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poisedStygian/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:00 PM
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poisedStygian/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:22 AM
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Either invite her over for dinner or pull her back to your place from getting drinks saying something like "i got a bottle of wine/great whiskey/album of a band you guys both like back at my place", she knows exactly what you're getting at without you making her feel like a slut which is key
/r/askTRP15/09/18 06:20 PM
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It sounds like she's trying to take the reigns and see how pliable you are. You already agreed on drinks. Dinners are lame, low energy and harder to kino. I would stick to drinks, just find a low key bar that has great pub food. Then grab drinks and food sitting at the bar. Or, suggest having her come over and make dinner together.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 06:13 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/25/your-friend-menstruation/
/r/askTRP17/08/18 02:37 AM
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"I know don't shit where you eat. But" I stopped reading.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 04:22 PM
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You inspire each other to be the best version of yourselves. You put her back better than you found her and vice versa. Naturally it's going to end, it's a long term relationship not a forever term relationship.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 07:52 AM
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"my rate for a therapy session starts at $300/hr"
/r/askTRP27/07/18 08:11 PM
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Someone guide me i am lost and in pain. I have hardly any knowledge on TRP i just want another girl to get this slut of an Ex out of my head. You've got a lot of work to do, but at least you're honest about your ignorance. Firstly, while conventional wisdom dictates that you go fuck ten other women (GFTOW), or fullfill your desire to find some other chick to get this girl out of your head, that's ultimately a defective long term solution. The true path is to make yourself your own mental point i…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 01:57 PM
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Check out Alpha Male Strategies, black dude, channel is rising fast, he puts out a lot of content and does live call-in shows in yt too.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 06:01 PM
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Hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 09:40 PM
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The dead look isn't in, it's under(ground).
/r/askTRP19/06/18 02:51 PM
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Euphoric recall, it's an extremely powerful form of self deception especially when associated with vices.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:45 PM
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One of the values of trp, to me, is that it inverts the way men typically go about relationships. They normally focus on LTRs first, then experiment with plates and ONS. In order to master an LTR one should first indulge in ONS, to disassociate sex with neediness or pair bonding, then entertain plates, again to reduce neediness and facilitate an abundance mentality, then finally, if desired, and priced correctly, enter an LTR (still a controversial arrangement around here). If you jump right int…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:43 PM
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I like Corey Wayne, but he does cater to dealing with LTRs. He's spot on about having her do most of the work and maintaining prize frame though. He also has good advice about cold approaches and texting.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:33 PM
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I can't.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 08:15 PM
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Here's the original article http://www.seductiontuition.com/david-shade/deep-spot.html
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:26 AM
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David Shade deep spot fingering technique is golden.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 02:16 AM
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This, keep it simple and direct.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 06:49 PM
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It's better if she does, but if 3 or 4 days go by and you don't hear anything and you're still interested I would re-engage via txt, keep it brief and make sure to set a definite date (time/place). If she's receptive great, if she hems and haws then be firm and say..hey I'm busy this week so if you can't make definite plans we'll have to do it another time. If she's interested she'll firm up plans if not you just saved face and got your answer.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:39 PM
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Never set up the next meet up at the end of the date. Likewise, don't be the first to txt and say it was fun. If it was fun, it was fun and your lack of reaching out will only increase her curiosity most often resulting in a txt ping from her. That's the time to arrange the next meet up, when her attraction and buying temperature is high.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:55 PM
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To use another metaphor, if you hang around a barber shop long enough you're going to get a haircut.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:18 PM
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While I appreciate the sentiment of commitment being subcommunicated through actions, never assume monogamy. It must be explicitly stated initiated by her and boundaries set (put a price on it) , if desired, otherwise you're in for a world of hurt.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:09 PM
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Everest is bullshit, you basically pay a bunch of sherpas to get you to the top with trails, ladders and luxury rest stops along the way.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:44 PM
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Agreed, make sure you're explicit about time and place. No pussy footing.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:55 PM
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Lay her on her stomach and fuck her slow, but strong. Let her feel your body weight on her while hovering your hand over her neck.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:49 PM
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Your points about idealising a woman, seeking confirmation of that chimera's existence, and experiencing panic (loosing frame) over the inevitable incongruence between her actual behavior and that which is expected is extremely clairvoyant. Once again, outcome independence cannot be overstated.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:06 PM
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American Psycho (i kid) . Mad Men (draper)
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:10 PM
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Your fundamental issue is despairing over high level abstractions, zooming out universally and making yourself infinitesimally small. You're also reveling in the postponed destiny of death, devaluing the present. With so much de-centering, out through space and forward in time, it's no surprise you're feeling depersonalized and likewise evaporating anyone else's potential for humanity. Truth may very well be limited to mathematical tautologies. If you brushed up against Kant, you'd consider that…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:02 PM
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"A partner in crime." Do not use overt communication with women. Tease and be mysterious.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 05:24 PM
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I bought a girl an engagement ring and now she thinks we're getting married.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 02:43 AM
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Agreed on both points, you're overthinking and need to make a move already. Next time she gives you an ioi, approach her and simply say "hey, what's your name?". Her response will help you gage her interest level. Ideally after you ask her name, she'll tell you then ask yours, instead of giving her your name without asking. Either way I'd have a bar or whatever in mind and tell her you're going to grab drinks at an exact place and time and tell her she's welcome to join. Don't delay too long if …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:57 PM
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Congrats, you certainly have your work cut out for you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 04:30 PM
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Corey Wayne makes the suggestion of telling her to contact you only if she won't set a firm date as a type of soft next. Meaning you get ahold of her attempt to make a concrete date and she gives you a response like.. Maybe or txt me to confirm. At that point he advises saying something along the lines of "sounds like you're busy, let's do it another time" As a way to save face, soft next and still give her an in later. When it comes to scheduling the date I'm not as stubbornly authoritative as …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:46 PM
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Stop bsing and invite her out for drinks.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 05:00 PM
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On to the next, but I will offer my perspective of the interaction. Given that she was traveling alone in a sparsely populated subway car, your ten minutes of deliberation was much too slow. When she entered the car I would have made and held eye contact to get a read on her attraction level or willingness to be opened. Granted women tend to have bitch shields armed in that scenario, but eye contact can reveal a lot. After that I would have approached, assuming verbal rapport. I wouldn't have as…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 08:39 AM
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Agreed, not only did you ask for a day too soon in the future, tomorrow, when she responded that she was busy tomorrow you tried to slot yourself in even sooner.. during lunch. I'll ask a girl when she's free to grab a drink. I know the common convention here is to outright suggest days instead of asking her up front when she's free, but if she's genuinely busy on the day you predetermined you're going to have to play the scheduling dance anyway. If she offers up a day that works for you then is…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 05:31 AM
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I can appreciate that. It wasn't just a meat market dance party with a bunch of anons. The venue itself was a cozy neighborhood bar that my friend owns, but of course ppl are there to fuck. She is a friend of his and his social circle was seated in the back. When she arrived my friend (bar owner) made introductions. I'm sure I could have taken it further, but I also approached it as social circle game. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:56 PM
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That would have been a better frame. The sexual tension was already established via kino, so I just felt like teasing her for being coy with something mundane.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:15 PM
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I can see that. I would have stayed longer, but I had to head back to the city. Unfortunately I didn't have time to linger and escalate past #-close.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:10 PM
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Don't even read it.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:33 PM
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Once a date is set and agreed upon do not txt unless it's to cancel. Assume you'll meet each other there. It will increase tension. Nothing good can come from following up. Let anticipation work its magic. If she stands you up at the venue with no notice you now know what kind of woman you're dealing with.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:34 AM
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Thank these haters, it means you're doing something right.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 05:05 PM
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2nd the LES, East Village, although there's a Starbucks on st Mark's and ave A.. punk as fuck. Wburg is as expensive as any Manhatten neighborhood. For BK I have a lot of fun in Greenpoint and Bushwick.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:10 AM
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Stop wasting time, ask her out for drinks already. Have an exact time and place in mind.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 06:24 PM
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Opening txt can be as benign as "hey X", with a minimum amount of txts before I'll simply ask "when are you free to grab a drink?" Then when she offers days pick one that works for you and make a firm, decisive date along the lines of "great, I'll meet you at bar B at Xoclock". I know a lot of guys here don't like to ask her when she's free, but rather invite her on a certain day at a certain time, but if she's genuinely busy on the day you suggest right off the bat you're going to play the sche…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 12:33 AM
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Precede with kino. She should be responding to your kino pings. Its a good way to calibrate escalation, if autism causes confusion in that regard. Mirroring in general is a good sign she's comfortable with you taking the lead. When attraction reaches a peak in the course of conversation slowly glance at her lips for 3 seconds then return your gaze to her eyes. If she mirrors you and glances at your lips it's a sure sign she's receptive. After going in for the kiss I like to pull away first and s…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 12:07 AM
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My personal favorite.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 01:02 PM
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Your phobia of mythically masculine men lying in wait to poach your girl will become a self fulfilling prophecy. Instead of imbuing boogymen with superpowers, make yourself the man she finds irresistible. Start by considering yourself the prize, then commit to the behaviors to make that true.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:15 PM
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The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi is essential reading.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:04 PM
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If getting your stuff back is essential and the volume of all the items isn't crazy cumbersome I would entertain the idea of having her pack it up somewhere accessible when she's not home (assuming you're on good enough terms that she won't turn it into drama). Then plan to pick it up when the chance of encountering her is practically zero. I wouldn't drag third parties into it.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:50 AM
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Rollo specifically says that he considers RP as a strategy independent of political identity, even bemoaning the recent alt-right conflation in his 3rd book. However, any power dynamic is inherently political if only on a micro-level. Personally, I am fiscally conservative and socially liberal.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 09:30 PM
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Get some Oliver Peoples frames, worked for Patrick Bateman.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 01:05 PM
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Never self deprecate.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:03 PM
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Get her alone.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:15 PM
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You found RP at the perfect time. Girls your age aren't actively looking for provisioning, rather unmediated hindbrain tingles. You're also blessed with proximity, your encounter rate might only be higher in college. Plus they barely have an n count to scrutinize with. Having access to a car will undoubtedly be to your benefit, not that it has to be a lambo, but a means to whisk her away. Where to is a matter of creativity. Less is more. Otherwise you'll set the bar high as tryhard. Isolate, let…
/r/askTRP05/09/17 04:05 PM
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Anything you put over your well being you will loose.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:56 PM
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Nietzche, The Gay Science. Don't worry, it's not as gay as it sounds. Another brilliant collection of his aphorisms is Human All Too Human. I'd suggest reading either on kindle so you can have a pop up dictionary as dude is rather flamboyant with his vocab.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 03:54 PM
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Yeah, you can last for hours, but the closest you're going to come to getting off is sweating in her mouth.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 04:11 AM
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Wish I could upvote this twice.
/r/askTRP30/08/17 03:57 PM
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Thanks for the enlightenment, Left Eye.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:35 PM
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A French hertidage that attempts to reframe acient ideas as newly profound by virtue of castles of abstraction​ and ambiguity. Thankfully, this write up was extremely lucid.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:28 PM
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Excellent write up, self endorsement footnote and Lacan reference notwithstanding.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 01:25 AM
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Could you elaborate on what qualifies as non-traditional?
/r/ExRedPill13/08/17 12:47 AM
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Guess you haven't seen Jersey Shore.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:13 PM
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The parameters of this relationship are awfully confusing to me. You say that you've given commitment yet haven't agreed to the BF/GF label. What additional features does that label provide? As for your expectations of this girl to achieve the label, getting an A on a calculus exam, while an accomplishment, seems arbitrary, and beyond that something a parent, a father perhaps, would require. Which is curious in itself as you've made it a point to mention that she has no father. What does that me…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 04:39 PM
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While she's saying "you'll learn" she pushes his arm right off her, then he goes right back in to grab her. Uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 03:46 AM
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Rollo Tomassi is married too.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:05 PM
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I'm not trying to hamster False.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 01:03 PM
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Sex God Method pdf that's linked in the post is password protected. Anyone have the password?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 10:46 AM
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