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Debateprettymuchredpilled/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 04:42 AM
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Lower levels of testosterone and higher levels of estrogen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:44 AM
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Well I agree that men should stop trying so hard to get women online. (Unless they look like this guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:53 AM
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Cool, well thanks for proving my point. Congrats on defeating the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:43 AM
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Wait if that's true then why do you still want to "exclusively get messages from people I want to talk to"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:25 AM
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Yeah exactly, but are you ready to compete with other women for attention from the Chad you really want?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:05 AM
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Sure, you'll see men abandon their kids more often than women do. That's a consequence of biology, women are naturally more likely to be empathetic towards others (especially their children) than men are thanks to hormones and psychology. But this works both ways; men also receive less empathy than women do. Not saying it's justified to abandon your kids, but it makes sense to give less empathy when you receive less of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:03 AM
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Those men either procreated with women who turned out to be awful human beings after the fact, or they had low standards and accidentally knocked up a chick they weren't that into.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:22 PM
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But ultimately these kids become workhorses for the US economy which extracts their surplus value, so it's more like an investment for your retirement portfolio.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:21 PM
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I said this in another post but I think it bears repeating here: Women love to brag about "men being expendable" because they get countless messages from men in their inbox. The thing is, it's not a flex at all. Women are playing a difficult game. You see, women are much more monogamous than men are. Women really really want commitment from the best man they can get. If she chooses a man that's too valuable, she runs the risk of ending up used and spat out for the next chick, needlessly increasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:00 PM
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Men tend to have an innate visceral repulsion to single mothers and promiscuous women. Evolutionarily we only want to invest in children that we're certain are ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:51 PM
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I wouldn't say most are just looking for sex, but ultimately it doesn't matter if a girl gets 100 messages or 10,000 messages, females are naturally more monogamous than men and she's always going to aim for the best guy she can get. And the Chad she's aiming for is probably also talking to boatloads of other chicks. And with standards as high as hers, she's ultimately doomed to end up in Chad's soft harem. Judging by her poisonous narcissistic attitude, she's certainly already been played, used…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:49 PM
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The end result of widespread high-speed high-definition Internet porn and a culture that demonizes traditional masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:31 AM
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Women wishfully think it'll lead to commitment from Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:17 PM
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Because they have incredible numbers of men swarming their inboxes. If a woman is only attracted to 3% of men but she receives 500 messages, that's 15 men she can choose from for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:14 PM
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Literally all women need to do to be dateable is lose weight, and maybe put on some makeup. It's so simple for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:27 PM
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Any decently sized city is good enough as long as you have good in-person game. Dating apps are bad for men no matter where you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:12 PM
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"My husband (who pays all the bills) forgot to do the dishes one time. Should I divorce this misogynistic piece of shit?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:07 PM
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/r/TwoXChromosomes posts be like: "Today at the gym a man looked in my direction, and this triggered a visceral disgust from the bottom of my soul. Never in my life have I ever felt so raped and violated. He walked over to me with that glazed, predatory look in his eyes and that horrifying patriarchal smile, and said hello. I immediately reached in my purse (hoping he would think I was carrying a glock pistol) and told him to STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME OR YOU'RE DEAD MEAT, MALE. The man shrugged…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:48 PM
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Female privilege isn't necessarily about ease of access to sex, it's more about ease of access to social groups and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:29 AM
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Some celebs really aren't that cute. Selena Gomez for instance is highly overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:27 AM
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That's also how women pick the men they want to sleep with. They'll take an evil confident guy over a insecure nice guy any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:32 AM
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I could easily post one of those TikTok interviews of cherrypicked drunk women at the club and be like "See that? All women are dumb whores with double-digit body counts!". That's the same logic you're using.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:29 AM
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Photography is the most basic shit ever. I like a woman who can paint.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:47 AM
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Because if I give honest commentary about the differences between men's and women's mate preferences in other subs I'll get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:45 AM
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6'2" wealthy straight handsome male with natural charisma, athletically and intellectually gifted, and a perfect family. That's about the best you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:33 AM
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It's a fault of Reddit's lack of complete anonymity. If someone can find some personal dirt on you to undermine your credibility, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:43 PM
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The "bad boys" are good at faking it, reddit incels are not. Nice guys aren't even trying. A lot of "bad boys" actually genuinely have very good social intelligence, they just choose to wield it immorally and often get away with it since they can mesmerize people with their charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:15 AM
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You think women are too stupid to weigh the pros and cons themselves? You don't think they're already doing this and realizing that being single and sexless generally sucks compared to the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:50 PM
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And yet the pros seem to outweigh the cons, because most women still date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:05 PM
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Unless the man is rich, making 6+ figures Most men aren't making 6 figures, and yet most men are in (or have been in) relationships. So then why are women going for these men if they have "nothing to gain" from them? But for the majority of men in the dating market, there is really nothing they can provide that a woman can’t already get somewhere else. By and large, women innately desire attractive men. The only way for a woman to get an attractive man is by dating them. Going out and having fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:42 PM
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The study you posted in no way says women are “better off” looking for a man than staying single. That’s an individual decision based on an individual situation and individual reasons. Again, some individual women can be happy single. But overall, women tend to generally be happier partnered up than single. Either way, the notion that single women are the "happiest demographic" is a complete lie as proven by my study. That's the point of this thread. The fact that the largest group of convicted …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:44 PM
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Well, my take is based on scientific facts, and your take is based on your fee-fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:02 PM
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Sure dude just like every male on this subreddit u just happen to be 6'4 Nah, less than 1% of men are actually that tall. ultra Chad I have a lot of self-confidence if that's what you mean. Women are drawn to that and find it sexy. who fucks a new 18 year old insta model every night They're usually more early twenties, but yeah I tend to go for younger women. just happen to be autistically obsessed with proving just how much women would be miserable without lame dicks in their life. Nah, I'm jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:44 PM
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Its extremely hard to find a decent masculine man, Sounds like a skill issue to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:56 PM
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How foolishly sexist of you to assume that no women agree with my (factual) take.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:19 PM
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Why does the thought of women being happy single bother you all so much? I don't care if women are single and happy, but I'm sick of hearing the lie that "single women tend to be happier than married women". Women don’t want shitty relationships. They’re unhappy being with males who suck at being partners and males they no longer find attractive. Therefore they are happier single. Again, you're talking about individual cases. I'm talking about overall. On average, women are better off partnered …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:27 PM
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Speak for yourself, plenty of women want to date me. But I'm extremely picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:25 PM
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Can you provide some examples of people claiming what you say they are claiming? https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/126s8xh/single_women_without_children_are_the_happiest/ https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/vdd3w7/sure_nevermind_that_single_unmarried_women_are/ https://www.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/sqskd0/study_finds_single_women_without_children_are_the/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/144gcc3/why_is_it_hard_for_men_to_believe_that_women_are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:36 PM
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Precisely. Sadly I overestimated the intelligence of the average PPD user.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:32 PM
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Wow, what a strawman. If I had a dollar for every time someone replied to this thread while completely missing the point I'd be richer than Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:27 PM
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Surely you're smart enough to understand the difference between group-level average happiness and individual happiness. Obviously some women are single and happy. But on average, single women are not as happy as partnered women. So if the average woman wanted to increase her life satisfaction, then based on statistics she's probably better off seeking out a relationship with a man rather than sitting at home with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:25 PM
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Whether single women or married women are happier will always be up for debate. Lol nah, it's pretty much settled science that married women are happier than single women on average. And research and statistics can be moulded to "prove" either side. I trust UC Berkeley (a reputable academic institution) more than I trust a random internet stranger. What remains certain is that it is better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. You're talking to a wall instead of addressing my actual arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:17 PM
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This may or may not be true Oh it's true, no doubt about it. Refer again to the study above. What exactly are you trying to prove here? Surely you know that the women who are married to great guys that they love are happy to be married, and the women married to douchebag assholes who treat them like shit are not happy Duh, but that's a strawman. I'm refuting the common claim from femcels/misandrists that "the happiest demographic is single childless women". Here's an example of this silliness in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:10 PM
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Precisely. Or when you're out at a restaurant and someone offers to buy a round of drinks or pick up the tab, it's always been a man. I've never seen a female do this. It's exceptionally rare for a female to be a great friend to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:25 PM
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Women with autism aren't really fucked in nearly the same way that men with autism are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:23 PM
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I try to limit my interactions with females that I'm not banging or trying to bang (not counting relatives, of course). Most female "friends" are really just parasites trying to leech off of men for protection and resources that they wouldn't offer in return. But some females can be decent friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:19 PM
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Men are not women's personal bodyguards. I'm not risking my safety for a female that I'm not boning, or that isn't a blood relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:29 AM
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Women should just avoid getting tattoos altogether. I see so many naturally beautiful women utterly ruined by some ugly ass neck tattoo or tramp stamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:54 PM
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Bro wasn't ready for the NFL linebacker
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:06 PM
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Yeah pretty much the worst thing that can happen is brief embarrassment. But that's much better than the pain of regret.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:24 PM
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If he's happy then I'm happy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:18 PM
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most embarrassing thing ive read in a while. have u ever tried to be normal. like i want to understand ur pov, but i don't want to talk to you, you catch my drift? Lmao wtf is even your argument? Seems like you're just in your fee-fees about what I wrote and not even contesting the validity of it anyways she basically said this bro. she says men aren't allowed to be fee-fee focused Yeah, everyone knows this. She's not saying anything groundbreaking and she's not offering a useful solution, I off…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:25 AM
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What this typical female doesn't understand is that men primarily bond through shared goals, challenges, and activities. Good male friends consciously or subconsciously push each other to be better men, training each other's masculine energy. Iron sharpens iron. Females bond primarily by talking about their fee-fees. And while it's important to talk about fee-fees every now and then, you typically don't see women get much done because they spend so much time talking about fee-fees rather than be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:26 AM
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Women like men who are significantly more intelligent than they are, especially socially intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:14 AM
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Being a good person has no effect on you getting laid in the short term. I'd even go as far as to say that being just a little bad will help you get more short-term lays. But if you want to be in a non-toxic LTR, you're generally better off being good than bad. That doesn't mean be a doormat, but at least generally be reciprocal and cordial with other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:15 AM
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Sure, but also women basically don't approach at all. Not that that's completely women's fault since women are more pussified by nature, but still let's not completely blame men for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:02 AM
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An infinite supply of high-speed high-definition porn right at your fingertips isn't natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:38 PM
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I'd say most young men are consuming porn at least once every other day, which is already terrible for you, but many men are even gooning multiple times every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 PM
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Getting out of the house and wielding that sexual energy as motivation to flirt with real human women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:59 PM
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Got downvoted in this sub for mentioning that overconsumption of porn depletes men's dopamine reserves, resulting in their personalities being less attractive to women. Seems like people really don't want to let go of gooning, it's like trying to take a crack pipe away from a crackhead. "They hated Jesus because he told them the truth."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:39 PM
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Are they real committed relationships or just dudes who shag her on the down-low?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:48 PM
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2020's Barbie looks like every other basic bitch I see at the grocery store every Saturday. Bring back 90's Barbie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:27 PM
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Only if they have big tits/asses. Fat girls without assets are bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:21 PM
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Where my brain goes when I'm flirting with a girl and she mentions she's not single
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:15 PM
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Indeed, the man who lets other dudes plow his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:06 PM
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They're better than nothing and fine to use on the side, but they should never be a man's main avenue for finding chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:18 PM
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I know a few. It's not that they're ugly or short, but they're usually profoundly socially awkward and conversationally clumsy. And that's the biggest vagina dryer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:59 AM
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In the face, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:22 AM
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Lmao "hard work". Anyone can stick a needle in their arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:21 AM
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And I'm entitled to my opinion. Don't pretend like you've never talked shit on a guy's looks with your girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:19 AM
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That teacher's patience is admirable. Could never be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:09 AM
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Frankly this shit is such a turn-off, not to mention the fact that she's on steroids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:06 AM
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Lots of feminists triggered by the fact that Oppenheimer doesn't have a lot of female screen time. Meanwhile Barbie has plenty of male screen time, but all of the men are portrayed as idiots and/or evil. I actually wish Barbie didn't have any male screen time whatsoever. It's kind of embarrassing how women can't write a movie that uplifts women without also tearing men down. Really reveals how little they think of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:54 PM
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Horseshit. It's more like 1-5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:01 PM
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The gender pay gap is not only justified, it's necessary. There are several reasons for this: 1) Men do tougher jobs. On average, men's work is physically and/or intellectually more demanding than women's work. Tougher jobs are deserving of higher pay. While the female-dominated caretaking jobs that women tend to perform are very necessary for society, they are typically not as challenging as men's work. 2) Women can get pregnant, and men can't. Therefore women will naturally be out of the workf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:59 PM
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Upon meeting them, immediately ask for anal and make that an ultimatum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:50 PM
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They can, but they shouldn't be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:36 PM
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It's a pendulum situation. Millennials and Gen Z might push for no marriage and no strings because people don't trust one another. The study I linked surveyed women aged 25-40. Those are literally millennials and zoomers. Gen Alpha might grow up and change the whole system again. I'm pretty sure most women will consistently desire romantic commitment with men as long as humanity is around. Also, if you don't respect this women, why be affected by what she says? I do not respect her, but the TikT…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:28 PM
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Competition for 6/10+ women without kids is fierce. It's possible but you'll have to put in a lot of effort. (Less effort is needed if you're tall, rich, handsome, fit, white, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:19 PM
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A female on my social media feed (early 20s single mom) posted some stupid ass TikTok of an even stupider female ranting about how "80% of women are now against marriage, so you men better watch out!!". I told her that was total bullshit and sent her an actual study about how 71-86% of women want to get married eventually and the number's probably even higher than that if we're being real. Then she started hamstering on about how "I don't care what the actual number is, point is it's more than y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:02 PM
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Boss battle music intensifies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:56 AM
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I mean I'm not going to be a complete asshole and refuse to respond if she speaks to me, but I'm keeping my responses short. Full on conversation and flirtation ain't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:36 AM
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No, but I'd keep it short and redirect my attention to the girl I'm actually interested in as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:27 AM
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Why should I feel bad for ignoring a chick's fat/ugly friend when I'm talking to her in the club? Do women feel bad when they constantly ignore or blow off dudes that they aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:18 AM
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That's fine, but when I say I don't want to date fat/old/ugly/tall women a lot of these same chicks will call that "sexism". Female hypocrisy is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:33 PM
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Only if they're exactly my type apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:54 AM
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Because she looked exactly like my type. It was an irrational emotional response from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:54 AM
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Saw this really hot girl at the club last night that looked like a much hotter version of my ex, exactly my type, but I didn't approach her. Wish I had, but if she had rejected me it would've felt much worse than just a regular old rejection. But had she not rejected me it probably would've been extraordinarily awesome. Emotionally a high risk high reward situation. Oh well, hopefully I see her again another night. I will wield this regret to motivate me in the future. At least I talked to some …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:07 PM
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Some young women are getting played, some young women are dating older men. Half of young men aren't even really trying to approach women. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:20 PM
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Then who's going to build and fix everything? Who's going to defend this country from the Russians and Chinese? Who's going to be a father for all of the children? You can't just drug up all the men and expect society to not collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:17 PM
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Yeah I'd probably put that in the "don't find each other attractive" bucket since old folks tend to lose their luster.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:16 PM
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A man and a woman cannot be close friends unless they're related, or one or more of them is gay, or they're both taken, or if they don't find each other attractive. Otherwise it's not going to work out. And even if they're both taken it's dangerous territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:41 PM
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To each his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 09:56 PM
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This twice-divorced woman is going to responsible for a lot of single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:38 PM
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Only as long as she perceives him to be masculine enough to her liking. Otherwise it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:36 PM
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Proportionally high levels of body fat with a poor distribution. There is no exact quantification behind this (it varies somewhat depending on men's preferences) but for example someone like Lizzo I would consider undeniably obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:32 PM
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Red pill is waking up to the brutal politically incorrect reality of the psychological differences between men and women, especially in the context of sexual attraction and sexual selection. Blue pill is keeping your head in the sand and pretending that men and women are exactly the same (or similar enough for the differences to not matter) and that gender is nothing more than a "social construct".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:12 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily mind it, but I certainly wouldn't go out of my way to befriend a taken woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:21 PM
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A lot of guys need to understand that you can be interesting, confident, and attractive without having to be an edgy douche. However, it is true that edgy douches do get more interest than shy nice guys. But edgy douches also crash and burn more often. Admittedly it's a difficult balance to strike and it takes time and experience to learn your flow, but the solution to one extreme doesn't have to be hopping to the opposite extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:44 PM
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Nothing against the man, but he's a mere human. Not an idol. Flawed like the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:43 PM
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I always cringe my asshole off whenever Redditors idolize celebrities: https://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/comments/12oi5ad/saw_it_in_another_subreddit_thought_it_would_fit/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:08 PM
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Even the ugliest, fattest, bitchiest monstrosities of women can still easily get dick. Male horniness is a powerful force.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:39 PM
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She also needs to have a pretty face. But yeah, that's pretty much it. She has different political views As long as it's nothing extreme it's not really a dealbreaker. I like to argue with people anyways. I can probably mold her into having non-shitty views. She's emotionally immature Then she's not friendly and cooperative. Drowning in debt and terrible with money Not my problem, just won't give her access to my money. Awful taste in music, fashion, food, in your opinion Don't care about her ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:35 PM
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All communication is manipulation to some extent. You think women apply makeup just for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:29 PM
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How about being rejected up front dozens, hundreds, or thousands of times? How about being straight up ignored or given looks of disgust?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:31 PM
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Women often say "ugh why can't these manbabies just handle rejection 🙄" Thing is, (heterosexual) men and women experience rejection very differently. Men experience frontend rejection. As a man, people (both men and women) are naturally wary of you. It's very common to approach people and then realize they literally don't want to talk to you at all, especially if you don't provide some sort of value (good looks, charisma, social connections, money, etc). This can be very frustrating to deal with…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:44 PM
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This video is just a dumb tautology. The dude is asking the most obviously visibly conservative women if they prefer conservative or liberal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:26 PM
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Obviously 99% of men will say yes and 99% of women will say no because men and women are different and are attracted to opposite things. Men are attracted to agreeableness, a nurturing attitude, youth (fertility), and beauty. Women are attracted to social dominance, confidence, and intelligence which often manifests as humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:25 PM
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I mean it's pretty simple and doesn't really take much rationalization. Virtually everyone prefers a Camry with no miles on it over a Camry with 200k miles on it, assuming the price is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:18 PM
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Tarantula because then there's a good chance she's goth and everyone knows that goth girls have fire pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:11 PM
2

OnlyFans in bio = opinion automatically discarded
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:10 PM
1

In my opinion, it's that women are saying they're in relationships and men are saying they're still single. Y'know like when a woman has the "what do you see us as" discussion which seems common. i.e. Chad soft harems lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:35 PM
1

Chad soft harems are the #2 reason. #1 is porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:03 PM
3

Given the causes, do you feel that this is the emergency that some in the manosphere make it out to be? Yes. America has some of the worst single motherhood rates in the world. Not to mention male sexlessness seems to correlate with societal decline since we're already seeing tons of young men opt out of the workforce. It's bad, and it's up to both young men and women to fix this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:59 PM
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I'm so tired of this chronically online take (usually from females) that the huge gap in singlehood between young men and young women is due to "bisexual women". That's ludicrous. Bi women might account for max 5% of the gap, and that's being really generous. The real reasons for the gap are as follows: So many men are getting their sexual needs "met" with porn that half of them aren't even trying to get into a relationship (outside of online dating which is low to zero effort). The amount of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 07:52 PM
3

The gender war seems to be no end in sight and no one want to lose in this war. I think one way to end it is to fix this lopsided market by reducing the demand. In a civilized society there will always be a tension between the male imperative and the female imperative, since we're all animals with animalistic desires. This tension is healthy and necessary, but can get out of hand. Right now there's a particularly strong and sort of toxic tension on both sides but I wouldn't call it a "war" (exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:58 PM
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Women: "Society needs to stop shaming male virgins. If we do this, then over time these men will get better at handling rejection and won't creep on us as much." Also women: "Wow, this particular guy is an asshole and I disagree with his opinions. Bet he doesn't get any pussy." Why do women create problems for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:24 PM
2

It's a universal aspect of female nature. No sane woman wants to be seen as easy pussy because that's presenting herself as low value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:12 PM
1

Interesting, I've always thought the male peak was mid to late thirties but this graph suggests a decade or so later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:06 PM
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These guys would be classified as "average" on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:01 PM
3

Gonna start using the term "innie pussy energy"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:37 PM
3

Polyamory is also the Chad with like seven different "girlfriends" who hate when he cheats but still run back to him regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:47 AM
1

The man she's right swiping on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:11 PM
1

But can they get commitment from a quality man? Will he marry her or even show her off to his family/friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:16 PM
4

Fat guys can get laid if they emphasize "big chubby goofy yet protective bear" game
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:12 AM
13

People's egos in this subreddit are so enormous that it makes dating seem polarizing, as if y'all either bang most hotties you meet or get zero interest at all from the opposite sex. Truth is, no one actually falls into either of these two buckets. For me, I have sexual relations with good looking women fairly often, but for the majority of the time I'm either getting rejected, ghosted, or flaked. Everybody fails but barely anyone likes to talk about their failures. I'll readily own up to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:04 PM
1

New redpill anthem dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:41 AM
11

Women do actually like nice guys. What bluepillers don't mention however is that your niceness must come from a position of power, not weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:32 AM
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Any young attractive girl you’d meet “irl” via social circle or cold approaching nowadays will almost always be hoeing around on social media and/or online dating anyway. Not necessarily. Most young women aren't on OLD. The worst I've seen is in parts of the UK where men outnumber women 9 to 1 on the apps. It’d be Ludditian to tell men that SM/OLD needn’t matter when it comes to dating, akin to telling them that Tech/Finance jobs needn’t matter when it comes to finding well-paying jobs. OLD is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:37 AM
1

They're already coming out of the woodwork 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:27 AM
1

You could say the same about Tinder addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:27 AM
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You do realize that 70-90% of users on dating apps are male, right? And to be honest I don't put nearly as much effort into my profile as I should. Also, being nonwhite puts you at a severe disadvantage on dating apps. This disadvantage is mostly reduced in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:26 AM
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Bold of you to assume I'm banging fat chicks. If that helps you sleep at night, I guess. Have you gotten chicks in any place that doesn’t serve drinks? Seems like the alcohol is doing the heavy lifting, not you. I have. And either way, who cares? Alcohol has served as an effective social lubricant since the dawn of time. Tell me, would you rather get laid after having 1 or 2 drinks, or be sober with zero pussy furiously swiping through apps where men are over 70% of the active userbase?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:25 AM
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Why do people in this sub consistently suck off online dating like it's the end all be all that has fully replaced in-person connection? I barely get any opportunities through the apps (maybe like one or two dates a month on average) but in real life venues such as nightclubs, bars, and concerts I'm able to get far more opportunities far quicker. With enough courage I can bang a girl the same night I go out to a bar, maybe even two. Seems like people in this sub are severely lacking in courage, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:15 AM
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Most men, especially young men, haven't gotten over their fear of rejection. Once I realized that rejection is a fundamental part of the human experience, the world became my oyster. Women get rejected too, they just experience it indirectly (guy she likes doesn't approach her) or later (guy pumps her and then dumps her).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:15 AM
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So you're still proving her right that she dodged a bullet if you go out of your way to show off for a woman that is ignoring you. Not really. People love to show off their partners on social media. If I play it subtly then what makes me stand out? If a woman breaks up with a HVM and then fucks a bunch of LVMs and sends him videos of them fucking as a way to "flex" that she doesn't care, it shows that she does in fact care. First of all, that's psychotic and not at all equivalent to what I'm doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:32 AM
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Have you never tried this because you haven’t ever gotten a new woman after one ghosts you? Nah it's because I didn't want to be too much of an asshole. I can get chicks online, but I still have to sift through a bunch of ghosters. But after dealing with so many ghosters I'm on demon time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:01 AM
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Actually haven't directly tried this yet, but if they ignore it that's the best case scenario. The sting will creep up on them over time. If some ugly girl I went out with once did this and I was in a relationship with another girl I’d think it was hilarious and sad of her. Even if I were ugly, my perceived RMV/SMV towards females goes up if they see me with another woman, especially one who's hotter than she is. It's the opposite for men obviously. Also why are you going out with ugly girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:43 PM
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Well it needs to be subtle and not obviously vindictive, i.e. captioned "Enjoying a fun night out at XYZ amusement park!" For maximum subtlety I could just post it on my story and make sure she views it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:40 PM
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Good thing I live near a mega city with an endless supply of hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:20 PM
1

Nah lol. It feels good to flex on those who've wronged you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:20 PM
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The girl who ghosted you doesn’t give a shit if you see another girl, SHE ghosted YOU! It’s not a punishment for her They probably will give a shit due to the preselection effect. Women are attracted to men who can get women. And if I get a chick prettier than she is? That'll destroy her ego. Just ignore them and stop caring Nah, ghosters/flakers deserve retribution. I'm doling out justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:19 PM
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She absolutely will on some level, even if she wasn't into me at all initially. Gotta leverage the preselection effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:11 PM
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Indeed. Also a mild form of punishment for her not being real with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:58 PM
3

If a chick I met online curves or ghosts me and I end up finding a new chick, I send snaps of myself hanging out with the new chick to the old one. It's petty, but I can't help myself sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:51 PM
1

Getting cheated on? No. That was a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:24 PM
1

On God. Although I've unknowingly been "the other man" before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:11 PM
1

99% shitposting, <1% honest and nuanced intellectual debate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:09 PM
2

None whatsoever. Sneako is an immature kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:47 PM
0

Women are somewhat like a mafia. They collectively don't handle criticism of their gender very well at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:37 PM
1

I've never even been cheated on before but that Sneako story triggered the fuck out of me. Jesus Christ the absolute level of detail in that story. I mean I'm redpill and even I would say that kid is heavily misguided. (Context: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggnl5HpLOZM start at 9:10)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:13 PM
1

Well that's what happens when you go to clubs geared for 35-40 year olds and older. The age range varies wildly depending on the specific club as well as the DJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:03 AM
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Feels like barely anybody dances in nightclubs anymore, just a bunch of zombified zoomers staring at their phones and shitposting on social media. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:06 AM
1

Meh, just see them as what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:11 PM
1

Ngl I'd still hit the chick on the right if the ass is fat enough (hard to tell from that pic though)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:10 PM
1

Yes. 7+ males definitely fuck sub-4 females. It happens on the downlow because they aren't proud of it, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:08 PM
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The ratio is certainly better in real life. Even at nightclubs and bars which are well over 50% men, you still have the opportunity to approach multiple women as long as you at least have the façade of being picky and are quite smooth about it, and most importantly can handle rejection. Keep in mind that most men (especially young men) are too fearful to even look in a woman's direction let alone approach one. Also most men are too fearful of approaching a group of multiple girls, even though th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:48 PM
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Having a strong sense of purpose at all is attractive. Lots of folks out here (men and women alike) hardly have any sense of purpose outside of consuming substances and scrolling social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:17 PM
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Average/unattractive women who ride the cock carousel often endlessly complain about men "using" them (you'll see countless posts about this daily in dating/women's subs) and end up as single mothers and/or undesirable once they get into their late twenties/early thirties since they spent too much time taking cheap shortcuts and didn't put in proper effort to harness their feminine desirability. It's just a fact that the vast majority of women want proper relationships from men, and the women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:37 PM
1

Nah it was largely your run-of-the-mill zoomer fuccboi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:29 PM
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Hung out with my zoomer sister and her obese zoomer friend "Jenny" the other day. Jenny opened a social media app on her phone to countless messages and pictures from simps trying to get with her. I mean she's a sweet girl, but she is not cute at all. And there were some fairly good-looking dudes trying to hit that. Social media is a joke. Online dating is a joke. Get out of the house every once in a while and talk to people face-to-face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:56 AM
1

1/10 ad hominem. Surely you can do better than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:15 PM
1

On God.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:38 PM
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Nah, I fuck hoes and bitches. But hoes and bitches usually don't make good friends. This shouldn't be hard to understand if you have an IQ above 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:38 PM
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There's an actual transaction there. I defend my male friends from danger, and they defend me from danger. Win-win. A female friend is not only not defending me from danger, but she's a liability since I'm expected to defend her ass from danger. I'll defend my significant other since it's worth it because I'm getting pussy in return. But not a "female friend", fuck that. Maybe you should date men, sounds like that is what you actually like, as opposed to women. Ah, the usual braindead female ret…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:36 PM
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On average, yes. Absolutely. And by far. Study after study shows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:48 PM
1

In a dangerous or sketchy situation, with male friends we're offering each other mutual protection. With female friends, she isn't offering shit. And even worse than that she's a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:46 PM
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Most of them for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:33 PM
1

Wonderful anecdotes! We need more women like you in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:32 PM
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Finally, would you defend a little child from an stranger sexually harassing them? Sure, because that's a child, not a grown ass adult. Would you do it for a person you don’t know? Probably not. If anything I'd notify the cops. No idea if the harasser has weapons on them or anything. No idea if the harasser is her boyfriend or someone she actually wants to be with. Not worth the risk to my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:30 PM
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Then they fucking suck as "friends" Yes, women who feel entitled to me risking my life for them in a dangerous situation do suck. Unfortunately, that's going to be the vast majority women you come across in your life as a man. And if I refuse to risk my life, or choose self preservation, or even simply decide that we flee, then society could brand me as a coward. (Not that I really care that much what society thinks anymore, but it is something to contend with). Women could choose self preservat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:25 PM
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With men, unless they're your boys, from way back, there's always this element of competition. Are you referring to romantic competition? Because if so, then those aren't my friends. My male friends have actually pushed me to get out of my comfort zone and talk to women in the past. Most of my male friends are already in committed relationships anyways. But there's absolutely nothing wrong with healthy banter or competing in video/board games and/or sports with your bros. Everyone wins because w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:16 PM
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Men make great friends as long as you're a either a man or willing to fuck him. Because men who are friends generally have something of value to offer to each other. Women willing to fuck a man will at least offer up her kitty, which is indeed quite valuable. And women don't give a shit about not having male friends I see it all the time in female-dominated subs. Women cry all the time about not having genuine male friendships while not having many genuinely positive attributes to offer these me…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:07 PM
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You know fully well why we can't help in a fight. We're physically weaker. You could certainly do better than standing around panicking while the guy is getting beat on 1-on-1. Like at least take a few swings with your purse, geez. Do you expect your child to help you a fight too? An elder? The average women is a lot stronger than a child or an elderly person. Get real, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 11:05 PM
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I disagree in your focus on women... it is more a social issue. Sure, but that doesn't mean it's something that women can't be cognizant of and try to improve on. They do not need to develop friendship skills because their social life is granted ... Women love to say that they are more social, but the fact is that the social privilege is given by them by men, and also women because women are less likely to be a violent threat. They can also hide ugliness behind makeup. That's their edge ... Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:54 PM
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Then, if you go out with a disabled male friend or your grandpa and someone assaults him, I am pretty sure you would defend them without wanting them to suck your cock to thank you. Thing is, most women aren't disabled. They generally won't even try to help you in a fight, often times they'll just cower behind their most trusted male. I understand why no woman would want a friend like you. Shitty ad hominem. I have plenty of female friends, as I've mentioned in my post. To finish, some of my ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 07:42 PM
2

Women don't get immediate feedback on their attractiveness like we men do. If a man is unattractive then he'll know it pretty quickly because women will be curving him left and right. But due to high male libido, dudes will bang fat or otherwise unattractive chicks (often on the downlow) and then dump them perhaps much later on. This leads to a lot of fat women falsely believing that they're attractive just because they can pull Chad for a night or two in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:01 PM
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That just makes us pickier. Science says otherwise: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/06/180626113412.htm That's also why older men prefer younger women: Because younger women are dumber. It's mainly because younger women are much more attractive, as I'm sure you know. But it's also true that younger women are more malleable. If you're an American, this is irrevelant. What? Americans are definitely on the obese side on average, but some women do actually put in effort to take care of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:41 PM
1

How is that even enforceable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:05 PM
1

Went a few dates with this chick who had enormous tits, but a pancake ass. I assumed she would at least have some ass due to the size of the tits but I was sorely disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:03 PM
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Lmao that woman was playing some insanely crazy defense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:00 PM
1

Dysfunctional pussy is better than no pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:41 PM
1

Women spend almost twice as much as men do on clothing every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:40 PM
0

If you put in the effort to self improve and gain wisdom then you shouldn't have any problem slaying young hotties when you make it to your late 20s and even 30s. That's our superpower as men. Men age like wine, women age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:33 PM
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It's for self-preservation. For instance, if I refer to women as "hoes" or "bitches" on my main then I'll probably get banned from most of my favorite hobby subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:29 PM
1

Jesus forgives these hoes, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:27 PM
2

Sounds like pump and dump central
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:25 PM
2

Just wait until they age, lose their metabolism, or have kids. Their pickiness inevitably will drop sharply.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:23 PM
2

[Q4A] if NNN and nofap provide zen or superpowers, why are guys in sexless marriages and deadbedrooms so pathetic? Because they're wasting their sexual energy on porn addiction instead of banging their wives. Is this really rocket science? [CMV] NNN is pure unadulterated cuck culture. This claim makes zero sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:22 PM
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Only if you're hot enough and compliant enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:48 AM
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Female nature. It's wired into their brains through hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:48 PM
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That's because you're leading with money, which inevitably results in paypiggery. You're going to need to game these hoes with a genuine polarizing personality if you want genuine attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:15 PM
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The "traumatic" experience of being ignored or rejected? If that's too much for some people to handle then they need to grow up and understand that rejection is a fundamental aspect of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:45 PM
1

In Cali? Forget about it. Is there something about Cali that magically makes it impossible to talk to women? I guess you could say certain parts are male dominated, but even then a lot of those guys are tech nerds who are too afraid to even look in a woman's direction. You're right though that the Midwest has better odds but the tradeoff is that living there is rather boring and the weather is awful. And the jobs are lacking. And with the money I'm making in California the whole world is basical…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:41 PM
0

Change your flair to blackpilled bruv.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:46 PM
2

Having nuanced opinions should be the norm. I'm left leaning when it comes to worker's rights, healthcare, drug legalization, sex work, police brutality, private prisons, abortion, gay rights, corporate power, and climate change. But I'm right leaning on issues pertaining to gun rights, immigration, gender pay gap (a myth), trans rights, NATO funding, "fat shaming", American exceptionalism, and of course gender dynamics. The two-party system is a cancer killing this great nation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:16 PM
1

The key is finding a woman who encapsulates both. It's rare but worth the journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:45 PM
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Went out on the town last weekend and there were so many ladies and groups of ladies just chilling by themselves, and dudes sitting on the sidelines dillydallying. Even in nightlife venues it seems like people rarely approach these days, it's like nobody wants their egos bruised. They'd rather be glued to their phones. Guys, if you actually go out and talk to women (especially groups of women) then you're already like 90% ahead of the curve. People need to realize that women are less aggressive …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:43 PM
0

I apparently hate women because I don't want to fund a freeloading chick's entire life whilst getting nothing in return 🥴​
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:37 PM
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Why would a woman be happier with a red-pilled man versus a blue-pilled one? Women are attracted to men who know how to game them, and aren't attracted to the ones who don't. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:35 PM
8

You can start dating at 14, date your whole life, and still have no idea how male-female dynamics work. That's how most people operate (bluepill).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:12 AM
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most people learn by the time they're in high school You're delusional if you think most people learn this stuff even by college, let alone high school. Most people in relationships fell into them by circumstance, and most partnered people are probably even settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:37 AM
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Where they lose me is the mind games like dread game Are you saying dread game doesn't work? never let her know you want her Strawman. You don't have to be a dick to learn how to be assertive. Strawman. That being said, being a dick is better than being a doormat. (But both are bad)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:32 AM
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if you didn't look and act a certain way you were never getting in the door to the club to have a chance at hookup culture This is an exaggeration. Even in my skinny nerdy purplepill days I was able to get into clubs and parties. I didn't get a great many hookups, but I got some. Liquid courage obviously helps, but inner confidence is paramount.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:29 AM
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Or just store them in a password-locked folder. Better yet, send them to me and I'll gladly lock them up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:15 AM
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UW Madison women's volleyball team won the championship last year. They celebrated by getting drunk and naked and shaking their asses and titties on camera, and somehow the pics and videos got leaked onto the internet a few days ago. No one has any idea who did it. Police are looking into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:36 AM
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It's just a group pic of them flashing Multiple pictures. There are also videos, in many of which the players are butt ass naked. it probably doesn't bother them much They jointly filed police reports. They're definitely bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:30 AM
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I feel bad for those Wisconsin volleyball players, but man... not even Jesus himself could convince me to do shit like that on camera
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:14 AM
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If they were lied to, it’s fair that they are upset about being lied to imo More often than that it's simply a loss of attraction/interest on the guy's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:56 AM
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We should start telling women that they aren't entitled to a relationship with a guy just because they had sex. But that would be politically incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:53 AM
0

You can usually make an educated guess after dating enough women. A chick with tattoos is almost certainly not a virgin and is also probably N>3, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:52 AM
-1

Just date who you want and don't worry about what jaded women say on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:08 AM
1

Nah. God impregnated my mom via supernatural means
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:27 AM
1

Exercise, hobbies, social skills improvement, approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:25 AM
3

Women's game consists of stealing your hoodie and snapping thigh pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:37 AM
1

Sure, column A and column B.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:39 PM
2

Thinking of taking an unpaid sabbatical from work to chill and hoe around for a bit while I'm still relatively young. 3-6 months, maybe even a year. I've been working in tech so I've got a decent bit of savings and shouldn't have trouble getting another job. I mean the money's great with these jobs but they're boring as all hell and I hardly have any time left to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:36 PM
2

Probably. I'm autistic and that's definitely some shit I would do and have done
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:31 PM
1

They're currently trying that in Iran, not working out great 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:43 PM
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Lmao you're kidding right? Literally go to any female-centered sub, they regularly rant about how men are morally inferior and corrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:31 PM
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Sure, that's pretty much a watered-down bluepill reading of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:28 PM
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Fun fact: Women are just as evil as men are. Certainly lots of women fantasize about culling most of the male population. However, since women have less testosterone and are not as physically strong as men, they can't and don't act out on their evil fantasies as much. Fear keeps them in check. This idea that women are compassionate morally superior beings is largely an act that women use in order to appease the men of society in exchange for their resources and protection (and sometimes companio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:16 PM
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not on alert around asshole shih tzu owners Well duh, they're like 10% the size of pitbulls. They can't do any real damage to a grown man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:20 PM
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This means that even uninteresting women find commitment Only for so long, and often they get cheated on. So then is it even really commitment? they often have the leverage to make men wait several dates or even months Months only in extreme cases. 3-5 dates I would say is typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:27 PM
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Daily is a lot, even for me. I'm cool with 2-3x per week max.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:20 AM
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Asshole pitbull owners are the #1 reason why I carry self defense weapons on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:20 AM
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Women are simultaneously bisexual and homophobic. It's strange stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:16 AM
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men do need women This is a silly statement, because technically speaking you can't have a society without both men and women. But on an individual level, men do not need women. Men strongly desire women, but have zero need for them in order to survive in society. On the other hand, women need men in order to survive in society, because if women were running this country then Russia and China would eat us for lunch. Entire civilizations have been built around granting subpar men access to women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:13 AM
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When they want relationships they make men wait for sex and commit emotions and resources so that they aren’t pumped and dumped or plated. Not every woman is hot and coy enough to be able to make a man wait for sex. Women give in all the time. And after around age 35, a woman's number of quality options drastically decreases, so women can only employ the "make him wait" strategy for so long. You could say that men and women are essentially in sort of an arm's race with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:42 PM
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Homie if you ever wonder why women or people in general don't like you much Your premise is false, people like me a lot. check out what you wrote. Abject misogyny. How is it misogyny to say that women (on average) are wired to seek out strong, high status men that are willing to invest in her and their potential children? I'm not necessarily saying all women consciously want this, but over millions of years our brains and bodies evolved to suit a certain niche. You can't deny that. Reducing some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:35 PM
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A female friend of mine described the high of falling in love with a man as akin to being on drugs. Women definitely want men far more than they put on. They can't feel fulfilled without one, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:05 PM
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the women who are not interesting can get away with being that way They can get away with being boring and still get fucked by Chad, but they won't be able to get commitment from Chad (which is the primary female imperative). A hard truth that people need to remember is that the male and female sexual imperatives are diametrically opposed to one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:22 PM
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Their vaginas are in demand, not their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:18 PM
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Ironically the best head I've ever gotten was from my virgin ex. That woman was a natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:31 PM
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Source: "Trust me bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 12:29 PM
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Because 99% of women are sexually attracted to men, and that's wired into the human genome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:05 AM
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Trump literally wished death on Mitch McConnell and simultaneously called McConnell's wife a racial slur in the same post and McConnell still hasn't said shit back. McConnell = confirmed cuck, along with Ted Cruz.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:46 AM
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Aren't modern IQ tests purposefully modified to zero out sex differences as much as possible?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/22 02:49 AM
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It's very freeing to let go of the stigma of being called a "coward" for not risking your life for some stranger with a vagina who wouldn't do the same for you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/22 01:49 AM
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I've been working out more lately and goddamn my arms are looking sexy as hell. I guess my ultimate goal is to shape myself into the man that I would turn gay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:40 AM
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I don't think men go for asshole women on purpose. I can't speak for all men, but I strongly prefer agreeable and compassionate women. I think the issue is that men go for very attractive women, and these very attractive women have much more leeway to be assholes due to their good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:24 PM
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Questions like these are weird. Women generally don't care about the qualms of men, they're chiefly self-interested as virtually all humans are. There really does need to be some level of bootstrapping on the part of modern young men. In the past we had various types of wars and strife, but now we live in a rich society with abundant resources, and we aren't facing most of the struggles that our Stone Age ancestors had to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:19 PM
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Women can always easily find a man to have sex with, even one much more attractive than her. But women don't desire sex at nearly the same level that men do, not to mention there's a stigma in virtually all cultures that comes with getting railed by Chad after Chad, so in the end many women do end up going years without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:14 PM
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Eh, that's kind of overthinking it. Most people are too caught up in their own insecurities to worry about what others are doing. One night I got rejected at least like seven times in a row and still ended up in bed with a thicc blonde by the end of the night. And this was back in my early twenties when I had nearly zero rizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:11 PM
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I can dig it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:37 PM
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These are 2 links but you can find mountains on mountains of sources parroting the same thing with just a quick google search That study has been debunked several times, the goofball who wrote it straight up misunderstood the data. Here's a real source from Berkeley: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_marriage_really_bad_for_womens_happiness "Historically, large studies show that, on average, married people report greater happiness later in life than unmarried people ... These posi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:07 AM
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Porn, addictions, social media, institutional decline, economic decline, and online dating all work in tandem to hinder men from connecting with women in real ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:49 AM
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Chel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah I get what you mean, those shoes look old as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:02 AM
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I'm 5'11" but thank God for shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:59 PM
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Hopefully he's at least rizzing other bitches in parallel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:56 PM
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She's fine but Bulma's hotter. Bulma actually ages tho sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:08 PM
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Best I could come up with so far was something like "Any encounter involving two people, in which at least one of these people attempts to reach orgasm via physical contact." Eh, I wouldn't count handjobs as sex though. I would define sex as penetration into a bodily orifice, involving two people, wherein at least one person is making contact with genitalia. So for example, lesbians scissoring or eating out would both count as sex. EDIT: Even though I wouldn't say a handjob is technically "sex",…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:12 PM
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I've met a shocking amount of people that don't believe that anal sex, is sex either. Ah yes, God's "loophole".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:54 PM
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Do people not consider a blowjob to be sex? In my view, if a girl has sucked a dick before then she's no longer a virgin in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:32 PM
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Being a black man is only beneficial in the sexual marketplace, and even then that's only if you're both black and hypermasculine (therefore being autistic puts me at a severe disadvantage). Even after all that, you'd still have trouble in the relationship marketplace because black people aren't perceived to be as romantic as whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:49 PM
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Being a black man is only beneficial in the sexual marketplace, and even then that's only if you're both black and hypermasculine (therefore being autistic puts me at a severe disadvantage). Even after all that, you'd still have trouble in the relationship marketplace because black people aren't perceived to be as romantic as whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:48 PM
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Isn't this just kind of silly and petty? Like who cares? I could charge Lena Dunham a million dollars right now for being a shitty actress.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:44 PM
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I don't think "tall" is a racial dogwhistle but you're correct that there is an unspoken racial hierarchy in the dating market. If you're not white then you will have to put in more effort. C'est la vie. Now try being a black and autistic male. I'm literally playing the dating game on nightmare mega death mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:02 PM
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Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:24 AM
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At a bar or nightclub it's usually obvious within the first 5 seconds whether or not she's interested, and if she isn't then it's so easy to next her since there are so many other chicks in the venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:18 AM
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I'm trying to be a little like the father they never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:35 PM
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Every woman's ideal man is both alphafuxx and betabuxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:12 PM
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Had to google who the hell that is but yeah she's pretty fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:09 PM
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I feel like now that I'm in my late twenties I get way more attention from women since I give off "daddy" vibes or whatever. When I was 18 to 21 I was such a skinny nerd and really had to struggle to keep their attention. It's funny how this is the opposite for women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:05 PM
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Men are naturally more competitive, more aggressive, have faster reflexes, and perform better at spatial tasks. It logically follows that on average, men will have a higher tendency to gravitate towards video games (especially competitive and action-oriented games).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:54 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly and unironically that society would be better off if women spent less time talking and more time in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:35 PM
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I don't understand why women lie about this so much. I'm straight and even I can admit that muscles increase a man's sex appeal (up to a certain extent)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:32 PM
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It's okay, the free market will teach them a lesson. If they don't want to foster an environment that's supportive of remote work then some other executive from some other company will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:30 PM
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Because we're animals and society is built upon layers of contradictions. Many men say they want a life partner but a lot of them truly want a harem of young women. Women say they want a kind sensitive man but often times they'll throw it back for a dominant rude boy. Our brains are composed of both "lower" and "higher" parts after all. You have to remember that for like 99% of human history we were Stone Age hunter-gatherers during a time where morality essentially did not really exist on a lar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:25 PM
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Assuming we're talking about a LTR: Deal breakers: Drug/alcohol abuse, serious mental issues, has kids, 35 or older, obese, sex work (including OnlyFans), high body count, face tattoos, masculine or otherwise disagreeable personality, STIs Green flags: Big booty, not being a total bitch, etc. Must haves: Compassionate, beautiful, intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:10 PM
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I'm guessing they're attracted to what the steroids do, not the steroids themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:02 PM
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God this is such stupid surface level analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:22 AM
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You visited a femcel forum, made a comment that doesn't worship the female imperative, and you expected not to get dogpiled?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:20 AM
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Dude has at least 10 kids apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:12 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:11 AM
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Some Tinder female called me broke for not wanting to buy her shitty nudes. She gotta post her ass and titties for horny old men on the internet just to afford a meal and somehow I'm the "broke" one 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:40 AM
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Much like FDS it's largely unattractive chicks who are salty about getting pumped and dumped by Chad so they lash out on the internet against the male gender as a whole. Tale as old as time. Guarantee you most women in that sub would stutter and stammer if a well dressed man with money said more than two words to them in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:14 AM
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Women would lose virtually all of their social power if that were the case. Society is built on the implicit assumption that men will pursue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 01:10 AM
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I mean society is literally built on the backs of male labor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:19 PM
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Incel doesn't literally mean "involuntary celibate" like it used to in 2014. Now it's just a term that women use to refer to an "angry guy on the internet that I don't like".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:28 PM
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I've been attracted to a 6'2" chick before, but women above 6' are exceptionally rare anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:55 PM
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How did that woman handle multiple punches better than the man handled a single punch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:24 PM
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Fat hoe energy is definitely a thing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:19 PM
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Meh. Just sit back and turn on your willing suspension of disbelief, and enjoy the fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:08 AM
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Could never be me, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:04 AM
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You put it greatly. In college my white friends got far more matches than me on dating apps, but when it came right down to it I often performed way better in real life situations such as bars and concerts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:56 PM
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one is very authoritarian, rigid, and vituperative. The other is calm, introspective, and non proselytizing. Abrahamic vs. Eastern religion in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:41 PM
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I know exactly the type and you're absolutely right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:32 PM
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Lmao I was just about to say this. If you think the men of Reddit are nerds wait until you see the women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:31 PM
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Dark triad traits duh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:38 AM
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Somewhat depends on the woman and what she's talking about. But if it has anything to do with dating advice I will absolutely tune her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:38 AM
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The vast majority of women are already shit tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:36 AM
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Lollipop guild 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:06 AM
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Sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:38 AM
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To be fair he's super famous and worth hundreds of millions of dollars. With that level of power you can basically say whatever the hell you want to a chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:36 AM
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I'd at least try to hit it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:10 AM
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bbc takeover
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:08 AM
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Adult female human
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:57 PM
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That would depend more on political party than gender. But either way who cares, I think it's pretty hot that she's a party animal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:53 PM
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I'm just trying to nail the prime minister of Finland.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:32 PM
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Love is obviously a real thing, we all feel it to some extent or another. Red pill philosophy simply points out that love is transactional. A 5'5" fat awkward D&D dungeon master with a heart of gold isn't going to receive as much "love" from women as a 6'4" muscular surfer with a bad attitude will, on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:18 PM
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You said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:14 PM
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Isn't that why they have a "waiting for sex" thing? To protect against that hurt. If the man's market value is high enough she won't be waiting for long. There will be the constant overhanging implication that he's leaving if he doesn't get what he wants. Either way, it's a sort of tug of war that heterosexual couples must participate in. I believe that men have passive options that could become active if he makes the approach. Women have active options that she can choose from and reject at any…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:31 PM
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Men ask out women he wants to be with and gets rejected until one of them says yes - he is successful. Yes, the man should pretty much have her hooked after a few dates. Women get asked out by men and reject them until she finds one she is attracted to - she is successful. Not necessarily, because a lot of men are just looking for a bang. From a woman's perspective they have to do a lot of analysis to make sure the guy is really serious about a relationship. Choosing whom to partner with - which…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:30 PM
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It's both. Women are naturally less courageous than men, and also they don't need to be as courageous as men due to the way society works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:30 PM
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Their indirect communication works and they have the advantage in dating Not really. Women complain all the time that the men they really like aren't the ones approaching them. Women would do well to incorporate some courage into their lives, it'd give them more control over who they can potentially partner with. I think that's an advantage that men have that we take for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:29 PM
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I really don't particularly care, I'm just trying to counter this false narrative that keeps getting thrown around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:24 PM
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I'm not shaming anyone, there's nothing wrong with being single. I'm just trying to counter this popular false narrative that single women are somehow the happiest subgroup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:24 PM
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That would require PPD women to have hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:16 AM
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Fellas, next time an ignorant femcel tries to hit you with the "um actually single women are the hApPiEsT dEmOgRaPhIC" counter with this red pill: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_marriage_really_bad_for_womens_happiness Sourced from UC Berkeley rather than some stupid feminist tabloid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:12 AM
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"Still hit" is an amazing ace in the hole. Women guard their pussies like gold, that's why it hurts them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:09 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:03 PM
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Lol you thought this would get deleted? Wanting a fuckharem is basically mainstream for PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:25 PM
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It's 2022. Live your truth, /u/SantarpiosPizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:01 PM
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Morality aside, lying consumes extra mental energy both to remember the lie and to cover up all the evidence to the contrary. And if you're caught being a liar, that's a black mark on you for perpetuity. You're better off being honest with people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:39 PM
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I would rather watch PornHub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:24 PM
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Love does exist, it's a very real thing. But it's transactional. On all sides. And that's a very uncomfortable truth for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:22 PM
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The internet in general does this. Social media is a giant confirmation bias machine. It's a large reason why we're so fucked as a society today.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:49 PM
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Seems like everyone on the internet is either deepthroating the monarchy or pissing all over the queen's grave. Can't we all just simply not give a shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:42 PM
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Boats do Not Sail Over the "Curve" of the Earth Lmao this title already had me cracking up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:37 PM
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I absolutely think that high n women can make good wives It's not impossible, but probability would not be on your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:32 PM
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80/20 only holds true on dating apps and social media. In real life it's more like 60/40.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:17 PM
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For men, anything less than 4 drinks per day and 14 drinks per week is considered low risk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:09 AM
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Daemon from House of the Dragon is a total dark triad Chad. It's no surprise that females instinctively get wet over characters like this; back in the old days during times of war and strife you wanted psychopaths like Daemon in your corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:52 AM
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Pretty much. Everybody's got their own worldview. Live your life and develop yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:21 AM
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To be fair Jay-Z is a billionaire, he's far past the point of needing a personality to get bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:13 AM
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Young guys that can't get laid should just get a job and buy a (legal) hooker. Nevada, Mexico, UK, Netherlands, Germany, Austria, Japan, South America, etc. The world is your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 03:10 PM
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It should not be their main avenue, it's just about as bad as Tinder probability wise. However, it doesn't hurt to passively shoot DMs here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:26 PM
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Only if the man actually works on himself. From age 20 to 30 is usually when men's careers and social skills start to really blossom (provided he's done the work). You could technically say the same for women, but as we all know a woman's career and social skills has very little to do with her attractiveness. Women can stay physically attractive well into their thirties, but this takes work so thus their looks usually have declined harshly by the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:01 PM
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Women have a much stronger natural desire for social connection than men do. They can't handle solitude as well as we can. Men are much more likely to disband connections that aren't beneficial to them. Source: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/01/190130175604.htm Also the "women are wonderful" effect. Humans tend to be naturally more drawn towards women, for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:13 PM
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Obviously. Or don't get married at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:08 PM
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A rare find!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:07 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23531810/ Females stay denying reality bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:06 AM
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A little below average, but I'd hit if she were younger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:10 AM
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Not all apes are patriarchal however. What about bonobos? I'll grant you that the societies that bonobos form generally aren't fully patriarchal, though to be fair they aren't really fully "matriarchal" either. Also, that's only because they live on the other side of the river and don't have to compete with gorillas for resources (like chimps have to). We're humans, we're an aggressive and competitive species by nature. There's a reason why we dominate this planet. If men stopped being in charge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:03 AM
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She's in the 4-5 range
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/wxvf5k/what_am_i_doing_wrong/ Tall white chad only gets 10 matches in 3 months on Tinder. Ain't no way. Dude must be either very selective with his swipes or barely uses the app at all. Or the whole post is cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:15 PM
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The thing is though is all those ideas only exist and function in patriarchal animal societies so red pill is fundamentally at odds with progressivism due to it's male lense bias Humanity is patriarchal by nature, through biology. We're just apes. Women can get pregnant and men can't. Even high earning women strongly favor men who out earn them, while the same is not at all true for high earning men. Why can't these girlbosses date lower income brackets like we men do? Despite women now having t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:46 PM
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Luckily it's easy to just naturally disagree with women because they say incorrect shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:23 PM
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The problem is that "focus on yourself" is only half the story. Men also need to get out there in the real world, look for women, and talk to them. "Just focus on yourself brah" may work well for women because women don't have to do shit other than looking pretty and existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:49 PM
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Understanding how to hold frame and handle shit tests will serve you wonders. Not only with women, but with everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:37 PM
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Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:02 AM
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"Chloe" is a pretty hot one. Never met an ugly Chloe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:59 AM
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Female RMV is almost entirely looks based, and their SMV is entirely looks based. Humans haven't changed much in the past 200,000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:54 AM
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In a hundred years or so every American will be a descendant of Nick Cannon and/or Elon Musk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:43 AM
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It's a term that has evolved in meaning over the past decade or so. At first it was just a neutral term literally meaning "involuntary celibate" and many people openly identified with it. Then it evolved to mean "involuntary celibate man who is also a dirty woman-hater". Now it's basically just a general term that women use to demean men that they don't like.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 05:44 PM
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Which specific ideas are you talking about? I mean I think white privilege is real in society but I also don't let that shit dictate my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:20 PM
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Red pill taught me critical information about frame, shit tests, and male-female social dynamics (women tend to be more agreeable and compliant, men tend to be more disagreeable and competitive, women tend to seek out the strongest most high status mate, men tend to seek out many young/attractive female mates, etc.). It helped me make sense of the world in general and why humans act the way they do. It's been quite helpful both for short term hookups and for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:34 AM
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Gay people have the luxury of already knowing what their own gender likes and dislikes, whereas us straight people have to figure out the other gender and also try to date under the current gender war climate. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:19 AM
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18-34 is a huge age range. Being unmarried at 18 is normal and expected, whereas being unmarried at 34 will have society questioning you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 01:16 AM
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We’re talking about modern western culture and women shaving their pubic hair is a relatively new social norm I literally just gave you an example of how it's not a new social norm. It's a norm that's been around for ages, even in the West. Rome literally birthed Western culture. This is total BS, the current most attractive male celebrities according to many women are literally timothee Chalamet and Harry styles who don’t have an ounce of muscle on their entire body Again, these guys make up fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:02 PM
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Porn has brainwashed all men into thinking that all women should be completely hairless Women have been shaving their bodies for thousands of years. Ancient Egyptian and Roman women found pubic hair to be uncivilized. I’m also pretty sure all the top porn actresses look completely the same No they don't. There are very diverse body types, skin colors, hairstyles, etc. Women however are generally only highly attracted to one body archetype of man. Even genuinely ugly guys like Micheal Cera have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:48 PM
1

I say that having a career is a pre-requisite to exist in the dating market as a man if you are +28 years old. Having a career is a pre-requisite to have money in society at all... unless you want to be a SAHM? Also, plenty of men who work shite jobs (or no job at all) still date and get laid if they're attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:38 PM
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No one should really be a stay at home parent in this economy, unless they're lucky enough to afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:48 AM
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Right now, there are extremely attractive big booty Latinas shagging dudes who've never picked up a book a day in their lives. This occurs every hour of every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:47 AM
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Is the difference between being creepy and “chasing” just whether or not she finds you attractive To a large extent, yes. Women who find a man attractive will let him get away with quite a lot more than otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:39 AM
2

They shouldn't. Women have almost no work to do in dating. They don't have to plan, court, approach, risk emotional rejection, pay for someone who may potentially reject you, etc. Thanks to Tinder they don't even have to leave their house anymore to meet men. It's easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:27 AM
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men who face sexual problems and choose to terminate porn use may experience only marginal improvements in their sexual lives What a load. My sex life improved dramatically when I cut back on my porn use. Also worth noting that women can get addicted to porn as well, I've seen it happen a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:45 PM
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They understand some harsh fundamental truths about humanity but they're far too defeatist about it, much like blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:15 AM
5

Sure, many fat people settle for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:44 AM
6

half of women don't have kids at 30 So, most women are fine "Half" is not most. Factor in how many American women are overweight/obese by 30. That would almost certainly make most of them over the hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:24 AM
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30 isn't over the hill in and of itself. Problem is, most American women can't seem to handle the loss of metabolism at that age and often times they've already got multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:56 AM
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Just don't have kids, don't be fat, and don't be unattractive and you're fine. Sadly it seems like most 30 year old women can't manage even two of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:55 AM
2

It's evolved from a useless forum for femcels into a useless grift for femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:59 PM
1

No. Too culturally incompatible and it's just an unappealing look in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:58 PM
3

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:56 PM
12

And a good chunk of " lonely men" talk about women that way, make shitty jokes about them, blather about porn and yet somehow still want to be sexually validated. Successful men also watch porn and make cruel misogynistic jokes about women. All the damn time. So what's your point here? That the primary reason why these men don't get laid is because they talk shit about women in private? Because that's complete bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:53 PM
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Self centered, amoral, antisocial men are doing just fine Well, they're fucking a bunch of hoes but they're mostly not in stable romantic relationships. That's an important distinction to make. You can learn how to attract women while at the same time improving yourself spiritually and emotionally. In fact, you should be doing both.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 03:17 PM
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Makes sense. Most men are at least somewhat attracted to the average woman, but most women won't be attracted to a man unless he demonstrates himself to be confident, capable, and willing to invest in her. This is why in most societies it's usually expected for the man to court the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:25 PM
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Same. A woman could have the perfect personality, be a millionaire with several yachts, and have the ability to cure cancer and I still wouldn't date her if she was physically unattractive. Male brains are brutally honest like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:21 PM
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Some figures like Jordan Peterson are explicitly conservative. But I agree that redpill is fundamentally apolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:54 PM
3

Neither, because you don't have "sky bluepillers" out there who are actively trying to suppress the fact that the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:21 PM
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The reason why the Manosphere is so popular and successful with young men is because most left wingers cringe at the thought of even remotely advocating for men's rights or giving useful male dating advice. Most of the dating advice for men that I see coming from the left wing is just utterly fucking useless. Bluepillers who complain about being approached by men don't empathize with the fact that men are required to approach. Bluepillers will spout out generic platitudes like "hurr durr be urse…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:17 PM
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A more isolated and terminally online society exacerbated by COVID Poor economic prospects. Back in the 1970's you could support an entire family and own a home on just one man's income even if he didn't go to college, not anymore The rise of online dating, which primarily only benefits attractive women and a small subset of highly successful men. This skews each gender's perceptions & standards and bleeds into real life Addiction to pornography/OnlyFans/Instagram thots results in men having les…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:00 PM
2

Tate says a lot of based and redpilled things when it comes to gender, but at the end of the day he's a hustler trying to make a quick buck off of lonely desperate young men. You don't need to give Tate any of your money in order to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:45 AM
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Me too but Jake's too much of a puss to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:21 AM
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I can have more respect for men than women (on average) without being romantically attracted to them. I don't understand where you're getting this idea of "romantic attraction" from. Do you see straight men buying flowers for other men or something? women are still willing to be friends with a guy they wouldn’t fuck or date Well of course. That's because women can extract resources and protection from their male friends, whereas for men there aren't any tangible benefits to being in a woman's fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:17 AM
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Even the most unattractive females want dudes who make them quiver in the puss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 08:11 PM
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Common Tate W
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:50 PM
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Those bitches will suck dick for a toaster strudel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:50 PM
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Significantly shorter than me with a BMI in the normal range.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:49 PM
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Maybe in my high school days, but now I'm at the point in my life where I know a baddie when I see one. If a nigga doesn't think my baddie is bad then either he's coping or he has bad taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:47 PM
2

He's still there, he's just disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 07:16 PM
1

They don't hate it because it's helping men, they hate it because it doesn't cater to females.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:53 PM
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Nope. Plenty of women enjoy sucking dick so that's probably an unnecessary sacrifice to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:50 PM
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She will simply eat any man who rejects her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:45 PM
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Not worth it. A few million and maybe we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:44 PM
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I think a lot of us are just tired of women receiving much less punishment than men in general, even for the same crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 07:41 PM
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Modern media needs more titties in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:42 PM
0

Yes, simply understand your worth and set financial boundaries with the woman. Alpha bux is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:13 PM
1

I don't follow women's "rules", the only rulebook I follow is the law. But yeah, obviously people only want to be approached by those they find attractive. That's life. But until our culture changes to where men aren't expected to be the sole approachers (which will probably never happen) women are going to have to suck it up and deal with men that they don't like approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:00 PM
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We were talking about having options available to us who are attractive, socially fluent and committed And I've provided evidence which demonstrates that you do, in fact, struggle with that last qualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:38 PM
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/u/Cephalan: "I've never struggled with commitment". Also /u/Cephalan: "women will work and work at trying to fix the relationship/the man and only break up once it's clear things are never going to change and she's finally lost feelings for him. i did the same with my ex - spent the last year and a half of the relationship devoted to trying to make things work and failing"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:48 PM
1

Better to have a 1% chance of survival than a 0% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 02:47 PM
2

This is critical advice. Don't waste too much time in "purgatory" with a girl you like, make moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:54 PM
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Only if she's hot, obedient, kind, and willing to have my children. And I'm still getting a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:46 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with being introverted, hell I'm a redpilled introvert. But shyness is actually bad for you. Virtually no one cares if you were shy in the past, but if you're still shy then you need to become somewhat comfortable interacting with people in order to live a healthy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:44 PM
2

Hate when that happens 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:41 PM
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You're a female, no female is lacking in options. But how many of those options are attractive and want to commit to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 12:38 PM
1

I'm a follower in some situations, and a leader in other situations. There's nothing inherently wrong with following a person or cause that you respect. Being a woman you should know this, since women are inherently perpetual followers by nature, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:02 PM
1

Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:18 PM
1

If the only men willing to interact with you are followers then that says a lot about you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:18 PM
1

Yes, it balances out certain savory foods very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:24 PM
3

The best male friend groups have multiple strong men who can each lead effectively in different situations. Lame friend groups have one leader with a bunch of simps following him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:24 PM
2

You didn’t believe “women are wonderful” because of “indoctrination.” Well, it's actually mostly innate to human psychology. It all starts with the baby and its mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:25 AM
3

You can be straight and still acknowledge another man's attractiveness or aesthetic value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:21 PM
0

No LTR for either. I'd keep the 20 year old as a plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:17 PM
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Because they can be. They're highly desired, it's simple economics. This mainly applies to attractive young women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:12 PM
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As an introverted man I value my independence and the ability to basically go wherever I please and the ability to choose not to engage with people if I don't want to. Although most of the attention that women get is positive, they also get a lot of negative attention and I sure am glad I don't have to deal with all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 06:09 PM
1

Damn those look delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:00 PM
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Nice strawman. Men earn a lot more money than women do on average, everyone knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:56 PM
2

I mean I'm jealous of her physique, but I'm attracted to feminine body types. Not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:52 PM
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You can also find these women on TwoXChromosomes bitching about being expected to do basic ass chores (even though their man is busting his ass at work all day and probably paying for most of the expenses). Women don't want to be women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:48 PM
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I'm technically a cusper but I identify as a young millennial because that's the culture I grew up with. Also zoomer culture as a whole is too cringe for my liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:37 PM
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Using extreme examples makes your point meaningless. If we're going to compare male and female desirability we need to be talking about averages i.e. 4/10 to 6/10 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 05:19 PM
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0/10s and 1/10s are rare, why are you using rare examples? The vast majority of women can simply spread their legs and will have no trouble finding a roof and a man along with half of his income. A man can't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:17 PM
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They want to feel like real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:15 PM
1

Por qué no los dos
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:12 PM
1

I can probably fight decently well, but I carry pepper spray so I can avoid fighting in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:52 AM
1

I don't need to lie, but often times I've kept things ambiguous and left out information.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:47 AM
2

On the apps, face. In person, height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:45 AM
1

As you should. Just as nature intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:43 AM
2

Most women have inferiority complexes about their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:42 AM
2

Remote work normalization is the absolute best thing to come out of the pandemic. Fuck going into the office.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:41 AM
2

Not while sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:39 AM
3

Of course life isn't over for women after they hit the Wall, it's just that the quality and quantity of their romantic prospects drops sharply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:37 AM
2

As far as female attraction goes it's extremely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:35 AM
2

It's a simple life, you should be thankful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:16 PM
1

I don't risk it, too many pretenders and addicts. I tip street performers sometimes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:14 PM
2

"Having a vagina" is a metaphor for being a woman. Women are generally warm and welcoming to other women and highly suspicious of strange men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:11 PM
1

Nope, but many dudes would.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:10 PM
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I see women complaining all the time on Reddit about being lonely, but I honestly have zero sympathy for lonely women. Like, y'all literally have the "women are wonderful" effect working in your favor 24/7. Men, other women, and even children are all automatically trusting of you, drawn to you, and will readily welcome you into their social groups just for having a vagina, whereas we men have to actively work hard to earn people's trust. What's stopping these lonely women from literally just... …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:57 PM
1

Yes, young people and stupid people do stupid things quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:38 PM
2

Most men are at least somewhat competent at something, even if it's just for work. However, most men are not passionate about what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:45 PM
1

When it comes to female attractiveness, yes it's pretty much objective. But for men it's far more variable. A man can use confidence, competence, personality, frame, and humor to compensate for subpar looks and increase his market value. That's our superpower. Women can't really do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:39 PM
1

If they hang out or text a lot then it's a red flag, especially if he's single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:33 PM
1

That's virtually every man, which would render the term meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:29 PM
0

She's going to look terrible in ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:28 PM
1

Physically speaking they're always more attractive, but unfortunately a lot of women are lacking in mental depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:26 PM
5

Don't be drunk around anyone you don't trust with your life, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:24 PM
2

That's impressive for 3 weeks. I really need to reduce my sugar intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:23 PM
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Everyone is suspicious of strange men by default. This is a natural human instinct, because in prehistoric times a strange man could potentially bash your head in and steal resources and/or women from your tribe. So we don't get the benefit of the doubt from people like women and children do, we have to earn people's trust. It's an unfortunate fact of life that you kind of just grow to accept as a man. On the other hand, if people see a man as a capable leader (or otherwise quite competent in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:16 PM
5

"Women are wonderful" effect in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:13 AM
2

Don't do it in inappropriate places Except you would have to define "inappropriate places" because that varies strongly from woman to woman. Some women go to the gym specifically to meet guys, and some women despise the very presence of men in the gym. So the "where" qualifier is useless, actually. It's all about the "how".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:10 AM
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On the spectrum of maturity, adult women lie somewhere between children and adult men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:38 PM
1

High-speed internet porn, online dating, social media, rising female participation in the workforce, and ever rising cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:29 PM
5

If you're not hot enough for online dating and you don't have a strong social circle, then yeah you have to cold approach. Honestly as long as you're reasonable about it, the worst that can happen is that she ignores you. I've done countless cold approaches and nothing disastrous has ever happened to me. Don't let jaded terminally online women who have only ever had negative interactions dissuade you from shooting your shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:36 PM
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The gender pay gap isn't a real concern in the United States. Even high earning women have a strong preference for men who out earn them. Also, when you control for the same exact job and responsibilities the pay gap reduces to nearly zero. So now whenever I see someone complaining about the gender pay gap my brain automatically ignores the rest of what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:02 PM
3

Because they're busy entertaining dozens of desperate dudes simultaneously. Get off the apps and shoot your shot in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:57 PM
1

I don't think it can be both proportional and exponential. https://artofproblemsolving.com/wiki/index.php/Proportion#Exponential_Proportion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:17 AM
1

Imo women who stay fit and watch how they age look fine in their 30s/40s. Such women are rare in the United States. And even then most of the eggs have dried up by that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:21 AM
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Both of those women have extremely good genetics and can afford Hollywood-level plastic surgery. They're outliers. I can assure you that the typical 39-year-old woman is nowhere near Miranda Kerr's level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:17 AM
0

Why not? The point is that men still have the potential to retain strong relationship market value even well into middle age, whereas women universally experience a sharp and irreversible drop in dating value after age 30 to 35 (or sooner if they don't take care of their bodies).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:09 AM
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Paula Abdul is also super famous. Oprah is extremely famous and astronomically wealthy. So is Alice Walton. So why aren't men lining up to marry these women? Could it be that a woman with high status and resources isn't nearly as attractive as a man with those same things?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:55 AM
1

It's also exponential.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:52 AM
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To be fair, he said "women start off...". Newborns ain't women. So basically women's sexual market value peaks in early 20's and then drops off a cliff afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:50 AM
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Never. Men aren't biologically hard-capped like women are. Leo DiCaprio will be banging young supermodels until the day he dies, but you don't see men lining up to marry Paula Abdul these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:49 AM
1

Because humans generally only care about shit that affects their in-group. More news at eleven.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:44 AM
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This comment is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:41 AM
0

Even then it's still online dating and it will still be 70-90% male active users. Just cold approach brah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:37 AM
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I don't think that there's something unique about dating apps that should engender misogyny in men First of all, dating apps are over 70% male active users. Add to that the fact that most females tend to be attracted to a small pool of males, and most of these highly attractive males tend to want to "date" multiple females simultaneously. This results in the competition between males being even more intense online, which absolutely leads to resentment in both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:34 AM
1

Deep down that's what virtually every man wants, but we all have to make economic sacrifices in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:36 PM
2

The slut, and it's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:34 PM
2

Extremely weak. As I've entered my late twenties the number of fucks I give has decreased astronomically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:34 PM
9

Wait until they hear that Vikings literally used to have rituals where they passed their wives around for communal raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:32 PM
1

Doesn't matter because RedPill is for men, not women. That's like asking "How does a man benefit from FemaleDatingStrategy?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:30 PM
0

is there a term describing a self-sufficient woman with no time for BS/a career, etc? A spinster.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:29 PM
2

The typical woman in her 20s spends her time watching TV shows, gossiping with friends, shitposting on social media, stringing dudes along on social media, and eating hot chips. That's basically it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:25 PM
1

The wage gap doesn’t have anything to do with disparities in income between two partners or prospective partners. It literally does when the vast majority of the US population is heterosexual...?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:23 PM
0

I don't think I've ever seen a single person doing both. FemaleDatingStrategy queens do it all the time, they whine about how men "should pay for dates" because "the gender wage gap still exists!". I'm not saying that these women are even remotely intelligent, but they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:57 PM
1

The gender wage gap will always exist, and that's a cold hard fact. Men will always make more than women (on average) for two reasons: 1) Women can get pregnant, which takes them out of the workforce for several months. 2) Generally speaking, women are biologically and socially driven to seek out men who make more than them. We need to start simply tuning out any female who whines about the "gender wage gap".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:56 PM
-4

It's much worse. Women have higher chances of contracting STIs (since they get penetrated) and also they have the potential to get pregnant with another man's child, which could lead to massive financial losses for the man who got cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:50 PM
8

Hell, I believe there are girls who will tell after BJ it was just a friendly one. Ah yes, the classic "just platonic friends" blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:38 PM
1

My experiences have taught me that men will not turn down a free opportunity, so I will not approach/initiate Also being a woman you have much less testosterone than men do, which makes you less likely to take initiative in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:05 PM
5

Mario Kart or Mortal Kombat? Well, either way I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:51 PM
0

There are many women in history that I respect and admire. Rosa Parks, Joan of Arc, Harriet Tubman, Ada Lovelace, Marie Curie, and probably a few others. But honestly, I can't name any currently living examples. Women in our current society tend to opt for beauty and charm at the expense of actual talent and courage. Therefore, if I'm interested in a woman it's usually because she's beautiful and/or charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:18 PM
1

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. That's usually really how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:08 PM
3

It's worth a shot, especially if you're white or you consider yourself to be attractive and/or popular. But it's dogshit for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:53 PM
6

Probably for the best. If you're a man, most people don't have your best interest in mind. Look out for "numero uno" first, and those you care about second. The rest are left to their own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:47 PM
28

Man enjoys being around children? Must be a total creep. Man doesn't enjoy being around children? Must be a deadbeat dad. There's no winning as a man in this gynocentric society.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 03:08 AM
6

Don't get me wrong, I despise all of those harpies. But man do I miss the entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:05 AM
1

You're literally still single, how's Tinder been working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:49 PM
2

Redpill philosophy applies to all races of women, but it's important to remember that we live in a white-dominated society. Nonwhite men need to understand that most women either consciously or subconsciously view white men as the dominant social class, therefore being white automatically gives you a significant status boost (all else being equal). There's a reason why the film industry primarily uses attractive white male leads for high-budget international releases. The problem with blackpille…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:57 PM
2

Most women only sleep with men they're willing to have actual committed relationships with. The same is not true for men. So actually, the fact that Tinder is a hookup app strengthens my argument even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:23 PM
1

It’s very common for people to want to date someone with the same background as them. Yes, and white people are the majority in the United States, therefore white men automatically have the numerical advantage of options on dating apps. Add to that the fact that Asian and Latina women tend to prefer white men over men of their own race (as is statistically proven) and you will see that being white is the most advantageous racial demographic when it comes to online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:20 PM
6

The ratios on the other apps aren't much better, in fact many are even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:55 PM
2

It's funny because this will only lead to a higher proportion of only predatory men approaching women, because the non-predatory men will be too scared to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:42 PM
1

Really though? 240k+ subs and they're growing pretty quickly, and their lexicon is pretty popular in the zeitgeist of modern young women (i.e. phrases like "pickme").
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:23 PM
2

At its base level it's just a sort of disagreeableness or confidence which signals on a subconscious (or conscious) level that you have higher competence than she does, which attracts her to you. That's my working hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:38 PM
1

if at 24 you're not married as a woman, or if you're not in a several year long very committed LTR, you are equivalent to an incel in social status. Depends on whether or not she's already hit the wall. Most women haven't hit the wall yet at 24, usually happens closer to late twenties or early thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:04 PM
17

Women are attracted to passion, and assholes exhibit plenty of passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:35 AM
1

Yes, I have a pretty big cock and a nice ass so I assume the female version of me would have some nice assets as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:09 AM
2

Looks like those bottom 50% of women need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps and understand that they aren't entitled to male affection. 🙄💅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:06 AM
1

I entered: 18-29 not married & no kids any race 4'11" to 5'8" not obese earning $40k per year And got a solid 10.39%. Unlike females, we males actually have reasonable and attainable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:29 AM
1

Lmfao this site is savage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:11 PM
3

Only a very small percentage of human beings make over 200k. You are indeed delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:09 PM
1

Well, not everybody lives in puritanical Amerikkka where prostitution is mostly illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:46 PM
2

Yes, a woman's weight is directly tied to her SMV. The further she is from her ideal body weight, the lower her SMV will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:25 PM
14

It's essentially food and/or sugar addiction, and addictions are hard to kick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:24 PM
1

Never, even if I were sure that I wanted kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:44 PM
1

Mainly social status. Marriage is also an effective tool that men can use to secure regular sex with high-SMV women. And if you want kids, most high-SMV women want marriage for that. There are also some minor tax benefits here and there. But considering the combination of poor looks, narcissistic personality, and lofty demands of the average American woman, marriage is almost certainly not worth it. There's a reason why marriage rates are at an all-time low right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:36 PM
1

but likes/swipes are not matches and therefore don’t mean anything in practice ...What? You do realize you can't match with someone unless you like them, right? Most of these women aren't stupid, they know that when they "like" that tallwhitechad they're competing with many other women for his affection. Women in their 30s are largely ignored on dating apps, at least relative to those in their 20s. By the age of 35, its almost like playing the game as an unattractive male. Yes, once women enter …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:30 PM
10

I've said it once and I'll keep saying it until the day I die: Women don't like men, women like getting shit from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:25 PM
3

So it logically follows that many women feel overly entitled to a man's resources, therefore as a man you should make sure to spend your resources wisely. Most women do not feel bad about making a man pay for a whole dinner and then ghosting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:08 AM
6

Women demand that men pay on first dates in order to evaluate the man's resource potential, as this is female nature. A man who does not pay is viewed negatively, but a woman who does not pay is viewed positively. Women don't like men, they like getting shit from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:53 AM
3

Probability of men's sexual success depends entirely on the delta between his SMV and the female's SMV. Low-SMV men will have to compensate in some way (i.e. betabuxxing) whereas high-SMV men can practically call a woman a whore to her face and still have her on her knees.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:17 AM
1

How, by sucking dick? I could pay a hooker to do that for the same exact price.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:20 PM
1

Both parties should be expected to pay for their own shit, but if one party wants to pay for everything and the other party consents to that then that's fine. However, if one party (usually the woman) expects the other party (usually the man) to pay for them, then that's childish fucking entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:11 PM
5

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:09 PM
1

Any woman who looks down on you for not paying for her entire life is an entitled bitch who should be left to rot alone with her cats and antidepressants. If I invite a woman out and she offers to pay for herself, I might gladly pay for her. I make more money than most people after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 11:05 PM
7

Nice fantasy, but it's exceptionally rare since females are turned off by weakness in males.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 10:30 AM
2

Well empirically, women are inferior in certain respects (wit, charisma, confidence, physical strength, tenacity, mental fortitude, analytical ability, reasoning, mathematics, self-sacrifice, resource provision, leadership, depression rates, humor) and women are superior in other respects (verbal memory, empathy, patience, kindness, childrearing, forming relationships, substance abuse rates). So whether or not men or women are better really depends on the specific situation or question at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:50 AM
12

Online dating is also bad for women because they all compete for commitment from the top 1% tallwhitechads, and then all end up getting played, used, and spat out. The man-hating phase of these women usually sets in by their 30's due to extreme resentment about losing out on precious childbearing years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:40 AM
3

Don't care, I've got more time than them and I'll be in their position as well some day anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:35 AM
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Because in 21st century America, most women aren't getting the level of commitment they want, and most men aren't getting the amount sex they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:17 AM
3

Yes. Sexism against average (or worse) men is normalized in society and even on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:10 AM
42

Men, stop settling for women who don't consider you to be her #1. There's nothing inherently wrong with being a bachelor, society only tells you it's bad because society needs men to finance women's lives so they can pop out more babies to eventually be worker bees to keep the American oligarchs' pockets lined.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:44 PM
22

Early 20s is hard for the vast majority of men, women typically have the upper hand in the dating market until mid-20s or early 30s. Just remember to never commit to a girl unless you're extremely into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:42 PM
1

Grats! As you can see it's not that big of a deal at all.
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:29 PM
1

But would you say you blame women for the current dating climate based on that? Yes. Since women are extremely selective, many men actually just drop out of the dating market altogether and go for porn instead (or sugar babies and/or hookers if they have cash). That leaves many more women than men on the dating market, so these men get to treat the women like shit and get away with it. Then the women who get treated like shit turn around and blame all men. In the end, no one's happy except the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 08:07 PM
2

Men and women are both shallow and this has obviously made online dating a disaster. The difference is that men will at least own up to their shallowness. Like yeah, everyone knows that we like hot girls with boobs and butts. No shame in our game. Women on the other hand virtue signal and lie through their teeth all the damn time, and that's where the bulk of men's frustration with them comes from. Women are notoriously dishonest. I think women need to take more accountability and be honest abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:45 PM
16

Problem is, promiscuous females tend to all go for the same top 10-20% of most attractive males leaving the rest in the dust. If the masses of men can't find a suitable partner then they won't be as motivated to work (let's be real, sex is one of the biggest motivating factors a man can have) and as we all know society is literally built on the backs of male labor. Having less men motivated to work results in more societal dysfunction and more economic destitution for all of us. I feel like we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:33 PM
4

That's absolutely delusional. Even the most beta of betas don't want a bitch of a girlfriend that doesn't respect him. They're just trying to parrot redpill talking points as a "gotcha" moment, but it doesn't work for them because men and women are not the same. Want a man to respect you as a woman? Be attractive and don't be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:21 PM
8

Whether you're bluepilled, redpilled, pinkpilled, or blackpilled, hopefully we can all agree that Putin is a bastard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:40 PM
26

Women collectively say "only insecure men would ask about my sexual history" as a shaming technique so that they can sleep around while keeping their potential Relationship Market Value (RMV) from dropping. Deep down, these women know damn well that a high-RMV man who cares about himself is going to care about her sexual history. And if she's ridden the cock carousel before, she's going to have to either to lie about it or own up and accept the decrease in RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:38 PM
4

Chad is the only one effortlessly getting casual sex from 7/10+ women. Average men shouldn't have a problem getting casual sex in the 4~5/10 range, but beyond that they're going to have to put in effort. Male competition for a female grows exponentially as her attractiveness rises.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:26 PM
1

You shouldn't have a problem matching with a high-value man online, but unless you yourself are a high-value woman you're just going to be one of his plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:16 AM
2

Humans are ultimately lizard-brained and categorize people based on a few experiences. Women do this by assuming that the handful of asshole men who've approached them negatively are representative of the majority of men. That's why if you read dating advice written by women or male simps it tends to come off as misandrist (or is outright misandrist).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:10 AM
2

Back in our caveman days, having a weak man around was a liability. With a weak woman at least you can still breed her. A weak man, however, was useless to them. Therefore, it is ingrained in human psychology to shun weak men from the tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:08 PM
1

Stay as physically attractive as possible. That's really the crux of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:05 PM
5

Society worships women. Players and incels don't worship women (incels actually kind of do worship women, but that's an argument for another time). Therefore, society hates players and incels for not supplicating to the female imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:03 PM
1

Whike KK may be gorgeous she is 'post wall' (🙄) so should be less desirable than a younger gorgeous woman. She's about ten years older than PD. Total TRP violation. Kim K is worth billions of dollars and can afford operations that the average 41-year-old woman can't. Add to that she's in the top 10% of most naturally attractive women on the planet. Of course her wall is going to be pushed out further. She's an anomaly. She has kids!! Gasp!! Single mom! lots of kids! Again, she's a billionaire. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:53 PM
2

A man already doesn't need the mother's permission to perform a paternity test on his own child. She doesn't even have to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:27 PM
6

Brutally honest advice: Pretend to be as neurotypical as possible until it's comfortable. Women are sexually attracted to confidence and neurotypicality in men, which unfortunately puts men on the spectrum at a severe disadvantage (somewhat akin to being short). But luckily, as humans we have the capability to rewire our brains and adapt to different situations. Your best bet as an autistic man, if you want to get laid, is essentially to fake it until you make it. Understand that you naturally h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:55 AM
1

Women's primary goal is to date (i.e. secure commitment and resources from men), not to fuck. They're not wired like us in that way. To the average woman, being pumped and dumped by a bunch of dudes is not socially rewarding at all for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:57 AM
1

Fuckable is not the same thing as dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:09 AM
3

When women say they want "personality" what they really mean is "I want my man to be more confident than me, more competent than me, more humorous than me, more intelligent than me, and he must also have a much stronger frame than me." So if you consider those things as "personality" then I'd say it's very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:08 AM
1

Leave the scene and call the cops. I ain't dying for a random woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:34 PM
1

Maybe like 18-20 if she's tradcon. Otherwise, 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:29 PM
3

I sure got a lot of fire for that one Mainly from women I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:26 PM
2

The solution is to stop caring about women's opinions and date whoever you want to date. You're allowed to reject hoes for being hoes just like women are allowed to reject men they see as unfit or whatever. Anyone who shames you for having this preference clearly doesn't have your best interest in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:24 PM
0

Provided she's attractive. An unattractive girlfriend will harm your social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:00 PM
6

I think you win the award for worst dating advice I've ever seen on PPD. On PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:53 PM
3

>has an insane opinion >gets called out on their insane opinion >"lol it was just a joke bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:06 AM
4

I don't want them talking to me So what? I don't want Mormons to solicit me, but they do it anyway and it's their right. Both scenarios should be punishable tbh Punishable? You are deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:10 PM
3

The dating market for girls a quarter of their age Lol, just say what you really mean. You're resentful because many 35-year-old men are going for women in their twenties, which is not "a quarter of their age" or even half.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:28 PM
1

I'd stay single or try to plate both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:19 PM
14

Not gonna lie, I fell for one of these scams many years ago in my younger days. I simply called their bluff and ignored them because nobody on planet Earth is interested in a low quality video of some dude jerking off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:46 PM
7

I'd say women provide more "useless empathy" than men. Women are more likely to display supportive/positive emotions and offer kind words and empty platitudes. But when it comes down to it, men are the ones who are more likely to get shit done and actually help you out in real tangible ways.
/r/MensRights07/02/22 07:36 PM
1

This may be an unpopular opinion, but if a girl is really into you she's not going to give you up just because you're a redpiller. Even men who espouse actual terrible ideologies like Neo-Nazis still get laid and have girlfriends. In fact, women generally prefer sexist men to non-sexist men. Just don't say stupidly obvious shit on the first date like "Nice to meet you Sarah! By the way, you're just another one of my plates" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:48 PM
5

All women biologically desire a physically and emotionally stronger man who will provide for her and protect her. Thus, all women will find a way to leave their man if he shows too much vulnerability and/or weakness. This is part of the reason why men tend to be more emotionally avoidant with their girlfriends/wives than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:17 AM
1

What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:04 PM
1

Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:48 AM
1

Not if we really click and she's pleasant company, then I would've actually wanted to keep her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:45 AM
2

Given the fact that FDS women tend to be unattractive and/or undesirable, it's a very unlikely scenario that I actually meet a beautiful and thoughtful woman who is also an FDSer. But if it turns out that she actually did have batshit views on sex and relationships that could negatively manifest later on in our relationship, I'd hit it and quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:14 AM
4

Red pill philosophy is designed to benefit men in a gynocentric society that already caters heavily to women's needs. So asking how TRP benefits women is kind of a non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:02 PM
2

Jesus. Never tell your partner that you keep your ex's nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:49 PM
3

Depends on what you mean by "misogynist". Recognizing the fact that there are inherent physical and psychological differences between the sexes is not misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:37 PM
3

How dare men have standards 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:34 PM
1

It doesn't work, it's just gaslighting from women who are tired of getting pumped and dumped by Chads and Calebs. Women are extremely attracted to sexist men, attractive men are simply sexist in a way that turns women on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:45 PM
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I don't do well on Tinder, most of my hookups have been from bars. I follow the usual basic bachelor playbook: 1) Go to bar 2) Approach and flirt with women in said bar (I also converse with any dudes who happen to seem cool, helps me get energized) 3) If I meet a girl I vibe with, I get us a drink or two and find us a spot to sit if possible 4) Flirt with her some more, make out and/or dance, and then eventually ask her if she wants to head back to my place
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:11 PM
3

How do people here not know that better looking people get treated differently? An extremely attractive woman can be a housewife and have her entire life essentially handed to her, whereas an extremely attractive man still needs to work to put food on the table no matter what. It's not the same. Women are generally treated better than men due to the "women are wonderful" effect. How do people here not realize your early 20s is often an "experimental" phase for both men and women, and that both g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:11 PM
9

To the average modern feminist, a sexual predator is essentially any heterosexual man whom she doesn't fancy. I wish I were exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:50 AM
1

No, I'm just saying it's interesting that society finds 16 & 20 to be far worse than 20 & 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:40 AM
2

It's simple evolutionary psychology. As you know, we still have Stone Age brains. Do you seriously think cavewomen were out there wooing cavemen? By and large, it was the other way around. That's why women have shitty game even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 10:35 PM
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In the first scenario there's a bit of a mental development gap, and it's usually illegal and socially unacceptable. In the second scenario there's an enormous mental development gap, but it's legal and more socially acceptable. OP has posed a very interesting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:44 PM
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Women are horrible at initiating, period. Women naturally evolved to have zero game because they simply don't need it to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:06 PM
1

Based cavewoman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 01:17 PM
1

For women such as yourself: https://www.indeed.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:25 PM
0

You literally believe in tarot cards, so I'm not going to continue arguing with someone of your mental capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:18 AM
2

I mean, it is pretty dumb and embarrassing to be a grown adult and expect to be paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:53 AM
1

Much respect to you for actually being logically consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:52 AM
1

"There’s still lots of progress to be made" therefore Karen can't pay for her own chicken nuggets, she still needs a man to do it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:48 AM
0

I'm saying society seems to operate under the implicit assumption that men are superior to women, and men being expected to be the breadwinner in relationships is just one example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:41 AM
1

That's different from women feeling entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:37 AM
2

No, it's similar to how a parent takes their kid to McDonald's. The parent is seen as the obviously more capable and responsible person, therefore it's expected that the parent would pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:37 AM
0

I'm feeling charitable today, so I'll leave you with this: https://www.indeed.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:43 AM
1

Hope this helps: https://www.indeed.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:36 AM
7

How is that relevant in 2022 when women have jobs and earn their own money, and can afford their own fucking meals?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:19 AM
0

I mean I'll probably pay if I actually have to run into a broke, entitled poor bitch such as yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:27 AM
4

"Essentially, I waNt freE acceSs to men's timE & bodiEs. ThIs is truE femIniSm. Whawhawha. Fucking date cheap dudes sis, the fck. Date your damn standard, leave everyone else alone."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:34 AM
9

If you want traditional gender roles then I better see your ass in the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:04 AM
11

My social group (as well as my bf and I) tend to rotate who’s paying. That's weird, in all of my friend groups we've always split the bill evenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:02 AM
8

The audacity of you. Imagine if we started telling women "If you can’t afford to take a man out on a date you shouldn’t be dating."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:13 PM
12

Have you ever thought to yourself why the man is the one who is expected to have the resources to take care of you both? Any ounce of self-reflection there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:00 PM
7

"It’s not about being superior, its about being a woman 🤷🏽‍♀️ how do you expect a man to feel like you’re interested in him or value him if you can’t bother to make a good impression by paying on dates?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:58 PM
3

So you're actually redpill/trad and only pretending to be bluepill? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:41 PM
6

I'm not paying to see whether I want to gamble my time and peace of mind on what you're selling. You're already gambling by having accepted the date. I'd rather just do without what you're selling. No you wouldn't, otherwise you would have rejected the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:37 PM
37

I grew up where who ever asks you out on a date pays. Let's not be disingenuous here; to be fully accurate, you grew up in a culture which expects men to ask out and pay for women. And this rule is a legacy of when women weren't allowed the same job opportunities as men. Now, the vast majority of women are working and earning their own money. Why exactly are we still subsidizing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:20 PM
25

"Hurr durr you're just broke". Classic female response. I've got plenty of funds, but what I don't like is the sense of entitlement a lot of women seem to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:11 PM
6

So because a minority of men are players, all men must be penalized by being expected to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:08 PM
13

Not everyone wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:07 PM
3

Women will never out earn men on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:08 PM
3

/r/dating and /r/dating_advice are quite useless (for both genders), but can be quite entertaining to read. /r/seduction is decent for young men starting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:25 PM
3

Women tend to value niceness at the expense of honesty, men tend to value honesty at the expense of niceness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:18 PM
1

Top girl has a pretty face but she seems flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:49 PM
1

Jesus. If he's a 5 then I'm literally Gollum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:44 PM
2

It's certainly not the worst analogy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:33 PM
3

Best part about being female is that you can improve your attractiveness by simply maintaining a healthy weight and putting on makeup. That's literally it, and yet you still have women complaining about how nobody wants to date a fat bitch. But if you're born as a short or neurotic man, you're completely screwed and you'll be fighting an uphill battle your whole life when it comes to relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:54 PM
16

Preselection. In women's view, if no other woman wants a man then that man is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:46 PM
1

Just ignore them and date whomever you want to date, just like literally everyone else does. If mentally ill people want to scream at each other in their online rabbit holes, let them have their catharsis. (Not to say that all trans people are mentally ill)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:09 PM
2

People need to realize that there is a psychological disconnect between men and women when it comes to sexual attitudes. Men generally desire sex with multiple women, whereas women generally desire one man of high status who will commit his resources and protection to her. As hard as it is for the average man to sleep with a high quality woman, it's just as hard for the average woman to get a high quality man to commit to her, and that's precisely what the femcels over on FDS are screeching abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:22 PM
12

I agree with literally everything you wrote here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:54 PM
1

Gay men and lesbian women have far much more variety in their communities. Do they really? In the vast majority of gay/lesbian couples I've seen, one partner plays a more dominant role while the other is more submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:18 PM
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Yeah as long as you're decently socially calibrated, women generally won't react negatively to you approaching them. I've approached lots of women politely and the worst reaction I've ever gotten was being ignored. Guys who don't believe that they're well socially calibrated should probably only approach women in social venues, i.e. bars, clubs, concerts, meetups, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 08:21 PM
2

It's virtually always the case, except for extreme circumstances like if the woman is homeless and crazy or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:24 AM
3

Women have much easier access to peers and social groups due to the "women are wonderful" effect. An individual woman can attend literally any Meetup event and people will be all over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:49 PM
50

I'd say a high value man is a man who is competent, honest, confident enough to lift others up instead of dragging them down, passionate about life, and protects and provides for the people he cares about as well as himself. But if you're asking what's popular with women on apps, they generally prefer a man who is handsome, tall, fit, athletic, extraverted, neurotypical, demonstrates wealth and social status, and is white. It's not that all of these traits are required, but a man on dating apps …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:10 PM
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Women have a natural psychological in-group bias which men lack, and it's been shown that humans as a whole have a natural tendency to view women more favorably than men. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:36 PM
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Lonely women are supported by society, and lonely men are denigrated by society. Women have automatic support systems whereas lonely men are generally not offered support unless they already have close ties, therefore men are more likely to cope in more hazardous ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:06 AM
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Better to bring a woman back to America rather than move to a whole new country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:35 PM
13

Online dating can't be saved, and you can thank both male and female nature for that. Both genders would be better off meeting other people organically in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:26 PM
4

Just need to find a woman who hasn't been so corrupted by 21st century feminism. It's hard, but it's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:23 PM
1

We really need to keep in mind that there are many more active men than women on dating apps, especially Tinder. It's also been reported that something like ~30% of these men are already in committed relationships. With these basic stats in mind, the average woman will have a much larger pool than the average man no matter what. And this is before we even get into gender-based swiping behavior (obviously men tend to swipe right on a large number of potential mates, whereas women are more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 06:13 PM
3

And how do people make friends? By... introducing themselves to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:35 AM
1

The problem with blackpillers is that they genuinely believe that not being blessed with 10/10 chad genes completely takes them out of the dating game. I suspect it's because the vast majority of them only "approach" women via dating apps where the ratio of men to women is extremely high and the selection process is inherently as superficial as you could possibly conceive. As a black dude with a 5/10 face, I'm well aware that dating apps will not work for me. But in a real life scenario such as …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:21 AM
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Basically if the girl dines and dashes, the guy would have to foot the entire bill, but the guy could then sue the girl in small claims court.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:10 AM
13

Neither liberals nor conservatives give a shit about men, welcome to the real world.
/r/MensRights11/12/21 02:59 AM
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As we all know, only women actually move out of the way to let people pass. It's only us evil entitled men that don't. /s
/r/MensRights11/12/21 02:57 AM
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As a man you just need to stand up for yourself and be able to voice your disagreement with someone, and then just crack some jokes and poke fun at things. That's literally it. Consciously trying to neg is trying too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 04:11 AM
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I'm honestly not that offended by the existence of FDS, it's very clearly a cope sub for low-quality women who struggle to get men to commit to them. Check out the top overlapping subreddits: /r/datingoverthirty /r/askwomenover30 /r/datingoverforty /r/cptsd /r/survivinginfidelity High-quality, desirable women are not browsing FDS.
/r/MensRights30/11/21 07:21 PM
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Press X to Doubt
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:18 AM
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85% of homeless are men Umm excuse me, the more important point is that 15% of homeless are women. /s
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:12 AM
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I'm not even surprised at this point. Women are basically considered to be a special protected class in our society.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:10 AM
2

Well, it's more so that the entitlement and cowardice of women isn't anything new and this was known even to ancient philosophers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 08:15 PM
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Man, I've been reading a bit of Ancient Greek philosophy and my goodness they were redpilled as fuck. Check out this quote from Aristotle: Wherefore women are more compassionate and more readily made to weep, more jealous and querulous, fonder of railing, and more contentious. The female also is more subject to depression of spirits and despair than the male. She is also more shameless and false, more readily deceived, and more mindful of injury, more watchful, more idle, and on the whole less e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 07:11 PM
3

Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:13 PM
3

Depressing, couldn't even bring myself to watch the entire thing. The girl isn't even much of a looker herself and has a much worse personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:02 AM
1

She was probably a dime twenty years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:01 AM
9

I don't know who's more pathetic, the guy for doing this or the girl for allowing him to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:59 AM
2

A man who refuses this deal is called a misogynist Only retarded feminists will call you a misogynist for this. Just empathize with the people that you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:31 AM
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Astonishing. Sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:17 AM
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Lol exactly, even just a 10% drop would be disastrous. I can't even imagine 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:31 PM
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The solution to counter womens' pickiness is legalized prostitution. Currently, if you're an American man and you want a legal prostitute you have to either travel to Nevada or some other country. If we make prostitutes more accessible then women will actually have to step up their game and offer something more than just a vagina and an attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:28 PM
2

The notion that true unconditional love is real. The reality is that love is a transactional exchange just like everything else in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:14 PM
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If a big portion of the male workforce disappeared women will just step up and do the hard dangerous jobs Considering the fact that somewhere between 90% and 98% of construction workers, electricians, aircraft pilots, aerospace engineers, plumbers, and firefighters are men, I don't think women will be able to easily just "step up" into these jobs. We're a loooooong way from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:07 PM
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Women have always been picky, so there's really nothing new there. Go check out statistics on reproductive success of women vs. men from the bronze age if you don't believe me. Suffice to say, competition amongst men for reproductive rights were far more fierce back then (I believe the numbers are something like 1 man per 17 women who would produce offspring). This wasn't because "women were picky". Women during this time had virtually zero choice in the man they would procreate with. What happe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 03:57 PM
2

Yikes. She'll need to either lower her standards or start cat shopping
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:46 PM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:40 PM
2

financial benefits Okay that part is a straight up lie, come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:48 PM
2

And if more women get to experience what you've experienced, eventually alimony will no longer be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:46 PM
1

I know plenty of older men that aren't married but still have women "sticking around" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:45 PM
7

Unless she's very ugly or otherwise repulsive she's talking to multiple men. Even fat girls have plenty of options online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:30 PM
7

Considering this is America I wouldn't be surprised if both were true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:26 PM
2

"buttergolems" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:25 PM
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Lmfao, I'd bet a ton of money that you wouldn't help out some random man that was getting his ass kicked by a huge buff dude. At best you'd probably just scream and run away. It's 2021. Men aren't your personal servants anymore. The only people we're obligated to defend are our loved ones and ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:30 PM
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They hate porn for very different reasons. FDSers hate it because it devalues the worth of real pussy (men won't jump through as many hoops to impress women if they can just wank it to hot blondes on PornHub instead), and TRPers hate it because it reduces your internal drive to seek real women and hinders your sexual performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:18 PM
2

Because even a 5/10 woman can have sex with virtually any man for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:30 PM
1

Being an attractive man is the highest form of privilege. Attractive women are also very privileged (in western countries) but even still I'd rather be an average man because I enjoy the freedom, independence, and opportunity that comes with being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 04:18 PM
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Fine. Deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:55 PM
1

Niceness has zero effect on female attraction. You can be nice, or not be nice, it doesn't really matter at all. Women are turned on by one thing: masculine frame. So it's not that women like or dislike nice guys per se, they simply just don't care how nice a guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:52 PM
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I'd be worried that the girl on the left might be chubby. But she has a nice face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:14 PM
5

Women are just as racist as men on average, they're just bigger pussies about expressing it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:23 PM
8

Except there are hundreds of thousands of black-white marriages in the US. Just because you hate blacks doesn't mean everybody else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:17 PM
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You said you didn't mention blacks, and yet you were the first to bring them up. Christ it's as if I'm arguing with a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:53 PM
5

This is only true for women who are young and attractive. They're on a time limit because eventually the wall will hit them, and some women realize this sooner rather than later. Antidepressant use is highest among women over 60 after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:23 PM
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Except Asian women also tend to lust over white men, so it's not just about in-group preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:04 PM
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"Ah, the black propaganda bullshit." <- This was literally your first sentence, are you fucking dense? This whole thread was originally supposed to be about how white men have an advantage in online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:46 PM
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This thread wasn't even originally about blacks, so why are you bringing them up? Seems like you're just looking for an outlet to be racist against blacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:43 PM
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The most attractive FDS users
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:04 PM
1

And no one wants an old racist misandrist piece of Eastern European filth, so I guess you need not worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:47 PM
1

It's a shocker that you're still single at 47.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:44 PM
2

For someone I'd consider a serious romantic relationship with, she can't be: fat a sex worker and/or promiscuous incapable of cooking and cleaning/tidying rude or unpleasant addicted to substances financially inept a single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:17 AM
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Because she's young, white, female, and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:53 AM
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No, she had a very small number subscribers on TikTok and YouTube. She's your standard missing white woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 01:51 AM
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You're proving the OP's point that women generally prefer abusive guys over boring dudes. That these women would literally rather get their asses beat than be bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 07:11 PM
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It's due to a combination of two factors: extraverted men are more likely to actually approach more women in the first place, and also extraverted men generally speaking (for better or worse) have higher levels of confidence. Both of these two things will result in more dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:36 PM
2

I don't think being bald takes a man completely out of the game. Sure it'll hurt his online dating prospects, but online dating is already superficial in a million different other ways. In real life I see bald dudes with dime pieces all the time. If we really want to talk about unfair aspects of dating let's discuss women's height preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 04:09 PM
1

If it’s weight just say weight, if it’s being a single mom it’s being a single mom. Being in your 30s alone won’t do much in terms of stopping a woman from finding a decent man for marriage. Both of those factors depend on a woman's age. As a woman ages into her 30s, her fertility window gets much smaller and her metabolism slows down. Therefore, she gets fat and she rushes to have kids with the best man that'll have her. This is because women are generally fertile in their 30s so they actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 03:48 PM
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If men and women's brains worked more similarly it would be 10000x easier to navigate the dating world for everyone involved. But the harsh reality is that men and women are mentally wired differently when it comes to sex, and this is mostly due to nature. Therefore we've got to constantly stay vigilant if we want to maintain a fair society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:57 PM
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From what I've noticed, the majority of people on the social media seem to have been sending him praise. It's just that there will always be a subset of women (on Twitter/FDS/TwoX/wherever) who will always hate and/or resent men unconditionally for the crime of having been born male. Just like there are racists out there who will always hate on people for no reason other than the color of their skin. It's a sad fact of life that you kind of just have to deal with. Everyone has haters, let them b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:34 PM
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Fair enough, but the OP insinuated that dating doesn't actually get easier for men with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:09 PM
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I do think women have a wall (as do men) but it really isn’t 30 years old guys. 30 is just an average, the wall can hit any time. Usually between 25 and 35 depending on the woman. Hell, some women are able to maintain attractiveness even well into their 40s. Unfortunately, the average American woman loses a huge amount of her attractiveness by the time she's 30. if you are woman in your 30s especially without kids and you aren’t fat you’re solid. And that's exactly my point. By age 30, over 60% …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:07 PM
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Definitely don't let the women in your life know that you listen to RP content. They know how dangerously effective it is and they'll resent you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:56 AM
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Dating typically gets easier for men as they progress from their 20's into their 30's because men gain more confidence and status as they age. The same cannot be said for women since a woman's attractiveness is more about her looks than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:32 AM
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She needs to have some kind of vocation if I'm going to marry her. I'm not looking to get divorce raped any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:14 PM
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My understanding is that when women are younger (age 18-29) and have more desirability and thus a greater number of suitors, they tend to cheat slightly more than men. But after women hit the wall, men cheat far more and this gap only increases as age increases. Source: https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 03:01 PM
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Exactly my thoughts on the issue, you worded it beautifully.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:56 PM
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If a woman fails to communicate what she likes then that's her own damn fault. That's my take.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:33 PM
1

As I've said above: When I say "sleeping with someone" I mean "sleeping over at someone's place". I can't trust any random woman I decide to have sex with to be a 100% ethical person, especially not after reading that FDS post. Now if we're in a committed relationship then I probably wouldn't be as cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:40 PM
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When I say "sleeping with someone" I mean "sleeping over at someone's place". I can't trust any random woman I decide to have sex with to be a 100% ethical person, especially not after reading that FDS post. Now if we're in a committed relationship then I probably wouldn't be as cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:39 PM
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You can totally make a western woman step into her feminine role if you're good at stepping into your masculinity and holding your frame. Problem is, the average western man of today has no idea how to properly utilize his masculinity. You can mostly blame porn and feminization of western society for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:13 PM
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Still need to be physically attractive and have a stronger frame than her, or muh personality won't do shit for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:26 AM
2

I can already hear feminists frothing at the mouth after reading that tweet, lol.
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 02:23 AM
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Women generally don't care how low a man's N count is. In fact, if it's too low it can be to the man's detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:21 AM
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I might have to do the same man, modern American women are disgusting for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:50 AM
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It's exponentially easier the more unattractive they are, even in my younger days when I had zero game I easily bagged 3s and 4s. Average women are much harder to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:48 AM
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If you are or plan to be an extremely high earner, look for a similar high earner, or get a prenup. Or don’t get married at all. Who cares. But don’t let non existent problems dictate your life. Fair point, prenups are a thing. But most women will make a stink about it from what I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 11:42 PM
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She was probably using these kids to make her "premium content". Disgusting.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/21 07:50 PM
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Just because it's a woman getting divorce raped doesn't make it okay. Divorce rape is fucked up no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:16 PM
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They know it and it kills them inside.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 11:56 PM
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Most of women's "basic requirements" are wishlists that no man could ever fill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 11:55 PM
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It's pointless to give women advice on how to attract men because women already know what they need to do in order to be attractive (even if they deny it to themselves). It's simple for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 11:54 PM
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I have no sympathy for lonely women, they're supported and uplifted by our gynocentric culture from birth. It's far easier to form social connections and be accepted into social groups as a woman, literally all you have to do is exist. Whereas men first need to prove that they are valuable somehow, and also prove that they're not a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:18 AM
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She was a Hillary girl, I was a Bernie guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:36 AM
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I imagine it's difficult to find one who doesn't bc most men support Trump. There are tons of liberals on the dating market, maybe depending on location. I wouldn't be surprised if she put aside her values for some conservative dick. Conservative men are generally more attractive than liberal men. 1) more naive and more likely to not see the red flags, 2) more likely to want to "help" men bc they have been instilled with the value of women as moral compasses to keep men on the straight and narro…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:26 PM
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also, women aren’t the only ones who are into the “dark triad” personality traits. that type of personality is attractive because they are narcissistic. narcissists are disagreeable but equally likable to both genders. everybody likes self confidence, nobody finds pandering attractive. if there’s no fight, is it even worth the catch? We might get drawn to their confidence in a friendly context, but I'm pretty sure it's almost exclusively women who are sexually attracted to narcissistic tendencie…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 09:13 PM
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