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Something I caught onto is how due to what you said you told him, it seems like he was testing you to see how much you'd let him get away with... I've seen women say men do this but I think it's not good at all... And I doubt it's every man I know my partner wouldn't. He seemed pretty serious to you and almost like he wanted to make you feel like it's normal behaviour. Then when he realised you're upset and serious he claimed it was a joke. This is not good. Even if he just wanted the situation …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 10:27 AM
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He has name called me some bad words like that a few times, at some point we kept arguing and it'd keep happening. But it doesn't happen anymore. I am 19 and he is 23, we have seen eachother a few times but planned to more in the future 😊 I won't put up wth mistreatment but he has stopped some behaviours and for him I am always wiling to give him chances bcus I love him so much. Edit: are you a girl? I have this thing where I don't engage with men for personal reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 08:49 PM
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Why didn't you trust men may I ask? I think I feel the same / similar. I'd also be interested in hearing your love story with your now husband :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 06:13 PM
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I agree, it's so pointless to me if there is no love. I have just edited my post could you read it again, I wonder if your thoughts would change. I added a bit of the reasons as to why I ended things, but I love him so much and I know he feels the same about me, I don't want to just let go of us we truly had something special :(
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 06:12 PM
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Either way I really am so happy for you that you found someone who truly loves you ♥ the fact he only told you now... Kind of says alot like, he just did it without even fussing or sharing it with anyone. Did you feel the same way I feel? Like it's impossible to connect with anyone else? :/ I also am not very sociable which maybe contributes to me feeling like I can't connect with much people! Also, I'm not interested. Which I understand is normal so early on, but I truly just want mine and his …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 05:24 PM
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What a lovely story ♥ I'm so so glad you got your girls :) and I'm so sorry about your traumatic birth..! Thankfully you're okay! - my problem is I just feel ill never connect with anyone the way I did him. And honestly, I don't even want to, I want him and me, happy, but I kept leaving and going back (giving chances because I didn't want to lose us) but eventually something happens and I feel it's best to not be together, we both have our issues we need to fix I guess. 🥺 I truly only want him. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 05:20 PM
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Thank you 💕 I have now edited my post BTW. That's true I see so many bad stories online and it has made me anxious to be in a relationship 😧 but I was with my ex and felt so safe and loved with him. ♥
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 04:36 PM
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You're definitely not alone. I am glad you made this post I've been wondering it myself lately too..! It does seem toxic, I've always been girly so naturally I like these types of videos but at times it felt toxic. If there are any that seem to be pushing or putting women down I'll just click not interested we're all unique and that's good. ♥ Same with those relationships videos I can't lie they have affected how I view things and I started to feel like I should think like them women because the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/24 04:28 PM
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I don't take everything she says but I like her. And I'm not going to put myself in a marriage without any "benefits" like him ensuring I'll be okay and being able to give me a good life etc. I don't see it worth it otherwise. I don't want to be stuck in a home and raising children if I can't also do things to enjoy my life and look after myself girly things etc. I don't just want a relationship where it's beneficial I want a loving one too. But I'm not going to get myself into a relationship wh…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 12:40 PM
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Wasn't going to reply as I thought you were a man due to how your account looks but looked through you account and realised you're a woman. If I'm in a relationship with a man i like respecting him and listening to him, it's how I naturally am but I don't want a religious man because I am not religious anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 11:31 AM
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Thank you for saying this all in a kind way! 🤗 I've been thinking of that, to stop engaging with certain content that put these thoughts in my head. I of course don't think it's all men but I know it's many and it makes me feel i can't trust them. I have heard women on hear talking about vetting a man which may help and prevent us from getting into bad situations...
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 02:19 PM
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I forgot to add, it's mostly due to what I've seen and heard around me or online.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 01:40 PM
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It's not because of my experience. I had a loving relationship with him but I kept choosing to leave due to some bad things. I am attached to him and it feels impossible to get over it or to ever have this type of bond with anyone else. It was my first relationship so I have very little experience but I honestly feel I won't ever feel the same again. The same vulnerable feeling and feeling safe with him, I truly felt safe withhim and that he would never cheat etc.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/24 01:39 PM
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He told you his plans with you, if you stay that's how it'll be. You'll always subconsciously wonder when or if he'll change and start doing certain things... Most likely he won't. He also said you can break up with him if you want, does that not tell you enough? I'm sure if you were so special to him he'd either ramp it up or something not tell you you can break up with him. Please don't stay when you clearly want a different kind of relationship. I wish you the best 💕
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 01:21 PM
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I saw your post when you posted it and messaged you 😊 thanks! I do want children and to not have to work if I have them, but I also feel like I don't want to have to work if I have a partner like I want some stability... And to work if I want to if that makes sense. You could be me and then the other part of me thinks is it (real love with a man) worth it? Women like shera just gave up on love that's why they don't care but atleast they can get most likely anything they want... But I don't think…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 11:37 PM
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I agree I also support her ♥ I did say to someone else though that shera herself got into a relationship with her husband knowing he was cheating on his partner at the time, so in a way of course she'd believe all men cheat if it's what her relationship is built on..? But I wasn't being bad just something I thought of.. 😊 My comment makes me feel bad lol but i wasn't being mean at all and I really do support her. It is not my business what other women do. I also don't blame some of them for givi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 06:44 PM
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I didn't mean it in that way though, I meant it's their mindset. Those women who only use men usually go for the men that are also looking to use women (like rly old rich men etc) so of course they would have that perception.. But if a woman knows what she wants and won't put up with some things or be with a certain man, she will have a better experience. She could still get cheated on, I didn't mean it as in she wouldn't. But those women who are transactional and have transactional men most lik…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 06:15 PM
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I agree actually! I don't agree with that statement but I think she helps women wake up. I'm sure not all who follow her have the exact same opinions as her, someone else on one of those posts even replied to me that they also want real love, another woman called me dumb or something. I think the same you need to make sure he can look after you and your children, and just be open to the possibility of cheating to ever happen so you don't crumble if it ever does... Of course it'd hurt if it was a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 06:10 PM
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From what you said he definitely was trying to provoke you and hurt you but all he did was make you realise even more how wrong he is for you! He probably even is butthurt and knows he lost a good woman and isn't mature enough to handle his emotions properly. Either way whatever it is, let's just forget about him or his reasons and whatnot, it doesn't matter, we're moving on and having a fresh start ✨ all that matters now is your happiness so I send you lots of love 💕
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 04:44 PM
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This 💯 if he was a normal stable man and wanted to work things out with you he wouldn't be playing games and would contact you as normal. This is not the type of man you truly want! Maybe it's the idea of him that you liked :) and imagine if you were together and went through a rough time, he seems like the type to try to do little things to affect you or even flirt with other women... Or if you had a breakup he seems the type to try to instantly get with other women in a bit to get to you like …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 11:02 AM
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I definitely understand this feeling lol, I have been wanting to change mine too after a breakup and for other reasons I just want to go back into my staying by myself mostly era 😂! It was so peaceful, only a few people had my number but they gave it to others.. I've been feeling this way for months so I got a new sim recently and will set it up soon ♥ also why are you even thinking of this man, everything you said about him is a red flag. Even the picture with the girls it was probably some chi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 10:57 AM
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I feel bad for the wife, I sort of agreed with the other person but like I said he should not of got into a marriage if he wasn't over his ex. You should also take a screenshot and tell the wife if you know her or her social media, not to cause drama just so she knows... Wouldn't you want to know? If your boyfriend is OK with it, you could respond to him and communicate you think it's inappropriate and maybe let him know he should show his wife or that you are going to show her.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 04:49 PM
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Wait I kind of agree with this too, i think it's bad he messaged her and she shouldn't respond etc, but I also thought of something similar, like maybe they had a rly good connection and he may not have bad intentions he could just genuinely struggle to get over her, maybe she'll always be the one he can't get over, but he also shouldn't have got into a marriage without being fully moved on from his past relationships... And to text her while she's in a relationship... But maybe he doesn't know?…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 04:42 PM
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If you have no I - wait, I was going to say if you have no intentions of rekindling you're relationship then just block him ASAP, don't respond because that could cause drama and hassle and you'd be dragged into it and possibly even be seen as a homewrecker by his wife even though it'd be him who started it But he's married! So please don't bother engaging in this because he's a grown man in a relationship with a woman who probably has no clue and thinks he loves her truly yet he's messaging his…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/24 04:34 PM
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Look up gaslighting it sounds like you have been :/ see my other comment... I kind of relate. I couldn't think logically!! I questioned myself, I kept making posts on here too. After leaving and going back so many times deep down I knew the relationship wasn't good if I felt like I had to leave so much... The leaving really helped me let go of him and get rid of the attachment, it never fully went and I sometimes still feel attached but I am much better than before. Oh and because of that relati…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 04:37 PM
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I was kind of in that situation though, I think I was gaslighted alot, a few other things, I am still unsure if I was actually gaslighted or if he just forgot... He also would ignore my feelings at times, I loved him sooo much and cared so much about him, it took leaving and going back thousands of times for me to eventually fully realise that's not a good relationship else I wouldn't of felt like I ever had to leave 😅 and the going back was because I loved him and wanted to give it a chance etc…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 04:30 PM
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Yep, I do feel empathy for these women but at the same time if they are choosing to still stay then it does irritate me and make me feel like saying anything to help them is useless.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 04:05 PM
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And you shouldn't feel selfish and all those bad feelings, don't feel bad for 'leading him on' as you said, it wasn't leading him on tbh you were just holding onto what you thought your relationship was, I know it's hard but think long and hard of what you want. What country are you from if you don't mind? Idk it could be possible if you're okay with it but it's okay if you're not.
/r/RedPillWives29/03/24 12:23 AM
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If you aren't okay with it, you aren't okay with it. Don't stay in a relationship if its not the type of relationship you want!! I don't understand this, I feel if he realllllyyy loved and liked you he wouldn't be interested in another woman, and how you said he mentioned having multiple wives and children one day,.... Clearly it isn't just a so called biological need then🤷🏻 for some reason he wants to keep you around while also pursuing multiple women. It's upto you whether you are okay with th…
/r/RedPillWives29/03/24 12:21 AM
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Thanks for this post I needed this, I do this too with loved ones at times when I get irritated :( but acknowledging it is good news, we can fix this girlie 👏 some people don't even see this as an issue when they behave this way, (not to put others down!) but some people genuinely see nothing wrong with it, they don't even notice, maybe it doesn't rly affect their loved ones though. Atleast we're acknowledging our wrongs and working to change ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 10:00 PM
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Just curious how was it at 19 with a 31 year old? Did your family disagree or anything? I know alot of people would. Personally I live and let live. Unless it's clear he's a predator or something.. (as in one of those men that go for young women for bad/creepy reasons) and how was it? What was your mindset like back then?? Did you know what type of relationship you wanted (him to take care of you) I don't think there is anything wrong with it and personally I always liked it if the man is older …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 09:53 PM
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Wait can you elaborate on the sprinkle girls please? I love hearing different opinions on them, I found out about all of that and shera last year or so and lately I came to the realisation that they are mostly very manipulative and only care about money, using men for money. Which I don't agree with, one of them called me silly because i said I want real love (and to be looked after) my conclusion is maybe they don't believe a man can love a woman and want to look after her but I know of many (I…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 07:45 AM
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