poetoflove Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Girl problem I would assume that if she hasn't gotten back to you yet, she probably won't. I don't know how much time went by between the first date and the two messages, but after a few days, it's safe to assume she doesn't want to meet again.	/r/seduction	15/08/17 11:40 PM
1	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? Yes, for other people. Just not for me.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 05:07 AM
2	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? I would assume so. I don't have experience with that specifically because I personally don't like hookups, but I would think it's easier than anywhere else. At least at conventions, you know exactly what her interests are and you can guide the conversation with that.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 04:53 AM
2	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? We definitely want to be able to see and do lots of stuff at cons. But the main point of conventions of any kind is that they're a social outing for people of similar interests. It's nice to be able to meet people at conventions. I have absolutely no social life outside of work where I'm currently living so cons are the only places I meet people.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 04:18 AM
2	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? It was my first steampunk project, but it also was my largest project I've done so far so I'm looking forward to wearing it as often as possible. Thanks :) I'm not sure if you're a frequent con go-er or not but I do recommend it. It's a great place to meet people with similar interests. Every time I go to a con, I hope guys will come up to me and flirt with me but I always seem to meet guys who aren't single.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 03:57 AM
2	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? My steampunk Cap is a red and white corset with a white top under it and a blue demi-vest over it, a blue skirt with stars, fishnet stockings, Victorian riding boots, a blue top hat that I painted an "A" and wings onto and added goggles to, red white and blue gauntlets, gloves, a 1940s belt attached to combat suspenders, and a Cap shield. And I have naturally curly long hair so I just fix it up a little in a steampunk-ish hairstyle. So it's a lot of red, white, blue, and brown for an overall the…	/r/seduction	27/06/17 03:44 AM
2	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? I'll probably do my steampunk Captain America. I don't have any anime cosplays.	/r/seduction	27/06/17 03:33 AM
2	Picking up cosplay chicks at a convention? Cosplayers really aren't that different from other people.You can talk to us the same way you'd talk to anyone else. Though generally complimenting a girl's cosplay is a great conversation starter at cons. Also, if you're referring to Anime Expo in LA, I'll be there too for one day!	/r/seduction	27/06/17 12:36 AM
1	Pressure from females to commit to monogamy? That is definitely one of the most difficult parts of ending a relationship. It's easy to want to be close to someone even if it isn't the right person. But it's important to learn to let go. And if you end one relationship, it means you're just one relationship closer to finding the person who is right for you. Sometimes when a relationship ends for me, it takes a while to find the next person. And other times it comes quickly after. If you're patient, you'll find what you're looking for.	/r/seduction	06/06/17 05:04 AM
1	Pressure from females to commit to monogamy? I pretty much said that a guy should have multiple women that he's seeing, and ONLY when he finds a girl that he would give up all others for, should he go monogamous. Otherwise, the guy would constantly feel like he's trapped and missing out, which leads to cheating. Only a very small percentage of women are okay with poly-amorous relationships. Most girls want monogamy. They don't want a guy to date a bunch of girls at one time. They want you to put effort into one girl at a time to see if the…	/r/seduction	06/06/17 04:54 AM
2	Pressure from females to commit to monogamy? I think that the best way to solve this problem isn't monogamy- it's just dating. You don't automatically jump into a relationship with someone on the first date. Go on a couple dates with someone just to see how it goes. You don't have to make a decision right away. If you really do prefer polygamy over monogamy, then be straightforward about that and get used to being told no or having to tell girls you won't date them because of that difference in views. Many girls will not be okay with a pol…	/r/seduction	06/06/17 04:26 AM
1	Pressure from females to commit to monogamy? Actually I'm a female looking for a monogamous relationship. So I can answer questions regarding that side of this topic.	/r/seduction	06/06/17 04:00 AM
1	Pressure from females to commit to monogamy? I've got to agree with this. No girl wants to hear a guy say that to her. And don't agree to a monogamous relationship just to get laid.	/r/seduction	06/06/17 03:33 AM
1	15 Second Date Ideas That Help You Get Laid I've been told that I am a very obvious flirt. Even when I'm not being flirty, guys think that I'm flirting with them. But I don't flirt with any of my friends. I have very very few friends within a reasonable driving distance to me due to my current living situation.	/r/seduction	22/05/17 08:13 PM
1	15 Second Date Ideas That Help You Get Laid What if the 3 dates are 3 consecutive days? It doesn't have to be 2 weeks apart. The last guy I dated, I think I had sex with him 4 or 5 days after meeting because we were spending almost every day together. And just because I've withheld sex until after several dates does not mean I won't do more. If I like a guy, I'll do all sorts of other affectionate things (holding hands, kissing, making out, etc.). Those things matter to me just as much as, if not more than, sex. I don't want to feel objec…	/r/seduction	21/05/17 12:37 AM
1	15 Second Date Ideas That Help You Get Laid I've never flirted with a friend. I don't have any friends in my area besides my coworkers because I moved to an area that's a bit of a drive from my hometown and the city where I went to college. If someone is in that situation, I think it's fine to have sex on the first date. But I'm not in that kind of situation.	/r/seduction	21/05/17 12:16 AM
5	15 Second Date Ideas That Help You Get Laid I don't have a rule of 3 dates. That's just the soonest I've decided to have sex with a guy (actually that happened with 2 guys). I've waited much longer than that as well. It just depends on the guy. I don't base it off the number of dates. I just want to really have a good idea of what kind of person someone is before I get more involved.	/r/seduction	20/05/17 01:35 AM
8	15 Second Date Ideas That Help You Get Laid So I should be having sex with every guy I date? I highly doubt that's going to help me figure out who I want to spend the rest of my life with.	/r/seduction	20/05/17 01:03 AM
5	15 Second Date Ideas That Help You Get Laid Since I am on the other end of this as a girl... What if you don't want to have sex that soon? I've never had sex with a guy before a 3rd date. I have a friend who I've spoken to quite a bit about dating because we have similar dating styles, and we both noticed that many guys will lose interest if they don't get sex within the first two dates. Sex is great, but first or second date feels too soon to me because I know exactly what I want from dating (a relationship that leads to marriage) and I …	/r/seduction	19/05/17 11:45 PM
1	Confirming dates, yes or no? I always tell guys to confirm dates with me because I have a lot going on, and sometimes I get lost in my own world and don't pay attention to the time. Or sometimes I forget what day it is (for example, I was convinced all day today that it was Tuesday). Plus it's nice to hear from them and know they still want to see me. I'm really frustrating to text and I know that, so date confirmations are important to me.	/r/seduction	18/05/17 06:08 AM
2	Why It's Time to Leave Online Dating Behind For the Real World I'm actually a girl looking for a guy. But the same advice applies. It just feels like everywhere I go, guys are either in groups or hiding behind a computer (like at Starbucks or something). They don't seem approachable. Sometimes I'll just go out alone to all sorts of places but I almost never see a guy alone in a situation where I could approach them. Also, is there a way to flirt with someone while they're working? There's this one cute guy who always talks to me at Jamba Juice, and I think …	/r/seduction	17/05/17 10:00 PM
2	Why It's Time to Leave Online Dating Behind For the Real World How does this happen? My last 4 relationships were from online dating because I find it difficult to meet people in the real world. Where do people meet?	/r/seduction	17/05/17 05:23 AM