polimore99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	suggestion - take it as you will		polimore99	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 10:09 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Men’s attraction vs. women’s attraction it’s not the same thing Can I offer the suggestion that its not a perfect split between men and women but rather just different people with different values. Some men may have a checklist and some women may not have any requirements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 10:25 AM
1	Scared of not finding another girlfriend due to luck or fate – if they exist No worries. I hope you enjoy yoga!	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 10:16 AM
1	Is it possible to decenter women as a man? Try and reframe the idea that you're doing things for validation instead of just hard quitting that mentality. Instead, you are "deep down" wanting to reflect traits and characteristics that you'd appreciate in a partner. "Deep down" you have values that you're trying to fulfil, especially to do with connection and bettering yourself. Work out what those are specifically, with a more positive outlook. Research concepts about living by your values and connecting to your values. It may help clarif…	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 09:56 AM
2	I’m looking for relationships for the wrong reason this is a protective impulse, if you think you messed up youre pulling back so youre not rejected, you dont need to do this. you think everyone is judgemental because you are to yourself, theyre not. stop trying to be have flawless communication. the only thing you can perfect is being yourself, and that includes messing up sometimes.	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 09:46 AM
1	I’m looking for relationships for the wrong reason as a woman in talking about guys crushes with friends there are many times ive been shocked by people they find attractive and they've been shocked by people i find attractive. a lot of girls aren't attracted to very muscular or alpha guys, some girls are, but way less than you'd think. also low value males dont exist , thats not a thing, i dont know any other way to put it. life isnt just about dating anymore, hows your job going? your friends? do you have hobbies you enjoy? no one is low value…	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 09:43 AM
1	Need help to exit this Endless redpill cycle all women dont prefer bad boys, most women dont prefer bad boys, the same can be said for nice guys, for the 4billion or whatever women in the world there is also 4 billion different types of "guys" they like or are interested in. also "bad boys" dont exist. no person is just one thing. being "bad" is just one trait out of hundreds a person has. real people are multi-faceted and complicated with good and bad qualities. what women like works down to compatibility, who they are and how they can ap…	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 09:29 AM
1	Scared of not finding another girlfriend due to luck or fate – if they exist i got taught when i was younger and afraid of making friends on the playground that i should start having fun, with my parents or my sibling, and other kids will want to join in, and everytime we started playing a game or started having fun some other kids would always join in. i think thats exactly what adult life and relationships are like but people dont notice. if you start feeling better and appreciating your own company more, people will want to be apart of that. and this is way easier sai…	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/25 09:13 AM