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poplin01/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:34 PM
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poplin01/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 09:15 AM
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Yeah, I’m gonna give myself a break, sort of work on developing into a better person (even in the way i treat other around me ). I think I was a bit naive and didn’t realise that everyone gets their feelings hurt sometimes in relationships and it’s not fair to dump that emotional baggage on another person. Thank you for the advice!
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 02:05 PM
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Yeah it’s a lot of confirmation bias and bullsh*t. I’ve sabotaged many relationships because of the insecurities this brought me. It’s sort of a hard habit to kick because it feels so good to think you have a reason or a solution to someone’s actions but really it’s just a coping mechanism. Thanks for the advice.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 02:02 PM
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This is a good point, I think the area I grew up in and even female members of my family really skewed my view on relationships and women. Through a lot of friendships/colleagues etc. ive learnt that this view is really narrow-minded. Hopefully, I am starting to work towards being more understanding of others perspectives now though since this isn’t really a good way to live otherwise. Thank you for the advice!
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 01:59 PM
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Yeah, i’ve realised that gaming relationships are really toxic. If someone likes you they’ll like you, if someone doesn’t they won’t. Also realised that people with useful outlooks and relationships don’t go on those forums so it’s just a bunch of losers telling other losers what to do. I think I do need to practice more abundance in my life too, maybe even some weird attachment issues I have, but definitely good advice. Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/22 01:55 PM
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I agree, was in the same boat in high school watching lots of porn. Figured i’d take a break as I got older and got to experience wonderful relationships with beautiful women who i would have never considered before.
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:59 PM
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Who knows, but probably lowers as it deviates from average.
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:39 PM
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Source? Most studies I found back up my point. Also, ~>50% of men are married by 30 in the UK, so 27% of the other 50% is around 13% of the initial population who will then be virgins. Again backing up my point. And wtf is a “chad”.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:55 PM
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I’m calling BS on this one. Unless you’re somehow horribly disfigured, poor, hopeless with women or somehow have incredibly high standards. This is not true. I even see the most awkward guys at my uni getting action ( from equally awkward women tbf ). Some of you guys need to stop putting pussy on a pedestal. EDIT: some stats to back it up. With average lifespan being 70+ it is a dismissible amount of people who are virgins above the age of 40, and most people losing their virginity before 20. A…
/r/seduction07/05/22 08:35 PM
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each day this sub strays further down the spectrum
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:27 AM
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Probably, game is the wrong word. But if you are truly a 7/10 there has to be something wrong with with your social calibration. There’s a lot of factors at play here, but 7/10s avg 20% success rate in getting numbers.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:32 PM
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Fair, but there is a high amount of disparity between the way you look and the way other people think you look. Qoves went into some detailed studies on this in a video coincidentally called “EVERYONE can't be a '7/10'...can they?!”. The reason I bring this up is because if you are a true 7/10 ( using r/truerateme chart for reference ) you would be attractive enough to be a high street/retail model. With pickup, especially short pick ups, this is the biggest factor at play. You should have way h…
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:08 PM
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Hey, what are you basing your 7/10 SMV on, do you have a picture of yourself? i’m curious
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:02 PM
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as long as you stay for breakfast you’re all good
/r/seduction17/04/22 07:00 PM
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My best guess would be she has a very good personality and forms these types of bonds with a lot of people. Unluckily for you she may also have formed this type of bond with a guy she matched with more, happens a lot more than you think and is definitely not a reflection of you so probably wouldn’t feel too bad about it.
/r/seduction17/04/22 06:40 PM
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nah i’m saying there was probably a 100 more videos just like those that she didn’t forget to delete. OPs friend woulda been traumatised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 03:25 PM
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I guess those are just the ones she forgot to delete lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:32 AM
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i want to see FDS get in on this, i feel like they’re bound to have some strange overlap with rp and bp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:05 PM
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My hobbies include pornhub, breakfast, youtube and reddit. It is clear I am superior to these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:51 PM
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haha elaborate
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:40 PM
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Honestly BJ’s feel better than any pussy, and all I gotta do is sit there and enjoy. Honestly don’t know why anyone would complain.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:34 PM
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Maybe it was the alcohol, or even if he was on some coke or something. Super over the top considering getting head > fucking, he sounds like a knob.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 05:29 PM
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Nah bro he needs to go to prison to be a true alpha
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:48 PM
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U are aware of how autistic hs kids will literally take ur advice as gospel
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:53 PM
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R u guys trying to get this kid kicked out of school or some shit, jesus christ.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:19 PM
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Or you most likely would catch a case, don't listen to this dude OP.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 06:18 PM
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Honestly, it’s a major part of the psychological aspect in taking the first step, acknowledging the problem and feeling heard.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 10:38 AM
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I’m pretty left leaning but I would 1000% be ok with owning a gun for home safety. That’s not even to do with politics it just feels like common sense. Just looks like she was looking for a reason to break up with you.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 02:04 PM
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Actions speak louder than words, and ur acting like a bitch rn.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:46 PM
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Get her loads of presents and tell her how much you love her and ho you can’t stop thinking about the butt pics she’s sent you. Also beg her to not talk to the other guy because it will make you cry, then tell her even if she decides to get with the other guy you will not talk to any other girl and wait for her. Is that what you want to hear?
/r/askTRP19/05/21 04:42 PM
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You don’t have to ignore, the whole point of trp is to have enough going on in your life that you don’t care
/r/askTRP19/05/21 08:58 AM
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If these people are that worried about covid they should certainly not be at the gym
/r/askTRP16/05/21 09:40 AM
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The face fat when I’m bulking is so sad but ik I’m coming out the other side looking better
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:34 AM
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Sadly. Some guys get over-emotional like that too. Either he will mature and learn that he made a mistake or he will stay the same person which means you dodge a bullet.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 09:17 AM
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MGTOW is for guys who don't get any action. Everyone is thirsty af in highschool and college, it gets a bit better later on but most guys learn that shit doesn't work by the time they reach their mid 20s
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:33 AM
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“why do you think this topic annoys you so much” - the guy who left multiple long rambling incoherent paragraphs on the topic Lmaoooo
/r/askTRP26/04/21 07:29 PM
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You’re a pathetic incel bro get a life.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:22 PM
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You have problems, gtfo of here with that incel bs.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:55 AM
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How’s he a cuck, it’s a dick move on her part but it’s the truth. This is what you get from an arranged marriage tf do u expect.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:53 AM
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Fr man, these kids are so stupid, they have no idea what trp is about.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:47 AM
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Jesus Christ this is so autistic
/r/askTRP26/04/21 05:43 AM
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Dude I’m not trying to press you here but trust me, if she’s hot, there’s 100% going to be guys hotter than you, richer than you, fitter than you and more popular than you hitting her up all the time at college. About 95% of relationships I know people had coming into uni, broke up by first year/ cheated on their partners(both guys and girls). And the other 5% weren’t great either. If you’re willing to put up with this it’s your choice. I think if you do want to stay with her you should, but be …
/r/askTRP23/04/21 05:21 PM
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You’re delusional, if you’re in the top 20% of guys on tinder u slay pus, many male celebs even use it when going from city to city.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:20 PM
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Don't *need* them but still use them, unless they're retarded.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:05 AM
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OP, stop cutting and start bulking. Your ribs are showing detail which is a decent indication of your bf, you can pretty much start bulking. You can slowly start to increase you lifts every month i.e. week 1 base 1rm + 5kg week 2 base 1rm + 8kg week 3 base 1rm + 10kg week 4 base 1rm + 5kg week 5 base 1rm + 8kg week 6 base 1rm +10kg week 7 base 1rm + 12kg week 8 base 1rm + 8kg This is just an example table ive used for myself, notice every 4th week we reset to what we were lifting at the start st…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:19 AM
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You have to be on your A game 24/7. Did you lose your job? Gained weight? Acted all soft and insecure? Etc. This. Man I don't get why so many virgins and incels big up relationships so much. They're fucking brutal, especially in your 20's, and way more trouble than they're worth.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:03 AM
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Also, if she's rich he could pull the old reverse sugar daddy marriage and divorce her for half her net worth lmao
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:38 PM
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I enjoy games a lot and have played a lot as a child, but now I only really play socially. It's a pretty good way to bond with male friends, and I've even played with some of plates in the past. I think if you play too much, taking up a sport can really help distract you and help you channel your competitiveness.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:36 PM
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Tbf there is a lot of sound advice on this sub and trp in general, but a lot of new people are those who have been suddenly disillusioned about this fantasy about women that has been sold to them through the media and their parents. Their whole view on relationships almost shatter and this goes on to become anger etc. i.e. For OP, it's obvious she doesn't value his time/doesn't find him attractive enough, so he should just try and find another girl who does. That simple.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:26 PM
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He didn't just shit where he ate, bought a shit sandwich to work and ate it.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:43 AM
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So is the young adult years you are wasting on being a book worm at college for a useless piece of paper that will put you in debt for a job that probably wont exist or be outsourced to India, and the only opportunity men have to fuck the thin hot not yet post wall 20 year old chicks,. This is a pretty bs statement. This is what dumb kids who didn't get degrees say to cope.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:55 PM
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Who shat in your cheerios mate.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:42 PM
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I feel like half the posts on here are statements re-worded as questions.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:40 PM
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Dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:36 AM
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Also, a weird way to shoehorn trans people into the conversation.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:25 AM
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U could post this to the cuck subreddit and they would tell you to get rid of her.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:25 PM
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Sometimes fall asleep, IG on my phone, when I wake up the app is open already when I unlock it so it would be something like last active 6 am. Unless OP was checking her Insta throughout the night.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:05 PM
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That fact that OP even made this post shows her dread game is working lmao
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:55 PM
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I mean a bit of mutual validation is expected in an LTR, especially a marriage. Seems like OP is trying to get it from the wrong person.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 04:33 PM
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Yeah exactly, I've been both below 10% bf and above 20%, getting down from 20% was hell, especially when you get into certain eating habits.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:54 AM
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Yeah social media is a good tool to meet people tbh, just have to find the right circle. Big fish small pond kind of thing.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:44 AM
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Yeah I’m not sure I would do it to any of my friends cos they might not be able to regulate their emotions as well as me but I’m not butthurt with them passing around an LTR I’ve nexted, definitely doesn’t make them low value.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:20 PM
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I feel that
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:16 PM
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True, it definitely depends on the friend group. On your point about reputation I think as long as none of them are trying to LTR ur ex it doesn’t matter I.e. that chick got passed around the whole crew vs damn those dudes chasing after the same girl.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 02:15 PM
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That’s fair, it definitely depends on your friend group, but it sounds a lot like oneitis if you really care that much.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:37 PM
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I have, and that’s why I can back up my opinion. One of my friends asked if he could get with my ex of three years about a month after we broke up and honestly I didn’t really care. I’d already moved on and he was pretty cool about it. If you’re attaching all these feelings and emotions to someone who has nothing to do with you anymore, you are failing at RP. As long as they’re being respectful (not talking shit about me etc.) they’re free to do whatever they want. You’re showing a serious scarc…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:04 PM
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Yeah I get you, but usually I don't consider those people friends.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:00 PM
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Also to add on to that I think it’s only fine if both parties are cool with it I.e. if my friend says he’s not emotionally ready to let me do that, bros before hoes.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 09:12 AM
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Fair. Only reason I mentioned it is cos it is a trp subreddit, and that pretty much goes against rp principles. Interested to see where other ppl stand on this though , think this would make a good post tbh.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 09:08 AM
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What principles? Certainly not RP principles, let ur boy have seconds while u get with other women. Talk about how good her head is over a nice cold beer if you want haha. Gotta remember, she was never your girl, it was just your turn bro.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:53 AM
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Why would you not let one of your friends fuck your ex, it was never your girl just your turn? It just seems pretty RP to me. I agree with not stealing girls your mates brought into the friend group though, seems grimy.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:44 AM
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I honestly would not give a shit if one of my boys fucks my ex, mate guarding gives of such bitch boy energy
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:39 AM
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For real, I understand the appeal of open relationships but I haven’t got a single clue why someone would get so invested in one wtf.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 08:35 AM
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Isn’t that what they say about us taking the red pull
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:29 PM
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He’s just negging you bro, u should obvs give him that thicc pipe he wants so bad.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:01 PM
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Its theorised that women look for the strongest partner in addition to a partner who is likely monogamous as it would be in their best interests when raising children. It’s quite a fascinating topic with a lot of nuances.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:57 PM
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Rage faze man, it’s so cringe when you see others going through it, but it’s pretty much everything they’ve been taught in life crumbling in on itself.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:48 PM
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I’d say cold as ice on him if anything, *weirdo from work (seeing as he’s hung up on a lass from a place he doesn’t even work at anymore) messages * ** quickly thinks of polite way to reject him so he doesn’t stalk and kill me**
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:38 PM
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Muay Thai taught me I was way worse at fighting than I thought in my head, so if anything he should join to see how easy it is to get your ass kicked.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:31 PM
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I’d go tell the bouncer to get them banned
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:27 PM
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Exactly. She is most definitely going to lead you on and ghost you again if you pursue this, if she had no consideration for your feelings before so they won’t magically appear over a few months. (Also if you do end up going out with her, as I know you newbies end up doing, make it clear you just wanna fuck and if she doesn’t just leave her be)
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:21 PM
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What about the show stood out to you?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:55 PM
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Honestly idk if everyone here is old as shit or something, but social media is amazing for getting laid. Got like 2 good pictures on my Instagram but I post stories when I’m doing cool shit/ at cool places and about 70% of the time I’ll get guys and girls swiping up and messaging to hang out or asking where it is etc.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 09:52 PM
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women like men for status and money, not looks Yeah that's the point I was trying to prove, an ugly face for a guy means fuck all if they have a good frame.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:40 AM
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Oh yeah that’s reasonable to feel disrespected, but it’s all about the way we respond. If you genuinely are hurt, pull back, dread game or even next her if you want. The one thing you don’t do in this situation is confront her. This is either her being rude as a shit test, seeing if you lose frame/gauging your insecurities. Or just her making a shit joke. Either way, by confronting her about it will show you care more than she does and make you look butthurt. At the end of the day, it’s your cho…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:17 AM
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First off, stop being pathetic. Second, get buff anyway. Better to be a buff guy with an ugly face than an ugly fat guy. Most the rugby team in my uni have a face like a dogs arse but get the most women out of everyone. Social proof, physical fitness and maybe a bit of money is all that should matter for guys.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:38 AM
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Also coming from a “FaMiLy oF LaWyErS” doesn’t make you rich, she only sees your value as a man from what you have built for yourself. It seems she hit an insecurity of yours and now you feel like bitching out. Do you think Jeff Bezos would start crying and trying to prove how rich his daddy is if someone said this to him? Nope, he would laugh it off and go on with his day. Work on yourself, get money and some inner confidence till this shit won’t faze you bro.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:32 AM
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I have a friend who is negative a lot of the time and honestly, everyone finds it pathetic when they see him wallow in self pity. There’s nothing wrong with being positive (even though it makes you feel vulnerable) it’s just much more enjoyable to be around.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:21 AM
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Yeah that’s what I thought at first, if she is cheating she’s using this as a cope to make you look like the bad guy. Or maybe even creating an excuse to go cheat. Sounds toxic af.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:15 AM
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He probably just mad his bro keeps staring at his body pillow some type way
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:12 AM
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Tbf just sounds like a stupid kid brother, like how all your friends turn to comedians when you bring girls around. The best thing to do is probably get him in shape, more confident so he can go get his own women.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:07 AM
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I knew an Indian girl like this, and basically what it was just she wasn’t used to sex/ hadn’t experienced or anything and sex was painful at first. Take time, if she struggling try talk through how to make it more enjoyable, if she still isn’t able to you can just find a new girl if ur not sexually compatible.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 07:54 AM
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AWALT, but it’s more a comfort thing “I could do better, I’m the best she could get” type thing.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:21 PM
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It’s so amazing to see pussy blindness from an outside perspective.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:13 PM
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Jack of to myself jacking off is the new msra
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:07 PM
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So ur ltr is so completely satisfied by chads cock she dgaf what you do with other women, and you think this is a good thing?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 12:21 PM
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I’ve been harassed as a man, on the street and in clubs. Not in a sexual way, but in a guy wanting to pick a fight, pulling knives and racial etc. And most guys I know have been in the same situations. So I have no doubt most women have been in a situation where they feel sexually harassed. It doesn’t mean 90% of men are rapists it’s just the men who are affect a lot of women. So we shouldn’t really try and disprove women in this instance imo.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:36 AM
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