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If a girl is actually into you she will be excited to watch paint dry with you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/22 07:09 PM
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So you form your own circle.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/21 07:05 AM
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I myself am also a stone cold stoic/introvert. I have plenty of fun in my own way. Being a wordless stoic may not be the life of the party, but we will provide the party of life through our actions, not our words. Being a stoic doesnt mean you dont have fun. It just means the fun you have doesnt require the attention of others to validate your fun. For all of you who are also introverts/stoics, your actions speak volumes. When you do use words, they are meaningful and people who are invested in …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/21 07:36 PM
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Dont shit where you eat... ...Usually, however restaurants are different, especially if professionally youre equals. Just be prepared to have to find a new bartending gig and dont be a creeper
/r/askTRP11/06/21 06:49 AM
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For me things usually even themselves out. Ill get dinner one night, her the next. Ill buy this round, she gets the next. If its an expensive dinner we go dutch. Whats more relevant is whether or not she even offers. If the tab comes and she just sits there expecting you to pay, she belong to the streets.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:54 PM
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Saying sorry when you're not actually sorry is a sign of weakness. Stop saying sorry for shit. ONLY say sorry you YOU think you've been an ass to someone and an apology is warranted,, because you believe so. If you always say sorry, when you actually mean it it will have no value. Think boy who cried wolf.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 12:53 AM
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Lol no you're just insecure about something you cant control. Every negative emotion or circumstance you believe to be real, is real, BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE IT TO BE SO. Focus on what you can control, like lifting, learning and earning
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:58 PM
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Oh yeah how longs the list.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:30 PM
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Another day, im in the mood for ramen tonight. This polarizes her, either shes down to cone along for ramen, or she gives resistance, which in turn gives you a clear sign shes not interested and to stop wasting your time on her.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:12 AM
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Man she doesnt even know why she asked. Its irrelevant why.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:40 PM
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The reason u dont have a girlfriend is because you havent met a girl who is worthy of your commitment
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:10 PM
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I havent met anyone good enough
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:06 PM
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At first maybe, until u realize they ain't shit
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:04 PM
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Shit, if only everyone used the gym as their vice. Being addicted to the gym, while yes there could be some deep rooted issues there, is not as harmful as being addicted to other things, like girls, video games, a drink after work, heroin. Those people who say u go too much just wish they had the drive to do the same.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 09:01 PM
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It doesnt matter why. Maybe they think your fugly. Maybe their dog just died. Maybe they broke a nail and are having an anxiety attack. It doesnt matter why, just move on and keep approaching
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:28 PM
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Go out alone, learn to be comfortable in uncomfortablility (or something)
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:51 PM
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Word. I came here before making a decision and telling someone, wanted to confirm my own thoughts and see if anyone would play devils advocate. Everyone commenting have said what ive already thought for the most part
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:22 PM
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Being intimidating isnt a bad thing, stop thinking it is. Look at the other side of the coin, would u rather be intimidating and not get fucked with or someone who isnt intimidating and gets fucked with.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:17 PM
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"Atomic Habits" - James Clear Models - mark manson Power the now - eckhart tolle As a man, your sense of self is correlated to the amount of work you put in, whether its exercise, career, a sport or other hobby
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:15 PM
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Stop "cold approaching" Just say hey
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:13 PM
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Im not apologizing or justifying, just never been in a situation being the boss of someone i slept with
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:09 PM
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The power of now - eckhart Tolle Meditations - marcus aurielus Read up on stoicism
/r/askTRP03/06/21 08:02 PM
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Yup was thinking the same. Telling someone could only rock the boat
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:57 PM
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I think itll be okay. If she wanted to rock the boat or something shed risk her current bf finding out and they live together
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:53 PM
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Thats the side im leaning to as well
/r/askTRP03/06/21 07:47 PM
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Well, who do you want to be? Cause trying to be someone other than who you are now is the issue. Youre the only person whos gonna be there your whole life. Learn to love you. Be the best version of you. You're 20 years old. Make small improvements and in 5 years you will look in the mirror one day and not recognize yourself, cause youre better. Youre better then better, if you put the work in now. Do the right thing a little bit each day
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:50 AM
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A girl with any quality and affection towards you will offer without you needing to ask. When in doubt, i use the "You get this round ill get the next one" kinda shit. If they question it "im not your atm, this isnt a one way street." If they continue to make a fuss (if they are into you they wont) then get your own drink then flirt with other girls
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:31 PM
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Gym is for gains not girls.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:45 PM
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You told her to call if ahe thinks she should come over... Way to take the lead in the relationship.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:44 PM
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Sure, keep em. More top tier women for me
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:39 AM
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Thats sad
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:35 AM
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Lol so uve only had 20 girls willingly sleep with you
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:20 AM
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Well how is your nutrition. You should be getting the proper amount of protein, carbs, and fats. Dont eat to fill up, eat for fuel. If youre not in the gym get in there. Youre tired cause you arent disciplined. Get out of bed and do something.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 08:24 PM
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It is incredibly important to include some sort of active R&R. Weekly yoga/massage/etc. Something to get the blood flowing without too much strenuous effort, this will let your muscles heal stronger after tearing them with a stressful regiment.
/r/askTRP02/05/21 01:44 AM
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Slow and deep, not fast and hard. Let her feel every inch of you go into her. Each has its time and place. Doing 1 style of sex all the time is a surefire way to bore a woman. Read sex god method.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 03:20 PM
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When there is a lull in conversation... Keep looking into her eyes, lift her chin with your finger and go in for the kiss. If she doesnt want to kiss you she will turn away. If she does, she will do nothing but let u kiss her
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:11 AM
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The $20 for water is tacky. Own your shit. Tip the bartender 1-2 every time for their time, eventually theyll do it automatically when u step to the bar
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:31 AM
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Is this from experience, or what you think you know?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:18 AM
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If i deadlift for the next 30 years and you dont, yes, lets compare spines. Its only dangerous if you lift with your ego and do to much weight too soon. Start low, build your strength slowly, with proper form and technique. Do that for 5 years. Then, see whether or not your anxiety is better or worse.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:35 AM
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If you want to.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:25 PM
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Go alone. The only thing stopping you is your fear.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:28 PM
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The problem isnt your dick size. The problem is you are a weak and unattractive man, with or without a dick. Its the mind that turns a woman on. Physical attributes are just icing on a cake. You cant control this. You get the hand you're dealt. So whats better? To whine and bitch cause trust me, it subconsciously comes through in your actions, such as this whiny bitchy post as well as your actions with women. Or to be a better man and worry about shit you can control, such as your inner self. Im…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:21 PM
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Its not the dick, but the man attached to it, that turns a woman on.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 11:59 PM
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I wouldnt "let" her do anything, she has freedom. Granted, my ltrs wouldnt do this, and if they do they are no longer my ltr
/r/askTRP02/04/21 03:00 PM
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Tis what i intended, yes
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:18 PM
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Shes the first captain on your ship.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 07:07 PM
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If you continue, very badly. If you stop and eat correctly, a minor mishap. Your choice.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:17 AM
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Even if it does, is that a reason not to do it?
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:37 AM
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You need to sse this as a positive. You made a move on a girl, a friend at that. This time around its wasn't reciprocated. There will be times when it will. At least you wont waste anymore of your time.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:23 PM
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Your poses and pictures look similar to a woman's profile. Take that as you will...
/r/askTRP22/03/21 04:44 PM
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Good luck to you. Feel free to reach out
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:52 AM
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Yeah brother. I get the feeling of wanting to be there for your brother, i got a younger brother also. Cant help him and guide him properly if you dont get yourself right first. This is your life. You will be the ONLY person around for the entire thing. If you dont do things your way, you will live an unfulfilled life full of regret. I wouldnt wish that upon my worst enemy...
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:47 AM
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Best of luck living a life for someone else then. Sounds like you're trapped and to afraid to do anything about it.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:42 AM
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Brother. Find a place to live on your own. You got money, you can rent anywhere relatively easy. Dont live above your means. Get a job. Basically, your parents have NO say on what you do. Be an adult and make your own decisions.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:03 AM
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Listen to her actions, not her words. Her words "i was jist having fun haha omg im so silly" Actions: "i dont respect you" Abort immediately, you owe her NOTHING but your back leaving the door. Best of luck to you, its not easy, but if you want to have even a modicum of respect for YOURSELF, you get the fuck out. Have abundance, another girl will come along who will respect you.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:19 AM
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You say its not good making friends, but i personally prefer low energy quiet friends. Speak with purpose, not just to fill silence. 90% of those "loud energetic extroverts" are doing so because they need attention and cant be alone with their thoughts. You dont want to be like them. Imagine a Chihuahua. All bark no bite.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 03:21 AM
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Craigslist room shares. Yes, they are strangers. Yes, you should definitely vet them and see if you can cohabitate. Yes, random strangers is better then dealing with a bitch youre not even fucking.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:23 AM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:19 AM
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Be patient and stay true to yourself. Friends seemed so easy when we were younger, but you learn they arent true friends, just what you thought were true friends. Have abundance, that doesnt apply strictly to girls. Keep true to yourself amd attract your own tribe
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:48 AM
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The only reason she says this is because you allow it, and don't create enough tingles. You are on the path towards giving her your balls
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:12 AM
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Its important to remember that its the way you make her feel that she finds attractive, not your physical attributes. Thats why you may see "ugly" guys with beautiful women, or "attractive" guys with ugly women. Its the mind women find attractive, whats inside your outer shell.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 07:19 PM
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Next. It will not improve.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:58 PM
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Its better than "what should i do" which you communicated in your conversation. Is this a girl youve even slept with or what?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:53 PM
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Look at the conversation. You didn't lead anything, but asking her what you should do.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 04:06 AM
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Because youre not fucking them.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 02:43 PM
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If im asked to do something by a girl, i enforce manners from her. "Get me water." And "could you get me some water please?" are different. If it is in the form of a statement, i will stare blankly at them. If they use manners and ask, as long as i really dont mind, its no big deal. If they dont want to submit to you and go along with it, they can get their own water then.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:22 PM
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Dont choose a hobby to meet women. Choose it for your own mental well being. The women are a byproduct
/r/askTRP03/02/21 08:58 PM
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Do you think white girls are better than others?
/r/askTRP01/02/21 07:30 AM
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Funnily enough, what makes those uncomfortable is the teuth thats been right in front of them
/r/askTRP01/02/21 12:33 AM
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Form your own opinion.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:52 PM
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Respect yourself.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:51 PM
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Really accurate way of putting it.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:49 PM
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Teach her the way you like it. Having an inexperienced girl isnt bad by any means. Guide her and mold her into your own personal fuck toy, she will love you for it.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:46 PM
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Dont react. When you meet her again tease her for being jealous of your sister.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 07:44 PM
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Lead with actions, not words.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/21 08:25 PM
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This seems to be the correct advice for half the posts here. "Do it anyway, and when she says no move on and do it again"
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:10 PM
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Be the one who tests her.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 01:04 AM
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I think you're too invested.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:55 PM
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Basically everything you've told me, the fact that your even thinking about it, is the reason they ghosted you. You're too invested
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:04 PM
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The only reason I'd suggest sending it, is for you to learn first hand how much of a waste of time it is. The best learning tool is by experience.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 01:20 AM
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Right, I understand that. What I would do in your situation is call her. Just once. If she answers, then you can set a time to see her. If she doesn't answer, you delete her number/text conversations and move on.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:47 PM
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Eject before you have kids. It will only get worse from here. Also, seriously think about this. Is this the woman you want raising your children? She can't even take care of herself.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:48 PM
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Well to be fair you don't go from nothing to making out, but you can escalate still. If you are in a group and don't touch the girl at all, nothing will come of it.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:41 PM
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You're shooting yourself in the foot if you don't learn how to escalate in a group.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:33 PM
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When in a group, escalate and get physical without the other people in the group knowing. The human body is very sensitive to touch. The girls know when you are touching them. You can do so discreetly, without the other group members knowing. At least at first. Once she begins to reciprocate, then you get more bold.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:32 PM
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If you had 4 other girls to talk to, would you be concerned about this one?
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:25 PM
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If you're truly being yourself you won't be taken advantage of, because if you feel you might be, you set boundaries or walk away. Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. Also, personally, I cant stand their company. If talking to a girl makes me want to commit sudoku, it's a good sign we won't get along, no matter how many tests/games she sends my way and I pass.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:48 PM
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It is. Just know however, I used to be in the same mindset as you. Saying the "right" thing, acting a certain way in hopes that "oh this will make me an alpha." An alpha never has to try to be an alpha, we just are.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:12 PM
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Read the book. Being "alpha" isn't about being a hardened woman manipulator. It's about doing what you want to do, when you want to, and apologize to no one for it. If that means being vulnerable and having an emotional connection with a girl, cool. If that means being the douchiest douche of the douchbags, so be it. Live by your own rules.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:06 PM
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I'd push to meet in public close to your place. Once you meet and you feel more trusting (or not) you could bring her back to her place, or leave him there.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 06:19 PM
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Next time "I don't want to hear about this anymore". Ignore everything about it from then on. Never say another word
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:50 PM
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Why not do it yourself and answer your question on your own.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:07 PM
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Once they initiate touch again, continue escalation
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:56 AM
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In my experience, the best way to get past LMR is by applying sexual intention, but never actually touching them. Stand up in their face, tall and confident. Go in for a kiss and hover over their lips. Make them want you, where it's her idea to stick something inside her, not yours.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:38 AM
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It's your responsibility to initiate, it's her responsibility to tell you to stop.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:36 AM
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Hey her turned on enough she won't care about a period. And if she does she will want to pleasure you. If this doesn't happen, you're attention.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 05:34 AM
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Do what you want.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 02:31 AM
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Looks like we will have to practice suppressing your gag reflex
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:18 AM
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You will always, and continue to do so, lose attraction to women you "love". Attraction will last longer in some than others. 90% of relationships have black of attraction, but are so afraid of being alone they put up with it, or are waiting for something to be done (cheating, abuse, etc.) that will make ending a relationship easier. Don't be like 90% of people.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:02 AM
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You do those reasons not to replace her, but for yourself. When you improve yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually, your next ltr will mirror you. You will learn from this past girl about what you like and don't like, your boundaries, and your values. This is the RP journey, not a "get over it quick" thing. It takes time and effort. If you don't improve yourself, you've given up.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 12:30 AM
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By putting your phone down and improving yourself.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:14 PM
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If she really wants to apologize request she do it in person. Over text is pointless, there is no social pressure.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 11:11 PM
4

Award her for good behavior
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:59 PM
6

Improve yourself.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:55 PM
16

You got a clingy one. Figure out if time spent with her feels draining.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 02:40 AM
1

Best gifts are ones that cost minimal $$$ but are thoughtful. The fact you included the $138 of perfume shows that you are hoping this amount of $$$ spent will correlate to how much she appreciates it. This is not the case. IF you want to give a gift, do so because you WANT to. Maybe she said something in passing that you can use to get her something.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/20 03:30 AM
15

I don't think it's bad to latch on to someone with your heart. However, always keeping in mind all the lessons you've learned here, and a willingness to always sever that attachment whenever you feel you need to. Also, to remember, it's not your job to bring up commitment. It is, your job, on whether or not to decide if you want to build something with a girl. For me, I do eventually want kids, so looks for someone I trust enough to raise my kids plays a big role in my vetting process. And alway…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 05:16 AM
2

Oh damn that sucks, wyd Thursday tho?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 06:11 PM
1

Main answer: All experiences, whether good or bad, shape who you are. Wanting to go back to your old self is not what you want, you just are unsure how to handle the experiences you've encountered. Your mom dying, your gf breaking up with you, these are all "injuries" that you learn and heal from, creating a better version of yourself. You becoming unbroken by being in touch with the pieces that are broken, accepting them without judgment, and changing that which you find undesirable. It's a lon…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:57 PM
3

I have snapchat and reddit. No insta/facebook/twitter/tik tok. My response is generally "i have better things to do then scroll through social media"
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:48 PM
2

Read: What EveryBODY is Saying - Joe Navarro Models - Mark Manson The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle
/r/askTRP27/11/20 07:08 PM
1

Learn the ideas and concepts, but never emulate exactly what that person is saying. Reason being is, it's not you. If you respond the same say someone told you you should, you are not working within your frame and being a genuine person, but a shell who regurgitated information.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:50 PM
1

Wasted? How is it wasted? You learn what doesn't work. Be more aloof and confident.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:23 PM
5

Yeah maybe. You don't always have to though. You tried, that's more than 90% of guys. Learn from it, improve, try again. You will fail again. Then you learn again, you'll then improve again, and then you'll try, again. And then you'll fail. Then you'll learn. Then you'll improve. Again. This defeatist mindset is toxic, get rid of it. Women don't want you to be perfect with the perfect abs and perfect responses at every perfect moment. They want a man who, even in the face of failure, can shrug i…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 05:07 PM
5

It's not like hogwarts is an obscure reference. You're trying too hard. I can tell just by these threads you try and come up with the perfect response. "Skinny guys aren't my type" "okay" and continue "All you think about is sex" yes, sleeping and eating too". "I know your type of guys" (confused) "my type of guys, what do you mean?" What you say has much less important as how you say it, which I see no mention in your thread. "Skinny guys aren't my type" "okay" with prolonged, unwavering, seduc…
/r/askTRP27/11/20 04:55 PM
1

Right. Let's look at that response. What was the purpose of saying hogwarts?
/r/askTRP27/11/20 04:43 PM
4

No. You also edited one of your replies.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 04:37 PM
18

You're trying too hard.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 04:23 PM
2

Listen to understand, not to respond. You (I say you in broad terms, I used to do it as well) interrupt to respond to what is being said. Instead, listen to what's being said, absorb the information, process it, then respond. Don't look to get a word in, but instead to really understand what the other person is saying. With this in mind, you'll find that a lot of verbal rhetoric that comes from other people doesn't have much value, especially with people you see everyday (work especially).
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:50 PM
12

Forgive isn't the right word. You need to accept your dad for who he is. You don't need to like/love/forgive him, but you need to let go of resentment as it will hold you back until you do so.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 02:56 PM
2

"Oh this is your bf? Have a nice day."
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:44 PM
1

Learn social skills. Go out by yourself. Try, fail, then try again. There is no easy way.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 01:45 AM
-1

Don't answer seriously. Make a joke. I like to count on my hands many times then answer "3".
/r/askTRP06/11/20 11:01 PM
2

Nah it's not better. Be busy with your life.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:10 AM
4

Every 18 year old is the dating person for the right guy. You need to make your intentions known covertly. If she wants to see you, she will agree to anything as long as it's with you.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:28 PM
1

Everything after the first "ok" was a waste of your time and how I'd expect 95% of the male population to respond.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:33 PM
5

End it, her jealously will only get worse as time goes.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 01:54 AM
12

Once you begin to find your SO even mildly unattractive, the relationship is over. This will not improve, and eventually you won't even WANT to fuck her anymore. Better to pull the plug earlier rather than later
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:35 PM
3

Speak. As. If. There. Is. A. Short. Pause. Between. Every. Word. Instead of responding immediately, take a few seconds to process new information before speaking. Your mind is going faster than your mouth, so you use erm or er to try and let it catch up while your mouth is 5 steps ahead. Slow down.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 04:31 PM
7

What EveryBODY is Saying by Joe Navarro. Power of now, Eckhart Tolle
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:42 PM
-1

Cocky is when you don't have the confidence in yourself and it comes off as arrogant.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:59 AM
3

It seems she crossed a moral boundary of yours. Not that she did anything to YOU to make you mad, but the fact she did what she did at all gets you heated. Shes a plate, it's not worth making a big deal over. You do, however, need to decide if it's a deal breaker for you to keep seeing her. Personally, I'd drop her for not having any class.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 02:13 PM
1

You just don't. You have 2 options. Let the shit they say get to you, or let the shit they say not get to you. It's all in your head.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 04:31 AM
1

Don't let the shit they say get to you.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:38 AM
19

If she's gonna cheat, she gonna cheat. Nothing you do can stop that. Play it cool. When she comes back, it's up to you to determine if you believe she did something she wasn't supposed to, or just needed alone time and is asking your permission. She could just need time away from you.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:37 AM
1

Understanding women's mentality and dating is a by product of being a better man. 1000s of books on attracting and picking up women too. Being the best man you can be IS our journey. Women are just a bonus.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 03:41 PM
1

This sub is about being the best man you can be.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:47 AM
1

Where could I meet clever girls if not out?
/r/askTRP10/10/20 12:46 AM
1

Go to the mall on acid and buy shit you vibe with.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:43 PM
4

It's like a bandaid. You just gotta do it. I broke up with my ltr of 1 year just recently She was madly in love with my and thought we were perfect together, but it just didn't feel right to me. Trust your gut. You ending it with her now is better for both of you, the longer you wait the harder it'll be and the more you will end up hurting her..
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:42 PM
3

Depends on if it gets in the way of your goals or not. I like to smoke before I go to the gym. I can smoke and sit and work for 10 hours straight . If you smoke and sit on it couch and watch tv/play video games all day, then it's not good.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 06:40 PM
1

Yes, absolutely. The head voice in non-musicians usually comes from a place of anxiety and low confidence. When intentional the head voice can have it's uses. I've always envisioned it as speaking on your out breath. As you exhale you want to be speaking through the diaphragm
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:54 PM
2

Feel free to add to the conversation with your own advice. I believe you are incorrect, but if what you say is true I'd like to know why.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:52 PM
6

If she's your client don't fuck. There are plenty of other woman
/r/askTRP07/10/20 05:35 AM
3

Learn to speak through your diaphragm, not your head. If you want to see the difference, hold your nose and speak. If you speak with your head, your voice will turn nasaley and squeaky. Speaking through your diaphragm will not affect the deepness of your voice
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:56 AM
1

Chad is a mindset. Your mind is not affected by your height unless you allow it.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:54 AM
6

True, must have glossed over that fact.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:51 AM
2

Nah, sounds more like a butthurt orbiter to me
/r/askTRP07/10/20 02:39 AM
1

You move the fuck on
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:19 AM
2

Find a hobby where you can let your creative original ideas flow
/r/askTRP04/10/20 06:57 PM
2

Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:04 AM
1

She didn't have to walk over to you, that was her choice
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:46 PM
2

Exactly. In fact, I would see what's occuring as a green flag. Even though she doesn't have the means of a lavish lifestyle on her own, she gives back in a way that she can support
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:04 PM
3

It's cause for conversation. The only part I disagree with in your original comment is your first sentence. How your parents treat you growing up is what makes you you, saying it's means shit isn't necessarily true. It's those who can move past that and begin taking responsibility for their own life is the difference between being a man and remaining a boy. It's the difference between being red and blue. My response was not to disagree, but in hope that the person lurking and reading comments ma…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 06:27 AM
4

How your parents treated you absolutely directly correlates to how you grow as a person. That's literally their job, to teach you how to be a person and to care for you. Using it as an excuse as to why an individual is fucked. There comes a point in time where every man begins to think for himself. With this thinking, the way your parents treat you is influential in how you go about this. For some it takes longer than others. Some never reach the ability to think for themselves, but instead blam…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 06:05 AM
3

Being abused is normal. It's the sad truth of life. Just because it's normal doesn't mean it's right or healthy. Having abusive parents was not within your control, what you do after leaving the abusive household is.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 05:59 AM
2

I find myself resonating with point D most. Growing up, if my mom wanted me to clean my room, I'd ignore it constantly and it'd become a mess. Like clockwork, I'd come home from school or practice one day, and my room would be cleaned spotless. So, I learned not to clean my room, cause by ignoring it my mom would eventually do it. I've lived away from my mother for 7 years now, and I've learned to care for myself. I feel like the alpha in the room. When I'm speaking and engaged in conversation, …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 05:57 AM
3

My best advice would be to only speak when you have something to say, not to just get a word in. When other people are talking, actually listen to them
/r/askTRP02/10/20 11:04 PM
22

If you're the one inviting her knowing she doesn't have the funds to pay, and it doesn't affect you, then no I wouldn't ask her to pay. If she was the one initiating vacations and then making you pay, that'd be a different story. You said she does pay for meals and stuff so I don't see an issue.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:54 PM
1

If you take her back, the same issues will arise and you will want to break up again. Save yourself the time and begin healing and forming new relationships
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:31 AM
3

Find a place outside your home to call an "office" for me its the coffee shop down the road. I can sit there for 8 1/2 hours daily to get work done, they have coffee and food and large tables to sprawl out my material on.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 01:17 PM
1

Find a hobby.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:08 PM
2

You should go ask on the relationship sub. You'll get the unicorn you're looking for. If your goal is to get this ONE woman, you are too far gone. The bitch broke up with you. Have some self respect
/r/askTRP28/09/20 04:06 PM
2

If I were in this situation I would leave the relationship. If you have done nothing to prove disloyalty to her, but she still believes you are doing disloyal things, it will only get worse from here
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:57 PM
1

I've first day laid some girls on the hood of my car, move it into the grass. It doesn't matter if she's into you
/r/askTRP26/09/20 01:02 AM
12

You do it by acting different then the 100s if other dicks. You don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:55 AM
1

If you were the only person on earth, how would you find happiness?
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:41 AM
1

If your into a girl, don't text them all day. Instead, have a conversation over text within a certain time frame. For example, be busy all day, but from 7-8pm you have some time and can text them. Once 8 hits, excuse yourself because you have something else more important to do
/r/askTRP26/09/20 12:08 AM
1

What about your hobbies? Your fitness? How about your social and family life? Your diet? Do you read on a regular basis? Are you trying new things?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:52 PM
4

Myself personally, I don't just lay them out in plain sight, but I don't have them hidden away either. If they see it they see it, if not they don't. Doesn't matter to me either wau
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:13 PM
41

"Well, looks like the books worked" just agree and amplify. Own ur shit.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 05:23 PM
4

Yes of course. I fixed it by changing my focus from women and talking to them to myself and my work. Eating healthy. Lifting daily. Find a sense of purpose. Your sense of purpose right now is talking and sleeping with women. This makes you believe your self-worth is based on how much women want to talk to you. Find your own self-worth.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:12 AM
9

Your neediness is coming from a lack of confidence within. You need a woman to validate you because you know yourself you aren't putting in the work. Aim to be too busy to even think about texting a woman.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:41 AM
5

Be sure you are fueling your body properly. Until failure is a bit excessive, but definitely don't stop working out. During your workouts, also consider adding in things for flexibility and functionality and not just strength. Definitely be sure you are fueling your body though, I can't stress this enough. If you are going to be working out that strenuously you need to be sure to take care of your body. It sounds like you are spending too much time in the gym and not enough time in the kitchen. …
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:38 AM
2

Move on.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 06:42 PM
1

Live for yourself and no one else. You're the only person in the entire world who will be there for you your entire life.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 06:41 PM
3

If you feel that things are not working for you, you are under 0 obligation to continue. Just because you've been with her for 9 years means nothing, and anyone who tells you that you should try and make things work have been sold on the fairytale that is our society. Staying with someone you are not satisfied with is not noble. It is selfish and disrespectful to yourself and her. You legit said yourself you love the idea of being married and having kids. You think you have issues now? Imagine w…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 06:38 PM
3

You're 18. In 3 years you will be 21. Now decide, do you want to be a 21 year old with no muscle, no social skills, no knowledge and no direction? Or do you want to be 21 who can speak 2 languages, has 10-12% body fat, with a hobby or two that you enjoy and have worked on for 3 years? One path you will remain blue and will continue to feel like a loser. The other path takes hard work, discipline, dedication and is difficult. Your choice. And if getting laid is your biggest concern, which path do…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:28 PM
2

How can you expect a woman to respect you when you don't respect yourself? Read a book. Learn a skill. IMPROVE YOURSELF into a man that you do respect. Women come second.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:24 PM
14

"When you have hit your lowest point is when you are susceptible to the greatest change" -Avatar Aang But seriously, the only way he will learn is once his heart is broken and he can see how his lack of self-respect is self-sabotaging. He will need a friend then. That is when you can introduce your own personal advice
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:22 PM
3

Id it bother you, leave. If you can accept it, continue. Just don't be surprised if her N count increases while you two are still dating.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:13 PM
5

This^ Next time don't let her get up and fuck her harder. Let her "pee" on you. Shes a squirter.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:11 PM
1

You ACTED cool and aloof, when in reality her opinion of you matters to you greatly. Stop putting on an act and put in the work so you can back up your arrogance.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:10 PM
3

Required reading: Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP23/09/20 03:07 PM
1

The Joe Navarro one is a must for any man. Being able to analyze and interpret body language is a key skill in any leadership position.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:08 AM
1

A few books are missing from your list "What EveryBODY is Saying" by Joe Navarro As well as "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle
/r/askTRP22/09/20 12:05 AM
2

Having courage to finish something doesn't mean you're not scared. Courage is being scared and moving forward anyway. You are on the right path, have courage that you are making the right moves, and buckle down. Write down your priorities in order. Once you have those, every decision and action you do needs to be in congruence with your goals. Sacrifices in some aspects of your life may need to be taken immediately, but determine if the long term satisfaction will outweigh the short term validat…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:50 PM
2

She probably believes you won't have fun with her because she's a boring female with a vagina, so inviting someone else will take tensions away. Shes nervous, ignore and have fun
/r/askTRP19/09/20 10:21 PM
1

$700 for a 1bd apt? Lmao fuck yeah that's the move then. Cheapest I've found where I'm at is $1000, and those are usually pretty shit quality. Living on my own is my next goal. The only benefit of having roommates is cheaper rent. That's not an issue for you. Just do your research and find a decently managed place. Also, living with friends is a terrible idea. Friends are nice when you can get away from them. If you live with a friend, the friendship can get rocky if the two of you live differen…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 03:52 PM
23

Trust your gut.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:51 PM
2

Shift your focus to what you have control over.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:44 AM
-1

So you're telling me, when you're in the sun, you get browner, but when you are not in the sun for a while, you get whiter? Weird.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:42 AM
3

Think about your creativity. Something to pour your ideas and creativity. I started to produce music. It's work and difficult and I have no idea wtf I'm doing, but I sit at my computer putting sounds together , and when I'm done I have an incredible sense of accomplishment, even if it's amateur trash.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 03:18 AM
4

If you can swing it financially, living alone is the best option
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:36 AM
1

Find something to enjoy in life. Not to make money? Not because it's cool and it'll get you girls, but something that you enjoy doing. Ask yourself "If I was the only human alive on this planet, how would I be happy?"
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:30 AM
14

Is there a 3rd option?
/r/askTRP17/09/20 01:28 AM
2

Well then that's what's wrong with you. How can you be happy when you don't know what makes you happy? At least now you have mission.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:38 PM
2

Everyone is different, so answers will vary, but ask yourself this question. "If I was the only person on this planet, how would I be happy?" It is important to rely on no one for your happiness. Find an activity you enjoy by yourself. For me is music production.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:43 PM
2

Learn to enjoy being alone.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 09:04 PM
10

Do nothing until you know if the child is yours or not. Get a test and find out, then decide what to do.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 09:27 PM
4

$1500 is way better spent on travel/lodging/food in a foreign place than for a vagina...
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:09 AM
1

I'll look into it, cheers
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:06 PM
1

Why so urgently?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:39 PM
1

Make sure that whatever you say has a reason behind it. I'd take the company of a quiet guy over the dude who doesn't know how to STFU anyday
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:16 PM
2

A quiet follower doesn't speak because they are shy or afraid of their perception from other people. A quiet leader only speaks when he has something to say. Everything is clear and concise. Every word has a purpose from the quiet leader.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:14 PM
3

If it all came down to a question you need to ask yourself , it would be this: If I was the only person alive, how would I get by everyday feeling fulfilled. If there were no women in the world, where would my passions lie?
/r/askTRP23/07/20 12:05 AM
3

Electronic. Haven't really figured it out. I have 0 music knowledge so everything is hieroglyphics to me, but progressing everyday. I can hear and imagine the sounds I want to produce, just can't get them down on paper A creative outlet has really helped me get through life recently.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:52 PM
6

Find a creative outlet. Something you do, by yourself, that makes you proud. For me, it's music production. I feel immense pride when I'm able to put together something halfway decent. (Fairly new, became my quarentine hobby). The reason being, that in life there is a lot of downtime I've learned. Especially during this quarentine where I'm not working. If on any day I did nothing except workout, follow strict diet, and played around with my music, I'd say it's a successful day. It doesn't make …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:39 PM
1

Focus your first lift on a barbell (squat/bench/deadlift/ohp/bb row). Then just do some other exercises in the same muscle group as bb exercise. (Chest/shoulders/legs/back) It's okay to stop and think about what to do next. You are not an expert, not yet. Think about what you need to do next, or an exercise that sounds fun. If you know you need to do back but don't know any back exercises? Google it. Figure it out. Try exercises you don't know, you may end up enjoying it. Who cares if it takes y…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:33 PM
4

Yeah wtf. How does she respond to the text, that's what's important. She can't control another guy's actions.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:42 PM
13

It means "I'll fuck you, if you don't do some dumb shit and try and make it all lovey dovey."
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:33 PM
2

You observe. When talking, is the girl you're with flirting back, or is her body language closed. Is she soul searching into his eyes, or looking around for you? Does she hit him/call him asshole, or keep a solid 6ft of social distancing? Observe how she acts with him. If she's into him, you leave. If her actions are in line with wanting you around, you enter the interaction and brush the guy off.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:15 PM
87

It's not society that has a problem with you, it's you who has a problem with you. Being a man isn't about not feeling these feelings. Being a man is about feeling these feelings, and still doing what you need to do. Set yourself some goals to work for.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:39 PM
0

Do not speak with your mouth. Instead, communicate with your body.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:25 PM
1

/thread
/r/askTRP16/07/20 08:24 PM
3

You have no idea what you want to do. That's normal. Take time off and figure it out. Don't buy into the ideal story everyone's sold you since you were born. "Go to school, go to college, get a degree, live the next 40 years in a "stable" job until you die." I'm not saying don't go to school, but don't go just because, have a good reason for it.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:26 AM
15

Don't enter LTR until at least 6 months of spinning. This is so you can properly vet a woman. This is a red flag seen after 1-2 months. Imagine what will unfold after 5-6 more month
/r/askTRP15/07/20 05:14 PM
8

You've attached your self-worth to this woman. Now that she is gone, you feel as if a part of yourself has been ripped away from you. Good. Feel that pain. And fix that pain. You fix it by being better. Focus on yourself, your body, mind, health, invest in yourself. In doing so, you build value that you see in yourself. Next time, it won't feel like anything was separated from you.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:14 PM
3

Stoicly.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:23 AM
1

Pick up a hobby.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:21 AM
1

You still seek their approval. You state "it has nothing to do with myself as a person." Wrong. If it has nothing to do with you, then it shouldn't bear any mind. But it does have to do with you. You've now seen the truth to it, the lack of mystique, and you are repulsed because you feel these creatures should have no bearing on you. But they do. They treat you like a fat girl. Dude, worry about yourself. It's in your head how they treat you. Being angry and repulsed at women does nothing for yo…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:16 AM
1

Block her on everything. Forget she exists.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:55 PM
1

You're whining. Like whining more then a 4 yr old girl. The ONLY way you get to be a man again is if you drop this girl, go no contact, and move on with your life. Anything other than that you will continue to be a chump.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:50 PM
1

Reeks of oneitis. Afraid you won't find anyone better? That's a load of bullshit. There are billions of women out there, and you believe there isn't ANYONE better? Get a grip.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 05:09 PM
15

Nothing
/r/askTRP07/07/20 04:43 PM
2

Stop taking shit so seriously. Keep doing what you need to do, 1 day at a time. Continue doing what you want to do. Come back in a year, see if you still feel this way. Chill the fuck out.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:06 PM
6

Stop trying to get girls. Just talk to em
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:03 AM
2

Your question is dumb as fuck. Did you ever play a sport? Were you good at it the first time you tried it?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 05:56 AM
1

Attraction doesn't have to make sense to anyone but you.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:15 AM
3

All of those train your body. Find a hobby that trains your mind. Music, art, poetry, writing, meditating, learning.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 02:16 AM
1

So don't do it. Idk who you are, idk what you like. If you don't know the answer to those, figure it out
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:33 PM
8

There's your answer.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:29 PM
6

Have some dignity. Find another girl.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:56 AM
3

The best day to plant a tree was 10 years ago. The next best day is today. If you continue to worry about what could've been, you will never transition to "how are things now". If you don't like it, change it. You cannot change what's been done, so focus on what you can control.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 09:06 PM
1

It doesn't actually matter what you do. What matters is that however you decide to throw a party/getty/hangout, you fucking own it.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:51 PM
0

"Nothings wrong, im busy the rest of the week"
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:10 AM
1

Do what you would do if you were alone. Cook, workout, read, meditate
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:31 PM
-6

Why?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:28 PM
29

Being yourself and maintaining frame are one in the same
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 01:48 AM
1

Check out craigslist. Ive lived in a downtown area for the last 2 years through here for never more than 600/mo. You have roomates and it can be shitty. Beggers cant be choosers, and some time in less tgan ideal living conditions could give u the kick in the ass u need
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:35 AM
1

Tbh didnt even read his post, nothing special about this one
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:25 AM
1

For plates, yes. For LTRs, you need to have a bit for finess then "out of sight, out of mind" in a face to face break up, a small, concise reason is better.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 11:47 PM
2

Ghost, block, move on. If she asks why, tell her you will not tolerate that kind of disrespect and to have a good life. Nothing else is to be done.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:33 PM
2

Get comfortable in silence. Only speak when you actually have something to say. Youll notice when you dont talk just for the sake of talking, when you do finally speak and chime in, people will turn their heads and give you the attention, like they are waiting on every word ypu say. Its powerful.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 03:59 PM
3

Exavtly. Its important to remember that in attraction, sex isnt the goal, but a byproduct of a alpha lifestyle. Lead the interaction to the point you waiting to see if she will invite you in or guve you signals will be almost laughable and rhetorical. Of course she wants to invite you in.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 05:01 AM
2

The thing with cheating to me is your lack on honesty with yourself. Forget how it feels to the other person, but if you give your word and commitment to a person, the man honors that word. Doesbt mean you cant break upbwith them if you feel they arent worth it anymore. All we have in this world is our word. Keep it.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:28 PM
1

Escalate u pussy. Girls dont where a giant neon sign saying "i want you to fuck me". You kissed her then stopped, what did you think would happen?
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:27 PM
1

Be comfortable with silence.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:23 PM
1

Because your the man and thats your responsibility, not hers.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 03:37 AM
2

Intelligence is very important. I dont mean educational intelligence tho. Social intelligence, if you have a high intelligence socially, you can have any girl you want. Now add that high intelligence with muscles, a good haircut, wit, good smile, youre fucking golden. Anyone telling you intelligence isnt important doesnt have any. Same way people who say money wont make you happy dont have any.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 07:32 PM
13

Just dont give a shit. Smoke weed, dont smoke weed, fuck, dont fuck. If girls want to smoke weed with you that could mean theyre attracted to you or just young and adventurous.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:09 AM
12

Alphas do what they want.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:07 AM
2

Its your instinct. That vibe you feel is your instincts telling you to fuck this person. Not like have sex with em, but fuck em. If you get these vibes trust them.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 12:04 AM
1

Monday
/r/askTRP03/02/20 10:58 PM
3

While i agree 5x5 is not a suitable longterm plan, it is a great way to get people who have no idea what to do to follow a regimen and still build strength. 5x5 is good but only for 3-6 months until you are more comfortable in the gym.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 10:04 PM
1

If someone gave me shit for making a mistake my first week on the job, i woyld react respectfully and honestly, look at them and flash a smile "Yeah, im sure ill get the hang of it after a while, i still have a lot to learn, but thank you for pointing out my mistake, i learn best from my failures"" And then go about business as usual.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 08:43 PM
1

"Im busy, talk to you later"
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:08 PM
137

Respect is the number one driving force in any and all of my interactions. I treat everyone with utmlst respect until im given a reason not to. Those who dont show me respect literally do not matter to me, as they are not a part of my world any longer.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/20 04:48 AM
10

It doesnt matter what you say but how you say it. Ive gotten laid by talking about the weather, but in doing so i held eye contact, smiled, and also lift for the last 3 years of my life.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:34 PM
1

Have you never gotten a gift for someone you care about? Im not getting her a gift because i feel obligated or its the "right" thing to do. Im getting it because i want to.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 03:22 AM
1

Only 1 way to find out, and asking on trp isnt it.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:02 PM
2

Seriously, once i began using respect, honesty and intellect as the main pillars in my interactions, everythings gotten much easier. To op - listen to this man.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 03:19 PM
5

Why dont you leave your wife?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 06:21 PM
2

Seems like more trouble than its worth, but im fickle. Any extra effort that i dont want to exude is a soft next for me
/r/askTRP02/01/20 11:48 PM
2

I wouldn't respond. You invited twice, got rejected. Any response to her is operating in her frame. Go say hi to 5 girls today outside... Youll get over this one quickly
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:12 PM
1

How you spend your time is your decision. Are you high from the moment u wake up until the next day? Honestly, on some days thats okay. Long work week and you wanna relax? Sure. Now if its taking place of more important things (gym, diet, education) then yeah, slow it down. Way better than some other common vices.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 06:05 PM
1

Just talk about your shared interest a little,
/r/askTRP28/12/19 12:05 AM
0

You had 2 hours. You couldve fuxked this girl within 10 minutes of meeting up if u had any sort of balls
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:32 PM
1

The power of now by eckhart tolle. Just give her books youve read yourself that have helped you.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:31 PM
3

Just so you know, a vast majority of the people you see texting and meeting new people... Yeah they're all miserable nice guys. Dont strive for that
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:23 AM
-3

So i believe all of these comments are wrong. They are all telling you to act or behave a certain way because of the "type" of girl she is. Why not be a fucking man and talk to her. Walk up to her, say hello and hold unrelenting eye contact. Invade her personal space, but dont come off as creepy. Make her want you. Watch how the betas talk to her. With a big stupid grin, looking down, with their hands in their pocket. Isolate her away, not phisiccally but mentally. Be the wolf among sheep.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 04:16 AM
1

No nees to have a conversation. Just stop talking to them. If they contact you, be brief and civil, but thats it. Focus on yourself. Just know, this path is lonely at first. You will have very few, if any friends, and it will be increaaingly difficult to male good connections with new people. Focus on yourself first, dont put the burden of friendship on other people before youd even wanna be your own friend.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:33 PM
5

Articulating your thoughts has nothing to do with higher education or fancy words. Are you able to pause, process information, and then form a coherent and precise sentence about what you want to say? Or do you, like, you know, add a whole bunch of like, filler words, like um, like, you know, like. Or can you be concise and too the point about what thoughts you are generating and trying to convey.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 08:29 PM
1

Learn from the mistakes you've made. Thats how you move forward.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:53 AM
-2

Flip it on her. Ask if she loves you
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:46 AM
7

One of the best decisions i ever made was dropping the group of friends i had in school. Not 1 of them has progressed in life.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 07:28 AM
1

I wouldnt even worry about cutting or bulking. Not to say you shouldnt eat healthy, but focus first on strength gain. In doing so you will put on muscle, but itll be real strength, even if not the best aesthetically. Also make sure to stretch and focus on flexibility, not saying you need to be able to do a split, but you should at least be able to touch your toes easily.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:17 PM
1

Instead of "using a balance of others peoples work" why dont you begin to use your own original game?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:09 PM
3

Your lifts are low, youre not even benching your bodyweight. Get those numbers up while bulkinh
/r/askTRP15/12/19 07:07 PM
8

Get more of a thoughtful gift. If its clothing, get her something in her favorite color. Never do jewelery. I got my lady a gift that i want her to use and wear because i think she will look good in it. Didnt cost me more than $40 and shes gonna love it.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:28 PM
2

Hold up sport. If youre just gonna send it, id suggest a place you wont frequent. Just going and grabbing a girls ass that is polarized is a quick way to become a weirdo if dont incorrectly. Do it somewhere you can just leave and never see the people again. Ive been kicked out of clubs and bars. I was young and learning, and i learned how to calibrate through errors.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:09 AM
3

Well to enforce your boundaries doesnt necessarily mean going nuclear and cutting it off. Do it by your actions. If you see her messaging other guys, withdraw your attention. She will start to question why youve become "distant". Its not your job to explain, but for her to figure it out. Tell her things like "you know the reason." Or "Ive already told you avout something i dont like, i am NOT goi g to repeat myself." If after this she doesnt get it, then you proceed with a soft/hard next. Commun…
/r/askTRP15/12/19 01:56 AM
5

I think its a pretty mate-guardy boundary, but if its a boundary you shouldnt even have to ask. If you dont enforce your boundaries, who will?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:59 PM
12

Fucked 50+ girls, got rejected by at least 3x that amount. You escalate by not being stupid. Escalate... Escalator. You slowly escalate. You start by touching her arm or hand, see how she reacts. Then you get to her back. Then touch her legs. You dont go from "Hi, nice to meet you" to grabbing their ass. Thats a way to get rejected hard. Granted, try it once or twice, youll learn more from experience than by reading.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:58 PM
19

Have you even tried to say hello to a girl out in public?
/r/askTRP09/12/19 09:48 AM
2

Instead of overthinking it, which you are, how could you have passed? Hindsight is 20/20, but its almost guarenteed you will get the same test by another girl.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:13 PM
3

Yeah you failed that shit test.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 05:03 PM
2

You help him by leading. Show him how you are with girls, how you treat them, and how they are all over you. If you cant because their not, save yourself first
/r/askTRP30/11/19 06:42 AM
5

Soft next isnt how long you wait. Soft next is cease contact until SHE reaches out. When/if she does, act like nothing happened
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:54 AM
1

And when she said "im a pretty girl i can sit whrre i want" My immediate response wouldve been "youre that self entitled you think your so pretty you can do whatever you want? Whoever even said that youre pretty? I didnt"
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:11 PM
2

Shes being aggressive. So, be even more aggressive. Once she sees youre unafraid to take the lead, she will be putty to you
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:10 PM
1

Shes trying to get you to act out. Next time she disrepects you, tell her, AND ONLY HER, (only say this loud enough for her to hear. Whisper in her ear) keep this attitude up and ill have to punish you (the way a father would scold a child). 90% chance her attitude becomes submissive.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:21 PM
3

Yah man. I was just having you elaborate. For me, i learn more from most comments then post themselves. Im sure others are like that as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:33 AM
3

But theres no lesson here. You told a girl you dont want commitment after she said she did and you stopped seeing each other. I can understand, maybe, guys would reluctantly join in on an exclusive relationship, sure. But you didnt do anything. Tearing you down? How so?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:18 AM
5

You're writing a post about A single girl, you saw for 3 months, over a year ago. To say something thats in the sidebar. Thats the part im trying to understand.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 08:07 AM
1

U wanna fuck her?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:57 AM
7

So what is the point of this post?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:52 AM
1

Stop giving as much of a fuck. Ask for their myspace or email. Then get their #
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:53 PM
1

Lol you went through her phone? And dint bukkshit like you were seeing her phone cause its new.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:52 PM
3

Tell them you want to take them out and get to know them. If theyre interested, they will usually offer there number. If they dont they generally arent too interested and while u may get the number, nothing much will come from it.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:51 PM
2

It depends on what you want. All of my girls have been people i find highly attractive, love their company, smart, hardworking, anythjng i want in a woman. Im always searching for better. Im not saying it wont take a while to find better. But while youre with that girl, she will be the better girl youre looking for for a while, until you grow and move on. Never settle.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:49 PM
35

Lol what the fuck? This place is getting crazy. Do whatever you want. Why in the everliving fuck would that warrant a soft next?
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:45 PM
1

Tell them both yes, but show up alone and meet them there. Then you get to have fun
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:41 PM
2

Never yell. Never get worked up. If you have something to say, say it, and thats it. If its an argument and shit, ignore anything else she says after until she calms down and talks, not shout. This doesnt mean to not listen to what she has to say. Let her speak, but obly when she processes what she needs to say and not emotionally blurting out whatever.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:38 PM
4

He literally says himself hr is too nervous to start a conversation after having eye contact. So from there he is looking for something to comment on. A.K.A. yet another excuse to not talk to them himself. So a bandaid.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:24 PM
19

You're literally looking for a bandaid for the problem. Stop being nervous. I know its harder then it seems... But it really is that easy
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:35 PM
5

I wouldn't get her a gift card. Use that $30 and bring her somewhere nice for dinner. Somewhere you've been wanting to try but is exoensive.... Soend some cash but you get and give a good experience. Or a comedy show or something. My city has a dinner cruise around the port for like $50 for 2 ppl. Dolphins swimming along the boat, its pretty nice and romantic.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:32 PM
1

Would you only want cheese pizza?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:33 PM
2

My approach is my weakest area of game. How would you improve, and what are some ways that you approach that have the best results?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 10:50 PM
1

And they say white people are the racists...
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:25 AM
1

Yeah, i think about it, but the sting is gone. It doesnt hurt, i just see it as a chaoter in my life has turned and move on ti the next. Doesnt mean its conpletely gone from memory. In fact, if thays the case thats probably more damaging, as youd be repressing emotions that you need to feel to hurt. Endure the pain and youll be a better man. May i suggest that you take out a notebook, sit for a while and think. Write down in every way that YOU were a bad boyfriend, because ultimately if you were…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:16 AM
1

I been there. My oneitis of 4 1/2 years that ibdayed through high school and college, cheated on me with my best friend and they are nkw engaged to get married. It hurts, it stings. I got over it, not by looking at how shitty of people my ex and friend are, but instead of how shitty of a man i was to her. I was a bad boyfriend who thought he was doing good. I began to look at my own flaws instead of the flaws of others. And i changed. And i grew. And i learned that them getting together was one …
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:27 PM
3

Got one of mine handcuffs She loves em
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:59 PM
1

Actually pretty responsible on her part...
/r/askTRP14/07/19 09:45 AM
2

Had a 15 minute conversation with her at the bar. First time i met her. When she asked this i was honestly speechless and she walked away and conversation ended.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:14 PM
2

You think you're confident? Next time they demean you, look them in the god damn eye and ask them "Why do you always feel the need to put me down and try to lower my self esteem. Youre my parents, arent you supposed to support me?" Get ready for a huge spike of emotion from them. Remember, youre a man, handle it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:20 AM
9

I lost count. Im a virgin Whats sex?
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:14 AM
5

He is breaking up with her, not the other way around
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:59 PM
7

It depends to me. I think ghosting isnt always the answer. If the bitch is bat shit crazy - yes - ghost and block and never look back. The girl was decent, but you get bored and no longer want to see her? Tell her straight up. You dont need to give reasons or anything, but it takes courage to face the girl youre breaking up with and it feels good to not do it in such a douchey way.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 07:59 PM
1

Ask her out, youll get your answer one way or another
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:19 PM
5

No, not really. My life is basically working 2 jobs, lifting when i find the time, and going out. I read, spar lightly, lift, but other than that no. Putting it down like this makes me kind of see my problem. I dont have much in the form of hobbies - havent really found something i like.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:37 AM
-1

You withdraw attention immediately. When she asks if she did something wrong, you tell her yes. When she asks what did she do, you tell her to figure it out. She knows the boundary she crossed, she knows what she did. If a girl disrespects you and crosses one of your boundaries, it is okay and normal. You tell her "do not do that again" in a way a man would scold a child. If she doesnt do it again, move along and everything is fine. If she does do it again, you withdraw all attention, you are wo…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:40 PM
2

Cheers, already read all three of em
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:56 AM
1

What part of south fl?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 12:03 AM
8

Hey man chlamydia aint that bad
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 04:28 PM
5

Stay away from bars or clubs. Begin doing shit. Yoga has helped my mental health a lot, and ive only just started. Get to sleep early, midnight at the latest. Dont watch porn. Journal your thoughts before bed. Meditate. Find a mens league for whatever sport you played in high school. If you didnt play a sport, buy a ball and go shoot some hoops/kick it around. Fight. Get some gloves and go to the gym and hit a bag or go to a boxing gym and spar. Find a friend who wants to box. If you notice, all…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:46 PM
0

You're being kind of autistic, but i think my advice could help. Force her into kino. If youre're sitting next to each other, put her hand on your thigh. If she removes it, somethings up, but if she keeps it there youre good. Dobt make such a big deal about it.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 06:20 PM
4

Thinking too much about it. You had sex, all u need to know.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:18 PM
2

Yeah, im beginning to come to terms with that. Seems the blue pill brainwashing is conflicting with red pill idealology that i gotta wrap my head around
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:46 PM
2

Thanks for the input
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:45 PM
2

This is why i asked the question, really good answer. And i havent slept with another girl, until tonight because i thinkni wanted to prove to myself i wasnt reliant on just 1 sole pussy. I appreciate the insight, and i already told her i dont want to settle anytime soon and she still comes around. This may just be me having turmoil between my bluepill brainwashing and redpill mind.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:36 PM
-5

Honestly, i feel bad that when i leave her she wont find anyone else that can make her as happy as i do, and that makes me feel guilty
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:33 PM
3

Ive already told her i dont want to settle down for a long time, not until my 30s. Idk if im just making excuses, but i enjoy the bf/gf things, provided im not delusioned by being a beta provider, which im not. Part of me wants to just ends things and cut our losses. Another part wants me to be vulnerable and feel something for a girl to help me grow, knowing it wont amount to the end game marriage (blue pill ideaology).
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:50 AM
6

Dont retract wylhat you said/did. You didbt di anything "wrong". You used a few more words than necessary, but your girl (i use this term loosely dobt takr it literal) was having a laugh at work at your expense. A quality girl would defend you, an us against the world mindset. She didbt and disrespected you, you in turn had her leave and put her in timeout like yoy would to a child. Well played. Dibt retract and say that "honestly i had a game to watch lol" bullshit because in doing so youre cov…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:25 PM
1

Dont do this
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:11 PM
42

Go somewhere that has drinks and food... Like a bar. Just dont pay for her shit
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:28 PM
5

Let her touch you first. Be uninterested but attractive. Do it right and she wont be able to help herself. Offer for her to sleep on the couch the first night. That'll get her hamster rolling
/r/askTRP28/12/18 12:43 PM
3

Cant tell you, but if you're being ghosted move on. A girl into you will mpve mountains to see you
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:10 AM
1

"Then why'd you bring it up"
/r/askTRP15/12/18 01:49 AM
4

Its normal not to be attracted to every girl. Stick to the ones that do give you that nervous feeling, learn to overcome it, then move up a level. The girls you dont feel that littke bit of excitment with arent worth your time. That feeling you have is sexual attraction.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:44 AM
1

Dude. Ive been in this situation. My roomate was a girl that was into me, but dont shit where you eat goes ibto overdrive. DONT SHIT WHERE YOU SLEEP. Tell your flatmate you dobt want to cross those lines as long as you live together. I fucked my roomates friends amd the mext days shed be pissed, but she would get over it after a few days.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:23 PM
1

It is that easy, but think about all the time you spent building your smv. Working out, being disciplined, studying psychology. Getting the girl becpmes easy after youve put work in
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:08 AM
2

You're not responsible for her feelings. Its a break up - someone is going to end up hurt. But, better to break up then continue something that isnt there where the inevitable break up eventually will be much, much worse. Be honest. Say there isnt a spark anymore and you dont want to be with someone that you don't love anymore.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:31 AM
1

Yes, cant remember what number it is
/r/askTRP26/10/18 06:18 PM
-1

When two people wanna fuck, you can do it anywhere. Top of parking garages, ive fucked out on a field at night time. Find a secluded area with a small chance of getting caught
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:24 PM
1

Oh true. Another thing i just thought of, find out what your parents think are not a waste of time. Learning a skill is good. Learning how to dance could find you a partner for marriage that your parents would approve of. Obviously, dont get married, but if you remember the law "think as you like but talk like other" (something like that) it may change their view. You dont need to convince them to allow you to do something, you need them to convince themselves ots not a waste of time.
/r/askTRP26/10/18 05:22 PM
1

Alright brother, check this out. Im seeing 100+ comments in this thread and i doubt youll actually read this. I hope you do. Everything your parents are doing. Everything they're forcing you to do. Everything they're disallowing you to do. Own it. Own it like you have no say in the matter, because reading your comments and post, you don't. A man faced with adveristy deals with it head on. Not by breaking the rules. Not by trying to find a loophole. You're forced to take latin classes? Be the bes…
/r/askTRP26/10/18 08:12 AM
4

A man who doesnt keep his word is weak.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 08:07 PM
10

Yeah. She said she has a boyfriend. Most girls do, they have a BB boyfriend. This means you cant be going around showing her off in case someone who knows them sees her out with another guy. This means "im interested, but dont tell anyone" this means be discreet and ill fuck you. Keep it casual, invite her out for a drive or whatever, something that wont let you be seen in public
/r/askTRP11/10/18 01:18 AM
5

Own it. Dont flaunt it but dont hide it. Yeah i got in a fight with a vaccuum cleaner usually disarms any comment made about it
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:45 PM
3

Hey i gotta bounce. Ill catch you around. These are people you will see often, when you see them again, say hi.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:44 PM
1

Dont be afraid to fuck things up. Youre horny, sexual, and looking for some pootang. Be direct and sexual. The worst that happens is they say no. Go with the mindset not to get laid, bit to learn and try new things. Sex is the byproduct.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:43 PM
1

Thats because youre not Chad. Not yet. All the headaches you get are caused by YOU, not the woman. That slight chance of sex is the defeatist attitude of betas.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 07:52 PM
5

This has worked, actually almost EVERY single time for me. Whenever there is a lull in conversation when no one is speaking for 3-5 seconds, just look into her eyes, put your finger under her chin and lift her head up, and kiss her. Dont shove ur tounge down her throat, give her a long single passionate kiss, pull away, look at her, smirk, turn away and just keep talking like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:55 PM
1

I ain't thirsty, im hungry
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:49 AM
1

Im not in any ltrs, but there is one girl ive been seeing for a month that hasnt shown any deal-breaking red flags yet. She lives 2 hrs away and drives to see me on the weekends. (Girl A) I met a girl yesterday that ive seen before that im having a date with tonight. (Girl B). If girl B sees me holding hands with A, just wondering if thatll cause problems.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:21 PM
1

Yeah i get all that. Its bound to happen, some will break, others will spin faster. Its the nature of the game. Last thing ibwanna have happen though is me freeze up in front of 2 girls im currently fucking. They all know im sleeping with other girls, but seeing each other in person would spark some emotions that ibwant to be prepared for.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:51 PM
1

Typing mobile at work, didnt proofread.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:42 PM
1

Why wod u want a gf who doesnt give u sex? Sex first, exclusive attention after. But, to answer your question, youre gonna have to be very, very comforting and dangerous. Hit both sides of the spectrum. Little things, when you are out together, grab the door for her, then slap her ass as she walks by. When youre walking together, grab the back of her neck gently, then pull her hair by the roots. Turn her on. Excite her, tease her, comfort her. Just be a human. Youre both virgins, its new ground …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:35 PM
11

Sounds like you were trying to "lead" by telling her what to do, but it comes off cringey as fuck. You probably wont get a second date. Next time, just start walking left. Grab her hand and pull her, if she resists, do something fun and in a joking way, cause in the end it doesnt really fucking matter which way youre going "Fine, ill play you for it" then play rock paper scissors. Always go rock
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:30 PM
1

If u have the time sure, do yourself up. Youll think better of yourself and thatll pour over into your interactions. If u dont have time? Fuck it, you cant help these things sometimes. Just own it. Always have some cologne and deoderant with you and youll be good. Or, bring a spare shirt/pants to change real quick if u dont have the time.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:23 PM
3

Got anything better to do? Go. Not with the mindset of trying to get laid, but with a mindset to learn.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:18 PM
2

They're not plates. I dont enjoy spinning plates. Emotionless/ sex without intamcy is boring to me, call me old fashioned. "Just get a gf" is terrible. You need to vet and see if theyre crazy before you give you're 100% attention to a single girl.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:37 PM
5

If its little shit like ice cream or coffee ill grab it for the sole reason ots easier to do one transaction than two. I dont pay for drinks or food, unless we go seperate rounds. Dont make it a big deal and youll be good to go. Answer to edit: if they bitch about splitting the bill, determine if its just a shit test or genuine bitchiness. If a shit test, just say she hasnt earned that kind of attention yet. If actual bitchiness, pay ur shit then gtfo
/r/askTRP15/09/18 09:53 PM
1

If shes attractive of course shes surroinded. Try this. Next time youbsee her surrounded by guys, walk up to her, dont even acknowledge the guys and start talking to her. Walk through them and be the closest person in her vicinity. Never waver on your eye contact, look through to her soul.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:06 AM
1

Nah youre good. Approch her next time you see her. Remember, youre still young, and feeling attraction is relatively new to both of you. If she says something about you not saying anything, a&a that bitch. "Yeah, i had to practice in the mirror 10000 times what i was gonna say to you"
/r/askTRP14/09/18 07:41 PM
3

Think of it this way. If you have become a top 10% male, a majority of people you meet will be below you. Youve lost your friends (this is normal when discovering trp) because you are now better then them, and they know it and are jealous of it. Losing your pre trp friends is a GOOD thing. It takes time, you want to be friends who are equL or better than you, and if ubare top 10%, this means not a lpt of people will be up to standards. Stick it out. Be comfortable in your skin. Stop stressing iv…
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:22 AM
14

Yeah bro youre doing alright. And yes, it is because you arent worshipping their feet so you must be gay. I get gay comments about me all the time at my job too. I fuck with them even harder and give responses like "Only on wednesdays" "Why you got a friend whos interested" Shit like that. I am very straight and sleep with new girls constantly. Its just a shit test. The funny part is, the women at your work are probably genuinely surprised why you arent worshipping them, and they find you attrac…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 01:39 PM
1

Cool, well in that case ill check this one off as a win for not being a pushover and staying true to my boundaries.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 09:15 AM
1

I didnt feel like an orbiter. Wasnt a shit test, was for real. I led every interaction, attraction was there. Guess time will tell. And i do see it as a win win, i either dont waste my time anymore, or she does come back since im probably one of the few guys to actually kick her out. Soft next undoubtedly
/r/askTRP31/08/18 08:59 AM
2

Yeah thats what i was thinking. Just got off work, will probably text her when i wind down for the night. And nah she does t have my number yet
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:25 PM
2

Hey man. Im sober going on 3 weeks now (legally i have to be, i get tested twice a week). I would go out wed-Saturday and game girls and drink. Its what i did. Id wake up at 9 somedays for work feeling like shit. My manager told me one day thay she could smell the liquor on me the next day at work, even after a shower. I was embarrassed and ashamed of myself. Some things i found out to male quitting easier: Dont stop going out. This is huge. If you end up not going out because you drink, and ins…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 09:57 PM
1

Thats exactly what i was going for. Not quite like the rocks but defined
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:05 AM
0

Oh yeah. I love mine too, if i unbutton a few part of my tattoo peaks out. Just to tease em
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:18 PM
5

Agree with the bad boy and the cibered by dress shirt. The amount of times ive had my tatto completely covered all night, only to take my shirt off and reveal, 9/10 times their eyes will light up and instantly put their hands on it and ask about it.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:16 PM
2

Depends what u get it for. If u get something to attravt girls or somethin retarded like shit on ur knuckles, no. I have a single tattoo that covers my entire right pectoral. Its buddha related, and to me it means that no katter what life throws at me, at the end of the day i will be okay because i have myself. I put it on my pec because its able to be hidden if i need to be, but god damn do i look hot af in tank tops. I see it as an accessory, just something to add to ur smv, just make it somet…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:13 PM
1

Doesnt matter what you say, az long as u own it. In my experience honesty is the best policy. If uve only kissed 2, say "ive only kissed 2 girls". This is where it matters. If you say that and put your head down defeated, theyll thi k youre beta. But you can say the exact same line, look the girl youre attracted to dead in the eyes, and give a cocky asshole smirk like youve kissed/fuxked hundreds.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 12:28 AM
6

Just gotta escalate. In a pool is easy mode, ur alrdy half naked. Splash her, throw her up, then get close and kiss. Pull her in and kiss her. You dont need games or voodoo, just have fun. If its awkward at first have a race swimming or something. Hug her under her ass and lift her. Just dont overthink it and have fun, but ESCALATE. She can leave at any time if she feels weirdes out, but let her make that decision.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:58 AM
2

Okay, so ask tge "interrogation" questions but then thread off of what they say?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:57 AM
1

Banter how?
/r/askTRP17/08/18 05:54 AM
1

Try working out dor 3 years and eating right, if youre still anorexic then consider bitching
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:19 AM
1

Try staying in set until SHE walks away. The most accurate iod she can give. Most guys leave too early when you really just gotta be a little persistent, but not needy
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 10:02 PM
1

Escalate and youll have your answer
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:30 PM
2

Bet. Cause anyone can take a girl on a date, tingles occur when you do sometbing different than everyone else
/r/askTRP10/07/18 09:55 PM
2

Mario kart on the gamecube for sure
/r/askTRP10/07/18 08:32 PM
2

Yeah, ill try it with the next 10 girls numbers i get, see what the flake % is like. What kind of fun things? Tbh when im home i mostly read and relax
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:36 PM
2

Even if its the first time youd be hanging out?
/r/askTRP10/07/18 07:13 PM
1

Dont look at it in age of society, look at it in a redpill instictual way. Its a safe opinion to have that men hit their prime wgen they are 30-35 years old. Women are in their prime when they are 18-24 yrs old physically. Doesnt it make sense to have men and women in their prime get together? You think leaders of men back in the day when they are 30 35 didnt fuck the hot 20 yr old? Age hardly matters, as long as theyre legal.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 08:24 PM
1

Oneitis
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:36 PM
1

Just a restaurant/bar downtown. But yeah, im hoping tobget along well enough where being around each other literally 24/7 wont get too overwhelming. She is not a girl i am plating or anything like that.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:10 PM
1

No not at all. Would i sleep with her? Yeah, if we didnt work together or living together. Would i get jealous? Fuck no. Ill have girls coming over too. Im in 0 way an orbiter, shes an attractive girl, but i feel no attraction to her other then she is a good looking girl. But i wont let those urges take over. And i hope she does get fucked like a wildcat, cause there will be animal noises from my room too. Also, her name on the lease, im renting the room. I can be there for a month and be gone, …
/r/askTRP30/06/18 08:31 AM
1

Ill do everything in my powrr not to do that.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:53 AM
1

Yeah this isnt a permanent thing. 5 months left on a suspended license
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:53 AM
2

Fortunately i got my own bathroom so
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:52 AM
1

Unfortunately im in a position where i dont have a lot of options. License suspended and need a place close to work to bike to
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:52 AM
6

Nigga we aint fuckin lol. And im in a desperate situation,need a place close to work and with a felony dont get approved in majority places
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:51 AM
3

Thats what i was thinking. We both 22 and just living. We work together too, so we already have a friendly dynamic
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:45 PM
0

Do what?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:45 PM
2

Oh nah idc bout all that. The place is 2 miles from downtown in my city, so ill have a revolving door myself
/r/askTRP29/06/18 09:34 PM
1

Just go round 2
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:46 PM
6

The reason youre sleeping (possibly) is because, quite frankly u got nothing better to do
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:58 AM
6

So your purpose in life is to be hungry and lift weights?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:29 AM
3

Whats your reason for waking up?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:11 AM
3

I mean is the truth an issue here?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 06:18 PM
2

What did she think u were a virgin before her?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:39 PM
1

I remember doibg this kind of shit my first relationship. When i was 14
/r/askTRP20/06/18 11:00 PM
1

Yeah guess ill have to look into daygame a lot more. Any suggestions to get me started?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:04 AM
1

Okay. How do i get them when i no longer want to go out to the bar and get them?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:02 AM
4

Ooo one of my favorites. I learned to dance by getting high or taking some acid and going to music festivals (can be acheived anywhere). Closr your eyes for an entire song. Feel the rythm, bass, lyrics, and move your body how you see fit. Closing your eyes helps bc you wonr see the other faces looking and judging you. They alreafy arent, but its natural to be afraid of being judged. When you cant dance, no one is looking. When you can, all eyes are on you.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:39 AM
1

Ive thought this too. My name isnt gender neutral or feminine, but it reminds me of an old person name, like i should be balding and selling insurance. Come up with a nickname. Something you like being called.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:35 AM
1

Just gotta do it. Talk too 100 girls... The first girl youll freeze up and not talk. The 100th maybe youll take her home. Dont worry about being perfect. Perfect is boring. Be the best you and have fun, anyone worth a damn will tag along.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 12:28 AM
9

Depends. If your idea of romance is a nice candeit dinner at the nicest restaurant in town, no . if its a nice walk out on the beach or through a trai, sure. As long as youre not doibg anything to impress, but instead just being in the moment somewhere naturaly romantic. Getting a blliwjob under the moonight on a beach is romantic as fuck.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:46 PM
0

I go solo al the time and if a girl asks i tell them so. 9 times out of 10 its not an issue
/r/askTRP03/06/18 08:29 PM
2

Everyone is saying next, but she offered a reschedule. If she comes over escalate aggressive ly. If she still denies your advancements just tell her to leave. This is her last chance. If she fakes tomorrow next and drop her completely.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 08:19 PM
2

Sure, but beating yourself and comparing to other people who have 0 impact on your life is detrimental and breeds resentment
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:40 PM
1

Look into one-hitters. Always did me right to take the edge off, become more aware of social cues and such, relaxed my muscles and frame as a result. And youre never fried
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:17 PM
2

You dont seem to understand. Bettering yourself day by day does work. In fact its all you CAN do. Look at it thus way, ill use lifting weights as an example. You begin lifting bench. Your max set today is the bar. You cant go higher today. So you do what you can. The next day, you raise the wright to 46 lbs. You improved frpm yesterday. Now do this for a year. Increase the weight you can lift by 1 everyday. Its small intervals, but after a year you can now bench 410. Obviously this isnt realisti…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 09:09 PM
2

Explain.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:38 PM
1

Oh nah that was all me.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:51 AM
2

?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:20 PM
33

Why you trying to compete with them? Compete with the person you were yesterday and be better than him
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:06 AM
1

I laughed at this cheers
/r/askTRP27/05/18 07:09 PM
1

What if she says something like "I cant just leave my friends"
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:41 PM
15

Im the same way. The way i found works is to cultivate a mindset. People talk too much and say very little. Be the opposite. When i speak im very direct. I can recall one night ibwas out with my friend at a club. Afterwards he invited a friend and an hb7 to the casino. Ibwas driving listening to music and all 3 of them blabber about stupid shit. I spoke randomly amd asked a question. Everyone fell silent and i had everyone attention. I havent spoken in about 10v1t minutes at this point, but when…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:23 PM
4

Amused mastery
/r/askTRP18/05/18 01:07 AM
4

Its not a magic bullet. Its a tool in your arsenal
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:10 PM
1

True. Was at the gym and for the first time ever wrote down my goals in a month, 3 month, 6 month,1 year time frame. A lot of them had to do with getting my finances and debt in order, as well as some creative mental activities like writibg music and journaling Mindset changed like a switch, and now every decision i hear a voice ask, "is this detrimental to my goals"
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:38 AM
78

Im not black, but if i heard a comment about a black mans color, and he responded with some like "Holy shit! Im black?? Why didnt my mom ever tell me?" Id die laughing and befriend him.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:32 AM
1

How do i find purpose?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:00 AM
1

Agreed. Im having trouble finding something that interests me and i want to pit forth effort towards.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 12:24 AM
1

True that. In that case, start with super low weight work out. Lets just use dumbell bench as an example. Grab 2 5-pound dumbell and seriously focus on your form. Go slow. Feel your chest and back pushing, as opposed to your triceps doing most of the work. Do about 15 reps or so, or however many it takes to get comfortable. Even close your eyes and really feel your body work. Then, go up to about 3/4 your "starting" weight, do the same thing. Then do your set. Youll feel your muscles working bet…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:36 PM
1

This may sound odd, but smoke a j before your workout. Youll be able to feel every muscle working and you can adjust your grip/form/etc. Based on how that muscle feels
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:23 PM
1

The power of now is great.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:51 AM
1

Only becomes a problem if u cant manually do it. Never had any problems, in fact one girl literally played with it in the shower for like 10 minutes cause it was "so weird and interesting"
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:28 AM
1

Isolation is good though. It will help you bring into perspective what is important to YOU and what you look for in friends. Just dont get caught up in isolation for years. Ive gone out to bars alone for a year or so, and i would meet someone and then plan a time to go out again. Kind of trying out friends. You learn what you like and dont like and learn your boundaries.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:42 PM
1

While true, dont make the mostake of believing you dont need friends, but dont force it anymore. Let friendships come naturally
/r/askTRP03/03/18 10:12 PM
4

People arent meant to be in your life forever. When i decided to next my friends from high school and bettering myself, i noticed (after a while) the friends i have now are much better. These are shitty people. Let them be shitty without you around.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 09:40 PM
2

Yeah you failed to push thru her shot tests. A girl who is attracted to you would quit their job and meet u in the sahara if it meant seeing you. Next the bitch, i wouldnt even go for another attempt
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:26 PM
1

Cool, should be interesting
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:36 PM
5

Drink at ur place. Get a few bottles of wine
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:31 PM
1

For sure. Throw her a bone. Take her "out". Not to a fancy white cloth dinner, but show her off. Take her out on the town with her on your arm. Girls wanna be showed off by attractive men. Dont pay for anything, just say u got the first round
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:18 AM
1

A bald jacked motherfucker doesnt get told to lower his standards. I say go all the way bald. If people say something and ur embarrassed, just say u lost a bet on the superbowl
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:44 AM
1

I worked at metropcs, slept woth a coworker and had no serious drama. I went out with her and another coworker (girl) together. I played it cool and wasnt too aggressive, at least not to anyone other than S. Kept seeing her at work, eye fucking her and playing some smooth shit. Gotta remember everything we did was on camera, and i gamed her right in the middle of work subtlety. Idk, if its a factory start having lunch together
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:41 AM
1

This girl an ltr prospect?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:37 AM
1

Like an unspoken thing between the two of u?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:37 AM
2

So maybe approaching her with that mentality, but not overtly implying so
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:05 PM
1

Dunno.. If she was interested she might say more, give me something to work with
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:42 PM
2

Upstanding gentleman here
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:22 PM
1

Trampoline places
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:00 PM
1

When does it become too long? I ask this cause ive had times when ill look at a girl and she will look at me then auickly look away. Give ot another 25 seconds and when she looks she gets all flustered and starts fixing her hair and everything. Is it at this point i should approach? Im looking at her the whole time.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:12 PM
1

Its something hard to remember sometimes. The best teacher always wont be books or seminara or advice, itll be from going out there and living and experiencing everything life has to offer, the good and the bad. Just remember ita a marathon, not a spri t. You moght talk to 1 girl over a week, get shut down and feel shitty. Feel disheartened and discouraged. But the next week ypull talk to 2 girls, not even realizing ypure improving. Same thing happens. Next week ur talking to 4, then 8, 16, 32 6…
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:11 AM
0

Try kissing her, youll know if shes attracted or not
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:09 AM
1

You learn by trying and getting experience
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:08 AM
3

Yeah, so? Start by lifting 3 times a week, id suggest stronglift. You dont need to follow a strict diet right away, just try staying away from junk food and processed crap. Youre making excuses to not better yourself, why is that?
/r/askTRP15/01/18 12:07 PM
3

Cause of your self-defeatist attitude. Start lifting, get a haircut, and quit whining like a bitch. Stop using emojis too
/r/askTRP15/01/18 12:00 PM
1

Youre the only one crying
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:57 AM
1

You dont needa chance. Ask her in the middle of taking a shit
/r/askTRP07/01/18 01:24 AM
2

Never underestimate the power of a crazy broad. She may try and start rumors or drama because shes a chick. Drama like that is crack to women. Hold frame and composure and dont let it bother you its jist noise. Thats why i recommened telling a higher up, just to get in front of the potebtial shitstorm
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:05 PM
2

Delete and block her fro.everything. Withdraw all attention, dont even look at her in passing. When she inevitably confronts you, calmly talk to her. Dont make a scene, just tell her straight up. We are broken up, i realize working in the same office makes this a bit weird. I will work with you when i need to, but if something is not work related,please dont contact me. If this is a seriousbig boy job, i would let a manager know too. Dont go into details, jist say u were dating, broke up, and ar…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 07:15 PM
6

Its not withdrawing power. Its having more power than her as a man. She will want to know why you hold so much power and why she is attracted to you, and while boys will be blowing up her phone giving her attention and validation (female power) she will be on ur phone.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:03 PM
39

But she will not want those boys. She will want the man that doesnt give her power, but instead holds the power.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:01 PM
73

Missing the point here i think. The power a 9 has over a 5 is power given to her by men. If u treat a 9 the same way u do a 5, u take that power away.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:58 PM
2

Then what exactly is ur question..?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:26 PM
2

If she wants to fuck a guy, she will find a way to get it. If she doesnt,she will say LITERALLY ANYTHING OTHER THAN YES. Either way,u know ur answer. If she says anything other than yes, next or amd move on.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 03:20 AM
2

Sure come over at 9.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:12 AM
1

Got a link to the vid?
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:03 AM
1

Well yeah, get her to be really into you. Be a man she doesnt want to lose
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:09 AM
1

I dont give a shit. Im asking how to spin it in my favor. Not that i give a fuxck, but winning iver that situation could transform into fun times
/r/askTRP21/12/17 03:09 AM
1

Ive had it happen where theres nothing to leave off. Hi im x, and ahe takes her away and guards her like her mother
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:13 AM
1

Word, was thinking the same thing,just seeing what others thought as well, or personal experience
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:50 AM
3

No shit. "Hey lets have a threesome" isnt going to work. What would be a way to pass this test? And im assuming youve PERSONALLY dealt with this scenario and beat it, if not ur speculating which i could do on my own.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:46 AM
6

Be irresistible. After ur date, where u NEED (want) to be building the tension, and u walk her to her car , have her walk u to ur car and tell her u want her to listen to a song. Play your favorite. Start kissing, lightly at first and then build it up. U want her to invite u, or if the tension is there, and youll know if its there or not, just say "lets go back to your place and watch a movie"
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:45 AM
1

Well yeah. How would u get past that
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:41 AM
5

Very simple write up, but good nonetheless. Frame is the foundation. Whether ot be a car, house, building, tree, and yourself, it begins with frame. You build frame from within, but to build frame u mist exert yourself externally. Lift weights, talk to a girl and trip over your words. No one began their second chance (before/after discovering trp) overnight. It is a long, slow, everlasting journey.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 11:02 PM
1

If u hang out with her all this week, if youre fuxking like 24/7, no it wont be too much. But then dont see her for like a week. She will wonder what happebed, but ur just busy. Attraction.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 11:03 PM
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Think of it this way. When someone is angry, most of the time, they will come at you at a 10. If you match them at a 10, there is no where else to go except over 10, which could lead to a physical confrontation. Instead, when someone comes at you guns blazing, answer them at a 2. You can be calm yet assertive. Dont need to be aggressive,but also dont take shit from people.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:23 PM
2

Well then theres your answer. Dont make a scene about it. Dont even mention it. Just cut them out. You kay get some backlash from your old "friends" ,but they arent your friends, theyre just people who you thought were. Never be afraid to be alone at times. Solitude makes a man strong. Just always be open to new relation/friendships. And based on your questions, you already knew the answer, but you were looking for validation in your decisions. I.e. you werent confident in your own decisions. Fi…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:20 PM
2

What do u want to do
/r/askTRP27/11/17 12:18 PM
8

Idk, a girl told me this, i said i know, and within 30 seconds she was choking on my dick. A shit test that op failed miserably. You fucked up when u didnt kiss. Its a kiss, stop making it such a bkg deal.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 12:14 PM
27

Youll learn more by being alone then with her.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 08:02 PM
1

Never TELL a girl how you feel. Show her with your attention/time. If youve been fucking for a decent while, take her out to a dinner. Nothing that will break the bank, i personally like cool fun places with live music and good bar foods (i live on the beach so lots of that.) Take her out and show her a good time. Time with you. Dont tell her how you feel, she will know.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 11:18 PM
3

To me, it wasnt about tricks and techniques, but connecting with a woman and having fun. Back in my bp days, it was the same thing over and over. It talks about sex and sexual attraction, even when not physically having sex. U ever have a girl in bed and wimper cause shes so turned on? Sgm teaches u how to do that outside of the bedroom, so when you ARE in bed, it is a powerful fucking emotion for the girl and you. Good sex to me is one filled with lots of emotion. Pumpibg and dumpings notmy sty…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 01:36 AM
1

True. I kind of have a general rule that ANY ioi i see, is aimed at me, since my view is the only view i cam see in first person.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:25 AM
1

Have you found a difference in those who do it consciously and unconsciously? I feel like the hb8's and up would have to be more aware and selective of who they are giving signals to.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:24 AM
5

Thanks. Like you get it all the time. Think of how an attractive girl gets a compliment of "youre beautiful" and how they brush it off like its nothing. Keep in mind though, be genuine. If i were thrown a compliment that im not used to, something deeper, amd it really did make me feel good, i wouldnt hide that it felt good. But anytime someone comments me on my eyes its whatever, i get told that daily at my job.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:24 AM
1

If you do end up sleeping with her, and she does have a husband (who cares, her decision) DO NOT bring her to your house. It could get to the point where the husband would threaten her to show him where u live, and at that point you couldnt fault her for telling him, even if she knows hes out to hurt you.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:20 AM
1

Its not about working or not. The issue is yourself. If she wants commitment, and you dont, and shes not okay with that, she will leave. If she hits you back up, this means she wants more. Its up to you to make it happen. She will go for commitment again, quicker this time. If you give commitment when you dont want to,you fall into her frame.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 01:37 AM
2

Thats the definition of plates man. Plates drop and fall. They break. If she didnt do anything to xross your boundaries, soft next. This means dont talk to her unless she hits you up first. Also, if she does come back, do not give your commitment. Get more plates.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 12:14 AM
1

Do what you want. You dont want celibacy, so who is it other than yourself thats stopping you. Im not religious, bit i do believe there is something/one greater than me. Whether its God or the universe. We could just be some dudes science project, we will NEVER know. Anyone who says they do KNOW is bullshit. BASICALLY, by living by religious standards, you are living by SOMEONE ELSE'S rules, and not your own. Living on their terms of what you should and should not do. The redpill is about living…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 03:43 AM
1

U probably dont act on them.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 03:39 AM
5

Yes. Better for me, fuck her well and her friends will want to fuck you too.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 02:12 AM
1

What does celibacy have to do with faith in your God? Do you think our ancestors who were the first ppl on earth were worried about faith or continuing the human race?
/r/askTRP01/11/17 02:11 AM
2

Youre getting iois, but probably believe you dont deserve them.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 02:04 AM
0

Come up with your own. I know thats not tge answer u wan, but your own lines will show YOUR personality. Reading from a script will be forcred. If youre anythinv like me, youce already thought of some that you may have thought were too lame and one of us will have the PERFECT line. You are already in a self defeating mindset.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 02:01 AM
8

When girls call you an asshole, most of the time youre not actually being an asshole. Youre just poking fun at them. Asshole is a term of endearment.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 03:39 AM
1

140/day. Usually 8-6. If we get out early like i did today 8-12 still get paid the full day. This doesnt include per diem (15/night i stay in hotel) and gas, $0.33/mile driven. Some days go longer like 8-8, and theyll give an extra half day pay or sonething.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 10:39 PM
3

Tell your parents you want to be your own man. U dont want to quit workibg but you do want to move out. If not save up a month or 2 of pay (seriously, ppl wiuld kill for this kind of money) and start looking for welsing jobs elsewhere. If u just started get experience. A 20 yr old with 2 years weldibg exp would be fucking gold to contractors looking to hire. Wish i could get a job like this.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:33 PM
4

Beggers cant be choosers man. Its not like youll be there your entire life. But its good until you find a mission.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 11:29 PM
8

Get into labor force. Good pay, hard work, good hours. Also, a lot of times jobs will be out of town, and therefore ur boss will set u up in a hotel. Gets you away from the house and out there on someone elses dime. I found my job on a local craigslist ad. Im making 800/week. At 22 uears old with no degree, thats a good amount of money.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 09:53 PM
3

Vans style. Nice pair of athletic shoes. It depends on who u are. Dont be a nerd wearing jordans, and dont be a thug wearing dress shoes. Find a style that YOU like. Never dress for someone else, always for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 09:00 PM
2

Agreed. But you made it seem like a polite 2 minute conversation is too much for you. And you have no idea what i have and have not read. Every time you comment, it reiterates just how much of a dumb fuck u are. You may want to re read the sidebar, as well as any other books. Also, please educate me on where i even described mate guarding.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 08:31 PM
2

Man u sound butthurt as all fuck. U gotta realize that your gf WILL get hit on by other guys. In fact, if she doesnt get hit on by other guys, shes not that pretty. Also, jf a guy comes and talks to her, and she acts like a total bitch and rude and shuts him down, THAT would be cause for me to leave. Watch her actions, not her words. If shes engaged with rhe dude, but os recoiled away, keeping space, moving away from touch, who gives a fuck? Its just a dude hitting on her, and jer body is sayong…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 07:22 PM
2

Well in that case all my plates are fwbs who know we arent exclusive.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:24 PM
6

The fucks wrong with you? Youre that fucking lame you cant find any other girl to fuck other than youre BEST friends ex WIFE?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:14 PM
3

Hello free validation. Youre just attention to her. Invite her out one last time. When she ignores or rejects u move on.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 04:10 PM
2

Had u said any of those words, my comment would remain the same. My point is, while techniques can help u first starting off, they are a crutch. Training wheels. The best "technique" to have is to be real. Not to do or say this in this scenario, but to act how u want, say what u want, and in doing so you get what u want. The difference between an ltr and a plate, to me, is commitment. You can still do some shit with plates. Comfort them, play with them. Have fun with them. If im in the mood to m…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 03:48 PM
2

Not using "techniques" to win over a girl
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:59 PM
1

Ive had similar resistance. If things are heating up and i get met with this resistance, ill pull back a bit, give her strong eye contact, a smirk, tell her , "dont worry" as i go in for a strong kiss. Then continue escalating and go further then where u left off. All this in about 5-10 seconds. She doesnt want to be another notch. She wants to feel special, so make her feel special. This will give you a strong emotional bond with her. She will be putty for you. This works for my frame, but mayb…
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:47 PM
16

Ultimately, do what u want to do. People claiming hypergamy and spewing out redpill terms and fucking retarded, getting raped has nothing to do with "the nature of women." Also, u are asking for advice from id say 99% of men who have NOT been in your situation. They dont know what youre feeling, only you do. If u want to leave her, leave her. If you want to stay (which it seems like u do) stay. This is NOT a black and white matter that you will find a "redpill" answer to. Take what you know and …
/r/askTRP26/10/17 03:29 PM
1

Wanting someone and needing someome are two different things. The difference is how YOU perceive it, since YOU are the only person u can control. If i meet an hb9 and get her number, i dont expect her to reach out. Im the man, i need to take charge and lead. The difference is that if i hit her up, i hit her up and go about my day. Neediness is hitting her up then waiting for her to reply. If u change your daily schedule (whatever ot may be) waiting for a reply, u are needy.
/r/askTRP25/10/17 07:00 PM
2

In other news, water is wet.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:38 AM
5

Always leave the door open for them to leave. This girl kept pushing for commitment when i didnt want that. "It sucks it had to end this way. If you ever want to hangout again let me know." Leave the door open, to leave and return.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:14 AM
1

Damn u right. Realest shit i heard thanks man
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:33 PM
3

Make more concrete plans. "Come over at 8". You sounded like you didnt have anything to do or planned. To us, obviously sex is ehat i plan on doing. But to girls you gotta give them an excuse. It xan be literally anything thats not "come over to fuck", although thatd probably work every once in a while.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 02:59 PM
1

Sure. When im out in public, bars/clubs/whatever, it seems like im looking out for men who look like theyd be a cool friend. In doing so, i become anxious of those around me and what i do/say, therefore restricting what i actually do/say. I look for that dude who looks like hes got his shit together and i could learn from. A true alpha role model.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:43 PM
1

Im a pretty masculine guy, but i would definitely say im not actually 100% sure of how a masculine man is supposed to be. My father was/is a pussy who let my mom walk all over him. There isnt really a man in my life i respect besides myself, im just not sure hpw to go about being a masculine sexual man. When i talk to women my first thoughts arent what come out of my mouth for fear that, not that ill be rejected, but someone will overhear and laugh.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:36 PM
1

Its hard to deal with it. I have a tendency to try and please everyone, even the most miniscule things
/r/askTRP14/10/17 11:57 AM
2

Quit relying on other people to help break you out of a funk. At first it helps, but your entire pife the obly person that will be there for you is yourself 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 05:24 PM
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No problem man. One thing you need to remember about frame is that its not black and white. My frame is different from yours and the next guy. Frame, to me and the way i interpret it, is doing/saying things because YOU WANT TO with no hopes for a specific reaction. Frame doesnt mean be an asshole all the time and never show emotions or compliment a girl. But to kaintain frame it needs to come from a place within because you WANT to. Frame is all about having direct alignment between your intenti…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:56 PM
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Be her rock. You didnt enter her frame by saying what you said. Ive never dealt with this before, but just be a fucking human man. Show some compassion, but dont drown her. Personally, it seems like you guys are starting to get into ltr status, as if u were just a fucktoy to her she probably wouldbt tell you. Shes emptionally invested in you, and she just lost potebtially the most important man in her life (assuming a standard upbringing non-abusive father). Just be there for her. If it were me,…
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:59 PM
2

Invite her over, and when she comes by make YOURSELF dinner and offer her some. Even better, be in the middle of cooking when she arrives
/r/askTRP01/10/17 05:23 PM
1

If shes earned it sure. I usually like to switch it up though. If im walk8ng through a crowded area (bar/club) ill hold hands and pull her arm around my body as i walk in front of her, if we are walkibg down the street i may hold fingers, basically holding hands but with 2/3 fingers. I believe this communicates that while yes, i am into you, i can let go at any moment. Ill also not hold hands but as we walk i notice we continuously bump arms. If we are standing, ill have my arm around her waist/…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 02:21 PM
1

Only if you think it is.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:08 AM
2

Not really. It may feel like work because youre not used to it, so you have to stress yourself to learn new skills. Think about a sport you played (or any hobby). When you first start it its hard. Its hard and it takes work to get better at it. But soon dribbling becomes as easy as breathing. Girls are the same way. If you put the work in now, you will do well later. Have fun though. Girls are here for our entertainment. Fuck with them Make them angry on purpose and treat theur tantrums like ur …
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:59 PM
3

Idk what to tell u dude youre not answering any of my questions I would suggest reading bang and day bang, roosh v. Easy reads for free pdf on google
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:34 PM
2

You dont remember your interaction with someone? If even you cant remember your interaction, how do you expect some girl who gets 10 guys talking to her a day to remember?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:23 PM
1

You see picking up girls as work. Figure out why that is.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:14 PM
3

I mean the whole interaction numbnuts.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:12 PM
2

Youre overthinking this shit hard. Use that hour to hit the gym or read. Why would you cancel?
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:10 PM
1

Take me through an approach you remember. Word for word. Youre game is probably weak. And dont change shit that u said because youre embarrased, we are here to help.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:06 PM
5

Do what u want. I would check in. "Hey i heard about that earthquake, hope youre alright"
/r/askTRP20/09/17 10:04 PM
6

Have u even tried? Sounds like youre making excuses to put in some work from solid advice. Pussies do that.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:42 PM
3

Ut deoends. If youre out for drinks, ill tell her "i got this round, u get the next". If its food, ill tell them seperate, or she will pay for both. If they invite me out for food, ill ask "you buying"? And it usually is a yes. If its a no, then seperate. If its something small with a fwb like ice cream or some shit, ill pay. It should be about 50/50. I set the standard from the beginning though. If you pay for everything from the get go, can you blame her to think thats how its gonna be the who…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:38 PM
1

You need to tell her you dont want an exclusive relationship. I told my pkate this 1 month into chilling, as she started to get really attached. If she comes back for more, (which she will) then your conscience is clear, as you laid out exactly what u want from her. Prepare for her to get mad/angry/upset. But watch her body language and hold frame. If u cant handle a bit of female anger, how far do u really think youre going to get. You ALSO need to be prepared for the plate to break. I started …
/r/askTRP20/09/17 04:13 PM
1

Hmm. Are you looking to ltr this girl? Seems like you are, and youre a bit disappointed she isnt head over heels for you. You gotta remember, ltrs require some "beta-ness", but imo the differencebetween alpha and beta is intent. Take her somewhere nice. And no i dont mean a nice restaurant. For example, my go to when i wanna pull out a little romance is this littlebplace by a popular beach. Its a 1t min drive down back roads, and when u parj its a 10 kinute walk through the woods where u get to …
/r/askTRP19/09/17 09:57 PM
2

The better question is what are your intentions? Just enjoy your turn, and do NOT ltr this girl.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:54 PM
4

Hows this an unusual situation? Ask her out. If she declines move on. If she accepts have fun.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:02 PM
3

It is good. It can be boring at times. I read some of it while trippin on some lsd on a beach. Very good book, really eye-opening.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:59 PM
2

Divorce
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:25 PM
2

Bruh i went to a black dude, told him what i wanted, and he did a good job. Youvsound like a pretentious douche, its just hair. Im beginning to think your issues are mental, not your hair.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 02:20 PM
2

Honestly, i grew mine out to an embarassing length. Not nearly long enoughbto be cool, so i looked like a pumpkin. I basically gave a lot of material for the barber to work with. Then, tell them "i havr no fucking idea what i want, what do you think wouldbfit for my style?" When u get the haircut, go in your best outfit, something that describes your style. And see a black barber. Definitely a black barber.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:16 AM
1

Yeah, youre probably trying to be too "alpha". Give ur a call every other day or twice a week. It doesnt need to be long. I usually call my girls on my way home from work for 5 10 minutes or so. Talk about their day, anything cool happened, and then be like "alright well i gotta go, ill see you friday/saturday/whenever you want? Cool, ill call you when im free." And bam. Thats it. If you dont like talking to your girl, then its time to break up.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 04:04 PM
1

Find out for yourself
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:20 PM
2

Read. Definitely read. U honestly cant do much physically. Let it heal and rest. Train your mind a bit.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:30 PM
1

Maybe hes an ex because he was beta as fuck. She still likes his attention. Know how u read here that if an ex oneities yries to contact u to ignore it completely? These guys are still being in love with their sloot.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:29 PM
1

Maybe hes an ex because he was beta as fuck. She still likes his attention. Know how u read here that if an ex oneities yries to contact u to ignore it completely? These guys are still being in love with their sloot.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:29 PM
1

Maybe hes an ex because he was beta as fuck. She still likes his attention. Know how u read here that if an ex oneities yries to contact u to ignore it completely? These guys are still being in love with their sloot.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:29 PM
1

This sounds fun, but can have some serious drawback. Depending on the type of dude your roomate is.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:27 PM
1

Have u tried eithdrawing touch/attention? You can be dominant while youre still being "submissive of". Withdraw touch and attention, and anytime she initiates (even something small like a tap on the leg that may have "just brushed there".) Its not an accident. After a few times, she will understand that u want to see initiatuve from her. Without blurting it out there.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:26 PM
6

When i want them to come over again.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:01 AM
2

I mean you just called her a usless spoiled picky brat for not holding a knife. Dude you gotta lead her. Not every woman knows how to cook. Are you lookibg to marry this woman? Cause she doesbt need to cook to slobber ur balls. Seems like you have your own issues to deal with.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 05:22 PM
1

Theres a quote i saw once. You shoyld have 3 hobbies/activities. One to make you money. One to keep you in shape. One to keep you creative. Try and fill those to start.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 03:08 PM
1

If money was no option. What eould you want to do? I can 95% guarentee some answer came to your kind after reading that sentence. If you could do something for the rest of your life, and you will still be clothed, fed, and sheltered. Mine would be to be a dj. Making music. Havent really tries it yet, but i will be soon.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:48 PM
2

Try shit out. Just because you thinknu may not like something, if youve never tried it you dont really know. Try shit out. If you dont like it try something else. If u do, work hard at it.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 01:12 PM
2

If you only eat a few times a year, would you be hungry?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:28 PM
3

You need a new girl dude. Sex few times a year? And its "given" to you? Is that really how you want your life to be?
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:18 PM
5

Dont get caught up jerking ur brain off to videos ant not applying
/r/askTRP30/08/17 04:08 PM
1

It really boosts confidence if you know you can defend yourself against an attacker. I agree with you however, but everyone man should get in a fight at least once as they grow
/r/askTRP29/08/17 06:20 PM
1

Hey dude ivwas in the same boat for a bit. Things seemed heavy, and crime seemed like a good payout, so i tried it out. Dude, your life gets real shitty real fast. I was paranoid all the time. Any car following me i thought was someone coming to arrest me. I changed my phone number in case they tracked my mesages. And i felt like a scumbag. It took me getting into a fight amd arrested for a misdemeanor to realize this isnt how i want to live. Get a labor job. Something that makes you work hard f…
/r/askTRP29/08/17 11:43 AM
1

Kind of my reason for asking the question.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 10:23 AM
0

I do, just not at first glance. I was speaking about iois. The iois from a confident girl may be different from a not so confident girl.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 01:08 AM
6

Everyone here has gone through what youre going through. Youre not a special case. Its thebstart of your journey to becoming a man, you just didnt know it then. But now you do Living with regret to your past is nornal, but harmful. Its up tobyou now how u move on from being a beta. Do you soend another 3 months lurking and crying because of your past? Or do u tell yourself "never again" and use that anger to fuel your progression. Basic advice, start lifting and reading. Bit more advice? Go out.…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:41 PM
1

No confident women or no signs
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:18 PM
2

Confidence is hot
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:18 PM
3

Power isnt always literal. He still has more power than you.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 11:28 PM
3

Any girl can be made into an LTR. For tge right man. But who they get with shouldnt concern you, because you need the best woman for you. A college slut and a quiet bookworm are, biologically, the same. You could ltr both, AND treat both like a dirty slut. The quiet bookworm however could be a better ltr option over the girl surrounded by cock 24/7. How you treat them is what YOU control. You could tteat the slut like a good girl girlfriend, but dont be surprised when she cheats on you. The goal…
/r/askTRP26/08/17 11:11 PM
1

Tgey show me their modeling pics so weak 7s is kinda pushing it. And the only reason i said tgat was to show u dont need mobey to pull girls. But youre getting rejected with no success, so feel free to worry about who im pulling.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 11:04 PM
2

If the plate is well enough intact, just amserr amd say something along the lines of "Hey im busy right now, ill call you back when im free." And leave it at that. If thebplate youre with asks, the incoking call was a friend. Nothing more, nothing less. Dont lie and say some stupid shit like shes ur sister orbstudy partner or something. Tell the VAGUE truth, and let her hamster do the rest.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:48 PM
5

So u have money. You have aesthetics. Now u need game. Im broke as shit, but i pull 8s and 9s often enough. Try implementing game WITHOUT your money. Dont brag about shit, dont spend money on them. Keep your wealth a secret. Work on game. I can guarentee you, your game sucks. Check out books like "Models" bt Mark Manson. Bang/day bang by roosh v. The mystery man method.
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:46 PM
7

Its all the same dude. An ltr is up to you, not the girl
/r/askTRP26/08/17 04:43 PM
1

Not really. Leave tge messages as not even opened.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:44 PM
1

Why not have that discussion? You couldve said "so when i have a girl like that on my lap you wouldnt be jealous"? Then watch her go back on her words, or she would say "no", and the conversation ends. After u chuckle and say okay, that is.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 11:42 PM
12

"Let me finish what i gotta do in peace, then ill come play with you. Why dont you grab me a glass of water?" kiss smack ass Seems like ur a bitch. Why u gotta snap at a girl for having fun?
/r/askTRP23/08/17 03:52 AM
2

Its okay to feel dude. Its what makes us human. Id even go as far to say its okay to fall in "love". Its our biology that "love" is necessary to reproduce. But you need to remember that the "love" im describing will disappear over time, and when it does to move on. Not to keep it going to reenact a disney movie. Dont get attached. You cant cobtrol your thoughts. You can control how you react to them.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:52 PM
1

Thanks. Literally what i had to do myself. Im 22, and every job ive had was me basically getting paid to show up. Now i bust my ass 10-14 hours a day, soaked in sweat from hour 1 (working in houses with no ac in florida). Its hard, and im tired all day everyday and sore all over, but its the first time ive actually had to WORK for my pay, and it does feel good. Not a lifetime career, but a physical labor job is definitely something every man should endure.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:06 PM
1

Nothing should ever be your only. Youbtakebthe good from every book. I havent read that one, i should look into it. I have read models. You should too. Very good book, ive read it twice
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:18 PM
1

Havent finished it, but the first half is decent. Bang was good though, and helps you realize just how "easy" game really is once you stop seeing it as something other than just living. Take away the special quality of game, and its uust 2 people interacting.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:31 PM
1

Honestly i tried reading the rational male first. It lost my interest fast. I read some other rp books (those above, 48 laws of power, what everyBODY isbsaying) and appkied those. Then i went back and read trm. It helped seeing what trm was talking about furst hand, and then being explained what it was andbwhy it happened, how girls acted how they act. Could just be i learn better that way, but first hand experience, then reading about it is better for me.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:13 PM
1

I have
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:10 PM
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Approaching and escalting should be something you "do". It should just be part of your life. Kind of like walking and breathing. Just be. I can almost guarentee you dont have too much success with women (thats okay for now) because you have this kindset that you should be doing something. Approach. Say something funny. Read her body language. Dont say something stupid or else she will run away. Oh she laughed, let me try touching her arm and see if she is into it. Stop making it a formula. Thats…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 08:15 PM
1

Id start with "The Power of Now" and Models. Ive re read each of these.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:53 PM
5

Workout your mind
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:47 PM
2

Reading is important, but make sure you apply it. Putting a time line on knowledge is a bad way to look at it. Putting a timeline on anything is bad tbh, u could die tomorrow
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:46 PM
1

And lift. U dont look like uve lifted anything more then 20 lbs
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:45 PM
1

Fix ur posture
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:45 PM
1

What do you mean "do pickup"
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:43 PM
2

Learn a trade. Get on craigslist and look for labor jobs. Its hard work, and its physical, but you may enjoy some type of hands on work.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:43 PM
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Nah im saying if he was. This isnt the last time this will happen to you. When it does happen again, it may be a much more attractive guy than you. Physically. Your framr is stronger. The strongest in thevroom. Remember that
/r/askTRP21/08/17 07:05 PM
1

Thats pretty hilarious tbh. Treat every shit test to show how awesome you are. If the guy talking to her was more attractive than you, and u still manage to dobwhat i said above, youll be balls deep in her beforethe nights over. Because the other guy would see u as competition, and thus try to prove himself to your girl, and thus being needy and insecure. Youll pass like its nothing. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:48 PM
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Exactly. Plus, its a pretty massuve shit test as it involves possibly being confrontational, but remaining calm. If you pass this test with any attractive women, theres a 9/10 chance youre fucking. Its funny, the smaller tests, the ones i cant tell if theyre a shit test or not, i fail more. Give me a nuke or a massive shit test, and ill pass with flying colors. Every shit test is just an opportunity to show how fucking awesome you are.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 06:46 PM
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There is no moving forward. You need to realize something - bring a hot girl to the bar is fun. It is a great time. Vut you will be shit tested. Guys WILL hit on her, if they dont, youre with a land whale. You acted super insecure and like a pussy. Girls will never just shoot a guy down. If a guy talks to a girl they will reject him, but they are nice about it and will let the guy talk. U fucked up, this girl is done. Learn from it What i wouldve done, and have done before with hb8's, is just gr…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 05:57 PM
1

Yeah hows that working for him?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 10:53 AM
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Haha dont beat yourself up for it. Everyone starts somewhere. Its part of the journey
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:44 AM
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Tell him to try amd hamgout with this girl in person. If she agrees, shes interested. If she says no, and gives any reason as to why she says nobwithout suggesting another time, move on amd mext her. Thats how u stop wasting time on a girl.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:38 AM
2

Do you sleep with girls?
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:36 AM
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No response is a good response. If she recoils, thats bad. Anytime u escalate and get no response(read: resistance) you turn it up. U were basically a pussy here. Live and learn. Next time a girl is just chatting away, tell her to wait, look her dead in the eyes, (i put a finger under her chin) and kiss. If she reciprocates, dont stop, but switch to the back ofbher neck with ur gand and ur in. Proceed however u enjoy having sex.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 03:35 AM
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Being a "fuckboy" isnt necessarily bad. Just done be a dick. Keep it fun, everyones there to have a good time. Dont make everything about "fucking a bitch" but keep it sexual. Just be the man youd want your daughter to date. Respectful, trustworthy, but with your options open. And flirt with EVERYONE , not just one girl.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 11:40 AM
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I would ask her to apologize to your best friend. I say ask, because if she says some more silly disrespectful shit, id stop seeing her. If she genuinely apologizes, great. But never ultimatum. You dont want to be the "do this or i leave guy", u want to portray "that shit was not okay, and if u dont apologize, you are no longer LTR material." You have to be prepared for her to not apologize as that is a possibility, and if so u must walk away.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:23 PM
1

I mean did she just randonly text u shes sick or was there conversation before?
/r/askTRP14/08/17 09:21 PM
1

All right well best of luck to you then.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 08:40 AM
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In the process. Having the tools to succeed, and putting those tools into action are two very different things. Everyone has the tools to better themselves. Not everyone does, myself included. Putting the knowledge and tools into ACTION is what seperates you (us; TRP) from the rest. It doesnt happen overnight, but EVERYONE has to start somewhere. If you go from cutting out porn, video games and excessive alcohol consumption from everyday to 4 times a week, thats progress. Then to 1 day. Then to …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:22 AM
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The problem with the "my life" statement as u call it is that it gives people an excuse to not be better. "Damn my life sucks". Yeah well if u got your shit together i bet it wouldnt suck. But that requires work and discipline, and i dont have time for that in my life of internet porn, alcohol consumption and video games.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 02:24 AM
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Hust enjoy tge moment. You dont have to jump straight to sex. Enjoy her company. Be flirtatious. Throw a movie on and have conversation. This is when you implement game. And escalate. When theres a lull in conversation, turn yourbhead and look at her in thebeyes for a few seconds, and then lean in forbthe kiss. If shes on your bed, youre getting head. Dont rush it, but dont do nothing. Escalate. Throw a hand on her knee, hold her hand up to yours and compare sizes. Just chill out and be. Youre o…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:29 AM
1

Youre giving her power. Stop letting her actions influence you.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:26 AM
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Man, im sorry but u need to grow a pair. Let this girl bitch and scream. Shit, if anything bait her into crossing the line. What exactly are you afraid of? Getting yelled at by a woman? Come the fuck on dude. The new boss is aware of the situation partially. Let her see how difficult this bitch really is.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 11:27 PM
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Honestly im bot sure wuat youre asking. When you fuck her, fuck her well. You dont "do" anything.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 11:21 PM
2

Polarization is a way to filter out who is receptive and nonreceptive to you. Read models by mark manson, he touches on this. Every human, by default, is neutral towards you. They will then be receptive or not. You need to figure it out by talking to people. However, reading ur comments and such, u got some serious self-esteem issues that u have deep, so you put on a fake persona to try and get people to like you. I know from experience, its tiring being someone youre not all the time. Once you …
/r/askTRP09/08/17 11:20 PM
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Just make sure you play it cool. Like, literally dont even acknowledge that she dodged the kiss. Dont do shit. If u bring it up, youve failed. Bring it up in 5 minutes when you go for the kiss again. I give a kiss up to 3 tries. If she rejects me after the 3rd i excuse myself and leave.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:25 AM
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This is probably a bit of a comfort test. Nothings wrong with having a 5 10 minute conversation with your girlfriend. No one is going to see u as beta, its okay to throw them a bone every once in a while. Also, shut the fuck up. This relationship will not last if u keep explaining yourself, cause u sound like a twat.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:17 AM
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Remember, when in doubt, escalate until she stops you. Youd be surprised with how much she will be receptive to you. Would you be shy about grabbing/slapping your girlfriends ass as you open a door? Also, if u ever do get denied an escalation (kiss, for example) try again in 5 minutes or so. The fact that you try again so soon after just getting rejected will be a huge turn on for her
/r/askTRP09/08/17 07:12 AM
1

I wouldnt deal with it. Why would i talk to someone i have no interest in talking to? Id just walk away.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 06:38 AM
1

Your entire post is about women, but then at the end you ask how to make life more enjoyable. Stop making it about women
/r/askTRP06/08/17 08:40 PM
1

Why would u want those people as part of ur social group?
/r/askTRP06/08/17 08:39 PM
2

I mean if ur able to lift weights go lift weights. If ur stuck in bed and cant mpce take the day off
/r/askTRP06/08/17 01:28 AM
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Use words to disarm. Make it personal to the guys pride not to be jumping but a 1v1 fight, how men speak. U dont need to kbock someone out, but you know how to. Not every situation is black and white. If you see yourself up agaonst 5 or so guy, be prepared to take ur trainibg and use it. The main thin is gow calm everytbing is. When u can fight youre never rushed or not respected, because you respect urself.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 03:57 AM
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So learn to fight. Thats why you learn. So its not just punches thrown, but you control the outcome. If youre in a bat or club and get in a fight with 3 people and win, you wont be getting sued. Never start, but know how to finish
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:27 PM
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Learn to fight. Not to kick tgese guys asses, but if it comes dowm to you getting whooped or them, itll be them all day. Just KNOWING that u can scrap will put out confidence in yourself. Whenever someone starts saying and mpving like he wants to fight, i hold my ground and make firm eye contact and say "thats not a good idea". Usually it works. If it doesnt ill try something else, but it usually does. And if push comes to shove, u can disarm them. I would learn bjj, as its a very defensive styl…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 10:01 PM
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He probably feels similar to you
/r/askTRP04/08/17 09:57 PM
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Dude if YOU start friendzoning THEM youre golden. Yes 100%. Just imagine being out with a new girl, and some past flings come by and hug u and chat u up a bit. What do you think new girl would think?
/r/askTRP04/08/17 03:26 AM
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Yeah i am being genuine. I guess i was taking it as a shit test, where as being genuinely nice is my frame. Of course i still sprinkle in assholeness and such. Whenever theyd say it i took it as an insult since a "nice" guy is perceived as a beta here. But its not me being "nice" just me being myself, who happens to be nice.
/r/askTRP03/08/17 02:07 AM
1

Improve.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 04:33 PM
1

You got all the tools then. Go out and appky. Stay away from okc and talk to women in real life. How many women have u approached this week?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:56 PM
1

Hell yeah. Just because you arent leading the adventure doesnt mean u cant lead the interactions. Not sure what kind of adventure, im assumibg something outdoors in the woods. Climb some trees, pick your girl up, do whatever.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 09:46 PM
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Never is. But what youre feeling isnt "wrong". Learn from it. A boundary of ypurs was broken and you may not even know what that boundary is. This is tge best time to find it and learn for future relationships
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:25 AM
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Hmm. This is a hard situation. Id just ghost her for the rest of the vacation. Tell her to do wyatevershe wants, and youll see her when she gets back. In person youll be able to get the jist of what happened, bit dont even vring it up. If it happened, she will let it slip, especially if sje sees u not caring. In the meantime, dread her. Go talk to more girls, this is looking rocky, but the fact that shes taking the time to text you is actually a pretty good sign, but not a definite one. Your fra…
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:47 AM
1

Try it out and create your own success stories
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:49 PM
1

Depends. Are u a virgin because you have some sort of physical disability/disease that stops you from being attractive? Or are u just lazy and want to get it over with with as little work as possible?
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:36 PM
1

If youre not the one cheating, its not cheating game for you, for them it is. Last 3 girls ive hooked up with had boyfriends. What ive learned: If they get calls/texts from them, never speak but i like to escalate very fast. Example: youre hanging out, and she gets a call, start fucking her or fingering or whatever base youre on. Just proceed as normal. Tbh, id let the girls bitch about their boyfriend to me, but i wouldnt belittle them. Vague comments, subtle jabs, but nothing serious. The most…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:34 PM
1

You meed to adjust rp to your life-style, but let me put a bit of perspective to my own situation, as im not sure of yours. My standard for women is pretty high. Ive had ons, and they honestly bore me. While its fun to say youve done it, i still dont feel fulfilled after. Now, i prefer to find a woman who comes back for more, and we enter a "relationship" for a while. This doesnt mean a monogamous relationship. I still always have my head on the swivel for someone who catches my attention. But t…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:25 PM
1

Its not common sense - but it is simple. The problem is people are brainwashed my technology, media, disney, parents, teacherz, etc. To be bp. Once you realize how FALSE that actually is, the "common sense", or simplicity of redpill gets noticed. Once you notice it, theres no gping back, only forward.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:18 PM
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What she says doesbt matter. How you handle it does. Stop being insecure, start lifting
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:08 PM
1

Give it a go. Worst that happens is you get slapped in the face, and even that will be funny
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:50 PM
0

Maybe if your frame is strong enough, something like "i let my girls do the talkong for me" , but look at it in her perspective. Youre too scared to talk to her yourself so the girl does it for you. Maybe itd work, maybe it wouldnt.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:58 PM
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Depends if you know how to use them. DONT: send them off to talk to the girl for you. Thats lame as fuck and your balls will run away for good. DO: Have fun with her like any other girl. Dance with her. Show her off. If girls around you see a girl is into you (if shes a real wing woman, she wont mind you touching/flirting with her) they will gravitate towards you, then pick your bunch of the litter.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:24 PM
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She wouldnt stop hanging out with them, shed just stop getting caught hanging out with them. She doesnt need to know. Thats not being heartless, thats being a man.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 11:12 PM
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Having guy friends is a deal breaker you say. U cant/shouldnt change her, just find someone else.
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:36 PM
1

So should we be that soulmate for them? Not for 1 girl, for every girl...
/r/askTRP16/07/17 01:24 AM
1

Yeah going out is where i apply what i learn. Ive kept my drinking to a minimum, and just go out to be surrounded by people my age, im 22. I just feel like i always need to be there for someone, kind of like a father figure i guess. Maybe because i never had a masculine role model from my father?
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:46 PM
1

What to do on a friday/satirday night? i feel like its tve best place to apply game
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:15 PM
2

Like when i go out to have fun, i dont want to be looking for broken people to try and fix them, i want to be around fun people
/r/askTRP15/07/17 11:10 PM
2

Not sure what your location is, but some of the best life changing moments for me would be going out to the beach at like 2 in the morning sitting on the life guard stand amd crying, shouting my mind to the ocean. Youll say some things that you never knew were there. Theres no one around to hear you, and youre the only person who needs to know it happened. It will help. Find a secluded area and just go out there. Sit and look up at the stars. No music, no distractions, just you your mind and nat…
/r/askTRP14/07/17 06:13 PM
0

I have a strong urge to punch you in the cunt
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:29 PM
1

Yeah dude, u gotta cut this girl put of your life
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:11 PM
1

Thinknof it this way. Your most valuable currency as a man is your time. Who you give attention to, your full undisclosed attention, is one of the most valuable assets you can give to a girl. So when youre with a girl in a one-on-one situation (even if you are in a crowded bar) that is the best thing you can give them. You need to create your own world, amd let her in it. Letting a girl into ur world is what ots all about. If they are not a part of your world, there is 0% chance you will skrep w…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:12 AM
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Projecting im sure. You probably got her all hot and bothered. 2 things thouhh. As mrreardon said, id get ahead of this before your too deep down a hole u have no control over. Why the fuck you discussing your marriage with her?
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:40 AM
1

I agree with you, i seriously dislike small talk "what do you do, where do you live conversations". Talk about what you wanna talk about. If theyre into you, they wont care that youre talking. Talk about something cool that happened on a hiking trip. Just remember, for an attractive conversation, its 80% listening 20% talking. Ask leading questions. If a girl says she does nursing, id ask if she likes it, of so, what does she like about it. Does she like helping people, or does she like the scie…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:37 AM
2

Okay. I used to hate to women too. I was attracted to them, but hated them. Have you ever tried just having fun? Like saying whats on your mind, in a playful way, that doesnt have to do eith sharing details? Ever hear the saying, if it smells loke shit everywhere you go, check under your shoe? What i mean by that is, if its EVERY girl that annoys you, maybe its not them, but something within yourself? I hated girls when i had to do this and that to get them to sleep with me. I hated following pr…
/r/askTRP12/07/17 11:01 PM
1

What dont you like about speaking to them?
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:20 PM
1

Ive done that before too where i cum within 2 minutes. "Holy shit babe i couldbt control myself, just give me 10 minutes" and pillow talk, she will completely forget about it as long as u fuck her well.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:19 PM
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If she doesnt want you to go to the doctor wifh you, she doesnt know its yours. Shes looking for some attention and someone to feel bad for her, pregnant or not. I believe the best case scenario here is to believe that she is pregnant. You have to come to terms that the child may be yours. But, definitely get a test once the baby is born, thats truly the only way to know.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:16 PM
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Any 1 of these red flags is enough to break up. Theres a lot. I didnt read ur full post, but you need to work on yourself man. You got some deep seeded psychological demons you need to deal with, id suggest talking to a therapist. Or take some L by yourself and try amd dig down there. But you need to learn to be happy by yourself, cause if youre not youre basing your happiness on someone else, and that is a heavy burden to put on anyone.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 10:14 PM
1

Try producibg something. Drawing, writing, poetry, music. Doesnt have to be good, just original
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:31 PM
3

Its kond of funny how simple the answer is - when its not our own life.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:29 PM
1

There are just days where i want to break down and cry. Its tiring fighting every day. Im bot sure why i feel this way but its the truth
/r/askTRP11/07/17 08:30 PM
1

Maybe i am pedastalizing. Gotta take a step back and see wuats up
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:50 PM
1

Sounds boring
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:34 PM
3

Try lifting in the morning
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:23 PM
1

Are you a baptist by choice or because your parents raised you that way?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:17 PM
1

im used to having 3+ new girls a year attarcted to me. Thats something to be proud of?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:15 PM
1

I see it as "i hope you show up, but if not thats cool too."
/r/askTRP11/07/17 06:02 PM
1

Word,my thoughts exactly. "Ill be at the concession at "local beach" at 2. I hope to see you there"
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:14 PM
1

Dont need to. Want to.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:03 PM
1

She did say to let her know when im free, and that she is free tuesday/wednesdays
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:03 PM
1

Also,you cant "prevent" her from entring another frame. The only thing you can do is better so she doesnt WANT to enter another frame
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:24 AM
1

Honestly, just ignore them, but be aware. Talking is fine. Some lame ass flirty touching is fine (as long as its bot receptive by your girl). Groping is not okay and if a guy does thos to my girl (and she is UNCOMFORTABLE) i will step in, if she hasnt done so after the first time (they usually do). If she becomes receltive to another guy, ill turn and find the hottest girl next to me and open her. Watch your girl come crawling back, and if not, you got another girl.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:23 AM
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Sounds like youre not confident enough that this girl is yours. I dont see it lasting much longer
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:21 AM
1

I love going to clubs with my girls because we become the hottest team in the room. I lay girls who have been models and who would be considered the sexiest girls at the bars, so when we walk through a room we turn heads. I can feel every eye thats on us who are jealous. Also, i love the challenge. Going to a night club will get your girl to recieve a shit ton of attention from other guys, and in return shit test you. Pass those tests and handle everything well, and her attraction for you will s…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:19 AM
2

Find out what her favorite meal is, then cook it. I hate dinner dates. Theyre tacky and what 99% of other guys will do. Be different. What would you want to do on your birthday?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:15 AM
1

Ive been called innocent and sweet before. Ive also been balls deep in a girl tied up to my bed post. The only reason this bothers you is because you believe it to be an insult, meaning youre insecure u may be too sweet and innocent. Be you. As long as you are doing 100% what you want to do, who cares?
/r/askTRP10/07/17 10:44 PM
2

Only 1 way to find out
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:20 PM
1

You shouldve tried to reschedule the same day. Text "jousting" just comes off as needy. For example Her: "hey i gotta reschedule, some family shit came up blah blah blah" You: "oh shit. No problem take care of whatever you gotta do. Lets do it x time at y instead."
/r/askTRP10/07/17 01:28 PM
1

After reading the other comment i gotba pretty good idea off the dome. Count on your fingers an absurd amount, like your thinking of every girl youve boned. Then say 3"
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:31 AM
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Why dont you want to commit? Nothings wrong with having a long term telationship and giving a little bit of commitment with a woman WHO YOU VET WELL ENOUGH. "Learn to love yourself" is great. It builds confidence and character. But dont be selfish. Let other people love you too. Youre the prize, and everyone wants the prize. If you stay alone, youre basically showcasing off the lottery, having someone win it, and then saying fuck you and keeping it for yourself. This does NOT apply if the woman …
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:26 AM
1

Im not hyper analyzing it. Its always been a non-factor. Im just curious as to how woman respond to the different answers.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:24 AM
1

I mean it depends on context one-hundred percent. If its at the workplace, ill tell them "dont call me that, my name is nexusreflexx". If they do it again, ill guve them a nickname, usually one that gets the point across bot to calle that sgit again. If im at a bar amd a girl in in a set eith calls me a nickname, id say "im not sure i like that name. Call me king reflexx if you would" or something like that.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:23 AM
5

An emptional affair? As in you confide your problems in her? Does she lick your pussy too, or do you just stay up and watch the notebook together?
/r/askTRP09/07/17 08:20 AM
4

How do u want to react?
/r/askTRP09/07/17 08:13 AM
1

Your mind slowed down, allowing you to actually spend time in the present moment, instead of in your head. The goal is to live like that all the time, and only use your kind when its needed. Read the power of now, you will definitely enjoy it.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 07:47 AM
6

The fuck?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 09:24 PM
2

First of all, stop using online dating. Its shit. One thing that is repeated on here is that it doesnt matter what you say but hoe you say it. When you have a conversation over the phone with texting, thats impossible. For any girl i get their number, ill send a "hey babe" after some time (some girls different then others, u gotta feel the connection). When they respond, i call them. Its kind of funny, you can hear the surprise in their voice because no one does that anymore. But know this. Girl…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 06:44 PM
1

Google "how to walk eith confidence" Action molds the mind. I changed my walk up a bit and i feel 100x mpre powerful entering a room
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:22 PM
1

Tell her you want to not use a condom, but to get tested first. Go get tested WITH her, its only fair that you both should get tested if you want to go this route. The problem eith this, however, is u need to have enough trust in her to use condoms with other partners if she hooks up with others, as do you. If you dont trust her, then protection is the only way to go.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 06:20 PM
3

I mean i have relationships with hb8s on a regular basis, so i must be doing something well. You seem really angry, may wanna check that first.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:56 AM
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There are plenty of quality woman, not sure why you think there isnt. I agree there are no unicorns, special someone, etc etc. But there are quality woman, and to think that EVERY girl is a slut is just plain wrong. EVERY girl can BE/BECOME a slut, but some do have good upbringings, good morals and values. Just going off of numbers here. Bare with me here. If there os a girl that is 1 in a million in the world, that would be considered a unicorn. Now, there are 7 billion people alive, and 50% of…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:15 PM
1

Yeah. You seemed to have missed my point though. Right now, you are questioning your relationship with this girl. That is a clear sign the relationship is over, if not now, then in a month or 6. But its over. Why wait when you can use the time youd waste on this girl to better yourself mentally?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:53 PM
1

Hmm. Speaking from my own personal experience, i have used girls for sex. I used them and then never talked to them again. This makes girls feel like sluts. Whether thats a good or bad thing is up to them. The difference though is your intent. When id use a girl, it was for my own selfish satisfaction. I wasnt immersed in the sex and feankly i was just glad i was having sex. But when you dont use a girl for sex, but youre still sleeping together, the relationship os much better. Everything os fu…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:41 PM
7

Very true. She made rhe decision to cheat, so she did. But really, she was unhappy in our relationship, so she sought it out elsewhere, its the nature of woman, so there is really no reason to be mad at it. Its like being mad at water for being wet. You cant control other peoples actions. The only person you can cobtrol is yourself. On that note, blaming other people for what happens to you is a contradiction. You need to control your own actions so a girl doesnt feel the need or want to cheat. …
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:36 PM
1

Hmm. I see what youre saying. When i say friends with girls, i dont mean texting buddies. Lunch dates. Blah blah blah. Im talking about some girls to go out with and have a good time. The girls im friends with i either 100% dont want to fuck, and i am 100% sure on that fact. Or my mates girls. Oh, or theyre gay. Im not talking about some random chick u meet and "omfg lets be bffs because your hot and you can help me get laid." Nah, fuck that noise.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:11 PM
10

I am too man. To try and FORGET about a girl who impacted your life so heavily is stupid. Youre lying to yourself if you think you can forget her, if you think she didnt matter. She did matter, and in my case i was with the same girl for 1/5 of my life. Instead of trying to forget, embrace the pain. Embrace your flaws. Whatever happened with u and your ex, it was YOUR OWN ACTIONS that caused her to do whatever she did, mine cheated. At first i blamed her, and i was angry, bitter, amd even scared…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:02 PM
3

But if youre not gay, who cares? you are stringing along 2 hot girls that are unavailable for whatever reason, thats preselection. You can still flirt with them, still show sexual intent, but theyre unavailable. You, in fact, could use them to get other hot girls. They could talk u up, use them for dancing, so on so forth.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:56 PM
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Because they do feel used. This is probably going to get a lot of controversy here by the "alpha dogs" of this sub, but a girl isnt a piece of meat. To use a girl for just sexual satisfaction IS using a girl. Im not saying its wrong, im not saying its right, it just is. To me, woman are for my entertainment. A quality woman can and will better your life. Theyll cook for you. Theyll give you lots of laughs. Theyll clean. And youll give them mind blowing sex in return, as well as security and comf…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:49 PM
3

As a man, do what you want. Girls are amazing. They can bring so much energy into a room and really lift your mood as well sometimes. You need to do some self-reflection and figure out why youre friends with these girls. The girls im friends with i: Seriously 100% do not want to sleep with them. In fact, they want to sleep with me, but i friend zone them. They are my friends girls. One of my friends has this super cool chick that wingmans for me. If we are out having a good time, ill take this g…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:42 PM
1

but when i am single it seems like no girl wants me. Its different. Girls do want you, but youre basically starting from 0. When youre with a girlfriend, you already have some advantage because 1. Youre not overly needy. And 2. They see that another girl wants you, so why shouldnt they? The girl youre with now may seem like shes helping you out, but youd be better off without her. Maybe not for the first month. Maybe not even the first year. But after that, youll be getting girls of a much highe…
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:36 PM
2

Whats your opinion on dumster diving? Mine? Never settle
/r/askTRP04/07/17 11:21 PM
6

I think the difference is the type of girls you attract. If you look hotter, u get hotter girls. No denying that. When you say they treat you differently, do you notice the quality of women giving you attraction to be better, different, or worse depending on your physique?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 11:15 PM
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Alpha/beta is a mindset, not physique. On of my better friends is 6'2 about 140. He pulls all the time. I actually had this problem too at a time. Anyone big - alpha. Anyone fat or skinny - beta. Its a mindset, your outer appearance doesnt 100% reflect ur mindset. Also, why tf do you care other than because youre jealous and insecure. Instead of worrying about other people, worry about yourself and u get the hot girls.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 11:05 PM
1

That first paragraph is where you fucked up. Its a mistake, a lesson, so learn from it and move on, but heres my take. Stopping and telling her your getting riled up and her not takong responsibility. No shit youre riled up, why state the obvious. Speak through your actions, not words. Treat her as if she is irresistable and your instincts are kicking in and you cant control yourself. If you find it hard to do this, stop watching porn and masturbating. You are holding her responsible for your sa…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 10:35 PM
1

Very nice point here. Ive found when asking/telling a girl for their number outright usually never amounts to anything. If you schedule a time to meet up again, she will usually be the one asking for your number to get ahold of her. She doesnt want me to forget her.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:59 PM
1

I pay for myself. Simple as that. If im on a date, ill order two drinks, and then lean in, "you get the next round" and give her a kiss. Edit: now, this is personal preference, but if im out with a good friend who i know is kind of struggling, and im doing alright myself, ill help him out. I wont even tell him. Its one of those things where no words need to be spoken, he knows and already feels pretty bad about it (ive had people pay for my drinks cause i was low on koney, i know the feeling) so…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:55 PM
3

Yeah dude you look weak as fuck here. Forget this girl, and every girl for that matter for at least a week or so. Internalize some trp books and sidebar material. Read what you wrote objectively, as if someone else showed u that message that they sent to someone, and what would your reaction be?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:53 PM
3

When she would stop you, what was your reactions/thoughts like. From what ive read, when she did this it may have seemed like you got annoyed or kind of pissy. I find that if i go to escalate amd get stopped, i pretend like nothing even happened amd take a step back for 20 seconds or so, and go right back to what i tried to do before getting stopped. If you give off the vibe that youre annoyed by her shit, it weakens her attraction towards you. You cant get annoyed at the nature of girls. Its li…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 09:51 PM
6

Thats a great question and will definitely be asking myself that when speaking to girls
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 12:47 AM
2

Next class save her a seat and let her know. Dont make a big deal about it. Apologize through actions not words
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:10 PM
2

Invite her out, escalate. Youll find your answer
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:27 PM
8

Put your arm around her and youll feel it
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:33 PM
2

I find that dates go very well if you lead. Be different, make youeself stand out. One thing that i do, unconsciously as i like tos lead my dates, is act as if you are showing this girl off. Wherever she goes, shes the center of attention. But not of other people, to yourself. Make sure you give her your full on attention, because all in all thats why shes going on a date with you. Also, ive found it best to go for a kiss right when you first say hi. Walk up to her, take her hand (not shake, tak…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:16 PM
1

Maybe swagger has the "im the shit and i know it" vibe, where as arrogance has the "im better then you and i know it". As i feel i lean more towards the arrogant side, i kind of want to prove that im better then someone in some way, thus coming off as arrogant. Instead of just believing i am the shit, i need others to believe it as well.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:14 AM
1

Thats where you are too
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:57 AM
1

Usually night clubs is when i get this mindset, but also when just out in the world. Not sure what happened on that second paragraph, but im sure that felt good.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:48 AM
1

I think im leaning more towards the arrogance side. Whats the gives a man swagger, and what gives a man arrogant traits?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:40 AM
1

Im not sure. Maybe im just not used to actually being a man to be admired?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:36 AM
1

Never thought you were disagreeing, adding as well to anyone reading comments. I think people here are taking TRP to a whole level, treating it like a lifestyle. In that sense, its becomes cult-like. For example, AWALT. I agree 100% with this, but that does not mean every girl you meet is/has been a slut. It means every girl has the potential to be a slut, and if you begin to see signs of AWALT, you need to walk away, not be in denial because "my special princess would never be a slut". Its a to…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:10 AM
1

But she didnt explicably say "im not going to have sex with you". Just as friends. Im not saying to go in "expecting" sex. You should never go in expecting it. Go out for drinks. Treat it like a date. If it doesnt work out it doesnt work out, no skin off his back. If it does, shell be on her back.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:57 AM
2

Ive been finding that adding in some comfort with a girl from the start can have some positive effects. It really just depends on your person. I will genuiely care about a person for who they are, and sometime talking to a girl not as a girl, but as a person, can add a lot of passion in beginning encounters. Show compassion, show you see her more then a sex object (but still show her you see her as a sex object). Its not black and white, but if you are having one of those real conversations, and…
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:55 AM
2

That is what i was saying, using the word support for lack of a beter term
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:11 AM
0

Idk i feel like thats a shit test. She says as friends, but wants you to be more of a man. Agree to meet her out, then escalate from there. If she still wants it as friends, who cares. If its a shit test, u pass and reap the benefits
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:05 PM
1

True answer here.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:15 PM
1

It seems like you want some support, especily from your girlfriend. IF and only IF you know your the best man in her life right now, you can subtly ask her for support. Invite her over, and just enjoy her company. Say what you want to say through your actions, not your words. You seem pretty stressed, amd to me its the girls duty to help you destress, thats why your with her. Im not saying rely on her. But invite her over, and be very passionate. Give her a kiss and a hug amd just hold her a lit…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 05:15 PM
2

Read sex god method. Youre missing variety
/r/askTRP27/06/17 12:17 PM
7

I honestly didnt read the entire article, because i just cant be bothered beating a dead horse with this anymore, but yes, it happens. My ex would threaten to kill herself if i broke up with her. Stay and be miserable or feel guilty for killing someone... I stayed. I know now it was all for attention but my 16 ur old mind couldnt handle that. Shits whack yo, ive talked to a girl surroundes by her orbiters, we are having fun, and she says "youre so hot" (not exactly, idr but she gave me a complim…
/r/askTRP26/06/17 03:21 PM
3

If a girl invites you into her room, shes dtf.. Youre hamstering somewhere, and this spells neediness. Youre either a pussy or a liar, in which case study up
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:21 AM
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You need to ditch tbis girl man. Its only going to get worse. Shes probably sleeping around. Take this from a guy from experience, as well as the guy who is currently fucking a girl who has a boyfriend. Leave her now. Dont make a show about it. If i could break up with my ex that drove me to find trp, id invite her out to meet me for coffee, sit down, tell her i want to break up/see other people/blah blah blah, walk up and leave. This allows for you to not do it privately, where she could get ps…
/r/askTRP24/06/17 10:23 PM
2

Do things for people because you feel like it. Remember that a gift is no gift if you expect something in return. This seems stupid at the moment to you, because you're seeing only the losers who want things from you, but view your actions as investments; there will be a payout. Your subconscious will naturally note people who aren't reciprocating and come to resent them. These people you can drop, because they are the parasites. Im not aure how to quote or whatever on reddit, but i have a quest…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:42 AM
1

A question for you then. When you begin to realize that your boundaries are being crossed, how do you convey that thats not okay without coming off too aggressive, but assertive?
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:05 PM
2

Only reason i ask is because to them, it may not seem like youre enjoying yourself. Or maybe you look super serious, but your giving pff a different vibe. Of its troubling you, the vibe youre believing to portray and the vibe you actually portray may not be in line. You dont have to be super serious/stone face to be dominant. When im fucking a girl, and say im on top and want to switch to dog, ill usually smirk and in a playful tone nudge them over and tell them to turn around. That in itself is…
/r/askTRP26/05/17 10:18 PM
2

Are you having fun?
/r/askTRP26/05/17 07:51 PM
2

You should be bring yourself up to preserve image, not knocking other down.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 09:14 PM
6

But this subreddit is all about taking betas and through their own studies, hard work amd dedication to become alpha. This post may seem dumb to you or other more experienced men, but to someone who just decided to swallow the pill, this is good information, albeit a bit repetetive.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:06 PM
1

What are you investing?
/r/askTRP10/05/17 09:38 PM
1

If you still talk to other girls youre not really wasting it though
/r/askTRP10/05/17 02:42 PM
1

I would hang out with her amd escalate. If she stops you, excuse yourself and walk away, if she is for it then youre golden. I believe this black and white "no friendships with woman" is taken a bit to literally here. Its cool to be friends with a girl, as long as youre getting what you want, as well as your definition of friendship. To me friendship is jist chilling with someone because you want to amd enjoying their company. I have girl "friends" who i fuck/have fucked. I dont have girl "frien…
/r/askTRP09/05/17 03:29 PM
1

That sounds fun. Sex is supposed to be fun. If youre thinking about what to do next, how she feels about you, or hope that u dont fuck up, all of these worries prevent you from fully enjoying the game, whether u first meet a girl or already have her in bed. Just be, and be natural and do what you want. Woman have fun with you because youre having fun. So have fun.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 02:35 PM
1

Its a realization i came to recently. If you escalate for HER to feel a certain way about you, your actions will speak to her like you care what she thinks. Ive been with girls is a small touch on the arm cause i wanted to, to being ratchet and getting a full palm ass grab where she pushes back. Its because you want to. You want to grab this girls ass, or you want to be a little more gentle. Please not that this is only if you can feel the vibe from a girl. Im not saying just walk through a bar …
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:31 PM
2

If youre escalating for any reason other than the fact that you want to, youre doing it incorrectly
/r/askTRP08/05/17 04:14 PM
2

Why do you escalate?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:41 AM
2

Have you made any sort of sexual contact?
/r/askTRP08/05/17 02:16 AM
3

Id rather keep my standards where i want them then stooping low to get a nut with a fatty. Thats just me personally, never settle for less
/r/askTRP07/05/17 05:10 PM
1

Yeah which link?
/r/askTRP05/05/17 04:41 AM
1

Why is it creepy to ask a woman out though? This thread is full of "youll see her if you get rejected and itll be awkward" but other threads say that rejection isnt a big deal. It all seems hypocritical to me here
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:04 AM
1

If he fucks her well that could be an advantage.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 01:03 AM
2

I get you. Thats hilarious too
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:35 AM
1

Could you give me an example of tge backhand compliment?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:29 AM
1

Damn. Ive been trying to do tve talking with my eyes but i guess it doesnt work like that. I go out by myself a lot and just standing thete i guess. Any suggestions to stop that shit?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:21 AM
1

I think im trying to rationalize thoughts in my head that i dont direct approach for night game. Just walking up to a girl and stickong your hand out to introduce yourself feels so forced and unnatural. Night game here.
/r/askTRP30/04/17 04:14 AM
1

So would flat out saying, "lets go fuck." Be better or worse then playing the whole game? Or could that be at the very end?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 03:51 AM
1

But what makes me afraid? Everything yoi say relates to me on skme level, but i dont know why
/r/askTRP29/04/17 04:29 AM
1

So how do you switch that mentally?
/r/askTRP29/04/17 04:25 AM
1

Well then yeah its probably too late.
/r/askTRP18/04/17 03:42 AM
2

It seems like a lot of people are mossing the point. These are exercises, practice skills. Think of yourself as a sports team. You practice 3x a week doing exercises/drills/whatever. Then on game day you turn those practices into reality. Doing tbese exercises themselves wont get you pussy. It will probably get you a few laughs, awkward looks, and what not. But come game day (read: weekend) youll have learned to not take yourself so seriously. Also, you wont see anyone who u proposed to at a bar
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 07:19 PM
1

Are you 80 years old
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:40 PM
1

If she invited you i say go. Itll be a nice vacation with loads of sex/partying/clubbing in a beautiful city. Youre seriously overthinking this thing.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 04:37 PM
1

That makes sense. I know what to try now
/r/askTRP16/04/17 08:50 PM
1

In theory, my first instinct is to call them out. "Are you this rude to every guy you talk to?" Would this break through?
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:15 PM
1

I feel like by being a "manly man" im doing something that is frowned upon. Im used to having a lot of eyes on me, so i feel like every mpve i make is scrutinized and judged, which in turn holds me back from makng said moves 90% of the time. How do i break past this? I can see from reading what ive typed that it is feminism brainwashing talking, but this last obstacle is really bothering me. Ive felt this way for a few months now, and i cant seem tk get past it. Any advice?
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:37 AM
1

Damn thats a really good answer. Ive been looking fkr that line for a while. I think im fuckibg gorgeous, and i get told that quite often. So ive bern wantong to fond that super cocky, but without so kuch aggression you see with the asshole. It definitely changed something
/r/askTRP13/04/17 05:41 AM
1

Im not sure tbh, just looking to broaden my horizons a bit.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:00 AM
1

Nah ive had oneitis before. This isnt that
/r/askTRP09/04/17 02:32 AM
0

But it did exist at one point in your life. I think instead of letting your old view of the world pretend like it never happened, but instead build it into the life that u want/way you view the world. It soundslike your bitter about the way you were raised, because now youve seen glimpses of the other side of the spectrum. Own it and learn from it, because you cant change it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 02:10 AM
2

Real reality tv
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:54 AM
1

But if a dude calls u gay and u fuck his girlfriend, are you still gay?
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:21 AM
14

Hide a go pro cause that shit will be a comedy show for us here if you play it right
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:19 AM
1

Yeah i know. Thats not the point though. I get paid when im at work too, we just in different professions. I saw her as her person, not as a dancer.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:12 AM
1

Yeah, 6'0, working out for a year amd a tatto on my right pec/shoulder. Im probably pretty intimidating
/r/askTRP09/04/17 01:11 AM
1

Thats a great fucking response dude. Im questioning what happened, and i guess i have this "i dobt want to fuck it up/nervous to see if itll happen again today or not. The looks i was getting from her, i interpreted as "youre actually looking at me as a woman, not a club dancer." So when we were dancing together (because she was at work, i dont care that she is a dancer, because i like to dance, and so does she) it was like she was on a date with me, she put on a show for me. Every was in sync, …
/r/askTRP09/04/17 12:05 AM
1

Im rambling because i cant make heads or tails of it, so im looking for like minded people (trp) to learn. You didnt really contribute
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:49 PM
1

Thats fair, and i appreciate the honesty. Maybe it stroked my ego a bit. Im not at all concerned about this one girl, but the quality of girl was what i was so, i guess surprised about. Even the other girls in the club, except for the workers, were more or less invisible to me. It felt like were were "locked on" to one another. It was just me and her dancing across the room through a sea of people.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:48 PM
1

Maybe a little uptight. Kind of a "im better then you" vibe
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:25 PM
-1

I was born in jersey in 95 for starters. Was a wee lad. Now im attracting 9s
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:54 PM
2

I guess not. Maybe im coming off a little intimidating
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:42 PM
-1

Like what
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:41 PM
7

Idk man, i think this is all personal preference. The main question u gotta ask yourself is if u still found her attractive. On first meeting a girl i legit throw on some joggers and a tshirt. I dont invest anything in. For me, i love it when i meet a good looking girl with no make up/sweats/hair up. Because if u can vibe with her like that, just imagine how beautiful she will be when shes all done up. To me, if u want a girl all done up all the time on ur arm, youre looking for validation (look…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 01:01 AM
2

Yeah. I have this mindset of, "i dont want to be the only one standing really approaching women" as i dont like being the center of attention
/r/askTRP16/03/17 07:41 PM
2

Very true. I guess i justified it as chasing if i immediately went over there, but its more of "damn ur cute, i need to meet you now" kind of thinf
/r/askTRP16/03/17 07:12 PM
1

Cool
/r/askTRP16/03/17 06:47 PM
1

Quick look and i really like it. How long should i do PHUL before i go to phat
/r/askTRP07/03/17 12:26 AM
2

Make new habits
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:54 AM
0

I would also add shit like keeping tbe place clean, doing chores, and staying off the booze
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:26 PM
-2

Agreed. Its not easy to abandon family for some people. But at mid-late thirties there cant be any babying
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:25 PM
8

If you allow him in your house, which you very clearly dont want, its basically saying that the people who youre "supposed" to care about dont respect your boundaries. You also say your mom is living with a friend. More or less thats tge same situation as your brother. Beibg dependent on someone else to get by. Now dont get me wrong, sometimes people just need help to get on tgeir feet. You meed to look at this outside of the realm of family. Kicking yoyr brotger to the curb may not be the best …
/r/askTRP26/02/17 04:45 PM
1

Cheers
/r/askTRP26/02/17 04:14 PM
2

Enjoy yourself. Ic youre having a good time with yourself, people will feel that and magnetize towards you. Then you have ur pick of the litter
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:19 PM
1

It definitely didn't fit my frame , really good way to word that.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 07:10 PM
1

So is it kind of realizing what I said was being an ass and just own it, instead of apologizing? I've always been told to respect women, and even though I know what they're for, I have a hard time owning it.. As soon as I realized I "fucked up" my first reaction was to apologize
/r/askTRP12/01/17 07:25 AM
1

Find a chick who you can tell doesn't enjoy that environment either. Make small talk, and then tell her to go with you to get out of there, then do whatever u wanna do
/r/askTRP28/12/16 07:28 PM
1

Dude.. yeah.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:59 PM
1

Go out alone
/r/askTRP28/12/16 06:52 PM
2

My bad dude, I didn't even really read ur post and answer the question. Ask her out to coffee and study (not sure how ur campus is but there was a Starbucks in the library for mine) Remember that you're there to study. You say your nervous so I'm going to say something you're not going to like, but you need to understand this. Chances are, you won't be able to sleep with this woman. So, with that in mind, keep this "date" light-hearted and fun, but with studies as the #1 priority. Learn from thi…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:55 AM
2

When i see girls who dress unrevealing, it's actually a huge turn on for me. Hear me out. I frequent a bar on a beach in Florida, amazing vibes, people etc. The girls who I deem worthy of my attention (I approach them) are not the girls in bikinis or skimpy clothing , but in fact the girl who took her time to get dressed up, sweater around the waist, and looking classy AF. The sweater behind the waist is a big deal to me. I like to challenge myself, and when I'm surrounded by girls I make a poin…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:47 AM
1

Keep conversation threads going on first interactions
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:50 PM
1

When you ask this, are you asking it in a sense of her well-being as opposed to the automatic socially conditioned question that people usually ask this?
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:32 PM
1

Does he know you haven't cashed it yet?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:11 PM
1

I have not. By who?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:08 PM
1

If a wingman is the only way around it I'm screwed, any other options? I prefer going out alone
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:00 PM
2

I get why they're doing it. I'm asking how to push through that
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:59 PM
1

Florida women are right. It's the women who are always on vacation. I'm by one if the "most beautiful beaches in the world"
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:13 AM
5

Yo I like that
/r/askTRP03/12/16 05:12 AM
7

Bruh. Great fucking time for a reminder lesson of that law.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:51 AM
1

Agree with you 100℅ brother. I'm in a very amazing place for women (Florida beach vacation spot) so I have plenty of opportunities to implement my game without it interfering with my mission.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:48 AM
1

Word we are on the same page now. My question was to find out what I'm missing from my "alpha" game. I put that in quotes because I understand it's a mindset. Some very good answers here, relatable too if one understands the mindset
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:33 AM
1

Try this man. If a girl gives you a boner it is basically your body saying "I want to mate with her". Next girl to give u a voner, talk to her. Even if she isn't ur " dream girl" she's hot enough to turn u on. Do not ignore ur animalistic nature. It's what betas and 90 % of men do. Instead talk to her like you want to fuck her. She will sense it and get turned on by it if ur game is good. Your game isn't good. Keep doing it. You will probably get shot down first time. Maybe the second you'll get…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:28 AM
1

Women are actually pretty good at picking it up. It's why we have an entire Reddit, multiple books, and YouTube channels teaching men how to be a girl judge as a dominant male. Also why most of us couldn't get laid before learning about it. Your dick doesn't just fall in a dumb woman, it's work (read: game)
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:20 AM
1

Women are actually pretty good at picking it up. It's why we have an entire Reddit, multiple books, and YouTube channels teaching men how to be a girl judge as a dominant male
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:20 AM
2

I know what your talking about thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:18 AM
3

Hell yeah I think I'm in touch with that, thanks man
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:16 AM
3

However u want. Just be prepared for her to say no
/r/askTRP03/12/16 02:00 AM
1

Honestly, you're probably the only one who notices it. I don't mean that as an insult. Own that shit dude. A boner is a body function of hormones telling you that you like what you see/are thinking about. If a girl is into you and u got a boner, she will take it as a compliment. Also, it seems like you don't talk to girls much. One if the reasons for ur boners, specifically the one in question with the girl: You saw her, thought she was beautiful and then started fantasizing about her or whar yo…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 01:51 AM
0

Sure, absolutely. How do you tell the difference literally
/r/askTRP03/12/16 01:47 AM
2

Jawline?
/r/askTRP03/12/16 01:25 AM
1

I'm not sure if you can relate to me, but I know that I study (read, reading body language, study for school) better when I'm surrounded by people. Even when I don't talk to them. Going to the beach or coffee shop or even a restaurant helps me study better. Cause it's be a waste of time/money to go out and not get anything done
/r/askTRP03/12/16 01:14 AM
1

Hold, let alone which buttons to press
/r/askTRP03/12/16 01:09 AM
1

That depends on what your definition of family is. Marriage isn't the same word as family, its important to remember that
/r/askTRP03/12/16 12:59 AM
1

alright then haha
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:08 PM
1

Reading is more then just focusing on the text. When your mind starts to wander when reading, you are creating a movie in your head. With TRP books, hiwever, the "movie" that is shown is your subconscious and past memories. Think of it this way, when you've ever read a fiction book, you could picture people, voices, buildings, scenery, etc. This is the same premise. except it isn't fiction, but your own reality. When your mind starts to wander, keep reading. maybe you'll replay an event that hap…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:15 PM
1

why do you want to be taller
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:09 AM
1

Adding on to what a lot of people are saying and reading your post, the "negatives" that you describe all have to do with you getting out of your comfort zone. You grow as a man when you step outside your zone. Own it
/r/askTRP24/10/16 11:29 PM
1

We as humans tend to overestimate what we could do in a year and underestimate what we could do in a decade. a little quote from Tony robbins. Write down some goals you will be working for, but do not dwell on them. What I mean is work towards the future, but take it a day at a time. always be better then you were the day before. Even if you only hit the gym for 15 minutes or read 3 pages on a day, you are a little bit more knowledgeable or stronger, and you are better then you were yesterday. Y…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 11:03 PM
0

Money isn't my most motivating factor, more of a job security/saturation
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:44 PM
1

Right on I'm with you now. One of the reasons I am contemplating pursuing psychology is because it is such a broad field. I am not expecting THE job I want straight out of college but with such a broad field, wouldn't a psych degree give me an advantage due to the skills and social skills learned to get a decent paying job once I'm out of school?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:09 PM
1

I see what you're saying. However, I actually enjoy reading about how the mind works, especially since I haven't gotten too far into the science part of it yet. Are you basing your stance on more successful based on how much more money is in business/marketing etc., or how much you enjoy the courses/topic at hand? What are you currently doing with your degree?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:47 PM
0

Tbh, I'm 21 who hasn't been in school for the past year due to a basically directionless mentality where I was just spending money. I'm researching everything psychology academically and considering going. back to cc for my AS before transferring to a university. I love reading, and one of the books (What every Body is saying) makes me feel like I do in fact have a step up. especially in face to face meetings.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:33 PM
-1

The broadness is what excites and terrifies me the most. If I had to narrow it down, I'd probably say sales or family therapist
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:02 PM
1

No I was going for the more spiritual aspect, where while yes trp is about gaming women, I see it as a tool to become an all around better man. Women is just the side effect
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:01 PM
1

Smoke a blunt then read a few chapters and watch your mind unfold
/r/askTRP16/10/16 06:32 PM
1

When I shower, I find it relatively nice to start with the water warm, and as soon as you stand under it to lower it to cold. deep breaths and relaxing for a few seconds as it goes from hot to cold really take away that initial shock, and you still reap the benefits. Or you could just suck it up, but I still do the top technique when I'm feeling a little bitch-ish
/r/askTRP08/10/16 01:07 AM
3

Exactly, preaching over and over won't help. Lead by example, and preach ONLY when specifically asked. There's nothing I hate more then unsolicited advice. If your friend is actually coming to you, and in different words saying "help me" by all means, show him the path, but don't lead him the whole way. Best way to do this is just keep doing the same shit you're doing, checking up on him every once in a while, and one of those times, he will become vulnerable and seek advice from someone he sees…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 06:37 PM
1

I see what you're saying. However, sometimes going into these dark places like that could be a good thing. He could do some serious introspection on himself when he's most down, and find what he truly wants. If you gotta stay busy, just do local thibgs. I'm sure there are some sort of events your town/city are throwing, you won't be the only one alone for the holidays, and that's okay, just one of many many more to come.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 06:34 PM
2

Do you really need to do something? Don't take this the wrong way, but don't feel obligated to spend the holidays doing something just to do it. Find out what you truly wanna do, honestly with yourself, and you'll answer your own question.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 05:16 AM
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Don't make it seem like you're telling him what to do and how to do it. Don't let him follow you through the path, but instead give him pushes in the right direction when he steers off course. steering off course a bit is crucial in personal development imo, you need to find out what works and what doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:18 AM
1

Second this, pick up this book and don't put it down
/r/askTRP05/10/16 03:08 AM
2

Sure, I'll give you heoretical examples of 2 different men, and you can determine which man will be of higher caliber (better man) Man #1. 25 years old. Works as a pizza delivery guy. plays video games until 5 in the morning, sleeps in until 2 pm. eats nothing but pizza, soda, junk and frozen dinners. He lives with his parents still in the same house he grew up in. He weighs 230 with about 30 % body fat, hasn't hit the gym since his football injury back in high school. Man #2. 25 years old. owns…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:19 PM
1

We aren't entitled. we earn it. we earn it by doing the things that he mentioned above. You think then the man sitting on the couch and the man he described above are the same caliber of man? Fuck no. earn it, and take what you want from the world
/r/askTRP02/10/16 07:03 PM
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Something to try though, regardless of its "credibility" that op creates. try it out and make your own credibility instead of assuming it won't work from the get go. Too many people want strategies that work but don't actually try it. When I pictured going up to the girl in heat of the group, and then flat out asking her who her friend is I busted out laughing, cause I seriously want to see the look of mixed emotions the girl in red will go through in a split second. can't wait to try this out
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 10:54 PM
1

If she's interested she'll go out. if not she'll reject you. you seem afraid of rejection (I am too, it's a pretty rare thing) however, I've been seeing rejection as an advantage. it happens all the time, so may as well turn it towards something you can use right? if she rejects you, she's just helping you not waste time and gives you the ability to pursue the numerous other women out there.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:57 AM
2

okay. It seems like you need to find a life mission. something that you're always working towards, even indirectly. There are plenty of posts saying how "missing out" on college days is a crock of shit. Look at NYC, Miami, Dubai, or any major "party city". one thing all these places have in common is that it's pretty fucking expensive (i.e. need money for that shit). do you honestly believe college kids aged 18-22 are able to afford that? or successfully driven people 26-40 who are now reaping t…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:51 AM
2

What's your goal in life?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:40 AM
1

25 dude? I'm 21 and feel like a miserable fuck, do u have a shit ton of cash saved up or somehin?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 01:51 AM
1

seems like it's your emotional state in regards to sex then that you want more satisfying and fulfilling. Think of it this way: You can't change your dick size. you can't, it's not going to haopen, so get over that now. You can, however, change your outlook on sex. it seems to me like you need an LTR that you love that wants to follow you around. LTRs are fine, and in fact I prefer them over ONS for the most part, just remember that TRP helps you see that it has an expiration date and to not get…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 03:18 PM
1

What's your problem then... seems like your dick size doesn't matter
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:06 AM
1

LALALALALALA I HAVE A SMALL DICK AND WON'T LISTEN TO A THING ANYONE IN THIS THREAD SAYS. Seriously, people are telling you to own it, because that's all that you'll ever have. Besides, I am 99% sure the girls don't even know you have a small dick, because you're so caught up in your own head, they haven't even had a chance to see it because you are too insecure to make a move. Man the fuck up, small Dicks are small Dicks, as long as u getting wet who gives af
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:25 PM
1

I would just invite her over and escalate... if she rejects you too k7ch, then next.. don't keep following along though if it does that work out
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:21 PM
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What else could he have done though? Actions speak louder then words... I think the man handling and embarrassment was to truly break down the man so he himself could see how much of a pussy he was. Break him down further to his base foundation to start building him back up. after he did that you saw how uncomfortable his wife was with the newfound man that he became. Also, it might be not okay in your book because you weren't as beaten down as the man was, and Tony saw just how much of a drasti…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 10:31 PM
2

I disagree. Much like it is around here, it's a tough love, no Bullshit, no sugar coating advice. The man was as beta as they come... "I want the essence of ourselves to be one"... wtf. Tony only did what the man allowed him to do, to be the bigger alpha and show him how much if a pussy the guy was. Sure, it brought the guy down to his most vulnerable point, but that's the point... That roar afterwards was genuine as fuck
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 07:22 PM
4

He wants the quick solution
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:47 AM
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As awful and fucking horrible the situations that kid went through, with your guidance and knowledge, he will become a God damn fucking animal when he gets older. Nothing will ever be worse then what he went through, and as long as you teach him how to be a true man (which I am confident you will) he will be unstoppable
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:23 AM
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at trp, the tip is to get the fuck over it. it's harsh and blunt, but it's the truth. I guarantee the bacne is seen the most by you. other people would see it and go "hmm okay" and that's the end of it
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:31 PM
5

what are some things you learned from your friends?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:22 AM
16

great comment, it's hard so notice the male hamster sometimes when you've grown up listening to it your whole life
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:15 PM
7

stop approaching girls to get their number. start approaching people to have good human interaction. edit: read your post a bit more. "conversation blah blah. hey I gotta run. but give me your number so I can get to know you better"
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:46 AM
5

why
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:23 AM
3

ya that's pretty fucked. but just ignore and ask a question, you don't need to explain yourself
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:03 AM
6

I'd be looking for another job, while just dismissing what they say. who cares if they disrespect you if you respect yourself. if anyone says shit to you, just agree and amplify, or ignore, whichever you feel more comfortable with. If what they say truly bothers you, you are worried about external validation too much
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:51 AM
1

That's okay. I was exactly in your shoes about 6 months ago. Get mad at yourself all you want for your past mistakes, but you can't change them. all you can do is be better then who you were yesterday
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:45 AM
2

such as?
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:42 AM
1

Can't blame it all on her, a relationship is 2 sided. AWALT my brother, you're seeing it first hand. all women are like this, so don't be mad at them for it. again, embrace it and learn from it
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:36 AM
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that part of you is the bluepill mindset. the pain you will feel by dropping this girl with no contact is the blue pill in you dying, embrace it, and use that anger in the gym and other aspects of your life to better yourself
/r/askTRP29/06/16 05:35 AM
1

thanks for this post, it really resonated with me unlike others that just say aim for outcome independence.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:30 AM
2

you got it all wrong my man. the term "alpha" is reached when you no longer compete against anyone else, but live on your own terms. an alpha doesn't worry about petty crap like this, so why should you? If your coworker is alpha (not enough context to determine) he probably saw the girl, thought "damn she's fine, good shit dude" and never thought of them again
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:44 AM
1

for sure dude. one step at a time
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:41 AM
1

Fair enough. One practice that I have been implementing myself, that I feel you could relate to, is actions speak louder then words. when you said "I don't wanna talk to you" you broke frame a bit. Not only that, you seem like a dick when you bluntly say that, as well as a bit salty (break in frame) instead of SAYING you don't want to talk to her, just don't talk to her. you didn't even see the message. next time you do want to communicate with her, play it off cool as if she never texted you in…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 03:35 AM
2

you're depending on her for your happiness. take a step back and look at the relationship through a window as an outside party
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:21 AM
1

quit being a pussy and follow up. go anywhere and get a job. pizza delivery gas stations. I don't have a degree either and I'm fine. while you are at these jobs to make ends meet, pick up a trade skill that will propel you forward financially. quit making excuses and fucking do jt
/r/askTRP20/06/16 11:28 PM
1

why can't you get a job?
/r/askTRP20/06/16 09:22 PM
1

on top of this, strike up conversations with other people. "I'm new in town" shit like that will make it less "creepy" if you just own it
/r/askTRP19/06/16 02:36 AM
1

deeper questions like what?
/r/askTRP12/06/16 01:49 AM
1

she* is what I meant to say, hope that doesn't (or does) change your understanding. basically, you've given her so much of your time. your time. a man's time. a man's time is valuable. if she isn't sucking you dry with that much attention, she's just using you as an emotional tampon. basically, leave. validation is what you see when women will post a picture on instagram. 200+ likes and a few comments praising her for how beautiful she is. do you think she has sex with these guys who like and co…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 06:18 AM
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yup. you started to hint that you wanted more (alone in swimming pool) and she does that want to lose her free source of validation. forget her. I read 2 sentences, and that's all I need to read to see that you're way to invested. Go to your local mall or shopping Plaza and stand in the middle. look right, then look left. cross this road and go talk to one of those fine ass girls you see and ignore this one. if she texts asking why you haven't talked to her, invite her over to smash, but if she …
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:27 AM
1

she did apologize for her attitude, so I'd text her again. see how sorry she really is, or if it's just a facade
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:09 AM
1

check out the app headspace. it helped me begin meditating. also, you just need more discipline, and only you can do that
/r/askTRP27/05/16 05:52 AM
1

"for some reason" is because you lack discipline
/r/askTRP27/05/16 05:38 AM
1

some would say that's one in the same. to not becoming a zombie who works 60 hour weeks for the rest of their lives
/r/askTRP24/05/16 02:43 AM
2

agree to disagree. you don't act out on emotion, that IS foolish. but to acknowledge your emotions, and to get down to the root cause of it through meditation will help you gain peace of mind, and to get over the emotion
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:43 PM
0

maybe by becoming numb to the emotion. but the numbness will eventually weigh down on the man and breakdown. it's like an anesthetic. you don't feel the brunt of the pain during surgery, but once the numbness wears away it hurts like a bitch
/r/askTRP20/05/16 01:07 AM
1

agreed, we'll put. the biggest critique is yourself
/r/askTRP19/05/16 11:02 PM
4

I agree with him. Suppressing your emotions doesn't deal with them, but hides them. he isn't saying to go and pour your emotions out to someone, but to instead self reflect and really get down to what's bothering him on his own.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:11 PM
3

same situation, holy shit the words in this sentence are amazing
/r/askTRP16/05/16 08:45 PM
3

first one
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:36 AM
5

what I'm saying is you were edgy and rude in that comment. that's probably the exact reason seem put off by you. he isn't talking shit, he is just stating observation. everyone in the thread is saying the same thing, but you're hamstering it away and making excuses. and what would I do? "okay" and disassociate myself from whoever said that.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:31 AM
6

dude...
/r/askTRP08/05/16 12:52 AM
2

for beginning lift program, look into stronglift 5x5. it's super easy to follow and I have seen results so far and am really happy with where I've come from. it even has an app on your phone
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:06 PM
2

you answered your own question bud. if you don't want to contact her, with the exception of anything related to your kid, and tell her.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 10:03 PM
7

No, in fact, bitching has a negative impact on your life, because you sound like a pussy, and probably act like one too, because instead of improving yourself this very moment, you're bitching on reddit
/r/askTRP25/04/16 06:34 PM
1

In my experience, family can hold you back. My dad is unemployed and my mom is a lunch lady at a school, trying to give me advice on what I should do for a career and the rest of my life. You think I trust what they say? Fuck. No. They didn't win the game. In fact, they're pretty fucking low on the high score list. And I've told them that. "No disrespect mom, but you're a lunch lady. I don't need to be taking advice from you when I want to shoot for the stars." It isn't about trust. You don't ne…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 03:29 PM
1

Remember to have fun.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:59 PM
1

You came here for advice and hamster your way out of everything people have said. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:54 PM
0

Are you that insecure to think everyone that looks at her, she'll fuck them? Seriously, if your wife is hot, she's hot. You can't expect other guys not to look at her.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:44 PM
1

Of course, im 5 weeks into stronglift 5x5
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:31 AM
1

That would be it actually. Just decided to cut computer out all together
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:24 AM
1

Just slumped shoulders really.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 02:50 AM
4

What's the worst that happens? Also, fuck facebook.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 02:21 AM
0

As in realize my posture isn't the best it could be? Check. I've been working on it. If I ever catch myself slumping I'll put my shoulders back and lift my chin up. My question is more how to make this a natural feeling over a forced one?
/r/askTRP28/03/16 02:20 AM
2

I'm in the same boat. I was never any good at talking to girls. Last time I went out with my boy, we actually played a little friendly competition to see who could get the most rejects in the night at a club. It added a little light heartedness because it was with my friend, but it helped me just not give a fuck, cause I wanted to win (we bet a bottle). The more rejects = the more approaches you had to do
/r/askTRP28/03/16 02:18 AM
3

Gotta read her body language. She wants to do it for herself, not for validation. If you told her the same thing, would you want a reaction from her or say It matter of factly? Just be supportive. It's okay to support you're girlfriend if they want to better themselves, despite what some of the woman haters here say.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 02:02 AM
2

Why should she wait for a reaction
/r/askTRP28/03/16 01:38 AM
8

Cut her out from your life. It's not easy, and it's gonna hurt like hell, but she cheated on you. Trust your gut with this, cause it's probably right. Mine was, even if I didn't want to believe it. Cry by yourself for a few days, then man up and be the best you
/r/askTRP27/03/16 09:25 PM
1

Hell yeah. I may have to give it a go. Did you start all of yours at once, or did you only take one smartdrug and add more as you got used to the clarity a bit as to not feel overwhelmed?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 06:51 PM
1

Can you tell a noticeable difference? Does it just make things clearer? First time I've heard of smart drugs and I'm interested in it
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:15 PM
2

Check out the app headspace
/r/askTRP13/03/16 10:05 PM
7

Don't plan anything out and do whatever. Go to the beach if you feel like it, run through a forest, go biking. If you plan it out you'll have a bad time, jist try and go with the flow
/r/askTRP08/03/16 04:15 PM
2

"No, add me now" she complies. Sound like a real panty dropper, try harder next time maybe it'll work.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 04:32 PM
2

Shits not gonna happen overnight man. Take your time to mourn (a few days) and get out there and hit the gym. Don't put all of your mourning on someone else, it'll just make you feel like a burden. Deal with it on your own however you like, and then start becoming the best person you can be
/r/askTRP01/02/16 02:44 AM
3

I like it haha. Still new to gaming, wanted to double check if whay I said was okay, and seems it was. Thanks
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:03 AM
3

My reply was: To get married, duh.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 03:59 AM
2

I did. It came 2 hours later after texting her to make plans for tomorrow out of the blue.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 03:55 AM
1

This song spoke to me on so many levels, such a great album.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 08:01 PM
1

Lift again, learn again, stop playing video games. You're looking for people to say that it happens to all of us. It doesn't, you ar. e a bb who thought was alpha but is not. Stop making excuses for yourself and dump your girlfriend, hit the gym, and learn
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:01 PM
2

It just sucks knowing how much time I've wasted when I am becoming enlightened to a new outlook on the world. Fortunately, it is winter break, so I have a month, and hopefully by the time school starts again people will take notice.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 02:17 AM
1

Yeah man, just started lifting daily for the last 3 weeks. Needed a kick in the ass by my now-ex to realize I was a little bitch, but you gotta start somewhere right? And I'm a little pudgy. My friend said I should be eating about 1700-1800 a day (6 meals, 1800 max). Going to the gym everyday with splits, as well as running as much as possible (out of shape, working on it). Should I change anything about this or just keep at it?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 01:29 AM
1

So these programs are suggesting working out only three times a week. I'm assuming it involves close to maximum weight for each set right? Currently I'm doing 5-6 days a week with lower weight/higher reps. Should I stop and look more at the greyskull?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 12:42 AM
3

So how many calories should I be eating a day?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 12:22 AM
2

So I have more of a heavier build. I jist started hitting the gym 3 weeks ago, but I'm trying to lose fat in my stomach area from all the beer I drank and not exercising/eating well. I say this because my muscle mass isn't great since I never really lifted before. I'm 6'0 215 lbs, not much muscle, but don't have shrimp arms either. Should I be bulking or trying to lose my body fat first, then bulk up and eat more?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 10:26 PM
1

Did your sex change between the last 2 replies
/r/askTRP30/11/15 02:02 AM
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Lol we got a psycho bitch over here.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:55 AM
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So you tell her no, no, no, and then cave and do it anyway, correct?
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:48 AM
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Because I want to eat and go to the gym. You're complaining about doing things you don't want to do because the sex is good. Have you even tried saying no and she withholds sex, or do you bitch and moan and do it anyway. Try telling her she's a big girl, and if she stops having sex, then yes she's making you her bitch. Next
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:39 AM
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She asks because you do them. She's a big girl, she can do it herself. She's literally controlling you with sex
/r/askTRP30/11/15 01:33 AM
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Oh I agree with you 100%. I just do have to take this bitch to the dance cause its been planned for 2 weeks, so I will be seeing her and shit. Asking for some inside tips on a fight I know I can't avoid
/r/askTRP19/11/15 03:45 PM
2

Nah college. Took a recent spout of depression and heartbreak to realize I was a bitch and needed to change.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 05:25 AM
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It's all I've been doing while doing chores around the apt. I appreciate the help!
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:33 AM
1

Hell yeah. Honestly it just all clicked for me a hell of a lot more. I'm being too literal, and thats definitely something I need to work on.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:15 AM
1

You caught me, you're actually the first girl ive talked to in weeks.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 01:09 AM
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You're more than welcome to find out for yourself. Edit: That was the first thing that came to mind, in hindsight I think I should've: "No, but you're..."
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:57 AM
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Alright cool. I think that was more what I meant, just couldn't put the words down, still working on that. Thanks for the help!
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:47 AM
1

So the point isn't to actually get them to do it, but to poke fun at them, more or less. So you're not acknowledging her comment of "I'm hot..." and instead basically returning with a shit test of your own.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:51 PM
1

In his particular tailgate there was hot dogs and burgers. would something like: When you're done grabbing the beer if you could get me a burger too* thatd be great. Work?
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:36 PM
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I definitely didn't amplify, thats for damn sure
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:27 PM
1

This is great! I'll going to try something like this next time
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:27 PM
1

I didn't amplify the shit test that she threw me. That macho line is the kind of confidence I'm looking for, but I'm not quite there yet, and I know that. Thanks for the reply, I had a good chuckle at all of these and saw how "that is true" was definitely the wrong response.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:26 PM
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