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Married 3 times? That’s wild lol
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/25 03:04 PM
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Hell she never fucked me when we were married lol…so the answer is no for me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 01:52 PM
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Hahaah yes!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 09:25 PM
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It was a joke mainly, most of the occupations I’ve listed have somewhat of a stereotype for being crazy….and believe me I have real time data to prove it…but honestly most women are the same
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 06:18 PM
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Fuck ya. I haven’t dabbled in women who are artists…. But I have compiled a list of ones to stay away from Horse chicks Teachers Hairdressers Nurses Married women Girls who work at the front desk of the gym Did I mention nurses???
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/25 03:35 PM
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You answered your question with the last question. Dude I went on more dates than I care to admit the first year. Pick a place that isn’t too fancy or expensive. Coffee shops, brunch restaurants, or maybe meet at a park. I spent so much money on dates that went nowhere. Women are so easy to talk to. They just like to feel wanted and actually paid attention to. Act genuine, ask questions, keep the conversation going, make her laugh…and you’re in. Don’t over explain, or talk about yourself. Just a…
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/25 10:24 PM
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This last part is the hundred percent truth. I’ve learned that I don’t need someone’s daughter nagging me about bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 10:00 PM
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Awesome!!!! Keep it up
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 10:02 PM
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Hey I lived with my grandparents for a few months until I got back on my feet and bought my house
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 07:55 PM
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Same thing with Venezuelan women too hahaha….i speak from experience
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 05:23 PM
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Oh for sure but I just feel like that was the very first red flag lol
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 09:17 PM
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Dude first two sentences should tell you all you need to know bro. 20 age gap? Wtf were you thinking
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 07:46 PM
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Haha same for me lol.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 07:45 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 01:48 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 01:48 AM
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The day after Christmas was the first time I knew she wanted to leave me…..we were at a family get together that she hated going to every year and this time she wanted to stay. When I asked her to leave she snapped on me…(never had that before). I had a suspicion something was off. So a few days later I poked and poked and she finally told me she was leaving me. But we “worked” on our marriage when she finally gave up mid February. I thought I would never recover I figured that I’d be to the poi…
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 09:46 PM
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Ya so it’s interesting. I lost my interest in hunting and fishing. And if you knew me you’d probably fall over…because I hunted 7 months out of the year non stop 24/7 (this is what lead to my divorce) And now my new hobby is for sure the gym! I’ve lost tons of weight and added muscle. But I’ve also fell in love with my career and chasing my dreams. I travel a lot for work and have moved into a larger role for my company.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/24 09:44 PM
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Man I’m sorry. I don’t have children at all. I know it’s not easy but I’m glad you have her with you
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 07:22 PM
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Same bro, same….
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 05:40 PM
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Ya I get it 100 percent. Unlike most I actually loved my in laws (I know lol). They were always good to me and treated me like their son.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 05:33 PM
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I had the same happen to me. She has been thinking about it for a long time before she told you. That’s ok it’s what women do. Just because she dropped it on you doesn’t mean she’s cheating on you, my ex wife didn’t cheat on me at all, she just fell out of love (she’s completely depressed now and has gained tons of weight). Stay strong as best as you can. If you can be civil about it, then do it. Try to be mature as possible because these women will turn on you if you get shitty with her, but al…
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 05:25 PM
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Being alone has been the hardest part for me. We were married 10 years together for 13. We never had children, so I don’t get the company of any kids, so be thankful you have them. I agree with the above and get a gym membership. It’s been the best thing that’s happened to me during this hard time (been divorced for 10 months). You’ll be surprised at the kind of attraction you get from women when you get in shape. Plus you may meet some other dudes at the gym that you can become friends with. My…
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 01:09 PM
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Thank you. It’s amazing what a little bit of self care does for you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 05:18 PM
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I lost 60 pounds and I walk with more confidence than ever! It does feel great to be looked at as an attractive man. When I was married I never ever got that kind of attention. Now I have ladies left and right.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 01:26 PM
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Dude this comment made my morning haha
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 01:25 PM
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My wife left me at the beginning of this year. I know this is so cliche. But you have to get in the gym if you aren’t already, and take care of yourself it’s slow but it will help you heal when you get self confidence. Don’t go searching for happiness, but strive to be better and become better and one day you will look around and say “wow I haven’t thought about her in awhile, I can’t believe how happy I am”
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 05:39 PM
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If you’re trying to find the love of your life….good luck. There are good girls out there but it’s really hard to find someone who isn’t talking to a million guys. I have had success with nice women and ones that aren’t completely nuts. It really is all about weeding through the good and bad lol
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 05:48 PM
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Ya so I just threw mine away. It was only like 200 dollars silver band, didn’t figure I’d get much money out of it. I would sell yours if it’s worth something. Also on that note. I got rid of all the pictures or anything that was given to me by her. It’s hard but it’s the right thing to do in my mind.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 02:28 PM
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Ya I’m 33 and date down to 28 and up to 40 and it’s pretty bad in general. Also if a woman smiles at you and actually talks to you then most likely she’s into you. I’ve picked up quite a few women…you can tell whether or not one is into you. You’ll get a feel for it. Don’t be shy and ask them out!
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 02:42 AM
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Keep building that confidence! You will get there!! Keep it up brother!
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 02:38 AM
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I have been divorced for 9 months now. Here’s my experience with the apps. I’ve had all of them…Hinge, bumble, tinder, Facebook dating, plenty of fish….its all the same crap. Have I met some nice women? Absolutely! Most of the women I have found on the apps…all have the same exact stories of abuse, abandonment, daddy issues etc. You really have to weed through the good and bad. And it’s mostly bad. I’ve had sex with so many women from these apps it’s insane. But if you are looking for something …
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 02:36 AM
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I’ll give you my 2 cents and my experience. If you aren’t in good shape or good looking apps tend to be hard for men, don’t get me wrong you will get matches and likes but it will be few and far between. For me once I got in shape and lost 45 pounds, took care of my self, I started getting tons of likes and matches every single day more than when I was heavier. It’s get repetitive because you have basically a check list of questions you get asked, and a lot of times you will start a conversation…
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 08:28 PM
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Man it’s so tough. I have my days that are hard. I’ve been separated/divorced for 7 months and it is not easy. I go weeks where I don’t think about her or the divorce. Then I have my days where I’m so fucking lost and confused.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 01:40 AM
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I’ll add that there are so many women out there that it’s funny we think we are “meant” to be with someone. Once you explore your options you will soon find a lot of women are similar. Get to the gym! I am telling you. I have transformed and attract way hotter women and my confidence is unmatched. Learn to talk to women. You have to be forward and truthful. At the same time learn to listen. Women love when a guy listens.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 05:04 PM
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That was the hardest thing I had to do. I promise it will be ok!
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 01:12 AM
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Let’s fucking get it!!!! Leave the haters and fuckheads in the rear view mirror!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 04:01 PM
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I agree with all of it. It’s the journey and seeing the changes along the way. The confidence I have in my body and my looks. I have my goal in front of me!
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 01:26 AM
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Absolutely!! I’m glad to hear you are done fucking around and getting back at it!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 12:35 PM
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You are gonna come back bigger, and better than ever!!!!! In due fucking time!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 11:06 PM
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Keep fucking going!!!!! You got this!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 11:06 PM
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Hahahaah I didn’t include the fucking part, because it’s been the same for me too lol
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 11:06 PM
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100 percent. Believe me I had zero energy. It just takes that one day where you just say fuck it and get up and go.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 08:41 PM
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Who needs to walk anyways?? Fuck it go all out. I’ve had so many times where I could barely walk or lift my arms up because my lats were so sore.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 08:40 PM
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You’re welcome! Fucking get after it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 07:17 PM
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Age ain’t nothing but a number. Hiking burns so many calories! It’s great cardio and it great for posterior chain
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 07:17 PM
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Hey it’s all about doing what makes you happy and keeps you going.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 07:11 PM
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Keep after it. Keep pushing. Don’t fucking stop!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:51 PM
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Facts!!!! That’s all we speak around this mother fucker
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:45 PM
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Glad to see you are doing better!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:45 PM
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Smash the fucking weights!!! Become that sidewalk cracking motherfucker!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:44 PM
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Keep pushing!!!! Fuck the bullshit lock the fuck in!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:44 PM
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Nothing but facts here.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:43 PM
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Great work. You’re in the groove now. Don’t fucking stop! Fuck it!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:43 PM
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Yes sir!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:43 PM
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Let’s fucking go!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 05:42 PM
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You’re welcome. I pray you find the peace and happiness you deserve.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 03:07 AM
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Hahahahahahaha. Bro I lost it!!!! That was me this weekend with a few women minus the weights and we were both naked
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:22 AM
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100 percent!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:00 AM
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Proud of you brother. Keep it up. I bet you feel great, keep fucking going!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:00 AM
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It’s not but I’ll tell you like Chris Jones of Physiques of Greatness said….. “Arms lookin like slabs of meat, so them hoes will be at your feet”
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 12:59 AM
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Absolutely!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 12:59 AM
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I am so happy to see this touched a nerve with so many. I was 245 I’m down to 199. I was on a downhill dive and I literally couldn’t do anything but drink and cry…..I finally got up one day and did 20 pushups. I felt like a million dollars….so I said fuck it and started jump roping the longest I could and started doing kettlebell swings. Just start simple….20 minutes a day. Nothing more nothing less. Stick with it. Don’t complicate it. walk. Run. Jump rope. Do pushups. Whatever you feel works. O…
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 12:58 AM
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Thank you for the kind words. I am down 45 pounds and best shape of my 30s. It’s such a mental and confidence booster. It feels good to know there are women that are attracted to you. Hardest part is not letting the flattery get to your head
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 10:18 PM
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I have slept with quite a few since my wife left me. I was in a dead bedroom situation for a long time. I’ve always had high sex drive but the ex didn’t match. I was amazed once I met so many women that could out do me
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 10:16 PM
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33 years old. Married for 10 together for 13
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 01:42 AM
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First red flag….. they are a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 08:02 PM
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You’re allowed to feel like this
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/24 03:36 AM
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I started on the apps about 2 months after she left me. But never dated anyone, just went out on cheap dates and fooled around with a few. I’m 6 months in and I’m on and off the apps. Still don’t have it in me to date anyone long term
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 03:08 AM
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One that I like from a good friend of mine is “just remember you are allowed to feel like this” It reminds me that it’s ok to be down, I should be l, because of what I have been through. I’m mainly happy but the days I’m not, I repeat that quote above and it helps me get through.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/24 02:16 AM
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Let’s get it son!
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 02:08 AM
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Thank you so much for all of the comments and advice. It is much appreciated!!!
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 03:03 PM
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Ya it makes no sense now lol. She said that when she left. It’s been 7 months now and I think she realizes she fucked up. Meanwhile I’ve been with five different women so far.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 12:37 AM
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Ya it was tough, especially when she said “I’m not attracted to you anymore” that really killed me.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 12:20 AM
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Bingo. We promised to “fix” it and she took off weeks later. Still doesn’t make sense…oh well
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 11:11 PM
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Thank you for the words of encouragement! I’ll check that site out right now
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 11:09 PM
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Ya we grew apart. We both loved each other but I just didn’t pull my weight and I was too worried about other shit. But ya for sure she knows she should of spoke up sooner and tried to stick around to fix it, but she took off
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 11:09 PM
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Grew apart. I am gone a lot (work and hobbies) and we just grew apart.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 11:08 PM
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We aren’t really talking at all, 99 percent business (sale of home, finances etc) but when we have had to meet in person she tells me she misses me and admits she made a mistake
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/24 11:07 PM
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I got divorced without kids at 33. Dating is different because everyone has kids and is divorced so it’s weird, but at 25 you’ll find some hot women to run around with. You got your whole life ahead of you
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 01:11 AM
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Love to see it! I’ve followed a similar path as you! I’ve dropped 37 pounds and been working my ass off to look good. It feels great going out and getting more attention because of the weight I’ve lost. I still have dark times of loneliness and sadness, but I always come through the other side of it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/24 01:49 PM
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Ya once you get back to it, it’s a breeze. I was married 12 years total and just got divorced this new year. You’re gonna go through so many emotions and women on the apps lol. I swear something is in the water with these women these days. But only do it if you are ready! I made the mistake by jumping in about a month after my wife left me. I started getting feelings and had to run far away from these women until I’m ready ready
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/24 12:39 AM
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Didn’t even read all of this. It’s over bro. Leave her, fuck her and her “mental affair”…..I’m harsh but she’s been fucking that dude.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/24 03:30 PM
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Well for me it was a lot of reflection, taking accountability of all my mistakes I made during the marriage, self care, and putting myself before anyone else. When it happens to you, at the end of the day all you have is yourself, you will have a lot of time to think about the things you did wrong and right. I suggest maybe a journal or just jotting some notes down. Also for me was hitting the gym. I don’t know where you are fitness wise, but I was overweight, once I started to lose weight I fel…
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 02:45 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 05:07 AM
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I hope you continue to grow and heal. Thank you for the kind words
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 02:18 AM
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Thank you so much for the kind words.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 02:18 AM
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Thank you for the kind words it means so much
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 02:17 AM
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Thanks brother
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 10:01 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 10:01 PM
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Bro I’m hurting bad reading this. I am literally going through this. I’m gonna be out of the house Wednesday and I’m not ready. I’ve lived here on my own since January and I’ve been pretty good. But now reality has set in that I will never live here again and won’t have the luxuries I once had. I came from a broken home as a kid so this house is a benchmark of success for me and it’s all ripped away. Fuck this hurts
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 04:51 AM
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Thanks for the advice pal.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 05:36 PM
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Bro it hit my ego so hard. We do have identical stories lol. Unfortunately it’s very common these days. I got with my now ex wife back in 2012, and I tell ya…dating is totally different these days. I swear it’s because of Tik Tok and how much social media has taken over the way people act and perceive things.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 02:28 AM
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So my wife and I had a dead bedroom for awhile and she flat out told me she hadn’t been attracted to me for a year or better. I just got divorced this January and it was like a month after we split I was on dating apps because I was trying to fill the void of her missing because I still was in love with her. I didn’t go on a date until a month later. I realized once these girls wanted something I was ghosting them because I’m not ready for a commitment. As soon as they tried to get close to me i…
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 01:25 AM
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Ya it’s tough. I’m 33 decent looking enough (my ex was pretty hot), but you have to cycle through some ugly ones for sure. Also it’s annoying repeating the same thing over and over with women. Get used to matching with girls and never hearing from them ever lol
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 12:23 AM
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Yes they do, but you are gonna go through a lotttttt of ugly chicks liking you all the time. I’ve had 2 dates with 2 different women and fucked both of them lol. I wouldn’t look for your soul mate though
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 12:22 AM
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Too late bro. It’s over I hate to say it but she’s right it’s too late. My ole lady left me for the exact same thing…wanted me to more grocery shopping, cleaning, helping around the house. I was an idiot and didn’t see the signs. Once she told me she wanted to work on things I tried my best to be the greatest husband….didnt matter she left anyway
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 01:30 PM
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Dude this! As I said, I have dated around and I have told all the women that I will not change my hunting and fishing time for anyone. Fuck that!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 11:54 PM
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I’m gonna sound like and old fart…I’m 33. But fucking social media has shown this false reality of what marriages and relationships should look like. Also if you look at TikTok especially, there’s so many women and men on there bashing each side and putting ideas into people’s heads about how your spouse should treat you. We are a shitty culture (USA) that doesn’t value people’s time or effort. We jump from one thing to the next. It’s sad but true.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 02:12 PM
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Absolutely. I should’ve of known but hell it didnt matter she left me like less than a month later
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 02:09 PM
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I’m glad there are other hunters that get it. Women don’t understand it at all. We aren’t cheating and aren’t talking to other women. We are more obsessed with critters than anything
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 02:07 PM
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I am gone every weekend and gone weeks at a time out west or up north
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 02:06 PM
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Thank you for the advice. It’s actually funny because my friend is going through the beginning of his divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 12:53 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 11:58 PM
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Thank you brother
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 09:16 PM
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Bingo.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 01:38 AM
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