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Underrated comment. But there are those who are really driven by something else. Good for them. Having a big-M Mission is a worthy way to live, and it can be an attractive trait. But it just isn't like that for everyone, and some pragmatism is necessary.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:08 PM
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You: It's spelled "though" Her: Ok, THOUGH You: See, I made you finish
/r/askTRP22/04/21 03:44 PM
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(if this was a sincere comment...) If you have an emotional reaction like that... she's probably not a "plate" (to you). I think it's possible to spin plates and actually have a healthy respect, even admiration, appreciation, or love, for each one's own unique individual sparkly self. "Plates" is not about treating them like objects or conquests. It's just about having options. And if you have options, i don't see how you can be so "crying mad". TL;DR i think you are using the word "plate" but y…
/r/askTRP16/04/21 02:34 AM
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1) You try to pick a good one. 2) You take a deep breath. 3) You dive in. Results: A) Maybe you live happily ever after and you never doubt, for a second, your paternity. B) Maybe she cheats on you, or you do, and everything blows up before kids come along. Go back to step 1. C) Maybe it doesn't last a lifetime but you have great kids and you share parenting. This is so... normal. If it costs you a fortune it's because you had a fortune. Congrats. D) And, just maybe, it seems good but you realiz…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:23 PM
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You clearly have not met my brothers
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:35 PM
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Next time, solve your dilemma with alcohol. But you'll always go for the sex. /s (if you wanna be more sober and make better choices, good for you. it should work for you on the long run)
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:34 PM
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Nope. Can just be that one person, that one time, when you were drunk and they didn't disclose. Could be your 1000th lay or your first. Sluttiness increases your chances but you roll the dice. Every. Time. Just like unwanted pregnancy.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:31 PM
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Before they run me out of TRP on a rail... You could also consider an outside date with zero sex a possibility. Maybe you have so much abundance that you have other (good-enough) sex guaranteed with someone else at the given time. So go for what you want. But if not, and if you want to lay this one again, and maybe regularly, then why would a conversation with her, no-sex this time, be so bad? First, if you go in with that IDGAF attitude you are more likely to change her mind on the date anyway.…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:20 PM
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Find, within yourself, the serenity to accept the things you cannot change ...the courage to change the things you can ...and the wisdom to know the difference. It's an old saying (with an agnostic modification) but when I was in my 20s it helped a lot, to make sense of my immediate sea of confusion.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:07 PM
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I think you gotta take one thing at a time, bro. The decision to keep current girlfriend and decision to leave job... These gotta be independent, stand-alone decisions about your future, do not mix the chick you like at work in with them. When the dust settles, then I'd say, if you and gf broke up, then it's time to think about work chick. If job change, then don't "shoot your shot" by pouring your heart out to her. You will keep the contact. So, after your decision to leave, but possibly before…
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:42 PM
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Also requires things like motorcycles and a social life with girls.
/r/seduction01/03/20 11:44 AM
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I don't see any indication that he's already drilling her. The "friend" comment makes me think the opposite.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:56 AM
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My move that im currently thinking of doing is, when im alone with her at work this weekend basically just be straight up and say how I know she wants to fuck me and what she's gonna do about it Great idea to potentially get yourself fired for a workplace sexual harassment! Even if she did, at one time, daydream about the idea, and flirt with you, people can turn on a dime.... Also she might get in a fight with her bf, tell him about this, and he might try to get management's ear. In short, a te…
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:39 PM
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Well, subjective to a certain extent. But if you had 10 random women of appropriate age... and had 100 men order them from most attractive to least... do you really think that the orderings would be practically random? Of course not. There would be a high high degree of alignment. I'm sure OkCupid has a blog post on it, somewhere. As a culture, we kinda have attractiveness norms. I think all cultures do. Women slightly less than men, also men are possibly more "upwardly mobile" in objective-attr…
/r/seduction30/11/19 05:26 PM
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Jesus, you had this experience with ONE WOMAN. Even if it's "common", it's not every woman. Look harder. The dumbest things on this sub always start "Why do women..." or "women these days are..." Not all women are the same. Maybe AWALT is worth contemplating, and you can never guarantee that an LTR is "safe", but I promise you there are women out there less shallow than your described experience... not totally sucked in by Instagram... actually looking to build a relationship.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 06:35 PM
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Do you expect people in general to entertain you? You sound somewhat of a misanthrope. If her friends are just normal people then you can steer the conversation to something interesting to you. If they are absolute dolts and/or can only talk about their past escapades/history, your GF has some severely under-par friends. Suggestions... get drunk... get them high... Dilute them with your friends or reduce their numbers... explain to your GF that her friend group isn't very welcoming... and finall…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:34 AM
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Any part of THE REST OF THE WORLD is better than that.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:29 PM
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When you have ten similar opportunities, make ten similar attempts, and get ten similar results, come back and ask. You just don't seem to have grasped the statistical nature of your endeavours.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 12:15 AM
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Alpha widowed in reverse.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:57 AM
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I think you just won the difficult anti-semite/homophobic biathlon. I dunno if it makes you Jewish but it certainly makes you seem gay.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:32 PM
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Cashing out a 401k costs 10% PLUS tax. The bracket at which you're a wage earner is 25%. Did you not read what I wrote or something? My point was for exactly (and only) a case where that highlighted premise of yours isn't true. I'll try to tl;dr it for you again: IF you pull money out of a 401k during a year when your wage-earnings disappeared, you will still have more money at the end than if you never put it in. Edit: fat fingered premature submit
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:56 PM
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Unless she's too into you.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:06 AM
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otherwise you pay a massive penalty to withdraw 10% I always assumed more because of people using language like "MASSIVE PENALTY", but I don't think 10% is that massive. Let's say you spend 3 years at a job and then become unemployed for a year. Let's say the job is 100k and so normally you'd spend 29k a year in taxes. (Doing everything here basic for California, fed+state+everything) So after three years, you've kept 71k x3 = 213k. Remember that number... Hopefully you saved some for your year …
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:44 AM
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Maybe just don't watch the first episode of the latest season.
/r/seduction18/06/19 04:30 AM
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I don't know about the lawyer sitch there. But pick at least one trusted friend to be your champion, should shit go really south.... Like, the friend who is going to make sure you're reachable, and if not reachable, he will call your consulate to advise them you might be in police custody and investigate. This person should have numbers for you, for the consulate, and for your family, plus a copy of all your evidence. Maybe best if not based in Indonesia. If you actually get in trouble with the …
/r/askTRP09/06/19 03:41 PM
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I would have just made the joke the entirety of the text. "How's that <whatever reference>?"
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:14 AM
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You're on one. If your in NorCal it's easy to bag a second plate just by crossing the San Andreas fault.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:18 PM
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I've had times when my calendar is pretty empty (new town, general social drought, etc.) and been willing to use a weekend night for a first date... But I don't think it's ever happened, because what kind of woman doesn't have her weekend full with old foriends and third-dates, herself? And, as soon as I get on a roll, that's what I'm using my weekends for, too. Having said that, no need to play stupid games with this stuff. If you're free and interested for Fri or Sat night, she might be too, w…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 11:52 AM
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Well, you don't even know if it's the hardest part. It's just the first part, right now. Do the first part.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 07:57 PM
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I became convinced my friends were conspiring against me, nearly had a psychotic break over it, and have felt the stressful reverberations of that traumatic period... for the last two decades. Much better experiences with mushrooms and Ayahuasca... though the latter was in my forties, as a very different and less anxious person... ...or maybe I just got better friends by then.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:16 PM
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Volunteer to be an after school math tutor to underserved or troubled kids. It will exercise your compassion, your patience, your authoritativeness, your understanding of math, improve your social standing and expand your knowledge on how others live.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:30 PM
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Did you keep drinking while writing the whole thing and while answering comments? Your grammar and spelling is still alright, quite impressive.
/r/seduction26/01/19 01:00 AM
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Hey Mr. Mal-odor, what's goat leg spaghetti?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:01 PM
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Fuck everyone else here. She's only 18, she might have the perfect combination of (relatively) high n-count plus wanting to get off the cock carousel early. Keep your options open. Be a decent man in her father's eyes. Show her a good time but apply a small dose of dread. Remember that being with her a week doesn't mean a promise for a month... And being a boyfriend for 3 months doesn't oblige you to being her teenage sweetheart. And being the couple for years does not mean you have to marry her…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:58 PM
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Yeah, Brazil same. But keep in mind: In those countries, you actually have extra value from not being that "type" of guy. After you approach, you might get into conversation 1 out of 20 times just like those guys, but if you hold on to your natural, thoughtful, interesting self-story while also demonstrating that you're not afraid, and you could talk to anyone you wanted to... ...you suddenly become the rare unicorn of a man that those chicks have been waiting for. It's a bit of a fine line betw…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:29 PM
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Then what do you mean a "break"? How is it "out of the blue?" How well do you know her. You left very little context for anyone to help interpret anything.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:51 AM
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How about if she stays over three nights a week, the roommate stays at hers three nights a week? That works out the bills. Three's pretty normal, though.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 03:18 AM
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"Tired of the bar scene". When I was 30 and read that on a Craigslist personal... 15 years ago and 10 years before I'd heard of trp... I still understood what it meant. "Can't keep an alpha. Can't even get laid if it's not a one night stand".. Translation: not very attractive and approaching the wall!
/r/askTRP22/12/18 12:43 AM
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Did you say "Yes I still want to" or "Yes we're still on"?? Think about the difference. Oh also... Please update us on what happened.
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:35 AM
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Somewhere in between. It took me about a few months to get any traction at all. Was still somewhat spurious though. At the two year mark I hit my stride... my text game reached some kind of level that seemed to open more doors. But obviously YMMV. My style is more nerdy charm... Of course being ripped and a great dancer would go a long way towards success. You can work on those almost anywhe as well, though.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:54 PM
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In my case: Bahia, Brazil. But there are thousands round the world.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 02:04 PM
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I moved to a far flung part of the world where I was rich, tall, and exotic instead of average, average, average. I didn't stay there forever, but I brought back some extra confidence and experience with me.... Plus a generally more worldly outlook which has social value as well as SMV.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 03:26 PM
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their ability to tell you to fuck off if they’re not interested. This is exactly why you don't put them on the spot, but instead slip them your number. No answer required.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:04 PM
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No. Asking for her number is putting her on the spot. That's what so many people are (or should be) complaining about here. The woman at work who has to worry about reactions, stalkers, losing customers, etc. Dropping your own number on a service worker is the way to open the door and express interest without being "that guy". It gives her the power but any other option is not fair for a "stuck" employee. One hopes the number giver established some rapport first, and also you could add a sentenc…
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:49 PM
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Jesus. No two women are the same, whaddayou think the variety is like for a billion of them?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:52 PM
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This guy cuddles. +10
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:04 PM
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He can fuck off? Just wait til you hear my version: Caress her and embrace and fall asleep together and sometime in the morning go from spooning to caressing to fucking the shit out of her one more time. I guess I'm just traditional or something?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:03 PM
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Kino / escalation... What an eye opener, and even more educational when it doesn't work.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:16 PM
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Noooobody expects the Spanish inquisition
/r/askTRP25/11/18 12:14 PM
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I'm glad you had that experience and have that wife. Sometimes people in this sub forget that if your build your attractiveness/worth solely around being the alpha, it attracts certain types of women or women looking for certain things, with some particular downsides and disadvantages (see OP). If you show some damn consideration and sensitivity, you are more likely to open yourself to being attractive to some less Machiavellian women. Not saying you'll never experience AWALT that way, but you m…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:33 PM
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Because sex isn't all she wants. Your other respondent above put it succinctly: they may have sexual abundance but they don't have romantic abundance.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 02:27 PM
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Only go for the hottest women, only keep the talented ones.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:36 AM
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all that submissiveness and cute manners with everything she does is a fucking show she just puts on to get laid You have no evidence for this logical leap. Why is it a "show" and not just the way she is? If anything, you should be clearer now that no show is required on her part. Being submissive with multiple people doesn't mean she's not submissive... Also it is not the only way for a woman to be cute or sexy. that's as Machiavellian as Machiavellianism could get: So just like everyone on thi…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:06 AM
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You can plate perfectly honestly, without deluding anyone or making people feel rejected and flaked on. So I think the morality of it is fundamentally different. Yes both plating (parallel dating, basically) and double-booking give you more flexibility and less risk of being the chump left dateless and stood-up on a Friday night, but whereas the former is a longer term strategy for having options, the latter is inherently making someone else the chump as part of the plan... Shitty behavior, esse…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:25 PM
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*deluded
/r/askTRP20/11/18 10:19 PM
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Heh. AWALTIYM (... Including Your Mom)
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:25 PM
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Also set up two dates with two seperate women in case one flakes. Do you mean simultaneous/conflicting dates? Hope not. That would mean you may have to flake on one, and perpetuates the cycle so that in general more people do this to more others and you're more likely to get flaked on for the same reason.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:13 PM
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You bounce.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:08 PM
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"How old are you?" "19" "Cool. Come to XYZ thing w me on Friday" "Okay" "Oh, by the way.. I will need to see proof of age when we meet. You seem trustworthy but, nothing personal, you can't be too careful these days."
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:53 AM
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Just... enjoy it I guess? I'm late 40's and started online dating at age 40 after a long LTR... I've had a couple of one night stands but they were hiding behind "dates". Putting the hook-up attitude right out there seems to be a no-go, in profile or in text or on first date. Maybe not completely the age difference, just my vibe? Who knows but I'm also NYC.
/r/seduction18/11/18 11:04 AM
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Sounds like two of the same thing.
/r/seduction12/11/18 03:14 AM
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Holding the attention of an attractive woman.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:44 PM
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After we had sex she started ... Telling me about a boyfriend of hers that is following and blackmailing her. You called her "my girl" in the title but what is this boyfriend? Ex-LTR? Current male friend? Really hard for us to know what to make of this. Maybe you don't know either. Sounds made up. she tells my sister she doesn't know "what we are", and that she likes some other guy. Sounds like potential for miscommunication here.... Or, she's playing games. But I don't see any good evidence her…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 11:18 AM
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My guess is that people disapprove of swiping right on 100%. I mean, that's why I downvoted it.
/r/seduction04/11/18 06:18 PM
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How did you know this guy was her boyfriend? Sounds like "brother" behavior. Or family friend? Or LJBF/orbiter What are the ages of the people involved here? Did this take place in a conservative country/culture. (I'm thinking, with these last two questions, was this perhaps a girl getting permission from parents to go out, only if male friend/cousin/etc. was there to chaperone...)
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:05 PM
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It's the gore-tex and crampons... Need an extra strong bite to get through those, can get stuck between the teeth too.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 03:29 PM
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There is the practical meaning and the slang meaning. I just googled it and both are available in the top 2 results.... Click on "What is a dutch oven in bed?" doesntanyonegoogleanymore?
/r/seduction31/10/18 04:58 PM
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It's an American English phrase for "splitting a bill", like 50/50. I have no idea how it got derived.
/r/seduction31/10/18 04:27 PM
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I'm talking with my friends and this dude(close friend of hers) comes up to me and asks me this "Hey Moonshot__ I want to get to know you, lets go for a coffee", leaving laughing. I think this is a great example of a man-to-man shit-test. In the Hollywood version of this thread, your "UPDATE" post next week would describe how you took that exact guy down, in a track meet or a karate showdown or a dance-off or a chess championship etc. (you get the idea) and the entire social landscape shifted an…
/r/seduction30/10/18 07:33 AM
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Don't worry about blowback from the other more timid "nice" guys in the group. If you are having more sex with more of the women they orbit, they will have a resentment but it will be tempered by their respect for you.... Be a friend to them and don't be an asshole to them and get the best of both worlds. This also only works if you are not an asshole to the women either. You can bounce around but not too much too fast... (Basically what the other guy said about serial monogamy with aspects of c…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:20 AM
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Ok but can I point out that this is a rather different motivation / justification for having opposite-gender friends from the OP's original point? I mean, this is totally on another planet from what OP was trying to encourage.
/r/seduction29/10/18 05:10 PM
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Watching porn is self cuck training; you literally watch someone else fuck a girl, so weird. This is why my first move on a website is enter a search for "POV" (point of view). If what I'm seeing on the screen is a hard cock in the bottom of the frame but mostly a hottie riding it or going down on it, then that is similar enough to what I see in real life during sex that I can project myself into it -- and it's not like watching someone else fuck her. Disbelief is suspended for most sizes and sh…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 01:03 PM
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Reminds me of the George Carlin joke.... "Ya know, I've never fucked a 10." But one night I fucked five 2's"
/r/askTRP26/10/18 09:12 PM
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Favorite definitely "fridge" one. Pulls the mood right out of sexual tension into amused mastery / kid-stuff
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:23 AM
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segue
/r/seduction22/10/18 08:22 AM
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Too long; Didn't Weed
/r/seduction16/10/18 12:27 PM
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She was sizing you up for the sacrificial ritual goring she's planning for you.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:46 AM
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Did he do that on Saturday?
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:33 AM
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As someone who is thinking of moving to Miami before winter comes, I too would like to know more on this topic, /u/dtyler86 and /u/_the_shape_ ...
/r/askTRP09/10/18 01:58 PM
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There's a lot of dubious shit in the Manosphere but this is one of the real ones, that makes perfect sense and that I've experienced first-hand. I haven't clicked this particular link but if it's like the way I've seen it described elsewhere, it's the very obvious fact of people leveraging other people's judgement... Even though it can be gamed if you know how to make every bit of attention/respect you get count double by having some other chick clock it.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:49 AM
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I had a date Monday night with a 50, I'm 47. Honestly her pictures looked like 35 to 45 range so I was hoping they were accurate and recent and that she was aging extremely well. Nah, maybe pass for 45, oh well. So I did a little kino, did not expect (nor really want) a 1st-date f-close, but wanted to see a little spark, maybe a make-out to indicate which road(s) this could lead down. (i.e., sexy ones). No dice there either. So I nexted. No way was I gonna risk having to spend four or five dates…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 01:25 PM
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I believe you. But, given the title and text of the original post, might be more useful for you to have chosen one of the following: -- "I have slept with someone on a first date and none of the above was the case. Here's what happened on my first dates that ended in sex...". and then tell us. ...OR... -- "I have never slept with someone on a first date" (maybe add if that's policy or just never had a good enough offer... But either way indicating that you do not have sufficient experience to in…
/r/seduction01/10/18 02:29 AM
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So offer to not drink and let her drink? I live in a place where having a car is inconvenient and everyone expects to go to/from dates on foot or public transport or taxi. But for the other 95% of the US, it seems pretty tricky. Drinking either stays at home (not common for a first date) or someone has to DD.
/r/seduction01/10/18 02:06 AM
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Doesn't this forum teach that "all women are like that?" Isn't it really obvious that women have easy access to a lot of guys these days and isn't it pretty much expected they have had sex before? Even one night stands... not a big deal. There are many factors around deciding to LTR but I just don't think "has a sexual history" should be one of them... Cheating? For sure. That is knowledge you can work with. Hundreds of one night stands? Okay maybe quantity says something here (but finding that …
/r/askTRP25/09/18 01:08 PM
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I take your point but he's definitely one-upping other celebrities every time he opens his mouth. One might ask if he's famous because of the traits that op is talking about.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 03:37 PM
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I'm not sure this is true. Have you lived in a poor country? Maybe there are more consequences for sex but in my experience women still fuck whom they feel like and she (and her family, and the the community) simply live with the consequences: unwanted pregnancy, single motherhood... I'd say that some cultures/religions reduce that via mate-guarding violence (Islam) but it's not about GDP.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:00 PM
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Seems ambiguous to me... Like some woman might interpret that as your genuinely being interested in having a double date, instead of taking her home. Depends on tone/other signals I suppose.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:04 PM
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Ask the hotter one home, through the translator, and then ask the translator if she wants to come along to smooth things over, help translate the sex logistics and dirty talk.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 03:44 PM
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Door falls off hinges. Again.
/r/seduction11/09/18 12:52 PM
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Hey you sound a lot like me, and here's my career in a nutshell: Increasingly more lucrative computer jobs interspersed with adventures in unemployment (from just chilling/reading for months, to teaching English in Asia, to being a bike messenger, to living on a tropical island in S. America for a couple years). Okay only 50% of my examples were technically UNemployment, but you get the idea. My career is not as advanced as my friends who have had their noses on the tech grindstone for 20 years …
/r/askTRP11/09/18 07:49 AM
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dominance is the most attractive and desired trait to females (because dominant males tend to have better chance of surviving) Just don't forget that having sons who dominate for better survival is one thing, but women are attracted to dominance also (and very importantly) because their dominant sons will then be attractive to their generation of potential mates. This is kind of circular logic but it's real and factors into physical and behavioural attraction, and they are called "secondary sexu…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 12:40 PM
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Dunno why the downvotes. This is importantly related to ASL and shit tests... When a woman puts up barriers of any kind, she is seeing if you can get over them. If you can, then she gets a deep subconscious notion that by fucking you, her male offspring might be good at getting over the barriers that will be put up by the next generation of women... This notion causes tingles.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 12:32 PM
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Clueless!!!
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:34 PM
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Just Google for "Set up a Google Voice account"
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:17 PM
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Just for the sake of putting your experience down for the record.... Clearly you got "reported" for some of these approaches when it wasn't welcome... But of your successes, how many of them started this way? I.e., did Anaconda or size or fast openers ever... work? ...on anyone hotter than a 6?
/r/askTRP07/09/18 03:02 PM
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I see. I must be too old for this lingo. Thanks, TIL!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 02:35 PM
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I had a 19 year old plate at 45. Yeah I kept that on the DL pretty well. Also... Don't forget to check their ID!
/r/askTRP06/09/18 02:25 PM
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To "shelve" something is to stop using it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 02:14 PM
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Dunno where you are, brother.... It varies by geography, nationality, culture, economic status..
/r/seduction06/09/18 04:42 AM
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Then I dunno, man. You are outside my territory. Maybe she really likes you... ...and maybe this is the closest people in your culture are likely get to organic attraction / non-arranged pairing. You tell me what is okay to do, in your house/culture, in cases of potential mutual attraction. In mine, you invite her to do something interesting that is just the two of you. If she says yes then you gauge her attraction and .... if it feels right, physically touch her very briefly in inconsequential …
/r/seduction01/09/18 02:13 PM
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1) Simply becoming more culturally adapted to the surrounding environment (if you are in some "Western" country. Are you?) 2) Maybe she's just getting comfortable in her home with her housemates as if they are family. It's possible that, over time, she feels like you have become like a brother. 3) She is interested in you (or someone else in the house) romantically and this is an attempt to be noticed sexually. Please don't assume it's number (3). Try to talk to her. Wait to see if she gives any…
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:17 AM
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Open your mind. Women can seduce men. And in different cultures, there are different levels of "normal decorum", so... Well let's just go with an example. Let's say you have a female housemate and she starts going around the house in her bra and underwear, one week.... What if you were already attracted to her? Could it be a bold move to stop you in your tracks and make you notice her?
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:09 AM
10

Rule 1A) Hotter girls have more options Rule 1B) Hotter guys have more options.... Rule 2A) Women who are "less attractive" can have sex/attention more easily than men on their level.. they just have a hard time turning it into love/commitment/someone to stick around. Rule 2B) Non-hot guys have options to improve their attractiveness from zero to hero. It's called the gym, education, travel, musical instruments/hobbies, meditation, and chilling the fuck out. So stop your bitching about the unequ…
/r/seduction01/09/18 07:51 AM
55

Make it sexual from the beginning by greeting her with a huge,... greeting her with a huge ... what? Sounds like a pretty bold move! 😲
/r/seduction31/08/18 03:18 PM
27

Yes and no. Punctuation and grammar don't equal good communication ability, but just knowing how to separate a stream of words into clauses does help.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 12:36 PM
3

Well he was ambiguous but he might be saying all of the incidents were whiskey-related. I mean, I dunno about average behaviour but I certainly learned at that age that over a certain amount of drink was .... disruptive. I could see someone who's partying and fucking (way more than I was) running into that problem 4 or 5 times before age 20.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:47 AM
2

they should straighten it Obviously a lot of guys and a lot of afro-hair-havers agree with you, because hair straightening is a giant industry. But I don't get it.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:54 PM
11

Pleeeaase all y'all forget about the "morenas magras" with frizzy hair. I never used to think I had a "type" but maybe I do after all... This lady is a solid 9 maybe more. So leave those ones to me, k thx.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 06:23 AM
2

Maybe it was somewhere between just flirting and shit testing. Ignoring them could have been construed as your being fazed by it, whereas A+A or being entertained by it / laughing at them was probably what was called for, but I'm not an expert around here.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 06:11 AM
2

What were the ages of the people involved, including yourself? How did you know these women / for how long?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 06:00 AM
2

I agree with the analysis of /u/stilettonyc but I would change one thing. Pop a pill on Friday anyway, and enjoy the fuck and then don't have many expectations / don't try to be long-distance exclusive. Also, stilettonyc... "Relax" was Frankie Goes to Hollywood not Duran Duran. You're welcome -- an old dude.
/r/seduction23/08/18 05:58 AM
78

Funny, I'm rarely scared of any of those things... I thought this post was going to be about being afraid of women's rejection of me-- which is a real deal and often a blocker, the place I need the most work in my life!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 04:46 AM
1

Pretty much all of the comments here are more useful or insightful than this "article". It sounds like it was written by a 14 year old.... Or a 19 year old who was told "write as much as you can without saying anything so they keep scrolling and seeing the sneakers ads..." The title mentions tinder but the article is about "sending a message and getting no response". It's probably copy-pasta from 2006 that was originally written about OkCupid... Anyway. Interesting discussion in the comments so …
/r/askTRP22/08/18 05:36 AM
17

Uhhh at what point did you say have fun? How much attention had she already shown him, how hard was he hitting on her, etc. Doing that after she makes out with him is one thing. But after she smiles at his first joke is another. Context is everything.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 12:00 PM
2

This would not be a "red flag" question for me because receiving oral is my greatest pleasure and an absolute deal breaker for plating, for that reason. If you don't care much about it, keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 11:32 PM
4

Waaaiiiiit a minute. I would have thought at least some percentage of these successful chats turned into a girl really wanting/expecting a pillow fort?? You gonna lead with a disappointment like that? Also... I guess your "cup runneth over", but I would figure out how to cover 51 miles for that monica.
/r/seduction11/01/18 10:14 PM
1

. No decisions have to be made day to day or week to week about whether it's ok to drink now or how much is ok. That shit always spirals down. This also is the case if you decide to start with a month off.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:26 PM
1

If you're anything like me, then, the key is not having the first one. I declare "month off" once or twice a year and it's a good exercise. Pick a month that's not got any particular holidays or visits to/from old friends. Also, it's easier to start by avoiding all drinking establishments too. Save hard mode (hanging out in a bar with drinking friends) for deeper into the dry spells.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:21 PM
2

McVag, I think you misread. My interp: "I met this chick while I was walking my son to school".
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:49 AM
2

If you're ready to next you might as well try something explicit. "No deal. I do not meet women just to not touch them. But you can come over. Bring booze."
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:48 AM
3

Too long couldn't read while thing. But I would suggest that dropping some crazy gigolo stories about your exploits is not gonna change the fundamental equation... They're still gonna grow just as attached to you because you'll still have all the same basic qualities and behaviours. When I'm having sex with someone I like, I too fall into behaviour patterns that seem ambiguous (act like a boyfriend), even though I don't talk about LTRing and I state the truth about non-exclusivity if the topic c…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 03:00 AM
3

I did this! It turned into a teenage hormonal Long Distance Relationship for a while after. Still not sure if that helped me adjust to the new country/environment or I would have been better off without that last-minute tie... Go with your gut. But one thing is for sure, you may experience the magic of the "guy going places" aura. For some reason, being a new arrival or someone about to leave makes a girl more interested. I can't explain it, it's just one of the laws of the universe.
/r/seduction31/10/17 02:33 AM
2

Yes. My scenario where I am is a little strange. I'm in a remote place so my M.O. for dating was meet online then invite for a first date that lasts a whole weekend. Of the takers, one was definitely older and heavier than the pics. I guess I coulda thrown her back on the next return transport, but I thought I might as well make the most of it. She wasn't totally disgusting-- I could still get into some sexy time... She turned out to be the best lay of the lot. But, afterwards I told her I was u…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 11:11 PM
5

Ugh. I feel like this is somewhat "abuse of abundance". When chicks would do it to me I would often not have the backup and so basically lost one night of possible progress. And it's self perpetuating too. You do it because some flaky girls on your list will likely do it to you, so more girls will be inclined to do it with more guys, to compensate, and so on and so on. It's basically a giant pyramid where people with more options get to shit on people below with fewer. I think the game can be fr…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:32 PM
5

There's the risk of her thinking "gross". But at the same time, if she did see a mouse and she jumped on a chair and you remained cool and tell her you'll protect her from the mouse... (hahahah) That is exactly the kind of deep flight-response / safe-unsafe emotion that will stick in her mind and associate you with excitement. Win win.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 08:27 PM
1

Well, obviously she was so in awe of your "brilliance" and "amusing way" that she froze. Oh no wait. You keep saying she "shut off" and "went brain dead" but then provide zero evidence that this isn't her permanent state. Perhaps you found yourself a mental brick. But whatever, 9.5? Just do it.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 01:14 PM
5

I don't know the percentages, but there are absolutely male hosts on couchsurfing.com who use it as a way to get chicks. I'm guessing outright assault or even coercion is pretty rare, but yeah many hope that they can get hot young women to stay with them and it will turn sexy... Like I said, not everyone, but it is an opportunity to check your girl's naivety. When a girl says "No, that's not gonna happen / men aren't always after sex / he just wants to be friends" it means she's deeply naive or …
/r/askTRP28/10/17 11:12 AM
2

Notice the 20 year age difference between you and OP?
/r/askTRP05/08/17 12:29 PM
13

Not to be confused with "Benjamin Friends"... 100-dollar hookers.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:04 AM
3

Um, I thought the entire purpose of this sub was to teach that women, to a large extent, want to fuck guys with looks, muscle, strength, social status and a care-free attitude. And marry guys with money, responsibility, career success, and a general air that would impress her parents. You seem to be talking about younger ladies who probably aren't looking for a husband yet, asking why they aren't bowled over by the one trait that you think should work-- that trait's not even in the right categor…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:53 AM
2

How much does the position pay?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:58 PM
2

I've never had your number 2. Even one night stands. Closest maybe ever was ... Fucked until 2, passed out, woke up at dawn (5 literally), fucked again, and she was on her way with just the one flip-flop because that was the kind of party I took her home from... I think my two other closest things to one-nighters also featured fantastic second (or third) nutting after waking up. I don't have a good reason to forgoe that pleasure (but I also like cuddling and sleep-contact...) Honestly I think so…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:10 AM
3

I'm not sure if you're genuinely curious or asking facetiously because OP should know better.... But just in case
/r/askTRP20/06/17 11:58 PM
3

complEment?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 11:49 PM
1

So it's a good line and a good filter too! Coz who wants to go on a date with someone with no sense of humor?
/r/seduction20/06/17 11:45 PM
5

What? I loved this. If you hold your frame of confidence-- and if there was any attraction already--she ain't gonna cringe, she'll love it. I mean it has to come after some banter/eye contact. It's not a technique to attract, it's a way to make a pass in a scenario where you can't really be pushy. Anyway, just my opinion!!
/r/seduction20/06/17 11:44 PM
5

Well, yes sometimes I do. But I've never used that line. I thought of it as I walked out of a haircut by a hottie years ago and never found another perfect moment since. Perhaps some redditor(s) will breathe life into it.
/r/seduction20/06/17 04:58 PM
243

"I want to ask a certain girl out-- help me find an outfit that will make her bound to say yes." <Figure out items of clothing in store with her> "Perfect. So, wanna grab a coffee with me after you get off work?" Edit: Hey everyone, don't ask women out where they work. In general, if you are a regular customer, write a note that essentially says "Here's my number if you would like to grab a drink. (But I promise to be a regular non-awkward customer either way)". In the above case, maybe write it…
/r/seduction20/06/17 10:46 AM
12

I've worked in several programming environments now, and in my personal experience the women who can really stand their own ground have made up about 10% of the programmers. I mean, that's skewed pretty male, and I don't know if any of the ladies had affirmative action help, getting hired, but I doubt it coz they were typically better than half the guys I'm including in my rough tally here. So I'm just saying they're not that rare.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:03 AM
1

Dammit, I was going to do this one day.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:15 PM
2

Just look at this picture and tell yourself you can only have one of these three things.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:30 AM
4

Did you not see the "Brazil" part? Having a Lamborghini would bring a gun pointing at your face about 10 times per day.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:25 PM
1

Tell me more about this start up and the industry! I'm a gringo programmer in Brazil, I have only worked remotely for US companies, haven't really looked into what's happening in Brazil itself. But my Portuguese is probably good enough ​now to be in a Brazilian company... Recommendations?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:17 PM
5

I hope you are telling the truth and you really did this.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:19 AM
1

But what do you think dry humping is?
/r/askTRP24/05/17 10:50 PM
1

I'm not sure you're sure what dry humping is....
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:27 PM
1

There is some truth in AWALT and some truth in the ovulation/alpha-fuck timing. But you seem to have turned this into a notion of women as practically zombies, being dragged like a magnet towards some hot Chad, by their dripping pussies, every day. All women also love having a boyfriend. Depending on the woman, the guy might not even be that alpha, she can still decide that the boyfriend is her preferred strategy... for years.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 11:38 AM
26

Listening right now. I've heard him on JRE before, wasn't bowled over, but this time it's like a constant stream of Wow moments and incredibly thought-provoking lines... Anyone who likes it should look up some Joseph Campbell talks.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 09:21 PM
5

I think it's appropriate for her to have a serious talk with the doorman / building staff about this. Regardless of how serious she thinks you and she are, she should be somewhere between annoyed and Mad As Hell that her ex is at her apartment door ringing repeatedly, unannounced. If she laughs at it, it's somewhat of a red flag on her personality type, IMHO. Or is ex actually on the lease? As for the phone number, that is completely appropriate. Even if I'm genuinely trying to avoid someone, it…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:50 PM
1

Just a semantics point: "Well over 6 figures..." means 7 figures? 8? 9? (I know, I bet you don't mean that... But I think that is the wrong phrase for that, because it really could mean a higher number of figures.) That's why we have the terms: "High 6 figures", "Low 6 figures", and "Medium 6 figures".
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:02 PM
49

Holy RedPill, this is one of the more perverse threads I've ever seen here. If the prevailing philosophy is that a 25 year old woman with ONE breakup in her entire life is "red flag" material, you guys are absolutely fooling yourselves. I can think of about three million reasons why a woman got out of a 7-year relationship at 25 that don't reflect badly on her. I guess if you're in the top 1% of male SMV, you can go find your 18-year-old virgin bride at whatever age you decide to get married, bu…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 01:35 AM
1

Agreed, but "how much she is willing to sleep around" and "how interested she is in a guy who sleeps with a lot of women" are different things. Related, but different. And the OP is talking about the latter. Think about the case of the woman who mostly has boyfriends and basically a low N-count, but wants to rip her panties off for this one guy without giving a damn about what happens after (because AWALT)... Is she likely to be more turned on by the guy who has had many women? That is OP's ques…
/r/askTRP30/04/17 12:44 PM
10

when I decided to change and step up my game, a couple of years back. He voiced his disaproval at first, and I shut him down because I wasn't doing anything to him and he should have minded his own business. As time went by, I kept doing my thing and this asshole didn't take well that other people would put up with me without saying shit to me... Here is the strange dark corner of your post. "decided to change and step up my game"--- what? It's a weird thing to say but in this context it's even …
/r/askTRP29/04/17 03:04 PM
3

Yup, exactly. The re-hymenization was deeply related to the resistance/rape-fantasy dynamic.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 06:29 AM
2

Go back and read some more of the conversation that his comment spurred. There is an important principle at work, worth reading.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:08 PM
8

I once had a night with a real headcase. She got herself sewn up surgically, re-hymenized, to reclaim her "virginity". I thought​ I might be about to be her first after the procedure, things were getting pretty hot and heavy. But she would physically push me away if I got close to her pussy. I gave it a few passes then gave up. Later she told me that she had wanted me to try harder, to "force" my way in. Her anti-slut psychology was so messed up, she literally wanted me to rape her so she could …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:03 PM
25

As for slimmer figures, I heard a theory that it's because it's easier to tell "not pregnant". Which makes a lot of sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:16 PM
1

I think it's mostly like the person who said "Women don't know what they want." I think it's better put that ... what they claim they want is different from what they actually want (and actually, yes, they do kind of know it). Think about the anti-slut defense. The girl may want to fuck the "right now" guy, but doesn't want her social group (or even the guy in question) to think of her that way. "Keeping up appearances" It's just that chick flicks exist in this same social, community, shared "me…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:33 AM
0

S'for real yup. I bought some recently for the first time in years, just coz why not. Watch out for names like "Prolong" and "Endurance". They definitely work on me! But you need to be careful to avoid them working too well-- what I mean is that the second time I put one on, I was a little tired and maybe too soon after last sex... combined with the loss of sensation, I lost my erection!
/r/seduction20/04/17 07:33 PM
2

Buy a plane ticket to Saigon.... or Tokyo... or Reykjavik... Or Morocco... or Medellin, and try to see a new place and meet locals for two months. You can do half these other self-improvement things while traveling (gym possibly the hardest if you're moving around a bit). But you can integrate ALL of them into your coming stable regular normal day-job life after June. Having two real free months enables you to do something that you cannot do any old time... and may not have a chance to do again …
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:38 PM
1

I was in Peru for five weeks, got lucky about once per week, average, but only big cities. Pro tip for the single hostelling traveller: always do a little research in a new town and have a couple of local cheap motel/love-hotel options ready (phone number to check availability, address to tell Uber driver) coz, well, for those of us who do not get reliably laid anytime we want, it sucks super hard to have interest/opportunity and blow it over logistics!
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:28 PM
4

Tinder while traveling can work. I've had mixed success. In Peru I stayed in hostels but dropped the extra cash on cheap hotel rooms after someone wanted to come home with me... Didn't happen often enough to blow my budget, sadly :( But it's a much cheaper country. If you're in Europe, could be prohibitive. The thing about finding a moment/loc inside a hostel-- your pool is restricted to the people also staying in that hostel. These days they're super strict about non-guests visitors.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:39 PM
1

Well, I'll always recommend seeing new places/things. But a job like that could end up just being annoying-- seeing more airports and office buildings and downtowns than culture or the chance to "dive in" a bit. Can you get a week of your own time in each new loc?
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:22 AM
1

Brazil. I'm not sure what a "half-assed work year abroad" would look like in a country where your kind of work isn't available as a foreigner... Or did you mean, like, backpacker jobs (bar/hostel, not technically legal but do-able).
/r/askTRP09/04/17 08:29 AM
2

OP, you are confusing people. At the top of this post you should explain better that you're just copying a story from another subreddit, and you're not the protagonist-- people are calling bullshit because they see that the details don't match with your profile. (Whereas I'm calling bullshit because you're reposting a fantasy cheater-gets-her-come-uppance story that probably isn't true, just based on the story itself.)
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:04 AM
8

I believe OP just copied it from a relationship advice sub that I won't name, and didn't even want to sound like it was his own story (hence the word "husband"-- third-person in the title). Coulda put a one-liner at the top explaining it better, though.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:01 AM
24

46 I live on a tropical island in Latin America. I made some decent money from silicon valley/software (not an entrepreneur/founder, just a programmer/grunt). I've kind of checked out of the working world for a while, but you'd be surprised how far you can stretch money in some parts of the world. I traveled a lot in my 20's, and picked it back up again in my 40's... As far as women, I have been a very slow learner. Will always have some beta traits, learned to accept that... But not hitching up…
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:36 AM
6

I was with you until "doesn't need friends"... I think each partner having friends is pretty much essential for success in both long term and short term relationships.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 11:24 PM
22

Yeah, it was right next to your centerfold spread.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:08 PM
3

just say hey I've got to go do stuff today. Wait, are you talking the following morning? This thread started off being about not letting her stay the night. I always like to stay over or have her over, even if it's the first time. If there's someone I wouldn't want to share a night with, I wouldn't want to fuck them either. I guess the main reasons are that I actually like women (shock horror I guess I don't belong on this sub), I also enjoy cuddling someone I'm attracted to, and thirdly I like …
/r/askTRP07/04/17 10:53 PM
6

How pithi, quithi
/r/seduction06/04/17 04:16 AM
12

I'd have to disagree here. I think money makes more of a difference in the "Would I date him?" / "Would I marry him?" thought process. But we are talking about the more pure wanting-to-fuck equation. ...and if the dude has status via looks, physical strength, artistic endeavors, etc. then it can be even more of a turn-on.
/r/seduction05/04/17 07:03 PM
3

Well, I enjoyed it. But are you sure it's not "Conscious" and "Unconscious"??
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:30 AM
2

Well, I can't speak for OP u/herbyx3 but the issue for me is not fear of break-up level cheating. I'm a little older perhaps, but yeah I know it's not the end of the world... I know that if she's caught cheating I deserve better, and can move on-- maybe wounded but with pride.... The issue is with her maybe getting away with it, under the radar... The paranoia is that she really does have an interest in me, may even love me, but has some dick(s) on the side on those nights we aren't together. Th…
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:23 AM
3

No. Because the phrase is poorly worded, and this poor wording will not die. The phrase as I normally hear it is "Have your cake and eat it too". But as you pointed out, eating is a form of having and it makes no sense. I believe what they mean, better worded, is "Keep your cake and eat it too". Probably even better reversed: "Aww, you wanna eat your cake and keep it too?" Your assistance in changing the world and spreading this better version of this damn idiom will be greatly appreciated.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 06:13 AM
1

Work on yourself and your future... Accept that your opportunities for love might not be with your first choice(s). Love anyway. But don't close off your future in a hurry.
/r/seduction03/04/17 06:05 AM
0

It's called branch swinging by TRPers if a woman does it. Or monkey-branching. Or looking to cheat (original commenter wasn't specific enough).
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:05 AM
1

Yes it works that way. I suppose if you spend your twenties or thirties doing a very physical job in the sun every say-- or if you become a meth or smack addict-- you might look 40 when you're 40. But avoiding that, yes. I have no proof but my hunch is that you will have more head hair, and fewer wrinkles, at 40 than some of your friends at 35 or 30. As far as this affects your dating prospects, there are two strategies to take major advantage of this... You can get married and have a family now…
/r/seduction03/04/17 12:49 AM
6

I have been on about 50 first dates with Brazilian women. Just once a girl brought a friend along. (They were totally just in it for free food!) But usually, yeah, it's considered totally cool to meet one on one the first time. Brazilians do have a lot looser rules about the line between "friends" and "dates" so in fact it's even more important to make yourself clear (and not go hang out with her and friends right out of the gate). But you can still make it work if you have to. I was hanging out…
/r/askTRP01/04/17 11:23 PM
1

She might try really hard to get pregnant "by mistake" if she understands that you're close to giving u... Be careful.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 09:51 PM
1

I'm slightly confused because according to your original post, it neither sounds like she's his girl nor does it sound like he even still thinks that she's his girl. Is she claiming exclusivity with him or not? And even if she is, it doesn't sound like he's buying it. So this is like non-news to him. Still, send him the screenshot. That part is a no-brainer. Then he's got the information, what he does with it is not your problem.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 06:41 PM
3

Meh. Yes women love attention (but so do men). I'm guessing that the utopian ultimate male happiness is having the kind of woman who gets tons of male attention while paying zero attention to it, from the day you go exclusive as a couple? It's unrealistic. Mate-guarding bitch To a certain extent, yup. Sorry. It's either that, an ugly girlfriend, or plate forever. But there are degrees. I think some women can be 8 or higher yet still care about what it means to be a girlfriend or wife... still re…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 12:51 PM
3

Exactly. Make a date-destination if it's not the right place to find new dates. If the girl isn't already a pro, then you will seem like one to her even if you've only been going for 2 months. Plus kino automatically thrown in.
/r/seduction31/03/17 04:21 AM
2

4) Learn to play an instrument 5) Travel 6) Approach 7) Escalate Maybe these are not spelled out there but with your 3 there is plenty to work on.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:31 PM
1

Condoms are your friends. Grow up.
/r/seduction30/03/17 05:15 PM
28

I'm getting a little bored of my girlfriend and her "all fours" requests. Every time we have sex, no matter the position, before long it's "Baby, fuck me hard from behind!" Okay I lied I'm not bored of it yet
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:15 AM
1

I think u/darknes66 here is highlighting a pretty interesting point about the guys on here, or perhaps the process/phases of TRP. Some guys are still angry about the woman who cheated on them or-- maybe more important-- angry about all the women they know to be promiscuous just not choosing to sleep with them. Ha. Maybe one day they too will love sluts. I think it's part of being more aware/awake/developed as a guy. On the other hand, a lot of the "slut-hating" around here comes from childhood d…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:31 PM
1

I guess if she really did give all to me, really was loyal, and wasn't a fucking nightmare psychologically, then all of these flags would not put her "out of the running" for me. I could be willing to say the past is history. But my caveats probably couldn't all be met, in reality. Edit: Also I am in my 40s with a similar count and I understand how sometimes a younger guy has a harder time getting over a high-count woman if his is low.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:17 PM
1

Frankly, with a few caveats, I bet most guys would be happy as hell to chat up a slut and get a good lay if they were the guy at the drop of that dime. Maybe even ongoing/casual/FWB/booty-call. Just not turn her into a GF. Does that mean he doesn't "like" her. Maybe means he doesn't respect her.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:12 PM
1

Dude your answer is in the top-voted comment to the original post. You have an emotional/moral feeling about it because guys evolved to be wary of supporting someone else's genetic offspring. You can logically say, that with paternity tests, this instinct can be worked around-- that the danger we are trying to avoid can be avoided in another way, so we don't need the anti-slut gut-feeling anymore. But not needing it doesn't make it go away. That's not the way our bodies/brains/minds/psychology w…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:06 PM
1

Have you ever heard of people adopting a child from the third world? Got any friends who went to the pound to adopt a pet? Never given to any charity ever? The interest in caring for and supporting another human being (or an animal or a good cause) is not just restricted to wanting to spread your own genes. Sure, if you have decided to procreate, supporting someone else's child can hinder that... and obviously if you got cucked and wrongly believe that you're supporting your own offspring, it's …
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:38 PM
-4

There's an article about it. Thanks LordThunderbolt. Good thing I'm happy to take your word for it. If not, I'd get all bitchy about "why no link?" (to this interesting-sounding article)
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:35 AM
2

I have tried to cum as fast as possible. This works perfect for a fwb with the mindset of only caring abour your pleasure. Wait..... Trying to come as fast as possible worked to last longer??? Or you're saying it was just a mindset of "I'll come when I want, bicth" and actually not giving a crap about the woman's pleasure-duration?
/r/askTRP23/03/17 01:48 AM
22

Just put it on a wider shuffle, jeez.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:19 AM
30

hoes that have nothing more to offer than a wet hole between their legs Sometimes this sub makes my skin crawl. Jesus Christ, people, I doubt this attitude will even get you laid more, never mind improve your life in general. Is OP 14 years old?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 03:32 AM
1

You're in China and you found girls you like in Japan and South Korea? I was gonna say Israel/Jordan/Egypt but I think my other guess must be more likely.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:26 PM
7

I think she has some sort of "numb clit" symptom from rubbing herself too much. We need a term for female "death grip". Personally, just thinking out loud here, I like the sound of "hammerfinger".
/r/askTRP16/03/17 02:00 PM
1

Condoms? Lights off? Be on bottom ("cowgirl") or another position where she does the motion / you can be still. Think about Kevin Spacey's face? Maybe try to have a girlfriend for at least a while, so you can have someone to work on this with. Later you can go back to your sex quest, what's the rush?
/r/askTRP15/03/17 02:31 PM
-4

And Lord knows, Trump would never have done anything to merit any such accusation in reality.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:42 PM
6

Well, what the hell was that "one word"?? And what were the circumstances when you said it? Were you actually interested in her at any point? Was there any time when she might have thought you were tailing her out of class? Tell us about eye contact from early on... It still feels to me like you don't want to give us the details of exactly how you did interact with her... And that seems weird. Edit: I'm not trying to make this your fault. I find it very easy to believe that she misunderstood and…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:36 PM
1

Online dating. Move to a foreign country.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:10 PM
1

Run Logan Run.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 01:10 PM
1

I guess what you're looking for is being your own boss, making your own company and eventually having employees... As a dietician, is there a path to this?
/r/askTRP15/03/17 12:31 PM
1

5'9" and 135???? That sounds practically medically dangerous.
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:16 AM
1

Yes it's quite hypocritical in the end! I guess in this idealistic RP scenario, the guy would find you as a virgin, fuck you while not giving up his other fucks, then going LTR with you when he felt that you really were the unicorn, then marry you one day... Not a virgin bride but still he's been the only dick in you ever (got his virgin but got the test drive / kicked the tires before buying). But in this scenario you don't get to trade in your virginity for a husband, and really, I think the i…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:55 PM
5

I'm 46 and in debt.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:06 PM
2

No shit? Wow, that is impressive. Like someone said above, maybe we'll see more celebrity men taking this route.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 01:08 PM
3

Why would it be "desperation" if you've been jamming your cock down her throat regularly for months and she's a very good woman to you? Like everything TRP, it seems that people get off on standing their ground even when the situation is not the one where the behavior is appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:20 PM
6

I guess the downvotes are because more people think that maybe giving a small gift to top plate is okay after 6 mos. of fucking her?? I think you should be able to give a gift at this stage without it being "transactional"... Gifts to try to get something in return, are IMHO (like the OP's) a bad idea, but unlike him I think it's hard to say your top plate for 6 months doesn't deserve it. I think you can chill out on the TRP hard-line and show a little humanity. Just my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:15 PM
1

How did you know she was hypersexual?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:33 PM
4

I confronted her on all of this and said "sorry but this is not acceptable. You cannot expect to portray one person, and show up a totally different one. Not in the dating world. My case of this was not quite as bad. Not smoking.... hair short but not purple at least... A lot of extra pounds and years compared to photos... But somehow charming. I fucked her all weekend and then told her later that she can't do that shit, no longer interested. Let me tell you she was perhaps the best lay of anyon…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 03:42 PM
2

I trust them enough to plate them. I think date-rape claims are pretty rare and I don't usually roll with the party/drunk scene so I'm less at risk. However I just started LTR-ing one, coz it felt right and there are other benefits. But Holeee Shiiit it is a little tricky within the mindset of AWALT. Not so much the branch-swing fear (coz, I have my life, if she doesn't want "in" I'll live) but more the cuckold potential. By forgoing all the other plates and potential plates, I have lost my insu…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 08:25 AM
1

Like, married couples never cheated before 1970 right?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 08:02 AM
1

Can I get a little punctuation in hea?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 07:59 AM
9

So is her husband also a friend and does he know her material? How much of said material is true?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 07:20 AM
3

Maybe the entire comment was just a run-up to a drummer-joke?
/r/askTRP10/03/17 05:57 AM
0

You left it kind of perfectly vague, what actually happened between friend and girl... "Had the hots for and went on one date last year" Late December 2016 was "last year". Was there "hots" for months, then a date then, followed by some regular communication between them where he got hope for another date soon? This would be one scenario. Coz also March 2016 was "last year". Maybe they had a date and she's been ghosting him for 12 months. That is a very different scenario, as far as your level o…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 09:53 PM
3

Simple. Just be, deep in your heart, "ready to walk". ;) If she would rather look for an exclusive boyfriend than have more of your time and attention, there's not much you can do about it. But like I was saying above, there might be some middle ground / rules that make it more palatable for her if she's not comfortable... Like, "you're my primary" "Don't Ask Don't Tell"... "Anything but PIV".. "sex but no sleepovers" etc etc. But the only one I've ever made work is DADT.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 10:02 PM
2

Then go back to plating... Maintain the variety but lose some reliability. You will survive nights without an automatic lay.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 04:00 PM
2

Well, the beginning with anyone is always "open", right? You don't assume she's exclusive and she doesn't assume you're exclusive. That's why there is "the talk" / DTR somewhere down the line when she wants more commitment (or when you do, but beware: asking before her is not attractive). So, simply by not having the talk, you move into open-LTR territory... But... If you never talk about it ever, there is the chance she'll assume (falsely). So best to bring it up eventually. "We're still seeing…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:56 PM
-1

Dangit ya got me bro. After all our talks, I still fucked your little sister. (She said she was 18!!!)
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:18 PM
1

Basically yes, I believe that everything men do is about having successful offspring, as many as possible, in the end. But the ways to do so can get really complex, with social status and community-quality and regular old mate-seeking. So, yeah now you know "academically" that that is the way it is. Now forget it and go do things that make you and other people happier.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 04:45 PM
1

I dunno man. From my never-been-the-alpha point of view it seems strange saying it, but... Sometimes you're not the alpha. Get the fuck over it.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 04:38 PM
1

Maybe he'd like to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 04:16 PM
2

This is a good analogy, but AWALT really is a "philosophy" as well as a tool. It's a way to see the world, and it can lead to some guys missing out on something meaningful and deep with a woman out of fear of being cheated on, branch-swung, etc. Even if all women are like that, sometimes it's healthy to just forget it and dive in... I mean, use a condom and don't go for marriage at the drop of a hat, of course, but maybe maybe sometimes treat her as better than your cum-sponge.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 04:12 PM
6

So what are you gonna say? (In no fewer than 24 hours when or if you respond)???
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:40 PM
-1

Have you never seen a hamster run on one of those wheel things? The "who's this?" response could imply playfulness if she didn't believe it was genuine. But I guarantee that even if she knows deep down that he can't really have forgotten, a little part of her will flutter all night wondering....
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:38 PM
12

What a bitch. But, from her point of view, it's maybe feasible or maybe she even did it before (turn a fuckfriend into an orbiter) but in my book that's behavior worthy of blocking her permanently
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:23 PM
3

To me, it reads like some irate guy writer fantasizing about what he wishes he had done to some "bitch" who talked him into opening up... or maybe who just plain dumped him. The boyfriend in the story is too perfect... It's a device used to make the girl's fuck-up epic and unforgivable.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 06:32 PM
2

Definitely agree that your final might wanna be more comical and less angry.
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:55 AM
1

Examples of your "creative openers" please?
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:49 AM
-11

The only??? Jesus, TRP. You observe some injustices against your gender and skin color and have to claim that these are the only injustices in the universe?? Grow up, bobsbigboi. Reddit, don't upvote this shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 03:26 AM
130

I think you said "quite" when you meant to say "quiet" At least twice. It was quiet distracting.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 06:28 AM
4

The funniest things sail close to the truth... The truth here being that there are a lot of maladjusted dudes in this sub who would actually like to do this very thing or as close as they can get... If it can be described as "holding frame" then it's gold, regardless of asshole-factor.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 06:15 AM
2

Okay, if you are high SMV enough to get everything you need while passing through places and women so briefly that you're gone without a trace, that works, I guess. But most guys do not have the means, nor the desire, to always be on the move, never settle down, never put roots in a territory and a community.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:36 PM
2

I mean...... Duh.
/r/seduction20/02/17 04:57 PM
1

By the way, are you gonna do her fiancé a solid and let him know how cucked he is? I feel like, if I were that poor guy, I would want a total stranger to do me a favour such as that.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:07 PM
2

There's still a problem there, though. Even if you want to avoid investing in any of these offspring beyond conception, any of these women can still present you with a pregnancy/child (and claim that it must be yours), leaving the proof up to a paternity test. And if you're the dad it's still gonna cost you, in pretty much any country/culture... Hope the one you impregnated is the one you woulda wanted, given the choice! (And not the psychotic HB5 from that one night you want to forget). That's …
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:00 PM
101

girl that was massaging my dick during the break while eating with her feet under the table. I'm sorry but what? Ooooooh okay just got it. girl that, while eating during the break, was massaging my dick with her feet, under the table. Still gonna be a while til I erase that image of a girl "eating with her feet under the table".
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 01:46 AM
6

Yeah I thought the convo post-OP's-revelation went not badly. Seemed kinda like what you'd hope your crush would say if they were uninterested. But... the follow-up at the fest. Urrrrgh.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 05:33 PM
2

This might have been a good time to verbally escalate. Which is normally talking about doing something with her later (a date). A first kiss attempt out of a scenario like this without even a little kino first is kinda risky. I mean there's a chance that she wanted you to do it but there is also a chance that it would have gone into her mental list of "creepy guys who don't get it." You shouldn't always wait for a date to make a move, but the casual touch (elbow, waist, shoulder) is still a real…
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:04 PM
10

This is one of the reasons that spending time in a foreign country / dating across a language barrier can be so refreshing and even successful. You are literally forced into physical/emotional language, gestures and facial expressions, and even after years of living and learning the language I am still not at the level for the kind of philosophical/intellectual conversations that I always was in my native English, and I think that continues to keep me away from areas that bore women.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:55 PM
3

You seem really desperate to use the lingo, like "beta" and "cuckoldry". How old are you? You know, it's okay to take off the TRP-tinted glasses once in a while and just look at the world through old-fashioned but perfectly natural "health" or "happiness" filters. The red pill manual can't cover everything for you.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 04:29 PM
1

No. My girlfriend does all the right things for me. I already had a feeling like I wanted to stop plating and simplify my life, right before I met her and so didn't take long to "go LTR"... But it's a two way street. I'm holding back on trying to get with the other women around me (and bro, are there some around me or what) so she has to damn well also not be fucking other guys. I guess it wouldn't really affect me apart from disease risk, but that's not the point. It's an agreement, and I would…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:47 PM
7

Tell her in the language you used here, there's nothing like honesty. "Are you fucking kidding me, you whore? I come over to fuck you-- you are not worth the time or the price of a burrito or a gaddamn chick flick." /s Okay, my real opinion is that you sound like a total douchebag, and maybe you could try plating/FWBing a woman whose company you actually like as well? Because even the woman who just fucks you is going to want some comfort after a couple of months, it's really normal. I think you…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:16 PM
8

Sloppy drunk is disgusting behavior Hmm, for me it has its time and its place. Okay, in front of parents it's a bad choice... But when sloppy-drunk GF remains her sweet self, just sloppier, and sloppy BJ ensues later, who am I to judge? I have been sloppy drunk myself, enough times. calling an ex even more so. Now that's deal-breaker territory for me too.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:42 PM
1

I may swing back the other way, one day, but at this point in my life the things that grab me are physical attraction, kindness, touch, amiability, openness and the kind of intelligence that manifests itself in day-to-day logistics, more than worldly-wisdom or book-learning. I can talk about politics, philosophy, technology and science with people whom I'm not dating. Anyway I didn't say I would go exclusive/serious with the youngest in that range either. Lastly, I guess I'm not necessarily dati…
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:48 AM
1

I'm not much of an alpha. I'm just lucky to be in a place where age doesn't exclude me and might even accentuate the other features that I get for free as an outsider/foreigner. Brazil. None of them were Asian, but I bet none of them would turn down a green card either.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:33 AM
2

I feel you are implying something here you aren't saying. Yeah DITTO. OP u/pitterpats ... I was gonna ask something similar to this but my alarming quotes from you weren't even the same ones... Any attempt I make at controlling ANY conversation with a woman is met with cruelty.... Um I see the problem here. Conversations are not about control AT ALL, bro. Conversations are meant to be give and take. Exactly what does it sound like when you are on an attempt to control a conversation with a woman…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:33 AM
43

Looking 15 when you're 18 has serious love-life drawbacks... I consider looking 36 at 46 a kind of payback.
/r/seduction05/02/17 08:48 AM
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Me. He's talking about me. 46 and until I LTR'd (27) in December I had plates over the prev 15 months at... 40-something, 28, 22, 19, 34, 29, 27, 45, 22, 18, 27... A phrase that gets bandied about a lot is "Daddy issues". I like to think that it's possible for an 18 year old to be into me without it having a weird parental-substitue dynamic (which I've never pursued and never observed) but if my age is part of her attraction to me I just roll with it. Edit: I should have said... The 22, 19, 29, …
/r/seduction05/02/17 08:41 AM
-2

It was an important period, full stop.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 07:43 PM
-4

Can. You. Please. Use.more.punctuation, to . understand. What, you, are, saying?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:13 PM
1

This is an interesting question to me, because I am kinda like your opposite (except for the part where I too have still not figured out what the real goal of life is). I've always been wary of jobs and employers... even school and college. I knew that happiness was not going to be found there, but I was fortunate to be equipped with the mental faculties to "get by" in all of them, to get passing grades and paychecks enough... "Career" is mostly an illusion to make people work for someone else f…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:07 AM
1

I can't swear that women get extra interested when you arrange to see them more sparsely and avoid exclusivity. But I've definitely crossed some line because I used to expect negative repercussions from those attitudes, and realised that it at least didn't hurt my chances at all. Even straight-up ultimatums ("exclusivity or nothing")... I said "Okay, I understand, we have to be nothing then" and sure enough they are reaching out one or two weeks later...
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:50 PM
1

It's cool. You seem to have some self-awareness about how things usually end up for you, and I think your plan of trying to avoid the gravitational pull of LTR-dom, for a while, is a great idea. You will probably learn a ton. So, it sounds like you are dangerously close to your standard one-itis with this girl already, and so if you wanna try this plating thing, you need to put some space into it. Think of it like this... Ideally you'd have maybe four plates spinning, and you're giving at least …
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:39 PM
2

So are you saying the only reason you didn't end up Sun/Wed/Thu is that Thursday she got stuck at work? That might seem a little too eager. I see that someone here said that even twice a week is too much. I dunno what the standard advice should be but if you want to keep this one as a plate then yeah you should be too busy for more than twice a week, at most.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:14 PM
1

roeddit was responding to FrameWalker. The "second part" of "You can make it up to me next time" then let her ask about when and where is... then let her ask about when and where It's okay to get ideas about your next move from Reddit but a prerequisite is learning how to read/understand the comment/reply layout.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:04 PM
2

Seems like you missed the opportunity to call it Cyrano.com or cdb.net or Roxane.com there...
/r/seduction26/01/17 01:37 PM
1

Do you have another username here that is (almost) MystichExarc?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:08 PM
2

My LTR got messages over the holidays from her ex. As far as she reported, he was looking for some kind of get-together and she said no. Done. I do not need to punish her, establish frame, use dread etc. In your case, if we don't know what she messaged him, how can we possibly make an input on your scenario?
/r/askTRP25/01/17 10:25 AM
40

I found this downvoted. Some people really have no sense of humour.
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:52 PM
3

See "climategate" emails. Eight committees investigated the allegations and published reports, finding no evidence of fraud or scientific misconduct.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 12:52 PM
3

Make up your mind, Dirkz
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:03 PM
6

"I had to leave <club name> early last nigh. Dinner @mine tonight?"
/r/askTRP21/01/17 12:28 PM
15

Fave part: the double-CC... From Cock Carousel to Cat Colonist
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 02:31 AM
17

Fuuuu..... Sometimes ya gotta just put down the reddit and live to life!
/r/seduction18/01/17 01:18 PM
13

Sadly I have never Czech'd that box.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:47 PM
2

It used to be fun to go get trashed and wake up with some young piece of ass next to me but its really not anymore. I think you are missing out on some of the potential middle ground here... Plates who are not LTR's but with whom you can still have a decent convo, enjoy life outside the bed with, and the kind of intimate sexual advancement that comes from doing it with the same person dozens of times... Plus if you don't try to fuck them on the first two dates, or if they don't want to have sex …
/r/askTRP17/01/17 03:37 PM
1

As you get older, and hopefully increase your experience/count, you will move towards a slightly different mentality, where her N-count doesn't have to be that low. You accept it (maybe just assume it without ever talking about it), and you LTR more on the basis of "likelihood to want more dick behind my back / cheating" rather than "number of past dicks". You seem like you are mostly there, because in the end it was the ex-BF meetup that was the deal-breaker for you. You didn't say her age, but…
/r/askTRP17/01/17 12:57 PM
2

If you're walking away, frame no longer matters... By that time it's pure ego stuff for yourself.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 11:16 PM
2

Me! Well, I would... except it's too close to where I eat.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:24 PM
21

Definitely a couple of glaring gaps in the "process" here!! It kinda reminds me of that old annoying song, "3 Steps to Heaven"... "Step 1: You find a girl to love.. Step 2: She falls in love with you. Step 3: You kiss and.." WAAIIT!! Are there steps 1.1 to 1.9 left out there?!?! Haha She says she wants to be a doctor? Tell her that she would be a sexy doctor. Be cautious though, some girls get very offended if you do this too quick. No tip on how to tell when is too quick, or the kind of girl, t…
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:33 PM
3

I'm sorry, but paragraphs ought to be obligatory in all posts over a certain length, on all subreddits.
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:08 PM
1

Yeah it's a fine line.... Somewhere there is a middle ground where: -- the girl is not what you are really wanting but she's not actually repulsive -- your effort can be more than zero -- you have interaction / reasonably interesting conversation / dating-practice / maybe sex, BUT... -- she doesn't fall in love with you / you have to make it clear enough that you're not that into her / don't straight up lie to her to get in pants. -- you get out before anyone gets attached / gets the wrong idea.…
/r/seduction02/01/17 12:56 PM
1

Haha. Well, I have two reactions to this... One: maybe you feel 60 pounds overweight but you wear it well? Or don't show it much in your pics? Or you're tall? Or generally handsome? Two: Maybe you're in a special city? maybe share that info with some of the less-successful tindering redditors? Where are you having this success... Good luck on these dates!
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:18 PM
1

I think "ghosting" means permanently, too. Why are you so obsessed with use some "cool" dating/TRP lingo? You know, when you don't have the right buzzwords for your situation you can just use regular words... I was originally going to not message her for a week, but now I'm thinking of dropping it all together.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:11 PM
2

"Soft-nexting" someone is dropping contact and waiting/seeing if they talk first. If they don't, you don't either. "Hard-nexting" is dropping contact and not responding even if she tries to re-initiate. Like, if she cheats or lies or completely stands you up with no warning, hard-next. So, no, you can't "soft next" someone "for a week" (if you initiate contact after a week, it's not a "next" at all... if she initiates, you don't know how long she will wait so "for a week" makes no sense).
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:19 PM
1

That's not really a TRP question... Because two perfectly tuned-in masters of the art can have completely different attitudes to protection depending on their tastes, trust, level of risk. So I'll just give you my personal answer: Wear a condom every time you put your dick in a vagina, until you're married and actively trying to make babies.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 01:57 PM
2

I was originally going to next her for a week, but now I'm thinking of dropping it all together. Uhhhhh.. I don't think this verb "next" means what you think it means. Sorry, I'm a vocab-nerd... And I'm certainly not a TRP expert... But to "next" someone is to stop with them... "moving on" (you know, to the next girl). You can't "next her for a week". That's not what that word means.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 01:51 PM
1

Just went from years of happy plating to an exclusive relationship and I am failing so hard at this... I was so good at being outcome-independent when I had other ladies at various stages of the game (matches, interest, numbers, dates set and regular lays)... Now that I have cut these out, I find myself feeling an almost-paralyzing jealousy... I don't feel like I put her on a pedestal, I know she's just a girl like any other, but I am consumed by the idea that she is still receiving interest fro…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 01:20 PM
6

However, I was wondering if you guys thought that was a decent farewell message that didn't make me look like a super beta and dry her up completely. I can tell you feel hurt by this, and yes sending three final texts was overkill, after she basically told you to get lost... But why do you care if you "look like a super beta" to her? She was already gone. And "dry her up?" That is a phrase to describe the change from attracted to not, and you were already completely out of the running at that po…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 01:01 PM
1

Are you in a big city? Also, your post conspicuously mentions hotness (6's, 7's, 8+) in one sentence and then mentions success (match rate, getting a number, dirty talk) separately. So how many 7's and above from Tinder have you f-closed?
/r/askTRP31/12/16 12:16 PM
3

Can you be more clear about that question "Should I be 'that' guy?" What guy exactly?
/r/askTRP31/12/16 12:11 PM
0

So, I didn't drink a drop between September 26 and Dec 15. Holy crap the first coupla weeks were awkward. I went to one club/party for research purposes and even that professional demeanour / "not really here to mix it up with you drunk ass motherfuckers" was not enough to avoid FEELING the vast gulf between my sobriety and actual fun. However during the long hours there I sent a pic of that party to the girl of my dreams, whom I had just moved from dating app match to phone number that day. Not…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 08:16 PM
6

Left left up down up kata kata right --Cheat code for baby
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 02:13 PM
3

Sounds more like upper-lip to me.
/r/seduction29/12/16 05:38 PM
1

sc?
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:54 AM
20

I'm curious how you speak fluent Japanese but never heard that Xmas Eve is the biggest love-hotel night of the year??? For those not familiar-- Xmas Eve (at least in Tokyo, I don't know for sure about elsewhere) is a freaky twisted version of a western-derived "special night" where every manager in a Japanese company tries to fuck his (or any) secretary in a Love Hotel.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 01:22 PM
3

Please note that the girl in this scenario is from the "conservative-leaning" country (though with Japan that is debatable, it's a complex kind of conservatism) but the guy was the super-tall exotic outsider. Basically, she has a mental hamster-y "out" / excuse for going with this guy. Plus... if your "conservative country" is Bahrain, then expect much more serious anti-slut pushback from the woman (she can literally legally be beaten half to death for fucking you) and if you're the local guy no…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 01:15 PM
1

There's no gym in my area, and I can't invest in a multi-exercise machine right now. Serious. Any good guides on at least the basics that can be done with minimal equipment? I'm imagining a regime of push-ups, pull-ups, sit-ups, chin-ups, squats with a backpack full o' rocks, that kinda thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:46 AM
6

Works for me.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:26 AM
3

However, the problem is how to get into the social circle of the billionaires with the models. Deal drugs? (Okay, not serious. Don't do that, kids, it's a sucker's game just like everything else in Vegas)
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:25 AM
1

Waiting for "UPDATE" next week... "Guys, I thought about it a while and I decided that these Mormons are not all bad and I'm going to start attending church with the whole family..."
/r/askTRP25/12/16 11:13 AM
20

If he's doing his job right (some mystery and non-zero amount of dread despite LTR), her hamster could make her suspect he found someone else, or got bored with her... I would say she ought to be left 100% in no doubt, and therefore I think best to let her know like OP suggests.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 10:56 AM
2

Why isn't this higher up?
/r/askTRP24/12/16 12:22 PM
9

Maybe a little courtesy to see if she's alive / un-injured / not homeless? I mean, being nice seems to be tricky for maintaining attraction, but it sounds like you're not that interested anyway so maybe step outside the "how to plate" mindset for a couple of days and try to actually be a concerned friend??
/r/askTRP24/12/16 12:01 PM
21

OMG The world is falling apart. Banana?? It's eggplant, guys. EGGPLANT.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 11:17 AM
9

Well.... The thing is, you are rarely given an "all other things being equal" choice in real life. In this scenario, you try both, on different nights. Or, if you are literally leaving town tomorrow (and forever) you go with the hotter one. Pretty much any other preference, any other hint, any perception of her positive-reaction... is a better test of DTF than saying "Not interested in just sex" in profile.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:32 PM
-1

I think the original story is fake. I mean, I am able to believe that AWALT, but, just, every detail of this story is so perfectly... well, perfect as far as the example that most male readers want to get angst/satisfaction over. I was going to quote some of it but you put most of the "too perfect" stuff in your comment.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:48 AM
4

The reality is, females find serial killers attractive just because. No. You just gave up the line of inquiry before completing it. There's almost always something more behind every "just because", especially with human behaviour. (Why the feels, why the attraction to chaos?...) Now, maybe it's not what the commenter above you suggested... Or not exactly that. But is something (and I happen to think his theory is pretty believable... I mean, a serial killer is a "strong man" in a way). There are…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:07 AM
1

This post makes me think a lot, actually... If this theory is correct, then the following should happen... With a BB, her best-case sentiment should be "Please him!" (Oral, anal, fetishes, whatever)... With an AF, her goal should be "Get sperm!" and therefore really prefer PIV over anything else... (over his pleasure?) Doesn't quite bear out, given my vicarious experience of "zipless fucks" (the panty-dropping Alpha-desiring behaviour, which seems to be cock-craving / alpha-pleasing and plenty o…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 05:49 AM
23

Maybe she's just having a bad day or maybe she IS a bad person so you don't want her around. Or maybe I'm just invading her personal space, I'm inconsiderate, I'm nowhere near the kinda alpha she likes, I'm desperate, or I'm too short / scrawny / chubby / ugly... The mental hoops someone like me would need to jump through, to achieve this state of "something must be wrong with her if she doesn't immediately like me and my advances" are quite profound... I imagine I'd really have to be kind of a …
/r/seduction15/12/16 11:36 AM
18

Sorry, but my grammar OCD really needs that to say The Manosphere. Anyone?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 11:24 AM
12

I'll just throw this in here: I can be totally in my zone and seeing the world and Mr. Adventure and still be crap at making friends in the hostels/trains etc. That feeling that "everyone is already in their groups" / "that girl prob only likes the tattooed bad-ass traveller type" / "I'll maybe make a better effort to make friends tomorrow"... basically the same exact shy shit that I did in high school... BUT-- Travelling in a slower manner saves me from this. What I mean is, instead of spending…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 05:09 AM
1

The girl has some sex hang-ups that sound like they are not your fault, with the premature ejac just the icing on the sex-negative cake. I'm not sure what the answer is with her, but for general PE issue, here are things that make me last longer that don't negatively affect erection... -Wake-up sex -Smoke pot -Using a condom (maybe it's just getting used to it?) ...and here are some things that "manage the excitement level" in general (if you're already having a hard time getting keeping an erec…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:47 PM
6

Who are the other two dudes, though?
/r/askTRP28/10/16 08:11 AM
2

Step 1 looks like you have correctly analysed the problem. Step 2: act on it!
/r/seduction26/10/16 09:58 AM
113

I was thinking about this the other day. The hottest of women live in such a completely different world from men and the majority of women.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 07:04 PM
2

900 days, mugged 3 times. If you don't try to be the hero, and are ready to lose your phone + cash, I feel like my physical safety is in less danger than in some much wealthier countries.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 04:01 PM
3

Is that the reason a beta can be valuable? I haven't thought about it that way, honestly, but I know there's something to that. Like, only playing with alphas is actually dangerous (her reputation and sometimes her life on the line)?.. so a place like this has a stronger CC-disincentive?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 01:43 PM
1

Então, tô aguardando suas dicas, professor!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 01:36 PM
8

Hi from Brazil, the country where every dude is in great shape, well groomed, a great dancer, and a natural at approach. I was already behind in most of these areas, and I'm even passing into middle age here, so why am I doing better in a country where my weak points are weaker? The answer is that being strong/special/really-rare in one or two things can overcome a general lack in a wide variety of check boxes. Another way to look at it-- you can fail harder with the same ninety percent of women…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:57 PM
2

It really is. Hi from Brazil.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:31 PM
1

Yeah, your mileage may vary but that rule definitely fails a lot of the time, at least for getting people's attention, (which is 90% of getting laid). It helps some people find their next-level game... like aerobic training at high altitude, or wearing weights all day... But it can kick you in the nuts in the short term. And not everyone can succeed, so it's a gamble, if you're already a success in your smaller pond.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:27 PM
1

Ha. Opposite problem here. Too focused on the prize, I always lose concentration on the best (hint: the non-easy) way to get it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 12:18 PM
5

Ha. Solidarity sounds like a nice theory. But when 1000 brothers say they are going on strike, 1000 non-brothers will dive into the spread legs of the sorority sisters (and actually find 500 of the "brothers" already there hammering away anyway).
/r/askTRP22/10/16 10:39 AM
0

From what I've seen in TRP, you're going to be told that she has no value outside of being fuckable or being a business contact. Which I disagree with. Especially if you haven't got other friends. But you still don't have to act like a beta orbiter. So show some strength. Be social but clearly dis-interested sexually, and don't "cry on her shoulder". You can keep her as a business contact, wing-girl, she can introduce you to her hot friends, etc. Edit: By the way, why do you say that if you show…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 10:01 AM
2

I still don't get all the anti-single-mom freakout on this sub. In fact I find this sub hilarious on this topic, because it reveals that a lot of the people who claim to be or want to be plating various women are actually at risk of getting trapped/one-itis/sucked into her-frame (The Hell-T-R). (Either that or they're butthurt by the idea that women can have lives, sex, loves, marriages, kids before they found them.) Anyway, single moms are totally friggin awesome.... The biggest reason is they …
/r/askTRP20/10/16 01:27 PM
5

Hope to be balls deep by Halloween Why the delay? If she's a 5 and you're an 8, I would expect you can have her in the next 48 hours. Twelve days seems like it might go cold by then, and/or enough time to have a 6 to a 9 to be working on instead, no?
/r/askTRP20/10/16 12:46 PM
2

Nevada
/r/askTRP16/10/16 11:36 AM
6

Well it's not that cut and dry... There may be a genetic element, but every man who is alive today has a genetic line of millions of successful fathers. /r/Gustav_Sirvah carries the same amount of genetic potential as Brad Pitt and Hussein Bolt. So his father and grandfather etc. may have been successful with wile, smarts, chutzpah, managing people, etc. (other things besides looks and athleticism) but his dad had just as much success as my dad and everybody's dad... we know because: Gustav is h…
/r/seduction16/10/16 10:01 AM
16

She's not a one-night stand yet!! Maybe booty-call territory. But she's a one nighter once you've lost her number or one of you gets a boy/girlfriend, marries, or dies.
/r/seduction15/10/16 09:33 PM
3

Please edit comment this.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:02 AM
1

I had my first club door gig the other night. It's crazy how many newly-familiar faces said hi to me in the street the following days. Mostly dudes, but even a Tinder match: "I saw you working at the club." (I didn't honestly remember her. And I don't think that hurt my chances one bit, heh.)
/r/askTRP10/10/16 03:14 PM
2

Still don't see why we can't take the original commenter at his word. We had two people say almost exactly the same thing, but one gets upvotes and "that sucks dude" and the other gets downvotes and he's a "troll", saying "shit". Talk about arbitrary.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 12:01 PM
2

Fuck, I'm 45 and I think I ruined a possible opportunity the other day by complimenting too early. Insta-date was going into hour three, then fizzled... ended up with a number but she has ignored 2 messages up to now. You're never to old to learn, ha! But the "feeling shit" gets a lot less over the years, keep trying.
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:34 PM
1

"Let her wonder"... I feel like there is something in this. As far as the "selling meat" analogy, I guess the idea is to find the middle ground. You can chat with the customer at least a little before the topic of meat comes up
/r/seduction08/10/16 12:30 PM
1

Possible? Yes. Like a rich man getting into heaven, or a whelk's chance in a supernova.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:42 AM
1

Yeah that. She has already internalised her boyfriend's wishes, namely "Hot guy = Danger / back off"...
/r/askTRP06/10/16 08:09 AM
1

See my other comment about husband / boyfriend. That's my best guess.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:12 AM
1

Ohhhh, okay, I think I might be getting this... We're talking about the case where the girl already has a boyfriend.... Is that it? If so, yes I totally know what you're talking about. Yes, I believe it is possible for a "taken" girl to befriend unattractive guys in a way that she refuses to do with sexy guys. It's as if she's well trained. When she gets zero tingles off a guy, she feels safer being his friend, because she is trying to be faithful to her BF. And when a different guy gives her th…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 05:11 AM
1

They make space in their life for you, they introduce you to new people and meet yours, they seem to have casual partners but less often boyfriends, and they can get a little tricky when you get serious with a new girl.... That is sometimes a dealbreaker, but in general they take you at the level you chose.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:53 AM
1

Wow, I didn't even think of that interpretation. I still think OP is talking about a girl/guy friendship where the girl wants sex and the guy doesn't. Possibly a lot of guys can't even conceive of this? But it happens to me fairly frequently... It's actually related to abundance mentality. Just as you ought to be outcome-independent when approaching someone (because there's plenty more where she came from), you also don't need to fuck every woman who would fuck you. But having her as a friend ca…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 02:41 AM
2

I think he's talking about girls that the guy won't fuck. This is the reflexive situation OP's asking about.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:36 AM
5

She's not sexually attractive, to you, and you don't love her? What the hell are you doing, man, get the fuck outta there. If you try to stay with someone because they "deserve" it, it will only result in unhappiness and bitterness long term that will bounce between you like an infectious terminal disease. Stand up and let her go. What she deserves is a straight answer. The longer you leave it, the stronger and deeper her eventual, inevitable heartbreak will be.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 07:59 PM
1

Unclear. Are you saying that if you are about to go on a date with Alice, but you masturbate thinking of Bernadette, then there is no problem/dis-interest from Alice?? For what it's worth, I have jerked off sometimes with someone in mind and then had sex with then at a later date, i.e., I have not noticed this pattern particularly
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:51 AM
2

The first time I saw this ratio I thought "Hmm, strange, if it's a 'rough estimate' why not just say 'one percent'?"... Now here it is again, I have to ask: Is this figure coming from some research, or oft-cited source?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 12:24 PM
4

Because murder/rape/psychopaths.
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:27 AM
2

And drink your fair share of mint juleps, to boot, I would imagine.
/r/seduction29/09/16 12:34 PM
3

University counselor?? From the OP: "Even in the workplace I have trouble interacting with my female co-workers" Were you just responding to the title without reading the post?
/r/seduction29/09/16 11:43 AM
6

all women are full of crap TRP is leaking...
/r/seduction29/09/16 11:40 AM
2

Well, here's a twist that is satisfyingly simple and sticks to your binary model: --------------------------------------- | | Has Resources? | | |------------------------| | | Yes | No | --------------------------------------- |Tingles/|Yes| Owns | Fucks | | |---|----------+-------------| | Alpha? |No | Beta Bux | Outta Lucks | ---------------------------------------
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 10:17 AM
1

Why not stay "single" even though the "hot bitch came along"?? Especially if this one has already set the "we're not serious" boundary, that is your pass to get into the RP for real and get sexy with someone different this Friday. This is exactly how you can end up caring appropriately less about who she's texting.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 10:34 AM
1

I like this turn of phrase.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 10:24 AM
2

10 years younger? Don't kid yourself. Sincerely, A guy who's hardly very RP but managed to reach 45 without marriage, kids, or getting totally out of shape, and average age difference of recent ONS's/plates/lovers is 20 years.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 10:12 AM
3

Sorry to hear that, man, that is some bad luck. Remember diet. Being muscular requires very specific workout efforts but not being obese has more to do with diet... And the super short version is: reduce sugar, reduce carbs. Hope you get back all your movement.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:12 PM
2

Sounds like maybe she's nervous. So possibly 1) Her state of relaxation will just improve over time. Or after sex. 2) Try dominating the conversation like I said. This may teach her that it's supposed to be a conversation not a monologue.. and also may help with (1), i.e., she needs you to be the man here. If this doesn't improve, I guess you can try to explain it to her, with some "Look, you have to SHUT THE FUCK UP sometimes." If you're stuck still, and you're actually asking what kind of past…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 11:10 AM
3

No. This is not normal. The kind of person who talks incessantly and never needs the back-and-forth... I don't know how you could manage a second date with someone like that. But if they have some redeeming features that make it worth trying something, I'd try dominance. Go straight to the subjects they're harping on and push your own reactions back. Talk over them. Lots of "Excuse me but..." May be possible to train that way?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 02:09 AM
2

Let me guess..... Your gf has a glass eye and a sweet eye socket?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:14 PM
5

They are more DTF than than their USA counterparts, I feel... Yet they also scream louder about not being so, and only looking for "relacionamento sério". What irks me most is the oral, though. The incidence of "won't suck" or if so, "no come in mouth" is so much higher! The lack of willingness/enthusiasm on this, and the training/convincing required, is one of the reasons I'm on the lookout for a keeper these days here... to not keep coming up against this. (No pun intended)
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:36 AM
4

What I found here in Brazil is that having Portuguese really helped in dating. Okay I'm in Bahia which has a much lower chance of English-speaking chicks than Rio or São Paulo, but when you can't really converse then you're only gonna have success in that loud/club fast-move scenario... Online is hard. They are more feminine, more willing to let you lead them somewhere, but at the same time ready with the comfort-tests about not wanting just sex. When I really was temporary, and I would truthful…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:26 AM
2

What city are you in? I'm near Salvador. 95% of my success is with morena/nega. And less educated / little-to-no English. Which is fine for plating but I'm starting to think about the future... My online matches with women who are a little more classy are few and far between, and the dates much harder to get and the second dates even harder. They're either using their social/class value to get guys more alpha than me or get guys who are actual rich not just typical-gringo rich.. i'm guessing.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:15 AM
2

Why do you prefer LTR to plates? Sincerely curious.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:02 AM
6

Oh jeez, Dads and their vicarious pleasure from seeing the son's GF/date/shag! Funny and cringeworthy at the same time.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 07:01 PM
3

What's a worldie?
/r/seduction10/09/16 06:15 PM
10

I feel like I have gained some good things by reading red pill. If there were one or two key points, they would be understanding that women usually do not report their own motives and desires accurately (you can never gain anything from asking them who or what they like)... and also that the practice of plating (as opposed to exclusivity/girlfriend/one-itis) does not reduce your attractiveness/value but, if anything, increases it. However, I run afoul of a lot of the guys here in other ways. I t…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:10 PM
2

I had a tinder back-and-forth, converted to WhatsApp, but with a trip making a meeting impossible... It fizzled, but since I was heading to her city again anyway, I said hi after a one-week gap (where my message was last / I was thinking she probably ghosted). She was like "Oooh, I was so busy, how are you blah blah..." First date was a make-out, second date coming up tomorrow. (I did this two weeks ago as well, after a one-date fizzle.... got surprise text response-- "Let's meet again!" but the…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 07:18 AM
1

Depending on what you want out of this, you could say "Sure"... meet her... escalate and get rejected... ...and still turn it into a reliable plate or fuck buddy. She may even be angling for girlfriend. But in all of the above cases, meeting number 2 might be sexless, and if you don't have a tantrum over that, subsequent meetings could be.... sexful.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:37 AM
1

I have an exclusive plate This is not "called" anything. This is actually a contradiction in terms. Re-write and use the correct word: "girlfriend". Don't write that letter to your girlfriend's friends... It's sooo petty and childish of her to ask this. It would be pretty and childish even if you cheated on her officially.... But for something you did "pre-exclusive" it's ridiculous. If you want to have this girl as a girlfriend, then you need to draw the line at the day you went exclusive. She …
/r/askTRP01/09/16 07:58 PM
17

And yet.... It's in English, so evidence against your point
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 12:02 PM
0

"If you think this is weird, I've got a lot to show you." Wink
/r/seduction30/08/16 09:52 PM
1

Can I ask how many approaches turned into these 3 insta-dates?
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:57 AM
2

I think the idea is that you still push for it exactly the same. Having "different expectations" is more about how you react after the fact...
/r/askTRP20/08/16 02:24 PM
2

"Cool I wasn't really looking for something too serious either."
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:58 PM
1

Ummm... I thought the first lesson of TRP was not being able to trust the answers to such direct questions.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 06:54 PM
1

Source?
/r/askTRP05/08/16 01:07 PM
7

But don't come to Brazil! It's terrible for that here... (Wink)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:42 PM
5

Well done, but I can promise you there's more than just "Breaking the seal and it's done". I'm 45 and approach-anxiety still haunts me. I've had relationships of length varying from one night to six years, and I've had hundreds if not thousands of "first time" conversations. In the last few years my eyes have been opened by TRP (although I don't buy in 100%), and so I have both the "academic" knowledge and the personal experience that should make approach a no-brainer for me. I even had a PUA fr…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:39 PM
2

But why aren't you fucking the under-20's any more? You're not even 30. That's what guys (more than women) have at their advantage, I thought... Age isn't as limiting. Plus don't forget the 30-somethings who were 9/10's when they married early, now back on the carousel after divorce. Some of them kept themselves pretty hot and most of the rest are hitting the gym with unprecedented fervor (it's terrifying to be single and not a '9' for the first time ever in their lives).
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:19 PM
2

exbrosion
/r/seduction03/08/16 01:11 PM
1

Send him the post that concerns you, generally introduce him to TRP. If nationalities weren't an issue, maybe he could avoid marriage and one-itis and danger of divorce just by having this girlfriend and not marrying her. But if he wants this as an LTR, and wants to move back to original country, marriage may be the only sensible option to get her in. PS, there is no "wall" for being cheated on. Today in another sub I was reading about a 60 year old guy whose 58-y.o. wife was beginning to cheat.…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:39 PM
2

Exactly how do you know she uses Tinder? It's important because although conceptually i don't think it's a dealbreaker, it could demonstrate lack of respect. So "wants commitment" does not mean you guys are committed. If you are interested in turning a plate into an exclusive relationship, you're not gonna drop all your other plates until you have some kind of DTR / commitment on her part, right? Even if she's the only one spinning at the moment, this concept is still valid. So why would you exp…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:14 PM
9

Thanks. I see so much hate for women associated with TRP and I was starting to wonder if maybe i was just a mismatch for the concepts (because I'm realizing that i will always love women), but your comment has found that ground where I find myself. People here seem to think love means one-itis and love means putting a woman on a pedestal. But, well folks, love happens sometimes, and with awareness of one-itis and AWALT and branch-swinging love can happen without destroying your independence and …
/r/askTRP31/07/16 11:49 AM
2

Brazil checking in! rsrsrs
/r/askTRP08/07/16 01:11 AM
3

That feeling is pretty natural. It's going to be possible to feel it repeatedly until you grow old and die. You just have to not let it define you or be you. Look, there are three things that are affecting this. Your natural level of attractiveness to women, the work you put into the parts you can (gym, diet, income, TRP knowledge/practice) and the opportunities/environments you create or arrange to make those conversations happen for you. You can do it all perfectly and still have plenty of tim…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 01:57 PM
1

Ah, summertime....
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:51 AM
2

Female eggs are a one-per-month thing.... she can get just as pregnant from a few alpha fucks over a coupla days, as she can from 26 days of beta-sex. So your steak/burger analogy is just.... the wrong analogy.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 12:25 AM
3

Yes, these are the twin characteristics of a partner's behavior that really matter... 1) They have to be smart enough to know that every advance, phone number request, friend-request, ex-boyfriend contact, etc probably has alterior motives. Or not even smart, just appropriately skeptical of people... 2) Then they have to put you first.... they have to choose to respect you and never even give the impression of cheating, to you or to anyone who's interested. "But I really thought he just wanted t…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 07:13 PM
1

The world needs more guys like you. Pleeeeaase. So that the petites are not in such high demand and I could have better chances...
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:02 PM
1

Brazil is no better for this. I think women "age well" in California, and maybe also in California.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:00 PM
3

OP your answer is right here, sorry there is just no deeper explanation. If you are wired a little differently (some guys are) and you are not blessed/cursed with the compelling urges that drive most of us to take those risk in search of hot times with attractive women... then maybe you're lucky and you can literally put more of your concentration and energy into other rewarding parts of life. Win win for everyone concerned.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 02:24 PM
1

YOU HAVE TO LEARN PUNCTUATION! WHY DON'T YOU USE PUNCTUATION?!?! Sorry for yelling
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 11:29 AM
1

Well, Brazil being one of the more "modern" and well-connected Latin-American countries could explain why my experience going down here is basically the antithesis of that. The native dudes tend to do it less, I guess, but it seems the ladies are eager for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:12 AM
9

Move On Completely
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:05 AM
3

Way to confuse, OP!
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:21 PM
12

I skimmed the OP so i was surprised to see... burner phone? New email? Cash only? Holy shit, 007, are you looking to infiltrate an axis empire or just get a new girl?!? That is wayyyy over the top, /u/noPTSDformePlease ... Give your GF a little more respect, let her go, regardless, to enjoy her own spring, and man-up a little to find something new from the hazard of the ground level, not the comfort of your nest in the branches. Remember .... Spring ... Abundance
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 03:23 PM
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OP got her number. I assumed therefore that the first line of the convo, "Hola", had to be OP. Weigh in, /u/Oftowerbroleaning ???
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:45 PM
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99.99999% of girls need lots of makeup--not just lots but--GOOOOOOD artistic makeup to look their best. Sometimes people put on too much make-up and don't do it right (hence the reason why some guys don't like it). I'm okay with the idea that some guys are really into make-up. They should understand that some guys are less so. It's one of the most subjective areas of good looks. Preferences are probably formed at a very young age, just like fetishes. It's cool for those who want it more to ask a…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:07 PM
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Yeah, and don't forget that one of the things you can.... accentuate, if it doesn't make you feel too gross, is Hindu stuff, yoga, meditation, and spiritual mindset in general. I still don't know what my archetype(s) should be on first contact, but i do believe that having one really works for pick-up. At 6'1" especially, you could could really milk the "shanti guru" role and even chicks who aren't outwardly new-agey/hippie may still have a little preconcepction and curiosity...
/r/askTRP05/03/16 01:21 PM
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Yes, this is a well-known phenomenon. Happens to me sometimes. I think it's just nerves / comfort level... and sometimes when the chick is hotter, in increases this factor, making finishing less likely, counter-intuitively... I'll also add.... whiskey dick is a thing but nose candy, ecstasy, even pot can have strange effects on sexual function.... don't discount the myriad ways to have unexpected results on first-time hook-ups!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:11 PM
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Where the hell are you? I'm in a place where Tinder is pretty shitty/under-used but I found something more locals use...
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:50 PM
1

Similar dilemma. I'm involved with a coupla people in non-exclusive ways, but one of them is pretty prominent on my FB (long story) and I don't want every prospective plate to see someone who looks like a girlfriend... But I do still like to use it to keep up with the actual friends... I started off by telling new girls I don't really use FB, just for messaging, but still my profile can be stalked/found (really easy these days when WhatsApp numbers in your phone can be linked to FB profiles also…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:23 PM
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Got "Hey, is this your wife?!?!" recently. Was first hour of first date.
/r/seduction28/02/16 08:18 PM
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iamthesage you do "child approach??" :-o
/r/seduction28/02/16 06:41 PM
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I don't know how recently he passed, but my condolences.... I think you shouldn't feel bad/weird about your habit of going to talk to him, in private.... but I might suggest reducing the frequency. For example, try skipping a night here and there at first. Use that hour at the gym or some adult sports team or doing a yoga class or something.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:44 PM
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Single moms make excellent dating material / plates. They don't have time for you, they are busy trying to raise their offspring. So you get extremely "efficient" time usage-- When they plop the kid with a babysitter or their Mom, they give you 110% for those well-defined days and times, are very DTF, and don't pester you much outside that. Everyone else here seems to think they are even more gold-digging than childless women, trying to slide you into daddy position subtly. This is so not my exp…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 02:06 AM
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Well there's a first time for everything. If you're really squicked about this, take a half a viagra just to make sure...
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:44 AM
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a minority in his own land What land might that be? Edit: My bad. I usually complain about other people not reading the OP carefully, this time it was me. Edit 2: OP has been edited.... Possibly added the loc info after I commented.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:38 AM
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Wow.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:26 AM
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ensued
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:25 AM
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You say that male friendships are better then your first logical point is something that's not true. Pettiness, hamstering, shit tests etc. are things that a woman does in a sexual context... They don't appear in the friendships I'm talking about because the woman is not interested in me in that way. We're not in a competition of selfish needs, where that shit comes from. I urge you to consider that some opposite-gender friendships can have that quality that you like about any non-sex-based frie…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:00 PM
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I'm 45. My actual fun, free, successful dating life began when I was about 34. I wasn't even married before that, just.... under-confident, un-inspired, in a serial-monogamy rut. You gotta get out there son. There's a lot of fun to be had. But, as always, doing things for yourself, and to improve yourself, is always the place to start.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 03:59 PM
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But the thing about pheromone products is.... If you found one and it seemed to work, you might tell one or two closes friends but the last thing you'd want is every fucking douchenozzle in the world knowing about it. Hey everyone! Buried pirate treasure, right over here, look!
/r/askTRP23/02/16 05:28 AM
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Your test just means that you can have female friends only if they are orbiters?... like, they would like to fuck you but you friend-zoned them? I'm pretty sure some of these female friends are mutually not-sexually-attracted to me... So yeah she might enjoy my company and my input, just as I do hers, and obviously when she's got the attention of a guy she's interested in she's not looking to socialize much (same as me when my dating calender fills up).... sort of like exactly the same as a dude…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:45 AM
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So some people don't read everything they comment on, on Reddit. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/askTRP23/02/16 04:32 AM
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Take viagra or alternative once, before bringing a new girl home. Problem solved for that night. Next new girl, don't take it. See what happens. There's a chance your newfound first-time sex experience will have eased your performance anxiety, even if logically you know it involved a chemical that you're not taking this time.... If it doesn't go well, pop a pill again for the next one... Repeat. The psyche is funny. Sometimes you can get an "artificial" way to break out of a mental cycle, but th…
/r/askTRP23/02/16 01:22 AM
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I have plenty of female friends whom I've have no interest in fucking. Sometimes they make damn good food and invite me... Sometimes they are good at talking to me after some shitty event / life-stress. Sometimes they introduce me to their hot friends. Sometimes they help me move. When I'm too busy with other people (whom I may or may not be fucking) I sometimes give them less time than they want... it happens. I dunno where this fits into the TRP mentality, but if you don't want to fuck someone…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 01:11 AM
2

"I ordered rain for our date! Let's get under this umbrella just in case!"
/r/seduction16/02/16 05:28 AM
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Hint: if the girl knows (like if you tell her) that the... Rain/Umbrella idea is for kino or... The bowling idea is just for kino... or The dance class idea is just for kino or... The fishing trip is just for kino.... or (Do i need to go on?) Then yeah it could come off as creepy. But you don't do it that way. You make it like the most natural thing in the world. Personally i think the rain/umbrella thing is the easiest of them all. Borderline genius. So, just be natural.
/r/seduction16/02/16 05:25 AM
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I don't agree with the other responders here. I don't think they are treating you coldly because of your social status... By that logic, they would treat the sweet-little-old-man janitor or the chubby-immigrant-lady janitor coldly, and i bet they wouldn't. If you are quite physically attractive, i reckon they are trying to maintain a distance/buffer because they don't trust themselves to keep their feelings in check and/or they instinctively know that their husband would see you as a threat so t…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:42 PM
1

What age were you when you left Brazil?
/r/askTRP14/02/16 04:30 AM
0

She actually called him "cuckold" in the text to you?
/r/askTRP10/02/16 08:46 PM
1

Just FYI, "having a relationship" with woman does not necessarily mean you are responsible for her. A lot of cool, intelligent women are interested in more than FWB but are also interested in taking care of themselves, having some space and independence but sharing a lot of time w someone special too... But I guess if one of these ends up on your "rotation" you will find out by experience and you may want to lock her down... up to you.
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:10 PM
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Okay the story is coming out... You're in Thailand?? I know TRP shit is universal, but remember that you are reading the comments of 90% yankee-doodle here and cultural differences come into play too... But anyway, if my guess is right on your details (Thailand... Bangkok?)... then a lot of things look a little different. --Two European dude neighbors... Maybe not gay after all. --Thai girl screaming... more likely to be "werkin' it". --Only two months ... This is not normal behavior. Maybe norm…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 06:25 AM
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I was gonna pop in with a new thread for OP but you kinda said it in 3 words so I'll drop it here (heads up /u/Highnoonrider). work gets crazy and I can't go out for weeks I get and cancel dates super quick because of work There's your problem right there. I don't know your boss, your career goals or your company Highnoon, but ... hmmmmm... life is short. You can do a lot of mental arithmetic and figure out how (and in what way) to make time for your dating life.... OR you can breathe a few time…
/r/seduction09/02/16 05:56 AM
1

It's yo smell.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 05:34 PM
1

Not to mention using older/thinner pics.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 05:34 PM
1

She was giving signals that nothing was gonna happen that night. So I arranged to meet a friend in the East Village later. But at the actual subway goodbye-kiss she said something like "Are you sure you have to go downtown?" My initial thought was "Can't ditch my friend, they're on their way out already"... But about 5 seconds later as my date went through the turnstiles I was thinking, like "Hmmm. Shit. I think maybe ditching my friend this one time might have been worth it." It all happened to…
/r/seduction27/01/16 03:26 PM
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New York City first-date: We were gonna row a rowboat on the lake in Central Park together, but I was early and she was late..... So I was almost at the front of the boat-rental line when she texted "out of subway, where meet?" I had her go to the other side of the lake where the fountain is, and then the actual meeting was me rowing up to her in a little boat and saying "Get in!" It was probably the best first date I ever put together Jesus, I so blew that date later and probably screwed up get…
/r/seduction27/01/16 08:17 AM
1

"Do you deserve one?"
/r/askTRP26/01/16 08:27 PM
1

First-time erection problem is quite common. In general, there are really only two things to do about it... 1) Use boner-pills, like Viagra. This can be a little tricky because you're often not sure if sex will happen until you're right there on it. So taking the pill at what should be the right moment can double your disappointment if it turns out to be a waste. 2) Give the girl a heads-up about it before-hand. In your case above it would have to be right before... Like, after the condom questi…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 06:35 PM
1

It's a story of 5 high school kids from totally different social positions/situations getting stuck together for a while... The jock, the bad boy, the "weird" girl, the geek, and the princess. Turns out they have more in common than they would have expected, but when you're in high school you get tunnel vision and think that your clan, your clique, is everything and people outside it are worthless, weird or both... You might watch it and think it's complete cheese or doesn't relate to what real …
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:01 PM
1

Ever seen "The Breakfast Club", youngster??
/r/askTRP12/01/16 08:21 PM
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Each of them said. This. If there's one part of TRP that I never really understood before going down the rabbit hole, but, via experience and enlightenment, rings truer than any other part of TRP, it is that what women say they want/like/do and what they actually want/like/do are often fundamentally disconnected. I think it's the very essence of TRP really. There is nothing more bluepill than believing, for example, a woman saying that they want a "nice" guy.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:46 PM
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It's not a coincidence. It's permanent and universal. /r/seduction has over 200,000 readers. So I expect that in any given week, literally thousands of readers are going through something freshly painful and difficult. I don't mean to make it sound like it's inconsequential, or unimportant. More that it's universal / we're all in this together. When you walk down a city street, know that all those other pairs of eyes looking back have loves and losses going on behind there too. Some had their he…
/r/seduction12/01/16 12:31 PM
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The secret (as it is for so much of life) is to not give a fuck. Maybe imagine you are talking to an HB10 or an HB4.... Either too hot to even imagine you have a chance at, or not hot enough to care about your success... The idea is to make your attitude, words, demeanour independent of the outcome of the conversation. You will hereby take your mind off "outcomes" altogether...
/r/seduction11/01/16 11:53 PM
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Give us your "non-gay" example response, then. I will save my vote for that.
/r/seduction11/01/16 09:26 PM
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I agree, /u/peacemakerzzz ... The group idea is a beautiful middle ground here, to avoid being too creepy out of the gate. "Hey some friends and I were gonna hang out at XYZ-spot this Saturday. It'll be fun, wanna come?" If she's not interested, you've got nothing to lose by doubling down ("Actually, I was really hoping I could just take you out... Wanna get coffee sometime?") But if she attends, then after the group thing (assuming there was no miraculous clear green light resulting in making o…
/r/seduction06/01/16 07:10 PM
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Hate to break it to you bro, but... she already told me she wants to hang out as friends Doesn't sound very mixed signal to me. Trust me, I love my female friends who are totally platonic with me, but I will only give them time when there's no one up "at bat" whom I'm pursuing or enjoying sexually. If you want sex and/or romance, I suggest you don't waste too much time on this one.
/r/seduction06/01/16 04:08 PM
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have hung out with her a few times This is not what the OP is talking about. He meant initiating interest without a get-together, number, change of location etc. In a sense, there is an interaction going on, maybe repeatedly (but very briefly each time), that still has potential to be anything, from her point of view. If you are already hanging out with someone then it's probably already gone one way or another without possibility of backtracking. This is my reading of it anyway.
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:25 PM
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How can I frame a mindset to get out of this funk? You pretty much already wrote your own answer: Womyn gonna womyn & pussy is plentiful anyways. Maybe one extra piece though: If you have the feels for her, more than your other recent sex partners, then you need to either recognize it and try BF/GF with this one or raise the standard of your other ladies so that it's even harder to imagine caring so much whether this one has anything going one with anyone else... Also, I prefer to conduct everyt…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:05 PM
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Hmmmm, in my Tokyo days it seemed that (average) black guys did very well with the local women. Girls that, even as a white gaijin, seemed out of my league. Possibly because they were so rare that the novelty value was carrying them further up the charts than the average black guy in an American city with a large pool??
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 11:42 PM
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Well that's sad. My year single in NYC was notable for how few of the thousands of attractive women around me gave me the time of day. I thought I was gonna be a player with options... but in the end I felt lucky to have a coupla "nice" 6's who wanted to spend time with me.
/r/seduction18/12/15 11:10 PM
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Can you also therefore understand why some women get frustrated with this attitude? Like, "For once I just want to go out and take care of my business without getting approached." ?? I'm seeing that in particular here in Bahia Brazil where the dudes breathe "approach at every opportunity" and the women from other places who didn't grow up with it get exhausted by it.
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:17 PM
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