postmortictian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
38	I left and am now free.	Success Stories	postmortictian	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:10 AM
20	It’s done.		postmortictian	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/24 01:26 AM
9	I’m starting to change emotionally.	Dealing with the Ex / STBX	postmortictian	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/24 08:07 PM
7	A three year marriage	Dating After Divorce	postmortictian	/r/Divorce_Men	10/04/24 08:33 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I’m starting to change emotionally. Mine it’s classed as a “shared card” but as I put down on the stipulation I wrote up the card is entirely hers. Tomorrow gonna be on the phone to try and cut everything off. Edit: we had linked accounts not a singular shared account so while her credit card shows up on my credit because I think I am an authorized user.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/24 12:13 AM
1	Should I stop going to the gym where my wife had her affair? I know a lot of people here are bringing up a lot of Schadenfreude ideas but just reading the title dude. Find a new gym. Even better a whole new state. It’s what I did and the recovery has helped a lot.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/24 07:51 PM
3	It’s done. Well I figure she won’t go into it because the last time we talked before this she listed 3 things she had issue with. And basically it boiled down to She said she did unfair amounts of chores, I pointed out that when I wasn’t working as much I did all the chores the days she worked and helped on the days she didn’t. It basically boiled down to I didn’t want to go to church without her so I stayed home to be with her, also she had a history of self harm from depression and so I was a little worr…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/24 07:45 PM
3	Wife is divorcing me, do I have to me macho here and pretend it's not killing me? Get help when you need it. Find what friends you can confide in talk to them often. I’ve been on 8 hr calls with my sister in law. We were meant to cope with things by talking to other people we know. Don’t drink. Expect to have a hard time and sometimes you will have to mentally hold yourself down. I’ve had access to cliffs and guns so I know how easy it could be. Seek professional help. Sometimes you need to speak aloud to yourself in the car or just alone going through chores remind yourself …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/24 12:09 AM
3	A three year marriage I appreciate it. I do have good support too. Her family is actually on my side of things. I just have an anxiety born of being on the spectrum. But this sub is good support. I wish this sub was booted more.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/24 03:50 AM
4	A three year marriage I’m probably gonna have it settled within the week.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/24 01:41 AM