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| 5 | Seduction vs. Swinging Vs. Assholes | pornthrowaway69 | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 01:56 PM | |
| 0 | friends on again/off again ex told him she cheated on him. What should he do? | pornthrowaway69 | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 08:25 PM |
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| 1 | Seduction vs. Swinging Vs. AssholesAgreed, but then there are the people who manipulate things like low self esteem. What I maintain is that this group does NOT manipulate, rather it focuses on getting to the core of what people want and making it simple. If someone has low self esteem, most people here would know to not use that as an "in." | /r/seduction | 27/02/14 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Seduction vs. Swinging Vs. AssholesWhy not? This is actually part of the point. If you completely don't care about anyone else's train of thought, you could just go out do something horrible. Who cares what others think? In this case, I think there is a middle ground, where people just want to be promiscuous since that's how they are wired. They aren't assholes, nor are they doing anything they can to get guys/girls in bed with them. The focus is on understanding the signals being transmitted and responding to them in a truthful … | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Prostitution should be legal in US?The issue isn't prostitution per se. The issue is how sexuality is tied to our sales processes and what generates money. This creates a serious influence in our youth through advertising and marketing, and is somehow tied into men being a possession by women and visa versa (though different details in each possession). Once you get into the ideas of slut shaming, forced scarcity of sex, and inability of people to accept their own beliefs you can start to understand the desperation of some men. T… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/14 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Seducing Men as a WomanI think the answers are easier than you think. Based on the picture you posted in another reddit, and some of your other posts, I think the issue is more likely the types of guys you like. Obviously (if that really was your picture) you are cute and should have no problem. That being said, if you are looking for slightly nerdy guys, ones whom you might have to hit on as they aren't pushing themselves out there, they probably just don't get what is happening and you need to judge your next steps.… | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you flirt with a beautiful, hot girl that is obviously getting hit on by many other guys?Here are two possibilities: 1: Ignore her, you are fixated. There are other girls to talk to, if you go over while worried you will probably be one of the bunch. Once you have talked to 6-7 other girls, the pressure will not be as great and you can organically talk to the first girl. Then again, you may not care by that point, which is even better. Next time you can take her off the pedestal. 2: Ok, fine, you are fixated. Go for a stupid line. Ask her who she thinks the hottest guy in the bar is… | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile the fact that the girls you're dating like and date other men?Recycle answered most of the items, but as for the "what questions" comment: Talk to them about what you want out of the relationship and what baggage you may bring. (I mean don't inundate them, but don't keep quiet either) I've had my conversations talking about my needs and desires, having an open relationship, how I am not into BDSM, don't really dirty talk, nothing long term etc. These aren't options if someone wants to be with me, therefore I bring them up. They are just the tip of the iceb… | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 01:16 PM |
| 6 | How do you reconcile the fact that the girls you're dating like and date other men?You are insecure. This is what can take seduction from "a nice guy" to "that asshole player." Eventually you will start to get comfortable with picking up girls, but will get more jaded at the same time. The problem is you will then be able to pick up more girls and soak your issues in spending time with these random girls. Of course you then mess up your relationships and end up with girls that hate you. If you cannot get over the double standard by talking to these girls*, you should honestly … | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 09:56 PM |
| 4 | When to Move On?"i have a boyfriend" isn't a sign of non-interest, at least isn't always. If you think she actually likes you, then "Oh cool so the pressure is off" and keep talking. All you should do is switch from focusing on a woman to having fun. The women will show up "organically." The girl with the boyfriend could then be a wingwoman for the evening. Everyone wants to be with people who are fun. As for specific tactic? Go out with a group, get out of the group, talk to the girl for a bit then invite her … | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Best tips for girls?Heck, I've even asked girls about their ex, or current. I want to know everything, and what could be more personal or connection building than that? (as long as you don't let it go friend zone) I wouldn't suggest bringing it up if you are out on the prowl, but if the chat will be your ex or your current as just a story, it isn't an issue. Especially if you use something like that to set the frame for where you are in life right now. "Oh yeah, my ex, John, and I used to do that. It always turned … | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 01:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The girl I went on a date is a protestant christianAre you looking for validation of your choice? If so, then yes, say exactly what you are looking for, add her as a friend and see if she has any other similarly hot friends that are more in your current state. If she has any inkling of long term relationship left, she may take your interest as agreeing with the roadmap that she laid out. You obviously don't want to run with that at the moment. Otherwise thanks for the FR. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Alright, this should be easy to answer [exercise equipment]own it and move on. It isn't a big deal unless she wants to move in. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 02:56 AM |
| 1 | The line between arrogant and confidentI disagree on self deprecating humor, you CAN do it quite easily but most do it wrong. Self deprecation can work though. Just need to take it to extremes and make the joke itself the funny part, not whatever it is about you or pay attention and make it work for the situation. On the other hand, most do it wrong or don't read the signs and get the wrong points across so it is better, in general, to just say don't do it. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, what is the best way for a girl to grab a guy's attention?Same as the general idea here for guys. Figure out who you want to "target" (terrible word, but makes it clear here) then touch his hand gently and separate him into another room. The key is neither of those are "guy" things to do together. The rest of the examples posted depend on the guy being observent and based on you being in college and how clueless most guys are... Just not going to happen. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How much attention to give her?Hah, glad to hear it. While it sounds like you didn't read this before going out, maybe it will help someone else. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 02:19 PM |
| 2 | How much attention to give her?separate her quickly, kiss her passionately, then get back to the group. play with everyone. Repeat. Easy, since she has already said (based on this message) that she wants to do that much. | /r/seduction | 31/08/12 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I still live with my parents, how can i get a girl to go back to hers with me?While I am not sure what honey badger means, I believe this is the right answer. Who cares, everyone lives with their parents at some point. Be clear and upfront with it and everything will be fine. If you are seeking a way to be unclear and get what you want, you are setting yourself up for failure. Be upfront, truthful, don't forget to have fun and remember to not be too goal oriented. If you focus on getting her back to her place, you are done, if you let it happen and set the ground rules, e… | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 07:59 PM |
| 1 | College pickup help."Do you think he is cute?" whatever she says, it will be in her asking about your sexual leanings and you can respond "come on, thats not what I asked, what do you think?" Honestly, if I knew then what I know now. College is the EASIEST time in your life to meet people. Suck it up and say hi, ask her something personal and you are off and running. Keep in mind that she is just as nervous as you. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 12:31 AM |
| 1 | got friend-zoned and still confused.Ok, well give it some time then. Maybe return to it later. It is a GREAT lesson in life when you can just accept that things aren't perfect but that you can make a great situation out of it anyway. In this case there is no reason to lose a friend if she just because she isn't DTF. You just have to be ready to accept it. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 06:47 PM |
| 3 | got friend-zoned and still confused.Is she hot? Does she have hot friends? Do you actually enjoy hanging out with her other than the crush? Just because there is some sexual attraction and you are friendzoned, doesn't mean she can't be a wingwoman. Just tell her you were a bit confused by it all, but may want to still be friends. Distilled down, "I'd still love to fuck you, but since that's not a possibility lets be solid mates. No holds barred, and see how we can help each other, you know like wingman/wingwoman. See you at the ba… | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with girl that quit communicating after 3 dates? I will most certainly see her around town.Revenge? Bah, there is nothing "bad" about being friendzoned if that is the right place for the relationship. Use the attraction but incompatibility it to your advantage and have a good time. One fantastic wingwoman is worth so much more than random slacker friends. | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 06:58 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with girl that quit communicating after 3 dates? I will most certainly see her around town.If you like her and want to continue a non-romantic but flirty relationship... "Hey, are you still looking for a man? I'm going out on Thursday, come out and be my wingwoman and I'll be your wingman." | /r/seduction | 03/07/12 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Girl tries to make me jealous everytime + a LOT of shit testsWalk away. I've met plenty of girls like this, they want the attention but none of the responsibility. Basically here is what I see, if someone were to ask you "are you two in a relationship?" your response is "Sure, I think so" and her response would be "With him? Hah no, he is really nice but..." That being said, keep the teasing. If it is fun. Others might say it builds social awareness, increases your visibility to others etc, but personally I couldn't care less. Maybe it does, but if it isn… | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 12:13 PM |
| 1 | IOIs that are also shit tests."Hey, is she your girlfriend?" "We used to have sex, but I turned her gay and now she just tries to get me girlfriends." | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Doing fine with girls, until my friends shoot me down"Yes, but I am the one with the girls on the dancefloor, not the wallflower who actually wishes he could be fun. Open up or chill out." Say this infront of the girls then pull them AWAY from your "friends". leave them to stew and continue having fun. Or find new friends for going out with. "I love concrete shoes, sure it is difficult to run in them, but they are my shoes." | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 04:30 PM |
| 2 | From a chick seddit-reader: Thank you, guys. (And can any other lady-readers comment?)The problem with more girls is that many don't understand the basic idea and believe people here are looking to trick others. Which, really, is easy to think based on the name. Of course these are mostly the same women who have men thrown at them constantly or believe "those" mags that say that they have to wait for the right man. Of course waiting means the wallflowers lose confidence and become the "forever alone" part of the world, willing to accept anything that comes by. Either that or they… | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 01:17 PM |
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