So, all went to shit.

Olongapo · 2016-10-24T18:28:02+00:00

It's fucked up now.....

1) Be present for your father. He may be frightened now and really needs to know that his son will not only survive, but thrive. 2) Stupid jobs are always there. Not to fucking worry. 3) There are so many women out there. Let her go gracefully. No drama. No scenes. 4) Take your training to a new level if you haven't already. Add cardio and core.

Stay engaged with your family. This too, shall pass.

Stay engaged with the RP forum. We've all been there.

machimus · 2016-10-24T18:28:39+00:00

So here's a thing about life coming from a more experienced guy. You'll go through times where life will just kick you in the balls, it sucks. You never see that part on your friends instagram, but it happens to everyone. Take a knee for a minute, and as soon as you can just get back on the horse. Study hard for the next exam, go see your dad. Nothing is fucked, dude.

obama_loves_nsa · 2016-10-24T20:10:01+00:00

Fix your grades at school. Graduate. Get a job that pays a lot of money. Fuck hundreds of girls because you lifted and got a high-paying job.

zenRP · 2016-10-24T20:51:05+00:00

Get ahold of your fucking emotions, you control them not the other way around. Drop the bitch, lift the pain away.

EnterTheNarrative · 2016-10-24T19:29:14+00:00

Step 1. Fuck her. Nothing personal, she'll be out of your life, start preparing for being out of hers.

Step 2. Be a fucking rock for your father. He doesn't need sympathy, he needs to make sure you'll cover for him.

Step 3. Keep lifting.

Steo 4. You'll still be heartbroken by losing your LTR, replace her. It sounds psychopathic, but the quickest way to deal with loss of meaning (loss of relationship, loss of people, loss of job, etc...) is to supplement other meaning where the previous meaning left that hole in your soul. Fill it up, doesn't matter with what or with who or for how long, just understand you have complere control over that lizard part of your brain that hurts.

abc69 · 2016-10-24T18:55:54+00:00

Let that woman go, she won't occupy nor take any of your thoughts, time, money, and energy anymore. Stay close to your dad, and spend time with him, university will always be there for when you want to retake a class, he won't.

When one door closes, 10 more are open. Stay focused.

dr_pavel_im_cia_ · 2016-10-24T20:06:58+00:00

why do you need to do 3 years of uni again for failing one test?

NexusReflexX · 2016-10-24T23:03:50+00:00

We as humans tend to overestimate what we could do in a year and underestimate what we could do in a decade. a little quote from Tony robbins.

Write down some goals you will be working for, but do not dwell on them.

What I mean is work towards the future, but take it a day at a time. always be better then you were the day before. Even if you only hit the gym for 15 minutes or read 3 pages on a day, you are a little bit more knowledgeable or stronger, and you are better then you were yesterday.

You seem a little down, as well as angry. It's okay to be angry or depressed/upset, it's a natural human emotion. Don't let that depressive thought if "fuck this I'll stay here forever, may as well eat cheetos and play video games" take iver, and instead use that angry emotion.

"Fuck this, I'm taking back control one day at a time"

Live by that for a year, and once this day next year comes around, you can look back and laugh and celebrate how far you've come

1Maverick1 · 2016-10-24T23:58:52+00:00

That's great to hear man! Glad you recognize things are terrible. How are you going to get outta this?

Osoto_Gari · 2016-10-25T08:54:56+00:00

Your LTR is over. Keep banging her but at the very least move on in your own head.

Stick by your old man. He'll need his sons support, even if he doesn't express it. Even if he doesn't need your support you need to give it.

Keep lifting. Never stop because one skipped session turns to a weeks missed lifts then before you know it you've lost ALL your gains and your a fat c*nt.

Uni? Thought about doing a trade? Shit loads better unless Uni is your thing

Drop_the_Dead_Donkey · 2016-10-26T03:49:46+00:00

"A calm sea does not make a skilled sailor"

Title	So, all went to shit.
Author	itsjustshit
Upvotes	11
Comments	28
Date	October 24, 2016 6:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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