Long story short. HB8 third date and I didn't make a move (working on kino and escalation), asked for a fourth date and she said (texted) Guy she met on holiday made contact but she said she "dosent really know".
I replied "okay". She said she now feels like a bitch.

Could it be she is conflicted in choosing one or the other, or simply she feels like shit for rejection? I'm thinking the latter.

It doesn't seem like a shit test. So next?