| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 578 | Bare minimum King 👑 | FDS HUMOR | plentyofvengeance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:22 PM |
| 224 | Pro Tip: Don’t save his number until you’re committed | STRATEGY | plentyofvengeance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:32 PM |
| 204 | they literally think in porn categories 🙄 | #JustLVMThings | plentyofvengeance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 145 | Pickmeishas in the comments bragging about being proposed with a recycling project 🤦🏻♀️ | PICKME CULTURE | plentyofvengeance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:10 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | Can you even spell my name?My bf shortens my first name because he has trouble pronouncing it correctly. I can’t pronounce his last name correctly either. This works for us but would be weird af if he literally couldn’t remember my name LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:30 AM |
| 21 | "there's a darkness inside me"Yes. He was an actual psychopath. Run not walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:06 PM |
| 36 | What is FDS’s official stance on online dating? A shift to more productive conversationsGenerally speaking OLD is a huge waste of time. It gives you a bigger reach but you’re still fishing in a sea of trash. I wouldn’t say there are no HVMs on OLD but you don’t have good chances of finding one statistically. OLD can be useful if you live in a small town and there are no eligible bachelors around. If you live in a big city then there is no point. The time wasted swiping left is better spent leveling up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:24 PM |
| 30 | Be careful if you join TelegramYes this!!! I matched with this cheating scrote on a dating app. Realised he was a cheater when his ex texted me on insta so I blocked him everywhere after sending her screenshots. He texted me within 2 minutes of downloading telegram. I didn’t get it then but it makes sense now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:59 AM |
| 32 | Dear scrotes, this was a discussion about how women in their early 20s DON’T want you, stop approaching us or this will be your future. Raise your hand if you’re in your early 20s and have NEVER been attracted to an old scrote, I’ll go first 🙋🏻♀️I have had too many ugly rich old(even 25+ is old for me) guys pursue me. They thought they could have me just because I was a college student with no money 🙄 I admittedly did use them for free drinks 🍹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 5 | Green Flag BaitI just don't date men with instagram now. The guy I am currently vetting only has twitter and he just posts about his professional field. Only woman he is following are either family or *gasp* also from his field. This is literally the bare minimum but sometimes I feel like I found a gem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 38 | Oldie but a goodie!I am a fairly attractive young woman and I had this odd phase where I would booty call guys only to not have “sex” with them. Just get them to eat me out and leave once I am done. It was wonderful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Green flags for breakfastMy abusive ex was so controlling with food. I had an eating disorder and he knew about it. Not only did he make me feel even more insecure but I legitimately believe he targeted it because it was such a weak point for me. He was also controlling about my alone time. I like to read(alone) because it de-stresses me. I love my alone time. I had to fight and lie for alone time because we lived together. These small acts of kindness are a good sign but don't miss the forest for the trees!! ALWAYS KEE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?I did. He was a great guy otherwise to be honest but when I saw his penis my vagina just dried up. I kissed him for a little while after that and excused myself to the toilet. Pretended I got a call from my Dad and its a family emergency. He even paid for my Uber back home. I don't think its safe to laugh in their face or admit that it's their dick that's the problem. I am petite and skinny, almost all men are a lot stronger than me. I could barely move his pinky. It's just not worth the risk. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:05 AM |
| 9 | they literally think in porn categories 🙄Eh I am a brown immigrant so I don't think the dynamic exists here. Even if I was white, it's disrespectful to talk like this to any woman. This wouldn't have happened even few years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 19 | they literally think in porn categories 🙄I am the OP. That worried me too. He answered very few questions and I have answered all of them. Some of the questions are very bleh like do you like cats or dogs, do you clap when a plane lands, do you like pizza etc. I am nothing like this porn addict 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 20 | The bar is in hellIn my experience men who don’t bring up sex at all have turned out to be autistic. You might be on to something. My personal limit is flirty banter. If he is making it overtly sexual or asks for nudes then I am hitting the block button. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menAmphetamines didn’t work for me. It worsened my anxiety. Co morbities make it hard to figure out the right combo. Bupropion is mostly used for depression but it does increase your base level dopamine so helps with adhd. Modafinil is a mild stimulant. Two of them in the morning do the job for me without worsening my anxiety or depression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menMy employer is somewhat relaxed about it too. As long as I don’t roll in 5 hours late for my shift 😂 Bupropion and modafinil works for me but medication is something you have to experiment with. A good doctor and patience is the only way to find out what combination works for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Attractiveness won’t get you respect! Women need to stop believing this lie -sis the same shit happened to me at first he was like I can't believe my luck that I am on a date with such an intelligent and beautiful girl. I am quite attractive(i have been asked to model a lot of times) and also doing well in my career and education. I liked him. He seemed like an HVM at first but two months in when I was invested in him emotionally. He started acting distant and taking me for granted. Called me "too emotional"(I HAVE DEPRESSION!) and just made me feel so bad about myself. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:40 AM |
| 4 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menI have ADHD C. Got diagnosed when I was in college. I thought I was just dumb as a kid. I do have a lot of self esteem issues because of it but it hasn’t stopped me. I also have depression, GAD and PTSD. It’s hard to just get out of bed some days. There are days I don’t sleep at all. My personal life is not the best, let’s just say. I am studying law at one of the best university in my country. I have prestigious publications and great internships. Not dating right now because I know I won’t mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:57 AM |
| 9 | NVMs volunteer as tributeArgue every man should have a vasectomy since it’s a reversible process if they don’t want kids. Watch them suddenly realise why it’s wrong to police bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 06:29 PM |
| 46 | Love shouldn’t be hardLaw school is not my soulmate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:42 PM |
| 24 | It's not your responsibility to make your or any man feel like a manA guy from OLD said I am too accomplished for him lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 59 | Bare minimum King 👑If you look closely you can see those dishes are already clean. Men stealing the fruits of women’s labour. Again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:45 PM |
| 158 | Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality...Have done it a few times. They get so MAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeishas in the comments bragging about being proposed with a recycling project 🤦🏻♀️That’s shitty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeishas in the comments bragging about being proposed with a recycling project 🤦🏻♀️that’s exactly my problem with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 14 | Pickmeishas in the comments bragging about being proposed with a recycling project 🤦🏻♀️I appreciate the skill that goes into making a ring like this but the thing is he used a beer bottle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 29 | More than half these men can’t even make us moan whilst running their lies. So tell me, what are these LVM even good for? Women are out here sacrificing their own pleasure, giving these struggle men sympathy noises & they still can’t act right. Just roll off & hit snooze sis.Can second this. Told my ex this and his was like 😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionI love whiskey! I don’t do drink dates and anymore but always used to get a comment on that when I did. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:33 PM |
| 46 | He might as well put up his resume. Someone loves himself a little too much...Too many guys like this bumble. They act like it’s LinkedIn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Maybe the saddest 60 seconds of “romance” you’ll seeThis makes me want to cry for all my Indian sisters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Intentional single parenthood as a new default option?I am in uni now so it's not a priority but I have always wanted to be a mother. As long as I can remember. I thought I needed a man for this but now I have made the mental shift. If I don't find the right men I will adopt or go to a sperm bank. Make sure you're financially very secure before you do this. Build a good support system to help out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 5 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤LOVE THIS 😍😍😍 Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:57 AM |
| 4 | Can't afford glasses but can afford a new carMy ex didn’t have the money to pay our joint debt but spend over 500$ on gaming LVMs are leeches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:47 AM |
| 71 | My heart breaks for her. Wish I didn't read this.I am so glad that everyone on twitter is pointing out how shitty and abusive this man is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:17 AM |
| 9 | Theres still hope!Yasss he was my first ever crush 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:42 PM |
| 63 | Theres still hope!My childhood crush on Cody makes sense now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:38 PM |
| 76 | TRUTHThis quote is spot on but I can’t see Sylvia Plath saying that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 07:58 PM |
| 39 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.This legitimately made me feel so happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:00 PM |
| 16 | Ain't that the truth.I know but like I was a 🤡 too once | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 06:47 PM |
| 71 | Ain't that the truth.A mutual friend told me that my abusive ex got a new girlfriend. A part of me wants to tell her but no way that will end well😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other menThis has to be satire. Surely no one would actually believe this crap? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:21 PM |
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