade my education first, then start working in a field that has great upward potential but can also be done while running your own business. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 12:04 PM |
| 0 | Casino: A Fictional Account of a Beta Bux and Alpha WidowCasino is also based on a true story. Ace Rothstein is a real person who did run a casino for the mob. Most of the events in that movie actually happened so it has a bit more credibility. But I wouldn’t focus on the relationship between Ace and his wife. Focus on how Ace runs the casino and treats people. Same with the gangsters. That’s the most red pill part of the film. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 10:04 AM |
| 3 | Anybody have a good resource for classic physique.Classic physique division is basically bodybuilding light. You still do traditional bodybuilding poses you are just expected to have less mass and a more proportioned physique. Head to the NPC website for more information if you want and even bodybuilding.com would have a ton of free information. I'm an NPC judge. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Bet a girl I was gaming...she lost...not holding up her end of the bet...If all she said was that two word answer then she's definitely not interested. She was hoping to get something for free and lost and then doesn't want to be held accountable. Imagine a woman doing that. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 07:35 PM |
| 14 | Newish Plate Denies Sex after DramaObviously she’s trying to lock you down as a relationship. I’d actually avoid her for a few days and soft next. It will make her go crazy especially if you cancel plans and then you can control the situation better. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 01:14 PM |
| 5 | Need Advice - Is she shit testing me here or is she just not that into me? Help me please.I think you’re just another orbiter to her. Because that’s exactly what’s you’re acting like. Go find another girl. You have zero abundance. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 12:58 PM |
| 3 | To go away for the summer or stay home for a relationship?Never sacrifice any opportunity that gives you the ability to improve as a person for something as replaceable as a woman. Period. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Can you guys help me understand why EXACTLY a "soft next" doesn't work unless you're fucking a woman regularly?Women pair bond hormonally when they have sex with a guy, especially if the sex is emotional - ie either passionate or hard and if she orgasms it tends to be even deeper. Therefore taking that bond away even temporarily can make their brain go crazy. If you're not fucking them they haven't bonded nearly as strongly with you and aren't likely to care as much if you soft next. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 10:14 PM |
| 12 | Girlfriend masturbates frequently, then whenever I want sex she's either "not horny" and we have shit sex, or just gives me an excuseBottom line is she likes porn and fucking a dildo more than your dick. Women can be porn and masturbation addicts too. Whether it’s your problem because you suck in bed or hers for being a porn addict I’d say it’s not worth it trying to fix a broken problem and dump her. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 05:55 PM |
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