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YES. This bull crap is a way to manipulate women to settle for way less. This reminds me of a former friend, who I now realize exhibited pickmeisha tendencies, once told me off for wanting a nice engagement ring (also buying nice things in general) and "focusing on money too much" because "it's about how you feel." Well Barbara (not her real name), I'm feeling real petty at the moment and want to point out that love can't buy happiness either. Exhibit A: you're fucking divorced. Like OP said, mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:04 AM
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Thank you! It felt so good to ignore him and even better when I took a quick minute to assess how I was feeling - nothing. I'll never give it that type of power over me again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:41 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:37 AM
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Oh, I'm definitely aware of that! I was honestly more surprised to find out he kept my number. I don't think I'll be downloading any more messaging apps anytime soon 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:37 AM
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It's definitely a fulfilling role. It is voluntary, though. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:35 AM
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I decided to treat it as a non-factor in my life. I feel like if I utter it's name, I'm giving it life and a presence; something it doesn't deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 12:32 AM
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Dr. Andrew Gatley, Ph.D in clownery, foolery, and the audacity. I almost, ALMOST popped a blood vessel reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:57 PM
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100% I did this too! I cringe everytime I look back on my actions as a pickmeisha (I'm a recovering one, but nonetheless a work in progress!) I used to get SO excited when my NVM situationship would text back. Now, I'm like, "dang girl, you dropped the bar so low" and I'm working on myself. I used to check my phone every 1-2 minutes hoping I'd get a respond back immediately or would feel bad if I didn't respond to a message right away. I didn't realize how tiring it was to continue a fruitless c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:44 AM
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But actually. At first, I was wondering what had gotten into him to act like this because this is truly the first time he's shown this side. But I've realized that this is who he actually is. He's a LVM that hides behind the nice guy facade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:26 PM
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I literally was about to say the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 03:34 AM
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I opened the article and was met with his non-existent chin and just about threw my phone across the room. The nerve of his over-ripe mango looking ass to even ask the young woman if, "if he was older than her dad" and then laugh it off as though it was nothing. AND he's engaged to a 29 year-old. FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:05 PM
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This weak-chinned fool is not a nice guy if he's ABUSING his Hollywood status to FORCE teen girls to look at him on dating apps. Hollywood is seriously part of the problem. They're normalizing this and allowing girls to be groomed and abused. That's what they are: girls and not women. It sucks because this is a common occurrence and it's not okay. Good Lord, I read the article and it fried my circuits. I am fuming right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:52 AM
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I pretty much had the same experience where I was handed pads and had to spread my wings and be a woman. When I say woman, I mean thay I was expected shoulder the emotional burdens of my family, learn how to cook, clean, care for my siblings and also be viewed as less than because I'm a woman. Similar experience with my father. It made him uncomfortable and so we weren't allowed to discuss it. Even saying the word vagina was something I remember I got scolded about. To this day, mum can't say va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:14 AM
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I agree. Majority of men ('bUt NoT aLl MeN') will think you're flirting with them. Also, I think that they'll probably just give you a BS answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:00 AM
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I ended up making a sound similar to a dying whale just now. Even though I'm currently reliving my shameful younger years, I am thankful I stumbled upon this sub because I'd probably still be singing to songs like these, sending long ass texts to scrotes that don't care and would definitely be a pickmeisha. I'm a recovering pickmeisha and still a work in progress, but I'll be damned if I let anyone ruin my journey to attaining the sky high confidence of an average white man! Hahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:55 AM
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Ugh..the shame I feel when I remember singing this song when I was younger 😑🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:41 AM
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One time, I had taken the subway home from work and I was with my younger sister. A man approached me in a BUSY subway platform to ask for directions. Mind you, said platform has BIG LETTERS AND ARROWS indicating, "westbound" and "eastbound" trains. I said, "no" and continued to walk away with my sister and the fool turns around and yells that all he wanted was directions and I didn't need to be a bitch. Dude. There are freaking directions in the subway. And it was the afternoon rush hour. Ask s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:29 AM
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He legit told me reading was, "so boring and there's no point to it." The man was allergic to books. Downright hated them. In my pickmeisha haze, I ignored it and continued to believe I can change him, etc. Needless to say, my type includes: educated and literate. Whenever I look back at my past self, I cringe. I ignored the fact that he was unable to distinguish the difference between there, they're and their. It's so embarrassing. Reading is fundamental, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:39 PM
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Knitting, reading, and learning new languages! The ex-situationship didn't see the value in reading books. He also said that knitting was what, "lonely, cat ladies do." Seriously? Then sign me the fuck up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:50 AM
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Yep. I suggested therapy before and all I got was, "I'm fine." Like therapy is such a threat to your masculinity. R3aL men Don't hAvE fEeLiNgs. Absolute BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:25 PM
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Thanks so much! I'm still working on how to tune out others' opinions of me since I've been a people pleaser for so long (and was a pickme) but my situationship and the pandemic have helped me realize that I value my solitude so much. I love being single. Yes, there are times where I feel lonely, but I have the privilege of literally walking down the hall and talking to my sisters about it. It's never a dull moment in my household!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:22 PM
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Thank you! I'm definitely trying my best to put FDS practices forward! I still find myself falling back into some pickme habits whenever I feel lonely, but I've got my family, a damn good therapist and this sub to look at to remind me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:18 PM
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You'd be surprised. I even had one male "friend" ask me in college if I was going to move out of my parents' house (pre-divorce) because it looked like I never was going to. I thought it was weird as hell that they were so interested in it and also such a rude comment. Needless to say, we're not friends anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:17 PM
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Different culture! For the most part, people from my culture don't bat an eyelash at my current living situation; it's normal for us to take our parents in and care for them in their old age. It's also normal for multiple generations to live in the same home. I've had some men (and women) look at me like I've got 7 heads for still living with my family. I get comments like: "I need my privacy" "Isn't it weird that you're still living with your family" "I don't know how you do it" As if living wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:07 PM
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Amen! They'll also make you feel so guilty that you end up apologizing. If they put the same energy into being a decent human being as they did gaslighting, the world would be a much better place. And men wonder why more and more women are choosing to stay single and childfree. Edit: changed childless to childfree. Thanks, AriaLuz for the suggestion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:51 AM
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Oh hell. This got my blood pressure rising. If I were her, I would have chucked that food right at him. "Oh look! It's a hungry little scrote AND a single little scrote." ✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:41 AM
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Preaching to the choir here, sis! This is so important. Once you begin to lose your sense of self, you'll start to become someone else. You'll start to do things just to prove to the person that you're worth it when it's the opposite: they're not worth it. They're not worth your time, energy, attention, love, everything. It's important to be able to recognize red flags because it may get harder to leave a situation in the midst of love bombing, gasligthing, manipulation, etc. Also listen to your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:28 AM
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3 miles is not far enough. This is why I will never download Tinder, Bumble, etc. The fact that he thinks that's quirky or remotely funny is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:50 AM
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Agreed! I'd rather live accepting that I'll be happily alone than taken on a LVM adventure at the scrote amusement park, riding emotional rollercoasters with man that barely reaches my chin and him expecting recompense at the gaslight hotel. Not to say that I never feel weak, but I'd rather not experience mental and emotional abuse again. That stuff stays with you for a long time and requires a damn good therapist to overcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:40 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 If you don't mind, I'll be incorporating this term into my everyday speech. This took me out! The scrotacity of it all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:42 PM
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This. Even high school science sugar coated child birth. The curriculum never mentioned the amount of trauma women undergo pos-pregnancy. One of my girlfriends who recently gave birth had to be sewn up after giving birth because she was basically torn open. Not to mention the cramps she felt afterwards BECAUSE HER UTERUS WAS CONTRACTING BACK TO NORMAL SIZE. I was legitimately never taught that in high school. Just learned about the stages of pregnancy and watched a birthing video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:56 AM
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He's probably one of those guys that, "nEeDeD tO get It OuT Of HiS sYstEM" first. Only to realize that he's bald, wrinkly skinned, and not as fit as he used to be. Might as well settle down now, right? The nerve. The audacity. The scroteness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:45 AM
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I had a male friend criticize me for wearing heels to a party. I'm a solid 6'0 with heels on and for some odd reason, I was slightly taller than him. He was apparently 6'0 too. I guess it was just on the days he styled his hair right. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:18 PM
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Sad thing is that I know he's doing the same thing to other women. It's like he gets off on trying to woo as many women as possible. He's a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:47 AM
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This man must damn well be half reptile or something because the last time I saw that type of skin discrepancy was on a snake. The snake was shedding its skin. Ew. Ew times 1000000. Christ above. You can even get lotion at the dollar store! Is that so hard to do?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:37 AM
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It's absolutely insane what love bombing can do to your head! I was manipulated and love bombed by a NVM and grew attached; in hindsight it was a trauma bond. I'm thankful I dogded a bullet because: He made me feel less than He made doubt myself He is manipulative He is too invested in video games (literally on the mobile game 24/7) He is a misogynist He got upset when I called him out on his stuff He was speaking to other women and making me think I was crazy for even thinking that (I had proof…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:15 AM
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Woo congratulations! It's quite liberating when you start to truly prioritize your needs and happiness! Wishing you the absolute best and continue to glow up, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:49 AM
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Emphasis on the vetting. From my experience and other women have stated it before, a LVM can seem HV. NV and LV love the chase and some will initially pass the vetting stage. That's why it's so important to first read the FDS handbook and start to recognize red flags. In my experience, even an LV man will work for it if he views it as a challenge; a means to boast to others that he "caught" the one woman others couldn't have. You're just an object to be won and not someone he values and sees a f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:41 AM
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Forgive my language, but FUCK THAT. Growing? What growing? He should be grown already. Grow together? Nah boo boo. Your financial growth is your responsibility. Only time I'll invest in someone else's growth is if they've spent 9 months in my uterus. Women that invest in these foolish boys end up with the short straw; they give up their goals, their freedom, entire life to "grow" with the scrote only to get left behind when said scrote reaches a mediocre level of success. He'll than think he des…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:18 AM
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You just know that he's seething at the fact that he couldn't get any sympathy or a longer response from you. His soft chin is literally QUIVERING in anger. This whole, "woe is me with grammatical errors," thing is just a ploy to try to get you to lower your guard. And he's an absolute joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:13 AM
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This! I wanted consistent communication. He set the tone for communication and spoke frequently. Then dropped off. Would not speak to me for days. The least I could have gotten is a, "good morning." That doesn't take any effort at all. Ain't shit man (ASM) he was, is, and forever will be. You deserve to have your emotional needs met, communication consistent, and feel as valuable as you know you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:57 PM
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And when you finally have the confidence and courage to resist, to stand up for yourself, you are met with typical mockery like, "are you on your period?" or correctile dysfunction from your male counterparts. I'm a minority woman and unfortunately, despite being born in the west, complacency and passiveness has been ingrained in me. I'm a recovering Pickmeisha that also had to swallow the big pill that I was toxic as well. Still a work in progress. It's a struggle to break out of what has been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:53 PM
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I honestly think young ladies need to have this subreddit recommended to them. As someone that's never officially had a boyfriend, this shit hits hard. I never realized how low effort saying good morning is. I always thought it was sweet, but heck. He was low value, low effort, low everything. Continue to glow up and become the best versions of yourselves, ladies! You deserve it and are worth it. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:37 PM
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