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| 13 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorI've talked about this on FDS before, but my father (NZ European) remarried an Australian woman of Vietnamese extraction. My father would go on and on about the superior looks/behaviour of Asian women versus Pakeha women (me, my mother). His wife was/is physically abusive to her son from a previous marriage, and verbally/emotionally abusive to everyone else. She would often make strange, racist remarks to me about white women, polynesian women, you name it. I went No-Contact with my dad at 15 bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 03:33 AM |
| 83 | Alfred Molina dates younger woman while his wife wastes awayThat's the part that gets me - if the roles were reversed, all everyone would talk about is how the wife is a callous bitch who discarded her ailing husband like garbage. When the shoe is on the other foot, it's all with the oohs and aahs over his immense sacrifice (what sacrifice? She got alzheimers, he put her in full time care, and immediately started fucking a 40-something) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 196 | Alfred Molina dates younger woman while his wife wastes awayBeen doing some reading into dementia lately, and came across some news regarding actor Alfred Molina's new marriage. Yes, he has married a younger woman, but what really struck me is that his first wife was diagnosed with Alzheimers in 2013. By 2016, she had been placed in a care facility. Whilst in said care facility, it seems that Molina began dating Jennifer Lee - probably within a year of his wife being placed into care. And just over a year from his first wife's death, he has married the o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:06 AM |
| 11 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?I play video games and in fact I am a game designer! Here's my two cents: games can be an amazing medium to tell stories and express art. But I think there is a lot of dark UX in many games which causes them to be very addictive, and let's face it, lots of people are very unproductive in general. Games are entertainment, not a hobby like painting or gardening, and entertainment can quickly become mindless consumption if people are playing for hours on end. It's no different to watching hours of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:38 AM |
| 35 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)Khaled Hosseini — 'Like a compass needle that points north, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman. Always.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Childfree women, have you been able to find HVM partners?I am engaged to a HVM and we will be getting married in October. We met through a mutual interest/career in illustration and design, and became fast friends - eventually evolved into more. We are a good fit because I am fairly direct, ambitious and passionate, he is gentle and sensitive. From the beginning of our friendship we were both very honest about what we wanted in life and what we didn't want, and I made it clear off the bat that I was childfree AND not going to have sex before marriage.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 11 | Pick-me-men.My dad was a Pick-Me Man. After my parents divorced, he had majority custody of me and from that point was never without a new girlfriend. Some of these women were truly terrible people and subjected my dad to real abuse, but he never did anything about it because he was desperate for female validation. Obviously, this was really hard for me as a kid, and it got worse when he eventually married my stepmother when I was about 10. As soon as they married, she told him that she didn't want him to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 07:25 AM |
| 42 | Idris Elba - Glorious, gorgeous manI hear differently - he has had children with two different women and many failed relationships. He believed himself to be the father of a third child (to a stripper, make of that what you will), but paternity testing proved the opposite and that woman was booted from his mansion and back to the strip club. His current spouse was born in 1988, I think that makes her almost two decades younger than him. https://www.nowtolove.com.au/parenting/celebrity-families/idris-elba-wife-kids-54519 Sidenote:… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Don't date an asshole man child.Yeah, men really are the more rational sex, getting all steamed up over such trivial nonsense as Tekken 7 ranks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:45 AM |
| 2 | misandry isn't real and men who say it IS are more likely to be dangerous.Misandry and misogyny are not the same simply because men and women are not the same, have never been the same and probably will never be the same. Men do not have to live with the same fears and constraints that women do. Men do experience oppression but not from women. Men are overwhelmingly the belligerents throughout history and society. If men truly wanted to elevate their sex, they would self-reflect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 5 | Sex Work Twitter makes me feel LESS compassion towards voluntary sex workers 🙄These replies are all up in arms because FDS correctly points out that prostitutes are by and large marginalised and exploited, so obviously entering into prostitution isn't something we should encourage. On one hand, the sex workers adamantly deny that prostitution. On the other hand, plenty of replies are saying stuff like:" You are asking the marginalised to rescue the marginalised!" Hang on - are prostitutes marginalised or not? If they are marginalised, then why the hell would anyone want t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Do not take that condom offVIRGINS ONLY. I am giving them the same energy they have given women throughout history. A man's penis is like a pencil. The more it is used, the duller, smaller and more worthless it becomes. I only want the FRESHEST and BEST virgin penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 72 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"For people who are supposedly the 'empowered' ones, they sure like to pull out the same tired insults that men use over and over again. Feminists are ugly, feminists are prudes, feminists are desperate di*k suckers (!), feminists are just jealous they don't have a man taking care of them. Given how wildly these prostitutes miss the point regarding being anti-sex work, I almost wonder if they are men trolling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:51 AM |
| 13 | I am a pickmeisha through and through. Tried convincing myself I am not like that...but after today, I’m realizing I totally am. Ugh 😭Now that you recognise the path you have been on, you are now free to change course and be the ultimate woman, your best self. On the subject of fantasizing, we all do it, but there is a good saying - 'Illusions are dangerous people. They have no flaws.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:01 AM |
| 51 | I boiled over at workLike many women, of course I immediately felt some sense of guilt or shame for standing up for myself but the alternative would have been ratifying some random developer treating me like a chump. Since then, honestly, I don't think anyone calls me bad names because (when not pushed) I am very mild-mannered and always look after the devs who work with me during client scopes. I prefer to attribute their idiot behaviour that day as ignorance rather than malice, luckily I corrected their ignorance.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:47 AM |
| 7 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.Step 1: Prostitute yourself to escape poverty Step 2: Make no money because the market is oversaturated (you didn't really think you would be getting paid as much as a CEO, did you?) Step 3: Still poor but also now a prostitute Step 4: Digital footprint (nude photos, explicit videos) lives forever and follows you wherever you go Step 5: Try to entrap other women so you can reap sweet referral money (5% of the earnings, WOW) Step 6: Workflow repeats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:53 AM |
| 50 | I am done pandering to women In my lifeI hear what you're saying. I've been friends since childhood with one girl (woman now...hmm strange to think) and have had to reduce contact because she's a total Pickmeisha and her values disturb me deeply. What am I supposed to say when she keeps having sex with men she met on Instagram, in the back of their cars? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 179 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornOh yes, a tech company didn't think to Google one of their future employees. I'm not sure I believe that. I think the likely story is that Reddit is run by sickos who hire other sickos. I'm tired of having to come into contact with degenerate people doing degenerate things. I sincerely never want to visit this site again. The only reason I do is because of the outstanding women here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 12 | BDSM and IPV (intimate partner violence) are related. Men look for women who tolerate BDSM because they know there’s a better chance they’ll be able to abuse them non-sexually. Hopefully this poor girl makes it out alive.Two likely scenarios, both with pornography to blame. Scenario A: Pornsick man, exposed to degenerate material from a young age, role plays a sick fantasy by writing out his fetishes online in the guise of a woman. Scenario B: Pornsick woman, exposed to degenerate material from a young age, now begins to wonder whether it is healthy to fantasise about being beaten up, kidnapped and abused (hint: not healthy). Either way, this is the brain on porn. An entire generation of social rejects who would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:18 PM |
| 7 | Sex posi women are not our friends. You cannot change my mindScarily accurate right down to the annoying vocal fry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:02 AM |
| 14 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.Every day, all day, is non-stop hearing about opposing opinions. Human society largely is by and for the bigger, more aggressive males who have set things up so they can run roughshod over their women and game the mating system. Mainstream, liberal feminism, is a trap for the unwary, full of bullshit sex positivity and so-called inclusivity (which really only benefits men and corporations). I come here to talk frankly about what ACTUALLY benefits females, and no, it does not involve working 8hrs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:56 AM |
| 5 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceIncels: Do everything in their power to harass women, are literally terrorists who stalk, murder and relish in the fear they cause FDS: Encourage women to be their best self, recognise the biological/historical/social differences between the sexes which create unfairness between men and women, a safe space to speak from the heart Vice: OMG, FEMALE DATING STRATEGY IS JUST AS BAD IF NOT WORSE THAN THE WHOLE MANOSPHERE PUT TOGETHER, SEX WORK IS WORK!!1111 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 107 | Baroness Jones 🙌🙌🙌Yep, and in many countries around the world to this day, women are forced into what amounts to essentially purdah. Yet even that does not save them; they are still beaten, r*ped and murdered on a whim by males and they don't have the social/legal/financial latitude to advocate for themselves. Statistically, women are more likely to be harmed by people (men) that they know. Yet the idea persists that if only women would disappear from society they would be safe. Women simply existing is considere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:40 AM |
| 1 | We're like a small city!"It wasn't impossible to build a city beneath the ocean. It was impossible to build Rapture anywhere else..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:03 AM |
| 65 | I thought I knew the full extent of pornsick men's hatred of women and inability to see us as real people. They managed to surprise me!So in the dystopian future hell they propose, everyone and anyone could be featured in pornography without their consent. That's just something we all have to accept because male sexual entitlement trumps everything else: dignity, respect, honesty, empathy. I really don't feel like a member of the Human species anymore. If this is the way things are I want to go into deep isolation and never come out again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 08:58 AM |
| 26 | I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this.This most definitely was not the first time her fiance has pulled this kind of stunt and it will surely not be the last. If it wasn't calling her fat or unattractive he'd lambast her for any number of other things. There's really nothing to be done about it except to leave, because it won't stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:26 AM |
| 26 | Bodies that have been lived inI hear what people are saying here. My interpretation of the 'wall' posts is it's simply reclaiming an absurd term which is too often lobbed at women to demean them for aging. And also to point out the obvious, that women really are more attractive than men at any age. Compare a 50 year old woman to a 50 year old man. I could guarantee that the woman will be so much more attractive and put together. So to me, I view these comments simply as a celebration of the evolving, but always compelling, n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 6 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number."I am an honest, God fearing man who is a great father and deserve a lady who is as well." He wants a woman who is a God-fearing man and father? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:04 AM |
| 43 | Nothing to add, she said it all LOLI'm surprised to see some ladies here disagreeing with the spirit of this video (that a woman is entitled to a husband's income). When you get married, in many legal respects you become a single entity. We can argue about whether that's beneficial or not but for most people who get married this merging of assets is a primary factor in getting married in the first place. Marriage should be a joint partnership, and a man ought to provide for his woman. Why would a man NOT want to take care of his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 10:43 AM |
| 9 | neckbeard brags about how much his wife does while he doesn’t do sh*t, even mentions how daughter “wasn’t even supposed to be alive 8 years ago”Her children and her husband were prohibited to pick their own clothes, she would chose for them what to wear and how to wear it. Yes I agree with your comment, the way she is cleaning around the daughter's chair struck me as quite odd for some reason I can't articulate. If the kid dropped something, make the kid pick it up like a normal parent? Not constantly hover around the childcleaning up after them. It's strange behaviour that would get annoying fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:59 AM |
| 1 | neckbeard brags about how much his wife does while he doesn’t do sh*t, even mentions how daughter “wasn’t even supposed to be alive 8 years ago”Who the hell wants to be constantly picked up after all the time? I'm serious. I would hate having someone choose my clothes (!), pack them away, and constantly be hoovering after me. I get uncomfortable when I go to hotels and the staff clean the room while I'm gone because I hate putting work on others. He is lazy and shameless to not feel discomfited at his wife acting like (un)paid help. On the other hand this woman seems to have put herself in this situation. She is giggling while he talks … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 9 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️My view of Liberal Feminists is that the vast majority of what they say is simply self-comfort/coping strategies. It is too unpleasant to face certain realities - like women being treated as objects for male sexual gratification - and too daunting a task to try and break the system. Their whole shtick is 'reframing' the narrative, so that instead of a man using a woman as a masturbation device, the woman is instead merely exploring her sexuality and being paid handsomely for it to boot. The refr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼You know what they say - a man's penis is like a pencil. The more it's used, the more it whittles down. So by his math, I'm afraid his manhood is probably 2cm long and that is after becoming aroused. He's right - he really should have focused on personal pursuits instead of being such a slut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Ah yes, my mission in life.I would rather be a swamp witch alone in the woods than waste a single second trying to fit inside an invisible s-curve to attract a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:11 AM |
| 2 | This guyAn ambitious Renaissance man, who sets out to succeed at everything he does, would have surely already accomplished his dream of having a wife and children by age 43. Also - he wants a woman who presumably is: - Younger than him - Beautiful and athletic - Has her own money/career - Will put all of that on pause to have children - Resume fitness and beauty regimen right away after giving birth Hard pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:07 AM |
| 59 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!He is more struck by the fact everyone is insulting McDonalds than the fact people are calling him a selfish dick. This man said McDonalds was 'exquisite' lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Please Use Our New Flair "SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGY" to discuss issues specific to your racial, ethnic, political, professional, or religious group.So I could technically make threads specific to my country? So I could actually talk about strategy...Without Americans constantly butting in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | men having high body counts and wanting a romantic relationship?As when women have many sexual partners - this is nuanced. Sometimes, who a person was is not as important as the person they want to become. On the other hand, by the way this guy talks, and the fact he has had so many partners at such a young age (and has kept a running tally) I would say that no, he isn't trying to walk a higher path and is looking to make you lucky #64. Run fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 07:39 AM |
| 9 | Nikki Bella thinks it’s cute that she will “always be tied” to John Cena - a man who publicly strung her along for six years and then married the next woman almost immediately. 🤡 there’s nothing honourable about staying in contact with a LVM. Block and delete ALWAYS.John Cena is absolutely typical. He has been married before and was engaged to Nikki Bella before breaking it off. Throughout his time with Nikki Bella he harped on about how he didn't want to get married, suddenly he has just changed his tune? This relationship won't last - either he will cheat or she will. He's that type of man who can never make it work because he doesn't have what it takes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 202 | Ladies, don't be a FWBThe thing that always amazes me is - men will actually have sex with people that they a) are not attracted to b) don't like or respect c) don't even really know very well This is considered normal. Why? This is really messed up. Sex is the ultimate intimacy - for very good reason! - , but for these men, it's as trivial as a handshake. I can't believe that this is normalised and that some consider this lifestyle a healthy expression of sexuality. Seems animalistic and shameless to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 42 | Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢Dating advice for women: "How to get a man to notice you!" "How to make a man respect you!" "How not to come off as too clingy!" "How to prove you are worthy of his respect!" 'Dating' advice for men: "How to seduce hot women!" "How to fuck perfect 10s!" "How to make any woman want you!" Clearly, there seems to be a lack of self-respect and dignity across the board here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:39 AM |
| 5 | I’m so sorry for sharing this...My fiance is an avid bidet user, I also use it. It's normal where I am to have them installed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Held off on sex, it was horribleThat's the point, my friend. Think of it like a vehicle inspection. If you see something wrong, you can deny him a warrant of fitness and get the hell out of there. The alternative is taking him at his word and actually allowing him to have sex with you. Between the two I take the inspection all day, every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Held off on sex, it was horribleWhy don't you just make him touch himself in front of you: :3 You can see how he does it, check out the goods, hell, film it for leverage to use later (maybe I'm partially joking about this last point...or am I??)! But yeah, I would recommend making a man give you a live demo. That's what I've done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:58 PM |
| 50 | I doubt it shocks anyone here that Evan Rachel Wood is calling out Marilyn Manson for abuse. He has been such a crucial normalizer of sexual depravity. Out your abusers. Let’s help end this libfem sexpos mindset.My understanding is that he cheated on Dita Von Teese (!!!!) with Evan Rachel Wood - who was practically a child. He's trash, through and through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:19 AM |
| 8 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.I gotta laugh at the one with the guy who bit his own finger and the fucking carton while eating chips. Was she dating a raccoon? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 9 | LVM wanting other men to participate in their LVM behavior. Disgusting.This particular Kardashian sister has my sympathies. Not because of anything she has said or done but because of how much she has altered her looks over the years to match the standards set by others. I have seen how much she photoshops her photos, to the point that she looks like a different person in each shot. Her self-image must be so poor after all these years of relentless bullying (which I don't understand, as she is an attractive, wealthy woman, could be achieving so much more than this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 22 | What to believe? Bio? Or description? Answer: none.Smokes casually, drinks casually, gyms casually, dates casually - also says he wants deep relationships and presumably has conservative values. Hey, at least he's honest about being dishonest! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 78 | That is how I are you all, fellow queens ❤I love this photo! Who are these two queens? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 46 | What object are women today? Art... but that's ok because his wife is a masterpiece. /sarcasm She is not an equal human, but a piece of art to look at.We wouldn't be here today without the female reproductive system, including menstruation, but wouldn't you know it, men are always the ones throwing hissy fits when periods get mentioned. Not to mention they are the ones screeching to stop tampons and pads from going tax free. Kind of seems like arguments from nature are only acceptable if it gratifies them sexually, hmm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 04:24 PM |
| 10 | What’s your opinion on Jordan Peterson?I am pretty sure he is good at his actual job - clinical psychologist. When it comes to being a life coach, author, orator, political pundit, he's all over the place. Sometimes I have actually agreed with him (he said that legal enforcement of pronoun usage was dangerous, which it is) other times absolutely not. Regardless, it's good to listen to such people even if I don't agree because it helps to form more seasoned opinions. I think J.P's 'tough love' approach seems to resonate with men a lot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:17 AM |
| 27 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?I am a cat lover but I like animals in general and appreciate nature. That said, I believe Mark Twain summed it up best: "A man’s treatment of a dog is no indication of the man’s nature, but his treatment of a cat is. It is the crucial test. None but the humane treat a cat well." - "Winter-end Excursion to the Sutherd" (1902) In my experience, this has been true for men and women. I have found that people who are caring towards cats tend to be what I consider upright people. Liking dogs on the o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:51 AM |
| 30 | "Boys are way better friends than girls" - I've never met a woman who has said this that ended up being a good friend and wasn't a Pickmeisha.Without fail, every single woman I have ever met who has said something to the effect of, "I don't have female friends/women are too much drama for me!" has been an absolute nightmare to get along with. And they do it for nothing, because as other posters have said, their male so-called 'friends' aren't actually their friends. They keep the woman around to fuck and to make fun of when she's out of earshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:44 AM |
| 44 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadIt sounds about white to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:41 AM |
| 145 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadHow come these women never ask themselves, "Why does he want to marry me now, but he didn't want to marry me 2 years ago, 5 years ago, ten years ago etc?" Is it because he was a moron for most of his life? Is it because he's getting older and is settling? It is because he is chronically lazy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:41 AM |
| 6 | I swear most men aged 20-30 are power obssesed and it's creepy.As an aside, great chefs are men because: 1) women not being encouraged to work outside of their home historically 2) even more historically, women in kitchens (in taverns, eating houses and estates) simply being referred to as 'cooks' as a way to downplay their skills and efforts 3) kitchen culture being full of machismo and misogyny that makes it unbearable for women to work there As usual, men enforce the norms (professional kitchens being full of angry, red-faced men) and assume that it is h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Woman is violently assaulted/raped by a Dom. The comments tell her she should have spoken up and stopped it. FDS gets a ton of heat for opposing BDSM, but it’s a world that is an a misogynist and abuser’s playground.Without fail, people who are interested in BDSM get there via abuse (as the abused or abuser), exposure to pornography and good old fashioned misogyny. The mental gymnastics these people have to go through - if you hit and terrified a woman in her home, and called her nasty names, any idiot can see that for what it is, abuse/assault. But take it into the bedroom and say that she wanted it and suddenly the naysayers are all prudes and bigots for applying the same label? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 9 | My mother's dependence on men has led to thisI definitely want to do everything I can to support her, but she is so in love with her partner that she will follow him anywhere. My great fear is that she will continue to mooch off of him and then one day he will abandon her, at which point she will become my responsibility to look after. And yes, like a previous poster said, to a certain extent I don't trust my mother, God forgive me. I love her very much but she isn't reliable. She never keeps her promises. I recall a period when she was da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:28 AM |
| 34 | Petition to stop using the term "sex work"If prostitution is work like any other, then would we suggest people on social welfare be prostituted out, similar to how they currently are sent to other available jobs? Imagine that - you are unemployed, on a benefit, go to social welfare offices and are promptly sent to a brothel down the street for an 'interview'. And if you refuse to go, well, you forfeited your benefits, didn't you? I imagine that liberals would say it's a different case, well, why is that? They can't have it both ways - s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 82 | The Beauty MythI read this book when I was 10 (it was on my mother's shelf and I basically read anything at that age). I re-read it several times as a teen. The book had a great effect on me because I became aware of how in our society a woman's worth is defined by her appearance beyond anything else. It goes into detail about how marketing and advertising demean and humiliate women to make a buck. As an aside, years back when Susan Boyle took to the stage and made headlines for her singing, I was struck by th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 03:26 AM |
| 76 | Is anyone else childfree because of misogyny & hatred towards mothers?In my professional life it drives me crazy to hear women introduced as: "Jane Doe is not only the CEO of company X, she's also a devoted wife and mother." When this woman fields questions, it will inevitably be bullshit about how she 'balances' career and playing Stepford Wife at home. I have yet to hear a man's professional profile read: "John Doe is the CEO of company X, but perhaps his greatest achievement is being a father to two rambunctious little girls. He's shattered stereotypes and stil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 03:18 AM |
| 40 | Ultimate pedo scrote, still wants to go 50/50The backstory: I was reading the complete chatlogs of creepy, disgusting Jeff Sokol, a pedophile who intended on soliciting a 13 year old. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gj48xUT0k44 In the chatlogs, I was stupefied to see that he actually wanted to go 50/50 with her on a date, despite the fact that she was a kid. Sure, going on a date with a 13 year old to begin with is an abysmal low, but to actually pull out the LVM bullshit of, "I hope you're not using me as a free lunch!" is incredibly path… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:48 AM |
| 50 | It's time for women to start thinking about equity instead of equalityLiberal feminism has now opened the door to say that there are no biological or neurological differences between males and females. This is not only absurd, it's also dangerous because how can you legislate protections for females when you don't even acknowledge they are at a disadvantage in the first place? You can't, which is why now we have cases like Barbie Kardashian and Karen White. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | What will I not give to live in a world where women are not constantly bombarded with male propagandaI'm cackling https://www.amazon.com/Satans-Girlfriend-Erotic-Paranormal-Romance-ebook/dp/B07MP8F54Z | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:16 AM |
| 3 | What will I not give to live in a world where women are not constantly bombarded with male propagandaHeheh, au contraire. Current discourse around asexuality says that you absolutely can be asexual, and gay, or bisexual. You can be asexual and have sex daily, apparently: https://advocatesforyouth.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/ITIMB-ACE.pdf https://www.bustle.com/p/asexual-people-can-have-sex-lives-heres-what-theyre-like-2436642 My joke refers to the critical thinking required to reject religions - once applied to one, clearly they can be applied to all. It just so happens that monotheists have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 09:16 AM |
| 4 | What will I not give to live in a world where women are not constantly bombarded with male propagandaLeft Hand Path I have no idea what this is, admittedly, but on the subject of whether Satan can change lanes (lol), the point is that satanists have their own interpretation of this mythos. So according to them, Satan definitely could join an ashram if he wanted. Seeing as how scientific evidence strongly indicates that both Lucifer and God are fictional, and the Bible is not copyrighted, neither religious types nor the satanists can definitively prove their version of events. The difference is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Creepy scrote laments that “giving leads to disappointment” because the young women he wanted to prey on under the guise of “Mentorship” sniffed him out. Men, if you’re “doing something nice” to get something out of it, it’s not something nice.This guy is a creepy, delusional narcissist. He writes in one of his articles that he has 'finally figured out' that when people are insensitive to his time, feelings and efforts, that he gets angry. What a goddamn revelation! Guess what, Jon: EVERYONE finds insensitivity upsetting. You're not some special breed, stop clogging up the tubes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 38 | What will I not give to live in a world where women are not constantly bombarded with male propagandaThe idea behind most satanists is not worship of Satan but a commitment to the free thinking that they feel is represented in his mythos (Lucifer rejects the authoritative figure Jehovah and offers knowledge to Adam and Eve). Also as an aside - can you be an atheist and still believe in God? There are millions of Gods. Unless you believe in each one, that makes you an atheist relative to that particular religion. As I often joke, I'm an atheist 100% of the time, a Christian is an atheist 99.9% o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:39 AM |
| 13 | "Jokes"My mom has had partners over the years...no sex jokes from them. It's called BOUNDARIES. Also, a 45 year old male should have some gravitas, and dignity. Doing meaningful things, not jerking off to porn and sending unfunny messages. Fucking pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Liberal Feminism routinely ignores that women who don’t live in privilege will bear the brunt of sex-based exploitation they call “empowering” and “progressive”. They’re the 1% of feminists benefiting themselves at the rest of our expense.Dont get me wrong, the scripture is terrible, but I dont bother to pay attention to it as an inherent cause of Islamic misogyny when it was men who wrote it. Men created misogyny in the Islamic world and Im not going to give men the benefit of the doubt by blaming some religion, belief, or culture for the deeds influenced by their gynephilia, biological aggression and strength. I definitely hear what you're saying and I can't imagine what it must be like for you in the midst of such oppression. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 7 | Liberal Feminism routinely ignores that women who don’t live in privilege will bear the brunt of sex-based exploitation they call “empowering” and “progressive”. They’re the 1% of feminists benefiting themselves at the rest of our expense.Hmm well I don't listen much to podcasts often but I believe Femsplainers cover many topics that are often considered taboo now (religion and women, biological differences between male/female, has porn ruined sex??). They have diverse guests, I have found certain episodes interesting, others not so much...I guess like a female version of the Joe Rogan Experience? Another good channel to watch is Triggernometry on YouTube for similar reasons - they interview a wide variety of guests and no topic … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:36 AM |
| 15 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬Seeing family members kiss each other on the lips freaks me out. I know some families do it but I always found in disconcerting. In the film Meet Joe Black the father (anthony hopkins) is always kissing his daughters on the lips (and they are like in 30s/40s) and it was just so freaky haha . I'm pretty sure I couldn't even date a guy who kissed his sisters/mom on the lips good gawd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Western misogyny is as women rebelling against it.It's true. When my Grandmother died, our family broke apart. But more than that, without her influence, the true nature of certain people in the family was laid bare. I haven't seen my uncles/aunts/cousins in over 7 years. Her death brought out the worst in her children and everyone was dogpiling on my mother/me (I don't know why, I was only like 20 and had nothing to do with the drama except existing). My uncle stole my Grandma's ashes and refused (!) to let her be buried on her plot. Even now … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:36 AM |
| 24 | I swear. Everytime I block and delete or know I'm going to ghost a scrote I think of this meme 💀This sound effect is imprinted on my brain hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 38 | How I’m feeling getting out of a six year relationship, relieved I didn’t marry him before he showed his true self (captioned video)God, Glenn Close was so great in this and also in Dangerous Liaisons, what a presence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:10 AM |
| 19 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...This lady look great and will have no trouble finding a man to entertain her - if she so chooses. Or, she could go and achieve anything at other pursuits. Older women of stature are always respectable! Old pervy scrotes not so much. Her ex is a prick who never deserved her, to hell with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 34 | Liberal Feminism routinely ignores that women who don’t live in privilege will bear the brunt of sex-based exploitation they call “empowering” and “progressive”. They’re the 1% of feminists benefiting themselves at the rest of our expense.Well, I have to say that the people in my list definitely have a platform (radio shows, book deals, etc) but they all discuss women's rights through a non-western lens: Ayaan Hirsi Ali - anything by this legend The Good Women of China - Xue Xinran (super depressing stuff in here, beware) The Last Girl - Nadia Murad Disposable People: New Slavery in the Global Economy - Kevin Bales | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Moonstruck (10/11) Movie CLIP - Have I Been a Good Wife? (1987) HD .. i know its movie. if your not careful this if the type of man you build life with. i hate this movie for this scene alone. its so sad.This character meets a LVM-type in a restaurant earlier in the film. They have a very interesting conversation regarding why he chases after younger women, and it actually seems like he has self-awareness and there is chemistry between them. He propositions her and she says no. Now, I'm not saying I condone cheating, but in my mind her husband had already cut ties with her the moment he stopped respecting her years ago. So I always thought that she should have just gone for it, had a great time,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Caution: you’re thinking about sending a nude.Semi-related, I hear that professional kitchens are full of crazy/drug-addicted/criminal/all-of-the-above men - heard it from people actually in the industry to boot. Any truth to that in your experience OP (or ladies of FDS)? Because it irritates me when I hear men say women aren't cut out to work in professional kitchens, my theory is that women get pushed out of the industry because it's full of scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Not enough boobs!!!!! /sKevin James goes after a beautiful, slim and rich blonde in the film 'Hitch'. We're all supposed to cheer him on. Melissa McCarthy lands Jason Statham and this is considered absurd? Please. As usual, it's one rule for the men and one rule for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:13 AM |
| 8 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!I hope this guy never makes it into my industry (UX design). Scrote begone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"According to incel/Red-Pill men, women's beauty has a VERY short shelf-life and limited utility. They themselves claim that beauty is there to entice a man and nothing more than that. The idea behind this is that women couldn't possibly accumulate resources on their own and need their looks so they can latch onto a man. Well, newsflash, women can get the bacon on their own. And most men these days have no great value to give. So using beauty as a strategy to get resources seems like a high-risk … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?Why is it always a description of the most profane, sickening stuff and then the Pickmeisha follows it up with, "He's perfect in every other way!" GTFOH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Scrote is proud of his Oedipus complex.Here are my thoughts on this. I'm a misanthropist. It's not that I don't like individuals, but I definitely don't like a lot of the collective traits I see play out in people year after year. Human history is full of cruel and stupid events, hell, just watch the news. And people are startling ignorant even with the amount of information available to them in this day and age. I am fairly disillusioned with humans, men or women. I guess it's because gentle-hearted people, who tend to be the most i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:09 AM |
| 61 | Is porn just normalised cheating?What I often point out to people is that it is rightly considered creepy and disturbing to watch people through windows, keyholes and the like, let alone watching people while they have sex. So what's the damn difference between watching a couple go at through the window of their house or watching via an internet connection? "Oh, but the porn stars consented to it!" Maybe (that's a big maybe), but the point is it's the same voyeuristic, fetishistic impulse. It's definitely not fucking normal. No… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Vintage queen shit.Oh man this is one of my favourite movies, but I have to say my interpretation of the ending is different. I think that rather than becoming a happy, single HVW, she's mostly just internalised a lot of her father's emotional abuse. A key scene shows her maid Mariah complimenting her dress/appearance at the end of the film, and then Catherine getting snippy and assuming that the compliment was false so that Mariah could butter Catherine up for a 'small favour'. This shows that now she, like her f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 11:14 AM |
| 13 | Y’all. Of COURSE he lives with his mother. 🙄I agree that our focus should be on levelling up and identifying HVM, but I also agree with another poster here that talking about LVM is essential as well. Know thy enemy and all that, plus, frankly, sometimes you just need to vent. Wish there were all-female subreddit for general shitposting and the like... Anyway, as to this post, I think it's a good thing to roast LVM like this one - he's part of a group that is openly chauvinist, it's part of the mandate. It's very depressing as a woman to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Divorced old scrote has a sob story, but wait! His post history tells a different storyStudies have shown that watching porn over time is associated with decreased I.Q (or grey matter, can't remember). Whether that is cause or effect is up for debate, but you're absolutely right, so many pornsick older men type like 8 year olds. My personal opinion? Years of porn consumption has reduced their brain function. Porn is like meth, not even once... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:55 PM |
| 49 | Divorced old scrote has a sob story, but wait! His post history tells a different storyMisogyny is the worm that's been eating at the heart of our species since day one, to put it poetically. Every time I think about all the bad shit that humans do, I can't help but trace it back to that first original sin. Porn, prostitution, domestic violence, terrorism, discrimination, this is ground zero | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:06 AM |
| 236 | Divorced old scrote has a sob story, but wait! His post history tells a different storyCame across this old scrote whinging online about how shocked and heartbroken he is now that his wife has initiated a divorce. Call me cynical, but women initiate divorces because most of the time, men screw it up. Check out his post history, boom, nothing but porn, porn, porn. Not quite the sad, broken hearted old man whom has lost the love of his life, but a dirty old pervert whose wife has cottoned on and wisely left! Moral of the story, ladies: every man seems to have some sob story, check t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 08:48 AM |
| 5 | Where do you even start? Grotesque and laughableSeems that even TikTok has limits and this wasn't the first video he had made where he advocated for manipulating women into sex or worse, so I heard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:14 AM |
| 26 | So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?I can think of about a billion better things to do with 10kAUD than flying to meet some guy who has promised and given nothing in return. And speaking as someone living in Oceania, why the heck would you leave bright and sunny Australia for the pandemic-stricken hell which is UK? I just want to shake her - snap out of it, you lovesick fool! lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:53 AM |
| 205 | The bar is in hell."He's absolutely the greatest and most loving man I've ever met - he's never raped me, not even once!" Liberal feminist: "OMG I'm literally crying with awe, where did you find him??!!" What the fuck... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:36 AM |
| 46 | Where do you even start? Grotesque and laughableApparently the guy got banned from TikTok, but don't worry, his poor character is documented forever online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:10 AM |
| 9 | Hypersexualization of women in anime and why I won't deal with men who watch itAnime = Japanese = Japanese cultural values. Hayao Miyazaki, one of the most well-regarded directors of anime, said himself that contemporary anime is bullshit because it is now primarily made by and for Otaku perverts who have no idea how to function in real life. They never represent anything meaningful, just gross/stupid fantasies because observing actual people and real emotions is too hard. https://v1.escapistmagazine.com/news/view/131872-Hayao-Miyazaki-Anime-Suffers-Because-the-Industry-is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:12 AM |
| 7 | 31yo is upset he can't go to college parties. Weird obsession with "young love" and immature, vulnerable girlsHe feels that he has wasted his youth, and like many men, thinks that he can somehow recapture it via a much younger woman. It's all so banal. So, you have sex with a 22 year old. Then what? You're still the same person the next day. Do they honestly think that having sex is some kind of cosmic transformative event that will give their lives purpose, meaning and validation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:26 PM |
| 25 | Imagine having a mother in law like this 🤮 how about you tell your musty, dusty son to cook instead. Women like this raise the LOWEST of the LVM...this is where the bums and leaches come from.lol I cook amazing rice and meals - in my Philips multi-cooker, that is! Work smarter, not harder, ladies. XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 02:10 AM |
| 23 | Ladies, what are some of the things women should know about pregnancy and giving birth, but that society keeps quiet on?Unless you're particularly close with your surrogate, I think surrogacy on the whole is not a good route for anyone and it's very sad that it's normalised. It's part of an unholy trinity of control over women's bodies, along with prostitution and porn. This article explains it better than me: https://arena.org.au/surrogacy-is-to-prostitution-by-grazyna-zajdow/ Not to lecture or preach at you or anything, some years ago I also saw no issue with surrogacy but my eyes are opened now thanks to readi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 6 | The comments were full of women claiming they were such kind.There's a stereotype for women talking during movies? Get the hell outta here. Women watch way more and varied films than men (fact) and are much better behaved in home screenings too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:12 AM |
| 49 | Choose you every time!This is one of the flaws of the male sex and is a distortion of normal mate guarding behaviour. Men naturally want to keep their woman close, however the difference is in the method. Psychologically healthy men with good emotional intelligence (read: HVM) are going to attract and keep HVW by being their kind, generous, supportive selves. The issue is with LVM who can't attract, or keep, a mate, because they have nothing to offer. Therefore, they resort to aggressive behaviours in order to bully … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:12 AM |
| 142 | Choose you every time!Hell yes. Story time - my maternal grandfather was by all accounts a terrible man. He was an abusive alcoholic who terrorised my aunt and uncles and frequented prostitutes, even going so far as to bring these women back to the house! He died in a car accident when my mother was only 1 year old. After that, my grandma refused every single suitor that came her way. Been there, done that! She focused on raising her children, discovering spirituality, making lots of friends and developing lots of ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:34 AM |
| 16 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usIf I've said it once I've said it a hundred times, the only problem I have with MGTOW is that the men never seem to go their own way! Men who want nothing to do with women? Not only am I not upset at all by this, I'm actually a huge fan of the concept! I'd love to live in a world where men gave each and every woman a wide berth. The issue is they never actually make good on their promise. They say they want to go but they just drone on and on, loudly announcing their departure for years on end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Can We Drag Sex Workers For Contributing to Racism, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Incest, and Rape Culture? Why do they think they’re exempt from criticism?Weird how all of the prostitutes/sex workers I hear about are the minority who weren't coerced into the industry and get to choose their clients. When was the last time you heard a Moldovan women smuggled into Berlin wax lyrical about the benefits of sex positivity? Probably half-past-never I suspect, but that's because the vast vast majority of prostitutes have nothing to celebrate and would leave in a heartbeat if they could. The 1% are literally killing the other 99% so they can continue beat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!I feel depressed, why is she laughing? I hate his face, it has no edges, like runny cheese, I want to punch it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:09 PM |
| 9 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂“Men... No matter how unappealing, each of them imagines he is somehow worthy.” ― Janet Finch, White Oleander | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:03 PM |
| 39 | "WhAt dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe????" Everything else, moron. Lol!I increase my man's lifespan - statistical fact. So, yes, he can fucking pay for dinner, my clothes, my hobby and any other thing I care to name because I'm the light of his life. Duh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Dad’s an HVM ❤️Unfortunately, study after study shows that LVM do not listen to or respect women in any way (obviously), so attempting to set them straight, regardless of method, is going to fail. Only strong HVM's can knock sense into these types of men. The father is doing exactly the right thing. I only wish he was more forceful about it! Who cares if the entitled little shit is upset? The mother gives me Pickmeisha energy from his description, bad parenting on her side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:53 PM |
| 69 | I literally don’t even have wordsThis is scary, this man acts like a rapist. Thank goodness this lady was able to escape but yeah, someone needs to report his baggy chino pants ass to the police before he hurts someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:03 AM |
| 90 | Dear men, we don’t give two shits what you want. Signed, A real womanI don't want any man who doesn't care about my accomplishments, interests, hopes and dreams. I'd rather be single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 28 | Repost from another sub, good reminder for ex-religious ladies. I know it’s hard to move past all of the ingrained sexism and misogyny sometimes but I’m here to tell you; You’re not wrong, THEY are.Yep, this is it right here. Women are also more likely to flee (fight or flight response) because it's imperative that women survive to take care of offspring and nurture the community. I even read once that women are more likely to cover their mouths when confronted with something startling because it stifles screams - making it easier for women to make a getaway without being heard/noticed. The downside of this ingrained female passivity is obviously it makes women a much easier target for men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | I love cooking extravagant meals. This Xmas Eve, I cooked myself an amazing dinner. Prime rib, smoked Gouda mac and cheese, carrot salad, sous vide broccoli, and crispy duck fat potatoes...with a custard hand pie for dessert! Sipped homemade eggnog while cooking. Life is good, ladies!A meal fit for a true Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:06 PM |
| 12 | Pick-up artistry is not just misogyny - it's a scamI'm a big fan of this channel - Madison does a great job documenting various internet-age scams. For those who don't know, Russell Hartley is yet another dumbfuck PUA who reduces women to playthings and teaches men how to do the same thing. However, it appears that, like most PUAs, his claims of being a master seducer are basically bullshit. He relies on shock marketing tactics (outrageous misogyny) to find a niche audience. What I found most interesting about Madison's breakdown of his scam pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:10 AM |
| 8 | The "Aspergers" talk. TWEven if someone genuinely is Aspergers, my opinion is, "so what?" Why should any woman put up with a man who distresses her? Whether the man is or isn't neurotypical makes no difference to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else have this view on having children?I'm childfree for a number of reasons. Similar to you I have a low opinion of the world, or in my case, humanity in general. I truly believe the human species is fundamentally flawed such that a peaceful world isn't possible. But the physical toll of pregnancy, the incredible costs of child-rearing, the obvious inequity of reproductive and domestic labour between men and women...It's just so unappealing. I feel very lucky that I don't have any inclination to reproduce because the way I see it, i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Even the F*cking Neckbeards are finally catching on. The porn industry is disgustingAnother poster here mentioned that some men like to try and sidestep it by saying that it's only bad if you are 'addicted'. Well, to those men I'd tell them that they're ignoring the women, girls, and, yes, men and boys, on the other side of the screen who are being degraded for perverse "entertainment". But even if they're so selfish they don't care about that, casual porn use is about as helpful and healthy as casual coke use. What's the fucking point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | So I just rewatched Bridget Jones (don't mind me, just sharing my thoughts)I loathe Bridget Jones and most other romantic comedies (so-called), because they so often demonstrate a complete contempt for women. Bridget is so lacking in dignity in every possible sense I simply cringe every time I think about it. You'd think that a woman living in a cool flat in London, working as a journalist, would have a pretty solid sense of self and varied interests, but no, basically the tired tropes of wine, weight and men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:28 AM |
| 8 | An (almost?) wholesome thread from r/sex! 🥰🥺Porn has fucked up people's sexualities to the point where people now think healthy sexuality is something weird. No, it's normal and natural to fantasise about your partner/spouse. What's weird is watching complete strangers have degrading and downright dangerous sex while sitting alone surrounded by cheetos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:23 AM |
| 9 | I feel like I wanna throw up 🤢For the love of Hecate, no, no, no. The vast majority of religions are misogynistic and Islam is no different. As for the argument that "it's culture, not religion!!11" or "it's not mainstream Islam, it's Wahhabism", who cares? At the end of the day, we're talking about entrenched ideas about women that have done nothing but hold us back for thousands of years. The last thing I want to see on this sub are otherwise-rational women turning around and making moral relativistic comments re: women's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.If a man would prefer to masturbate with a silicone toy rather than have sex with his living, breathing spouse, then he is assuredly: a) mentally disturbed b) sexually dysfunctional and c) unfit for any relationship, married or otherwise. When I read these stories, I just want to march up the the woman and shake her. This guy doesn't know what love is! He's a defective - his brain eaten away by porn until it's just a cluster of neurons weakly firing amidst a pool of malignant testosterone ooze! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 31 | I got you, babe.Reason #1255666 I don't drink, women need to keep their wits about them at all time. Sadly, men can't be trusted. It shouldn't be this way, but it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | What are some strategies and tactics to put off intimacy for as long as possible?Here's a great tactic for you, just tell the fucking guy 'NO'! Period, full stop, the end. "I don't want to have sex with you until I'm completely comfortable with it." If he doesn't like it he can bugger off. If he whines and wheedles about it he can bugger off. If he tries to cross your boundaries, you guessed it, he can bugger off too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Free tampons are an aTtACk on menThat take down though, I'm applauding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:21 AM |
| 35 | No words. (Reposted with names marked out)The follow up comment immediately after is so lacking in wit, so tired, so unfunny, the fact that it got so many upvotes puts the lie to the idea that men are funnier than women. These men are about as funny as a colonoscopy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:48 AM |
| 40 | Reminder to never be nice to disgruntled menSome of the stories I read on here just break my heart. Know that I'm thinking of you and I'm wishing you strength and courage on the road ahead, you are so much more than what that piece of vile shit did to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:06 AM |
| 22 | The absolute state of this threadI'm laughing so hard at this story, that's weird as hell and also a real mystery. What happened to this bloke in his past that created this connection with the lamp? Parental trauma or something more extraordinary, alien abductions? hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 08:28 AM |
| 11 | On Justified AngerPreach. I have been told so many times, (by women) that I am too 'negative', too opinionated and too angry. Actually, I'm just a passionate person, I care deeply about what I do and when I see the injustices of the world it fires me up. The women who try to corral me always have a problem when I say that things can and should be better, but they're real quiet otherwise. Never a word to say about history, politics or the way women are treated around the globe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 07:35 AM |
| 9 | First statue of Mary Wollstonecraft and they do this?!?!Just to clarify, this statue is not a depiction of Mary Wollstonecraft. It's a tribute to her work/ideas (on the plinth the artist points out that it says, "For Mary" rather than the statue being of Mary herself). I'm not that big of a fan either but that's mostly because of the size, if you're going to do a nude statue depicting the power of feminist ideas then that statue had better be the size of that statue of unity in India, now that's what I call a statement piece. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 5 | I can practically guarantee this is because of porn.Lmao reminds me of: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixOJE-k40ss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:50 AM |
| 8 | Won’t Somebody Think of the Men??"Now we see the violence inherent in the system! Help, help, I'm being oppressed!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 09:46 AM |
| 4 | oh honey nolol, I recently went to one of the jewellers in my area with a friend who wanted a custom necklace made. He showed us this fabulous opal engagement ring a man had commissioned for his fiance - the man had designed it with the jeweler, and then had it made professionally with good materials and the stones of his choice. That's how this whole, 'custom ring' thing is supposed to go. Not fucking arts and crafting it in the garage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:12 AM |
| 38 | Every day my faith in men gets closer and closer to zeroI would also prefer to hire tradeswomen, but unfortunately, the tradeswoman might not be safe going into a man's home. :( They basically ruin everything for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 7 | Scrote only has sex if it means his wife is pegging him while watching the kind of porn he likes. She does so begrudgingly. And he refuses to clean up the poop afterward.Autogynephilia incoming. She should get a divorce now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | What’s a pick me man called??My dad is a male pickmeisha. Growing up he had many girlfriends. Each time he got a new one, he would radically change his personality and interests to match hers. If she was into cooking and hiking, he would become an avid home cook and want to go on long walks. If she liked romantic comedy movies and was obsessed with feta cheese, we suddenly had nothing but cheese in the house. If she decided she didn't like kids - well, you can guess how that turned out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 07:14 AM |
| 8 | 56 y.o. Liam Cunningham refused to let GoT team make Davos crush on Missandei, played by 28 y.o. Nathalie EmmanuelI'll always have a soft spot for this guy because he played one of the ultimate HVM fathers in A Little Princess, a childhood favourite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 3 | 'He only bullies you because he fancies you'I was bullied plenty by the little boys in primary school, to the point where I asked and received the joy of going to an all-girls high school. What a godsend. I truly don't understand why anyone would want to go to a co-ed school. Those boys definitely weren't bullying me out of any sort of attraction or like, that is a pickmeisha cope. They bullied me because I was there, because I wasn't a threat to them, and because they absolutely disdained me. Even if they had liked me, so what? It doesn'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄This guy is so ugly he could make a freight train take a dirt road. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 11 | My boyfriend destroyed my 7 year old Bonsai treeI gotta say, it's hilarious how Cobra Kai has got everyone thinking that Daniel LaRusso was actually a sociopath the entire time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 15 | LibFem Twitter is at it again. WTF is “Sexual Mutual Aid”? Notice how quickly the Incels jumped into the fray to spin this idea into a way to punish women who won’t have sex with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️I personally would not enjoy having sex with someone who wasn't attracted to me at all and was only doing it out of a warped sense of charity. I think anyone who would be at ease in such a scenario must really be lacking moral pride. Have some fucking dignity, goddamn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...Yeah, well, stay away from anime fans. They are basically in the same category as gamers, furries and other kinksters to me. It's okay to like animation or video games, but these people make it their whole identity. Plus, anime in and of itself these days is usually shit. Hayao Miyazaki, who can safely be called the Grandfather of Japanese animation, has said that anime these days is made by and for young men who basically don't know how to, or don't want to, relate to actual human beings. If yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:21 AM |
| 16 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingMy heart was racing when I was watching this. There's no other reason to do this other than to intentionally terrify a woman or actually initiate a gang rape. Either way, my morning is ruined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:34 AM |
| 10 | "A garbage collector? Give him a bar of Irish Spring and marry him."Female hypergamy is basically a myth. In the past, women went after men with resources because they didn't have the option of getting said resources themselves. These days, women generally are looking for generous, nurturing men who have stable careers. If that's too hard of a bar to reach then men are the ones who need to look in a mirror, as clearly women are quite capable of going without, and certainly would be better off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:38 PM |
| 31 | Men love mansplanning about issues only WOMEN faceEven on FDS, some of the attitudes of my (fellow) European/white women are as you say. Several posters here on some other thread were saying that the USA is the #1 worst place in the world to be a woman. I don't doubt that the US has issues (I am from NZ btw and we aren't perfect either), but to say it's the worst place to be a woman is just laughable. Would these women prefer to be in Afghanistan? Rural Pakistan, maybe? Or perhaps the Democratic Republic of Congo would be better? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:33 PM |
| 2 | She gave him her best years but once she's hitting menopause he wants to cheatThis situation has nothing to do with her. It has everything to do with him. His wife is now middle-aged, and is a talking, walking, breathing, living embodiment of the fact that HE is middle-aged as well. Everyone knows that men have tremendously fragile egos, relying always on external validation rather than spiritual satisfaction. He is rejecting intimacy from his wife not because of her changed appearance but because being with her reminds him of his own mortality. Plenty of HVM men enjoy gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:46 AM |
| 0 | I thought this video was an interesting analogy of how to respond to nagging. “Let’s be honest, you don’t value what I do. It doesn’t matter what price I charge, you’re not going to pay it. I’m not losing a costumer, you never would have been a one in the first place.“r/Fondant Hate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡"Oh, you don't want to pay for dinner? I guess I had the wrong impression. I thought you wanted to date me. I didn't realise you just want to be friends. Unfortunately, I've got enough friends, so I'm not interested in going any further. Ciao, darling!" Then block + delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Field Report - 8th date suggestion from a man interested in pursuing me. See comment for context.I can see why maybe he's giving you vibes, but if you're scared of the corn maze, don't be! Round up ya homies and go because I promise you they are so much fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:12 AM |
| 7 | "I wonder what else we could ask for, depending on what we wear...?"I was just coming into the comments to say exactly that, what a power outfit. I need to get me some clothes like that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:52 AM |
| 16 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡The whole idea is to NOT get picked by a LVM...idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 10 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.I admit...I'm also curious... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 07:41 AM |
| 3 | HVM love FDSGiven that FDS has had articles written about it in such places as the Wall Street Journal, I'd say the cat's out of the bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:53 AM |
| 6 | This has to be a joke, can’t believe this is real 😂😂😂He reminds me of someone: https://vignette.wikia.nocookie.net/avp/images/e/e0/Scar2.png/revision/latest/scale-to-width-down/350?cb=20150114200541 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 16 | HVM love FDSI believe there are a couple of bachelors in his coterie who would be delighted to hear a HVW asked that hahaha <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Red/black piller-PUA-incel-MRA-MGTOW-"nice guy tm" type enraged that a woman wouldnt have sex with himHe's 28? He looks more like 38. Men don't maintain themselves at all. Why do 99% of them look like jerky? Get off the beach, stay away from the alcohol and drugs! Wear sunscreen and moisturise! For fucks sake. I fully support consequences for unpleasantries such as what this fellow was dishing out and it's perfectly legal. Most contracts will stipulate that an employee has to abide by company values and uphold company reputation even outside of work hours. It makes sense why he got fired and his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 11 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?Just yell out in a sing-song voice, "EX-SQUEEZE ME, HUN!" And they move. I also use a similar tactic on the bus or train. If I don't want someone to sit next to me I vigorously pat the seat beside me and smile at them in a creepy way, muttering, "Oh yeah, come and sit over here, yeah yeah yeah, sit with me!" They never do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 10 | Can We Tell The Truth About Plastic Surgery?I read The Beauty Myth when I was 10 and it was highly educational for me - even if Naomi Wolf has lost her marbles these days, that book is still solid. I've known lots of girls who have had numerous procedures but they aren't noticeably happier or more successful. A lot of the time as well, they don't look much better. 99% of the cosmetic/beauty industry is bullshit. Women are absolutely more attractive than men no matter what, so if you're cutting your nose into shape to please them it's real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.This couple has been together for 8 years. She would have been 18, and he was 27. Come on, dude. Of course he's a piece of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:09 AM |
| 9 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin out"Sex work is just like any other work!" Not sure about other countries, but in NZ/Aus, if you get an employment benefit you're required to be looking for a job. And they can send you off to job interviews whether you like it or not. Imagine you're unemployed, go to social welfare, and the case worker says to you, "there's a brothel down the street that are looking for exactly your type. Here's the address!" Suddenly, sex work doesn't seem like much like other jobs, does it? There's a big differe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Reframing of the Pickme Phenomenonu/musicstand2020 I think you've misunderstood. The previous poster was saying that true Pickmeishas are similar to the women they listed - these women are as bad as women can get, and degrade other women in order to rise on the totem pole. Women who (repeatedly) fall in love with shitty men and get scammed/played for chumps, really wouldn't fall under the banner of Pickme as defined by the original poster and need our support, not ridicule. On a personal note, although I very much agree with the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 7 | “Girls Mature Faster than Boys” and other classic hits from LVMAlways: "Boys will be boys, so you girls will just have to be patient with them." Never: "Girls are more mature than boys, so you young men should look to them for examples of wisdom." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 15 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮Dobby drank a bit of polyjuice potion and then tried OLD. Who knew he was such an asshole? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 66 | Reminder to not have casual sex. These degenerates don't give a shit about you. (PS this is from r/ steroids. Wanna bet these dudes are ugly, aggressive losers with roid guts and ED?)This is why I have a hard time respecting most men, because so many are slaves to sex, controlled by it and dominated by it. I've said before on here that I, and most women for sure, could not fathom having sex with a total stranger I wasn't even attracted to, but men do it all the time. They're like drug addicts looking for a fix. After the deed is done, they don't even have the insight to feel any shame or degradation for the way they just gave themselves up to their urges, they just go on to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Wow. This is sad.Yes, that's exactly that. Why is asking your mother to pay for your date more acceptable than asking the man? I bet it's not the 14 yr old's boyfriend's money either, it's probably HIS mother's money, so what's the problem? It's just pantomime in the first place, and if the kids are going to pantomime grown-up dating, then pantomime it the right way damn it haha. Let the boy pay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 5 | Vincent Cassel and Tina Kunakey age gap relationship.Monica deserved better...I'm not gay, but I would happily go lesbian for Monica Belluci, so Monica, if you're reading this, please message me! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | There you have it. Why movie dates are for LVM - they don't care enough to think of something to do AND they have awful social skills.I like movie dates but that's because I like film in general! For me, I always go Gold class (that's what we call it in Aus/NZ). You get giant seats in a more intimate theatre and the staff will bring you food and drinks during the screening. And I agree with another poster here, if someone has bad manners in a film I definitely would never want to hang around them again. As a film buff, people who talk/look at their phone in movies are the bane of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:38 AM |
| 17 | High value men in movies/tv?Rick and Evy from The Mummy are one of my ultimate power couples. He's loyal, brave and treats his wife like an equal. His HVM behaviour is shown in how he brings out the best in his wife and vice-versa. In the first film, Evy has been rejected from the Bembridge Scholars multiple times and doesn't have a lot of confidence in exploring/fighting. The second film shows how Rick's unwavering devotion has given her the room to grow. The Bembridge Scholars are now asking her to run the British Museum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 8 | General discussion: how to not hate men after realizing the sobering truth?Any time you spend hating men is time you could have spent loving yourself and other HVW around you. I also have a lot of anger when I consider the mad cruelty of the opposite sex, but I try my best to use that anger productively, by working hard and educating myself. When I see LVM behaviour, I call it out effectively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:06 AM |
| 47 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?The guy answered the question himself. He said, women are selective. True. He said that the majority of men don't have standards, and just want to fuck. Also true. Why the hell would any woman in her sane mind want to pal around with someone with no standards, no loyalty and no particular reason to be with a woman other than the fact she was there? Women respect standards, men, go and get some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 10 | Wow. This is sad.Honestly, the kid sounds like an entitled little shit. "You need to pay as my mama :)" When I was 14 I personally didn't run around saying, "Mommy, pay for my food, pwease!" I would have whooped this kid if she were my daughter... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Where are all my girlfriends now who used the tell me to get a man asap, because "how are you going to survive without a man?"I remember two occasions where I was out of work/underemployed - when I was 19 (in-between studies and working shitty retail gigs) and then at the beginning of 2018 for a few months when I moved between countries. Both times, I felt so ashamed and horrible for not having money, security and the satisfaction of a good day's work. I can't imagine how pitiful men #2 and #3are, that they can sit on their asses and not feel ashamed. I HATE being dependent on others and feeling useless. I truly don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:52 AM |
| 7 | The Myth of the Modern HousewifeI just want to point out that this statistic (about divorce being a 50% chance) is quite inaccurate but I see it repeated everywhere. The statistics are skewed because they also take into account people who are on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th etc marriages. If you are onto your 2nd marriage your chances of divorce are much higher than if it were your first. This is similar for how the rates of cheating appear high on the surface but only because they include people who cheat more than once, and as the sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:56 AM |
| 13 | I hate how LVM behavior is coded as "benign/good" in popular moviesBack to the Future is so disturbing in the way Marty's mother, Lorraine, is treated. In the first movie, prior to Marty changing the past, she's a broken woman as a result of being raped. The rape is prevented (the movie doesn't really call it what it is, or properly punish the antagonist for being, you know, a rapist). But then in the second movie another bad future occurs in which she is manipulated into marrying the villain and forced to get breast surgery for his gratification! I truly can't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:31 AM |
| 6 | this one’s been making the rounds on facebook... 🤦♀️Does this women believe that divorces happen by chance? That out of the blue, a woman in a stable marriage just decides to leave and swipe a man's assets while she's at it? Women initiate divorces because 9 times out of 10 the man cheated, is emotionally unavailable, treats her like a slave or shirks his responsibilities as a husband and father. And secondly, women these days might very well have more money and fiscal sense than a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Male sexuality, as it exists today, is a black hole waiting to consume you.A+ post, I'm laughing and nodding my head here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 24 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑Dating should be an effort, and it makes sense that it comes with a price. Love and sex ought to be taken seriously. Treating it carelessly is bad for individuals but bad for society as well. If someone can't take dating seriously or invest in it, how the fuck can anyone imagine they will take a relationship seriously? Believe it or not, relationships are even MORE expensive and laborious as dating. It takes a lot of effort to make a marriage work. If a scrote can't handle sushi what the hell is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?I like tall, clean cut men with smooth skin and quite angular features. Thick hair, broad shoulders, straight noses and tapered waists. As for height, anything above 5'8 should be fine. I personally prefer men to be taller than me. For grooming, I don't like beards or facial hair. It has to be clean-shaven every day. I epilate my body hair, so he can shave his face or fuck off. I'm not getting a rash on my face from horrible stubble. In terms of clothes, frankly, anything that isn't a shitty t-s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 70 | Oh yeah thats why that sounded so familiar 🤔"This is the house that man built - because they never allowed women to lay a single brick!" I hate this stupid argument, that men built everything (false), invented everything (false), and are more visionary (false, false, false). Women have been less able to contribute to arts, sciences and politics because, you know...men wouldn't allow them to read, write or pursue a profession. Even when women did create things, their achievements were washed out of history. Men force women into mute subser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 215 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesSomeone needs to do a major study of these open marriages and get the stats on which partner is having the more successful dating life. I would bet money on three things: 1) Men initiate these situations much more often than women 2) Women would be having more dates and better sex 3) Men would turn it around and say that the fact men have a shittier time at open marriages is somehow the fault of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Wannabe tradwives aren’t respected by the men they worshipIf you can't afford to pay for car loan, insurance and regular servicing, then you aren't going to be able to financially cope with owning a car that is roadworthy. Similarly, if you can't afford to pay for a date, then how could you be expected to cope with taking care of a family? And, yes, men need to be contributing more to the household than a woman simply because they have less to lose and fewer odds stacked against them. A man who can't accept that isn't worth dating. As for having sex af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Meredith Grey, the OG PickMe 😂Man, the acting is so crap, I can't believe this show got popular. Cringy as hell dialogue, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Is erotica okay?I think erotica can be artistic. I am a professional designer/illustator and I've certainly drawn sensual or erotic images - even written erotic content. To me, there's no exploitation because it's a self-motivated expression of sexuality in an artistic framework. It's not so much about sexual gratification as sensuality. Whereas pornography is definitively exploitative - people are coerced into it, the images are explicit and degrading, the values espoused are completely against healthy relatio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Keep away from self-proclaimed atheistsI am an atheist myself, and I do find that there seems to be an online cohort of atheist men who take atheism as a sort of ideology. It's nothing of the sort. It's a lack of belief. That's it. The end. Period. But, as others have said, they form an identity around it and amusingly also combine it with other viewpoints, like being fedora-tipping libertarians. This particular contingent of young men use their lack of faith to browbeat the unsuspecting and unassuming. I wish they'd put their energi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 36 | Why are most men so unattractive?I read once that men who are considered very attractive have more 'feminine' features to their faces - smooth skin, clear, wide eyes, high brow line, small nose, full lips, thick hair. I don't know if that's true across the board, everyone has their preferences, but for me it's definitely true. Men who are regarded as being very handsome (Jason Momoa, Chris Evans, etc etc) can show the traits above, for what it's worth. So I think this may be why on the whole men are much uglier than women, beca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:01 AM |
| 31 | While studying forensic medicine as a medical student, this caught my eye. To claim coincidence would be being blind to the problem. What do you guys think is the reason for perversions being more common in males?As I have read in the past, male infants and children are more likely to develop lifelong psychological issues as a result of trauma. Male infants also have a higher infant mortality than baby girls, so certainly they are the weaker sex during these very significant foundational periods of their lives. They also have less empathy than females and are significantly more prone to aggression and delinquency. Add to that, a senseless world where misogyny is basically endemic and institutionalised, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 14 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡I think that looking to celebrities in general for role models is a dangerous game. Their image is carefully manufactured to appeal to the public, and everything they say, do and produce is ultimately about making money. I think celebrity culture fools many people in general, because it is to celebrities that people look to for aspirational guidance whereas the truth is that most celebrities haven't self-actualised any further than the average schmuck. Look at how many famous people have died fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 9 | The anti-porn: Share your favorite love scenes from movies/TV here!'The Lover' is super, super erotic. Maybe the most erotic movie I've ever seen!The various interactions between Mina and Dracula in the 1991 Francis Ford Coppola film, but especially the part where she drinks absinthe with him. And then of course the 'green mist' sequence. Speaking of vampires, the seduction scene from the original 'Fright Night', and how about that sexy hot tub moment in Queen of the Damned between Lestat and Akasha?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lmcnx-upjhw < This scene from … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 10 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.All of the rights that women enjoy today are the work of radical feminists who: 1) advocated loudly for their rights as people 2) were unafraid to go their own way if required 3) Acknowledged the differences between the sexes and named male violence as the problem 4) Understood how their experiences were shaped by female biology All four of these things are now very much despised by the left wing. You have to conform, you have to placate, and don't you dare use the term 'woman' in reference to f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | More proof men just see us as warm flesh lights. He expects her to warm herself up, give herself her own orgasm and be satisfied with just pleasing him??? I’m disgustedI can never understand people who: 1) Move in with their partner and have a sexual, romantic relationship 2) Share rent and utilities with said partner 3) Purchase assets and property with their partner 4) have children with said partner, actually creating new human beings to raise (!!) and then turn around and say they aren't ready for marriage just yet! It's like spending $500,000 on a Lamborghini and then baulking at paying $1000 for a weekend abroad. It's like eating ten pizzas in a row and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:19 AM |
| 3 | MeN aRe VeRy ViSuAL CrEaTuReSAnother post on here a few days ago said it best, if men were visual creatures like they so often claim, most of them wouldn't be as goddamn ugly as they are. I'd expect them all to be meticulously groomed dandies, but most men are fucking bums with bad hygiene, bad grooming and bad style. They're not visual, they're shallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:58 AM |
| 2 | New Zealand passes legislation granting domestic violence leave!Right-wingers are always harping on about people taking advantage of the system, which is why they never want to offer welfare and other benefits. I don't care if a few people take advantage of the system, if it helps the majority of people get out of a tough spot, then I'm for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:41 AM |
| 6 | They're insulting themselves at this pointOn one hand, men will swear up and down that all women have plenty of great men to choose from. On the other, they readily admit that most men are scumbags. How many times has a 'nice guy' said that he is the only nice guy in town and all other men are douchebags? They have to perform so many mental gymnastics to avoid looking in the mirror... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:30 AM |
| 5 | World without women: a dystopia. But what about the other way around?Yes, that's true, most certainly the population will drop. I think the response to that will differ between the sexes most certainly. I'm something of an anti-natalist so I personally would welcome a major population drop although I definitely believe the all-female planet has a chance to avoid extinction and thrive, whereas the all-male planet would be a hellscape. I think the proof is in the pudding - a lot of women would love to live in an all-female society, whereas most men would balk at th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:27 AM |
| 6 | ‘Like an Experimental Concentration Camp’: Whistleblower Complaint Alleges Mass Hysterectomies at ICE Detention CenterWhen I heard this, I really couldn't believe it. I said, "If this is about ethnic cleansing, wouldn't it be cheaper to just force the men to have vasectomies?" (Morbid, I know). It's hard to cope with the knowledge that merely sterilising a population isn't enough, women are the ones who have to endure the brunt of the suffering. I'm amazed that I seem to be the only woman I know who is so bleak all the time, either women around me are ignorant or they are super tough. I feel really disillusione… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:02 AM |
| 11 | World without women: a dystopia. But what about the other way around?I'll try to give a serious answer. So, I believe that there would be a major worldwide decrease in crime and violence. On the other hand, there would likely be a huge blow to certain services which are male-dominated, namely, electricity and other utilities. The balance of worldwide power would shift to countries such as Israel which have more female representation in the military. Similarly, female representation in fields such as transport, engineering and science will dictate which regions ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:18 AM |
| 17 | To my fellow Asian girls, this is why you should NEVER feel bad for dating out no matter how much Asian incels lead you to believe otherwise.On the other side of the fence, my LVM father always used to harp on about how Asian women were superior in every way to white and especially polynesian women (mum and I are mixed - mostly Euro with a dash of Niuean). Made me feel like shit all the time because he'd constantly go on about how much better their hair, eyes, skin, figures were and how loud-mouthed, frizzy-haired and undelicate I was in comparison. Seems to me men are just shallow judgmental assholes and their cutting remarks go in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 13 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.That just made my blood boil. I honestly would fly into a rage if someone touched my cat, I would want to beat the guy to death with my bare hands! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 9 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Cats for some reason are thought to be 'feminine' in some western countries, so I've often found that a lot of men who don't like cats do so in part because of this 'female' association. They're often loud, ignorant and misogynistic meatheads. I admit I'm deeply suspicious of anyone who doesn't like animals, but especially men who have nasty opinions about cats. Think of a man who says something like, "the only good cat is a dead cat!" (actual quote). A man who says that has a high chance of bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:14 AM |
| 31 | The Methods Men Use to Manipulate Even the Smartest Women - Episode 4Love her brassy attitude, and yes, the mirroring technique is a sword that cuts both ways. I've used it myself to get people to spill their guts at work or job interviews and I can detect right quick when it's being used on me. Men absolutely use this to try and take advantage of 'female positive projection' but if you shut up and let them do the talking they'll eventually let slip the real deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Don't mean to be a Debby Downer but this is why we need to be ruthless in vetting. This has been on my newsfeed for a couple of years now.Probably going to get only 4 years jail time and people saying, "oh, well, he had an untreated mental illness, boo hoo". I wish humans would wise up and name the problem. Men are fucking nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 67 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Yes, honestly. My fiance is a good man, but if you ask him to describe people's faces he literally can't do it. Me: "Describe X's face?" Him: "Uh...He has blonde hair? He's fat." Me: "Yes, and?" Him: "I don't know, he's not that good looking." Me: "Not that good looking how?" Him: "Uh..." Whereas I can describe shape of the nose, the mouth, color of the eyes, hairstyle, fitness level, skin type, detail the teeth, the smile, blemishes etc etc. Most of the women I know are much more loquacious and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Remembering the Montreal Massacre - are men as brave as they say?I know, absolutely pathetic. Would they have intervened if the women were known to them (wives, girlfriends, sisters etc)? I don't know if it would make it worse or better - do men honest only care about women who 'belong' to them? Reading this case has kept me up at night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Remembering the Montreal Massacre - are men as brave as they say?This is definitely a good way to put it. Women who submit to male demands are 'safe', in that they are now male property and are more likely to be taken care of. Women who don't capitulate are fair game. No chivalry for them. Then again, given how many women are beaten, raped, killed and oppressed by male family members and spouses, seems like there isn't that much chivalry to be had in the first place. Our species is fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 46 | When a Pitbull Approaches a Man and His Young Daughter, The Father Jumps on the Hood of a Car and Lets His Daughter Fend For HerselfMen are aggressive and have poor risk-assessment, that doesn't make them brave. The stats regarding male violence (and young men dying from doing stupid shit like diving headfirst into shallow swimming pools) prove that. This man is an utter coward, a terrible parent, and unfortunately he is one of many men who probably harps on about how big and tough he is while in truth his knees are the first to buckle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:07 AM |
| 3 | New subreddit that reveals the sexism of the manosphere towards women and what their tactics are! Come join and protect yourselves.Calling women sluts and bitches, and saying 'vile shit' is normal, but respecting women and having decorum is evidence of a 'degenerate, decaying society'. I truly believe that the vast, vast majority of men frequenting these forums are either mentally ill or straight-up psychopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Bare minimum King 👑This is the sort of fellow who brags about taking care of his girlfriend/wife when she's sick. You're SUPPOSED to take care of your partner when they're sick, you dumb muthafugger! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Bet he'll still want her to go half on bills and dates. lol"23:30 - Will close the gate for the husband not to leave" Fuck that, leave the gate open for the scrote to run out and hopefully get run over by a truck like a runaway dog. Except I'd cry over the dog. The scrote, not so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 07:14 AM |
| 4 | I just got banned from r/Feminism and this was the last thing I commented:I'm sure a lot of the info is still useful, but from what I understand, the language being used on there is very tightly controlled now. So, if you were to go in there today and make a post saying, "Us women sure have it rough with PCOS!", you might get banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Woman has reasonably solution, comments are full of "NoOoOo! It'S nOt NoRmAl FoR a WoMaN tO hAvE hEr OwN rOoM iN a ReLaTiOnShIp!!!1!1!!11 That'S nOt HeAlThY!1!!!“If I were to imagine a woman saying: "My husband gets up at 5am to go to his job, and is making a lot of noise and turning on lights when he gets ready. I would rather he prepped the night before so we could spend more time together rather than his solution of basically living on the opposite side of the house." I would definitely be on her side. I've lived with flatmates before who woke up at odd hours for work and I've experienced very considerate people (prepared their clothes and whatnot the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Men responding to rejection with aggression/insultsMen react differently to rejection because of their faulty psychologies. Women look inward when faced with criticism, and tend to blame ourselves (for good or for ill). Men, on the other hand, take it as a challenge and are more likely to respond with aggression. https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/lifetime-connections/201805/rejection-when-it-hurts-men-more-it-should My personal theory is that this is why women are much better at levelling up than men, because we are more likely to be intro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:09 AM |
| 3 | My husband's dad just said that he felt bad for a family member that just had another daughter.The only reason it's hard to raise a girl...and live as a woman...is because of men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:59 AM |
| 15 | Pickme’s are dangerousOnce you have a child, you become responsible for that child. No matter the cost, no matter the effort. This is one of the many reasons why I am childfree, because I'm not capable of that level of sacrifice. My father was a deadbeat, and my mother wasn't too keen on parenthood either, and it hurt me tremendously growing up. I would never put a child through the same kind of torment, and it sickens me how many children are being brought up by parents who have no real sense of responsibility towar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 9 | Her BF's parents expect her to clean. What would be the FDS way of dealing with this?The parents should have conveyed their displeasure at the state of the house to their SON, rather than the girlfriend. "Hi, Son, we've noticed the house looks messy, can you and your girlfriend ensure to keep it cleaner?" Done. Speaking directly to the girlfriend and telling her she needs to be more of a homemaker is inappropriate and definitely sexist. Although, from the FDS standpoint, she should not have moved in from the get go. Queens stand on their own two feet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Ladies with a HVM SO: How did you meet?I met my fiance via work - I was a designer at a small company and he was in the I.T department. When I left the company we remained friends although I think we were in love at first sight. I remember feeling a spark the first time I saw him and he used to always come and talk to me for a long time before and after work. Once I left the company, we started spending a lot of time together. Green flags prior to romance: - We immediately bonded over our shared interests, concept art, illustration a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?I'm very 'straight edge' - no drinking, smoking, drugs, sex before marriage, I don't even drink soda. I'm an atheist, so it's not a religious thing. I've found that I don't get pestered about it at all. Story time: I once worked as a designer at some crappy outfit in Huai'an, China. This real LVM worked in the same place as me but as an ESL teacher. He was a heavy drinker, druggie, not interested in teaching at all, just your typical low-grade meathead who can stumble into these kinds of jobs ea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 31 | Queen slaps scrote for lying about his 3 kids (love the message of her story never tolerate BS from these liars)"If I feel like I want company...Rub the magic conch...and then the feels go away." : D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts?Oh, ffs, I'm so sick of hearing this goddamn tripe from so-called sex positive feminists. The handful of women who feel empowered by prostituting themselves for designer handbag money don't get to speak for the millions (!!!) of women, children, and, yes, men, who endure lives of misery, degradation and torture in sexual slavery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Won’t someone please think of the men?!?!"I'm the type of person to stay up till 3am watchin nanny cam videos" What da fuck, is this a thing? "To this day I'm yet to see a MALE on one of those videos" - LMAO that's because people have common sense and don't hire male babysitters, of COURSE all the nannies you see are female! This post was written by a male pedophile who is jealous that women (justifiably) have more access to children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:22 AM |
| 5 | Can we talk about Karen?When women stand up for themselves or occasionally complain, this is worthy of a special, denigrating title. When men act belligerent, entitled and insufferable, well, they must have had a good reason to be that way! Everything men do is perfect and rational, everything women do is wrong. All the bad things on earth are all women's fault. I even read from that moron Sargon of Akkad that world wars and civilisations crumbling are women's fault. Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 4 | How to quickly get over your LVM ex: Create a collage of his repulsive behaviors & then view it every time you think of him!Oh man, Pearl, what an image. When you left him he screamed, "You need me, Frost! You need me!" LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:15 AM |
| 9 | 50/50 by Garfunkel and OatesThese two queens <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel they're not pretty enough for FDS?I don't wear much if any makeup at all (only moisturiser and CC cream) and I am engaged to a HVM. I don't wear heels either (only for special occasions), I like flats and I have a sneaker collection! I have my own style - floral print everything, embroidered bomber jackets, awesome shoes - and people love it! I get compliments all the time from both men and women, no lipstick required. I never saw anywhere in the handbook saying women need to wear makeup? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:18 PM |
| 3 | My cousin 18F has been talking to this 28M guy and I think it's gross for him to have matched with her in the first place. She says he's looking for a relationship and seems trustworthy but to me, this is predatory behavior. I need FDS arguments to convince her that he's shit and not to meet him.When she was 18, my former best friend started dating a 28 year old. I warned her against it, telling her that no good man would want a teenage girl and that she would be better off dating a boy our own age if she wanted a relationship. She dismissed my concerns and became that man's bangmaid - constantly cleaning up after him, sexually servicing him (she never had an orgasm from him, not once) and even being his emotional support because he had severe problems with depression. They broke up whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:06 PM |
| 5 | mgtow pedophiles discuss the female wall 🥴In terms of our far evolutionary past, women and men died young. So it's unlikely that women would have a preference for males who were 50. Add to that, young men would obviously be better at fending off potential attackers than a 50 year old caveman - The scenario is absurd. In terms of sociology, women have been thought to prefer money to looks only because for much of human history women have been barred from securing resources for themselves. In enlightened countries where women can do for t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 10:58 AM |
| 4 | This subreddit is one of the only places I feel safe as a womanI actually followed that drama morbidly as it occurred. I am not kidding when I tell you that one of the reasons was the fact that users were greeting each other as "ladies" and "women" instead of "ovary-havers" or something like that. And according to their mods, the former terms are hugely non-inclusive, bigoted, you take your pick. What a time to be alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:59 AM |
| 3 | What pop culture character is your inspiration?Paragon Commander Shepard (female, of course). Everything I've ever wanted to be, an inspiration. Jennifer Hale is a treasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Field report - too focused on my looks?That, "give me time to admire your beauty" sounds like something a neckbeard would write... Do women ever send messages like this? "I want to meet on Saturday morning because it would give me more time to admire your chiselled jaw, and the light would flatter your perfectly sculpted ass cheeks." Give me a break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 66 | The bs that men do everything that they do because of "animal biology"Well, if he's fine with us acting like other species, then he should have no problem with me partially eating him and then cocooning his remains for next time I get hungry. Because of my latent spider genes, you understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:45 AM |
| 75 | Reminder: propaganda is everywhereBeautiful ladies of FDS, it's so frustrating the amount of propaganda that women are fed everyday. Every facet of the female experience has been codified, not by us, but by government and media. No matter what, choose for yourself, regardless of what society is telling you (and keep in mind, society is geared to benefit men, not women, regardless of what dopey MRAs think). Date and marry for your benefit first and foremost, not because that's what you're 'supposed' to do, or because you want to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:46 AM |
| 5 | My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal.I couldn't agree more with all this and have thought this myself many times. Work needs to be compensated - full-time motherhood is work. Don't ever work for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 07:47 PM |
| 14 | Maybe posted before but before I leveled up, I remember agreeing with this 🤮"My man could propose with a pretzel and I'd say yes!" "My man could get me a $12 box of chocolates from the supermarket for my birthday, it's the thought that counts!" "My man could order pizza delivery for our anniversary meal, it's materialistic to ask for more!" "My man could take me to the airport motel on vacation, what's important is that we're together!" "My man helps with cleaning by stacking the dirty dishes - on the sink. At least he tries! <3" If your standards (for yourself, your pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 32 | Ladies, without FDS I wouldn’t even have considered this one. But we’re together for 6 months now and I can confidently say I found my HVM! 🌹Loyal, loving and adorable. Congratulations sis, that's quite the catch <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Again, all those examples you mention are conscious efforts which I would fully agree with you as being evil, as per my comment previous. I of course can't list every possible evil act in parentheses because it's impractical. My point was in regards to the essential natures of male and female, which on some level seem to be at odds with each other. So, therefore, assuming that what makes a man happy would make a woman happy is not necessarily true. Even if I were to raise a single man and woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:28 AM |
| 15 | What is this????? 🤢 And she’s been his gf for nine years.. sis, NOAh, yes, men drawing parallels between women and objects. And property. And barnyard animals. I'm out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Love this!I love her dignity. I'm less so - I would have kept the game and eaten the breakfast haha. What I would have done is taken a photo of the pair and sent it to him after I'd hit the road. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Recent increase in male anger/frustrationIn my corner of the woods I'm seeing/hearing a LOT of domestic violence. In Perth, a woman was set alight by a man. In Brisbane (my city) a woman was stabbed repeatedly in the middle of the street. The couple in the apartment across from me scream like cats and dogs periodically. I've been trying to figure out which apartment they are in because it doesn't seem like anyone else is doing anything about it and I'm worried for the woman's wellbeing. And yesterday, our apartment property manager (ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:28 AM |
| 3 | THIS. 👑 👏 (swipe)Sure, marry a guy, bring home money, clean the house, cook the food and have his children. Do 90% of the child-rearing in addition to everything else. Be as nurturing as you can be. Then he'll turn around and call you a boring, fat old mother hen and fuck the first Pickmeisha he can find when he turns 42. What's the fucking point? I'm not gentle and nurturing. I've always been sarcastic, critical and ambitious. If a guy doesn't like that he can take a hike, I'm not changing shit. I have been tol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Men don't get itWhat qualifies as 'eating shit'? If eating shit means going 50/50 on housework, emotional support and financial stability then, yes, I do want a man who eats shit, I'm eating shit everyday myself LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Woman's BF "playfully" almost drowns her, cue LVM in the comments saying it's "nOT aBuSIve"I showed this to my guy and he shook his head in disgust. He says that this is how stupid boys used to play when he was a kid and he HATED it. Dumb guys roughhouse each other and he never liked it/doesn't like it/doesn't have any friends who do it. Men should have grown out of that dangerous, childish behaviour and most definitely should not be playing with anyone that way, let alone women. Tickling and a bit of gentle tussling is okay, holding people's heads under the water? Fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 177 | It's men of every culture and religion.If you can control women, you can control the whole world. Religion is a very useful tool for doing this. Once women are under your thumb, the men fall in line because you dole out the women like party favours to the old and powerful. The young men, radicalised, frustrated, with no women to keep them in check, you send them off to fight with the promise that when they come back you'll toss them a wife. It's all bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?I don't know if I agree, because many people (men and women) are not even aware in the first place that women aren't getting a fair shake. In my opinion, being evil requires a conscious effort, and there's a big difference between men who are evil to women (rapists, murderers) and your average LVM who doesn't have the mental depth to truly understand how it hurts their girlfriend when they don't make an effort domestically, financially, romantically, etc. And another thing is that life is someti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 13 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?I couldn't agree more. We can't fathom their abysmal lows anymore than they can understand the empathy which guides women. So we just project onto each other, but how telling is it that men ascribe to us negative qualities they despise in themselves, whereas we assign men positive qualities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:43 AM |
| 11 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?I think this is the most measured comment and I agree with this the most. I don't think the majority of men are evil or cruel, but I do think that their goals are ultimately hostile to a woman's health and happiness. More than anything, I find the male lack of empathy combined with their high aggression and physical strength to be so depressing, I wish we were stronger than men. I bet the world would be a vastly different place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Romantic movies that are FDS horror movies<3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:14 AM |
| 9 | Romantic movies that are FDS horror moviesI especially loved Beatrice in the BBC adaptation of it years and years ago https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6UIT8BxEjhc . I saw this when I was like 13 and I've always liked Beatrice from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:40 AM |
| 22 | Romantic movies that are FDS horror moviesHighly recommend Romy and Michelle's High School Reunion! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:37 AM |
| 24 | Romantic movies that are FDS horror moviesDamn, I forgot about that, that makes it 10000x worse. *gags* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Relationship red flags in movies/shows that are romanticized.She should have run off to become platonic life-partners with Awkwafina instead. :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:00 AM |
| 4 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?Well, if they say that we shouldn't judge, fair to a point. I mean, I can't tell whether the guy is a bad person or not from his bedroom. But I can definitely tell that he's in no position to entertain, let alone provide for, a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:55 AM |
| 13 | Even The Instant Pot community on Facebook has too many "bumbling can't cook husband" stories..I have a Philips multi-cooker - very similar to the Instant Pot. There is NO need to 'plan ahead'. A monkey could make something in one of these, just figure out what you want to make and then go buy the ingredients. Then throw them in the pot. Done. This man is a dumbass and his wife is his new mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:51 AM |
| 10 | “We’Re OpPrEsSeD ToO”Everything bad that happens to men is because of other men. Didn't get custody? It's because patriarchal ideas include the concept that women make better nurturers than men, men should be out making money rather than looking after kiddies. Got drafted? Old men start wars and force young men into the meat grinder. Feel the pressure to repress your emotions? That's because men think emotions are feminine (except for rage and lust), and they police the hell out of any man who steps out of the box. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 12 | Apparently “the white man” is who taught black women to value monogamy.Damn white people and their *shuffles cards* alleged proliferation of the concept of monogamy! -__- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Breaking news that will shock absolutely no one: Only Fans is a shady organization.OnlyFans is just prostitution. Liberal feminists glorify it, but it's an ugly business which essentially comes from two forces, female poverty and male demand. The tiny percentage of women who get to pick their clients, and beat up white-collar submissive males for designer handbag money don't get to speak for the millions of women and children who are trafficked, coerced, raped and murdered in this business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:01 AM |
| 13 | Ben Shapiro gets draaaagggged by the Internet for thinking WAP is a medical condition. His response:I thought the most measured commentary on this song was actually Russell Brand's video on it. Essentially, it boils down to the fact that a lot of female-driven hiphop (and media in general) protrays women no differently than how male-driven entertainment does. Cardi B and Megan have sexualised female backup dancers, same as how male rappers do. City Girls rap about selling pussy, same as how male rappers brag about buying pussy. I don't see any difference. There are no male sexualised figures i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 11 | What the fuck makes old men think they're a catch and they stand a chance ?Societal conditioning - how many times have you heard people say some nonsense like, 'physical appearance doesn't matter to women, women are attracted to status/experience/a certain je ne sais quoi, ah, the mysteries of women!' Because men don't care, or are too stupid, to understand women's desires, they are totally narcissistic and delusional. They think women are aroused by their auras or some shit like that, or that women are aroused simply by male attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 42 | PSA to all the young Queens on here: a man wanting to have sex with you is not a compliment, nor does it mean he cares about you as a person!Also, men by and large find the majority of women attractive or at least passable enough to screw (and as OP said, men will also fuck women they AREN'T attracted to). So when a man finds you attractive, even this is not a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 11 | Why are European men SO INTENSE?My fiance is an Aussie boy, and I'm a Kiwi girl. I definitely agree with you that Oceanic blokes (and ladies) are less intense than people in other countries, we don't realise how chill we are until we leave home. For example, when I left Uni and lived abroad (in China, Vietnam, other places) and made friends with Americans for the first time, I was often overwhelmed by how high-energy they were in comparison to me. Haha, to a Kiwi like me, I have to say most Americans (and certain European grou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:39 PM |
| 15 | Men performing noises/grunts during s£xI've not heard of this but it wouldn't surprise me if it was due to porn. Personally, I am a very quiet lover. My fiance on the other hand moans with passion just from lots of kissing hahah. He doesn't like to dirty talk but he makes very sappy, lovey-dovey proclamations. He's super corny but I was looking for corny in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:11 AM |
| 7 | Another day, another Pickmeisha Sex ColumnistHearing about sex and other people's escapades is basically totally boring to me at this point. In a world where almost everyone is a porn addict or dating one, sleeping around isn't exactly challenging social norms, is it? Monogamy and healthy intimacy are now the ultimate taboo. If you tell someone you're waiting until marriage or you wait to have sex after dating, they look at you like a scumbag. But I'm supposed to accept that they literally want to strangle and punch their bedmates? Hard pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:01 AM |
| 141 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?My dad was a male pickme, there's no other way to describe it. He was constantly being taken advantage of by LVW and putting up with it again and again. I'm estranged from him now because his pickme/LVM ways lead him of course to capitulating to the first woman who told him that she didn't want him to see me anymore, so to hell with him for being so weak. As a kid, even I would ask him why he allowed his girlfriends to take his money, hit him in the face, why he did nothing when they hit their o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Bare Minimum Twitter Bragging About Men Displaying Basic Decency. iCan't.Watching Pixar movies is a grand romantic gesture now? If I turned into a man tomorrow, I would be considered Casanova! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:31 AM |
| 41 | Why do men seem to get enjoyment/pleasure from telling women they look tired?I've been asked, "are you tired/sick" by men and pickme-type women, I just stare them down and say, "No, I'm just ugly." They get uncomfortable and walk off. I don't reckon I'm ugly, btw haha, I definitely think I'm pretty cute, but the point of it is that they say those things to chip away at you. When you just bluntly absorb the passive-aggressive comment, they are the ones who look like imbeciles. Also because at each instance the person saying it wasn't even more attractive than me, making t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 6 | I’ve been trying to be friends with this girl, but she is a horrendous pick me and bootlickerI hear all the time that feminists are oppressing men, and I always ask: who, what, and where? Name me a feminist politician or lawmaker whom has spoken of, or actually put into place, laws that would limit men's autonomy, bodily rights and dignity? They can never name me a single one because it's just not happening. Meanwhile, I can list off so many examples of politicians, media loudmouths and religious figureheads who are constantly talking about women as if we're just resources to be passed … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | I went down a rabbit hole and.... 🤢This woman needs to get off social media and get back to her wifely duties in the kitchen! Every second she spends tweeting is precious time she could have spent influencing her husband not to be a sack of shit. Boy, I sure wish that I could throw away my autonomy for the 'honour' of influencing a man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Are we surprised they’re trying to normalize pedophilia?Did Netflix ban 365 dni yet A.K.A human trafficking wattpad novel movie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone just find girls more interesting in every way?I waited a very long time before I discovered a man worthy of my attention. For the most part, men don't have the emotional depth to interest me, I vastly prefer the company of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Reasons to vet before sex with a man 🤢🤢🤢If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times, I'm glad I'm not a man. Even with all the horrors they put us through, that's nothing compared to what they do to themselves. Their whole identity, purpose and source of joy is sex, sex, sex, and only sex. No love, no intimacy, no dignity, no point. What a sickening existence. And if men question it, other men swoop in to police it and call them simps, cucks and all the rest of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Tea and ConsentMen know all about consent and withdrawing consent, just try to shove a finger up their ass while you're having sex. It's more that they don't give a shit when it comes to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | I was only trying to help 😭In today's world, female empowerment is hate - actually, scratch that, female empowerment has ALWAYS been considered threatening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Husband makes 975K a year and she wants to be a stay at home mother. Should she?Draw up a contract which would require him to compensate this woman for the labor she is performing on behalf of the family - pregnancy, childbirth, taking care of the children and household. I'm a firm believer that work needs to be compensated, motherhood is one of the most important, if not the most important, jobs in the world. If the state won't pay then husbands should step in, in good faith, to provide for their wives during and after marriage for that labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Why are men so 🤮......stay safe ladiesRather than saying women should cover up to protect themselves from men who can't control their urges, I think it would be best for everyone in men just stayed in their homes and let women handle everything, hahah. For example, men say that women talk too much. Then that must mean women are the natural fit for being politicians and in business, since its all about the gift of gab. And since men can't be trusted not to rape and murder, I think they would be happier themselves staying in the home … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Scrote gets what he deservesThis is something I've said time and time again. Women having children, rearing children and even giving up their jobs to take care of the family, is an astronomical amount of labor and sacrifice that is so important. This all should be compensated. (In my opinion, the state should wade in but not to get political...) Any HVM would recognise the sacrifice his woman is making just in getting pregnant and be happy to give her a share of his wealth, especially since its going to benefit the childre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:42 AM |
| 15 | LMAAAOO another queen out there driving away her scrote. We support you sis. If a man is uncomfortable with this sub, he's NOT A HVM.My fiance knows I'm on FDS and even reads some of the posts here with me. He's even using the lingo now, the other day he described some character on TV as doing some 'real LVM scrote shit'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:29 AM |
| 13 | Another serious in r/ComMuNiCaTe. This woman rightly wants a divorce from her husbands selfish behavior, and everyone’s telling her he might have PPD from the pregnancy. They’re encouraging her to go to therapy.A baby is "that thing that makes my girl sick/screams in the night...". Uh, no, a baby is 'that thing' that this scrote caused in the first place. If men don't want the responsibility then they should take some of the burdens of birth control or get a fucking vasectomy. And of course, all the apologists - it's different for men, it's hard for men in ways XYZ, haha. I am totally childfree but I sometimes think that if I had been a man I'd be less emphatic about it. Reason being, child-rearing is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:28 PM |
| 17 | Queen shit 👸This depressing narrative, that women 'expire', is present in many cultures and is a big scam. It serves the purposes of lowering women's self-esteem, derailing her youth away from career and education, all so that men have a better chance of getting with them. Almost all of the patriarchy in some way exists to mitigate a woman's power and value, because otherwise so many men would have no chance. It's interesting to me that rather than take it as an opportunity to level up, men are lazy and mac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | It’s been over a month & this conversation still makes me want to vomitI despise how he goes, 'lol massively' when told there is , indeed, a massive difference between a 24 year old and a 32 year old. That tells me that either a) he's delusional and thinks there really is no difference (so he hasn't developed at all since he was 24) or b) he knows there is a big difference but he has to gaslight women in order to keep his fragile ego intact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s been over a month & this conversation still makes me want to vomitIn the not too distant future they'll have to have a trigger warning over the age field inside the profile set-up so these scrotes don't have nervous breakdowns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 8 | LVM PUA tactic: 'Dreadgame'. Make your wife/gf feel so insecure, unvalued and jealous 'so she will start giving bj's and sex, not to lose you'. What a bunch of 🤡 clownery🤪🤣I LOVE the 48 laws of power, especially rule #10. That's my M.O for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:59 AM |
| 84 | Pathetic males'wife bad! hur durr hurr!' - Some boomer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | High value woman can’t find a HVM.Hey, Sis! In regards to HVM, it often feels that there aren't that many around compared to HVW. In some ways, this can be due to the male reaction to rejection vs the female reaction. Us ladies look inward to try and understand the cause of the rejection. Men take it as a challenge and lash out. So men don't level up at the same rate as women. But although they don't level up as much, they are still around. My advice is to ditch online dating (HVM are rarely active there). Join clubs, meetups, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:04 AM |
| 8 | Male anger towards FDSJordan Peterson appears to be very articulate and he's very intelligent. However, his views are most definitely not aligned with FDS. When I first heard about him, it was in the context of him telling young guys to clean their act up. Sounds great, right? But when you delve into his philosophy, you find that his thoughts on the female experience are utter bullshit. He has spoken before about 'socially enforced monogamy', wherein people (read: women) would be encouraged to get married and being s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:04 AM |
| 7 | Oh sweetie, I sincerely hope they pick you ✨According to every study I have ever read, men are more likely to cheat than women. The stats vary per study but in general it's about 30% likelihood for women and 50% for men. The stats don't often take into account the frequency of cheating (someone cheats in one relationship, gets into another one and cheats there too). My gut instinct would be that if someone cheats once they have an elevated risk to cheat again, so perhaps the baseline is something like 20% of men cheat versus 10% of women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:24 AM |
| 26 | What is your opinion on this?Some of these so-called masculine qualities are just negative qualities in general. Excessive swearing. Being an irritating SJW. Physical and verbal aggression. Not taking care of your appearance. Acting bitter and hostile. These things are unattractive if women do it but I guess it's a-ok if a man does it? Also, enough with all that, 'men are visual' and 'women shouldn't show their accomplishments' nonsense. This association with femininity = submission and masculinity = leadership is so inane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 08:17 AM |
| 27 | Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"?In conservative/traditional thinking, women are private property. Today, liberal ideas go the opposite way and say women are public property. In both cases, women are still property and are fed huge amounts of propaganda to accept this as their due. Add to the fact that there is a lot of evidence that Human beings in general have a fragile ability to think critically (if you were raised to accept things without question as a kid, this trend is likely to continue into adulthood). I would respond … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Getchu a man who screenshots your convos and makes fun of you to gain fake popularity points from strangers! LVM mocks “gf” who definitely exists 🙄Weird that men think they have the better sense of humor, this is about as funny as a heart attack, and so inconsequential I can't believe anyone would bother taking a screenshot and uploading it anywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:21 AM |
| 7 | I bet he’s fun at partiesHow come women are the ones who are a liability to the family unit when men are the ones committing the vast majority/most severe domestic violence cases? I guess the women just 'make' the men become violent, even though women don't respond with violence even when men are battering them day in and day out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Pickme coworker falls over backwards because her LVM bf uses her hard work to propose to herYeah, and when he wants to make her a nice homecooked meal, it will be the warmed up leftovers from the dinner she cooked last night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:14 AM |
| 49 | Too bad Meg is a Pick MeMeg seems pretty HVW to me. Her boyfriend was an LVM, but she was unaware of that until he ran off and left her in debt to Hades. One of the biggest LVW in Disney is actually Tiana from Princess and the Frog, hear me out. She knows that Prince Naveen (major LVM) is only marrying Charlotte for that girl's money. But she doesn't give him a hard time about it and seems perfectly fine for this scrote to scam her apparent friend into a joyless marriage of convenience. I would even say that Tiana is a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Divorced queens with kids who found love again: please share your story. I need inspiration, hope, and strength to follow through on my divorce.My parents divorced when I was five and I vividly remember my mother being hugely depressed during the period they were married. She and my dad fought like cats and dogs. Even as a kid,it was a relief to me when they split up. After the divorce, she became clear-headed again and a proper parent. She also improved her career and had a healthy dating life. She's currently in a relationship with a very good man who also had a child from a previous marriage. Just like in a disaster situation, you ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 3 | More Pickmeishas normalising abuse and male depravity to appeal to boys on TikTok. What self respecting woman thinks like this?Couldn't imagine wanting to choke, slap, humiliate or otherwise abuse even a stranger, let alone someone I love. If someone wanted to do that to me, I'd run the hell the other way, no thanks bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:03 AM |
| 2 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟He needs to bite into a sandwich, damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:37 AM |
| 104 | To redditor orangesandbears about your chat question: "Do you think men have to always be the providers in a relationship"Being a woman is more expensive than being a man. And, women are the ones who are taking all the risks when dating. They have an increased chance of catching STDs, will bear the brunt of consequences of an unwanted pregnancy, not to mention that women always have to fear male violence. Just by showing up to a date, a woman has made a huge investment. So a HVM needs to put something on the table in acknowledgement of that. Paying for dates is a pretty good indication that a man understands what h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 32 | I Guess the r/TheRedPill Dorks' Plan to Rebrand Themselves as "Men's Self Help" rather than Misogynist, Emotionally Abusive Rapists isn't going well. Notice how you have NEVER seen something this manipulative on r/FemaleDatingStrategy despite all the claims we're "the same"."Because I stopped caring about her pleasure, she came like 5 times bro!" Haha, no, that didn't happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Single Mothers are NOT responsible for shitty male behavior & low performance. If that were the case, every society that has high rates of marriage & low rates of divorce would be a pillar of stability, prosperity & peace, which they aren’t.LVMs complaining about divorce is quite ironic given that so many of them balk at commitment and aren't in any position to get married in the first place. A bit like complaining about the weather in a foreign country when you haven't been there and are never gonna go there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:19 AM |
| 20 | Long rant but feeling really depressed today. I can’t help but think that I will never meet the person I’m meant to end up with while watching it happen to everyone around me. I’m 29 btw.I hear your frustration and I get where you're coming from, Sis, let me give you my perspective on things. I work in UX design and one of the ways that we get projects done is by working 'Agile'. This may seem like a weird thing to bring up about relationships and life but hear me out. Agile development is all about taking small steps towards a larger goal. Clients often come in with 100k in cash and a big dream - to build the next Facebook or whatever. This is a big goal, and if we rush into it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:59 AM |
| 2 | A pickmeisha in her natural habitat. This just ain’t it...Classic, I bet she is the type to also have few to no female friends and say shit like, "I get along with guys more than girls...less drama". Anytime a woman says that alarm bells go off in my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:20 AM |
| 12 | Can we get a thread of body-shaming things LVM have said to us?"There are so many beautiful and amazing girls, but I know they wouldn't want me. I've decided to get more realistic with my standards, which is why I think you and I would make a great couple." - Said to me out of the blue by a guy who I had mistakenly thought was my friend, and then out of nowhere let me know he "wanted" me via the line above. Obviously, I cut off contact with him immediately after he said this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:18 AM |
| 6 | People really be cheating like this? I’m shook?My thoughts on women who purposefully cheat with married men is that it's not about the man per se, a lot of these women get off on feeling that they are more desirable than the man's wife. Being able to seduce a man who ostensibly is taken I imagine is quite a thrill for someone who doesn't feel much solidarity for other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:11 AM |
| 3 | The last two sentences... I wish I could unreadI've decided to build an FTL-capable starship so I can found an all-female colony on a distant near-earth planet. Cheerio ladies, please keep a lookout in the near future for your invitations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 07:09 AM |
| 3 | They placed a giggle button on the space between the legs of a doll designed for girls under the age of four. They will stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia. This is not ok.Ah, okay, that makes sense, it was something that was originally designed to be more inclusive for the benefit of law enforcement + victims, and because it has less negative connotations it's been co-opted. real insidious of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 17 | solo date ideasI watch trashy, so-bad-they're-good movies in my pyjamas on rainy Friday/Saturday nights. Right now I'm watching Leprechaun 5: In The Hood (yup) with fries, truffle aioli and other goodies, hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:21 PM |
| 53 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryI'd like to ask the Pickmeisha if she reckons men have a similar reaction when they hear their male friends say 'women are crazy bitches', 'this chick at my office has the biggest titties' and other nasty stuff. I'd be willing to bet money that they don't, so why doesn't so go after them instead of other women who are admittedly just venting in private? When women hate men they just verbalise it and detach, when men hate women they beat, rape and kill them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:42 AM |
| 19 | Epstein & Trump defender Alan Dershowitz says “Statutory rape is an outdated concept” 🤢so disgustingThe idea of changing the punishments based on the ages of the perp + victim has some merit. For example, the 18 year old guy who has sex with his 15 year old girlfriend should get a couple of years, a fine and be put on a watchlist or something. An old scrote like this guy and the pedos he is defending, who so much as looks at a teenager, should be sent immediately to the guillotine. It's funny that teenage girls can be 'mature' enough to consent when it comes to gratifying men's sexual interest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:36 AM |
| 20 | They placed a giggle button on the space between the legs of a doll designed for girls under the age of four. They will stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia. This is not ok.Certain SJWs are saying that the word pedophile is 'offensive' and 'bigoted'. These days, they prefer MAPS - minor attracted person. I say, I really don't give a fuck what a scumbag pedophile thinks or feels, because I care about the wellbeing of children. I would not be surprised if in a decade or so my opinions today are viewed as totally unacceptable and bigoted. I don't think this is a slippery slope idea given that in some circles the word 'woman' is now considered hate-speech...But I digre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:33 AM |
| 9 | She asks them to hold each other responsible. They retaliate with garbage comments as expected, thread gets locked.I have partial Niuean ancestry via my Grandma, and have spent a lot of time on the Pacific Islands growing up. Niue island, for the record, doesn't really have a jail. If you're making a ruckus, you'll end up in the police station and get a stern talking to, but that's the extent of it because there's no crime. It's a combination of being very Christian (for good or for ill), having little to no inequalities (everyone is basically in the same boat), and a tiny population (community bonds are str… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:29 AM |
| 6 | Your boundaries should be nonnegotiableIn a similar vein, I think I developed my views on relationships, feminism and self-improvement from watching my dad. He was emotionally absent all the time, because he was too busy chasing women - these women were LVWs, no question (my dad unfortunately is LVM, the needy, clingy, weak variety). One of them even used to beat the crap out of her kids and my dad did nothing about it, for example. Anyway long story short, my dad eventually decided parenting was interfering with his ongoing quest fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:19 AM |
| 48 | Still no mention of leaving him?Porn is addictive and literally can re-wire people's brains. If you're going to watch porn, you might as well watch snuff films, snort cocaine and eat McDonalds for breakfast, lunch or dinner, go ahead and destroy your body and mind. This guy has a woman who cares about him and would make love to him in the context of a loving relationship, and he's throwing it away for a picture on his phone. Dumb, dumb, dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 47 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restMen always say they're the logical ones, but they're also the ones committing all the crimes, starting all the wars and committing all of the suicides. Based on the logical facts (men love those), seems to me that men are clearly the more irrational of the sexes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:15 PM |
| 25 | Trend on tiktok: 'Call "feminist" urgency numbers and ask for the man in charge'. In a pandemic where abuse skyrocketed.🦆ing LVM/NVM have NO LIFE AT ALL.I used to volunteer for a suicide prevention hotline. There was a guy who would repeatedly call up asking about our shoes/shoe sizes, and another bloke who always wanted to talk about crossdressing or stealing his mother's lipstick. Hmm. In this case, they're not at risk for getting pummeled in the house, so messing around with domestic violence support services is a joke to them. They don't have the empathy to grasp anyone else's experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:46 AM |
| 102 | “I don’t have a child”I hate deadbeat dads, so many men are borderline deadbeats without even realising it, too. They think because they give their kid a phone call once a fortnight and occasionally buy a video game or something that they're a parent. Give me a break! Good on you for blocking this scumbag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:39 AM |
| 5 | To the male lurkers who think FDS is about 'gold-digging'As the poster below said, the handbook is super valuable but I'm happy to give you my thoughts on it and how I used strategies aligning with FDS to get the relationship I wanted. How to locate an HVM is going to depend on the kind of HVM you want and value. All HVMs should be respectful, honest and have life goals, but their personality and interests obviously vary. You should select a HVM who can match you, but don't go out of your way to pursue. HVM are attracted to HVW and know about it right… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 10 | What irks me the most is the intro. Poor woman had been so brainwashed, but she's not one of "those" wives. She lets him watch "regular porn"How weird is it that as a society we now think it's totally normal to A) watch other people having hardcore/degrading sex as a masturbatory aid and B) continue this voyeuristic practice even within the confines of a so-called 'monogamous' relationship? Especially given that c) we now have lots of scientific literature proving that porn use is associated with sexual dysfunction, misogynistic attitudes and is heavily correlated with sex trafficking, child grooming and rape? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Finding fds ladies in real life, being seen as extreme for people around meI too have been called 'radical' or more politely 'passionate'. I think I'm not radical, I'm totally rational. The people around me are apathetic, naive or just plain lacking in critical thinking. I have found it's not men who call me radical. It's women, pickmeisha-types, who are upset because the simple, self-evident truths I bring up would shatter thier delusion. For instance, there was some conversation a few months ago where the topic turned to marriage. I gave my view on it, and also said … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:14 AM |
| 5 | I think it's time to get psychological help buddy!Guys who do this are 100% cowards (incels are socially-inept walking abortions). It's scary, but I recommend instead of trying to lose a man like this in a crowd, turn around, yell, make a scene. He'll scurry off like a little bitch. I've seen men harassing women in public before and I make a point to create a big ruckus about it. These guys turn tail and run, because they are getting their kicks out of women's fear - that's how sick they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:09 AM |
| 79 | Why do men expect women to take equal responsibility for violence, pedophilia, and rape despite glaring statistics showing otherwise? I'm so sick of ITs NOt aLL mEN. The overwhelming majority committing these crimes are men. Are they just delusional???There has been an idea floating around for the last 20 -30 years that men and women are basically the same. I was a 90s kid and as a kid and a young teen in 2000s that aside from some physical differences, there wasn't much difference. Then I woke up and realised, hang on, men and women actually aren't socialised the same. Men are clearly the ones committing most of the crimes, and women are the ones who often have to bear the consequences for their deviance. Of course there are lots of good men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 12 | Yes, relationships REQUIRE effort...Not a romance fan (most of them have some BS where a woman NEEDS to get a man to be happy - for example, a high-powered female CEO who is so empty inside because she doesn't have a husband and a baby, foh). However, relationships are work. Why tf would this LVM think that you don't have to do anything to get a woman to be with you? Women are constantly working on themselves to attract HVM. Why should those women, who have already made investments long before meeting a given man, settle for a laz… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 109 | I hope she gets picked, I really do.I'm glad I wasn't born a man. Imagine being so controlled by your sexual urges that you'll just pick up strangers you're not even attracted to, just for the sake of getting off. And then, imagine not having the empathy to have an emotional response to the person you just shared the most intimate act possible with. Imagine not even feeling ashamed to make someone else cry. I seriously couldn't fathom living such a hollow, meaningless existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 6 | GOT MAILED A DEGREE I DIDN’T KNOW I EARNEDYou should feel good about yourself, education is priceless. Congratulations sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 70 | She has sex every single day with her husband for 10 years. He still cheated.lol The funniest thing about this is her insistence that her life is 'bananas' when she has a live-in maid, no actual job and is in denial about the husband's cheating because having his $$$ around is convenient. And she even says herself that she's thought of cheating! Gawd-dayum! I don't know if this is real or not but I've met women like this and their life is just sad. They have no real purpose or calling and are at the mercy of the man because they've allowed themselves to become totally de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:09 PM |
| 8 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Most of the people in my office are in their 20s, myself included. I'm amazed by the number of young guys who are going bald. Gawd-dayum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:53 PM |
| 6 | I broke up with my forever boyfriendIt sounds like he ruined his chances with an amazing woman, good for you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:25 AM |
| 6 | Advice needed: Setting boundaries on an engagement/marriage timeline.My policy was to get married a year after dating. When I met my fiance I told him a month or so into dating that in 12 months I was going to ask him to marry me, and if he said yes, fantastic, but if he said no, I'd be gone (I proposed to him, personally I wanted to go after the things I wanted). He was totally fine with it and actually said to me that he already thought of me as his wife/fiance 6months in, I put it on the table early on and it was something we spoke about openly. 3 years of dat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:26 AM |
| 8 | Watch out for sexists in disguise.Why wouldn't men be 'progressive' these days? After all, society is now saying that porn is great and empowering for all, prostitution is a job like any other and cohabitating for years on end with your bangmaid, no marriage in sight, is a perfectly natural arrangement. 'Progressive', 'liberal' ideas actually don't benefit women at all, but they do benefit men. Now they can be completely sexually depraved with no social boundaries, and call themselves feminists. Tbh, when a man calls himself a f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Close-minded Longterm BoyfriendDo you want to be in this position same time next year? If not, get the hell out. The guy isn't interested in getting better and is becoming a sad, tired old fuck. If you stay with him, you'll get infected by his mediocrity so I strongly advise you to get your ducks in a row so that as soon as you have the opportunity you can leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:06 AM |
| 43 | "But men are biologically driven to want multiple partners." Nope. In societies where women are scarce, men want commitment.Not to mention that these bachelors are so desperate for women that a lot of them are implicated in sex-traffiking brides from neighbouring countries like Vietnam, so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:25 AM |
| 36 | "But men are biologically driven to want multiple partners." Nope. In societies where women are scarce, men want commitment.I think you have it wrong mate - I'm a Kiwi and there is not 3 men for every woman. Women outnumber men here by about 78,000. We often say we have a 'man drought' here because it's hard for women to find a man, particularly because we also have an education discrepency. NZ women are much more likely to have a degree and a good career as compared to men, and of course good women aren't likely to trade down, so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Biggest Pickmeishas in TV historyOh, man where to start. Okay, so MJ is introduced in the comics after Pete starts dating Gwen Stacy, one of the big loves of his life. She's set up as a flighty party girl who doesn't take anything seriously. When Gwen Stacy dies, MJ proves to be a very good friend who helps Pete emotionally recover. She also knows that he is Spidey and is able to become an unexpected confidante. Over time she reveals more of her history - she had an abusive father who beat her mother and sister, and she refuses… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:12 AM |
| 14 | American dating style?Disclaimer: only had one man, engaged to said man. So I can admit I'm not a dating expert. I focused on self-improvement and through hobbies and work was able to find male friendship and then love via that trusty pathway. However, I do tend to agree that dating multiple people at once seems like a real chore, effort could be spent elsewhere. I'm a private person so if I ever had to date I would probably just become celibate tbh lol. I read an article once (from a reputable science magazine, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you apply the FDS mindset to friendships?I've mentioned this on another post, but although some think the writer is a sociopath, I find the book '48 Laws of Power' to be very useful. Especially Law 10 which is 'don't associate with the unfortunate or the unlucky'. Narcissists are definitely in this category of people, as are manipulate 'drama llamas' and others of this nature. The point is that these people divert your energy away from self-improvement and healthy relationships, and I do believe that if you hang round with people who a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:52 AM |
| 14 | Biggest Pickmeishas in TV historyFrankly speaking, any wife or girlfriend character from those godawful sitcoms - Everybody Loves Raymond, The Big Bang Theory (I hate Sheldon Cooper with a passion - I hate all the misogynistic nerds on that dumpster fire of a show, I refuse to watch more than 2 minutes of it) etc etc. All the female characters live miserable lives, attached to insufferable LVMs. This isn't from a TV show, but broadening it up to your standard LVWs across media in general, I have to say MJ from the Sam Raimi Spi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:47 AM |
| 5 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.I really agree with you here. I'm not sure what is going on in these women's heads when they do this, but although it's tempting to just dismiss them as dummies who don't know their worth or golddiggers out for a buck, I don't think it's helpful for women as a whole. After all, given how much of male depravity can be normalised by culture (for example, see the prostitution stats in countries where it is legal vs illegal - compare Thailand to Australia for example for stats on % of men who purcha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 6 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupI also am a European and have lived all around Asia. The LVM presence in certain South-East Asian countries is an epidemic. These men are from UK, Australia, USA. I was disgusted by the amount of ugly old men I saw in Bangkok who were with the poor bar girls. Ultimately, they are there because they have no chance in their own country and have to capitalise on the inequity elsewhere so they can play pretend with a prostitute - well, let's call it what it is, they are looking for sex slaves for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | I don’t believe this man has ever had sex"Respect the drip!" Goddamn, this guy is so embarrassing. This is the weird thing about these misogynists, they don't like or respect women, so you'd think they'd go and try and segregate themselves away from women. But no, their whole identity revolves around women and they are pathologically obsessed with pussy. So, let me get it straight, women are inferior yet only by having sex with them can you become 'alpha'? What a load of shit. These men live truly meaningless lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:39 AM |
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