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I like low n women. I like high n women. I even like medium n women. Simply put, I love when women Source: Am slut
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:01 AM
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Neo nazis agree with his motivations and his resulting actions. Simply identifying that he had motivations in the first place isn’t morally justifying his actions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:42 PM
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You can admit fault but also have reasons for why you did something wrong. Context and rationale aren’t excuses or moral justification. Why did hitler kill jews? Because xyz. Xyz reasons doesn’t make the holocaust justified because he had a rationale
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:38 PM
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Generally people don’t just do bad things for no reason. Every answer will disappoint you with a “justification that makes you seem like a good person” Very rarely do people do it for the rush alone. Even when branchswinging it is driven by a “reason” to look elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:36 PM
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Agree; but i don’t think OP is actually looking for this answer lmao. He clearly has some sort of fetish he’s indulging with this post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:33 PM
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Cheating is wrong no matter what... Two wrongs don’t make a right. People absolutely judge couples who cheat on each other. I judge myself for it. It was an immature reaction that I learned from. I won’t be in a long distance relationship ever again and if I catch someone cheating I confront them with a decision tree in mind instead of getting vengeance behind their back for my own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:31 PM
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what is a “justified answer that makes you seem like a good person”? I cheated because it was long distance and I knew he was cheating as well. that “justification” doesn’t make me a good person... a good person would have stayed loyal and/or ended things before sleeping with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:26 PM
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The men I sleep with are not higher quality than the men I date seriously. Why the hell would that be the case. I would only date the best I can get
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:56 PM
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At the most extreme end, when money can literally buy prostitutes and sugar babies, it certainly boosts one’s position in the SMP. And of course we see (ugly, old, fat) men with power and status elevated in the SMP by virtue of said power and status. I suppose some (imo, foolish) men may discount sex work from the SMP “proper” as they want to be “genuinely sexually desired.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:16 PM
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Education/career/job affect RMV not SMV for women. Depending on who you ask, they might increase or decrease RMV. Status and money confer SMV points for men, in addition to RMV, bc bitches be gold diggin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:29 AM
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I buy it. Nice observations and characterizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:06 AM
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Hook-up: be good looking and socially adept Relationship: be good looking and socially adept; have a compatible personality; be an emotionally mature, empathetic, reasonable person; have healthy lifestyle habits like eating well and exercising regularly; have stable income and ambitions; have compatible interests and friends; have a good taste in food; have good taste in music and art; be intellectual, even bookish; healthy balance of intro and extro behavior; have good communication skills and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:24 PM
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23F. I should mention I am in an open relationship (allowing for casual sex but no other serious romantic partners) so any of my casual interactions for the past 2-3 years did not lead to a relationship because I was intentional about preventing that. Funnily, within my socioeconomic peer group, my n would not be considered particularly high, but rather average; however, I believe it would be considered quite high in this crowd, where n>10 is whore territory. I certainly do not have a conservati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:09 PM
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I’m on the cusp of Millennial and Gen Z. Idgaf about your internet research about what year it “peaked” — fuckboy has been a basic component of my peers’ everyday lexicon since we started dating and having sex. “Ok boomer” is a meme phrase used ironically by teenaged Gen Zers, now called Zoomers in response to their antics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:28 AM
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Stop being butthurt that you’re old and out of touch. I’m 22
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:12 AM
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Nobody said anything about being “cooler” — Yeet is not “cool” it’s fuckin RETARDED slang that Gen Z babies use. The point is that the slang is derived from a generation that is not your own. That you aren’t aware of the ironic “ok boomer” joke is even more proof that you aren’t qualified to speak to youth culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:12 AM
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Young people invented the terminology. Do you know what “yeet” means? “No cap”? Do you use it in your everyday lexicon with every single person you talk to? Same thing with fuckboi, fuccboi, fuckboy. The fact that you even needed to use a search engine to get a grasp of the etymology is telling of your ignorance. Ok boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:27 AM
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Then you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about lmao. We are the raw data that goes into urban dictionary definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:10 PM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:54 PM
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The old guard reds here all love sluts. RP designed is for attaining casual sex...hence, plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:57 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 06:55 AM
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I have only dated mansluts and like it that way. It’s not that I am selecting for mansluts but rather high risk taking, low inhib, low disgust, high openness individuals. Oh, and I like muscular pretty boys. So that personality type and physical appearance quite often results in a high n individual. I prefer long term relationships with people who are not actively involved in the industry, however. It is too hard to explain to my tradcon parents, who have high expectations regarding career and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 09:04 AM
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Women obsessed with Disney self-infantilize, so if you're into a culturally immature gal then sure. Some guys find them endearing similar to grown women who have very girly/basic tastes in music, design, hobbies. I personally find it creepy but usually it's harmless. You'd probably have to be cool with Disney in the bedroom, too... I peripherally know a few women who were Disney obsessed, but they were beautiful and could sing/dance so they ended up working as princesses or in the theater/produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:06 AM
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Women don’t need dating apps to get anything you described. They just go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 11:03 PM
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Thank you LKF 🙏🙏🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:56 PM
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I’d rather get thickcummy anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:27 AM
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general dating/smashing/fwb these are 3 entirely different things. For dating-->marriage, need both physical attraction and financial security. For smashing and fwb, just physical attraction. Assume all personalities are identical. Why would we do that? Makes no sense. Some women don't need financial security because they are the breadwinners themselves. Some women are too ugly to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 03:29 AM
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WRONG SUB
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 02:36 AM
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Dropping cosmo links with no real prompt or discussion is the epitome of low effort low quality post Seriously dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:19 AM
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It's good fun with all the regulars. The good ones lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:42 PM
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Before this post gets removed just want to solicit you to join the discord. We need you!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:30 PM
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HAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:30 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:30 PM
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Nothing immoral about hiring a prostitute. First option involves intentional and active deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:58 PM
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Cultures and geographies not corrupted/enlightened by the icy reaches of Western Individualist Feminism tend to have more accommodating women. It’s why white sexpats love SEAsia/Japan and Latinas are somewhat trophy. Latin culture is particularly sensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:21 AM
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¡La Chancla!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:18 AM
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TIL kind of a rare niche to go for though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:11 AM
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Sirens
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:08 PM
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You can stack them to use your laptop in bed You can surround yourself with them like you’re cuddling on both sides Makeshift weighted blankets Makes your bed look aesthetically pleasing Fun to jump into a pile of them Pillow fights
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:30 PM
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i would bet money he will have regular sex with you for as long as you keep saying yes but not date you. There are much more attractive women who are also REALLY good at sex out there for him to date and he will want to spin as many plates as possible anyway. It won’t be a one time thing if you impress him enough, but he won’t lock you down. also all guys know fat chicks give the best head, he knows what he’s doing. Fit chicks can have more exciting sex because they’re actually in shape and are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:27 PM
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This sounds very accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:24 PM
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People who are actively trying to become parents and people who are young and dumb are at different stages in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:03 PM
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Who said anything about kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:40 PM
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The bar is someone I can be good friends with. I don’t think of dating as having personality threshold. It’s more about compatibility, shared worldview and communication style.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:58 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s rough ha. It’s definitely a position of extreme privilege. I don’t ever want to take it for granted especially knowing my time is limited. But the minor annoyances reassure me that there will be new unique benefits when I hit the wall that make the transition feel less like a decline and more like...a phase change :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:02 PM
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Well as girls we just assume hookup or fwb to be the default...there’s no need to say it. These (usually older) guys go out of their way to express their desire for something serious and even begin the convo with “what are you looking for? i want a committed relationship.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:52 PM
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Interesting Being pre wall hot chick with abundant options has made me super duper picky. I require like mind blowing compatibility to want to pursue something further with someone. I feel bad rejecting or not taking things further with perfectly nice, acceptable, attractive men, just because we aren’t extremely well aligned. At this moment in time though I wouldn’t want to give up my ability to be picky af However as horribly privileged as it sounds I do wish I could “turn off” male attention a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:47 PM
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Why would you date your gf for so long without getting that sort of information if it is such a dealbreaker? How could you date anyone for so long without being privy to their sexual experience? If she lied how could you verify beyond her word? This entire scenario (finding out much later that your gf has unacceptably high n) just seems out of the realm of feasibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:38 PM
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You’re missing the point. I don’t see my partners in a customer:business dynamic. Sex is not dividends. The type of men I am attracted to and that I attract feel the same way. Sex is a transaction between firms and a relationship is a merger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 05:08 AM
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No but I would do business with a corporation that had a lengthy deal history that continued to be profitable. I don’t want anyone’s life savings. I want to generate more profits by merging with another firm with complementary competencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:52 AM
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I don’t believe in the #rapeculture movement for my personal interactions and I would never pull the rape card on anyone... there’s no gotcha to be had
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:32 AM
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Nobody is ending a years long relationship and canceling an engagement because they discover their gf’s n is higher than they originally thought. High n men don’t care what their gfs n is, if they had such an aversion they would not date slutty women in the first place much less get into a relationship with them. Meanwhile sluts don’t have a problem getting into relationships or getting married. Look at al of the UMC college educated late 20somethings who had casual sex in college. They get marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:10 AM
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How would you see the private conversations between high n men and women? Just because they break up doesn’t mean it’s because he was disappointed by her surprisingly high n High n guys don’t ask, bc they don’t care, and if the convo does occur, the answer doesn’t change anything about the relationship Do you personally know any high n relationships? Not people who are in the courting process and discover they are incompatible. People who are actively in a relationship do not break up over somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:06 AM
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I’ve had this very conversation with multiple men who don’t care about my n whether it’s high or low, and were very willing to commit. Other sluts on ppd corroborate with the same evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 02:55 AM
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Who exactly is complaining about men not being attracted by their high N? Seems like the sluts care the least about what anyone thinks about their n.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:57 AM
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Hm. I’ve seen a LOT of guys on OLD (especially hinge, a more relationship focused app) explicitly say they are looking for something serious, no hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:12 AM
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could you elaborate? based on what I’ve seen here it seems some men really do want low n women. some are legitimate tradcons who are low n themselves, others use evo theory to justify hypocritical disgust, others just seem bitter that they themselves can not attain high n, sometimes all of the above I’ve had some trouble characterizing the motivations behind the female n discussions here because i’ve legit never met any man who gives a rats ass IRL, especially not high n guys. IME high n guys ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:50 AM
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I have unconventional beliefs about consent and equality but I stfu about it around known radfems because I don’t care about changing their beliefs and believe my friendships and interactions with them are still worthwhile in other dimensions. Generally I stfu about my beliefs unless I’m in a debate space and even then I at least temper them so as not to be incendiary. “Cancel culture” is retarded no matter which side it’s coming from. My parents are Trump supporters but I still love them. I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:37 AM
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I’ll try to illustrate the sentiment I’m referring to with a story. I had a close friend who asked if it would be cool if we started hooking up. I gave it a think and said no. HOWEVER, Had he gotten me a little bit intoxicated or took me to do something adventurous/risky and then found a moment where we were exhilarated and physically close together and making eye contact, and just kissed me in the heat of the moment, I would have been down to become fwb. He is physically attractive and I have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:26 AM
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It is #rapeculture in society but I’m not personally interested in men who kneel to the most stringent demands of feminists. That’s literally why I at least somewhat buy into rp. The men I date are misogynist objectifying predators who take up too much space according to feminists. But thats the men i personally want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:22 AM
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Seconded. I’ve made my niche taming fuckboys and it’s because I’m truly their partner in crime/otherwise, not a gf. We start businesses, hunt women, and create art and music and community together. My exes still hit me up for business advice and various life recommendations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:40 PM
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why aren’t you interested in dominance? You don’t like power? Too lazy to make the effort? Passive personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:33 PM
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Yeah I suspect a lot of the guys here have low t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:25 PM
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Honestly the fact that many men here don’t like being dominant in bed explains a lot... Every guy I’ve considered “alpha” was dominant af in bed by nature. If they didn’t act dominant it was driven by post-#metoo fear. As soon as I alleviate those worries they default to what feels natural.... being dominant. And to be clear, dominant != necessarily rough
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:53 PM
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Was gonna say this. Won’t give someone a chance sexually/romantically if they don’t meet a minimum threshold and then personality determines what happens from there. For casual the minimum requirement for personality compatibility is much lower than for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:28 PM
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Facts. I lost my period at 17 BMI
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:41 PM
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lol my SO and have been doing bdsm voyeurism/exhibitionism group sex, and of course, straight up rapeplay etc for years. It wouldn’t be authentically assertive if I had to ask him to do it. It’s very obvious that I’m interested in sexual aggressiveness. I won’t go further into the morbid over sharing details but suffice to say I explicitly told him very early on to “stick it in me whenever he wants to even if I say no, btw here’s our safe word” He has heard me rant for hours on my personal polit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:43 AM
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Definitely not with me I got “sexually assaulted” in a Vietnamese massage parlor and thought it was a free happy ending and i want my SO to think of me as a hole that is always open for business
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:59 AM
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Who does the best biscuits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:45 AM
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Yes likelihood of commitment goes down. That doesn’t mean they are worse at being committed, it just means the activation energy is higher... it needs to be the right person and right time. Being very down for casual isn’t mutually exclusive with wanting commitment. Most manwhores and sluts I know have been in serious successful relationships, but when they’re single they indulge like crazy. People who enjoy novelty wouldn’t bother getting into a commitment in the first place UNLESS they really …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:03 AM
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facially ugly my height or shorter body type deviates too much from conventionally attractive male (small feminine frame or obese) not go getter enough (asks if he can kiss instead of just doing it) dirty/smelly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:44 AM
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This isn’t a gendered thing. Majority of well adjusted healthy humans need sex in a relationship. They also need respect, and intellectual stimulation, and traditions, and adventures and what not but sex is one of the essentials. If you can’t relate just date someone asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:40 AM
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Nobody needs to game me for sex bc I give it up from the getgo, but I suppose their emotional vulnerability and “whipped”-ness are apart of their game to get me to be emotionally committed. I.e. they tell me they love me and shower me in gifts to convince me to date them longterm The people I date are very intense, risk taking, idiosyncratic people. I don’t think most of the typical models for sexual/romantic behavior apply
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:37 AM
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They are obsessed with the idea of committing to me, love me more than I do them, beg me to stay when I try to break things off, a few have even proposed... Just like egregiously emotionally committed to the point of making themselves vulnerable or exploitable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:07 AM
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Lmao who cares there are so many different kinds of people in the world, this type wouldn’t want to be with you anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:04 AM
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Like I just wrote every serious relationship I’ve had was with a guy with 100+ n and they were/are all basically emotionally whipped
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:03 AM
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All my exes were 100+ and yeah they were borderline sex addicts who loved the game/hunt (“predatory” but no more so than the avg guy looking for chicks at a bar). However they NEVER had to pretend to want a relationship...they just were very social, went for slutty girls, or abused the fuck out of OLD It really is not hard when you are very good looking and naturally extroverted and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:02 AM
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All her (now deleted) posts scream intentional ignorance to me. As if she’s ignoring the obvious and forcing an unnatural degree of solipsism. It can’t possibly be that hard to imagine how other people may perceive the world differently than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:56 AM
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Except women ARE very much down for casual sex... if you are attractive and have enough game. That does not require being dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:38 AM
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Is it really that hard to understand? You must realize your attitude and libido isn’t the norm, even for women, much less for men. This feels like bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:36 AM
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Nah guys with 100 n rack up the numbers when they are single but can be fully committed loyal good boyfriends when they decide to be in a relationship. Like come on if you were attractive and had enough game to get new pussy on the regular when you were single anyone would You just think guys who are capable of doing so are incapable of being moral good partners. your own mental defense mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:35 AM
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Curious, very much so. I love hearing crazy stories about group sex, hoes, actual factual hoe services, getting statistical breakdowns of how they categorize women, etc. I am not a jealous person when it comes to sex. Everyone I've dated has had a very colorful and abundant history but has never had any STIs. That's pretty ideal for me. I don't give a rat's ass about the number itself. Close to mine or much higher all work. The type of men I attract and find attractive tend to be very high risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:28 AM
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Troll
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:53 AM
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Weird. I might understand that justification if she’s already 5’8” but as a 5’4” girl my height preference is 5’9” or taller for the very reason that I would never wear heels > 5”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:50 AM
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It’s useful if some users stalk your comment history and respond with hostility to every comment you make
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:49 AM
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“liberal with” in english means you are “very willing to” do “liberal with” the block button means you block people easily
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:48 AM
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What the fuck lol I commend his creativity but why don’t y’all get fake IDs like normal teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:04 AM
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Same. Though no man I’ve been with has ever asked. I’m typically the one broaching the conversation because I love hearing about their crazy stories and fun experiences. Due to my personality (strong willed, risk taking, adventurous) I don’t think any guy looking for a submissive good girl would ever end up having pillow talk with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 12:01 AM
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K I’ve finally had sufficient interactions with FDSers to start to hate them as much as if not more than the MGTOW incels who can’t stop talking about women. FDS itself is whatever, just like MGTOW...both have tactics worthy of merit. But the mindset of some of their users is just disgusting, pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:28 AM
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Why are you so triggered by patchy redditor soyboys? Just don’t date them if they’re so disgusting. You know they barely leave their house it’s not as if you have to interact with them IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 04:19 AM
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Y’all act like makeup is ONLY meant to fix a broken face. The other half of the time, when you aren’t ugly lol, makeup is meant to enhance an already great face. When you take care of your skin by eating healthy, staying hydrated, and cleaning and treating it properly, subtle makeup elevates what you naturally have even more. Because the majority of other women — including those who are naturally beautiful — are doing it, you are putting yourself at a disadvantage if you don’t do it either. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:12 AM
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Instagram makeup does not look natural and no man who has been with a woman thinks it looks natural. Contouring, instagram style thick brows, ombré overdrawn lips are so obviously a trend. No makeup makeup is timeless and takes no longer than 5 minutes: tinted moisturizer or only concealer, a brow pencil and light mascara (microbladed brows and eyelash extensions), a lip stain or tinted chapstick, and if you’re feeling fancy natural a smudge of cream blush and/or highlighter. It’s all super shee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 02:03 AM
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men on truerateme are a different species even from how they themselves act in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:57 AM
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It’s NOT meant to alter the look of the entire face. It’s supposed to smooth your skintone and liptone and give you thicker eyebrows and lashes. The point is to still look like yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:56 AM
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this post is retarded. I wear no makeup makeup to look polished just like I brush my hair or do my nails. I wear crazy fun makeup because it’s art. If I don’t feel like wearing it I don’t. Let’s stop making your personal makeup choices a function of male expectations, whether influenced by IG or not. The best way to attain male attention is to be hot, independent of whether you have makeup on or not. No man whos ever been a relationship HASNT SEEN A WOMAN WITHOUT MAKEUP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 01:54 AM
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Hm. Finding pics of me through others or what I like to do is normal and expected. I’d be flattered they are so interested in learning more about me. I’ve stalked myself extensively and pretty much know what’s out there to be found. Nothing I’m not comfortable with someone else finding. I doubt anyone could find my reddit or guess any passwords since they have literally nothing to do with my name/interests/personal info. I never mention PPD if/when I talk about reddit. Honestly if someone saw my…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:29 AM
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Not sure. My hypothesis was a guy or a socially poorly adjusted and/or actually unattractive girl
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:53 PM
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really? That post read straight troll to me. Any reasonably attractive girl knows that getting hit on by unattractive guys is part of the territory. If you’re cute unwanted attention is inevitable. It was such an out of touch complaint, so much so that it had to be “gotcha” post imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:46 PM
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Define creepy level We all stalk, I purposely didn’t enable the most strict privacy settings/delete social media altogether so that I am mildly stalkable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:38 PM
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This isn’t “her” first post. https://www.ceddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/emu4br/why_cant_more_guys_who_are_physically/?st=K5SI8JOA&sh=1861c4b9
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:35 PM
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This is the same person who made a post about how annoying it is that less attractive men hit on her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:24 PM
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How do you extrapolate the guy’s comfort level based on two data points, their respective jobs/income? Why would a Dr. lady go for a comforting guy vs. a risk taking one? How could you make such a unilateral assumption based solely on their income disparity? There are a bunch of ways this couple could manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 06:00 AM
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“AWALT” — if she earns less, she’s using (rhetorical) you for your money and will leave you for someone hotter; if she earns more, she has power over you and will leave you for someone hotter. Seems her behavior is not a function of how much she earns but rather (rhetorical) you not being worthy to stay with. Projecting his own insecurities in his belief that all women are cheaters regardless of any individual qualities or assets
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 04:01 AM
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Girls don’t have to fuck anyone for free drugs. They just befriend guys who like drugs and get fed lines/pills/bumps for free. No sex required.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:58 AM
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he interchanged “beta bucks” and “beta chump” even though beta bucks refers to a specifically financially exploitative dynamic. Either you’re the one being used for money, or you have less money and don’t have power. Victim mindset no matter which way you swing it. incels just put “beta” in front of any term because they are resolved to never be the 1st choice. there’s no logic here. This front desk clerk could very well look and be chad, but when you ask a hypothetical question the person answe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 03:50 AM
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pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 02:04 AM
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My bf does much weirder things that I entertain, so it would be fine. Unusually effeminate quirk tho, even grown women don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:21 AM
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Explain 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:42 PM
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Even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:39 PM
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20 year old college girls are having fun and/or focused on school. They’ll date if you’re super compatible or they’ll date in a fwb sort of way because it’s nice to have consistent intimacy with the same person but nobody is in a rush to settle down. It’s kind of a sweet spot between teenagers all getting into “relationships” and late 20s finding their life partners. Girls just wanna have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:37 PM
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What kind of drugs is he dealin tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:34 PM
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Well said. I’m happy to go on any of the creative dates listed by OP — they sound very fun — but ceteris paribus, I would probably enjoy the time a lot more with a risk taking troublemaker than a risk averse reserved “safe” guy. The former has interesting stories and is probably more open minded and curious about the various things we encounter on said fun date. The latter is booooooring
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:32 PM
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impressed != Attractive i’m impressed by how much shit he can produce in one session or how fast he can shotgun a beer but it’s not attractive in the slightest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 01:25 PM
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Being a manwhore is not exactly attractive. He was super embarrassed the first time I saw how many girls in his phone had the last name Tinder or Bumble or the name of a college And I also see firsthand how successful we are at picking up women together I want him to answer you guys instead of me relaying what he’s told me because I concede there’s probably a degree of bias since he knows I am impressed by his debauchery
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 11:09 AM
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My entourage of throw pillows is a package deal with my body 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:20 AM
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If we were already living together it would be kind of strange — like what am I doing wrong? Can we make this work? If we were living separately and discussing the idea of moving in together and opted not to, no problem sounds great. My bf* and I are long distance right now and if he moved to my city I’m actually not sure if I’d want to cohab, even though rent is egregious here. When we were in the same city we basically spent 5/7 nights together on average but it still feels like a big step
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:13 AM
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To each their own. I don’t have a moralistic or ethical stance on it. Cohab is more practical financially and makes it easier to do things together. I do like us each having our own space though. Totally into the idea of man cave, office, special girl closet/vanity, studio, etc etc. And you more easily afford it if you live together
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:08 AM
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your neighborhood and marina do have all the cuties. hit me up next time i’ll bring droogz :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:50 AM
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Also at the gym. What’s skinny thick? do u mean slim thicc? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:40 AM
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I wish I could hold an AMA for my ex manwhore bf. I try my best to reiterate what he’s explained and shown to me about attaining women but y’all find it incredulous coming from me. Naturals have much higher success rates than the autists posting field reports on TRP because they never needed any remedial education to accomplish casual sex en masse. I think if I included screenshots of his Tinder matches/convos or pics of his body it would be sufficient proof. His casual sex tactics and insights …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:39 AM
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Lol as IF you bitter incels are “destroying” women by making unsound arguments on a subreddit. You WIN when you’re so satisfied with your life that you don’t have imaginary internet “enemies”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 03:30 AM
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Love your positive attitude man. I’ve come to love sharing these perspectives as I’ve realized how uncommon they actually are. Especially since my SO and I are both ENTP and druggy theater loving wack jobs we’ve had some crazy weird experiences. I studied STEM (bio and data science) and business lol..... But I took quite a bit of comparative lit and philosophy cause #liberalarts. I’m one of those jack of all trades master of none types un/fortunately. You dont seem like a bad writer :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:53 AM
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I just asked my bf for numbers again. If he goes out with the intention to get laid his success rate is ~75%. 3 out of 4 times he goes out with the intention of bringing someone home, he does. That’s comparable to mine as a thot. It’s perfectly believable knowing how women react to us as a couple. People have literally tried to come home with us and even forced their numbers on us. Re: hot streaks. After he got out of a longterm relationship where he was deprived of sex he felt the need to prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:48 AM
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We are grateful for all that you do and I especially look forward to your non mod zingers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:34 PM
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None of the men I’ve met IRL give a flying fuck about female n. The first time I encountered this notion was on PPD. My sample set is biased towards sex positive folks tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 09:16 PM
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You have to be really aggressive on OLD, swipe right on everyone and unmatch the ugly ones. Send the same message to the masses using copy+paste on the desktop app and send curated messages to select profiles that you are extra compatible with. Move quickly to get their number and arrange a Facetime or meeting to ID check. Don’t waste time with banter unless you genuinely like their personality or wanna exchange nudes. the key is building momentum and riding that momentum so that they feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:34 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better about your life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:28 PM
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They’re not exaggerating because I literally pick up women WITH THEM. I see the success rates, and they can get laid at the same frequency as a pretty girl because they have options EVERYTIME THEY GO OUT. Yes. it’s more than being alpha; it’s borderline sex addiction, being a manwhore. Alphas have the ability to do this, but most don’t because they’re not mentally unwell. Anyone who has been to a social college, especially with Greek life, and/or has been friends with manwhores has witnessed exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:24 PM
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Never. They’re in his past for a reason. If he still wanted to be fucking them, he would be. I feel nothing when I see a girl from his past. It’s just a girl. I evaluate her on her objective attractiveness and whatever backstory he told me. I get jealous if he’s still in love with her. Who cares that he fucked her before, he’s fucked literally hundreds of girls. We’re both now friends of friends of ours we used to fuck. This is less an issue of gender and more of traditioalism and sexual disgust…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:05 PM
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Incels believe “if they can, they will” because they are so desperate that they would It’s a new cope: “hey I’m not fucking anyone but that’s because I have standards” Some good looking men do fuck anything that walks. Some don’t. Whether or not you do is not determined by your looks but by your sociability, level of disgust, and libido. From my experience even those who have once fucked anything that walks gets over the manwhore phase because it gets old. If you keep going indefinitely it’s pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:01 PM
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RP symbolizes pragmatism. Don’t think about how things should be, just deal with how they are and try to thrive given the rules. Tradcon philosophy is idealistic as fuck. Especially the blackpill tradcons are obsessed with this notion of justice or equality. A true RPer doesn’t give a damn about equality, their entire worldview presupposes that men and women are NOT equal and will not and should not be equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:46 PM
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Sorry your success rate is so low. My SOs had comparable success rates to women. They didn’t go out to try to get laid, they went out because they were social, the sex was just a cherry on top. 4 a month is easy going out every weekend. 8 a month is not difficult with OLD. Why do y’all try to define alpha when you have never seen it IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:43 PM
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Y’all think so cause you’re not conventionally attractive. Current bf and I have >65% success rate finding unicorns, and women approach him or us when we’re out together. If he’s god well I’m a goddess lmao Nobody’s thumping their chests, my SOs were actually ashamed/embarrassed of it and I had to force the numbers out of them. And by numbers I mean approximations cause they obviously didn’t keep track.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:40 PM
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Hives aren’t ever contagious, they’re your own body’s histamines overreacting. If it’s allergies it’s histamines reacting to an external substance but if it’s stress it’s reacting to yourself, which is just horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:05 AM
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Alphas do fuck a lot of average bitches and probably a fatty here or there for good measure but the VAST majority of the girls they pull are good looking. They reach 100+n because they aim to fuck everytime they go out (where many of the average fucks occur) and often order girls to their house via tinder (where a surprise fatty sometimes shows up and he’s too lazy to make her go away so he just fucks her). But it’s not as if alphas are EVER INTENTIONALLY going for unattractive girls. That’s ret…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:47 AM
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I got the Gardasil vaccine as a teen and I’ve always tested clean for STIs. I’ve had cold sores since I was a little kid probably through my mom and my body typically has inflammatory reactions to stress (cold sores, hives, even shingles... it’s scary)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:24 AM
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I take that as a very high compliment, thanks, happy to shock/delight/occasionally offend you 👹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:15 AM
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res?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:07 AM
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Oof that hits home tbh I definitely ramp up the bitchiness to get them to hate me...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:21 AM
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Women can absolutely grow muscle but they need to eat plenty after they lift. Bulk/cut works for both genders. I recommend weight lifting to all my female friends, especially those trying to cut fat. It’s so effective at increasingly your metabolism, much more so than cardio. And it actually gives the toned “look” women want. Unfortunately most of them are really intimidated I eat desserts for celebrations obviously and sometimes if I eat out or decide to bake something. I just never developed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 03:15 AM
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I basically already had all the muscle on my body then because like I mentioned I’ve been an athlete my entire life. In fact my muscles were a lot harder before because I went to sports practice every day all year round. I am stronger now because I started weight lifting but my body fat % is higher because hormones and office job idk I’ve never actually been on a workout plan or diet, I just maintain healthy habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:48 AM
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As a former athlete, my muscle and fat distribution stays pretty consistent no matter how much I exercise because it’s “old muscle”. My dress size (like arm/leg/waist width) has been the same since I was 15, except my boobs and ass somehow inflated in a second round of puberty (grew 2 cup sizes at 21 years old, very unexpected but happy about it) so I now look way sluttier in certain styles of clothing. If I get fat it goes straight to my ass and thighs. I would consider myself lucky, geneticall…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:27 AM
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When I try to break things off with lovers and they beg me to stay I don’t hold my ground even though I’m over it so I inevitably end up branch swinging. I didn’t do it intentionally the first time but now I feel way more secure leaving a relationship if I have someone better lined up ready to go, even if only as a fwb. Not proud of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:11 AM
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https://i.pinimg.com/originals/91/10/e8/9110e81fc2dacc6c04dc75862b2836c1.jpg I hit the gym ~3x a week and have good eating habits. I was measured at 20% body fat and this chart is pretty accurate. I vary between the pics in 15-17% and 25% depending on other lifestyle factors, i.e. how sedentary I am, how often I eat out, how active I am (I don’t count dancing, walking, or hiking as exercise but they burn calories), how stressed I am, etc. I’ve gone through periods of my life where I don’t gym fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 01:45 AM
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First time bf made me squirt w his cock. He picked me up wheel barrow style. Or any sex we have after I haven’t seen him in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:07 PM
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Lol good for him, I’d wonder how he kept that a secret for so long. Probably has crazy stories. My bf is 25 and both of us are financial stable and highly ambitious working professionals who have had very colorful youths filled with copious amounts of sex, drugs, dumbassery, so I don’t really care. Just another chapter in his book of previous adventures. I’d also laugh at him and chide him for not managing to multiply his fortune through smart investments. He could have done all that and still r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:41 PM
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I thought RP was inextricably tied to Game which is all about maximizing “plates” And good for you, genuinely. Once you get a taste of manwhoredom you realize there are bigger and better things. High quality low quantity is so much better all around
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:24 PM
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Nobody’s pretending it’s the majority. It’s most certainly under 50%. But my own dating sample is limited to naturals because that’s my personal preference. I can afford to be picky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:21 PM
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Well then I must be lucky to have dated exclusively this type
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:18 PM
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I actually prefer amphets over modafinil. Easier to dose which makes me feel more in control. I also like the euphoria
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:08 PM
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Make new friends! I’ve always had the opposite problem. I optimized for fun and thrill within the constraints of maintaining reasonable stability, and the simple answer is to just say “yes.” Seek our new experiences, new people, new places, and just say “yes.” Eventually you’ll develop new preferences you didn’t even know you had and you can then cultivate those friends and activities in a deeper way. Part of the journey can be scary, venturing into the unknown. That’s what makes it thrilling. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:06 PM
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The tradcons are separate from RP, in fact their philosophy is fundamentally more BP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:53 PM
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RP is literally designed to empower manwhoredom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:33 PM
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Some people run marathons every month. Some people force metal poles down their urinary tract for sexual pleasure. Enjoying the song and dance of attaining women is pretty damn tame compared to the weird shit humans find pleasure in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:31 PM
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Something I made up based on how my ppd haters describe my taste in men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:27 PM
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They are naturals because the “act” never drops. I would know because when you date someone you either actually cohabit or practically cohabit and see them in every form they exist in. If you “train” yourself so well that you are always “on” there is no longer any difference between how you’ve trained yourself to be and how you actually ARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:24 PM
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If a man wants to attain women in a conventional way, then yeah, some degree of song and dance is necessary. My point was that not all men find it burdensome. Some actually enjoy it. Just like not all women find exercise burdensome — only the fatties...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:21 PM
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And that folks is a true RPer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:17 PM
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Intelligence has never been the primary factor in attaining men so it’s a moot point. Though typically the Ivy double STEM major is proof enough for the NEET incels!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:43 AM
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According to them my mind and spirit have been the biggest selling points so maybe looks aren’t everything for men who think with the big head in addition to the small head
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:25 AM
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Not false
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:16 AM
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Do you have a wet pussy between your legs? If not, your opinion on what is manly doesn’t mean jack shit in the realm of attaining women. Scientist-martial-artist mediating below a waterfall is great. He still needs to be able to perform the song and dance if he wants to get women the traditional way. If he’s hot and visible enough maybe women will come to him. But it requires song and dance of some form to be visible. Monks don’t get laid or have SOs for a reason, they’re too focused on their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:15 AM
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You or I could think of me as a land whale potato but so long as men IRL think I am hot shit and treat me like I am hot shit that’s all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:11 AM
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Why? I’m childless in my early 20s. They don’t have to be loud to be troublemakers. The best troublemakers are sneaky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:09 AM
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I agree. "The Game" as a general description of human mating practices is right. There are lots of games you could play, from the original quick pick-up casual sex to playing Wonderwall at parties, to all sorts of other things we see across different cultures. All games have their own rules, which beget optimal capabilities and characteristics which may come naturally to some folks -- hence, naturals. Anyone in this human mating game needs to decide which games they want to play based on which r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:27 AM
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I'll put it this way. Every man I've been with has denied me sex more than I've denied him. Sometimes that meant denying morning bjs. Current bf usually doesn't even like waking up to head Sorry you haven't dated kinky high libido women. it's good fun
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:15 AM
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Extroverted little boys are OBSESSED with getting reactions out of people. especially mommy and their female classmates. It's why they're such adorable but incredibly annoying troublemakers. The little monsters always grow up to pussy slayers...sometimes sociopaths...sometimes both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:13 AM
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weren't naturals at enjoying my dick what does this even mean lol I've never deprived any man I slept with of pussy. Not ONCE have I said no (unless I was on a job interview call or something, but other phone calls, even professional -- happy to indulge). That's why my partners genuinely enjoyed performing for me. They truly get what they're performing for every time, without exception. I do withhold affection though, but they don't seem to care that much. A good fuck will give me the oxytocin a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:08 AM
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I mentioned other examples like dancing, jokes, etc. because their performative nature extend far beyond just courting women. I've only dated very passionate extroverts who are performers through and through. They participated in theatre, are great dancers, are excellent at public speaking, are leaders and hosts in their social groups, etc. The "naturals" tend to be exactly that. Naturally extroverted and happy to corral attention from audiences, some of which include women in a sexual/romantic …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:05 AM
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What an interesting mix. I'm guessing you and your SO represent each language? I've found that Scandinavians and Central Europeans tend to be the most multilingual of all the people I've met, what with Scandys being so amazing at English, Swedish being either a national language in Finland or similar enough to Danish, and foreign languages required in schools, and everyone I know who is French/Spanish/Italian/German tends to have at least one or two of the other languages for some reason, in add…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:55 AM
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...Chess. Or Go. Sudoku is tactics, chess is actual strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:56 AM
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Young children's brains are incredibly pliable with learning up new languages because you are essentially self teaching language in general. I think it's 5 that's the magic number/limit before it starts getting increasingly difficult as a true "new language." I was fully trilingual at 4 with Chinese parents, living in America, and Spanish speaking daycare teachers. TBF my lexicon was narrowly confined to what 4 year olds say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:54 AM
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My parents started having me recite the multiplication table (in Chinese lmao) at 4. I can still do it today ALMOST 2 DECADES LATER, and IT'S ALL MUSCLE MEMORY.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:51 AM
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can you describe the moment(s) where you realize you were done with hedonism? when did it lose its sparkle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:50 AM
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Interesting. Every guy I've dated has been a natural performer. Both metaphorically and literally. They loved making fun of themselves, dancing unabashedly, garnering attention for themselves and for us, courting the fuck out of me with lavish gifts and trips and gestures. They genuinely love to perform and don't see it as a burden at all. All of them told me they were happiest seeing me laugh at their jokes and giddy at their surprises. They love doing it and they love seeing the results they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:46 AM
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same and i post/story on average once every 2 months lmfao mine are creepy dudes who have asian fetishes though. they find me through the pics my friends tag of me. granted those friends are super active, micro influencer types with several thousand followers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:42 AM
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Average men seem to believe women “should” be attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 02:40 AM
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Beautiful people are just genetically blessed people. They want to be loved by someone who gets them not the best possible option they can get, cause they can get anyone, and anyone they consider is already a top option. Obviously they’d only consider someone at their level in looks/money but beyond that threshold what’s the point in maximizing the most good looking/rich person you can get? I mention he’s rich bc he’s probably not at her level in looks but makes up for it in class. And she chose…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:51 AM
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there are plenty of monogamous women out there who stay loyal despite their innate hypergamy just like there are Chads who stay loyal despite their innate seed spreadiness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:36 AM
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here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:35 AM
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well he looks like hes rich and has a big dick but more importantly... women who are THAT good looking usually don’t go for male eye candy. for one they are used to all the attention being on them. two, they want someone who sees them for who they ARE not just some pretty arm piece (since the vast majority of people don’t bother figuring out who they are beyond just outwardly beautiful). its likely they are compatible in a brain/soul way that you can’t see from the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:34 AM
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build more and deeper friendships, get lots of dogs, consider adoption/sperm bank, dive into my passions and learn new skills, become famous and widely loved for my talents and charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:27 AM
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Sometimes men prioritize building a life with one woman over giving into their primal drives to spread the seed. They believe it to be a worthy sacrifice for that partner and their potential life Having a woman completely yours to build a life with and spreading your seed are mutually exclusive in the same time/space. However you could accomplish both at different times though, man whore first, settle down after, maybe pick a poly woman to be with. But then you’d need the psychological fortitude…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:24 AM
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lmao @ nobody answering the damn question the question isn’t why you WANT to be desired obviously everyone wants to be desired, it’s what traits make you worthy of sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:20 AM
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diff kind of daddy obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:52 PM
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Both my daddy and one fwb told me they loved me a few weeks ago and I just blinked back and smiled sweetly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 10:00 PM
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I’ve been going on house tours (in SF as well) for the past few weeks. It was so emotionally exhausting. Just like dating or job interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:58 PM
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Try couchsurfing and hostels for a little risk and meeting new people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:56 PM
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Let her know I want to connect off reddit too and best of luck either way!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 12:45 AM
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Sounds like incel bullshit but ok Seems like it’s not just being denied intimacy that is “suffering” but rather constant rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:54 PM
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Why do so many randos come to PPD to make relationship advice threads? It’s even weirder when the people/posts don’t mention pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 09:44 PM
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Need height and actual bf% to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:01 AM
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What’s funny is OP is a male boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:34 AM
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Have you ever tried adderall or matcha? In short, microdosing lsd feels like 4-8 hours of enhanced productivity and creativity. It’s like the initial buzz of adderall or coffee spread out over a few hours. I can actually feel a buzz coming from the back of my head. You feel more inspired by life and whatever it is you decide to do. You feel more energy emanating from your stomach similar to matcha. If you accidentally take too much things might look a little more vivid but generally it’s nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:35 AM
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Micro and mega I got you I prefer microdosing lsd though, it’s far superior for micro purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:11 AM
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Wow thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 06:22 AM
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Idealism vs pragmatism, an age old trade off Neither are the most balanced way to approach things. It’s the deontological approach vs the consequentialist one. Is each decision to be reflective of the desired principles or is it to achieve the desired results?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:17 AM
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I just got a psycho ad for Equinox: https://youtu.be/un9f8OyydVs “Make yourself a gift to the world” This may be blackpill fodder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 04:13 AM
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Exactly. Jim666 Becks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:38 AM
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Why is the second body type necessarily better? I see a lot of love for both. You into the skinny party girl look?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:19 AM
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Right, why does Becky have height limits? What are Stacy’s height limits? u/TheColdestHand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:17 AM
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You see the world in a very unhinging way..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:08 AM
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She doesn’t look cool she looks like a wholesome B+ student who has pillows with words on them but makes great cookies for your birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 03:05 AM
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Spontaneous vagabond types who don’t have any longterm goals but are adventurous and full of life Painfully attractive men who have hedged their entire self worth and career on their looks and haven’t bothered to cultivate other aspects Pornstars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:38 PM
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That’s not crazy. That’s over sensitive or clingy. Crazy is like daring, reckless, adventurous, spontaneous, extreme in tastes, passionate, generally more risk taking and unpredictable. A little bit is fun. Too much is a train wreck Crying too much could be crazy if it’s hysterical. Texting too much could be crazy if it’s obsessive and overwhelming. Neither are good crazy because they’re just annoying, there’s no real benefit associated with the crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:36 PM
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It’s not the high n that is disgusting and broken but rather the sharing of the high n. That’s not everyday conversation material, I’m not present in male locker rooms but I’m pretty sure they talk about hot chicks they’ve banged and want to bang, not their precise body count. Every guy I know with high n lost track of the exact number or tactfully doesn’t share it and says “oh, I’m not sure” when asked. It’s so weird to be obsessed with the number, especially with sharing the number
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:43 PM
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Most people don’t have admiration for braggarts so that removes insecure/vocal “slayers” Some people look down upon casual sex participants, maybe that explains your friends A vast majority of my guy friends have slept with a ton of girls but it’s not something they ever talk about in a bragging way. They might be excited about a new girl they’re seeing but the focus is on the girl (how hot she is, how compatible they are) NOT on the fact that their n increased. Also, heading out for a booty cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 12:32 PM
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Would a troll really cultivate a 200 day long narrative starting from AITA then Unpopular Opinion then MGTOW then PPD about his thought process getting rejected from this one chick? Seems too elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:27 AM
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Smart girl. She clearly had foresight into the small, nasty part of you that thinks sending screenshots of convos with other girls and their sexy photos would ever be the appropriate response to rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:25 AM
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I thought it had to be a troll, check post history tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:22 AM
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you sent her pics of your convos with other girls and the nudes they sent to you... wouldn’t touch you no matter how “high value” “alpha” “buys my food when he’s broke” you are. I’ll take someone who isn’t broke to begin with and doesn’t brag to me by violating someone else’s privacy, thanks. btw, post history doesn’t look like you’re voluntarily “strong enough to be a virgin” lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:19 AM
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You and me both confused. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/eaetdq/how_do_you_explain_the_rp_madonna_whore/?st=K5HIIG3U&sh=1163e76e
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 01:57 AM
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I despise incessant complaining and whining especially unaccompanied by action.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 09:08 AM
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We all have our own perspectives, what makes a perspective whinging is the tone and frequency. Hence whinge, the verb. I could also call myself a gloater, they’re both insults
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:34 AM
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opposite ends of the spectrum and the inevitable shades of grey in between pretty much covers “diverse”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:22 AM
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I wouldn’t say I get salty because I realized I may have mild princess tendencies, but it was pretty uncomfortable when I received designer clothes, fully paid trips, etc. from my ex because I had no money to gift him back with. After I visited his family home I realized that it’s just how he was taught to express love. His entire family’s love language is luxury gifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:18 AM
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My bf and I respectively spent $1500 on each other within a few months, maybe even weeks. Too much omakase 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:09 AM
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I’m Asian stemstacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:08 AM
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d = dates per week x = price of a fancy date y = price of a low maintenance date f = proportion of dates that are fancy z = avg cost of taxi/uber to dates monthly gf budget = 4(fdx+(1-f)*dy) + 4dz = 4d(f(x-y)+y+z) Quick mafs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:04 AM
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Sense8 is sooooo good if you are into sci fi psychedelic stuff. And lots and lots and lots of sex scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:46 AM
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👏 This represents every major modern city I’m convinced the whingers are in bumblefuck or are so socially defective that they haven’t witnessed these dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:25 AM
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Some people are looking for a compatible life partner, not just a prey/master/sexdoll/warm body. You have to be somehow more special and rare than any old warm body.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:22 AM
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Date a kinky creative ideally bi&poly girl who will work with you to make everytime unique. Been fucking the same guy for 2 years and we makeup new positions or turn ons all the time. When we first got together there was a radical new development every damn week.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:20 AM
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I work as a management consultant. There are equal numbers of men and women and they are all decently attractive at the entry level. I think this is because anyone who has developed the communication skills and charisma necessary to want and attain such a job tends to be good looking to begin with. Ugly fatsos don’t tend to become charismatic, confident, social people. Older consultants may start to get mom/dad bods. Everyone is expected to be well groomed and well kept. A few of my colleagues a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:25 PM
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Define average? The average of the sample of guys I regularly interact with is likely a big cut above average across society. All the guys I interact with are white collar, elite college educated, former athletes/active gym goers, etc. based on where I spend my time. I would say yes, I am attracted to the average guy I typically see, but I never go to McDonalds or neighborhood bars in shitty neighborhoods. If I spent more time in Scandinavia or Southeast Asia I would have an entirely different i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:08 PM
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Fuck. Shit. Damn. Wow. Brave women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:06 AM
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Seriously????????
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 01:04 AM
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I like BDSM and that sounds as appealing as sounding for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:44 AM
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The whole concept of MGTOW as an online community is predicated upon the idea of defending their life choices. If they were really GTOW they would just go... no need to announce it to the world... MGTOW as a community to bond over male-oriented hobbies is the only healthy manifestation I can imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 12:42 AM
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Go to Folsom St Fair and conduct an ethnography of the ratio of dudes openly fucking to the dudes hunting for someone to jerk off. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:42 PM
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Gay clubs are functionally sex clubs in liberal cities like berlin and sf. Kit kat is considered special and unusual in virtue of the straight people/women showing up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 10:38 PM
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This has more to do with your line of work than anything else. Women at the highest level of corporate world don’t have any maturity ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:11 PM
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Damn it. I was hoping it was you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:09 PM
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You should never have sex, ride in an automotive vehicle, eat raw food, or exit your home. Where do you draw the line on risk? Everything in life carries a risk benefit trade off. If you have debilitating or anxiety inducing hang ups about normal activities such as eating, being in public, having sex, etc. you should seek professional help to work it out. No shame in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:52 AM
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ew, just use a bidet jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:12 AM
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So you’re not actually answering my question on rationale.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:30 AM
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You’re probably not pushing yourself enough. I am pretty athletic (6 min mile, squat and deadlift well above my body weight) but my first time with a personal trainer turned my limbs to jello. You could be drenched in sweat and about to black out but you’re not taking yourself all the way because let’s be honest it feels good when it’s easy...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 02:32 AM
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Both necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:29 PM
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Passionfruit pisco sour Classic mojito Frozen watermelon margarita Tamarind margarita Michelada with Modello and extra Tajín And of course, sometimes a simple Corona and lime does the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:16 PM
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Aperol spritz all day any day!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:10 PM
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This Halloween, I had on a pretty crazy getup and kept getting stopped for photos and conversation. SO MANY OLD COUPLES nearly forced their contact info on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 09:10 PM
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I’m a “slim thicc fit chick” and go for guys who are equally genetically blessed and equally value fitness and aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:16 PM
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Mods can we ban this user already? Look at her post history
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:09 PM
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Your post says “be thin” not “have curves.” And yet you just acknowledged a perfectly reasonable solution to not being thin... exercise...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:22 AM
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We eat a ton of white rice and pork and sodium though, which would balloon a typical white person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 01:02 AM
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To an extent. I think traditional notions of gender were driven by sexual dimorphism, biological differences, and the subsequent social structures that developed around them. However, like many other phenomena, postmodernism has begun to chip away at gender essentialism. Those biological differences no longer dictate everything as they did before. So yes, there is a biological source and history driving we know to be gender but it is moving away from that and that’s OK, perhaps even inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 09:35 PM
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That’s circular. A sound argument is necessarily valid. Valid just means the premises support the conclusion. The rationale is the justification for having the argument in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 09:29 PM
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Ya I’m hardcore ENTP. In the past few years I’ve learned a lot about emotional communication through my SO. He is naturally somewhat of a sociopath (very Machiavellian) but tempered his manipulative tendencies through a fuckton of therapy and taught me how to understand the emotional drivers behind my own and others’ decision making. I model all human interactions on the idea of ethos/pathos/logos and it seems very effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 09:28 PM
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When she says tap water is bad she’s actually saying she prefers bottled, and it is “incorrect” for him to challenge her preference. He’s interpreting the conversation as an objective debate whereas she perceives it more like my restaurant example. Both parties are doing a poor job at communication — she doesn’t realize or refuses to accept that he wants to talk about science and he doesn’t realize or refuses to accept she wants to buy bottled water no matter what and it’s ultimately not about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 09:21 PM
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Haha it’s not tough to find when you are surrounded by gays... Ask a gay who clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 09:10 PM
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It’s roofies. But you don’t black out if you don’t mix with liquor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:50 AM
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Logically sound arguments. Logos. Please elaborate on “solid rationale.” That’s the ethos/pathos component and what makes the interesting nuances of “winning” an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:50 AM
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ENTP high five. It is a blood sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 08:18 AM
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I like your new flair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:04 AM
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Really? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:01 AM
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Yeah, “be with” = relationship. It really depends how we define league...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 07:00 AM
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Cool, I wasn’t aware of that. Population health across races is so interesting. A lot more GI cancer in Asians too, and of course Asian glow, which is also related to digestive enzymes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 06:57 AM
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Korea is a terrible example of this. Asian countries normalize EDs. They aren’t even considered disorders, it’s just mainstream. Plus Asians do have faster metabolism. Source: grew up with Chinese family. Chinese people tell you to your face that you’re too short/skinny/fat/not fit enough (being thin isn’t good enough, especially for guys, it’s important to have muscle tone, too). Your family will pressure you every time they see you to fix it. They force feed you milk if you are a short child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:58 AM
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If you grew up with bad habits or complexes it’s hard. If you grew up with healthy habits you don’t even have to try. I eat a very balanced diet, little to no junk food, no sweet tooth, don’t binge, don’t eat late, etc. I exercise regularly because it’s become entrenched in what feels “normal” to my routine, just like brushing your teeth. I don’t have to think about doing things to maintain my body, because it’s all on autopilot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 05:54 AM
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Those with power and transcendence deem what is “correct” in the context that they govern. That’s consistent. Whether or not we live in a just society is dependent upon those in power and the systems they put in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:49 AM
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What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:41 AM
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What if I’m on GHB 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:41 AM
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Tinder profiles are about photos and messaging tactics (both volume and game). I’ve seen a few comprehensive guides. One thing’s for sure you will have to pay if you want easy casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:38 AM
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You’re missing the point but bringing up other good ones. People evaluate what is “correct” based on different criteria. To be “correct” is necessarily predicated upon an evaluative criteria. Two people may both think they are correct even if they stand on opposite ends when they have different criteria. Correct does not require demonstrable evidence, as you pointed out. For women (and men), in certain situations, there is “emotional correctness” that supersedes “logical correctness.” For exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:13 AM
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Well, how do you define “winning” an argument? * being right in principle? * having the last word? * coming to an agreement? * coming to an actionable compromise? * getting your way? That makes all of the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:38 AM
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I love to peg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:30 AM
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“desirability of suspicion that your dick is your mates property” You could have started with this instead of a fucking stream of consciousness diary entry. You are not James Joyce
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:26 AM
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Hey boomer, PPD is not your diary. Prompt obligatory and tldr your backstory
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:22 AM
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Oooo totally I would love to see what we can do for beauty/hair. Would be a lot of fun and more visual I imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:03 AM
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I make custom resumes professionally if you want to pay for one next time. Like using InDesign for graphics and layout and helping with wordsmithing. Everyone I’ve helped has landed interviews and ended up with multiple offers. Most recently got my friend offers at Google and Hulu
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:57 PM
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I’m already vying for a throuple with LKF and automod. Join us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 10:25 PM
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What about men’s boots doesn’t feel right? I had no idea they were constructed differently. I will buy boys size sneakers sometimes and they do feel somewhat different from women’s even though it’s technically an equivalent size
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:35 PM
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Why did you comment these facts under automod
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:32 PM
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What’s your body type? I ask because demanding a six pack is a weirdly specific thing that I associate with fitness oriented people. Most women just want muscles in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:03 PM
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Why did you mention height? What’s your bf%
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:48 PM
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It’s not clear to me if she’s referring to random gross guys hitting on her for fun vs. guys making a real effort to actually pick her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:44 PM
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Choose to be with = relationship I agree hookups can be all across the map, especially for promiscuous guys But as a woman I won’t sleep with guys I consider unattractive. Women choose from abundance, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:42 PM
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I’m also an attractive woman and find it annoying but it’s a GIVEN when you are an attractive woman. Again, the lowest of the low have nothing to lose. Do you think homeless guys think you’d actually sleep with them? Hell no, they just want to compliment you and for you to notice them. It’s pretty easy to reject guys at coffee shops, bars, clubs. Just say you aren’t interested. Recognize how privileged you are that you HAVE TO reject people so frequently that it’s annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:35 PM
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Is this a troll? I am a 22 year old woman and I completely disagree. Just let them shoot their shot. Homeless men, crazy street people, construction workers, etc. hit on me and even follow me on a daily basis. Going out to bars and clubs sometimes gets annoying because of how frequently guys stop me to try to start a conversation or buy me a drink. Short guys, tall guys, hot guys, ugly guys, rich guys, poor guys. Guys. Getting hit on is part of the territory. If you have high standards it’s inev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:30 PM
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I find it more respectable when a guy manages to take all those risks and not get caught, but above a certain level of risk taking that’s kind of unrealistic. Now that I think about it every single guy I’ve dated has had multiple brushes with the law. Most juvenile though, which is less consequential.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:45 PM
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Unconventional opinion but those you choose to be with ARE your league. If we consider league to be more holistic than looks alone. I think nearly everyone I’ve hooked up with is within a standard dev. of my looksmatch. Like 50/50 above and below, depending on your personal taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:42 PM
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I’ve never consciously acknowledged an arrest as a criteria for respect but it’s true that I don’t fully respect the men who have only walked the straight and narrow, in large part due to the fact that I have broken all the rules myself. I would be fundamentally incompatible with someone who followed they rules just because the are the rules rather than thinking about why they exist (which often involves a few mistakes along the way)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:38 PM
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I hate the sjw libtards too but as a whole the left seems a lot more fun and reasonable. Plus my existence itself doesn’t feel like a blemish on their stringent little world
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:34 PM
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Who says non substance enabled self improvement and substance enabled self improvement are mutually exclusive? Most people who get a personal trainer are already in great shape. The reason they are seeking personal training is because they value fitness very greatly and want to take it to the next level. A similar argument can be made for those who are highly reflective about their own existence and soul. Literally everything we do only leaves us with a memory of the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:04 PM
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Tradcons frequently moralize about activities and people that they will never interact with and that have zero or negligible effect on their own existence. A big part of it is simply to serve their own ego and feel superior to others. Discern and adjudicate my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:59 PM
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You can get plastic surgery on your face Listen I find fat people and fat acceptance pretty revolting, but it’s a free world and going to the beach in beachwear is not a political movement. Talking about promoting fat people on media is a different story. But everyone deserves to be seen in public and enjoy beaches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:57 PM
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Thanks smurfy. I don’t personally consider myself a good girl — but I’ve definitely seen and been friends with “good girls” who are virtuous, conscientious, not risk taking like OP, but do not define their “goodness” on the basis of staying in or having a non social social media. They graduated with honors, but spent their free time working on climate change policy, doing slam poetry or improv or theater, starting an arts and music community, not playing board games inside... They don’t use inst…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:55 PM
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Facially ugly people should use life and various areas as motivation to get their face looking good, not to show children that it’s acceptable to be genetically cursed... oh wait they gave them their genes. Nevermind ugly people just shouldn’t procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:37 PM
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Man, I see how the tradcons provide a necessary angle here but I find them so incredibly boring and stuck up. What a closed minded and judgmental way to view life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:34 PM
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Try a nude beach. Saggy dick n balls! Saggy dick n balls under fat rolls!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:29 PM
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pics or it didn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:22 PM
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I’m not remotely tradcon and have personally used nearly every drug besides the untouchable 3 heroin meth crack. Yet I am a mentally well, financially stable, well-adjusted young professional with no addictions. You would not be able to tell from my appearance or demeanor that I have tried so many drugs. Like you, I don’t even drink coffee or alcohol regularly. Hell, I don’t always take acetaminophen when I need it because I can work past the pain. However, I wanted to try everything at least on…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:19 PM
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Ok if it’s not like mental health related or domestic violence it’s acceptable. To be fair all the guys I’ve dated have gotten into small scale fights so it’s not the acts themselves but rather having a felony record that is a negative for me. It decreases traditional job opportunities so he/you would have to achieve success unconventionally, probably overcompensate in the success to make up for lost social status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:53 AM
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Drugs are fine, assault is sketchy. Would need to hear the story
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:44 AM
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Status = reputation, power, money—>freedom valuable in context of social class and networks, ability to translate desires into reality, and of course ego
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:10 AM
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I just don’t know how and why you found my comment if it’s such an old post
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:58 AM
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Extremely doubtful Real chads don’t need to post shit like this on ppd for their ego and their ego alone because they’re validated enough by life itself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:54 AM
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HA
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:44 AM
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You me kandy should co-write
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:44 AM
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Yay for you we don’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:35 AM
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You’re just a cock to her just as she is a hole to you. The overwhelming majority of men will still bend over backwards for women; many will love and enjoy their company. Keep doing your thing we don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:34 AM
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This comment is a month old wyd
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:32 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:24 PM
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Unless you have your own view on what the definition SHOULD be and/or WHY it should be defined that way — without implicating the fact that it “currently is the academic definition” — you aren’t saying anything dude. You’re just saying “it is” Hence why there is no V that can be C. It’s literally impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:48 PM
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CMV: Arguing over semantics is not a CMV, UNLESS you have a justification of what you think the definition SHOULD BE that does not implicate the fact that your desired definition is the current academically derived definition. If it does, it’s a circular, lazy argument and entirely pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:46 PM
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The definition of semantics is “the branch of linguistics and logic concerned with meaning in LANGUAGE.” Which is exactly what those two valid arguments concern...the meaning of words... If this post is inspired/triggered by men on the internet gloating about polygamy, it might be a good idea to argue about THEIR idea of what polygamy is. Mixing legal, colloquial, and manosphere definitions does not get you anywhere. Their response would simply be: When I say Y I don’t mean X. Again, just semant…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:43 PM
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OK, if it’s not even your personal opinion, your CMV is even MORE pointless. Why do you want someone to challenge the “actual” definition when your strongest justification is that it is the academically derived definition? You aren’t entertaining productive conversation about WHY it is the definition you are just saying THAT it is. “X is the academic definition of Y” is not a challengeable view when attempts are responded to with “well that’s the definition today”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:30 PM
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Your V is not legitimate V but a game of definitions. CMV: Consenting to sex occurs if and only if one affirms enthusiastic verbal consent. Well, some other chick here says consent to sex is simply entering a man’s home. Ok? Define things how you personally want to. It does not affect anyone actually participating in various forms of non-monogamy/consenting sex and THEY certainly don’t care what YOU think. The law is the law. You want to change it for whatever reason you get a law degree and mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:21 PM
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This is not the place. Seek professional help. Your problems clearly go deeper than this girl. She is simply a proxy for all of your personal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:48 AM
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What makes it accidental if you are self aware?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 12:52 AM
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Lol unusual situation. It was a random spot in Vietnam and it was DEFINITELY NOT ON THE MENU. I went in for a regular massage and the guy took things further than was “allowed.” Somebody walked in on us and he was very startled, implying it was not kosher. Some call it sexual assault, I called it free happy ending. I asked people on reddit about it and they said it’s probably because I was a pretty girl and didn’t resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:37 PM
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I received an actual happy ending massage (like I got a legit 60 min massage followed by a smoothly integrated handjob, not a fake 5 minute massage followed by fake screaming sex) and it was AMAZING. I’ve started initiating sex with my partners with real massages first because it is so pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:09 PM
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Seconded
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 09:07 PM
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Is it purge again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:53 AM
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You don’t need marriage for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:24 AM
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Thank you for this poppy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:50 AM
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Your ideal law is the equivalent of saying entering a store or a restaurant means they are legally entitled to your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:40 AM
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Ya, I do, that doesn’t mean I gave consent by walking through his door. Bad faith post, you’re using an entirely different definition of consent than is commonly and especially LEGALLY understood
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:34 AM
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That negotiation is even necessary implies you have not yet given consent. If being on somebody’s property were truly consent no further communication would be necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:32 AM
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It’s not naive to go to someone’s house and be prepared to clearly draw your boundaries and leave. Not all women are easily coerced victims who don’t know how to communicate and walk ourselves out the door he walked us in...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:29 AM
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That’s why she’s saying don’t even put yourself in the position to be coerced in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:20 AM
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You can be in a position where the other party wants to do something, even expects to do something, but still not consent to it. If you are in a restaurant with the menu open the manager and waiter expect you to order and eat but you can still leave. Context and expectation can exist without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:20 AM
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Implication is not consent...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:14 AM
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You think she’s joking? She’s not sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:14 AM
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Like you said, saying “no” is not giving consent. You can enter to someone’s home without having sex with them LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:13 AM
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Lmao going to a guy’s house does not equal consent for penetrative sex but it’s certainly putting yourself in a position where you have to be prepared to indicate consent or lack thereof. If you have the physical ability to pick up your things and leave would doing so be considered “retracting consent”? No, because that’s ridiculous. Setting foot in someone else’s property is no more giving consent to sex than him giving consent to being photographed or recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:12 AM
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That is so weird. Why did you marry them then. Just for money and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:42 PM
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Who thinks it is impossible? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:39 PM
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did you respond to the wrong comment? I don’t fundamentally disagree with you at all, I don’t think you’re being selfish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:36 PM
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I am a therapist to and receive therapist services from any of my SOs or best friends. Why be close with someone who doesn’t care enough about you or that you don’t care enough about to talk out your personal issues with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:26 PM
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Women don’t do shit they just stare and then look away when you stare back lol. Or put themselves in your line of vision and laugh a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:02 PM
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Meh, they shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:48 PM
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for all you know i could be a larping land whale
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:28 PM
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Some women can’t cum or can only cum once your approach is too black and white. Imagine if women tore themselves apart when the guy can’t cum even if he is just drunk or on drugs and it’s legitimately not her fault. Sometimes there are internal or external factors that prevent an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:20 PM
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Nothing about you will ever disgust me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:59 PM
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I don’t think sex (or any human phenomena) can exist without ego, expectations, and performance. The male ego dominates fucking everything, including fucking itself. Even his attraction to you and desire to fuck you in the first place has to do with his own ego. I do agree a man should be pleasure rather than orgasm focused. I haven’t personally come across a man who is more obsessed with orgasm over pleasure, though this may be because I cum so easily so it’s nearly one and the same if you incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:15 PM
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I agree. I’m actually quite annoyed with my fellow... sistren..? for expressing their unhappiness with a guy dedicated to making her cum in part due to his own ego. Stop fucking faking it if he’s not doing a good job, jesus christ. If YOU decide to baby his ego after you realize part of why he wants you to cum is his own ego, you only have yourself to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:09 PM
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I agree with what you’re saying so much that a silent upvote will not suffice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:04 PM
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Staring, smiles, pick up lines, random unnecessary conversations, especially asking about me, physical touch, free things, favors, idk just flirting. Are you on the spectrum? Not trying to insult you, just curious why this is something you would want to be listed out. It’s pretty obvious when a man is interested
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:55 PM
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Are you asking how women tell if a man is interested in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:51 PM
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Women choose amongst the men who chase them PPD101
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:49 PM
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Based solely on my preferences and nothing about my appearance? ok Thundaga
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:48 PM
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I am 5’5” and I prefer guys at least 5’7” but have historically dated 5’9” or taller. I need facial attractiveness at around a 7/10. I’ve been told I go for pretty boys as far as faces. An idiosyncrasy of mine is that it’s more important that a guy be fit than tall because I value my own fitness very highly. Every guy I’ve dated has had a conventionally attractive physique. I would prefer a jacked 5’8” dude over a 6’4” noodle man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:23 PM
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Why is this a negative thing? Idk maybe it’s a kink of mine but I love being played like a game, so long as he stops when I ask him to, I’m enjoying every orgasm more than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:19 PM
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It’s not selfish to want to get her off if she wants to get off. That’s a pretty reasonable premise to assume — that she wants to get off. What you’re getting at is that some men are overly preoccupied with successfully executing the tactics of One Weird Trick and feeling proud about it about rather than fulfilling the overall strategy of making sure she’s enjoying it. Generally speaking it would be inaccurate and very unfair to claim a guy focused on her orgasm should be considered selfish. Who…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:17 PM
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every women have a minimum threshold for height and facial attractiveness it depends who you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:11 PM
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It’s apart of their aesthetic and ethics. Kinda like how edgy cokehead gay guys are always skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:06 PM
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You choose to grow together. When it seems like your values become so disparate that you’ll inevitably go down different paths or one party will be unhappy, that’s when it’s time to re-evaluation. My bf and I somehow manage to stay close despite being long distance and open. It’s because we initially bonded over philosophy, music, and business. He was a philosophy student and I was a business student and we both loved experimental music. We exchanged a lot of knowledge and even took classes toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:34 PM
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That’s double my weight and all I need is for him to be strong enough to throw me around and make me fear rape
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:33 AM
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My chadcuck benches over 250 and has sub 10% body fat and that’s good enough for me I’ll date a pro athlete if I hit it off with one but I prefer intellectual snobs who listen to experimental music and do research chemicals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:31 AM
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Read my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:11 AM
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we’re “cucking” each other by this subs definitions.everything is communicated and within the boundaries we’ve set for each other, I don’t do anything behind his back or anything he wouldn’t be ok w and likewise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:30 AM
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We’re in an open relationship he can fuck other women without me We’ve gone to strip clubs together and fucked prostitutes together you’re barking up the wrong hoe’s tree if you want a hypocrite gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:09 AM
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It depends on each relationship, in the context of OUR relationship he’d be a little bitch if he forbade me from dressing or acting a certain way or going certain places.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:04 AM
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I’m not his therapist, I offered a quick fix for oneitis which is a band aid at best, toxic at worst Personally I think you have deep emotional baggage to work through if you develop oneitis in the first place. A real permanent solution is personalized to his own issues and a reddit comment won’t get at the deeper problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:02 AM
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Lol i want my bf to come clubbing w me but he hates it and tells me to go without him because he’s not an insecure bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:43 AM
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I don’t see anything wrong with oneitis if you channel that energy healthily I’m simply answering his question of how to “get rid of it”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 02:30 AM
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Be more detached. Think like a sociopath. Turn your softness off. Juggle other options. Make yourself repulsed by commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:36 AM
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That was so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:34 AM
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https://youtu.be/tsk9c7KF76E 6:44 for context and sample application
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:14 AM
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Are you sexually into the red nose trend? I officially feel old in that I can’t get behind it outside of art makeup. Some girls actually wear it on a daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 12:05 AM
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I always thought art hoes were skinny You sound like you’d be into goth fatties. Also a mood. They’re usually even lower self esteem than art hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:49 PM
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That’s a good idea no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:49 PM
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Lol I was too lazy to even answer it or read the responses. I hate questions like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:19 PM
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I wonder who my writing style/ethos is similar enough to confuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:18 PM
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I didn’t answer that q
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:15 PM
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Bro since you go to an Ivy you can’t be serious. The rich male alumni almost always marry other Ivy educated rich women, especially ones that start in high powered jobs. Sure, some women quit their jobs and do soft stuff like charity work or art once they have kids but they are almost always similarly pedigreed. Sometimes the husband/wife are power couple duo and start businesses together Wharton finance bro does not want a Penn State communications major for any longer than one night
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:19 AM
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Yeah they’re young haha so they’re being slave labor lol A lot don’t last long enough to rise through the ranks because theyre tired of the lifestyle and move to corporate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:07 AM
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my friends work for MBB, i know exactly where “these guys” are going lol Yes, hotel food travel is all paid for....that’s standard across all firms not just top tier. If your work has you pay for expenses incurred while on the job that ain’t right... Taking calls from the car to the airport, working throughout the flight, working till AM in hotel rooms — not necessarily lame, but you often don’t have the time/energy to enjoy whatever city you’re working in. Trust me they do often go to bumfuck p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 07:00 AM
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Nah consultants often travel to bumble fuck places and don’t spend any time at home which gets tiring. And you have to work on the plane and in hotel rooms a lot. It’s usually not that glamorous unless you luck out on an exotic assignment The real lucky ones are the tech bros, they have the highest base, cushy hours in fun offices, and unlimited PTO so they travel truly for fun not for work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:48 AM
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A friend of mine has an 8 inch dildo and she doesn’t care the size of her bfs because she has said dildo. I kinda feel the same way about men and porn. Porn is a mood, a gf shouldn’t completely replace it, in fact it could be fun with your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 06:06 AM
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Um. Nah I’ll take sex with a real man over a vibrator lol. I didn’t feel that way until I got excellent and enthusiastic head though sex with an actual human is multidimensionally better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:35 AM
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I went to an Ivy League where the girls actually cared about being attractive not just studious. Nearly all have great jobs and are cultured and fun. It’s a 50/50 split between those who are in a dedicated relationship w a guy of equal education/class/career and those who are more than happy being single or casually dating. I wouldn’t say they are having trouble. Those who aren’t in relationships are that way by choice. Those who are in relationships or casually dating go for guys from within th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:31 AM
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Hm. I can see what you're saying to be true. One of my friends is dating a super sweet guy; he cooks for her, is adventurous, travels with her, is super considerate, etc. but their sex is so non kinky. She asked him to be more dominant and aggressive and it just felt fake, out of character. On the other hand, I have never had to explicitly ask a guy to be violent or demeaning. Maybe I give off the vibes that I want that, or when we talk about surface level sexual preferences they take the cue to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 03:39 AM
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Depends how important your fetish is to you. If that’s the only sex you’ll be happy with prob better to seek someone out who is compatible. Else there comes a time when it becomes appropriate to discuss it. I find that most people end up talking about anal, bdsm, etc. a couple fucks in, just cause it’s pretty commonplace. That’s the right time to bring up your own fetishes or suggest you try something together. Unless you date very tradcon or sex negative people who think reverse cowgirl is kink…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:53 AM
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Do you have pic examples? Having a hard time imagining a large nose with small sharp nose tip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:57 PM
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You’re SO welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 10:49 PM
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Not said to me but the first time I fucked my current bf (fwb at the time), after he came I cackled and told him he fucked like a white boy. Apparently he had received feedback from some soft pussied sjws that it’s not cool to fuck so hard the first time. Thankfully be didn’t show how bruised his ego was, got hard right away again, and fucked me proper. Talk about negging...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:36 PM
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Relationships are just long game whoring. Bf is taking me on a ski retreat and daddy is taking me on an ayahuasca retreat next month. New clothes and lingerie from them both. Fuck buddy got me ben wa balls.👸🏻 Instead of a one time transaction of bj to shoes it’s like a subscription service of on demand bjs to random gifts and services
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 09:06 PM
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80:20 m:f in weight room, 20:80 m:f in cardio Edit: I’ve been to a bunch of different gyms (was trying all of them out on free trials to find my favorite) and this split is pretty consistent at “normal” gyms even across $$$$ range (from equinox to planet fitness). Obviously niche places like yoga studios, climbing gyms, or even crossfit will skew differently
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:58 PM
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We’re all whores in one way or another, and I don’t mean necessarily sexually. Except maybe monks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:34 AM
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Maybe something less facetious but more dirty/kinky “I want to ____ your ____ while ____ ___ _______” will really filter for the girls who are trying to fuck. If you use tinder for desktop you can send these messages en masse at ease Source: tinder whore bf, he does happen to be chadly though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:04 AM
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You are geographically so proximal to me it’s scary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 02:02 AM
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Whore fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:06 AM
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That’s a great strategy cause the girls who aren’t down for sum fuk will remove themselves for you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 01:04 AM
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If you ghost instead of block you still have options, if not more enthusiastic options. Their texts/calls still go through and many men will try a lot harder when they realize what they were previously offering isn’t enticing enough for you. Normie male thirst is a seemingly never ending well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:25 AM
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If they end up w no man then their strategy clearly doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:21 AM
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I’m in my 20s and would stay this age forever if I could. People take me seriously professionally if I present myself as older, yet I’m still in touch with the youth and cutting edge culture, and I can get away with being silly without seeming insane. Most importantly, I feel physically very strong and fit and healthy, which I’m extremely grateful for. It’s not the perky tits so much as trusting my body to handle anything it tries whether it be running a half marathon or doing a backflip or taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 12:20 AM
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that’s interesting I have no personal experience with this as I either have sex immediately fb or fwb arrangements with guys or very very serious long term relationships nothing in between
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:12 PM
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attraction is never only visual for women and while people typically date their looksmatch there is a reasonable degree of standard deviation that non visual factors account for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:03 PM
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Sorry I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:56 PM
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I completely agree with your tactics for securing a guy to want you for relationship but I don’t think they’re at all radical. Vast majority of girls I know act like this with guys. Girls who text or fuck too quickly are the exceptions— despo socially unaware for the former and sluts who don’t even want to date for the latter I don’t see what you’re describing as being “super picky” but simply normal non psycho and/or promiscuous behavior Super picky to me is filtering out guys on the basis of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:55 PM
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You probably had additional value in non visual ways (personality, money, style, etc) or your partners may have had negative traits in non visual ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:53 PM
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ppl in the comments are saying she’s 5’10” and 145 lbs. She’d be a 7 if that was actually her weight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:47 PM
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I saw that vid and was confused. I guess it’s good that fashion companies aren’t just showing conventional model bodies and large plus size bodies, like shes actually closer to normal ppl than those extremes, but you can EASILY find somebody her “size” who has a better shape. She looks too normal, not idealistic enough. Like all my normal non model friends have better shaped bodies She also can’t walk for shit so clearly the token “plus ish size”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:46 PM
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key words “want to BE WITH YOU” not “want to FUCK you”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:37 PM
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Then what are you “letting be known”? That’s how most people act. Desperate “over keen” is not normal behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:09 PM
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I’m purple but one of the more unconventional/queer/sex positive ones here. Date whoever you want, as long as it’s consensual. There should be no moralizing on other people’s sex and love unless someone is being taken advantage of. I date decades older men because it’s new and different. I learn a lot from much older men that guys closer to my age can’t offer. It’s like dating girls — not what necessarily naturally appeals to me, but fun and worthwhile nonetheless if I genuinely like the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:07 PM
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You assess how attractive you are by the attractiveness of the partners who want to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:04 PM
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I don’t see why you have to “let it be known” — just ignore guys who don’t meet your standards and only entertain those who meet or exceed them Like just be super picky
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:02 PM
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Why block when you can ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:26 PM
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Being coerced != * being star struck * afraid of being rude * giving into someone being persistent without being forceful or threatening What can a celeb like Ansari do to a girl who didn’t want to fuck? Unless he actually has power over her job or future prospects, physical wellbeing, and/or reputation amongst people who know her, there isn’t a “consequence” that would qualify coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:02 AM
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Yeah. Ansari thing crossed a line for me. Harvey Weinstein was most definitely a coercive pig because he abused his power. Transactional sex is a grey area but the structure of the entertainment industry kinda makes it analogous to boss vs. employee. Plus if I’m not mistaken he locked doors on girls. I think MeToo still has a place but as with many things the pendulum has swung too far and people are abusing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 08:56 AM
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It’s ultimately ego Power = transcendence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 07:29 AM
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Why can’t you just let me shamelessly flatter you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:27 AM
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I truly believe it’s victim mentality. I thought the Aziz Ansari “scandal” was utter horseshit. Just walk out is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:27 AM
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Dude it’s called a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 06:23 AM
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and follow her direction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:12 AM
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I ask the high n guys I fuck about their experiences with women, combining them together def gives a sufficiently representative sample set
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:34 AM
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What about active riders, dirty talk telling him what feels good and what to keep doing Lots of women do that^
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:59 AM
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Well, if he’s a sadist or just an asshole, yes. But if he isn’t into hurting people, it is just that a girl would put herself in a vulnerable position and do something “bad” FOR him. it’s not because he wants her to be unhappy, rather he’s thrilled she would trust him and do something “special” for him. It’s kinda like when guys like fucking virgins for non repulsed tradcon reasons: “omg, she’s giving it up FOR ME!” or when guys are turned on by being the best a girl has ever had: “omg, she’s so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:57 AM
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Poetry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:45 AM
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I like how almost everything you say can simultaneously be taken at face value or be a high quality wisecrack
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:44 AM
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Of course you’re a 24 year old salt daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:41 AM
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/s woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:40 AM
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Shower thought: Sheet mask company that custom prints the mask based on a selfie and custom mixes the serum based on your needs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:39 AM
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It’s power. Men love anal usually not because it feels better than a v but because of how dirty it is. It’s such a power trip when a girl lets you put it up the “wrong” hole Objectively a v is better because it makes its own lube, has more texture, squeezes you back, requires no preparation, and no risk of poop dick . IME guys cum faster from anal because the power is SUCH a turn on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 03:33 AM
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He is way more affectionate and what teenage me would call “gay” I am an extremely deep sleeper (I can count on one hand the number of times I’ve awoken in the night in my entire life) so staying on the line serves no purpose for me but he thinks it’s sweet to wake up and hear me breathing? 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:20 PM
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The typical PPD man despises career women in virtue of subscribing to traditional gender norms and/or are NEET incels so it’s very unlikely you’ll find any besides yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:18 PM
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There’s a girl here who doesn’t work at all and has a household income of 300k+. She posted in a “what’s your income” thread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:55 PM
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My long distance bf loves to do this and I abhor it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:53 PM
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You is not you, personally but people generally. Seeking good character is not exclusive to one pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:52 PM
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I wrote 3 words. You’re likely not looking in the right places or doing the right things to encounter women of character. You could be a really good guy doing dumb things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:13 PM
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Like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:01 PM
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Damn girl. How do you know he’s the one? I was proposed to at 19 and barely understood myself then. I’m 22 now and still feel far from ready to commit to one person for the rest of my life. I’m terrified of incompatibilities I have yet to fathom and personal preferences I have yet to realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:11 AM
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What did you learn each time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:07 AM
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Right? Who is OP talking to? There is a huge variety of demographics with a vast breadth of experiences on this sub. It’s why I keep coming back despite the trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 09:04 AM
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They both have winged eyeliner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:45 AM
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Ok? lol so you agree that men who don’t have standards in the women they go after are worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:40 AM
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The men whose standards are so low that they don’t require women to put any work into their looks, character, and value-add to a partnership........aren’t worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:51 AM
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Me too. He’s in the right hands now but his wife was super reluctant to let the medics take him cause they can’t pay in America... I don’t believe in a god but I feel like I was cosmically meant to be on this flight for this reason. I actually missed my original flight back last night because I had a mild anaphylactic reaction right before I was about to call a car to the airport 🥵 It’s been a crazy 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 11:48 PM
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I guess if it makes you feel better about yourself. Believe me, I love roasting fatsos as much as the next unPC asshole, but this isn’t the place. I prefer to drop snarky comments in another language while people watching. Don’t you have anything better to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:30 PM
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Crazy thing happened on my flight back. Elderly man may have had a minor stroke, couldn’t speak or swallow. His wife didn’t speak English. I sat with them and translated between wife and medic the entire flight. It was like a freakin’ movie. I was surprised there was nobody else who could speak Mandarin on a flight to SF though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 09:04 PM
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You don’t have to “work” if you don’t want to. You can PnD if you want to. Do whatever you want. We don’t care and neither will any women care about you. If you don’t think they’re worth your effort, then don’t put in effort. Maybe one day you’ll meet someone who you want so badly you think it’s worth trying to get her. Maybe not. Nothing worth having comes free.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:33 PM
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I could also post a picture of a piece of trash and make fun of it but why bother? They’re irrelevant to my life. Just swipe left. Is this bottom of the barrel shit really the only level of woman you are able to attain? If this is all you can get, there’s a point to be made. But if you can do any better, this post is just mean and nothing else. We could make fun of fat stupid people all day, but for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 07:02 PM
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On some guys it’s super hot. On others not so much. Depends if he can grow a full beard (patchy not good) and if he’s got that overall aesthetic My SO has one and it looks amazing, I like him best with a very light but well groomed beard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 06:49 PM
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Beard on my nether regions doesn’t feel good but if his head game is good enough I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:45 PM
1

The old man and the sea is one of my favorite books of all time and I didn’t even read it for school
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 10:24 AM
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I’d 200% be gay if I were a guy. I’d swing bi if I were tall
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 01:51 AM
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Honestly I don’t think I can trust someone who doesn’t like bidets. And oof on security. I have self described tech nihilism. I feel like since the moment I posted a picture of myself on Facebook or started making Google searches while logged into an account, I handed over my identity and agency to Big Tech and the government. It’s too late for me...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:55 AM
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One part of me likes watching my mans chop firewood and then we make fire in a wood burner stove and cook food that we hunt, fish, grow, scavenge ourselves. Our family backgrounds and passed down skillset actually makes this possible too. The other part of me gets viscerally turned on when I can change the temp, dim the lights, and sync lighting colors and changes to my music with the sound of my own voice. Ugh, and heated toilet seats and multi-functional bidets. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:39 AM
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Aristotle, Heidegger, Merleau-Ponty Don’t have much experience with analytic philosophy and need to dig in but not sure what order. Can I just dive into Will to Power without any other context lol also my bf is in love with Kierkegaard and plans to name his first born Soren
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:26 AM
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Saved. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:23 AM
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Yes. I was down to live in squalor in college. Now I make my own money and want a smart home. Humble living is cool and all but that’s for the future summer cottage. I’ve become more high maintenance as my own standard of living has improved. Not in a bitchy way — I’d never complain or make someone feel badly about their lifestyle — but I want a specific lifestyle for myself and my eventual family and won’t settle. I do plan to be capable of doing this all on my own dime, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:15 AM
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My bf had a Tinder girl over a couple times who was appalled by his hygiene. His place was a mess (to be fair the first floor did double as a music venue, so lots of after parties happened in his living space), and he didn’t use shampoo or soap. She washed his body for him with her own soap and then cleaned up his entire apartment for him, either before or after sex I don’t remember. It blew my mind because I would never do that shit for a fuck buddy but some women have a very strong nurturing d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:55 AM
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I think that only people with a certain disposition, male or female, would engage in _____ [transactional, ONS, pick whatever niche type you wish to examine] relationships. That’s perhaps why these men and women hold seemingly extreme opinions of the opposite gender. Because the type of people they surround themselves with and the experiences they continue to engage in are consistent with their opinions. Their sample is limited to their own lived experiences, so they have no reason to believe “a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:44 AM
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Have you seen that gif of Melania smiling sweetly at Trump and as soon as he turns around her face drops? When you are that rich and powerful, women will make you feel good in order for you to keep them around. Whether or not they genuinely like you doesn’t matter, because they consistently act like they do, and if not, they can be easily replaced with a younger, hungrier version who will act like she does. What’s the difference at that point? Edit: Also, a lot of these rich fuckboys can’t tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 02:13 AM
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That your sex drive may change at the spur of the moment, whether it be intrinsically (simple mood change) or extrinsically (persistence, more wine and as a result less inhibitions) driven, is precisely why men don’t take “no” as “no” but rather “maybe” — because well, longitudinally, it is in fact a maybe. If your “no” has the potential to change then it is actually a “not yet”/“not unless” and the man thinks he can force the conditions to accomplish “yet” or “unless.” When I talk about being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:22 AM
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Came here to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:12 AM
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Idk, I’m barely grown myself. I’ve had this attitude since I started doing the sex. Maybe it was because I wasn’t coddled as a child and everything I said was taken at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:05 PM
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As a fellow whore myself, I have never said “no” — I would not end up one on one with a man in private if I didn’t already consider and accept the possibility of sex. That may be a hot take though. I know some ladies who will resist and then give in because they can’t be bothered to put up a fight or justify why not. It’s usually duty sex and only happens in relationships. Any girl down for casual wants the dick and will not use the words “no” or “stop” explicitly unless she’s being tickled or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 07:19 PM
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For dating it’s worth it on Hinge, imo. There are definitely girls and guys on there actively looking for a relationship. You can put info in your profile that signals you are looking for serious only. It will always be a numbers game on OLD though. It will take a lot of time and effort and luck. I suggest getting into a female dominant or co-ed hobby or sport as the best way to date organically. Bars are for pickups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:11 AM
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For sex or for dating? Are you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:04 AM
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Is this dancing thing a metaphor? I’m asking why you have a new username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:10 AM
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Idk green eyed devil sounds kinda hot...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:53 AM
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I'm from America and tbh this sounds nearly identical to most people I know. Late 20s clubbing, wild cock carouseling, paying on dates politics, hyper-PC reactions to sexist jokes... they occur in certain niches and more extreme folks. Normies act just like you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:50 AM
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you're totally right. i would be remiss if i didn't get a chance to learn more. i guess i'm just worried because i met him on OLD so there's the context/expectation of sexual/romantic outcomes. also recent PPD content has made me extra wary of being remotely FDS-like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:46 AM
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I am worrying too much about being ethical lol. The worst that happens is we have a mediocre date and never see each other again, which he probably accounted for too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:43 AM
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it's funny, i think of myself as quite pragmatic but i can't stomach fds-ing. that's why I never hopped on the "here's my venmo/paypal" bandwagon. i'll take gifts and favors all day long from someone who's actually getting something from me (actually enjoy each other's company, sex, etc.) but otherwise it is so blegh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:42 AM
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Why? I can usually tell when people are lying. I do LinkedIn and social media check. It’s really rare for the type of men I meet to not have LinkedIn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:38 AM
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Not literal. More like a catfish check. Just making sure they are who they say they are and aren’t a safety risk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:32 AM
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I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:16 AM
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Ok, I creeped a little and I believe you. 47 and young at heart checks out as FuckGuilt. Why the new acct? Your own conscience engineered the karma rebalance between dogshit and reporting the heat out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:13 AM
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I matched with the CEO of a large internet company (not Amazon big, but like reddit big) a few weeks ago and forgot about it. I’m not remotely attracted to him and our communication styles seem quite different but I’m super curious to hear about his life. Would also sugar but feel like it’s almost insulting to bring it up. Should I set up a date? Am I wasting his time?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:00 AM
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Ugh I remember when you gave us the part 2 I was struggling to remember who you were. So what happened with the dogshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:57 AM
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You can’t possibly be FuckGuilt, he was nice and reasonable... Another vote for sandman. I remember the dogshit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:50 AM
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OLD sucks because a lot of people, disproportionately women (including yours truly 😅), use it as a distraction, hot or not game, test the waters to see what’s out there. A lot of people have no commitment to looking for another person (don’t have a problem being single, only casually looking) so they are too lazy to follow through with a date. Personally, I prefer to meet people in person and I have to be SUPER attracted to and REALLY hit it off with someone to be incentivized to set up an ID ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:44 AM
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Reminds me of my teenaged younger brother. He will replicate basic meme music like “Old Town Road” or shit he sees on TikTok on his sax then transpose it for fun, bc music theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:13 AM
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These are al great examples and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:07 AM
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Oh, I thought the retraction of attention was intended to confuse the girl like “wait he wanted it so badly before and now he doesn’t i should seduce” though I suppose the girl doesn’t necessarily always react that way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:42 AM
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Eh, given identical personalities/status I’d pick a ripped avg height guy over a skinny fat lanklet. Health and wellness are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:29 AM
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This is the classic RP protocol, actually
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:26 AM
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Normies are blue, purple, red “Self aware” folks who’ve probably been hurt are pink and black
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:22 PM
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Vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:07 PM
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Ever been in a monsoon? Rain was as sublime as the ocean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:54 PM
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Lucky Mr. PennnyLame 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:39 PM
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I enjoy it too, it’s kind of meditative and like a mouth game. But you aren’t squirming in pleasure like the person receiving the rimjob/head
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:27 PM
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Gasp do an AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:20 PM
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They get pleasure from giving someone else pleasure, it’s not as if the head giver is ever in orgasmic ecstasy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:19 PM
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Lights on is kinky??? Why? I thought people did lights off solely because they were insecure about their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 10:18 PM
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Cooking w chef friend, having a little dinner party. Followed by going out to some weird club parties. Last time I was at this venue they had midget acrobatics, furries doing lap dances, high production value drag. Y’all know that’s my scene
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:32 PM
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I’m actually moving to another neighborhood because I keep getting followed. Last week some guy followed me right up to my front door, which is every girl’s nightmare. Bf got me self defense tools for xmas...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 07:20 PM
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That beautiful women aren’t perceived to really be people is true on the other side of the coin as well. Attractive women (or even women in general) face a lot more danger in foreign countries or alone at night; they are followed and harassed at a much higher frequency
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:34 PM
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Very interesting. My observations at school, work, and out and about, have consistently shown that more attractive women are treated far better (coddled, random favors, kindness) than less attractive women, who are essentially ignored. Don’t all the guys here complain that attractive women, or women in general, get treated so much better, and that being a man is being invisible? Are we surveying some edgelords going against the grain? Or are they deluding themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:17 PM
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What? You literally didn't respond to anything I said. I don't have to say anything about what I am. I know how other people treat me IRL. It's sickening how much privilege I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:19 AM
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I neither believe in equality nor am I not willing to split a check.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:18 AM
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advice on r/IncelExit is for the sole purpose of achieving more attractiveness and/or EQ to getting laid. They can take or leave SUBJECTIVE advice, nobody expects any "trust." My point is I would rather talk to open-minded, if somewhat desolate guys who are ACTIVELY seeking help than to get into a brawl with a closed-minded FDSer who is going to be a leech no matter what some other girl on the internet has to say. I have never in my life EVER witnessed someone being "abusive and manipulative" ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:16 AM
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ok, then it's two circles that are not related. FDS defines quality man as one who will pay for the first date. YOU define quality man as: BY DEFINITION quality men(TM) won't put up with any of that shit. wherein that shit = paying for the first date, therefore YOU define quality man as one who will not pay for the first date. You simply have completely opposing definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:09 AM
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if a woman isn’t willing to split that check she doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship *with you Maintain your personal preference. I'm confused why this has become a normative issue about what women or men deserve at large. FDSers do not represent the women you date IRL, much less women as a whole. And RPers do not represent the men I date IRL, much less men as a whole. People who share the same values deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:29 AM
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You don't know anything about how I live my life IRL and what behavior I call out in my friends. I certainly don't have remotely FDS-like friends and I don't have a responsibility to stick my nose into strangers' dinner tables and police how they decide to pay. Not sure what you mean by "my game rules," as I'm not an FDSer. I've been in situations where I pick up the entire check, split it, or let it be paid for under various degrees of resistance from "no, let me get it this time, you can get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:23 AM
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I'm a woman (see flair). I know Chinese American dudes who only go for Asian girls because white girls won't give them a chance. However, IME, paying for dates is not something 2nd dates hinges on at all, for any race. It's a phenomenon I've only ever heard about online. IRL People don't care that much. Whether or not someone pays for a date will not swing someone one direction or the other. Either she likes you or she doesn't. Acts of chivalry are like the tip of the iceberg as far as assessing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:48 AM
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Again, haven't met an FDSer IRL so how will I call them out? I already waste far too much time in PPD to dare venture into FDS. I'd rather help in r/IncelExit first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:45 AM
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Happy for you! Glad you enjoyed Chicago and got laid too. Don’t beat yourself up for being awkward or clumsy. She obviously liked you enough to go for lunch and sex so that’s what matters, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:04 AM
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Definitely more common in immigrant populations. I’m Chinese American and any fobs I speak to say that they expect the man to always pay, even in a committed relationship with equal income. My Americanized peers don’t see a problem with splitting or switching.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:02 AM
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In their eyes, paying for the first date is a necessary trait of a quality man, whereas in your eyes, a quality man would not pay for a first date for an ugly woman. So they are not one and the same. It’s like a small circle (your quality man: only pays for hotties) inside a bigger circle (FDS quality man: pays in principle). The discrepancy is the men who fall into (big circle - small circle)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:00 AM
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Sure, they seem pretty shallow people to exclude a person solely based on his willingness to pay for dinner. My take is that it’s not simply the societal expectation causing them to act this way, it’s also their small brain and greedy disposition. Would you even want to be with someone like that? There are more than enough women out there who don’t mind splitting or offer to get the next meal that this is not a real problem imo. FDS is not that prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:52 PM
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Those women aren’t reading your reddit post history and changing their filtering criteria, so why bother? You aren’t changing societal expectations from your keyboard. Just stop paying and filter out those girls out yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:42 PM
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I’m attractive and young and have no problem getting who I want. Ugly women probably do settle if they prioritize having a relationship for its own sake. Or, they rather be alone and don’t see it as a problem. Either way something as trivial as paying for first dates would not get them any closer to their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:40 PM
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“miserable, malevolent, bulbous excuse of a being” I can see the steam rising out of the top of your head and condensing on your laptop screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:24 PM
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I haven’t met an FDSer IRL so I wouldn’t know if they are bulbous or not. Just don’t date them if you are so triggered. Seems pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:22 PM
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No, male thirst leads to busting thousands on camgirls. Much greater a financial burden than dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:21 PM
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FDS women seem to be optimizing for provider types, or “doormats”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:19 PM
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Male thirst is so high that there is outrageously low probability of ending of a spinster if you are not deformed and/or morbidly obese
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:17 PM
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I am baffled why paying for dates has become the subject of debate. Pay if you want, don’t pay if you don’t want to. We accept that people have vastly different values and behaviors across much deeper scopes — religion, abortion, drugs — so why is paying for dates an exception? It’s not as if you are taking other members of PPD on dates, so how they feel doesn’t matter one bit. How the actual person you pay/don’t pay for in real life is what actually matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:13 PM
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chef's kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:42 PM
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Hit me up in Community Megathread if/when you have some thoughts. I love Merleau-Ponty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:25 PM
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Maybe better for a PM but I’m curious on your take on how his embodied being maps onto Cartesian Dualism, and if there are any interesting nuances there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:15 PM
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You can’t say that without knowing me in person. I could very well be an ugly, fat, uneducated, old lady who likes to take cock from anyone. Nightmare! But I like you, too, king.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:09 PM
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Oh god I can’t say I’ve ever seen scrotum melt into fat and now I’m terrified of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:02 PM
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I’m triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:02 PM
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Have you read any Merleau-Ponty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:01 PM
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We would duel. To the death.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 06:54 PM
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Beastiality. Incest. Scat. Physically Abusive. Actually Mentally Retarded. There are some much more nit picky and less extreme marriage deal breakers but those are more about longterm compatibility than sheer revulsion. I’ll pretty much fuck/temporarily date anyone who doesn’t fuck animals, fuck their sibling, rub poop on me, hurt me (outside the bedroom), or require a caregiver. Hell, I’d even fuck a midget or a Nazi once. Cheers to being slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 06:49 PM
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I don't personally disagree as I recognize a need for social media for myself, but I've met some folks, especially from rural areas who are really into the outdoors, reading, their close friends and family, and genuinely don't have a purpose for social media. They stay connected by texting/calling their friends and consume media in print/film or by reading articles online. Maybe they are "technophobes" in your book but they are perfectly adept with using tech like a typical Millennial/Gen Zer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:08 AM
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Hm. Interesting. Brainwashed by whom? The guys I have in mind never had kids but they have plenty of friends and people that care about them. They are successful with women into their "old age" like still getting new partners into 50s if they maintain their health. And they are financially very stable because they aren't providing for multiple other people. In fact they spoil themselves with man toys. They do occasionally have gfs or longterm fwb and develop emotional connections like normal hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:03 AM
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I'm not sure what you'd consider these folks, but I know quite a few men who do very well with casual sex with women but have zero intentions of settling down. They've given up on the idea of a relationship with a quality woman they love but still fuck bitches. To me, they are the legitimate Men Going Their Own Way who are actually alpha. They don't spend egregious time worrying about women, but they still get plenty of pussy, just casual only. Maybe they bridge the gap between TRP and MGTOW, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:50 AM
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I mentioned I had a bf the first day I met him and talk about him quite a bit. I did consider it might have been an unconventional tactic (ignore that she has a bf and continue pushing for dates), but it was a remarkably low EQ one because now I just think he's a weirdo, potentially creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:44 AM
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Mid 20s. We had only hung out 2x before and he seemed quite comfortable opening up to me the first time we met, so I don't think that's it. Maybe he wasn't feeling social that day in particular?? Prefers one on one connections? I still can't figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:33 AM
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Pretty accurate. Everyone I've ever met without social media is at least one of those things. Oh, and people who are SO extremely virtuous that they're genuinely above it; they don't think they are, they really do just have better things to do with their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:22 AM
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Thanks for letting us know you're hot. Too bad I'm not on social media to stalk you. Cheeky. IDK, I haven't quite figured it out either. We quite enjoy talking to each other but the dinner cancel thing was very strange. Do people have social anxiety when there are 2 people but not with 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:20 AM
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I have a few quite shy friends that are actually extremely funny and interesting people once they get closer to you and open up. But I also know some people who are so shy that I barely know who they are as people, it's that hard to get anything out of them. That implies they have "issues" as per OP, imo. Everyone experiences awkward pauses; I suppose I am more so referring to very conspicuous pauses. IDK, like if someone stares at you for too long without responding or seems like they can't und…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 09:17 AM
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I assess whether someone is socially well adjusted by their interactions with other people, i.e. service people at a restaurant/cafe, friends of mine that they meet, strangers we interact with for some reason. It's a pretty low bar. Basically so long as there are no red flags (like weird tics, awkward pauses, inappropriate questions or body language), they are well adjusted. I don't expect someone to have many friends present in a particular city; their friends could be located all over the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:31 AM
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22F, big cities on east and west coasts of USA. I like guys who don't use social media. It's a waste of time. But also, first and foremost I like high EQ, socially well-adjusted guys who have many friends. The lack of social media is only a plus IF AND ONLY IF he has already proven to be well-adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 01:13 AM
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Based on your perception of typical female behavior, you seem to surround yourself with very low class people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 11:54 PM
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Bio major here. Evolutionary biology is hard science because it models animal behaviors in controlled and/or simulated environments and empirically tests hypotheses. For example, the Hardy-Weinberg principle is extremely well supported. There are theorems used in evolutionary biology that map onto physics principles. In contrast to the rigor found in biology, psychology is essentially waxing poetic. Human psychology is poorly understood and if I’m being pretentious, I don’t think I would conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 11:41 PM
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There are no rules, do what you feel is morally just so that you can live with yourself. Some say girl code is to tell, others say if it’s not you he’s cheating with it will he somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 10:35 PM
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22 18-50ish yes, used to have an upper limit of like 35. i only went for super fit muscle bods and thought old guys were unrelatable. i’ve gotten progressively more and more open minded especially as i’ve made some friends who have daddies or age gap relationships 18-50ish. used to be primarily my age group in hs/early college but that got boring real quick. i wanted to meet real people in the city. since i’ve graduated i’ve met a ton of older people who are fun as fuck — they know how to party …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:09 PM
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Pleaseeeee! I volunteer to help with the data visualization. Like a PPD Tableau dashboard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:33 PM
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They consider all purple blue and conflate black with red
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:31 PM
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“sissiepissies”? ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:26 PM
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Based on the number of upvotes I get that heavily outweigh the likely “maroon” entourage of downvotes that follows me in real time as well as the lurkers that PM me to discuss ideas further I’d wager that the lurkers may be similarly balanced between red and blue as actual posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:24 PM
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He’s calling anyone purple blue and most likely conflating black with red
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 10:22 PM
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I spent a summer there and built up a psychotic google sheet of restos/bars/clubs with notes on my favorites. DM me and we can chat. I could possibly make a hard excel copy maybe to doxproof it...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:57 PM
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Anecdatum is so magical. A land where mathematical properties fly away and statistical fallacies reign supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:46 AM
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Casual sex was not a given or anywhere near as rampant as it is today simply a few decades ago. This "inequality" did not exist when many normal women (aka not actual prostitutes) did not participate in casual sex. Long term dating and early marriage was the norm. Feminism and sexual liberation changed society very rapidly relative to the history of mankind so the feeling of deception young men are experiencing with regard to casual sex is a "relative maximum" not an "absolute maximum" of societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:44 AM
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Repeating, in essence, "women only want ___, so woe is me" in different forms, constantly. Like moping around and justifying inaction. What's key here is articulation and frequency. If they are discussing an interesting dynamic or nuance of lookism it's one thing, but if it's disorganized, even stream-of-consciousness, and very regular, it's plain old complaining. It is quite similar to those guys who are MGTOW but don't ever stop talking about how women suck and why they don't need women, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:39 AM
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I accept the call out. I suppose it is perhaps not only hypocritical but also uncompassionate of me. In both cases I do not exactly highly regard those who moan about not being perfect and are paranoid about their looks. I consider complaining and paranoia to be pretty despicable, weak characteristics. I do have empathy for those who are disfigured/disabled but as other users have mentioned it seems a lot of those complaining individuals may be just fine in the looks department, but rather lazy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:16 AM
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Posting 2x in 12 hours is not going to make this time last very long bud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:21 AM
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Welcome back. Hope you have a better experience this time around. If you get into another riff raff with a mod I think they would be more amenable to arguing in modmail. And it’s true that the dinosaurs are largely exempt from civility rules
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:52 AM
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As much as you apparently want them to be, people don't get banned for discussing looks. We discuss looks constantly. There are legitimate blackpillers among us, but they're welcome because they articulate themselves well and don't exclusively make bad faith arguments. People get banned for woe is me aka "you have to be a Greek God to get fucky fucky waaaaaa but my mom said i am perfect the way i am i hate my mom!" Yes people actually say things like that but they disappear pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:43 AM
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Hmmm, good call. I agree. I get confused by the incels crying about their moms and feminist society telling them "lies" about how "looks don't matter" and boohoo believing them. The extent that it matters is what is often being debated imo. A pretty common claim that spawns from "lookism" is the idea that being short/ugly dooms you to a life without sex/romance. I actually do agree that below a certain threshold, they might actually be doomed unless they're down to be fetishized. i.e. legal midg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:33 AM
3

Shhhhhhhhhh they will awaken if you call them by name
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:27 AM
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Lookism is probably the most widely accepted blackpill truth in ppd. Everyone agrees that looks matter here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:26 AM
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There are definitely some folks who come here to blow off steam from real life (shitflingers) and/or validate their own circular logic in a sad circle jerk. The latter tends to get removed rather consistently but they respawn on a weekly basis under new names
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:24 AM
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"Winning" isn't delivering the most hardcore verbal ass-beating or exhausting the other person behind the keyboard. It's uncovering logical fallacies in their arguments, presenting a sound argument of your own, and most importantly, articulating it in a way that other people (and ideally the other person) can understand and perhaps develop a new understanding of the original claim. If you have such a mindset you will benefit from your time here. If you argue like a guerrilla fighter then yeah yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:19 AM
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There are absolutely regulars here who consistently respond with tact, even grace, and formulate sound arguments. Perhaps you disagree with their premises but their arguments are logically valid. Personally I've discovered many new ideas or nuances on existing ideas here through civil discourse. It's utter hyperbole to say regulars have no interest in actual debate. I have no doubt that this 17yo you're dissuading has things s/he has yet to learn and their own logical fallacies to be uncovered t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 04:15 AM
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Definitely into conventionally attractive body type. Like wrestlers/soccer players/football players/swimmers. We literally bond over their muscles. I get off on punching my bfs pecs. Skinny guys can be sexy but it’s their personality that makes them sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:51 AM
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Welcome back! Merry xmas! Missed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:48 PM
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Lol LMR from which party?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:12 PM
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I dont put comprehensive specific details because this is not r/sex. PM me if you want specificity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:05 PM
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There's absolutely nothing unreasonable about abiding by Q4W and Q2M when discussion, debate, and CMV posts exist and make up the bulk of our posts. Refraining from answering a question you weren't asked has nothing to do with "ethics," perhaps intelligence or maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:44 AM
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if you want to participate in this sub you abide by the subs rules. Grateful for our mods for handling retards like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:35 AM
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Point taken. But being non-athletic and bookish doesn't condemn you to a life of inceldom. Nerds can get laid too, with nerdy chicks. Womanizing occurs in all niches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:43 AM
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Put her star fishing legs up on your shoulders and see how she feels with a cervix full of dick. All men take note. At least get a workout in if you're fucking a marine invertebrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:11 AM
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anal licking/rimming , scrotum tickling, nipple licking, subtle dominant-submissive behavioural shifts, kissing, licking neck, torso gyrating, torso kissing, touching, massaging, dirty talking skills All of the above. And prostate massages, the sloppiest wettest BJs, acrobatic riding skills, kegels galore, non-genitally stimulated orgasms, ball sucking and licking, light scratching and tickling, NON-SUBTLE dominant-submission switches, threesomes and groupsex, etc. I don't know how old you are, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:04 AM
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I agree it's too much effort for the average passive chick or starfisher. But we're talking about great sex. Starfishers never have great sex. It takes 2 to tango. I only want to have mindblowing sex, so I put in the work and select the right men to make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:33 AM
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If you're serious PM me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:00 AM
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To be fair, their point is that they're not even getting to the bedroom to begin with without the chiseled jawline and thicc wrists. So to add insult to injury they have fewer opportunities to practice as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:56 AM
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The women you've been with in relationships are right. Above average is sufficient for good sex. What makes sex GREAT: foreplay clit/head game reacting to what your partner likes physical touch (dominant and/or sensual) stroke game pacing stamina, both athletic and sexual creativity amenability to various kinks I have been with one HUGE guy who gave me really intense orgasms that were unique from other sex. Had he incorporated all the aspects of more sexually experienced partners, he might be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:46 AM
2

engulfs a disgruntled geyges in moderately rapey hugs and kisses
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:49 AM
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Absolutely. Had either of us been black/brown/poor it would have been a completely different story. He was shipped off to expensive discipline boarding school after his nth offense. Some of his less fortunate friends from those days are dead, addicts, trainhopping vagabonds who never came back, or all of the above...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:19 AM
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Meh, my SO and I both got arrested for drug related offenses as teens, went on to go to elite universities, and both work high tech white collar jobs. I mean, “meh” is hyperbole since it was pretty traumatizing for both of us at the time but you can come out of it more than OK with the right attitude and will to power.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:12 AM
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They’re getting the idea from personal experience and/or the media that being “that type of guy” often hurts girls and makes them feel disposable (which they are, but some people are too idealistic to accept that they are)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:09 AM
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Happy with either. Both are unique challenges. My SO and I were both drug-using troublemaking studs/sluts at 16 so I suppose that would be easier to discipline because I can better relate to what they are going through psychologically. I don’t think I would very likely raise a gamer because I would severely restrict their technology use and force them into sports and social activities from a young age. But overall, he seems like an easier son to raise. It’s easier to rouse up energy in someone s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:47 PM
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Most of the time, guys who are “that type of guy” don’t bother explaining to me that they are “not that type of guy” because by the time we get to a situation where that line might be appropriate, they already know that I would not judge them for being “that type of guy” — I am a hardcore libertarian about this kinda stuff. Recently, a guy I took home said to me before sex , “Just so you know, I don’t do one night stands. We’re going to see each other again.” — which was probably the closest thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:41 PM
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Girls love fags. Suit yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 08:45 PM
2

Watch one episode of Queer Eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:45 PM
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Unconventional answer: I delay gf tag for as long as humanly possible. I am not into commitment. Fastest was immediately. My ex and I met, fucked in the same night, and were together from that point onward for 2 years. We never discussed the title, it was simply understood. It was a very passionate affair. Current bf and I were fwb for several months. After a month of dating he tried to broach the conversation, but I rebuffed him. 3 months later he brought it up again casually, but I insisted on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:11 PM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with that. When I was 18 my mom was discouraging me from dating boys and quite honestly alarmed at my heightened interest in them (I was head over heels in love running around the world with my first serious bf, skipping coursework to travel with him). Once I got a job and graduated college she suddenly became totally into my dating life and began offering advice. The older generations would totally support you holding off on dating until it is consistent with your goals…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:00 PM
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Guys picking up chicks at Whole Foods
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:59 AM
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Yes, I love “the boys” energy. Such a big proponent of spending time with the boys. As great as sisterhood can be, I’m definitely jealous of brotherhood
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:56 AM
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ONLY the ones I commit to i’m sexually turned off if I feel like they would let me make all the decisions. I like guys who don’t ask consent (even non sexually) if that makes sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:44 AM
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not sexually aroused by displays of affection and only into physically dominant men. i’m kind of emotionally stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:30 AM
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Humor, strength both physical and mental, naughtiness/cunning, protectiveness, big veiny hands and forearms, sense of duty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:05 AM
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Same and haven’t known anything different wouldn’t change a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:17 AM
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I lost my virginity in cowgirl while rolling on molly with my best friend at the time. It felt amazing and way easier than any of the FSM chit chatter implied it might be. That tells you everything you need to know about me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 09:09 PM
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cramping from period that a strong pain reliever is not relieving throwing up/feverish/extremely unwell
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:01 AM
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Congrats!!! Honeymoon?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:21 PM
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Nobody asked for this PPD needs a word count limit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:05 AM
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Why should there be rules? By the degree of variation in the answers here clearly the right answer is pay for you want, split if you want. If whoever you’re going out with takes issue with or takes advantage of whatever you want to do, you’re not compatible. Next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:19 AM
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Then don’t lol, power to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:16 AM
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Thank you for not just going ahead and posting stream of consciousness as a post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:52 AM
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1) doesn’t seem like a problem to me and 2) isn’t true. you’re so young and people <21 are only learning and don’t know wtf they’re doing yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 08:29 PM
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I know exactly what you’re talking about. Your interpretation is just wrong. The fact that I use “most likely” and followed with a question is completely intentional. It does not have the same meaning as “you’re doing it wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:20 PM
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“most likely” followed by a probing question means I’m testing my hypothesis and not certain of what I’ve proposed. However, his reply in fact validated what I was considering. Having a simple conversation is not a “game” the fact that so many of you think I’m playing “games” reveals so much about why you see the world the way you do and have achieved the results you’ve achieved. The world isn’t out to get you, some chick in a completely different city has no incentive to mess with your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:15 PM
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“most likely” I hedge my prescriptive comments for that very reason. Like I’ve said before, you ought to read comments a few times before replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:10 PM
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That’s great supportive behavior but it doesn’t actually reveal anything about how much you respected yourself. It’s important to do those things to be a good partner but you need to communicate your needs, set boundaries, and do things that validate your own self worth outside of HER, in concert with that you described. If all you do is give, most humans will take it and you for granted. You’ve gotta be intentional about not being taken for granted. If she sees your efforts as requiring little …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:09 PM
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You don’t know him IRL and are blindly defending him because it’s so important to you to release a dig at women. Maybe you’re going for the wrong women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:05 PM
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You’re most likely not doing it right. Balance self respect with respect for her. What do you consider acts of care, respect, and investment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:35 PM
1

What do you think makes some people incapable of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:21 PM
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A person who has loved once had not loved before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:07 PM
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Love is almost always worth the risk of a breakup. Now as for marriage/divorce, I’m not so sure. As far as I’m concerned the only differences could be a piece of paper, maybe some financial consolidation, social status, and potentially children. Pre kids, how much weight do you ascribe to social status (being known as a couple, being known as divorcees)? How much weight do you ascribe to having your children go through a divorce and live with uncohabiting parents? If you could quantify those thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 06:05 PM
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woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 07:08 AM
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underrated comment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 04:51 AM
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I think men have always and will always like legs and tits and heart shaped asses. The sexual ideal never changed. Playboy models and conventional natural bodied pornstars still look the same as they always have. I think steatopygia obsession has got to be akin to the cocaine chic obsession of the 90s. In vogue but not actually sexually appealing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:09 AM
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Bitches are bitches. Competent, highly qualified, sharp tongued bitches are intimidating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:33 PM
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Might be easier to start with a friend or friend of a friend so you can build a rapport. For straight to sex, Tinder (as opposed to Bumble or Hinge) usually works quite well. So many horny girls on there lol they’re sometimes as thirsty as the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:38 PM
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Sad. I liked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:33 PM
3

Are you trying to have a lesbian experience???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 06:32 PM
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I love the power couple dynamic but I can see how it’s not for everyone, especially not for tradcons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:50 PM
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Dad bods are fine to cuddle with and I am not disgusted by them but I will never seek them out. I have a gym thot body that I worked for. I want someone who shares the same values about cultivating their appearance and health through exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:30 PM
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I’m not even a full blown Stacy and I have zero need for maintaining male attention in the form of orbiters because I get way more than enough attention from male strangers. Not to mention my SO. There’s a surplus. I will admit it is nice to receive free things and favors that require literally no effort or commitment from me beyond a smile. Some guys make themselves orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:27 PM
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What a big squid you are!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:22 PM
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Kind of flattered to have an entourage of lurker haters downvoting all of my comments in real time 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:02 PM
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I do. It’s a realistic approach. Manage your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 04:29 PM
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Today my boyfriend told me he is grateful for me not only for my intellect/beauty/personality/blah blah blah but for my “skillset.” Like how competent and instrumental I am to his life? I have a very wide suite of skills that basically make functioning in 2019 a lot easier. e.g., professional level (I have been and am paid for my services in) Microsoft Office, Adobe Creative Cloud, coding/automating/crawling, drawing/painting, producing/operating, etc. It surprised me because I hadn’t considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:40 AM
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Honestly it’s still all an experiment. His startup blew up a few months ago so he already didn’t have much free time to spare before I moved. We were always somewhat non monogamous and both had our hoeing days so we can psychologically handle the openness. It’s been fun for me to explore lots of weird new things and share stories with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 04:51 AM
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I don’t think of him as a cuck, others here call him that lol. We became long distance so the openness is practical
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 09:02 PM
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Downvoting is also for pussies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:50 PM
1

The regulars who we all know by name are above avg intelligence and attractiveness on the basis of their writing style, occupation, socioeconomic class, and the fact that they have gotten Chads to commit. The normal male regulars here are also above avg in that regard because they have had successful relationships. Both parties are superior to the social outcast black pills who frequent this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:45 PM
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Wilde also have the awesome quote: “Everything in the world is about sex. Sex is about power.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:18 PM
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I don’t know that there are many blue left besides a handful. And many of the self proclaimed reds are actually just black.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:10 PM
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Bro I never claimed I am better than male posters. Just that I’m not normal in the head. Also I have only seriously dated chadcucks (see flair) You want to be offended so badly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 05:08 PM
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i truly think there are about equal numbers of normal men and women then an extra subset of fucked up men. the men outnumber the women here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:59 PM
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What does being normal in the head have to do with not playing games in simple conversation? I’m definitely not normal. I’m far more high achieving and open minded than those in my peer group. I also sleep with girls trans people and definitely would fuck machines/robots. No animals tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:58 PM
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Multiple accounts are for pussies What game? We’re having a simple conversation. This kind of thinking is so paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:54 PM
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No... read more... I said normal men and women in my first comment. I said normal people There are normal reds. There are tradcons. Then there are guys who grew up socially isolated whether due to circumstance or due to mental illness or extreme unattractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:53 PM
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Atlas & boomer gen x co are all married or single and dating and very happy. Millennial women have shared such a wide variety of experiences you can be assured they have healthy social lives. Younger girls all have friends because they write about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:47 PM
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I have the same background as you and basically agree. I date older men because I’m a slutty hippie dora the dick (and other genitalia, i don’t discriminate) explorer. Also, older is what my same age group open/“cuck” bf is comfortable with me dating. I would never bring someone who broke the +5 year rule home to my family as a potential suitor because I’m not crazy. Also I’m perfectly normal and well-adjusted if not doing far better than my peer group
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 04:26 PM
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Those women can’t possibly be regulars.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:56 PM
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On the contrary, I often chuckle at the mental image of all of us talking IRL. A bunch of normal people, then a bunch of ugly short dudes and/or spergs. The female regulars tend to be above average attractive, intelligent, and strong-willed. Most of not all don’t have issues acquiring friends and lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 03:55 PM
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I have friends who are distinctively UC. They have trust funds, don’t need to work but do it to keep themselves occupied, and their family friends include the likes of actual royalty, famous celebrities, and people with Wikipedia pages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:33 PM
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Eh, depends. My UMC suburb growing up was filled with golf courses and horse farms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:29 PM
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Crippling debt and irreversibly poor financial decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:54 PM
1

You’re conflating alpha with high quality man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:57 PM
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Cats are fine but I reaaaaally don’t understand people who own an egregious number of them. 10+ cats seems like a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:45 PM
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That’s true. I’ve been brainwashed by the incels crying about how only alpha mega Chads can get fucky fucky
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:33 PM
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then you know some classy people. a lot of normal people don’t have college degrees and haven’t traveled internationally nor do they know how to ski/fence/ride horses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:18 PM
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I can smell the formal philosophy training. Love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:40 PM
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I'd argue that SMV and RMV can be objectively measured. i.e. SMV is simply how much other people want to fuck you. In contrast, OP is using "high quality" to fully evaluate his gf. Attributes like going to college, playing instruments, being open to different hobbies contribute neither to somebody's SMV nor RMV. You can be a great fuck and a great partner without being an adventurous, college-educated, virtuoso. Those are traits he personally considers valuable, therefore making them subject. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:16 PM
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i have never had a conversation with girl friends remotely close to "look at all the hot guys I've been with." we only date hot guys. at most we might show pictures of whoever we're currently seeing to each other. we have no desire to "prove" past escapades, because they're irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:11 PM
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yall interact with some trashy ass women. none of my girl friends talk about n, neither amongst male friends nor amongst ourselves. we might gossip about the guys we're currently sleeping with / interested in, but we don't recall our entire sexual history much less put a number to it. what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:09 PM
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no. there are objective qualities outlined by trp that define "alpha." these qualities are hypothesized to enable someone to achieve casual sex and they have been empirically validated. "high quality" according to OP, or anyone, is inherently subjective because the person deeming another person high quality is evaluating them according to their OWN value set. different attributes are more, less, not at all important for different people. e.g., OP mentioned "going to college" and "quitting smokin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:16 AM
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strawman. nobody is saying you need to be an "alpha" to get a high quality woman. they are saying you need to be alpha to get casual sex. also "high quality" woman is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:40 AM
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? the quotations are there to indicate the classism inherent in what makes them considered worthy of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:22 AM
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Men like you should go for Muslims or devout Christians/Catholics. Deeply religious girls is your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:13 AM
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Women don’t boast about n, much less talk about it with men they’re courting/dating. Nobody talks about n IRL nor can you reliably tell someone’s n IRL. That’s why ppd’s obsession is fascinating. I have never seen it be relevant IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:11 AM
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I have had very few boyfriends and don’t know club promoters. I do not dress provocatively and am not overly loud. How would you know my n? If you asked I could lie. So how would you know? If the classiest woman ever lies to you, how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:26 AM
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almost every time i walk through a door or use elevator (i work downtown, so mostly businessmen) men will do this. it’s very very very prevalent, particularly among men 35+. evidently not among redditors tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:11 AM
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Baby when you talk like that you make me want to squirt all over your face while I scream your name
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:05 AM
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Not OP, just other women IRL. A girl with many boyfriends may very well have a much lower n than a girl who never had a single boyfriend and only did casual sex. A girl who loves to club might easily have a much lower n than a girl who never set foot in a club but loves to fuck. Maybe she prefers pubs or mosh pits or stoner/surfer boys. I personally know a few examples. My point is you cannot readily intuit someone’s n from their looks or even necessarily their behavior, so the moralization seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 07:00 AM
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I just can’t imagine why a girl would turn off her libido with a new bf. Why is she dating him in the first place if she doesn’t wanna fuck him the same amount as her exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:56 AM
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I went to an Ivy with full tuition paid, traveled to 25+ countries before the age 20, and am now living in highest cost of living city, a debt free post grad with my own white collar $$ being saved consistently and spent consistently. There are a lot of folks here similar to me in class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:55 AM
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You don’t know OP IRL. How will you tell IRL? How she acts, looks, etc. High n women can act incredibly classy. Low n women can act incredibly whorish. And lots of people act “normal” — It seems why you care about is how she presents herself, her reputation, not actually her n.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:52 AM
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There is some weird fallacy going on with the consistency argument. My understanding is: Sluts will be horny with everyone. Chaste girls will be hard to get with everyone. That’s what makes them slutty or chaste. Their generalized behavior. This idea that some chick is a slut for past bfs but not into sex with you SPECIFICALLY — does this actually happen? (Except for “born again virgins” 🤮)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:50 AM
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How would you KNOW if she lies? You CAN’T. So how would you like it or not? Assume everyone is lying or accept the number they give you. Or go for chaste girls so the number is obvious. Or, idk, don’t ask in the first place because you’re bigger than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:43 AM
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Moral of the story: Women are wrong no matter how you spin it 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:39 AM
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Yup. Add fencing, rowing, golf, equestrian lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:28 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:26 AM
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Exactly this. UMC goes for top schools, talk amongst friends about which schools, and don’t need financial aid for private schools. They typically don’t even qualify for aid unless they pull off tax loopholes. Luxury cruises, resort vacations, exotic vacations. Most UMC families have a lot of stocks and real estate. Nearly every UMC neighbor/family friend I know starts buying and renting out property in their 40s/50s. They all become amateur real estate agents lol. Bonus 5. UMC families can affo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:44 AM
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Your sentiment is shared by women who don’t want to become plates on the scaffolding of some newly RP dude’s fragile ego
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:08 AM
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Most men and women in UMC find partners that: * have at least a Bachelor’s degree * in a similar vein, experienced college partying * work white collar jobs * have international travel experience * have at least minimal experience in “expensive” sports i.e. skiing * have “interesting” hobbies that imply sufficient leisure and worldliness * have good credit/save for retirement These attributes are definitely not necessarily explicitly required or sought out. They simply look for partners who shar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:42 AM
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🤤 Check out @halfbakedharvest on IG. I have a feeling you’d love her easy, yet super delicious dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:00 AM
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People enjoy being monogamous for reasons other than provision. It’s nice to have one best friend/lover and easier to manage than multiple because humans naturally get jealous. That being said, a lot more of my peers are open to and interested in polyamory. A lot of my friends enjoy (sometimes simultaneously) dating guys they know are temporary for a few weeks/months at a time. They are learning about themselves and focused on gathering experiences rather than hunting for a hubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:54 AM
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Things unique to her. Imo you should compliment everyone in this way. “I love how your nose crinkles when you laugh” “You have the most contagious smile” “Your eyes are wonderfully mischievous when you’re up to something” “Engaging with your mind is so enriching for me, I could talk to you for hours without running out of topics” “It’s addictive touching you, the way you react to me is intoxicating” “You’re a fabulous storyteller; your characters are endless” “You are so adorable when you cum, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:06 PM
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No, surprisingly. I never managed to finish making my SA profile because I started meeting people organically... The 53 yo is a little gray area (no ppm or allowance but he does pay for literally everything and take me shopping, but my same age ex did that too) and I though the 47 was in his 30s when I met him because he had aged so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:22 PM
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You quoted the top reply which isn’t mine. I’m 22 and happily dating a 47 yo and a 53 yo right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:11 PM
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Hello??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:57 PM
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Half plus seven for serious marriageable relationships. None for everything else so long as I’m attracted to the individual. I’m not specifically into girls or old men but I have fucked both, because strange is interesting to me. Weird is fun. Maybe when the novelty fades it will become less palatable but I’m already starting to experience the unique advantages of unconventional sex/romantic partners. It’s all case by case, I don’t see a point in restricting myself with rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:27 PM
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I would stay together for the children but would not remain celibate if they weren’t about to them 18. That’s why I think cheating is permissible — for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:53 AM
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An amicable divorce is ideal but often not possible. Also, downvoting isn’t allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:50 AM
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3) Why stay with someone with whom you are not sexually compatible and who refuses to compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:32 AM
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Therefore, staying together for the sake of giving the kids a stable family household is not necessarily a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:51 PM
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By your logic, going through a traumatic divorce would encourage your kids to pick partners to set themselves up for relationship failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:22 PM
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It would be better to have an open relationship with agreement. It would be worse to be celibate and faithful. Deadbedrooming is a unique kind of evil imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:21 PM
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For us personally we are long distance and our open rules entail an age limit for emotional connections and casual only for everyone else. Sex with same cohort partners feels like business as usual, but it’s still good because we select for attractive, experienced people. Sex with older guys has been pretty unique for me; they fuck differently than guys my age because they’re much more experienced. Mostly way more generous (so much head!!!) All that being said, imho sex feels different with ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:25 PM
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Honestly I’m experimenting with non-monogamy for the first time, so I’m not sure how I will reconcile potentially feeling love for people outside my primary partner either! I didn’t say “I love you” back for that very reason. It also took like over 6 months to say it to my boyfriend... I have no problem being intimate with others or my partner being intimate with others though. Sex can be just sex imo, we both had so much casual sex that we are very capable of compartmentalizing sex itself, even…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:00 PM
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I doubt any major celebrity in the traditional sense (entertainment or business/political/tech mogul) but given the age and class of some folks, I’m sure there are some relatively powerful people in certain industries. Aspirational Linkedin connections and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:54 PM
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I love my family, my best friends that I check in with regularly, my boyfriend, past partners if we stay in touch regularly, and partners outside my boyfriend if we reach a level of connection where I couldn’t imagine breaking them out of my life. You know that saying — you are an amalgamation of the five people you spend the most time with? I feel like that degree of closeness is what begets a love-like connection. I don’t know that I love the aforementioned fwb yet because our universes are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:33 PM
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I’m seeing 2 much older (2 decades+) men right now and I wouldn’t say they are whipped because I haven’t been very demanding. However, they are acutely and sometimes verbally explicitly aware that I don’t have to spend time with them and treat me very well, though not necessarily more than the HV men my own age. Very chivalrous (which I believe is a generational and/or cultural thing) and always checking if I’m doing okay/having fun/have any requests for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 08:55 PM
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5) with a sprinkle of 3) is justified if/when the partner deadbedrooms their partner and refuses sex therapy or trying something new. Sometimes staying together for the kids will make for a more stable household, but it is plain cruel and unacceptable to turn your partner into an incel and refuse to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:54 PM
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22f Love is care and connection. Your pain is my pain, your joy is my joy. It’s like the deepest form of empathy that can exist. Who you love becomes a part of you and your universe. This applies to familial, romantic, platonic love. The differences between the types is a different (but worthwhile) conversation. 2 serious longterm relationships, many casual or temporary encounters. And on today’s session of oversharing with strangers on the internet... I currently have 2 situations going on that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:46 PM
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Bay Area, which is Central? But would love to get up there soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:18 AM
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Just an enthusiastic passenger. It was a suzuki v-strom 650, you can tell me what that means because I have no clue lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:18 AM
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Deja vu to that creepy dude playing pedo rap genius on billie eilish’s bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:17 AM
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Took a motorcycle ride down Highway 1 this weekend. 120mph. It was so beautiful and so exhilarating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:01 AM
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They do want to be genuine friends with me. Who are you even talking to? Try some reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:12 PM
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Don’t dislocate yourself reaching to make self righteous assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:45 PM
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Every guy will get butt hurt after being friendzoned because it’s a blow to the ego. What is telling about their (a) maturity, (b) emotional intelligence, and/or (c) character, is how they’d react after. Almost all of the guys I friendzoned ended up becoming close friends with me again — true friends, not orbiters. I’d imagine these guys lack at least one of the three.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:42 PM
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The ultimate blackpiller is a lookist incel who has an external locus of control and basic taste in women. I find that their ideas are often very idealistic. They are obsessed with this idea of justice, whereas true reds just optimize getting their dick wet, recognizing that equality will never exist. What they share is the idea that women should be objectified/commoditized. Except reds spin plates and blacks try to deceive women looking for relationships into having sex after they pay for a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:21 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:53 AM
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I ❤️ Our Boomer Reds
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:42 AM
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So how do you explain Wait Week & men complaining about women not putting out? Aren’t those very women the ones they want to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:32 AM
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Lol I kinda made up the “contradiction” part. Thought it was apt/ironic because what I’m referring to has a similar premise: that women are either whores or chaste virgins, one or the other. Demand women be whores yet only perceive chaste virgins as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:30 AM
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Why do you equate high n with low status. How would your homies be able to tell how much she fucked before you by how she looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:27 AM
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I agree with that. Lots of women go to college and then become trophy wives. But I would need to be with the best dog walker of all time who like made the designed the Rover app or something. Idk. Low status or low ceiling career usually means lack of drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:26 AM
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Yes, I considered it. That’s why I’m wondering if it’s two different groups of people. What characterizes and differentiates each?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:24 AM
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Do you feel a strong urge to fuck a variety of women? Why are you intellectually disgusted by a woman who has a lot of sex? If you don’t know her sexual history, there’s no way you could drop her from an 8 to a 4. You would have no way of knowing from looking at or even speaking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:16 AM
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Would you want to be with someone less intelligent than you though? A low status job implies a lack of drive and/or competence. I would feel superior to them if I could understand exactly what they do and the media and culture they consume but they weren’t able to understand my life or interests. Is stupidity not a sexual turn-off?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:10 AM
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why do men not find it attractive? is it an ego thing? do you think men enjoy either fucking or being with an intellectual equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:07 AM
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Then move on and fuck someone who doesn’t require you to spend money on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:43 AM
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I am an extremely pragmatic liberal, and red — the original red, not the blackpill shit trying to pass as maroon these days in ppd — tends to be pragmatic in contrast to a more idealistic blue. i.e. I think anyone should be able to identify as anything or fuck anyone (this would be a liberal standpoint) but spending time and effort harping on bathroom rules is an utter waste of energy (this would not be consistent with the liberal agenda). Just go in the family bathroom if you’re unsure and use …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:10 AM
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Most women who decide to have sex early don’t perceive a man who only wants casual or doesn’t develop feelings as a problem. Even if she does develop feelings she will deal with them appropriately and not perceive it as a “situationship” because she was aware of the circumstances going into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:17 PM
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I actually love how balls smell and regularly request to be teabagged for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 06:57 PM
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Lmao it’s hilarious that this can be commodified and taught. Wooks are total naturals at ecstatic dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:19 PM
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22f, this weekend while at a techno club. The male:female ratio gets pretty fucked up after 3am and it’s like constant fending off people trying to dance with me or talk to me. It is kind of nice because people will bring me free drinks (water only heh) without even expecting me to talk to them. Other than when I go out to bars/clubs, basically every third time I walk on the street (neighborhood dependent). The line between catcalling and approach is blurring ever more. I was surprised to find t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:13 PM
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How do y’all feel about “fetishized”? When does a strong preference become a fetish? What’s fundamentally different between being wanted for your external characteristics or assets like looks, money, age, etc. and being fetishized? Is it just a spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:05 AM
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I can definitely see the logic. As a little kid you know you keep growing bigger until you’re “grown up” except now you think people continue growing wider rather taller after they reach their max height. 18/19 seems rather late for that epiphany though, you had to have seen trim teachers and PTA milfs in north Jersey.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:23 AM
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The feeling is mutual ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:11 AM
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because my sister ....?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:10 AM
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I thought incel content was banned too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:06 AM
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Wtf! Where did you grow up, geographically? My parents made fun of fat people so much throughout my childhood that I had to make a concerted effort to reverse the damage it had done to my political correctness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:01 AM
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As LKF&Atlas said... PPD is now black pill vs. FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:00 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/comments/9zh3j2/lmfao_this_is_the_epitome_of_abgsabbs/ https://www.berkeleygarb.com/blog-1/2017/8/31/how-to-spot-an-abg There are a lot of dynamics here. There have been historically more Asians so it’s mainstream to find them attractive. However they are pretty one dimensional. If they are hot, they’re hot in the ABG way (dyed hair, enormous fake eyelashes, and a penchant for MDMA are not necessarily palatable to the masses) and usually basic/dumb. If they are smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:16 AM
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For real. Branch swinging and seed spreading are real drives but a lot of cheating is just fucked up people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:56 PM
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Ironic since they claim women have an inflated idea of average re: 80/20 rule
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:22 PM
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I love the diversity of hoes and not at all hoes and actual factual hoes in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:16 PM
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My Vietnamese friend told me growing up she and her friends used to idealize white men as more attractive/rich/high status but as globalization has increased, their attitude is shifting. The Viet girls now see clearly that the white men arriving in their country are just losers who couldn’t manage in their home countries. Her words, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:49 PM
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I moved from the East Coast to West Coast and inadvertently did this to myself. Being an Asian girl here (a) who is not an ABG but is as attractive as one, (b) who is as smart as their nerdy female coworkers but actually goes to the gym and cares about fashion/makeup, and (c) who is politically and socially aware but not an insufferably woke SJW has driven my value through the roof. I always got attention on the East Coast, but the degree of attention I get in the Bay is mindblowing. This has no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:45 PM
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No I’ve measured my current SO’s and it’s 7, the guys I’m thinking of were at least 2 inches bigger and wider. Like shockingly big
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:49 PM
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I don’t care about your data, because I know what I saw and put inside me lol. I didn’t believe it was real when I saw it in real life either. Ok i looked at a ruler and 8 is probably more accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:42 PM
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It’s both. RPers DEFINITELY exaggerate how “average” women are treated. You likely live in a place where guys are less aggressive (try spending some time in NYC, you’ll likely notice an increase in male thirst directed at you lol) and/or you may not be as attractive as you think (maybe you dress more conservatively or don’t go out very often).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:30 PM
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1-2 hours. A ton of examples in college where I was down to fuck after getting to know someone very briefly. Highlights: fucking at a notorious campus spot on many people’s bucket list (tall Asian guy who ended up becoming one of my close friends even today), fucking in the middle of a Christmas party in someone else’s bedroom (cute Israeli dude I had seen around campus but hadn’t spoken to), fucking while fully tripping on acid (gorgeous football player I never spoke to or saw ever again). I us…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:24 PM
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Shortest probably <5 min. I’ve been with some guys who prefer not to ejaculate every time. They get hard to fuck me for an hour or so then break, then get hard and do it all over again. Probably like 5 hours total for a full session. Probably 1.5 hours in one session. I orgasm multiple times every time. I’m very lucky/have been selective enough to have extremely generous lovers. I also know my body very well. I usually experience clit orgasm, g spot orgasm (squirting), cervical orgasm if we do d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:38 PM
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What kind are you looking for? Luxury vs. affordable no makeup-makeup vs. dramatic, natural vs. colorful? Blumercury is a more relaxing atmosphere and has high end stuff. Same with department stores. Online retailers are great for casual everyday. I.e. Glossier Ulta is like sephora’s more chill sister but you can’t guarantee no crowds there either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:16 PM
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Only their intelligence. I’m a moral relativist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:43 PM
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Exactly. Tinder leverages your shared location to track down if the matched pair ends up in the same place and THEN utilizes undetected video and sound monitoring to recognize if y’all did the deed. They then sell big moan data to marketing giants to better optimize advertising by subconsciously appealing to our sexual appetites. Technology these days man!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:31 AM
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You’re not wrong poppy. Felt cute might delete later?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:12 AM
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Wow. I hadn’t considered that. It makes a lot of sense. This cognitive dissonance between pre woke culture facts of life that still occur today and the aggressive leftist propaganda we are supposed to abide by affects people independent of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 03:58 AM
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People also say employers can’t discriminate based on looks but we all know looking good gives you a bump in literally every avenue in life, not just dating. I find it funny that “looks matter” is considered a red pill because I assumed everyone knew this to be true growing up since the popular kids in grade school were always attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 03:30 AM
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Harem building training. Mama knows best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:39 AM
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Agreed. ...maybe it’s because I have sex with Boomers 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:29 AM
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When do you stop growing up? I learned these things as a teenager/early 20s (I’m 22)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:25 AM
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People date for compatibility, they are not looking for the “ideal person” who is the smartest, hottest, kindest, etc. They just want to be with someone who understands them deeply. A well executed push and pull of high interest and perception of scarcity is intoxicating and highly effective at getting people to attach to you. Don’t daydream and create idealized expectations of what something/someone can become. You will be disappointed. Go with the flow, don’t force your expectations on someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:16 AM
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I plan on making so much money myself that I don’t need anyone else to support me or my family. It’s not about money, it’s status. If he were low class or uneducated I wouldn’t be with him. I don’t need him to be rich. People here love to call my SO a cuck when I share stories so honestly the narrative checks out. I guess Chadcucks are my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:58 AM
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Yeah, I’m glad I’m out of that now. I don’t actually regret anything because without having gone through that I would not have the opinion I have on cheating today. I’m absolutely the kind of person who has to try something myself to come to my own conclusion about it. I’ve never been able to follow the rules just because society said it was right/normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:53 AM
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Honestly I’d be fine with a SAHD if he still worked. Like a writer/musician/artist type or some kind of entrepreneur who could WFH. All I care about in terms of masculinity is getting thrown around and long dicked in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:51 AM
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I didn’t think it was ever ok. I knew it was wrong but had an extremely cynical worldview that all humans were self-interested (I still believe this but also believe people can choose to be considerate for what they perceive to be a greater good), loyalty did not exist, and many couples would cheat on each other, not talk about it and just accept it. My boyfriend at the time and I were rampantly cheating on each other back and forth. We were long distance for the entirety of our relationship but…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:47 AM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 01:01 AM
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You think women sacrifice for their kids — babies, toddlers — for the purpose of obtaining status and future resources for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:08 AM
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Hm. Can’t speak to the data but I’m equally insistent with every guy I have sex with that we use protection. That being said, I don’t perceive any guys I fucked as unattractive so there’s no way to draw a relationship between attractiveness and my personal condom use intentions. I can be convinced not to use condoms through 2 main drivers: * Recent test results * If he makes me cum so hard without his dick that I am so aroused that I’m begging for him to fuck me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:36 PM
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What was the conclusion of the SAHD thread? I have quite a few friends who were raised by SAHD/breadwinner mom families and they turned out perfectly fine. I also have a few friends who are planning to be SAHDs (work tech jobs that allow them to WFH or work gig jobs that are seasonal instead of 9-5) and they haven’t had trouble finding committed gfs. The world is changing!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:27 PM
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I learned not to the hard way. It goes absolutely nowhere. Edit: I’m also quite curious what these “dark red/black” types think of the more stereotypically red men of PPD. From what I can see, they think everyone else is blue but them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 11:07 PM
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Every comment I make is in response to the content debated, admittedly at times with assumptions built in. However, I have no interest in contributing comments whose sole purpose is to denigrate other users’ character. When no net new ideas are exchanged, and it’s purely personal, there are no gains offsetting the bad energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 09:04 PM
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If you want to participate in PPD, I’d advise you to stop taking things so personally. We’re here to debate, occasionally drawing from personal anecdotes, not solicit empathy or pass moral judgment on other users. There’s a mutual respect among regulars to not be petty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:56 PM
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I’ve cheated. Don’t care if y’all shame me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:16 PM
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Yes, yes, depends if I want casual sex that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 05:45 PM
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Oh trust me they’re red. I’ve been here long enough and have argued with them on the other side of things. The ideas y’all are touting are more accurately classified as black, not red.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:50 AM
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Throughout this thread there are MULTIPLE men disagreeing with your MomsTeachSex fantasy — that is proof enough that it is not a “women can’t empathize” problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:45 AM
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What is your job exactly? I know you know a lot about hair but beauty too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:00 AM
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I remember the days when I saw them as the debate opposition... oh how things have changed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:31 PM
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Can any sexually successfully men set these MomsTeachSex fellas straight? Why is our disgust at what they’re describing being framed as “women can’t empathize”? I doubt any self respecting man can empathize with what they’re describing either...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 11:07 PM
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I respect both my parents and I would NEVER ask them about how to be cool and fit in amongst my peers. I would ask them about how to do my taxes. This single mother argument does not work, it simply elucidates the defectively naive adherence to what your parents say — there are some things you’re SUPPOSED to figure out for yourself. Would you ask your mom how to MASTURBATE ? I don’t empathize and i’m not trying to, I think anyone who wants MomsTeachSex has an Oedipal complex that needs to be sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:53 PM
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I don’t think mom would lie about it, I just don’t trust what she has to say about it. Would you ask your mom what is fashionable to wear and what music is cool to listen to? Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:50 PM
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MomsTeachSex is not deserving of empathy, it is deserving of harsh literary analysis in parallel with Homer’s Odyssey around a Harkness table
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:48 PM
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I would never, ever, ever think to ask my dad “what do you like about girls? how do i get a boy to like me?” 10 times out of 10 I would ask/observe a girl friend my own age who has success with boys because she attracts the boys I want. I wouldn’t even ask my mom “how do i get a boy to like me” because she attracted boys 30 years ago. Your mom doesn’t have experience attracting girls your age, unless she’s a lesbian pedo.......
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:43 PM
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What subconscious premises are so influential that they cause you to fail at sex and dating? I can’t imagine anything that would be verbalized by your mother (and therefore consciously and rationally inputed into your mind) would ever count as a subconscious bias. “Just be nice” “You’re perfect the way you are” “Girls won’t care what you look like” can’t possibly count as subconscious corruption; these are incredibly flimsy niceties I would expect nearly everyone to have the capacity to see past…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:36 PM
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I suppose it depends on the person and how disagreeable their nature is. I know that the main driver of my teenage rebellion was because I wholeheartedly disagreed with the assumptions made by the parental advice I received. I remember so many nights arguing with them over those very assumptions. Most of my rebelling teenage friends were the same — we didn’t secretly believe our parents advice and just disagreed with the surface level shit; we truly wanted to develop our own premises and conclus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:28 PM
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But do you really imagine your mom having sex dude? Like I get wanting your mom to be happy and loved, but you don’t envision her cunt getting rammed or her squealing in orgasm. Like wut. That’s some heavy Oedipal complex that I thought Homer already dealt with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:22 PM
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How in the world do you not experience the natural disgust of imagining your parents having sex and receiving any kind of sexual advice from them? Isn’t walking in on your parents or seeing parental PDA universally understood as gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:17 PM
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Fucking thank you. Even the argument that “any advice is better than no advice” or “bad advice hurts kids” doesn’t resonate with me, because any NORMAL kid will stop listening to their parents and observe their peers when they hit puberty. “Ok mom” is right, you just tolerate her advice, take what seems to match up with present day reality, but make your own judgments. I don’t care if the bad advice “ingrained” when you were a kid — you’re SUPPOSED to think for yourself when you start becoming a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 10:15 PM
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I wouldn’t take issue with it or consider you sexist. it’s an interesting topic to debate and discuss. I’m not here to pass moral judgments... This isn’t ask feminists, why do you all forget? My point is that women are more often involved with rearing small children who are total dependents and the development beyond that stage is less immediately critical. A baby without a parent will die, whereas a teenager without a parent may have social problems. I’d say life > socialization as far as my pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:59 PM
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Lol I don’t know why you’re so fixated on this idea that I or others minimize the importance of fathers. I believe both parents are equally important in different balancing ways. But if there are limited spots on a lifeboat, I believe it’s more optimal to save the pregnant lady or the kid clutching his/her parent’s leg, acknowledging that the parent is more likely female. If it were a dad and his kid I’d save him over a single male too. You ought to make a thread about your beliefs since you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:40 PM
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I believe you on a personal level but there are too many single mothers and uninvolved fathers for me to buy into that on a macro scale. You do not represent the masses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 06:13 PM
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No I don’t feel that lives are better on the basis of sex. I do agree with providing women and children with extra support though; children are our future and they are most often supported and dependent upon their mothers. Pregnant women are carrying our future. On a personal level I judge the value of other humans by their potential to better society. People who are unproductive/lazy, morbidly incompetent, bad intentions/send bad energy into the world, and/or produce too much waste for how much…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:48 PM
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I would stay with him trying to work it out — sex therapy, new methods, opening the relationship for him to get new pussy, encourage him to go to personal therapy, etc. If nothing worked I would have to leave. I’d always love him but I can’t be with someone I’m not sexually compatible with. Not fair to either of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:36 PM
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Yes. I don’t mind if we are friends that love each other (it seems inevitable, the more we fuck and spend quality time with each other) so long as there’s no expectation that we be with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:32 PM
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STEM (biology major, legitimately enjoy coding) entrepreneurship reading and discussing philosophy lifting somewhat male dominated genres of music like techno, experimental, metal (i rarely meet other girls who like deathgrips lol) backpacking/outdoors shit (my dream is to go catfish noodling)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:29 PM
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I have experienced the opposite situation quite frequently actually. Met a guy, had amazing mind blowing sex, let him know I’m only interested in casual. Down to go on dates, even care deeply about each other, but not looking to settle down. When guys say this to me, I express agreement and am happy with the outcome. I am into casual sex and not feeling very monogamous recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:36 PM
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Sure, if the only women you see are YouTube content and cursory IRL interactions from a distance it might seem like all women are concerned with is clothes/makeup/cooking. But if you were to spend more than 30 min with any individual woman, you’d be able to have an interesting discussion about something you both relate to. Social issues are widely embraced by everyone because everyone experiences them, e.g. how technology is reshaping society, cultural relativity and globalization, whether or no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:37 PM
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Yes, this is a form of cope. They can’t get close enough to women to have real conversations, and they often are selecting for women in the wrong places to begin with — places (i.e. parties, clubs, Instagram) not conducive to non-vapid interactions. I doubt these men have had many, if any, platonic female friends at all. And they clearly don’t see the value of women as friend material, only sex/romance material, so they continue looking for women in venues not conducive to real connections. It b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:26 PM
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The League fuckin sucks. I don’t know if it’s the UX design or what but the same guy is way more interesting on Hinge instead of League. There’s something that is so shallow and pretentious about 5 choices per day and manufactured elitism. People will be elitist and status driven no matter what, but an app that embraces it so blatantly while enforcing their own limited “curation” somehow makes it more gross for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:37 AM
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When did you make the decision to become a sex worker? Was it incidental or intentional? Are you psychologically/sexually gratified by pro domme work? How do you get in character? What inspired or drove you to leave SW and become a nurse? Did you have any SW friends or “colleagues” if you will? What did your non SW friends think, if they knew? Did it ever feel lonely? How much did your parents know? Did you have an SO during those years? Did you have a home base and traveled for the work or did …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:07 PM
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How did you get into that? What was the first time like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:02 PM
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Good luck! Happy 🍰 day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:29 AM
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Don’t think this warrants its own thread but have been wondering if I am too cynical. Do guys say shit like “you’re so beautiful” in bed or otherwise simply to keep women on the hook / facilitate an illusion of romance? I feel like ppd has made me so distrusting about men’s intentions, and now I assume all sweet nothings are disingenuous. I don’t trust anything people say, only what they do... But sometimes what they say does match up with what they do which leads me to think I’m not being forgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 03:27 AM
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Sometimes you’re just in the mood for animated porn...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 02:47 AM
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I can’t believe people are humoring him with actually debating each point. Maybe I’m too jaded and cynical, I couldn’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:17 AM
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I don’t interact with average people. They are all definitely unusually privileged. I live in a city with the highest cost of living in America and the majority of my friends went to Ivies which means they came from very wealthy and/or educated families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 07:43 AM
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I was tested as a child as 140 because my teachers considered me too advanced for normal classes. Idk how accurate it is. But everyone I’m surrounded by went to Ivy League or equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:23 AM
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I don’t think I’ve interacted with someone sub ~115iq in any reasonably involved capacity since high school. Maybe occasional (unwanted) conversations at bars. They’re not stupid by statistical measures but it feels like they live in a whole different world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 01:55 AM
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the MomsTeachSex argument fascinated me this week. then i realized it’s just another form of incel cope/deflecting self-blame. they couldn’t learn socialization/flirting by observing their peers like the rest of us, but oh no, it’s not their fault for being incompetent, it’s mommy failing her job for not teaching them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:41 AM
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Those you surround yourself with reflect who you are :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:20 AM
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Mockery was designed for users like these, debating them will go nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:08 AM
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Thank you. Sometimes it feels like it’s no longer men vs. women or even reds vs. blues but simply reasonable people vs. those whose reality is grounded more in internet niches than in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:06 AM
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I’m 5’5” and the men in my family are tall. I go for a very specific body type. Not worried
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:26 AM
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He needs all the help he can get lol Get rich, get game, get status, get charisma, like get everything possible that my genetics failed to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:23 AM
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I’d look for the root of the problem. Bad taste in women? Teach him what traits to select for. Remind him of his worth. Unsuccessful? Lol if I hadn’t already whipped him into shape get him into a good career through personal connections or encourage more schooling and pay for it. Ugly/short? Be honest with him and suggest plastic surgery and intro him to a PUA friend. Meek? Encourage him to do theater or sports or anything he’s good at to gain confidence. I’d be disappointed in myself if this we…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:00 AM
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I never said insidious was positive nor negative. In fact I never said being a slut was positive or negative. I’m saying that the people you think are chaste/promiscuous are not necessarily what you think they are, because there’s no reliable way to tell. Chastity/promiscuity is hardly one dimensional. The only visible ones on either extreme are the conspicuous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:47 AM
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You can’t talk about monoamory with both parties polygamist here. It automatically makes the man a cuck and the woman a whore. They just don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:47 AM
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My partner and I are both chefs who are both spinning plates, we cook simultaneously, sometimes serving on the same dish(ed), sometimes separate ones. That’s how you refuse to compromise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:46 AM
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Nobody wants you to fight against slut shaming, keep shaming us we don’t care. And neither will the golddiggers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:51 PM
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google “stop beastiality/pedophilia shaming” you’ll get results too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:03 PM
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I haven’t met up with anyone but current SO on OLD but have been on blind dates set up by friends. They said “he’ll be perfect for you!” blah blah blah he was a skinny jewish guy. Kinda funny like Larry David and I had a great time but I’m surprised my friends didn’t realize how fucking shallow I am. Me want muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:24 PM
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🤨😑🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:21 PM
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Slut != town bike Majority of sluts don’t fuck guys from the same circles, and you don’t realize they’re sluts they’re so insidious Toupee fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:16 PM
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r/TIHI
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:06 PM
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she convinces him by methods of attacking his masculinity...that is still considered rape because at the end of the day he didn’t want to have sex. I... Wow, I couldn't disagree more. Rape is forcing yourself on someone who doesn't want to, physically, in my book. I don't believe emotional manipulation ever constitutes rape. I guess we will have to agree to disagree on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:25 PM
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High sexual desire means you will seek it out by lowering your standards or changing your preferences. Isn’t that what sexually frustrated guys do? they go for uglier girls, pay for girls, etc. just to get the cum. If women were that sexually frustrated wouldn’t some of them find other equally sexually frustrated women to get their cums out? It’s not about sexuality, it’s about practicality. Also women tend to be more bi than men even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:13 PM
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Size matters because size and strength give you the ability to kill someone who resists your advanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:08 PM
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Agree. Though some of these guys see all high n as town bicycle; they don’t care how it happened. They assume she racks up sex partners who all somehow know each other and talk. Not at all the reality, no woman is that shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:44 PM
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Male rapists don’t look for attractive victims, though. It’s not about that. It’s about power and vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:32 PM
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There would be more lesbians and they would act like the gays. Women are not violent or strong enough to rape through brute force. Perhaps more date rape drugging of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:29 PM
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C) Status, not money, as somebody else mentioned. Highly educated women, old money generational wealth women, and new daddy money women, all flush from different sources, are not going for black market monied men who never went to college. They go for similarly educated and pedigreed men because they speak the same language and know the same lifestyle. D) Yes, it’s called networking and happens all the time, not in locker rooms but in conference rooms and swanky bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:21 PM
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There are definitely a lot of university educated sheeps who don’t critically think about the leftist ideas they are practically force fed. Most people have an ok grasp of the nuances, though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:17 PM
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That’s not mainstream though. I’m a liberal arts snowflake and even I find them utterly revolting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:16 PM
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INB4 the designated high-n-phobic response would be that “your partner (or a high value partner) will care about n” — this is a fallacy. Intentional sluts pair off with men who share the same sex positive values as them, and that sex positivity is typically gender agnostic. Obviously nobody wants an STD ridden town bicycle, but clean, classy sluts can be extremely insidious...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:15 PM
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Do you make your own butter?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:10 PM
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I don’t think you can draw a strong direct correlation between attractiveness and female n, because there are too many other variables at play. It’s funny; clearly some folks are trying to imbue female n with predictive power. This is unsurprising as it usually comes from men with low n who have indexed their self worth on their n, in virtue of their inability to attain high n. They either don’t address or are entirely unaware of the fact that there are attractive men with low n. Unfortunately (…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:08 PM
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Somebody who spends too much time on FDS and Manosphere. How else would you come to the conclusion that golddigging is condoned and normal college educated men give half a fuck about n
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:58 PM
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frankly, as a slut myself, I don’t give a flying fuck about slut shaming. this feels like a strawman because all the sluts i know are in consensus. we don’t care what people think, we only care what our partners think. nobody can tell what my n count is and i’ve never had a partner who cared. the only people who should be shamed are rapists, pedos, and school shooters. everyone else can do as they please, huge whatever rolls eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/e67ddi/comment/f9oe5la?st=K3SE8ZKK&sh=b09dae98
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 07:23 AM
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I don’t think Atlas will ever be removed, she’s been around forever and we love her too much
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:37 AM
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fantastic response. pragmatic and well delivered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:27 AM
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Did the PPD survey ever happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:52 AM
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Hot, badass, extremely shrewd Russian lady with male relatives potentially in the black market. My favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:15 AM
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Revenge fantasy is the new blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 02:08 AM
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You’re more right than you know? I know how right I am, I’m a self righteous piece of shit lol. Like you, I contributed a cool story, only abbreviated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:55 AM
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Cool story bro, I read it but I have nothing to say about your free apartment experience. It wasn’t at all related to my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:49 AM
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I’m right because I too have been to Thailand multiple times and had experiences with wonderfully kind people, kind and not so kind scammers and extortionists, and of course sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:42 AM
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There are real ladies in Thailand who will “be all over” you too but they don’t need to heckle on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:19 AM
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I promise if you find a girl who is attractive and low maintenance she will have endless suitors who also want her, if you think something is good chances are others do too. You have not seen or met any PPD ladies IRL so I’m not sure how you’d be able to tell how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:18 AM
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So you’re advocating going for a less attractive girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:11 AM
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You are describing two different things. Any venue whether IRL or digital will have a “reversed dynamic of dating sites” because the women are working for money. Of course they will be all over you, and any other potential customers. Simply walk down the street in a Thailand and you’ll get harassed and molested by hookers and dancers. That you have become actual friends with and even formed relationships with camgirls means you have connected with them on a person to person basis. She is not wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:05 AM
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Not social shame. Poor compatibility outside of the bedroom. Some men are too stupid or low class to LTR but perfectly fine to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:24 AM
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If you want an attractive women, by default you want a woman who is wanted by other men. It’s unavoidable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:14 AM
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they don’t want girls in virtue of other men’s desire for her, they want beautiful, smart, kind girls, and those girls will always have a neverending line of suitors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:33 PM
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A beautiful woman is wanted by large numbers of other people. The more attractive you are, the more attention you will garner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:21 PM
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Imagine being so privileged that you are complaining about the precise reason why girls 2 decades younger find you attractive, meanwhile we scorn and cackle over women the same age for deserving not to be considered attractive by anyone at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:20 PM
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Men also want women that other men want, except they want those women who say no instead yes, to everyone else, except them. Sounds like a pipe dream
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:15 PM
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Practice self respect by shutting the fuck up and not dating sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:52 PM
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People here don’t give a fuck about trans people or how to treat them properly. I agree with you but this doesn’t belong here unfortunately. Things will get ugly if this doesn’t get removed soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:26 PM
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This would be a good quality post but I have a feeling managing the comments section would be constant fending off revenge fantasy bullshit. The women I know who were pumped and dumped and/or snubbed in a casual situation usually learn their lesson quickly. This idea that there are women out there routinely getting pumped and dumped is fallacious. If it’s not a pleasant experience, she will avoid it in the future. Alternatively, if she likes hookups, then future casual +1s to her n are entirely …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:55 PM
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woe is boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:50 PM
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This is not real problem. Better to be fetishized as an older mature guy rather than fetishized and predated upon as a young girl and/or racially fetishized. In fact, better to be fetishized or given any attention at all instead of incel. Take the goddamn compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:44 PM
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A subjective opinion can’t be wrong. He can prefer fatties lol, it doesn’t affect you. Chill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:41 PM
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If it’s the opinion he holds he’s entitled to it. He’s not obligated to alter his opinion because you have personal issues with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:03 PM
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Whose side? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:55 PM
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No wonder r/misanthropy shows up as a related sub to ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:42 PM
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Happy to hear it & have you back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:08 PM
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Physically compartmentalized does not mean widely circulated. Professional massages are devoid of emotion, it doesn’t say anything about their frequency or breadth
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:02 PM
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Physically compartmentalized doesn’t mean it’s cheap, nor does it mean freely having sex with just anyone. Highly valued doesn’t mean it’s scarce. You do not understand the nuances of non monogamous relationships because you believe in fundamental truths about what sex means to each gender. We could go down a rabbit hole of me explaining each part of how this works and you’d find a way to retort every single one because it does not align with YOUR premises.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:44 PM
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Sex being important != exclusive sex being important You’re making unfounded premises about how other people and specifically women view sex. It can be at once purely physical yet highly valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:04 PM
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*folliculogenic wave
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:37 AM
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Do you have any idea how much medical school costs? Search up levels.fyi or glassdoor. You can EASILY make that much working in tech dev for much less sunk cost and time attributed to MCAT, med school, residency. My 22 year old peers are making 100-300k fresh out of undergrad working in tech or private equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:15 AM
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f i hate sexuality labels but i suppose the right one would be pan/bi at a 2 on the kinsey scale 22 yes, totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:07 AM
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Why doctor? Do you have a strong passion for biochemistry and helping people? I think doctor has a really shitty cost/benefit trade-off if what you’re after is job security. It’s a LOT of schooling, and very, very expensive. If anything, PA is better. The most cost effective route imo is tech dev, even project/product management, or tech sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:00 AM
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That’s weird. I’m too lazy to switch seats. Maybe she was carsick? Or you smelled bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:55 AM
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I literally don’t give a fuck lol I can’t even read the full thing cause I’m on mobile
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:18 AM
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On it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:17 AM
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It’s just a flair dog
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:16 AM
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Lol what? This doesn’t even make sense as a comeback FWIW I do ask my lovers to fuck me even when I say no. It’s fun, I’m always ready to take cock
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:16 AM
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You are petty and oversensitive. Who cares? They can’t touch your little weenie through the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 12:11 AM
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The Asian Chads native to Cali are not the Silicon Valley transplants, who tend to be self important startup founders or nerdy engineers. Asian Chads are very basic; they rave to big room house, gym, eat kbbq, drink boba, chug henny, and hang out with ABGs (Asian Baby Girls, their female equivalent). Rinse and repeat. It’s quite sad actually, even though we are looksmatch due to same race/athleticism I don’t really want to spend time with the Cali Asian Chads because they lack intellectualism. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:44 PM
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Exactly, they think she’s only male brained with him, but they would utterly abhor her male brained behavior outside of their relationship. You cannot hate on high n careerwomen and still desire a male brained woman lmao The world needs both male and female bodies and male and female minds...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:37 PM
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Straight women become gay for the stay in prison, they’ll take midget dick if they’re deprived enough. You are so salty lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:26 PM
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I don’t understand your question. I do expect men to have sex with others. Sex is extremely important to me, I love sex. I am in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 11:24 PM
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ngl i just like the look of doggy dog
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:50 PM
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*left behind *couldn’t care less *by and large *moot point I think it’s intentional? I kind of love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:38 PM
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It’s a economic question, simply supply and demand. Value of a person becomes the analog for price, and elasticity decreases for the party with excess supply. China is a good case study, since there has been so much historical female infanticide. Human traffickers have been supplying southeast Asian “wives” to Chinese men in droves. There is a huge market for egirls and other single man cope technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:33 PM
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And my personal AMA with her haha: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/dnx4zo/comment/f77ewz9?st=K3QCSN2W&sh=08a85b76
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/duev4q/comment/f76ukim?st=K3QCRND4&sh=eb62e7f3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:06 PM
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Big RT on the lure of taming. If you’re open to it you should do an AMA sometime in community megathread on your SW experiences. There’s another regular here who’s made it her career who recently did one. Would be curious to hear your perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:01 PM
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Best way to travel: Jacket that doubles as a blanket, comfortable pants, preferably leggings you can stretch around in, easy to slip on/off shoes for security purposes and discreetly removing in flight. You can accomplish all this while still looking fly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:56 PM
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Why does FDS vilify women who get attention from men? Isn’t that who they want to be, so that they can manipulate said attention to extract value for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:44 PM
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Consider the prevalence of monogamy in queer vs. straight people. Consider how much chastity is valued in queer vs. straight people. Enjoy your meds, honestly I wouldn’t be on reddit arguing with strangers if I were lucky enough to be doped out in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:56 PM
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I don’t need proof from you, I already know with 100% certainty I am more qualified than anyone else in this sub, unless they are GAY and have my exact same circumstances, in which case we ought to meet up. There are men who overlook it...The men who date me. We fuck women and couples together, he fucks other women, and I fuck guys other than him, and the fact that I fuck men other than him automatically denigrates him to weirdo cuck status by this forum. That I make more $$ than him denigrates …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:44 PM
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I guarantee you I spend more time on a daily basis with gays and/or immersed in gay culture than anyone else on this sub. I live with gays and my best friends are all gays and all the clubs in my neighborhood are gay bars. There’s more I could mention but it would literally dox the very street I live on. It’s way more intense than “hanging in a liberal part of town” lol The rest of my argument is about heterosexuals. Straight men want women for reasons other than just tits and ass. Most straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:27 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:52 PM
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I am a verified fag hag, my social group consists primarily of gays as I live in San Francisco, world capital of the gays. There’s a mix in gay men, and you often see a yin yang split between partners naturally equilibrate but gays have their own nuances that honestly extend beyond the scope of this thread. Within a heterosexual male/female relationship, males have biological and social desires associated with wanting to be with a woman. Some of those include not feeling emasculated. Everytime a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:14 PM
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It’s definitely beneficial as far as sex but do you really want a male minded woman emasculating you with regard to career, not being sweet/soft/kind all the time, being very promiscuous or at best ethically polygamous (imagine the enormous amount of attention a pretty girl/gay male gets combined with the sex drive and go-getterness of a male mind) potentially bruising your ego constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:55 PM
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I don’t care if my partner has sex with other people if we’ve agreed it’s okay. It’s the betrayal of expectations and trust that burns, not the physical act with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:15 PM
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For fear of sounding like a perverse pickme, I think I’m a pretty close manifestation of a male brained female body with regard to sex/relationships and all the bullets you enumerated are true, and not widely appreciated. I have been far less monogamous than any of my partners, sometimes insisting on open arrangements that I knew they weren’t comfortable with. The biggest critiques I’ve received from lovers is to be more compassionate, more empathetic, less rude, and to watch my tone. They have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 05:06 PM
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Nobody is contesting whether or not the parents “raised them right” the question is about the ability to obtain sex specifically, not the quality of a person in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 10:02 AM
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Hm, this is all very reasonable. Teach him him to be an assertive man in all facets of life and leave the flirting and tactical details to trial and error. I concede that bad advice can be harmful, if and only if given at a young age. I concede that surface level advice like being direct and setting up a date is advice worth giving. Thanks for your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 08:01 AM
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I agree. Ideal is father or related older male role model. If those are unavailable, then literally any male who is successfully doing it. Mother's advice is completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:49 AM
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If teenagers have the ability to make decisions for themselves, and routinely don't follow what their parents teach them, why would a teenager follow his mom's advice on acquiring women over observing his peers who are successfully doing it? The problem seems to lie not in the advice itself but the person choosing to believe a clearly unsuitable source.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:46 AM
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Thanks for the long response. So to you, a mother should teach her son that appearances do matter, because people judge you by how you look first, whether that be clothing, physique, grooming. Is that right? good girl would see through clothing for me Wow, this is actually alarmingly bad. Did your mom give you advice on how to dress for job interviews, formal events/parties? The reason I ask is that the hypothetical example advice you provided in theory should apply across all social interaction…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:41 AM
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use your head, dont do anything stupid, use protection. This is great advice that teachers and parents should give to kids about how to have sex. Agreed. The intention of my prompt is to pressure test the (imo, fallacious) claim that mothers specifically have a responsibility to teach their sons how to get women to want to have sex with them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:35 AM
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Welcome lol. To be fair, this is not our usual material. I'm just utterly flabbergasted that a somewhat significant number of regulars here genuinely believe mothers have a responsibility in teaching their sons how to have sex. My current hypothesis is that this sentiment is only misdirected blame. Men who did not experience sexual success blame their mothers for "no advice" or "bad advice" when the reality is they didn't learn how to do it themselves like the rest of us, or just not at the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:33 AM
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First where? what would you do if your son came to you and said he wasn't getting laid amd he didn't know why. I would be so disappointed if he thought I would be the appropriate person to ask. "Son, I'm sorry, but why are you coming to me with this bullshit?" I don't want ANYTHING to do with my hypothetical son's sex life beyond forcing him to use condoms and not allowing him to bring dumb hoes into my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:29 AM
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I agree that you ought to observe how your mother treats you and your father, and how your father treats your mother. But how ought a mother/primary female figure teach you how to interact with women, SPECIFICALLY in a sex/romance way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:24 AM
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I don't think mothers should give their sons sex/dating advice at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:21 AM
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Parents give bad advice and teach the wrong things all the time. When you are at the age at which you want to get laid, you start making decisions for yourself. If kids consistently reject their parents' "good" advice with regard to eating vegetables, studying more and playing less, not drinking or doing drugs, etc. I don't understand why they would obediently follow parental advice on how to get laid. If a teenager is so socially unaware that they follow bad dating advice from his mom instead o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:10 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:57 AM
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If he fits well into society, he has no problem figuring out how to get laid on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:41 AM
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Women can be introspective enough to know what they want. Women can think enough about themselves and their own gender to know and explain a few things. This is what makes you purple. RPers genuinely disagree. (In fact, this widely held belief in the manosphere that women aren't self aware enough to contribute valuable dating advice is actually what led me to discover PPD in the first place.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:20 AM
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You make good points, thanks for your tone. what prospective partners may value? Lower in this thread, I commented this: "be honest with them about their looks and put pressure on them to meet beauty standards (Asian parents are notorious for fat/skinny shaming their kids, and will often tell girls to their faces if they are not naturally pretty)" This is how I would prepare them for lookism. In theory, the atheleticism, lifestyle habits, and attention to outwards appearance would ensure they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:08 AM
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Photos alone My opinion is that SMV can't be judged from face photos alone, can't really tell. Mark 7.5, Adam 3 Mark would definitely be more attractive to women. Mark would definitely get more swipes. With videos Adam's SMV is higher for sure. Mark 4.5, Adam 7 Adam would definitely be more attractive to women. Copout answer I know, but it depends on the woman. Some women like dumb big awkward guys like Mark and some women like confident kinda weird looking guys like Adam. I know I probably gave…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:01 AM
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I hypothesize most families will aim for one boy and one girl, which is the universal ideal. Designer babies is a super interesting future scenario to consider. I highly recommend you watch Gattaca, if it didn't already inspire this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:56 AM
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Right, because mothers teach their straight daughters how to suck dick and fathers teach their straight sons how to lay pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:49 AM
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Bathing regularly including washing his dick lmao, dental and oral hygiene, eating a balanced diet with very little sweets and junk food, plenty of outdoors time and not too much screen time, keeping a reasonably clean room
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:00 AM
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Ricecels are made by immigrant tiger moms and dads who aren’t attuned with Western values. Most immigrant Asian dads are radical betas. Asian American Chads are enormously prevalent in places like California where the parents are Westernized. With my genes and how selective I am in who I will breed with the only way I raise an incel is if he’s debilitatingly autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:41 AM
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If your actual dick is small you better work on your oral and fingering game. That’s all you can really do isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:38 AM
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Why are you all ignoring the confidence bullet? Humility is not with regard to sexual escapades, as all humans should practice humility. When I write humility what I’m really saying is I’m gonna make sure my kid doesn’t bully the less fortunate even though he’s privileged. I also mean that I’m not gonna give any participation awards. People can absolutely be confident yet humble. That’s big dick energy. Unchecked or even falsely inflated confidence to the point of hubris is disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:28 AM
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I honestly do not see how being raised by hardasses with unusually high expectations and borderline forced participation in sports and social activities makes for a feminine son.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:21 AM
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Athletes and leaders amongst peers always get laid. Being a smart Asian kid is not at all mutually exclusive with being a slayer. What third world country are you writing from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:13 AM
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Lol ikr. They even go so far to say that a son raised with these expectations is automatically incel. The mental gymnastics defies gravity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:11 AM
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He won’t be an incel because Im good looking with tall, muscular male relatives and will breed with another good looking, tall, muscular male.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 12:09 AM
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I’ll do my best, bring in grandfather, uncle to help. Make sure he continues with sports and social activities and work closely with coaches/teachers to make sure there are lots of male role models watching over him. Remarry eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:32 PM
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Perhaps value is the wrong verb. How do you describe people that do not enter serious committed relationships out of principle rather than circumstance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:41 PM
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The bullets are what I would hypothetically teach my kids in general, not sure why you assume they are for the purpose of obtaining sexual success. I added exclamation points to lifestyle habits and outward presentation for a reason. Respect and compassion make you a better person more likely to achieve romantic success. And if they have musical vocal talent, you can be they’ll receive training for singing Italian classics. Will still get laid because of all of the other expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:36 PM
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Someone who values commitment and loyalty probably doesn’t have much casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:33 PM
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Likelihood of cheating is most correlated with how much someone values commitment, honesty, and loyalty, which is likely correlated with how much casual sex a person has. However there are too many other variables that can also increase n count for n count to be directly correlated to likelihood of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:20 PM
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I would never have a child with someone who I didn’t know with 100% certainty would stay and raise the child or be available to co-parent. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:04 PM
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It sounds like your parents neglected to teach you some important social skills. I’m sorry. I do agree parents have a lot of responsibility in guiding their children; I support very hands-on all-in parenting, but it should be strategic/directional rather than explicit instructions of how to make conversation or make someone laugh. If it were so easy to “teach” someone how to be charismatic or funny, don’t you think everyone would be charismatic and funny? Social things you simply have to learn b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:47 PM
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When I say “worth fucking or dating” I don’t mean to make an evaluative judgment morally but rather a predictive judgment on the likelihood you are perceived as such by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:39 PM
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Regardless of genetic luck, I would put my kid into sports from an early age, social activities, make sure they develop good habits for being well groomed, shop with them so they are well dressed, and be honest with them about their looks and put pressure on them to meet beauty standards (Asian parents are notorious for fat/skinny shaming their kids, and will often tell girls to their faces if they are not naturally pretty) What do you think a parent should teach their child if they are not natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:29 PM
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Honestly I find it utterly revolting to imagine my mother or any mom sitting her son down and explaining how to pick up women. I highly doubt most mothers would even give helpful advice “just be yourself” “be nice” Part of a child’s social development amongst peers and the opposite sex is intrinsically self taught. Just like a child needs to learn to walk on its own. You don’t teach your kid how to make friends, they learn to be social in school by themselves. You would not be considered “social…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:17 PM
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“should be conditioned with BASELINE EXPECTATIONS” = my responsibility None of the bullets include “getting laid” but they are all the component pieces that makes a human being worth fucking or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:07 PM
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It’s my job as a parent to help my child develop into a high value person who is attractive and socially competent. Gettinf laid should naturally follow. How they interact with their peers and acquire women is not something a mother can or should “teach”. Did your mom sit you down and teach you how to pick up girls? Did your mom teach you how to finger girls? How to fuck? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:02 PM
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Did you even read my parent comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:00 PM
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It’s not my job as a parent, or at least mother, to help my son figure out how to get laid. If he needs mommy’s help to get laid, I have already failed. All humans should learn to have humility outside of sexual escapades.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:56 PM
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ALL CHILDREN REGARDLESS OF GENDER should be conditioned with baseline expectations for: * discipline/respect * confidence/aggression amongst peers * compassion/humility * lifestyle habits!!! * outward presentation!!! * athleticism * appreciation of art/music * education/career ambition I fully endorse high expectations Asian parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:47 PM
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Everything I write should be taken with a grain of salt since I am in my early 20s, so wtf do I know about older ladies? Your hypothesis makes several premises that aren’t necessarily true, the most glaring of which is that women hedge their fulfillment and stimulation overwhelmingly on their sexual appeal. I think the economy and society has evolved such that women can achieve more than enough stimulation into their old age without having children. Some may argue there is a biological drive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 07:34 PM
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All successful people should be proud of their achievements.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:47 PM
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I find this to be true and confounding as well. I tried to turn my bf into a FWB when we first started going on dates. I bootycalled him and he rejected them by suggesting that we hang out in the daytime or responding the next day with some date idea. It was super weird, especially given the crazy casual sex stories he shared with me (orgies in moms basement guy) I considered he might be gay or not interested. Later, he told me he was biding his time and ensuring we had a emotional connection so…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:47 PM
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It’s ironic isn’t it? My similarly pedigreed kinky bf who I fuck actual whores with. We’re all whores in a way, whether we sell our bodies to corporations, to other people. It’s funny, some people here think I fabricate everything I overshare on here, and others extrapolate data points to make moral judgments on mere hypotheses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 05:53 AM
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I have any personal experiences with neither virgins nor low n women but inexperienced people tend to not know what they want, how their bodies work, and what they’re even comfortable with. Too much trouble to get them to enjoy themselves imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:52 PM
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Meh, I was hit really badly as a child and it made me even more rebellious. The pain was worth the defiance, the victory of not conceding to their wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:36 PM
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I don’t think you need to be hit to recognize men can fuck you up physically. My bf regularly picks me up or restrains me playfully and each time it reminds me that I don’t stand a chance against a strong man. Thankfully he would never hit me when angry but the fact that I know he could knock me out in one half assed punch keeps me in check.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:34 PM
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Ha!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:07 PM
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OH LAWD HE COMIN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:03 PM
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Women don’t care about your dating ideology. They care about what you look like and how you make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:58 PM
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Thanks. If I didn’t, the alternative for me would be going to a less prestigious school, in which case I would simply lower my standards to match my own level. Not obtaining higher education was simply never an option in my family/culture, and I want to be with someone who has the same values.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:51 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:44 PM
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Standard practice here at PPD... Mods will wake up soon though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:40 AM
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What happens if, god forbid, there’s 11? Maybe you scrub one side and I’ll do the other. Tandem plate wash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:21 AM
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Why does everything this guy writes drown out into unintelligible sniveling when I try to read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:17 AM
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It’s “okay” to do whatever you want if the other person doesn’t mind. This obsession with justice is so strange. Don’t pay for her if you don’t want to pay. Don’t be with people who expect you to pay if you don’t want to. Fuck what other people want to do. I don’t split the bill with my SO or really close friends. One of us gets it and the other gets it the next time. If we ate something really expensive then we split. I don’t pay for first dates with people who make a lot more money than me bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:10 AM
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Even mentally retarded people can lead fulfilling lives. It’s worth giving it a shot, autists just might have to go about it in different ways and set different goals. Life is worth it for almost everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:32 AM
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I wonder why PPD tends to attract such adventurous women. Risky women post is giving me butterflies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:18 AM
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Retweet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:00 AM
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I’d be more embarrassed around my parents. They are education hardos. My friends don’t care where he came from so long as he’s smart and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:32 AM
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I do too! I have just never considered how to do it without a tent. I never camped anywhere with suitable terrain. Now that I live in CA maybe it’s time to invest in a hammock.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:30 AM
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Yeah that’s what I mean. If this is for casual relationships (just sex, or obviously temporary) I honestly don’t care so long as we have good conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:57 AM
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I require a university degree, preferably graduate level as well, and preferably from a highly regarded institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:54 AM
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We ❤️ Gentrification
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:49 AM
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Why/how do you sleep outside with no tent 10-15 times a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:26 AM
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TIL I wish I could adventure around with PPD ladies in their young and dumb days, y’all sound fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:24 AM
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Haha yeah, I personally won’t date someone uneducated.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:38 AM
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It still is, “designated” is facetious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 01:08 AM
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For those not familiar with philly, north philly is the designated “bad part” that my tradcon dad makes off color jokes about. I would never go there alone, especially to buy drugs. The closest I’ve ever gotten to this and ever will is buying suboxone with my retarded high risk bf in Kensington.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 01:01 AM
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I traveled solo in a plethora of countries as a teenager and early 20s young woman, the most dangerous of which was probably Vietnam. While biking in the countryside 2 men started harassing me, one of which pulled out his dick and followed me on his motorcycle. It was terrifying. I’ve also taken drugs from strange men while alone, or temporarily separated from my gfs. Have been roofied before and have also roofied myself. Honestly a lot of the drug use was high risk. Mixing acid, GHB, ketamine, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:59 AM
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Ugly, short, fat, stupid, uneducated, ignorant, poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:57 AM
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The obese women are where the obese men are. Go to any major city, that’s where you’ll find women anywhere close to these ideals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:15 AM
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Most ladies don’t give a fuck about power lifting or counting macros yet they still insidiously affect societal beauty standards, associated values, and shifting tides in dating and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 12:06 AM
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Good point. The fall of VS is a super interesting phenomenon involving changing social dynamics (push for more relatable as opposed to aspirational models, disdain for photoshop, PC pushback against EDs) as well as economic ones (DTC marketing and online retailers). We actually did a case study on it in business school.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:51 PM
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It’s definitely niche but their very existence is interesting to discuss imo. Just like it’s interesting to discuss the fall of Victoria’s Secret, fat acceptance movement, Instagram models, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:27 PM
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Mods will remove if not. Is there a more appropriate sub for this kind of gender/society oriented discussion? (that isn’t overly leftist lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:25 PM
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“Inner beauty” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:23 PM
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https://time.com/5303443/miss-america-swimsuit-competition-history/ The news comes as part of a larger change in the pageant’s standards, explained former FOX News anchor Gretchen Carlson, who chairs the Miss America Organization’s board of trustees and was herself crowned Miss America in 1989. “We will no longer judge our candidates on their outward physical appearance,” she said. “It’s going to be what comes out of their mouth that we’re interested in.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:20 PM
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I’m surprised they haven’t become obsolete too. But there’s too much money supporting them it seems. And international winners seem to make real positive changes in their smaller countries
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:10 PM
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join me in my petition to the mods to remove those incapable of participating coherently here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:25 PM
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It’s an objectively very useful appliance. Power to ya
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:52 PM
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Yup. For people whose ideas are fundamentally based on supply and demand, they sure care a lot about “justice” in who dates whom. If you can get em, and you can keep em, then you deserve em.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:51 PM
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Bro. You are normal. You really shouldn’t benchmark against autists and incels here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:46 PM
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Just kiss already!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:45 PM
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Check out @fomofeed on IG, they always share seasonal pop-ups going on and they’re often free. If you’re a foodie tourist, def go to Katz Deli for pastrami. I also love Spot Dessert Bar on St. Marks place for super cute and delicious Asian sweets (get the flower pot).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:44 PM
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There was a lot of other types of substance use on the days we weren’t rolling. It’s also really rough to roll 3 days in a row at a music festival while skipping uni classes for a week, not to mention I was getting hazed at the time. Do you want me to itemize all the other ways we were abusing our bodies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:34 PM
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It’s so wacky haha. I’d like to think the stories I tell my friends (and occasionally overshare on here) are fodder for vicariously experiencing the crazy shit most people are curious about but would never do, out of, like... basic self respect and wholesome family values lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:23 PM
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They are because people who are that promiscuous tend to be high risk taking, hedonistic types. My 100+ exes were heavy drug users. One ex and I rolled mdma nearly every month the first year of our relationship (we were big on music festivals) and current bf got into some legal trouble as a teen due to the extent of his drug use/entrepreneurship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:37 PM
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Haha the orgies aren’t the main contributor. It’s mostly Tinder. But trying to paint the picture of the kind of household he grew up in. He was free to invite random girls over at his whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:31 PM
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Current bf is 25, he was a Tinder/Bumble whore before he met me. He literally had orgies in his mothers basement with his friends the summers between college. His mom is a sweetheart, and incredibly chill. Ex is 24, he was a national athlete representing his country as a teenager, fucked a ton of girls through that clout. Ex is 22, he is a 6’ super ripped and very rich Asian fuckboy who grew up in the Bay. He fucked a ton of ABGs (raving Asian girls who love molly) every summer between boarding …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:57 PM
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You can choose not to believe me, I don’t care. My way of seeing the world and approaching romance is an anomaly. I strongly attract a specific kind of highly promiscuous guy who sees me far closer to a best friend/life partner rather than a gf. We hunt and fuck women together. Im not 95% of people’s cup of tea for relationships, but the 5% I do attract want to lock me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:53 PM
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The feeling is not so much worry and more like the simultaneous awe/fear of staring into a wide open abyss. I have personal goals professionally/existentially but I don’t know what kind of family I want, if at all. I struggle to decide if/when I should be investing in a long term commitment in a life partner. The last thing that triggered a strong negative emotional reaction was probably something on the news. The latest school shooting. Anger and despair. I feel giddiness and joy everyday, thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:51 PM
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The guys I date fall hopelessly in love with me. I’ve never been broken up with. We are also usually open/kinky/very NOT tradcon. That said, I’ve never had a relationship longer than 2.5y yet, I’m only 22
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:37 PM
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Put this shit on a plaque
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:33 PM
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I don’t care what his n is as long as he has had experience with casual sex, kinky stuff, and committed romantic relationships. Incidentally I have only dated exceptionally high n guys (>100) but I honestly don’t care so long as he hasn’t gotten STDs. No upper bound. The number isn’t what we care about, it’s his experience and attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 09:30 PM
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Some of them look really young! Especially if they haven’t married and had kids their soul is still very much that of a bachelor lol. Not worn down by a frau either. At this point I don’t think I have an upper bound. It would probably feel uncomfortable in public with a reaaaaally older guy but I’d try anything once. He can’t be senile is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:09 PM
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Oooh! A question for me. I am currently seeing a 52 year old. That’s 30 years my senior. It’s kind of a sugar thing, but not traditional. I didn’t meet him on SA or anything like that. It’s been super interesting. Other than him the biggest was a 11 year diff (when I was 18) for a FWB. Edit: I forgot to answer your questions. I don’t have a preference for oldies at all, though this experience is making me open to future escapades and/or arrangements. The guys I seriously romantically date have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 05:48 PM
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Plenty of the "after" pics look just like my or my friends' boobs lol. My boobs are nearly identical to 76 after
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:01 PM
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Plenty of the "after" pics look just like my or my friends' boobs lol. e.g. 4, 42, 74, 76, 99
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:58 AM
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OK, if you haven't seen or touched fake tits IRL I don't think you are more qualified to speak on how realistic they look. I've touched quite a few and how realistic they feel is really dependent on how high quality the surgery was. Here's a pretty huge gallery: https://www.beverlyhillsplasticsurgery.com/photo-gallery/1-3/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:46 AM
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Hm. Well the only fake tits I’ve seen naked were on dancers so I wouldn’t have enough data. But after surgery pics by reputable doctors look pretty damn realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:20 AM
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Unattractive women can be socially integrated but their social experience is less pleasant. Strangers aren’t always friendly to them, sometimes even hostile, and they do not receive unsolicited help and random acts of kindness nearly as frequently. These things are just perks, not crucial or necessary, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:10 AM
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Again, if they are done well, you won’t be able to tell they are implants to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:06 AM
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Simply put, life as a pretty young woman is nicer and easier. Try walking around with your face covered and sweats on. Make sure you look as androgynous as possible. Just one day of that will likely be significantly different, people don’t look at you, don’t smile at you, don’t compliment you, don’t help you as soon as you look like you need it, etc. Imagine that tiny manifestation of privilege magnified into every aspect of your life, every day. It changes what your experience is altogether. Co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 11:05 AM
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The thing is, when it’s good plastic surgery, you can’t tell...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 10:53 AM
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I don’t see how your reply at all relates to your original comment or my response. You seem unwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:45 AM
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No idea what you’re talking about. I have never observed this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 06:23 AM
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My weird Chinese mom says her favorite part of any fowl is the neck. She regularly snacks on duck neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 03:13 AM
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The expectation to make something of himself, to make his life meaningful, to achieve enough success to provide for a family. There is no such expectation for women, women can coast and be trophy wives or SAHMs without shame
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:35 AM
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Crying AWALT is the same copout
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:00 AM
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It is the norm, if she likes you...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:51 AM
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She is like that PC culture is so dumb because most people’s true desires don’t actually change, they’re phony as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:11 AM
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I personally don’t even offer when I want him to pay but I think other women are trying to be polite. Their desires don’t match up with their actions because the drive to act polite/PC is too strong to ignore, but not strong enough to penetrate their actual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 12:09 AM
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All I hear is “WAAA WAAA” when I attempt to read this post. Can anyone help translate?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 11:40 PM
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They only want girls sub 15 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:07 AM
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I have FOMO over not being able to have a beautifully mixed kid with at least one guy from every race 😅😳🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:07 AM
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Do you ever use gloves? Deadlifts are so tough on my palms even when they’re calloused. Makes me feel like such a pussy haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:35 AM
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Agreed. Women should communicate their needs. I don’t understand why women don’t [sexily] instruct their sexual partners on what to do to get them off. Just like I don’t understand why women don’t strategically bargain for and negotiate higher compensation instead of writing social media articles about wage gap that their male bosses won’t give a flying fuck about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:24 AM
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For a FWB or relationship? Can you define please? Can there even be real dread game in a committed relationship? Wouldn’t that just be called “breaking up”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:19 AM
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Your sexuality is your own business. Feel empowered no matter what you choose to do. Just be smart, use protection, don’t rush into things if you don’t feel mentally and emotionally prepared for the worst possible outcome. Nobody else HAS to know what the fuck you do, unless you fuck blabbermouths. But you should practice good judgment no matter what. FWIW, I never got attached to or ended up resenting the guy I lost my virginity to, or frankly, any of the many, many guys I had sex with. Not a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 12:57 AM
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I don’t think many men here are wondering if they are Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:38 PM
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Pavlov works on all humans
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:59 PM
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Nice username.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:10 PM
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I consider myself very logical with regard to sex and dating in the casual scope. I find my emotions coloring my decision making when I have been with someone for over a year but I am pretty darn good at keep emotions out of my decision making calculus before that level of seriousness. It is exceedingly useful for FWB situations. I easily enjoy sex only relationships with men, we are both completely on the same page about what it is, and neither of us let emotions get in the way even in the long…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:15 PM
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Read the post body. “only women” I already concede that women complain for lazy reasons, but it’s a CMV so if I am to comment I am obligated to challenge at least one part of OP’s V. Not defending women, just putting lazy men in the same category. Lazy people are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:02 PM
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Well he fucked women in between but the last two women he dated did
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/e27tb6/comment/f8u35m1?st=K3HGQAES&sh=cd82ff88 and all child comments of this one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:48 PM
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They don’t necessarily have to be older. Simply less naive and more emotionally intelligent women won’t be fooled. though I suppose men don’t want those either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:28 PM
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I wish... That's why they say, "don't stick your dick in crazy."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:21 PM
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Read the flaming trash strewn around in the comments on your thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:20 PM
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yeah, keep telling yourself as a way to justify not exercising regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:19 PM
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It depends what kind of women the general male is working with. Younger, more naive, dumber women are "fooled" because they have less an idea of what they themselves want as well as less experience negotiating such conversations. Older women, less naive, and more emotionally intelligent women are not. With age comes experience as well as a clearer idea of what you want for yourself. Most older women have clear goals for what purpose a relationship should serve (whether it is eventual marriage or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:18 PM
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Being fit is a universally attractive trait and it could also be a sign of good health. Just about anybody can become fit(barring any outliers) through diet and exercise, yet women seem to be the only ones complaining about it as if it’s some sort of impossible standard Read the post description. OP made no such argument. As usual, women have no volition. But wait, finish 4th grade Reading Comprehension class first. Lazy in both body and mind I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:13 PM
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I’m not gonna lie, it’s fucked up. I see all fat people the same above a certain size. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:43 AM
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There’s certainly a stigma, hence the “need” for a Fat Acceptance Movement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:35 AM
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Idk anything about this topic as I’ve never had a child or friends who’ve had children but it seems pretty damn hard. Taking care of a new baby seems like a huge challenge, especially if you aren’t getting any sleep at night. It’s exhausting and physically draining. If you have a lot of professional help I’m sure you could carve out time and energy for a strong fitness routine, but I highly doubt anyone under any circumstances is bouncing back after only weeks. Have you ever had a child? How wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 09:34 AM
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