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I mean. It is the 4th date. And risotto! Poor guy. It's enough to put him off females for good. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:29 PM
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5 seconds is a long time when your being fucked against your will. He's not even sorry that he raped her. He thinks it's unfair for her to expect not to be raped by her bf. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:23 PM
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I think English is not his first language. I would hazard a guess that he is from a culture where women are not liberated. He's probably a virgin. He's visiting or has emigrated to a western nation and believes there are thousands of promiscuous women waiting to fuck him silly. He intends to make the most of it. He's non-conversant in western dating norms. And he's terrified. But that won't stop him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:22 PM
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I tend to not focus on the expense because I feel like it suggests I can be bought or swayed by his wallet or that I should feel indebted. Instead I say things like 'Thank you for a lovely evening, I've really enjoyed myself' and maybe compliment him on the choice of venue or activity. I will thank him for his company or his effort. Never straight up 'thanks for dinner' or 'thanks for buying the tickets'. If he buys a gift, of course I will thank him, but emphasise the thoughtfulness, kindness a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:28 PM
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Trying to understand what happened is a red herring. You don't get to umderstand why someone does what they do, and you don't need to. You only get to understand yourself. The real question is why you have accepted all this hot and cold behavior and why you have kept giving him chances to change. Ok, yes, for your child. But he's been pretty clear about his feelings (or lack of them). It can't work if he doesn't wnat to make it work. And you deserve so much better. Closure is a myth, except you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:47 PM
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Oh yeah, men irk me if I think about them too much, so I don't tend to do it 😄. And I agree, it's best to keep your standards to yourself and keep plenty of detachment early on, so you can break up without so much fuss. I think once you are so far down a path, like married with kids or something, maybe it's worth saying 'it makes me really uphappy that you do x, or don't do x', so he knows how you feel and can change it if he cares. And if he doesn't, just leave. You're not just leaving because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:36 PM
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I'm saying ultimatums are bad, but they're not always wrong exactly. They may be perfectly reasonable. A man may think it's fair when he decides to comply. But he's not doing so because he wants to, because he holds the same values or wants to make you happy. He's doing it because he thinks he has too much to lose. Once he feels secure again he will start questioning the loss of autonomy. If a guy says he wont date a woman unless she does xyz in bed, that's a standard. If he says he will break u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:21 PM
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Yes, ultimatums are always bad. Men will promise anything to get what they want then either resent it or renege. You dump him because you aren't compatible rather than threaten to dump him if the incompatibility is not amended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:43 AM
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I think the main thing is that he is always happy to pay. He doesn't resent it or try to be cheap when he has plenty to spend on stuff for himself. He enjpys treating you, he prioritizes that over treating himself, and won't ever try to pressure you to pay. If he genuinely can't afford much (which is understandable if he's young or has a lot of responsibilities) he thinks of nice low budget dates rather than asking you to stump up. If he's generous and it's fair to do so, you can be generous too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:39 AM
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It's really arrogant and controlling to think he has any say in a woman's decision. Being pregnant in any 'less than ideal circumstances is not something he will ever have to face, so STFU. And he's passionate enough about it to attend rallies. Even if every man was as responsible as him, it's not his place to coerce us into keeping a baby we don't want. For whatever reason. Would he make his future wife keep a baby with severe disabilities? A baby that threatened her own health (physical or men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:29 AM
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I'm thinking maybe act 'dumb like a fox'. It's not like a dating or friendship situation where you have the power of tolerating no bullshit and walking away. Outwitting him, calling him out or being assertive is likely to rile him and you could easily become a target for professional sabotage. Instead, you could agree with him, smile, pretend to be awed and grateful for his input, then keep doing things your own way. Hide any personal disdain. Hide it well!Make little compliments that he has no …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:10 PM
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I bet. I took on a stray once that turned out to be pregnant. She had 5 kittens, and I would have loved to keep them all. It was a great experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 08:50 PM
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They're gorgeous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:53 PM
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So everyone, quite rightly, is telling you this guy isn't interested, block and keep your dignity. But I wanna know about the 8 kittens 🐱❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:10 PM
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Right? Totally offensive! He couldn't even say it nicely. Because basically he's irritated by somebody who is excited and keen to spend time with him. But he keeps her stringing along to satisfy himself when it suits him. What a horrible man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:57 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:33 AM
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It's a mindset shift more than anything. You probably have things you like doing, but girls are taught their hobbies are silly and pointless. I used to drop whatever I was doing for a last minute date.but now I think, 'hmmm all that effort getting ready and probably having an evening thats all about him. Nah, I'm enjoying myself too much at home alone to bother'. Man or a long walk on the coast, man or crafting/cooking/DIY/next chapter of my book , man or new season of favourite show, man or hot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:19 AM
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You got lucky, he did what you needed to do for you. You need some goals and hobbies to keep you busy instead of moping around waiting for male attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:50 AM
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I recently signed a petition to outlaw the 'rough sex' defense. About 50% of men who claim a woman died during consensual rough sex literally get away with murder. While perusing the signees I noticed less that one in ten was a man. I though that was pretty fucking sad. Guys either are worried they may need that defense one day and that their right to indulge their kink is more important than women's lives. Or, they just think 'bleh...woman's stuff, not interested, don't care'. Like women aren't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:45 AM
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Maybe it sounds like I'm placing the blame with women, because I didn't write a whole essay. It's patriarchy, it's conditioning, blah blah. Women are the victims here, and yeah, we can help enforce the status quo, as pick-me's do. Or we can help break it, HV style. And that takes admirable guts and strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:09 PM
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That sounds a little hostile. I don't know if this guy is now HV, but I do think men can only learn if we refuse to lower our standards. The reason so many men are crap partners is because we keep giving them chances and forgiving bad behaviour, until eventually THEY dump US for some poor girl who hasn't got a load of built-up resentment and insecurity from their treatment yet. And he learns he that he can do what he likes and he always deserves better. So, I'll happily thank any woman who promp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:39 AM
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Just wanted to say that rats are really lovely pets if you want something small. They are very social and affectionate and full of character. Quite like very small dogs, except more rattish. Only drawback is they don't live very long. I've been rescuing unwanted rats for a couple years now and they add so much to my life. I love getting to know them, helping them recover and thrive, earning their trust and makng fun new toys and activities to keep them stimulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:46 PM
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I'm sorry that my comment sounds like I was looking for what you did wrong. Of course you shouldn't blame yourself at all. Even if you didn't follow 'the rules' at all, it isn't your fault if men have become conditioned to believe they are entitled to gf benefits without having any intention of building an actual life with you. And it sounds like you did everything right anyway. So, your choices are to end it now or pull back and give him another chance to step up. I agree with other poster's th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:49 PM
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Sounds like he has everything he wants from you, so no need to get more serious. He has you, so he's afraid to lose his freedom. If he were afraid to lose you he would lock you down. I guess you may have stopped dating other people too soon, without a firm commitment from him? If you think he's worth a chance, you could try backing off a little. Don't spend all your free time with him. Get out and do other stuff so you aren't always so available. Focus on yourself and your levelling-up goals. Be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:11 PM
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You poor thing. It's a horrible, horrible feeling. But you are deluding yourself. Your life isn't over, it's about to begin. These kinda guys suck you dry and leave you so empty and lost. It will take time to rebuild yourself. Don't regret it, he was cruel and disrespectful to you and will only ever cheat and hurt you. Without him, you will be able to make a happy life for yourself. You just have to get through for a while. Do you want to be 40 and find yourself still with this lowlife, cheating…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:32 PM
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Besides, women FILE for divorce more often This does not mean they ended the marriage. Typically, guys who cheat or leave because they can't handle the responsibilty of marriage and kids in their 20's, 30's and 40's dont care about the divorce. They want to live as bachelors, so there's no rush (and they're lazy). They also like retaining a sense of ownership over their abandoned wife. They may even harbour ideas about going back if they end up regretting their decision. Women file because they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:58 AM
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But still, your not with him, so you win. Even if you don't play the best cards at the break-up game, it's still to your advantage. And he was able to switch on you because you are the better, kinder person. So hold you head high and forget his LV ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:37 PM
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And another good example of why you snoop when you get the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:56 PM
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She is his ex for a reason, so unless his behavoour regarding her is inappropriate or he does anything that suggests he makes negative comparisons, you have nothing to worry about. Besides, your low self esteem is clouding your judgement and there is so much more to attraction than our basic features. However beautiful she is, she is in his past and he has chosen to be with you. Focus on your own needs, on vetting him and ensuring he meets YOUR standards. I HAVE heard a lot of caucasian men hold…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:46 PM
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I think 'The Wall' concept is hilarious. Yeah, a few wealthy or good looking older guys can easily pick up trashy, shallow or stupid young women. So what?They're a miniscule minority. It's such a lie. Men in their early 20's look at a 30 YO women and think 'yeah, not attractive, the wall is real'. Duh. Because you're 21 idiot. Wait till your 30 and then look. I love to think of these deluded, egotistical fools hitting their 40's and realising most women their age look 1000% better than they do a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:02 AM
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Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:26 PM
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I just pay it and then ghost. I don't actually need a man to buy my dinner. It's nothing to do with getting free food. I can afford food. It's about finding a man that knows how to treat you well. So, if he suggest splitting that's fine. His loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:01 PM
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Being single is great. It's better than being with a nasty man. It's better than being with a nice but low effort man. Stay single unless a man brings real value to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:47 AM
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Thank you! I am really into modern classic literature, mostly 19th and 20th century realist novels. It wss my main area of academic study and always meant to read a broader range after my diploma. I've been buying books at junk sales etc. for ever,, but in recent years haven't been reading them. Also, have started reading the Shakespeare plays that I didn't study before and accompanying study notes. I'd like to start buying and reading Greek mythology soon. I love how this sort of reading improv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:51 PM
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I've made a lot of changes to my habits, but most importantly had a huge mind-set shift. I stopped self-deprecating , especially where men are concerned. Used to always answer a compliment with a negative comment about my body. Now I thank them with an 'I agree' sort of tone. And never say anything negative about myself to them. I don't fret about how much a guy texts me etc. If I start feeling insecure or obsessive I throw my energy into my own interests and push guys out of my mind. I've been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:04 AM
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Of course, shaving is fine if it's something you are happy with. Personally I would never shave for a man again. For me it is an unwanted reminder of my pickmeisha past. I used to always be shaved, but I was only doing it because a lot of guys had expressed that preference and I didn't have the confidence to be true to myself. I don't believe the excuse of hair tickling their noses or whatever. Far more to do with porn and normalisation of prepubescent fantasies. Grown women have hair. It's actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:34 PM
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Stealth69pilot? 🤑 With a rapey handle like that, makes sense that he isnt interested in whether you enjoy seeing random dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:06 AM
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She's not young enough to risk waiting five years for 'we'll see'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:12 PM
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When I was 21 I got pregnant by accident, by having unprotected sex ONCE, at a time I thought was safe (just after my period) AND whilst using withdrawel. At 30 it took 8 months of trying before I conceived. At 35, I could not get pregneant at all. Two years of trying, nothing. This was all with the same male partner. You can never assume you will be able to have children later. Don't risk your chance at motherhood for a man. Don't let him tell you it's ok to wait till the end of your window. 'I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 09:17 AM
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In that 5 minutes that you blocked him he got really mad. He refreshed, he was completely attentive, he was pissed, it really, really got to him. That's how you get to him. Calling him out just gives him another opportunity to respond, an opportunity to be nasty, maybe even an opportunity to talk you into taking some more shitty behaviour from him and sucking his dick. He doesn't give a flying fuck about your point of view. Allowing contact only allows him to manipulate or attack you. He wins. B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:11 AM
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I dated a guy I met in OLD for 3 years. He was short, fat, 10 years older than me. All stuff he had lied about on his profile. He did zero personal grooming, like he showered plenty but never brushed or cut his hair or beard, which were so knotted it would take me an hour to brush for him. His clothes and shoes were full of stains and holes, but not because he couldn't afford stuff. He thought he was too superior to bother with such trifles and that he looked cool. His flat was a tip. He would h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:50 PM
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My best friend is in a LTR. They're really committed, want to get married, but currently live separately due to logistics, properties, kids etc. They've stopped seeing each other and t's really hard for them. My daughter usually goes to stay with her Dad every other weekend. But now she can't (she's over 18, but has autism so it's like she'sa child in many ways). It's breaking his heart. I've been seeing a guy for about a month before quarantine and we were getting on really well. I miss him. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:41 PM
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Even before FDS, when I was a total 'cool girl' I noticed it never works if you initiate. Guys lose interest quickly, it doesn't feel right to them, it's too easy so must be without value. A lot of the time they aren't even aware of this reaction, they will say they want women to approach them, but it actually doesn't get them excited or make them feel like they are winning anything worth having. If you aren't getting any attention on OLD you probably need to improve your profile. Take some time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:42 PM
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It all sounds rather egotistical and resentful to me. He's not looking to find fault, but he's forgiven you (so you were at fault) and you both need to change (so you were at fault). I hate how he keeps telling you that you love him. That's not for him to declare. He's only contacting you because he's started to panic. You didn't yearn and beg him l like he thought you would, and now he's actually starting to consider that maybe he will lose you after all if he doesn't act now. He's not believed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:36 PM
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Buy yourself clothes that fit. Nice clothes, for the way you are right now. It looks terrible when you try to scrape by with a bare minimum of basic clothing and worn out stuff because you don't want to invest in looking good. (It's actually how a lot of LVM dress). I agree with the previous poster that 128lb at 5'1" is not fat. You may never be size zero, and almost certainly wont be able to maintain that even if you did acheive it. Most models only do either through natural genetic tendency or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:23 PM
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Similar to I already know that - I have done this before. Guy the other day was giving me instructions on catching a spider when I already had it in a glass and was making ready with a piece of card - 'just slide it across' he says. Lol. I've managed my own spiders for decades my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:13 PM
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Some women are cruel about features a man has no control over like height, baldness or dick size, I don't think this is HV behavior and it's not something I do. But, the vast majority of times a disparaging remark about height comes up it is in response to a man being nasty about women's looks or standards. There's usually a context where the man has graded a woman with numbers, or is demanding some very high expectations in his dating profile, or is slating women in an obnoxious manner for havi…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 09:53 AM
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'Banter'. I see lot of profiles where the guy wants banter. It is a word so often used to justify and excuse sexual harrassment that it immediately rings alarm bells for me now. It also suggests he won't take you serioisly, he wants a lighthearted fling that wont demand any serious conversations or grown-up effort. He wants to lark about like a teenager with his homies, but slso get sex thrown in. But he doesn't want to have to mske an effort. And if he lets you down or acts an ass, he will try …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 08:36 AM
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Isn't it possible that HV men arn't perfect and might not have worked out how to maintain all their standards or fully value themselves? Just like all the HVW that needed FDS to recognize they were giving LVM too many chances out of empathy and kindness. And maybe needy, vulnerable women play into their instincts to protect and give care. I'm sure they wouldn't keep putting up with too much crazy for too long tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:44 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:34 PM
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Yes, this is what I do. Like OP, I don't really feel comfortable insisting that a man pays. And, I don't actually need him to. I AM a strong woman and I absolutely can pay for my own dinner. I just wouldn't see him again if that's how he wants to handle the bill. All the best guys I've dated have been keen to pay without any debate about it. That's how good men are. I also don't think you need to discuss it with your friends if they are unable to understand that. You can just say he didn't feel …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:50 PM
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Ppd sucks and it is such an acheivement to keep being Mom and getting through even the bare minimum of daily chores while dealing with that. You should be very proud, a must tell yourself so, even if you don't believe it at first. I'm glad to hear you are on the mend. Diet is incredibly important. I've noticed nothing helps my skin glow like a daily plate of raw veg. It annoys me that there are all these beauty videos telling young girls to slap on this or that product for better skin, but no me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:38 PM
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Absolutley, it's normal to fancy people in your own age group. There's nothing more off-putting to me than a dating profile that shows a rippling young torso (they still approach me plenty). I wouldn't feel sexy with my aging body next to that. Older men who want to bed young women are narcistic or entitled to think they should deserve that. They don't care if they are attractive enough and thus won't care if the woman has a good time. Its all about their own pleasure. And I also wouldn't be tur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:55 PM
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90% of them regret it when you don't care and just move happily on. Honestly, they nearly always come slithering back later, when they're thirsty. That's when you get the satifaction of saying a brief and nonchalant 'no thanks' and they kick themselves for letting you slip away. Becasue they always think you're gonna remain available. Forget the trash and focus on your own ever-improving life instead. You are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:03 AM
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He probably realised you're too good for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:53 AM
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They say men age better and use George Clooney as an example. Man, that guy is exceptionally rare. If you have OLD, try setting your age range to over 40's. 99% of them look terrible. Fat, unkept, bad haircuts etc. But lots of women still look great. It's an utter lie to say men age better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:48 AM
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That's not a wall. It's a hurdle. It can be hard when you notice the flush of youth has passed. And when you have young kids you are always tired and have less time to put into yourself. It's no way the end of being attractive tho. In my experience, it gets better and better once you adjust tio being a mature and beautiful woman rather than a fresh-faced one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:33 AM
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I'm 47. I don't look like Demi lol, bit I make an effort to dress well and keep quite fit. I have some laughter lines, my boobs aren't what they were and my hair isn'tas lustrous. But I feel more confident and comfortable in my skin now. I understand better what clothes and make-up suit me. I value myself for other qualities than my looks. I get way more male attention than ever. I get chatted up by men in their 30's, like regularly, and could have my pick of single men in my own age group. Dece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:26 AM
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Yuck indeed. It's astonishing that they can have so little insight into how that comes across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:56 AM
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Not lifting the panel certainly did 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:18 AM
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I was seeing this guy a few years ago, he wanted to just 'go with the flow' which was sex and therapy all weekend, and me paying for everything, without any commitment. I know, I was an idiot. Anyway, one day I asked him to help me lift a panel onto a shed I was building. I didn't want any more help than that, was quite happy to build it myself, but this one panel was a little too heavy for me alone. Would have taken 5 minutes. He said he hadn't come to do work, that it would 'spoil the mood'. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:36 AM
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You're right, they aren't discrete, and of course the levelling up is the priority. I have to say I don't think I did love myself particularly until I started to focus on that. My epiphany was more like 'why would anyone value me if I don't value myself'. I guess, as a lot of posters point out, it's about the stage you are at and how hard we as women can find it to reject low effort from men. How vulnerable we are to being so empathetic that we get used and abused. How conditioned we are to plea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:36 PM
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I still need help sometomes seeing through the BS and reminding myself not to let my guard down. Those posts help. And this is the dating strategy sub, not the levelling-up sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:32 PM
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Same guys would happily travel to your area to look at a car for sale or watch a football team. They are just entitled, trying to get you to make all the effort and have no interest in in treating you well. Who wants a boyfriend like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:51 AM
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If you assist someone in a suicide, you get tried for murder. Regardless of consent, it's illegal. Rough sex should never be entertained as a defense. It would make men think twice about even asking for risky sexual acts if they were going to be held accountable for ANY injuries, regardless of claiming there was consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:10 PM
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Just more manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:24 PM
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I was dead against having kids until I was almost 30 and never imagined I could possibly feel differently. Now I wish I had had more! You may well never change your mind but there are lots of other less drastic contraceptive choices that also pose less risk to your body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:01 PM
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$20 says porn is the whole of 'other habits'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:35 AM
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A lot of Studio Ghibli movies have excellent female protagonists that are smart, kind, brave and not defined by their success at winning a man. Kiki's Delivery Service, My Neighbor Totoro, Arriety are great for younger kids. Nausica, Laputa, Princess Monooko, Spirited Away, and Howls Moving Castle all good for slighly older. Whisper of the Heart is a teen love story that emphasises making a good choice and both parties being fulfilled, supporting each other and ensuring neither drop their educat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:17 PM
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I guess she is talking about the effort and thoughtfulness her bf is putting into the ring, how this makes her feel valued and how it continues to affirm his HV status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:09 PM
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Yes, they can do that in the UK. These laws were brought in to protect victims who were afraid to testify against their abusers and/or were trauma-bonded. It's a good idea on that level. Sometimes police were absolutely frustrated that they had plenty of evidence of abuse and may even have been concerned for the victim's life, but were unable to help and bring justice against the perpetrator without the victim agreeing to press charges. It is also used for cases of coercive control. Generally, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:25 PM
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It's way worse to have a bf on Valantines Day and get utterly let down than it is to spend it single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:43 PM
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This was my weakness too. I try to focus elsewhere rather than destract my self from the man. He is the distraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:37 PM
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