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Rant/Ventingpro-complainer/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 06:57 AM
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Rant/Ventingpro-complainer/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 11:50 AM
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Field Reportpro-complainer/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:21 AM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:50 AM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP07/07/18 04:08 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:36 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:50 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:55 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:04 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:54 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:34 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:04 AM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:31 AM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP05/07/18 11:49 PM
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pro-complainer/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 12:34 PM
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pro-complainer/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 08:44 AM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:15 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:53 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP16/09/18 05:59 AM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP21/08/18 06:19 AM
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Rant/Ventingpro-complainer/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 01:16 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:06 PM
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pro-complainer/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:20 PM
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What about women who had their virginity taken away by rape? Where would they fit in this post? Asking cause I married a woman who was raped before, in my beta days. Marriage didn't last so would like to see how things fit together.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 10:52 AM
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I have no idea why all of a sudden 'morals' are in play. Any situation can be averted with the right frame. A reputation for something bad doesn't last forever. Just don't be consistent on it. In your social circle, the game for any new girl must be done outside of that circle. So treat the social circle as a place just for logistics. That woman will always be AWALT. Don't let her ruin your frame.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:18 AM
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It turns the whole thing into a probability game. You'll find someone definitely, but you give up your frame, your smv is based on a few pictures and a few other things. When you text, you're actually in her frame unless you using texting only for logistics I'm just saying your odds are better going out.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:13 AM
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The best advice on tinder is not too use tinder. You give up too much leverage as a man. You'll be more successful by going out
/r/askTRP16/09/18 06:08 AM
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So she chose to leave him now no other man can compare Only thing I see is stupidity and AWALT
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:40 PM
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What I wanna know is even though I agree that rejection is better than regret, do you think it's healthy to have regrets in general? Cause you need to regret first in order to achieve the next state right?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 05:52 AM
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Sorry, this post is shit. The best way out of oneitus is to fuck other women. If you can't do that, then you have to interact with more women. This is how you develop a sense of abundance. The problem with your post is that you say like women appropriately. That's such a vague fucking description and liking a woman leads to oneitus in the long run, the very thing you want to avoid in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 05:49 AM
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TBH redpill will just end up moving somewhere else if this happens
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 10:48 AM
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I never knew that I wanted to see a redpill referee in action until now
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 01:11 PM
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There's a beginner one on this sub ... There's also a book called meditations ... It's recommended by trp as well It's well worth it to try at least
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 06:42 AM
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Meditation is the best step for you bro ... It helps you control yourself emotionally Once you're able to do that, then you can control your desires In terms of porn addiction ... My opinion is that the feeling of wanting to masturbate is the sign that you should get out more cause your dick wants pussy not your hands There's nofap if you wanna try that but sometimes the behavior on there is so beta ... I'd say take the good things from there and get out I used to fap like multiple times a day .…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 05:34 AM
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That's the cultural programming that he's talking about lol
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:20 PM
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Sometimes you learn that it's not always about the sex in the end
/r/askTRP25/08/18 07:10 PM
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The game by Neill strauss ... Very cool book, but not sure about how real the events in the book are Also reading how to win friends and influence people ... This is a book that made me contemplate my interactions in life
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 06:50 PM
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This feels like an imaginary oneitus in some ways Normally a oneitus results in you thinking in scarcity mode ... Also makes you feel like the oneitus is the only person that will make you feel happy Even though there's no physical person here ... cause you making LTR a scarcity thing and you making it seem like your happiness lies in there. How is the longing for LTR any different to oneitus in this regard?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 06:10 AM
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He's not being condescending ... You're just being beta But yes, one of the trp lessons is that women aren't the Disney princesses you grew up to see ... Not do they have any real sense of morality that makes them special
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 06:00 AM
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Dammit, you'll never know until you approach her to ask And until you can fester up the courage ... She isn't even worth fantasizing it thinking about because you can use that time for self improvement
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:06 PM
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An easy way is to talk to people that do retail ... I'd choose the ladies that work by perfumes cause they normally have to dress up so you just game them
/r/askTRP29/07/18 05:09 AM
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I don't know mgtow well, care to explain why?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:59 PM
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Yeah, you can actually pay women to have sex with you. It's such an awesome concept!
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:37 PM
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This is true. It's more oneitus than getting cucked
/r/askTRP28/07/18 03:22 PM
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"I'll cool it if you're open to stroking it" That's all that needs to be said
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:52 AM
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Because "you know" and reality are two different things ... Have you actually approached for the second fuck and got rejected?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:46 AM
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You put yourself in a position of scarcity ... There's more girls than her out there ... It's because you're limiting yourself to your discord server that you're experiencing this You gonna have to lift and meet different women bro ... There's no two ways about it ... You might say that you're not beta, but as long as you're still having oneitus for this girl ... You still beta AF In terms of the sloot, you might have to fuck several of them to get over her ... Just saying
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:41 AM
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Just say ... Then I will ask dad for the money instead, thanks for your support Then you don't speak to her for a while ... Then you phone and she'll be cool with you ... If not, you repeat the process until she's cool with you It's the same as dealing with any other women ... If she's making a fuss with money then don't involve her and if she asks you tell her exactly why ... It's not being rude, you're just drawing a line that you're not gonna be part of some childish game
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:38 AM
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Grief and mourning can only be fixed with time ... True story It's not a condition to have and then go look for a girl as well ... Also, talk to a guy about your problems, not a girl because it's seen as a weakness Best suggestion is to actually go into a monk state, lift and join communities for your hobbies ... That'll cure the oneitus as well Then when you're ready ... Don't go back to her but instead go to a place where there's an abundance of girls
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:29 AM
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Feels like in asking for help, you're looking for a way to not lose weight as well ... So man up and lift to reach the goal What I also notice is that you're investing into the girls you sleeping with? Like you f-closed them already, why are you concerned of their opinion afterward ... Is it because you can't sleep with them again? If you can, then why the hell are you worried? If your game is smooth enough to f-close ... Then you should be fucking different women and your weight/penis situation…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:27 AM
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This is probably the only decent answer I'm gonna get ... Thanks for this bro rant The rest of the commenters simply don't read and immediately throw oneitus at you ... Maybe I must edit the question and repost it a month later or something Pretty sure I would've gotten better answers at trp Reddit, but they suggested to move the question here /rant
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:20 AM
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Quick guess is that you don't smile alot and are probably too serious I don't think it's an issue until you've been rejected by a girl because of it What I would suggest is that you read the game where they speak about this ... If I remember correctly, you smile when you enter a room to make it seem like you a cool guy ... How to win friends also recommends this so that people remember you better
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:16 AM
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This sub has the inability to give you an explanation of anything you're curious about ... You'll be accused of oneitus soon lol
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:12 AM
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Not even ... Mental masturbating is a waste of time Either friend on FB and approach for a fuck or go fuck other women
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:08 AM
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Anyone can become beta ... If you're put in an environment that's gonna make you beta ... You will definitely become beta E.g you start a new job that forces you to work at your desk for long periods ... You go home, you tired so you sleep on the couch ... You don't have time for lifting so you gain weight ... You end up secluding yourself and your sense of abundance is gone ... Alpha had therefore disappeared because of circumstances That's just an extreme example, but you get the point. That's…
/r/askTRP22/07/18 05:02 AM
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Ditch Tinder. It will crush your self-esteem into the dirt, and empty your wallet to put it back together again. Putting your self esteem on the line for any app is the anti pattern that you should avoid
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:40 PM
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> Stop putting your heart out there, foreal. You don't have anything if you aren't fucking, there's nothing to talk about or waste your time thinking about. I get the intent ... but don't put your heart into a person and expect something in return is what should be properly advertised What I would also add is: Don't fantasize about her at all ... it's not worthwhile because it's wasted time ... either approach and try to fuck or next and move on
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 06:38 PM
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Pasties! But seriously ... it's your self confidence that's the issue ... have you actually been rejected because of your man boobs? Probably not ... So it's a problem that exists only in your mind I'd say make it work for you ... lift more, get a swole chest and your nipples will look like it should be there
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:17 PM
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While people are saying next for gold-digger symptoms ... I would also next for poor English ... "What you do for a work" Have standards when choosing your pussy.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:12 PM
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I get what you're saying ... but I'm not looking for an excuse to fuck her ... it's a work person and I am not an exception to "don't shit where you eat" I just want to understand her behavior change towards me ... I was expecting disgust and resentment cause of what I did but here there's ioi?
/r/askTRP21/07/18 06:10 PM
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It's from the angle that building a business builds up power ... and many people posted the start a business advice either here or in trp reddit as a form to improve yourself ... The question was merely asked to get some sort of advice from them
/r/askTRP21/07/18 05:57 PM
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Oh crap, sorry about that ... Will delete and repost there
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 04:35 PM
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You're following the same pattern and your getting the same outcome ... You need to change your patterns of living ... You're living too comfortably and maybe you need to challenge yourself My guess is too read more redpill books and focus on those things. One thing I can pickup, that the game book speaks about, is that you have to be willing to lose a girl to be able to sleep with her ... So in your examples, you walk away when a girl shows disinterest ... Maybe do something slightly really to …
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:01 PM
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Tell her that there's other pussy that's just as good as hers ... She's not that special to leave your family and country
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:55 AM
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You're obviously only experiencing this because you put yourself in a situation where the amount of women you're seeing is scarce ... That's the main cause of oneitus And not any women, women you wanna sex ... Big difference So go out, chat up some girls, pay for an escort if you have to, get rejected, have sex, have fun
/r/askTRP21/07/18 11:53 AM
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One of the starter posts is a guy that eventually mgtow tho ...
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 06:02 AM
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Read the whole side bar Lift and improve yourself ... Hire an escort if it gets really bad
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:55 PM
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You need abundance mentality
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:47 PM
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In that case, no why would it be? Once you f-close and are plating this person regularly ... It shouldn't matter unless the plate is a social person themself
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:42 PM
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You should read the game by Neill strauss ... The characters in there are also 'not that attractive' Your game and frame is more important than looks ... It's almost as if somebody were to talk about your height then your frame would fall apart
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:36 PM
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I think the perspective is wrong here ... You're looking to increase your smv in order to get more women. If you're looking for an excuse to make your existing behavior acceptable ... Then you should be prepared to get the same results tbh Being social just increases the number of women you meet ... You don't need to go clubbing for that ... What I probably would recommend is that you get into communities with the stuff you're into ... Maybe you'll find women there But at the same time remember …
/r/askTRP07/07/18 07:19 PM
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Nothing wrong with your body and wealth. Definitely seems like your game and frame is the problem. In other comments you say that you don't night game, this could also be the reason.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:42 PM
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You suffering from scarcity syndrome, oneitus, and shamefully just put her on a pedestal There's more hb10s than her. You just put it in your mind that she's the best you'll ever encounter
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:31 PM
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Your strategy for ltr comes across as being needy and outcome dependent. Read your own post ... You want to talk every second day, probably everyday ... Expect to be texted back immediately ... Then the frustration of not getting the outcome you wanted If your previous ltr was before trp, then you can't expect the same result after trp ... You changed in that way
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:25 PM
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Today's climate you shouldn't marry or ltr
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:58 PM
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So you're a lurker since before 10k and yet you didn't follow "don't shit where you eat" The next part that bothers me that your story is basically the "success" of hooking up with a hb9 as if you've achieved something. You say yourself that you didn't fuck her. So where exactly is this hookup? You just wasted your time unable to f-close this girl. You didn't follow trp, the pussy fucked you up and fucked your life up. But stay proud of yourself for "hooking" up with an HB9, it suits you
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:47 PM
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If you're not religious, don't bother getting married Marriage is something founded in religion, so if you're not religious why even bother getting married? It means nothing! This is why I wonder why gays want to make marriage legal. It just doesn't make sense. Other thing is that community of property is the most oppressive invention of the State. The amount of destruction it causes is absolutely insane
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 04:24 PM
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You don't use tinder to have a conversation You use it to setup dates ... Someone wrote a good guide on this either on main trp or here
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:39 PM
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Read the game by Neill strauss ... One of the characters go through this To answer you ... You go after someone when they meet your criteria ... You own the situation
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:19 PM
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You have to master 'it's your turn now' to completely block this from your head
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:16 PM
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Solve your logistic issues ... Then get back to her You're getting oneitus for this person ... Also why are you putting investment into something without any return?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:14 PM
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It's not yours ... Don't sign anything ... Ask for a paternity test Your real mistake is that you out to dick in crazy
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:11 PM
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Read up on the relationship between style and mystery from the game Also read how to win friends and influence people Communicate with your friend too, I'd normally agree with dumping toxic people ... But since you two come a long way ... It's up to you to decide what you wanna do Plus side is that it's a straight man to man talk ... No dealing with women
/r/askTRP07/07/18 03:08 PM
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I'm just watching this thing unfold in front of my eyes. This guy and girl seem to meetup regularly, like it's in your face at work so you can't really avoid them ... but yeah I agree that it's too much time with one person I do expect everything to fall over like a deck of cards, just a matter of when and how
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:04 PM
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When there's no infidelity involved, divorce in Islam is the very last thing you should do in a marriage after all else fails. You're meant to go through counselling and all remedies before ending your marriage. In my case, my ex didn't want to go through counselling or anything, and she requested to end the marriage. So I had her sign this on a document before I gave her a divorce. This is important just in case there's any comebacks, especially for me since there's a kid involved. In terms of …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 03:19 AM
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Have you stopped video games yet? If so, how has things changed in your life? Also, can you elaborate more on the meditating?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 06:52 PM
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Similar situation happened to me recently, been recently divorced and my ex says "let's meet up with our daughter at the park." I just shut those things down and told her "i'm not interested in spending time with you" In my mind, if she wanted this family time, then she shouldn't have been unfaithful to me and blame me for it LOL. You also mess with your kid's psychology this way, giving them false hope that you'll get back together again. I must say tho that american laws are very strict during…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 11:30 AM
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If you LTR a BPD, then this advice doesn't apply at all
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 11:21 AM
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Men can aim when they pee, women can't Therefore, men have a better idea at what direction they want to go in life. Women, like their pee, are always scattered and lost. There's no other comparison needed to prove the point.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:13 AM
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This is actually correct. You need approval from the parents at the proposal stage since muslims don't propose like what you see in series/movies. It's quite formal actually in some places
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:03 AM
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Divorced for 2 months, discovered RP a week ago. When I reflect on my BP self, RP is the much better way to live.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 06:59 AM
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Yeah, it's very rare that this kinda (cultural) situations gets posted on TRP. Figured it would add to the diversity :)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:47 PM
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I was like you once, without the bodybuilding bit, trust me you'll do just fine. The money will roll in as long as you don't go into a LTR. Was told the same thing that college is the best years of your life, but really life is what you make of it at any point in time ... are the one's that told you this RP or BP kinda people? I would expect this from BP guys cause they get trapped by women later on ... think about it ... these same guys meet the love of their lives in college and are now "happi…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 09:28 AM
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Women are basically jealous that this girl has something they don't anymore ... which is youth ... basically they'll never be able to keep up with that so they get sour and jealous about it Leo is alpha AF though
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 09:18 AM
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So, don't ever love women. Love your family instead. This so much ... you can't get rid of your family but she can get rid of you think about those words
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 09:11 AM
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The thing is that American Laws are somewhat super strict on divorce ... almost oppressive to the husband ... in other countries where the laws are more relaxed, you don't get into the quoted situations But to answer the question, don't get married unless you and your spouse are religious people. Marriage is based off religion, so makes no sense why you'd want to if you aren't?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 09:08 AM
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The important part Didn't want to appear mean If somebody invades your personal space, you should be able to stand up for yourself regardless of who the other person is. If you don't then it's effectively putting yourself up for beta/BP treatment. A simple "I don't appreciate being spoken to like that" if you want to go the polite route would of done it.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:01 PM
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Don't attach emotion into everything you do. See the lighter side of things, but at the same time do know when to stand your ground for the important things. What I find helps is to listen to audio of stand up comedies. Trevor Noah is one I would recommend because his work is really witty as opposed to other comedians that curse to get a laugh in.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:57 PM
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You have a point, but there are different ways to screen other than the RP way. For example, one could screen using your family. Some cultures do this and it has a decent success rate. I'm not saying one way of screening is better than RP, just that there's different ways to achieve the same thing
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:26 PM
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Anecdotal evidence, my ex is possibly a BPD case and had depression before pregnancy. From pregnancy and about 2-3 years afterwards, the fact that she had a child to raise made her happy. Now, a year ago she was told by a doctor that she couldn't have children. Then she went back to being suicidal and cheapened herself by going after other men. I didn't even know about the children part until after the divorce. Like I said, anecdotal, but man do I relate to this.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 06:22 PM
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They were normal girls that were capable to be commited, it's just that they saw something in me that was lacking in their boyfriends. That wasn't a "morally correct" move from my part for your standards? Should i be sad because i broke the relationship of someone else? What if that couple wasn't working? What if those couples were just some empty shallows where there was nothing to break? Don't take offense to this buddy. A boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is different to a marriage. Even thou…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:41 PM
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I think there's a beginning step in TRP where you need to look past the butthurt and then you can continue becoming more TRP. Most of the actions, even the one from your friend is a result of some form of acting on butthurt feelings. It feels like it's most apparent when you awaken to TRP. I think everyone experiences this and some just deal with it better than others. Perhaps the best is to explain to him to stop being butthurt and focus on the better stuff?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 12:00 PM
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He didn't teach me or involve me in any of those things!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:50 AM
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If you're calling me a bloody tampon then unfortunately yes I was probably that. I do think that I was being used by her to get to whatever her next phase in life is. I'm just happy that i'm out of it, getting over the butthurt and focusing on bigger things in life.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:49 AM
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My mom has made her fair share of mistakes, I can acknowledge that. But yeah, I want to get away from any form of victim mentality. The post was more advice to others, but I had to rant to make the point. From now on it's about lifting, building frame and game, getting better and not bitter :)
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:44 AM
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I am of the opinion that while people should get married, it doesn't make sense these days because there aren't women worth marrying anymore. The reason is that marriage has its roots in religion. The idea of marriage started that way. If you didn't get married and had sex, you'd be an adulterer and had to deal with the laws of adultery. Nowadays, people are further from their religions as ever, and there's no adultery laws anymore, so what's the point (especially if you don't follow your religi…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:41 AM
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This is where the bullshit hamstering starts. No, she didn't do the single thing expected of her as a mother: vetting and securing a suitable father to take care of her kids. She did a grave disservice to you. She's a terrible mother, period. My mother is actually a terrible father, not necessarily a terrible mother. It was always my opinion that she should of remarried, but according to her she was more concerned for her kid's safety. I kinda see where you're getting at though. Stuff about your…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:24 AM
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Domestic violence -> Basically beat my mother when she didn't want to do his bidding. His bidding involved writing fraudulent checks and basically cheating/scamming people. So yes he was retraining my mother to become a fraud. When the divorce was happening, she was at my grandparents place, the guy goes up the stairs to beat up my mum in front of me for no reason. Threw her down the stairs. He actually wanted to kill her that day. Cheating -> I doubt that she'd be cheating as well. Reason is th…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 11:02 AM
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It's just a way to say not a penis in vagina affair for me ... an affair is still an affair
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 10:23 AM
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I agree with you on all fronts. Especially like get BETTER, not BITTER part. But yeah, I can understand how my actions come across as someone that's butthurt. What I want is to move on, so I think there are better ways to accomplish this after reading this (and the rest of the comments)
/r/askTRP15/03/18 05:54 PM
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