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"Going out of your way to meet women is borderline inceldom" My god this one sentence is telling so much, there is a lot to unpack from this. It seems obvious this guy is just trying to justify his fear of talking to women, and somehow equates talking to girls with being incel, which is practically the opposite thing.
/r/seduction19/09/19 12:29 PM
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You know why women don't value you? Because you aren't a valuable person, yep, I don't give a fuck, a person with an attitude like yours is worthless. Why would any woman like someone who clearly hates themself so much? You want to be a valuable person? You've got to change your attitude first, no longer shall you think "Girls don't value me", you will now think "What can I do to become valuable to girls?". Now if you could swallow your pride for once and google 'growth mindset', you might actua…
/r/seduction18/09/19 02:25 AM
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This needs to be put on the sideboard, perfect way to word this.
/r/seduction17/09/19 12:39 PM
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Possibly yes, so don't take too long to get a little physical - romantic hugs, caressing her arms/thighs and of course kissing are the best way you can say you don't want to be just friends, and it gets her more interested too. Basically, touch her in a fun/non-romantic way, see how she reacts, is it good or no? Then you just up the ante, if she lets this happen, you're in the clear. And another thing to think about, make friends your first priority, and lovers your second. If you go to a party …
/r/seduction17/09/19 07:15 AM
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You're off on the right foot by exercising, trying new hobbies and such. The most basic thing I would say to you is treat every woman like your friend, a good friend you can share anything with (if it's appropriate). So what I mean by this is when you're hanging with your boys, do you just constantly compliment them, or do you have some fun and make fun of them like 'nice shirt, does it come in mens'. Girls don't want to feel like you see them as a sexual object, or as a conquest, so by treating…
/r/seduction17/09/19 03:20 AM
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I think this isn't because men and women are completely different, I think it's more about you specifically, possibly either: You are mega autistic and practically shit yourself around women. You are too lazy/stupid to put yourself in a position where women will talk to you. Girls are still people, they have feelings just like us and yes, they do fall in love with people. Edit: After a quick look at your post history, I see what's happening here. You're stuck in the cycle of having no friends - …
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:46 AM
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Women and men aren't as different as you seem to think you know.
/r/seduction16/09/19 10:11 PM
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"Why do you care so much?"
/r/seduction16/09/19 01:07 PM
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You know what's attractive? Having a goal-oriented mindset, going to bed happy, knowing that today you have done productive things and worked to achieve whatever it is you desire. What's attractive is dreaming about getting fit, and then promptly getting a gym membership, joining a soccer competition and researching healthy eating habits. This following paragraph will be controversial, but only because a good portion of the people on this sub are scared of it being true. To imply that all women …
/r/seduction16/09/19 08:29 AM
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Just be friends with them and nothing else, not too hard I think.
/r/seduction15/09/19 03:19 AM
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She definitely does not have a boyfriend lol, those guys are trying to get brownie points with their friends for sure... This sounds like a very uncomfortable situation, worst thing is I don't think there is any way you'd be able to convince a bunch of drunk girls that you're not going to assault them. At that point it's probably best just to leave.
/r/seduction14/09/19 10:22 AM
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Is it normal to have a 'sex routine'? Look to be honest even if she wanted to kiss you or sleep with you she's obviously doing it out of pity, not a good way to go, you deserve better.
/r/seduction14/09/19 10:18 AM
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Well I mean you could really say anything to that, remember that you just have to be honest with this kind of stuff. For example, my response would be "Please don't say that weird shit ever again", someone else's might be "Sweet, maybe we can fuck sometime".
/r/seduction14/09/19 10:11 AM
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It depends on how you measure success, would you measure success by how often I am going on dates? If yes, then I'm not very successful. Would you measure success by how much progress I have made with my own confidence, and how much this makes me feel better about myself? If yes, I am extremely successful. Besides, there is absolutely nothing stopping someone from just saying "I don't want to talk to anyone right now", I wouldn't bother anyone after hearing that, but I'm yet to hear it.
/r/seduction14/09/19 10:05 AM
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Prank call from your friend's probably
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:30 AM
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Call me a judgy cunt all you want, but I'd probably back right away from any girl that said this to me unless we were already quite close.
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:18 AM
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I finished school 2 years ago. Girls in high school will go on dates with you if you ask, it may seem weird but girls love that romantic shit, even if you're young.
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:16 AM
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Look man tbh I don't think you can fuck this up easily, she is OBVIOUSLY very into you, she just sounds like a bit of an old-fashioned girl who likes to take things slow and if you just slow down to her pace you've got this. Edit: The text you'd thought of is fine, but I think you should add 'How about we meet up at some time blah blah blah?' because you have to get going on dates asap, texting too much is an easy mistake to make.
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:11 AM
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Nothing stopping you, except you.
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:07 AM
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Here's my advice (take with a pinch of salt): The main reason you should text a woman is to organise a time to meet up in real life. Texting is a very barebones form of communication where you can't see or touch eachother or hear their tone of voice. The less time you soend texting and the more time you spend in real life the better.
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:06 AM
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I always thought the best time to approach is now, chances are I'll never see them ever again, so who cares if she gets annoyed, I'll play my chances.
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:45 AM
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Ok so... This post is trying to say, wgen wondering 'should I approach her?', the answer is no. Well what the fuck is this sub for then?
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:27 AM
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That's why you don't even bother with any form of online dating, a complete waste.
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:24 AM
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Sex isn't a competition
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:11 AM
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Get off tinder, it's an app for boring thots, sex hungry frat boys and for whatever reason a surprising amount of horse-obsessed country girls.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:06 AM
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It's weird in a good way, very few people interact with strangers in real life anymore, so by doing so you really make an impression on people. Especially girls, they tend to think it's oh so cute and romantic provided you aren't being creepy or desperate.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:04 AM
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She was very respectful about it and she's probably right, it gets unbearable if you constantly see her after you break up. She's probably doing you both a favour.
/r/seduction13/09/19 04:01 AM
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This is some of the dumbest high school shit I've ever seen. Like come on, she seeks you out in crowds, asks you to sit next to her, talks to you all the time, but oh no she mustn't be into me because she hasn't accepted my friend request, yet you don't even know the reason why. Stop bein such a pussy ass bitch, seriously. Grow some fucking testicles and ask this girl out, get her number, and meet up outside of school, that's what mature people do. You can keep telling yourself all day that she …
/r/seduction11/09/19 10:12 PM
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Are you genuinely 12? I'm getting some real 12 year old vibes from this post. "Fair enough if you don’t wanna keep contact, but at least don’t play with my head like that and give off some interest if you don’t give a fuck about me anyways." Bruh... She makes a great effort to get your attention in real life, constantly, but the moment she ignores your friend request she mustn't give a fuck about you? You just walked up 10 steps only to fall out the fucking window with that dumb assumption. I'm …
/r/seduction11/09/19 01:36 PM
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Yes but there's a huge difference between sexy once you've had 2 dates and sexy as the 2nd word you ever say to them.
/r/seduction10/09/19 07:09 AM
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Give everyone something to do, play charades or something.
/r/seduction10/09/19 07:07 AM
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Maybe this is just my lack of having a very-close-female-friend showing, but honestly it sounds like she wants you to make a move and when you're too nervous to do so she gets worried that you're not into it and stops. Do girls that have very close straight male friends get so touchy with them often? I don't know, but I kinda doubt it. Get her in private, whether through an organised date or just saying "want to go somewhere more private" at a party or whatever, and try seeing how she feels if y…
/r/seduction10/09/19 06:59 AM
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Is it not obvious? Her message is clearly saying she wants to meet up with you, your next step is to organise a date. "Well I'm going to [place] [time], you wanna come?" Edit: if you want to be really fun, maybe you could say "Woah, that's a little too freaky, how about we go out for dinner first?" It's not actually too freaky, but the idea is to make her feel like she has to work for it, girls enjoy a man they need to earn.
/r/seduction10/09/19 06:46 AM
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Just keep reading through this sub, there's lots of great stuff and you'll pick up some cool ideas. But the best thing to remember is don't overthink. At the end of the day, talking to women is very simple; just walk up to a girl, say hi, and go with the flow. Obviously that's not really as easy as it sounds, but accepting that talking to strangers is easy and completely harmless is a good first step.
/r/seduction10/09/19 01:37 AM
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Respect the dude on the other side. If you are ever cheated on, you will never consider doing this again.
/r/seduction09/09/19 12:47 PM
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Personally I think the best option would have been tk respond to her question honestly: "howcome you haven't been messaging me recently?" "Well I'm getting the impression you're only interested in sex, but I'm looking for something long-term" This gives you with 2 outcomes: either she admits to only being interested in sex, or she tells you she's interested in a relationship as well. One outcome means you stop talking, the other means you start dating. Anyway, I think what's happened is she's ju…
/r/seduction09/09/19 12:40 PM
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I think either approach will work, either be upfront and ask about where she thinks you two should go (it sounds far enough into the relationship to ask this), or pretend to lose interest for a bit and see if she messages you/how she responds to your next text.
/r/seduction09/09/19 12:27 PM
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The short answer: Become a man that girls will want The long answer: Maybe some punctuation is a decent start? Jokes aside, I can see very clearly why you have trouble, I'll give you a nicely organized response with quotes followed by my idea on a solution: >i thought i was a "nice guy" because i am nice but i realized that a true "nice guy" expects to get girls because he is nice but i am not that type of guy i because i do not expect to get girls but i just wondering why have i not had a girlf…
/r/seduction09/09/19 08:15 AM
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You're already calling him your boyfriend, do what couples do and be honest, just tell him you want to go further and you want him to be the one in control. Also consider that he might not be ready yet, unlikely but possible.
/r/seduction09/09/19 07:18 AM
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It isn't a legal thing, this is a moral thing for me.
/r/seduction08/09/19 03:29 AM
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I am
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:02 AM
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I mean a woman that isn't a trashy whore that requires approximately 4% the effort of most other women to get in bed. Edit: I know this comment is rude, but it's not an attack on you or the women this kind of line works on. If you're into easy girls than honestly good for you because you're making this whole thing way less frustrating for yourself.
/r/seduction03/09/19 12:29 AM
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Oh how romantic, I'm sure this works especially on classy women with standards.
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:51 PM
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Achieve your (non-romantic) dreams
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:33 PM
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You're Indian? I've heard some weird things about seeking relationships in Indian culture... The fact is, you are a man, you do have to put in the work, this is normal. But not being attracted to women that like you? That is weird, I honestly can't help, except maybe just talk to more women.
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:45 AM
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High risk approach, probably not the best idea if you ask me... What you should be doing is trying to make sure every message is encouraging her to respond, the easiest way is to send her a question. "What are you doing tonight" (btw, this is a great sign! She is showing interest in you) You could reply with: "Oh not much, did you want something to do tonight? I'm up for anything" "Not much, but how about we go to blah blah blah?" "Yep, I'm going to blah blah blah, wanna come?" "Just having a qu…
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:27 AM
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So basically you don't get aroused by women who are attracted to you, you get aroused thinking about doing it with girls that don't want to do it? Well apart from this being like 3 steps down from a rape fetish, I think you should try to stop masturbating if applicable.
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:18 AM
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Honestly can't help but laugh at that story, what a weird thing for her to do.
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:13 AM
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High school is literally the ideal scenario to practice talking to women/people in general. You're constantly surrounded by girls my dude. When you finish school you will probably enter your working life, then you'll realise just how much opportunity there was in school.
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:11 AM
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Awesome advice, just change the subject without even caring about what she thinks of the compliment you just gave her. I think it makes the compliment more sincere as well, you're not saying it to impress her, you're sayin it because you believe.
/r/seduction26/08/19 06:07 AM
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You don't walk like a dick my man, you walk like a confident, charming and attractive man. These girls just haven't met one of those that isn't a dick yet, time to prove them wrong! Plus, posture is like the number 1 quick fix to back problems in the future so I've heard, so fuck what they think, you're doing the right thing.
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:38 AM
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No different to calling a girl honey or sweetheart, I think it's a great sign
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:39 AM
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Tbh man I know this is a personal belief of mine and may not necessarily apply to you, but if I was you I would deliberately stay away from girls who do any form of fortune telling, tarot cards, horoscopes or any other 'third eye' shit...
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:35 AM
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Only one way to find out my dude
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:18 AM
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Haha, you really fucked that one up. No advice on this one man, you're gonna have to live with it.
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:08 AM
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I got ghosted by a girl who was extremely keen on a date but had to cancel the day before, when I tried making new plans she just left me on seen. Sent her another message a few days later in the hopes she'd forgot and that was left on seen as well. Maybe she lost interest overtime, met another guy, heard someone say something bad about me... Who knows. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't upset about it, but hopefully I can wash that away by talking to some other people and having a great time this …
/r/seduction23/08/19 12:06 AM
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Not an appropriate sub for this question No one will know the correct answer Why are you asking It would depend on where you live
/r/seduction22/08/19 11:07 PM
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It's much better than the half-assed posts people put here where they just ignore commas completely AND FOR SOME REASON THEY PUT PRETTY AVERAGE OR OBVIOUS ADVICE IN CAPS LOCK AS IF TO SAY IT'S A GROUNDBREAKING REVELATION.
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:38 PM
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Unless you're particularly attractive you have to actually talk to a woman before they start giving you signals.
/r/seduction21/08/19 10:43 PM
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Talkin to women is perfectly fine as you said, so why would you need signals 'to be sure'.
/r/seduction21/08/19 09:52 PM
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No way, fact is most girls will hide their signals, a girl doesn't have to be into you now to be into you in 5 minutes, by approaching them you show why they should. Plus, even if they're not into you, what's the problem with approaching? Is talking to a woman a crime?
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:22 AM
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Yep, welcome to being human. What you have to do is remember that they are just normal people, pretending they're a good friend of yours can help, another way is just saying what's the worst that could happen? After you do it once, you'll realise that it's really not that bad.
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:20 AM
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Just ask her if she still wants to hang out, it's probably gonna seem weird since it was so long ago since you've met but who knows? There's probably nothing else you can do so just give it a shot.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:45 AM
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So you're telling me you've been sending the messages as per your post yet you don't know how to organise a time to see her? At this point I don't think it matters what you say, whether you tell her to go to your house or you be a little more... Traditional... and try organising a romantic dinner together you practically cannot fuck this up.
/r/seduction21/08/19 04:08 AM
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Honestly why the fuck are you even here posting this you'd have to be stupid to not know what to do next... Get her at your house/go to her house, is this not fucking obvious.
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:39 AM
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Implying girls actually send me signals without me approaching them first
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:33 AM
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Sounds like a typical "niceguy" character. Just be honest, tell him you don't want to date him and say that if he doesn't want to be just friends then he is free to not talk to you anymore. Believe me, most guys will appreciate when you be honest like that, and if he gets frustrated or upset, just tell him that he is free to walk away.
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:12 AM
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Everyone has a better chance in public, it's more romantic, more exciting, shows courage and gives you the opportunity to become physical if appropriate. A girl on tinder can only judge you by your looks but a girl in real life can judge you as a whole person.
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:49 AM
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Look I know you've got your heart in the right place but I gotta say I hate these kind of posts, they always come off as so demanding and 'better than you', and they always lack punctuation or include a lot of caps lock at some point. Usually they're just saying the most obvious shit too, "a girl needs to view you as sexually desirable to want to fuck you", is this supposed to be some groundbreaking revelation?
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:45 AM
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Perhaps your phrasing of her setting a trap was a little bit aggressive for what you mean, but I do understand. If you want to appear busy and mysterious, and a little exclusive, your best bet is simply saying something 'Well I won't be available that day, so it's gonna have to be Friday'.
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:39 AM
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Tbh man she's practically asking to go out with her it's not going to come off as needy is you say yes, women aren't out to set traps on you, if you want to go then you should go. This sounds like a classic case of overthinking, or possibly you have some issues with trusting people.
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:02 AM
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She is pursuing you, you just cannot see it.
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:57 AM
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Honestly don't know what your devotion to god has to do with talking to women but just saying as a person who does NOT attend church I would imagine they are actually a decent way to meet new people...
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:51 AM
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Yep do it, I had a girl a couple weeks ago I had previously gone to school with run into me at a bar, we had a good time but she left so quick and I didn't have the balls to ask her out right then. Was filled with regret so I decided to send her a message and it worked, she was really excited about going on a date and the message was worth it... Well she ended up cancelling the day before our date I had planned and now she's been ghosting me for 4 days, think she's just lost interest overtime...…
/r/seduction21/08/19 01:07 AM
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The numbers game advice is shitty. You shouldn't be focusing on how many girls you talk to, it should be about the connection you have, quality over quantity.
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:05 AM
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Literally just starting conversations with women. Want something more specific? Lots of eye contact, playful touching is encouraged although timing it can be difficult, and treat them as a friend and a person, not an object.
/r/seduction16/08/19 11:01 AM
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Yeah I'm with this comment 100%, some of these are actual tips, some of them I don't morally agree with (like the fat girls one), and some of them are just plain wrong. I think these kind of posts promote the overthinking that ruins a lot of dates.
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:55 AM
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No stupid questions... But this one is getting close. Walk towards said girl Talk to her Play it cool Ask on date It's that easy... Ok well it's not really that easy, but the more specific things you are interested in can be found in the sidebar.
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:39 PM
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It's like a yoga hipster, a wannabee gangster rap guy and johnny bravo all wrapped in one.
/r/seduction14/08/19 10:17 AM
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I've been looking at your hair, can't decide if it took you 3 minutes or 3 hours, which is it?
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:29 AM
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Haha 'nice to meet you straight' that is fucking genius. Look mate, if you're attracting guys, at least someone finds you hot right? It's not that girls find you unattractive, it's probably because men, particularly gay men are quite outgoing with their sexuality, I guarantee if abgay guys is commenting stuff like that, there'll be girls thinking it too. You should ask one of these gay guys to set you up with one of their single friends, a gay guy is like your key into a big circle of girls you …
/r/seduction13/08/19 11:23 PM
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"If you think you can kiss him/her you probably could have 5 minutes ago" Jesus Christ I have never seen a better sentence on this sub.
/r/seduction13/08/19 11:02 PM
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Sometimes smiling, waving or winking at a girl without saying anything eases the nerves enough to let you go up, or if you're lucky she'll come to you.
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:53 PM
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What you have to understand is that if you can do it drunk, you can do it better sober. She wants you to escalate, you already have done it while drunk, now you have to take it to the next step. The only thing stopping you is your fear that she won't like it, just think for a while and you'll realise how stupid it is to think she won't like it given the current situation. Your next goal should be organising when you can go on a date/do something together/go to another party together and when you…
/r/seduction13/08/19 10:51 PM
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The autism is showing big time right here
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:17 PM
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I usually avoid tinder and that kind of thing so I really can't help with that, only advice would be meet in real life asap
/r/seduction13/08/19 12:27 PM
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I too am extremely humble.
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:44 AM
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God this is the milennial speak the news warned me about
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:39 AM
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Start conversation - Try getting to know her a little, introduce yourself, use work-related topics to your advantage. Play it cool - be friendly, don't compliment too much, be playful (just imagine she's one of your mates that can help). Ask if she wants to meet up sometime soon outside of work This is clearly more simple than what you wanted. For some more specific piece of advice, I'd say this; lots of eye contact, light playful touching if appropriate (shoving her shoulder when she says somet…
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:31 AM
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Yeah just skip the texting and meet irl, not only is it easier to have a conversation that way, it's more romantic and both you and her will enjoy that.
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:09 AM
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Inviting girls to wing you is a great tactic, they do all the hard work for you and it makes the girl you want to talk to like you even more.
/r/seduction12/08/19 11:34 PM
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Exactly right, that sums up a decent chunk of the advice you'll get here.
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:20 AM
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Stop focusing on sex; focus on fun and friendliness. Baby steps, don't think about sex, think about holding her hand, whispering things in her ear, being generally romantic. If you think about these kind of small things that build up overtime, you'll be able to pull it off, but if you're thinking about getting her in bed from the moment the date starts, you're going to fumble and you'll either go in way too hard or you'll be too nervous to get anywhere in the first place. That said, it sounds li…
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:44 AM
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You and I are similar, we're old fashioned some might say. At least for me, I'm not into casual sex, I may be active on this sub but it's because I'm using all this info to help me get dates so I can find something more serious, not one night stands which is why most other guys seem to be here. It's good that you're looking for something long-term, not just a one night girl, but you need to remember that it might take seeing a woman half a dozen times before you look at her and realise she's the…
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:34 AM
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If every guy there is saying wow babe you're so hot, he's gonna sound at least different, possibly not better, but different. I think that's the best we can do here...
/r/seduction12/08/19 03:43 AM
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Probably something along the lines of 'sorry but I don't want to be considered close friends with someone who puts nudes on insta' would be your best bet at not sounding like every other guy.
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:24 PM
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If you're already visiting a girl and she doesn't explicitly say "wow you're such a good friend" all the time then it's like a 95% chance she wants you to make a move.
/r/seduction11/08/19 01:04 AM
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Don't know but since this woman is obviously into you just be front and text her and ask when a good time for a date is when she isn't working. She's going to say yes and it will act as a new start for you and her so anything you're embarrassed about saying earlier won't matter.
/r/seduction11/08/19 12:44 AM
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Yeah, it's difficult, you have to be able to think on your feet and be able to resist falling into the trap of just complimenting a woman constantly.
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:59 AM
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A girl might have 10 guys come up to them and worship them in a night, all these guys will say wow you're hot your outfit is perfect please can I get your number blah blah blah... Suddenly a guy comes up and says 'I suppose you're kind of hot, not sure about your choice of shoes though' (said in a playful way of course, we are NOT trying to insult people). What this does at least from what I can see is tell a woman 2 things: 1) You treat her like you would treat a friend, not an object. 2) You'r…
/r/seduction10/08/19 02:14 AM
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Oi fuck oath brah, I mean you should probably get some decent sleep but still fuck oath.
/r/seduction08/08/19 11:28 AM
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Might be something to do with your week man. Unironically, think about this: Have you been masturbating, procrastinating, eating poorly, not excercising or going outside for the week? That might have something to do with how you present yourself at night (both consciously and unconsciously). Other thing is it might not be you, you might just be bumping into more fun people, or the might be an event that attracts more exciting people to the area.
/r/seduction08/08/19 10:23 AM
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Ever noticed a similarity between all men who say "I wait for the girl to approach me"? They never talk to girls.
/r/seduction06/08/19 06:25 AM
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Holy shit... It's fucking genius! "hey can I have your phone, I'll put my number in it" Put your number in and send yourself "you're cute, let's go on a date this week" 2 days later you respond respond "Sounds great! Hows thursday"
/r/seduction06/08/19 06:09 AM
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Such is life
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:53 AM
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This sounds so fucking fun, either a miracle happens and she's into you, or you get to just stand there talking shit for 10 minutes, it's a win-win.
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:19 AM
2

I was in school not long ago, you never know how to escalate when you're young like that, I'm still young but being out of school and in the 'real world' has taught me you have to escalate intimacy well. Basically, you're running out of time, you're lucky she's still into you at this point. You need to kiss her asap, doesn't feel like the right time? Nonsense, it's always the right time, you're just nervous.
/r/seduction06/08/19 05:17 AM
2

Part of the skill of this kind of thing is learning to cover-up your autism.
/r/seduction06/08/19 04:37 AM
1

Ignore her for a while
/r/seduction06/08/19 03:52 AM
5

I'm not into "picking up" either, casual sex and one nights stands are NOT my thing. Yes, I talk to heaps of women when I'm out, I intend to get numbers and go on dates, maybe even go home with them if I'm lucky, but I won't be having sex that night. Don't feel weird about it, we're probably the minority but you're not the only one. You can still be into this stuff without wanting to go all the way on the first night.
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:13 AM
1

Just saying man, people are scared of asking about your condition because they're afraid of upsetting you. I almost guarantee, just say "By the way, I bet you're wondering what's up with my skin right?" the answer will be a resounding 'Yes! So what's it called?' Bang, you got yourself a talking point right there.
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:45 PM
9

Talk to girl -> get number -> go on date -> date goes well -> more dates -> you got yourself a girlfriend. Don't talk to girl -> nothinghappens. It IS as simple as that.
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:43 PM
2

Fine by me, I'll keep doing it and enjoying it.
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:31 PM
8

Well I hate to sound like your grandfather's facebook posts. But in the age of tinder, walking up - or riding up - to a stranger and saying hello must be damn confusing to a lot of people.
/r/seduction05/08/19 01:24 PM
1

This might be a little optimistic, but if the situation arises, and the setting is appropriate, you should tell her you intend to 'pick up were we left off that night'.
/r/seduction04/08/19 12:54 PM
1

You should understand that being drunk reduces your chances, so doing things while sober should realistically be more successful.
/r/seduction04/08/19 12:48 PM
6

Got to agree here. Call me a purist, but there's magic in meeting women in the spur of the moment, face to face. Starting a conversation in real life gets your heart racing, you have to improvise everything you say, you don't get unlimited time to think of witty responses; what you say in a real conversation is real, not an idealised version of you. It's easy to swipe right, but it takes balls to walk up to a woman in real life and they know this, so when you do, you're already showing courage a…
/r/seduction04/08/19 12:41 PM
2

Well it sounds like you see her in real life a lot so maybe just not respond and wait till you see her again so you can chat with her in person.
/r/seduction30/11/18 02:57 PM
3

Still applies bro age is just a number and jail is just a room 👮
/r/seduction30/11/18 02:46 PM
15

Not until you get that ring ring on her fing fing though ok?
/r/seduction30/11/18 02:44 PM
3

This is only if you're going for that look though, I typically wear beige chino pants, brown desert boots and a white t-shirt or a white long sleeve button shirt when it's cold; dress nicely but in a way that suits you.
/r/seduction29/11/18 11:55 AM
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