My boyfriend and I were together for a year. I caught him liking half naked photos of girls he used to sleep with on Instagram and I got called insecure. He said he didn’t have Snapchat and I caught him snapping girls behind my back in the same room as me when he didn’t think I was looking. He would tell me to shut up when he was angry. He told I dressed like a slut. And then he told me he was miserable with me and I always make him out to be the asshole so he asked for some space and when I asked if we would be together during the space and he said “I don’t know it’s not working”.

I went home and when I woke up I thought, fuck this. I don’t need a LVM like this. He didn’t get me a gift for Christmas, Valentine’s or anniversary. And then called me ungrateful for being upset about it. I woke up and went to his place and told him since he can’t make a decision I’ll make it for him and said we are done and grabbed my things and left.

I went out and grabbed drinks with my girlfriends to celebrate and he texted me saying “wow I haven’t been able to eat or sleep for days and you’re having fun without me. You never cared about me”. He kicked me to the curb and got mad when I didn’t let him have that control over me anymore. I made the choice to block his friends, his number and him on insta. He begged me to not block him because it’s “cold and awful”. And I did it.

I’m so proud of myself. I look back and realize how awful he was to me. My skin already looks better, I literally look healthier. Ive been working out again, my grades are already getting better and I’m making more money because he’s not pestering me to leave work early anymore.

This sub has made me realize that we do NOT need to put up with that BS and we are so much better. For now I’m just working on myself but I’m so so so excited for what the future has in store with me and I’m going to be vetting like crazy when I start dating again. Time to LEVEL UP. I’m so happy to be a part of this sub. He always shit on me for being feminist and fuck that I’m proud of being one. Love all you ladies and this page has given me a lot of insight and strength.