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| 117 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?I disagree, there’s a reason why everybody hates Chris. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 04:27 AM |
| 24 | Friends dinner vettingAlso this!!! I was just thinking too: do they try to triangulate and dominate conversation, focus only on one person. Do they listen to others or keep interrupting or not ask questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 60 | Friends dinner vettingYes!! They should always be a bit nervous to meet you. That’s ok tho. The smarmy grin can be spotted from a mile away 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel the same way sometimes?I just want to thank y’all for the thoughtful responses. It warms my heart to know that so many of ourselves have so much self love. I love being part of this community and learning and growing with all of you 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | I hate how scammy a lot of matchmakers areCan confirm. A friend’s mother went on a date with that podcast host pre-show and was not impressed at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:11 AM |
| 47 | Thoughts on TexasI totally agree. And your partner should be ok with that too (as well as actively campaigning for that law to change). It’s a great way to screen for men who genuinely care for you, and prioritize your health and rights. Also this isn’t meant in a blaming the women sort of way, but as a way to show that men are responsible for unwanted pregnancies. Stop the root cause and get a vibrator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Julia Haart escaped fundamentalism in her 40s and she really went above and beyond in terms of her dreams. She has helped her children escape as well after a suffocating and controlling marriage in a very religiously fundamentalist community.I admire her! To go through what she did and thrive is testament to her strength and drive. Do I agree with all that she preaches and encourages her children to do? Not really, but it doesn’t take away my respect for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 07:33 AM |
| 27 | I just dropped a pick me friend but I feel badDon’t feel sad, people who are meant to be in your life won’t make you feel this way. That being said, if she changes and genuinely puts in work to become a better person, don’t shut the door completely. While it’s important to vet, it’s also important to allow that people can learn and grow. Looking back, I displayed huge pickme behavior, am eternally grateful for friends who have stuck with me through thick and thin. This was a big factor in helping me realise that I needed to be a better frie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 73 | Modern Feminism Is A Male Insurgent Movement II: Some More Bullshit It Wants To Distract You WithThe tea is spilled and it’s boiling hot! Thanks for putting in words exactly how uncomfortable and virtue signal-ly corporate feminism is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:20 AM |
| 40 | Pick-me's vs Handmaidens -- an important distinctionGenuine question, how is Elizabeth Warren a handmaiden? I’m not from the US so just curious about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!I don’t understand why the comments underlining the racial implications of using the term Karen keep getting downvoted. A Karen is an entitled white woman who harasses PoC - remember the whole Christian Cooper vs. Amy Cooper debacle? Or when white women would call the cops on black folx for simply existing? This too is its own kind of racism. I mean, I agree it’s shitty of white men to appropriate a term that POC folx could use to call out specific behavior targetted at them. I get your frustrat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:07 PM |
| 68 | The entire purpose of porn is to degrade.Let’s not forget - porn historically was to smear women in power too. Marie Antoinette, Cleopatra, Roman empresses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.This! 👆🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:09 PM |
| 6 | Answer to WAP - Let's write our own anthems!🙋🏻♀️🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋Totally fair, and I appreciate your thoughts too. Agree with where you’re coming from. Thanks for sharing with me 🥂☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋I think I get where you’re coming from, and I respect it. However what rubs me the wrong way is when people having to police their emotions so they don’t seem eager/ interested. It just seems utterly illogical. I would 100% prefer to be around someone who I know is interested in me and wants to be with/ get to know me, than someone who plays it cool. It just makes relationships so game like/ inhuman, when it should be the opposite. I don’t know. Sometimes I feel burnt out/ cynical when I think a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Yikes. It’s true ladies - don’t let him know how you’re feeling. If he knows you’re interested, he will also know that you’ll accept rock bottom treatment for his attention. Not me 👋Don’t forget 🥂🥰💯when we’re lifting our sisters up/ hear good news ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Vogue YouTube makes Pick-Me Porn. Karley Sciortino Describes Finding Another Woman’s Panties in her boyfriends bed TWICE and then wearing them.That explains it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:33 AM |
| 26 | Ladies, what do we consider to be the bare minimum from a guy?Adding to the rest: being even tempered, knows how to look after himself, problem solving and patient. Also makes an effort to look after his health as part of his overall upkeep. As someone who grew up in a family with issues, its a no from me if you’re just letting that slide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | My dad = OG HVMAs a seven sisters alum, I support this post. And your dad!!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:30 AM |
| 2 | In todays "feminism" sub. This horrible piece of garbage. I am interested to see how long my reply stays up before being deleted- and banned. I am already banned in r/feminism on this account.Womxn (including transwomxn) should band together against misogyny. Toxic masculinity is why we can’t have nice things!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:48 AM |
| 5 | Why I don't OLD (5 reasons)Right? I mean, just... why do you think I’d put myself down for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Why I don't OLD (5 reasons)Wait that’s so intrusive! That really sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:20 PM |
| 98 | Why I don't OLD (5 reasons)This post is so timely. As an experiment, i recently created a hinge profile and deleted it the next day. I don’t think I’ll ever put myself in this online meat market ever again. Granted, I used a nickname rather than my regular name (my job is pretty high profile, and I know a few of my coworkers are ok it) and deliberately used photos where my face was not super visible, but still nice (me on holiday, pictures of my drinks at nice venues, my interests, me reading). My rule was that I wouldn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:05 AM |
| 64 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationI’ve been in similar situations before, and you need to be as distant from him as much as possible. Two reasons: one of the questions you’re gonna ask yourself is why me - why are you even telling me any of this. The more you think about it, the more your brain will trick you into thinking it’s ok/ or worse, feel flattered that he decided to tell you this. It’s not flattering. He’s testing the waters to see how much more you’ll listen to and anything else you’ll take. And it will get worse. Also… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 6 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻I know what socialism is. My point is that community-benefiting policies have been branded as socialist. That’s where I’m coming from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:45 PM |
| 9 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻Thanks for sharing your story @zoutezee, my family escaped communism in China too, and I understand your distrust of autocratic regimes. Glad your in laws family was able to escape and I hope they’ve found peace and were able to start again. What I guess I’m frustrated with, is how the US system is so blatantly and myopically capitalist and self-centered that the thought of progressive policies like universal healthcare is considered socialist and frowned upon. Autocratic dictators are bad for a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:08 PM |
| -1 | Zero percent surprised he's still singleHe was cute until I read his bio 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:16 AM |
| 32 | HVM Noam Chomsky 👌🏻Genuine question, but what’s this fear of socialism that western countries are so afraid of. Especially when basic rights like universal healthcare, free medicine, education, paying a reasonable amount of taxes are all branded as socialist. If caring for my fellow country people/ being a decently empathetic human being is socialist, then I’m proud to be one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:14 AM |
| 3 | I need affirmationYou can do it. It’s baby steps and hard work but you’re on the right path | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 7 | A high value man makes your life easier, in all aspects.Agree!!! These traits enhances it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 6 | A high value man makes your life easier, in all aspects.Awesome for ya, sis!! You show them how it’s done!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 9 | A high value man makes your life easier, in all aspects.I hate the intentionally obtuse ones, especially when it’s something that’s within their line of work. We wanted to install a particular toilet model... from a brand that’s used in most public toilets and perhaps even some homes... contractor told us he’d never heard of it before 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Love this! Here’s mine: A proper mane - I love thick hair with a bit of a curl. Hirsute everywhere but the face. Deep, intelligent, warm eyes with long, thick eye lashes. Slightly crooked, but otherwise elegant nose. No weak chins. Straight teeth, although i find slightly crooked bottom row teeth kind of endearing, bright easy smile and laugh. High cheek bones. Clear forehead. No zits/ scarring. Beardless, but slight shadow is ok. Taller than me by at least a head. I’m 5-2 so it’s really not har… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:57 AM |
| 33 | Pickmeisha marries overweight video game addicted scrote and is upset when he changes for the better.Let’s play a game - article from the onion or relationships advice post Good on the guy for getting himself together tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Serena F. Kerrigan on TikTok knows what’s upLove her!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamineAw thanks hun! It really does come and go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:52 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamineNow I want a tomato avocado salad too! I love it with roast chicken! I agree w your point of men you’ve dated being good for you as well. One thing that’s really helped w my healing is taking lessons from each experience. It also helps ease some of the itch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamineDefinitely! Used to feel really low after relationships because I never felt as creative... but with time and finding other sources of emotional nourishment it’s coming back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 19 | Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamineExercise, eating protein rich food, meditating and getting enough sleep :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:44 PM |
| 26 | What things do you do to love/nurture yourself that empowers you to feel that you are awesome all on your own?I love creating art and visiting museums. And I’m going all out and booking myself a fancy staycation for November! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:47 AM |
| 12 | Food for thought on what makes a person high valueI’ve been thinking about this in terms of relationships. We all have flaws, thoughts we can’t always control, great days and terrible ones, but what’s high value is the commitment to doing the right thing, regardless. Having a strong internal compass is key, and it’s really easy to lose it in the noise of life. I hope this brings you some peace if you ever feel bad about yourself or unworthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:22 AM |
| 3 | We decline these kinds of datesAgree with all of these red flag dates, although (at least for me) I’d suggest replacing the drinks date with a mocktails at a nice bar, as was suggested earlier (especially if it’s in the early stages). I’d do weekdays too. Going out is a big part of my life, so I’d like to be able to vet what he’s like on a night out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Men who are intimidated by strong, smart ass women are the quintessential LVM.A queeeeen 🌸🥰🌺🥂✨👸🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate FDS SongThis song always makes my day!!! So glad you shared it 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | No choice but online dating during corona virus. Advice needed online datingStop. Dating. During. A. Global. Pandemic. You will never get time like this to work on yourself. Why spend it on desperate men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:51 AM |
| 49 | And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦♀️Or Catcher in the Rye. Yawn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:47 AM |
| 6 | Female friendships are so important!!!! Don't let the current relationship you're in devalue them. Remember the ones who've had your back!This Made my Day!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Thinking he is the love of your life, even though he rarely puts an effort = pure attachment. Is your fate being with a LVM? Don't think so 👑I totally agree with this. I met someone I thought was my twin flame, but in reality he was a mirror and an opportunity to reflect on what I needed to work on in my life. Im happy he’s no longer in my life, but I’m grateful for the learning that meeting him brought me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Levelling Up As A Brown WomanAnd Noorie Ana!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Levelling Up As A Brown WomanThoughts on Riz Ahmed as a brown HVM role model? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:05 PM |
| 6 | One day, when you have leveled up significantly, you will come across a picture of a man you used to pine about and think to yourself, "he's not even that hot"So proud of ya, lady! May you keep on blooming 🌺🥰✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | solo date ideasI’d suggest doing a picnic if things aren’t open. Pack a small basket with your favorite snacks and bevs and bring a book and stuff to read or paint. It’s super relaxing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:58 AM |
| 3 | solo date ideasTbh this sounds perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 03:53 AM |
| 7 | solo date ideasLove all of these! Enjoy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit the standards we hold men to here.Thanks for sharing your story! The fact that you’re doing so much, and fiercely protecting your children shows how high value and worthy you are. And you are a fantastic role model for your children. Sending good energy, may the universe open its blessings to you. Take care and stay strong 🌺✨🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you introduce your female friends to FDS without forcing it on themThank you 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:26 AM |
| 3 | What made you realize you needed FDS?When all my relationships fell into pattern of disappointment and emptiness. Not feeling like myself anymore. And I couldn’t quite understand why dating was so hard for me when it seemed like friends were doing fine. Stumbling into this sub during quarantine has been really helpful. Also shout out to my therapist for being so supportive when I told her about this sub 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Thank you FDSThank you, lovely! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | OMG look who bought me flowers! It's me because I'm my favorite person and I love me so much.🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:22 AM |
| 5 | Shower thought: what if male dating coaches put in effort into teaching men how to be thoughtful, respectable and loving partnersA pyramid scheme if you will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 4 | The only DTF I can sympathize with.Yuck!!! Stay away from our beloved comfort foods!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:52 AM |
| 50 | The only DTF I can sympathize with.The only other acceptable DTF is din tai fung. Soup dumplings!!!!!!!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Please explain this male behavior. When men are negative about a woman having typical feminine interests.As someone who enjoys all these interests and hobbies, thanks for making this post! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:27 AM |
| 12 | Me, myself, and I 👑Love this so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:25 PM |
| 8 | FDS worked for me!Love this! May you continue to shine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:15 AM |
| 12 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?🙌🏻 enjoy your time!! Hahaha scrotes are gonna scrote 24/7 so just leave them where they belong. When that happens I just death glare back. I love making people feel uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:13 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?The best feelings ever!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:09 AM |
| 13 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?Yaaaasss!!! Go you!! 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?😻😻so happy!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?PM-ed ya, hun!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?Love it!!! You go!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:18 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?😻😻😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:17 AM |
| 29 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?Get it!!!!!! Totes agree though - dating military men never seemed appealing to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:16 AM |
| 41 | Has anyone started feeling that quarantine/ no dating has made you feel even more confident, sensual and womanly?Yaaaas!! Happiness and inner peace is the best zit cream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 04:16 AM |
| 3 | PMS, stress, and pickmeisha thoughts?That’s awesome girl!! And it’s totally ok to slip up, or miss people, we’re all human! Keep doing you, and take care!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 14 | PMS, stress, and pickmeisha thoughts?Hey you, i went through a similar phase too, where it was really hard for me to quit thinking about this guy I was in a situationship with, even though I blocked him and went no contact. Here are a few things that helped me: I addressed a letter to him in my diary, where I poured out whatever I wanted to say to him. While it let me go over the good bits, I also listed down the ways in which he was NV and reminded myself of my standards. That really helped meput my mind at ease because I let go o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?This is awesome!! I’m going to try it out!! :) thanks for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?Hey, that’s totally fine! At least you don’t have an injured leg, but a funny story to share (although I hope the other girl’s ok). Although I can imagine the feeling having your own daydream being told to you. Def weird!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:55 AM |
| 3 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?That’s fantastic!!! Thanks so much for sharing!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?So awesome and happy for you!! Keep going!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?This is wonderful, thank you so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 15 | Thank You For The Mindset Change, QueensYasssss more power to you!! Thrive, queen!! 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 15 | Today is the Day I Kick this Man out of my HOUSEYou got it queen, good luck!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Hi ladies, looking for a bit of supportThank you!! Trying to practice this as much as I can! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Hi ladies, looking for a bit of supportTrue! This has been the hardest part. I usually take a breath and remind myself it’s in my interests to let him go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Hi ladies, looking for a bit of supportSame!!! I did one for why we’re so incompatible. I’m so relieved he’s not in my orbit anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Hi ladies, looking for a bit of supportThank you!! I’ve been trying to read up about toxic behaviours and understand why it’s hard to let go of them. It’s been really helpful in keeping firm with my boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Agree, sis!! Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:32 AM |
| 5 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Thank you for your words of encouragement. I keep reminding myself of the steps I’ve taken to become a better person, and that’s keeping me going :) we will get through this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:45 AM |
| 54 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.This is what I needed. Despite going no contact/ blocking for about a month, it’s been hard not thinking about him. While I’m usually ok at letting those thoughts go, yesterday I went through old photos just to scratch the itch. Tbh it was a wake up call, because it tore down the idealistic image I was beginning to build up again. Ick. I don’t know though, sometimes I feel sad, because despite having a fairly busy schedule, friends, hobbies + doing things for myself, it’s hard not to think about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | I have yet to meet a man who is as interesting as he pretends to be. Where are the men who read and can keep up with me intellectually?Right? That happened to me with another guy. His other girlfriend, who was an influencer/ social super sleuth tracked me down. We had a laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:03 AM |
| 5 | I have yet to meet a man who is as interesting as he pretends to be. Where are the men who read and can keep up with me intellectually?Lol! Probably isn’t, but I feel you :) shame that there are so many men like that all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:24 AM |
| 7 | I have yet to meet a man who is as interesting as he pretends to be. Where are the men who read and can keep up with me intellectually?Did we date the same person? Mine also hid a raging disdain for women besides his mom and sisters. Silly old pickmesha me used to listen to how he would eventually become really nasty to the women he dated - especially those he was in LTRs with. He tested my boundaries too in really weird ways too. Glad I got out early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:55 PM |
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