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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Mrs. Midwest is so pretty. I adore Mrs Midwest's vlogs. She's so low-key down-to-earth and doesn't try to do all the trending millennial mom things (sleep training, BLW, EBF, baby sign language—no hate for moms who do this but it's refreshing to see someone raise their babies the way our generation was, and not overthink whether you're doing all the 'right' things). Aside from her I also enjoy Kimono Mom's vlogs. Mrs Midwest inspired me to 'show up for myself' as she called it—to start your morning right, make yourself lo…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/22 07:00 AM
19	Completely F*cking Stumped… Not implying anything, I was just going by the account you provided on your post, which to be fair, made you come across as a difficult and negative companion to be around. If your personalities don't jive and you get into tense internalisations over the simple act of ordering at a restaurant, honestly I think you're just not compatible and have wildly different expectations of how the other should act. It's not supposed to be that hard to spend time with someone.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/22 10:38 PM
26	Completely F*cking Stumped… You both sounded toxic to each other. I also think you're both too young and too deeply consumed into superficial TRP tricks you each think you're doing well. It sounds like the only effort you made into this "relationship" is sitting pretty and expecting to be treated like a princess, all because you dressed up? There's more to the feminine role than that. You both need a break and spend time to work on each of yourselves.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/02/22 09:52 PM
3	Valentine’s day gift ideas for men! Anything helps <3 Sorry—that was an expression ('to take the leaf out of someone's books'). The practice I'm referring to though is called honmei choco . I think the concept is sweet and it's interesting that in Japan, it's the women who give men chocolates. It's a lot more nuanced and has some recent negative sentiment attached when you google it though, so take it with a grain of salt.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 07:37 PM
13	Valentine’s day gift ideas for men! Anything helps <3 Is he a sweet tooth? I've since taken a leaf out of Japanese women's books and go with handmade chocolates / baked goods. This Valentine's I'm making my husband one of his favourite treats—caramel slice. My husband loves Overwatch, and me picking it up after watching him play for a few years deepened our bond—it gave us a shared hobby and something I can listen to him talk about in earnest.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 11:15 PM
43	Signs he's interested in a relationship • Not trying to hide you from his friends and family. He's not evasive about your existence in his life. You've met some of his friends, possibly family. • Wants to be involved in your life, not just you. For example, would show up to your workplace if you let him. Conversely, he isn't shy about showing you where he lives or works. Asks about your family. Wants to spend time with your friends. • Tells you his feelings for you, or that he wants you. • When you're upset, puts in the effort to mend…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/22 11:50 AM
12	Does anyone else get anxious when talking to other guys because you're already in a relationship? I have been having these interactions as well. I have straight up been approached by men at cafés and grocery stores because they simply wanted to get to know me. An Uber driver very respectfully asked, after my trip, if I'd like to hang out some time. A barista gave me free coffee on my first visit to a café. Every single time I would relay what happened to my husband, and he'd ask if I flashed them my wedding ring or mentioned him. I said there was no realistic opportunity for me to start wavi…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/22 07:29 PM
5	Books & Film that show RP Positive role models? Sense & Sensibility (1995 film). I loved the entire story of Elinor. She showed all good virtues and restraint and ultimately was rewarded for it. Pride & Prejudice (2005) was good too, if you prefer a more saucy lead. Movies with RP-positive women but who are not the main characters: If you have four hours, Gone With the Wind (1939). The character of Melanie Wilkes is the epitome of a virtuous woman. She stands in contrast to the main character, Scarlett. Crazy Rich Asians. The matriarch / vill…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/01/22 11:50 PM
1	Is there a reason why a woman would intentionally destroy her value among men and instead flatter other women for their beauty? Ahaha. Look, I agree with your general observations. However I don't condone this particular standard. I find it misogynistic (and it's textbook definition of a double standard). How did that line go? "Men always want to be a woman's first, but women always want to be a man's last." I even said in another thread that virgins are ridiculously desperate horndogs when it comes to sex. But I find that goes both ways. I find that women may not be as eager to lose their virginity or have sex, but when…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/21 07:59 PM
1	Is there a reason why a woman would intentionally destroy her value among men and instead flatter other women for their beauty? Well, there's something to be said about a man who's sexually experienced, yet prefers virgins. You don't need to paint someone as having a weird fetish for cuckolding, just because he reasonably understands that just as he has a past, so do some women. And believe it or not, a lot of people end up putting the first person they have sex with on a pedestal, to their detriment. If you're a virgin looking for a virgin, sure go ahead and uphold your standards. Preferentially valuing virginity and de…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 11:21 PM
2	Engaged Christians & Premarital Sex Sorry, I meant no offense. My point is sex is incredibly hyped and and blown out of proportion, especially to those who don't have access to it. There are people across all religions who can profess a vow of celibacy, and even married couples who can spend periods of deliberate sexual abstinence out of piety. OP's fiancé can and should be able to wait a few months until marriage.	/r/RedPillWives	19/12/21 02:10 AM
4	Engaged Christians & Premarital Sex Look, not gonna lie, I reckon most Christians (even those who vow to stay 'pure') have a secret sex life. It's a classic case of cognitive dissonance—something like 'I love and understand the beauty of Christian teaching, but in the real world I know everyone is doing it anyway.' Your fiancé must be getting influenced by male friends that it's okay since you're engaged and practically married anyway. He's being incredibly selfish and self-absorbed about his needs and frankly, it's disgusting tha…	/r/RedPillWives	18/12/21 09:49 PM
21	Is there a reason why a woman would intentionally destroy her value among men and instead flatter other women for their beauty? Can't be helped. Some women are aware they're not and never will be conventially 'pretty'. They've probably have had internal struggles with this throughout life. I reckon we humans value our beauty precisely because it attracts the opposite sex. Women notice and understand when no one's ever given them a valentine at school, or asked them out, or been chosen by groups for being the 'beauty'. So what's her recourse? She may be done trying to live up to expectations of the opposite sex. (Weird 'y…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/21 09:48 PM
16	Subtle signs a man isn't HVM My husband earns six figures, is headstrong, very problem-solving and direct in comms, can lead people as well as me, is great with family and was actually the only partner I had who took a keen interest in getting to know my family. He married me because he saw similar qualities in me, which he found important for a relationship. He's also Autistic, has piercings, likes punk and emo music, enjoys 'trashy' television and is a petulantly picky eater. Oh, and we play Overwatch together sometimes. …	/r/RedPillWives	14/12/21 08:44 PM
64	How to deal with an angry man? Shut it down. My husband did this method to me and it’s infuriating because I’m put in my place and am forced to reassess my anger and toxicity. “You are yelling at me. You’re calling me names and being verbally abusive. That’s unacceptable. I am happy to talk to you if you can talk to me without raising your voice.” Then—and this is important—leave the room so both of you can cool down. It takes two to tango, and you may also need to work on your temper. It takes high EQ to handle an angry pers…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/21 08:31 PM
3	Can we talk about complaining for a minute? Communicating your needs and condition is not complaining. As an aside we women do often have to learn to communicate our needs and desires and not let those unrealised desires stew in our heads until it becomes a big issue. Re complaining, here's the perspective of an actual man who, by consensus, has a wife with an ugly, complainy personality. See if you exhibit any of these signs: https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/cqc7e0/wife_asked_me_why_i_havent_tried_to_initiate_sex/	/r/RedPillWomen	25/11/21 11:32 AM
14	Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying home To be fair, the feminist movement started equating 'empowerment' with 'not at home'. We hear about women in STEM or <insert male-dominated profession> and how underrepresented they are and they should be empowered. I was a 'smart' model student all my life and 'had a promising future' as an engineering student. No one groomed in STEM would settle for less than the standard high-paying big-city tech job. (The more humble ones will take the government or academic route, but you're still highly dec…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/21 03:49 AM
4	How young is too young to be in a commited relationship? Instead of age, think instead of how well your lives intersect, and does it feel natural to you. I've had relationships at 14, 17, 24, and 28. The last one being my husband. My relationships never really clicked until my husband, who wasted no time getting to know my entire family, and showing me his. He invited me to live with him after seeing the decrepit little room I rented on my own. He just... had no hesitations about me. Made life decisions around our relationship within the first year. A…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/08/21 11:16 PM
–	Feelings towards splitting 50/50, going dutch? My husband and I do an equitable ratio. Say, my income is 110,000 and his is 150,000. That means that for shared expenses (rent, utilities, and savings goals towards a house, car, and investments follow this ratio: I contribute 110/(110+150), or roughly 40% of these expenses. He covers 150/(110+150), or roughly 60% of these expenses. This works for us, because we're both working full-time and it feels, from a mathematical POV, a very fair and equitable balance. He's free to spend the rest of his…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/21 11:45 PM
8	What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route +1 this. A lot of women are speaking up and sharing their traditional values on social media, but because they're a certain nationality and white, they get dismissed as simply being part of a political movement. There are Asian channels that do not have a lot of political / religious commentary but still rope in a lot of interest in the value of domesticism and embracing the role of housewife. Imamu Room and Kimono Mom are wonderful examples.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 11:49 AM
1	I wanna "save" a girl. It's called a white knight / saviour complex. It's not a healthy frame of mind for entering a relationship. It's unfair to the girl as well as to you. It can end happily, but you can also start to resent her when she doesn't adore you as you expect (and why should she? You wouldn't want to 'buy' her affections and expect her loyalty just because you helped her when she was vulnerable.) She can also realise, after she gets better, that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. That is he…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/08/21 10:17 PM
10	I'm trying to reach financial independence, save up and get a higher paying job. I think this bother my bf as he called me greedy. You're veering towards 'hustle culture'. There was a time in my life when I felt like I was at a career crisis and felt the need to pick up more sources of income. Note, I was already living comfortably with a very nice career in tech. But I wanted more. You get influenced by what you consume. If you keep watching financial gurus and follow people on r/personalFinance who want to retire by 40, then you will always feel like you're not measuring up. My husband, who earned 3x my income, told me I …	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/21 04:38 AM
2	Shall I just end it for good? First of all, it's good that you'll be away for a bit. It gives you both space. It sounds like he has issues (anger management, among others) that you are not qualified to handle. If you want to give things another chance, you both have to change your approach. Seek a professional. My husband and I went through so much growing pains. We both had anger management issues, we're both unapologetically self-righteous when angry, and we had a huge cultural divide (Western individual meritocracy versus…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/07/21 08:36 PM
2	What does red pill think of this dating advice? I prefer to bring problems, not solutions, for the most part. A lot of Instagram dating advice is cringey to me. No female mystique or polarity in an equal dynamic The statements are poorly phrased but are otherwise valid points to communicate when you're in a committed relationship (not just casually dating). My husband and I understand each other much better than we did years before because we're able to articulate these things.	/r/RedPillWives	30/06/21 01:29 PM
8	How to develop feminine traits in a stressful/rough family environment? or maintain them? It sounds like you're already cultivating femininity. What you need to work on are your personality traits and areas for improvement. A therapist (or pastor, or priest, or someone trained in people) can help you understand what sets you off, your responses to stress, and how you deal with anger and other strong emotions. Sometimes, you have no idea about something until someone points it out and verbalises it. My confessor told me, based on a general confession, that the greatest sins that hound…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/21 05:13 AM
2	What’s your opinion on MGTOW? Many of them have had negative experiences with women. Those are valid, and some people are just rotten. However, I cannot fundamentally agree with their ethos—that is, to be a consummate bachelor all your life and to use women for sexual ends only. It's a bit sad that there are men who are completely convinced that it's impossible to be in a loving, healthy, lifetime relationship with a woman. But that view is framed by their experiences. The content overlaps with TRP but MGTOW has a slant towa…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/06/21 01:27 AM
15	Is it me, or is femininity being villainized but idealized? More women are coming forward and sharing their life and views on social media. Be warned though, liberal-minded people have branded them 'tradwives' and consider them 'problematic'. (These women are being associated with extreme right-wing nationalism, whether or not they deserve it.) Western examples are Mrs. Midwest and The Darling Academy. (There are more, once you follow a few and social media algorithms suggest similar accounts.) If you want low-key, relaxed stay-at-home mums and wives jus…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/06/21 11:46 PM
4	Apparently we're not welcome in r/offmychest Every sub is run by its mods, no matter how welcoming or fair their rules appear. Some mods really skew a bit far on a political scale.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/21 06:29 AM
11	Boyfriend more attracted to my weight gain? If you were extremely skinny before, but still slim now, then it's plausible that he finds you more attractive now. There are skinny women with no figure, and look as though their bones are just jutting out of their hips and shoulders. Not to mention very visible ribcages. It can be off-putting. You sound healthy. Keep it up and keep taking care of yourself in general.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/06/21 12:48 AM
3	How much older is too much? Heard it from someone, then googled it prior to commenting 😄 Googling 'half your age plus 7' brings up tons of results. Even Wikipedia mentions it.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/21 03:40 PM
5	How to enjoy the finer things in life without the risk of turning materialistic? Be kind to yourself and lean into it. I come from a culture of poverty, not to mention my family was financially stressed growing up. We like to glamorise being poorer than we are, because there are virtues tied to it (resilience, humility, gratitude, etc.) But the truth is people prefer wealth and prosperity over poverty and hardship. You're not a bad person just because you can afford to enjoy finer things in life. Most people experience lifestyle inflation commensurate to the wealth they acqu…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/21 03:37 PM
2	How much older is too much? In principle, no age gap is too large for two consenting adults. However, the widely accepted rule of thumb is that you must at least be half his age plus seven years. ([Older partner's age/2] + 7) Going by this, you are perceived to be too young to fully comprehend him, as well as the implications of your relationship with an older man. Note this is just a widely known heuristic and it doesn't prove or disprove anything in your case. Tread lightly in this relationship, and if you haven't yet, p…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/21 02:19 PM
4	My ex wants me to do certain things in order for me to see him more often He is disgusting, and probably addicted to porn or something. Please, please cut off contact with him and do your best to blot it him out of your life. Also, people who have a history of breaking up and getting back together tend to not end happily. There's a reason it's not working out. There is life without him, believe me. You are still fairly young, and a bit invested in your history with him. Take it from a girl who left her ex at the 7-year mark (together since I was 18 and each other's fi…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/21 11:59 PM
11	The Scrapbook How did you know he was the one or alternately, that he was not the one For my ex, I knew he wasn't the one when whenever my parents asked how we were, I would be nonchalant and say 'we're good' and not say any more. I remember being on the phone with my mother and mentioned it was our anniversary and that I got him so-and-so. 'What did he get you?' my mom asked eagerly. 'Oh, nothing. He paid for dinner and that was his gift.' and I could tell at that moment I was trying to justify why I was wit…	/r/RedPillWives	01/06/21 12:32 PM
1	I'm an invisible woman and I hate it. Well then, we disagree. Cheers.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/21 10:52 AM
7	How can you tell if you're just a "practice wife/girlfriend"? I'm sorry to hear that. :( Your SO sounds like a good match, and from what you've said about him, it doesn't sound like you're incompatible with your views. To be honest, I have not heard of the notion of practice wife before. I don't believe men would deliberately get into a committed relationship just to practice. If you can put your mind away from it, it may be better for your mental health. Your SO has not given you reason to doubt his intentions. Communication is important, and it can make …	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/21 04:10 AM
12	How can you tell if you're just a "practice wife/girlfriend"? > How do I make sure I'm sending the right signals and that I'm reading his signals right, too? How can I tell if he's using me for practice/information or if I can really feel at ease with him? Just talk to him and be upfront that you want to get married. All this signalling and other people's opinions are wasteful. It's not taboo, unladylike, or unbecoming to communicate with your partner. 'I wanted you to know, that I want to get married. I can see it with you. I was wondering if you feel the…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/21 03:27 AM
1	I'm an invisible woman and I hate it. lol, no, it's a personal view. When I think of Ariana, I think of her Problem video and how she struts and shimmies in there but she just looked too young to exude any sensuality. Yeah, it's been years. Selena on the other hand, many of my guy friends have said she looked too baby-faced and they couldn't get past it. This was mid-2010s and I know these women have matured even more since. I was just giving examples of women with no sex appeal to me, that came to mind. You might have your own exam…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/21 02:58 AM
5	Tea Time My husband is Aspie. He found out late in life (early 30s). I think part of the reason he projects 'masculinity' is because he doesn't conform to many social expectations and just gets things done. He thinks with such clarity that decisions are quick and easy, and when it requires other people's input he finds a way to get people to arrive at a clear, objective decision (this isn't foolproof though and he does get frustrated when people ruminate on a dilemma—he doesn't get the emotional toll it …	/r/RedPillWives	30/05/21 12:11 AM
26	I'm an invisible woman and I hate it. I've met and watched girls like you in my twenties. Friends gush about how you're a catch and why aren't any boys courting or pursuing you. Usually it boils down to any or a combination of the following: personality not jiving with men / no chemistry — a lot of girls are sweet but they become one-dimensional in group settings, or they overcompensate and try to be super vivacious, which is also off-putting. no sex appeal — you can be pretty, put together, and in good shape but have zero sex appea…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/21 03:55 PM
1	How do you guys keep up with laundry? It depends largely on the size of the household. Laundry caused us a lot of hiccups so my husband decided that Mondays and Thursdays we do a load of laundry, no ifs or buts. Hanging and folding don't take more than 10 and 20 minutes each, and there's definitely time in the day as long as you do it asap. Trouble comes when we let our discipline slip (videogames, social media, general lazy days)	/r/RedPillWomen	27/05/21 04:37 AM
10	Do you ladies have any particular go-to polite way of saying no (especially towards pushy guys) "You're making me feel uncomfortable" or "You are harassing me right now. Please stop". "Wow, you're being creepy right now." When you communicate plainly a lot of people don't like the implication that they're the bad guy, and will want to change their act immediately. If they ignore or insist, just repeat yourself. "You're making me uncomfortable. Can you please leave me alone?" Men like this also try to start small and then escalate. Resist the urge to agree to coffee, or being walked home, o…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/05/21 11:21 PM
5	Wives, how did you meet your husband? At work. He was de facto country manager for our local office. I was a new hire. Never realised he would stop what he was doing whenever I walked up to him because he liked me. I thought he was just being polite and conversational. When it was clear we had feelings for each other, he asked the CEO if pursuing the relationship was cool (he didn't want any trouble because of the workplace romance). By day-end everyone knew and they all cheered for us. Married two years now.	/r/RedPillWives	21/05/21 11:04 PM
3	Are there different kinds of feminity? There's a lot to unpack in your post. But to answer your question, yes. Femininity pertains to feminine characteristics, not just the general aesthetic. We're currently living the cottagecore trend, which I personally loved but am actually getting tired of—it's all over IG. Great resources on femininity or 'how to be a lady' give advice on how you carry yourself and treat others without getting specific on which styles you should be exuding. Mrs. Midwest has a great playlist on YT focussing on g…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/21 12:36 AM
6	RP Instagram examples Dress / feminine aesthetic: • Shirinatra • aclotheshorse Cooking / baking (these are vegan accounts but their recipes are really aesthetic as well): • meghanlivingstone • pickuplimes Soft interiors (these are all businesses but I follow them for the aesthetic): • bed.threads • konmari.co • magnolia Over time, Instagram's algorithm will suggest accounts based on what you like and who you follow.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/21 11:13 PM
1	Size of status differential for “career” women How much time are you able to spend outside of work? I'm not a doctor / med student but I've known a girl in real life who blogged about her journey. It sounded very stressful and she barely had time for her own well-being. Pop culture also reinforces this. It may also be that relationships aren't central to your life / priorities and you don't feel the need to spend more time with him than you deem appropriate. All my relationships meant that a good portion of my life and weekends were with my …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/05/21 10:52 PM
2	Hair tips? I know a woman who had a similar starting point (straw-like hair from years of bleaching / dyeing). If you have the time, reading through her haircare journey is quite inspiring: My Best Hair Ever: My Hair Journey & Routine	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/21 02:15 AM
7	Can squats bulk up your thighs? Short answer is yes. I think you might like this article: https://bretcontreras.com/growing-glutes-without-growing-the-legs/ That’s aside from the fact that you cannot change your morphology; for example, I have always had thunder thighs even when I was at my skinniest and didn’t work out.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/21 06:28 AM
5	High Earning Women Have you ever made your income a point against him, or as a point in itself, during arguments? Do you ask him for advice or shut him out, convinced that he has no input that will be useful to you? Do you feel like your business acumen is superior to his? Do you tell him all about your accomplishments without asking for constructive feedback from him? My husband has accused me in the past of the same thing—that I thought I was better than others and that I had a huge ego. It was true though, and …	/r/RedPillWomen	30/04/21 01:05 AM
4	Everything's been going great with this guy (M20) I've (F25) been seeing, but I have some concerns about finance-related things. If he doesn't have a proper job, then where does he get the money he uses to pay for things? Does he come from wealth? (There is nothing wrong with this BTW.) Despite what finance gurus and CEOs like to preach, every person handles their finances differently. It's impossible to compare. Some people rake in a lot of money but still look like they live in squalor. Some people spend their income on a comfortable, meaningful life for them even if it means not owning a house or car. Some people are l…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/21 12:14 PM
11	Tell me about the little things your partner does that make you feel loved To be known is to be loved. After four years together (married nearly two), he knows me better than anyone: He sometimes knows what I'm thinking based on... cues. I could stand up to get something or open my mouth to talk and he already knows what I'm thinking / what I'm about to do. It's uncanny. I wish I could give you an example, but nothing specific comes to mind right now. He lets me take care of him when he's weak. He lets me serve him, lets me cuddle him, cook for him... He knows he can t…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/21 12:39 PM
2	Is there a sub like r/cleanlivingkings for women? Many thanks for this. I lurk and occasionally comment in r/CleanLivingKings and I do get mixed reactions when I mention that I'm a woman. A lot of advice and motivational posts do apply to both sexes, but then I occasionally have to scroll past "hard to get a girlfriend" and "why women are like this" posts.	/r/RedPillWives	14/04/21 12:27 AM
4	Why is being a nice/good girl so bad?? Correct me if I'm wrong, but you seem to be the one putting the distance between you two. Reading your post, I get a strong impression that you're a very insecure person, and are projecting all your insecurities into this guy. You're assuming and guessing and speculating what he thinks or what he's after. I think you should push through with your date and tell him your feelings and apprehensions with him. At least you'll get the answers from him. Lastly, you seem to want a fairytale, 'white knig…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/21 10:32 AM
11	Learning to cook - tips? I used to think I was doomed to be unable to cook (cue '90s stereotype of tomboyish heroine who can't cook). I've realized through my twenties that the ability to 'cook' is contingent on one's access to a kitchen. In a way, it takes a certain privilege that younger generations simply don't have. Don't beat yourself up yet. If your dorm / housing allows for small appliances, get an induction cooker. These usually come with a compatible pot. Get a non-stick spatula and tongs to start with. Also a …	/r/RedPillWomen	04/04/21 08:37 AM
3	In defense of femininity. I’m really tired of seeing ultrafeminine habits get dismissed as “basic” (vent) You hit a very good double standard that people are beginning to acknowledge. Check out The Take's video the cool girl trope on YouTube. You might also like this essay, which sums up men's unrealistic standard for women who "take care of themselves". For your very first point though, I'll share my personal thoughts: Yoga and houseplants are very trite and a very privileged Western thing. I have a similar sentiment about Pilates—I like to joke that it has no appeal to me because it's so "white gi…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/04/21 04:07 AM