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Conversationpleaselie/r/seduction28/03/20 04:04 PM
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Outer Game pleaselie/r/seduction27/06/20 11:31 PM
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No need to apologise, we are all bro's here sharing our experiences and enlightening each other. Peace, stay strong homie.
/r/seduction24/08/20 09:47 PM
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Well, I was talking about the other guy's date. Yours looked like less as a date and more as a hangout. I could buy her bf excuse without too much issue. Like, you told that you too already kinda knew each other and so on... Even though she flirted with you she stopped when you tried to move the interaction forward.
/r/seduction24/08/20 09:34 PM
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Bro, I think she maybe used the bf as excuse... Well, I would find really strange (and a big red flag for me) if my girlfriend would go out with a guy that she doesn't know well and isn't a really good friend of her(even then I would find odd due to the things you've done with her). I mean, you had a DATE not a hangout... Although, I may be wrong, I just think that a girl would be more forward with you about the bf stuff if it was a serious relationship.
/r/seduction24/08/20 09:19 PM
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Best thing to do after arranging a date. Get the fuck out the phone. Leave the conversation and knowing her to do in person. The phone just breaks the mystery. I know a lot of guys are too reliant on the phone. However, it is to arrange dates, at most chit chat just a little bit. Too much of it and breaks attraction, mystery and so on.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:00 PM
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You are thinking like a man... Not a woman. Women don't want to hurt the feelings of most guys. Moreover, there are a lot of guys who don't know how to deal with rejection and start arguments or put the girl that rejected them in really awkward situations. It's much easier to cancel the date on the phone and block the guy if he pisses her off.
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:57 PM
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It was a test and you failed. You should not have asked her for meeting earlier and other day. When she said she couldn't meet. Especially that it was last minute and she didn't propose a other day... It's the classical I ain't that interested in that guy to go out with him. I would just say it's a shame and don't call her again. Just walk away. You must not chase someone who kinda rejected you. If she wants to see you. She will text/call you. When she does that. You can say: I suppose you want …
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:55 PM
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To make her blush is harder, because it depends a lot on the girl and how is her personality. I would not make this a goal. It will happen naturally. To make her notice you... The best and simplest way is to go and talk to her. You are young, don't waste time expecting things to happen without you moving forward and iniate things.
/r/seduction31/07/20 01:29 PM
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I think a lot of guys do a shotgun approach in this situation. The thing is, you do those approachs to become more confident and learn somethings. 1- To become insensitive to rejection. 2- to learn how to not hesitate. 3- to fine tune your radar for attraction level. A lot of guys don't understand that, if there is no attraction, it doesn't matter what in the world you do or say. You won't get the girl. However, if there is a little bit of attraction let's say... In a scale of 1 to 10... The gir…
/r/seduction30/07/20 03:27 PM
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Dude, just relax, go meet the girl, talk, try to know her and see if you enjoy her company. Flirt with her, look her in the eyes, make her laugh, try to have a good time. If you see signals that she is interested, like she is laughing at all your stupid jokes, she is open, relaxed, close to you, she touches or bumps at you. A hangout has much less pressure than a formal date. You met her on tinder, so she already finds you some what attractive, just be cool and enjoy your time with her.
/r/seduction06/07/20 08:33 PM
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I like when the girl also has initiative... No one wants to fuck a doll. One thing that I really enjoy is when the girl also touches and estimulate other erogenous zones besides my penis. Like, she kisses my neck, the inner part of my tights during oral sex. She scratches her nails on my back ( not to peel of the meat but enough to feel it) Stuff like that.
/r/seduction05/07/20 06:32 PM
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Got it.
/r/seduction03/07/20 04:54 PM
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What is th rule? Can you send me the link?
/r/seduction03/07/20 04:14 PM
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There is a saying in my country among man...a very misogyny saying by the way, "a Point, even an ugly one, it still is a point". It's better to get laid, then to wait for the perfect woman... Enjoy it.
/r/seduction03/07/20 02:32 PM
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Sometimes you start low to learn how to deal with women and get confidence...then you will get higher. If you are a shy and not confident guy who never gets laid... It's much harder to get a high value woman.
/r/seduction03/07/20 01:07 PM
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Congrats bro, soon, what you did will become the norm.
/r/seduction01/07/20 04:52 PM
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Thanks bro :D
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:55 PM
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Thanks mate, I totally agree with you and I am very happy to hear your words of encouragement. It's one of the things that it's really nice about this community... We all(well, most of us) try to help each other become the best we can be. Thank you.
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:54 PM
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Yeah, I get that feeling, it's much more like how you portray yourself. A very good friend of mine is like 1,5in shorter than me... However he is a body building and has amazing posture. If I am distracted and slouch, I will look just tall as him. Moreover, it's just like you said, he has such a good posture and confidence in his stride that even though he would be considered short, he never gives that feel.
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:52 PM
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I know what you mean, when I was younger I was much more insecure about my height, today I got much better with it, the question is just more as a curiosity thing. Like, do you notice anything different? I did, I think I get a tiny bit more confident in my boots then in my flip floors. Is it the correct thing? No. Do I still fell confident bare foot? Yes. Do I let it make me feel less as a man? No. However, I am still young and learning about self accepting and become more confident... So it's a…
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:47 PM
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Bro, it's often very hard to put theory in practice, we get scared and anxious thinking... Will it work? However, even if you screw up at first, the more you keep practicing and forcing yourself to adopt a more confident and positive mindset... The easier it gets. The saying "fake it until you make it" is true in that case. Approaching is a numbers games, you will get rejected a lot in the beginning, but sometimes you will get those yes... With time, it will become more natural, the rejection wo…
/r/seduction27/06/20 12:44 PM
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I think the biggest issue it's not only approaching bro, it's how to still have game when you are in a relationship and you are emotional invested (it's silly to say to not get emotional invested in a relationship, if you weren't, you would still be single and getting a lot of girls). When you don't give a shit if the girl rejects you, it's much easier to get better. Even though you should still be indifferent in a relationship, it's much harder and you need to have a much greater control of you…
/r/seduction23/06/20 05:19 PM
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Well, one good thing you can do is try to go straight for a shower... I know it's kinda hard to leave bad soon after you cum because we get lazy... However, if you can force yourself to talk a shower, it will give you sometime to the dopamine levels get a little lower. We are all guilty of trying to bond... And I don't think it's bad, however, give it some time before starting doing that with a woman... And always try to put a good spin on things, even the sad ones.
/r/seduction22/06/20 03:47 PM
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I approached my current gf by Facebook. I didn't knew her personally but we had a friend in common... That friend was in my house drinking with me and some buddies and I saw he was chatting with her(they are bff's) and he sent a picture of us to her. Later, I added her to my Facebook and during the follow week she started to like my posts there. So I messenger her, we talked a little (10min) , next day she sent me a message and I asked her out.
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:34 PM
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I just don't give a f***, we all know that on tinder all the girls will have a fucking load of options. You have to focus on your photos because you can't display other characteristics that you could in person, so even if you are fucking confident and have an amazing body language... It won't matter that much. So, for Tinder, the more attractive you look and better the pictures (an average dude with amazing pictures will probably get more likes than a better looking dude with just shitty selfie'…
/r/seduction17/06/20 04:08 PM
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I'm at college now (medicine) in Brazil, I don't have neither a car or money now and as my graduation is full time, there isn't a lot of ways to get money, so... My first dates are cheap, let's go eat a sandwich, ice cream or something close from home... If I like the girl and see she is interested too. I just say, "Do you wanna go to my place get some drinks?" Most of them say yes... Them is indoors Olympics. haha First dates should be light, you should have room to chat a little and know the g…
/r/seduction16/06/20 08:40 PM
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When they start to piss you off by acting like women... If I were you, I would start a hobby that has a lot of feminine public.(if you like the thought of it, of course). Like... Dancing class, acting class... If you spend more time with them and become friends with some of them... You will realize that quickly.
/r/seduction12/06/20 09:19 PM
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I think even though I wanna to have a good relationship, it's not what will make me happy. I think the only way that I'll be "happy" is if I feel realized as a man. I think I will always try to get better in the things I do... Always moving forward as a man and human being. The partner part... It will come along the journey.
/r/seduction12/06/20 03:25 AM
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Yeah man, congrats... We man are action oriented creatures.... We feel so much better when we do stuff. The hard thing for us is waiting and be patient.
/r/seduction11/06/20 01:07 PM
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Even I that ain't related to the topic got that feeling. I started to learn about seduction and attraction after a girl I liked pulled away. I started to apply what I learned and just try to enjoy the time I spent with her and not focusing on the relationship part. A week ago she asked me if I wanted to be her boyfriend, gave me presents and so on. Even though I got "the relationship" I started to feel less confident than before for no apparent reason. Your text help me remind somethings and rai…
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:24 AM
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Introduce yourself, if he is a shy guy... He will probably not go to you. Stop wasting your time waiting him do something.
/r/seduction30/05/20 08:50 PM
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Bro, texting and interacting flirty with a woman is like a tenis match. You throw one ball at her side of the court... Then, you wait for her to throw it back... What do you do if she doesn't throw it back? Do you throw another ball? Then another? NO!! You simply wait, women are like cats, they come and go as they please, don't force them to stay. You gave her too much attention without her earning it... You don't spend seven hours talking to a woman who isn't your girlfriend... It's so much tim…
/r/seduction30/05/20 01:16 PM
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Texting is counter productive, it's no way to build attraction. But this of only giving her attention for sex applies only in the dating phase? Or in a relationship too? I know you always have to keep the power on your side, be a fucking man(confident, emotional strong, focused on you and your propose in life) However, can you have a good relationship if you just keep doing what you done in the dating phase?
/r/seduction21/05/20 10:16 PM
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How do I change it?
/r/seduction28/03/20 04:24 PM
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