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| 39 | Sis, runIs not what they said it’s how they chose to “equalize” the money. Rather than say helping out with living expenses because of their increased dual income. A 401k is retirement, so yea he doesn’t get to spend that money and he can’t just transfer it to him if he’s low on cash or wants to use it for something, but he’s effectively saving 20k a year while not contributing to the household. This is then his retirement, sure he can leave her or any children as a beneficiary but he can also do whatev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 22 | “Build with him”Depends on where you live, a lot of people live in these High CoL places. But my Partner’s brother just got basically our apartment (2br 2bth)in Ohio for 60k as a house. That same house in our part of the woods would be about 500k and upwards of 800k if you’re in the “richer” neighborhoods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 97 | “Build with him”When I was dating my Ex. One day I met husband boss/ CEO once and his wife. I spoke to them for 20 mins and then I turned to my ex, so is this wife 2 or 3. He laughed said 2 and asked how I could tell His boss started this company 8ish years ago. was talking about all this money he had, and the ranch out here needs XYZ and how their house out in the burbs’ needs a new deck to accommodate their new boat. Yes his house opens on the water and he has a deck in his backyard. She also looks slightly y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 41 | “Build with him”This is why “building with men” needs to be let’s build side by side. Most of these “building with a man” shits is women sacrificing their own whatever to help some woman’s son realize his dream or goals. I feel like you can support you partner without Losing yourself or sacrificing your own hustle/ build. So many women “give” their partner stuff thinking they will forever be along for the ride. Forgetting who they are and most devastatingly, don’t have any of their own money. They believe that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:39 PM |
| 15 | Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!!At least he got flame roasted in the comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 104 | To all the scrotes who claim "WoMeN BoDy ShAmE MoRe ThAn MeN" - This famous tweet- written by a man about a young girl's body. So check yourself, sit down and shut up! Your lack of self-reflection is astounding. Women are PEOPLE, not objects.Yup same with Masie Williams from GoT. Dudes literally wondering if they’ll see her naked in the final season since she’ll be legal. Same with Emma Watson, literally rubbing their hands together hoping she’s in a movie where they can see her naked I know some of these men are close in age but many are like 30+ and it’s just predatory They refuse to see it as predatory and says she’s a legal adult. yes drooling over a 17yr old while hovering a hand over your penis waiting for her to turn 18 so yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Please don't give them any more excuses..A MOM WHO BABYS THEIR SON AND SAYS HE’LL “find a nice woman” TO DO THOSE THINTS FOR HIM LATER IN LIFE IS NOT “abuse” ITS CODDLING! Good lord Men will be the first to say no one owes you shit and you gotta do things yourself Until it comes to learning how to do laundry, then it’s a sob story about their childhood? Thought you were an adult, adults shouldn’t be reliant on other people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 40 | “This is the future that FDS wants!!” 😂Yup! I told my ex that maybe we could try anal. Once! once! Never bought it up again and he never mentioned it. Until we were in a fight about what he wasn’t doing for me. Example getting me cards for holiday, birthday, special occasions. A fucking cards that’s it! I bring it up and it’s “well I mean we talked about having anal you promised and you never did!” So I don’t deserve a card on my birthday ? K | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 175 | “It is hard to respect yourself when you are being forced to pick up the garbage of another human being. An adult.”I was just about to post something related to this, but ima just do it in this comment section haha, I am TIRED of women who want to pat themselves on the back because they “trained” their partner after years of yelling, “nagging ” ripping his head off, ultimatums, and doing petty shit like just not doing his laundry. oh this worked he finally listened, it only took me screaming at the top of my lungs and abandoning him like a puppy for him to figure it out My friend is currently dealing with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 36 | The other "female" subreddits are disingenuous.It was pretty wild he ran out there with a bat and everything he was ready to do damage. We got the Plate and called the police, but he just sat out there with her for probably an hour while she cried and just let her calm down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 105 | The other "female" subreddits are disingenuous.If he followed you home and knows where you live you are no longer safe. WTF is wrong with these dudes. In HS a girl called one of her friends in the morning to meet her out in the parkin lot because a man was following her and she was scared. Like crying scared. She had no idea where to go but she didn’t want to stop somewhere in public with ppl she didn’t know. She was already on her way to school anyway so she came. Our English teacher literally sprinted out to the parking lot when he found o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 71 | Update: I dumped him!Good for you! I’m not gonna sit here and harp on the red flags, because you got out and that’s all that matters. However him being 6yrs older than you especially that young is interesting, and the waiting till he propose to tell you about his fetish... suspect. His fetish doesn’t trump your comfort! What is wrong with these men. hypocrites; If roles were reversed Itd be a “nah dude that’s weird y’all just aren’t sexually compatible and that’s ok!” “How can you want to peg you!? You shouldn’t hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 82 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.economy affects women more. Women on average will spend more money than men on “misc.” products, Not to mention in some (many?) countries hygiene products are taxed as a luxury. I get very tired of getting into this argument with men because they just assume we’re spending more because we like nice things, I mean I do but this isn’t the case. Makeup, I don’t wear it everyday, Only on special occasions but I know woman who do, and woman who have to because of the type of job they have. Just re-up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 21 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.Because as this sub as said plenty of times before MEN ARE SELFISH. My ex was one of those guys that when he cums and can’t stay hard he’ll be like “sorry sorry sorry awww sorry” rather than just doing Anything else to help. Like well my hammers broken so idk how ima get this screw into the wall. I don’t cum from PIV and would use his member for clitoral stimulation only for him to try to shove it inside at the last minute. What, The, Fuck. But if he didn’t cum, I should feel bad, or somethings … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 8 | One of the top posts today on this hellsite... a man chasing his wife around with a lobster (repeated every year). This is male humor! Why do men love/take such pleasure in scaring and physically menacing women?Yuppp I saw that post and almost commented Wow and when she stabs you I’m sure you’ll be so confused and say “it’s just a prank bro” I’m sort of very tired that our trauma seems to be a revolving joke. I know being scared of a lobster probably ain’t considered trauma but the fact thar she’s scared and tryin to get away should be enough to stop it It’s just so fucking annoying. And like someone said if he thinks you being scared is funny when you’re in legit danger he won’t help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:39 AM |
| 9 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanThis is reallly sad.. your worth shouldn’t be based on how anyone else but yourself sees you. There’s been this uptick in woman (millennial women) posting about Gen Z (is thar who’s behind us? Lol). How they aren’t gonna take skinny jeans or side parts away or whatever. Someone pointed out this is American woman getting scared of aging because in American “culture” your “value” as a woman goes down the older you get Where as in other cultures older women are celebrated, your wiser, a matriarch w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 46 | Only a scrote would do this 🤢I... lmao what the fuck “Hello 911 state your emergency” “My Gf won’t have sex with me I need you to get her out of the house” What the FUCK Also why is the operator dispatching someone . I guess at this point for the woman’s safety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 6 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceI am so so so soo sorry this happened to you. Also there’s no such thing as “just spit” I’m not going to compare it rape, but he did violate your body. IMO spitting is like the lowest thing you can do. I can’t even explain how disgusting and horrible that is. You have every right to feel upset You should fire a police report, write down what you remember as it comes to you (what he looked like. color of bike, area it happened) Do whatever you need for self care! Soak in the tub, watch your fav m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 5 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!Yup! Agreed, I said this when I was arm chair diagnosing 90day fiancé A lot of men like to say that woman take any little thing and “blow it out of proportion” Like nah some of us think about what that “little thing” can grow into and what it looks like 10yrs down the line when you’re married, have kids and major expenses Men love to tell their partners who have legit concerns to live in moment and forget the past or in layman’s terms “stop bringing up old shit” I know there’s always exceptions … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 11 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!Will do! My Apologies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 192 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!For real, SCAMMMMEDDD I commented that this is what woman talk about when they speak about it “unpaid labor” If I go to work, the gym (something I want to do for myself) and then have to go grocery shopping that’s basically 12-13hrs of my day gone. Then I gotta cook,clean, and get 8hrs This may be the weed talking, but I wonder if this is why so many men get these “high demanding” jobs as an excuse to continue to slack on house hold choirs. A lot of guys I know pride themselves on working 10+ ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 453 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!I read this post that actually got me heated. This woman makes 55k to her Husbands 155k. They put the same amount of money (not percentages THE SAME) into a joint bank account that they use to pay for bills (mortgage, utilities) However. She does all the grocery shopping which she pays for OUT OF POCKET, not from the joint account. She then said she does all the meal prep and work, she even does all the yard work. She also pays for their pets expenses again. Out of her own pocket. She also does … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 02:04 PM |
| 32 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPGirl I could rant on my experience as a WoC and dating in the PNW It’s... interesting. It’s weird to see a self claimed “progressive” city to just filled with NIMBYs (not in my back yard) and then self righteous assholes. Lots of dudes from the big tech companies who honestly think their job is the ultimate catch. Like ok congrats you are a Bezos slave, I know that salary is V Nice but a personality is too. Lol I don’t wanna talk about my work on a date bro!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 13 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELP😭😭 the sad thing is I like hiking but it’s not personality nor can I get down with weekly 3hr drives Like I have to like you to want to do all that haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 90 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPAs someone who use to live in Seattle, what they tried to push on me as attractive was just... lmao idk lol Like I guess if all you’ve ever seen your whole life is skinny tech bro, then yea you’d be attracted to it haha but it was just so average? Also so many want to take you hiking... no thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 13 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.Yup. When I played softball I always kept my bat, mitt and balls in the Trunk of my car, it would occasionally get in the way and ppl would ask why I kept it loose in the car. It was because I could do some serious damage with some of those bats and If asked about it if I needed to beat someone, I just “came back from softball practice” It wasn’t a weapon “laying in wait” I also feel a lot of this is “illegal” but I don’t think I’ve seen someone actually get punished for it. The first time I’ve … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 34 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.Preach!!! First off congrats girl let’s get it! I’m on the weight loss portion but I’ve been doing a lot of weightlifting over the last 3yrs. Before covid my max one rep DL was 350lb I really really wanted to work on upper body strength so when I was able to strict press 110lb I was so fucking hyped! When I first started to weight lift my mom asked if I was “concerned” about getting too big or too muscly. If I’m being honest, it hit me a little harder than I thought. I know she wasn’t trying to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Why didn't we ever learn about warrior women in school? Our history books were exclusively about men. I would have loved to play 'warrior women' with my friends instead of playing house :(I want to brag on my school for a second. Because I did and 2 girls my senior year of HS did their thesis about powerful women during epic empires. One wrote about warrior women, the other about mistresses and escorts to royal and Nobel men. Someone described my high school as a school for young hippies, and I believe that haha I really want to work in education reform, if anyone can give me tips on getting into that sector or group hit me up! Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 13 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.You know, the other day on another sub someone posted about “maybe not all men but def most men” I commented about how my issues with sharing our stories, experiences, opinions means we have to Tone police ourselves or else men come in there and decide it’s not worth having a convo Because of what we said/ how we said it. I even said “fuck you and your feelings!” Then a bunch of dudes decided to tell me that that means I’ve made up my mind, clearly have cemented stereotypes in my head, and I am … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:49 PM |
| 35 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himNah that’s why everyone is so confused with Morgan’s behavior Meghan has yet to acknowledge his existence, and if you think about it he’s acting like her dad. Meghan hasn’t said anything to her dad, she did say they don’t talk much but didn’t elaborate. Anyway, he was on the ITV show again (Pier’s interview) saying he doesn’t talk to Meghan or Harry.. so he goes to the British press every 30days, gives them a story, and “waits” for them to respond or call him. That’s what he dad admits to doing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 35 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himExactly! When I was trying to analyze this and give him some credit (dumb ass Me); i thought he wouldn’t be that dumb to admit he was trying to date, sleep with, whatever, Meghan. It didn’t make sense that they’d have a close friendship shes 16yrs younger than him. So him being hurt by a “friend” /suddenly being “ghosted” by a friend was odd. I think there were rumors floating around him and his wife have and open relationship. She was I think a name leaked in the Ashley Madison debacle. I also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 24 | Moral of the story - NVM wants her to give up on her future to be a mom. PATHETIC!If he seemed to be taking care of the house or improving himself/ our life; not just existing.. I’m fine with it My Bf’s friend is a SAHF. Honestly they’re taken care of by everyone else in their life. Parents died early on and left them a lot of money, and a house they don’t have to pay for. His mom is his neighbor, they only have one kid, and his wife is a teacher. I honestly couldn’t tell you what he does beside do the drop off, pick up and PTA stuff for his daughter. It sounds like during th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 121 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himThey went for drinks for 2hrs and then she left. It sounds like he was an Suits Tv show watcher (Meghan is on that show), he made it sound like they would run or see each other in similar circles when he was in the US and so he invited her to drinks. From what it sounds like there is no relationship what so ever. She was just “being nice” to another celeb and maybe acquaintance. He then brings it up ROUTINELY in interviews, some women interviewers even called him bitter (rightfully so) when he l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.I’ll cheers to that! Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.Yea because that’s exactly what a professional psychiatrist would say. 🙄 I’m so sorry you had to deal with that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 40 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.Hell sometimes the “crazy” is the volcano finally exploding. He gaslights her, pushes her buttons, not listening to her, for months/ years.. then he does the same bullshit like he normally does; but today she has time, and she’s fucking done. So yea she acts “crazy” because instead of the doormat or work through response you’re now being confronted and yelled at. My ex told me his therapist told him I was emotionally abusive. I told him to go to therapy, because he has issues with his mom/ dad a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 44 | I want to release all women, especially those trapped in religion and cultural driven misogyny, of these “struggleships”. Being with him when he’s broke is not a badge of honor, constant fighting and cheating aren’t the “ups and downs” of relationshipsI think about this ALL THE TIME!! Especially when men are NOT! Not taught to and they historically do leave when shit gets rough or they’re “bored” My cousin linked me this old Oprah interview with men who cheated. They all agreed that basically the new woman made them feel wanted, needed, lover; what the fuck ever. And that “life” gets in the way, the wife is now doing work, picking up the kids from school, not wearing that tight little number anymore, etc and the new chick “don’t gotta do all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 22 | I want to release all women, especially those trapped in religion and cultural driven misogyny, of these “struggleships”. Being with him when he’s broke is not a badge of honor, constant fighting and cheating aren’t the “ups and downs” of relationshipsLmao stop! Hahaha Ima use that haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:35 PM |
| 28 | What do you ladies think?Not sure if anyone follows Bernie Sanders. But he recently tweeted in favor of raising the minimum wage. highlighting that 59% of tip employees are woman, and that they then are sexually harassed routinely at work! Imagine how many of those women are single mothers? They have to pay crazy amounts of money for childcare (some of which isn’t even all week just 3days a week). All because they need to work a job that could only guarante 2.30/hr, where they’re then sexually harassed. Only to still be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 80 | I want to release all women, especially those trapped in religion and cultural driven misogyny, of these “struggleships”. Being with him when he’s broke is not a badge of honor, constant fighting and cheating aren’t the “ups and downs” of relationshipsThat’s exactly what happened, but he posts her, calls her queen and they have money and a house so it’s a fairytale story. /s (if this wasn’t clear lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:58 PM |
| 161 | I want to release all women, especially those trapped in religion and cultural driven misogyny, of these “struggleships”. Being with him when he’s broke is not a badge of honor, constant fighting and cheating aren’t the “ups and downs” of relationships“She been holding me down since I was sleeping on the floor!” 🤮 I even remember this man bragging on his wife, who had an advanced degree in her field. She was dating him when he was almost homeless (I think he said he was couch surfing). She helped him get his apartment, then they got a house. THEN she quit her job to take out loans in her name to help him make his business, and I think they just hit some huge milestone in the company worth celebrating. I threw my phone. Is her name on the busi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himBurn it down burn it alllll down Put them on an island and burn it down My ex upon learning about it my rape decided to talk about his best gal pals rape. Someone who was already an issue in our relationship, They really are the worst sometimes.. all the time? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 149 | Don't give him a pennyOf course they are, my Bf took me to Mexico on my birthday last year (before covid) If he sent me a bill I’d be in jail for murder. I’m assuming this is how it went “don’t worry babe I’ll plan everything it’s all taken care of” She probably paid for meals and misc. throughout the trip, but he’s retroactively asking her to pay for shit she had no idea she needed to pay. You’re allowed to assume you aren’t paying for something if you aren’t consulted about the purchase. Wtf is wrong with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 48 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.I’m so fucking angry, I am so fucking angry, I want this to be fake so bad because he basically ruined 4 peoples lives because he got all “baby crazy” (you know the thing woman are supposed get around that age 🙄) Like holy shit, and *they’re * the ones being told to not get trapped in a pregnancy when they literally dangle commitment over our heads in return for our bodies and mental health Them being in therapy makes me believe that she knows he fucked up, was manipulative and now they’re both … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:20 AM |
| 82 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI showed my male friend memes and videos from this sub, because I high key think he’s trapped in an unfulfilling relationship. I wasn’t pushing him or anything just like “look at this meme it’s funny!” After about a month on this sub he left his partner. This sub is technically for everyone, yea it’s female only but, It’s about building and knowing your self worth! You shouldn’t put up with a person who doesn’t uplift you and compliments you as a partner. They’re taking you for granted, not list… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 308 | Ain’t this the truth 🤔I recently read this article about single women over 65 They don’t want to get remarried or move in with their partner if they were to meet someone new. While the men do because they literally need help and companionship. The woman seem to have social lives, while being self sufficient and taking care of the household. The men do not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 20 | Why are men so disrespectful when it comes to women that don’t “meet their standards”?I feel like it’s the same way racists want to say shit like “were they the best ones for the job” type shit when a minority gets casted/ hired for something They want to put you in your place, “remind” you that you’re nothing (to them) and by making a post you now see just how many people agree, so you know they’re right. I think it’s coupled with them believing their opinion is right because they’re a man. This baseball player got on Twitter just to say no one should date single Mom’s because i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 26 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Men: women only like bad boys who treat them like shit! proceeds to call woman they want to fuck fat Also men: why won’t she like me! Idk usually when someone tell me to lose weight, calls me ugly, says my friends are cute while not giving me a compliment, I think they’re uninterested... It’s even more awkward because I’m sure in the same breath he’ll say he wants someone natural. Literally beat down a woman and her confidence then get disgusted when she goes to manufacture her body for society … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 14 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.These are the same dudes who called Serena Williams a dude or “Tranny” then got mad when she married a tech bro and living her happy ass life thriving, Idk if anyone knows the Future/ Ciara timeline, but Future is some of these dudes toxic masculinity icon. so many memes about like texting your ex on thanksgiving “say hi to your moms I miss being there with the family” shit is w/ a pic of Future. He fucked with Ciara and she was going through it, she then found a man who values her, and would go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:52 PM |
| 231 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.I want to take this one step further and talk about the financial sink and hypocrisy that comes with a gamer man. I am a woman, who loves gaming. I’m also in STEM, w/ no kids and no student loan debt, so I’m doing pretty fucking well. I choose to spend my money on tech and kitchen gadgets. I’ve built my own PC, in the process of building a new one ( if I can get the effing graphics card). I have other expensive hobbies like mechanical keyboard building and baking. I say all of this to say, I kno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:13 PM |
| 43 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Yea it’s about balance. I enjoy gaming I’ve spent a dumb amount on my Pc rig, when my Bf moved in with me we collectively have every single modern gaming station (Pc, Xbox, PS, Switch) and even some retro ones. Hell we even played video games all day every weekend during the start of this pandemic together. However when I was tied or he was tired of the game, we stopped. He got us WoW to get back into it, I forgot how addicting it can be how it’s meant to keep you there, but now we’re in the pro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 136 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.It’s even worse because then like if they do the bare minimum it’s then “ladies remember March 14, steak and BJ day” Which like it’s not the only day they expect a BJ anyway, just the only day some make a joke about demanding it. I thought about that as I read this. Just so much ughhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 28 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂I always find it funny that they use “female Incel” But like on the incel sub. They would argue until blue in The face that no women can ever actually be an incel, because men would/ do fuck anything if she hasn’t had sex it’s because shes too picky, which means it’s not involuntary. I also find it funny that the Right lvm think it’s a bunch of bitter black women. Like what? As a black women on the internet I am actually shocked to find another black women on the internet and just assume all sub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:55 AM |
| 37 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.Fucking right “He got me a $500 Etsy ring that’s modeled after some video game reference and I love it!! I love the cheap ring I don’t need an ‘expensive’ one” Ok talk to me in 5yrs when that one is warn down, lost its luster, stone falls out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 11 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessExactly. It’s her “wifely duty” Women are suppose to be emotionally strong and take care of everyone and everything. I’m watching a show on Netflix, where a mother bestowed the title of CEO to her daughter; after the dad died. Her mom told her that as a woman her job is to keep the family together, no matter what. Idk why that rubbed me the wrong way, but I think what you said is why. She’ll do all that and no one will praise her because “it’s her duty” But anytime it gets just a little rough fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 114 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThat’s beautiful and what everyone deserves My mom was never in that serious of a condition but she had heart surgery. My dad was there every single day. He’d ask her friends to come in and help her with her hair during recovery. When she was able to go on walks, he’d go and walk with her around the hospital. Made sure she took her meds and even got a doctor to make house visits once she came home It’s so fucking sad that woman have to deal w/ medical stress and divorce at the same time Trash hu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 7 | Thank youYup! I left one form of communication open because I had his TV, but he hadn’t contacted me at all for 6mo. Then on our anniversary 🙄 he texts “Hey”. I block him. Ok this isn’t about your TV gave you 6mo and 2mins byeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Thank youFuck yes! Congrats! Flawless victory Did something very similar, cried while watching TV for like 10mins. And then went on woth my life Good luck! Enjoy your new found life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 04:50 AM |
| 30 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedOh girl I missed that part! Dats grooming. I hate men omg!!! Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 105 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedYea when i saw her age and length of relationship I was like it’s time to move on. She’s been with this dude since she started college. While I know some people build long and happy relationships after meeting their person in college, I will never get why you’d hitch your horse to a cart so soon. For who’s benefit? “It’s a deal breaker for him” ok but you want to get married? So you’ll sacrifice your happiness because you don’t want to lose him? So you rather be miserable? Why does he get to cal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 312 | They will always make “single mothers” the villains to shift blame from male predators or male parental child neglect.This is not a statistic I wanted to know. This is fucking gross! Any number is high but almost 40%! What in the fuck! How many for 16-17? What does that age look like. Good lord what is wrong with people I saw this tiktok where theres a speech bubble written as if 13yr old is “Bragging” on herself “I had 20yr olds trying to chat me up and hook up with me at 13” And then the Audio is like “you’re a victim” Whatever it takes the raise awareness because it has to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Everything you need to know about a man you can learn from his bathroomDad no!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 34 | Everything you need to know about a man you can learn from his bathroomI say I wish I got my grooming from my dad because this man will take hours to get his shit right. Shower, lotions, oils his hair, cuts his nails. He gets facials for his ingrown hairs once a month as well as mani and pedis. The best I can do is 7serums for my face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:42 PM |
| 197 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Why doesn’t this sub have gifs yet!! Here you dropped this 👑 The millionaire/ well off story hits FAR TO CLOSE to home. Most shit about men, is projection and once you start noticing patterns you become wiser Men love to talk about how woman only want the “bad boy” but then actively date the “bad girl” like you said and then call us all she demons. “Girls get fucked over by one dude and we’re all bad” Guys 9th grade Gf cheated on him now he has trust issues and that’s somehow valid when he’s 28.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 143 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its SubtletyI shouldn’t be laughing but this is just is so crazy to me!! Don’t waste my fucking time I have shit to do and other dick I could be bouncing on! I feel like part of it comes from the sexist view that being confrontational isn’t “lady like” I mean look at even the act of engagement itself, it’s not about when you as the woman is ready; it’s when the man is ready. He proposes to you; and don’t you dare pressure him! Granted that’s changing, but you have women living life in bliss not knowing and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 78 | Modern relationships in a nutshellSaw some dude who was struggling during the pandemic mad at himself for moving out of his ex’s (before the pandemic) when they were fighting because 6mo into the pandemic he’s out of saving and could really use the rent break. Seems a little messed up “I rather put us in a situation we don’t like cuz of rent savings “ What do they call them? Hobosexual? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 33 | If women are naturally golddigging, hypergamous, shallow wh+res like the scrotes say...how come we can't just blame mUh BioLogY like men do?I. Love.you? lol In grad school I was the only female on my research team. Not all were typical STEM males but two were. I was young for grad school so they were older than me. This conversation came up at a bar when out with some friends and someone mentioned they say a professor with a 20 something, he’s like 50+ Queue the “well I mean naturally he’s just attracted to her like health and fertility” Me: ok well then I mean y’all gotta stop expecting us to get with “dad bods”. Why would I be att… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:16 AM |
| 52 | From Men’s Mouths to Your Ears. Don’t be a forever girlfriend.Yup. I honestly didn’t learn this until my current partner not because he’s so bad but because he’s the exact opposite Within like 4mo he told me he loved me, he would never actually bring up “marriage” but he would tell me stories of talking to the gas station guy and saying he was picking stuff up for his wife (he takes the bus and would sometimes pick me up candy on the way home). Then when my friend got married he was like “oh man I should marry you when do you want to get married” He’s casu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Women vs menI don’t think this is real because we actually know that great female scientists and mathematical exists when we were basically being used a sex slaves and incubators. Those woman just happened to be of higher society, where they were allowed to choose paths and study with scholars. I think again the “ 1%” got to live a completely different life while perpetuating a worse one. Examples Émilie du Châtelet; while born to lesser nobility; her father still worked for King Louis XIV. She was a philos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 12 | This is the energy!I love how confused some “feminist” woman get when the man does traditional male things like opening the door or carrying your stuff for you I can carry my stuff, I have arms and legs, he’s not doing it because he doesn’t think I can’t, it’s because he cares and it’s a kind gesture... why is there so hard to get through your head?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 32 | Damn straightI told my friend if she trusts chick fil a more than her partner it is time to go.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 53 | Men troll harder when you're finally establishing standards 👀My cousin and I, both black woman are in interracial relationships. She’s engaged to a Filipino man and I am dating a white man. Every other day we’re sending each other memes about black men who just can’t. BW minding their own business posting selfies, and black men are screenshooting it and making her look like a caricature of a BW. Then they go on to tell us why we deserve that treatment, “dark skin black woman are so mannish” “yall be acting crazy and wanting shit” black woman have an attit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 32 | Keep it real out thereSkai Jackson an 18yr old actress who has been in the spotlight since she was a child; pretty sure on Disney or Nick, replied to a tweet of a 30yr old man who was confused why he can’t find her “a model body” 18yr old attractive, even saying he’d “knock the adolescence out her pussy” Her response was “what could you... an 30yr old... have in common with an 18yr old?” People are in there defending him to her like “I mean I don’t think it’s an age thing .. attractive is attractive, you are of conse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:02 PM |
| 5 | List of AccomplishmentsCongratulations!’ I’m so happy for you! Focusing on yourself and your bank account will never hurt you haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 16 | PSA: just because he pays for dates, doesn't make him a HVMyupppp the “communicate” boundaries is crazy because apparently being close friends means you have no boundaries 🙄 I’m like heated just reliving that 1.5yrs I’ll never get back lol Ladies take it from us don’t do it!! Peep it early and dip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 57 | PSA: just because he pays for dates, doesn't make him a HVMPreach!!! Found out my exes female bestie was his MS and HS crush, tried to be cool she was in a long term relationship with a dude and I had no reason to not trust a situation, men and women can be friends. But then he’d tell me shit like how he couldn’t get a library card for some reason, and he wanted a book and asked her but she “made him” read Harry Potter before she would. Or how he seems to be the third wheel with her and her partner. My fav that his friends told me, he apparently got the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:20 PM |
| 43 | Why is she cleaning his apartment before she moves in?I am... appalled. I just realized the other day, I have washed dishes maybe twice a month since my boyfriend moved in. I bake and that usually makes x2 so I try to clean up after myself so we can make food and stuff later. My Bf takes care of it all the time. When I try to clean stuff just cuz I’m bored and it’s something to do, he’s like “what are you doing? Do you need that cleaned?” When I told my friend this, she was like “oh you have him trained” Nope. I’m dating a fucking adult I could not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:17 AM |
| 233 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Yup!! What OP describes in the title, happened to me in HS. Our volleyball coach sat us all down and we just had an open discussion about being young adults, etc. idk how it came up but one of the “popular” girls said her best friends dad from like 8-11 would touch her. She was new to the area at the time and it was her only friend so she didn’t want to lose her. This girl was also deemed a “slut” by some other girls and even dudes. That’s when that sort of trope hit me like a brick. Then it was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:25 PM |
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