How to get over this mentality that's destroying my sex life ?

ntipz011 · 2019-08-26T08:53:30+00:00

I can relate on a lower level

I get less attracted if the girl is obviously stating that she wants me to fuck her

BrunoFromBrazil · 2019-08-26T13:24:24+00:00

If you like to be dominant, be dominant. And if the girl doesn't want to play along, she's not the girl for you.

I mean we all have fetishes. It's ok.

I only like athletic girls, so fat girls don't attract me at all (same for skinny girls who have no muscles, are not fit).

Because of that, I don't date those girls. I only date fit, sporty girls. Nothing wrong with that.

If it's something that really matters to you, honor it.

Manwhorelio · 2019-08-26T19:22:00+00:00

"Judging" from one of your other posts you're dealing with a bit of a self-esteem issue. It's really not normal to be turned off by a girl coming onto you. You've got feelings and desires for positive reciprocal attention ingrained in you from a young age. From a quick scan of your posts I can see you are "new to the game", so a lack of experience and familiarity would certainly detract from just being able to let go and experiencing and enjoying the situation. But it's still something you need to be aware of not being closed off to. But you'd probably get over it naturally with enough time and experience.

Do you "trust" your intentions towards women? Or do you generally find yourself exploiting them and leaving them unhappy in some way? If that's the case then yes you'd lose respect for someone that's being coerced to act against their own interests and happiness.

As far as the other side of the coin.. lots of girls are actually pretty awkward themselves with expressing desire and intent, and being sexy about it. You'll hopefully meet some women soon that are up on their game and can show you how things are really supposed to work out.

prodapt75 · 2019-08-26T05:47:33+00:00

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Title	How to get over this mentality that's destroying my sex life ?
Author	prodapt75
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	August 26, 2019 5:17 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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