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| 15 | Why do I seek reaction? Why do I want to impress her? Why do I want her to give me validation that I'm good? | Inner Game | prodapt75 | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to get over this mentality that's destroying my sex life ? | prodapt75 | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 05:17 AM | |
| 2 | I can't feel anything after doing nothing except gaming for 5 days. | prodapt75 | /r/seduction | 04/02/19 09:53 AM | |
| 1 | Don't go looking for sex or else you're gonna disappoint yourself and will lower your self esteem. | prodapt75 | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:41 PM | |
| 1 | Am I improving with women or Have I dug the hole even deeper ? | prodapt75 | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 02:55 PM |
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| 5 | Why do I seek reaction? Why do I want to impress her? Why do I want her to give me validation that I'm good?Yes, your first paragraph hit exactly on the issue. I do feel emasculated in the presence of more confident women. I would try incorporating the suggestion you applied for yourself and gotten positive results. Thanks for listening and taking out your time to reply. :)) | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Why do I seek reaction? Why do I want to impress her? Why do I want her to give me validation that I'm good?Haha, I don't think it's medical issue. It's just a paradox that I always get turned on by a conservative shy girl who refrains from sex instead of a girl who's open minded and sexual. The former one gives me enough time to get comfortable to actually start opening up. However I get intimidated with the latter and don't feel confident. Any book you'd like to recommend to improve the self confidence? | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to get over this mentality that's destroying my sex life ?Yes , You summed up pretty well. I don't masturbate much. And I don't watch porn anything even remotely related to rape. Maybe this is because India is sexually repressed country and girls are conservative. Also I haven't had met any girls up until three months back who were sexually attracted to me. So, I've always felt like I'm the one who needs to put in all the work. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 07:31 AM |
| 1 | How to get over this mentality that's destroying my sex life ?I can't get hard, when the girl throws herself on me and I have to pretend that I'm aroused but I'm not. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Help me shit where I sleep (roommate situation)You've got to keep your cool and not escalate things fast. Talk to her, show her you're a guy who has it together (Goals, self-improvement project going on at home, hobbies etc). Now try to set up a romantic mood, but it should be ambiguous enough.. Like watching a movie together and occassionally touch her thighs. (You'll get hints if she's behaving in a diff, more feminine way from now on) Invite her into your room for any reason to listen to romantic music maybe and get touchy and just go for… | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Made another approach at work, need adviceNah , she's not doing it for attention. She wants the D. You talk to her , flirt here and there a lil and just ignore she has a boyfriend. Also take it slow because she's not going anywhere and no one's in rush. There'll be a point when casual flirting will turn into sexual hints and that's when you know you got to make a move. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 04:24 AM |
| 2 | My problem with some opener scriptsYeah, it's kinda is true. Those opener scripts are of no good. The only way they can ever work is if girl is already intrested in you from the start even then too it's very obvious you come up with something just to open a conversation with her while hiding your real intent. That's gonna put her off. Instead, do a direct approach or observe something which is happening in your surrounding and she just happens to be there while you want to discuss it with someone. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 07:59 PM |
| 5 | What to do when your gf wants to pick up guys at parties.Let her do that and if you can't be with such a women then leave her but if you're ready to be in an open relationship then that's the great opportunity. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I can't feel anything after doing nothing except gaming for 5 days.From a long time and I guess now too, I have thought of girls as a higher value than me. I have to change this mindset and would like to feel powerful when I'm talking to them. | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 05:28 AM |
| 1 | I can't feel anything after doing nothing except gaming for 5 days.Yes, I realised I always have had undermined myself and copies what others do instead of being myself. I used to see other guys talking to girls making them laugh and I feel envy of them. That made me Worry too much about my sense of humor and things I say. | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 05:22 AM |
| 1 | I can't feel anything after doing nothing except gaming for 5 days.Yes, I'm feeling better. It turns out that when I started learning/doing game , I begin doubting myself that I don't have sense of humor , pushing myself hard to impress people and self-degrading myself when I'm not able to do it. Yesterday, I called a girl who's very much attracted to me and it's not only sexual attraction. She just wants me to be there and after opening up to her about my insecurities and the things that worry me. I get a feeling of self worth like , I can be real with a girl,… | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 04:38 AM |
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