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Wierd. I thought you had a good point. Maybe flesh out your argument and provide some links, maybe they'll accept it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:27 PM
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Why was this removed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:30 PM
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Men, the "rational" sex... If they were so rational they wouldn't have to reminds us with a slogan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:28 PM
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She does a great job of summing up "sex work" and has many valid arguments. Definitely recommend as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:42 AM
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I want to be left alone. Lol, beat me to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 09:30 AM
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Same. I'm here for RadFem and sisterhood 🤜🏾🤛🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:22 AM
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Nothing dries my pussy up faster than seeing a gaming rig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:21 PM
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Even if the police would believe the woman it would also take a judge/jury or however the system works in whatever country you're in. And then most likely a slap on the wrist and he's off raping women to his hearts content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:11 PM
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I've heard it said before that BDSM is mental illness. If I'm traumatized and have a tendency to self harm, every single person would tell me to go get therapy because it's not healthy for me or the people around me. Yet claim it to be about sexual pleasure and it's fair game? It's a "kink" we're not allowed to critique? Nah, it's a scam.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:40 AM
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Or therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:49 PM
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As someone with a personality disorder, this don't seem all that sane..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:44 PM
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My exact thoughts. Also, what goes through your mind when you decide to ask reddit weather you should lie to your SO?? Men will never surprise me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:13 AM
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I had no clue about this. That's fucking scary as hell. Thank you for educating us 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:52 AM
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Love the initiative, sis! 👑 I'm disciplined. I'm physically strong and healthy. I'm calm and collected. I'm resilient. I'm gorgeous and sexy all for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:51 PM
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TW: DA & r*pe ​ Spent my childhood with a mentally ill, pick-me mom and an alcoholic and misogynistic dad. My first relationship was with a narcissistic abuser. He lied, cheated, isolated me from my friends, made me move to another country, brought home kittens he would treat badly, did drugs and alcohol in secret, told me I would never amount to anything, forced me to go on dangerous diets, hacked my password for my emails, had an interest for barely legal porn etc. Every therapist I went to "t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:49 PM
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I'm pretty active so I shower almost everyday, even if I don't shower for 3-4 days it's never uncomfortable for me. So sadly I don't have a solution for you. But now when I'm thinking about it, maybe there's conditioner for your bush to make it smoother? I have some googling to do 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:37 PM
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I agree with everything in this comment, the fact that I can leave it in for 8 hours too is a blessing! 🙏 It even feels like my menstrual pain became more manageable when I switched to cups, but maybe it's my imagination..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:57 AM
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This answer is golden! Thank you for the insight 🏆🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:26 PM
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I also love "imperfections" - I find the current photoshop / facetune culture to be so toxic - I'm not interested in mass-produced plastic dolls or robots, I'm interested in human beings, with all the variations that make them unique 💛 I love them too! It that we call them imperfect so it signals that plastic doll appearance is considered perfect that I dislike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:19 PM
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Spot on, sis! I'm me and have discovered how sexy I am rather than forcing an appearance on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:10 PM
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Of course, that makes a lot of sense. It wasn't as common in the 70s though right? So this expectation has formed rather recently?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:49 PM
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All good questions I've been wondering about as well. If anyone can shed some light on this I'll greatly appreciate it. At what point in history did body hair on women become so stigmatized? More importantly, should we as women be participating in male gaze trends that sexualizes pre-puberty body states? No we should not. As mentioned in the post, breaking free from conditioning is hard which makes it all the more important that we keep talking about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:10 PM
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Yes, much better stated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 05:42 PM
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It's 1 in 10 where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:11 PM
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People who mindlessly defend porn companies must really be building some arm muscle covering their ears all day pretending thousands, if not millions of victims don't exist because of porn. People who defend porn are either a) paid by the industry or b) too scared someone (who is paid by the industry) will call them sex negative/puritan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:31 AM
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Because it was. First state to make marital rape a crime was in 1975. Domestic abuse is a little trickier to pin down but the violence against women act was in 1994. Maybe this sort of crap was meant to give women the illusion of being in control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:40 AM
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Girl, you're 21 and so wise! In fact, it takes a confident and strong person to uphold boundaries for their mental health A secure girl knows she is enough and that the right person will care about respecting her boundaries, an insecure girl doubts it and feels she has to accept the bare minimum if she wants anyone around. 👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:51 PM
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Welcome to the club sis! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:34 PM
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"diverse creator community" translates to "all ages"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:11 PM
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Ugh, imagine the "we did it reddit!" posts that's about to happen..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:05 PM
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All my previous relationships can be summed up with one sentence: I wish I would have left sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:22 AM
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I got banned for "displaying patriarchy". What a joke 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:57 PM
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Exactly, benefits from being a consumer, which is very different from supporter. It's such a convenient thing to say, it means nothing more than wanting easy access.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:20 PM
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I wish I had a good answer. Every time I ask her if she thinks a person who doesn't clean, cook or wash will make a good father she deflects. They got together when they both were 16, so it also has a lot to do with safety and comfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:25 PM
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My sister's been with her scrote for almost 18 years, no ring, no mention of marriage. They've subtly hinted that they're trying for a baby. As in not saying it out loud but telling me that they bought a new car better suited for children, or from his perspective: his golf clubs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:30 PM
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"Sex work is work/empowerment" is such a dumb argument because it's also saying the industry is fine enough as it is, because otherwise it wouldn't be work/empowerment. The cognitive dissonance is insane. It's funny that it is always under the premise of "sex positivity" when it's really just toxic positivity: "I'm going to focus on the privileged few because it's convenient" I love that I can come here and actually have a productive discussion about this subject without being called sex negativ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:34 AM
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This has me in tears, how are men proud to be acting like spoiled children?? 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:14 PM
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Yeah, that was transparent as hell. Those words in that text message are comming straight from their dad, I guarantee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:10 AM
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"do you have healthy boundaries with your family?" Haha, yes to this one! You know the Friends episode the one with the inappropriate sister? I got to see that scene when the siblings wrestle on the couch playing out in front of me in real time with a guy I dated very briefly in my early 20s. His sister was 12 years older than us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:57 PM
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The chicken breast is nothing short of hilarious though. He tries to claim he dropped a raw piece on his dick and is worried it might have gotten salmonella, asking if he should make a doctor's appointment.. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:35 AM
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That's because you are applying logic to where none can be found..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:41 PM
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Me too! She has that level of confidence I aspire to reach 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:22 PM
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I don't understand why you're ripping him to shreds? He seems like a wonderful partner, even offered to help her with a meal plan..... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:16 PM
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From the perspective of a woman, she's always enjoyed orgasms when she masturbates, ZERO worries about anything, just enjoying herself, completely relaxed. 100% girl. I always say a dick tend to complicate things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:36 AM
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Asexuality means you don't experience sexual attraction, we still care a lot about our sexual desire and satisfaction, with or without other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 10:16 AM
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Me too, this should have come with a trigger warning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:56 PM
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Men that hate women will go to extreme lengths to hurt them. Women that hate men will try to get as far away from any man they possibly could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:47 AM
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Why has rough sex become so normalized? Because porn, and sex (toxic) positivity that won't allow even a quark of critical thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:03 PM
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Same here, my dad always said I ate too much in my early teens. My mom banned certain foods because they were unhealthy. Problem was that everything was unhealthy to her, the ideal calorie intake was 0... The war I've declared on my own body throughout most of my life is mind blowing now when I'm recovered. Food is energy your body needs and no one should make you feel bad for sustaining your own life, not even yourself. Cheers to our progress, sis! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:54 AM
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I had a similar experience when I was in my early 20s. We broke up, I can't remember if I cried in front of him but I remember crying at home after we split. Felt better after like a week because as a responsible adult you deal with your emotions and move on. He called me some time after and said he would tell his parents that we broke up and was soooo angry when my only response was "ok", telling me he had expected a more emotional impact from that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:15 PM
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Agreed, it's not a compelling argument. Calling someone insecure for having reasonable standards seems to be the new black.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:58 AM
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There was a great four part series on why the 50/50 rule is a lie, it was on this sub not too long ago. I'm not on Reddit a lot, can someone link this? I'd greatly appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 11:40 AM
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Let's not give this pathetic man any more views. He's just an average misogynist : "fuck modern women who won't sleep with me" rethoric. Do something better with your time sisters 🦸🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:39 AM
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Can we take a second and talk about the weak argument that is: "it's because of your insecurities you don't want me to x"?? Because correct me if I'm wrong, but insecure people tend to let others walk all over their boundaries, and then make excuses as to why... People who are insecure certainly don't make demands. I see this narrative from a lot of redditors and it's so dumb..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 12:39 PM
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If only rapists actually went to jail..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:59 PM
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I even had a homosexual male friend who hated "gay sex" - both giving and receiving. Didn't make him any less homosexual. It's wierd thinking it would. What we find sexually attractive and what we find sexual pleasure in are two different things. A part of me is angry that other women get to experience it while I don’t - the rest of me is happy. I know, most days it doesn't bother me but some days I still feel that jealousy so I'm not quite done mourning yet but I'll get there. Again Sis, thank …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:06 PM
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Girl, I'm glad you posted this because it doesn't get talked about enough. 70+% of women don't or have never orgasmed from penetration alone, that's simply our biology. Men don't have magic dicks that will somehow alter that fact. If dick doesn't give you sexual pleasure, there's no reason to have penetrative sex imo. Sex as penetration is so male centered and I think it's high time that we start looking for alternative interpretations for female benefit. It will make sex better for those who do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:32 AM
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There is genuinely nothing better than being with your girls and having your cheeks and stomach hurt the day after from laughing too hard. I have never had that with a group of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:18 PM
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Spot on, sis. My aunt always says that when men say they don't "understand" jokes about periods or pregnancy etc all they are saying is "I'm too unintelligent to even try". Once again, they're telling on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:51 AM
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I got a migraine as soon as she began speaking and had to stop.. Thinking men have it worse and are scared of women because they loose some of their "hard earned" money in case of a divorce is embarrassing. If only there was a way to avoid the situation all together.. Hmm.. 🤔🤔 (btw, I'm in love with your username! 😍)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:25 AM
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"Don't listen to female advice, a fish won't tell you how to catch it". Redpillers are so stupid it's hilarious. They say shit like this, in the next breath they say that with the rise of OLD every man in the world is now their competition. Why would your competition give you good advice on how to "win" something that themselves are after? Makes no sense. Not to mention that seeing other people as competition is highly neurotic. It's so funny how they think of themselves as alpha when they could…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:32 PM
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I'd argue that it's no point in engaging in discussions with MRA but this is a well written piece non the less, and it's good to be educated. As always I'm wondering why they don't have to fight for women's rights when women have to fight for theirs, or be branded misandrist. The double standard is 🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 05:55 PM
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Not to mention that OF isn't big on cyber security. It is a question of when everyone's private info is leaked. It's already been breached once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:02 PM
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Asking (or telling) men to see women as intelligent and competent leaders absolutely is. It must be hard being so insecure 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:28 PM
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It has happened to me as well, and when you ask them to clear up which rule was broken the answer is "I just made one up". Hilarious. 😂 ​ Happy cake day! 🍰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:34 PM
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These dudes never felt bad while shaming the victim even though they had no evidence that the perpetrator wasn't guilty "Innocent until proven guilty" is like their motto, but that isn't extended to the victim, only to the perpetrator. Victims of abuse by men have to face so many societal and mental struggles plus the legal system for victims is awful. Standing up and saying you were a victim makes you an even bigger victim, because it can be shameful to admit to it, especially when you have a h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:28 PM
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I see so many people (mostly women) on Reddit say they only watch "ethical porn" like that isn't the biggest oxymoron ever created..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:53 PM
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Thank you, I'll look it up 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:53 AM
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Can anyone recommend a good yoga YouTube channel? 🧘🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:08 PM
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It's so funny to picture this scrote sitting down for days, head in hand, pondering the solution how to remove an unpleasant smell. How can scrotes be so clueless 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:22 PM
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Who's surprised at this point. I should just unsub..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:03 PM
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This is perfect! Wish I had an award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:01 PM
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I'm certain this post is the average woman hate bait post. Regardless people in the comments are acting like you can't look a person up before hooking up with them (like what teenager doesn't use any social media??). Most women I know do extensive research about the man they're seeing - because they want to be safe. The fact that this doesn't occur for men only shows their privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:16 PM
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I find it really interesting that she doesn't even mention pleasure. If you have a hard time climaxing it might help focusing on the overall pleasure having sex but that doesn't mean to completely disregard your orgasm, but to experiment different ways to achieve it with a partner. She should be ashamed telling women to have such low expectations in sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:18 AM
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So many men out here thinking their dick is so magical that it will somehow alter our biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:04 AM
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Yeah, a woman in a vulnerable situation is easier to manipulate. It might be her own insecurities and other issues telling her it's her own fault, but he probably "helped" her reinforce that idea in her head as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:32 PM
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She excuses his behavior by saying "He's stressed because I has mental health issues.." girl.. How much other shit has he done and the blamed it on her mental health?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:02 PM
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Not to mention that it would most likely be used against you in a court of law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:40 PM
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"I would rather cry in a bmw than laugh on a bicycle" I love this. It will be the tagine of my life from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:25 PM
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Can I ask what the comments said?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:00 PM
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I agree with every word, wonder how this post would have gone down if it been posted on 2XC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:05 PM
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Currently on the largest subreddit for lesbians your post gets removed most of the time if you mention not liking penis. Lol, so I'm guessing the lesbian subreddit have all male mods? They probably see it as a personal insult. How pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:05 PM
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Ah, I thought she meant it was sad how easy it was for her to orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:12 PM
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I wouldn't hold my breath, but it's nice to see the opinion out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:09 PM
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I'm glad they are waking up. Saw some comments about wanting a "female only sub". I'd welcome it, even if it would be Pickme galore..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:02 PM
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How is that sad? Be happy you have an easy time climaxing, I would. Edit: sorry, I misread what you were sad about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:54 PM
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The tweet is funny but it's downright depressing how sex is formed from a default male standard. Intercourse is thought of as "enough" to make women climax, because that's how men do it. The goal, as we have been conditioned to believe, is for the man to ejaculate and by then it's over, done, finished.. When two women have sex the focus is pleasure rather than reaching a finish line. I think we should aspire to look at sex more that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:35 PM
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I think we should make kink shaming an Olympic sport. Normalize shaming people for wanting to be electrocuted when tied up upside-down and all the other wierd shit they have confused with sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:31 PM
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Correct. Empathy is a choice and an action, you can choose where to put it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:20 PM
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TIL Thank you so much for educating me. Is this like a.. Common thing? I've never heard of it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:44 PM
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Forgive me for asking but what is a findom? I really don't want to google that one.. 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:16 PM
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Well, maybe breath play should be called life play, because of course if it does goes wrong, you're dead. So yeah, you're not wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:36 PM
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I'm appalled that choking someone during sex is now called "breath play". In any other situation choking someone would be considered an act of violence and possibly attempted murder, but if we're naked in bed it's suddenly okay.. I'm seriously scared for the younger generation of women. We're literally teaching them it's okay to be abused, and the worst part is it will be blamed on them for not putting boundaries and saying no, not on the actual abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:31 PM
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Thank you, I'll put it on my list 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:08 PM
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That is true, I meant that holding a grudge against my body because it can't do something most women can is toxic and could potentially make me spiral down a really dark place. Thinking I'm less of a woman because of my lack of orgasms could be compared to when some women say only vaginal birth is considerd "real" birth, if that's a fair comparison.. ​ Lol, I think I remember that thread. I can't believe there are so many men basically afraid of vaginas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:10 PM
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Well, as long as we are aware of the fact that there are many women who can't and never will orgasm PIV, no matter how hard or many times they try. There's so many different "studies" about this and the numbers varies a lot, it could be as much as 10-15%. ​ Which is why I'm jealous, I and many others with me will never be able to, it's just biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:52 AM
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It is some consolation, thank you ❤️ I don't like talking about it though because 1) it makes me sound so bitter and somewhat hateful and 2) not being able to orgasm with a partner makes me feel less of a woman. It is super toxic and extremely mean and trust me, I'm aware of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:43 AM
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Then you're a stronger person than I ever was. Here's to you and your orgasms 🥂😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:26 AM
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With the risk of sounding bitter: isn't it better to have had terrible past relationships which at least included orgasms than terrible relationships with the complete lack of it? I'd give a lot to be able to orgasm PIV. Edit: I realized this sounds like it's some form of competition which of course isn't the case and wasn't my intention. I'm happy for every woman able to orgasm with a partner, but I also can't completely disregard my jealousy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:11 AM
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Well, color me jealous. Some women are so lucky 🤸‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:53 AM
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Don't forget Johnny Depp, reddit boys love to simp for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:05 PM
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If you have a source, please share because this sounds interesting (and equally depressing). It's probably way, way over a quarter, more like 3/4 depending on how they defined "sexual assault", and to account for those who weren't being truthful or delusional..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:42 PM
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It was a shitty one anyway accompanied by a very loud shriek when used. And it gives me a good laugh whenever I think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:10 PM
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I left my vacuum cleaner as a statement when I split from my most recent scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:32 PM
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I'm limiting my social media use as of now since the "rape is effectively legal post" - no hate, I agree with you but it's just so fucking depressing and I don't want to be stuck in depressing thoughts, especially after Sarah Everard murder and the Atlanta shooting. It made me think a lot though, from a man's perspective you must be so incredibly "unlucky" if you actually get convicted for rape or even have a charge filed against you. Perpetrators of sexual violence are less likely to go to jail…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:17 AM
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I've said this before but I'll say it again: men aren't children that can't understand spoken language. Women aren't speaking in a language men can't comprehend. It's that when they hear something they don't agree with they will either play dumb or keep pushing, manipulate and gaslight you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:12 PM
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Nice to be reminded of my gag reflex.. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:08 PM
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seems very immature and gross. Yeah, like most men are. Maybe slightly off topic but I remember a post (can't remember subreddit) where a woman asked whether she should be OK with her scrote boyfriend having a friend that sent him "personalized porn" - as in "oh, this is something x would appreciate! Share!" 🤮🤮 Her reasoning was that this is something men do and therefore she would have to be allright with it. The comment section were full of scrotes telling her that men absolutely did not share…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:07 PM
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Every shelter that isn't specifically for women are for men. Women's shelters are also mostly paid for by other women, through charity and donations etc. Men, as always, want everything for free without lifting a finger themselves. It's pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:14 PM
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I read an article today about p-gel, a sort of gel you smear on your shoulders to reduce your sperm count as long as you keep applying it everyday. It said that it could be on the market within 5-7 years if there is a demand for it. 🙉 Imagine it, a man taking responsibility for his swimmers by "moisturizing" his body, wouldn't that be a sight..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:07 PM
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I can't fathom how mens sexuality can be so far removed from their intelligence and empathy. It's scary as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:22 PM
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They literally buy themselves a rape, that is what it is. The happy prostitute is a myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:43 PM
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My mom has been with the same man (not my dad) for the past 22 years. They have one daughter (21) but never married. One day he comes home and tells her he hasn't loved her for years. There are signs he is cheating and has been for some time. What does my mom do? "we (read: I) just need to communicate better, this is salvageable".. I wish she could realize how much better her life would be without him. To top it off, my sister and her NVM have been together for over 15 years and are now planning…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:17 AM
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The sickening fact is the more we share about how they hurt us, the more it gives them to hurt us with. I felt this in my soul. Sometimes it feels so hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:42 PM
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I'd like to add: educate yourself on patterns of narcissistic abuse, as RP is thoroughly and extremely narcissistic. A good read, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:44 PM
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I would pay good money to see this show 🍿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:50 PM
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This scrote cheats, I guarantee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:02 PM
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How subtle..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:06 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted, it's important that we follow our rules so that we don't get banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:10 AM
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Riddle me this: why is it that feminism (or anything a woman does really) needs to include men's rights, but MRA (and the likes) don't need to include women's rights..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:34 PM
19

My money is on both. His brain hasn't fully developed yet, obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:28 PM
41

The absurdity of the word in itself makes me gag. Men are so detached from actual rape that they slap it on whatever they feel is the equivalent for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:58 PM
34

Yeah it's one of those "works in theory but not in practice". I'd love it if you could have that level of trust in a man, but it's a fantasy and not reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:28 PM
53

They are just giving us free advertisement. Wasn't there a post last week that every time FDS is mentioned on other subreddits our numbers go up significantly? So thank you, scrotes 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:19 AM
50

What a f*cking clown, gives me the creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:57 PM
6

Thank you for this, I will listen to it when I feel mentally prepared enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:37 PM
228

"She repays me with utter deceit" Scrote look at yourself first 🤡🤡🤡 Great find OP, makes my skin crawl..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:46 AM
89

They can dish it out but they can't take it. It is only when it is thrown back at them they see how toxic and demeaning their act is, and take offense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:42 AM
18

I identify as ace so thank you so much for the representation! 💜 I've stopped visiting the ace subs because even where people don't experience sexual attraction women's bodies are objectified, sexualized, put down and pitted against each other. This literally is the only place I've come across where that doesn't happen, and it's magical and liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:19 PM
17

If you want one more reason not to use OLD: a third of men on tinder use steroids. A fucking third. Nah, sis, leave that cesspool of scrotes, ain't worth the gamble. ​ Edit: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-7090209/People-using-Tinder-dating-apps-likely-use-steroids.html "More than a third of men on dating apps (36.4 per cent) admitted to using anabolic steroids, which are illegal, as well as 15.8 per cent of women." Here's a study to also take into consideration, not sure if it is the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:38 AM
46

How is this harassment when their entire sect is based on the harassment of women (and men who don't agree with them)? You'd think the "alphas" would be able to take some of their own medicine, and if they can't maybe they shouldn't dish it out. It's so pathetic 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:46 AM
2

I've gotten the same response from "feminist" subs. "You don't get to pretend to be a feminist when you're part of FDS". 🙈 It's not even worth getting worked up over but if you want you could report to admin (keep in mind that the mods will also get that report). Not that it would actually change anything.. It is really sad that there isn't a place to voice our different opinions on feminism. Being critical of your own movement is fundamental to evolve and advance our ideology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:45 PM
95

I've never understood one night stands, casual hookups or FWB, the gamble is too great imo, also the chance of having an orgasm is so low. What's the point.. There's this argument I hear from men who can't make women orgasm that the woman didn't "teach" him how. I find it so ridiculous that they even think this is a valid argument. You know where the clit is, start there. Ask her what she likes, most adult women know exactly what they want. I can tell and show you what I like, but I can't teach …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:12 AM
66

I'm certain men don't know what empathy is, men aren't raised with it the same way women are. There are several studies showing that biologically men and women have the same capacity for empathy, but if you aren't raised to develop it, well.. It's painfully obvious yet men project and say it is women who don't have empathy, it's laughable and shows how little they know and understand us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:44 AM
280

Men wouldn't survive one day as a woman. They cry oppression if they so much as catch a whiff of struggle, and often that struggle is of their own making. Sometimes FDS talk about men the same way men constantly talk about women (and have since the beginning of time) and they literally cannot handle it. It's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:04 PM
57

Yeah, I was appalled by the comments as well. Like how can you come to the conclusion that porn is detrimental to your mental and sexual health but still consume it? Literally makes absolutely no sense whatsoever and it disgusts me to my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:45 PM
123

True, sis. And you know when her baby is born she'll have two babies at home 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:49 AM
499

This is probably one of the most petty things I've ever seen. Like what goes through your mind when you sit there labeling the sheets?? How is he not ashamed of himself? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:38 AM
107

Men treat everything as a competition they need to win. One thing men themselves say is masculine is "winning". So if they see a woman who is better than them, in one category or several, they feel emasculated and we all know what men do when they feel insecure. It's quite telling that they feel the need to bash on your accomplishments and then try to flirt with you. Men with their grand delusions and fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:29 AM
31

Men should be deathly afraid of getting ED. Excessive use of porn doesn't have to be the only cause, things like diet and alcohol habits factor in as well. Yet far too many men live like they're immortal beings worthy of worship for simply existing while being completely incapable of investing in healthy habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:21 PM
268

Respected by all his male peers No surprise there..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:01 AM
141

Am a 30 yo, can confirm. Have stopped dating all together 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:52 AM
42

So true! If I want a full on 70s bush, no one's gonna stop me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:43 AM
13

Agreed, nicely put. By far the best man I've been with had a smaller dick. Why was he the best? Because he realized he couldn't rely on just his dick to get me off. He had to use his fingers, tongue and toys and it never made him insecure. Maybe I'm way off here but I feel like stereotypically a man with a big dick tend to build his entire personality on that, and be reluctant to use anything else in the bedroom, which isn't great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:16 AM
7

Neither did she. Glad we could clear that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:50 PM
5

I've been with one man who was really big. Didn't matter how horny I was, PIV was just painful and I always bled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:49 PM
11

You sound a little passive aggressive, is she not allowed to ask a question? Women who are able to orgasm from PIV are statisticly few so they don't speak for all women either. She's not accusing, belittling, or asking you to apologize for preference. She's simply asking a question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:42 PM
60

I'm glad someone said it. Size does not matter (to me) the ability to make me orgasm does. A big dick will only be uncomfortable and will lead to a painful experience, but to each her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:34 PM
65

Of course they do. Men aren't children who don't understand spoken and/or body language, it's that they don't agree with it, so they keep pushing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:08 PM
14

100% agree! No one is entitled to sex ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:12 PM
12

I am by no means an expert, but you can make selling sex legal and have buying sex illegal (see Sweden). There a lot of conflicting studies whether it increase or decrease sex trafficking, so it depends who you want to listen to. I don't see why we should punish sellers as well, in my mind that would be counterproductive. Hypothetically, if you're a prostitute and you get caught and slapped with a fine or even end up in jail, you'd have to work more/harder to pay it off/get back on track. Instea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:04 PM
7

Where I'm from 1 in 10 has visited prostitutes and I thought that was bad..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:49 PM
49

I'd like to add that cats will fuck you up if you touch them without consent. There's a reason you should put out your hand towards the cats face to let them come to you not the other way around. One of my exes used to pick his cat up and gets scratches and bites and then act all surprised about it, like the cat had done something wrong 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:43 PM
16

Love it when scrotes tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:41 PM
75

I was on PPD once and I promised myself never again because it take too much of a mental toll on me. It's filled with rape apologists, white men crying oppression, blatant misogyny (surprise surprise) and homophobia, I cannot comprehend how it hasn't been purged yet. There's a user who has the username: WomenAreEvilWh**es on there. How the mods think that's okay I do not understand. Reddit is a wierd place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:59 PM
18

Maybe I expressed myself a little short so let me rephrase: Anger and lust are among the few emotions that men show because they perceive other emotions as emasculating (toxic masculinity). When they feel other emotions it usually come out as anger (something destructive) or lust, in my experience at least. Embarrassment, fear, sadness and disgust also usually comes out as anger, because as I have stated they don't know what they feel so they fall back on those "manly" emotions they can show. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:06 PM
88

"She should be more compassionate and understanding towards you." wow, this makes my blood boil. It's the most unempathetic people who ask that others show them more empathy. 🤮 My ex (this was years ago, I was a Pickme and before FDS) had no problem picking up and eating food that he had dropped on the floor. The amount of food contaminated by hair and dirt I watched go into his mouth still makes me gag at the thought. Then he shamed me for not wanting to kiss him or otherwise be intimate with h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:48 AM
58

The only emotions men show are anger and lust. I am certain they have no idea of the emotions they do feel and how it influences their thinking and acting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:26 AM
7

I thought something had gone wrong with the app.. Must have hit a sore spot on them scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:50 PM
21

Everything is a power struggle for men. It feeds their ego when a woman lowers her standards, and if he can't get her to do that, well it's time for some harassment™️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:10 PM
39

Men measure things with their dicks, boast about their size, send dickpics, watch porn and jerk off together, proudly do the helicopter.. Men are 100% obsessed with dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:45 PM
104

I do the same to my friends and I have to say I am a little frustrated how many of them wants to let their scrote-boyfriends who treat them like air "down easy". What for? Nah, sis. Block, delete, pack your shit and leave 🏃‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:03 PM
70

When did this become a thing? It's incel speech. They don't want to use 'women' because that would force them to view us as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:08 PM
3

And proud of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:52 PM
120

I liked the one that said "find a dumb chick that can admit she's wrong and willing to learn from you". Overt narcissism 101
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:51 PM
80

Saying she thinks logically 100% of the time would mean she's a man, which would mean he's gay /s Seriously though, I have no idea..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:26 PM
56

Sounds like he wants narcissistic supply from you. I'd immediately stop having any form of communication with him as that's exactly what he wants. Not sure where you're from and I'm certainly no expert in the judicial system but I'd report him to the police. You have text messages and witnesses on your side. Potentially it could result in a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:17 PM
10

I'm sorry you have to live through that, and I'm really happy you are with us today 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:08 PM
66

I love his tone of voice and that look in the end has me in tears 😂 I'm saving this for the next man child crying 'oPprESsioN'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:09 PM
78

And a lobotomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:29 AM
16

Yeah, the fact he thought this was something to be proud of and that sooooo many women agreed with him. I hate every part of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:20 AM
360

When you invite a man into your life you're guaranteed to lose something. Your sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:28 PM
0

Asexuality & inceldom are not the norm, Not sure what this has to do with the subject? These things are normal and not an issue, I just think we should de- glamorize sex. The problem is that sex in advertising reinforce sexist stereotypes which is harmful for both men and women. Seeing highly sexual images containing nudity and unrealistic body standards can lead to objectification of yourself and others. Not to mention that it's (almost exclusively) women in advertisement that are being sexuali…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 11:16 PM
13

I discovered Tara Mooknee only like a month ago but instantly liked her. She also has a video on pickmes, I'd recommend watching it after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:57 AM
30

just get a bloody vibrator and satisfy all your needs. We both know casual sex will never satisfy any of your ‘needs’. Preach, sis. I know alot of people really like sex, but I am thankful for the fact that I'd rather have a dick made of rubber than anything else, makes things easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:23 AM
18

I have been in abusive relationships before and the best advice I can give anyone is to educate yourself in abuse patterns. Abusive relationships don't start out that way, and if you know the patterns it will be easier to spot the red flags. It is scary how well these people fit into society, you wouldn't suspect a thing. Some youtubers to look up who talk about this in a understandable way: Doctor Ramani, MedCircle and Live abuse free. I also recommend talking with your therapist about how to s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:41 AM
188

Exactly, they want to silence us. None would stand in their way if they really wanted to go their own way. On the contrary, thank them for removing themselves from the gene pool. It's not like they contribute with anything of worth anyway..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:08 AM
46

Confirmation bias. They find other scrotes who agree with them and it becomes the truth, isn't it neat..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:26 PM
17

Happy to hear, it's just too stupid😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:07 PM
61

I'm sorry OP, I'm laughing so hard at this. I hope you can too 😂💜 In terms of worst gift I've been given: a hangover hoodie. If you're wondering what that is: it's just a regular hoodie ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:05 PM
24

The state of askfeminists... I was permanently banned today because I participated here, no other reason than that. When I inquired where in the rules that was stated, the mod threatened to report me for harassment and then muted me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:39 AM
5

Basically if you frequently masturbate (with a tight grip) the nerves in the penis becomes numb. As a result, the man will have a hard time climaxing without that specific method.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:54 AM
74

My grandma always says "men like to play dumb" so that's what I'm going with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:16 PM
22

Pretty much. He disregarded every woman (and one man) that disagreed with him with the usual scrotery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:12 PM
101

Ikr, just one more scrote with an absurd argument looking for other scrotes that agree with him. "The logical gender" shm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:55 PM
43

Scrotes are so insecure they don't want to be compared to previous partners. They already know they can't compete with toys, so LVM is bitter about it. A HVM will want to take toys into the bedroom if you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:00 AM
46

Sign me up. Young girls need HV role models of their own gender. I sure as hell did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:48 PM
98

My opinion is that men don't step up because they perceive no profit from doing so. If there is no immediate benefit - it's not worth doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:37 PM
45

I was hit on while playing wordfeud once. He quit when he realized I was winning. Thanks for reminding me, it was hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:20 PM
128

OMG yes, where do we meet??/s Seriously what did he think would happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:32 PM
23

I mourn for these pickmes, I hope 2021 will be the year they wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:19 PM
24

This is some weird flexing on her part. "He never hurt me" - what a hero..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:44 AM
8

Men over the age of 40 saying they "might want kids one day" It's hilarious when men think their age has no negative effect on quality of their sperm, it's only the age of the woman that affects the pregnancy. You want to give your wife and kid troubles that might effect their entire lives? Because that's how you do it, Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:00 AM
3

My cats have always exceeded men in terms of usefulness, just a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 10:10 AM
50

It comes back to power and control, someone who is in a vulnerable situation is easier to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:44 AM
6

And you have to understand that men will say anything. ANYTHING. True, men won't hesitate to manipulate you. ​ Some people would tell me “damn, you threw away 15 years over a kiss?” How typical that you received the blame for something he did. Glad you are doing better, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:47 PM
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