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1

Yeah. The fact he got angry at you expressing a pretty simple boundary speaks volumes.
/r/askFDS13/03/21 10:53 PM
4

How is "I want to be inside of you" a joke?
/r/askFDS12/03/21 06:02 PM
26

Agreed. Better to develop strong bonds with good women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:44 AM
65

Women aren't people! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:33 PM
1

You have no idea how low pickmes can go. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:30 PM
1

Then he'll leave her for a mistress. What a waste of a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:29 PM
4

Kings hate controversies More like "scrotes." Too fucking bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:26 PM
4

Yet she isn't getting paid for said job. Why get married again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:24 PM
6

Oh, that's brilliant. I'm using this one men who play dumb from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:21 PM
10

I never wear a bra and I have C's. Sometimes I forget this is something people judge me for. Not my problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:22 PM
3

Doubtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:15 PM
9

My god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:00 PM
19

Oooh, I'd be interested in a pocket sized flamethrower...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:48 PM
10

Oh, it's dangerous. If only it was just cringe and didn't have real negative consequences for women (and men, honestly. Not that I care..).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:46 PM
15

And likely not getting off... lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:49 PM
20

Brutes, huh? How am I not surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:04 AM
2

Radical feminism is anti porn and prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:01 PM
2

Ok, Ed. Yikes. Also, how could he not see how a woman would react to that? Disturbed and stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:48 PM
1

That wasn't her point. Ogling someone and ignoring can BOTH be disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:42 PM
24

For some reason...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:03 PM
7

I have given men the benefit of the doubt due to my empathetic nature. I am not trying to demonize empathy. Empathy is beautiful and extremely important. But you can't be empathetic with someone who is abusing you. And it's definitely a boundary issue, as well. It doesn't have to be either/or. Men take advantage of our forgiving natures, bottom line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:23 PM
30

Sexism is rampant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:32 PM
36

Same for me. Had to see what the fuss was about. So glad I did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:31 PM
16

You assume that a relationship with a scrote includes emotional support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:37 PM
72

Mine told me that men and women think the same way. What a hindrance. Pickmes make horrible moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:54 PM
41

That's what they want women to think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:23 PM
116

For men, it's not a mistake. They whine about how unfair marriage is, but divorce is cheaper than years of hiring a daily cook, maid, therapist, nanny, personal assistant and prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:22 PM
82

I love that analogy. If a man is not fit for the job, FIRE HIM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:19 PM
97

I've seen the "I didn't hear you" and "I forgot you said you didn't like that" so many times on one of the relationship subs after a guy has raped a woman he is with (they don't say rape, but it is). They think women are so stupid but it's empathy and charity that cause women to give men the benefit of the doubt over and over again at their own expense. Just wretched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:17 PM
12

Money and men's interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:05 PM
13

Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:05 PM
33

Ugh, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:24 PM
8

You think a female Petty Officer of the Navy grabbed a strange man's crotch told him she was going to show him a good time on stage in front of the man's wife and her chain of command? There is no way on hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:00 PM
7

This is ridiculous. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:51 PM
108

Porn teaches men and women that violent, abusive sex is normal and acceptable. If the porn wasn't there, at least some men would feel guilty about these thoughts. Also I know there are some men who think violent porn is disgusting. Maybe if they had started watching it from age 8, like boys do nowadays, they would think it was perfectly acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:48 PM
2

We need more women this angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:30 PM
6

I'm sorry but that's just wrong. Women are brainwashed by society to show off their bodies and be as sexy as possible. Women and girls are told their only worth is determined by how hard they can get men's dicks. I am not saying all women get up every day and dress for men (and I hope women here do not), but there are certainly many women who do. They are a product of a culture that says women are objects for men. I just caught my daughter yesterday watching a youtube video made for kids about h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:18 PM
1

Unfortunately it has been a long journey and will probably be lifelong, honestly, but payoff is worth the work. I get a little better every year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:05 PM
1

This was great and I laughed a lot. Especially at "curious" and "goal oriented." 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:42 PM
5

At least he has revealed himself as block and delete material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:30 PM
7

You don't have to shave your legs either! It's very freeing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:29 PM
5

My ex's brother called him up on the day his daughter was born asking him to go to the strip club to "celebrate." His wife in the hospital with a new baby she just pushed out and him using it as an excuse to go ogle and pay women to grind on his nasty body. Nobody understood why I hated that loser. His wife knows about his activities and consents. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:37 PM
6

It's how most men function.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:43 AM
31

Thank god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:59 AM
2

Awe, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:00 PM
11

I had the same childhood. I dreaded my dad coming home from work every day. I hated weekends. I developed an anxiety disorder over it . I'm so sorry this is your life right now but you will come out the other side. You are not the only one to go through this. Please know that you deserve love and proper care. None of this is your fault. None of it reflects poorly on you. Don't believe him when he makes you feel bad about yourself. He is the problem, not you. When you get out, you do not have to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:48 PM
1

❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:45 PM
25

Besides the flags, it doesn't even seem like you LIKE him. What's the point?
/r/askFDS26/02/21 10:25 PM
17

Nice! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:46 PM
36

Who doesn't love a neck beard? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:43 PM
153

They always try to turn it to be some kind of defect of their partner. "She needs to give me freedom!" I'm all for partners giving each other freedom, but if your partner chooses to use their freedom to stay at an exes house all night, he's showing he doesn't care about you. Block and delete. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:42 PM
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He's either cheating, trying to cheat, or doesn't want people to know he's with you because he thinks you make him look bad for some reason. Most likely it's one of the first two reasons, but in any case, he's going to end up causing you pain so you might as well nip it in the bud.
/r/askFDS26/02/21 09:24 PM
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Him: Nice hair, is it real..? Me: No, it's fake! Isn't it beautiful!? (The neg didn't even register, I'm just flattered! 😁 Frustrating because it didn't have the intended effect.) Him: Hey, you're nearly as tall as me! Me: I know... I kinda prefer men who aren't as short as you, to be honest... Him: You had a hard childhood, didn't you? Me: Yeah, it taught me how to spot manipulators. Tilt head and give him a pointed look. Him: Are you wearing sweatpants? You must have given up. Me: Yeah, there …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:01 PM
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Good point. I can't remember ever hearing someone blame a man or boy for being raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:42 PM
66

We need to start calling out these simps for other men. 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:25 PM
9

The message is getting so old at this point. It's nice not to believe it anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:03 PM
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I don't think I could resist negging back in a totally innocent seeming way before ghosting to be honest. Him: "You have man hands." Me: "Omg, that's so funny! I didn't want to be rude, but I was already thinking how delicate yours look! Maybe we should switch! LOL!" I feel like he would be questioning his hands for the rest of the week which would be such a deserved punishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:58 PM
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Love it so much except for the use of "females."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:34 PM
57

Hey, it's my ex! 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:02 PM
93

They think their worth comes from how hard they can get a man's dick. It's cultural brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:47 AM
142

Also may use "soyboy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:00 AM
64

Wtf. Please report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:45 PM
4

Did I say it should be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:11 PM
25

He's looking for his next child bride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:02 PM
7

Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:55 PM
15

Why would anyone want to be a bimbo? Is the stupid look considered empowering for women too, now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:34 PM
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It shouldn't be illegal for women to sell their bodies but it should be illegal for men to pay women for sex. Also society needs to shame MEN hard and stop shaming women involved in any of these activities. NO MORE EXCUSES FOR PERVY MEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:27 PM
4

We need yo be louder and plant seeds everywhere we go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:22 PM
21

Liberal feminism is a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:21 PM
12

I love that response so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:17 PM
5

Rape has always existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:10 PM
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Rehearse in your head what you would do if it happened again (I mean, clearly the race comment was an immediate block and delete) but every step of the way. The more you envision yourself doing the best for yourself, the easier it will be next time. And you learned something from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:51 PM
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Glad you got out of there. That kind of thing makes my blood boil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:46 PM
3

I think we all know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:43 PM
8

I wonder who funded the studies? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:27 AM
18

That was embarrassing. How do you have sex with someone without even knowing their anatomy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:21 AM
18

I feel like he represents most guys, based on my pickme wild days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:17 AM
14

She is badass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:57 AM
1

I am saying movies like Beauty and the Beast encourage girls to overlook abusive behavior because "he's really a good person on the inside and can change by the power of love." It's an extremely common lie movies and television try to sell to girls and women. And, yes, there are women who see a broken man and think "oh it's so sad, I can help." Just yesterday a relative of mine was saying she wanted to help a drug addict who put nails in her car tires because "he's so nice when he's not using." …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:48 AM
1

You think little girls seeing a seemingly smart character in a kid's movie like Belle end up with men who were abusive to them is healthy? The beast "changed"? Who overcomes abusive tendencies overnight? And if it wasn't being with her that supposedly changed him, please enlighten me what it was that did change him. And how come in these Disney movies it's never the man who gets with a beastly, abusive woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:20 AM
2

Looking young isn't everything. It's shallow and fleeting. At this point NOT working out is him winning. If you work out it has nothing to do with him, it's for you.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 04:32 AM
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Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:29 AM
32

I'd kick my dad in the balls for free (he was abusive). 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:25 AM
16

People who get married (especially women) have been shown to be less happy. People are happier when they have lots of friends. If happiness is your goal, work more on friendships. They don't require you to look a certain way, either.
/r/askFDS25/02/21 04:08 AM
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Honestly at that point if Sally shows her boobs, it's more likely she is seeking validation as the patriarchy tells women their only value is their sexual desirability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:27 AM
7

Oh god. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:12 AM
116

It appears that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:55 PM
11

I ditched instagram. I just couldn't find a benefit to being on there. Especially with their super invasive TOS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:35 PM
30

So tired of these ads. If I can, I report them. On reddit, I report them as promoting hate (it promotes viewing women as objects). I don't get those kind of ads on reddit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:30 PM
26

Duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:20 PM
213

Porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:13 PM
21

Yes. It encourages women and girls to put their guard down around men when the truth is most men are predators. It allows society to judge and punish women for not behaving the same way as men in a system created by and for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:44 PM
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My mother taught me "women and men are the same." I believed her for way too long despite so much evidence to the contrary. I think a lot of women and girls WANT to believe it because how else do we justify relationships with men? The truth is too horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:39 PM
1

How are 5 yr olds supposed to know what parts to take away? They don't. They see a woman getting with a monster and changing him (or him magically changing, depending on your interpretation). Do you think that has no effect on their fragile minds, especially knowing that grown women get with guys they want to "save" all the time (been there myself, I think a lot of us have)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:53 PM
63

You know what to do. He doesn't respect you or women in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:33 PM
28

She already did that. It's time to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:32 PM
14

Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:31 PM
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I mean, libfems certainly seem to love the patriarchy. They have been culturally brainwashed to work on men's behalf and calling it feminism. (I didn't read the article just the title, so if I'm missing anything, my bad. Just don't feel like reading garbage right now.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:24 PM
5

Yes! It is true freedom (and it feels powerful!) as a woman to be able to look however you want and not care at all what people think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:49 PM
1

Awe, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:41 PM
3

I won't argue about the stockholm syndrom since you are convinced it's not that. But you're saying the message of Beauty and the Beast (abusive monster can turn into the man of your dreams) aligns with FDS? You think that story is a positive message for young girls who know nothing about adult relationships?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:40 PM
49

It sounds like the "coons" comment was one of those loud things he likes to say to piss people off. You went out with someone who trolls people in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:50 AM
6

Hear, hear! Disney is pickme brainwashing at it's finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:42 AM
6

What Beauty and the Beast depicts is called Stockholm Syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:41 AM
2

🤣 I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:39 AM
13

Ariel changed her entire life to be with a man she didn't know. She gave up her entire family and best friend (Flounder). She gave up her voice which was depicted as her greatest attribute all to chase a man. If that's not a pickme, IDK what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:37 AM
18

And if he has made a move, he's a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:02 AM
14

I had low expectations (tired of hearing men's opinions) but that was good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:06 PM
15

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:36 PM
14

Oh, they won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:28 PM
1

What. Edit. If it's not clear, my "what" is in response to that video. Speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:41 PM
4

Also a lot of men start showing their true colors once they get their wives pregnant and she stops working- the most vulnerable time for a woman and a hard time to leave. It's despicable. Outside lf FDS, girls are not really being taught what to watch out for or how dangerous seemingly sweet men can become in relationships. I will never understand the women who laugh about it online once they are in that situation, though. Laughing feels better than crying, I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:38 PM
4

Rapists and child molesters should not be released back into society. Those crimes are too serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:18 PM
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Child molesters should be locked up forever. It's crazy they let them back into society at all. We wouldn’t need them on the registry if they weren't allowed back into society in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:17 PM
2

I am so glad you found this sub! On to a better life!! 💃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:10 PM
14

But you don't get how INCREDIBLY HARD he gets! OMG!!!!! You don't understand love if you haven't ejaculated twice in a 20 minute window!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:05 PM
19

Spot on. The whole connection is about his dick. This is why men think they have "relationships" with anime body pillows and silicone dolls. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:58 PM
5

I love florals and dresses but they do not fit me as a person. If they fit you, that's great! They're beautiful! Rock it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:58 AM
14

Not in line with FDS. He doesn't deserve an explanation and he would have just defended himself anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:39 PM
4

Nothing good is going to come out of it. Just move on and stop wasting both or your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:20 AM
9

They lost some priveledge. They are still very priveledged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:59 PM
2

I threw my faith away when I realized I was more moral than the god of the bible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:42 AM
42

She'd probably be tracked down and attacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:10 AM
20

I can't imagine going after this when I was a pickme with ridiculously low self esteem, but maybe some out there do? Just gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:10 AM
1

Glad I could help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:15 PM
13

It's not worth going to court to save your kids or even get to have a relationship with your own kids? If you can't care about your own babies, you can't care about anyone but yourself. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:03 PM
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I bet "simp" and "karen" are allowed, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:01 PM
24

Yeah, 17 rapes, many by the "likeable" characters. All beautiful women who get raped. It's clearly all for male titillation. Not to mention all the nudity clearly just for the male audience. It feels like porn half the time and torture porn the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:57 PM
4

I love that emoji so much more than the hands clapping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:31 PM
7

100%. It certainly explains the entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:24 PM
104

It's because women aren't people to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:33 PM
3

I also notice that most people (out and about, family are always more vocal!) are too chicken to say anything which is great for us. In the end, it's really just leg hair. 😏 I've never had anyone say a thing, just gotten a few glances. I also go braless with fairly large, lower hanging breasts. If people have a problem with it, it's their hang up, not mine. I like feeling comfortable in my own skin and not like a ball of insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 05:05 AM
20

We need to start arming ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:59 AM
16

It means his brain is fried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:34 AM
4

Check out the Eroscillator for clitoral stimulation. It's amazing! I also recommend Vixen Creations Vixskin line. Tantus has some good ones (Vamp, Goliath, Cush 02, Splash/Magma, not sure what they have anymore, I haven't shopped there for a while). And I admit I love some Bad Dragon toys because some of the shapes are just amazing feeling (if you tire of the plain dick shaped dildos or just want something that doesn't look as real) but the company is kinda shady unfortunately (some customer ser…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:17 AM
11

Well he's dead now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:15 PM
12

I never shave my legs and wear shorts in public in the summer. It's ACTUALLY empowering!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:45 PM
9

Oh they are. Been in and was a military spouse after that. They are nasty and they encourage each other's depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:43 PM
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I know many will disagree, but I am anti-makeup. To me, makeup is about the patriarchy, about turning women into sex toys and clowns for men to look down on even more as we grovel for their attention.. Lots of women say it's "empowering" and "they do it for themselves" but what else have I heard that about... It has NOTHING to do with a woman's worth. We don't expect men to cover their pores with foundation and redden their lips. It's just another tool to put us down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:39 PM
7

Well you can't blame this on MEN! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:16 PM
93

He probably got told to be more discreet or some bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:01 AM
27

This guy is probably on one of the sad and alone type subs asking how he doesn't have a gf and crying about the world being unfair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:30 AM
94

On one of the popular posts a while back that asked "what would you do if everyone froze in place for a day except for you", loads of guys were saying they would rape women, look under women's clothes, etc. I tried reporting their comments but I don't think Reddit did jack about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:56 PM
34

I feel like they would take this as a compliment. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:45 PM
38

I personally think women like this know deep down (that he doesn't care) , they just don't want to acknowledge it because then they have to DO something about it beyond the whole communication thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:22 PM
64

It's a waste of money to make someone (you say) you love feel good?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:05 PM
6

"Close your mouth, sweetie, you look like a trout."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:00 PM
12

Better to be alone than with a guy who supports the porn industry and masturbates to endless droves of other women. I want to be with someone who respects women and respects me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:53 PM
13

It's definitely getting worse. Part of the reason it's getting worse is that there is very little pushback from women. Instead women keep lowering their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:42 PM
13

I know men who don't watch porn are rare. That just doesn't induce me to settle for a guy who watches it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:33 PM
19

If you come across anything? If he watches porn at all, he's a NVM in my estimation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:53 PM
21

It's owned by men, so not surprising, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:48 PM
3

Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:42 PM
19

Well I'M gagging...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:42 AM
22

I have girls and worry every day about their future with climate change, the rampant sexist culture they will be exposed to, and the men they will encounter one day who will have grown up on hard core pornography. I wouldn't recommend having kids, honestly. They are amazing, wonderful, and beautiful but that's why it's so heart wrenching. I regret inflicting my girls with this existence. Just wanted to put out my perspective on this. I know it's pretty unpopular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:40 PM
2

Sometimes the gullibility of pickmes is just as annoying to me as the manipulation of the men influencing them. I just want to shake them out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:34 PM
1

She's not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:31 PM
17

What they claim and what is true are often very different things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:13 PM
49

This comment makes me happy. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:48 AM
9

He'd probably be like "Nice pull, is she open to a threesome?" Yeah, I'm a little jaded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:39 AM
181

Do they ever shut up? I need a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:42 PM
182

Hey men, would you let your gf stomp on your balls for 1 billion dollars? It'S so FunNy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:11 PM
147

"Artist." Those tattoos are janky af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:54 PM
20

Great point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:17 PM
56

If that's his idea of beautiful, I'd hate to see what he thinks is ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:15 PM
26

I just think it's an empathy deficit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:04 PM
18

Maybe 2. I would be unsurprised at this point, to find out they were hiding bodies in a closet or something, though. Men are amazing fakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:30 PM
85

I wish every girl and woman could hear this. Men love blaming women for being with crappy men when it's clearly a MAN problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:26 PM
11

I would argue the guy who cheated was not decent. Also could have given you an STI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:09 AM
23

What. The. Fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:02 AM
3

Thank you. Love to you as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:49 AM
13

Oh men recognize the value. That's why they are always trying to control it. But young women do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:24 PM
5

Feminism has been watered down to nothing to appease men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:23 PM
2

I think it's both. I mean, men go to prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:22 PM
48

And then men complain marriage is unfair for them. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:58 PM
297

It's more about the fact that you made money and progressed in your career while your wife raised your kids and will now have to start from total scratch as an older woman even though she was just as busy- excuse me, BUSIER- supporting you and taking care of everything and everyone in the house the entire time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:19 PM
8

Men step on women to lift themselves up. Nothing new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:16 PM
47

And report when necessary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:22 PM
55

I was the one who had sex with hoards of men. (If you want to know why, I grew up very repressed and unloved, I looked for love and escape through many vices, including random hookups.) I can't think of one guy who was really worth it. In fact, sometimes during the act or directly afterward I would have regrets when I realized what a loser I was with. Now I just wish I didn't let any of those nasty scrotes touch my body. It was about connecting with someone for me (however desperately). For most…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:08 PM
1

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:12 PM
4

Not sure why I am being downvoted. Nothing changes until strong women stand up and refuse to be walked over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:52 PM
28

Reminds me of when my ex said I gave him PTSD from questioning him when I found out he had been cheating for 7 years. He kept asking me why I was putting him through so much pain- the pain of answering my questions about what he had done behind my back while I was raising his kids! Later when I said I was the one who may have PTSD, he shrugged it off. If anything every made me want to fly into a blind rage...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:27 PM
2

It would be taken down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:16 PM
2

Ooh, that quote is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:11 PM
2

Are you afraid you will be harmed physically if you do not shave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:07 PM
6

You can refuse. Guys aren't as picky as they claim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:34 PM
26

Attractive guys aren't bitter because women don't reject them as much. Both unattractive and attractive guys feel entitled to women's bodies, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:32 PM
5

Don't give them what they want. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:01 PM
10

Yes! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:54 PM
5

The problem is that finding a guy who is good in bed is like finding a needle in a haystack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:13 PM
11

I'm guessing you don't anymore but I still have to say it: never fake for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:09 PM
3

I downvoted instinctively. Had to change yo an upvote somewhat begrudgingly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 11:04 PM
214

Lying to his parents. I convinced myself he wouldn't lie to me. 7 years of lies later... the dam that broke.... Also his lack of discipline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:35 AM
7

Would you be okay if it was your partner farting up a storm and you having to smell it? If you sleep in the same bed, it's not your room anymore, it's both of your room... of course, some people prefer to have separate bedrooms due to these type of issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:37 PM
41

It may have been the same room. He was more specific. Either way, it's the hypocrisy that gets me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:09 PM
40

Can't imagine what these poor women are going through. What a shit show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:46 PM
12

Beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:42 PM
131

One guy said "she took the 🍆 while her child was sleeping nearby" (rough quote). So he had no problems having sex with her kid nearby, but then blamed her for doing the exact same thing? My brain hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:39 PM
17

I will get a washcloth wet with hot water and lay that on my face. After I take it off, rub in the soap. Get another washcloth wet and use that to gently clean off the soap. It works for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:29 PM
44

Guys like this aren't the brightest bulbs in the box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:23 PM
5

You're shaming women for having the standard of wanting a man who gives enough of a damn about her to go get a fan or go to the bathroom so he's not stinking her out habitually. That's the energy you're bringing to the sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:51 PM
9

Standard shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:25 PM
5

I disagree with this. Ever been to an Orthodox church during a fasting time? 😅 No meat or dairy allowed, everyone eating beans and brussels sprouts. It can be intense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:10 PM
4

Why not just respond to them instead of tearing down the post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:07 PM
8

I don't see anyone shaming anyone, just saying that the point isn't the farting (we know everyone does it) it's the lack of effort in coming up with a solution since it's his offensive odor and it's a nightly ritual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:59 PM
7

This is standard shaming. It's not unreasonable to expect your partner to make adjustments on your behalf. Whether it's a fan, an open window, going to the bathroom to fart before bed, sleeping separately, seeing a doctor if necessary... he knows he is grossing her out but does nothing about it. It's a clear indication of how little he cares about her experience. He's lazy and careless. I think most women would be embarrassed and mortified enough not to do this in the first place. It's really si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:41 PM
12

Lol. Forgive me for having a nose! I know at any given time I'm only allowed to be a walking decoration, a subservient maid, or a fuck toy and having complaints isn't covered under those! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:13 PM
9

Same. First my dad, then my husband. So many men are loose cannons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:00 PM
39

Sounds like you're living the dream to me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:47 AM
35

Centuries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:54 PM
24

That's certainly how I saw him after that. He also talked to me about her and laughed behind her back, saying she was a total idiot and he only wanted to have sex with her, he could never be in a relationship with her. I had actually thought this was a good man a few years before. Anyway, he wanted to go party and use women, but having a wife and kids was cramping his style. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:25 PM
24

Seems true to my experience. And good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:52 AM
62

Ugh. At the time I asked him what mattered most to him in the world and he said "haveing sex with lots of women." We had kids together...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:26 AM
63

Thank you. Never long enough... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:09 AM
187

Ex-husband tried to cheat on me with a co-worker, too. In the end, she didn't want to sleep with him, just get him to bring her food and flirt with her in front of all his co-workers so I felt even more humiliated. She was also NINETEEN and he was 28 and her boss. He told me it was "the opportunity of a lifetime" to sleep with her. Completely disgusting. It was the worst time of my life. I gained like 50 lbs and drank myself to sleep most nights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:59 AM
13

She's worried that SHE is not good enough? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:45 PM
69

DOn't tAKe aWAy MuH PoRN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:42 PM
8

Stop Smoking the Easy Way by Allen Carr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:20 PM
4

I knew a clean freak guy who killed his girlfriend. A little messiness is okay with me. But DO NOT be nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:17 PM
17

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:52 PM
26

Awesome post. Really hits home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:56 PM
52

There's nothing wrong with high standards. They may feel high because so many men these days fall so so short. Anyway, I wish you the best of luck on your journey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:10 PM
98

Why keep talking to a guy you're not that interested in? You don't owe him anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:51 PM
5

I disagree with most here and believe LVM can change just like LVW can change. I would never choose an LVM hoping he would change, though. Most people don't want to put in the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:14 AM
10

Standard shaming is about what you expect in a man. I don't think putting make-up on makes you better than women who don't, either, btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:30 AM
114

I love the audio but I honestly hate the make up part. I know this may be controversial, but I feels it perpetuates the unrealistic standards put on us. Her words are great, but why is she still trying to look like Barbie? I feel like I'm getting mixed messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:31 AM
31

Traditional wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:25 AM
8

Women are only allowed to be happy all the time... oh wait, then you're called am "airhead." Nvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:05 AM
5

Seconded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:48 PM
13

About the sex things, just because men want sex more doesn't mean the woman is getting her needs met when she wants. In my last relationship my husband wanted sex more than I did but it was obly when HE was horny. When I was and he wasn't (which was often) he never attempted to get in the mood or help me with my needs. But when he was in the mood, 9 times out if 10, he would get me in the mood or I would help him get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:40 PM
22

All the libfem women I know are for splitting the bill. I was myself in my pickme days. In fact, lots of times I PAYED FOR HIM! God, I was an idiot. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:36 PM
17

It's also great to support other women financially!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:00 PM
17

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:58 PM
47

This. We have to help each other from these predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:29 PM
12

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:59 PM
29

It seems all the somewhat successfully female comedians are pickmes. The ones I've listened to who really told the truth were shut down hard. Society doesn't want to hear the truth about men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:49 PM
3

Reminds me of my ex. In his eyes someone had to be "the bitch" in the relationship. He complained it was him, and he was so manipulative I actually believed it sometimes. One day I looked at everything he was putting me through and saw who the real "bitch" in the relationship was and it was not him. Still don't understand why the goal could not be equal partnership.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:43 PM
3

Golden answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:38 PM
2

Nailed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:32 PM
2

Settings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:02 PM
159

An excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:47 PM
21

This. Can't count how many times I've heard guys describe the "perfect butt" or the "perfect tits" in my presence and I felt like I just had to put up with it because "that's how guys talk." Now as far as dicks go, I prefer them as long and as thick as possible, preferably uncut. Is that triggering, scrotes? It's the truth! I also like round, firm asses and a muscular build all around. Thick arms are a requirement. I'm oh so sorry if that's hurtful to your fee fees... Oh wait, I don't give a fuc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:30 PM
1

I understand what you are saying. I just think that saying "vaginal orgasms are not real" is very poor wording.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:54 AM
1

Clitoral tissue is stimulated by rubbing the vaginal walls. So when women say they have orgasms by stimulating the inside of their vagina, they are correct. I don't know why you want to split hairs about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:31 AM
1

I just said that. It's only referred to as vaginal because it's a different pathway to the clitoris (and terms are not up to date). Also you said you argue with women who say they get off from "the walls of their vaginas being stimulated." The vaginal walls include clitoral tissue. If you've got off to penetration alone, you know it was your vaginal walls that were stimulated. You're contradicting yourself here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:15 AM
212

I wish these women had youtube channels. Just not into tiktok and instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:44 AM
8

freak-show parents 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:47 AM
8

That second scene was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:47 AM
6

I can't think of one, tbh. Or one actual HVW... Sometimes that show is too depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:46 AM
10

I love #1. I feel like any self respecting man would feel kicked in the balls hearing that. Of course, plenty have no dignity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:41 AM
2

Part of the clitoris is in the vagina and women can 100% orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. I have myself. There are women who can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone... just because you've never experienced it, does not mean it is not a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:19 AM
3

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:18 AM
3

It helps, but it's not at all necessary. As a mother with children from a scrote... yeah. Trust me on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:15 AM
4

The clit is still being stimulated during a vaginal orgasm, it's just a different part of the clitoris.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:13 AM
7

I've had vaginal orgasms (obviously it is still the clitoris, but it's the part inside the vagina that is being stimulated). Also some women orgasm during childbirth... It's rare, but it's a thing. I would believe other women over a male gynecologist when it comes to women's sexual experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:13 AM
22

No one would say cutting is therapeutic, but if someone else does it to you it's fine? These people are so delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:56 AM
30

And why send the joke just to the daughter and not everyone else in the family? So obvious. What a stupid woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:19 AM
36

Great point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:39 AM
5

Yeah. Glad I'm bi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:54 AM
17

What a small, gross little man. I'm sorry your father is trying to brainwash you into thinking you are just a sex doll for some future man. You are not. Please remember, no matter what he says or what this sick culture says, you were not put on this earth to be used by men! Your life is for YOU! I'm so glad you found FDS. Keep thinking for yourself and challenging the world around you. You're doing great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:56 AM
1

It's been a while since I've been there (it was before I found FDS) but Chump Lady was my favorite when I was cheated on. None of that "well, actually, it's your fault" shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:32 AM
12

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:53 PM
17

Of course she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:53 PM
9

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:52 PM
4

Duh, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:51 PM
25

The problem with being into men as a woman is that men are the oppressors and they will NEVER get it. They don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:40 PM
17

This is awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:37 PM
18

Don't let them off the hook. That would be the excuse. "It's a compliment!" They want to wank to their co-worker. That's why they asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:29 PM
5

Some people have multiple profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:35 AM
7

Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:44 AM
3

I've heard of that, too. How could they possibly think that would be comfortable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:54 AM
2

I enjoyed anal sex in a relationship but only once every six months or once a year (it's not something I would want every day and I do worry about the safety of it long term). I did enjoy it. He was more interested in it at the beginning (my previous experiences with other guys were not enjoyable) but over time it just became something that I would really want every so often. We also played with him anally (even more than we did me) and I never felt like it was a sadistic thing on his part at al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:56 PM
569

Men who criticize this are so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:04 AM
81

I never thought about this but you're so right. Men are always making messes and not cleaning them up, whining, loud, rude, saying things no one wants to hear, playing devil's advocate, violent temper tantrums... Women are expected to be more considerate and we usually are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:13 AM
180

She probably thinks this is all she deserves and what she is supposed to settle for if she wants to be loved. I've been there, unfortunately. Some of us were raised to think we are trash and nobody in their right mind would want to spend time with us. Those are the people who end up in abusive relationships believing they don't deserve any better. ☹ Perfect targets for NVM/LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:28 AM
6

A lot of religious men are the worst. They're just better at hiding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:24 PM
69

Now he can spend all the money he wants on his "girlfriend," huh? 🤣 That is just so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:20 PM
79

But we're the "crazy" ones. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:38 PM
36

Not to mention so many Japanese men are sexually depraved and harassment is normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:37 PM
65

Only porn obsessed losers are going to give any attention to that. Nobody with half a brain cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:17 PM
28

So accurate. But men on the right think women are public property if they are single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:12 PM
18

Start with realizing you deserve to enjoy sex and it's cruel for a man to use your body as a masterbatory aid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:00 AM
7

Commenting because I want to come back for the link. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:01 PM
8

Right? Gotta brainwash the next generation of girls into thinking this is the reality so they will be desperate to settle for a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:00 AM
2

The difference is you were HIS property. Duh. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:03 AM
3

You are also at increased risk of stroke after being strangled. Choking is when your airway is obstructed by an object in your throat. When someone puts their hands or a belt around your neck, that's strangulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:15 PM
4

Struggled with alcoholism and been to multiple rehabs. Now I'm over alcohol. No one could have fixed me. I couldn't fix myself. Honestly, I had to drink until it stopped giving me what I wanted. It wasn't a rock bottom so much as a "this isn't working anymore, and I'm tired of feeling like shit." If he is deep into his addiction, he loves alcohol more than you. He probably doesn't want to or wouldn't admit it, but he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:05 PM
9

Pickme vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:32 PM
2

Should have left him there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:33 PM
8

Men judge each other more for being with a fat woman than being fat themselves. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:07 PM
7

And if you're afraid they'll shoot the messenger, send an anonymous note!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:27 PM
20

Who is he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:58 PM
120

Wife benefits with no obligation on their part disguised as progressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:22 PM
7

If you want to learn a language, Duolingo is not the best resource. Pay for Busuu instead and get some books, watch youtube, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:54 PM
30

"Don't you know men can't control their height?! Who do you think you are anyway?" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:01 AM
44

They only feel entitled to judge every inch of our bodies. They're the ones famous for rating women on a scale from 1 to 10. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:57 PM
33

Nice guys blow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:50 PM
6

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:44 PM
47

Yes! Love it. That's why they're obsessed with trying to control us and keep us subjugated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:48 PM
175

Sadly, she didn't ask, but she didn't dump his ass when he didn't, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:46 PM
1

Jeez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:45 PM
12

This is fucked up!! FTFY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:52 PM
10

Misogynist cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:39 PM
32

And porn. :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:37 PM
73

Mine would say "I don't know, I just do." Meanwhile I could list things. Do most men just see no value in women besides our bodies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:12 PM
9

So women are objects that get used up and broken by men, never heard that one before. /s Just because you say something over and over, doesn't make it true. Any man who thinks that way doesn't deserve a single glance from a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:09 PM
6

She knows he'd get with you if he could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:24 PM
3

Not your job to fix him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:56 PM
6

Men aren't like women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:52 PM
9

Why did I read this garbage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:33 PM
9

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:58 PM
10

I'm fuming. I hate this male dominated society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:28 PM
9

He wants you insecure because it makes him feel powerful and in control in the relationship to have you on edge. He's delighting in your weak position. That's not love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:09 PM
9

The longer you wait, the more time you lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:59 PM
4

They'll probably just worry their doing something "girly" and stop. "Real men don't do 'women's work.'"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:09 PM
2

Yes, consistent effort is most important. And it's the worst when a guy tries to do something for you and gets everything wrong. That happened with my ex all the time. Like for Valentine's Day he'd bring me the chocolate I didn't like and make steak for us, but would overcook it and forget the salt. And the flowers he would get (only on special occasions) were never my style. I never understood why he couldn't make any effort to find out what flowers I liked or what chocolate was my favorite. Ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:27 PM
24

I hate the talk about women supposedly getting horny over men doing housework. We're supposed to go wild over BASIC DECENCY? And so many men are so rotten that some women do (like the water drinkers post the other day). 😑 To turn men on we are expected to be tiny (except for butts and boobs- natural, big, AND perky, please) bald everywhere except for the long flowing hair (no grays), have flawless skin (but no make-up- men like all natural), and contortionists in bed who will do anything to make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:15 PM
3

I just noticed he makes much less than her, too. Maybe I was too hasty posting! Just felt good to finally see a guy actually trying. The bar is too low. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:35 PM
6

I saw that, too. But I thought, instead of just using that as an excuse, he is asking for help with his weaknesses so that he can do a good thing for his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:32 PM
42

🤣 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 03:12 AM
23

It's not equal when the average teenage boy is much stronger than most women. Sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:58 PM
170

Why you shouldn't or why you can't?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:32 PM
5

Religion at all is a red flag in my book. Name one that hasn't tried to put women down. I'll wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:45 PM
11

Ah. I wonder why I can't access it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:57 PM
12

Is it deleted? The link doesn't work for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:42 PM
12

That's s great conversation to have!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:42 PM
5

Oh, I know they are paying for the sex. But I think it's true that they also want the ability not to have to care about the needs of the woman they have that sex with (or DO SEX TO, more accurately). Basically they want a disposable woman to use and forget about/trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:33 PM
14

Exactly. How many times have you heard scrote say they want to get their gf or wife to stop talking so much? They aren't interested in connecting with women. They want us to meet their physical needs and then "give them their space." Like they love to repeat how buying a prostitute isn't paying for sex it's "paying her to leave after." 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:20 PM
20

Right. If a man considers a doll a proper substitute for interaction with another human being, that says all we need to know. I'll definitely pass! Trash taking itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:10 PM
21

When in doubt, blame women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:44 PM
8

Does she have kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:34 PM
15

Guess that makes them gay men! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:06 PM
20

Says more about them than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:59 PM
15

One thing the majority of them seem to excel at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:49 PM
14

This sounds like living in hell. He doesn't try to empathize with your feelings. He doesn't even seem to acknowledge that your feelings matter. How could that ever be high value?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:10 AM
46

Creepy view into LVM's way of rationalizing fucked up behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:20 AM
1

Um, what? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:41 PM
11

BUt iT's eMAsCuLaTInG! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:12 PM
6

I read a guy on reddit once saying it turned him off that women eat, drink, sweat, urinate, defecate, etc. Truly disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:32 PM
21

🤯🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:13 PM
14

Nailed it! It's so common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:37 PM
7

I'd bet money his gf didn't cheat on him. I'm starting to need some HVM stories. They're the true unicorns of this world. So far, I'm not sure I've even met one...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:33 PM
31

This makes me so angry I want to act. 😡 When will men leave women and girls ALONE?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:36 AM
11

Right? Shouldn't they be trying to say they are older? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:42 PM
8

Great point 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:40 PM
11

Men are never considered at fault in the world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:28 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:00 PM
2

I thought I was. My bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:50 PM
14

No you don't. He said to go away, basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:41 AM
31

LVM are mentally ill. Seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:53 PM
28

This made my eye twitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:52 PM
5

None of this is ok. Don't look at him and see your any perceived good qualities or good memories. Look at him and see everything he has done to hurt you and every way he has used you and other women. Then go see a lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:49 PM
1

Online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:40 PM
25

Unfortunately most of the dating pool is full of LV trash. That's the real problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:31 PM
62

Ugh, don't even respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:25 PM
4

😑😔 Very unfortunate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:24 PM
7

And men still tell us "you just need to get laid" when we're upset. It makes my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:29 PM
3

They don't forget. They know it and they CAN'T STAND IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:41 PM
-1

Can I upgrade, too? I don't think I'm a newbie anymore either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:25 PM
12

Because most people are brain dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:43 AM
86

As if men aren't picky about who they marry. 🙄 It's healthy to be picky when picking someone you plan to spend your entire life with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:17 AM
6

Maybe stop and ask yourself what YOU want sex to be like. Let your mind wander to things that you think might make you feel good and go from there. I find the most fun things in bed are just finding new places and ways of touching each other or talking about fantasies together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:13 AM
34

Did you tell him his meat was already rancid? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:44 PM
12

If only they actually did that. Instead they go on murder sprees targeting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:33 PM
6

I never said that. I'm saying I am dead tired of women in society being blamed for everything and it's disappointing to see, even here, women blamed and the fault of men left out of the conversation entirely. And men are certainly going to have more of a role when we are talking about raising sons. Sons tend to emulate their father's behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 07:13 PM
1

It's not a nuanced enough discussion if it leaves out the role of the father. Why, even in this sub, are mothers being villified for their sons behavior, but the fathers are off the hook as usual?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:40 PM
33

Yes, a LVM will feed on a woman with low self esteem then get angry when she acts insecure. Like... if she was secure, she'd dump your ass. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:31 PM
1

No one ever talks about the role of the father, though. It's always the mom's fault. Boys follow the example set by their dad, and if dad sees his wife as a servant, so will his sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:23 PM
19

Post as much as you want! Love these excerpts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:38 PM
5

It's probably a dude with a weird fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:48 PM
7

Yes. I'm convinced the guys who are always saying "women aren't funny" are the guys who can't make people laugh, and are butthurt about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:40 PM
13

Right? They literally project media they made into space for potential aliens to find!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:21 PM
9

Loser. NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:39 AM
24

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:35 AM
56

The laugh at the end! 🤣 Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:55 PM
5

Wish I could award your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:05 PM
27

Saving this to tell my daughters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:59 PM
2

I haven't seen that one. Only the ones on Hulu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:53 PM
8

Right? Epic fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:43 AM
8

Never apologize to a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:40 AM
2

I hold grudges. Wish we could trade, tbh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:37 AM
28

When immaturity is celebrated... smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:33 AM
40

That show is constantly surprising me. I think a guy isn't too bad and suddenly "oh, he's a liar, too" or "oh, he's hiding a secret family." Almost every man (maybe every single one...) on the show reveal themselves as slimeballs and ALL the women are pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:43 AM
17

Same experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:58 AM
33

Better "judgmental" than a cheater or other woman/man. People these days are idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:35 PM
35

As a teen my mother told me men and women think the same way (yeah, ok). That did not help. I don't know how she remained so willfully naïve. I started getting it in my mid 20's but I wasn't fully enlightened til about a year ago (early 30's).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:22 PM
12

Men have no shame. I almost down voted this instinctively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:40 PM
65

He's getting off to making women uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:35 PM
3

Oh, I thought it was a film. Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:25 AM
3

Never seen it. Will have to check it out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:11 AM
2

What is a Ferengi?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:29 PM
20

I agree, but putting the ring back in because of his comment and not because she wants to wear it for herself, is where I think the power goes back to him. It shows he affected her enough to change her appearance. He's not that important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:58 PM
29

Any really gory horror movies. If you enjoy watching people getting mutilated and tortured, I'm out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:55 PM
35

She shouldn't give him that kind of power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:45 PM
62

NVM go to response to women waking up "You're ugly and fat!" The easiest way the patriarchy knows how to keep women down: remind us what we have been brainwashed to believe- that we are only worth anything if men want to fuck us. They hope that triggering our insecurities will take our minds off fighting for equalilty. Luckily for us, we know it's bullshit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:44 PM
15

The obliviousness and lack of empathy are astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:36 PM
7

Damn straight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:33 PM
48

Housewives are not parasitic women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:28 PM
16

Even if he gets with you, he's not going to stop the behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:35 AM
13

Hear, hear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:52 PM
21

I didn't think I could be more disgusted by our culture...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:21 PM
44

Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:16 PM
7

4!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:14 PM
64

This is why men hate FDS so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:43 PM
28

They're brainwashed by the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:39 AM
2

Oh come on. Please say this is fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:20 AM
59

Written by a man, surely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:07 PM
20

This is horrifying. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:00 PM
31

They don't want men, real or otherwise. That's the point. Why are men so obsessed with fucking everyone and everything they can get their grubby hands on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:07 PM
20

Don't move west for men. You'll be disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:51 AM
20

Men on tinder see women on tinder as automatically low value. Tinder is for hookups and low value people. Get off asap. I've talked to enough men who are genuinely confused by women on tinder who want relationships. Men only see Tinder as a place for free prostitutes. I don't understand why anyone uses it here, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:18 AM
5

Sad she'd get judged more for having standards than not. The world we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:05 AM
10

My thoughts exactly. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:42 PM
92

Part of the reason they look down on us. They see kindness as weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:48 PM
28

Every woman needs to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:03 PM
5

Pickmes are desperate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:01 PM
13

That's what I was hoping. I just don't get why lie to the camera? Maybe she didn't want to seem judgmental. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:45 PM
34

I was so disappointed when she said she'd go out with him again. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:18 PM
2

Best response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:10 PM
5

Warped brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:48 PM
6

Been there. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:53 AM
8

The comments seem pretty serious "Never date ___s. They're all liars and cheaters!" Etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:12 PM
11

One sane comment. Kind of sad so many smart women here believe in this nonsense. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:01 PM
34

I had the exact same experience. Whenever I praised my ex he would always downplay it and say "I'm not that great." I thought he was being humble but he was telling me the truth (for once). I found out later he was cheating on me the whole relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:46 PM
1

The old testament god endorses rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:29 AM
15

I just don't see why you told him instead of just unmatching when you realized he was messing around. Edit: My flair was changed to "At Risk Pick Me Youth" and I was permabanned after these comments and muted. What??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:57 AM
8

It looks like 7 hours later...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:53 AM
14

Why did you wait so long and then tell him you were unmatching?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:52 AM
159

And some of them "had their reasons." /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:18 AM
15

Sad and true, but this is very well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:16 AM
1

Looks like enabling an alcoholic. You shouldn't be passing out at random places on a regular basis! 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:47 PM
25

I've witnessed the same. Many men have lower standards. They are ok living in filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:37 PM
13

All those upvotes. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:51 PM
51

That show is just misogynistic propaganda. There are some interesting videos about that show on YouTube by The Take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:49 PM
2

Don't give the lurkers ideas. 😬🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:33 PM
22

And to "pass on the family name" (and fuck your heritage as a woman, btw). 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:41 PM
7

To them, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:44 PM
1

Luckily, I never had to do that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:02 PM
30

Smart. I know my MIL would have blamed me and not her perfect precious son, however. Still best to marry a man who is actually a functioning adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:54 AM
10

I've heard about those guys but never run into one, sadly! I think the guys I was with were low self esteem and saw my desire to change things in the bedroom as proof that they were inadequate/not manly enough/whatever but instead of doing anything different or trying to actually level up, they pouted and sulked. The same guys seemed to respond to other challenges in life the same way and that's probably how they got to be so incompetent in the first place. I can't say I was anything but a pickm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:50 AM
516

Also add to the wife list: send out any birthday/holiday cards to both families and birthday and holiday presents to both her family and his. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:01 PM
56

When I've said I would like things to be different (like to orgasm) I've had guys sulk and refuse to talk about it and even stop having sex with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:00 PM
13

Agree 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:39 AM
8

One of the main focuses of religion is to keep women dumb, gullible, and subordinate to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:51 PM
34

Glad he's staying out of the gene pool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:53 PM
9

Ew. What an ignoramus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:50 PM
20

I've only ever gotten doubling down or denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:02 PM
41

Most frustrating shit ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:57 PM
2

Do you mind DM'ing me the group, too? I have the same plan for my hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:10 PM
8

Scrotes gonna scrote, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:04 AM
17

Disguised as empowering. Yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:03 AM
15

He cared enough to veto everything, just not enough to come up with suggestions... well, he did offer up the name of one of his exes. I forgot about that. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:40 AM
31

Not sure what would make someone think she is HV...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:30 PM
24

My ex husband gave me nothing all three times and thought I was being dramatic when I couldn't sleep after the births and tried to get his help naming the babies (he kept shooting down all my choices and wouldn't come up with any of his own). On the plus side, he did cuss out a nurse who was being really rude to me and trying to push me around during my contractions. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 09:49 PM
59

The guys running around without masks will be a little less likely to spread their genes, then. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:07 PM
1

Is he a caveman or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:59 PM
34

She's beautiful. What possesses a person to tear down another person's body?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:44 PM
32

Wow. I'm embarrassed on their behalf right now. Cringey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:21 PM
33

My ex could never understand why I would be afraid to take walks at night and called me paranoid and dismissed my fears. It sucks enough to not be able to take walks alone at night or go to remote places alone as a woman, but it's the icing on the cake to be treated like a coward for it as well. 😠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:18 PM
12

LVM view women as either sexy bodies or irrelevant. They don't see women as worthy of real connection. They don't see women as intelligent or as contributors. The same guy told me he had no interest in women as friends. Speaks volumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:23 AM
83

Once in bed my train wreck of an ex husband told me the only thing he could see giving his life meaning was sex with lots of other women. We had three kids, btw. I was blown away that our KIDS did not even enter his mind as more important and worthwhile than putting his dick in a wider variety if vaginas. He has since said that he "was an idiot then" and not to refer back to anything he's said before he was 30. Like I didn't have to suffer through all that and we could just pretend it didn't hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:21 PM
14

I just heard of a study the other day that found men don't mirror women unless they want to sleep with them. I honestly don't know that they really see us as people...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:37 AM
24

Speaking from experience, being a SAHM can easily put you in a very vulnerable position. Make sure your spouse makes bank so that if you have to leave, you can afford to. Money is power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:32 AM
2

Beauty privilege is a thing for both men and women. Beautiful people get more opportunities in their social life, are more likely to get the jobs they apply for, are treated more kindly by strangers, etc. That doesn't mean men respect beautiful women, but they will definitely treat a pretty woman better than an ugly one (not that that's saying much).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:09 PM
1

She perfectly verbalized my feelings on my sexual past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:01 PM
3

I wish I could gold this comment. So much truth here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 07:07 PM
1

Me neither. They're just selfish to the core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:33 PM
8

Once I got sick with pneumonia and hurt my rib badly from the coughing and couldn't sleep for days or move at all comfortably due to the pain. It happened when my ex and I were supposed to go on a vacation (and fairly shorlty after I had found out about his cheating and lying over our entire marriage) so he blamed me for ruining the trip and didn't do anything to help me like make food or refill my humidifier. He actually acted like the whole thing was more of an inconvenience to HIM than to me.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:24 PM
3

What a chump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:11 PM
25

Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:41 AM
39

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:38 AM
67

Yeah, I'm more worried about women and girls who can't even fight for their rights without getting death threats. I'm more worried for women and girls who are raped and laughed off by policemen. I'm more worried about all the women in domestic abuse situations with psychotic, violent men. I'm more worried about the women and girls who are attacked by men every day in every country on this planet. But pointing that out is the real problem, apparently. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:38 PM
8

That's very encouraging. Hang onto those friends!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:57 PM
17

I'm jealous! (Too poor to have a table right now).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:53 PM
20

I hope you're right. Just remember, men will say and do anything to get into women's pants. The "male feminist" label has a bad reputation for a reason, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:42 PM
23

Show me where the non sexist men are. I'd love to know one (besides my one gay friend)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:24 PM
1

For all you know he went and told her she didn't measure up and part of her body would look better if it was more like yours. Maybe he told her SHE needed to work out more. Maybe that was his way of negging. Either way, your body's more than an object for men to gawk at and men's enjoyment of your body is not it's primary purpose- not by a long shot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:00 PM
32

You're speaking of ONE military man. I've known plenty and this hasn't been my experience at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:56 PM
8

No. I don't feel like myself with makeup on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:35 PM
13

I've definitely tried to be "the cool girl" at times. Also a lot of the shaving I have done has been because of men. I had a guy pressure me into shaving my armpits, for instance. Now if I shave anything it's because I'm feeling it and my legs haven't seen a razor in years. Feels wonderful to be authentic to how I want my body to be. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:55 AM
32

Some people really worship Beyonce for some reason. I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:54 PM
68

She's a pickme. I'm surprised anyone thinks otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 05:02 PM
6

They say it because they hate women and don't want women to have more power. They don't care about women and saying the work is done is just one of many dismissive tactics they use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 04:33 AM
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