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Inner Game ponderousconfection/r/seduction11/08/21 01:54 PM
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As someone who knows nothing of your situation it sounds like you're doing the right things to heal - Creating boundaries to step away from toxic people, being honest with your thoughts and feelings (though careful of these online of course...I journal these), and looking forward for better solutions. ​ How did my life change? Man, SUPER hard to answer. I just started taking care of me...at first in the most simple ways possible. And it was stupid fucking hard at first. Like I couldn't do ANYTHI…
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:40 PM
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I've had to do an insane amount of work to overcome my abusive birthgiver. I hope you can too.
/r/seduction06/09/21 02:20 PM
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Hey thanks for responding. Was bummed this got downvoted as I was hoping for more feedback. ​ I love that quote. Yeah, I was starting to feel I was just going to be spending lots of energy chasing her...and for what? All I honestly wanted was to just to meet her and see if there was a connection. I'm feeling too old and tired to chase after someone who I haven't even met before...and, thankfully I have other options. I also think that when a relationship/connection starts to make you question yo…
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:55 PM
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Thanks for understanding. Right now I feel the ball is in her court. When I cancel plans, especially multiple times, I make the effort to find time to reconnect. If she really wants to meet me she'll make the effort. If not now worries, time to move on. ​ We'll see...
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:51 PM
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Good advice. I attempt to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but in this interaction I was also realizing I was feeling like a doormat...lowering my worth. I would say I'm butthurt a little. It's been a lot of back and forth to try to connect with her. If you've been single awhile you know this can go on forever if you let it (especially on the dating apps). At some point one has to determine if it's worth the time/energy. I guess I have other options that are willing to connect IRL so I'm …
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:46 PM
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Good advice. I attempt to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, but in this interaction I was also realizing I was feeling like a doormat...lowering my worth. I would say I'm butthurt a little. It's been a lot of back and forth to try to connect with her. If you've been single awhile you know this can go on forever if you let it (especially on the dating apps). At some point one has to determine if it's worth the time/energy. I guess I have other options that are willing to connect IRL so I'm …
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:46 PM
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