The most optimistic estimates state that Tinder is about 70% male active users, and 30% female. Recent stats are now showing 4:1 and I've even seen numbers as bad as 9:1 in certain locations, but for the sake of argument we'll go with 7:3.
Let's be even more optimistic and assume that every active user on the app is looking to eventually pair off monogamously. (Obviously that's not the case, we know that at least 30% of Tinder users are married with another 12% already in some sort of relationship. We also know that men are biologically predisposed to seek out many attractive women, while women are predisposed to commit to one, or very few, high-status men.)
For both men and women let's say there's a linear distribution of attractiveness (5 = average, 8 = beautiful, 2 = fugly, etc.) and everyone wants to pair off with the most attractive partner that they can get their hands on. With a 7:3 sex ratio, this means that if you're an average (5/10) dude, you get absolutely nothing, even if you're willing to accept the ugliest woman possible. Thus, most men on Tinder (57%) will end up maidenless no matter how hard they try. You'll have to be an 8/10 man just to get a 5/10 woman. Want a girl who's fairly decent looking (6.5/10)? Mathematically, you'll need to be close to a 9/10 guy.
I believe that a man should not seriously use Tinder unless he can demonstrate that he is at least two of the following: popular, handsome, and/or white. Having at least two of these attributes should put you in the top 20% in the eyes of most women, but otherwise you should stick to daygame and nightgame.
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Yes, and white people are the majority in the United States, therefore white men automatically have the numerical advantage of options on dating apps. Add to that the fact that Asian and Latina women tend to prefer white men over men of their own race (as is statistically proven) and you will see that being white is the most advantageous racial demographic when it comes to online dating.
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Dude, being white is the most advantageous racial demographic in general.
For this reason, it’s a bit inaccurate to say women are more attracted to white men. They’re subconsciously attracted to the social benefits of being white not necessarily the “whiteness”.
I think this is what people are confused about. Because an Indian doctor can FOR SURE get laid over white guy who works 9-5.
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And then when us non-whites say racism is still a big issue in society its the whites who are going nuh uh, well almost all whites; the remaining few whites immediately appoint themselves as "speakers for the disenfranchised" and proceed to tell everyone what non-white people actually need/want without even consulting us once.
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That's just absolute bullshit, but we're not allowed to have this discussion in this subreddit because of the "no racially charged content" rule where "racially charged content" ends up being defined by the mods as "anything to do with race".
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What is bullshit about what he said?
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There's no large movement of white people who claim there's no racism in society. As I said, I'm not going to get into this further and risk the wrath of the PPD Gestapo.
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