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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020If you want a FWB it has to be on your terms and normal dating rules should apply. No booty calls at midnight, proper date nights arranged by him in advance (after you give him a date and time you want to see him), he pays for your travel expenses etc. Even if you feel it would be so hot to see him for a quickie, I wouldn’t recommend it, the relationship and the respect will probably decay a lot faster if he has it that easy. Also, enjoy the longing and waiting, it can be so much hotter than any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 56 | A dozen red flags? Those are my favourite!Yeah, and vetting will take care of the sleezy guys pretending to be more then they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Am I doing too much by even offering an explanation? He initiated 100% from the jump.Absolutely this, he’s frustrating and we do not appreciate that. I like being kind too.... but now I save my kindness for my girlfriends who actually appreciate it. Don’t waste it on people who make no effort nor are valuing your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020Why does it matter if he’s distraught or not? What exactly are you reading into it? Are you enjoying him being jealous or do you want a casual relationship with him? Because that’s never going to happen, you know that right? You can’t have a casual friendship with a man, especially not if you’ve been dating before. Men will use and abuse the information you give them for their benefit, which is getting into your head and pants. If you really want to keep him in your life keep it as casual as you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:29 AM |
| 125 | To whomsoever it may concernDon’t forget r/misogynyfetish (NSFW) where woman hatred is disguised as fetish. I’ve reported that sub weeks ago and it’s still going strong. Reddit admins are literally getting off to misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:13 PM |
| 42 | How it’s starting to feel around FDS in light of recent bansIt‘s horrific that we get compared to subs that promote hate and violence against women just because these limp dicked cave dwellers can’t handle us rejecting being mistreated. When woman set boundaries and are not allowing men to bullshit them anymore they feel threatened and call us man haters. They feel so threatened they won’t get their dicks wet anymore they start to compare us to actual terrorist groups and to men running around shooting women. Then they try to stop us from unionising so w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:25 AM |
| 1 | After reading "Why Does he do That?" by Lundy Bancroft, I have started noticing how often abusive strategies are used by dominant classes (men, whites, ultra-wealthy) to maintain power, and preserve their ability to use and control others.What are the best strategies to handle someone using darvo on you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:36 AM |
| 20 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤I LOVE it! This isn’t only pretty but it’s going to save so much time! Navigating the sidebar through an app is pretty annoying so this is a godsend! Thanks so much for all the time and effort you’ve put into this! It’s highly appreciated ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:25 AM |
| 9 | One of my old friends shared this on facebook and tagged her husband... can't imagine 1. knowing anyone this irresponsible 2. thinking that this is cute/funny or 3. that she'd actually air her problems with him publicly like this......Ugh I’m sorry you had to deal with this, so fucking rude, what a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Level up sis!Yeah I agree, that’s 100% correct! It would be very weird to say “my woman friends” lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:16 PM |
| 11 | What in tarnation.Can you explain how? Because this is just a vile video of a woman being degraded, posted under “hall of shame”. How is this helpful to anyone? If you really feel like helping women who have been abused you can offer your knowledge and advice in a text post instead of supporting a shocking video of extreme degradation that was posted without any valuable commentary whatsoever and then and call it helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:04 PM |
| 15 | What in tarnation.Sorry but how is this bringing any value to this sub? I don’t want to see this on a sub about dating tips and self improvement. What’s next? Posting porn to show how depraved it is?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 67 | More from backpedal city - scrote almost cries for his mommy 🤡This seems like a bit of a time waster? You’re quadruple texting him while he gives one liners and he left the chat before you did. Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:56 PM |
| 48 | "Women are less attractive at 30+" Another proof of the misogyny of Reddit, commented on his thread where he is bashing his girlfriend, but he let the comment I quoted slip, got down voted and then that comment is just a cherry on top. I hate these men so much.People have a very skewed idea of what 30+ women should look like. They have no idea how old women are, especially men. Women don’t hit a wall, ever. I’m in my late 30’s and got carded last year. A 20 year old girl was shocked about my age and said my skin looks amazing “for my age”. I happily took her compliment, but I really don’t do anything special except basic skincare with an occasional mask. I even smoked ‘til my late 20’s. And I’m no exception!! I see this all the time how other women my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:02 PM |
| 319 | male redditors after making their 567th "unzips pants" jokeI hate it soo much I almost downvoted you haha. They need to fucking stop!! ”Is your mom single, asking for a friend.” ”What’s her name, I need it... for science.” ”Not my proudest fap.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | The good points of dating with chronic illnessThank you for making this post! I’ve developed a health condition that limits my mobility a lot. I’m suddenly much more fragile, I’m in pain a lot, I have to be very careful with my body. I’ve had to adjust to a new life and it’s not been easy. I’m currently not dating and I’m not planning to for the foreseeable future, but I’ve been wondering how I’m going to be perceived once I start dating again. My personality is growing, I’m developing better and stronger boundaries, but I’m physically so v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:51 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I love this so much! Too often women allow being treated far too lazily or accept men’s subpar efforts. Putting it like this is really eye opening! I love spoiling myself and from now on I will only regard men who will spoil me with a minimum amount of the same love and attention I give to myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:23 AM |
| 83 | My boyfriend didn't like the way I brought up an issueHe’s making you walk on eggshells. He’s demanding you to word something to his liking or else he won’t regard it as valid. He will play this game until you have no way of saying anything at all anymore, because no matter how you’ll word it it’ll offend him and you won’t get to talk about the actual issue, it’s a deflection method. Be very wary! This article about narcissists and their tactics might help you to deal with this kind of manipulation. Even if you think he isn’t a narcissist it’s a ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Consider it a red flag if a guy isn't wild about any unique features of yours.This was always something that low key bothered and confused me about my shit ex. I have really pretty eyes and smell good, he never ever once mentioned my eyes or my smell (or my personality!). Over the years it made me so much more self conscious. My best traits were being completely ignored, he only ever complimented my sexual traits... It makes me really sad when I think back. What horrible human being does this to someone they claim to love! Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:51 PM |
| 192 | That’s what happened when he watched too much pornThat poor girl. I bet she’s dead gorgeous and the the only way the bf can keep a girl like her is by destroying her self worth. He knows he doesn’t deserve her. I hope she realises how much power she has and sees what kind of pathetic excuse of a man he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Letting your man check out other women's body's is NOT how to keep him faithful.These blatant liars and gaslighters are the worst and most pathetic of them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Letting your man check out other women's body's is NOT how to keep him faithful.What does “cheat yourself” mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 25 | “Synonyms” for HVM and LVM??I think certain terminology in this sub might be detrimental. For new users they could come across alienating and could scare off woman who are interested and could really need the help from this community. When I first came here words like “pickmeisha” was something that made me question the sub. I’ve only ever known similar terminologies from “hate subreddits” like Becky and Chad etc. Once I figured out it’s different here I was somewhat relieved. Personally I still really dislike that term, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Sexual harassment sensitivity training for gamers with Jena Friedman. When they get to experience how it feels and what they have to say about it! (Jaw dropping)Yes I felt the same, it made me angry and just baffled how these men think about woman. It’s so wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 04:24 PM |
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