The bar is in hell.

Shinygoldendragonfly · 2021-01-06T13:24:22+00:00

If consensual non-consent role-play is all fine and dandy. Then why is him not agreeing to play along heart-warming to libfems 🤔 and his character oh so loving. Contradictory much?!?

azureangel35 · 2021-01-06T11:52:13+00:00

my partner doesn't want to hurt me during sex OMG where did you find that king?!!!! Jesus Christ. The bar is gone.

vitryolic · 2021-01-06T15:14:51+00:00

“We tried rape to liven up our marriage” 🤮

“My husband is the best guy because he didn’t want to rape me” 🤡

Porn-sickness and the Patriarchy runs so deep 🚩

plummyjellyfish · 2021-01-06T11:36:00+00:00

"He's absolutely the greatest and most loving man I've ever met - he's never raped me, not even once!"

Liberal feminist: "OMG I'm literally crying with awe, where did you find him??!!"

What the fuck...

_xyoungbellax_ · 2021-01-06T12:49:44+00:00

Man - Uh so I'm misogynistic as hell but I don't rape fEmAlEs

Libfem - Wait, what did you say? You don't rape?

Man - Uh yeah I only watch violent porn

Libfem - Oh my God, guys we found a king 😍

oi_oi_oink · 2021-01-06T14:08:00+00:00

Consensual non-consent?? TF does that even mean?? I'll just go do my job non-job and think non-think about it.

On a serious note, why don't they do something that doesn't require the woman to not struggle, cry and feel violated? I had a friend who did it because her boyfriend asked her to and she was curious. Apparently, he got too "carried away" and she started crying hysterically.

DallasM19 · 2021-01-06T13:56:30+00:00

So he's an amazing partner because he stopped "non consenting consenting" sex? You can't consent prior to. This kink is just rape. Effed up that she thinks he's a prince for simply not raping and violating her.

negadecadent · 2021-01-06T14:42:16+00:00

Am I the only one perplexed by this being "light role-play"? Is this now the new normal, are we suddenly expected to perform these things in bed just because everyone is doing it and look how cool they are? I would consider rape roleplay like an extreme, how is this something people is "dabbing" into just like nothing? I would hate to put my partner in that position, not to mention how terrifying it could easily get for women.

Platipus6 · 2021-01-06T11:49:34+00:00

to be fair, a man going soft when you say no deserves a medal lately.

puddinh · 2021-01-06T14:54:56+00:00

I don 't understand how even the kink crowd can praise this and see it for what it is - this man doesn't want to rape/hurt you because he cares about you - but refuse to see the flipside - if a man enjoys raping/hurting you its because he doesn't care about you.

misszazie · 2021-01-06T14:18:08+00:00

We usually point out all the flaws men have, but here it was her idea, and it broke him.

Like I'm really mad at her. Did she think someone who loved her could pretend to rape her? If he's the empathetic sort, then that wasn't just, stop this feels weird. But actually thinking what rape would be like for a woman and that can be permanently scarring.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-01-06T14:51:52+00:00

“Everyone, let’s have a round of applause for the males who abide by the law and don’t rape or brutalize women!” 😒

GoddessIxtab · 2021-01-06T11:44:29+00:00

This is some weird flexing on her part.

"He never hurt me" - what a hero..

temproaryusername · 2021-01-06T15:01:14+00:00

Living for these comments.

My question is, if they are so eQuaL and this "consensual non-consent" is so nOrmAL, why isn't it ever the man being raped? Tie him up, gag him, whip him until he bleeds, then shove a huge dildo up his ass sans lube.

I think we all know the answer. (:

Adventurous_Rise_307 · 2021-01-06T11:58:29+00:00

He’s a good man bc rape doesn’t get him off. Got it.

NiBBasBeCrazy · 2021-01-06T13:57:46+00:00

Good god...and I thought it was heartwarming the first millisecond I glanced over the text...

I wish we weren’t negged into such shitty expectations.

howdoilogoutt · 2021-01-06T14:44:48+00:00

It's so sad she even wanted to try this out. 'No' should never be a spur on to keep going jesus.

TheFreckledGoddess · 2021-01-06T18:39:02+00:00

Sorry but WTF is wholesome BDSM?? Do these people even know what they're saying?

TexiMcCrae · 2021-01-06T22:45:29+00:00

I replied that rape should not be taken lightly and it isn’t a fucking game in bed and got downvoted into oblivion. 👍🏻 Great job, PickMes. You made rape attractive and sex work eMpoWeRInG. The bar really is in hell.

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Merryprankstress · 2021-01-06T18:13:16+00:00

That post got so many fucking upvotes it genuinely made me depressed for a few minutes.

straighthairgreece · 2021-01-06T22:42:39+00:00

What a relief your husband doesn't want to rape you! 🙄

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2021-01-06T18:21:32+00:00

Haha. Your title summarizes it.

Delicious_Comfort000 · 2021-01-07T05:42:36+00:00

“Consensual non-consent” what kind of sick, perverted, porn addicted mind came up with this gaslighting shit?

ijustwannabefree- · 2021-01-06T18:07:32+00:00

*alert* THERE'S NO BAR!

Title	The bar is in hell.
Author	Thesadfatcat
Upvotes	229
Comments	48
Date	January 6, 2021 11:14 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/krlwa2/the_bar_is_in_hell/
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