was out on a second date with a girl. first date ended with her naked and some fingering, but no F-close due to shitty logistics - no condom and work in 3 hours (my fault, but didn't encounter ASD or LMR)

second date was going great, kino, making out, bouncing venues, until I left to go the restroom and came back to find some guy sitting in my seat talking to her. granted I was drunk and impulsive, I decided to just leave her there, called an uber and met up with some friends. looking back, it was a giant shit test and I should've just pulled up a chair and sat down with them, but oh well, we learn from these mistakes

she blew up my phone that night, saying sorry she spoke to someone while I was at the bathroom, but leaving her at the bar wasn't cool.

her:"sorry you felt abandoned. i'd say we're even but i communicate my issues, i don't leave people hanging in the middle of a bar."

I posted here the next day and realized I fucked up and failed what was a giant shit test.

the next day, I just texted her "there is no excuse for last night. regardless of what happened, leaving you there was fucked" to which she replied "yep. pretty shady"

whats the best course moving forward? its been a couple days since. cut my losses and move on? send out a text in a couple days pretending it never happened? or address it and try and meet up again? i'm inclined to think the situation is recoverable but would appreciate any feedback

lessons learned: alcohol impairs judgement, made me irrationally impulsive. when faced with my situation, don't break frame. instead i should've engaged them both

tl;dr: broke frame with potential plate. recoverable or lost cause?