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pre_nerf_infestor/r/seduction21/04/13 03:09 AM
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pre_nerf_infestor/r/seduction29/07/13 01:17 AM
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pre_nerf_infestor/r/seduction18/04/13 05:39 PM
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how can you like someone you don't know? My recommendation is, try to find people you are curious about. Talk to them, be interested in them, see where it goes. IMO my best relationships have come about this way.
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:05 PM
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AM had their data leaked and basically all the women users were scammers directly hired by AM. Which makes perfect sense--what woman who wants to cheat needs a fucking online website to do it lol
/r/seduction18/12/25 04:06 AM
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Tell it the party that wears presidential merch lol
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:00 AM
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What? Of course they have. Doesn't mean the pickup stuff at the time, which was novel and frankly brilliant, hasn't aged out either. I'll give you my favorite example. In the game, one of the ways they demonstrated higher value was to carry around a pack of pgotos that they had "just picked up from the developer", showing them partying or riding jetskis or whatever. In 2005 showing this to a girl was probably like introducing dynamite to fishing. You wanna try that now and see what response you …
/r/seduction07/07/25 09:01 PM
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There's something nobody talks about regarding classic pickup - it was developed by a bunch of dudes ranging from slightly to very mentally ill, primarily for use on women in the Beverly Hills clubbing scene in the early 2000s, who were by definition out looking for fun. How well do you think that translates to the women of today, who basically bathes in social media, can recognize attempts at demonstrating status from a mile away, and have heard every line under the sun, not even on themselves,…
/r/seduction07/07/25 06:23 AM
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there are some truths that don't make sense except to people who have lived it. Neil Strauss couldn't have written The Truth before The Game. To me the point of learning seduction is to learn that you don't need it, but I would have never had this realization without trying to learn it first, you know?
/r/seduction30/05/25 06:36 AM
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The more you read the game the more you start to suspect that mystery got laid mostly because the shallow women of Beverly hills looked at this 2m tall freak in a hat and thought he must be in a band
/r/seduction07/04/25 11:28 PM
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I want to know how much you paid to learn that you should go to parties with more girls than guys.
/r/seduction19/03/25 04:17 PM
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real talk, as a father in his 30s and a layer of, well, more women than the average redditor, I can comfortably say I have never been held back by double checking if my partner really wanted it. If the best counterargument you have to "take an extra moment to protect yourself from a rape accusation and your partner from the trauma of sexual assault" is "but it ruins the magic of the moment" you might have to rethink how you're approaching your sexual encounters.
/r/seduction20/02/25 10:20 PM
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reading comprehension's in short supply these days. > she is not so confortable aproaching other girls and does not like when i do it, and she said that would not like hook up with someone that we already know/spend time with
/r/seduction13/12/24 08:31 AM
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> wants a threesome > does not like any of the ways threesomes most commonly happen you can still use the internet (dating apps/swinger websites) but bro, this is starting to sound like a trap. if she doesn't like it when you approach a girl, how do you think she's gonna feel watching you balls deep in one? this is outside the scope of your question but you might want to have a really in depth convo with her to check if a threesome is something she actually wants or is saying because she thinks …
/r/seduction12/12/24 05:16 PM
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> Consider this example too: Would you prefer to have a Bugatti in Monaco or a mediocre car in Colombia? I know you were trying to make a point about relative buying power but if this choice was offered in real life and somebody picks the latter they might actually be mentally disabled
/r/seduction24/11/24 11:08 AM
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I've seen it. It taught me that most pua theory is bullshit. Don't have the video to prove it to you sorry. Basically the setup is 4 guys, 2 losers, 1 alpha (tall, loud, 90s punk rocker vibe), and our pua hero. Here are the things he did exceptionally that night, on camera: Opening stage, brought the girl flowers. Loser 1 eliminated. Sit down stage, bought himself and the girl champagne. Loser 2 eliminated. Dance stage, killed it on the floor. Rocker eliminated. Fwiw rocker didn't go home alone …
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:49 AM
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Yes truly the way to becoming sigma, by putting your meager income towards funding the lavish lifestyle of another man
/r/seduction06/09/24 08:17 AM
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Well, at least you paid for the lesson twice, so it'll hopefully stick. If it doesn't, school's always in session.
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:53 AM
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Remember that sedditors are redditors first...and would you bet on a redditor having a healthy attitude about women?
/r/seduction11/07/24 05:39 AM
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The infiltration of 4chan incel lingo into daily conversation is a tragedy for the English language
/r/seduction26/06/24 05:42 PM
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Go read some field reports by people who have gone 100 or 1000 plus approaches or matches on tinder with no date or no lay. If it was pure RNG they should not be striking out this badly. The truth is, there's no guarantee for success but there absolutely are guarantees for failure. People like you see the first half and forget the second. Seduction can teach you to maximize the former and minimise the latter. Your life is in your control. Don't give up control to "rng". This is grinding for life…
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:45 PM
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I'm honestly more interested in your exact relationship with this girl (social proof = yes, obviously lol). Client? Business dealings? But she also sings at your business functions? Is that a gig? So many questions!
/r/seduction21/05/24 09:12 PM
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this is the kind of misery that people create for themselves when they have no real problems in their lives
/r/seduction17/03/24 10:02 PM
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I come here cuz it's like a cross between a museum and a zoo lol. seddit helped me when i need it but thankfully this was long before everybody on the internet went crazy.
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:44 PM
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Yeah so to answer your question directly: they're completely outdated. The game is a fun read but if you try their techniques now you will find out what being tasered feels like.
/r/seduction08/02/24 12:13 AM
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Lmao you don't know about this?? Dude this is my favorite bit about the mystery method. The crew kept a pack of photos on them showing them doing cool stuff like hanging out at parties and jetskiing, and would tell the girls "they just picked up some freshly developed photos" and pull them out to show them. This was before everybody had smart phones. Really ahead of their time. I'd love tonfind out somebody's experience trying this in 2024.
/r/seduction07/02/24 10:58 PM
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Why don't you keep a pack of "freshly developed photos" on you to demonstrate high value and find out, hotshot
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:54 AM
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As long as there's no malice or harm and they have good intentions, I'm fine with it. The problem is the perception of harm fucks it up for everybody else because they're so uncalibrated in the first place. It's like a shitty fisherman destroying the habitat for everybody else so plenty soon no one can fish anymore.
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:02 AM
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you can acknowledge it's imperfect logic and yet still cling to it. Wouldn't it be nice to just swap it for a different set of imperfect logic that is more constructive?
/r/seduction28/10/22 10:10 PM
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While this is a great resource I want to caution everybody here that you do not need 80+ self improvement books to really make serious progress towards self improvement. In fact, by that point you're probably just running from your problems again in the guise of trying to find the perfect instructions for self improvement. Read one book. Like, two max. Really absorb it, take its message to heart, reflect on how your life can change. Reading is the easy part.
/r/seduction27/10/22 04:02 PM
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Most of the doctors I've dated or are friends with who are single and never married are not happy. Hard to corroborate that but that's because all the doctors I know are in families haha. I think that doctors in general prefer stability (you kind of have to with such a long career path). The people who would thrive with nonstop adventures wouldn't even apply for med school most of the time. They're probably on wall street or driving racecars or making travel vlogs.
/r/seduction31/08/22 08:32 AM
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General mindset: that attracting women is a learnable skill and not just based on being rich or handsome. I met my wife as a student and I'm like...a soft 6 with flattering clothes (and if thats self judgement im probably a 4 or 5 tops), but can put my best foot forward (good personality). Skills: conversation skills (wife said a all her previous dates were like job interviews), date planning, projecting confidence without going alpha chimp (I haven't got the body to pull that off). Big fucking …
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:54 AM
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Sorry I'm a huge dork lmao but everyone's a work in progress. Cool doctors (or doctors who like to project coolness) tend to be shit at the actualy job in my experience anyway.
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:34 AM
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Introduced by a friends wife lmao
/r/seduction31/08/22 06:52 AM
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Doctor. Not only am I happily married with child, but I was shacked up first year out of medical school. Most of my classmates were the same, and usually with fellow classmates. I'm proud to have married a non doctor because frankly we're all a bit mad. Once in a while you'd get a real player in the group but they are fea and far in between. Literally too busy at work to fuck. So your speculation is right based on my experience. PS. Why am I in this sub? Because 1. The sub helped me land my wife…
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:32 PM
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I want to watch someone run the mystery method in 2022, just pull out a pack of photos they had "just picked up from the developers" to demonstrate higher value. The reaction videos to that would probably fuel youtube's ad revenue for the next century.
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:17 AM
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well, what soured me on "the community" was the number of pickup artists getting called out for sexual harrassment, or starting weird cults, or straight up shooting a girl in the face because she wouldn't date you. There was a guy who worked out of Vancouver, some asian guy with a man bun I think. talked a big talk about new-age shit, getting men to be confident and respectful, whatever, except he got called out repeatedly for being a creep who won't take "no" for an answer. His texts got public…
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:16 PM
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Ah, youve read the game, good. Therea a story in the game that has stuck with me for all these years, where a pickup artist (without revealing himself as such) goes on a dating show and beats out three other guys to take the prize girl home. the way Neil Strauss describes it, the man was basically some kind of pussy slaying zen master and did and said all the right things. Then you watch the episode, and what does he do? He dressed well (no peacocking), bought champagne for the girl, and knew ho…
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:50 AM
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It's pretty ironic isn't it? Men fall into toxicity because of lack of experience with women, women fall into toxicity because of experience with men.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:09 PM
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Yeah and I hope you don't measure yourself against those men. If you do though...see above re dive bars.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:30 AM
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Do you want to fuck below average women? No? So why would a woman want to fuck a below average man? Remember, the male population includes superstars, but it also includes rapists, murderers, crippling alcoholics, jobless videogame addicts, and people who cum on anime figurines. Work on yourself. Ps. If you answered "yes" to the above question, there are dive bars with middle aged women looking to make a bad decision in every town.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:01 AM
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>Could this line of reasoning be applied to a lady bringing up the fact she a boyfriend during a pleasant yet normal conversation. No. that, in my experience, is usually a straight up (but polite) rejection. its connotations are very different.
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:54 PM
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Consensual tho. Unless op is lying about his status and wealth (maybe don't do that) I see no reason to be ashamed.
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:40 PM
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What are you afraid of exactly? You're not fucking her parents. Unless your two jobs are dealing crack and child trafficking you should be able to hold your head up high in any situation. If they can't respect you for working hard, that's on them. Also, Personal experience: having parental resistance to a relationship usually makes the girl double down. If you actually like her I think it'd be a great move.
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:32 AM
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Right away alarm bells are ringing, because anybody who promises results without changing who you are is probably selling particularly shitty snake oil. She leaves in 2 months. She measages you first (everybody here can attest to how rare that is). There is clearly interest on her part. You don't need The Scrambler to tell you what to do.
/r/seduction11/05/21 05:02 PM
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People know now that it was all marketing eh, I actually partially disagree on this point, mostly because stuff like DHV and conversation routines are basically meant to imitate attractive traits like being rich or worldly or being good at conversation. But eventually women always wise up. Early PUAs were centered around LA and you can imagine it one day got to a point where every attractive woman in an LA club will have heard Strawberry Fields.
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:52 PM
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Can you imagine going to r/football and being like "this sub is great! It promotes having better stuff to do other than football, and it's a great mentality!" If people here need to be told to go to the gym, get a job, and read books, they're in more trouble than we thought. Face it, the reason pickup made this transition towards general self improvement is because it was getting to be too predatory (edit: also because early puas made some wrong assumptions about why their actions were working),…
/r/seduction09/05/21 10:01 PM
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This is my personal opinion, from somebody who's followed seduction since the Ross Jeffries days, but more like an amateur anthropologist than any serious participant. Something that people don't like to...acknowledge is the fact that most men who study the game will one day quit the game. Take the easy road of the "blue pill life", so to speak. Because most men don't need any more than a committed loving relationship to feel like they've found their place in the universe. This was my favorite t…
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:00 AM
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I love that an actually useful field report is receiving just completely garbage feedback, really shows the state of the subreddit. For everyone who's not OP: if you have nothing to contribute - ESPECIALLY if you're not going out and approaching - don't try to tear other people down. Shut up and learn something.
/r/seduction03/05/21 01:36 AM
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For me personally, this seems like many modern women desire to have all the privileges that come with being a wife, without giving anything in return. My question is why is that? ...are you really asking why people want good things without having to give up anything? What's next, are you gonna ask why men wanna fuck an instagram model without having to pay for her shit or taking her photos? People put in how much they feel is worth putting in. A woman will cook & clean for a man who they think i…
/r/seduction11/04/21 07:16 PM
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Lmao mark's #1 hater at it again Just mention your own book now dude no need to start calling people virgins in the comments
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:55 AM
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Here's my interpretation of your two examples. I will admit they require extrapolation and mark probably could've made their points better, but they really require no further interpreting than the average bible passage. if you don't approach a woman you find beautiful, you're being dishonest. You're being dishonest to yourself and your desire. Ideally we'd always approach someone we felt attracted to right? So if I don't, why not? Most people at this point would make up an excuse (classics being…
/r/seduction29/03/21 12:30 PM
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I don't see why this is a controversial point. anybody who's had any experience with normal women knows that their favorite thing in the world is not having to worry about stupid fucking bullshit, safe in the knowledge that their man will take care of it or has already. That is because not having to worry about stupid bullshit is my favorite thing in the world too. A man's definition of what constitutes bullshit may differ from a woman's, probably less than you think, but the sentiment is the sa…
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:04 PM
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The conventional wisdom is that older dudea have it easier with younger girls...I know when I was in university (10 years ago now jesus) the hottest girls who had boyfriends, they were at least 3 to 5 years older. Has that changed?
/r/seduction08/03/21 03:22 PM
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Who the fuck still calls a girl target? Mate youre not a xenomorph, grow some self awareness before you drive a van into a crowd of people just because you can't get laid.
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:44 PM
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Bro what the fuck is a sigma male? Is he masterminding the reploid rebellion?
/r/seduction18/02/21 02:57 PM
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Dont hate the player, hate the game. Literally hate The Game. I'm happily married now but was big into the seduction scene as a horny teenager back in 2003/04. Always read more than i did like everybody else. There was one bit of the Mystery Method that always struck me as hilarious--in the days before smartphones were a tjing, in order to demonstrate higher value, these dudes would literally carry around a small pack of photos that they "had just developed" showing them at parties and traveling…
/r/seduction06/01/20 11:30 AM
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PUT. THOSE ROOFIES. DOWN. Roofies are for closers only.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:33 PM
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Oof. I'm sorry man, but the road that you're on leads nowhere.
/r/seduction23/05/16 01:43 PM
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I hope the irony of a Pua blogger using the author of American Psycho as his pen name is not lost on everyone involved.
/r/seduction21/05/16 10:46 AM
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The only sadder thing than lording it over women for self validation is lording it over other, "lower value" men for self validation.
/r/seduction27/03/16 04:54 PM
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Women act a certain way. For the most part they're a lot like us, they're still people. If guys learned this by the time they turned 11, we'd all be in a better place. Instead, we begin by putting them on a pedestal, and then when we find out they can't live up to our unrealistic image of them we get angry and think that they ain't worth shit. It took me more time than I should've needed to climb out of that dark hole, and I am quite ashamed of it.
/r/seduction22/02/16 02:10 AM
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Caramba. Every other week, some self proclaimed introvert posts another one of these self congratulatory, life affirming proclamations, telling the rest of us basement dwelling nerds how we're beautiful in our own special way. This is missing the Goddamn point. I mean...Crazy aggressive? What? Being an extrovert doesn't Goddamn mean what you think it means, which is apparently a frat bro in a college movie. It means going to talk to women, to engage them as people, a thing that pound for pound, …
/r/seduction13/02/16 05:33 AM
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You wouldn't be asking this if you had finished the book, I guarantee you. 2002 was a different time...notice the bit about having an envelope of photos of your recent funtimes? Definitely was a game changer back when smartphones didn't exist. Trying that now is straight up embarrassing. Fact is, we live in a post-The Game world, one irreversibly changed not only by men who grew up reading it but also by women who've dealt with the men who grew up reading it. It's left the techniques and scripts…
/r/seduction29/10/15 10:55 PM
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I've never had that problem, I've only dated crazy ones, but luckily they've all been the right kind of crazy.
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:56 PM
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Gun range. Fencing. Low tide at a beach that also had a rabbit Warren. Man I miss vancouver.
/r/seduction05/08/15 12:07 PM
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Let's get nerdy for a second. Anatomically, olfaction is the only sense that passes from your sensory organ directly into your brain without filtering and processing. So, yeah. It's powerful!
/r/seduction09/10/14 06:05 PM
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but to. BUT TO. Come on dude!
/r/seduction05/10/14 08:44 PM
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This is an out of context quote for SRS waiting to happen lol
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:43 PM
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You could just shrug and say "OP passed the shit test", "OP was looking for feedback on his comedy on the side", or fall back on psychology and say "a negative reaction was better than no reaction". All three of those answers are valid, you pick what you feel like is best.
/r/seduction13/12/13 06:08 AM
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I just want to point out that saturation is not the only way out of neediness. In fact it's not even the best way out of neediness. Not being needy doesn't mean "have so much sex I couldn't keep my dick hard". It means "have so many equally good things competing for sex that it doesn't matter if I sleep alone a couple nights". Secondly, being creepy here simply means basing your validation--and therefore your overall motive--on putting your penis inside of another person. This is creepy because …
/r/seduction13/11/13 08:05 PM
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"No, You just aren't the right skin color." What? On topic: Not sure if it's considered rude to object to a mod or whatever but I honestly don't like Tofu's guide very much, chiefly because it makes a initially very tough thing seem too easy and wreck newbie motivation with the shock of its actual difficulty. Also because his quote unquote misogynist language and confrontational attitude got all seduction material banned from Kickstarter. That doesn't really help things either. I would caution y…
/r/seduction18/07/13 11:49 AM
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Who the hell is going to tell a man who's never eaten cake before to only eat one slice and save some for later?
/r/seduction07/05/13 04:23 PM
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OP please deliver. As you can imagine, many many people come here because they're introverts who (perhaps mistakenly) want to learn to be extroverts. Your words would be tremendously helpful.
/r/seduction06/05/13 10:43 PM
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One quick note for future reference: a full on makeout will "get it out of the system" for many people, so if you want to make something happen, isolate, etc. you need to keep it at a basic level. Quick kiss, nothing more. Not exactly what someone in your situation is able to do, just to remember for next time. You know how they say "the right amount is when they ask for more"? Yeah.
/r/seduction06/05/13 12:23 AM
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I know this is totally beta but is it an acceptable way to start out? Ignoring the Greek letter terminology for a second (I personally hate the concept, purely from a philosophical point of view), there are still pages upon pages of reasons why you shouldn't do that. It's passive, you're at her mercy, it in no way sets you apart from other guys--but the worst outcome in my opinion is if God forbid this actually works. Because this will be the start of a bad habit. Why should you EVER ask for num…
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:06 PM
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You've got two choices--you can do what you're doing and keep getting rejected until it doesn't matter to you anymore, at which point a switch will flip Looks & the right skin color will help you. But they don't have to hurt you. As an Asian kid I would have never believed this if I didn't see it with my own eyes. The biggest ladykiller I know is a pudgy Indian law student. Choice #2 is to find girls of your own ethnicity. This is both harder and easier than choice 1--I personally prefer white g…
/r/seduction28/04/13 01:15 AM
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This guy is an 8: fit, well dressed, gorgeous eyes, and sober. Emphasis mine, but the upvote is all yours. Good read.
/r/seduction26/04/13 01:58 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I will give it a shot for the comedy value if nothing else. However, I'd caution about the idea of finding some godly technique to...icebreak or what have you. Using the same line or lines over and over will feel stale and robotic, and take the fun out of the interaction. Best to be original and exercise creative muscle.
/r/seduction25/04/13 09:36 PM
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Some people need training wheels, man. Don't judge.
/r/seduction25/04/13 09:33 PM
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From now on I'm gonna tell my friends to "check out this low-elo gank" whenever I make an approach. Have an upvote.
/r/seduction25/04/13 09:27 PM
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There were actually two examples in the book. The first example was a natural, and he converted to Judaism. Here are the relevant quotes. I realized that I got my entire validation from women. Women became like gods to me, but false gods. So I went to find the real god. And I idealized a lifestyle and behavior that were corrupt; I abhorred kidness, mercy, human diginity, and intimacy. Instead, I used, degraded, and exploited women. I thought only about my pleasure. I despised the good instincts …
/r/seduction25/04/13 08:47 PM
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The current metagame (heh) trends toward direct but you shouldn't ask her if it's a date, because that makes it her choice and takes away your say in the matter. As an example of an alternative, you could jokingly say "I can't believe you asked me out, it's so forward of you". So- spin it as a statement, not question. Spin it as her idea, not yours. That would be my emphasis.
/r/seduction25/04/13 08:10 PM
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In a place filled with success stories it is sobering to read something like an "I quit" letter. Thanks for sharing. To be honest, women are sort of the "objective" but the first thing people will tell you is that success with them is a result of being a confident, outgoing, congruent man, not the other way around. If your "confidence" came from a practiced look rather than actually being comfortable with who you are, then it's not real confidence and you're missing the forest for the trees. Sid…
/r/seduction25/04/13 08:06 PM
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Thanks for offering your help. from what you've seen of the people you've helped, How much of it is down to an improvement of game and how much can be chalked up to simply talking to way more people than before? Obviously both are important, but whenever I try to discuss the game with outside friends the inevitable response is "yea, if you talk to enough people anything will work." as a girl I'm guessing you get hit on a reasonable amount. Can you tell the difference between a good approach and …
/r/seduction25/04/13 07:59 PM
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If you're treading this path and not getting the results you want to, or thinking of giving up, I have one word for you...... PERSEVERE!! 19? 19. How much persevering did you have to do, dude? Were you born with negative age? I kid though. Congrats on the change--as you now know it's all in the mind. Hope you apply this positivity to everything from here on out.
/r/seduction25/04/13 03:43 PM
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Haha, you picked exactly the right subject to respond about. I don't mean to one-up you, but I got into university at the age of 15, finished my first degree and got into medical school when I was 19. While academically I was--no lie--pretty hot shit, you can probably imagine what spending basically the entirety of university under legal drinking age did to my social life. Now here I am, in the last year of medical school--about to be a doctor for fuck's sake--trying to learn the social awarenes…
/r/seduction24/04/13 01:56 AM
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Hey man, This is going to be long-winded, but I hope you'll take the time to read it. To tell the truth it's as much for myself as for you. If you've not got the time, then I'll just leave this quote here. It is the message I am trying to illustrate, that nothing is unconquerable (and somethings are ONLY conquerable) if you stay persistent. I'll be honest, I actually find your post quite inspiring. I feel just the same kind of massive, seemingly insurmountable approach anxiety, and I also slip i…
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:56 PM
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Maybe I wasn't clear or maybe you misread. The comment was her friend. Her friend's Irish if that matters.
/r/seduction21/04/13 05:05 PM
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Hey guys, have read all of your responses (but can't reply to everyone). Here's my takeaway from this. This was obviously a shit test and I failed badly. But at first I thought I failed because I didn't know what to do. That's not true--I would have known exactly what to do if those were two guys (or girls I'm not attracted to) that I was going to meet for drinks. I'd have either playfully mocked the friend for being a douche, or actually going over to the other side while giving him the finger,…
/r/seduction21/04/13 03:47 PM
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AFAIK China, Russia, the UK, and some of mainland Europe lets you enter med school right out of high school (at the age of 18). I'm Canadian, but through...circumstances I was able to enter university at a young age and graduate. Did wonders for my social life, as you might imagine.
/r/seduction18/04/13 11:25 PM
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You're 17, and this is your first close encounter with the female kind. Why are you on seddit? You simply haven't got the life experience to have a clarity of purpose required to get what you want out of seduction. I don't mean this in a high-and-mighty way, hell I am only a few years up on you, I just mean that you really don't know what you want. Some people have been awkward with women their whole lives (twice, even three times as long as you've lived) and want to learn the social skills that…
/r/seduction16/04/13 01:16 AM
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The best field reports are a perfect mixture of documentary, inspiration, and entertainment. Then you had to go and reference Tastosis. Bravo, sir. You have a rad life.
/r/seduction08/04/13 11:12 PM
6

You can go back to her later on in the night if you've built enough attraction, kissed, etc. You can also not shift attention, take her by the hand, etc.
/r/seduction08/04/13 12:25 AM
1

There you go. Lots of girls like "assholes"--which the pickup community has rightly defined as "independent guys who make their own way and don't live and die for a female's opinion". On recovering: one of the techniques talked about on seddit a lot is Affirm and Magnify--so if she says "you're hot, but an asshole", you hit back with "actually I'm the hottest asshole you'll ever know". Does it work? Who knows, try it out! Hell I'm still in the beginning stages, trying to internalize what some ha…
/r/seduction06/04/13 10:59 PM
2

You gotta remember that everybody has different sensitivities, doubly so if the girl is not...a 10, for lack of a better description. One of the old tenets of elders like Mystery and Neil Strauss was that heavy teasing only works for girls who have screened and turned guys away for geological ages. An average girl would like a little more sugar and a little less tabasco, let's say--and the techniques that works for a supermodel would blow the average girls right up. addendum: would you prefer to…
/r/seduction06/04/13 10:28 PM
1

Well, seddit FRs are as much for inspiration as they are for documentation. The dude spins a decent yarn and I'd love to replicate his success.
/r/seduction06/04/13 02:10 AM
2

well, report back if you do.
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:43 AM
3

Huh, no one's taken a crack at this yet, let me have a go. Questions first, additional comments/warning signs later. How not put her on a pedestal? It's hard to answer this question because the answer is "don't, learn to be outcome independent", but everyone can see you are outcome dependent as balls right now. Put your fun ahead of everyone else--you enjoy dancing? You enjoy bump & grind? You enjoy the fact that hot girls actually give you the time of day? Then bask in it. Forget "sarging"--god…
/r/seduction05/04/13 09:20 PM
4

let's say I'd like meeting her again, without AFC in the background. Well there you go, problem solved. Get the number, keep good energy but don't escalate to unbearable levels (that's poor etiquette at a small house party regardless, I feel), and do this on your terms. A side note about stuff like "owing him nothing": yes. You don't owe HIM anything. But you owe YOURSELF two things: 1, the fact that you've not added misery to the world by rubbing another man's inadequacies into his face, and 2,…
/r/seduction05/04/13 09:06 PM
1

Nowadays this is the only thing I can think of when I see this question.
/r/seduction05/04/13 09:01 PM
3

Naturals are awful teachers. At best they'll give you a bunch of feel-good crap about being yourself, a meaningless phrase without explaining what part of yourself you need to keep and what part you need to change. At worst they'll literally be Barney Stinson and tell you to "be attractive, don't be unattractive". They simply can't process that some people just don't have their talent. Kind of like how I made a 25 year old girl cry when I could not process how she couldn't calculate the square r…
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:00 PM
2

Just reread The Game, huh. I think the relevant phrase here is to "become outcome independent". If whatever it is you're doing isn't actually making you feel good, then stop. Even if it's sargin'. Look at where RSD has gone. If we assume The Game was halfway accurate about how Tyler started out, then he's come a long long way since then. What changed? He accumulated the interesting life experiences that come only with TIME that he was missing in 2001/02. If you've already got the hobbies and tra…
/r/seduction05/04/13 12:51 AM
4

Never. My mistake must stand in context. Funnier that way.
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:12 PM
2

Be careful trying to bring your "alpha" personality out! Your friends know you as Dr. Jekyll, not Mr. Hyde. They will read it as you trying to impress this girl by boosting yourself up, like a bird puffing its chest out to look bigger or something. At which point you're just like every other male. Could be worse, I suppose.
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:44 PM
1

It seems to me (as a guy) that your primary concern should be someone trying to get you drunk and date-raping you...not how to pick up a guy you like, because that is too easy. Don't get too drunk, don't let your drink out of your sight, have a good exit strategy in case you're not having a good time (just like Iraq), and listen to the other guys here offering more relevant advice.
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:40 PM
1

Flirting should not--is not--limited to just women you want to have sex with, frankly. Lots of people enjoy friends with a little bit of zest, or whatnot. It also can improve interactions in not necessarily purely social contexts--the free drinks of good waitress game is a fine example. If you actively don't want the attention of someone then I guess it's a different matter. Just go beta with them or something, have a polite boring conversation.
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:37 PM
15

the concept that women are likely to increase their attraction to men who already demonstrate that they are attractive women. Practically speaking you are more likely to get positive responses out of women if you are at a bar with female friends than if you are there with male friends, or by yourself. The economic equivalent would be that those who are rich are likely to get richer. EDIT: "men who already demonstrate that they are attractive TO women". Whups. Although my male-dressing lesbian fr…
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:33 PM
12

Well done, you. Their heads did all the work you'd normally need to do, and that's the best way to do things. Slightly off topic: the populist in me hates, hates, HATES, the fact that pre-selection exists and works, because it's a system almost tailored to create the inequality of alpha males: the 20% of dudes who do 80% of the fucking. Ah well, all the male frustration in the world isn't going to rewire a woman's brain. Best get practicing.
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:21 PM
1

Besides from the fact that everything from "what to do after that" onwards reads more like a bragging manifesto than a request for advice, you already know the answer ("don't shit where you eat"). Unless you're going to med school in some kind of hamlet it's big enough for you to not sleep with people you want to keep as friends.
/r/seduction04/04/13 12:42 PM
1

Dude, you're 18. Do whatever. Long walk in the park, or a music show, or what. You'll probably be fine, and if not, the problems you have (lack of life experience for interesting conversation, inability to be outcome independent) won't be curable by Seddit.
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:33 AM
135

sometimes a fish just jumps right into the boat...
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:31 AM
3

you don't read sober. Go to bed buddy, you'll feel better in the morning.
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:14 AM
2

I don't think people come to r/seduction to remember the days of oneitis past. Perhaps try r/relationships, r/niceguy, or r/foreveralone? Or perhaps you don't do this, because it is like deliberate self-harm, like picking a scab. One chump to another, this is here for you to better yourself, not to wallow in misery. Also I'm impressed that she rates an exact 8.7. Suppose I should be thankful you didn't go to three sig-figs.
/r/seduction03/04/13 08:30 AM
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