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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 40 | [FR] First lay and FWB. | Field Report | possibleaddict | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 03:17 PM |
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| 2 | "But this one girl", "she's amazing", "she's different", etc. One vid to fix a lot of people here's problems with girls. 10 mins to change your lifeDude | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 07:47 AM |
| 6 | I feel like I can do it. So why don't I want to?Oh I know what you're talking about. I'm exactly the same. At some point I stopped approaching girls, I just didn't feel like I WANT TO. Saw some pretty girl, cool, but meh. Now, I don't rush things. I'm focused on myself and I occassionally meet girls that I REALLY like. I approach them, if I succed, awesome, if I don't, meh. My life goes on, I'm not a PUA, I just know how not-to-fuck-up-things. And that's pretty awesome for me. | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thank you seddit or How a night went from „I have to make an excuse to flake on my buddies“ to legendaryThat was a quite a good read. I liked the way you had guts to approach 5 different girls on one night out, even though you already had k-closed and established some connection with one. | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 06:39 AM |
| 1 | After the ultimate rejection, I'm having a hard time keeping abundance mentality.Either way, do I really want someone who is going to run due to life's little problems? Get a little stressed and then you're out? Nah dude. fuck that noise. I miss the person she was when I was with her, but I don't miss her. I came to the same realization after a while. It was only last night I found out about the whole probably hooking up with the ex thing. Except now with more anger and less sadness. She broke up with you FOR SOMEONE ELSE ? You don't do that shit. You just don't. That shows … | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 09:17 PM |
| 4 | After the ultimate rejection, I'm having a hard time keeping abundance mentality.I know that feeling. Been there 3 months ago. First couple days were the hardest. Then, with time, it slowly gets better. Whatever happens, don't humiliate yourself like I did. Don't try to get back with her. It is cringy and it won't work. Trust me, just, don't you dare to pm her. I did and I regret it. Now, I'm laughing at myself, back then, 3 months ago. | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Man of seddit that pretty much accomplished what you wanted with your self-improvement. What is you re life now ?I am more confident, outgoing and actually.... happy. I had the balls to finally go out, move my fucking fat ass off the computer. Hit the gym. Found a job, which I recently lost, but hey, gonna find another one. I made some friends. I learned how to express myself. I learned how to STOP BEING THAT GUY who has no social skills and was afraid of speaking up. I had a girlfriend which I lost, but it was worth it. It hurt like hell, when it was a great experience. I learned a lot from that. I'm happ… | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 06:29 AM |
| -7 | Hit the town in a well fitted tailored suit every now and then.I think, that if you put a monkey costume, you would achieve the same result. It's not about what you were wearing but how it made you feel. It made you feel CONFIDENT and girls noticed that. Also, you can dress in a more preppy style and also look awesome and classy. Without wearing an expensive suit. /r/malefashionadvice | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Inner game issuesKeep yourself busy. Find a job [let it even be a part-time one], hit the local gym, go out with your friends [or work on your social circle if you have problems in this matter], read books, meditate, learn how to be happy with your life. If you see a problem in your life / with your life, fix it god damn it. If something bothers you, do something about it or get used to it / stop complaining. It is that simple. I know what I'm saying because I've been there [and I'm partially still there, still … | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 09:37 PM |
| 3 | My insecurities have made sex with my boyfriend awful./r/sex - visit and x-post what you wrote down here. But please, keep in mind that if they tell you to break up with your current BF because of some shit, do not blindly follow that advice. Try listening to people trying to help you out by giving an insightful comments and giving out advices on how to improve your sex life. I wish you all the best. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Lets talk ApocalypseGroup Apocalypse, no way, hell no. It all sounds cool and let's be honest, fucking awesome, but I can't imagine myself doing that. Even while drunk, to even a more drunk cheek. Though... there's something in me, inside of my head, telling me to bookmark opener and use it some day.... | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 07:19 PM |
| 8 | DON'T BE CONVENIENTBeen there, done that, crushed and burned with a girl I liked a lot and after a while came to the same realization. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 12:47 PM |
| 9 | The Perfect DHVONE OF WHAT?... HUH? .... ONE OF WHAT? ... TELL ME... TEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLL MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! This is what is going to happen. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First lay and FWB.Sounds like you missed the first hint when "friends were staying at her place for the night, jacuzzi, wine, movie". Holy fuck, you think so? Damn. For my defense, I'll just say that I was exhausted. | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 04:44 PM |
| 8 | [FR] First lay and FWB.1,5 year ago I'd kill that attraction. 2 weeks ago, I kept it and played along. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 08:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First lay and FWB.I never considered myself as an attractive person. I'm average I guess. I'm simply more confident and outgoing. ... Though I lost like 10kg [22 lb] and bought new clothes. That helps boosting your confidence. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 08:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First lay and FWB.You should post your problem in /r/relationships there are some people who can help you out with this kind of things. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 05:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First lay and FWB.When I was at her place. We had a small talk about our past relationships. She's obviously recovering after her exBF and told me she's not looking for anything serious right now. I told her the same. We both took a sip of wine, grinned and went to watch the movie. I know one thing, ignoring someone is the worst scenario. The other person is wondering what has happened, if it's his/her fault, what to do now and things like that. It's better to lay down your cards and tell it straight away the thi… | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 05:18 PM |
| 4 | [FR] First lay and FWB.Can't you just talk to her and act maturely? I was honest since the beginning, she knows what I want and I know what she wants. It's all clear and simple. I found that honest talk is sometimes the best solution. | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 04:58 PM |
| 8 | [FR] First lay and FWB.The bitchy one, as soon as I got the message ["I'm more manly than you can imagine and YES I'M A BITCH"] I ejected. No real pursuing. I was just trying to figure out what is she like. No real date, we went out all together to grab a drink. The oldest one, [damn I liked her, we really hit it off, such a shame it didn't work out] we went out together once and only once. Then I ejected, she has some problems and I don't want to get involved in to that. And my FWB, as I said, I don't think I was cle… | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 04:56 PM |
| 8 | [FR] First lay and FWB.You think I should edit it? | /r/seduction | 04/08/13 04:15 PM |
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