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22

This. They act like if you have feelings for a woman you some sort of beta cuck. Toxic. JuSt SpIn sOmE pLaTeS
/r/ExRedPill30/06/20 03:09 AM
1

You're not bad looking at all man
/r/askTRP02/01/17 02:35 PM
1

I really liked this post. I go back and read it often. Let me know if it helps. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4l4v1x/how_to_pull_yourself_out_of_depression/?st=IWWGIT15&sh=7a978eb9
/r/askTRP19/12/16 07:11 PM
1

True. Most kids now think they are above starting off in manual labor job.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 11:57 AM
1

Man I'm 18 and just started my first full time job. I feel a lot like you do... Lost and confused. I don't think we're supposed to have it a figured out at this age man.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 11:54 AM
2

I've read some terrible stories, but this one takes the cake. It sounds like you married a legitimate sociopath.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:22 AM
1

It's not a book for picking up girls dumb ass. It's a book for how to succeed socially in business.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:19 PM
7

Yeah this was the first thing that came to mind since she jumped up and went to the bathroom. Either period or something similar
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:15 PM
1

Beard? Grow what you can
/r/askTRP12/05/16 03:53 PM
1

Elaborate on the first point
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:01 PM
6

get an education And avoid debt Ok
/r/askTRP03/05/16 07:37 PM
6

You got blown by an entire clique? That doesn't sound half bad
/r/askTRP03/05/16 07:36 PM
12

is willing to sign a prenup
/r/askTRP02/05/16 04:10 PM
2

Don't offer to go down on her during sex, just do it. And she's probably just insecure about that specifically. My ex girl was like that too. I just stopped asking and started doing it and she eventually started liking it
/r/askTRP27/04/16 02:43 AM
4

I don't know about that. If a girl's not attracted to you at all I don't think we should go as far to jack you off
/r/askTRP27/04/16 12:15 AM
1

Sweet. I will write these down. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:30 PM
1

Maybe try the book Rule By Secrecy if you're talking gov't type conspiracy.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:01 PM
9

yeah... that's a surefire way to come off as neckbeard basement dweller
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:00 PM
2

Just spitballing here, but maybe you can't get laid cause they can smell the bitterness on you from down the block
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:59 PM
3

I don't know about you, but it sounds like you've never really seen a therapist and your comment is very sensationalist. I've had great experiences with male therapists in the past. Yeah... go meet up with some random dudes on the internet that haven't even worked out their own shit yet. Top-notch advice here. OP, if I were you I would talk to people you know who've seen therapists in your town and ask who they'd recommend. Getting a really good male therapist (like I had, yes I did discuss TRP …
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:55 PM
1

can you bartend at 18?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:44 PM
1

I know but where? In my state I can't even get into the bars.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:26 PM
3

I think procrastinating and convincing yourself that reading TRP field reports is increasing your value is the single largest pitfall that TRPers fall into. true, I'm guilty of this at times
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:07 PM
2

Sorry, but from a former smoker, the shit the guy above me stated does not work and will not work for you all at all. Gimmicky tricks like switching brands and shit like that is about as useless as 'cutting down'. You have to address the reasons WHY you smoke as opposed to the reasons you shouldn't smoke. I read the book "Easyway" by allen Carr and it's the only thing that ever made me quit, and quit for good. It's available online in PDF form for free. Do yourself a huge favor and read it. It'l…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 06:48 AM
1

Ok. I think I might could wing it until 7 tomorrow, then I could sleep from 7pm to 7am and that would be good enough. I haven't stayed up this long in a while should I be good? I woke up at 3pm today
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:55 AM
-3

Yeah, but that doesn't mean they're invisible.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 05:20 PM
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Under 6 ft is invisible? That's stupid. The average height is 5'10
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 05:03 PM
6

Jesus Christ, are you fucking serious, 6.5 is above average
/r/askTRP18/03/16 03:42 AM
3

You're doing good man, keep it up. But don't ever use the phrase "extra snuggles" again, please
/r/askTRP18/03/16 01:31 AM
5

OP, please listen. There's nothing wrong with having a desire to love and to feel love. Anybody who says otherwise or that they can overcome this is a fucking idiot. It is literally hardwired into you to seek love and affection. It's right up there on the hierarchy of needs above food and water. It only becomes a problem if you require love to feel good, period. As in, that's the only thing you depend on to be happy in life. Love should make you feel even better than you already do, not just get…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:50 AM
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Get your T checked asap
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:48 PM
2

Yeah I'd like this. I'll make a Skype soon and PM you. I've been wanting to have a platform for more instantaneous interaction that also isn't connected to reddit
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:20 AM
1

Keep her around. But definitely do NOT be exclusive
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:26 PM
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Dude your teeth aren't even that bad. They're white, and yeah they're not perfect but man I've seen dudes with butter teeth pull fine girls. Like honestly, you could scrape the butter off this one dude's teeth I know and put it on toast. And he's gotten with some pretty girls. But the thing is he is very charismatic and charming. and It all boils down to you. They don't call them social skills for no reason. Its something you can acquire. And you just have to learn it. Try to become friends with…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 10:54 PM
2

Lets see a pic of your teeth. You can either PM me or post it here, I have to get an idea of how bad it is. Is financing an option for getting them fixed or borrowing money?
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:53 PM
3

I mean like if you randomly approached some girl in the street and creeped her the fuck out and she says "get the fuck away from me". Stop thinking so fucking much. Play it cool with this girl and try not be so over invested. Give her 2/3 of of what she gives you.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:12 PM
4

Work on getting your teeth fixed, work on developing social skills/comedy, exercise, and try to acquire wealth. Also try to meet women. And if you can get one that means you can get others. If your ex was a 4-5 then that means you can still get 4-5s.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:11 PM
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Yes. That's very good. When a girl says she wants nothing to do with you (unless its in the context of you being a creep, which its not) then that a lot of the time means she does want something to do with you. I'd say you handled it well, as long as you didn't address the "you disrespected me message" with a long winded response or anything. I would just wait til you get back and town and text her on a night when you think you're both most likely free and say 'come over', or something to the sa…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:08 PM
1

You're using text to get to know her which is a big no. Don't do that again. Its alright, you fucked up. But just don't do it again. Only use text to set up a time/place to meet.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:52 PM
2

The Anthem was a great book. Nothing remotely feminist in it. I don't know about her other books but that book was great
/r/askTRP04/03/16 03:29 AM
1

Ok. First thing. From my experience people like you often pigeonhole themselves as 'the quiet guy'. Some wear it as badge and others feel doomed by it. But the reality of it is that being social is a SKILL that you can acquire. I was very socially awkward in middle school, but through forcing myself to go talk to people and eventually learning to not give a fuck if what I say is stupid, I got over it. You just have to force yourself to talk with people. It's really that simple. It will be diffic…
/r/askTRP03/03/16 03:07 PM
1

How did you find the apprenticeship? This is something I've been wondering.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:10 PM
1

I think the general idea may be that people that don't go to college are more likely go to college end up in low paying jobs because people that typically do this may be unmotivated, lazy, etc to start with. But on that same token if you take that fiercely determined person that got accepted to an esteemed university and tell him he cannot go to university, then he may in fact do well for himself. Regardless of schooling. Also to note, I'm in high school currently and do not object to the idea o…
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:07 PM
2

Sorry. I forgot to make it clear that if I went into the trades I would go to trade school.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:50 PM
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Yeah... Too much
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:19 AM
1

Poor baby. Has to find out his/her mom was a skank that used to swallow cock for a living.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 07:29 PM
2

You showed too much lace and not enough leather. You let your guard down and cried on her shoulder like a friend would. So now, she kind of thinks of you as a friend. I know it's harsh but you can only very rarely show that side of yourself to bombshells like the one you describe. Girls say they want a guy like that, but they don't.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 07:19 PM
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He means he wants to hypnotize some pussy. Wtf is this subreddit. Hey OP maybe try actually talking to a girl instead of trying to woo her with a pendulum and the beard on your neck
/r/askTRP20/02/16 12:18 AM
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That's such a stupid way to think. Reddit in general likes to dramatize subjects like this but in all honesty now is the best time in human history to have a child. Less disease, war, better medical care than ever. Not all woman are like the ones in that article, it's just that the types like that make it on to this forum.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:12 PM
1

Every failure is a success in a way, but think about what you've learned.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 11:25 PM
2

My best advice to you is to be your own brand of masculine. As a someone who grew up without a father and no direction, I tried to long to be mysterious/aloof and adhere to the traditional idea of what I though it meant to be masculine. It would usually just come off odd to me, maybe not to others, but I don't know. I tried for you years to be something other than me. And it was misery. At the end of the day, you are YOU. And you can't try to artificially be what you perceive to be a good man. W…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 09:14 PM
1

Goddamn you're pretentious. How does that attitude work with your boss?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:52 AM
1

pics?
/r/askTRP15/01/16 10:53 PM
1

Electricians these days make bank man. What the fuck. If a girl doesn't know that she's dumb
/r/askTRP12/01/16 05:07 AM
1

Dude you're complaining about 5'10? What the hell. That is DEAD average. There's nothing wrong with you're height. Johnny Depp is 5'10. Get that shit out of your head. I have a friend that is 5'5 that would love to be 5'10. Secondly, fix your posture. You type like you slouch. Take care of yourself. Dress nicely and masculine. Thirdly, you've got to stop viewing woman as these godlike creatures. Get the pussy off the pedestal. I don't get nervous around women any more because I've realized that …
/r/askTRP07/01/16 05:17 AM
1

So this shit is normal? I see my friends can sit down and eat half a pizza and I can't really do that shit. Sometimes I can eat a lot. The first 25 weren't that hard but I need to eat upwards of 3000 now and have been slacking off in recent months. Just feel nauseated a lot after eating a bunch.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 05:08 AM
6

Black Phillip show was the shit. RIP Patrice. Required listening for all.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:46 PM
6

So true. In another thread the other day I saw a comment with a bunch of upvotes saying TRP promotes rape. All I said was, "wherein do you see anything promoting rape?" Got downvoted to shit. Fucking sheeple.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 07:36 AM
6

I can smell your vagina from over here
/r/askTRP15/12/15 01:43 PM
3

It's not selfish, it's biology. Most of the decisions we make today (both genders) can be understood more easily when you viewed primitively. When we were cavemen, it was the biological imperative of a woman to secure a relationship with a man because it ensured several things: Food, protection, and shelter, but most importantly it increased the likelihood of her offspring surviving and even more so thriving in its environment (strong male role model). These same forces that governed are decisio…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:47 AM
2

This is dumb. You should not be giving advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:52 PM
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I'd say maybe 1/5 of the people who frequent sites like reddit know about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 03:48 PM
2

My god, this comment needs to be stickied or something. Far too many men around here being an asshole/douche because they think that's what it takes to be a man. Being a man isn't treating women, or people in general like shit. Being man means knowing you have to be balanced. You can't be dick all the time nor can you be a pandering NiceGuy. It's all about balance. My father used to call it "leather and lace."
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 04:30 PM
1

I think it's both. Egomania and inferiority often complement each other quite well.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:40 AM
1

Your optimism is admirable. I respect you sir. The world is yours
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:31 AM
4

Give her 1/3 of what she gives you. If she texts you, "hey", respond sometimes. Not every time. When she asks you what you're doing, remain aloof. Never type her a long paragraph of what's going on. Pique her interests. Be mysterious. Be sexual. When texting, your endgame should be to meet up somehow though, not to converse (although a little bit is fine to get her wondering).
/r/askTRP11/12/15 05:19 PM
2

I'm in high school and heres my advice to you. Be light. Don't take anything too seriously. Flirt with many girls, ask them on dates, just have a good time and don't take yourself too seriously. I've asked several girls from my school and dates and some of them went pretty shit (the girls were either too boring or too awkward). I finally got around to a chick who isn't as crazy and is cool with sex but not a relationship (which I want). Also lift. I was a skinny fuck until I started lifting this…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 04:56 PM
1

How are you now?
/r/askTRP11/12/15 02:04 AM
2

He's saying redirect your fucking anger to BETTER yourself. Im sorry you had a shit childhood, as I too had a verbally abusive father. But the thing is, right now you are presented with two choices. You can either live in the past, and dwell on that which you cannot change, or you can look forward and use your anger and heartache to motivate you to become a better person. What's it gonna be?
/r/askTRP10/12/15 12:17 PM
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Man there's no shame in getting on a low dose for awhile and getting your brain back to baseline. You wouldn't just ignore a sore on your leg would you? What makes you think your mind is any different? It's an organ as well, obviously damaged by what you've experienced in war. Just because you medicate temporarily doesn't mean you will for the rest of your life. You don't have to suffer. Seek help. Also, you won't get fat as fuck if you watch your diet. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 05:30 AM
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Can we stop this answering shit with 2-3 word advice without offering any tangible solution, question, or elaboration? You're not a sage because your answers are 3 words.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:25 AM
1

How do the girls act when you're gaming them (be honest)? But more importantly, how are you acting?
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:23 AM
1

Great story, I'm glad you got your life together. But the notion that women are happy and men aren't is wrong. Women aren't happy either. Feminism has ruined women and men.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 06:08 PM
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You got her number. You did fine.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:33 PM
2

I typically bow with my left hand behind my back while grabbing her hand and kissing it, "G'day, Madame". It's southern etiquette and sign of respect and dignity.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:53 AM
1

No. Do not tell her you love her. You don't really know this chick and you've only been on a few dates with her? Honestly if you tell her you love her she might get creeped out. Don't do that. Play it cool. Mix interest and disinterest.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 05:43 PM
2

Source?
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:19 PM
1

Just explain to her and whoever you have to talk to (i.e. the dean) that it was a socially retarded move and that you're new to the scene and didn't know it was unacceptable. Apologize and explain that you thought it was acceptable, but that now you know it isn't. Do you get my drift? Try to throw it on your social ineptness.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 11:45 AM
1

She shits, pisses, sneezes, and looks ugly when she has the flu, just like you. She's not a goddess. She gets up every morning, does her makeup, squeezes her ass into a tiny pair of jeans, and curls her hair just so MEN that are fucking worth it will notice and approach her. Are you one of those men?
/r/askTRP01/10/15 01:42 AM
1

Netflix and chill? Or some variation of that. That's a pretty clear euphemism these days and I'm sure she'd get the idea. And if she comes over and you have sex, no cuddling or anything afterward. Make it clear that you don't want her staying the night.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 05:56 PM
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Dude this chick is bad news. She got drunk as fuck on a first date and started swearing at people? She's obviously got some sort of emotional or mental issues, and that's not something you want to get yourself into. Don't try to "fix her" of any of that shit. Accept her apology and move on to another chick. If she's acting this poorly on a first date, how do you think she'd act 3 or 4 months down the road? Be cordial with her, but don't pursue anymore. If she begs to see you again maybe invite h…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:39 PM
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Cause he's pretty much still a young boy and your wife is a 40 year old woman who's old enough to have birthed him. It's just women's instinct to grieve over the death of a young boy. It's hardwired in their DNA. It's just something that we as men don't quite understand as well. Sure, no man likes to hear about the death of a young child, but you and me both know that women tend to take something like that harder and more seriously than men do. They probably don't understand why we feel the need…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:30 PM
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I answered this question in another thread today. Go give it a read. Don't really want to copy/paste the same answer.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:11 PM
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"Too tall for you", queue shit eating grin
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:07 PM
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Just make a fucking joke out of it is what I do. I used to be a lot skinnier and less assertive so naturally with a group of men I would always be the butt of the joke. But the thing is, It's actually really easy a lot of the time to make THEM look stupid when they fuck with you. But you have to do it the right way. For instance. You're with a group of guys and someone calls you a faggot. In that type of situation what I would do is walk up to whoever said it, put my arm around them, and say som…
/r/askTRP27/09/15 04:01 PM
1

Instead of the using willpower method, try addressing the reasons why you look at porn.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 02:00 AM
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For fucks sake divorce this bitch. She has 0 respect for you and has undoubtedly cheated on you several times at the least. Get a lawyer and ask him how you can come out as cleanly as possible. But honestly, is it even worth salvaging? I would consider her sticking her daughters ass in your fucking face a pretty good sign that it's not. Divorce her.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 10:21 PM
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I don't think it's something you can sit down and find but rather stop engaging in imitation and your true self will show. It's like if you have a piece of furniture that you move around a lot. If you stop repainting it, the true color will show. It's great that you've recognized that you imitate people. I have a friend who pretty much changes within every social circle. If he's with the pot heads he's listening to rap, if he's out with country people, he's listening to whatever pop country bull…
/r/askTRP19/09/15 01:56 PM
2

Yeah this sub is going downhill. Drugs will never permanently fix a fucking problem. Maybe for a few days, tops. Believing that drugs will cure you is a good way to become one of those lifeless couch potato potheads that doesn't do fucking shit with their life
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:17 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 09:49 PM
1

You won't fuck your shoulder up if you retract your scapula. I've been benching like this for months and never even so much as slight injured it. I did it injure it however benching with my back flat on the bench.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 09:56 PM
2

She started partying at 11? By that token she at least started sucking dick at 13. Don't LTR this chick. She's bad news.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:46 PM
2

Close grip is going to workout your arms (triceps especially) more. Wide grip is going to workout your chest more. I always put my ring finger on those rings on the bar. That's just what I was taught.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 12:26 PM
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Let me ask you this. What is the worst possible scenario that could occur if you walked up to this girl and initiated a talk?
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:27 PM
0

Soft next. She's not that interested in you man. If she really really liked you she wouldn't have a problem waking up early. Don't make the mistakes I did and keep chasing her when she tries to reschedule and inevitably making yourself look like a fool. Soft next and start working on another girl.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 02:30 AM
2

I'd like to thank you for a legitimate and helpful response. I suffer from abandonment issues from my dad leaving me and for many years I felt very inferior to people and had low self esteem. But over the course of this year I've been getting much better since I began lifting. The odd thing is is that outwardly I'm high self confident, charming, and amiable. But some days on the inside those old destructive thought patterns creep back up. I'm still a senior in high school and I understand what y…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:53 PM
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Have you seen a therapist?
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:42 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:29 PM
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I'm sick of this catch all answer for everything. I DO lift have been for over a year now. My self confidence has increased over the past months and I've read the sidebar multiple times. How would me pushing the girls away have anything to do with lack of abundance mentality? If I lacked an abundance mentality I would pander and cling to any girl that gave me a little bit of attention. The thing is women do show interest in me often but a lot of the time I push her away if she's interested. And …
/r/askTRP12/09/15 04:27 PM
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Don't try and invent ways to make yourself look 'risky'. It will probably end up coming off as awkward and forced. If you come across and interesting opportunity when with a girl, take it, and take her with you. But don't try and invent ways to display that you are risky.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:08 PM
2

Women often despise what they love.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:09 AM
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Because reddit is full of pandering low value men who still think in the fucked up mindset that if they show women they're "progressive" and support feminism that somehow it will get them laid.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:08 AM
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Lots of Ed hardy, affliction, and tapout shirts. It lets you and everyone else around you know how badass you are. But in all serious, you can never go wrong with a pair of pointed leather shoes, slim fit (levi 511 is what I wear) jeans, and a well fitting v neck. I find that leather shoes and jeans are a very masculine look. I tend not wear a lot sneakers and graphic tees these days because I've found they tend to look very teenish.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 04:05 AM
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I'm still in high school and there isn't shit to do in my town. I planned on picking her up (I've known her for awhile) and taking her to a coffee shop before. I figured the car ride and coffee shop would be good beforehand.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 11:11 PM
1

Dude just spit on her from now on but just take some T boosters right before. She'll smell the testosterone and suck your cock right then and there
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 01:51 AM
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That whole sub is just trash dude. I read that dumb post. It's just an angry women coming to the realization that her looks are what's most important.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 11:44 AM
2

It's not self deprecation. It's agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 11:50 PM
1

You care way too fucking much about your height for god's sake man. Go watch RSDTyler's YouTube video on "Menvy" that's the shit you need to hear. At 5'6 you're still taller than a lot of girls. Accept that you're done growing and stop focusing on this so much. Focus on something you actually have control over. If you walk around life with a chip on your shoulder about your height the girls are gonna sniff that shit out and test you to fucking hell on it. You've gotta get over it. It's out of yo…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:17 PM
1

Yeah I could see that. Play around with this new chick but don't invest too much time into her you know? Live and learn
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:10 PM
1

What 'useless shit' are you doing?
/r/askTRP23/08/15 10:08 PM
1

Just move on to the next girl. She's already lost interest.
/r/askTRP23/08/15 09:48 PM
3

There's a word for that body type. It's called Ottermode
/r/askTRP23/08/15 05:25 PM
2

Get buff as shit and women won't care about your face. The face is lower on the list for women. Get a rocking bod.
/r/askTRP22/08/15 09:57 PM
1

So true so many bullshit questions lately.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:55 AM
1

There is a lot of money to be made in being a skilled tradesmen these days. I'm currently looking into becoming a welder.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 01:53 AM
1

I really want to go out with girls other than the ones out my school. But I'm stumped on where to meet them. And yes I pussed out on the first date. I only hugged her. I know I should have kissed her. And also I'm definitely not the NiceGuy. I'm very flirtatious and outgoing. I'm not in the friend zone with anyone. Girls flirt with me all the time my problem has always been dating them and hanging out with them outside of school and shit like that.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 12:17 AM
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Yeah I should've noticed the signs. I guess I had to learn somehow. The thing is she's shown a lot of interest in the past. She continued to show interest at school all week. You're right, I was a low priority. To be honest I don't think I creeped her out with the hand thing. I'm not a creepy guy. I'm very popular at my school and have great social skills. I think she just wasn't expecting me to grab her hand and reacted that way in nervousness. I'm just bummed because my last two dates with chi…
/r/askTRP15/08/15 11:34 PM
2

I prefer actually just talking to women like people sometimes. A lot of PUA stuff is centered around saying the right things at the right time. I don't like to think like that. Just talk to her like normal. You say this girl works at the mall? Ok: "Hey, what do you think about these jeans?" "They look super cute, you should get them!" "Grins You're just saying that so I'll buy them..." "laughs, no I'm not!" "both of you laugh, so How long you been working here?" Boom. There's your in. Talk to he…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 12:17 PM
8

It's all by design. If you fragment every aspect of society you have complete control. Divide and conquer.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:01 PM
4

I'm pretty great at flirting. Here's a few tips I could give you 1) it's not so much what you say but moreso how you say it. When I'm flirting with girls I can get away with saying foolish stuff but I say it with gusto and get away with it 2) do little things to pick at her. I was in class today and the teacher asked if there were Ang volunteer to solve the problem on the board. I volunteered the hot girl behind me with a shit eating grin on my face. The teacher chose her. It was hilarious 3) ey…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:15 AM
4

You're not getting called cute because of your body. You're getting called cute because you're acting cute. Work on that on top of your body. Also 5'10 isn't even short it's average. Stop obsessing over you're looks and workout you mind instead.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:48 AM
2

Is there any recovering strategy for someone who understands the principles of trp but who is unable to take the steps that are actually necessary. Yeah, it's called self imposed misery. Have fun.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:46 AM
0

I definitely don't disagree with dick masterson on a lot of things but his website is fucking dumb. And while his Dr. Phil appearance was hilarious he still went about things the completely wrong way.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:34 AM
0

I'm in uni and the girls aren't even interested about dating or sex Ok
/r/askTRP12/08/15 07:34 PM
8

Fuck that rude bitch. I would have walked away as soon as she smarted off. You're too good for that shit. Don't ever talk to her again
/r/askTRP12/08/15 12:55 AM
1

No unfortunately I don't know a lot about hay stuff. But I'll subscribe.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:31 PM
1

No but that's a great idea. Start that sub. I'd join.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:01 PM
1

Just get up and fucking leave, that's false advertisement.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:43 PM
3

Because women never needed to develop things to make them interesting. They are inherently valuable because of their bodies. Women don't have to have hobbies or be interesting. They just have to have a vagina and take care of their appearance.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:41 PM
2

Step out of your comfort zone. If I were you I would make an effort to start befriending more guy friends, because this will lead you to more chicks. It's like a good foot in the door.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:38 PM
3

Because: a) for some reason mental illness is some sort of fucking badge these days (I have no fucking clue) ...But most importantly because: b) being a victim allows you to not take responsibility for your actions
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:36 PM
6

Yeah because we know about all of those public coffee shop rapes that are going on these days, how could I have forgotten?
/r/askTRP10/08/15 03:43 AM
2

Good advice.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 01:37 AM
11

Because I know that it's a test. If you don't believe me, go ahead. You came here for advice and you don't want to hear it?
/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:48 PM
17

No. Do not. I repeat DO NOT let her bring her friend. This is a common test girls with throw at you. She's trying to find out if you're a friend or a lover. I had a very similar thing happen to me not to long ago. She asked if she could bring her friend, and I said "no, private party, just me and you". We ended up not going out but it saved me from being put in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 10:38 PM
1

If you're well groomed and socially confident, you won't come off as creepy. You've got to be really suave. Be sure to make the girls laugh a lot too.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 08:33 PM
2

"Maybe"
/r/askTRP09/08/15 04:47 PM
2

Go read "No More Mr. Nice Guy". It's available online in pdf form
/r/askTRP09/08/15 03:05 PM
4

Can someone show this post to the recent horde of insecure Indians over in AskTrp?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:22 PM
1

Dude spot on about how Redditors victimize themselves incessantly for karma. It's so fucking pitiful. Has anyone noticed that 95% of the people on this website claim to suffer from some sort of mental disorder? It's ridiculous the whiny mental disorder circlejerking that occurs on this website. I am in no way dissing mental disorder because they do exist, but most of the motherfuckers on Reddit are depressed because they spend there weekends alone, eating junk food, watching Netflix, and Redditi…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:17 PM
6

No. Don't bring it up again. She will. And when she does, respond in a way that resembles what I said above. If you bring it up with her again you're just giving her another opportunity to fuck with your head and cause drama (women love drama, yet say they hate it). Drop it and forget about it until she brings it up again.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:58 PM
44

Women by nature do not want to be equal to men. It is a woman's instinct to choose man of greater value than her. Why is this? Because having sex with a higher value male ensures high value offspring, which is the crux of why women act the way they do. They do not want to be your equal, but they will not admit this because it would make it entirely too easy for men. I urge you to look at the relationships of people in your life you know, anyone where the woman and the man are supposedly equal, t…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:54 PM
1

What exactly are you saying for her to be calling you a dick? Don't lie. Sometimes douche game can be taken too far.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:41 PM
10

She said what she did about the career path you've chosen because she wants to know if YOU think you're going to be successful. She's shit testing you and if you responded with anger, you failed. She doesn't actually know if you're going to be bad in that field or not, she was just testing your reaction. These are the things you need to start seeing before they get out of hand. If she were my girlfriend and had started questioning my career choices, I would've said something dry and sarcastic li…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 04:36 PM
2

Dating IS a competition. The males are competing for the best female. In short, you absolutely are in competition with other men. This is why TRP encourages lifting, acquiring wealth, and developing social skills because a woman instinctively wants to choose the best man to have sex with.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 03:39 PM
5

Why not... Both?
/r/askTRP08/08/15 02:48 PM
3

And also most people think that this shit is just happening by chance, but it's quite the contrary. Everything fucked up in America (political correctness, feminism, etc.) is most DEFINITELY by design. And it has been since the 20s. I can't give a source right now, but I remember reading a quote from John D. Rockefeller that read, "of course we want women's liberation, that's half of America we'd now be able to tax!".
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:09 AM
6

Dude I feel you.. There's nothing like getting to like a girl and then you find out she's a dick sucking pro, I hate that sinking feeling. It's like the attraction is gone instantly. Yeah it doesn't mean I'm not physically attracted to her anymore but she's definitely not LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:04 AM
3

Dude what the fuck... This isn't RedPill conversation. Take your dumb questions to another sub
/r/askTRP08/08/15 01:42 AM
5

I understand this, but it's bad advice for beginners who take it as "don't approach girls, as once you reach a certain point of manhood they will come flocking to you". That advice kept me from approaching girls because I was waiting for that "one day" that they would start coming around. I think you should definitely pursue women, but do not be overt or too serious. Have the attitude that you're just having a good time.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 06:41 PM
2

When I'm walking with a girl and holding her hand, I always walk a step ahead. And instinctively, a lot of the girls walk a step behind. I always thought it was sexy.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 04:11 PM
1

It just means your game is gonna have to be on point.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:54 PM
5

FORREAL! So many insecure Indians lately.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:53 PM
2

I like the 2/3 rule. Give a girl 1/3 of what she gives you. It basically means letting her do a lot of the talking. Women love taking about themselves.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:52 PM
2

Start by asking one of the lesser attractive girls out on a coffee date. I say this because you will be less nervous with a 5 or 6 and it will be good practice for you. Be sure when you ask her say something like, "I'm gonna be getting coffee tomorrow at around 3 at x coffee shop, you should come along." I really love this method of asking women out because it takes the pressure off of the notion of he classic "date", and if she doesn't show up, guess what? You were going any way, your just invi…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:47 PM
1

Yeah sluts are better at sex logistically. But I don't think you get the same "destroying her innocence" feeling when you're with a slut, because you know she has none. I prefer hooking up with more innocent and submissive sweet girls because I love the feeling of just grabbing a head full of hair and making her mine. With a clubslut you're just another dick down the well.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 03:31 PM
8

She didn't want to kiss you if she didn't kiss you.. Move on to the next chick
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:13 AM
9

No. Men age like whiskey. They get better with age. In terms of personality. There's not necessarily a "wall" for men like there is for women. A woman's body and appearance are pretty much all she's got. Men are sought after by women for different reasons, as I'm sure you know.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:10 AM
1

What he said. It's just something that goes away the more you do if.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:10 AM
1

Trololololol
/r/askTRP06/08/15 01:57 PM
63

That guy is good looking. Fuck that guy who was a douche. A lot of the newcomers here are confusing asshole with giving direct, straight, and frank responses. I can tell a lot of people on this sub and some on the main sub are trying too fucking hard to come off as "alpha". Nothing wrong with being straightforward, but a lot of the newbies think that means being a douche.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 03:35 AM
2

Great advice man. The best I've heard in a while. Elaborating on what you said about comedy, it definitely is a skill you can develop. Most people think your either born funny or your not. You can develop a sense of humor.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:49 AM
1

"I like your shirt, but it's a little too purple for me.."
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:42 AM
11

If the only way you can get your dick in a piece of pussy is by taking advantage of someone with mental problems /abandonment issues, maybe you need to reevaluate some things. Maybe some people will disagree with me, but quite frankly I think that's fucked up. Go take advantage of a bad bitch who wants to be taken advantage of.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 02:40 AM
1

Why the hell would you use fake pics? That's fucking creepy and stupid if you were really trying to fuck this girl. How would you feel if you showed up to her house and she was a fucking landwhale?
/r/askTRP04/08/15 03:54 PM
1

Ok
/r/askTRP03/08/15 08:44 PM
3

Because people spend too much fucking time with their faces in their phones these days to learn social skills. I'm still in high school. I've noticed a lot of people (1/3 maybe) are just straight up social retards. They may have great grades but they can't actually converse about relevant topics and interject their own beliefs. I've gotten somewhat disgusted with the fakeness of people in high school too. Occasionally I would run around with this one group in particular. These people literally d…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 08:41 PM
1

I took them for a while. About 3 months. I got off of them. Fuck that shit. It made me drop nearly 5 lbs. It also made me quiet and weak (both physically and mentally). I hated that shit but it gave me a good high so I took it for awhile. I'm convinced its apart of the government's plan to make America's male youth complacent, calm, and attentive in the classroom. It's all apart of the indoctrination. Hence why every fucking young boy these days gets diagnosed with fucking ADHD. Used to it was j…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 04:03 AM
-2

Can we stop with the classifying of everything as either beta or alpha? It's honestly fucking childish. Its making me cringe the more I see people post about 'alpha' music and shit like that. There is no need to classify every noun as either redpill or bluepill. Can we just stick to discussion that is actually relevant and matters?
/r/askTRP02/08/15 07:14 PM
3

No, don't try to have sex with beautiful college girls who are at the peak of their fertility and beauty
/r/askTRP02/08/15 07:10 PM
3

He's either rich, or very very smooth.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:33 AM
1

I get the impression that you feel like conversation is some sort of game. While it can be at times, it's not always. Just talk to people and genuinely listen to their words and respond accordingly.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 02:00 AM
3

Oh yeah, great advice. Using drugs to deal with life. Why don't you just head over to r/trees. Cause weed is the answer to all our problems
/r/askTRP26/07/15 01:49 AM
1

I used to, and still do have a slight inferiority complex due to my father abandoning me as a young child. But over the course of the last 6 months it has been gradually declined because of some serious lifestyle adjustments I've made, the big one being getting a gym membership. I began going in January and have gradually worked my way up to a 5 day per week program. Now, the gym might not be the choice for you. But the reason it is for a lot of people is because you can start tomorrow, and see …
/r/askTRP26/07/15 01:09 AM
1

Validation-seeking is only the symptom of a greater problem. Your inferiority complex is the real problem.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 12:37 AM
1

Dude stop guiding your friend by the balls on getting laid? Wtf, is he trying to help you get laid all the time? If he can't talk to a girl that's his fault. Let him learn that on his own. You're not his dad.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 12:34 AM
1

Too piggyback on this, he also needs to begin learning social skills. Now is the best time in your life to learn them. If you have great social skills you can and will get far in life. In Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" he states that in his opinion, success is 30% raw intelligence and 70% sociability. I will also tell you this, it is important to realize that being social is a skill, it is something you very well can learn with time and practice! I highly advise y…
/r/askTRP26/07/15 12:30 AM
2

Dude look up SimplePickup on YouTube. It's a half Japanese, Asian, and an Indian. They all slay it with women. Yeah. I'm not going to sugarcoat it. You're at a slight disadvantage, but you are not disqualified. What you need to do is develop really really good social skills and game.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:54 PM
2

It goes against groupthink. Also, it's a feminists worst nightmare. If women really didn't subconsciously agree with anything set forth by TRP their wouldn't be so much hostility toward this community.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 02:37 PM
8

I'm sitting here scratching my head too... I think OP is schizophrenic or something. OP please see a psychiatrist or something similar.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 12:23 AM
25

Yeah this is true. A lot buff gym dudes are still insecure as fuck and terrible with women. I've seen a lot of good looking dudes with fat slobs because they don't think thy deserve any better
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:26 PM
2

I read EASYWAY also. Would recommend it too every smoker! Fuck cigs, they do nothing for you.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:25 AM
1

/r/Gainit You're welcome.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 08:24 PM
1

Yeah this is a dumb thread.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 08:23 PM
1

I used to smoke and thought I manly as fuck. I've quit since, but in truth there's nothing manly about it at all. There's nothing manly about systematically destroying your organs and giving yourself cancer. But unfortunately the media has just brainwashed us into thinking its a manly habit through film and other media. Wanna know what's really manly? Lifting, eating right, and taking care of your body and mind.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 08:20 PM
1

AA meetings teach you discipline, you don't know what you're talking about. That's the whole point of the 12 Steps.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 06:31 PM
11

To me, confidence is achieved by doing something you fear, and doing it anyway. A martial arts Grandmaster isn't confident he can beat your ass because of some mood or frame of mind he's in, he's confident he can beat your ass because he's practiced his entire life and has fought many difficult opponents. The same concept can be applied to anything throughout life. If you're terrified to ask that girl out on a date, do it, and the next time you ask a girl out it won't be as nerve-wracking as it …
/r/askTRP21/07/15 02:13 AM
3

Don't give him advice unless he asks for it. This can be very hard, but most of the time people don't want your advice. They just want an emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP20/07/15 10:50 PM
1

In order to avoid divorce rape, get a PreNup.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 12:12 AM
1

Find you a good church virgin. Marry her. Fuck her brains out every night. Raise a family.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 12:11 AM
1

Dude honestly I've never heard the thyroid issue brought up there ever. Actually, I've heard quite the opposite. Maybe you read a bad post a while back but it's not like that
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:14 PM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP16/07/15 01:50 PM
1

Wut
/r/askTRP13/07/15 12:41 PM
1

Where are you planning to move?
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:42 PM
3

^
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:13 PM
3

Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy"
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:12 PM
1

Every time you're afraid of doing something, and do it anyway, you gain confidence. Scared as fuck to go talk to that pretty girl? Go fucking do it. And eventually you won't give a shit about being rejected (it happens to every guy).
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:09 PM
1

The only reason you watch porn is to fill a need you're not getting.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 09:58 PM
3

Maybe your doing too much too fast. I can't remember the post name right now. But there was this guy who posted a 7 week gradual desensitization 'routine' if you will a while back on TRP. Just remember. Being social is a skill, it's something you practice and develop. Sure some people are born ahead of the curve but there's no reason you can't catch up. Also, check out SimplePickup on YouTube. Those guys are the shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 03:26 AM
2

With the attitude you have right now you'll never get yourself out there and try it. You'll constantly be waiting for the "right" time. That perfect time isn't going to come tomorrow, next week, or next month. You have to get out your comfort zone. I know, because I've been doing it the last couple of months. Before summer started I was always waiting on the "right" time. I finally kicked myself in the ass and asked this girl to breakfast. She said yes and we had a great time. We have another da…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 06:43 PM
4

Props for manning the fuck up! I have a date with this chick tonight. I'm nervous. But I'm going to do it any way and at the end of the night I'm gonna kiss her
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 06:09 PM
3

I like to use the Brad Pitt test. If I were brad Pitt, would she be acting this way? If the answer is no, next her.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 01:52 AM
3

Go out and try it tomorrow night. You only fail by not trying!
/r/askTRP09/07/15 03:12 PM
7

The cold-shouldered approach works sometimes. Not right here. You just sound like a fucking douche
/r/askTRP09/07/15 01:14 AM
3

Can someone provide me some elaboration on the College Conspiracy documentary? Where can I find more good info on the subject? What are some alternatives?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:37 PM
17

He was acting that way because that approach doesn't work with those types of people. She's a domineering bitch. In order to get his point across he had to more domineering than her
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:16 PM
3

Continue to live a RP lifestyle and the fetishes will dissipate.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 11:51 PM
1

Dude wtf... Deadlifts are 1x5
/r/askTRP05/07/15 07:07 PM
1

Goddamnit, this is infuriating to read!
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:57 PM
1

Maybe put it all away for 30 days to get back to equilibrium. Then try regulating just masturbation without porn. Never is it okay in my opinion to watch porn. Not even in moderation.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 01:30 PM
12

See, /nofap gets a bad rap because most people don't need it. You need it. Go there now.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 12:47 AM
25

Man I love Patrice. He spits straight RP truths. He didn't give a fuck. I was so sad when looking into his life further I realized he was dead. That's a shame. If you get a chance listen to the recordings of him on the Opie and Anthony show.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 04:16 AM
2

Can someone explain to me why I find idea of dating one of these girls repulsive? I've never really understood why the partner count of a woman bothered me so much
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 02:40 AM
1

Yeah that's what I was thinking. I hope that guy above me would never actually deliver a "comeback". You would just get laughed at even more.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:33 PM
3

Care to elaborate on the female porn stars after porn? I've always wondered how those young girls turn out after getting used up for 2-3 years
/r/askTRP29/06/15 04:47 PM
1

He could. But doing what these guys do pretty nukes social anxiety. Yes it's very difficult at first, but a lot of people see results in only 3 days. OP, if you can find a friend to go out and try it with it roll make things a lot. If it makes you feel better I'm about to start or practicing it with a buddy of mine too
/r/askTRP28/06/15 03:41 PM
3

Well. You stated your opinion and I've got to give it to you, you're right. This one post changed my mind! Thank you gentlesir. Come on guys, let's get outta here.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 02:18 PM
1

I might get down voted for this, but honestly l, give it a shot. There are the these guys on YouTube called "SimplePickup". They do pretty much only cold approaches and they're fucking good at it too. They're not really PUAs to be honest. I think PUArtistry is dumb as fuck honestly. These guys just have great social handling and grace. And they do a lot of their stuff on college campuses. Check it out.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 02:14 PM
1

You only fail when you don't try.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 04:47 AM
2

I think it really depends on the individual. See, I'm not too interested in the idea of monogamy either, but I really really want to have a son or daughter one day. And if that meant settling down in my early 30s, I'd do it. If children aren't your thing, don't settle down. But if you do have a kid. Do NOT FUCKING LEAVE IT TO THE MOTHER TO RAISE. Women alone are not equipped to raise a boy into a man. That's why things like TRP are needed these days. The single mother epidemic and the absent fat…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 04:40 AM
2

Yeah dude. 5'10 isn't bad at all. It's the global average. Is it ideal? No, but honestly it doesn't matter that much. Tom Cruise is 5'7. Steven Tyler looks like he got ran over by a truck. They still get pussy.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:06 AM
1

Manual labor jobs are the first thing to come to mind. Also, this isn't a job, but going to bars at around 5 on weekdays would probably be a really great way to make male friends. If you haven't, I highly suggest you read the book How To Win Friend's and Influence People.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 01:01 AM
5

Stop eating her out.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 06:29 PM
1

You've got too much invested in a girl that isn't as special as you think. Leave her alone and if she texts you again be aloof/indifferent about hanging out. I might even blow her off if she invites you to hangout. Go meet some other chicks and get over this bitch. Not worth it Edit: meant to reply to main post
/r/askTRP24/06/15 06:27 PM
2

Men are not women. Be straight and honest with your guy friends. Nobody likes to be bullshitted, so stop trying to be something you are not.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 11:36 PM
3

The guy above me "said forget she exists, go fuck ten other women" like it's as easy as that. While that is the right answer, it's not that easy. Especially if you've been in an LTR. Dude, you've got to come to some realizations about this chick: 1) She is not as special as you think and 2) There are other girls who probably fit the bill better than her. Take it from somebody who has experienced this shit. Chasing this girl WILL NOT, I repeat WILL NOT work. She's a leaf in the wind drifting from…
/r/askTRP22/06/15 08:53 PM
10

Stop doing her fucking homework for one.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 11:16 PM
14

Start treating them too sweet and see how fast they drop your ass.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 01:51 PM
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Dude if your having girls approach you, you must be damn good looking. That's rare. Props to you. As far as the anxiety. Just repeatedly expose yourself to social situations, and subconsciously your mind will learn that there is no danger. And your anxiety will be lessened.
/r/askTRP
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We aren't supposed to be sleeping with other people as a mutual agreement Hate to tell you, but you're in a relationship with her. The whole premise of a relationship is that you DON'T sleep with other people. In regards to the text. If she text you something like that again, do not call her immediately after. Ignore it. I know its harsh but trying to console her about her insecurities is a one way ticket to the friendzone
/r/askTRP
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care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP
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If you do adopt this boy, for gods sake raise him to be a real man
/r/askTRP
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