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Suspicious-Leg-1407/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:46 PM
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You choose what defines you. But thank you for this post. It reminds me that if a sub annoys me more than it helps me, then I need to block the sub.if this sub is gonna go downhill, I'd rather not be a part of it. I wish there were an FDS for actual adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:06 PM
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Can you do a podcast on the wall?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:55 PM
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Well lets rename the sub to r / rehashasubsotoxicthatredditbannedit5yearsago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:44 PM
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It's super annoying to read 10 posts in a row about the redpill. Every time it gets posted, it gets legitimized. The only people who believe in TRP are low value losers who you shouldn't associate with. Why do you care if some jackass believes in the wall? That's a problem for a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:40 PM
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Why is this sub so obsessed with defining ourselves by a crude manipulation strategy invented by 12 year old idiots. Can we go 5 minutes without talking about Redpill or the Wall that no one actually believes in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:35 PM
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Girl it took me 2 years to get "in shape" and I have to work out 5x a week to maintain it. It's WORK. I applaud you for doing the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:33 PM
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Oof. That's rough but true. Life is work and a lot of times, that work is not more fun than addictuons to videogames, porn, and weed (VPW). I honestly applaud guys who GTOW, and opt out of relationships for VPW addiction. At least they aren't hurting anyone but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:32 PM
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I love watching makeup tutorials. I loooove softmaxxing BUT it is honestly not realistic for everyday looks to spend an hour putting 15 products on your face. Proper contouring with setting powder takes about 6 products and 30 minutes at least. That's without the full on lip contouring and tri-color eye shading, the brow grooming and setting and the winged eyeliner applied with overline tape. It is honestly ridiculous and I blame Rupaul's dragrace for it. Young girls are walking around with a dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:24 PM
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Ditto. You don't realize until it's too late that a lot of what drives having a good life is simply not accepting having a bad one. Toughing it out and scrapping it is a romantic and delusional Cinderella story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:59 PM
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Oh and can you pick me up? My car is the shop and my wallet got stolen again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:56 PM
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Nedra wants you to teach LV people how to be HV. I find that exhausting. I am so sick of being a mommy to everyone that I just won't do it. If you don't have your shit together, I don't want to know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:54 PM
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She's so far gone. Ladies, don't let LV people ruin your whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:51 PM
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Disgusting. Sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:59 PM
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Heh. I grew up in a place where guys are socially trained to hold the door open. So you get used to stepping aside to let them. When I moved away, I would just step aside at doors and people would queue behind me wondering what was going on. Everyone was confused, including myself. I still hold doors open, especially for moms with strollers. Old people too. I mean, honestly, if your biggest problem in life is you're put out by holding a door open, life is gonna be a real trial for ya.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:53 PM
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Eww. She said that to you????? Yuck yuck yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:49 PM
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Can we do a tech industry video of this? I literally got told that women should be in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, while I was teaching a man from my culture how do his job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:47 PM
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Yup... drama and low value go hand-in-hand. People who have nothing good to do just generate drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:27 AM
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Have you seen the ACE test, and regarding trauma? It basically says that childhood abuse is a predictor of obesity. Oprah's newest book goes into this as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:24 AM
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I can't say enough... don't use ring. It's a privacy nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:21 AM
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FDS is about getting rid of all the crap, not just shitty dates and abusive partners. You don't need to be a woman to level up (anyone can and should), you don't need to be a woman to raise your standards, and you can apply FDS to all relationships, including familial and friendship. Don't accept trash in the form of "friends" or "family" either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:20 AM
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"When all the websites that sell 17 year olds go down and I'm forced to buy child rape experiences on my own, how I can introduce plausible deniability to protect myself?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:27 PM
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Ew. Yup hentai is a huge problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:31 PM
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🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:13 PM
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Lol... funny low logic works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:14 PM
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He doesn't want a dependa but he wants to be one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:13 PM
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It's a terrorist group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:33 PM
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Yup. HVM were raised to be HVM. They don't just wake up and decide to by HV on their 35th birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:49 PM
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This comment should be pinned to the front page of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:46 PM
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But most women are taught that huge part of their value comes from someone else finding them fuckable. That sub is a reflection of how girls are raised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:43 PM
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Yup, anyone can level up. You don't have to be a dependa or pickme for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:42 PM
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Wait till the child fetish sets in en masse and guys start pressuring grown women to look like the children they masturbate to in their masturbation fodder videos It's only a matter of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:41 PM
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Can anyone else top post this? https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/the-rage-of-the-incels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:38 PM
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Addiction... video game- and porn- addictions are rotting their minds. Both will change the reward structures in their minds. These guys literally cannot do anything that doesn't immediately result in a dopamine or oxy hit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:36 PM
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FDS is spreading like 🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:33 PM
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Throw that whole man in the trash. Too poor to afford a real prostitute, so he's begging for free sex. Don't ever speak to him again, please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:28 PM
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Just got cat called in front of my own damn house. Oh yeah it's super hot when you lean out your tricked out pickup's window in your shitty beat up tshirt and scream "heeeeyyyy ladddyyy!" How about you put on some adult clothes and get an adult's car and get an adult's vocabulary and have a grownup's conversation with grownup's conversational manners instead, buddy? It's just such a low value situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:04 PM
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It's 13 in some countries... imagine that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:23 AM
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Have you ever read about CPTSD? Imho, growing up with low-value parents may leave you with cptsd. Consider diving into learning about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:22 AM
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Start an FDS meetup. :) Take the movement to a new level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:18 AM
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Ew. That's so desperate. Why did he even begin to think that was acceptable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:16 AM
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Bars should just give people drink covers... or sippy cups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:14 AM
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Respects himself... Ftfy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:44 PM
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He seems like a good father too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:59 PM
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Thank you for telling her. That's a perfect example of guys will lie directly to your face, early and often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:11 PM
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I had a friend whose baby daddy asked her to wait till his quest (video game) was over to take her to the hospital when she was in labor. She had to call her father to drive her. Her and her husband were in their 30s at the time. No, they are not married anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:36 PM
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Oof. We have one of these super stinkers at my gym. You can smell him a mile away. Our gym owner had to have a conversation with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:16 PM
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Wow. I really hope guys decide to save guys. At this point, they have a growing culture of complete destruction... moral, physical, mental... I hope they rise up and take their lives back. In the meantime, as women, we just have to protect ourselves and move on. Porn sickness is not a problem a spouse can solve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:01 PM
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I hope she divorced him. His behavior is pathetic and looserly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:56 PM
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100% this. He gets sexually aroused by pain and humiliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:54 PM
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Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:30 PM
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I know multple women who have had to throw their pornsick retirees in the trash. It's sad really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:57 AM
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Seems like a thing... retires, gets addicted to porn, dies alone with his dick in his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:35 AM
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Was he retired?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:23 AM
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"I call your dad "daddy", too, baby". That outta shut him up for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:20 AM
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I am glad some get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:44 AM
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"And women don't like men who are losers, so what exactly is your point?" Then block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:38 AM
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Porn... old, retired, nothing better to do. They just sit around masturbating to child rape images. Porn sickness is the real pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:35 AM
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Sorry you went thru that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:30 AM
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They sound radicalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:27 AM
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Stolen from her family, forced to convert to Christianity, raped by an old white pedo... and then scrubbed by Disney to make her palatable to an audience that never wants to talk about genocide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:51 PM
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That guy is a loser. The very definition of one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:36 AM
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It's not porn... it's getting aroused from extreme violence, humiliation and degredation. There's nothing to respect about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:33 AM
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Get away from him. Lateral shift or a new job. He'll be useless as a manager reference and he will never promote you, so you need to skillmaxx that job and then dump it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:31 AM
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Block and delete pickmeishas with no self-respect. Never argue with someone who has no respect for themselves. They will just drag you down to their level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:29 AM
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Can we talk about the true story of Pocahontas too? Add race-based entitlement, and the history of the world shows us that insecure adult guys will always try to rape little girls. And other guys will just go along with it. I am sad to see how many tech magnates were Epstein associates too. You have to wonder if they were in it for the child rape AND the eugenics or just one or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:25 AM
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The pressure to partner up in your 20s is absurd all around. Your twenties are good for a few things: redefining your relationship with your parents figuring out your identity as a worker figuring out how to be a leveled-up adult saving for your downpayment Get the job, then the downpayment, and then figure out what you want next. It may or may not be a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:19 AM
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Well that looks like a red flag party. Anime interest almost always comes with a side salad of pedo porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:12 AM
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Yup. Throw that whole man in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:01 PM
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Murdering babies because they are girls. Or aborting a fetus because it's a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:39 PM
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In my lifetime, I have only met a dozen or so. It's in your best interest to prepare for the statistically likely situation of being single. And to be delighted if you happen to end up well-partnered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:11 PM
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Rape is felony, even in a committed relationship. A FELONY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:09 PM
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The thing about an LVM is that he will make you feel alone and single, even when you're partnered. Better to just be single and not have to deal with a slob if it's all the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:04 PM
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When you know better, you do better! Volunteering with Big Sisters or similar group might help. It helps me... I don't want any other woman to make the same mistakes I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:49 PM
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Yup. No argument here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 09:56 PM
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Imho, marriage has irrevocably changed. Your first "child" should be a home you own that no one can take from you. After that, consider having a kid, with or without a guy involved as a parent. If marriage is a byproduct of the house and the kid, so be it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:34 PM
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"Any objection to female feticide?" This guy's gonna get taken for a ride. Anyone that transparent can be played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:25 PM
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Add jobs, neighborhoods, communities, and cities to that list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:59 PM
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Block and delete... never try to reason with someone who never had any respect for you in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:07 PM
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You should read about the Dunkin Donuts app. Talk about stalking!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:57 PM
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She looks unhappy and uncomfortable. Vogue USA is so old-fashioned though. Vogue Japan is lightyears ahead. Edit: this shoot is in Vogue UK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:16 AM
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One in a million My HV go-to guy is Chef Jose Andres. He is a pioneer of philanthropy in his network, where most chefs are high-ego dbags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:59 PM
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We have them where I live too. Seems like Jesus is really in the business of justifying male entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:45 PM
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Good for you! You handled it the right way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:13 PM
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Yes they have the right to say it. But it has no legal bearing. He is under no legal obligation to delete it. Just keep in mind morality and legality are two separate domains. Unfortunately the laws in the US are not strong enough yet to protect us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:05 PM
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I mean, good? The world is overpopulated and underresourced. We don't need to replace every human who exists today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:40 PM
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All these guys tryna whack a clit off... how insecure can you be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:39 PM
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Gatekeeping money, power and influence. People who are (often genetically predisposed) to pursuing money, power, and influence will murder, torture, shame, dread anyone who takes away their money, power or influence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:34 PM
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God certainly won't let him into heaven if his head is exposed. Even if a man doesn't respect himself, the least he could do is respect his God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:32 PM
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While I agree that it is creepy, what he did is not illegal, sadly. Anyone has the right to photograph in the public domain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:29 PM
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HV people see value in long lasting relationships. What's better than one HV person? Two of them! Working together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:22 PM
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Congrats on moving on from that abusive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:08 PM
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This might be better for askFDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:04 PM
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So just watch home decorating shows while snuggled up with fur babies all day? Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:52 AM
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Just start meowing when they ask this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:12 AM
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I am sorry you are going through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:10 PM
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I know. But none of us here believe it. So if it needs to be discussed in a broader context, that's fine... just not here. No one here needs to be subjected to TRP crap all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:05 PM
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A proper gspot O cannot be mistaken for any other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:52 PM
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That's a lot of word to say, "I'm a volcel".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:45 PM
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Does any HV person think the "wall" is real? It gets super frustrating that y'all constantly reference the wall and other dated TRP ideas (plates, dread, carousel). Can we all get over it already? It's such negative energy. Literally every day there is a post about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:37 PM
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Gay guys do buy sex. Sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:52 PM
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Those are volcels. You either do the work to be well-partnered or you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:51 PM
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Lol. Nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:37 PM
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Negging YOU because HE made a mistake... what a man-toddler!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:00 PM
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De-crapping social media!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:12 PM
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Yup. I get it. Dealing with loneliness with real and practical tips is something we need to be better about discussing on FDS. Animals, volunteering, church, hobbies. I have tried them all but at the end of the day, I haven't been too successful. To find other FDS women who don't want to talk about LV drama and crap and gossip all day is rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:42 PM
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It's not about fatherhood. It never is. It's about palimony. They want the right to ejaculate with no consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:29 AM
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It's interesting that it's easier to find a romantic interest than it is to find a friend. Most people wouldn't be in shitty relationships if making friends were easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:24 AM
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Future You says, "Thank you for choosing me!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:38 AM
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Any guy who prioritizes his relationship with his parents over his relationship with you is LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:15 AM
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Agree. Additionally, literally anyone can buy sex on OF. If anyone chooses to go without sex, it's just a matter of financial priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:21 PM
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Lol... well, why is lying to her about it? 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:14 PM
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I like how this boy thinks that any woman cares if he finds them fuckable. So many delusional male volc*ls out there actually believe they can insult a woman if they call a woman unfuckable. Like buddy, literally no one wants you, in particular, to find them fuckable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:09 PM
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If he wanted to, he would have. Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:59 PM
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Oh good. I wish state and local police would do informational webinars on cell phone upskirting, etc. What's legal? What isn't? How do you file a claim?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:50 PM
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She should talk to Planet fitness. It is against their TOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:38 PM
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They know. They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:30 PM
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The porn effect. Telling women not to be insecure about fidelity when a guy can order a prostitute as easy as ordering a hamburger just doesn't work. He knows he can order a prostitute easily, so that's why this is an accessible fantasy. She knows he can too. That's why she's insecure about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:29 PM
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Paeddit makes a shitton of money off those ads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:27 AM
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It's the same as DraftKings for guys. Only a handful of guys ever get rich on the get- rich- quick scheme. If it seems to good to be true, it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:26 AM
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What is he looking for? Free prostitution?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:29 PM
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186 dollars per month is the average
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:28 PM
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Nice. This is a good list for HVW too... most of us need to know all of these things to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:17 PM
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Agree... "Properly managed relationships with friends and family" feels like an option for the 30+ crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:57 PM
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I'd add personal relationships to the mix... if his family is ass, then your holidays will be ass too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:22 PM
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You don't need a man to have a baby! You just need sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:09 PM
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He sounds terrible. Unfortunately, terrible parenting, particularly fathering, is a global epidemic. Sorry you had to go through that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:02 PM
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Good. He needs to go to therapy too. He's fucked in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:56 PM
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Right? The worst we're gonna do is open an animal sanctuary and lobby for healthcare for all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:43 PM
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Good for you. If he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:11 PM
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Happens in tech too. If you're a WOC, the advice from old dbags from you own culture always comes with some kind of look like, "I can say this cuz we're fam". barfs Can you imagine if old ladies walked around telling young guys that they should just be subservient to women all day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:08 PM
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Losing a good friend is difficult but it's always interesting how one trashy person can make everyone around her trashy. I dumped most of my friends on my journey and haven't been able to replace many. I just can't go back to listening to all the pickme bullshit and drama. It's just too stupid for me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:55 PM
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They will lie about the truth all day long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:22 PM
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Get a new job. It isn't worth ruining your mental health for a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:19 PM
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Do you ever see people recording tiktoks in their cars? I think I would be totally wierded out by that. Sincerely, Old Fart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:11 PM
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"I confronted my husband with divorce papers after I caught him buying sex from trafficked children on a smut site."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:37 PM
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This whole "it takes a lot of guts to make the first move and I need to emotionally masturbated by you each time I muster up the skills to be barely act like an adult" idea needs to die in LVM hell already. HVP are not insecure, can confidently take risks, and don't need to be complimented for achieving a basic level of skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:32 PM
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He's too poor to afford a paid prostitute, so he's trying to find a free prostitute. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:08 AM
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there are so many things i want to teach young woc.... Number 1 : do not sign the arbitration agreement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:53 PM
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You can subscribe to my sub from my handle. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:48 PM
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Yup... being a WOC adds an extra layers of complication. At work, unless you act like a white girl, worklife is gonna be tough. The expectation is to choose between mimicing whiteness or just fading into the background. My .02 is that all WOC should know how to self-incorporate by the age of 25. We don't teach WOC the real business skills they will need to survive and thrive; we just push them at entry level jbs and then watch systemic racism end their careers slowly over a course of 15 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:35 PM
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Thanks!! I will check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:39 PM
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Cultural misogyny could be interesting too... just through starting my own sub on the particular issues that women of color face, I can name a couple of issues that frequently surface within researching specific cultures: Indigenous women and IPV (intimate partner violence) Asian women and fetishization South Asian women - acid attacks, feticide, marital and in-law abuse Nigerian women - the stuff going on with the abduction of women there is so bad it's deep web content. Truly fucked up. Feel f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:49 PM
7

http://www.pete-walker.com/findingATherapist.htm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:17 AM
104

You will forgive yourself. The more you grow and develop, the more you'll realize you didn't have the set of skills and character to have made better choices in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:34 AM
43

Yeah, I am here just to make sure younger women don't make the same mistakes I did. Ladies, you don't get some kind of trophy for being the woman who put up the most amount of shit from a guy or his family. No man is going to say "thank you for raising me because my parents didn't". No one is going to give a rat's ass about how much you went through to try to fix a broken man or a broken relationship. There is no thankfulness. Just live your best life being your best self. If people get in your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:29 PM
7

What support system do you have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:24 PM
7

Congrats. The more women who prioritize buying their owm homes, the more women will be saved. What kind of music do you play?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:23 PM
4

What would you say to any person considering creating an OF account?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:21 PM
30

Did you see that Blac Chyna's OF sex videos are being used against her in her lawsuit against the Kardashians?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:13 PM
26

What movie is that from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:27 PM
6

Lulz... I really miss the high fiction of field reports!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:11 PM
33

PTSD and cPTSD are different... cPTSD has to do with prolonged exposure to intense trauma and neglect. I suspect you really have cPTSD. I have it. I would say my biggest win is realizing how the CPTSD affects everything- from sleeping to eating to driving to all of my relationships. The more difficult part about it is when I change my behaviors so that I am not destructive, but as a result, I have no support system... most people are batshit crazy, completely irresponsible with their own behavio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:45 PM
55

"Love language"... I wish that love language crap would die already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:30 AM
14

He's insecure. Insecure people are social cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:28 AM
6

It sounds like his dream girl is the equivalent of a human mushroom he can stick his dick in... he's not interested in dating a whole human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:04 PM
11

Well... it may just be a form of data mining... a form of unpaid labor to train a hotdog/ no hotdog app. I personally don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:58 PM
11

Yeah... Why do you have to upload the pic? Imho, they are looking for geotagging data in the pic's metadata. You don't really need an app for that. You don't need to upload the pic at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:38 PM
3

Why don't you start a sub for it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:46 AM
26

If her childhood trauma caused her ptsd, and the ptsd wasn't treated, it probably surfaced in her parenting. My .02 is that there are some therapies for you to explore: vagus nerve and amygdala exercises, loving kindness meditation, and perhaps psychedelics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:45 AM
18

Hmm... is this legal? It seems like in a court of law it could be considered involuntary porn. Similar to someone posting your nudes on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:40 AM
85

Girl lock your door at night and when you're in the shower. Please use a camera sweeper app to see if there are hidden cams in your room or shower. I am so so so sorry this is happening. You need to get out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:34 AM
3

Holy shit... I hope you stop paying this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:17 AM
27

Lol... that's a lot of words to say, "hi! I'm basic! Can you do everything for me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:14 AM
7

This is stubborn and stupid. There is no fact-based evidence on any corner of this planet that normal, healthy women want to be bangmaids. His problem is his inability or unwillingness to accept reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:09 AM
15

Hey, a page from the rare Dead Sea Pickme Scrolls. Fascinating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:57 AM
22

Childhood trauma and neglect can cause serious damage to the way your nervous systems functions and the behavioral patterns you adopt to protect yourself. The more you read about cptsd, the more you can learn to identify your triggers and your responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:08 PM
9

He mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:58 PM
191

You got banned from an MRA sub. That's really what it is. Why don't you start r /ask meninists sub under a new handle and ban all of the 300k members of MRA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:41 PM
8

Good luck. I understand... I have been there. Your future and past selves love that you are on this path and they need you to continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:27 PM
55

All anyone can do, including short guys, is live their best life by being their best self. FDS is for everyone who wants to live their best life... even short guys can FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:37 PM
5

Right? Gay guys are fathers all the time.. You can do IVF, too. Or be a fur-parent to a whole barnyard's worth of fuzzybutts. Do what makes you happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:34 PM
3

This goes for jobs and friendships too. Either people value you in addition to your contributions or they need to get out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:31 PM
9

It's a crime against humanity to have that face and that shirt paired together and filmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:29 PM
15

Congrats. First thing first: heal your body. The abuse has likely left your body in a constant state of flight or fight. Please read about cptsd, read about the vagus nerve and the amygdala, and start learning techniques to gain conscious control of them. As for physical security, make sure everything is well lit. I love motion sensor lights. I live in an "up and coming" part of town and every single house has exterior, motion-activated lights. It's just common sense here. Lights on a timer make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:27 PM
33

Nice job ladies... way to build a movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:11 PM
17

Congrats on the home!!🏠🏠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:01 AM
18

Paedditt churns out another mass murderer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:55 AM
89

There was a similar "bash an asian day" going around in san Francisco a few weeks ago. If you see this being posted, takes screenshots and try to doxx them. Inciting violence isn't protected by the First Amendment. https://www.uscourts.gov/about-federal-courts/educational-resources/about-educational-outreach/activity-resources/what-does Trigger warning, for rape https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_threat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:27 PM
3

Caffeine withdrawal headaches are baaad. It feels like your head is in a vice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:24 PM
5

👩‍⚕️🏥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:44 PM
7

🔥🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:40 PM
11

The stats for women are not good right now, in terms of job loss. 140k women lost jobs in December. Thru the pandemic, the largest job losses were sustained in black and brown communities. And Asian women sustained the longest job loss... over 6 months on average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:40 PM
7

Making a cake roll is on my bucket list. Happy Birthday! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:37 PM
4

Haha. That's how we wean our foster kitties off junk food (friskies). 75/25 mix Then a 50/50 mix. Then 25/75. Then 100... It works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:35 PM
3

Did anyone catch yesterday's front page post about the incest subs? You read it on Paeddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:33 PM
6

I honestly have to question someone's common sense if they are posting their damn face on Reddit/Paeddit. C'mon now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:32 PM
28

I wish cargo pants, and more importantly, the cargo puddle jumpers would just die already. Talk about a lady boner killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:09 PM
24

An honest man... at least he let you know he was a loser up front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:08 PM
10

He's insecure. He's afraid he won't have another chance. Don't get married till you're 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:04 PM
4

It's so cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:20 AM
71

Gross (about his comment)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:20 PM
40

What has struck me thru all the wallstreetbets stuff is how gross they are in general. Calling each other retards. Making references to their wife's boyfriend... renaming EVERYTHING to claim ownership of it's identities. Guys are really good at verbal malignment. They can and will take anything good and trash it by sexualizing it or by making it seem less than. There are "Mean Guys" just like "Mean Girls".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:19 PM
129

Yup. If you are dating outside your culture and he never introduces you to his family, you're 100% a fetish fuck, and you'll get an email 10 years down the road when he's married "in-culture" and "wishes he could still be with you". He doesn't want you, all of you. He wants your p*ssy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:16 PM
40

Haha. Yup. The Dirty Gurtie that wants to live in a van with no running water isn't an "eighteen year old" with a porn star's body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:21 PM
55

If I were a "van girl", sure. The obtuseness here is believing against all available information on the planet that most normal people will be into your life kink. He's 43 and doesn't understand that... that's just stupid and stubborn. Life doesn't work that way, buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:09 PM
54

Unfortunately, these guys are basic. I have a basic lvm father too. I didn't realize till I was an adult but know I can see how pathetic he is. He is a reminder of why pornhub is as popular as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:05 PM
8

You see HV guys getting frustrated with OLD too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:00 PM
3

Yup... it's just too easy. Cheating is as easy as checking the weather.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:58 PM
17

Some cultures have matchmakers who don't cost an arm and a leg. It could be interesting to see if they would take on clients from a different culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:45 AM
9

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:41 AM
59

I think it can work well. Matchmakers can weed out repeat offenders Matchmakers know more people who are looking for mates than you do Matchmakers can set up the rules of engagement Imho, there's a huge need for an FDS bumble and personalized matchmaking service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:07 PM
16

Why would she stay with him after that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:00 PM
47

We just have to remind women to date within 0-4 years of your own. Who cares what their delusional rules are... make your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:17 PM
25

It's a losing game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:13 PM
38

You have to. Electronic communication makes it so low effort and easy to cheat. You can buy a prostitute as easy as you can buy socks on Amazon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:08 PM
123

The phone is the key to infidelity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:04 PM
42

Making comments about any of that stuff is so cringe... comparing you to porn stars is juvenile, at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:32 PM
6

I see. I have an LVXF like that. She was a perpetual dieter. Never stuck to any of them. And she calles other women "thicc". So cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:20 PM
18

Boiled egg diet? That's a new one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:36 AM
22

If you already are a crystal clear communicator, couples therapy won't do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:01 AM
116

Or how all our friends do. One of the 🚩🚩🚩 of women friendships for me is when she can't stop talking about dieting or if she makes fun of fat people. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:57 PM
5

Agree. If you don't enjoy doing that stuff, then just won't get done. Those are the two choices: either do it or it will never happen. I eventually chose: it will never happen. All the obvious and predictable consequences of that choice unfolded, and shrug... both ways suck; one way takes less effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:55 PM
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I don't see the point. If he can't hear you without your words being reinterpreted by a 3rd party, then you don't have a relationship issue. He has a listening and empathy issue, and he should fix that on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:07 PM
115

Gross Porn sick, 80 yr old dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:06 PM
19

He could claim he was set up. And that the money was taken from him and sent in his name. There's no notary on the letter. No return receipt... no nothing. He knows what he's doing. You're being set up, my love. ❤❤❤ I don't want you to get hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:37 PM
14

He'll have her in court in no time. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:22 PM
2

Yeah, he'll demand the money back and then he'll take her to court over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:48 PM
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You don't need HIS money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:47 PM
8

Cuz it's a scam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:06 PM
4

Yes it is a version of the CL check cashing scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:05 PM
32

There is nothing legally binding about this letter. It's a ruse. He will demand the money back in short time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:03 PM
14

It's a manipulation. Don't fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:18 PM
15

Yup. Do it. Anytime you have a choice to drop bullshit from your life, do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:13 PM
15

You need a ton of healing. Please start reading about cptsd and really understanding how your mind, body and nerves were altered as a result. It's important for you to understand how to start to undo some of that damage. Talk therapy is not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:07 PM
1

Good for you. I know a few women who went this route. Do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:05 PM
14

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:03 PM
1

This is why you don't see a marriage counselor. Just put the marriage in the trash and let the binmen haul it away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:02 PM
2

Well these women need a countdown clock for FDS. She's 10 years away from the Enlightenment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:00 PM
2

I don't get it either. It's a form of free prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:58 AM
8

Real life needs a block and delete option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:56 AM
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I wasn't prepared for the social life thing. I didn't realize that 100% of the social life duties were on my shoulders. The alternative would be that we wouldn't have one. HV people either plan their own social life or don't burden others with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:50 AM
76

One of the biggest mistakes of my 20s is not making the financial sacrifices to live alone. I had roommates the whole time, and I really regret it. Many of them were just trash people with trash values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:47 AM
14

Nice. Yes buy yourself flowers and houseplants. They will brighten your day. I am loving the body diversity I see in fashion now! So many rolls and wrinkles. It's great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:43 AM
55

Yes and no. I've never been book-dumb but I was a naieve pickme back in the day. A guy could tell me any lie and I'd believe him, hook line and sinker. It was naivete that got me into that path. It was intelligence and analysis that got me out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:42 AM
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As an old lady, I can only very very very strongly caution all of you not to get married before 30. You really to give yourself some time to figure out who you are as an adult. It takes time to figure it out. And experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:17 PM
9

FDS is just about the law of attraction... if you give off an HV vibe, you're more likely to attract more HV people. If you give off an LV vibe, you'll only attract LV people to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:07 PM
17

I liked Spanglish, but that's the only one. The last one he did about the diamond store was so fucking shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:02 PM
51

She's probably from a culture that is pressuring her like crazy to settle down and have kids. It's not about marriage. It's about controlling what goes into and out of her vagina as that pertains to the culture of those who surround her and have power. The people around her don't give a shit about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:59 PM
2

There's a women's fitness sub that would give Witches a run for the money but aside from that I would agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:53 AM
16

The best advice these guys can give is to ask each other to level up. adult-level hygiene and grooming table manners keeping a clean home and car basic cooking and laundry hold down a job and career goal setting personal goal setting weight and fitness management relationship management I 100% support LV people leveling up. Anyone can do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:19 AM
14

Tickling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:14 AM
8

What? Damn it... I suspected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:46 PM
54

It's strangulation, not choking. It's a crime. Or as I like to call it: "get a criminal attorney" play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:14 PM
36

Agree. It's shocking how mean the women's subs are to other women. The women's wellness and fitness and beauty forums are .... shocking... true mean girls shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:12 PM
8

I hear ya. I suffered through years of "talk therapy" and "cbt" ... all for nothing. It did more damage than good. What I have found more helpful was reading about cptsd (Pete Walker's) books and investing in learning how the body is traumatized by cptsd and what those physiological changes look like. I have also started loving-kindness meditation... it seems stupid at first but the more I do it, the more I get it. Also, keep an eye on psychadelics and ketamine therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:56 PM
3

All hail the Queen of Braindead Pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:12 PM
4

"And I'll change your diaper and rotate your breast feeding porn collection for you..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:09 PM
5

And unprotected PIA sex can lead to HIV transmission. If he tells you anal sex is "safer", he's lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:03 PM
1

Terry Crews and Chris Rock come to mind. Ashton Kutcher comes to mind for being against sex-trafficking. Can you be anti-trafficking and also pro-porn without being a colossal hypocrite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:59 AM
7

Can you explain that further? I am not trying to be salty... How does calling it submission make it easier to understand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:57 AM
9

I have walked 1000 miles in your shoes. Have you ever taken the ACE test? It's just a few questions... You can find it online. If you have unresolved trauma, you really need to get a plan together for self-healing. Without it, all of your relationships will be drama fillled dumpsterfires. Friendships, mentorships, romantic ones... the trauma is in your nerves, in your brain, in your nervous system, your eyes, your heart, your stomach... it will be in control of you until you learn how to identif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:52 AM
76

She'll stop eventually. Then she'll be on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:44 AM
19

Guys are socialized to manipulate women to get what they want. We call it "being charming".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:04 PM
89

Imho, the happiest relationships for pickmes is when they are dumber than their LVM partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:42 PM
6

That's in the anime category. Where there's anime, there's hentai. Where there's hentai, there are pedos. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:28 PM
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Yeh. Factor infidelity into the picture, and you might throw every politician in the trash, from MLK to JFK to Clinton to Trump. I don't think the rate of infidelity changes with access to money, power and influence. LVM gonna LVM, no matter how rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:29 PM
22

Sigh... he's so LV. She is wasting her time. An HVM would never be in this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:11 PM
34

The virus is correlated to changed menstrual cycles. Makes sense that the vax would be to. https://www.salon.com/2021/01/30/doctors-puzzled-as-to-why-coronavirus-is-affecting-some-womens-menstrual-cycles/ Alexandra Plazas-Herrera is estimated to be one of the estimated ten percent of women for which Survivor Corps, a support group for those recovering from COVID-19, surveyed who reported issues with their menstrual cycle after being infected with SARS-CoV-2. Natalie Lambert, an associate researc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:01 PM
20

Scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:28 PM
14

Yup. Nothing the conservative Mormons do is progressive. They are redefining when paternity starts, and probably trying to redefine fetus as human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:45 PM
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What if she doesn't want him to, though? If I were raped and carrying a child to term, that father better not know where I am or what I am doing. I have strong feelings against forced maternity and forced paternity. https://statelaws.findlaw.com/utah-law/utah-abortion-laws.html Abortion is still legal there but it is under attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:23 PM
16

And... don't catch HIV through unprotected butt sex!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:38 PM
42

Illegal. Poisoning someone is criminal assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:59 PM
30

Overweight is a health issue, not a desirabilty issue. Divorced just means you're experienced. Relationships take skills that develop over time and through experience. Pushing 50 just means you've got 30-40 years to give to a healthy and happy relationship. Who told you not to have standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:02 PM
34

I have flat-out been told I had to wear makeup at work. If I don't, I'm not a CuLtUrAL FiT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:59 PM
5

All incels are really volcels. If you wanna fuck, you'll find a way. Hire a sugar prostitute, become a pickme... it's not that difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:40 PM
1

Laziness and cheapness. Either do it yourself or hire someone to do it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:53 PM
14

Lol... imagine being proud of having a brain comandeered by impulsive sexuality. He doesn't have the capacity or faculty to NOT be morally, intellectually, or physically ruled by his sexual impulses. That must be very unfulfilling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:50 PM
95

Yup... it's all bullshit. OF sell their futures for a dollar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:39 AM
341

$186/mo is the average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:47 AM
14

What does shigella cause?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:18 AM
20

Yup. Don't choose drama!!! Be mature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:49 AM
2

Maybe once in high school. This guy, who had no spine to speak of, kept asking me what I "was doing for prom". That was his spineless way of asking me out. Took me years to realize what that NV mama's boy was trying to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:12 AM
14

Interesting to see Terry Crews admit being a porn addict, admit it made him cheat, admit he needed help for it, and then actually get help. This was on this week's episode of Bear Ghyrlls show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:42 AM
199

FDS can help guys by reminding them to level up themselves. Guys should have respect for their own body and their own mental health and their moral health. If they don't have that foundation, they don't have anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:17 AM
4

Wow. I can't believe it was basically out patient. (((((Hugs)))))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:02 PM
18

Hey! Hey! Look who's moving on up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:52 PM
4

Ouch!!! How are you feeling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:50 PM
14

"Block and delete" is a way of life. It's the ultimate way to choose you over drama. The problem is is that drama-free lives can come off as boring. They probably are. I'd rather be bored than bothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:45 PM
10

Eh. This is the first day of the rest of his life. He'll die watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:33 AM
16

I definitely don't understand the lie that they can't find any other work.... no, just admit that you're choosing this work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:28 PM
78

I do not get that sub. It feels like it's two doors down, but on the same hallway, as suicide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 12:22 PM
20

Did anyone correct him? Tbh, I don't see the point in picking fights with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:35 AM
28

Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:33 AM
29

Ah yes... it's a red flag when basic morality and basic common sense (like knowing things a 5 year old would know) constantly elude your partner. The truth is for these guys: pretending that you don't know how to act like a moral human with adult skills is less effort than actually being a normal, moral, functional adult. Never underestimate the laziness of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:07 PM
212

High Value Kitty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:05 PM
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Just look through their phones. They'll be 60 years old with 4 daughters and still thinks it's okay to pay 18 year olds to masturbate for them on OnlyFans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:37 PM
41

We know the answer. "Mom was a frigid bitch...".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:16 PM
67

Thank you for your bravery in admitting that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:48 PM
255

Daughter of a LV, pervert male here. He believed that women were only primarily worth what went into and came out of their orifices and how hard his peepee got when he gazed at them. No love lost for that dumb old pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:45 PM
37

It's funny what's allowed to hit the front page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:42 PM
26

They post here often. The story is always the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:40 PM
32

It's amazing how much brainwashing you go through as a young girl growing up. The bizarre set of beliefs we try to shove down girls' throats about their value and worth takes a while to shed. That's why I say: wait till you're 30 to get married. You have so much to learn and un-learn in your 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:39 PM
19

Your 20s are for making mistakes and growing as a result. You won't make a mistake like him twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:27 PM
142

You're brave for sharing your "norm kink" with him. Unfortunately, he can either choose to accept it and at least try, for god's sake, or he can have the freedom to find someone who wants what he wants. If he's not willing to really explore your norm kink, it's a sign that y'all aren't compatible in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:25 PM
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100% agree. Terrible mental health caused by poor choices is like soooo romantic, amirite? Mental stability isn't very newsworthy though. Can you imagine an article about it? Day 1: I woke and made the right choices to preserve and enhance my mental health. It did not involve drama. Day 2: I woke and made the right choices to preserve and enhance my mental health. It did not involve drama. Day n...: I woke and made the right choices to preserve and enhance my mental health. It did not involve dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 03:18 PM
34

She still believes in Knights in Shining Armor. They only exist in Disneyland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 02:39 PM
12

🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:56 AM
2

Very mature of you! Good job!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:46 PM
13

Heyyy!! A life with no drama is one that is full of value. You either choose drama or you choose value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:39 PM
70

You read it on Paeddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:36 PM
71

Unfuckable guys is never the issue. Social imbecility is never the issue. Peter Pan syndrome is never the issue. When you meet an HVM who makes you feel like birth and childrearing is just another thing the two of you are gonna do together ina ride or die fashion, everything changes. The truth is that more and more women are choosing not to be SINGLE mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:22 PM
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You should respond and flip the script. Don't give her whatever bullshit narrative she wants. Also, publicize the hell out of this request. 40/28 is ideal for who? Predators? everyone who feels comfortable should respond to her. A real journalist will report both sides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:16 PM
7

Yeah. People think moving around in high society is a fun and games. It's not. There are rules and more rules. And conformity is the #1 rule. This is why they don't like Diana and Meghan. Neither of them had conformity as their #1 value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:12 PM
16

??? I am struggling to understand what this has to do with FDS. In rich and/or traditional families, there's tons of protocol. Does that make the LV? Tedious? Yes LV? Depends on the tradition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:06 PM
13

Haha. She's a female shock jock. Journalism is dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:53 PM
1

I didn't mean in that way. I think it is important enough to tp it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:04 PM
28

I find extremely interesting that Paeddit has a problem with the senator showing other senators nudes of his girlfriends. (Typical front page, rules for thee not for me bullshit) Paeddit is literally 50% full of exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:48 PM
50

Don't get married till you're 30, ladies. You need time to learn all the ways a guy is gonna try to manipulate you. Why do you think older predators prey on younger women? They don't know how to recognize a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:45 PM
28

Eh. This is misleading. The study found that all ages of crusty old manhags delusionally sought 18-22 year olds on OLD. The right conclusion is that if a guy is over 22 and on OLD and using it to find an 18 year old, then he thinks he is entitled to barely legal, free prostitutes. This idea that perverts who are basically one step away from being an actual pedo are determining the "fuckability" of ALL women is absurd. The real question is: do HV people have age appropriate relationships? The ans…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:42 PM
41

"They know. The simply don't care." Guys are socialized to lie and manipulate. Women are socialized to accept those lies. It's a predator/prey dynamic. # toomanymen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:36 PM
3

Please top post this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:06 PM
14

You have to be braindead or have a rewarding prenup to move forward with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:57 AM
67

Good info. Real men don't buy women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:43 PM
65

Lol. "FortWorthPlayBoy" hahahahaha...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:00 PM
25

Girl....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:57 PM
20

Agreed. I would add mindfulness, meditation, and yoga to the list but learning how to work with a therapist is a great skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:52 PM
55

I agree. If I were a parent of an incel, I would love this as an option. A therapist-run adult SEL and adult skills camp for these guys would be hugely popular. Every day, Reddit proves how many of them out there need this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:25 PM
60

Haha. I honestly don't understand how other males can stand the Incel Hoardes. If I were an HVM, I'd be like: dudes, shut the fuck up and get yout shit together. There are so many meditation and behavioral techniques to regulate emotions. I would love for schools to teach them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:09 PM
5

She pickme'd her way to this problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:39 PM
39

Hah! You're probably right. I have stubborn hope that eventually guys will want to take control of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:13 PM
114

I can see that. I've dated my fair share of LVM who literally could have used a drill sergeant in their lives. I wish an opt-in "adultification school" were an option for US males. It would help them become more fuckable, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:02 PM
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I'd rather the government invest in mandatory training to make unfuckable guys less angry and more accepting of their own situation. Healthy, mature, coping mechanisms could be taught. How to add value to society instead of being a whiney loser all day. I honestly think many US guys would benefit from a walkabout in between high school and college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:43 PM
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No... I have noticed people loooooooove drama. They can't live without it. They want a boy in their life who will give them something to gritch about. I find that way of life and thinking undeniably STUPID. That makes me a snob, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:16 PM
68

Strangled, not choked. Strangulation is a criminal activity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:12 PM
43

That should be at the Met. "I am too insecure and immature to handle valid criticism." Found art By Man-child Incel 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:08 PM
13

I don't know. 15% is HUGE though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:41 PM
9

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/images/group/gender/women/2021/cdc-hiv-women-trends-1200x630-1.png
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:29 PM
52

I am extremely concerned that young women don't understand how HIV is transmitted and that older women have forgotten.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:50 PM
61

Stand your ground. Your anus just isn't set up to take a dick. It's time we had real talk about this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:48 PM
31

Rule 1: HVMs aren't lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:05 PM
3

Eh. My very strong FDS advice is not to get married before 30 and not start dating for marriage until 26-28.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:02 PM
4

Grad school might be too young for marriage. Grad school can start at 22 / 23 in the U S A.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:58 PM
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Graphic / TW I feel like I should mention that HIV+ is on the rise among white women in the US. If he ejaculates inside you, and he has HIV, and the lining of whereever he has ejaculated has tears in it, there's a chance that he will give you HIV. The rate of transmission is 12x higher from a guy to a woman than the other way around. For the love of god, stop letting these dudes rawdog you in the ass, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:44 PM
89

You can single and happy. You can be single and have a family and kids. You can be single and afford a home and retirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:28 PM
7

Yes, please!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:11 PM
339

Having sexual respect for yourself is a key piece of health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:14 PM
36

Fdsover30 hopefully will happen. Or maybe some kind of limit on memes and screenshots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:19 PM
12

Congrats on being mature. You chose your mental and sexual health over instant gratification. That's huge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:03 PM
126

They should both be checking. They tear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:03 AM
55

Haha... it would be funny if: a very loud announcement would ring from.your phone announcing how long you'd been watching porn for. "SIR, YOU'VE BEEN BEGGING THAT GIRL ON ONLY FANS FOR HER NUMBER FOR 45 MINUTES!" "SIR, YOUR PHONE'S LOCATION INDICATES YOU'RE IN A PUBLIC PLACE. YOUR PHONE IS STREAMING LIVE PORN."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:56 PM
29

Does he have a brother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:05 PM
75

"HEY DUMMMAYYYY, kinks are ONLY for ME to shame, humiliate, and degrade YOU because MY ego is fragile and underdeveloped. Not the other way around!" /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:47 PM
73

So brave! She should be given the Medal of Honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:41 PM
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Vanilla sex in a relationship with a mentally, emotionally and behaviourally mature male who makes feel respected and valued for my whole person is my kink. If I don't get it in a relationship, I feel like it's only fair that we open it up so I that I can have my sexual needs fulfilled too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:25 PM
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She should develop some kinks of her own. Maybe she loves shoving chili peppers up her partners butthole... he should be open to it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:34 PM
44

Aw. I am sorry he didn't write back. Just be glad there is one HVM out there and he was put in your life as an example. Now you know what to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:08 PM
43

Exactly this. I have fired doctors, house contractors, veterinarians, gardeners, personal trainers. If they can't do their job without a lot of drama, it's a hard no for me. I'd rather pay for competency and mutual respect. Same for jobs... I just won't give my all and my best to someone who will never promote me. If I see a consistent pattern of the same old people being promoted, I know what my reaction should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:50 AM
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Validated. I would venture to guess that most older FDS'ers aren't repulsed by men, as much as we are just finally fully aware that "if he wanted to, he would" is the truest way to measure a man that you have a relationship with. FDS works for all relationships, even work relationships. You can have low value relationships with friends and bosses and service providers. If you do, "fire" them too - per FDS philosophy. So... no hate or repulsion. Just an understanding of the minimum behaviors I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:29 AM
49

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:02 PM
116

Porn for women: videos of men who actually did something with their lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:19 PM
72

*to what they choose to expose themselves to Who forces them to watch rape porn all day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:53 PM
58

This is why I don't workout with other people. My body does what my body wants to do. There are good days, bad days, and medium days, and I just want the freedom to experience it on my own without worrying about how I am impacting someome else. Exercise barely has a social component to it. I suspect that guy is like me but not self aware enough to know it or chooses not to communicate it. Or maybe he's just an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:35 PM
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Yes. The two most important pieces of advice I can give women is: wait till you're 30 to get married save, save, save for your downpayment in your 20s. Do whatever it takes to have that downpayment saved by your 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:12 PM
21

Green flag: he's excited to introduce you to his friends and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:05 PM
32

The more we push financial education among women, the better of we'll all be. Unfortunately, a lot of that education is cultural. It's not just knowledge, it's also behaviors and values. I learned a lot of money behaviors from my parents but it's been a huge struggle to learn new ones as an adult on my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:19 PM
107

That's interesting. I also think some cultures stress home ownership as almost a prereq to family building. Look for a good school district , buy a house in the district, then plan a family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 12:52 PM
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A goal of your 20s should be to save for your down payment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:00 AM
19

Kink-shaming vs telling women that sex shouldn't involve being criminally assaulted... Yikes, vice, learn the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:05 AM
10

Ask Melania... why she thought it would be a good idea to create a human with scrote is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:57 PM
19

Ask Melania... why she thought it would be a good idea to create a human with scrote is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:56 PM
34

Why does he answer? Drama-stirring is so LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:46 PM
31

Post 'em. Lord knows we don't need more memes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:59 PM
37

Yes. Buy that house anyway. Have that kid. Go on that trip. The man is optional. Your goals are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:51 PM
7

The "modeling" industry is a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:00 AM
7

Ladies, design a real app. One that has criminal and financial background checks built in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:40 AM
21

I did that to the Jehovah's Witness once. They are persistent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:04 AM
54

Good rules. I also love no-meme Mondays. That is a good idea. I also propose to move all memes to a new sub: FDSmemes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:50 PM
51

The male equivalent of an OnlyFan. He thinks he's ballin' when all he's doing is making an ass out of himself. 136 dollars a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:14 PM
102

Too cheap to afford an actual prostitute, so he gets online and begs for a free prostitute. Now that's LV! There's a pickme out there for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:57 PM
6

Their loss (and clogged arteries)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:54 PM
5

Why would anyone be aggressively anti-vegan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:29 PM
14

90s music is so trashy. I used to love it but it is disgusting to me now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:27 PM
23

Sorry about your father. Block and delete works for shitty friends too. As women, we need to have a collective come to Jesus moment about friendships. Be better friends, y'all. Be consistent, stop being catty cuz you thinks kewt, and stop using your friends as therapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:21 PM
37

Yup. What are they doing in their for so long? They're masturbating to teen rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:38 PM
173

Sorry! Adult friendship is difficult. As you get older and realize that "playing the therapist" is a thankless game, it really starts to get difficult to find friends that can hold a conversation without defaulting into whining. Lord, if someone's gonna whine that much, at least have a pool and know how to make a good cocktail. I don't like the whining. I hate gossip. And I hate know-it-alls. I hate pushy people who insist you do things, like try health shit you couldn't give a rat's ass about (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:51 AM
226

Fatherhood is at all time low. Guys think that "taking care of their kids" is putting the kid in the bouncy while Dad plays video games or smokes or does both for an hour. My friend had to quit working because she couldn't convince her loser husband to stop playing video games when it was his turn to watch their baby. The kid would have a diaper full of shit, hadn't been bathed or fed, and hadn't had any stimulation, and her husband would just drop that hot mess on her. They don't think twice ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:40 AM
61

Pickmes and LVM deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:33 AM
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Does he have a problem with you consuming porn? Keep your vibe in a drawer in the restroom. Then spend 45 minutes "taking a shit" with your phone in your hand. He'll be on the RA sub complaining about how his gf uses her vibe too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:32 AM
13

I think a good defense is to lie. I don't tell people about my more arcane hobbies... they don't need to know and I don't need the judgement. I actually enjoy lying about it sometimes. In executive business, there are "in-group" hobbies, like gd tennis and running and golf. I use gardening and cooking (but oh no not baking) as mine. I can spin a tale about gourmet cooking like no one's business. Why lie? You gotta play the game to win it. All that bullshit about bringing your authentic self to w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:59 PM
48

Omg!!! My IG profile has an indecipherable photo and my IG name is fictional. People say, why are you so crazy about your privacy? Cuz other people be crazy. That's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:36 PM
3

I video recorded showing that I was clearly across state lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:29 PM
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Yup. Record it. Deny you have it. And if it gets down to it, a judge can admit it. Or drive to a state that allows it. I have literally done this. I took a call in a visitor center parking lot of a neighboring state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:09 PM
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They are immoral by the nature of the job. The person entrusted to be the head of HR knows ALL the dirty secrets of the company, and the company knows she'd rather die than tell them. She gets compensated for holding secrets and she's the kind of person who holds dirty secrets in excahnge for money, power and influence. Anything for the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:05 PM
2

Good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:01 PM
21

I don't understand why any human posts car photos. Is that really the best showcase for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:00 PM
41

Can that happen if your IG is private? Tbh, I don't understand public profiles in this day and age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:58 PM
5

It's generic. It's meant to make jewelry-buying cheap and low effort and generic. The jewelry itself is low quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:38 PM
17

HR is an extension of the legal department, with the purpose of protecting the company against " human" threats. The head of HR across all American companies is basically a carbon copy of the same woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:20 PM
9

They get swept up too, not because of the law but because no one can easily tell the difference between "legal" porn and recorded child rape or sex trafficking porn. Libfems care about the distinction. Radfems don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:57 PM
3

Girl, I hear ya. Where I am the condo hoa's range from 170/mo to 1500/mo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:25 PM
5

Yup, classic addict behaviour. Addicts are mean and selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:12 PM
23

GamerMaiding... it's a fast train to hell. The only thing I'll add to all of these stories is that: a) if you drag an gaming addict out of the gaming hole, he may end up even more lost because his entire sense of self is rooted in gaming; b) he will resent the hell out of you for doing it; c) there are no resources like Al anon for women dealing with game addicts and there oughta be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:52 PM
7

If a man ever bought me Pandora or any thing like Pandora, I would throw it in the trash and then dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:44 PM
4

We live in a pickme world, sadly. It's difficult to grow up any other way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:41 PM
31

I just got perm banned from a libfem/pro-child rape sub for expressing happiness that twitter was sweeping its sex work ads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:35 PM
20

I use Google voice for online transactions, job recruiting, sales... there's about 10 people who have my actual number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:34 PM
28

Please be sure you read books by Peter Walker on CPTSD. And get a trauma-informed therapist. It's hard to watch a good woman make choices that keep her screwed. I have female relatives who used to be amazing people but the pull of filling the holes in their hearts with damaging dick just ruined them. Good mental health is the key to making good relationship decisions. If your mental health is already on fire, a relationship isn't gonna put the fire out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:29 PM
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Yes it's a crime. Also, get an employment lawyer stat. She will be retaliated against for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:12 PM
4

https://pocketsense.com/donated-car-5004.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:20 AM
2

Omg. Wth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 08:34 PM
29

Yup. Sexual morals are pretty much non-existent in modern male culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:12 PM
16

True. I live in a big city... I searched for condos under 150k and only found them once my search radius was 20 miles outside of the city. Unless you're insanely wealthy, there are always tradeoffs in RE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:40 PM
33

Are there condos in your area that are going for 150k? This is some of the financials around whether you can afford it. I believe many of you can. https://www.saving.org/down-payment/150000 If you're able to get $7500 for a down payment, your mortgage is $700/monthly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:42 PM
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Here's the counter argument https://www.vice.com/en/article/g5bm5w/republicans-love-de-platformingjust-ask-sex-workers "Only 17% of trafficked people are trafficked for sex" is one of their counter arguments... yeah, buddy 17% is a huge amount.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 02:00 PM
68

Mutual respect is non-negotiable in HV relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:49 PM
6

I honestly can't wait to watch them burn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:32 AM
7

What are your thoughts on Melania's wealth, independent of Donzo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:57 AM
3

Block and delete is the only way to go. As is clear from the comments, there are a lot of incels out there. Better safe than sorry with those losers. You don't owe anyone an explanation. There's no requirement to be badgered into having to say no over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:15 AM
40

Donny and Melania more than proved that. SUCH trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:09 PM
35

The bar is so low for them, which is the entire issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:43 PM
46

Yet non of the comments even acknowledged porn as an enormous issue in the oversexualization of boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:31 PM
29

Right? He's 25, not 16. Fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:57 PM
166

"Years of masturbating inside humans who I treated like pocket pussies left me emotionally unfulfilled!!! Is anyone as surprised as I am?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:16 PM
136

My guess is that he was never properly parented by his father, and he radicalized himself with overconsumption of porn from ages 10-12 onward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 05:27 PM
21

Tbh, it's great when guys are honest. If they want the 50/50 thing all the way, then he would need to give up 50% of the sq footage to service your needs and invest 50% in the finishes and furnishings you want. Is he gonna give up control of 50% of his house for those three months? Taking over some other cost, like food + 1/2 utilities makes more sense to me. But anytime you pay for something, you need to get what you paid for. You definitely wouldn't in his proposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:43 PM
3

Nice. You will wear that for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:37 PM
23

And Reddit loves it. Multiple subs are dedicated to it. Reddit is hugely invested in destroying women and providing a platform for men to masturbate to images of women being literally destroyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:29 PM
53

Porn-pickled brain. Wants a woman who looks like she's 17 and who also wants to be violently raped... oh I mean BDSM... muh bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:06 PM
9

Yes. It's not easy but not impossible... I am in tech with tech friends. I have had an outdoor video camera and were I to move, I wouldn't put one up again. I really haven't gotten anything out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:39 PM
13

https://lifehacker.com/protect-your-privacy-from-your-own-cloud-security-camer-1831684103
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:12 PM
37

Y'all Ring is even worse! Just uninstall it and send it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:20 PM
1

That's awful. I am so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:17 PM
2

Also, if it's a sub with actual criminal activity such as distribution of illegal porn (children, minors), bypass Reddit altogether. Please contact the FBI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 06:18 PM
16

Yup. True. You don't want to that wife that wakes up to co-ownership of her husband's sports gambling debt. It happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:52 PM
9

That doesn't surprise me. There is intense pressure on these platforms to de-crappify their content. We already saw this with Craigslist and the Backpage. Both were extremely blatant about selling sex for money. Backpage got nuked by lawsuits. Craigslist had to shut down its personals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:51 PM
219

The reject trifecta: weed, porn, video games. I do not understand why women breed with these type of boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:30 PM
15

I wish you could just be fat in Hollywood. Most of the mInstream overweight actors are funny/comedic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:28 PM
32

If you are legitimately suffering from past trauma, you need trauma-informed therapist. Regular CBT is not going to do much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:12 PM
5

You are your own prize. You don't need anyone's validation. If you live a high value life, what else can you do? That's the only requirement here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:01 PM
17

Honestly, report him. That's against the TOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:59 PM
3

I am so sorry. Did you find out who it was?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:51 PM
5

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:50 PM
15

Reddit knows. Reddit doesn't care. It's the most depraved of them all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:33 AM
63

Yup. It's a massive turnoff... it makes them unfuckable. Spending 40 minutes on the toilet wanking it to teen rape while you're sitting over a fresh pile of your own shit? God, how basic can you be? Can you imagine if women did that too men? Took a vibrator into the restroom 2x a day for 40 minutes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:31 AM
61

Which porn use? Is gonewild cheating? Is pornhub cheating? Is OF cheating? Is phone sex cheating? Is text sex cheating? Is an OF broadcasting from your neighborhood cheating? Your neighbor's house? The next room? I don't remember agreeing to any of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:01 AM
23

Strangling not choking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:48 AM
13

I know what you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:49 AM
19

Right? They LITERALLY have no other job options that pay 136$/month. LITERALLY. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:08 PM
5

Here's a story about "sexy" Kevin. Now I know why he can't keep his shirt on. He's insecure. Nothing sexy about being insecure. I feel bad for him. https://representasianproject.com/features/kevin-kreider-bling-empire-interview/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:38 PM
5

He was a Power Ranger??!???!! Bwah hah hah hah!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:47 PM
69

The vast majority of woman in corporate america in the c suite are thin White women with straight hair parted to the side. It's like it's a cult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:43 PM
106

It's not just "work done for fuckability" though... and it's not always as drastic as a boob job. When it comes to money, power and influence, how a woman looks is a key determinant, whether we like it or not. In the most mild form of this, we have curly hair that is straightened. If you're in corporate America, good luck getting promoted past a certain point if you are a woman with curly hair. So, are there other reasons to engage in altering one's appearance, outside of the objective of fuckab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:58 PM
9

Yup. Block and delete works for all relationships - work, family, boys, friends...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:37 PM
17

Anna cracks me up. She is very grounded when it comes for her sense of self. She has a lot of HV characteristics. But maybe she should put her tits away and clean her house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:48 PM
8

Agree Some guys need to wake up and start understanding that they don't deserve to be treated like a man when they continue to act like two year old who needs their diapy changed by their mommies. It's soooo unattractive and desexualizing. It makes them unfuckable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:29 PM
14

You and your mom should go to family counseling together. She is probably traumatized. And you probably are too. Don't let his shithole choices send you into a downward spiral. You're not a victim!!! You need to take your mother to a lawyer. Insist on it. As for your father, lol, just another dumbass getting swindled by a whore. Nothing tests a male's "morals" like available teen pussy. And then it just turns out they never had any morals anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:24 PM
25

The worst is the Botox doctor. Allowing his own wife to be treated like dirt for a DECADE? barfs Get a spine, buddy, and grow the fuck up. I can't stand grown men who suck their parents' dicks all day. It's so self-infantalizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:09 PM
79

Confidently incorrect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:38 PM
25

I did. That guy Andrew is a pyschopath but Kelly is a brain dead pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:37 PM
32

Don't worry about what braindead pickmes do all day. They have low-class values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:36 PM
-33

Why would you date him tho? It's pretty simple. Don't date known abusers. Or cannibals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:34 PM
3

https://www.marthastewart.com/259801/cinnamon-raisin-bread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:27 PM
96

Telling her not to come is just saying he wants to masturbate inside her? Dafuq is that? There are so many non PIV options here. He's being incredibly immature. Your wife is not a pocket pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:54 AM
59

It made me tear up https://www.gq.com/story/doug-emhoff-first-gentleman-vice-president-kamala-harris
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:37 AM
11

I don't get it. You should just live your life like an HVM is like winning the lottery. Maybe it wi ll happen, but it's not a reliable option. Y'all can own your own homes. Cars. Grad school. Vacations. And babies. You don't NEED a man in your life for any of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:26 AM
69

Nice! whispers: cinnamon raisin bread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:21 AM
108

It is crazy how many of you have experienced the switcheroo (how bout we go back to my place instead) and the forgotten wallet. It's so gd predatory. So crazy. smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:16 AM
86

If you haven't read her husband's statement, you should. It's truly an HVM letter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:23 AM
8

What a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:20 PM
8

Michelle looked great!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:34 PM
8

They are now 30-50 years deep into subjecting themselves to non-stop sexual degredation, violence, and depravity. It's beyon radicalization or indoctrination. They are lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:01 PM
35

Ah Gen X males. The dumpsterfire that is that generation. It's like a generation of sex predators. If you're a young woman, be very very careful around Gen X males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:23 PM
13

"What's your favorite video game and why?" It helps you determine his level of vg addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:21 PM
3

You're gonna be fine!! And better and stronger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:19 PM
22

Make him watch you play Candycrush for 4 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:18 PM
28

Pickme feminism. "Being objectified is totally liberating! I use videography of my vagina to seek male approval because I'm empowered! Not because I have no real skills or talent and certainly not because I'm spineless and insecure!!! Pick ME!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:17 PM
42

Why doesn't he just hit up the gonewild subs? Plenty of pickme porn in those subs. "Look at my vagina? Don't you find me fuckable? Pick me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:14 PM
21

My feeling is that women should wait till 30 to get married. You don't know who you are till then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:40 AM
22

Your ex sounds like a real ass... how old were you when you got married?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:46 PM
95

It is true in the workplace. Most female execs in the US are carbon copies of each other: thinnish white women with straigh hair, parted to the side, and no glasses. The hair length typically ranges from chin length to shoulder. Hardly anyone else is allowed in the club, 50 years after the rise of "modern feminism"... you can see clearly who benefited. And who didn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:37 PM
104

Ppppppornnnn.... pppppornnnn. Muh porns tell me to stick muh dick in a teenager, so bye. Sorry you believed in me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:07 PM
53

I am so sorry. It seems to me that no HVP would say no to this if it were an option financially.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:38 PM
5

Some people have a personality rooted in victimhood. There would be no drama in their lives if they didn't constantly create tragic situations and then sit around and wait for the sympathy porn to roll in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:12 PM
4

This is true for work too. Make them pay you like white guy. Money, stocks, power, influence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:44 PM
16

If you go to therapy with laziness, obstination and manipulation techniques to stop any forward progress, what is the point of going? Asking for help and then having a completely shit attitude toward help offered is such a waste of everyone's time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:29 PM
134

Exactly. Braindead pickme... only has herself to blame at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:18 PM
43

You don't... but if it's a concern, dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:50 PM
8

I had an aunt who insisted that everyone stand up when her "boyfriend" of 40 years entered the room. I swear the pickmeishas who enable this shit are so braindead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:48 PM
58

Hmmm... just catfish him with a different profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:46 PM
6

I hear ya. I cannot stand humans who are an unconsolable pit of whining, usually whining about the consequences of their own mental and physical laziness. Life is work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:42 PM
9

If a guy is an adult by age and still can't figure out how to piss and shit properly, he needs to be re-parented. He needs to go back to a male relative and ask him, "how do I piss and shit properly?" This is below the bar behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:06 PM
96

Why can't guys support each other? When are males gonna take responsibility for the mental health crisis in their own community? What do they all think is gonna happen when they spend ages 10-30 being addicted to porn, weed and video games? You're gonna turn 31 with no development... no idea how to be an adult, no idea how to be a partner, no idea how to function in the real world. Why can't they figure out how to solve this on their own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:58 PM
31

Porn-pickled brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:39 PM
7

Throw your tv in the trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:51 AM
12

It's gonna be tough. I am not into drama and dramatic behavior. I have a hard time finding lady friends that are drama free and interested in self improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:15 AM
17

Porn is all they care about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:13 AM
34

The real house wives of ___. They were all pickmeisha 20 year olds that went on to have dumpsterfire marriages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:11 AM
269

It's a shit test. They are trying to see if you're ok with them being low-effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:08 AM
8

He's a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:43 PM
3

Yeah. It was pretty much an FDS show. It showed all the behaviors of LVM at every level of income and status. It showed the transformation of pickmes to HVW. It was a good show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:13 PM
11

Ladies... if a guy ever does that shit to you, call a cab, leave, and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:58 PM
22

Girl, that was a shit test from him. Good for you. Now block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:56 PM
46

That word "genius"... our cultural use of that term is problematic. Greta is a genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:46 PM
21

Yes, that's what LVM want. Don't listen to that junk. An HVM wants an equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:39 PM
6

Yuupp... madmen went into this a bit. Don wanted other men to see him having a perfect American life with a perfect blonde WASP wife and perfect blonde kids. He married her for the gain in status her looks and her race brought him when she filled the role of wife. At night, he indulged his "fantasies". Brown haired Jews, dark haired artists, dark haired older women. It's also laziness. Guys are epically lazy outside of their jobs. Most guys don't want to do the work of figuring out your culture …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:51 PM
3

I never actively sought out HVM. They just ended up in my life through chance. HVM have high class manners and no drama. They care about their relationships and treating people well. They would never present themselves as slobs nor have slophouse shitholep pigsty of a home because : 1) they have some respect for themselves and 2) they care about building positive relationships with similar people. Your man-picker will get better over time. As you invest more and more into being an HVW, your list…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:21 AM
35

Just some hard facts. If you're a woman of color, you might get strung along by a guy from a different culture. They don't have the guts to commit to a woman putside their culture. Is that part of the issue here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:50 AM
35

Hmmm yeah. I reported a very obviously q-drugged terrorist on IG, and they decided he posed no threat. shrug The only way to fight this is to keep asking questions: What are the rules? Who do they apply to? Why do the rules get applied differently, depending on who is doing it? What rights and responsibilities do social media sites have? I hope more women join the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:48 AM
3

Do you know any HVM in real life? I didn't know what to look for until I finally met an HVM. Then, it hit me like a ton of bricks... they are just in a class of their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:36 AM
29

Why bother with these guys? Porn pickled brains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:55 AM
20

Ikr? Her character is 39 but acts like 14 yr old. It's so tedious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:04 PM
54

Has anyone watched the new sitcom with Mayim Balik? She spouts FDS but then turns into dorky pickmeisha every ten seconds. It was... vomitous. I was embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:23 PM
39

The laziness of adult males is really a problem. They don't want to do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:11 PM
2

So much of our trauma is from shitty parenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:54 PM
30

Instagram is the worst. It's almost impossible to find women lifters who don't sexualize their posts about lifting. "Lemme just twerk for two seconds in a squat rack" "Look at my giant lifters thighs, as showcased by my teeny tiny thong. Doesn't that make me thiiiiiiccccccccc? And FuCkAbLeeeee??" Like, damn, girl... have some respect for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:07 PM
160

As a woman lifter, all those damn pickme fitness girls doing squats in their panties can fuck right off. They cheapen the sport.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:00 AM
1

All the pedos I've caught on Reddit are extremely active in the anime subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:29 AM
9

Porn sickness They are all radicalized by porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:07 AM
16

NgL I use one for myself. I downloaded one that splits all the chores into daily task lists. It just makes it easier. I have it taped to the fridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:54 AM
27

Gross What a creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:38 AM
259

They know. They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:35 AM
2

Design a better OLD app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:51 AM
4

Oh he can eat a bag of dicks An HVM will support you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:53 AM
11

Eh, the difference is deeper. Askwomen and askwomenover30 are 100% different and they oughta be. You just have different considerations as you get to really settle into adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:37 PM
86

I know right? Can we all stop with the pick me sympathy on this sub? You have my sympathy if you were sex trafficked into sex work. If you chose to have an OF account, having done the research, you don't have my respect, my sympathy, my nothing. You're a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:33 PM
20

Can we have an FDSover30 sub? There is a need for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:22 PM
81

Next on PH: "How to Commit Felony Acts of Violence... as demonstrated on underaged, sex trafficked children by... you guessed... men who don't care how much damage they do to other people as long as they get hurt to them!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:18 PM
9

Can I ask... what was the hobby?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:09 PM
67

Equating a wife to a posession. "It's okay to beat other guys' wives"?? No, it's a felony CRIME to beat anyone. Period. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:05 PM
187

Lol. Next on "To catch a terrorist'...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:59 PM
10

I don't buy it. There are hundreds of gig economy jobs. Sticking your phone up your vagina is one of many, many options that all pay the same. I don't buy the victim card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:40 PM
20

Nothin wholesome about that. Don't date addicts. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:35 PM
10

Do not make babies with addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:34 PM
134

Yup... that's why they killed Epstein. Rape, whoever they are doing it to, really isn't a problem for them unless they get caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:53 PM
10

Cuz they are LVM Shit stains and shit smell is a GIGANTIC RED FLAG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:48 PM
28

Yeah When Uber had to eliminate its a bunch of its white male c-suite because of scandals and terrible performance, they suddenly realized that they could hire white women into the c-suite. They courted a few white women for the job, but they were like, "oh NOW you want me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:27 PM
68

You can report individual posts. Most sexual violence and involuntary porn is allowed by site reviewers. There is a guy just posting photo after photo of his wife's face and body. He keeps asking questions like: would you fuck her? Does anyone want to fuck her? She's an old lady. Maybe 60. She looks loke a nice enough person. I flagged all of them as involuntary porn. None were removed. shrug Reddit really needs to be transparent: What are the rules? Who are they applied to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:14 PM
484

"I need you too much to hurt an asset" Ladies... never forget: they know... they simply don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:09 PM
8

Tyler Perry's Tyler Perry Tyler Perry about Tyler Perry's Sistas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:20 PM
3

Idk either. I would love to open an animal sanctuary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:39 PM
5

Sounds like Yelp. Yikes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 08:55 PM
38

Being valued for my contributions at work by other high value employees Being valued by other athletes as being a good athlete Being valued for my friendship by high value people For me, a compliment has to come from an HVP to really stand out to me as a compliment. E.g. When I lost weight, there were loser dudes whose attitudes were: "thank you for losing weight... i now find you fuckable... you're welcome!!" Always came from a guy with sub zero levels of fuckability. smh it did not feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:32 PM
11

Sounds interesting but a little "too". I would rather live in an all women housing community. A commune is a bit much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:52 PM
52

Good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:49 PM
20

It's good that we're all picking up on this. Document the communication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:18 PM
23

Good for you. If he owns a business, conact the BBB too. They will follow up on complaints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:19 PM
53

Also, loneliness and the fact that there aren't enough HVM to go around Loneliness is difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 07:48 AM
14

Mazeltov
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:57 AM
166

I found it so interesting that on an r / popular post about fat acceptance in men's body types there wasn't a single comment about fat shaming! Fat shaming fat women has to do with society trying to reinforce that a woman's value has mostly do with how fuckable guys find her. Simple and basic misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:07 AM
41

This is great. One of my friend's mother shamed her for doing this. I'm like... what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:53 PM
20

In askmenover30, not a direct neg, but the conversation was around trying to find a pickme. The consensus was that if a guy had money and was "willing to date down", he could get a woman of color pickmeisha easily. It's good to know how guys view us but still disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:45 PM
-6

I disagree. I don't have any sympathy for someone who actively chooses sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:30 PM
-6

The narrative that poor, colored girls don't have any other choice than whoring themsleves is extremely problematic. They do have choices. But they are sold a lie from day one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:05 PM
15

Lol. Hung guys in tight pants and no shirts... asking you what "your pleasure is"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:11 PM
9

Yes. They are selling voyeurism. It's literally the point of the establishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:09 PM
9

"Tips for tits" This is sex work. This is an anti-sex work sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:05 PM
-1

I'm colored and have been poor. Whoring myself out was never an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:04 PM
11

Haha. Not a quirky psycho thriller. Just another Only Whores opportunity for voyeurism. Pickmes making a buck off their tits. Guys paying for the view
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 07:03 PM
10

😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:00 PM
5

Pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:42 PM
20

Don't guys care about this? It's a health pandemic. When are they going to start caring about their own damn health?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:38 PM
7

Good points! HV partners do this for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:34 PM
5

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:28 PM
12

Porn sick old dude. He watches hours of porn featuring 60 year olds raping teens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:27 PM
41

Society will always try to get you to fill the role of a nurturer. We have to support each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:20 PM
59

Yup. Guys seem to be raised with conversational stubbornness. You say "no", then they ask the same question a different way. I use this phrase to put an end to it: "I don't know how to say it a different way..." followed by a reinforcement of the point I am making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:08 PM
22

Loads and loads of flowers. Lots of electronics Some jewelry but not much Home improvements are the big one though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:16 PM
16

Block. Delete. It isn't your job to educate others. It would be great if there were a sub for guys that wanted to Level Up too. That had tips they would share about gaming addiction, porn addiction, weed, laziness, immorality, and impulse control. Guys really need to get guys under control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:28 PM
9

Yep. I know they envy my freedom but they neg me every chance they get. I don't care though. I just can't pretend like I value their values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:25 PM
16

Get Yo Shit Together 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:23 PM
87

Don't look disheveled ... during labor. Sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:06 PM
3

Good luck!!! Congrats!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:24 AM
24

Baby daddy drama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:21 AM
11

Bernie Sanders Warren Buffett It looks like Colin Kaepernick might be one. LeBron seems like one. Michael Jordan (basketball) Tom Hanks Jason Mamoa Maybe I don't know their full stories tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:12 AM
25

Haha. Just wait two years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:08 AM
23

Ikr? The people who hate this sub literally have nothing to do with it. None of us are stopping other people from having a low value life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:51 AM
21

Agree. I personally hated therapy but found self help books, powerlifting, and introspection more useful. Guys specifically need help with addiction, having morals, and overcoming laziness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:35 PM
3

Live and learn!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:42 PM
44

Guys have "shit tests" too. They are designed to determine how lazy he can be and get away with it. Or how sexually immoral he can be and get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:54 PM
21

Good for him. His wife awaits him in a bunker in Utah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:35 PM
92

If he wanted to quit, he would. He is 100% aware his behaviour is unacceptable, he simply doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:34 PM
16

So sorry!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:46 PM
198

Remember that trend to dress like an 1800s barkeep? Suspenders and a handlebar mustache. It was sooooo cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:37 PM
48

He's not ready for an adult relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:08 PM
10

Cuz he ONLY wants to control a woman's sexuality. That's all he cares about. To that end, he's right. $6.99 is a bargain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:36 PM
50

It's probably a common facial expression on video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:33 PM
14

Omg... wtf is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:36 PM
16

Yes. My life changed for the better when I stopped arguing with people, especially online. People are: a) absolutely entitled to their own opinion; b) don't need to share my beliefs for me to feel comfortable holding them; c) required to earn the benefit of my wisdom and expertise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:22 PM
6

Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:19 AM
23

I'd be embarrassed if my man were this stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:49 PM
29

V Day is about the expression of love and care. It's important to give and receive love. An elderly female relative might enjoy spending virtual vday with you. Plants and animals are big babies that are love sponges. Your house is too... my house and its comforts feed my soul. You can also do a service project or raise money for a cause. Adoptanelder.org is one of my favorites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:40 PM
12

Yep, read the fine print ladies. A marriage contract is 40 or so rights, spanning family rights, financial rights, legal rights. It isn't just a sheet of paper. From wiki (USA), these are the rights and benefits Right to benefits while married: Employment assistance and transitional services for spouses of members being separated from military service; continued commissary privileges Per diem payment to spouse for federal civil service employees when relocating Indian Health Service care for spo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:23 PM
31

Yeah. I thought I was the only one who dealt with the "I left my wallet at home" bit. I didn't realize that was part of the Playbook for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:09 PM
85

This sub has made me realize how common it is for guys to manipulate situations so they can be as lazy as possible. Pathological laziness Pathological manipulation Pathological immorality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:59 PM
8

No guy would put up with the bullshit they want women to put up with. He wants anal? Degrade him first. He wants BDSM? Strangle him first, with no safe word. He wants to game all night? Play Candy Crush for 40 hours straight and make him sit there and watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:48 PM
13

Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:45 PM
39

She should just leave. You can't hope that someone develops common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:43 PM
65

When people tell you who they are, listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:33 PM
145

Omg... why can't these dumbasses act like adults. Why would they want their family stepping in their piss? It's so unmanly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:31 PM
77

Why would he kick his own fiance out of her house??? Dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:28 PM
3

Yup. They made the internet for porn, games and weed. Could've been used for anything but that's what they wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:25 PM
61

Exactly. Do it back to them. Get the loudest vibrator you can find and spend hours on the toilet, watching porn and having orgasms. Then put CandyCrush on the big TV and game for 3 hours straight. Then go back to the bathroom and masturbate for another solid hour. Do this every day, month after month. And the develop a kink for a threesome with another guy, as a result of watching all the porn. Ask him to agree to it. Call him a prude when he doesn't want to. Then go out and do it anyway. When h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:54 AM
14

That's awful. Show her the cptsd sub!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:52 AM
39

Gen X guys are all porn sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:50 AM
28

Guys don't care... they don't care how depraved and shitty they get. That's a bottomless pit. They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:49 AM
27

Yikes There is no such thing as a diet only one of you are on. When you cook and share meals, dieting is a family affair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:46 AM
25

Good Reddit and archivx should be next. How much cp is on archivx?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:43 AM
34

What is UP with all these guys who are adults who dont fekkin shower?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:42 AM
48

So he thought human females layed eggs like chickens do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:38 AM
78

So Kevin Samuels is an incel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:36 AM
104

HVMs dont let themselves go. That's all the noise you need to hear. LVM gonna LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:35 PM
19

What new features? I'd love one that was funny and did the dishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:08 PM
10

Nice!!! We need to normalize the option of having a baby woth no drama. It really is a great option, especially if you have support anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:04 PM
8

It's not just a sheet of paper. It's a set of 40 or so legal and financial bindings, including his gd debt. You need to protect yourselves, my dear ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:40 PM
3

Block and delete is a drama-reduction strategy. It's meant to eliminate the trash from your life, permanently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:49 PM
3

Gaming and beer? Incel fantasy. Lol, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:46 PM
6

Brain dead. Have some common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:45 PM
36

Why can't he speak like an adult?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:41 PM
3

Ok! Please don't give him a second chance. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:37 PM
26

It's addiction. Video games, porn and weed keep them sedated. The highs they get from those drugs are "good enough". Laziness, stubbornness and immorality keep them from achieving anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:20 PM
133

Don't forget the cops that let them in. So LVM!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:57 AM
17

Sorry my dear. This isn't an honest conversation. He's shutting it all down. Did you respond?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:53 AM
16

Haha. Guys really need finishing school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:53 AM
11

Ugh. What? Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:40 AM
50

It looks like scene from the Lodge in Twin Peaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:21 AM
18

Lol. I miss that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 03:15 AM
11

That is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:36 AM
157

Well that was an LVM parade... so many LVM boomers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:35 AM
23

Ugh. I will never forget the time I saw it here. 5000 upvotes. Hit the front page of all. My brain will never forget it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:34 AM
65

Omg. An incel hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:17 PM
1

Check out the resources on r / cptsd. Especially Peter Walker's books. Imho, if you're working thru trauma, you should think long and hard about being in a relationship. You need time to heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:48 PM
12

The number of F's you give abput other people's opinions of you will completely go away around the age of 30. You just stop having the energy to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:40 PM
169

Well, that's a Pickme mating call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:37 PM
5

Haha. Your title summarizes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:21 PM
34

We need to normalize images of the 4th trimester. So many people think that you're gonna disappear for a month and then show up on the other side with a robust baby, a newly peeled face, and a reconstructed body. That's how it works for movie stars. Not for real people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:20 PM
10

Does she have a brain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:54 PM
17

This is what fatherhood is. It isn't: putting the baby in the bouncer while you play COD for 4 hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:50 PM
6

Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:41 PM
20

Omg, yes. Headphones on, sound off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:38 PM
25

Yeah, one of ex boyfriends did this to me while he was with me. Apparently Latina girls are the hottest. shrug Go get her, tiger. There is a pickme for every NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:37 PM
104

You don't have to be cute about it. It's a legal contract. You should have a lawyer review it at the least, and an HVM would expect that. No one should ever coerce you to sign any kind of contract. You all should have a lawyer as part of your level up strategy. You need basic docs: a will, medical pass thru, etc. A trusted lawyer will be a part of this. I had my lawyer look over all my home ownership paperwork. They ripped up the original contrcts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:43 AM
4

Wow!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:37 AM
20

Well 2020 was good. I cleaned the ever living shit outta my house. It was long overdue. I upgraded almost every corner of the house I could afford to. I got even more fit!! I volunteered a ton. I stopped baking!! And got my quarantine cooking under control. I got my Amazon spending under control. I sold a lot of stuff I don't need anymore. I read some books... not as many as I wanted to. I learned that I don't really mind quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:51 AM
45

So he's a criminal. This is a CRIME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:04 AM
21

His problem is NYC. His Austin-equivalent salary is around $35k. That's a rough salary to try to date on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:57 PM
25

Yup $200 in Austin is $500 in NYC https://www.nerdwallet.com/cost-of-living-calculator/compare/austin-tx-vs-new-york-manhattan-ny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:36 PM
14

This should really have a massive trigger warning. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:17 PM
23

Culture. Some cultures have such low expectations of their males that it necessitates grooming women to accept rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:15 PM
7

Sounds like Jayz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:00 PM
18

Oh Mikey, that's called prostitution. It you weren't a broke ass scrub, you could afford one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:58 PM
5

Aw. Once you experience a relationship with an HVM that ACTUALLY loves you (the kind that comes with respect for you as a human), your body will reject all that other stuff. Until them, study HV people in the wild. It will change your perception of how you should regard yourself and your emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:48 PM
16

Yes! Have a million ways to say no safely, even if it includes lying. Do whatever maximizes your safety and mental well being when dealing with a creeper or a begger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:44 PM
25

So many posts where it's clear that guys use marriage as an avenue to rape without consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:40 PM
53

With your new BangMaid 2000, you can experience semi-realistic "sex" with a "woman" who will "like" your for who you are. By "sex", we mean masturbation. By "woman", we mean a pile of electronics. By "like", we mean we make it easy for you to delude yourself that you're interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:39 PM
5

You're right. Humans are social creatures. While some of us can exist happily with minimal social lives, most of us need it. I wish you luck in finding comfort in friends!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:19 PM
33

Agree. What's so great about bestiality and bestiality pedophilia? All it takes is an ounce of common sense and an iota of morality to ban this shit. It's all for the money, money, money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:39 PM
128

Anime and pedophilia go hand in hand. Everytime I find a pedo on Reddit, I check their post history. 100% of the time, they are anime dorks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:27 PM
85

Loneliness is a type of hunger that can lead you down a.bad path. It's like trying to eat clean when you live inside a McDs. How do you eat healthy when you're surrounded by trash? It's a matter of the commitment to your own wellness has to be a stronger pull than giving into the thirst that loneliness causes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:02 PM
10

Show her the manual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:55 PM
48

Why do guys think boundary-shaming works?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:54 PM
15

Ugh. That is creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:52 PM
24

I see the wasted potential of so many women around me, particularly women of color. We'll only succeed if we support each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:51 PM
3

Congrats!! Well wishes for a happy marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:45 PM
63

Yes a rich and/or powerful guy can be an LVM. Look at Donnie and Melania. He's out there humping Stormi while Melania's giving birth to his 5th child. What's high value about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:44 PM
29

This is exactly why YOU should never confront his gaming addiction. He needs addiction counseling from a medical professional. Walk away as soon as you see these signs and don't look back: Addiction to porn and/or sexual violence Addiction to gaming Addiction to drugs and alcohol Addiction to laziness Addiction to pathological lying You are not qualified to assist him with these psychological problems. De-addicting him will ultimately tear you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:40 PM
3

shrug There's a pickme for every LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:39 AM
21

I went to therapy for a few years. It was pointless. I didn't know what to expect, so I got nothing from it. Imho, therapy needs to be more regulated as a medical intervention. What are the expectations? What is success supposed to look like? What does a good therapist quantifiably do? What is the efficacy rate of therapy? What about the efficacy rate of psychiatric drugs? These are all questions I have about the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:36 AM
4

🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:47 PM
18

Any LVM that can't hook up with the literal millions of pickmeishas out there are just pathologically lazy. I am not sure what they are so butthurt about. 99% of this sub has nothing to do with them, in any way that could actually affect them. LV people can and will find each other and make babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:24 PM
10

Sorry. I have embarrassing family members too. They are cordially uninvited to my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:14 PM
6

Pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:58 PM
36

Yup It's radicalization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:56 PM
6

Hmm... does she act normal in group settings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:48 PM
14

I kinda agree. Haters gonna hate. And there are literally millions of pickmeishas for all the millions of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:06 PM
99

Hmm. Just tell her that if she acts that way, she won't see him again. She needs to try to act normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:03 PM
20

I honestly feel like there should be a service like tinder except it requires a background and credit check. Everyone who posts HAS to be verified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:22 PM
23

Lulz. Wtf? He's mad cuz an adult acted like adult?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:16 PM
187

In related news, "no scrubs" was written in '99.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:11 PM
5

Ask your dad to find a man that meets your list of standards. How long will it take for him to ask you to just adopt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:59 PM
3

Omg Jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:56 PM
4

I have a friend who is "waiting for a man to buy her diamonds". I'm like, why? Just do it. If you're an adult, start investing in very high quality goods that hold their value and style over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:54 PM
12

Y'all you only have this one life to live. Don't waste it on volunteering to be a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:51 PM
43

Also carry two wallets. When he pulls that "forgot my wallet" bullshit, you can pull the "hey my wallet is empty" bs as a clap back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:47 PM
32

These guys are always anime/loliart nerds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:44 PM
58

What's the point of being married to a guy like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:15 PM
21

It's an LVM parade!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:13 PM
40

Free prostitution alert!!! He gets safe sex for free. She gets not even that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:12 PM
8

Ah... spoken like a guy whose only interactions with women is on OnlyWhores.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:33 PM
46

Yup. It's sad, tbh. And the crazier thing is that they aren't even pro-choice activists. Forced maternity is forced paternity, but LVM don't care because forced paternity just means forking over 40% of $0 worth of wages. It's no secret why rich men are pro-choice. More money, more problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:15 AM
73

I like that he didn't use the word "fun". "Are you fUn? Do you like to have FuN?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:45 AM
109

In other words, "I am butthurt that my daddy never loved me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:43 AM
22

Skincareover30 is great. I am biased but imho, all women should be doing barre, and most should be doing strength and conditioning. Having said that, you will be most successful at exercising when it makes you happy. If you love music, maybe try zumba. If you love the outdoors, try outdoor bootcamp. If you can't do either, try one of weight watchers "beginner" videos. I don't like any of the fashion subs I have found so far. I like Anna Bey's advice on fashion. She helped me part with my childis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:17 AM
185

That's a lot of words for "LVM seeks free prostitute".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:06 AM
2

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:04 AM
3

Pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:49 AM
9

I stopped reading after " strip club". "It's like OnlyWhores, but IRL!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:44 AM
35

Hell yes. Pretending like he doesn't know that he is hurting you is the biggest manipulation and lie. He knows, ladies. He just doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:19 PM
2

Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:46 PM
35

I just setup a shit load of fire works that I definitely will not explode when my friends and I get drunk. Yeah, no. An HVM would've compromised. Set off fireworks somewhere else and then come to ring in the new year with his family. Or he could've been honest. "Hey babe, I'd love to set off fireworks but want to respect you. Can I get you a spa day and a hotel room? I will do my thing and then join you for ringing in the new year?" Or he could just grow up. He has no idea how many veterans are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:44 PM
17

Lulz... at least he didn't start an argument about "cultures that have a younger age of adulthood" or that a menstruating girl is an adult. What a jag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:34 PM
35

I wish I had actually become a real therapist so I could get paid to do all this work. Getting a Therapy degree is so gd expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:31 PM
3

Why wouldn't he date a bald woman then? Many, many women have alopecia. Maybe they would bond over a commonality. Oh we know why. Cuz he's entitled to set standards of fuckability but we're not entitled to the same. Lol at him judging anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:28 PM
0

Wow. Most of the options you post here are contrary to the sub!! Very interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:22 PM
86

Right? BDSM is another word for criminal violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:37 PM
348

Why doesn't he objectify himself? Why does he have to do it to her? I just wanna ask any guy who's into BDSM if I can stick 15 needles in his dick and repeatedly slap him across the face with a 5 inch cast iron skillet. BDSM, baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:50 PM
4

Happy new year, smart ladies. Here's to HV lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:46 PM
6

Hmm... there was probably something going on. Animals are pretty honest about their emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:31 PM
18

Thank you. Do you really need to pay someone to listen to the same senseless circular conversations over and over? Does he really need to hear your words regurgitated by a 3rd party? I mean is he that unwilling to listen to you directly? Fuck marriage counseling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:17 PM
10

Omg..... what an asshole... What kind of second thoughts is she having?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:12 PM
14

I think the main points were that a) gender seems affect how one copes with loneliness; b) in the study, it shows that older males have less social activity than older females; c) (my understanding) is that guys start to lose interest in "rewards" as they get lonelier; and d) (my understanding) as women get lonely, they get more introspective. They tried very hard in the research not to jump to any conclusions. They can see differences in brain activity but they weren't willing to say what the d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:07 PM
20

Related https://www.inverse.com/mind-body/brain-scans-reveal-how-men-women-respond-differently-to-relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:55 PM
33

Thank god for Scooter. He's a HVC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:27 PM
59

It's great how animals pick up on the creeper energy. I had a contractor in my house once who I thought was acting totally normal. My roommate's dog knew what was up though. As soon as that contractor walked through the door, that dog was on him like white on rice. I thought she was acting so strange. I have never seen her like that. Then of course, the contractor tried to mess with me. And that dog almost killed him. I have never seen a dog go full attack before. Holy shit is that scary. But th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:45 PM
177

Wow. So he needed to knock you down a peg. What an ass. Guys are only ever about two things: their penis and their ego. He viewed your buying a house as a threat to his ego so he clapped back with a dig at yours. He musta been real hurt. Insecurity in guys makes my vag wanna commit suicide. It's a mental health cancer that will damage his ability to become an emotionally-capable adult. I wish I could tell you not to be hurt or sad. You deserve a man who wants good things for you. An HVM would've…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:03 PM
16

The lack of self-awareness combined with unbelievable amounts of arrogance is what gets me. Somenof these guys think they are a prize. Like, no? And what made you believe that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:52 PM
11

There's probably a video game based on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:03 PM
26

Yes walking out is preferable. I would love to understand where this new wave of begging came from. It seems to be a solidly Gen Y / Z situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:40 PM
18

Ugh. Sounds awful. Some people get fixated on status symbols instead of a good life. "He cheats on me but he buys me an LV bag"... that's sugar logic, not FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:28 PM
37

As a woman of color... yeah... there's a strange thing where old white guys think that all women of color are gonna suck their dicks if the old white dude smiles at you. They just assume that we're all fresh off the boat and need someone to save them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:23 PM
60

Begging is a gigantic red flag. You gotta arm yourself with the tools to shut down. I don't know why you would continue a conversation with a guy who started begging but if you do, just say this, "either change the topic or I will never speak to you again". And the follow through on that threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:19 PM
2

Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:18 AM
20

Remember the last time a menslib group took an active stance against child rape and actually did something about it? Oh right. That never happens. Aside from the fact that it would require effort and take them away from their precious addictions, they simply do not care that their money and clicks are paying for child rape. They. Don't. Care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:12 AM
32

Gaslighter "How can I just lie, lie, lie until I'm the victim?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:38 PM
42

Bait n switch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:53 PM
91

Okay but can we remind guys: He's not entitled to a reason why. That "no" isn't an invitation to badgering and begging. That "no" isn't an invitation to ask the same question a different way. That "no" to a sex act means "no, period". That not being willing to accept no as answer is not a failure of communication on her behalf; it's a failure of acceptance on his end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:57 PM
11

100%. You deserve better from your own father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:32 PM
1

Got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:30 PM
13

Yech. He's an LVM. They literally have world view based on low values. When he talks shit about you, that's only about him putting his low values on display. He doesn't even know how to value his own daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:27 PM
34

Is there a chance that these two guys are also deadbeat "fathers"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:40 PM
-5

Why did she respond? Block n delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:37 PM
1

What's PMO?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:57 PM
21

I know a few personally. There are great guys out there. I have met about 5 or so in 20 years. The problem is that there really aren't enough HVM to go around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:32 PM
19

Lol... they take and never give. They feel entitled to your emotional support and empathy. LVM don't return the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:30 PM
16

Yeah... talking shit = drama Honestly just move on. Don't argue, don't fuss, just move on. If you need to grieve, try to find a way to do it constructively. Grief can be transformational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:26 PM
52

Lol. I know that life. I love how they get super testy when they state the obvious and you don't coddle them like a genius when they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:22 PM
50

Good thing the billions of dollars we spent trying to find terrorists and snooping on American private lives really worked out. This isn't a matter of "ignoring" her. They actively allowed him to build that bomb in their own backyard. It's sedition: aiding and abetting domestic terrorism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:20 PM
28

I can smell that pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:14 PM
11

Girl...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:14 PM
56

Involuntary porn is a CRIME. What don't these perverts understand???? It's a gd CRIME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:12 PM
3

I haven't found any, which makes me sad. You might write Angie's list and ask if they could offer it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:52 AM
2

Ah haha. I got it! Sounds painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:50 AM
8

I would love the same. Angie's list could just have a filter for certified Minority-owned or certified woman-owned businesses. I mean, they could if they made the decision too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:41 PM
1

I'm glad she got through it. It makes me sad to think of all the pain she went thru.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:25 PM
1

Yeah it's tough. It sounds like she really needed an intervention and trauma-informed therapy. In those days, trauma-informed therapy wasn't even a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:18 PM
7

Those are dangerous games to play. Very dangerous. It's honestly crazy to me how many talented women end up in such terrible relationships. Mariah Carey's first marriage was straight-up psychotic. We just don't teach kids relationship skills. We raise them in the wake of our own damaged, effed up relationships and expect them to grow up to be adults with relationship skills by miracle. You gotta raise your kids to be HVP and to have high standards and values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:03 PM
29

Aw... sweet. When you get a house, you realize how many fookin tools you need. Like fixing a leaking sink. Try snaking it. Okay lemme go buy a snake. Try tightening all the joints. Okay lemme go get the right size wrench. Try resealing all the joints. Okay lemme go buy a 10 gallon jar of sealer when I only need a half cup worth. Anything you get as a gift that helps you to stop forking over your paycheck to Home Depot is great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:55 PM
197

I thought he was a born again Christian?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:50 PM
6

Good lord. I am sorry. There will be a day when this is all behind you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:06 PM
2

Explain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:15 PM
2

Omg lol... who is this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:14 PM
6

Stockholm syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:13 PM
6

((Hugs)) any red glags along the way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:12 PM
61

Guys really need to take their culture back. Their unbelievable laziness is all on them. The sedative of porn and video games are a huge problem that tech is enabling. I wouldn't be surprised if gaming made more money than the top 5 grossing non-prescription drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:12 PM
10

Sugar babies have their own sub, where they discuss their john and their price for service. Sugar is a financial strategy, not a dating strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:06 PM
3

It's such an easy lie to detect. I don't understand anyone who state lies about their appearance in their profiles. Did you wanna start a relationship off with a whopper??? It's thirsty, desperate, insecure... why would you lead with that? It doesn't matter what you look like. You just have to commit to believing in yourself if you've presented the best version of you. Haters gonna hate and they aren't your problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:19 PM
2

Update #5 When you find content that is unlawful, in addition to reporting it to the FBI, please also report it using the "NetzGD" act. Reddit provides this as a reporting violation. Remember, you can report one piece of CRIMINAL or ILLEGAL content for more than one rule violation. To read why this important and what the consequences are for platforms that violate INTERNATIONAL LAWS: https://cdt.org/insights/overview-of-the-netzdg-network-enforcement-law/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:31 PM
4

Absolutely. We're an army too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:35 PM
18

The most difficult thing with standing your ground is living without. An employer won't pay you what you're worth? Then the question can easily become: do I go jobless or do I let an employer take advantage of me? That's reductionist thinking. There are a dozen other options but we're so trained to see the two possibilities that our brains ask us be default to take the hit to your longterm goals to sacrfice for short term survival. The thing about guys now is that they have to be viewed as an op…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:30 PM
26

70 - 100% of an LVM's regard for you is determined by his view of how hard his peepee will get looking at you. LVM have lizard brains. Guys who say things like this are all over the place. When they say things like this, you know they weren't raised to be anything better. All they will ever be in life is an LVM with a lizard brain. They don't actually contribute anything to society except maybe labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:19 PM
31

Omg. Creep alert. Is there something in the water? When did people get so crazy? I honestly think the real pandemic is : profound levels of mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:14 PM
2

I am sorry you had to see those images. Reporting all CP to the authorities, using the proper channels is the correct way to handle it. Platforms have proven time and time again that they are not willing to do the work it would take to eliminate this particular FEDERAL CRIME on their platforms. Don't ever forget that any participation in CP is a FEDERAL CRIME. Those who get prosecuted go to JAIL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:04 PM
7

If it's really child porn, it should be reported to the FBI. It's a federal crime to film it, have it on your computers, and/or distribute it. Distributing is a minimum of 5 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:58 PM
6

Absolutely. It's literally a federal crime... but on Reddit, it's just a minor no-no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:51 PM
3

It's "socially acceptable misogyny".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:50 PM
33

The mods here are the real heroes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:55 AM
8

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:50 AM
66

I am not surprised. Post it here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:45 AM
7

Omg!! I had no idea. I can't see them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:07 PM
7

Is this one awarded? I haven't received any award notices. Nor does the post show as having awards, on my end. No idea why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:59 PM
2

Haha! Very good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:53 PM
7

It was labeled with their ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:41 PM
18

Nope. We're being censored. shrug that's why I went to the FBI instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:28 PM
18

I wish I had the programming skills of the guys in r / datais beautiful. They run programs that analyze the nsfw sites all the time. It would be helpful to know all the new nsfw subs created and who is creating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 09:49 PM
22

All good info... Thx for sharing. How is rape treated in other states?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:36 PM
8

I have seen this subs post on trending on r / popular. Not sure if that's the same point you're making?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:34 PM
50

Update #4 We are not yet on trending on r / popular as far as I can tell. "Coincidentally" two pedo posts are: Insinuates that vigilante justice and not actual platform-wide bans on illicit content are all that we need. Shows how women are to blame for CP. The women are nuns. I don't doubt that certain religious women are abusing their powers. Isn't that strange, ladies? So strange? We apparently don't need platform-based protections cuz Anon will take care of it. And anyway, it's women who are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:28 PM
18

As long as exploiting women and children makes more money, money, money than doing something about exploitation, nothing will be done. Let's hope Ghislane burns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:23 PM
9

Yup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:20 PM
7

Amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:14 PM
58

You should not have to. Vigilante justice can't hold a candle to laws and public policy changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:40 PM
50

I don't understand how they can use AI to identify a song that is illegally added to a video and not use the same tech to identify the sound a child being raped. I don't understand how you can use AI to find a criminal in a sea of videos and photos but you can't use that same AI to find obvious children in a CP video. They can't? They can't? They can't? Or they WON'T? It's all about money, money, money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:35 PM
56

There was a post of a father who bought his daughter a dog in r / aww. He posted a pic of her and the dog. There were so many comments about raping her that I had to post a reminder to everyone about reporting the violations in the comments. The nice thing is that people actually do report violations once they know it only takes three clicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:25 PM
57

Yeah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:08 PM
46

To Reddit, yes. Their content terms prohibit content that is involves minors and is sexually suggestive. Bestiality seems to be more of a grey area. Sadly. To the FBI, I am not sure, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:07 PM
39

It's extremely troublesome to support a site that has no way of verifying whether the petabytes of porn uploaded and distributed on it are created legally. It's extremely troublesome to leave a site because a bunch of horny, greedy criminals won't be held accountable by a COMMUNITY OF MILLIONS. It's troubling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:02 PM
44

Yes anyone can report CP to the FBI. Do not look for CP on the app. I don't know how you would clear the app's cache. Theoretically, using a Tor browser would be better. Brave has a Tor browser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:43 PM
27

Cuz it's only a crime on paper. Remember the music industry used the court system to shut down pirate's bay for illegal distribution of intellectual property. Aiding in the distribution of drugs and ammo shut down silkroad. There is legal precedent to shut down any CP distro site. But none of them are held accountable. No one holds these companies accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:31 PM
196

They don't care. They know about what they are aiding and abetting. They don't care. They don't care. Become lawyers, ladies. Become programmers. All porn needs to be verified in order to be distributed. A verification server or blockchain needs to be enacted. If they can take down Pirate's Bay for music copyright laws, they can take down CP distribution sites for CP. It can happen. They choose for it not to happen. Be very clear that the proliferation of CP is a deliberate set of choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:21 PM
168

Well... there is also the question of modding... the most popular subs are controlled by a dozen or so mods. If you look at these mod accounts, some of them are suspiciously bot-like. Manic number of posts in a single day, hardcore karma whoring. Those accounts are worth money, money, money. If your sub has repeated violations of CP, your mod handle should be be banned. You shouldn't be allowed to make money off CP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:58 PM
60

I wish there were a porn-free reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:51 PM
39

I reported it too... same result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:49 PM
68

I agree. This is the CEO of Reddit. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Steve_Huffman It's servers are on AWS (Amazon)... so this content is on Amazon's servers... should Amazon be liable for hosting and distributing, if they do so even without knowing??? That's what will be deliberated soon. New laws about to hit the books on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:39 PM
400

No, there was a child porn post that hit r / popular. It was a honey pot for the other subs. You can find CP all over the web, tbh. Report it to the FBI and never to anyone else. Never email it or text it cuz you could be then held liable for distribution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:25 PM
4

That's nice!! Good for you. It's important to share your progress with him and to listen to his. You probably have a lot to talk about with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:58 PM
424

Update #3 When Reddit does find CP, they only temp ban the user... so committing a federal crime on their site results in a hand slap. Thanks for submitting a report to the Reddit admin team. After investigating, we’ve found that the account(s) <name deleted> violated Reddit’s Content Policy and have taken the following actions: User <name deleted> was temporarily banned The reported content was removed If you see any other rule violations or continue to have problems, submit a new report to let…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:56 PM
29

You don't want to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:32 PM
766

There was full on snuff in Iamatotalpieceofshit the other day - a day or two after pornhub lost contnt. The OP was someone who routinely checked snuff / hatdcore BDSM subs. He then posted a video of a woman who was put in a giant plastic bag and had the air sucked out of it. You see her writhing around, unable to say the safe word and she passes out. She later talks about how terrified she was. Literally snuff, literally thousands and thousand of upvotes. How does it get to that many votes, get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:28 PM
121

Unfortunately, INTERPOL does not allow you to report crimes. https://www.interpol.int/Contacts/Contact-INTERPOL It is insanely difficult to report CP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:22 PM
83

All for the money... anything for the money. Money, money, money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:14 PM
4

Tbh, I agree. As a woman who truly enjoys the company of a good, moral, intelligent man, I get really sad thinking about how the prostitution industry and video game industry keep guys down... and the weird thing is how guys just roll over and take it. I sincerely hope they can fight for their own mental and behavioral health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:08 PM
45

Upvoted for orgasms, clean, and not a liar or a cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:05 PM
737

It is. Smut/snuff/beastilaity/CP/ and incest keep rising in r / popular, especially after the pornhub crackdown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:17 PM
443

Can we try to vote this to the top of Reddit? Let's send a message to the community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:56 PM
12

Why isnt this text at the top of Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:55 PM
28

We are experiencing an unprecedented time of male failure. Between video games, always-available prostitution, and weed, the majority of males in this world are dysfunctional. Your experience has nothing to do with you so don't take it personally. Statistically speaking you would have have to strike gold to meet a man who has morals and you'd have to strike platinum to find a man with morals and more. All you can do is ensure that you are HV and surround yourself with HVP. That's all you can rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:28 PM
7

Congrats! 1 quality conversation a day seems prety normal. What are the future goals you are working on with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:21 PM
4

Oh good to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:17 PM
136

Seriously... he only thinks it's wrong when his dad says it? But when his WIFE, who is taking care of the baby while making everyone coffee, asks you to reach the level of a bare minimum of a husband, you won't listen to her? That's not just porn sick. That's next level disrespect. He is never gonna be a good husband to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:16 PM
91

The only fwb relationship you need is a vibrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:12 PM
19

Yeah, it just seems like he was insecure. He is too emotionally and mentally immature to be a husband or a father rn. Sometimes I think we need to bring "walkabouts" to the US. American male culture is robbing American males of their ability to experience a full expression of manliness... it's really sad, imho, to see all these half-baked man-children running around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:16 AM
3

Omg, y'all that is so low-value. An HVM has high social skills, which comes with some knowledge of hosting. As head of household, he should have joined her in prepping plates for the guests and served himself last. Holy fucking yikes... don't ever pull that little napolean complex in front of society people. Never ever ever...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:08 AM
45

This goes for mentors, trainers, teachers, doctors... anyone paid for a service. I've had male lawyers, male coaches, and male doctors full on yell at me. I fired all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:04 AM
32

You're not his daddy either... what kind of man raises his child to be such a lazy loser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:02 AM
20

Hmm... what is his rush?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:59 PM
53

Sweet... it shows initiative, interest, consideration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:56 PM
141

Is she a grown up? Is he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:41 PM
46

The decision tree is this: what allows me to remain lazy? Tell her the truth or continue the lie? It all comes down to laziness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:35 PM
13

What a selfish twat. He can't just tell her the truth to save her the trouble?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:34 PM
39

For some women, prostitution in exchange for money and goods IS the end game. If her definition of happiness has money and goods as the ultimate goal, then prostitution/sugar is a logical means to an end. If your definition of happiness is a life well lived with a partner who loves and respects you, that's FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:31 PM
58

I believe in being grateful when LVMs stamp themselves with the LVM label. It saves everyone a lot of trouble. Go thru his social media and comments as a part of the vetting process. If he's a negger, let a pickme have him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:32 PM
14

Melania is a garden- variety sugar baby. She is the real POTUS - prostitute of the US. He treats her like shit but finances her life. She sucks his dick but thinks he's an ass clown. That's NOT FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:44 PM
35

Right? Who decides what is ok? Am I allowed to pay for what turns me on? And it's not cheating? As long as I don't touch him right? And it's a "professional service"? What it were an "amateur service provider" who wanted to give me a free experience so he could get feedback? Where's the line? Who gets to draw it? Why don't women get any options in virtual prostitution services, as a consumer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:39 PM
269

Lol... why does he need to say anything? He seems weirdly triggered by her post. Anyway, his comment screams: "I am a NVM". An HVM would never even consider saying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:33 PM
22

Her mother was a "sufferer"? "I suffer so much... no one understands ".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:58 AM
23

Yup... plenty of rich guys are trash and manwhores (Trump, Clinton, etc). Being rich isn't enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:33 AM
1

Awww... always make a stocking for mom!!!!! It's a must!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:40 AM
35

It's a great sport but it attracts a lot of LVM (fuckbois).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:38 AM
23

Your self worth. High value people surround themselves with other people with strong values.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:44 AM
14

It certainly doesn't. I just learned today that RFK had an affair with Marilyn Monroe too... so disappointing. I knew JFK was a manwhore but RFK too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:59 PM
37

How selfish can he be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:56 PM
5

Culture probably plays a part. I got endlessly harassed by relatives planning mine. If I could have hit the easy button, I would have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:43 PM
57

Of course... If this isn't in the FDS wiki, should it be? https://www.howtogeek.com/411095/how-to-detect-hidden-surveillance-cameras-with-your-phone/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:40 PM
39

That sounds thoughtful and considerate. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:35 PM
5

Huh... that is interesting on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:33 PM
126

Why do all these celebrity women give up their wombs to such trash? The Kardashians are all just baby mama's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:13 PM
6

I found mine at a local discount store. But I have seen them on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B084TCPKKG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_imm_t1_FqZ5Fb97S5FHE?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1 Also, Amazon's own giftwrapping is 100% made from recycled materials. If I buy a gift from them, I pay extra to have them wrap it because it's worth it. They do a great job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:04 PM
5

Ah. Terrible. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:59 PM
30

I believe it. The thing about being with an HVM is how all the anxiety of LVM relationships drop away. You are not worried if your HVM is gonna embarrass you with his lack of hygiene or food manners. You are not worried if he's gonna start begging you to to be slapped or spit on during sex. He's not an idiot or a fucktard in any way of how he relates to you because he constantly hilds himself to a higher standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:05 AM
14

Ugh... I saw comments where a guy was lamenting that his wife was not into BDSM. The overwhelmingly common advice was to manipulate, badger, and coerce her into it. Basically, don't take no for an answer. So manipulate your wife so you'll feel less bad when you rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:54 AM
10

Congrats
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:47 AM
24

Ha! I taught a bunch of male coworkers how to wrap using nice cloth bags with ribbon pull ties.... They had no idea it could be so easy to level up their gift giving game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:47 AM
-5

I don't know who she is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:22 AM
18

Of course they can... cuz when it comes to humping, they don't care who they hurt or what damage they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:11 AM
33

Girl... reddit is full of preggo porn. So crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:21 PM
8

Lol. Why doesn't he go to a bonafide sugar site then? It's also a crime to solicit prostitution https://www.thoughtco.com/what-is-solicitation-970881
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:29 PM
-15

Is she trafficked? I wonder if she is in hostage/drugged situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:50 PM
78

Wait till you meet an HVM in real life. It'll turn your world upside down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:46 PM
25

Yeah it hopefully will be more of a discussion... misogyny and porn is causing low birth rates. It would be great if cultures woke up and dealt with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:58 PM
22

Good ol' "aich-roo"... almost guarantees sexual begging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:00 PM
94

Cuz they don't care. They don't care what damage they do with their humping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:58 PM
93

When I first saw how white nerds were devouring anime 20 years ago, I knew a new wave of sexual fetishism was upon us. Asian women are trapped right now. Give in to the misogyny of your own culture or the fetishism of a foriegn culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:32 PM
13

If you don't do anything outside of gaming and porn, you're unlikely to a personality or any social/emotional skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:23 PM
17

Ugh IKR? The 70 yr old dudes at my gym are diaper-wearing, saggy titted pervs. The "booty blaster workout" pickmeisha girls love it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:14 PM
33

I was at the grocery store last night. Throngs of people shopping in the Xmas aisle.... yikes, people, yikes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:12 PM
206

Lol... free prostitution, anyone? Anyone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:09 PM
6

Yeah... like a legal family... all the good rights of family and none of the bad ones... I don't want to acquire responsibility for another person's debt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:36 PM
7

Green flag gifts also come from his family. Are they accepting of you for who you are? Or is every gift a reminder that you need to conform? That shit becomes so draining over time. It makes you start despising Xmas and holidays. One green flag is giving you what you asked for. It's literally the least he can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:57 PM
14

This is where I wish lady lawyers could help. How do we form legal cooperatives?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:51 PM
85

Dudes are socially butt fucking each other to get to the top. The American corporate promotion scheme is 100% a circle jerk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:26 PM
11

Yup LVM become low value fathers who don't have the skills to raise an HVM. That's why abuse lasts generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:21 PM
12

The attention I got didn't change in quality, just quantity. The skinnier I got, the more attention I got but always from NVM/LVM. There is no getting around the fact there are not enough HVM to go around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:32 AM
72

If someone ever spit on me, I'd beat the shit out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:35 AM
13

The begging is strange... have some pride, man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:30 PM
24

Addiction (porn, videogames, weed) Laziness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:50 PM
120

Cringe, but I am happy for him. He is aware of being LVM and is acting accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:48 PM
9

Right? They skip past the part of behaving like a grown man and having a grown man's priorities and then expect for someone else to just hand them an adult life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:55 PM
2

Can I make a suggestion? Can you change what you follow? I follow but mute 90% of my social contacts There is a social obligation to follow people, but their shit doesn't have to fill up your feed. My feed is almost 100% devoted to my social values: left wing politics, self help, artists, musicians, home decor, athleticism. My social media feed never makes me feel "less than". Just my .02!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:52 PM
9

Return his xmas gifts. Spend the money on you. That's ass of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:48 PM
2

That happened to me with an LVM friend. I had helped through some big issues. When I opened up about my stuff, he just rolled his eye at me... blocked, deleted, gone. I didn't vet his emotional reciprocity before "giving too much". Lesson learned. "wow. You're really going through a tough time... it sounds like you need you talk to a therapist." "gosh, that sounds really difficult. I don't even know what to say but my heart thinks you really need to speak to a professional therapist." "Wow, that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:40 PM
10

He said that to you??? That's so LVM. Manners matter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:28 PM
16

They know and they don't care. They don't care. They just don't want to be caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:25 PM
27

This happened to a family whose comatose daughter had an in-home health care worker. He was molesting her and eventually raped her enough times that one incident of rape resulted in a pregnancy. He tried to claim custody later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:22 PM
45

Good!!!! Stand up for yourselves, ladies! You have power!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:18 PM
169

If the same guy reports the same profile, they should ban him from the profile. Demand changes, ladies. Send this trash to OLD sites and ask them to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:28 PM
33

It happens around 35... that's when PIED finally gets them and they start whining about being touch starved. The reason you're touch starved is your poor life choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:58 PM
80

It's especially true with a mastectomy and even more true with a double masectomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:33 AM
57

I remember that one. I got very distinct cultural misogyny from that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:31 AM
26

Yeah... codependency caused by an absent father. It's not right, but that's a relationship born out of trauma. There was a high chance it was going to end up fucked up. These dudes poppin' their sperm into any pussy... fuckin' take some responsibility for the mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:30 AM
231

Lol. It's good to see guys calling other guys out on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:25 AM
30

Is the other guy in the threesome an HVM??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:23 AM
44

Wow what a way to call yourself out as an LVM LVM's gonna fap... they were never expected to be anything more in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:21 AM
11

Nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:34 AM
16

Pathological laziness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:25 AM
19

How can we support her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:24 AM
57

Yes! Let's celebrate single mothers. And wonder what happened to the fathers who chose to abandon their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:21 AM
53

Hmmm I see where you are coming from. I don't know if I agree with you. Just my .02, but FDS is different than sugar babying / prostitution. With sugar babying, the transparent expectation known to both parties is money and goods in exchange for sex acts. A "rich, hot guy" like Sean Penn back in the day is still the very definition of an LVM, and still probably regarded as a profitable target by a sugar baby. FDS is about knowing what makes you happy and finding a partner who is as committed to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:09 PM
26

Charge them Charge Reddit Charge *chan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:01 PM
16

No one's kids are happy with no fun. They are just waiting till the can leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 09:43 PM
103

The take "dick in a box" literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:09 PM
9

Hmm... she was hiding him for his own protection probably. Sad for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:04 PM
7

Sad... how can we have a campaign to celebrate single moms?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:00 PM
55

I honestly worry about my older days. I want the protection of some kind of dorm without the harrassment of a bunch geriatric perverts. I would gladly live in a women's only retirement community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:51 PM
46

Yup all those guys knew what they were doing putting up those sites.... not a single woman has put up a site that covertly made money from sex trafficking. I'll say it again: guys don't care about the problem of rape until they get caught. Reddit could do something about their distribution of videos of trafficked women and children but they won't until they get a lawsuit. And when they do, they'll use the Pirate's Bay defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:47 PM
31

And they expect you to give them a life. You're supposed to constantly come up with ideas to entertain him, and his only job is to veto or approve. Hell nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:55 PM
10

Where was his father? Was he alive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:44 PM
121

It would be great if we told girls the truth about modern romance. You either don't engage, get lucky, or get stuck with behavioral problems that are beyond your capacity to deal with. If you think you're gonna solve his videogame or porn addiction, think again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:02 PM
1

Yes, thanks My hairdresser right now is a straight white male. He makes money, loves his job, and is good at it... I just don't understand why anyone would deny that hairdressing is a valid career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:55 PM
113

Female cooperative societies exist... rn they seem to be built for aging women to help keep them safe. It really feels like a fundable housing project idea. Like a lifelong dorm for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:51 PM
134

Cuz reddit is a porn site before it is anything else. The sheer volume of porn/trafficking videography subs on reddit is staggering. It's reddit's dirty little secret. They do everything pornhub does but for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:28 PM
276

It's not worth it anymore. There aren't enough HVM to go around. You really want to be a wet nurse and a domestic slave to an addict? That is all that's left at this point. Who wouldn't want to be single, given the choice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:08 PM
55

Hmm... probably the gift of my emotional and life skills therapy. If I had to quantify how many hours of behavioral and occupational therapy I put into a few LVM, it would thousands and thousands of dollars of professional services. All for nothing. Learn from my mistakes, ladies. Your job is not to raise him - that was his father's job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:06 PM
69

Yup... agree An HVM won't turn your future into a guessing game. If he's active and interested in life outside of videogames, porn, and weed, he'll be self motivated. "I would like to go Paris in September. Would you like to go with me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:03 PM
28

It really is a male health issue. FDS cares more about male health than guys do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:15 PM
13

It's twofold. Video games and porn and weed keep them sedated. Laziness causes inertia. And unfuckability. This is the reason birthrates are declining. If we correlate the increase in video game consumption in adult males to the decline in birth rates, it would be easier to visualize the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:50 PM
17

They don't care, y'all. When it comes to sex, guys only care about getting themselves off at any cost. It's just masturbation in various contexts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:42 PM
27

Guys never feel the need to pay it back. When you call them on it, they will ghost you. Especially at work. Guys will gladly step on yoir back to get ahead. They won't return the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:39 PM
29

Girl, say it louder for those in the back. They don't have good mental health because they are too gd lazy to do anything about it. Get off your ass and go to therapy. Turn off the porn. Turn off the video games. Go to the fucking gym. Get a lifeplan together... Nope, cuz no one's gonna spoon feed them mental health while also sucking thier dicks, it just won't happen. Laziness in males is a huge problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:34 PM
46

Yikes... 100% his father was the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:26 PM
39

How hard is it to say "thanks for spending time with me but sorry i just don't sense a strong connection here." And then both people just move on... No begging. No whining. Just move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:14 AM
22

Ladies, the make camers detecting tech. Invest in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:20 AM
40

It's cuz they are happy with video games, porn and weed. It's a bonus to get a bangmaid/maid combo for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:21 PM
89

So do guys... ??? I don't understand this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:40 PM
13

Meanwhile HVM have a real plan for how they want to spend a grand. Building a life? Building a future? HVM sell ps5s to LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:44 PM
91

Because in their mind, there's no difference in the mentality of a child vs a man. They literally have no idea how to be an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:39 PM
130

"Would you like to see my porn collection? It's very impressive. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:36 PM
98

Yup HVM can accept valid criticism without turning into a child and throwing a tantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:35 PM
79

Eh... those type of guys are so improperly socialized. It's so cringe. Can you imagine an HVM ever pulling that shit? Manners and respect are a matter of how you were raised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:18 PM
8

CP = child porn = "cheese pizza"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:15 PM
26

"Does anyone want to be my FREE PROSTITUTE??? Anyone? Anyone?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:12 PM
3

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:11 PM
309

It's bizarre to me how entitled guys feel they are to free prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:10 PM
8

Yup... "truly free enterprise " ... really just means that they want to be able to purchase opportunities to rape, torture, strangle, mutilate children and women. It doesn't mean anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:06 PM
4

You can have baby on your own!!! Don't ever forget that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:15 AM
2

Congrats!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:13 AM
7

"Don't need one" is irrelevant when there aren't any... where are all the HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:14 PM
20

Same. I let two guy "friends" use me as a therapist under the delusion of friendship. As soon as the tables were turned, "maybe you should get a girlfriend to talk to". FDS is a life strategy. You dont need Low Value Friends either... if they are low value in every other aspect of their life, they will be a low value friend. It never fails to be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:12 PM
23

Cuz his father pisses all over the toilet. They learn to be slobs from the slobs who raised them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:54 PM
1

Jesus what a loser... the insecurity will never go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:01 AM
17

I just hope you young uns can learn from my mistakes. There are so many expectations of you, from society, to set aside all your hopes and dreams so you can wet nurse a man-child to maturity. Go get what you want in life and don't let other people tell you what you can and cannot want for your own damn life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:43 PM
12

Big Love explored this pretty well. It was interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:39 PM
53

The Rock is bald. I don't hear anyone complaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:37 PM
29

The Bachelor is a huge head scratcher for me... why would you watch that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:57 PM
46

They don't care. They know it and they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:33 PM
17

Yes... there are mentally deranged lvw too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:02 PM
-1

Omg... you first baby.. whack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:58 PM
46

PM a picture of your IRL accomplishments. Don't be shy now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:09 PM
17

It's so crazy to me that when we here of a man expressing normal levels of care, compassion and consideration to a woman, it stands out to us as something extraordinary. Respect, care, consideration, and support are the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:02 PM
11

It's so incredibly selfish to hold someone hostage to a video game. It's like telling a story that no one wants to hear for hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:56 PM
218

Video game addiction and porn addiction are the two that guys seem to think women know how to solve. We don't really and any effort to fix the behaviors just leads to massive resentment. As a woman, if you try to get their behavior under control, you're gonna pay the price one way or another. Unfortunately, American guys are raised by the screen starting at the age of 10 or so. Most American fathers are absent from engaged parenting. The idea is that if your teenage son is at home addicted to po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:18 PM
21

Agree! Having a higher standard for who you are and the type of relationships you want is higely hugely important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:12 PM
13

"I don't have any skills to get a real job and I am too lazy to go back to school."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:08 PM
13

IKR? can you imagine if women categorized guy's bodies like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:06 PM
12

Cuz TRP doesn't work. Working out is the bare minimum. Having a personality and a life plan is th next step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:05 PM
3

It doesn't end prostitution, including video-based prostitution. It's really just about enacting the bare minimum it would take to get trafficking out of the industry. If you were a legit video-based prostitute, why would you want your industry mixed up with child rape?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:56 PM
79

It's an addiction. It has serious consequences. These boys starting their addiction at 10 or 12 years old are in for a nasty surprise: turning into a limpdick in their 20s. It's 100% a men's health issue but you can't tell the guys that. They don't want to hear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:18 AM
2

Now THAT is sex work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:20 AM
10

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:14 AM
8

I literally have never clicked on a targeted ad on reddit or any other form of social media. Who do these ads work on? Target me all you want, I will remain perplexed at what it thinks I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:00 AM
30

"How ever will I make money now?" Get a real job?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:43 AM
3

Check out the r/cptsd sub and read thru the links on the wiki. You don't need to forgive him. Just leave him in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:22 AM
24

Yup. "B-b-but muh weiner" has to stop being an excuse for aiding and abetting child rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:37 PM
39

The legs of a pre teen. horks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:53 PM
29

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:50 PM
24

Their daddies abandoned them so they don't know how to be real men. Inceldom is a cry for help, and red pill was the answer. "Hey I don't know how to be an adult cuz my daddy doesn't love me." "Hur dur go the gym a lot and then walk around with your erect penis sticking out of your pants. Hur dur" "Really? That's the best we can do?" "Hur dur hur dur yuuuuupppp!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:38 PM
203

shrug it's great that LVM's record themselves. It's like wildlife submitting their own videos to Nat Geo. He's just looking for low-value pussy. He can have it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:34 PM
14

No, there's no financial incentive for them to. Financial opportunity for a guy is a 10:6 ratio when compared to a woman. They just have to look at opportunity and it falls in their laps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:47 PM
9

Useless... like you? Do something with your life besides video games, weed, and porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:48 PM
2

All you can do is focus on improving yourself 1% at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:24 PM
5

Nothing about that situation is high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:21 PM
12

Cuz ya spend all ya time in a strip club, dummy? I mean, stop worrying about your dick and actually do something with your life. If you're in your 20s and spend all your time trying to get the attention of sex trafficked women, you're gonna be sleeping on your mon's couch in your 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:17 PM
29

They exist... but there aren't that many of them. Not enough to go around. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:12 PM
43

Nothing screams "i am low value" quite like demanding a stranger smile at you. That person's father didn't teach them high value manners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:00 PM
62

She should buy one too. Do they make ones of men who give a shit about what they look like and put a little effort into it? Given their metabolisms, most of them have no excuse not to be ripped. They are just lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:57 PM
24

Shitty fatherhood and shitty fathering skills have ruined at least 4 generations of Americans... You can't be a "woke" father and brainwash yourself with images of children being raped 10 hrs / wk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:28 PM
10

Let his boss know how you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:36 PM
25

We should campaign more loudly for crimes related to involuntary porn. Who was caught? Charged? Jailed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:28 PM
18

When the trash takes itself out, be glad for not having to waste your energy doing it yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:57 PM
5

You should write a book abou this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:54 PM
14

Reddit is really making it clear that most guys don't know the difference between sex and rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:44 PM
163

So sick of cleaning up penis-driven bullshit. Where are the menslibs guys taking care of their own? Where are all the meninists saying "stop raping your own daughters"? If you ever needed proof that most guys really don't distinguish rape from sex, the past few days have proven it. They don't give a rat's ass about morality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:40 PM
5

R / pornfree and r / nofap are FULL of similar stories. There are 12 year old boys starting their porn journey right now who will reach full sexual maturity with PIED. 100% preventable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:43 PM
4

Yup, I can think of a dozen ways for him to be romantic without being in the same city!! He can do it if he wants to put a little effort into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:23 AM
19

Even the menslib sub took a minute to acknowledge the child rape content... Everyone gets it... no one wants to do anything about it. At the least, anyone who consumes porn should know what constitutes a crime in porn, how to report crimes in porn, what PIED is, and what the minimum minimum penalty is for anything related to involuntary porn and child rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:16 AM
51

Wonder who will sue Reddit first. It took a lawsuit to get smut kicked off Craigslist... Can you imagine if women ran these platforms? You wouldn't have to convince tech leaders that child rape is bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 03:01 AM
11

Yup, you can't teach someone emotional depth and to not be selfish or obstinate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:59 AM
21

Right? I honestly dont understand how Pornhub and Reddit and Craigslist haven't been had more employees go to jail for aiding and abetting child porn. More content platform sites have been shutdown for music piracy than for child porn. Think about that for a second.... ripping off the music industry carries more impact than distribution of images of children getting raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:23 PM
6

It bothers me that EFF is wading into this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:20 PM
6

Use a pedophile-supporting payment option. Bitcoin, for example. MC and Visa have every right to not want to be a part of a criminal activity: creating, distributing, or consuming sexual videography of raped children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 08:19 PM
80

Yup. I would love that. Places that say they have a zero tolerance policy for disrespect never do in practice. I've had lewd, sexual comments lobbed at me in every space, including a doctor's office. Walking down the street, I get the Loser Mating Song (aka a cat call) At the gym, I overheard a conversation among two 20 something guys who were talking about wanting to fuck a 13 year old. They were speaking in Spanish and thought I couldn't understand them. At a coffee shop, some rando admonished…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:59 PM
94

The language of addiction. It's crazy to me that we don't have a national non profit for Pornaholics. We need Pornaholics Anonymous for guys and Porn-anon for the people whose lives are ruined by a guy's porn addiction. Pornhub and Reddit should have to pay a sin tax for the damage they do. Pornhub and reddit should have pop up ads in all relevant content reminding guys to get help for their porn addiction and warning them about PIED. They should also be more forthcoming about "see something / s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:49 PM
1

Yup, the incel swarm and how it shapes public opinion is something we need to talk about. Boys have a way of being persistent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:45 PM
33

So he's a virgin?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:20 PM
14

They whittle your entire worth down to how fuckable they find you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:39 AM
88

They don't give a shit about rape, child rape, sexual assault, sex trafficking. Not a single solitary shit. Neither does Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:35 AM
46

Given how high their metabolisms run, it's crazy to me that any of them have excess body fat. It's a lot easier for them to have a 6-pack than for us to have flat abs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:50 AM
18

Ah cards... suprisingly political relationship topic. If he pulls that shit... you split it down the lines of acquaintances. His family / friends = his responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:30 PM
13

Home ownership should be a #1 financial goal. Get your name on the house!!! Declare it as your homestead! You can do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:15 PM
10

At least they're letting you know that they won't ever have a life where manners matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:06 PM
7

Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:03 PM
68

The entire incel culture is an homage to : "my daddy abandoned me and made a decision not to raise me to be a real man and I really cannot come to terms with all of it. It's easier for me to blame women for all my problems instead of admit to myself that my daddy doesn't love me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:56 PM
10

Lulz... he found a way to teach guys to download child porn on to their hard drives..... Holy shit. Facepalm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:25 PM
8

Imagine if we made them watch "porn" with us? Hey hon, you know what turns me on? Videos of men who did something with their lives. Would you watch one with me and masturbate me while we do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:59 PM
14

But TRP told them bodybuilding would solve all their problems...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:17 PM
14

Because they don't care. There's a part of them that would totally be fine if women were treated IRL the way they are treated in porn. Porn represents a fantasy... they literally fantasize brutalizing women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:07 PM
36

Clinically bad narcissism "It'll be ALL YOUR FAULT if I die with the weight of my poor decisions, including choosing to have no morals, on my head."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:03 PM
66

Reddit should follow suit. The other half of reddit is 100% porn, with no verified consent. Honestly half the porn on here has women of questionable ages. Imho, we should have a campaign to force Reddit to come to terms with its unverified consent issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:55 PM
37

What would happen to guys if women were as addicted to porn as guys are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:48 PM
16

Agree... there is no female equivalent. If guys had to deal with women being addicted to smut, imagine how they would cope with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:17 PM
7

Lol... interesting cherry picking. I do think it's interesting that trp, pua, etc are mocked. Even by him. Hallelujah. You don't need a million terms or a giant taxonomy when a simple single word takes care of it all: losers shrug this kind of commentary is to be expected from that type of an individual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:12 PM
13

Lord, someone's willing to take out the trash? LET THEM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:19 PM
64

It's pretty funny to watch guys manipulate each other with words. Twitter rn is a treasure trove of dudes gas lighting each other and having meltdowns because of it. They cannot handle it when someone does it to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:21 PM
5

"Hur dur slutty teen girl sucks a teachers dick and gets a good grade. Hur dur... it's funny cuz it's my incel fantasy to become a teacher and rape my girl students. Hur dur."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:12 PM
17

Rule #60 - don't date slobs. Being clean is a part of adult life. It's a simple fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:35 PM
9

How powerless do you have to be to come to the conclusion that the only way you can ever have sex is to force yourself on a child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:33 PM
44

You're not his father either. It's not your job to teach him how to be an adult. It's. Not. Your. Job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:38 AM
138

Every day. At work. "You know you can just not speak, right? It's allowed. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:36 AM
5

*strangled Not choked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:47 PM
2

Sugar baby and a hapless dunce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:35 PM
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I think it's like any addiction based problem. It's multi-faceted and has to addressed across all the facets. The biggest changes will happen when men start holding themselves to a higher standard. YoLO, right? They have to decide they want more than a life controlled by a platform that exploits their weaknesses for their profit. I simply cannot stand behind the concept that guys are invested in: let me pay you, plaform technologies, to take away my true happiness and self worth. It's one of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:03 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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