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RANTpineapplequeeen/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:29 PM
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Yeah I went back to engineering school and around his friends he would act so proud of me but when we were alone he would intentionally stays fights w me before exams, would question if I could really do it (I have one year left. So yeah I can lol), he would accuse me of sleeping with guys from school? He would say the field of engineering I’m going into isn’t the best and I should do software, etc. he tore me down constantly. When we met I was “just a waitress” but once I went back to school ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:28 AM
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I got the grocery store flowers too. They were the cheapest ones like good bye lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:35 PM
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My ex got me the cheapest flowers from the grocery store and no card and for Christmas he claimed that he got me a Nintendo switch and that “it was on back order” then bought me a ticket to Panama with his guy friends when covid started so quarantine was super strict. Aka he didn’t order my gift and lied about it and then got me a ticket to his boys trip to make me feel special. I bought myself a switch and he “cancelled” the trip because I was so ungrateful. I can’t with these LVM’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:34 PM
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Thank you! And very true, I definitely don’t have that “what if I’m missing out” feeling anymore. But I’ve learned from it and will run at the first red flag now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:32 PM
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This is sooooooo true. I seriously was starting to look ill. My heart was always racing, I was always tense, I was having the craziest symptoms and once I blocked him I could finally sleep peacefully but I have TMJ now from grinding my teeth. Also, when I’m single I don’t drink often but with him I was binge drinking and partaking in drugs because it was the only way we could get along. I’m really glad to be free and finally start taking care of myself. Also, wishing you strength and courage thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:44 PM
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It absolutely gets worse. I went back to mine way more times than I’d like to admit but I will never do that again. I finally blocked him for good. But he got worse and worse. He got meaner. He was more judgmental. He got lazier. There is really no fixing one and it is a complete waste of your time. I am traumatized while he will just keep collecting new victims and supply. Also with narcs, they will NEVER be satisfied with anything in life. Most of them cheat, most of them lie for their own ben…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:39 PM
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I went back several times unfortunately. He was very manipulative and emotionally abusive. He just got worse and worse and just last week I finally said “I’m done with you” over text because I knew he would try to manipulate me. I finally got the courage to block and delete forever. It got to the point where I wanted nothing to do with him because I realized he’s just a mean and miserable person. They never change and I’ve accepted he will do this to every woman he dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:34 PM
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Yep. I find it really manipulative and a precursor to them being violent towards us. It’s very scary. I’m glad to hear you are no longer with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:56 PM
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Luckily I left before it turned into full blown physical abuse but the patterns I’ve noticed... -first argument, they may be calm and receptive to you. -second argument, the mask begins to slip, they may throw in some digs at you then apologize. -third argument, they may just insult you and yell and shout...then apologize.. -fourth argument, they will combine what they did in argument three and break things (slam hands on a table, slam door, break a plate,etc) -fifth argument, they may begin hit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:45 AM
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Yep. My ex always said things like “I don’t want to see your DM’s I bet there are so many guys in there” “stop posting selfies” “who are you getting ready for?” “Are you seeing other people” turns out he’s in every girls DM’s, liking every girls pics and taking to women behind my back. It’s typically projection and I was not about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:28 PM
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Yeah one time I drove to his place from the mall and I missed the turn so I took a different route and he was standing outside and so I took like five minutes longer and he accused me of hanging out with another guy. Who am I going to sleep with in five minutes? I was defending myself and it turned into a whole fight. Never again lol. I’ve since left and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:26 PM
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Yeah after my ex wasn’t in my life for months, he decided to tell me he misses me and bother me during my finals week. I told him to fuck off because when I asked why he called he said “I just wanted to talk”. He knew I had finals and wanted to intentionally stress me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:58 PM
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Same at my work. I’m a waitress and it’s ALWAYS the old gremlin potato head lookin dudes that comment on my looks “you should add some more weight” “I liked you when you were heavier” “you should spray tan” blah blah blah and I always say “I didn’t know I asked for your judgement on my body but anyway what do you want to drink” loser energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:28 PM
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It’s weird because my ex loves cats but he would always pick her up when she didn’t want to be picked up, she would meow and sounded annoyed and I would say “put her down she doesn’t like it” and he would say “she likes it, it’s fine” and it just weirded me out because it’s clear that he doesn’t understand boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:41 AM
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I just messaged her on Instagram so we will she if she even replies. But I have a feeling that she went through the same thing I did:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:57 AM
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Needed this. Currently struggling with this situation and now he’s bread crumbing me. Nahhhh I need to be done and get my head right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:09 AM
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Not really creepy but ex started crying about he had to sacrifice a girl to move out here and I was like uhhh am I supposed to comfort you?! Like what the fuck?😂😂 I was so turned off and to this day I wish I ended it right then and there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:07 AM
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lol my ex when he dumped me and begged for me back and I tried but then I resented him so much for what he did that he said I hated him and then dumped me because he was the victim now. Good riddance boiiii.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:16 PM
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My ex literally called me bugs bunny once. I had braces for four years and my two front teeth are a bit larger. His grill was busted and yet he was making fun of me. He was so insecure and I’m sure the guy she was out with is also extremely INSECURE. She is beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:42 AM
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My ex would break things when he was angry which made me very uncomfortable and I would ask him to stop and he would not. One night we got in a fight and he started hitting HIMSELF in the head. It really freaked me out. He was really aggressive with other people and always wanted to fight. His aggressions then turned towards me. It started with him verbally yelling at me, next he was screaming at me and calling me names, next he smashed a drink out of my hand, I knew I was next. He never hit me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:14 AM
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Yeaaaah this JUST happened to me. I left my man and he came back crying and begging and my dumbass took him back. SURPRISE!!! He went back to his old ways within a month and then tried to dump me with the “I don’t know if this working” and I said “I give up at this point. You’ll never change and don’t ever come back in my life. Stay out of it forever now because I don’t give third chances” and I’m sure in another few weeks he will circle back again. Gotta stay out for good now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:30 AM
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Yeaaaah this JUST happened to me. I left my man and he came back crying and begging and my dumbass took him back. SURPRISE!!! He went back to his old ways within a month and then tried to dump me with the “I don’t know if this working” and I said “I give up at this point. You’ll never change and don’t ever come back in my life. Stay out of it forever now because I don’t give third chances” and I’m sure in another few weeks he will circle back again. Gotta stay out for good now. Never go back lad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:30 AM
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This is amazing😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:04 AM
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This is spot on. I’ve adjusted to his absence and it feels so good going to bed knowing I don’t have to worry about what girls he trying to get with behind my back. It’s like a weight lifted off your shoulders. The man OP is talking about is not it. She deserves so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:09 AM
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My ex always did this. He would walk five feet in front of me and when I said anything he would say “well walk faster”. One time he was walking so fast in front of me and had the audacity to turn around and say “wow are you embarrassed to be seen with me or something? Why are you like ten feet behind me?” Dude....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:38 AM
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They always try to come back...like boy stay in my past where you belong!! Proud of you being able to see that and not fall for that BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:32 AM
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Toasting to you with my green tea🍵 cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:45 AM
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Thank you all for all the support and wonderful comments❤️ it just makes me feel like I really made the right decision and I’m so happy to be a part of this incredible subreddit. You all are wonderful and beautiful and we all deserve the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:38 AM
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I will absolutely have a marg for you✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:20 AM
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Thank you so so much❤️ it was hard but had to be done. So glad I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:20 AM
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I could immediately recognize it was manipulation. It was pathetic honestly hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:30 AM
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Thank you so much❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:29 AM
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Thank you❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:29 AM
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